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In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Editorial Board
Sarwar Kabir Shameem
Writer & Islamic Researcher
Singapore
Dr. Khaleda Parveen
Child Specielist
Canada
Sayedul Hossain
Writer & Islamic Research Worker
Canada
Dr. Kaysar Mamun
Educational Islamic Researcher
Singapore
Jabed Muhammad
Islamic Writer and Researcher
Canada
Merina Sultana
Early Childhood Educator
Canada
Ali Akbar
Senior Member of MUNA
Los Angeles, USA
Hayatunnabi Chowdhury
Central Da’wah In-charge
Islamic Circle of North America (ICNA)
Published by
Toronto Islamic Centre (TIC)
Canada
www.torontoislamiccentre.com
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Nazma Zaman
Suite # 306, 210 Oak Street
Toronto, ON M5A 2C9, Canada
Email: amiraway@hotmail.com
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Father’s Day – Mother’s Day
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Avgv‡`i mwZ¨Kvi KvjPvi Kx
f¨vbKzfv‡ii nvB¯‹z‡ji GKwU NUbv
wUb-GBRvi‡`i Dci GKwU Rwic
b_© Av‡gwiKvq wUbGBR g`¨cvb cÖKU AvKvi aviY K‡i‡Q
b_© Av‡gwiKvq †QvU eqm †_‡KB f¨v‡j›UvBb m¤ú‡K© AewnZ Kiv nq
mš—v‡bi Rb¥`vZv wcZv †K gv Zv Rv‡b bv!
wKQz ev¯—e wPÎ Ges Gi we‡k−lY
14k Aa¨vq t mš—vb cÖwZcvj‡b m~iv jyKgv‡b Dc‡`kvewj
Dc‡`k 1 †_‡K 11
Avqv‡Zi w`K wb‡`©kbv
15k Aa¨vq t Parenting Matters
Teenage Parenting
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Course Components
Some Useful Tips
Useful Tips for Teenage Parenting
Parenting Styles
Teenage & Romance
APPENDIX
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P¨vcUvi 1
wKQz cÖkœ,
wKQz wPš—v, wKQz fvebv
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Avgvi mš—vb wK cvewjK ¯‹y‡j c‡o
g‡b ivLv DËg
1. GLvbKvi ¯‹zj¸‡jv‡Z †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i Av`e-Kvq`v wkLv‡bvi †Zgb †Kvb
e¨e¯’v †bB|
2. Avgvi mš—vb †Kv-GWy‡Kk‡b c‡o Ges 8-10 N›Uv evmvi evB‡i _v‡K|
3. K¨vbvWvi AvB‡b 15-16 eQi †_‡K †Q‡j‡g‡qiv G‡K Ac‡ii mv‡_ †m·
Ki‡Z cv‡i|
4. ¯‹yj-K‡j‡Ri Iqvki“g¸‡jv‡Z KÛg †fwÛs †gwkb-Gi e¨e¯’v Av‡Q|
5. GLvbKvi KvjPvi n‡”Q nvB ¯‹zj †_‡KB eq‡dªÛ-Mvj©‡d«Û m¤úK© ˆZix
Kiv|
6. ¯‹zj¸‡jv‡Z cov‡kvbvi †Zgb GKUv Pvc †bB Ges BmjvwgK †Kvb
mve‡R±I †bB|
7. WvÝ K¬vk, wcqv‡bv K¬vk, wgDwRK K¬vk, †Q‡j‡g‡q GK mv‡_ myBwgs K¬vk
BZ¨vw`‡Z Lye ¸i“Z¡ †`qv nq|
8. Avgiv wK Rvwb Zv‡`i †eªB‡b Lªxógvm, mvš—vK¬R, †f‡jbUvBb Avi †n‡jvBb
KvjPvi Ges Kzms®‹vi wek¦vm ¯‹zj †_‡KB XyK‡Q
9. Avwg wK Rvwb 10 eQi eqm †_‡K Avgvi mš—v‡bi Dci bvgvh dih
10. ¯‹z‡j †hvni Ges Avmi bvgv‡hi mgq n‡j Zviv wK K‡i bvgvh bv covi
`vq-`vwqZ¡ wK Avgvi Dci Avm‡e bv
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11. Avwg wK KL‡bv Avgvi mš—vb‡`i BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡j cov‡bvi K_vUv wPš—v
K‡iwQ
Avwg wK Avgvi mš—vb‡K
wb‡q mgm¨vq fyMwQ
1. Avgvi mš—vb wK Avgvi K_v ïb‡Z Pvq bv
2. Avgvi mš—vb wK cov‡kvbvq Ag‡bv‡hvMx
3. Avgvi mš—vb wK w`b w`b †eqv`e n‡q hv‡”Q
4. Avgvi mš—vb wK ev‡R eÜz‡`i mv‡_ wg‡k
5. Avgvi mš—vb wK Mvj©‡dªÛ ev eq‡dªÛ wb‡q _v‡K
6. Avgvi mš—vb wK Avgvi c‡KU †_‡K bv e‡j UvKv †bq
7. Avgvi mš—vb wK WªvM GwWKk‡bi mv‡_ Rwo‡q †M‡Q
8. Avgvi mš—vb wK ¯‹zj ev K‡jR dvuwK †`q
9. Avgvi mš—vb wK Av‡Rev‡R Mvwj †`q
10. Avgvi mš—vb wK B›Uvi‡b‡U c‡b©vMÖvdx †`‡L
11. Avgvi mš—vb wK mÜvi ciI evB‡i _v‡K
12. Avgvi mš—vb wK wmMv‡iU Lvq, g` Lvq, †bkv K‡i
13. Avgvi mš—vb wK wg_¨v K_v e‡j
14. Avgvi mš—vb wK welbœZvq fyM‡Q
15. Avgvi mš—vb wK mvivY bvPMvb Avi I-Pod wb‡q _v‡K
16. Avgvi mš—vb wK mvivY Kw¤úDUvi †MBg wb‡q _v‡K
Avgvi mš—vb‡K
wKfv‡e MvBW Ki‡ev
1. Avwg wK PvB Avgvi mš—vb GKRb fvj GKv‡WwgK nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb
fvj gymwjg †nvK
2. Avwg wK PvB Avgvi mš—v‡bi g‡b fvj Dcv`vb¸‡jv †ekx K‡i XyKzK
3. Avwg wK PvB `ywbqv Ges AvwLivZ `yB w`‡KiB mdjZv
4. Cgv‡bi Ab¨Zg `vex n‡jv Øx‡bi ÁvbvR©b Kiv|
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5. Avgvi hw` b~b¨Zg ÁvbB bv _v‡K Zvn‡j wKfv‡e wbR cwievi‡K Øx‡bi
Av‡jv‡K MvBW Ki‡ev
6. wKfv‡e mš—vb‡`i Aš—‡i mvgvb¨ n‡jI Øx‡bi Av‡jv XyKv‡ev
7. hyM cwieZ©b n‡q †M‡Q, Avgvi fvmvfvmv Avi Av‡evjZv‡evj Øxwb Ávb w`‡q
wbR mš—vb‡`i eyS w`‡Z cvi‡ev bv|
8. Zviv GLb jwRK Pvq, Zviv Øx‡bi Bb‡U‡jKPzqvj e¨vL¨v Pvq|
mwZ¨Kvi gvby‡li msÁv Kx
K¨vbvWvi †ekxifvM j¨v‡ÛW BwgMÖ¨v›UivB D”P wkwZ| G‡`i A‡b‡Ki mv‡_B
K_v e‡j †`Lv †M‡Q †h- ÒfvB wbR †`‡k †Zv A‡bK fvj Ae¯’vq wQ‡jb,
GLv‡b G‡m G‡Zv Kó Ki‡Qb †KbÓ mv‡_ mv‡_B mvaviYZ †h DËiUv cvIqv
hvq Zv n‡jv t Òwb‡Ri Rb¨ †Zv Avwmwb, G‡mwQ mš—v‡bi fwel¨‡Zi R‡b¨, mš—
vb‡K gvbyl Kivi R‡b¨Ó| GLb Avgv‡`i cÖkœ GB gvby‡li msÁv wK Avgvi mš—
vb K¨vbvwWqvb - Av‡gwiKvb BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z co‡e, GKRb e¨vsKvi ev Wv³vi
ev GKRb BwÄwbqvi n‡e Avi G‡ZB †m gvbyl n‡q †Mj Avm‡j gvby‡li mwVK
msÁv n‡jv Avgvi mš—vb GKRb fvj GKv‡WwgK nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb fvj
gymwjg n‡e, †m `ywbqv Ges AvwLivZ `yBw`‡KB mdjZv AR©b Ki‡e|
Zvn‡j Gevi Avmyb wKfv‡e GKRb fvj gymwjg nIqv hvq Zv wb‡q A‡jvPbv
Kwi| gv n‡”Qb mš—vb‡`i eywbqv`x wkK, evevi cvkvcvwk mš—vb‡K gvbyl Kivi
wcQ‡b gv‡qi f~wgKv AZ¨š— ¸i“Z¡c~Y©| g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e gvbyl Kivi bv‡g
Av‡gwiKv-K¨vbvWvq G‡b mš—vb‡K Av¸‡bi g‡a¨ †Q‡o w`‡qwQ, Avi ejwQ wVK
_vK‡Z! Avwg wb‡RI GB eq‡m GLv‡b Avm‡j Kx wVK _vK‡Z cviZvg Avwg
Lye fvj K‡iB Rvwb Av‡gwiKv-K¨vbvWv GKwU dªx †m· Kvw›Uª, Av¸‡bi cv‡k wN
†i‡L wN †K ejwQ bv Mj‡Z, wKš‘ wN GKmgq Mj‡eB|
GKwU ev¯—e D`vni‡Yi gva¨‡g welqUv cwi®‹vi Kiv hvK| cÖPÛ kx‡Z (-20˚/-
30˚ †mw›U‡MÖ‡W) Avgiv hLb evB‡i hvB ZLb mviv kixi Lye fvjfv‡e
cÖ‡UK&kb w`‡q hvB, meB XvKv _v‡K ïay †PvL `y‡Uv †Lvjv _v‡K, KviY VvÛv
G‡Zv †h †Kv_vI GK‡duvUv cvwb _vK‡jI Zv eid n‡q hv‡”Q| wKš‘ Avð‡h©i
welq Avgv‡`i †Pv‡Li cvwb eid n‡”Q bv, Gi KviY Avgv‡`i †Pv‡Li cvwbi
g‡a¨ jeY †`qv Av‡Q, ZvB G‡Zv kx‡ZI Zv eid n‡”Q bv| †miKg Avgvi mš—
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v‡bi wfZi Ggb †Kvb Dcv`vb XywK‡q w`‡Z n‡e hvi Kvi‡Y GB cªwZKzj
cwi‡e‡k †_‡KI †m bó n‡e bv, Avi Zv n‡jv gReyZ Cgvb Ges ZvKIqv ev
Avj−vnfxwZ| mš—v‡bi Cgvb gReyZ Ki‡Z Avi ZvKIqv ˆZwi Ki‡Z n‡j Av‡M
evev-gvi Cgvb I ZvKIqv wVK Ki‡Z n‡e Ges evmvq GKUv my›`i BmjvwgK
cwi‡ek ˆZwi Ki‡Z n‡e|
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb gvbyl hLb g‡i hvq ZLb Zvi
mg¯— Avgj eÜ n‡q hvq, wKš‘ wZbwU Avg‡ji mydj †m †KqvgZ ch©š— †c‡Z
_v‡K|
(1) m`Kv‡q Rvwiqv
(2) Ggb mr Ávb hv †m weZiY K‡i‡Q Ges Zv gvby‡li DcKv‡i jvM‡Q
(3) †bK mš—vb †h Zvi Rb¨ `yÕAv Ki‡e| (mnxn& gymwjg)
Gevi Avmyb Avgv‡`i Av‡jvPbv 3bs c‡q›U wb‡q| †bK mš—vb wKfv‡e †i‡L
hve Avgv‡`i A‡b‡KiB aviYv †h mš—vb‡K we‡K‡j ûRy‡ii Kv‡Q Kvq`v ev
KziAvb co‡Z cvVv‡jB me n‡q †Mj, †m cv°v gymywj− n‡q †Mj, †m Bmjvg
wk‡L †dj‡jv| Avm‡j aviYvUv fyj, mvaviYZ ILv‡b wZjvIqvZ Qvov Avi
†Zgb wKQzB †kLv‡bv nq bv| Avgvi mš—vb‡K GKRb DËg gymwjg evbv‡bvi
Rb¨ Avgv‡KB †¯úkvj cÖ‡R± nv‡Z wb‡Z n‡e| ïay Wjv‡ii †cQ‡b †`uŠov‡j
me nviv‡ev, GKmgq Avd‡mv‡mi Avi mxgv _vK‡e bv, ZvB mgq _vK‡Z GLbB
m‡PZb nIqv DwPZ| Avmyb wPš—v Kwi,
G mš—v‡bi
Rxe‡bi j¨
D‡Ïk¨ Kx
n‡e
Zvi PvwiwÎK
‰ewkó¨ Kx
n‡e
†Kvb
fvev`‡k© Avwg
Zv‡K M‡o
Zzj‡ev
†Kvb †gŠwjK
Dcv`vb w`‡q Zvi
wPš—v †PZbv M‡o
Zzj‡ev
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Avwg wK PvBbv Avgvi mš—v‡bi g‡b fvj
Dcv`vb¸wj †ekx K‡i XyKzK
wkï, evjK, hyeK, e„× mK‡ji gb GK Pjgvb †gwkb| G †gwkb me©`v m‡PZb
I Ae‡PZbg‡b BbcyU MÖnY Ki‡Q| †m BbcyU cÖ‡mm n‡q AvDUcyU †e‡ivq
gvby‡li Kg© I `„wóf½xi gva¨‡g| d‡j †KD nq `vbkxj, †KD D×Z, †KD nq
Avj−vni †kvKi¸Rvi ev›`v Avevi †KD nq wec_Mvgx| Avgvi wkï †Kvb bv
†Kvb wKQy wkL‡Q| cÖwZw`b †m wbZ¨ b~Zb Kvq`v iß Ki‡Q| GUv fvev hv‡e bv
†h Avwg hw` wKQy bv †kLvB Zvn‡j †Kv_v n‡Z †m wkL‡e Avm‡j GB aviYv
fyj, Av‡kcv‡ki cwi‡ek, wUwf, †iwWI, Avgvi AvPiY, Avgvi ¯¿xi AvPiY
mewKQy n‡Z cªwZwbqZ †m BbcyU msMÖn Ki‡Q|
myZivs Avwg wK mZK© n‡ev bv Avwg wK PvB bv wkïi g‡b fvj Dcv`vb¸wj
†ekx K‡i BbcyU n‡q XyKyK Avwg wK PvB bv Avgvi wkï GKRb fvj
GKv‡WwgK nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb fvj gymwjg †nvK Avwg wK PvB bv †m
D”Pc`¯’ Kg©KZ©v n‡q wcZvgvZvi gyL D¾¡j Kivi cvkvcvwk KyiAvb nv`x‡mi
DׄwZ w`‡q Øx‡bi Dci AbM©j e³„Zv w`‡q Agymwjg‡`i †n`vq‡Zi b~i
†`LvK
Avmyb †PvL eÜ K‡i LvwbK wPš—v Kwi| nwjDW ev Gi AÜ Abymvix Ab¨ wUwf
P¨v‡bj¸wj cÖwZwbqZ gywf Avi wewPÎ Abyôvb Pvwj‡q hv‡”Q| ewjD‡Wi cÖfve
GLb cÖhyw³i Avkxe©v‡` me©ÎB `„pfv‡e cÖmvwiZ| Avwg Ges Avgvi mš—v‡biv
cÖwZwbqZB G¸wj n‡Z g‡bi †LvivK wbw”Q| wkïiv AbyKiY wcÖq nevi Kvi‡Y
Gme we‡bv`‡bi †gŠwjK welq¸wji mv‡_ Lye mn‡R cwiwPZ n‡q hvq| Gfv‡eB
Z‡`i gbbkxjZvi Dci Hme Dcv`vb¸wji ¯’vqx cªfve c‡o| Avmyb Gevi wPš—
v Kwi Gme ALv`¨ KzLv‡`¨i (†Lv` nwjD‡Wi Rb¥¯’vb n‡ZB GLb Gi Kzi“wP
Avi weK„Z ms¯‹…wZi wei“‡× †k−vMvb D‡V‡Q| Gi e‡`Šj‡Z wkïiv eB‡qi PvB‡Z
e›`y‡Ki cÖwZ †ekx AvMÖnx n‡q D‡V‡Q| WªvM, fv‡qv‡jÝ, eo‡`i cªwZ kª×vi
Afve, cvwievwiK eÜb wkw_j nIqv BZ¨vw`i Ae`v‡b nwjDW †ek bvg K‡i‡Q)
wecix‡Z Avwg wb‡R I Avgvi wkï Kx BbcyU wbw”Q
nwjDW ms¯‹…wZ AvR Ggb GK U‡Y©‡Wvi bvg hv mviv we‡k¦i Avbv‡P Kvbv‡P
j¾v ki‡gi Aewkóvsk ay‡q gy‡Q cwi¯‹vi K‡i †dj‡Z Pvq| GK Av‡gwiKvb
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AvBWjB `ywbqv Kvucv‡bvi Rb¨ h‡_ó| Avwg Ges Avgvi cwievi‡K G¸wj n‡Z
weiZ ivLvi `vwqZ¡ Avgvi wb‡Ri| GwU Avgvi GKvš— eyS I wek¦v‡mi MfxiZvi
Dci wbf©i K‡i| Z‡e mš—v‡bi PwiÎ MV‡b GKwU fvimvg¨c~Y© ÷ªv‡URxi Ask
wn‡m‡e nwjDW, ewjD‡Wi KzLv‡`¨i cvkvcvwk hw` wKQy fvBUvwgb I †cÖvwUbhy³
Lvevi mieivn bv Kiv nq Zvn‡j G mš—vbwU †h wK n‡e Zv fwel¨‡Z †Ui cvIqv
hv‡e hLb Avgvi eqm hLb 50/60 Gi †KvVvq wM‡q †cuŠQ‡e| ZLb wPš—v K‡i
†Kvb KyjwKbviv Kiv hv‡e bv| KviY Avgvi wkï ZLb eo n‡q hyeK n‡q
†M‡Q| Zvi wbR¯^ g~j¨‡eva ˆZix n‡q †M‡Q| GLb Zvi bZzb wek¦vm (Cgvb) I
g~j¨‡ev‡ai `vIqvZx Kv‡Ri cÖ_g Uv‡M©U n‡ev Avwg wb‡R I Avgvi ¯¿x|
Av‡gwiKvi GKwU mZ¨ NUbvi gva¨‡g wkYxq wn‡m‡e GKRb Aa¨vc‡Ki wPš—v-
†PZbv GLv‡b Zz‡j aiv n‡jv| Bwb c„w_exi cÖ_g `kwU wek¦we`¨vj‡qi GKwUi
dzj cÖ‡dmi| wZwb GLb mš—vb‡`i g~j¨‡eva wb‡q wPš—vwK¬ó| †Kej fv‡eb Avi
fv‡eb| BwZg‡a¨ mš—vbMY wek¦we`¨vj‡q Aa¨qb ïi“ K‡i‡Q| wZwb wK cvi‡eb
wek¦we`¨vj‡q coyqv mš—vb‡`i gb Avi wek¦v‡mi Dci bZzb †Kvb cÖ‡jc w`‡q
wb‡Ri gZ K‡i wb‡Z GUv mnR n‡Zv hw` wkï eqm †_‡K mš—vb‡K GKRb
AvaywbK gvbyl I Avj−v&ni GKRb LvuwU ev›`v wn‡m‡e M‡o †Zvjvi †Póv Ki‡Zb|
Av‡iKwU mZ¨ NUbv t GKwU cwiev‡ii `ywU †g‡q Av‡Q hviv ¯‹z‡j hvq| GB
cwieviwU‡K Zv‡`i †g‡q‡`i e¨vcv‡i wKQy civgk© †`qv n‡jv †h, mßv‡n Aš—Z
GKw`b †g‡q‡`i Bmjvwg wkvi e¨e¯’v Kiv DwPZ| Rev‡e wZwb ej‡jb,
†g‡q‡`i Gevi dvBbvj cixvi eQi| G eQiwU †kl †nvK Zvici Ime wPš—v
Kiv hv‡e| A_P ev¯—eZv wfbœ| nvB¯‹zj cvm †g‡qiv AvRKvj wb‡RivB GKUv
Av`k© ˆZix K‡i †bq| †mwU n‡Z cv‡i Rock n Roll Gi Av`k©, wKsev
Av‡gwiKvb AvBW‡ji Av`k©, wKsev K¨vbvwWqvb A_ev BwÛqvb †Kvb D‡ËRbv
m„wóKvix MvqK ev MvwqKvi Av`k©| ïay ZvB bq, Gi evB‡i †Kvb wKQy‡K Zviv
†m‡K‡j ev wbgœ¯—‡ii wRwbm gy‡L bv ej‡jI fv‡e Zv cÖKvk K‡i †`q| Ab¨‡`i
†m Av`‡k©i Abymvix evbv‡bvi †Póv K‡i| Avd‡mvm, GB cwieviwU welqwU
eyS‡jb bv|
ZvB Avmyb wkï‡`i Dc‡hvMx Bmjvwg wWwfwW, wfwmwW BZ¨vw` msMÖn Kwi| mš—
vb‡`i †m¸wj Dc‡fvM Kivi Rb¨ DrmvwnZ Kwi| wnKg‡Zi mv‡_ I Zv‡`i
¯^Zš¿ mËvi K_v we‡ePbv K‡i ax‡i ax‡i G¸‡Z _vwK| Bs‡iRx‡Z Gme Bmjvwg
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wkvgyjK eB, wWwfwW, wmwW Lye mn‡RB Cost Price-G NON-PROFIT
ISLAMIC BOOKS CENTRE-G cvIqv hvq|
Avwg wK PvB GB cªwZK~j cwi‡e‡k Avgvi
mš—v‡bi Cgvbx kw³ e„w× †nvK
Cgv‡bi ¯^”Q aviYv
gvbe Rxe‡bi †h †Kvb ¸i“Z¡c~Y© w`K wb‡qB Av‡jvPbv-ch©v‡jvPbv ev M‡elYv
ïi“ Kiv †nvK Zv cÖfvweZ n‡e Cgvbx Ávb, Gi mwVK eyS (knowledge &
understanding) I G-Áv‡bi MfxiZvi Dci| †h †Kvb mgm¨v mgvav‡b wKQz
†gŠwjK bxwZgvjv †g‡b Pj‡Z nq| mKj mgm¨v we‡k−l‡Y Cgvb‡K mvg‡b
†i‡LB hveZxq m~Î, wewagvjv I mgvavb nIqvi bxwZgvjv †g‡b Pjv Kj¨vYKi|
Gi evB‡i †h mgvav‡biB †Póv Kiv †nvK bv †Kb Zv n‡e AvswkK, Ac~Y©v½ I
Y¯’vqx| KviY G‡Z mePvB‡Z eo d¨v±i Cgvb‡K AMªvn¨ K‡i wb‡Ri ARv‡š—
gvby‡li wZ †W‡K Avbv nq| d‡j gvbyl †Kvb wel‡q AvR GK K_v e‡j †Zv
Kvj Av‡iK m~Î Avwe®‹vi K‡i| Avi Cgvb gv‡b Avj−vni Dci AMva wek¦vm
Ges gvby‡li Kj¨v‡Yi Rb¨ wZwb †h †gŠwjK wewaweavb cvwV‡q‡Qb Zvi DciI
mgfv‡e wek¦vm ¯’vcb Cgv‡bi ¸i“Z¡c~Y© `vex|
Avwg gvbeRxe‡bi †gŠwjK wel‡q (†hgb t Gi wkve¨e¯’v, A_©‰bwZK
bxwZgvjv, kªgbxwZ, mgvR I ivóªMVb, Ac‡ii Kj¨vYKvgbv, cwievi MVb
BZ¨vw`) hw` †Kvb AvaywbK I hy‡Mvc‡hvMx mgvavb †ei Ki‡Z PvB Zvn‡j
†m¸wji e¨vcv‡i Avj−vni †Kvb wb‡`©kbv Av‡Q wKbv Zv AwZ Aek¨B †`‡L wb‡Z
n‡e, KviY Zv bvn‡j Avgvi Cgvb †Kej n‡e `ye©j Ges Avj−vni wbf©yj wb‡`©k
Agvb¨ K‡i †h mgvavb †ck Kiv nq Zv cy‡iv gvbeRvwZi Dci AwePv‡ii
kvwgj|
AvswkK ev fyj Cgvb
Cgvb`vi‡`i mKj e¨w³MZ I mvgwóK e¨_©Zvi Rb¨ `vqx AvswkK ev fyj
Cgvb| Cgv‡bi cÖK…Z msÁv, Cgv‡bi `vex, Gi wfwË, Cgv‡bi kvLv- cÖkvLv,
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Cgvb e„w×i Dcvq, Cgvb‡K m‡ZR ivLvi DcKiY BZ¨vw` wel‡q Áv‡bi Afve
GKRb wek¦vmxi BnKvj I ciKvj‡K Pigfv‡e wZMÖ¯— K‡i| G wel‡q fyj
Ávbm¤úbœ e¨w³i ˆewkó¨ mgvR‡K msµwgZ K‡i, ivóªxq Pwi‡Îi DciI Gi
wZKi Qvc c‡o| Cgv‡bi eyS I MfxiZvi Dci wbf©i K‡i gvby‡li AvPvi-
AvPiY I mvivw`‡bi Kg©ZrciZv| d‡j GKRb Cgvb`vi Kwei †jLbx Ab¨ †h
†Kvb Kwei †jLbx n‡Z mȳ úófv‡e wfbœ n‡e| mwVK Cgv‡bi gš¿x Avi Aci
gš¿x‡`i Kg© Lye mn‡RB wfbœ n‡e| GKRb Cgvb`vi gvbeZvev`x Avi Aci
gvbeZvev`xi PwiÎ ˆewkó¨ m¤ú~Y© Avjv`v n‡e|
Cgvb`vi‡`i KiYxq
myZivs GKRb e¨w³ gymwjg nIqvi ci Zvi me©cÖ_g `vwqZ¡ Cgv‡bi c~Y©Zvi
w`‡K AMÖmi nIqv| wek¦vmx‡`i Dci Avj−vni nK (AwaKvi) wK wK Zv †R‡b
†bqv| Rxe‡bi MwZi mwVK j¨ Cgv‡bi Av‡jv‡K wVK K‡i †bqv, mdjZv I
e¨_©Zvi gvcKvwV Avj−vni †`qv msÁvi Av‡jv‡K wba©viY Kiv, Cgv‡bi mv‡_
msMwZ †i‡L Avb›` I †e`bvi mxgv †R‡b †bqv, Cgv‡bi gvb`‡Û eÜz I kΓi
ˆewkó¨ Dcjwä Kiv, cÖwZ‡ekxi AwaKvi I Zv‡`i cÖwZ AvPiY BZ¨vw` †R‡b
Z`byhvqx KvR Kiv, A‡b¨i AwaKv‡ii e¨vcv‡i m‡PZb nIqv, Cgvb‡K memgq
m‡½ ivLv|
ev›`vi Dci Avj−vni n‡Ki e¨vcv‡i, gvZv-wcZvi AwaKvi Av`v‡qi †‡Î,
Iqv`v Kivi mgq, AvgvbZ ivi †‡Î, IRb Kivi mgq, FY †bIqv I
cwi‡kv‡ai mgq - A_©vr mKj mgq Cgvb‡K m‡ZR I ¯§i‡Y †i‡L KvR Kiv
Ri“ix| ˆ`wbK cuvP Iqv³ bvgvh Av`vqKvix e¨w³iI Cgvb m¤ú‡K© mwVK
aviYv bv _vKvi Kvi‡Y IR‡b Kg †`qv m¤¢e| Cgv‡bi †gŠwjK Ávb bv _vKvi
Kvi‡Y AZ¨š— Drmvn DÏxcbvi mv‡_ †ivhv cvjbKvixi c‡I Avgvb‡Zi
†LqvbZ Kiv m¤¢e| nvRx n‡qI Iqv`v †Ljvd Kiv gvgyjx e¨vcvi, me
AvbyôvwbK Bev`Z m¤úv`b K‡iI wg_¨v ejv m¤¢e| wcZvgvZvi mš‘wói cÖwZ
Pig Ae‡njv, ¯¿xi nK Av`v‡q D`vmxbZv, Mixe AvZ¥xq-¯^Rb‡K ïay bv‡gi
Rb¨ `vb mv`vKv Kiv, wgmwK‡bi cÖwZ AeÁv †`Lv‡bv G ai‡Yi e¨w³i c‡
wewPÎ wKQz bq|
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Cgv‡bi Dci wU‡K _vKv
Cgvb Ggb †Kvb welq bq hv GKevi AR©b Ki‡j GUv Avi Avgv‡K †Q‡o hv‡e
bv| G Cgvb bv PvB‡j Zv mvaviYZ KvD‡K †`qv nq bv Ges a‡i ivL‡Z bv
PvB‡jI Zv _v‡K bv| Cgvb‡K memgq ZvKIqvi gva¨‡g renew Ki‡Z nq|
Avgvi GUv g‡b Kivi †Kvb KviY †bB †h GKevi Cgvb hLb G‡bwQ GUv Avgvi
g„Zÿ i w`b ch©š— Avgvi mv‡_ mv‡_ _vK‡e! Avm‡j Cgv‡bi DVv-bvgv wbf©i K‡i
Avgvi cÖwZw`‡bi K‡g©i Dci| ZvB gnvb Avj−vni wbKU memgq `yÕAv Ki‡Z
nq Ò†n Avj−vn, Zzwg Avgv‡K Cgv‡bi mv‡_ g„Zÿ w`I|Ó
Avwg wK Rvwb GB b_©-Av‡gwiKvq
KZ evev-gv †R‡j Av‡Q
Avwg wK Rvwb Av‡gwiKv Ges K¨vbvWvq KZ evev-gv †R‡j Kvivi“× Ae¯’vq
Av‡Q ïay mš—vb‡K mwVK Dcv‡q MvBW bv Kivi Kvi‡Y wbR mš—vb evev-gvi
wei“‡× cywjk Kj K‡i Zvi mgm¨vi mgvavb Kivi †Póv K‡i‡Q| A_ev mš—vb‡K
†`kxq Dcv‡q kvmb Kivi Kvi‡Y cÖwZ‡ekx A_ev ¯‹zj g¨v‡bR‡g‡›Ui Awf‡hv‡M
evev-gv‡K †R‡j †h‡Z n‡q‡Q|
Avevi A‡bK evev-gv‡qi †Kvj Lvwj K‡i cywjk wb‡q †M‡Q Zv‡`i Av`‡ii mš—
vb‡K miKvix †këv‡i| Dfq †‡ÎB mš—v‡bi †Kvb †`vl †bB| memgq evevgv
Acivax| G‡‡Î evev-gvi Aciva Zviv wbR mš—vb cvj‡b e¨_© A_©vr
A‡hvM¨| ZvB cÖkvmb mš—vb‡K cwievi †_‡K Avjv`v K‡i evev-gv‡K kvw¯— Ges
wkv `y‡UvB w`‡”Q| we‡kl we‡kl †‡Î Avevi A‡bK evev-gv‡K miKvix Li‡P
anger management Gi Dci †Kvm© Ki‡Z cvVv‡bvI nq|
b_©-Av‡gwiKvq †mvmvj mvwf©m-Gi A‡bK cÖvB‡fU AM©vbvB‡Rkb Av‡Q hviv
miKvix dv‡Û P‡j| Zviv mvaviYZ Human rights, Women rights, Child
rights BZ¨vw` wb‡q KvR K‡i| Zviv wewfbœ mgm¨v Child rights Gi AvIZvq
G‡b mš—vb‡`i‡K evev-gv †_‡K Avjv`v K‡i w`‡q mgm¨vi mgvavb Kivi †Póv
K‡i| Zviv evev-gvi parenting-Gi Dci fyj †ei Kivi Rb¨ wbijm KvR
K‡i hv‡”Q| Avi GiKg GKUv †KBm ai‡Z cvi‡jB Zviv miKvi †_‡K dvÛ
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cvq Ges miKvi‡K †`Lv‡Z cv‡i †h Zviv †mvmvj mvwf©m w`‡q hv‡”Q| ZvB
Zviv mvivY GB ai‡Yi †KB‡mi †Luv‡R _v‡K| †Kv_vI †_‡K †Kvb †dvb Kj
†c‡jB gyn~‡Z©i g‡a¨ †mB evwo‡Z wM‡q nvwRi nq|
Avwg wK
GLbI mveavb n‡ev bv
1. Avwg wK Rvwb Zv‡`i †eªB‡b wbqwgZ KvjPvi Avi d¨vk‡bi bv‡g
Avj−vnwe‡ivax wek¦vm XyK‡Q
2. Avwg wK Rvwb ¯‹zj-K‡jR Ges BDwbfvwm©wU †_‡KB Zviv bvbv iKg wki‡K
wjß n‡”Q
3. Avwg wK Rvwb Kx ai‡Yi eB Zviv c‡o Ges GB Mí-Dcb¨v‡mi gva¨‡g
†¯−v-cqR‡b Zviv wKfv‡e Avµvš— n‡”Q
4. Avwg wK Rvwb Zv‡`i ¯‹z‡ji jKv‡i GWvë wWwfwW ev g¨vMvwRb iv‡L wK
bv
5. Avwg wK Rvwb Zviv Kx ai‡Yi Mvb ï‡b Avi A‡bK Mv‡bi K_vB †Zv
wkiK wgwkªZ!
