Mabuting Pamumuhay sa Aking Komunidad - Bahagi 4 - Pagplano ng Aking Mabuting Pamumuhay
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paano ito<br />
gagawin<br />
Pakikipagtulu<strong>ng</strong>an <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> Planni<strong>ng</strong> Team<br />
SKILL: Relationship map<br />
Ano a<strong>ng</strong> nagagawa<br />
nito<br />
Ipinapakita nito ku<strong>ng</strong> sino<br />
a<strong>ng</strong> kilala <strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> tao, ku<strong>ng</strong><br />
paano niya nakilala ito, at ku<strong>ng</strong><br />
paano makakatulo<strong>ng</strong> a<strong>ng</strong> mga<br />
network at mga relasyon na ito<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao upa<strong>ng</strong> mamuhay siya <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
paraa<strong>ng</strong> gusto niya.<br />
Paano ito<br />
nakakatulo<strong>ng</strong><br />
Ito’y i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> paraan upa<strong>ng</strong><br />
malaman ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong><br />
mahalaga <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> tao, at<br />
pag-isipan a<strong>ng</strong> anuma<strong>ng</strong><br />
mga mahalaga<strong>ng</strong> isyu <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
mga relasyon na iyon. Ito’y<br />
nakakatulo<strong>ng</strong> <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> pagpaplano <strong>ng</strong><br />
person-centered support dahil<br />
binibigya<strong>ng</strong>-diin nito ku<strong>ng</strong> sino<br />
a<strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong> dapat ka<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>li <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
pagpaplano, at nakakatulo<strong>ng</strong><br />
ito<strong>ng</strong> matukla<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>n ku<strong>ng</strong> ali<strong>ng</strong><br />
mga relasyon a<strong>ng</strong> maari<strong>ng</strong><br />
pahu<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>yin o suportahan.<br />
Paano ito gagamitin<br />
1. Isulat a<strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong> mahalaga<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> buhay <strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> tao.<br />
A<strong>ng</strong> pagigi<strong>ng</strong> málapit <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao<strong>ng</strong><br />
iyon a<strong>ng</strong> nagtatakda <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> ku<strong>ng</strong><br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>an ilalagay a<strong>ng</strong> mga pa<strong>ng</strong>alan<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> relationship map, <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> halip na<br />
ku<strong>ng</strong> gaano sila magkalapit na<br />
kamag-anak. A<strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong><br />
talaga<strong>ng</strong> nakakakilala <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao at<br />
nagmamahalaga <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> kanya ay<br />
idaragdag <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> mga sirkulo na<br />
mas malapit <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> gitna. Ito’y batay<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> koneksyon na nadarama, at<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> lakas <strong>ng</strong> damdamin para <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> tao, at hindi <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> ku<strong>ng</strong> gaano<br />
siya katagal gumugugol <strong>ng</strong><br />
panahon <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao.<br />
2. Alamin ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> pakiki<strong>ng</strong>gan.<br />
A<strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> Relationship Map ay nagbibigay <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> atin <strong>ng</strong> mga<br />
kuru-kuro tu<strong>ng</strong>kol <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> dapat natin kau<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>pin<br />
upa<strong>ng</strong> lubos na malaman ku<strong>ng</strong> ano a<strong>ng</strong> mahalaga <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao<strong>ng</strong><br />
iyon. Hindi nito sina<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>bi <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> atin ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> pakiki<strong>ng</strong>gan.<br />
Kapag nagtatano<strong>ng</strong>-tano<strong>ng</strong> tayo, malalaman natin ku<strong>ng</strong><br />
sino talaga a<strong>ng</strong> may tunay na relationship o kaugnayan <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
indibidwal, at ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> may kaugnayan lama<strong>ng</strong> <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><br />
kanya dahil <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> trabaho. Kapag nais malaman <strong>ng</strong> miyembro<br />
<strong>ng</strong> staff ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> pakiki<strong>ng</strong>gan, dapat niya<strong>ng</strong> tanu<strong>ng</strong>in:<br />
• Ano a<strong>ng</strong> nagugustuhan mo <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao<strong>ng</strong> ito?<br />
• Ano a<strong>ng</strong> hinaha<strong>ng</strong>aan mo <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao<strong>ng</strong> ito?<br />
• Kailan kayo huli<strong>ng</strong> nagkatuwaan na<strong>ng</strong> magka<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>ma, at<br />
ano a<strong>ng</strong> ginawa ninyo?<br />
A<strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong> may kaugnayan lama<strong>ng</strong> <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> indibidwal dahil<br />
<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> trabaho ay mahihirapa<strong>ng</strong> sumagot <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> mga katanu<strong>ng</strong>a<strong>ng</strong><br />
iyon, o kaya’y <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>got sila mula <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> “pananaw <strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> tao<strong>ng</strong><br />
nagbibigay-serbisyo.” Halimbawa: Ano a<strong>ng</strong> nagugustuhan<br />
mo <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> tao<strong>ng</strong> ito? “Mahu<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>y a<strong>ng</strong> kanya<strong>ng</strong> hygiene.”<br />
Mas malama<strong>ng</strong> na pag-uu<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>pan <strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong> may tunay<br />
na kaugnayan o relasyon ku<strong>ng</strong> ano a<strong>ng</strong> mga magaganda<strong>ng</strong><br />
talent at kalidad <strong>ng</strong> tao<strong>ng</strong> iyon.<br />
3. Humi<strong>ng</strong>i <strong>ng</strong> pahintulot upa<strong>ng</strong> kau<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>pin a<strong>ng</strong> mga tao<strong>ng</strong><br />
nakalista <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> relationship map.<br />
Posible<strong>ng</strong> may mga panahon ku<strong>ng</strong> kailan hindi ka dapat<br />
gumawa <strong>ng</strong> Relationship Map. Halimbawa, ku<strong>ng</strong> a<strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong><br />
tao ay namatayan lama<strong>ng</strong> <strong>ng</strong> i<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>><strong>ng</strong> kapamilya o kaibigan,<br />
maari<strong>ng</strong> nahihirapan siya <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> kanya<strong>ng</strong> nararamdama<strong>ng</strong><br />
lubos na kalu<strong>ng</strong>kutan. Pero makakatulo<strong>ng</strong> din ito<strong>ng</strong><br />
malaman ku<strong>ng</strong> sino a<strong>ng</strong> mga naroroon, sino a<strong>ng</strong> kanya<strong>ng</strong><br />
maaa<stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>>han, at sino a<strong>ng</strong> kanya<strong>ng</strong> mapapagkatiwalaan.<br />
A<strong>ng</strong> Mamuhay Na<strong>ng</strong> Mabuti <stro<strong>ng</strong>>sa</stro<strong>ng</strong>> <stro<strong>ng</strong>>Aki<strong>ng</strong></stro<strong>ng</strong>> <stro<strong>ng</strong>>Komunidad</stro<strong>ng</strong>> 4.5
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