6. Avwg wK Rvwb BmjvwgK Abyôv‡bi bv‡g Avwg Ges Avgvi mš—v‡biv bvbv
iKg mybœv‡Zi wecixZ Òwe`ÕAvZxÓ KvR K‡i hvw”Q
7. Avwg wK Rvwb 10 eQi eqm †_‡K Avgvi mš—v‡bi Dci bvgvh dih
8. GLv‡b ¯‹zj-K‡jR Ges BDwbfvwm©wU¸‡jv‡Z wkvi Ggb †Kvb e¨e¯’v †bB
†hLv‡b Bmjvwg bxwZ-ˆbwZKZv †kLv‡bv nq|
9. GLvbKvi ¯‹zj¸‡jv‡ZB †kLv‡bv nq evev-gv kvmb Ki‡j wKfv‡e 911 Kj
K‡i evev-gvi wei“‡× cywjk WvK‡Z nq|
10. Avwg wK Rvwb 13 eQi eqm †_‡K Avgvi †g‡qi Dci c`©v dih
11. Avgvi Kb¨v c`©v bv Kivi Kvi‡Y hviv Zv‡K †`‡L †PvL I g‡bi wRbvq wjß
n‡”Q Zv‡`i G Kexiv ¸Yv‡ni Rb¨ AvwLiv‡Z Avwg `vqx n‡ev †m K_vUv
†f‡e †`‡LwQ KL‡bv
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Avgv‡`i cª‡qvRb Av‡MB
gvbwmK cÖ¯‘wZ
cÖ_g Aa¨vq c‡oB Avgiv †KD †KD Nve‡o †h‡Z cvwi ev g‡bi g‡a¨ bvbv iKg
wPš—v Ges cÖkœ Avm‡Z cv‡i| n‡Z cv‡i †mUv wfbœ wfbœ cwiev‡ii wfbœ wfbœ wPš—
v| †hgb t
• Avgvi mš—vb‡Zv A‡bK fvj Ges f`ª| Avgvi mš—v‡bi g‡a¨ †Zv G mKj
†`vlΓwU †bB, †Kb Gme K_v ejv n‡”Q
• Avgvi mš—vb‡Zv BmjvwgK gvB‡Ûi, Avgvi mš—vb‡Zv Avgvi eva¨| Avgiv
wcZv-gvZvivI BmjvwgK gvB‡Ûi| Avgiv mevB bvgvwR| Zvn‡j mgm¨v
†Kv_vq
• Avgvi †Zv BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡j cov‡bvi g‡Zv mvg_©¨ †bB| Ges BmjvwgK ¯‹zj
GB b_©-Av‡gwiKvq Avi KqUv Av‡Q, meB‡Zv cvewjK ¯‹zj| GQvov
BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡ji †jLv-covi †KvqvwjwU-B ev †Kgb
• Zvi gv‡b cvewjK ¯‹z‡j wK mš—vb‡`i‡K cov‡bvB hv‡e bv Avi
GKv‡WwgK fvj wiRvë Ki‡Z n‡j †Zv cvewjK ¯‹z‡ji Aëvi‡bwUf †bB|
• G‡Zv †b‡MwUf K_v ejv n‡”Q †Kb Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i g‡a¨ †Zv A‡bK
fvj ¸YI Av‡Q| Avi †b‡MwUf K_v¸‡jv G‡Zv mivmwi ev G‡Zv KwVb
K‡i ejv n‡”Q †Kb
fyj aviYvi Aemvb
wcZv-gvZv‡`i cÖwZ Aby‡iva cÖ_g Aa¨vq c‡oB †hb †KD fyj aviYv †cvlY bv
Kwi| nq‡Zv GB mgm¨v Avgvi mš—vb‡`i wb‡q †bB, nq‡Zv Avgvi mš—vb GL‡bv
A‡bK †QvU, ev Avgvi mš—vb ¯‹zj K‡jR cvk K‡i †d‡j‡Q A_ev Avgvi GL‡bv
mš—vb nqwb| GB mgm¨v¸‡jv †h ïay Avgvi GKvi Zv nq‡Zv bv, n‡Z cv‡i GUv
Ab¨ Kv‡iv| Avm‡j G wPÎ ïay †h evOvwj KwgDwbwU‡Z ZvI bq, n‡Z cv‡i GUv
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gymwjg-Agymwjg, evOvwj-AevOvwj me w`‡KB| Avgv‡`i mK‡ji `vwqZ¡ G‡K
Aci‡K wec‡`i nvZ †_‡K iv Kiv|
Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv GB wecixZ cwi‡e‡k BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡j co‡Z cvi‡j fvj, bv
cvi‡j Aek¨B cvewjK ¯‹z‡j co‡e| cvewjK ¯‹zj †_‡K me mš—vb‡`i‡K wb‡q
BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡j fwZ© K‡i w`‡ZI ejv n‡”Q bv| GUvB eySv‡bvi †Póv Kiv n‡”Q
†h cvewjK ¯‹z‡j c‡oI Avgv‡`i mš—vbiv wKfv‡e GKRb fvj GKv‡WwgK
nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb fvj gymwjg n‡Z cv‡i| GUvB ¯^vfvweK, †Kvb evevgv
wbR mš—vb‡`i m¤ú‡K© †b‡MwUf K_v kyb‡Z cQ›` K‡ib bv| wKš‘ wKQz wKQz
mZ¨ K_v mivmwi bv ej‡j fvjfv‡e eySv hvq bv Ges AbyavebI Kiv hvq bv|
ZvB eySvi myweav‡_© A‡bK mZ¨ K_v Ges mZ¨ NUbvB mivmwi D`vniY wnmv‡e
Zz‡j aiv n‡q‡Q| GB K_v¸‡jv †h Avgv‡KB ejv n‡”Q e¨vcviUvI Zv bq|
GKRb m‡PZb gymwjg wnmv‡e Avgv‡`i mK‡jiB `vwqZ¡ gymwjg KwgDwbwUi
Kj¨v‡Yi K_v wPš—v Kiv| NUbv NUevi Av‡M wb‡Riv m‡PZb nIqv Ges Aci‡K
m‡PZb Kiv| Avi GUvB Avj−vn Zvqvjvi Zid †_‡K cÖwZwU gyÕwg‡bi `vwqZ¡|
ZvB Avmyb cy‡iv eBwU Lye g‡bv‡hv‡Mi mv‡_ covi †Póv Kwi Ges ev¯—e wfwËK
mgvav‡bi wPš—v Kwi|
b_© Av‡gwiKvq mš—vb‡`i
KwZcq fyj AvPiY I mywkv
1. Who cares
2. I don’t care
3. You don’t know, man.
4. You guys don’t know.
5. It’s not your business.
6. F… you!
7. O my Gods (I gvB Mm)
A‡bK †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡KB †`Lv hvq Zviv †QvU-eo mevi mv‡_B GB ai‡Yi
fvlvq K_v e‡j _v‡K, GgbwK Zv‡`i evev-gvi mv‡_I| †Kvb Av‡jvPbv Pjv
Kv‡j Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i GB¸‡jv ejvi e`¯^fve _vK‡j ZvrwYK AvcwË
Rvbv‡bv DwPZ, evav †`qv DwPZ|
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6bs c‡q›U t Dc‡ii 6 bs c‡q›UUv GB †`‡ki GKwU AwZ cÖPwjZ Mvwj hvi
A_© gvivZ¥K AvcwËRbK| f`ª mgv‡R G ai‡Yi kã wbZvš—B
Aw¯—‡Z¡i ms‡M mvsNwl©K| GB Mvwj GB †`‡k †Q‡j †g‡q‡K
†`q ev †g‡q †Q‡j‡K †`q, Avevi gv †Q‡j‡K †`q ev †Q‡j
gv‡K †`q, Avevi evev †g‡q‡K †`q ev †g‡q evev‡K †`q,
Awd‡m em Kg©Pvix‡K †`q ev Kg©Pvix em‡K †`q, Avevi eÜz
evÜex‡K †`q ev evÜex eÜz‡K †`q| cÖvK…wZKfv‡e †KD †Kvb
KvR Ki‡Z wM‡q wVK g‡Zv bv n‡j A‡bK mgq wei³ nq Avi
H weiw³ cÖKvk K‡i _v‡K GB Mvwj w`‡q| GB Mvwj Avgv‡`i
mš—v‡biv R‡b¥i ci †_‡K ï‡b Avm‡Q, ¯‹z‡j, K‡j‡R,
BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z, Kg©‡‡Î, kwcs g‡j, wUwf‡Z, iv¯—v-Nv‡U A_©vr
me RvqMvq ï‡b Avm‡Q| GB Mvwj Zv‡`i ARv‡š—B Zv‡`i
K_vi gv‡S Xy‡K hv‡”Q| Avgv‡`i `vwqZ¡ n‡e †mw`‡K †Lqvj
ivLv †hb Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv Ab¨vb¨‡`i g‡Zv GB Mvwj‡Z
Af¨¯— n‡q bv hvq|
7bs c‡q›U t Dc‡ii 7bs c‡q›Uv gvivZ¥K AvcwËRbK KviY GB K_vUv
mvivmwi wkiK| A‡b‡KB Avgiv K_v cÖks‡½ ÒI gvB MWÓ ewj,
GUv ej‡j †Kvb Amyweav †bB| wKš‘ hLbB MW Gi mv‡_ S
jvwM‡q Plural A_©vr eûePb Kiv n‡”Q ZLbB Zv Avj−vni mv‡_
wkiK n‡q hv‡”Q| bb-gymwjgiv e‡j KviY Zviv‡Zv Ggwb‡ZB
wki‡Ki g‡a¨ Av‡Q wKš‘ gymwjgiv ej‡j Zv gvivZ¥K AvcwËKi
n‡q hv‡e| mgv‡R ÒI gvB MmÓ K_vUv GLb Lye †ekx cÖPjb
n‡”Q Avi gymwjg †Q‡j †g‡qiv bv ey‡SB Zv e¨envi K‡i
hv‡”Q| Avgiv wcZv-gvZviv Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i GB wel‡q
m‡PZb K‡i †`qv DwPZ|
GB I‡q‡ói wKQz `„k¨ Awb”Qv m‡Z¡I
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i g‡b cªfve †d‡j
1) iv¯—v-Nv‡U, cv‡K©, g‡j, mveI‡q‡Z Bqs †Q‡j‡g‡qiv mK‡ji mvg‡b G‡K
Aci‡K wKm K‡i _v‡K|
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2) A‡bK mgq Bqs †Q‡j‡g‡qiv iv¯—v-Nv‡U, cv‡K©, g‡j, mveI‡q‡Z G‡K
Aci‡K Rwo‡q a‡i _v‡K ev GKRb Av‡iK R‡bi †Kv‡j e‡m _v‡K,
we‡kl K‡i †Uª‡b ev mveI‡q‡Z|
3) GWvë †g‡qiv Akvjxb †cvlvK c‡i _v‡K, we‡kl K‡i mvgv‡i|
4) Kgvwk©qvj weÁvcb wn‡m‡e wewfbœ RvqMvq eo eo e¨vbvi Ges †cvóv‡i
Awk−j Qwe UvOv‡bv _v‡K, †hgb - †Kvb Dj½ †g‡qi Qwe ev †Kvb Dj½
†Q‡ji Qwe|
5) †M-†jRweqvb‡`i bvbv iKg weÁvcb wewfbœ RvqMvq †`Lv hvq, †hgb-
GKwU †Q‡j Av‡iKwU †Q‡j‡K Pzgy w`‡”Q ev GKwU †g‡q Av‡iKwU †g‡qi
†Kv‡j e‡m Zv‡K Rwo‡q a‡i †i‡L‡Q|
6) ex‡P †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K cÖvq Dj½ Ae¯’vq †Nviv-†div, †Ljv-ayjv, Ges mvb
ev_ Ae¯’vq †`qv hvq|
7) myBwgs cy‡j †Q‡j‡g‡q GK ms‡M †Lvjv-†gjv Ae¯’vq myBwgs Ki‡Z †`Lv
hvq|
8) wUwfi wewfbœ P¨v‡b‡j †h‡Kvb mgqB †m‡·i †h‡Kvb `„k¨ P‡j Av‡m|
9) B›Uvi‡bU Lyj‡jB gwbU‡ii †h‡Kvb GK cvk w`‡q GKUv Awk−j weÁvcb
†f‡m Av‡m|
10) iv¯—v-Nv‡U A‡bK dªx cwÎKv cvIqv hvq †h¸‡jv‡Z †Q‡j cÖwówUDU Ges
†g‡q cÖwówUDU‡`i I‡cb GWvë Qwemn wewfbœ Dcv‡q †m· Kivi AvnŸvb
Rvwb‡q weÁvcb †`qv _v‡K|
11) Friday night Ges Saturday night-G `‡j `‡j †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K
WvDb-UvDb ev wewfbœ evi ev bvBU K¬v‡ei w`‡K †h‡Z †`Lv hvq|
12) wewfbœ iv¯—vq Ges mwcs g‡j xxx GWvë wfwWI, g¨vMvwRb Ges †m·
U‡q‡Ri †`vKvb I Zvi weÁvcb|
evev-gv‡qi AvPiY mš—vb‡`i
g‡b cªfve †d‡j
1) Avgiv ¯^vgx-¯¿x wK mš—vb‡`i mvg‡b SMov-SvwU Kwi
2) Avgiv wK G‡K Aci‡K iv‡Mi gv_vq MvjvMvwj Kwi ev wRwbmcÎ fvw½
3) Avgiv ¯^vgx-¯¿x wK mš—vb‡`i mvg‡b wg_¨v K_v ewj
4) Avgiv wK GKRb Av‡iK R‡bi e`bvg mš—vb‡`i wbKU ev A‡b¨i wbKU
Kwi
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5) Avgiv wK cÖwZ‡ekx ev AvZ¥xq-¯^R‡bi MxeZ Kwi
6) Avgiv wK A‡b¨i nK bó Kwi
7) Avgiv mš—vb‡`i w`‡q wK wg_¨v K_v ejvB
8) Avgiv wK A‰ea BbKvg Gi mv‡_ RwoZ
9) Avgiv wK wUwf‡Z AvcwËKi gywzf ev Abyôvb †`wL
10) Avgiv wK mš—vb‡`i mv‡_ `ye©¨envi Kwi ev Mv‡q nvZ Zywj
wcZv-gvZv‡`i we‡kl
mZK©Zv Aej¤^b
1. mš—v‡bi eÜy‡`i †hb evmvq Avm‡Z †`B Ges AvwgI Zv‡`i mv‡_ wbqwgZ
†gjv‡gkv Kwi|
2. KL‡bv cywj‡ki Sv‡gjvq †hb bv hvB Ges mš—vb‡`i‡KI Avgvi wei“‡×
911 Kj ev cywjk WvKvi my‡hvM K‡i bv †`B|
3. mš—v‡bi cvi‡mvbvj i“‡g wUwf ev Kw¤úDUvi bv w`‡q common RvqMvq
ivLvi †Póv Kwi| (n‡Z cv‡i wjwfs i“‡g ev WªBs i“‡g)
4. gv‡S gv‡S ¯‹zj Ges K‡j‡R wM‡q †LuvR-Lei wb‡Z cvwi Ges wUPvi‡`i
mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z cvwi|
5. m¤¢e n‡j gv‡S gv‡S ¯‹zj wM‡q wkK‡`i mvnvh¨ wb‡q mš—v‡bi jKvi †PK
Ki‡Z cvwi|
6. wUwf‡Z Av‡R-ev‡R wnw›` gywf Ges wmwiqvj †`Lv ev` †`B Ges kqZv‡bi
nvZ †_‡K wb‡R‡`i‡K iv Kwi|
7. KL‡bv Ab¨ †Kvb cwiev‡ii mv‡_ cÖwZ‡hvwMZvq bv hvB|
8. wcZv-gvZviv BmjvwgK gvB‡ÛW †jvKR‡bi mv‡_ eÜzZ¡ Kwi|
9. evwo‡Z wbqwgZ KziAvb-nv`x‡mi Av‡jvPbv I bvgvh cov Pvjy Kwi|
10. mš—vb‡`i‡K KL‡bv wg_¨v Av¯^vm bv †`B| †hgb t GB KvRUv Ki‡j H
wRwbmUv w`e wKš‘ †`Lv †Mj †h †m KvRwU Kij wKš‘ Avwg Avgvi cÖwZÁv wVK
ivLjvg bv| GB ai‡Yi AvPiY mš—vb‡`i g‡b cÖfve †d‡j|
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Avgvi mš—v‡bi wkv
wKš‘ †_‡g †bB
Avgv‡`i wnDg¨vb †eªBb Kw¤úDUv‡ii g‡ZvB KvR K‡i| Kw¤úDUvi Avm‡j
Avgv‡`i fvlv ey‡S bv, Zvi wbR¯^ †KvW j¨vs¸‡qR i‡q‡Q wmwcD‡Z (Central
Processing Unit) hv‡K e‡j †gwkb j¨vs¸‡qR| Avgiv hLb wK‡ev‡W©i
gva¨‡g Kw¤úDUvi‡K BbcyU †`B ZLb Zv wmwcD‡Z wM‡q Zvi wbR¯^ †KvW
j¨vs¸‡q‡R cÖ‡mm nq Ges Zvici Zv gwbUi w`‡q Avgv‡`i‡K my›`i AvDUcyU
†`Lvq| wVK †Zgwb Avgvi mš—vb‡K Avwg wKQz wkLvw”Q bv e‡j GUv fvev hv‡e
bv †h †m wKQz wkL‡Qbv| †m Av‡kcv‡ki cwi‡ek, School, College,
University, wUwf, †iwWI, Internet n‡Z m‡PZb I Ae‡PZb g‡b cÖwZwbqZ
†Kvb bv †Kvb wKQz wkL‡Q| Av‡kcv‡ki cwi‡ek †_‡K cÖwZwbqZ wKQz bv wKQz
wkL‡Q| Zvici †m¸‡jv Zvi †eªB‡b wM‡q Kw¤úDUv‡ii wmwcDi g‡Zv cÖ‡mm
n‡”Q Ges †k‡l Zvi PwiÎ w`‡q AvDUcyU †ei n‡”Q|
BbcyU cÖ‡mm AvDUcyU
School, College,
University, Internet,
Newspaper, TV,
Environment
Bmjvg n‡jv Complete Code of Life, Avwg hw` †KvW¸wj bvB Rvwb Zvn‡j
†m †KvW gvb‡ev wKfv‡e Aš—Z ˆ`bw›`b Rxe‡bi †KvW¸wj bv Rvb‡j †h †Kvb
mgq gnvb Avj−vni KvQ †_‡K †h †Kvb kvw¯— Avm‡Z cv‡i| ZLb hw` ewj Avwg
†Zv †KvW¸wj Rvwb bv| †Kvbfv‡eB †invB cvIqv hv‡e bv| Bmjv‡gi
†KvW¸wji P~ovš— †mvm© n‡jv Avj-KyiAvb I mybœvn| Avi Avgiv bvgv‡h
cÖwZwbqZB †m †KvW¸wj cowQ| GLb `iKvi †KvW¸wj A_©mn cov| Gi Rb¨
cÖ‡qvRb Zvdmx‡ii Ges mnxn nv`xm msKj‡bi we¯—vwiZ Aa¨qb|
GKwU D`vni‡Yi gva¨‡g e¨vcviUv Av‡iv cwi®‹vi K‡i †evSv‡bv hvK| ÔKÕ bv‡g
GK hyeK †Uª‡b D‡V Zvi mvg‡b GKRb hyeZx bvix‡K †`‡L Zvi iƒ‡c †gvwnZ
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n‡q †m iƒc AeMvn‡b wjß n‡jv| hyeZxi kix‡ii ¯úk©KvZi Ask¸wj AvswkK
bMœ _vKvi Kvi‡Y Zvi bRi evi evi †m bvixi w`‡K wd‡i hv‡”Q| Aci GK
e¨w³ bvg ÔLÕ| GKB †Uª‡b DVv G hvÎxwU hyeZx †g‡qwU‡K GKevi †`‡L Zvi
`„wó‡K AebZ K‡i wbj| Av‡iKevi `„wó †`qvi mv‡_ mv‡_ Zvi GKwU †KvW
(nv`xm) Gi K_v g‡b coj| hw` †Kvb cyi“l Zvi ¯¿x e¨ZxZ Aci †Kvb bvixi
w`‡K Kz`„wó‡Z ZvKvq Zvn‡j ciKv‡j Zvi †Pv‡L MwjZ mxmv †X‡j kvw¯— †`qv
n‡e| G †KvW g‡b Avmvi mv‡_ mv‡_ ÔLÕ Zvi `„wó‡K G‡Kev‡i wbqš¿‡Y wb‡q
Avmj, Avi ZvKv‡jvbv| GLv‡b ÔKÕ †KvW f½ Kij Avi ÔLÕ †KvW †g‡b Lvivc
KvR n‡Z weiZ _vK‡jv|
Gfv‡e Rxe‡bi cÖvq mKj A½‡b GKRb Cgvb`vi Avj−vn wbav©wiZ AvPiY
wewai m¤§yLxb| Avj−vn G AvPiYwewa w`‡q hy‡M hy‡M bex-ivm~j‡`i cvwV‡q‡Qb|
bex-ivm~jMY G AvPiYwewai †Kej w_IixB AvIovbwb, m‡½ Gi cÖvKwUK¨vjI
Kwi‡q †`wL‡q †M‡Qb| gvbyl †mme wewa †g‡b wb‡R‡K Abš— Rxe‡bi Rb¨
cÖ¯‘Z K‡i‡Q| A_ev †KvW f½ K‡i kvw¯—i †hvM¨ n‡q‡Q|
mvivRxeb G AvPiY wewa †g‡b Avj−vni wbav©wiZ mxgvi g‡a¨ Ae¯’vb K‡i
ciKvjxb cv‡_q AR©‡bi Rb¨ Avgv‡`i BnRxeb‡K mwVKfv‡e MVb Kivi ¸i“Z¡
Acwimxg| Avmyb AvZ¥MV‡bi cÖwµqvq Avgiv wb‡R‡`i Rxe‡bi mKj †‡Î
Avj−vni ûKzg¸wj †g‡b Pj‡Z †Póv Kwi, dih, IqvwRe, mybœZ BZ¨vw`
K¨vUvMixi KvR¸wj †g‡b wb‡R‡`i †gav I Pwi·K ˆZix Kwi|
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Multiple Identities
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ eo P¨v‡jÄ
Avgiv hviv wewfbœ †`k †_‡K GB b_©-Av‡gwiKvq BwgMÖ¨v›U n‡q ¯^cwiev‡i
G‡mwQ Zv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ GB †`‡k Multiple Identity wb‡q †e‡o DVv GK
eo ai‡Yi P¨v‡jÄ| †hgb -
fvlvMZ t
• Zvi gvZ…fvlv GK wKš‘ †m eo n‡”Q wfbœ fvlvi cwi‡e‡k|
• evmvq evev-gvi mv‡_ K_v ej‡Q evsjvq wKš‘ ¯‹z‡j Bswjk Zvi
cvkvcvwk Avevi 2q fvlv wn‡m‡e ¯‹z‡j wkL‡Z n‡”Q French or
Spanish|
• Avevi A‡b‡K KziAv‡bi fvlv wn‡m‡e wk‡L _v‡K Aviex|
RvwZMZ t
• †Kvb ev”Pvi Rb¥ evsjv‡`‡k ev Ab¨‡`‡k Avevi †Kvb ev”Pvi Rb¥
Av‡gwiKv ev K¨vbvWvq|
• GB b¨vkbvwjwU wb‡q A‡b‡K Amw¯’wZ‡Z †fv‡M|
• eû b¨vkbvwjwUi Kvi‡Y †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i g‡a¨ A‡bK mgq
discrimination-I †`Lv †`q| †hgb- †m K¨vbvwWqvb bv evsjv‡`kx
†m Av‡gwiKvb bv evsjv‡`kx BZ¨vw`|
eY©MZ t
• †KD mv`v, †KD Kv‡jv, †KD bvK †evPv Avevi †KD bvK DPz, †KD j¤^v
ev †KD LvU, Kv‡iv Pzj mv`v ev Kv‡iv Pzj Kv‡jv BZ¨vw`|
ag©MZ t
• †KD gymwjg, †KD wn›`y, †KD Lªxwóqvb, †KD Bû`x, †KD †eŠa¨, †KD
†Kvb a‡g©iB bq BZ¨vw`|
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G hy‡Mi
†Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i aviYv
1. GLbKvi †Q‡j‡g‡qiv evev-gvi †P‡q eÜz-evÜe‡`i wm×vš—‡K †ekx ¸i“Z¡
w`‡q _v‡K|
2. GLb Zviv B›Uvi‡bU‡KB mKj wiwµ‡qk‡bi Avavi g‡b K‡i|
3. ewjDW-nwjDW‡K mKj we‡bv`‡bi †nW‡KvqvU©vim g‡b K‡i|
4. wUwf P¨v‡bj¸‡jv‡K GKgvÎ mȳ ’ ¯^vfvweK wkvi Drm g‡b K‡i|
5. Av‡gwiKvb AvBWj Avi K¨vbvwWqvb AvBWj‡K mePvB‡Z ¸i“Z¡c~Y© I
Aek¨B `k©bxq Abyôvb g‡b K‡i|
6. BD‡ivc Av‡gwiKv‡K mf¨Zv Avi gvbevwaKv‡ii me©‡kl I P~ovš— Zx_©¯’vb
g‡b K‡i|
7. Zviv evev-gvi wei“‡× cywjk †W‡K mgm¨vi mgvavb Kivi †Póv K‡i|
8. Zviv d¨vkb †kv‡Z AskMÖnY Ges g‡Wj nIqv‡K Lye M‡e©i KvR g‡b K‡i|
9. Zviv Bmjvg‡K †UiwiRg fv‡e, Ges Bmjvg cvjb Kiv‡K e¨vK‡WB‡UW ev
Ackbvj e‡j g‡b K‡i|
10. Zviv e¨Û wgDwRK Ges Kv‡jv‡`i n¨vwf‡gUvj wgDwRK‡K Bev`Z g‡b
K‡i|
11. Zviv wewfbœ ÷vi‡K d‡jv K‡i Ges Zv‡`i‡K ¸i“ g‡b K‡i|
12. Zviv Dëv-cvëv KvR Kvievi‡K AvaywbKZv g‡b K‡i|
13. Zviv k‡e K`i-Gi ivwÎi PvB‡ZI 31 st December night-†K †ekx ¸i“Z¡
w`‡q _v‡K|
14. Zviv igv`vb gv‡mi PvB‡Z Christmas Gi mgq December gvm‡K †ekx
¸i“Z¡ w`‡q _v‡K|
15. Zviv Happy New Year, Halloween Ges Valentines Day cvjb Kiv
Ri“ix g‡b K‡i|
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Avgv‡K GKw`b
Pig gvïj w`‡Z n‡e
b_©-Av‡gwiKv ev BD‡iv‡c emevmKvix wcZvgvZviv mš—vb‡`i Bmjvwg wkvq
wkwZ Ki‡Z e¨_© n‡j Gi R‡b¨ GKw`b Pig gvïj w`‡Z n‡e| mš—vbiv Øxwb
wkvi Afv‡e wb‡R‡`i gw¯—‡®‹ wcZvgvZvi e¨vcv‡i Ggb `„wóf½x MÖnY K‡i hvi
Rb¨ †mme wcZvgvZv‡KB †`vl w`‡Z nq| KviY mKj gvbylB Rxe‡bi mKj
¸i“Z¡c~Y© wel‡q †Kvb bv †Kvb wbqg AbymiY K‡i| wcZvgvZv hw` Rxe‡bi
†Kvb ¸i“Z¡c~Y© wel‡q wkv bv w`‡q _v‡Kb Zvn‡j mš—v‡biv †m wel‡q †hLv‡b
hv cvq Zv‡KB †kªô bxwZgvjv wn‡m‡e MÖnY K‡i †bq|
GB †`kxI mš—vb‡`i wKQz fvj w`K
Avjnvg`ywjj−vn Avgv‡`i GB †`kxI mš—vb‡`i g‡a¨ wKQz fvj PvwiwÎK ¸YI
i‡q‡Q hv wcZv-gvZv‡`i g‡a¨ A_ev evsjv‡`kx‡`i g‡a¨ mvaviYZ Kg †`Lv
hvq| †hgb -
• Zviv Kv‡iv MxeZ, ciwb›`v, ciPP©v K‡i bv|
• Kv‡iv wcQ‡b †Mv‡q›`vMxwi K‡i bv|
• mvaviYZ AnsKvi ev Me© K‡i bv|
• mvgvwRK ÷¨vUvm wb‡q cÖwZ‡hvwMZvq †g‡Z D‡V bv|
• kvwo Mnbv wb‡q cÖwZ‡hvwMZv ev G‡K Ac‡i wnsmv K‡i bv|
• A‡b¨i fvj †`L‡j wnsmv K‡i bv ev A‡b¨i DbœwZ †`L‡j Zv‡`i Mv-
Rvjv‡cvov K‡i bv|
• A‡b¨i DbœwZ †VKv‡bvi Rb¨ wcQb w`K †_‡K †U‡b a‡i bv|
• Zviv Kv‡R duvwK †`qv wk‡L bv|
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P¨vcUvi 2
Avgv‡`i PvIqv
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Avgiv mevB PvB mš—vbiv fvj †nvK,
fvj c‡_ PjyK
Av‡gwiKv-K¨vbvWvi cÖwZwU evev-gvB Pvb Zv‡`i mš—vbiv fvj †nvK, mwVK c‡_
_vKzK, Zviv BmjvwgK gbgvbwlKZvi †nvK| wKš‘ Avgv‡`i GB PvIqvUv ïay
ÒIqvb I‡qÓ, A_v©r Avgiv wcZv-gvZviv mevB PvB mš—vb fvj †nvK wKš‘ Avgiv
wb‡R‡`i fvj nIqvi e¨vcv‡i †Zgb m‡PZb Ges m‡Pó bB| Avgiv wb‡Riv
†hfv‡e B‡”Q Pj‡ev, †hLv‡b B‡”Q hv‡ev wKš‘ mš—vb‡`i †ejvq PvB webv
†Póv‡ZB Zviv mwVK c‡_ PjyK hv KL‡bv m¤¢e bq|
gvwU hLb big _v‡K ZLb Zv w`‡q †hgb B‡”Q †Zgb cvÎ ˆZix Kiv hvq| wKš‘
gvwU k³ n‡q †M‡j ZLb Zv w`‡q †hgb B‡”Q †Zgb cvÎ ˆZix Kiv LyeB
KwVb| cvÎ hw`I ˆZix Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i †mRb¨ h‡_ó c`‡c MÖnY Ki‡Z nq|
ZvB Avgv‡`i mš—vb hLb Kg eq‡mi _v‡K ZLb †_‡KB Dchy³ c`‡c †bqv
cÖ‡qvRb| Ab¨_vq eo n‡q †M‡j GB cwi‡e‡k mwVK c‡_ wb‡q Avmv LyeB
KwVb| hv‡`i mš—vb eo n‡q †M‡Q ZvB e‡j nvj †Q‡o w`‡j Pj‡e bv| †Póv
Pvwj‡q †h‡Z n‡e|
D`vniY 1 t Ui‡›Uvi GKwU ev¯—e NUbv| GKwU BmjvwgK †cÖvMv‡g gv Zvi 9
†MÖ‡W co–qv †g‡q‡K wb‡q G‡m‡Qb wKQ~ BmjvwgK K_v ïbv‡bvi R‡b¨| †cÖvMÖvg
Pj‡Q wKš‘ GK gyû‡Z© G‡m H †g‡qi Avi Gme KziAvb-nv`x‡mi K_v fvj
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jvM‡Q bv| †m †Kvbfv‡eB e‡m _vK‡Z cvi‡Q bv| †kl ch©š— mn¨ Ki‡Z bv
†c‡i `yB nvZ w`‡q wb‡Ri `yB Kvb †P‡c a‡i e‡m Av‡Q †hb Bmjv‡gi K_v
ïb‡Z bv nq| GLv‡b †g‡qi †Kvb †`vl †bB, KviY †m †QvU †ejv †_‡K GB
ai‡Yi †Kvb K_v nq‡Zv ï‡bwb| ZvB Zvi Kv‡Q KziAv‡bi K_v¸‡jv fvj
jvM‡Q bv, Amn¨ g‡b n‡”Q|
D`vniY 2 t GwUI U‡iv›Ui GKwU NUbv| GKwU cwievi Zvi mš—vb‡`i
Bmjv‡gi K_v ïbv‡bvi Rb¨ Zvi wb‡Ri evmvqB GKw`b BmjvwgK †cÖvMÖv‡gi
Av‡qvRb K‡i‡Qb| wbPZjvq †cÖvMÖvg Pj‡Q wKš‘ evwoIqvjvi nvB¯‹z‡j ev
K‡j‡R co–qv †Q‡jwU †cÖvMªv‡g bv e‡m Dc‡ii Zjvq wb‡Ri i“‡g e‡m Av‡Q|
evev ev‡i ev‡i Zv‡K WvK‡Q wKš‘ Avm‡Q bv| GK mgq evev †Q‡ji GK eÜz‡K
w`‡q Lei cvwV‡q‡Qb †Q‡j‡K Avb‡Z| †Q‡jwU Gevi wb‡P G‡m mK‡ji mvg‡b
evev‡K GKwU agK w`‡q e‡j †Mj Òev‡i ev‡i WvK‡Qv †KbÓ Zvici †m
†cÖvMÖv‡g bv e‡m Avevi Zvi i“‡g P‡j †Mj, evev wKQyB ej‡Z cvi‡jb bv| GB
NUbvqI mš—v‡bi †Kvb †`vl †bB, nq‡Zv †m †QvU‡ejv †_‡K BmjvwgK MvBW
cvqwb| GLb Zv‡K †Rvi K‡i GKw`b BmjvwgK †cÖvMÖv‡g ewm‡q Gw›UevqwUK
w`‡q jvB‡b Avbv hv‡e bv| welqUv GKw`‡bi bv|
ZvB mKj wcZv-gvZv‡`i cÖwZ Aby‡iva, Avgiv Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i hw` fvj PvB
Zvn‡j Zv‡`i cvkvcvwk Avgv‡`i wb‡R‡`i‡KI fvj nIqvi `„óvš— ¯’vcb Ki‡Z
n‡e| Zv‡`i‡K MvBW Kivi cvkvcvwk wb‡R‡`i‡KI BmjvwgK MvBW Abyhvqx
Pj‡Z n‡e| Zv‡`i‡K Bmjvwg wkv †`qvi cvkvcvwk wb‡RivI wbqwgZ
cov‡kvbv K‡i Bmjvwg wkvq wkwZ n‡Z n‡e| KviY Avgiv wb‡Riv hw`
mwVK cš’vq bv Pwj, KziAv‡bi †`wL‡q †`qv c×wZ‡Z Rxeb-hvcb bv Kwi
Zvn‡j ïay mš—vb‡`i fvj PvIqvq m‡š—vlRbK dj cvIqv hv‡e bv|
†ekxifvM evev-gvi fyj aviYv
hw` g‡b Kwi †h fvj ¯‹z‡j ev wek¦-we`¨vj‡q fwZ© K‡i w`‡jB Avwg wPš—v-gy³,
GLb †Kej mš—v‡bi fvj, wiRvëm& Avi fvj PvKzixi A‡cv, Avi Gfv‡eB
Avgvi mš—vb GKRb eo Kg©KZ©v n‡eb| Gfv‡e Iqvb I‡q wPš—v Ki‡j Avgvi
mš—vb GKRb eo Kg©KZ©v nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb Agvbyl nIqvi m¤¢vebvB
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†ekx| KviY GLv‡b ¯‹zj K‡j‡R ev wek¦we`¨vj‡q wkvi Ggb †Kvb e¨e¯’v †bB
†hLv‡b bxwZ ˆbwZKZv †kLv‡bv nq hv Bmjv‡gi ms‡M mvgÄm¨c~Y©|
wcZvgvZv‡`i g‡a¨ †Kvb †Kvb mgq GKwU fyj wn‡me KvR K‡i| Zviv g‡b
K‡ib Avgvi mš—vb memgq Avgvi K_v ïb‡e| GUv memgq wVK bq| Avgvi
mš—vb GK ¯^vaxb mËv| Zvi wbR¯^ Awfi“wP, a¨vb-aviYv, Kíbv kw³, †evakw³,
cQ›`-AcQ‡›`i ¯^Zš¿ ZvwjKv i‡q‡Q| Avwg PvB‡ev Avi †m Zv †g‡b †b‡e GUv
me‡‡Î Avkv Kiv wVK bq| myZivs Zvi Rb¨ wcZv-gvZv‡`i D`vniY m„wó
Ki‡Z n‡e| Zv‡K †Kej fvj nIqvi Theory wkv †`qv hv‡e bv| mv‡_
Practical I Kiv‡Z n‡e| wb‡R GKwU fvj KvR K‡i Zv‡K Zv Dcjwä Kivi
my‡hvM w`‡Z n‡e|
†hgb t Avgvi Mixe AvZ¥x‡qi †LuvR Lei †hb †bB| mvg_©vbyhvqx Zv‡`i
A_©‰bwZK cÖ‡qvRb c~iY Kwi| mš—vb‡KI Gi ¸i“Z¡ eywS‡q ewj| wb‡R N‡i
XyKvi mgq mvjvg w`‡q cÖ‡ek Kwi| mš—vb‡K cÖwZw`b mvjvg †`B| Avgv‡`i
mgv‡R Av‡iKwU D‡j−L‡hvM¨ fyj cÖZ¨vkv n‡jv †QvU‡`i KvQ †_‡K mvjvg Avkv
Kiv| GUv GK RNb¨ weK…wZ I m‡Z¨i †Ljvd| Avm‡j mvjv‡gi gva¨‡g Avwg
`yÕAv Kwi| Avwg †Zv PvB mš—v‡bi Kj¨vY| myZivs mš—vb‡K †`Lv gvÎB †hb
mvjvg †`B| Zvn‡j †m Lye mn‡R wk‡L †b‡e| ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg †ekx †ekx mvjv‡gi cÖPj‡bi †Rvi ZvwM` w`‡q‡Qb| G‡Z K‡i
mvgvwRK I cvwievwiK eÜb `„p nq| m¤§vb e„w× cvq|
Øxb m¤ú‡K© mwVKfv‡e Rvbv
Cgv‡bi Ab¨Zg `vex n‡jv Øx‡bi ÁvbvR©b Kiv| Avgvi hw` Øxb m¤ú‡K©
b~b¨Zg ÁvbB bv _v‡K Zvn‡j wKfv‡e wbR cwievi‡K Øx‡bi Av‡jv‡K MvBW
Ki‡ev wKfv‡e mš—vb‡`i Aš—‡i mvgvb¨ n‡jI Øx‡bi Av‡jv XyKv‡ev hyM
cwieZ©b n‡q †M‡Q| Avgvi fvmvfvmv Avi Av‡evj Zv‡evj Øxwb Ávb w`‡q
DVwZ eq‡mi mš—vb‡`i Avi eyS w`‡Z cvi‡ev bv| Zviv GLb jwRK Pvq, Zviv
Øx‡bi Bb‡U‡jKPzqvj e¨vL¨v Pvq, Zviv mv‡qÝ w`‡q Øxb‡K eyS‡Z Pvq| †MvUv
KyiAv‡b mKj †gŠwjK mgm¨vi mgvavb Av‡Q| mvgvwRK, ivwóªq I Avš—R©vwZK
RwUj wel‡q mswk−ó weÁvbxMY mvivRxeb †Póv K‡i GKwU mgm¨vi †h mgvavb
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w`‡q‡Qb, Avj-KyiAv‡b gvÎ GK `yB k‡ã ev GK jvB‡b †m mgm¨vi wbf©yj
mgvavb w`‡q w`‡q‡Qb gnvb Avj−vn Zvqvjv|
Avgv‡`i‡K ïay Kó K‡i wKQz Zvdmxi, mnxn nv`xm MÖš’, nvivg-nvjv‡ji weavb
m¤^wjZ eB, wKQz Bmjvwg mvwnZ¨, ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi
Rxebx, mvnvex‡`i Rxebx BZ¨vw` †RvMvo K‡i Aa¨vqb K‡i wb‡Z n‡e| wb‡R
covi mgq bv _vK‡jI Aš—Z msMÖn K‡i N‡i eyK‡kj‡d ivLv DwPZ| Zvn‡j
cieZ©x †Rbv‡ikb‡K Øx‡bi wPi-AvaywbK wPÎwU Zz‡j aiv m¤¢e n‡e| Zv bv n‡j
Avgv‡`i GB Pig mxgve×Zv I †Kej evc`v`vi img †iIqvR gvK©v Ávb w`‡q
Avgiv Avgv‡`i cieZ©x eskai‡`i Øxb n‡Z `~‡i †V‡j †`‡ev KviY Dchy³
Bmjvwg wkvi Afv‡e GLb Zviv B›Uvi‡bU‡KB mKj Ávb Ges mKj
wiwµ‡qk‡bi Auvavi g‡b K‡i, ewjDW Avi nwjDW‡K mKj we‡bv`‡bi †kªô
†nW †KvqvU©vim g‡b K‡i| wUwf P¨v‡bj¸‡jv‡K GKgvÎ mȳ ’ ¯^vfvweK wkvi
Drm g‡b K‡i| K¨vbvwWqvb AvBWj Avi Av‡gwiKvb AvBWj‡K mePvB‡Z
¸i“Z¡c~Y© I Aek¨B `k©bxq Abyôvb g‡b K‡i| BD‡ivc Av‡gwiKv‡K mf¨Zv
Avi gvbevwaKv‡ii me©‡kl I P~ovš— Zx_©¯’vb e‡j g‡b K‡i| Avmyb Áv‡bi
mePvB‡Z weï× gva¨g KyiAvb I mnxn nv`xm n‡Z hveZxq mewKQz Rvbvi I
eySvi †Póv Kwi|
Avmyb ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi mybœvn n‡Z KziAv‡bi e¨vL¨v I
ev¯—e cÖ‡qvM/e¨envi †R‡b wbB| KyiAv‡bi Zvdmxi cwo, ivm~j mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi Rxebx cwo, mvnvex‡`i Rxebx cwo, eZ©gvb we‡k¦i
me©RbMÖvn¨ BmjvwgK we‡klÁ‡`i mvwnZ¨ cwo, Ges Gfv‡e Rxe‡bi b~Zb A_©
Luy‡R cv‡ev| Rxeb‡K b~Zbfv‡e Dc‡fvM Ki‡Z cvi‡ev| ZLb Dcjwä n‡e †h
Rxeb gv‡b †Kej mKv‡j Nyg‡Pv‡L Awd‡m †`uŠov‡bv bq| Rxeb gv‡b †Kej
msmv‡ii Nvwb Uvbv bq| Rxeb gv‡b ïay A_© KvgvB KivB bq| Gi evB‡i
Rxe‡bi wekvj †Î i‡q †M‡Q| †m¸wj Av‡iv Avb›``vqK, Av‡iv P¨v‡jwÄs,
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ewÂZ Kivi Rb¨ wb‡R‡K wb‡R fr©mbv Ki‡ev| †Kej 33 gvK©m †c‡q cvk
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cwiev‡ii mKj m`m¨| ¯¿x, mš—vb I Ab¨ †KD hw` †_‡K _v‡K| mKj‡K wb‡q
my›`i Avb›`Nb cwi‡e‡k bv¯—v ïi“ Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i| cvwievwiK welq Av‡jvPbv
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Kivi c~e©kZ© n‡”Q Òevwo †_‡K wWk G‡›Ubvi jvBb Av‡M KvU‡Z n‡eÓ| mš—
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vwiZ Rxebx, mvnvex‡`i Rxebx, Ab¨vb¨ bex‡`i Rxebx, Comparative
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Ki‡Z cvwi| wb‡R †hb cwo I mš—vb‡`i covi Drmvn cÖ`vb Kwi|
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cvi n‡q Zvi `„wó Abš— RMZ ch©š— cÖmvwiZ nq bv| wb‡Ri mš—vb nIqvi
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Zvi wPš—vi aiY G nq †h, †m hw` mš—vb‡K Bmjvwg a¨vb-aviYvq M‡o †Zv‡jb
Ges Bmjvwg wb‡`©k gyZv‡eK jvjb-cvjb K‡ib Zvn‡j Zvi GB Rxeb Ges
ciKvjxb Rxeb `yB-B my›`i n‡e| Avj−vn Zvi Dci Lykx n‡eb Ges Zv‡K GB
c„w_ex‡Z kvwš— †`‡eb Ges ciKv‡j RvbœvZ `vb I cyi¯‹v‡ii evwi el©Y Ki‡eb|
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wZMÖ¯— nq, GKRb gv †kvwlZ nb (hw`I wZwb Zv g‡b K‡ib bv)| cwiYwZ‡Z
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Deputy Chief Dr. Daniel e‡jb, wkï‡`i †`Lv ïbvi Rb¨ cÖ_g 6 eQi
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f~wgKv cvjb K‡i ¯¿x I cwievi‡K mnvqZv Ki‡Qb| †KD †KD Avevi hyw³
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evev evmvq †bB|Õ G‡Z mš—vb AevK n‡q wPš—v K‡i GUv †Kgb K_v! evev
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wei³ n‡q gš—e¨ KiwQ †h Ôe¨vUv †dvb Kivi Avi mgq †cj bv!Õ GLv‡bI mš—vb
AevK n‡q evev‡K †`‡L †h evev f`ª‡jvK‡K †dv‡b ejj Ôbv wei³ nqwbÕ wKš‘
GLb ej‡Q cy‡iv wecixZ! GLv‡bI †m Rxe‡bi AsK wgjv‡Z cv‡ibv|
Anger Management
mš—vb cvj‡bi †‡Î ivM ev †µva‡K Ae`wgZ K‡i mnbkxjZv I †KvgjZv
Aej¤^b Ki‡Z cviv wcZv-gvZv‡`i GKwU we‡kl ¸Y| †µva Av‡m kqZv‡bi
c n‡Z| kqZvb gvby‡li Pig kΓ| †m Kvi‡Y KL‡bv †KD †µva ev iv‡Mi
ekxf~Z n‡j Avj−vni wbKU Avkªq cÖv_©bv Ki‡Z nq| †Kbbv †µva gvby‡li
wnZvwnZ Ávb‡K wZ‡ivwnZ K‡i †`q| d‡j †µva gvbyl‡K †h‡Kvb eo ai‡Yi
`yN©Ubvq †d‡j w`‡Z cv‡i| ZvB‡Zv Avj KziAvbyj Kvixg I nv`x‡m AZ¨š—
¸i“‡Z¡i mv‡_ †µv‡ai AcKvwiZv ewY©Z n‡q‡Q Ges mnbkxjZv, ˆah© I
†KvgjZvi bxwZ Aej¤^b Ki‡Z wb‡`©k †`qv n‡q‡Q| Avj KziAvbyj Kvix‡g
Avj−vn myenvby Iqv Zvqvjv Bikv` K‡ib t
ÒZuv‡`i (gywgb‡`i) ˆewkó¨ n‡jv Zuviv †µva‡K nRg K‡i Ges †jvK‡`i mv‡_
gvi bxwZ Aej¤^b K‡i P‡j|Ó (m~iv Av‡j Bgivb t 134)
A‡bK mgq Avgiv wcZv-gvZviv wbR mš—vb‡`i wKQz Kvh©Kjvc †`‡L LyeB
Aw¯’i n‡q hvB Ges wb‡R‡`i ivM‡K K‡›Uªvj Ki‡Z cvwibv| weMZ K‡qK eQ‡i
Avgiv Ui‡›Uv‡Z GiK‡gi K‡qKwU `yN©Ubv †`‡LwQ| wcZv iv‡Mi emeZ©x n‡q
wbR mš—vb‡K AvNvZ Ki‡Z wM‡q †g‡iB †d‡j‡Qb| Avevi wbR †g‡q‡K kvmb
Ki‡Z wM‡q wb‡R‡KB †k‡l †R‡j †h‡Z n‡q‡Q| hv‡nvK memgq GKUv K_v
GB †`‡k g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e †h mš—vb‡`i‡K kvmb Ki‡Z n‡e GB †`‡ki
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AvB‡bi K_v †Lqvj †i‡L| wKQz‡ZB physical panishment †`qv hv‡e bv|
Zvn‡j wKš‘ Avgiv child abuse-Gi AvIZvq c‡i hv‡ev| wb‡gœ ivM `g‡bi
wKQz wUc&m †`qv n‡jv t
• Physical movement †hgb- `uvov‡bv _vK‡j e‡m cov, e‡m _vK‡j
ï‡q hvIqv|
• Physical relaxation †hgb - †PvL eÜ Kiv, `xN© wbk¦vm †bqv|
• Mental distraction †hgb - D‡ëv w`K †_‡K Mbbv Kiv|
• Verbal engagement †hgb - wb‡R wb‡R cwRwUf K_v ejv, wb‡Ri
Kv‡Q wb‡R Avwcj Kiv|
• Cooling technique †hgb - Ah~ Kiv A_ev †Mvmj K‡i †bqv Avi
eyS‡Z n‡e GLv‡b kqZvb Dcw¯’Z|
• Meditation †hgb - bdj bvgvh cov, GgZve¯’vq Avj−vni Kv‡Q
mvnvh¨ PvIqv| wbðqB Avj−vn mvnvh¨Kvix, Avgv‡`i cÖwZcvjK I
me©wbqš—v gvwjK|
cwiev‡ii mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡bv
Avwg †h †ckvqB wb‡qvwRZ _vwKbv †Kb me©`v my‡hvM LuyR‡Z n‡e ¯¿x I mš—
vb‡`i mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡bvi| Ggb A‡bK †KZv`yi¯— †jv‡Ki mÜvb cvIqv hvq
hviv mvivw`b eÜz‡`i mv‡_ AvÇv †g‡i hLb iv‡Z evmvq †d‡ib ZLb Zvi mš—
vb‡`i Mv‡q nvZ eyjv‡bvi Avi †Kvb kw³ ev AvMÖn _v‡Kbv|
†QvU mš—vb‡`i nvZ a‡i iv¯—vq, cv‡K©, kwcs g‡j †eov‡Z hvIqv DwPZ| g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e Avi wKQzw`b ci Avwg PvB‡ev wKš‘ mš—vbiv Avi Avgvi nvZ a‡i
nuvU‡Z PvB‡e bv| †g‡q wKQz eo n‡j †Zv †mB Avgvi KvQ n‡Z `~‡i m‡i
_vK‡e| myZivs GLbB mgq| †ekx †ekx K‡i Zv‡`i mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡bv
DwPZ| mßvnv‡š— Zv‡`i Museum, Zoo, Science centre etc. -†Z wb‡q
hvIqv DwPZ| †hLv‡bB hvB mevB †hb bvgvh Av`v‡qi e¨vcviwU fy‡j bv hvB|
Zv bv n‡j mš—vbiv g‡b Ki‡e bvgvh †Kej N‡ii †fZ‡ii welq|
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Avj−vn, ivm~j (mv.) I Bmjvg‡K Avgiv
me‡P‡q †ekx fvjevmv
Bmjvg †hgwbfv‡e Avj−vn I ivm~‡ji cÖwZ Cgvb Avbqb Kiv, bvgvh, †ivhv,
n¾, hvKvZ cÖf„wZ Av`vq Kiv Ges wek¦¯—Zv, Avj−vnfxwZ, m`vPvi I my›`i
PvjPjb Aej¤^‡bi wb‡`©k †`q, †Zgwbfv‡e Bmjv‡gi Av‡iKwU we‡kl wkv
nj Avgiv †hb Avj−vn, ivm~j I Øxb‡K `ywbqvi mKj wRwbm Z_v wb‡R‡`i
wcZv, fvB-†evb, ¯^vgx-¯¿x cwievi-cwiRb, mš—vb-mš—wZ, ab-m¤ú` I B¾Z
m¤§vb GgbwK wb‡Ri cÖv‡Yi †P‡qI AwaK fvjevwm|
AZGe hw` KL‡bv Ggb †Kvb bvhyK cwiw¯’wZi D¢e N‡U †h, Øx‡bi Dci wU‡K
_vKv Ges Avj−vn I Zuvi ivm~‡ji wb‡`©k †gvZv‡eK Pjvi †‡Î Avgv‡`i abm¤ú`,
B¾Z-m¤§vb I Rxe‡bi Dci SuywK MÖnY Ki‡Z nq, ZLbI Avgv‡`i
Rb¨ DwPZ, Avj−vn, ivm~j I Øx‡bi c cwiZ¨vM bv Kiv| Zv‡Z Avgv‡`i Rvbgvj,
B¾Z-m¤§vb webó n‡jI Avgiv †hb Zv bxi‡e †g‡b †bB|
Avj KziAv‡bi GKvwaK RvqMvq ejv n‡q‡Q, hviv gy‡L Bmjv‡gi `vex K‡i
A_P Avj−vn, ivm~j I Øx‡bi cÖwZ Zv‡`i ü`‡q †mB cwigv‡Y fvjevmv †bB,
Zviv cÖK„Z gywgb bq| eis Zviv Avj−vni c †_‡K KwVb kvw¯—i Dchy³|
Avj−vn cvK Bikv` K‡ib t
Ò†n ivm~j! †jvK‡`i‡K e‡j w`b, †Zvgv‡`i wbKU hw` †Zvgv‡`i wcZv,
†Zvgv‡`i mš—vb-mš—wZ, †Zvgv‡`i fvB-†eiv`i, †Zvgv‡`i cZœx, †Zvgv‡`i
†MvÎ, †Zvgv‡`i DcvwR©Z ab-m¤ú`, e¨emv-evwYR¨ hvi g›`vfve‡K †Zvgiv fq
K‡i _vK Ges †Zvgv‡`i evm¯’vb hv †Zvgiv LyeB fv‡jvevm G¸‡jv hw`
†Zvgv‡`i Kv‡Q Avj−vn, Zuvi ivm~j I Zuvi c‡_ GKvš— †Póv-mvabv (wRnv`) Kiv
A‡cv AwaKZi wcÖq wRwbm n‡q _v‡K, Zvn‡j Avj−vni dqmvjvi A‡cv
Ki‡Z _vK| g‡b †iL, Avj−vn mZ¨Z¨vMx bvdigvb m¤cÖ`vq‡K mrc_ cÖ`k©b
K‡ib bv|Ó (m~iv ZvIev t 24)
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P¨vcUvi 3
Avgvi mš—v‡bi AwaKvi
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Bmjv‡gi `„wó‡Z
Avgvi mš—v‡bi AwaKvi
mš—vb Avj−vni c †_‡K DËg wbqvgZ| bvix‡`i‡K gv‡qi gh©v`vi Avm‡b
Avmxb Avi cyi“l‡`i wcZv wn‡m‡e kª×vi mv‡_ mgv‡R cwiwPZ nIqvi G GK
Ab¨Zg gva¨g| G mš—vb cyÎ wK Kb¨v Zv wePvh© bq, G‡Z gv-evevi Kv‡ivi
†Kvb nvZ †bB| GwU m¤ú~Y©fv‡e Avj−vn myenvbvû Iqv ZvÔAvjvi dvqmvjvq n‡q
_v‡K| Z‡e gv-evev hw` †bKKvi ZvKIqvevb, n‡Ki e¨vcv‡i AZ¨š— kw³kvjx
I gReyZ Cgv‡bi AwaKvix nb Zvn‡j Avj−vn myenvbvû Iqv ZvÔAvjvi c
†_‡K †bKKvi I eiKZgq mš—vb jvf Ki‡eb| hviv n‡e Av`k©evb,
mrPwiÎevb †bKKvi I ZvKIqvevb|
mš—v‡bi Rb¥ c~e©eZ©x `vwqZ¡
• evev/gv Df‡q nvjvj DcvR©b Kiv|
• gv-evev Df‡q nvjvj Lvevi LvIqv|
• `yÕR‡bB Lye †ewk-†ewk †bK Avgj Kiv|
• cÖwZw`b Avj-KziAvb A_©mn wZjvIqvZ Ki‡Z †Póv Kiv|
• wbqwgZ wmwW‡Z KziAv‡b †ZjvIqv‡Zi ïbv|
• DËg I fvj fv‡jv Kv‡Ri wbq¨vZ Kiv|
• MxeZ ev ciwb›`v, Kzrmv iUbv, AnsKvi I `vw¤¢KZvc~Y© Amy›`i ev g›` K_v
ejv I KvR †_‡K weiZ _vKv|
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• wUwf‡Z Awk−j bvP-Mvb-wm‡bgv bv †`Lv|
• gwnjv Wv³vi Øviv ixwZgZ †PKAvc Kiv‡bvi †Póv Kiv|
mš—v‡bi Rb¥ cieZ©x `vwqZ¡
1. fvj bvg ivLv
2. mš—v‡bi gh©v`v
3. jvjb-cvjb
4. my›`i AvPiY
5. †mœn I fvjevmv
6. wkv I cÖwkY
7. weevn
mš—v‡bi Rb¥ cieZ©x `vwqZ¡
mš—vb R‡b¥i ci cÖ_g w`‡bi `vwqZ¡ : mš—vb f~wgô nIqvi mv‡_-mv‡_ Ab¨
†Kvb K_v ev kã wkïi Kv‡b cÖ‡ek Kivi c~‡e©B Zvi Kv‡b Avj−vni bvg cÖ‡ek
Kiv‡bv DËg| Zvici hv KiYxq Zv n‡jv :
01. †Mvmj †`qv : cÖm~Z wkï‡K AvcbRb ev bvm© wemwgj−vn co‡Z-co‡Z
nvjKv Mig cvwb Øviv †Mvmj w`‡q Mv, nvZ, cv gy‡Q Kuv_v ev †Zvqv‡j ev big
Kvco Øviv Ave„Z K‡i †Kv‡j †b‡e|
02. Avhvb ejv : beRvZK mš—vb †Q‡j †nvK Avi †g‡q †nvK Df‡qi
†‡ÎB f~wgô nIqvi ci Wvb Kv‡b Avhvb ejv mybœvZ|
ÒAvey iv‡d (iv.) e‡jb, dvwZgv (iv.) nvmvb Be‡b Avjx (iv.)-†K cÖme Ki‡j
Avwg ivm~jyjvn (mv.)-†K nvmv‡bi Kv‡b bvgv‡hi Avhv‡bi Abyiƒc Avhvb w`‡Z
†`‡LwQ|Ó (Rv‡g AvZ-wZiwghx)
03. ZvnbxK Kiv : mvgvb¨ †LRyi ev gay wKsev Ab¨ †Kvb wgwó `ªe¨ wPwe‡q
im †ei K‡i wkï‡K gy‡Li jvjvi mv‡_ wgwkªZ K‡i Zv Av½yj Øviv gy‡Li †fZi
wRnŸvi Zvjy‡Z jvwM‡q †`qv Ges †Kvb Avwjg‡K w`‡q `yÔAv cov‡bv mybœvZ|
04. `yacvb Kiv‡bv : mš—v‡bi Rb¨ gv‡qi c †_‡K cÖ_g Dcnvi n‡jv
gv‡qi `ya| GwU f~wgô nIqv mš—v‡bi Rb¨ cwic~Y© Lv`¨| G‡Z Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv
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wkïi hv cÖ‡qvRb Zvi mKj Dcv`vb w`‡q w`‡q‡Qb| AvRKvj wKQz wKQz
m¤§vwbZv gv‡qiv A‡bK †Luvov hyw³ Dc¯’vc‡bi gva¨‡g wkï‡K G `ya cvb Kiv
†_‡K ewÂZ K‡i _v‡Kb| A_©vr GLvb †_‡KB ïi“ nq gv‡qi Øviv mš—v‡bi
AwaKvi niY| A_P GKUz wPš—v Kiv DwPZÑ gv‡qi ¯—‡b G `ya †K w`j †Kb
w`j †Kb G mg‡q w`j †Kb gv‡qi ¯—‡b Ab¨ mg‡q `ya Av‡m bv BZ¨vw`|
myZivs welqwU cwi®‹vi, Ggb gv‡q‡`i AvPi‡Y jswNZ n‡”Q : 1) mš—v‡bi
AwaKvi| 2) gnvb mªóv Avj−vn ZvÔAvjvi Av‡`k| A_P cweÎ KziAv‡b Avj−vn
myenvbvû Iqv ZvÔAvjv †Nvlbv K‡ib :
Ò†h ¯—b¨ cvbKvj c~Y© Ki‡Z Pvq Zvi Rb¨ RbbxMY Zv‡`i mš—vb-‡`i‡K c~Y©
`yB eQi ¯—b¨ cvb Kiv‡e|Ó (m~iv Avj-evKviv : 233)
mš—vb R‡b¥i ci mßg w`‡bi `vwqZ¡
mßg w`‡b wcZv-gvZvi Kv‡Q beRvZK mš—v‡bi AwaKvi wZbwU h_v,
01. DËg bvg ivLv : mš—vb cyÎ ev Kb¨v hvB †nvK bv †Kb Zv‡`i DËg I
my›`i A_©‡evaK bvg _vKv evÃbxq| GwU wcZv-gvZvi Kv‡Q mš—v‡bi nK|
ivm~jyj−vn (mv.) e‡j‡Qb :
wKqvgv‡Zi w`b †Zvgv‡`i WvKv n‡e †Zvgv‡`i ¯^-¯^ bvg I wcZvi bvgmn|
AZGe †Zvgiv fvj bvg ivL‡e| (Avey `vD`)
02. gv_vi Pzj ev †Kk gyÊb : mßg w`‡b wkïi gv_vi Pzj Kvwg‡q (gyÊb)
†`qv wkïi AwaKvi| Avjx Be‡b Avey Zvwje (iv.) n‡Z ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb,
ivm~j (mv.) GKwU eKix w`‡q nvmv‡bi AvKxKv K‡ib Ges e‡jb t †n dvwZgv!
Zvi gv_v KvgvI Ges Zvi Pz‡ji IR‡bi mgcwigvY iƒcv `vb Ki| Z`vbyhvqx
Avwg Zvi Pzj IRb Kijvg Ges Zvi IRb GK w`invg ev Zvi KvQvKvwQ nj|
(Rv‡g AvZ-wZiwghx, G nv`xmwU nvmvb I Mixe| )
03. AvKxKv : beRvZK mš—vb †Q‡j n‡j `yÕwU Lvmx A_ev †fov Avi Kb¨v
n‡j GKwU Lvmx A_ev †fov Zvi bvgvbymv‡i h‡en Kiv DËg| AvKxKv cÖm‡½
ivm~j (mv.) e‡jb :
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cyÎ mš—v‡bi c †_‡K mgeqmx `yÕwU eKix Ges Kb¨v mš—v‡bi c †_‡K GKwU
eKix AvKxKv w`‡Z wb‡`©k w`‡q‡Qb| (Rv‡g AvZ-wZiwghx)
Avj−vn KziAv‡b wb‡`©k w`‡”Qb
• Ò†n Cgvb`viMY! †Zvgiv wb‡R‡`i‡K Ges cwiev‡ii †jvK‡`i‡K
Rvnvbœv‡gi Av¸b †_‡K euvPvI|Ó (m~iv AvZ Zvnixg t 6)
• ÒAvi †m me †jvK hviv Avj−vni Dci Cgvb G‡b‡Q AZtci Zv‡`i mš—
vbMYI Cgv‡bi mv‡_ Zv‡`i c_ AbymiY K‡i‡Q, Zv‡`i mv‡_ Zv‡`i
mš—vb‡`i‡K Avwg wgwjZ Kie| Avi Avwg Zv‡`i †Kvb AvgjB webó
Kie bv| cÖwZwU †jvK hv wKQz Avgj K‡i Zv Avgvi wbKU `vqe×
_v‡K|Ó (m~iv AvZ¡ Z~i t 21)
• ÒA_P Zviv GKRb Av‡iKRb‡K my&¯úófv‡e †`L‡Z cv‡e, (†mw`b)
Acivax e¨w³ Avhve †_‡K (wb‡R‡K) euvPv‡Z gyw³cY wnmv‡e Zvi mš—
vb‡`i w`‡Z PvB‡e| (w`‡Z PvB‡e) wb‡Ri ¯¿x Ges wb‡Ri fvB‡KI|
Ges wb‡Ri cwievify³ Ggb AvcbRb‡`iI, hviv Zv‡K (Rxebfi)
Avkªq w`‡qwQj|Ó (m~iv Avj gvqvwiR t 11-13)
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb
• Ò†Zvgiv †Zvgv‡`i cwievie‡M©i wbKU hvI| Zv‡`i g‡a¨ emevm Ki,
Zv‡`i (Øxwb) Ávb wkv `vI Ges †mB Abyhvqx Avgj Kivi R‡b¨
Zv‡`i Av‡`k `vI|Ó (mnxn& eyLvix)
• Ògvbyl hLb g‡i hvq ZLb Zvi mg¯— Avgj eÜ n‡q hvq, wKš‘ wZbwU
Avg‡ji †ewbwdU †m †KqvgZ ch©š— †c‡Z _v‡K| (1) m`Kv‡q Rvwiqv
(2) Ggb mr Ávb hv †m weZiY K‡i‡Q Ges (3) †bK mš—vb †h Zvi
Rb¨ `yÕAv Ki‡e|Ó (mnxn& gymwjg)
• Avãyj−vn Be‡b Dgi ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û †_‡K ewY©Z, bex Kixg mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t ÒAvj−vn ZvÕAvjv hLb Zvui †Kv‡bv
ev›`v‡K †jvK‡`i Dci KZ„©Z¡ `vb K‡ib, wKqvg‡Zi w`b wZwb Zvui
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†mB ev›`vi KvQ †_‡K Zvi Aaxb¯’ †jvK‡`i m¤ú‡K© Aek¨B wnmve
MÖnY Ki‡eb| Zv‡K wRÁvmvev` Ki‡eb †m Zvi Aaxb¯’ †jvK‡`i
Dci Avj−vn ZvÕAvjvi Øxb ev¯—evqb K‡i‡Q, bvwK Zv eiev` K‡i‡Q
GgbwK cÖ‡Z¨K‡K Zvi wbR¯^ cwievi cwiRb m¤ú‡K© we‡klfv‡e cÖkœ
Kiv n‡e|Ó (gymbv‡` Avng`)
• ÒwbðqB †Zvgvi Dci †Zvgvi cÖwZcvj‡Ki, †Zvgvi kix‡ii, †Zvgvi
mš—v‡bi nK i‡q‡Q, AZGe nK`vi‡K Zvi nK cà vb Ki|Ó (mnxn&
eyLvix)
• Avãyj−vn Be‡b AveŸvm ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û bex Kwig mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg †_‡K eY©bv K‡i‡Qb| wZwb e‡j‡Qb, Ò†Zvgiv wb‡R‡`i mš—
vb‡`i mv‡_ †Kvgj e¨envi K‡iv Ges Zv‡`i DËg †Uªwbs cÖ`vb
K‡iv|Ó (Be‡b gvRvn)
mš—vb‡`i cÖwZ KiYxq
mš—vbmš—wZ Avj−vni c n‡Z AvgvbZ| G Avgvb‡Zi †LqvbZ hviv Ki‡e
Zv‡`i Avj−vn †invB †`‡eb e‡j g‡b nq bv| mKj †LqvbZKvixi wei“‡×
K‡Vvi ûuwkqvix i‡q‡Q|
Lye †QvU Ae¯’v n‡Z mš—vb‡`i cÖwZ KZ©e¨ cvj‡b m‡Pó n‡Z n‡e| Zv‡`i
RvMwZK DbœwZi cvkvcvwk ˆbwZK I Ava¨vwZ¥K DbœwZi R‡b¨I Avwg
`vwqZ¡kxj| †Kej fvj ¯‹z‡j fwZ©i ¯^cœ †`L‡ev Avi fvj wiRvëm& Kivi Rb¨
G AvgvbZ Avgv‡K †`qv nqwb| Avgvi Dci Avgvi mš—v‡bi AwaKv‡ii g‡a¨
Zvi ˆbwZK I Ava¨vwZ¥K DbœwZi welqwUI mgfv‡e ¸i“Z¡c~Y©| cÖwZwU mš—v‡bi
fyj wkvi Rb¨ wcZvgvZvi `vq`vwqZ¡ Gov‡bvi Dcvq Av‡Q e‡j g‡b nq bv|
GKRb wcZv ev gvZv Zvi wkï‡K †h g~j¨‡ev‡a eo K‡ib wkï †mfv‡eB M‡o
D‡V| wkïi gvbwmKZv, cQ›`, AcQ›`, Z¨v‡Mi wkv, Ab¨‡`i cÖwZ ggZ¡‡eva,
mZZv, Avj−vn‡K †Pbv, ciKv‡ji aviYv BZ¨vw` mKj e¨vcv‡i wcZvgvZvi
KiYxq Aek¨¤¢vex| G †_‡K Zv‡`i gyw³ †bB| m¤ú~Y© Amnvq GKwU wkï‡K Gi
mªóv Ggb `yÕRb gvbe-gvbexi wbKU AvgvbZ wn‡m‡e cvVvb hviv mvg_©evb,
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hv‡`i mnvq-m¤^j †`qv n‡q‡Q, hv‡`i we‡eK-eyw× †`qv n‡q‡Q, hv‡`i fvjg‡›`i
Ávb Av‡Q| wkï f~wgó nevi ci Zvi mKj `vq`vwqZ¡ wcZvgvZvi Dci
eZ©vq| Gevi wPš—v Kwi Avgvi G wkï‡K Kx wkv †`qv DwPZ †Kvb fvev`‡k©
Avwg Zv‡K M‡o Zzj‡ev G wkïi Rxe‡bi j¨-D‡Ïk¨ wK n‡e Zvi PvwiwÎK
ˆewkó¨ wK n‡e †Kvb †gŠwjK Dcv`vb w`‡q Zvi wPš—v-†PZbv‡K M‡o Zzj‡ev
Avwg †h †`‡kB _vwK bv †Kb Bmjvwg g~j¨‡eva AvRKvj me©ÎB Abycw¯’Z|
mK‡j †Kej GKwU g~j¨‡ev‡a D¾xweZ, †mwU n‡jv K…wÎg Status-Gi
g~j¨‡eva| mD`x Avie ewj Avi mvbd«vwÝm‡Kv ewj †gŠwjK †eva AvR meLv‡bB
GK Ges GKvKvi n‡q †M‡Q| myZivs Avwg †Kvb †`‡k AvwQ Zv‡Z †Zgb †Kvb
wKQy hvq Av‡m bv| Z‡e LyuwUbvwU wel‡q nqZ gymwjg †`‡k _vK‡j wKQyUv myweav
cvIqv hvq| G Qvov †`k mg~‡ni g‡a¨ Avi †Zgb †Kvb cv_©K¨ †bB|
me©cÖ_g †R‡b †bqv DwPZ †h, Avgvi wkï GKwU ¯^Zš¿ mËv| eo n‡q †m Zvi
wb‡Ri wn‡me wb‡R †`‡e| g„Zz¨i ci †kl wePv‡ii w`b Avgv‡`i cvi¯úwiK
eÜb †Kvb BwZevPK Kv‡R Avm‡e bv eis †bwZevPK Kv‡R Avmvi m¤¢vebv
†ekx| A_©vr †h mš—vb‡K Avj−vni ûKzg we‡ivax KvR K‡g© wb‡qvwRZ K‡iwQ †m
mš—vbB Avgvi wei“‡× K_v ej‡e| AvwLiv‡Zi Av`vj‡Z Avwg ¯—w¤¢Z n‡q hv‡ev,
w`kv nvwi‡q †dj‡ev hLb †`L‡ev Avgv‡`iB wcÖq mš—vb Avgv‡`i Ab¨vq
KvR¸wj cÖgvYmn †`wL‡q w`‡q Avj−vni wbKU wewn‡Zi dwiqv` Ki‡Q| Avj−vn
Zuvi KziAv‡b Rvbv‡”Qb t
Òme©‡k‡l hLb †m Kvb-ewaiKvix aŸwb D”PvwiZ n‡e (A_©vr †KqvgZ nvwRi
n‡e), †m w`b gvbyl wb‡Ri fvB, wb‡Ri gvZv I wcZv Ges ¯¿x I mš—vbvw` n‡Z
cvjv‡e| Zv‡`i g‡a¨ cÖ‡Z¨K e¨w³i Dci †mw`b Ggb mgq G‡m co‡e †h,
wb‡Ri Qvov Avi Kv‡iv cÖwZ j¨ Kivi gZ Ae¯’v _vK‡e bv|Ó ( m~iv Avevmv t
33-37)
DËg bmxnZ cÖ`vb
mš—v‡bi RxeÏkvq mrPwiÎ MVb, Av`k© wkv AR©b, Øxbx ûKzg-AvnKvgwfwËK
Af¨vm MV‡bi j‡¨ DËg bmxnZ cÖvwß mš—v‡bi AwaKvi| Avm‡j Ggb
AwaKvi RM‡Zi cÖ‡Z¨K wcZv-gvZvB Av`vq Ki‡Z †Póv K‡ib| Z‡e †Kv_vI-
†Kv_vI ïbv hvq ev †`Lv hvq, wcZv-gvZv mš—vb‡`i‡K hv ej‡Q Ges GLbI
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ej‡Q mš—vbiv Zv mv‡_ mv‡_ bv gvbvq ev ZLb †g‡b‡Q wKš‘ GLb g‡b †bB ev
Ab¨gb¯‹ n‡q Avi gvb‡Q bv (hw`I GwU `ytLRbK)|
G Ae¯’v †`‡L wcZv-gvZviv ivM K‡ib Avi e‡jbÑ GLb Avi ej‡Z cvie bv|
GZ ej‡Z n‡e †Kb GLb eqm n‡q‡Q bv, eo n‡q‡Q bv, wb‡R ey‡S bv A_ev
eKv w`‡q e‡j †eqv`e, e`gv‡qk, Amf¨, hv GLvb †_‡K †ewi‡q hv, Avgvi
†Pv‡Li mvg‡b †_‡K hv, Avi Avmwe bv, ZzB gi, Rvbœv‡g hv BZ¨vw`| GLv‡b G
K_v¸‡jv cweÎ KziAvb Gi GKwU `„óvš— †_‡K D‡jL Kiv hvK :
cweÎ KziAv‡b Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv mjvZ Kv‡qg Kivi K_v 80 ev‡iiI †ekx
e‡j‡Qb| GKevi `yÕevi bq| hw` Avj−vn GKevi `yÕevi e‡j ivM Ki‡Zb, Avi
bv ej‡Zb ev Avgv‡`i gZ eKvewK Ki‡Zb Zvn‡j bv nq fveZvg Avgv‡`i
bxwZ wVK Av‡Q; wKš‘ Avj−vn †Zv e‡j‡Qb A‡bKev evi| Zey ivM K‡ibwb|
ZviciI hLb Avgiv wVKgZ Av`vq Kwi bv H iKgfv‡e †Zv wZwb eKv †`b bv,
G `ywbqv †_‡K †ei n‡q †h‡Z †Zv e‡jb bv, Av‡jv-evZvm †_‡K †Zv GK
wgwb‡Ui Rb¨; GK †m‡K‡Ûi Rb¨I wew”Qbœ K‡ib bv|
DËg e¨envi wkv `vb
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t †Kvb wcZv Zvi mš—vb‡`i DËg
AvPvi-e¨env‡ii †P‡q AwaK fvj †Kvb wRwbm Dcnvi w`‡Z cv‡iwb| (wZiwghx)
mš—vb‡`i‡K DËg AvPvi-e¨envi wkv`vb GKwU LyeB ¸i“Z¡c~Y© welq| †hgb t
A‡bK †Q‡j‡g‡qivB †dvb wiwmf K‡i mvjvg †`q bv| evev-gvi eÜz‡`i mv‡_
Av`e K‡i K_v e‡j bv| evev-gv ev eo fvB-†ev‡bi mv‡_ D”P-evP¨ K‡i, i“p
fv‡e K_v e‡j BZ¨vw` BZ¨vw`| Avwg †hb g‡b bv Kwi †h Zviv Av`e-Kvq`v
K¬v‡ki eB c‡o wkL‡e ev ¯‹zj wUPviiv †kLv‡eb| g‡b ivLv DwPZ GLvbKvi
¯‹zj¸‡jv‡Z wkvi Ggb †Kvb e¨e¯’v †bB †h †hLv‡b Av`e Kvq`v †kLv‡bv
nq| eis GB †`kxq A‡bK AvPiY Av‡Q hv Avgv‡`i BmjvwgK KvjPv‡ii
Av`‡ei ewnf©~Z| ZvB Avgvi mš—vb‡K Av`e-Kvq`v Avgv‡KB cwi®‹vi K‡i
wkv w`‡Z n‡e| ev¯—‡e †`Lv †M‡Q †h A‡bK cwievi BmjvwgK gvB‡Ûi wKš‘
mš—v‡biv Av`e-Kvq`v Rv‡b bv KviY Zv‡`i †mUv †kLv‡bv nqwb| Avgv‡`i wcÖq
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ex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t Kv‡iv mv‡_ nvwm gy‡L K_v ejvI
GKUv m`vKv|
GKwU cwiKíbvi Aaxb eyw×gËv, Aa¨emvq I ˆa‡h©i mv‡_ wkï‡`i‡K wkóvPvi
wkv w`‡Z n‡e| Lvbv-wcbv, DVv-emv, Nyg I RvMi‡Yi Av`e wkv w`‡Z n‡e|
wkv I wk‡Ki cÖwZ Av`e, gmwR`-¯‹z‡ji Av`‡ei K_v Zv‡`i ej‡Z n‡e|
cvK-cweÎZvi Av`e, ¯^v¯’¨ I cweÎZvi Av`e, Pjv-†div Ges mv_x-m½x‡`i
mv‡_ DVv-emvi Av`e, M„‡ni Ges wb‡Ri wRwbmmg~n‡K my›`i I myk„sLjfv‡e
e¨env‡ii wbqg wkv w`‡Z n‡e Ges GKwU mf¨ I cweÎ Rxeb cwiPvjbvi Rb¨
Ae¨vnZfv‡e Avgv‡K Zvi AwffveKZ¡ Ki‡Z n‡e| GKevi ïay †Kv‡bv fv‡jv
wRwb‡mi cÖwZ `„wó AvK©lYB h‡_ó bq eis cÖwk‡Yi `vex n‡jv †h, Avwg †m
e¨vcv‡i Ae¨vnZfv‡e `„wó ivL‡ev Ges evievi fyj m‡Ë¡I wei³ n‡ev bv| ˆah©
I m‡n¨i mv‡_ Ges Aš—i w`‡q Zv‡`i‡K ïa‡i w`‡Z _vK‡ev Ges mvgvb¨Zg
fyj‡KI Zz”Q g‡b Ki‡ev bv|
Avgvi mš—v‡bi weevn
mš—v‡bi Dchy³ eqm n‡j h‡Zv ZvovZvwo m¤¢e fvj Øxb`vi †Q‡j ev †g‡q
†`‡L we‡qi e¨e¯’v Kiv DwPZ| hw` †Q‡j †g‡q `yÕR‡bB K¨vbvWv-Av‡gwiKv‡Z
_v‡K Zvn‡j ÷z‡W›U jvB‡dI we‡qi K_v wPš—v Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i| Z‡e ÷z‡W›U
jvB‡d we‡qi e¨vcv‡i wcZv-gvZv‡`i K‡qKwU wel‡q h‡_ó †Lqvj ivL‡Z n‡e
†hgb t
1) we‡qi ci Zv‡`i msmvi Pj‡e wKfv‡e
2) Zv‡`i cov-†kvbv Pj‡e wKfv‡e
3) mš—vb-mš—wZ n‡q †M‡j Zv †`Lv-†kvbv Ki‡Z cvi‡e wKbv BZ¨vw`|
hw` GB mKj wel‡q evev-gv Zv‡`i‡K mn‡hvwMZv Ki‡Z cv‡ib Zvn‡j ÷z‡W›U
jvB‡d we‡qi e¨vcv‡i Aek¨B wPš—v Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i| cvÎ ev cvÎxi ïay
K¨vwiqvi ev GKv‡WwgK †Kvqvwjwd‡Kkb ev ïay UvKv-cqmv ev esk-†MŠie †`Lv
wVK bq| me©cÖ_g †`L‡Z n‡e cvÎ ev cvÎx Øxb`vi wKbv, hw` cvÎ ev cvÎx
Øxb`vi bv nq Zvn‡j †Q‡j ev †g‡q‡K GB cvðv‡Z¨ Rxeb Pvjv‡Z Lye wngwmg
†L‡Z n‡e| ZvB ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t cvÎ ev cvÎx
hw` Øxb`vi nq Zvn‡j Avi wKQz †`Lvi cÖ‡qvRb †bB| Øx‡bi Ávb _vKv Avi
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Øxb cvjb KivB n‡”Q cvÎ ev cvÎxi me‡P‡q eo †Kvqvwjwd‡Kkb| Avi GB
ai‡Yi †KvqvwjdvBW cvÎ-cvÎx Rxe‡b myLx n‡Z eva¨, BbkvAvj−vn|
Kb¨v mš—v‡bi cÖwZ `vwqZ¡
mš—vb †Q‡j †nvK Avi Kb¨v †nvK mš—vb mš—vbB| mš—vb Avj−vni c †_‡K
wbqvgZ| G‡Z †Kvb gvby‡li nvZ †bB| Zey hviv Kb¨v n‡j gb Lvivc K‡ib,
åƒ KzwÂZ K‡ib, ¯¿x‡K eKvewK K‡ib Zviv GKUz j¨ Kwi, hv‡`i mš—vb †bB,
hv‡`i gv-evev nIqvi gZ †m fvM¨ Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv †`bwb A_ev w`‡qwQ‡jb
Avevi wb‡qI †M‡Qb †mB mKj gvbyl¸‡jvi w`‡K ZvwK‡q †`wL| Zviv mš—vbmš—vb
e‡j Kx bv Ki‡Q! hw` AvcbRb‡`i g‡a¨ Ggb †KD _v‡Kb Zvn‡j
eyS‡Z mgm¨v nIqvi K_v bq|
Kv‡RB Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv Avgv‡`i cÖwZ mš‘ó e‡jB nq‡Zvev G‡Ki ci `yB,
`y‡qi ci wZb Gfv‡e K‡qKRb Kb¨v mš—vb `vb K‡i‡Qb| G‡Z Kb¨vi evev‡`i
gb Lvivc n‡jI Avgv‡`i wcÖqbex gynv¤§v` (mv.) wKš‘ †NvlYv K‡i w`‡q‡Qb,
ÒKv‡iv wZbRb Kb¨v mš—vb _vK‡j Ges †m Zv‡`i e¨vcv‡i ˆah©aviY Ki‡j,
h_vmva¨ Zv‡`i cvbvnvi Kiv‡j I †cvkvK-AvkvK w`‡j, Zviv wKqvgv‡Zi w`b
Zvi Rb¨ Rvnvbœvg †_‡K Aš—ivq n‡e|Ó (Be‡b gvRvn)
Ò†Kvb e¨w³i `yBRb Kb¨v mš—vb _vK‡j Ges †m Zv‡`i mv‡_ DËg e¨envi
Ki‡j hZ w`b Zviv GK‡Î emevm Ki‡e, Zviv Zv‡K Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Kiv‡e|Ó
(Be‡b gvRvn)
mrcvί’KiY
mš—vb‡`i GKUv eqm ch©š— A‡bK iK‡gi AwaKvi cwic~Y© Kivi ciI Kb¨v‡`i
cÖwZ Av‡iv we‡kl K‡qKwU `vwqZ¡ †ewk Av`vq Ki‡Z nq| G¸‡jvi g‡a¨ Kb¨v
Rxe‡bi †kl Ges wcZv-gvZvi Rxe‡b me‡P‡q ¸i“Z¡c~Y© †h welqwUi e¨e¯’v ev
myôz mgvcb Ki‡Z nq Zv n‡jv- Kb¨v‡K mrcvί’KiY| Avgv‡`i wcÖqbex
gynv¤§v` (mv.) e‡jb : Òhvi Øxb`vix I ˆbwZK PwiÎ m¤ú‡K© †Zvgiv mš‘ó †m
hw` †Zvgv‡`i Kv‡Q weev‡ni cÖ¯—ve †`q Z‡e Zvi mv‡_ we‡q `vI| hw` Zv bv
Ki Z‡e c„w_ex‡Z wdZbv-dvmv` I Pig wech©q m„wó n‡e|Ó (AvZ-wZiwghx)
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mš—vb‡`i‡K N‡ii KvR K‡g©
Af¨¯— Kiv
Avgiv Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K LyeB fvjevwm| GB fvjevmvi bgybv ¯^iƒc
Zv‡`i‡K A‡bK mgq AKg©Y¨ K‡i †dwj| A‡bK cwiev‡i †QvU‡ejv n‡Z mš—
vb‡`i‡K GK M−vm cvwb †X‡jI wbR nv‡Z †L‡Z Af¨¯— K‡ib bv| †g‡q nvB-
¯‹y‡j ev BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z c‡o wKš‘ GKwU wWgI †f‡R †L‡Z cv‡i bv| Avmyb G
wel‡q mZK© nB, mš—vb‡`i‡K †QvU n‡Z N‡ii Kv‡R †UªBbAvc Kwi| wkYxq
wn‡m‡e `ywU ev¯—e D`vniY †`qv hvK|
wPÎ GK t 2007 mv‡j Avgiv mcwiev‡i jÛb wM‡qwQjvg Bó jÛb gymwjg
†m›Uvi cwi`k©‡bi D‡Ï‡k¨| Bó jÛb gymwjg †m›Uv‡ii †cÖwm‡W‡›Ui evmvq
Avgv‡`i `ycy‡i jv‡Âi `vIqvZ wQj| hv †nvK Avgiv †cÖwm‡W›U mv‡n‡ei evmvq
†h `„k¨ †`Ljvg Zv n‡jv, †cÖwm‡W›U mv‡n‡ei nvB ¯‹zj co–qv †Q‡jUv ivbœv N‡i
nvwo-cvwZj-†c−U-M−vm ay‡”Q, Ni Svo– w`‡”Q Ges ev_i“g cwi®‹vi Ki‡Q|
wPÎ `yB t NICAS Canada-i Gw·wKDwUf WvB‡i±‡ii eo †Q‡j Ui‡›Uv
BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z c‡o| Avgv‡`i K¨vbvwWqvb jvB‡d G‡Zv f`ª †Q‡j Avgiv
KLbI †`wLwb| Kx Zvi AgvwqK e¨envi! GQvovI †m Amy¯’ evevi gv_vq cvwb
Xvjv †_‡K ïi“ K‡i gvi mv‡_ N‡ii Ab¨vb¨ KvR-Kg©I K‡i _v‡K|
fvimvg¨c~Y© Af¨vm ˆZix Kiv
wcZvgvZviv mš—vb‡`i cÖvq mKj mnbxq `vex `vIqv †g‡b wb‡Z Pvb| G‡Z
AvcvZt `„wó‡Z †Kvb wZi Avk¼v _v‡K bv| Z‡e wKQy wKQy wel‡q mZK© e¨e¯’v
I fvimvg¨c~Y© wbqš¿Y mš—vb‡`i fwel¨r Rxeb‡K mnR K‡i Zzj‡e| Avgvi mš—
vb hw` Pv cv‡b Af¨¯— nq Zv‡Z †Kvb †`vl †bB, wKš‘ Pv cvb bv Ki‡j Zvi
¯‹z‡ji †nvgIqvK© n‡e bv ev Kwd bv †L‡j Zvi cov nq bv- G RvZxq Af¨vm‡K
hZ`~i m¤¢e Gwo‡q Pjv wbivc`| wVK Z`ªƒc gvsm Qvov Avi wKQy Zvi cQ›`
bq, ev GKwU wbw`©ó eª¨v‡Ûi Kvco Qvov †m Ab¨ wKQy e¨env‡i Af¨¯— bq,
BZ¨vw` †Kvb wKQy‡Z †hb Zvi w`Mš— mxwgZ n‡q bv c‡o †mw`‡K j¨ ivLv
`iKvi| G‡Z Avcbvi mš—vb †d¬w·ej n‡q M‡o DV‡e|
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hw` mš—v‡bi e¨w³Z¡‡K Gfv‡e Zzj‡Z cviv hvq Zvn‡j †m c„w_exi †h †Kvb
cÖv‡š—B wb‡R‡K mvgwj‡q Pj‡Z cvi‡e| A‡bK Av`‡ii `yjvj‡K †`Lv hvq gvQ
Lvb bv KvuUvi f‡q, kvK Lvb bv KviY †QvUKvj n‡Z wZwb kvK LvIqvq Abf¨¯—
| Avgvi †h KwU MvoxB _vKbv †Kb mš—vb‡`i cvewjK Uªv݇cv‡U© Pj‡Z wdi‡Z
Af¨¯— Kiv DwPZ| hv‡Z cÖ‡qvR‡b Zviv webvwØavq †hLv‡b †mLv‡b hvZvqvZ
Ki‡Z cv‡i| Z‡e mš—vb hw` wKWb¨vc nIqvi Avk¼v _v‡K Zvn‡j wfbœ K_v|
G D`vniY¸‡jv †`qvi g~j D‡Ïk¨ n‡jv Avgvi mš—vb †hb wejvmx Rxeb hvc‡b
Af¨¯— n‡q bv D‡V|
me‡P‡q eo hyjyg
Avgiv Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i wei“‡× me‡P‡q eo hyjyg †hUv KiwQ Zv n‡”Q Avgiv
fy‡j †MwQ †h Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i `yÕwU wRwbm (1) †`n I (2) AvZ¥v wb‡qB
Zv‡`i †MvUv Aw¯—Z¡| †ekxifvM †‡Î †`Lv †M‡Q †h †`‡ni cÖwZ G‡Zv †ekx
hZœ †bqv n‡q‡Q †h AvZ¥vi w`‡K bRiB †`qv nqwb| hvi Kvi‡Y †`‡ni
AZ¨waK hZœ wb‡q Ava¨vwZ¥KZvi Pig AeÁv K‡i gb I AvZ¥v‡K c½y K‡i †`qv
n‡q‡Q |
mš—vb‡K Awfkvc bv †`qv
gv Zvi mš—vb‡K AeY©bxq K‡ó M‡f© aviY K‡ib| AgvbywlK K‡ó c„w_exi
Av‡jv-evZv‡m Av‡bb| Zvici wb‡Ri fv‡jvevmv Avi Z¨v‡Mi meUyKy DRvo
K‡i Amnvq GKwU wkï‡K h_vµ‡g mȳ ’, mej, mÁvb I ¯^vej¤^x K‡i †Zv‡jb|
mš—vb gvbyl Ki‡Z wM‡q evev-gv‡K †h KZUyKy Kó mn¨ Ki‡Z nq Zv ïay evevgv‡qivB
Rv‡bb| evsjv‡`‡ki g‡Zv Z…Zxq we‡k¦i `wi`« †`k¸‡jv‡Z G Kó
AviI †ewk| GLv‡b †ivR `«e¨g~‡j¨i m‡½ jovB K‡i gvbyl‡K wU‡K _vK‡Z
nq|
Afv‡ei Kvi‡Y GKRb bexb gv‡KI GKnv‡Z msmv‡ii hveZxq `vwqZ¡ Avi
Acinv‡Z ey‡Ki ab mš—vbwU‡K AvM‡j ivL‡Z nq| A‡bK gv Av‡Qb hviv
mgqgZ ev”Pvi LveviwUI †hvMv‡Z cv‡ib bv i“wPgZ| we‡klZ †hme ev”Pv
R‡b¥i ci gv‡qi ey‡Ki `ya cvq bv| `wi`ª cwiev‡i Gme wkï‡K †h KZ K‡ó
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gv Rbbx eo K‡i †Zv‡jb Zv GKgvÎ Avj−vnB fv‡jv Rv‡bb| G mgq gv‡q‡`i
A‡bK Z¨vM-wZwZvi cª‡qvRb nq|
A_P A‡bK gvÕ‡K G mgq ‰ah©nvivI n‡Z †`Lv hvq| A‡bK gv mš—v‡bi Ici
wei³ n‡q Zv‡K Aejxjvq Awfkvc w`‡q w`‡q e‡mb| †mœngqx Rbbx nq‡Zv
Zvi Rxe‡bi wewbg‡q n‡jI mš—v‡bi †h †Kv‡bv Awbó †iva Ki‡Z PvB‡eb|
wKš‘ wZwbB Avevi iv‡Mi gv_vq Ae‡PZ‡b Av`‡ii mš—vbwUi Awbó Kvgbv K‡i
e‡mb| cªvqB †`Lv hvq mš—vb‡`i `yiš—cbv ev `yóywg‡Z AwZó n‡q A‡bK gv
mivmwi ev”Pvi g„Zÿ Kvgbv K‡i e‡mb| ÔZyB gwim bvÕ, ÔZyB gi‡j dwKi‡i
GK‡ejv fi‡cU LvIqvZvgÕ, ÔAvj−vn, Avwg Avi cvwi‡bÕ, ÔGi R¡vjv †_‡K
Avgv‡K wb¯—vi `vIÕ - G RvZxq evK¨ Avgiv AninB ïb‡Z cvB|
Mf©avwiYx gv KL‡bvB Zvi mš—v‡bi Ag½j Kvgbv K‡ibbv| wKš‘ Am‡PZbfv‡e
Kvgbv Kiv `yN©UbvI KL‡bv mZ¨ n‡q †`Lv w`‡Z cv‡i| ZvB G mgq gv‡K
A‡bK †ewk Z¨vM I ‰a‡hi« cvivKvôv †`Lv‡Z nq|
Bmjvg KL‡bv Kv‡iv wei“‡× Awfkvc †`qv ev e``yÔAv Kiv‡K mg_©b K‡i bv|
Avcb mš—vb‡K †Zv `~‡ii K_v RxeRš‘ GgbwK Ro c`v_©‡K Awfkvc †`qvI
mg_©b K‡i bv| Rvwei Beb Ave`yj−vn ivw`Avj−vû Avbû †_‡K ewY©Z, wZwb
e‡jb,
evZ‡b eyIqvZ hy‡×i md‡i ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−v‡gi m‡½ c_
PjwQjvg| wZwb gvR`x Beb ÔAvgi Rynvbx‡K LyuRwQ‡jb| cvwb enbKvix
DU¸‡jvi †cQ‡b Avgv‡`i ga¨ †_‡K cvuPRb, QqRb I mvZRb K‡i c_
PjwQj| DKev bvgK GK Avbmvix e¨w³ Zvui D‡Ui cvk w`‡q P°i w`j Ges
Zv‡K _vgvj| Zvici Zvi wc‡V D‡V Avevi Zv‡K Pj‡Z wb‡`©k w`j| DUwU
ZLb G‡Kev‡i wbðj n‡q †Mj| wZwb ZLb ej‡jb ayËywi| †Zvi Ici Avj−vni
Awfkvc| G ï‡b ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg ej‡jb, wb‡Ri DU‡K
Awfkvc`vZv GB e¨w³wU †K wZwb ej‡jb, Avwg †n Avj−vni ivm~j| wZwb
(ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg) ej‡jb, ÔZywg Gi wcV †_‡K bv‡gv|
Zywg Avgv‡`i †Kv‡bv Awfk‡ßi m½x K‡iv bv| †Zvgiv wb‡R‡`i wei“‡×,
†Zvgv‡`i mš—vb-mš‘wZi Ges †Zvgv‡`i m¤ú‡`i wei“‡× `yÔAv K‡iv bv|
†Zvgiv Avj−vni c †_‡K Ggb gyn~‡Z©i Ávbcªvß bI, hLb hv wKQyB PvIqv nq
wZwb †Zvgv‡`i Zv w`‡q †`‡eb|Õ (mnxn gymwjg)
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nv`x‡mi e¨vL¨vq †gvj−v Avjx Kvix in. e‡jb, A_©vr †Zvgiv †Kv‡bv gyn~‡Z©B
wb‡Ri wei“‡×, wb‡Ri mš—vb ev m¤ú‡`i wei“‡× e``yÔAv K‡iv bv| KviY, n‡Z
cv‡i †h mgq Zywg `yÔAv Ki‡Qv, Zv w`‡bi g‡a¨ IB mgq hLb hv-B `yÔAv Kiv
†nvK bv †Kb Zv Keyj Kiv nq| †Zvgiv †Zv G mgq m¤ú‡K© Avj−vni c †_‡K
Ávb cªvß bI| (gyeviKcyix, wgiAvZyj gvdvZxn )
Ônv`xmwU iv‡Mi gv_vq gvby‡li Zvi cwievi I m¤ú‡`i wei“‡× `yÔAv Kivi
wbwl×Zv cªgvY K‡i| nv`xmwU Gi KviYI Zy‡j aiv n‡q‡Q| Avi Zv n‡jv,
`yÔAv Key‡ji wKQz we‡kl gyûZ© i‡q‡Q Ges Zv wVK H gyû‡Z© c‡o †h‡Z cv‡i|
d‡j †mB gyû‡Z© gvby‡li meB Keyj n‡q hvq PvB Zv fv‡jv †nvK ev g›` †nvK,
hv †m Zvi cwievi ev m¤ú‡`i †‡Î cªZ¨vkv K‡i bv|Õ (Ave`yj gynwmb, kviû
mybvb Avex `vD`)
wb‡Ri mš—v‡bi wei“‡× `yÔAv Kivi A_© †Zv wb‡RB wb‡R‡K nZ¨vi Z_v aŸs‡mi
w`‡K †V‡j †`Iqv| Avi G m¤ú‡K© Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv e‡jb,
ÔAvi †Zvgiv wbR nv‡Z wbR‡`i‡K aŸs‡m wb‡c K‡iv bv|Õ (m~iv Avj-evKviv
t 195)
AZGe cªwZwU gv‡K †f‡e †`L‡Z n‡e, Avgvi iv‡Mi gv_vq D”PviY Kiv evK¨
hw` m‡Z¨ cwiYZ nq Zvn‡j †Kgb jvM‡e Avwg wK Zv mn¨ Ki‡Z cvie G
Rb¨ iv‡Mi gv_vqI KL‡bv mš—v‡bi Ag½j Kvgbv Kiv hv‡e bv| cªm½Z ejv
`iKvi †h ïay gv‡q‡`iB bq, Avgv‡`i meviB DwPZ wb‡Ri, wb‡Ri mš—vb I
m¤ú‡`i wei“‡× e``yÔAv Kiv †_‡K mshZ nIqv| iv‡Mi mgq mshg I
mwnòyZvi cwiPq †`Iqv|
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Avgvi mš—v‡bi Rb¨ ¯^v¯’¨ wUc&m
mš—vb‡`i ¯^v¯’¨ wel‡q wKQz †Lqvj Kiv evev-gv‡q‡`i Rb¨ LyeB Ri“ix| wb‡gœ
wKQy ¯^v¯’¨ wUc&m †`qv n‡jv t
1) iv‡Z Nygv‡Z hvIqvi Av‡M Ges mKv‡j bv¯—v LvIqvi c‡i Aek¨B
`vZ e&ªvk Kiv|
2) evB‡i †_‡K evmvq G‡mB mvevb w`‡q nvZ †avqvi A‡f¨m Kiv|
3) h‡Zv`~i m¤¢e Zv‡`i‡K †QvU‡ejv †_‡K Mvg, PK‡jU ev K¨vwÛ †L‡Z
bv †`qv|
4) Lvevi †gby‡Z h‡Zv`~i m¤¢e dvBevi hy³ Lvevi ivLv| G‡Z
KÝwU‡ckb n‡e bv| KviY KÝwU‡ck‡bi Kvi‡Y fwel¨‡Z bvbv
mgm¨v n‡Z cv‡i| †hgb, whole wheat bread, GQvov kvKmeRx‡ZI
dvBevi _v‡K|
5) mKv‡j ¯‹z‡j hvIqvi Av‡M bv¯—vi †gby‡Z Kv‡e©vnvB‡WªU RvZxq Lvevi
ivLv| Kv‡e©vnvB‡Wª‡Ui Afv‡e †Q‡j‡g‡qiv mKv‡j ¯‹z‡j g‡bv‡hvM
w`‡Z cv‡i bv, †eªBb wVKg‡Zv KvR K‡i bv| †hgb, i“wU Ges
wmwiqvj RvwZI Lv‡`¨ Kv‡e©vnvB‡WªU _v‡K|
6) cÖPzi cvwb cvb Kiv‡bv| KviY cvwbi Afv‡e †eªB‡bi wKQz wKQz bvf©
ïwK‡q †h‡Z _v‡K, hvi Kvi‡Y ¯§iY kw³ †jvc †c‡Z _v‡K| cvwbi
Afv‡e GUv eo‡`iI n‡Z cv‡i| GKRb eo gvby‡li cÖwZw`b Aš—
tZc‡ AvU M−vm cvwb cvb Kiv DwPZ|
7) Lv‡`¨ dmdivm _vK‡j Zv ¯§iY kw³ e„wׇZ mvnvh¨ K‡i| †hgb
mvgyw`ªK jBÆv gv‡Q cÖPzi dmdivm _v‡K|
8) †cÖMb¨v›U gv‡qiv †Uvbv gvQ LvIqv DwPZ bq| G‡Z cÖPzi cwigv‡b
cvi` _v‡K hv mš—vb R‡b¥i Av‡M Zvi wZ K‡i|
9) wK‡kvix †g‡q‡`i Lv‡`¨i ZvwjKvq dwjK GwmW hy³ Lvevi _vKv
DwPZ| hv weev‡ni c‡i Infertility-†Z A_©vr †cÖM‡b›U n‡Z mvnvh¨
K‡i| †hgb eªKwj‡Z cÖPzi dwjK GwmW i‡q‡Q|
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P¨vcUvi 4
Avgvi mš—v‡bi PwiÎ MVb
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
mš—v‡bi PwiÎ MV‡bi Dcvq
1. evmvq my›`i BmjvwgK cwi‡ek ˆZix Kwi|
2. mš—vb‡`i wbKU Bmjvg‡K AvKl©Yxq K‡i Dc¯’vcb Kwi|
3. Avj−vni mv‡_ mš—v‡bi m¤úK© ˆZix Kwi|
4. mš—v‡bi aviY gZv ey‡S ax‡i ax‡i G¸‡Z _vwK|
5. †Rvi bv Kwi, me Av‡`k-wb‡la GKmv‡_ Pvwc‡q bv †`B|
6. mš—vb †hb Øxb Bmjvg‡K fv‡jv‡e‡m MÖnY K‡i, kvw¯—i f‡q bq|
7. Islam should be fun as well as compulsory.
8. ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg I mvnvev‡`i (iv.) Rxe‡bi NUbv‡K
D`vniY wnmv‡e Zz‡j awi|
9. evev-gvi Rxebhvcb c×wZ mš—v‡bi mvg‡b AbyKiYxq Av`k© wnmv‡e Zz‡j
awi| Role model †nvB mš—vb‡`i †Pv‡L|
10. Zv‡K †Kej fvj nIqvi Theory wkv bv †`B, mv‡_ Practical-I
KivB|
11. D`vniY m„wó Kwi| wb‡R GKwU fvj KvR Kwi Ges Zv‡K Dcjwä Kivi
my‡hvM †`B|
12. mš—vb I ¯¿x ev ¯^vgx‡K me mgq mvjvg †`B| GQvov Lvwj evmvq Xy‡KI
†hb mvjvg †`B KviY N‡i ing‡Zi wdwikZv _v‡K|
13. mevB wg‡j GKmv‡_ wbqwgZ BmjvwgK wWwfwW †`wL| Ges N‡i GKwU
jvB‡eªix cÖwZôv Kwi|
14. me mgq mcwiev‡i Peace TV †`Lvi †Póv Kwi|
15. mš—vb‡K mv‡_ wb‡q wbqwgZ gmwR‡` hvB Ges Rvgv‡Zi mv‡_ bvgvh Av`vq
Kwi|
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16. Zv‡`i‡K h‡_ó mgq †`qvi †Póv Kwi|
17. cÖwZ mßv‡n mcwiev‡i wbR N‡i KziAv‡bi Zvdmxi I mnxn nv`xm wb‡q
cvwievwiK ˆeVK Kwi|
18. ZvInx` I wkiK Ges mybœvZ I we`ÕAvZ m¤ú‡K© eB msMÖn Kwi Ges
Zv‡`i‡K mwVK aviYv †`B|
19. memgq †LuvR-Lei ivwL †Kv_vq †Kvb BmjvwgK Kb&dv‡iÝ n‡”Q Ges
mcwiev‡i †mLv‡b attend Kwi|
20. eQ‡ii wewfbœ mg‡q wewfbœ BmjvwgK †m›Uv‡i Bmjv‡gi bvbv wel‡qi Dci
competition nq, mš—vb‡`i GB mKj competition-G Ask MÖnY Kivi
Rb¨ mn‡hvwMZv Kwi|
21. Avgvi mš—vb hw` BmjvwgK ¯‹z‡j c‡o bv _v‡K Zvn‡j Zv‡`i‡K
Weekend Islamc School-G fwZ© K‡i w`‡Z cvwi †hLv‡b Zviv
Islamic Studies wkL‡e, bxwZ-ˆbwZKZv wkL‡e|
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi
Pwi·K g‡Wj wn‡m‡e Zz‡j awi
GKevi wKQz mvnvev gv Av‡qkv ivw`Avj−vû Avb&ûvi Kv‡Q Avm‡jb Ges ej‡jb
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi PwiÎ m¤ú‡K© Avgv‡`i‡K wKQz ejyb|
Av‡qkv ivw`Avj−vû Avb&ûv Zv‡`i‡K ej‡jb t †Zvgv‡`i Kv‡Q wK KziAvb
Av‡Q †MvUv KziAvbUvB‡Zv Avgvi ivm~‡ji PwiÎ, wZwb hLb †nu‡U †h‡Zb ZLb
g‡b n‡Zv Rxeš— KziAvb †nu‡U hv‡”Q| ZvB GKRb gyÕwg‡bi PwiÎ †Kgb n‡e Zv
KziAvbB e‡j w`‡”Q ¯úófv‡e| GRb¨ Avgiv KziAvb †_‡K m~iv gyÕwgby‡bi
Zvdmxi co‡Z cvwi Ges mš—vb‡`i‡K wkv w`‡Z cvwi|
Ab¨vq‡K my¯úó Kwi
Avgvi mš—vb‡K †QvU eqm n‡ZB †hb b¨vq-Ab¨v‡qi welqwU eywS‡q ejvi †Póv
Kwi| eo‡`i m¤§vb Kivi welqwU Zz‡j awi| †m †Kvb Ab¨vq KvR Ki‡j VvÛv
gv_vq, ax‡i my‡¯’, Aby”P K‡Ú ejv DwPZ †h welqwU Ab¨vq Ges †m †hb GwU
Avi KL‡bv bv K‡i| fvj KvR Ki‡Z DrmvwnZ Kwi| †m †Kvb fvj KvR Ki‡j
Zv‡K cyi¯‹…Z Kwi| Avgvi mš—vb hw` †Kvb AvcwËKi K_v e‡j †d‡j Zvn‡j
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me©cÖ_g Avgv‡K eyS‡Z n‡e †h wkïwU bv ey‡SB Lvivc kãwU D”PviY K‡i‡Q|
GLbB Zv‡K eySv‡bvi mgq| my›`i K‡i e‡j w`‡Z n‡e, †h kã †m e¨envi
K‡i‡Q †mwU fvj bq|
Avgvi wcZvgvZv I Avgvi ¯¿xi wcZvgvZvi e¨vcv‡i Zv‡K †QvU n‡ZB cwiwPZ
Kwi‡q w`‡Z n‡e| Zviv hw` `~‡i _v‡Kb Zvn‡j Aš—Z mš—vb‡`i Rvb‡Z w`‡Z
n‡e †h Zvi `v`v-`v`x I bvbv-bvbx Av‡Qb| Zviv Zv‡K Lye fvjev‡mb| †mI
†hb Zv‡`i fvjev‡m| G Qvov dzdz, Lvjv, PvPv, gvgv BZ¨vw`i mv‡_I GKB
cš’vq cwiPq Kwi‡q w`‡Z n‡e| e¨vcviwU †hb KL‡bv Ggb bv nq †h Avgvi
mš—vb Av‡`Š Rv‡b bv †h Zvi GKwU dzdz ev PvPv Av‡Q !
mvjv‡gi welqwU Avgiv Av‡MI Av‡jvPbv K‡iwQ| mš—vb‡`i AwZ †QvU‡ejv
n‡ZB wkwL‡q w`‡Z n‡e †h evmvq †Kvb †gngvb Avm‡j Zv‡`i †`Lv gvÎB
mvjvg †`qv| A‡b¨i evmvq †eov‡Z †M‡jI †hb Zviv mevB‡K mvjvg †`q| mš—
vbiv hw` †dvb wiwmf K‡i Zvn‡jI †hb mvjvg w`‡q Zv ïi“ K‡i|
mš—vb‡`i †QvU‡ejv n‡Z mZ¨-wg_¨vi
cv_©K¨ †kLv‡Z †Póv Kwi
Avgvi Kv‡Q hw` mZ¨-wg_¨vi welqwU ¯úk©KvZi n‡q _v‡K, hw` Avwg bxwZ
ˆbwZKZvi e¨vcv‡i Av‡cvlnxb n‡q _vwK, hw` Avgvi mš—v‡bi D”P wWwMÖ
AR©‡bi AvKv•vi mv‡_ D”P ˆbwZKZvI ¸i“Z¡c~Y© n‡q _v‡K Zvn‡j †Kvgi
†eu‡a bvg‡Z n‡e| cÖ¯‘wZ wb‡Z n‡e, wb‡R‡K ˆZix Ki‡Z n‡e| KviY
†kªYxK‡ †Kej ¯^v`nxb wKQz gvjgkjv †`qv nq| Avi QvÎiv fvj wiRvëm&
Kivi Avkvq †m¸wj gyL¯’ K‡i cixvi nj ch©š—B Zv mxgve× _v‡K|
†kªYxK‡i cyuw_MZ we`¨vi cvkvcvwk Avgv‡KB mš—v‡bi AvwZ¥K Dbœqb, ˆbwZK
PwiÎ MVb I Cgv‡bi b~i cÖ‡ek Kivevi Rb¨ we‡kl Kg©m~Px nv‡Z wb‡Z n‡e| G
e¨vcv‡i hw` Avgvi Avw_©K wKQz LiP nq Zvi Rb¨I cÖ¯‘Z _vK‡Z n‡e|
mš—vb‡`i AwZ †QvU‡ejv n‡Z mZ¨-wg_¨vi cv_©K¨ wkLv‡bvi †Póv Ki‡Z n‡e|
mZ¨ D¾¡j, wg_¨v AÜKviv”Qbœ| GwU wewfbœ KvR, K_v I D`vni‡Yi mvnv‡h¨
eywS‡q w`‡Z n‡e| Zv‡K ej‡Z n‡e †h, `yÕRb wdwikZv ev †jLK Avgv‡`i `yB
Kuv‡a e‡m wb`ªvnxb I weiwZnxbfv‡e Avgv‡`i mKj KvR †iKW© K‡i ivL‡Qb|
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GKw`b Avgv‡`i m„wóKZ©v gnvb Avj−vn †m LvZv Ly‡j †`Lv‡eb Avgiv wK wK
KvR K‡iwQ| Av‡iv ej‡Z n‡e †h †jLKMY m¤§vwbZ I mr| evwo‡q ev Kwg‡q
wKQz †jLvi gZv Avj−vn †K‡o wb‡q‡Qb| AZGe Avgiv hv wKQzB Kwi bv †Kb
b¨vq-Ab¨v‡qi welqwU hvPvB K‡i †`Lv DwPZ, Ab¨vq n‡Z weiZ _vKv DwPZ|
Zviv †hb †Kvb Ae¯’v‡ZB
wg_¨v bv e‡j
Zviv †hb †Kvb Ae¯’v‡ZB wg_¨v bv e‡j| cwiw¯’wZ hvB †nvK Avcbvi mš—vb‡K
me©`v cÖK…Z mZ¨wU Zz‡j aivi Af¨vm iß Kiv‡Z n‡e| ¯‹z‡ji †Kvb NUbv,
eÜz‡`i mv‡_ AcÖxwZKi wKQy, cÖwZ‡ekxi mv‡_ AbvKvw•Z †Kvb NUbv BZ¨vw`
mKj wel‡q †m †hb †Kej mZ¨ K_vwU Dc¯’vcb K‡i Zv fvj K‡i wkwL‡q
w`‡Z n‡e| mZ¨ K_v ejvi Rb¨ Zv‡K wKQy wMd&U †`qvi cÖPjb Kiv †h‡Z
cv‡i| †m hw` Ab¨vq K‡i, Zv bv jywK‡q h_vh_fv‡e Zz‡j a‡i, mZK©Zvi mv‡_
Zv‡K ms‡kvab Ki‡Z n‡e| Zv‡K G wn‡me Ki‡Z †`qv hv‡e bv †h mZ¨
ej‡jB wec`| eis mZ¨ ejvi Kvi‡Y †m †hb memgq wKQy bv wKQy Dcnvi
cvq|
Avgvi mš—vb‡`i‡K ¯úófvlx
n‡Z mvnvh¨ Kwi
ÒiweŸk inwj m`&wi, IqvBqvmwmiwj Avgwi, Iqvnjyj IK`vZvg wgwj−mvwb,
BqvdK¡û K¡Dwj|Ó
A_© t †n Avgvi gvwjK, Zzwg Avgvi R‡b¨ Avgvi e‡K cÖk¯— K‡i `vI, Avgvi
KvR‡K Avgvi R‡b¨ mnR K‡i `vI, hv‡Z K‡i Iiv Avgvi K_v eyS‡Z cv‡i|
(m~iv Z¡-nv t 25-28)
gnvb Avj−vnZvqvjv gymv (Av.)-†K GB `yÕAv wkwL‡q w`‡qwQ‡jb †hb Zvui gy‡Li
RoZv `~i n‡q hvq Ges wZwb ¯úófv‡e gvby‡li wbKU Øx‡bi `vIqvZ †cuŠQv‡Z
cv‡ib| Avgvi mš—vb †hb wgbwg‡b ¯^fv‡ei bv nq| †m hv ej‡e Zv †hb
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mK‡ji wbKU ¯úó iƒ‡c cÖKvk cvq| Avi †m †hb memgq m‡Z¨i c‡_ _v‡K
Ges mZ¨ K_v ej‡Z wØav‡eva bv K‡i| KviY GKRb gymwjg‡K nK K_v (mZ¨
K_v) memgq ej‡ZB n‡e GUv Avj−vn ZvÕAvjvi Av‡`k|
Bmjvwg Av`e
Bmjvg ïaygvÎ GKwU Bev`Zme©¯^ ag©B bq, Bmjvg GKwU m¤ú~Y© Rxebc×wZI
(complete code of life) e‡U hv‡Z Ava¨vwZ¥K, e¨w³MZ, cvwievwiK,
mvgvwRK Ges ivóªxq AvPvi-AvPi‡YiI ¯úó wb‡`©k eZ©gvb| DËg Av`e
(good manners/etiquette) Bmjvg a‡g©i GKwU ¸i“Z¡c~Y© Ask, ZvB Bmjvg
Rxe‡bi me©‡‡Î Av`‡ei Dci Lye †Rvi w`‡q‡Q| Avj−vni KziAvb I ivm~j
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi nv`x‡m Av`‡ei bvbvw`K eY©bv Kiv n‡q‡Q
Ges bvixcyi“l wbwe©‡k‡l mKj gymwjg‡K Zv cvjb Kivi wb‡`©k †`qv n‡q‡Q|
Zuvi KziAv‡b Avj−vn bex gynv¤§` mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-†K D‡Ïk¨ K‡i
e‡j‡Qb t
Iqv BbœvKv jvAvÕjv LyjywKb AvÕRxg (m~iv Kvjvg t 4)
A_©, Zzwg Aek¨B gnvb Pwi‡Îi D”PZg ¯—‡i AwawôZ|
eyLvix I Avngv‡` †`Lv hvq †h ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb,
DËg Av`e (noble manners) cÖwZôv Kivi R‡b¨B Avj−vn Avgv‡K
cvwV‡q‡Qb| Ges wZwb Av‡iv e‡j‡Qb †h gyÕwgb‡`i gv‡S ZvivB DËg hv‡`i
Av`e AwZ DËg †kªYxi| (wZiwgRx, Avey `vD`, Avngv`)
Zvi ˆ`bw›`b Rxe‡b KziAvb-nv`xm wb‡`©wkZ Av`e¸‡jv †g‡b Pjvi PP©v hZ
AwaK Ki‡e, GKRb gymwjg ZZ AwaK Avj−vni wcÖq cvÎ n‡Z cvi‡e|
Ab¨w`‡K Av`e‡K Ae‡njv Ki‡j †m Bmjv‡gi g~j wkv n‡Z `~‡i m‡i hv‡e,
d‡j Avj−vni wcÖq †m n‡Z cvi‡e bv| GUv GKUv my¯úó wZ e‡U| Gevi
Avmyb wKQz Av`‡ei Av‡jvPbv Kiv hvK|
1. Avj−vni bvg D”PviY Ki‡j Òmyenvbvû Iqv ZvAvÕjvÓ (Avj−vn AwZ cweÎ I
gnvb) ejv| Avj−vni KziAv‡b wek¦vm ivLv I KziAv‡bi Av‡`k-wb‡la †g‡b
Pjv| Avj−vni ms‡M Ab¨ KvD‡K kixK bv Kiv|
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2. bex gynv¤§v‡`i bvg gy‡L ej‡j A_ev Ab¨ KvD‡K ej‡Z ïb‡j Òmvj−vj−vû
AvÕjvBwn Iqvmvj−vgÓ (Zvui Dci kvwš— I ingZ ewl©Z †nvK) ejv| Ges
Zuvi nv`x‡mi wb‡`©k¸‡jv †g‡b Pjv|
3. Ab¨ me bex‡`i bvg wb‡j ÒAvÕjvBwnm mvjvg Ó(Zv‡`i Dci kvwš— ewl©Z
†nvK) ejv|
4. mvnvex‡`i Kv‡iv bvg gy‡L ej‡j Òivw`Avj−vû Avb&ûÓ ejv Ges bvix n‡j
Òivw`Avj−vû Avb&nvÓ (Avj−vn Zv‡`i Dci ivRx †nvb) ejv|
5. wKQz Kivi ïi“‡Z Òwemwgj−vnÓ (Avj−vni bvg wb‡q ïi“ KiwQ) ejv| Ges
wbR evmvq XyKvi mgqI wemwgj−vn e‡j XyKv|
6. †Kvb mymsev` ïb‡j A_ev Avj−vni cÖwZ K…ZÁZv cÖKvk Ki‡Z
ÒAvjnvg&`ywjj−vnÓ (mg¯— cÖksmv Avj−vni) A_ev ÒgvkvAvj−vnÓ (Avj−vn hv
B”Qv K‡i‡Qb) ejv| Avj−vni †`qv me †bqvg‡Zi R‡b¨ K…ZÁZv Rvwb‡q
NbNb Avjnvg`ywjj−vn ejv|
7. †KD we`vq †bqvi Kv‡j Zv‡K Òdx Avgvwbj−vnÓ (Avj−vn †Zvgv‡K wbivc`
ivLyb) ejv|
8. Avðh©RbK wKQz ïb‡j A_ev cÖksmv Ki‡Z PvB‡j Òmyenvb Avj−vnÓ
(Avj−vn AwZ cweÎ I gnvb) ejv|
9. KvD‡K wKQzi R‡b¨ ab¨ev` ev K…ZÁZv Rvbv‡Z n‡j ÒRvhvKvj−vû LvBivbÓ
(Avj−vn †Zvgv‡K DËg cyi®‹vi w`b) ejv|
10. †Kvb mgm¨vq co‡j ÒZvIqv°vjyj−vnÓ (Avwg Avj−vni Dci wbf©i Kwi)
ejv|
11. mKv‡j Nyg fvsM‡j Òjv-Bjvnv Bj−vj−vûÓ (Avj−vn Qvov Ab¨ †Kvb Dcvm¨
†bB) ejv|
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12. nuvwP w`‡j ÒAvjnvg`ywjj−vnÓ (mg¯— cÖksmv Avj−vniB cÖvc¨) ejv|
13. Ab¨ †KD nuvwP w`‡Z ïb‡j ÒBqvinvgyKvj−vnÓ (Avj−vn †Zvgvi Dci ingZ
Ki“b) ejv|
14. †Kvb `yÕAvÕ‡Z kvwgj n‡j ÒAvgxbÓ (†n Avj−vn! Avgv‡`i cÖv_©bv Keyj
Ki“b) ejv|
15. e¨_v-†e`bvq Kó †c‡j ÒBqv Avj−vnÓ (†n Avj−vn) ejv|
16. †Kvb Lvivc KvR K‡i †dj‡j A_ev †Kvb †bvsiv/AvcwËKi wKQz n‡Z
†`L‡j A_ev †Zgb msev` ïb‡j ÒAv¯—vM&wdi“j−vnÓ (†n Avj−vn! †Zvgvi
Kv‡Q gv PvB) ejv|
17. N„Yv cÖKvk Ki‡Z n‡j ÒbvDRywej−vnÓ (Avwg Avj−vni Avkªq wbw”Q) ejv|
18. †Kvb gymwj‡gi g„Zz¨ msev` ïb‡j ÒBbœv wjj−v‡n Iqv Bbœv BjvB‡n
iv‡RDÕbÓ (Avgiv †Zv Avj−vniB Ges Avgiv ZuviB Kv‡Q wd‡i hve) ejv|
m¤¢e n‡j Zvi Rvbvhvi bvgv‡h kvwgj nIqv Ges Rvbvhvi ms‡M †Mvi¯’vb
ch©š— hvIqv|
19. gv-evevi me©cÖKvi †mev-hZœ Kiv, Zv‡`i cÖwZ kª×v cÖ`k©b Kiv, Zv‡`i
cÖwZ †Kvb cÖKvi KUzevK¨ D”PviY bv Kiv| gv-evevi K_v †g‡b Pjv
(kixqZ we‡ivax bv n‡j)|
20. AvZ¥xqZvi eÜb wQbœ bv Kiv| AvZ¥xq‡`i nK Av`vq Kiv|
21. m`v m”PwiÎ _vKv; wek¦vm fsM bv Kiv; Kv‡iv AvgvbZ AvZ¥mvr bv Kiv;
cÖwZkÖ“wZ A_ev Pzw³ fsM bv Kiv; mevi ms‡M webxZ e¨envi Kiv;
nK`v‡ii nK Av`vq Kiv| mevi ms‡M Bbmv‡di mv‡_ e¨envi Kiv|
22. m`v cwi®‹vi-cwi”Qbœ _vKv, Ges wb‡Ri cwi‡ek‡K cwi”Qbœ ivLv| DËg
†cvkvK cov| me©`v `yM©Ügy³ _vKv| myMwÜ e¨envi Kiv|
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23. GwZg, Amnvq, Mixe I `ye©j‡K Ges bvix I wkï‡K mvnvh¨ Kiv| †Kvb
cÖv_©x‡K wZi®‹vi bv Kiv|
24. AvZ¥xq-eÜz I cokx‡`i Lei †bqv I Zv‡`i mvnvh¨-mnvqZv Kiv|
25. mei Kiv, wec‡` ˆah© aiv Ges Avj−vni Dci wbf©i Kiv|
26. eq‡m eo‡`i m¤§vb Kiv Ges †QvU‡`i Av`i Kiv| †ivMxi Ges e„‡×i
†mev Kiv|
27. †Kvb wKQz †`qv-†bqvi Kv‡j Wvb nvZ e¨envi Kiv|
28. cvqLvbv-†ckv‡ei mgq evg nvZ e¨envi Kiv| `vwo‡q †ckve bv Kiv|
Ges wKejv gywL n‡q cvqLvbv-†ckve bv Kiv|
29. †KD †Kvb cÖkœ Ki‡j nvwmgy‡L Zvi Reve †`qv|
30. †KD wKQz Dcnvi w`‡j Zv MÖnY Kiv, I Zv‡K ab¨ev` †`qv; Ab¨‡K Dcnvi
†`qv; G‡Z †mœn-fvjevmv e„w× cvq|
31. mevi ms‡M fvj e¨envi Kiv, D×Z e¨envi bv Kiv| ivM `gb Kiv|
32. †KD `vIqvZ w`‡j Zv MÖnY Kiv, Aek¨ hw` bv hvIqvi gZ Dchy³ †Kvb
KviY bv _v‡K| `vIqvZ `vZv‡K ab¨ev` †`qv|
33. KvD‡K j¾v bv †`qv; Kv‡iv wZ bv Kiv; Kv‡iv R‡b¨ Aïf wPš—v bv Kiv|
KvD‡K †bvsiv Mvwj bv †`qv| A‡b¨i †`vl-ΓwU bv †LuvRv|
34. †gngv‡bi ms‡M DËg e¨envi Kiv|
35. bvix‡`i wnRve covi Af¨vm M‡o †Zvjv| Akvjxb †cvkvK Z¨vM Kiv|
36. Zvi Mv‡qi Nvg ïKv‡bvi Av‡M kªwg‡Ki cvwikªwgK cÖ`vb Kiv|
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37. mr Kv‡R mva¨gZ `vb-LqivZ Kiv, Ges Ab¨‡`i Drmvn †`qv|
38. mgqgZ mjvZ Av`vq Kiv, mjv‡Z my›`i †cvkvK cov|
39. mnR-mij Rxeb hvcb Kiv, ga¨g cš’v Aej¤^b Kiv, Ges me©`v nvwmLykx
_vKv|
40. Me© I †jvf-jvjmv-K…cYZv cwiZ¨vM Kiv| AcPq bv Kiv|
41. mgqgZ FY cwi‡kva Kiv|
42. cï-cvwLi hZœ †bqv, I‡`i Dci AZ¨vPvi bv Kiv, Kó bv †`qv|
43. evmvi/evwoi Kv‡Ri †jvK‡`i ms‡M mبenvi Kiv, I‡`i Dci AZ¨vPvi bv
Kiv|
44. Ab¨ ag©‡K A_ev Ab¨ a‡g©i †jvK‡K Mvwj bv †`qv|
45. `vwo‡q Pv, Kwd ev cvwb cvb bv Kiv Ges Lvevi e‡m LvIqvi †Póv Kiv|
Av‡iv wKQz wkYxq t
1. gmwR‡` cÖ‡ek Kivi mgq Wvb cv Av‡M w`‡q cÖ‡ek Ki‡Z n‡e Ges
†ei nIqvi mgq evg cv Av‡M w`‡q †ei n‡Z n‡e|
2. RyZv Ges †gvRv civi mgq Wvb cv‡q Av‡M ci‡Z n‡e Zvici evg
cv|
3. †h †Kvb Lvevi memgq Wvb nvZ w`‡q †L‡Z n‡e, †mUv cvwb, Pv,
Kwd, KzwKR, wPc&m ev QgyPv hvB †nvK bv †Kb| Ges GB ai‡Yi
nvjKv Lvev‡ii mgqI Ôwemwgj−vnÕ ej‡Z n‡e| `vwo‡q cvwb cvb
Kiv wVK bq|
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4. Lvevi LvIqv ïi“ Ki‡Z n‡e †c−‡Ui mvg‡bi w`K Ges Wvb cvk
†_‡K A_©vr wb‡Ri w`K †_‡K Av‡M|
5. Lvevi AcPq Kiv hv‡e bv, hZUzKz †L‡Z cvie wVK ZZUyKyB †bqv
DwPZ|
6. †Mvcb A‡½i †jvg Ges †evM‡ji †jvg 40 w`‡bi g‡a¨ cwi®‹vi K‡i
†dj‡Z n‡e|
7. nvZ-cv‡qi bL cÖwZ mßv‡n †K‡U memgq †QvU K‡i ivL‡Z n‡e|
b‡Li g‡a¨ †hb †Kvb gqjv bv _v‡K| †Q‡jiv gv_vi Pzj mgqg‡Zv
KvUv DwPZ|
8. evB‡i †_‡K evmvq wd‡iB fvj K‡i nvZ-gyL ay‡q †bqv DwPZ|
9. Rvgv-Kvco memgq Wvb w`K †_‡K Av‡M civ ïi“ Ki‡Z n‡e|
†hgb Wvb nvZ ev Wvb cv Av‡M|
10. gmwR‡` †M‡j wb‡Ri RyZv Aek¨B my-i¨v‡K my›`i K‡i ivL‡Z n‡e
Ges Ab¨vb¨ Qov‡bv wQUv‡bv RyZv¸‡jv my-i¨v‡K my›`i K‡i mvwR‡q
ivL‡Z cvi‡j fvj|
11. DB›Uv‡i †Kv_vI †M‡j wb‡R‡`i R¨v‡KU¸‡jv my›`i K‡i n¨vsMv‡i
ivL‡Z n‡e Ges GLv‡b †mLv‡b Qwo‡q wQwU‡q ivLv wVK bq|
12. Mvi‡eR¸‡jv‡K mwVK Mvi‡eR we‡bB †dj‡Z n‡e| Ges wimvBwK¬s
AvB‡Ug mwVK we‡b †dj‡Z n‡e|
13. IRy Kivi mgq †Lqvj ivL‡Z n‡e †hb cvwb bv wQ‡U Ges IRy Kivi
ci †hb wms‡Ki Av‡kcv‡k cvwb w`‡q †fRv‡bv bv _v‡K| hw` wf‡R
wM‡q _v‡K Zvn‡j †ccvi UvD‡qj w`‡q gy‡Q †dj‡Z n‡e|
Avmyb Avgiv Av‡iv wKQy KiYxq wk‡L wbB| G¸‡jv PP©vi gva¨‡g Avkv Kiv hvq
Avgv‡`i mš—vbMY †QvU‡ejv n‡ZB wb‡R‡`i‡K †UK‡bvjRxi †Mvjvg bv n‡q
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Avj−vni †Mvjvg wn‡m‡e eo n‡e| A‡_©i c~Rvix bv n‡q b¨vq I Bbmv‡di aviK
n‡e| Materialism Gi `vm bv n‡q Øx‡bi †meK n‡e| D¤§v`bv Avi D‡ËRbv
m„wóKvix Dcv`v‡bi cÖwZ jvjvwqZ bv n‡q hyw³, eyS Avi we‡eKeyw×m¤úbœ
Kv‡Ri Rb¨ jvjvwqZ n‡e|
GK t GKRb gymwjg fwel¨‡Z †Kvb KvR Kivi AvMÖn ev m¤¢vebv cÖKvk Ki‡j
BbkvAvj−vn (A_v©r Avj−vn PvB‡j) ejv| KLb Zv ej‡Z n‡e Zvi D`vniYmn
Abykxjb Ki‡Z n‡e| †hgb t BbkvAvj−vn, Avgiv AvMvgx mvgv‡i `v`v-
`v`x/bvbv-bvbx‡K †`L‡Z evsjv‡`k hv‡ev| A_ev AvMvgx cixvq Avwg fvj
wiRvëm& Kie, BbkvAvj−vn| gnvb Avj−vn Avgv‡`i GwU KyiAv‡b wkwL‡q
w`‡”Qb t
(†n bex!) KL‡bv Avcwb †Kvb wel‡q ej‡eb bv ÒAvwg Kvj G KvR Ki‡ev|Ó
BbkvAvj−vn (Avj−vn B”Qv Ki‡j) GB K_v bv e‡j| (m~iv Kvnvd t 23-24)
`yB t †Kvb gymwjg N‡i cÖ‡e‡ki c~‡e© D”P¯^‡i mvjvg w`‡q mvjv‡gi Rev‡ei
Rb¨ A‡cv K‡i †m N‡i †XvKv| wb‡R‡`i evmvq Aci i“‡gi †fZi AbygwZ
wb‡q †XvKv| Avj−vn e‡jb t
Ò†n gywgbMY! †Zvgiv wb‡R‡`i M„n e¨ZxZ Ac‡ii M„nmg~‡n cÖ‡ek KwiI bv †h
ch©š— bv AbygwZ MÖnY Ki Ges (Zrc~‡e©) Dnvi evwm›`vMY‡K mvjvg Ki; G
cš’vB †Zvgv‡`i c‡ Kj¨vYKi (wcÖq) hv‡Z †Zvgiv mZK© nI|Ó (m~iv b~i :
27)
wZb t KvD‡K we`ªƒc bv Kiv, †nq bv Kiv| A_© Avi we‡Ëi wfwˇZ gvbyl‡K
hvPvB bv Kiv| KvD‡K Lvivc bv‡g bv WvKv|
Ò†n Cgvb`viMY! †Zvgv‡`i GK`j †hb Ab¨ `‡ji cÖwZ we`ªƒc bv K‡i, †Kbbv
n‡Z cv‡i Zviv G‡`i Zzjbvq fv‡jv †jvK Avi †Zvgv‡`i †g‡qiv †hb Ab¨
†g‡q‡`i we`ªƒc bv K‡i, †Kbbv n‡Z cv‡i G‡`i Zzjbvq fv†jv| Avi †Zvgiv
ci¯ú‡ii †`vl Lyu‡R †ewo‡qvbv, ci¯ú‡ii Rb¨ Am¤§vbRbK bvg e¨envi K‡iv
bv| †KD Cgvb Avbvi ci Zv‡K g›` bv‡g WvKv †Mvbvn| Gme KvR †_‡K hviv
ZIev K‡i bv Zviv hvwjg|Ó (m~iv ûRyivZ t 11)
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Pvi t Kv‡iv e¨vcv‡i KzaviYv †cvlY bv Kiv| †Kvb Lei ïb‡j Zv hvPvB K‡i
wm×vš— †bqv|
Ò†n Cgvb`viMY! Lye †ekx Abygvb ev Kz-aviYv †cvlY Kiv †_‡K weiZ _vK|
†Kbbv A‡bK Kz-aviYv †Mvbvni bvgvš—i| †Zvgiv G‡K Ac‡ii †Mvcbxq welq
AbymÜvb K‡ivbv, Ges G‡K A‡b¨i cðv‡Z wb›`v (MxeZ) K‡ivbv|Ó (m~iv
ûRyivZ t 12)
cvuP t †Kvb e× N‡i DuwK bv †`qv| Kv‡iv †Mvcb welq Rvbvi †Póv bv Kiv|
†Kvb Lei ï‡b Zv hvPvB Kiv| hvPvB bv K‡i ïay ï‡bB wKQz GKUv bv K‡i
†djv|
Ò†n Cgvb`viMY! hw` †Kvb dv‡mK e¨w³ †Zvgv‡`i wbKU †Kvb Lei wb‡q
Av‡m, Zvn‡j †Kvb wKQz K‡i emvi c~‡e© welqUv cixv K‡i †`L, hv‡Z AbyZß
bv nI|Ó (m~iv ûRyivZ t 6)
Avm&mvjvgy AvjvBKzg
mvjv‡gi cÖPjb
mš—vb‡`i mvjv‡gi cÖK…Z A_© wkwL‡q w`‡Z n‡e| ÒAvcbvi Dci kvwš— ewl©Z
†nvKÓ ev ÒPeace be upon youÓ| ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Zvi
mg‡q mvjv‡gi Lye †ekx †ekx cÖPjb K‡iwQ‡jb| mvnveviv hLb K…wl KvR
Ki‡Z Ki‡Z Mv‡Qi Avovj n‡Zb Ges GKUz ci hLb Avevi †`Lv n‡Zv ZLb
G‡K Aci‡K mvjvg w`‡Zb| A_v©r Zviv mvivw`‡b AmsL¨evi wb‡R‡`i g‡a¨
mvjvg wewbgq Ki‡Zb| Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K eywS‡q ej‡Z n‡e mvjvg w`‡Z
nq mwZ¨Kvifv‡e Aš—i †_‡K| Zv‡Z †hb artificial wKQz bv _v‡K A_©vr
formalities Gi g‡a¨ †hb mxgve× bv _v‡K| Zvi gv‡b ÒAvwg hLb KvD‡K
mvjvg w`w”Q mwZ¨Kvi A‡_©B Zvi kvwš— Kvgbvi `yÕAv KiwQÓ| mvjvg †`qvi
mgq Zvi A_©Uv g‡bi g‡a¨ ivL‡Z n‡e A_©vr Avwg Zvi Rb¨ g½j Kvgbv
KiwQ| †hgb Avgiv hLb Rvgv‡Z bvgvh cwo ZLb bvgvh †k‡l Wv‡b ev‡g
Avm&mvjvgy AvjvBKzg e‡j bvgvh †kl Kwi| Avgiv hLb bvgv‡h Avm&mvjvgy
AvjvBKzg ewj ZLb Avgv‡`i g‡bi g‡a¨ _vKv DwPZ †h t Ò†n Avj−vn, Avgvi
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Wv‡b hviv Av‡Q Zv‡`i‡K kvwš—‡Z ivL Ges ev‡g hviv Av‡Q Zv‡`i‡KI kvwš—‡Z
ivLÓ|
Avgvi mš—v‡bi wkv
1. mevB‡K mvjvg †`qvi A‡f¨m Ki‡Z n‡e| n‡Z cv‡i †m †QvU ev eo
ev eÜz|
2. evmvq Xy‡KB evmvi mKj‡K mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
3. Lvwj evmvq Xy‡KI mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e, KviY N‡i ing‡Zi wdwikZv
_v‡K|
4. Nyg †_‡K D‡V evmvq hvi mv‡_ †`Lv n‡e Zv‡KB mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
5. Nygv‡Z hvIqvi Av‡M mvevB‡K mvjvg w`‡q Nygv‡Z †h‡Z n‡e|
6. gmwR‡` Xy‡KB mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e, †KD †fZ‡i _vKzK Avi bvB _vKzK|
Lvwj gmwR‡`I wdwikZv _v‡K|
7. †dvb Avm‡j wiwmfvi DwV‡qB Av‡M mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
8. †Kv_vI †dvb Ki‡j me© cÖ_‡g mvjvg w`‡q ïi“ Ki‡Z n‡e|
9. †dv‡b K‡_vcK‡_vb †kl n‡j mvjvg w`‡q †dvb ivL‡Z n‡e|
10. Kv‡iv evmvq †M‡j cÖ_‡g Xy‡KB mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
11. iv¯—v-Nv‡U gymwjg Kv‡iv mv‡_ †`Lv n‡jB Zv‡K mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
n‡Z cv‡i †m evev-gvi eÜz ev AcwiwPZ|
12. Kv‡iv †_‡K we`vq †bqvi mgq mvjvg w`‡Z n‡e|
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13. fyj ms‡kvab t mvjvg‡K weK…Z Kiv hv‡e bv A_©vr Ò¯−vgyqvjvBKzgÓ
ejv hv‡e bv, KviY GB weK„Z mvjv‡gi †Kvb A_© nq bv| Zv‡`i‡K
ej‡Z n‡e m¤ú~Y© mvjvg cwi®‹vifv‡e w`‡Z ÒAvm&mvjvgy AvjvBKzgÓ|
14. bb-gymwjg‡`i‡K ”Pleace be upon you” ejv ‡h‡Z cv‡i|
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P¨vcUvi 5
Avgvi mš—v‡bi wbfy©j Ávb
AR©b
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
fyj wkv †_‡K mveavbZv
Bmjv‡gi Dci evRv‡i A‡bK eB-B cvIqv hvq hv‡Z gvby‡li g‡a¨ Av‡eM
(RR&ev) m„wói Rb¨ Ggb me K_v Zz‡j aiv n‡q‡Q hv mZ¨ bq, hv KziAvbnv`x‡mi
Av‡jv‡K MÖnY‡hvM¨ bq| AmZ¨ w`‡q gvbyl‡K m‡Z¨i c‡_ Avnevb
Kiv hvq bv| ZvB mivmwi KziAvb I mnxn& nv`x‡mi †idv‡iÝ Qvov †Kvb Ijx,
eyRyM© ev gyi“eŸxi evbv‡bv †K”Qv-Kvwnbx †g‡b †bqv wVK bq| hyM cwieZ©b n‡q
†M‡Q, gvby‡li Áv‡bi cwiwa †e‡o‡Q| mnxn& nv`xm, Rvj nv`xm, `ye©j nv`x‡mi
eB evRv‡i cvIqv hvq, Zv hvPvB-evQvB K‡i Avgv‡`i cov‡kvbv Kiv DwPr|
Bewjm kqZv‡bi cwjwm †_‡K mveavbZv Aej¤^b
Bewjm kqZv‡bi cwjwm n‡”Q gymwjg‡`i‡K KziAv‡bi mwVK wkv †_‡K `~‡i
mwi‡q ivLv, KziAv‡bi mwVK e¨vL¨v eyS‡Z bv †`qv| KviY Avwg hw` KziAvb
ey‡S †mB Abyhvqx Avgvi Rxeb Pvjv‡Z _vwK Zvn‡j †mLv‡bB Bewjm kqZv‡bi
e¨_©Zv| ZvB kqZvb my‡KŠk‡j gvbyl‡K †evKv evbv‡bvi Rb¨ †e‡Q wb‡q‡Q
KziAvb‡KB wKš‘ wfbœ Dcv‡q| †hgb t Lye mn‡R wKfv‡e wKQz `yÕAv-`yiƒ` c‡i
RvbœvZ jvf Kiv hv‡e, †Kvb `yÕAv KZ nvRvi evi co‡j wK n‡e BZ¨vw`
BZ¨vw`| GB ai‡Yi Avg‡ji †Kvb mnxn `wjj KziAvb ev mnxn nv`x‡m †bB|
evRv‡i GB ai‡Yi A‡bK eB-B cvIqv hvq, †hgb t gK¡Qz`yj †gvwgbxb,
†e‡nk‡Zi c_, †bqvgyj KziAvb, Avg‡j bvRvZ, Avgv‡j KziAvb, †e‡nw¯—
†RIi (1g LÛ), †mv‡jgvbx Lvebvgv, b~ivbx gRgyqv‡q cv‡ÄMvbv AwRdv BZ¨vw`
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BZ¨vw`| ZvB GB ai‡Yi wfwËnxb eB-cÎ, AwRdv Ges gvby‡li evbv‡bv `yiƒ`
n‡Z Lye mveavb|
Bewjm kqZvb Avgv‡`i A‡bK cÖKvi mIqv‡ei †jvf †`Lvq, Rvbœv‡Z hvIqvi
mnR c_ †`Lvq| †m e‡j GB `yÕAv 40 evi co‡j 80 erm‡ii ¸bvn gvd n‡q
hv‡e, H `yiƒ` G‡Zvevi co‡j 1 j wdwikZv wKqvgZ ch©š— `yÕAv Ki‡Z
_v‡K| G K_v ï‡b Avgiv ewj Ômyenvbvj−vnÕ, Gi dwRjZ G‡Zv! Gi gva¨‡g
cÖKvivš—‡i ¸bv‡ni cÖwZ gvby‡li fq Kwg‡q †`qv n‡”Q, Aciva cÖeYZv †e‡o
hv‡”Q| ZLb gvbyl g‡b K‡i 2-5Uv ¸bvn Ki‡j wK Avi wZ n‡e AgyK `yÕAv
co‡j †Zv 80 eQ‡ii ¸bvn gvd n‡qB hv‡e| Gfv‡e kqZvb Am‡PZb
†jvK‡`i‡K j j mIqv‡ei †jvf †`wL‡q Bmjv‡gi g~j wkv †_‡K `~‡i
mwi‡q iv‡L|
g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, Avwg Avgvi Rxe‡b Bev`Z g‡b K‡i hv wKQz Ki‡ev Zv
Aek¨B KziAvb A_ev mnxn nv`x‡m Aek¨B _vK‡Z n‡e| †KD hw` Avgv‡K
†Kvb †¯úkvj `yÕAv-`yiƒ` ev †Kvb gnvc~‡Y¨i AvgjI wkwL‡q †`q Zvn‡j
Aek¨B Zvi authentic `wjj PvB‡ev A_ev Avwg wb‡R KziAvb I mnxn nv`xm
†Nu‡U Zv Aek¨B hvPvB K‡i †b‡ev|
Øx‡bi ¯^”Q aviYv
Øxb Bmjvg m¤ú‡K© mwVK
aviYv cÖ`vb
Øxb kãwUi cÖPwjZ wKš‘ Ac~Y©v½ A_© n‡”Q ag©| G‡Z Øx‡bi cy‡ivcywi A_© cÖKvk
cvq bv| Gi cÖK…Z A_© e¨vcK| Z‡e ms‡‡c I GKK_vq Øxb k‡ãi A_© t
Rxeb-weavb| Avj KyiAv‡b Øxb kãwU K‡qK ai‡Yi A‡_© e¨envi n‡q‡Q| Gi
g‡a¨ Rxe‡bi mKj †gŠwjK wel‡qi wb‡`©kbv cvIqv hvq| gymwjg Rb‡Mvôxi
†ekxi fvMB AvR Øxb m¤^‡Ü wKQz bv †R‡bI Rvbvi fvb K‡i wbwØ©avq Øxb
we‡ivax KvR Pvwj‡q hv‡”Q| eis †KD evav w`‡j Pig AÁZvi cwiPq w`‡q ZK©
ïi“ K‡i †`q| †Kej mjvZ-wmqvg cvjb‡K Øxb g‡b Ki‡Q| e¨vcK Rb‡Mvôx
Øx‡bi A‡cvK…Z Kg I A¯úó welq‡K AwaK ¸i“Z¡c~Y© I my¯úó welqvw`i
Dci ¯’vb w`‡q weK…wZi cÖwZ‡hvwMZvq we‡fvi i‡q‡Q| myZivs †Kvb e¨w³‡K
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Øx‡bi †gŠwjK welqvw` m¤ú‡K© Rvbv‡bv I eySv‡bvi Rb¨ b~b¨Zg f~wgKv ivLvI
†h KZ eo c~‡Y¨i KvR Zv ejvi A‡cv iv‡L bv|
Øx‡bi mwVK Ávb I Dcjwä
(Clear Knowledge & Understanding)
nv`xm kix‡d ejv n‡q‡Q t Avj−vn ZvÕAvjv hv‡K Kj¨vY `vb Ki‡Z B”Qv K‡ib,
Zv‡K wZwb Øxb m¤ú‡K© c~Y© Ávb I Zv Dcjwä Kivi gZv (clear
knowledge & understanding) `vb K‡ib (gymbv‡` Avngv`)|
Øx‡bi mwVK Ávb I Dcjwä jvf Avj−vni Ki“Yv I B”Qvi Dci wbf©i K‡i| †h
†KD PvB‡jB GUv †c‡Z cv‡i bv| Z‡e Ae¨vnZ cÖ‡Póv, cÖej B”Qv I me©`v
Avj−vni AbyMZ ev›`vM‡Yi Øx‡bi Ávb I Dcjwä cvIqvi m¤¢vebv _v‡K| G
ai‡Yi fvM¨evb‡`i mv‡_ K_v ej‡jB eySv hvq †h Zviv Ab¨‡`i PvB‡Z wKQzUv
e¨wZµg| Zviv Øx‡bi wewfbœ wel‡q MZvbyMwZK e¨vL¨v †`b bv| Zviv Øxb‡K Lye
my›`i K‡i gvby‡li wbKU Dc¯’vcb Ki‡Z cv‡ib| Zviv Øxb m¤ú‡K© GK †kªYxi
gvby‡li gv‡S †h fyj aviYv e×g~j Zv `~i Kivi †Póv K‡ib| AÁ †jvK‡`i
_vev n‡Z †ei K‡i Øxb‡K MYgvby‡li mvg‡b mnR mij fvlvq Zz‡j a‡ib| G
ai‡Yi Cgvb`vi‡`i gva¨‡g Avj−vn Øx‡bi †mŠ›`h© I †kvfv mgv‡R, iv‡óª I
mgMÖ `ywbqv‡Z Qwo‡q †`b| LuywUbvwU wel‡qi w`‡K †ekx ¸i“Z¡ bv w`‡q eis
Øx‡bi †gŠwjK wel‡qi cÖwZ bRi †`qvB _v‡K Zv‡`i cÖavb j¨| Zviv mevB‡K
msMwVZ Kivi w`‡KI gb †`b| gymwjg‡`i HK¨ Zv‡`i ¯^cœ, wek¦gymwj‡gi
åvZ…Z¡ AR©b Zv‡`i AvKv•v, gymwjg‡`i wkv Zv‡`i Kg©m~Px| Øx‡bi mgS
whwb jvf K‡ib Zvi g‡bi `yqvi KL‡bv e× _v‡K bv| Áv‡bi wccvmv I Rvbvi
AvMÖn Zvi A`g¨|
KyiAvb A_© I e¨vL¨vmn ey‡S cov
Avj-KyiAvb bvgK me©‡kl wKZve Rxeb cwiPvjbvi Rb¨ GKwU cwic~Y©
MvBWjvBb| Gi cwic~Y© e¨enviB cÖK„Z myd‡ji wbðqZv weavb K‡i| Gi
AvswkK AbymiY BnKvjxb jvÃbv I ciKvjxb Avhv‡ei mymsev` cÖ`vb K‡i| G
e¨vcv‡i Avj−vn gvbyl‡K Av‡MB mZK© K‡i w`‡q‡Qb GB e‡jb †h t
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“†Zvgiv wK wKZv‡ei wKQz Ask gvb‡e Avi wKQz Ask A¯^xKvi Ki‡e †R‡b
ivL, †Zvgv‡`i g‡a¨ hv‡`iB Giƒc AvPiY n‡e Zv‡`i GQvov Avi wK kvw¯— n‡Z
cv‡i †h Zviv cvw_©e Rxe‡b AcgvwbZ I jvwÃZ n‡Z _vK‡e Ges ciKv‡j
Zv‡`i‡K K‡VviZg kvw¯—i w`‡K wb‡c Kiv n‡e †Zvgiv hv wKQz Ki Avj−vn
AeMZ Av‡Qb|” (m~iv Avj evKviv t 85)
G ai‡Yi my¯úó K‡Vvi ûuwkqvix m‡Ë¡I ïay bv Rvbvi Kvi‡Y Avgiv µgvMZ
Avj−vi wKZv‡ei cÖwZ nvm¨Ki AvPiY K‡iB hvw”Q| G wKZve‡K mwebv LZg
Avi m~iv Bqvmxb cvV Kivi Rb¨ e¨envi K‡i hvw”Q| †h wKZve Avgv‡`i
hveZxq Avmgvbx I Rwgbx mdjZvq †kªô‡Z¡i gh©v`vq f~wlZ Ki‡Z cviZ
†mwUi KvQ n‡Z Avgiv ïay mvgvb¨ mIqve Av`v‡qi Rb¨ Avi g„‡Zi KzjLvwbi
Rb¨ e¨envi KiwQ| A_P GwU we¯—vwiZ A_©mn c‡o Avgv‡`i †R‡b †bqv DwPZ
wKfv‡e Avgiv GKwU †mvbvjx mg„w×kvjx Rxeb Mo‡Z cvwi hv Avgv‡`i
BnKvjxb I ciKvjxb Rxe‡bi mȳ úó mdjZvi M¨vivw›U w`‡Z cv‡i| Avj−vn
Zuvi bex‡K e‡jwQ‡jb t
Ò†n bex! †Zvgvi cÖwZ KyiAvb GBRb¨ bvwRj Kwi bvB †h Bnv m‡Ë¡I Zzwg
AK…ZKvh©/AmyLx n‡q _vK‡e|Ó (m~iv Z¡vnv t 2)
Avmyb Avgiv Avj−vni me©‡kªô wbqvgZ Avj-KyiAvb ey‡S covi †Póv Kwi,
ivm~jyj−vni mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg mybœvZ we¯—vwiZ c‡o †R‡b wbB Ñ
wKfv‡e GKwU DbœZ ˆbwZKZvm¤úbœ myLx-mg„× cwievi I mgvR Mo‡Z cvwi|
Avj−vn Avgv‡`i Zvi Øxb‡K cwic~Y©fv‡e †R‡b Gi c~Y© Abymi‡Yi †ZŠwdK w`b|
BnKvjxb jvÃbv I ciKvjxb Avhve n‡Z cwiÎvY w`b|
h‡_ó cwigvY Aa¨q‡bi ci mIqv‡ei D‡Ï‡k¨ ev KyiAv‡bi gg©evYx n†Z dvq`v
nvwm‡ji D‡Ï‡k¨, KyiAv‡bi cÖwZ Avcbvi kª×v I Gi gh©v`v Dcjwä K‡i hw`
wZjvIqvZ Ki‡Z Pvb Zvn‡j †Kvb †`vl †bB| wKš‘ G †evKvgx †hb bv Kwi †h
Ñ †`vKv‡b wM‡q ejv fvB, evB‡i †`Ljvg Buy one, Get one free
mvBb‡evW©| †Zv Avgv‡K d«xUv w`‡q w`b| ïay wZjvIqvZKvix‡`i Ae¯’v
A‡bKUv †miKg| Amy¯’ nIqvi ci Wv³vi †h †cÖmwµckb †`b Zv `k nvRvi
evi co‡jI (A_©vr wZjvIqvZ Ki‡j) wK Avgvi AmyL mvi‡e †gv‡UI bv|
Avgv‡K H Jla¸wj wK‡b e¨envi Ki‡Z n‡e| Zvn‡jB †Kej Avwg †ivMgyw³i
Avkv Ki‡Z cvwi| Avj-KyiAvb n‡jv Rxe‡bi mKj mgm¨vi †cÖmwµckb| GUv
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Aa¨qb K‡i Abyaveb K‡i Gi wkv Kv‡R jvMv‡bvi Rb¨ KyiAvb cvVv‡bv
n‡q‡Q| Avwg hw` A_© Qvov GUv †Kej wiwWs c‡o hvB Zvn‡j GUv KyiAvb
cvVv‡bvi g~j j¨ e¨_© K‡i †`‡e| ZvB AvRB A_©mn KyiAv‡bi Zvdmxi
msMÖn Kwi Ges cÖwZw`b 15 wgwbU †_‡K 1 N›Uv wbqwgZ Aa¨qb Kwi Ges
KyiAv‡bi Av‡jv‡K Rxeb‡K M‡o Zwzj|
Avgvi mš—v‡bi mwVK AvwK`v
AvKx`v n‡jv Bmjv‡gi wfwË I g~j| ÒAvKx`vÓ kãwUi cvwifvwlK A_© n‡jv t
wek¦vm‡K g‡b Ggbfv‡e aviY Kiv hv‡Z Gi gv‡S †Kvb m‡›`‡ni AeKvk bv
_v‡K| KviY Bmjvg Avj−vn cÖ`Ë gvby‡li Rb¨ Rxebweavb| ZvB Zuvi
Rxebweavb gvb‡Z n‡j me©v‡MÖ Zuvi cÖwZ wek¦vm ¯’vcb Ki‡Z n‡e| wØZxqZ,
AvKx`v n‡jv Avgj Keyj nIqvi c~e©kZ©| †Kbbv AvKx`v hw` weï× bv nq,
Zvn‡j hveZxq K_v I KvR Avj−vni wbKU evwZj e‡j MY¨ nq| Avj−vn e‡jb t
Ò†KD Cgvb (Bmjvg) cÖZ¨vL¨vb Ki‡j Zvi Kg© wbõj n‡e Ges †m ciKv‡j
wZMÖ¯—‡`i Aš—f~©³ n‡e|Ó (m~iv Av‡j Bgivb t 85)
Z…ZxqZ, AvwLiv‡Z bvRvZ jv‡fi R‡b¨ AvKx`v weï× nIqv AZ¨vek¨K|
Dc‡ivwj−wLZ AvqvZ Øviv Avgiv ZvB eyS‡Z cvwi| PZz_©Z, hy‡M hy‡M bexivmyjM‡Yi
`vIqv‡Zi g~j welqe¯‘ wQj AvKx`v| cÖ‡Z¨K bex cÖ_‡g AvKx`vi
`vIqvZ w`‡Zb| gnvbex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg GR‡b¨B g°vq me©cÖ_g
AvKx`v ms‡kva‡bi R‡b¨ cÖ‡Póv Pvwj‡qwQ‡jb| gymwjg gvÎB Bmjvwg AvKx`vq
wek¦vmx n‡Z n‡e| †h e¨w³ Avj−vn I Zuvi †cÖwiZ ivmy‡j wek¦vm ¯’vcb K‡i Ges
Zuvi wewawb‡la †g‡b P‡j †m gymwjg Ges †h Gi e¨wZµg K‡i †m Bmjv‡gi
`„wó‡Z Kvwdi ev Awek¦vmx| Avi gy‡L †h e¨w³ Bmjv‡gi K_v †NvlYv K‡i wKš‘
Aš—‡i wek¦vm K‡i bv, †mB e¨w³ n‡jv gybvwdK| gybvwdK Kvwdi n‡ZI
wbK…óZi I gvivZœK| GB R‡b¨ Avj−vn ZvÕAvjv e‡jb t
ÒgybvwdKiv †Zv Rvnvbœv‡gi wbgœZg ¯—‡i _vK‡e|Ó (m~iv Avb wbmv t 145)
gvbe Rxe‡b AvKx`vi cÖfve t AvKx`v gvbe Rxe‡bi Awe‡”Q`¨ Ask| AvKx`v
Qvov gvbe Rxeb Kíbv Kiv hvq bv| gvbyl Avg„Zÿ †Kvb bv †Kvb fv‡e †Kvb
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wbw`©ó AvKx`v ev wek¦vm jvjb K‡i _v‡K| AvKx`v gvby‡li Rxe‡b Aš—‡ii
cweÎZv I wPš—vavivi ¯^”QZv weavb K‡i| †m me mg‡qB g‡b K‡i †h GB
`ywbqvB Zvi Rxe‡bi †kl bq| Zvi mvg‡b ¯’vqx Rxeb Zvi R‡b¨ A‡cv
Ki‡Q| d‡j Rxe‡b Pjvi c‡_ †m Avj−vn‡K Qvov Avi KvD‡K fq K‡i bv|
AvKx`v Rxe‡bi `„wófw½, j¨ I D‡Ïk¨ wba©viY K‡i Ges Rxebhy‡× Zv‡K
Avkvev`x K‡i †Zv‡j| Kj¨vYKi Kv‡R †m AMÖMvgx nq| Bmjvwg AvKx`v
gvbyl‡K Bmjv‡gi e¨vcv‡i Av‡cvlnxb K‡i †Zv‡j| Bmjvwg AvKx`vi wfwˇZ
gvbeRvwZi HK¨ I msnwZ cÖwZôv m¤¢e|
Bmjvwg AvKx`vi Drm t Bmjvwg AvKx`vi GKgvÎ Drm n‡jv Avj- KziAvbyj
Kixg I mnxn nv`xmmg~n| KziAvb I mybœvni Av‡jv‡K AvKx`vi g~j welq QqwU
t 1) Avj−vn ZvÕAvjvi cÖwZ Cgvb 2) wdwikZvM‡Y Cgvb 3) Avmgvbx
wKZvemg~‡n Cgvb 4) bex-ivmyjM‡Yi Dci Cgvb 5) AvwLiv‡Z Cgvb 6)
ZvK`x‡ii fvj-g‡›` Cgvb|
ZvB GB wel‡q mwVK Ávb AR©‡bi Rb¨ wb‡gœi wj‡ói eB¸‡jv msMÖn K‡i
Aek¨B mš—vb‡`i w`‡Z n‡e|
1. Fundamentals of Tawheed – Dr. Bilal Philips
2. The Book of Tawheed – Darussalam Publications
3. The Concise Coll. Creed Tauhid - Darussalam Publications
4. The Many Shades of Shirk - Darussalam Publications
5. Four Principles of Shirk – Muhammad Bin Abdul Wahhab
6. Commentary on the Three Fundamental Principles of Islam -
Darussalam
mš—vb‡K ZvInx` I wki&K Ges mybœvZ I
we`ÕAvZ m¤ú‡K© mwVK aviYv cÖ`vb
ZvInx` I wki&K Ges mybœvZ I we`ÕAvZ GB PviwU welq m¤ú‡K© Avgv‡`i
cÖ‡Z¨KwU gymwj‡gi ¯úó aviYv _vKv cª‡qvRb| wkiK ZvInx‡`i wecixZ Avi
we`ÕAvZ mybœv‡Zi wecixZ| wkiK jv-Bjvnv Bj−vj−vû -- Kv‡jgvi GB cÖ_g
As‡ki A¯^xK…wZ| Avi we`ÕAvZ n‡”Q gynv¤§v`yi ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg Kv‡jgvi GB †klvs‡ki wecixZ Ges Aš—i †_‡K Zvi A¯^xK…wZ|
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ZvInx` t ÔZvInx`Õ gv‡b Avj−vni GKZ¡| Avj−vni G GKZ¡ mvwe©K, c~Y©v½
Ges me©vZ¥K| G `„wó‡Z Avj−vn ïay m„wóKZ©vB bb wZwb GKgvÎ cvjbKZ©v,
gvwjK, wiwhK`vZv, ivKZ©v I AvBb-weavb`vZvI e‡Ub| AZGe gvbyl fq
Ki‡e †Kej Avj−vn‡K, Bev`Z-e‡›`Mx I `vmZ¡ Ki‡e GKgvÎ Avj−vni|
wki&K t kixq‡Zi cwifvlvq wkiK n‡”Q Avj−vni Bev`‡Zi mv‡_, Avj−vni
bv‡gi mv‡_, Avj−vni ¸‡Yi mv‡_, Avj−vni Kv‡Ri mv‡_ Ges Avj−vni mËvi
mv‡_ Ab¨ KvD‡K Askx`vi Kiv ev Zzjbv Kiv A_ev Avj−vni mgK evbv‡bv|
mybœvZ t mybœvZ n‡jv †mB g~j Av`k© hv Avj−vn ZvÕAvjvi wb‡`©‡k ivm~‡j Kixg
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg wb‡R Zuvi ev¯—e Rxe‡b Øxwb `vwqZ¡ cvj‡bi
wekvj †‡Î AbymiY K‡i‡Qb; AbymiY Kivi R‡b¨ `„óvš— (MvBWjvBb) wn‡m‡e
†i‡L †M‡Qb `ywbqvi gvby‡li mvg‡b|
we`ÕAvZ t we`ÕAvZ ejv nq Ggb welq¸‡jv‡K, hv ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg I mvnvevM‡Yi hy‡M Øxb I mIqv‡ei KvR wn‡m‡e cÖPwjZ wQj bv|
fvj ev mIqv‡ei KvR g‡b K‡i b~Zb gbMov Bev`‡Zi bvgB nj we`ÔAvZ|
A_©vr ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg hv K‡ib bvB Zv mIqv‡ei D‡Ï‡k¨
Kivi bvgB we`ÕAvZ Zv hZ AvKl©Yxq-B †nvK bv †Kb|
we‡kl †bvU t
`yt‡Li welq, Avgiv evsjv‡`‡ki †ewki fvM gvbylB Rvwbbv †h Øxb Bmjvg
m¤ú‡K© Avgiv Rvwb bv| Avgiv BwÛqv, cvwK¯—vb Ges evsjv‡`‡ki AwaKvsk
gvbylB Øxb Bmjv‡gi c~‡Y¨i KvR g‡b K‡i Lye †ekx †ekx wkiK I we`ÕAvZx
KvR wbqwgZ K‡i hvw”Q| Avgiv Øxb Bmjv‡g hv †bB Zv dih g‡b K‡i †ekx
†ekx K‡i cvjb KiwQ, Avevi hv AwZ ¸i“Z¡c~Y© nq Zv cvjb KiwQ bv ev
AvswkKfv‡e cvjb KiwQ| Avgiv KziAvb †_‡K wb‡R‡`i‡K A‡bK `~‡i mwi‡q
†i‡L wb‡R‡`i gbMov Bmjvg cvjb K‡i hvw”Q| ZvB GB wel‡q mwVK Ávb
AR©‡bi Rb¨ Avgv‡`i †jLv ”The Way is One” ev ÒGKUvB c_Ó GB eBwU
msMÖn K‡i Aek¨B c‡o †bqv DwPZ|
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Mvb, KweZv, Mí-Dcb¨vm, bvUK, wm‡bgv
Ges evOvjx KvjPv‡ii bv‡g bvbv iKg
wkiK!
1. Avgiv wK KL‡bv wPš—v K‡i †`‡LwQ †h Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i †eªB‡b evOvwj
KvjPvi Avi d¨vk‡bi bv‡g Avj−vn-we‡ivax wek¦vm XyK‡Q †hgb, ˆekvLx
†gjvi bv‡g A‡bK KvR-Kg©B n‡q _v‡K hv mȳ úó wkiK|
2. Avgiv wK KL‡bv Mfxifv‡e †Lqvj K‡iwQ †h Avwg Ges Avgvi mš—v‡biv
Kx ai‡Yi eB ev Mí-Dcb¨vm-KweZv cowQ Ges GB ai‡Yi Mí-Dcb¨vm
ev KweZvi gva¨‡g †¯−v-cqR‡b Avgiv bvbv iKg wki‡K Avµvš— nw”Q
3. Avgiv wK KL‡bv wPš—v K‡i †`‡LwQ †h Avwg Ges Avgvi mš—v‡biv
mvaviYZ wK ai‡Yi Mvb ï‡b _vwK iex›`ª m½xZ ewj, Avi cj−xMxwZ ewj,
Avi gvidwZ ewj, Avi †`kvZ¥‡evaK ewj, Avi jvjbMxwZ ewj, Avi e¨vÛ
m½xZ ewj GB ai‡Yi Mv‡bi A‡bK K_v‡ZB i‡q‡Q wkiK! g‡b ivL‡Z
n‡e †h wki‡Ki ¸bvn Avj−vn KL‡bvB gv Ki‡eb bv|
4. Avwg wK KL‡bv wPš—v K‡iwQ †h Avwg Ges Avgvi cwiev‡ii mevB wg‡j
wbqwgZ Kx ai‡Yi bvUK-wm‡bgv (ALv`¨-KzLv`¨) †`LwQ GB ai‡Yi
bvUK-wm‡bgv, wnw›` wmwiqvj, wnw›` gywf Avgv‡`i‡K mwVK KziAv‡bi c_
†_‡K Av‡¯— Av‡¯— `~‡i mwi‡q wb‡q hv‡”Q| A‡bK wnw›` gywfi g‡a¨B _v‡K
wn›`y‡`i cyRv hv Avwg †`LwQ Ges wki‡Ki cÖkªq w`w”Q| Avevi wnw›` gywf
hLb ïi“ nq ZLb †`e-†`exi bv‡g ïi“ nq| Avmyb GKwUevi Mfxifv‡e
†f‡e †`wL Avgvi N‡i Avwg GB †UK‡bvjwRi gva¨‡g AvaywbK Dcv‡q
wn›`y‡`i gywZ© cyRvi Avkªq w`w”Q Zvi gv‡b wb‡R‡`i N‡iB cyRv n‡”Q|
5. AvRKvj Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv iK m½xZ Lye fvjev‡m| Avwg wK Rvwb
AvRKvjKvi iK m½uxZ (Rock music)-Gi A‡bK MvqKivB ixwZg‡Zv
Bewjm (kqZv‡bi) c~Rv K‡i _v‡K Ges Zv‡`i Mv‡bi K_v¸‡jv n‡”Q H
kqZv‡bi Bev`Z †hgb t G ai‡Yi GKwU Mv‡bi jvBb Ò†n Avgvi cÖfy
kqZvb ... Avgv‡K Uvb‡Z Uvb‡Z †n‡j (Rvnvbœv‡g) wb‡q hvI .....Ó| mš—
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v‡bi wcZv-gvZv wn‡m‡e Avwg wK GKwUevi wPš—v K‡i †`‡LwQ †h Avgvi
mš—v‡biv wK ai‡Yi Bswjk Mvb ïb‡Q Zv‡`i Kv‡bi g‡a¨ †h mvivY
AvBc‡Wi †nW‡dvb jvMv‡bv _v‡K Zv‡Z Zviv wK ïb‡Q Avi wK AR©b
Ki‡Q KviY GB ai‡Yi A‡bK Mv‡bi K_vB wkiK wgwkªZ Ges Avj−vn
we‡ivax|
mš—vb‡`i‡K Avj−vni mv‡_
cwiPq Kwi‡q †`qv
m~iv jyKgvb Avj KziAv‡bi 31 bv¤^vi m~iv| GB jyKgvb †Kvb bex wQ‡jb
bv, gnvb Avj−vn Zv‡K Lye cQ›` Ki‡Zb| KviY wZwb Ávb PP©v Ki‡Zb
Ges Zvi mš—vb‡`i‡K gnvb cÖfyi mv‡_ cwiPq Kwi‡q w`‡qwQ‡jb| ZvB
Avj−vn wb`k©b¯^iƒc Zvi bv‡g GKwU m~iv bvwRj K‡i‡Qb| we¯—vwiZ Rvbvi
Rb¨ m~iv †jvKgv‡bi Zvdmxi co‡Z cvwi|
mš—vb‡`i wbKU gvbeZvi eÜz gynv¤§` (mv.)
Gi cwiPq Zz‡j awi
mš—vb‡`i c„w_exi †kªô gvbylwUi mv‡_ we¯—vwiZfv‡e cwiwPZ Kwi‡q †`B| wZwb
†h Avj−vni bex I gvbeZvi †kl bex Zv eywS‡q †`B| mš—vb‡K eywS‡q ewj
wZwb wQ‡jb mePvB‡Z my›`i Pwi‡Îi AwaKvix| wZwb †QvU‡`iI eÜz wQ‡jb|
†QvUiv ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-†K Lye fvjevm‡Zv, wZwbI †QvU‡`i
fvjevm‡Zb| Avgvi mš—vb‡K ewj †h ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg †kªô
gvbe`i`x wQ‡jb, wZwb †h †kªô wePviK wQ‡jb, m‡ev©Ëg gvbyl wQ‡jb, mdj
ivóªbvqK wQ‡jb, DËg ¯^vgx wQ‡jb, Av`k© wcZv wQ‡jb, Avj−vni mKj mxgvi
msiYKvix wQ‡jb, gvbeZvev`x †mbvcwZ wQ‡jb (me©wbgœ †jvK ‡q wZwb hy×
†kl Ki‡Zb, kΓc‡i AvnZ †jvK‡`i †mev Ki‡Zb| bvix, e„×, wkï, cv`ªx,
ag©kvjv, djeZx MvQ, dmj BZ¨vw` wZwb hy‡×i AvIZvi evB‡i ivL‡Zb A_v©r
G‡`i AvµgY Ki‡Zb bv)| G welq¸wji †cQ‡b †h BwZnvm Av‡Q Zv
MívKv‡i ïwb‡q †`B| ewj Avgv‡`i Rb¨ m‡ev©Ëg Av`k© n‡jb †kl bex
gynv¤§` mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg| Bs‡iRx‡Z Gme eB Lye mn‡R wKb‡Z
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cvIqv hvq| GQvovI ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Gi Rxebxi Dci
gywf I Kv©Uyb cvIqv hvq, †m¸‡jvI msMÖn Kwi Ges cwiev‡ii mK‡j wg‡j
†`wL|
Myth of Halloween: inm¨c~Y© †n‡jvBb
Avgiv hviv GB cwðgv †`k¸‡jv‡Z emevm KiwQ Ges mš—vb‡`i‡K gvbyl KiwQ
Zv‡`i‡K Kzms¯‹vi I AvR¸we wg_¨vq fiv †n‡jvB‡bi Rb¥K_v Rvbv‡bv LyeB
cÖ‡qvRb| KviY Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv Lye †QvU eqm †_‡KB GB Kzms¯‹vi‡ii
cÖfv‡e cÖfvweZ n‡”Q| cÖwZ eQi A‡±ve‡ii 31 Zvwi‡L †n‡jvBb Drhvcb Kiv
n‡q _v‡K| †n‡jvBb cvjb Kiv Bmjv‡gi `„wó‡Z mȳ úó wb‡la KviY
†n‡jvB‡bi Gme †Zv mivmwi f~Z‡cÖ‡Zi c~Rv hv wbtm‡›`‡n wkiK| AwZ `yt‡Li
welq Avgiv wcZv-gvZviv A‡b‡KB G m¤ú‡K© bv Rvbvi Kvi‡Y mܨvi ci
ev”Pv‡`i wb‡q evmvq evmvq K¨vwÛ Kzov‡Z hvB, mš—vb‡`i †n‡jvBb D`hvcb
Kivi Rb¨ KwóDg wK‡b †`B Ges H iv‡Z Zv‡`i‡K weK…Z K‡i kqZv‡bi
mv‡R mvwR‡q †`B| Avgv‡`i DwPZ Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K GB wel‡q mȳ úó
Ávb `vb Kiv, Zv‡`i‡K mwVK Z_¨ w`‡q eySv‡bv †h Avgiv gymwjgiv †Kb GB
†n‡jvBb cvjb Ki‡Z cvi‡ev bv| Internet G search Ki‡jB †n‡jvB‡bi we¯—
vwiZ BwZnvm cvIqv hv‡e| GQvov Avgv‡`i mv‡_ BwZnvm Rvbvi Rb¨
†hvMv‡hvM Ki‡Z cv‡ib|
History of Christmas: Lªxógv‡mi M~p inm¨
Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv hviv GLvbKvi cvewjK ¯‹z‡j c‡o Zviv ¯‹zj †_‡KB Lªxógvm
m¤ú‡K© GKUv fyj aviYv wb‡q eo n‡Z _v‡K| ZvB Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Aek¨B
Lªxógv‡mi BwZnvm Rvbv cÖ‡qvRb| AvR‡Ki Lªxógvm Drm‡ei mv‡_ Qovb i‡q‡Q
gwiqg (Av.) Ges Cmv (Av.) cweÎ bv‡g bvbviKg fyj-åvwš—| gymwjg wn‡m‡e
Avgv‡`i GKgvÎ KZ©e¨ n‡jv A‰bmjvwgK a¨vbaviYv, ixwZ I cÖPviYvi wel‡q
m`vRvMÖZ _vKv| †Kb Avgiv Ô†gix LªxógvmÕ ej‡Z cvi‡ev bv, †Kb Avgiv
Lªxógv‡mi wMd&U wb‡Z cvi‡ev bv, G wel‡q mš—vb‡`i mwVK Ávb †`qv Avgv‡`i
Cgvbx `vwqZ¡| GLvbKvi cwi‡ek †_‡KB Avgv‡`i mš—v‡`i Ae‡PZb g‡b w`b
w`b Lªxógvm Avi mvš—vK¬R Gi cÖfve co‡Q| Ui‡›Uv Rv‡g gmwR‡` W. Avãyj−vn
nvwKg KzBK GB wel‡qi Dci GKwU Z_¨mg„× Rygvi LyZev cÖ`vb K‡ib|
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Avjnvg`ywjj−vn, GB cÖv³b Lªxóvb cwÛZ Bmjv‡g `xwZ n‡q GKRb gymwjg
¯‹jvi wn‡m‡e A‡bK `vwqZ¡ cvjb K‡i hv‡”Qb| Lªxógv‡mi Dci LyZevwUi Kwc
Dr. Adbullah Hakim Quick Gi I‡qmvBU †_‡K cvIqv hv‡e,
www.hakimquick.com
GQvov GB †idv‡iݸ‡jvI †`L‡Z cv‡ib| “Mithras, the Fellow in the
Cap” - Esme Wynne-Tyson, 1958, “The Story of Santa Klaus” –
William S. Walsh published, “1001 Christmas Facts and Fancies” -
Alfred C. Hottes, New York 1938, Ibid (2).
wKQz cÖkœ I DËi
2010-Gi 17B wW‡m¤^i Ui‡›Uv BmjvwgK †m›Uv‡i AbywôZ n‡qwQj L„ógvm
msµvš— GKwU †mwgbvi| D³ †mwgbv‡i e³v wnmv‡e Dcw¯’Z wQ‡jb w÷f
iKI‡qj, (digvi L„wóqvb wcÖó) Ges eZ©gv‡b WvDbUvDb gmwR‡`i cÖwZôvZv
I Bgvg| GQvovI wQ‡jb b_© Av‡gwiKvi wewkó ¯‹jvi †kL Avd&dvb gynv¤§v`,
gw`bv BDwbfvwm©wU| †mwgbv‡ii †kl c‡e© wQj KziAvb-nv`x‡mi Av‡jv‡K wKQz
cÖkœ I DËi| wb‡gœ Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i wkv¯^iƒc wKQz gyj¨evb cÖkœ I DËi
Zz‡j aiv n‡jv|
cÖkœ t †KD hw` Avgv‡K e‡j Ò†gix L„ógvmÓ, Dˇi Avwg †mŠRb¨g~jK Kx
eje
DËi t Avwg Dˇi Aek¨B Ò†gix L„ógvmÓ ev Ò†mBg Uz BDÓ ej‡Z cvi‡ev
bv| KviY Avwg hw` GUv ewj Zvn‡j AvwgI Zvi mv‡_ GKgZ cÖKvk KiwQ
Ges Zv‡`i mv‡_ mv‡_ AvwgI wkiK K‡i †djwQ| Avwg nq‡Zv †mŠRb¨Zvg~jK
Dˇi Òn¨vwc nwj †WÓ ev season greetings ej‡Z cvwi|
cÖkœ t †KD hw` Avgv‡K L„ógv‡mi wMd&U w`‡q _v‡K Zvn‡j wK Avwg Zv MÖnY
Ki‡Z cvwi
DËi t L„ógv‡mi †Kvb cÖKvi wMd&U Aek¨B †bqv hv‡e bv †mUv K¨vwÛ †nvK ev
ev”Pv‡`i †Ljbv †nvK ev K¨vk Wjvi †nvK| Avwg hw` wb‡Ri Rb¨ GUv MÖnY
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K‡i _vwK Zvn‡j GLv‡bI Avwg Avj−vni mv‡_ wkiK K‡i †djwQ| Z‡e Aek¨B
f`ªZv eRvq †i‡L Avgv‡K GKUv my›`i Dcvq †ei K‡i wb‡Z n‡e †h Avwg
wKfv‡e GB wMd&U avoid Ki‡Z cvwi|
cÖkœ t n¨v‡jvB‡bi mgq ev”Pv‡`i‡K wb‡q K¨vwÛ Kzov‡Z hvIqv hv‡e wK bv
DËi t Aek¨B GB K¨vwÛ Kzov‡Z hvIqv hv‡e bv| Ges n¨v‡jvBbI cvjb Kiv
hv‡e bv| ev”Pv‡`i‡K GB KvjPvi †_‡K `~‡i ivL‡Z n‡e Ges Bmjv‡gi cÖK…Z
wkv w`‡Z n‡e, Zv‡`i‡K †QvU‡ejv †_‡KB Gi KzcÖfve m¤ú‡K© Ávb w`‡Z
n‡e| Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K n¨v‡jvB‡bi BwZnvm Rvbv‡Z n‡e| n¨v‡jvB‡bi
BwZnvm B›Uvi‡bU mvP© Ki‡jB cvIqv hv‡e|
cÖkœ t 31 st Night / Happy New Year cvjb Kiv hv‡e wKbv
DËi t GKRb gymwjg wnmv‡e Avwg Aek¨B 31 st Night / Happy New Year
cvjb Ki‡Z cvi‡ev bv Ges KvD‡K GUv cvjb Kivi Rb¨ mvnvh¨I Ki‡Z
cvi‡ev bv|
civgk©
K¨vbvWv - Av‡gwiKvi wewfbœ A‡Kkv‡b we‡kl K‡i L„ógv‡mi mgq Avgiv Ges
Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv bb-gymwjg eÜz-evÜe, †Kv-IqvK©vi I cÖwZ‡ekx‡`i‡K wMd&U
w`‡Z cvwi| †hgb t GKwU KziAv‡bi Uªv݇jkb, GKwU BmjvwgK wWwfwW Ges
Av‡iv wKQz BmjvwgK eB w`‡q my›`i K‡i i¨vwcs K‡i †cÖ‡R›U Ki‡Z cvwi|
f‡qi wKQz †bB, GUv K¨vbvwWqvb AvB‡b GjvD K‡i Ges GUv GB †`‡k
Avgv‡`i wiwjwRqvm ivBUm, Avgv‡`i wnDg¨vb ivBUm| GLv‡b Kv‡iv wKQz ejvi
†bB, GKRb L„óvbI Avgv‡K GKwU evB‡ej w`‡q Avgv‡K Zv‡`i a‡g©i `vIqvZ
w`‡Z cv‡i, DB‡K‡Û Avgvi `viRvq G‡m bK K‡i Avgvi mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z
cv‡i Ges Zv‡`i agx©I eB-cÎ w`‡Z cv‡i|
WvDbUvD‡bi WvÛvm ¯‹qv‡i Avgiv cÖwZ DB‡K‡Û c_Pvix Ges Uzwi÷‡`i gv‡S
Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZx KvR K‡i _vwK| bb-gymwjg‡`i gv‡S nvRvi nvRvi
KziAv‡bi Uªv݇jkb, BmjvwgK wWwfwW, BmjvwgK eB Ges wewfbœ c¨vg‡d−U
weZiY K‡i _vwK| kZ gvby‡li cÖ‡kœi DËi w`‡q _vwK| Avjnvg`ywjj−vn,
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kZkZ fvB-†evb Bmjvg MÖnY Ki‡Q| Avcwb Ges Avcbvi mš—vbivI Avgv‡`i
mv‡_ GB `vIqvZx Kv‡R AskMÖnY Ki‡Z cv‡ib|
Valentine’s Day
Bs‡iRx Valentine’s Day gv‡b evsjvq fv‡jvevmv w`em| we‡k¦i †kªô ag©
Bmjvg| g~jZt Bmjvg ag© Abyhvqx Ôfvjevmv w`emÕ ej‡Z wKQz †bB| cÖwZwU
gymwj‡gi Rb¨ cÖwZwU w`emB fvjevmvi w`em| Avm‡j Islam k‡ãi DrcwËB
n‡”Q peace †_‡K| ZvB Bmjvg eQ‡ii 365 w`bB kvwš—i K_v e‡j,
fvjevmvi K_v e‡j| Bmjv‡g fvjevmvwenxb Kv‡iv mv‡_ †Kvb m¤úK© †bB|
Bmjvg e‡j cÖwZwU gvbyl cÖwZwU gvbyl‡K ˆeafv‡e fvjevm‡e, GKRb
Av‡iKR‡bi g½j Kvgbv Ki‡e| Gi g‡a¨ _vK‡e bv †Kvb K…wÎgZv, _vK‡e bv
†Kvb †jŠwKKZv, _vK‡e ïay cweÎZv| ivm~j (mv.) e‡j‡Qb t
Ò†Zvgiv Rvbœv‡Z †h‡Z cvi‡e bv, hZY bv †Zvgiv Cgvb`vi n‡e| Avi
†Zvgiv cy‡ivcywi Cgvb`vi n‡Z cvi‡e bv, hZY bv †Zvgv‡`i ci®ú‡ii g‡a¨
fvjevmvi m¤úK© ¯’vwcZ n‡e| ...Ó (mnxn gymwjg)
Ò†Zvgv‡`i g‡a¨ †KD Cgvb`vi n‡Z cvi‡e bv, hZY bv †m Zvi fvB‡qi Rb¨
ZvB cQ›` Ki‡e hv †m wb‡Ri Rb¨ cQ›` K‡iÓ| (mnxn eyLvix I mnxn
gymwjg)
Gevi gymwjg‡`i g‡b G w`em m¤ú‡K© †KŠZznj RvM‡Z cv‡i| Valentine’s
Day g~jZt †cÖwgK-†cÖwgKv‡`i Drm‡ei w`b| Bmjvg we‡qi Av‡M †Q‡j Ges
†g‡q †d«Ûkxc (eÜzZ¡) ev Mvj©‡dªÛ-eq‡d«Û m¤úK© KL‡bvB Aby‡gv`b K‡i bv|
Avi Valentine’s Day ev fvjevmv w`em cvjb K‡i GB A‰ea m¤ú‡K©i
bvbviKg AvbyôvwbKZv Ges AmvgvwRK Kg©KvÛ Aek¨B ¸bvni KvR|
b_© Av‡gwiKvq Lye †QvU eqm †_‡KB f¨v‡j›UvBb m¤ú‡K©
AewnZ Kiv n‡q _v‡K
Avgv‡`i †g‡q †MÖW Iqv‡b c‡o| 2012 mv‡ji †deª“qvix gv‡m Zvi ¯‹z‡ji wZb
w`‡bi †nvgIqvK© Gi bgybv Zz‡j aiv n‡jv t
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• 12 th Feb. : Make a Valentine for a special friend. Get your
cards ready to bring to school.
• 13 th Feb : Print a story about Valentine’s Day. Try to print
at least 14 words.
• 14 th Feb. : Valentine’s Day! Say ‘I love you!’ to someone.
Qq eQi eq‡mi GKwU ev”Pv‡K †QvU‡ejv †_‡K f¨v‡jbUvBb m¤ú‡K© AewnZ
Kiv n‡”Q| GB †`kxq KvjPv‡i f¨v‡jbUvBb cvjb Kiv †Kvb Ab¨vq bq| ¯‹zj
hv wkLv‡”Q ev cÖPjb Ki‡Q Zv Zv‡`i `„wó‡Z LyeB ¯^vfvweK|
Islam & Science
hyM cwieZ©b n‡q †M‡Q| Avgvi fvmvfvmv Avi Av‡evj Zv‡evj Øxwb Ávb w`‡q
GLb Avi DVwZ eq‡mi mš—vb‡`i eyS w`‡Z cvi‡ev bv| Zviv GLb jwRK Pvq,
Zviv Øx‡bi Bb‡U‡jKPzqvj e¨vL¨v Pvq| Zviv KziAvb‡K eyS‡Z Pvq mvBÝ
w`‡q| †MvUv KyiAv‡b i‡q‡Q mKj †gŠwjK mgm¨vi mgvavb| ZvB AvR
†UK‡bvjwRi hy‡M gymwjg ¯‹jviivI wcwQ‡q †bB| KziAvb, nv`xm I Bmjv‡gi
Av‡jv‡K weÁv‡bi bZzb bZzb w`K Avwe¯‹vi n‡q‡Q| Avwg Ges Avgvi mš—v‡biv
wb‡Pi WKz‡g›Uvix¸‡jv youtube-G †`L‡Z cvwi A_ev cvwievwiK jvB‡eªixi
Rb¨ DVD msMÖn Ki‡Z cvwi|
Dr. Harun Yahya – Video Documentary
www.harunyahya.com
1. The Quran leads the way to science
2. Miracles of the Quran
3. Miracle of the men's creation
4. The fact of creation
5. The secret of the taste
6. Technology in nature
7. Altruism in nature
8. The miracle in the ants
9. The miracle in birds
10. Sacarism Satan's bloody teaching
11. For men understanding
12. Answers from the Quran solution
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13. The values of the Quran
14. Perished nations
15. The miracle of respiration
16. The collapse of evolution
17. The secret beyond matter
18. Prophet Moses and the ark of the covenant
19. The prophet Yusuf
20. The miracle of seed
21. The names of Allah
22. Architects in nature
23. Allah is known through reason
24. Truth of the life of this world
25. Deep thinking
26. Love and cooperation in living things
27. The collapse of atheism
28. The signs of the last day
29. Miracles of the brain: smell and taste
30. Allah's artistry in color
31. The miracle of planet
32. The golden age
33. The miracle in the cell
34. Biometrics technology initiates nature
35. The world of ice
36. The creation of the universe.
GQvovI Av‡Q t
• Dr. Zakir Naik Lecture - Quran & modern science conflict of
concilation.
• Dr. Zakir Naik Lecture - Islam, medical science and dietary laws.
• Dr. Zakir Naik Lecture - Media and Muslims.
• Dr. Zakir Naik Lecture - The Quran & Science.
www.irf.net
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P¨vcUvi 6
Avgvi mš—v‡bi †Uªwbs
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Avgvi mš—v‡bi †Uªwbs †cÖvMÖvg
K¨vbvWv Ges Av‡gwiKvq cÖwZwbqZB wewfbœ BmjvwgK AM©vbvB‡Rmb Ges
Bwbw÷wUDUm wewfbœ wel‡qi Dci †mwgbvi, IqvK©kc Ges †Uªwbs-Gi Av‡qvRb
Ki‡Q| Avwg, Avgvi ¯¿x I mš—vb mK‡j wg‡j GB me †cÖvMªv‡g wbqwgZ
AskMÖnY Ki‡Z cvwi| wb‡gœ wKQz AM©vbvB‡Rm‡bi bvg †`qv n‡jv| B›Uvi‡b‡U
mvP© Ki‡jB G‡`i I‡qemvBUmn we¯—vwiZ Bbd‡g©kb cvIqv hv‡e| †Póv Kwi
mš—vb‡`i‡K GB mKj AM©vbv‡Rk‡bi †g¤^vi K‡i w`‡Z Ges Zv‡`i mv‡_
fjvw›Uqvi wnmv‡e wbqwgZ BmjvwgK KvR-Kg© Ki‡Z| wPš—vi †Kvb KviY †bB,
G¸‡jv meB K¨vbvwWqvb AM©vbvB‡Rkb|
• Alkauthar Institute (www.alkauthar.org)
• Almaghrib Institute (www.almaghrib.org)
• Ilm Path (www.ilmpath.com)
• Al Huda Institute (alhudainstitute.org)
• ICNA (Islamic Circle of North America)
• MAC (Muslim Association of Canada)
• QSS (Quran Sunnah Society)
• MSA (Muslim Students Association)
• CDA (Canadian Dawah Association)
• Journey of Faith Conference
• IERA
• Toronto Islamic Centre (TIC)
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1. Time Management
2. Quality Management
3. Project Managment
4. Leadership Management
5. Skill Development
6. Event Management
7. Resource Management
8. Accounts Management
9. File Management
mš—v‡bi g¨v‡bR‡g›U
w¯‹j †W‡fjc Kwi
Avgiv hviv gvwëb¨vkbvj K¤úvwb‡Z GKwRwKDwUf †j‡f‡j ev g¨v‡bR‡g›U
†j‡f‡j PvKzix K‡iwQ ev Kwi Zviv wb‡Pi welq¸‡jvi mv‡_ LyeB cwiwPZ Ges
Avgviv GB welq¸‡jvi Dci wbqwgZ †Uªwbs I †mwgbv‡i AskMÖnYI K‡iwQ|
Time Management t GB welqwU Rxe‡bi cÖwZwU gyn~‡Z© G‡ZvB
¸i“Z¡c~Y© †h gnvb Avj−vncvK cweÎ KziAv‡b m~iv Avj-Avmi, m~iv Av`-`ni,
m~iv Bmiv BZ¨vw`‡Z mg‡qi ¸i“Z¡ D‡j−L K‡i‡Qb| mg‡qi welqUv Avgv‡`i
Rxe‡b wVK HiKg, †hgb GKRb eid we‡µZv ej‡Q Zvi cyuwR †kl n‡q hv‡”Q
KviY eid M‡j †M‡jB Zvi cuywR †kl| wVK †Zgwb Avgv‡`i Rxeb †_‡K
GKwU GKwU K‡i wgwbU P‡j hv‡”Q Avi Avgv‡`i Rxe‡bi cuywR †kl n‡q
Avm‡Q| ZvB Rxeb Pjvi †‡Î mš—vb‡`i‡K wbqgvbyewZ©Zv wkv †`B †hb
†Kvb †cÖvMÖv‡g ev wgwUs‡q †m memgq 10 wgwbU Av‡M †mLv‡b †cuŠQvq, †`ix‡Z
bq| Ges Zvi cÖwZwU Kv‡Ri Rb¨ †hb †m mgq Hfv‡eB wnmve K‡i †bq hv‡Z
K‡i me mgq me KvR mg‡qi g‡a¨ †kl Ki‡Z cv‡i| Avgv‡`i †`‡ki
gvbyl‡`i GKUv e`bvg Av‡Q †h Avgiv memgq †h‡Kvb Abyôv‡b †`ix‡Z
†cuŠQvB hv Avgv‡`i wbqwgZ Af¨v‡m cwiYZ n‡q‡Q| GUv LyeB `~lbxq|
mgvavb t †hgb awi, we‡Kj 5Uvq Avgvi GKUv †cÖvMÖvg Av‡Q| Zvn‡j Avwg
mKv‡j Nyg †_‡K D‡V Avgvi Hw`‡bi me KvR¸‡jv Kivi Rb¨ avivevwnKfv‡e
Ggbfv‡e mgq fvM K‡i †b‡eb hv‡Z GKUv Av‡iKUvi mv‡_ msNvZ m„wó bv
K‡i Ges mwVK mg‡qi g‡a¨ Zv m¤úbœ Ki‡Z cvwi| Zvn‡jB Avwg BbkvAvj−vn
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we‡Kj 5Uvi †cÖvMÖv‡g mgqg‡Zv Dcw¯’Z n‡Z cvi‡ev| Avevi G‡‡Î g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e †h hw` †mUv †Kvb Bmjvwg †cÖvMÖvg nq Zvn‡j Bewjm (kqZvb)
wKš‘ mKvj †_‡KB Avgvi wcQ‡b †j‡M _vK‡e| †m Avgvi †P‡qI †ekx mwµq,
†m AvcÖvY †Póv Ki‡e †h Avgv‡K †Kvb bv †Kvbfv‡e AvR‡Ki †cªvMÖv‡g †`ix
Kwi‡q w`‡Z A_ev †cÖvMÖv‡g bv hvIqvi Rb¨ bvbv iKg evnvbv Avgvi mvg‡b
G‡b nvwRi Ki‡e| ZvB Avgvi wPikΓ Bewjm kqZvb †_‡K mveavb _vK‡Z
n‡e Ges Zvi KvimvwR eyS‡Z n‡e|
Quality Management t GKUv welq †Lqvj Ki‡j †`Lv hvq †h,
K¨vbvwWqvb †Q‡j‡g‡qiv Kjg ai‡Z Rv‡b bv| Zviv hLb †j‡L ZLb G‡KKRb
G‡KK iKgfv‡e Kjg a‡i, †KD gywV K‡i a‡i Avevi †KD cvuP Av½y‡ji
gvSLvb w`‡q Kjg XywK‡q †j‡L BZ¨vw`| Avi Avgiv evsjv‡`‡k †QvU‡ejv
†_‡KB wk‡LwQ wKfv‡e Kjg ai‡Z nq| Avm‡j GUv Avgvi g~j welq bq, ïay
†`L‡ev Avgvi mš—vb hLb †h KvRB Ki“K bv †Kb Zv †hb nq †KvqvwjwU
m¤úbœ| †hgb awi Zv‡K Avwg wKQy KvMR KvU‡Z w`‡qwQ Avi Zv †m KvU‡Q
evuKv-Z¨vov K‡i| Zv‡K wkwL‡q w`‡Z n‡e wKfv‡e †mvRv K‡i KvU‡Z nq| †QvU
Kvj †_‡K mš—vb‡`i †KvqvwjwU Iqv‡K©i †Uªwbs w`‡j Zv Zv‡`i mviv Rxeb Kv‡R
Avm‡e, BbkvAvj−vn, n‡Z cv‡i †mUv cÖ‡dkbvj †‡Î A_ev mvgvwRK ev
cvwievwiK †‡Î| ZvB †m †h KvRB Ki“Kbv †Kb Zv †hb nq †KvqvwjwU
m¤úbœ| GB wel‡qi Dci A‡bK kU© †Kvm©I i‡q‡Q|
Project Management t Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Project Management
-Gi Dci aviYv _vKv cÖ‡qvRb, KviY Rxe‡b cwiPvjbvi †‡Î wewfbœ welq
G‡m _v‡K Avi GB welq¸‡jv Avgv‡`i G‡KKUv cÖ‡R±| Avi GB cÖ‡R±
Avgiv wKfv‡e mvK‡mmdzj Ki‡Z cvwi Zvi wKQz g¨v‡bR‡g›U digyjv i‡q‡Q|
†hgb t KZ w`‡b KvRwU mwVKfv‡e †kl n‡e, cÖwZw`b KZ N›Uv K‡i Gi Rb¨
mgq w`‡Z n‡e, †Kvb KvRUvi c‡i †Kvb KvRUv Ki‡Z n‡e, KZRb
g¨vbcvIqvi jvM‡e, Gi Rb¨ wK wK ai‡Yi jwRw÷K mv‡cv©U jvM‡e, KZ UvKv
e¨q n‡e Ges †mB UvKv †Kvb Lv‡Z wKfv‡e e¨q n‡e BZ¨vw` BZ¨vw`| Project
Management -i Dci A‡bK md&UIqviI cvIqv hvq, †m¸‡jvI e¨envi Kiv
†h‡Z cv‡i, †hgb t Microsoft Project| Event Management -UvI
Project Management -Gi GKUv Ask, †h‡Kvb GKUv †cÖvMÖvg †hb Avgiv
my›`i I mvK‡mmdzwj Ki‡Z cvwi †mRb¨ Event Management –Gi DciI
fvj aviYv _vK‡j Zv Lye my›`ifv‡e m¤úbœ Kiv hvq |
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Leadership Management t GB welqwU ev¯—e Rxe‡b cÖvqB Kv‡R
jvM‡e| wb‡Ri Ni †_‡K ïi“ K‡i IqvK©‡c−m me RvqMv‡ZB Kv‡R jvM‡e|
†hgb t ¯‹z‡j K¬vk K¨v‡ÞBb, †Kvb KwgDwbwU †cÖvMÖv‡g †Kv-AwW©‡bUi, †Kvb
†mvkvj AM©vbvB‡Rk‡b mfvcwZ, IqvK©‡c−‡m g¨v‡bRvi ev mycvifvBRi, ev †h
†Kvb M¨v`vwis‡q AM©vbvBRi BZ¨vw`| hw` wb‡Ri g‡a¨ jxWvikxc w¯‹j bv _v‡K
Zvn‡j GB wel‡q fvj Kiv hvq bv|
Accounts Management t AvRKvj Kw¤úDUv‡ii hyM, ZvB cÖvq me
KvRB Kw¤úDUv‡i Kiv n‡q _v‡K, G‡Z Kv‡Ri quality Ges accuracy †hgb
fvj nq †Zgwb mgqI Kg jv‡M| †hgb Avgvi cÖ‡qvRbxq wnmvecÎ Avwg
Microsoft Excel w`‡q Ki‡Z cvwi, G‡Z Avgvi evmvi `vgx Kw¤úDUviUvI
Kv‡R jvMj Avevi Avgvi wnmvecÎI wVK g‡Zv computerised way-†Z ivLv
n‡jv| G‡Z †`Lv hv‡”Q †h Avgvi mKj KvR KZ mnR n‡q †M‡Q| †hgb awi
Avgvi hvKv‡Zi wnmveUv A_ev bvbv ai‡Yi Bb‡f÷‡g›Um| Avwg Lye mn‡RB
Kw¤úDUv‡ii gva¨‡g †m¸‡jv Ki‡Z cvwi|
File Management t Avgiv cÖvq w`bB †Kvb bv †Kvb wPwV ev wej wiwmf
K‡i _vwK| †hgb t †dvb wej, B›Uvi‡bU wej, †µwWU KvW© wej, e¨vsK
†÷U‡g›U BZ¨vw`| GQvovI Kw¤úDUv‡i bvbv iKg md&U dvBj ˆZix K‡i
_vwK| hw` Avwg ev Avgvi mš—vb File Management-G fvj bv n‡q _vwK
Zvn‡j nq‡Zv bvbv iKg mgm¨vq ci‡Z cvwi| ZvB wewfbœ bv‡g Folder or
Directory K‡i nvW© Kwc Ges md&U Kwc my›`i Dcv‡q msiY Ki‡Z cvwi,
ev¯—‡e †`Lv hv‡e h G‡Z Avgvi RxebUv A‡bK mnR n‡q †M‡Q| cvuP - `k
eQi c‡iI Avwg Lye mn‡RB †h †Kvb WKz‡g›U Abvqv‡mB Lyu‡R †c‡Z cvwi|
†UK‡bvjwRi m‡e©v”P e¨envi
GLb †UK‡bvjwRi hyM| Avgv‡`i mevi N‡i N‡iB Kw¤úDUvi, A‡bK `vg w`‡q
nvB KbwdMv‡ik‡bi Kw¤úDUvi wK‡b N‡i †i‡LwQ wKš‘ Gi †cÖvcvi
BDwUjvB‡Rkb KiwQ nq‡Zv 10%| †`Lv †M‡Q ïay Kw¤úDUvi †MBg †Ljv Avi
B›Uvi‡bU eªvDR Kiv ev gv‡S gv‡a¨ GKUv `yBUv †jUvi UvBc Kiv Qvov Avi
†Zgb wKQzB Kiv nq bv| hv †nvK, Avgv‡`i Lye fvjfv‡e Office
Managment software ¸‡jv Rvbv _vKv cÖ‡qvRb Ges cÖwZwbqZ Software
c„ôv - 100

upgrade n‡”Q †mB mv‡_ Avgv‡`i skill develop KivI cª‡qvRb| wb‡gœi
md&Uqvi¸‡jv Avgv‡`i cÖwZw`‡bi Kv‡Ri mv‡_ IZ‡cÖvZfv‡e RwoZ| Avgvi
mš—vb G¸‡jv hZ fv‡jv fv‡e iß Ki‡e Zvi Kv‡Ri †KvqvwjwU ZZ DbœZ n‡e
Ges mgqI euvP‡e| ZvB Avgvi Kv‡Q hv wi‡mv©m Av‡Q Zvi mwVK e¨enviB n‡”Q
Proper Resource Management-Gi gva¨‡g| ZvB wb‡gœi md&Uqvi¸‡jv
fvjfv‡e Rvbv bv _vK‡j ax‡i ax‡i wb‡R wk‡L †bqv DwPZ Ges mš—vb‡`i‡K
wkv †`qv DwPZ|
1. Microsoft Word for word processing
2. Microsoft Excel for spreadsheet analysis
3. Microsoft PowerPoint for presentation
4. Microsoft Access for database management
5. Microsoft Project for project management
6. Microsoft Publisher for desktop publishing
7. Microsoft Windows as operating system
mš—vb‡`i‡K Z¨v‡Mi wkv w`‡Z n‡e
mš—vb‡K Z¨v‡Mi wkv w`‡Z n‡e| wb‡Ri c‡KU gvwb n‡Z GKwU we‡kl e¨v‡¼
Aí Aí K‡i wKQz A_© Rgv Kivi Drmvn †`qv DwPZ| eQi †k‡l Rgv A_©
†`‡k Avgvi Mixe cÖwZ‡ekx ev †Kvb wbKUvZ¥x‡qi cÖ‡qvRb c~i‡Y e¨envi Ki‡Z
cvwi| mš—vb‡`i g‡a¨ Gi cÖwZ‡hvwMZvi wkv w`‡Z cvwi| †Kej Avwg, Avgvi,
GUv PvB, IUv PvB BZ¨vw` †¯−vMvb n‡Z I‡`i hZ`~i m¤¢e `~‡i ivL‡Z n‡e|
Zv‡`i‡K wkv w`‡Z n‡e †fv‡M kvwš— bq Z¨v‡MB kvwš—| Zviv †hb A‡í Zzó
_v‡K| hv cvq †mUv‡ZB mš—ó _v‡K|
†hgb t †Kv_vI †Kvb †cÖvMÖv‡g wi‡d«k‡g‡›Ui e¨e¯’v i‡q‡Q Ges †mî mvwf©m|
GLb GLv‡b AvB‡Ug †bqvi mgq †Lqvj ivL‡Z n‡e †h A‡b¨ivI †hb Zv cvq|
Lye †Uwó g‡b K‡i GKB AvB‡Ug A‡bK¸‡jv †L‡q †djv AbywPZ| Zvn‡j
A‡b¨iv bvI †c‡Z cv‡i| KviY GB Lvev‡i mevi nK i‡q‡Q, †mw`‡K Aek¨B
†Lqvj ivL‡Z n‡e| Avevi me¸‡jvi ga¨ †_‡K fvjUv †e‡Q †e‡Q †bqv wVK bq
ev †e‡Q †e‡Q eoUvI †bqv wVK bq|
c„ôv - 101

Avwg wK Rvwb 10 eQi eqm †_‡K Avgvi
mš—v‡bi Dci bvgvh dih
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t ÒmvZ eQi eqm n‡j †Zvgv‡`i
mš—vb‡`i bvgvh covi wb‡`©k `vI Ges `k eQi eqm nIqvi ci GRb¨ Zv‡`i
cÖnvi Ki Ges Zv‡`i weQvbv c„_K K‡i `vI|Ó (Avey `vD`)
Law of the Land A_v©r Avwg †h †`‡k _vwK Avgv‡K †mB †`‡ki AvBb
Aek¨B gvb‡Z n‡e| ZvB K¨vbvWv-Av‡gwiKvi AvBb Abyhvqx Avwg Avgvi mš—
v‡bi Mv‡q nvZ Zzj‡Z cvi‡ev bv| nvZ bv Zz‡jB Zv‡`i‡K mwVK wWwmwc−‡bi
g‡a¨ wb‡q Avm‡Z n‡e|
bvgv‡hi e¨vcv‡i wbR N‡i GKwU my›`i cwi‡ek M‡o Zzj‡Z n‡e| Avgvi wcZv,
†QvU fvB, eo fvB, Avgvi mš—vb BZ¨vw` cwiev‡ii cyi“l m`m¨‡`i GK‡hv‡M
bvgvh Av`v‡qi Rb¨ gmwR‡` hvevi Aby‡iva Ki‡Z n‡e| Gi ¸i“Z¡ Zz‡j
bwmnZ Ki‡Z n‡e| Avgvi KZ©…Z¡ ev A_wiwU Avj−vni c n‡Z AvgvbZ| G
A_wiwUi mye¨envi wbwðZ Ki‡Z n‡e| Avgvi Aaxb‡`i mKj‡K bvgvh
Av`v‡qi e¨vcv‡i Avgv‡KB mKj e¨e¯’v wb‡Z n‡e| G e¨vcv‡i †Kvb Qvo †`qv
hv‡e bv| we‡kl K‡i Avgvi mš—vb‡`i bvgv‡hi Rb¨ Avgv‡K Revew`wn Ki‡Z
n‡e| †h mš—vb‡K Avwg jvjbcvjb Kijvg, hv‡K mKj wKQzi †mivUvB †hvMvb
w`‡q eo K‡iwQ †m mš—vb Avgvi wei“‡× †kl wePv‡ii w`b Avj−vni `iev‡i
mvx †`‡e| bvwjk Ki‡e G e‡j †h Avgvi wcZv Avgv‡K Øx‡bi dih-Iqvwhe
wkLvbwb| Øx‡bi †gŠwjK welq¸wj hw` Zv‡K †QvU †ejv‡ZB bv †kLv‡bv nq
Zvn‡j Avgvi G Aciv‡ai Rb¨ ciKv‡j Revew`wn Ki‡Z n‡e| †mw`b †KD
KvD‡K Qvo †`‡e bv|
ÒZviv G‡K Aci‡K †`L‡Z cvqÑ Ggbfv‡e Zv‡`i‡K ivLv n‡e| Acivax B”Qv
Ki‡e †h, Avhve †_‡K euvPvi Rb¨ Zvi mš—vb‡K, Zvi ¯¿x I fvB‡K, Zvi H
Nwbô AvZ¥xq‡K, †h Zv‡K Avkªq w`Z Ges `ywbqvi mevB‡K †m gyw³cY wn‡m‡e
w`‡q w`‡Z, †hb G Z`wei Zv‡K gyw³ w`‡q †`q|Ó (m~iv Avj gvqvwiR t 11-
14)|
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GB n‡jv ciKv‡ji welqvw`| Avwg wcZv n‡q hw` mš—vb eÜK †i‡L gyw³
PvB‡Z cvwi Zvn‡j wKfv‡e wPš—v Ki‡Z cvwi †h G-mš—vb Zvi ˆea cvIbv c~i‡Y
Lvg‡Lqvwji Rb¨ Avgv‡K Avmvgxi KvVMovq `uvo Kiv‡e bv myZivs m¯—v
Av‡e‡Mi ekeZ©x n‡q Rxeb cwiPvjbv Kiv hv‡e bv| Avgvi mš—v‡bi ˆelwqK
cÖ‡qvRb c~i‡Yi cvkvcvwk ˆbwZK, Ava¨vwZ¥K, Cgvbx cÖ‡qvRb c~i‡YI Avgv‡K
mgvb f~wgKv ivL‡Z n‡e| cwi‡e‡ki mv‡_ Lvc LvB‡q Pjvi PvB‡Z eis wKfv‡e
mr I my›`i cwi‡ek m„wó Ki‡Z nq Zvi w`‡K bRi †`IqvB evÃbxq|
¯^vgx-¯¿x Avgv‡`i `yÕRb‡KB bvgvhx n‡q †h‡Z n‡e (hw` wbqwgZ bv n‡q
_vwK)| ¯¿x‡K civgk© w`‡Z n‡e wKfv‡e mš—vb‡`i bvgv‡hi e¨vcv‡i wbqgvbyeZ©x
Kiv hvq| cÖ_‡g Zv‡`i bigfv‡e eySv‡Z n‡e| mš—vb‡`i †ekx †ekx K‡VviZv
I D”P K‡Ú wKQz ejv wVK bv| Zv‡`i mv‡_ †gvjv‡qg I fveM¤¢xifv‡e K_v
ej‡Z n‡e| bvgv‡hi e¨vcv‡i m‡e©v”P †Póv Ki‡Z n‡e| KvR bv n‡j g„`y ûgwK
†`qv †h‡Z cv‡i| ejv †h‡Z cv‡i hviv dh‡ii bvgvh m~h© DVvi Av‡M co‡Z
cvi‡ebv Zv‡`i Rb¨ mKv‡ji bv¯—v Kwg‡q †`qv n‡e I ch©vqµ‡g Zz‡j †`qv
n‡e A_©vr †ebvgvhxi Rb¨ †Kvb bv¯—v ˆZix n‡e bv| `qv K‡i K‡Vvi K_v †hb
bv ewj| G‡Z D‡ëv dj Avm‡Z cv‡i| gvbyl‡K eywS‡q ej‡j Zv Kvh©Ki nq
†ekx|
mš—vb‡`i wbKU
Rvgv‡Z bvgv‡hi ¸i“Z¡ Zz‡j ai‡Z n‡e
Rvgv‡Z bvgv‡hi D‡Ïk¨ wK †Kb Avj−vn Gi G‡Zv ¸i“Z¡ w`‡q‡Qb Zv mš—
vb‡`i wbKU Zz‡j ai‡Z n‡e| gnvb iveŸyj Avjvgxb KziAv‡b hZ RvqMvq
bvgv‡hi K_v e‡j‡Qb Z‡Zv RvqMvq e‡j‡Qb ÒAvwKgym&mjvZÓ A_v©r bvgvh
GKvKx cov bq bvgvh mgv‡R cÖwZôv Ki‡Z e‡j‡Qb| Avi Rvgv‡Z bvgvh
covB n‡”Q bvgvh cÖwZôvi cÖ_g avc|
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb, †jv‡Kiv hw` RvbZ Avhvb †`qv
I bvgv‡hi cÖ_g jvB‡b `uvov‡bvi g‡a¨ wK cwigvY mIqve Av‡Q Zvn‡j Zviv
jUvixi gva¨g Qvov †m¸‡jv nvwmj KiZ bv| Avi hw` RvbZ bvgv‡h Av‡M
Avmvi g‡a¨ wK cwigvY mIqve Av‡Q Zvn‡j Zviv †m w`‡KB AMÖeZ©x nevi Rb¨
cÖwZ‡hvwMZv KiZ, Avi hw` RvbZ Gkv I dh‡ii bvgv‡hi g‡a¨ wK cwigvY
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mIqve Av‡Q Zvn‡j Zviv nvgv¸wo w`‡q Avm‡Z n‡jI AvmZ| (mnxn eyLvix,
mnxn gymwjg)
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡jb, ÒAvgvi gb ej‡Q †h, †Kvb
gyqvhwhb‡K ûKzg w`B †h, Rvgvqv‡Zi GKvgZ w`K Ges Avwg KvD‡K ûKzg w`B
†h, †m Avgvi ¯’v‡b BgvgZx Ki“K Ges Avwg ¯^qs Av¸‡bi KzÛwj wb‡q Zv‡`i
N‡i jvwM‡q †`B Ges Zv‡`i‡K R¡vwj‡q gvwi hviv Avhvb ïbvi ciI Ni †_‡K
†ei nq bv|Ó (mnxn eyLvix, mnxn gymwjg)
†h e¨w³ Avhvb ï‡b Ihi e¨ZxZ gmwR‡` bv wM‡q GKvKx bvgvh Av`vq K‡i
Zvi G bvgvh AMÖvn¨ Kiv n‡e| †jv‡Kiv ej‡jv, Ihi wK ivm~j mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg ej‡jb, Ihi nj fq I †ivM| (Avey `vD`)
†h e¨w³ mKvj-mܨvq gmwR‡` hvq Avj−vn Zvi Rb¨ Rvbœv‡Z †gnvgvb`vixi
e¨e¯’v K‡ib| hZevi †m mKv‡j ev mܨvq hvq ZZeviB| (mnxn eyLvix, mnxn
gymwjg)
cwiev‡ii mv‡_ bvgvh Av`vq
bvgvh Ggb GKwU ¸i“Z¡c~Y© Bev`vZ hv Øx‡bi mv‡_ gvbyl‡K m¤úK©hy³ iv‡L|
bvgvh Øxb‡K †ndvRZI K‡i| Avevi Øx‡bi cÖwZ AvK©lYI evwo‡q _v‡K|
Øxb`vi Rxeb AwZevwnZ Kivi Rb¨ gvbyl‡K cÖ¯‘ZI K‡i| ïi“ †_‡KB
wkï‡`i‡K wbqwgZ bvgvh covi Af¨vm M‡o Zzj‡Z n‡e| G e¨vcv‡i A‡nZzK
†mœn-cªxwZ Ges cÖ‡qvR‡bi Zzjbvq †ekx big g‡bvfve cÖ`k©b LyeB wZKviK|
Avj−vni wb‡`©k n‡jv t Òwb‡Ri cwievi-cwiRb‡K bvgv‡hi ZvwK` (Av‡`k)
`vI Ges wb‡RI Zv `„pZvi mv‡_ cvjb Ki‡Z _vK|Ó (m~iv Z¡nv t 132)
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Bikv` K‡ib t ÒhLb Zvi eqm mvZ eQi
nq ZLb mš—vb‡K bvgvh covi ZvwK` `vI| hLb Zvi eqm `k eQi n‡q hvq
ZLb bvgvh covi Rb¨ Zvi Dci K‡VviZv Av‡ivc K‡iv Ges G eqm nevi
mv‡_ mv‡_ Zv‡`i weQvbv c„_K K‡i `vI|Ó
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Bkvi bvgvh cov e¨wZ‡i‡K wkï‡`i‡K ï‡Z †hb bv †`B| ï‡q co‡jI DwV‡q
bvgvh covB| dh‡ii bvgv‡hi Rb¨ cÖ_g Iqv‡³ Zv‡`i‡K Nyg †_‡K RvMvB
Ges mKv‡j DVvi A‡f¨m KivB| †hme GjvKvq gmwR` †bB †mLv‡b mK‡j
GKmv‡_ wb‡Ri evmv‡ZB dR‡ii mjvZ Av`vq Kwi| cwiev‡ii cÖavb wn‡m‡e
Avwg (evev) bvgv‡hi BgvgwZ Kie| µgvš^‡q GwU‡K Iqv‡³i bvgv‡hi R‡b¨I
wbqg K‡i †dj‡ev| †cQ‡b Avgvi ¯¿x, mš—vb I wcZvgvZv (_vK‡j) mK‡jB
Avgvi †bZ…‡Z¡ mjvZ Av`vq Ki‡eb| mvßvwnK e‡Üi w`b mK‡j wg‡j gmwR‡`
†hb hvB Ges Rvgv‡Zi mv‡_ mjvZ Av`vq Kwi| Gfv‡e Av‡¯— Av‡¯— cwiev‡ii
mv‡_ gmwR‡`i GKwU Nwbó m¤úK© ˆZix Kwi|
wbqwgZ Avhvb †kvbv
GB we‡`‡k Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv mvaviYZ Avhvb ïb‡Z cvq bv| Avgvi evmvi
Kw¤úDUv‡i Avhvb md&UIqvi †jvW K‡i wb‡Z cvwi| G‡Z bvgv‡hi mgq n‡j
Kw¤úDUvi †_‡K Avhv‡bi aŸwb †f‡m Avm‡e Ges mš—v‡biv wbqwgZ Avhvb
ïb‡Z cv‡e| Avhvb ï‡b Zviv bvgvh co‡Z cvi‡e| †mRb¨ w`‡b memgq
Kw¤úDUvi Ab ivL‡Z n‡e| www.islamicfinder.org †_‡K d«x Azan
software download Ki‡Z cvwi|
mnxn bvgvh wkv
Avgvi mš—v‡bi bvgvh wK ï× n‡”Q A_©vr Avgv‡`i bvgvh wK ivm~j mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg †hfv‡e bvgvh c‡o‡Qb wVK †m iKg n‡”Q bvgvh‡K mnxn
ev ï× Kivi e¨vcv‡i ¸i“Z¡ w`‡Z n‡e| evRv‡i bvgvh wkvi A‡bK eB-cÎ
cvIqv hvq †h¸‡jv †ekxifvMB mnxn bq| ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t Ò†Zvgiv Hfv‡e bvgvh co †hfv‡e Avgv‡K bvgvh co‡Z †`‡LQÓ
(mnxn eyLvix)| ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi mnxn (authentic)
bvgv‡hi K‡qKwU eB I wWwfwWi bvg †`qv n‡jv hv Avgiv msMÖn K‡i Avgv‡`i
bvgvh‡K ï× Ki‡Z cvwi| GQvov Youtube-G Islamic Cultural Centre,
Dammam †_‡K cÖPvwiZ - Sheikh Matiur Rahman Madani-i mnxn
bvgv‡hi avivevwnK †jKPvi Dc‡fvM Ki‡Z cvwi Ges bvgv‡hi LywU-bvwU mKj
welq¸‡jv ï× K‡i wb‡Z cvwi|
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1) bex Qvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−v‡gi mjvZ m¤úv`‡bi c×wZ -
bvwmi DwÏb Avjevbx
2) im~jyj−vn (mv.)-Gi bvgvh (cÖ_g fvM I wØZxq fvM) -
bvwmi DwÏb Avjevbx I G.Gb.Gg. wmivRyj Bmjvg
3) Avj−vni im~j (mv.) wKfv‡e bvgvh co‡Zb -
Bebyj KvBq~¨g I Avãym knx` bvwmg
4) Avj−vni im~‡ji bvgvh - Wt Avmv`yj−vn Mvwje
5) Prophet’s (pbuh) Prayer – Nasiruddin Albani (English
Version)
6) Pray as you have seen me Pray – DVD (One Islam
Production)
7) How to Pray – DVD (Al Atiq Publisher)
8) Youtube: “Salah” - Shikh Matiur Rahman al Madani
Visit Authentic
Islamic Websites
wcZv-gvZv‡`i we‡kl jYxq welq †h GUv B›Uvi‡b‡Ui hyM, Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv
mvaviYZ B›Uvi‡bU †_‡KB wewfbœ wel‡q Bbdi‡gkb wb‡q _v‡K| g‡b ivL‡Z
n‡e †h Avgv‡`i kΓiv Bmjv‡gi bv‡g AmsL¨ I‡qemvBU ˆZix K‡i †i‡L‡Q
Avgv‡`i bZzb †Rbv‡ikb‡K weåvš— Kivi Rb¨| ZvB Aek¨B G mKj fyqv
I‡qemvBU †_‡K Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K `~‡i ivL‡Z n‡e| Ges Gi cvkv-cvwk
authentic I‡qemvBU †_‡K BmjvwgK Z_¨ msMÖn Kivi cÖwZ †Lqvj ivL‡Z
n‡e| wb‡¤§ wKQz authentic I‡qemvBU Gi address †`qv n‡jv hv †_‡K
Avgiv welq wfwËK A‡bK ¸i“Z¡c~Y© Z_¨ †c‡Z cvwi|
Dawah
Islamic Institute
www.whyislam.org
http://www.themessagecanada.com/
www.irf.net
http://liftingspirit.com/
www.torontoislamiccentre.com
http://www.icnacanada.net/
http://www.iera.org.uk/
http://www.islamiconlineuniversity.com/
http://www.alkauthar.org/
http://almaghrib.org/
http://ilmpath.com/
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www.alhudainstitute.org
http://www.helpandknowledge.com/
Quranic
Tafseer
Translation of
The Quran
Quran Recitation
Hadith
Islamic TV/Video
Children Site
Lectures
Information
http://www.qtafsir.com/index.phpoption=com_content&task=view&id=3000&Itemid=731
http://www.allahsquran.com/learn/
http://www.archive.org/details/Bangla-Tafseer-Fatiha
http://islamiboi.wordpress.com/
http://www.tafheem.net/tafheem.html
http://www.quranexplorer.com/quran/
http://www.islamdharma.com/
http://www.qurantoday.com/bangla.htm
http://www.searchtruth.com/chapter_display.phpchapter=1&translator=2
http://www.islamicstudies.info/tafheem.php
http://www.aswatalislam.net/
http://www.allahsquran.com/listen/index.php#
http://www.quranexplorer.com/quran/
http://www.quranflash.com/en/quranflash.html
http://www.searchtruth.com/hadith_books.php
http://islamiboi.wordpress.com/sahih-bukhari-in-bangla/
http://bdislam.com/hadith/hadith.htm
http://www.peacetv.tv/
http://www.watchislam.com/
http://www.thedeenshow.com/index.php
http://www.abuhuraira.org/
http://www.banglalite.com/
www.muslimville.com
www.soundvision.com
http://muslimkidstv.com/
http://www.readislam.net/media/zakir/
http://www.minarmedia.co.uk/
http://english.truthway.tv/
http://bayyinah.com/media/
www.islamicfinder.com
www.islamicity.com
http://musliminfo.com/
www.eat-halal.com
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P¨vcUvi 8
mZK©Zv Aej¤^b
c„ôv - 108

ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
mš—vb‡`i nvjvj-nviv‡gi
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bv nvjvj †L‡q!
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c„ôv - 109

GB wel‡q m‡PZb K‡i Zzj‡Z n‡e| wKQy wKQz cvewjK ¯‹zj gymwjg‡`i nvjvj
Lvev‡ii welqwU Rv‡bb| Z‡e GUv Avgv‡`i `vwqZ¡ Zv‡`i‡K welqwU Rvbv‡bv
Ges eySv‡bv| KviY GUv Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i wiwjwRqvm ivBUm&|
Avevi A‡b‡K dvó dzW Gi †`vKv‡b ev †ióz‡i‡›U KvR K‡ib Ges nvjvjnviv‡gi
K_v wPš—v bv K‡i Kv‡Ri g‡a¨ wb‡RivI jvÂ-wWbvi mv‡ib Ges dx«
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c‡` Avj−vni ûKzg †g‡b Pjv| Avj−vni wKQz ûKyg gvb‡ev Avi wKQz ûKzg gvb‡ev
bv Zv n‡e bv| ZvB Avj−vn Avgv‡`i‡K mZK© K‡i w`‡q e‡j‡Qb t
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AeMZ Av‡Qb|Ó (m~iv Avj evKviv t 85)
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i‡q‡Q, GQvov Popeyes mvaviYZ nvjvj, Z‡e GUv Avgvi `vwqZ¡ †h LvIqvi
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ivL‡Z cvwi Ges cwiwPZRb‡K w`‡Z cvwi I Zv‡`i‡K mZK© Ki‡Z cvwi|
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Animal shortening
Collagen (Pork)
Diglyceride (animal)
Enzyme (animal)
Fatty acid (animal)
Gelatin
Glyceride (animal)
Glycerol/glycerin (animal)
Hormones (animal)
Hydrolyzed animal protein
Lard
Lecithin (If soya then Halal)
Monoglycerides (animal)
Pepsin (animal)**
Phospholipid (animal)
Renin Rennet**
Shortening (animal)*
Whey**
Haram Food Ingredients
Investigate
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Haraam
Investigate
Haraam
Investigate
*Animal fat shortening can be from beef
fallow or lard. If it is from lard, then it is
Haraam. If it is from beef fallow, then the
animal has to have been slaughtered
Islamically, otherwise it is Haraam.
**Rennet/Pepsin: Rennet is a milk
coagulant that is the concentrated extract
of renin enzyme obtained from calves
stomachs. Note: At the time of purchase,
if you are unable to verify the fact, you
can call the concerned company. The
company's name and number is
generally mentioned on the product, if
not see the telephone directory.
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G‡Kev‡i AÜKv‡i P‡j hv‡e| A_v©r Avwg wKQyB Rvb‡ev bv †m wK ai‡Yi
eÜz‡`i mv‡_ P‡j, eÜziv wg‡j wK ai‡Yi ZrciZv Pvjvq BZ¨vw`|
mš—vb‡K a~gcv‡bi e¨vcv‡i
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mš—vb nq‡Zv Avgvi Abycw¯’wZ‡Z HmKj P¨v‡bj Dc‡fvM K‡i _v‡K| Avwg
†Kb Zvi Lvivc nIqvi Rb¨ iv¯—v Ly‡j w`w”Q|
Avgiv A‡b‡KB ARynvZ w`‡q _vwK †h wbDRUv GKUz †`L‡Z nq, AvenvIqvi
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ˆbwZK PwiÎ MV‡bi Rb¨ wKQz cv‡”Q bv|
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“Jasmine was in a forbidden relationship with Aladin, Snow White
lived alone with seven men, Pinocchio was a liar, Robin Hood was
a thief, Tarzan walked without clothes on, a stranger kissed
sleeping beauty and she married him, Cinderella lied and sneaked
out at night to attend a party. Almost 70 of the Tom and Jerry
cartoon shows that Tom is extensively addicted to the opposite
sex. And he reacts strangely when he sees anyone of the
opposite sex. Guardians are not weary of what it represents but
the kids are watching this very easily with family!”
Avwg wK Rvwb c„w_ex †Kvb w`‡K hv‡”Q Bewjm kqZvb m~iv Aviv‡di 17 bs
Avqv‡Z open declaration w`‡q e‡j‡Q ÒAvwg gvbe RvwZi Wvb w`K †_‡K
Avm‡ev, evg w`K †_‡K Avm‡ev, mvg‡bi w`K ‡_‡K Avm‡ev, wcQb w`K †_‡K
Avm‡evÓ| ZvB Bewjm kqZvb wKš‘ e‡m †bB, †m Zvi declaration Abyhvqx
w`bivZ Zvi G‡RÛv¸‡jv ev¯—evq‡bi Rb¨ cwikªg K‡i hv‡”Q| †m Avgv‡`i
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Rb¨ Avgv‡`i‡K wKQz cov‡kvbv Ki‡Z n‡e| GB Rb¨ Youtube-G †`L‡Z
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Bewjk (kqZvb) wKš‘ †Kvb fv‡eB PvB‡e bv †h Avgvi mš—vb mwVK mg‡q
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cvwi mKv‡j evmv †_‡K †ei nIqvi Av‡M †hb Zviv ARy K‡i †ei nq| Ges
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†g‡qiv Zv‡`i gv_vi ¯‹vd bv Ly‡j ïay ¯‹v‡d©i Dci w`‡q gv_v gv‡mn Ki‡Z
cv‡i|
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mZK©Zv Pvi t A‡bK mgq †`Lv hvq Avgiv bvgvwhiv gmwR‡` XyKvi Av‡M
RyZv¸‡jv wVK g‡Zv ivwL bv| we‡kl K‡i gmwR` QvovI wewfbœ AwWUwiqv‡g ev
n‡j ev Kgb iƒ‡g ev IqvK©‡c−‡m ev †Kvb bb-gymwjg Gwiqv‡Z Rvgv‡Z bvgv‡hi
e¨e¯’v n‡j †`Lv hvq RyZvi GKUv wek„•Ljv Avi G‡Z bb-gymwjgiv Avgv‡`i
†`‡L bxPz aviYv †cvlY K‡i _v‡K| Avevi A‡bK gymwj−ivB †`Lv hvq RyZv-
†gvRv w`‡q `yM©Ü †ei nq, †mw`‡K Avgv‡`i Lye m‡PZb _vKv cÖ‡qvRb|
mZK©Zv cvuP t G hy‡Mi †Q‡j‡g‡qiv cÖPzi mgq bó K‡i _v‡K Kw¤úDUvi
†MBg †L‡j| evev-gv‡qiv †`Lv hvq G wel‡q Lye GKUv `„wó †`b bv| Avwg wK
KL‡bv wn‡me K‡i †`‡LwQ †h †m 24 N›Uvi g‡a¨ KZ N›Uv mgq e¨q Ki‡Q
wkvi Kv‡R Avi KZ N›Uv mgq e¨q Ki‡Q Kw¤úDUvi †MBg †L‡j †MBg
Aek¨B †Lj‡e wKš‘ Zvi GKUv wjwgU _vKv cÖ‡qvRb| ZvB Kw¤úDUvi †MBg
†Ljvi Rb¨ mgq wbw`©ó K‡i i“wUb K‡i †`qv DwPZ|
mZK©Zv Qq t GB †`‡ki cwi‡ek I KvjPvi Abyhvqx Avgv‡`i †ekxifvM
gymwjg †Q‡j‡g‡qivB eq‡d«Û-Mvj©‡d«Û ˆZix K‡i _v‡K| A‡bK evev-gv †h‡nZz
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GB welqUv cQ›` K‡ib bv ZvB Zviv e¨vcviUv †Kvb µ‡gB evev-gv‡K Rvb‡Z
Ges eyS‡Z †`q bv| Zviv mvaviYZ evmvi evB‡i †gjv‡gkv K‡i _v‡K Ges
my‡hvM ey‡S Pvwn`v Abyhvqx G‡K Ac‡ii mv‡_ wbqwgZ †m· K‡i _v‡K| g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e Zviv hv K‡i Zv GB †`‡ki AvB‡b wjM¨vj| Avgiv nq‡Zv Rvwb
†mBdwUi Rb¨ GLvbKvi ¯‹yj-K‡jR-BDwbfvwm©wUi Iqvki“g¸‡jv‡Z KÛg
†fwÛs †gwkb-Gi e¨e¯’v Av‡Q, hv‡Z †Q‡j-†g‡qiv cÖ‡qvR‡bi mgq K‡qb w`‡q
Aí cqmv‡ZB AwZmn‡RB KÛg †c‡Z cv‡i| GQvov †mBd †m· Kivi Rb¨
Iqvki“g¸‡jv‡Z bvbviKg †cvóvi jvMv‡bv _v‡K|
GB e¨vcv‡i Avgv‡K wnKg‡Zi mwnZ (technicaly) G¸‡Z n‡e| ZvB Avgv‡K
A‡bK †ekx mZK© n‡Z n‡e| Zviv mvaviYZ Kw¤úDUv‡i P¨vwUs K‡i Ges
†mj‡dv‡b †UK&ªU g¨v‡mR cvwV‡q _v‡K| Lye g‡bv‡hvM mnKv‡i hw` Avgiv GB
eBwU cwo Zvn‡j †`L‡Z cv‡ev †h GB eB‡qi AvMv-†MvovB GB mgm¨vi
mgvavb †`qv n‡q‡Q|
mZK©Zv mvZ t Avevi †`Lv †M‡Q †h A‡bK evev-gv Bmjvwg gvB‡Ûi Ges
Zv‡`i evmvqI Bmjvwg cwi‡ek| evev-gv †g‡q‡K mvaviYZ wnRve cwo‡qB
¯‹z‡j cvwV‡q _v‡K wKš‘ ev¯—‡e †`Lv †M‡Q †h †g‡q evmvi evB‡i wM‡q ev‡m ev
†Uª‡b D‡VB wnRve Ly‡j †dj‡Q| Avevi ¯‹zj †k‡l hLb evmvq wdi‡Q ZLb
evmvi KvQvKvwQ G‡m wnRve c‡i wb‡”Q cwievi‡K mš—ó Kivi R‡b¨| g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e †h Avgvi evmvq nq‡Zv Bmjvwg cwi‡ek wKš‘ evmvi evB‡i †Zv Avi
Bmjvwg cwi‡ek bv| Avgvi GB †Q‡j ev †g‡q w`‡bi †ekxifvM mgqB _v‡K
evmvi evB‡i| ZvB GB e¨vcv‡iI mZK© n‡Z n‡e, mwVK c`‡c wb‡Z n‡e|
†g‡q‡K †hb †Rvi K‡i wnRve bv civB eis Zv‡K hw` wnRv‡ei D‡Ïk¨ eySv‡Z
mg nB Ges †m ey‡S wnRve c‡i Zvn‡j Avi f‡qi †Kvb KviY †bB, ZLb
Avi Zv‡K e‡jI wnRvi Lyjv‡bv hv‡e bv|
mZK©Zv AvU t Avgiv gv‡S g‡a¨B mš—v‡bi ¯‹z‡j wM‡q †LuvR-Lei wb‡Z
cvwi| hw` †Kvb mš—vb †`‡L †h Zvi wcZv ev gvZv wbqwgZ ¯‹z‡j G‡m †LuvR-
Lei †bq Zvn‡j †m ev”Pv Aek¨B Ab¨‡`i †_‡K Avjv`v n‡e, †m mn‡R †Kvb
Ab¨v‡qi w`‡K G¸‡e bv, GKUz n‡jI Zvi eyK Kuvc‡e| Avi hw` †`‡L †h Zvi
wcZv ev gvZv †KD-B †Kvbw`b ¯‹z‡j Av‡mb bv †Kvb †LuvR-Lei †bb bv Zvn‡j
Zviv †Kvb bv †Kvbfv‡e jvBbPÿ Z n‡q †h‡Z cv‡i, Zviv Rxeb wb‡q Ab¨iKg
wPš—v Ki‡Z cv‡i| KviY wUbGBR jvBdUvB n‡”Q cÖPÛ wiw¯‹ jvBd|
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mš—vb‡`i fwel¨r †ckv m¤ú‡K© mZK©Zv
Avgvi mš—v‡bi fwel¨r †ckv (cÖ‡dkb) Kx n‡e Zv BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z hvIqvi
Av‡M †_‡KB wPš—v Ki‡Z n‡e| †ckv wba©vi‡Yi e¨vcv‡i GKwU cwi®‹vi bxwZgvjv
Aej¤^b Kiv DwPZ Avi Zv n‡”Q Avq-†ivRMv‡ii †‡Î ¯^”QZv| KviY
nvjvj BbKvg dih Avi Bev`Z Key‡ji c~e© kZ© n‡”Q nvjvj BbKvg| GB
†‡Î Aek¨B ZvKIqvi cixv|
Bmjvwg `„wó‡Kvb †_‡K wKfv‡e †ckv wba©viY Ki‡ev mnR formula n‡”Q, †h
mKj †ckv mivmwi nviv‡gi mv‡_ hy³ Zv Rv‡qh bq| †hgb †Kvb †Kv¤úvbx
nvivg cY¨ Drcv`b K‡i ev wewµ K‡i ev †Wwjfvwi K‡i ev m~‡`i Kvievi K‡i
BZ¨vw`| GQvovI †h mKj †ckvq wg_¨vi Avkªq wb‡Z nq ev †ec`©v n‡Z nq
ZvI nvjvj bq| †hgb GKwU D`vniY †`qv hvK t Avgiv g‡b Ki‡Z cvwi †h
AvBwU †Kv¤úvbx‡Z Re †Zv fvj wKš‘ GLv‡b †Lqvj Kivi welq n‡”Q †h A‡bK
AvBwU †Kv¤úvbxB cb©MÖvwdi weR‡bR K‡i _v‡K ZvB Zv‡`i †cÖvWvKmbI nvjvj
bq Ges cb©MÖvwd cÖPv‡ii Rb¨ †UKwbK¨vj mv‡cvU© †`qv Rv‡qh bq| Z‡e GB
wel‡q Kv‡iv mv‡_ †hb Z‡K© bv hvB eis ZK© Gwo‡q ZvKIqvi Dci Ávb AR©b
Ki‡j cwi®‹vi DËi †c‡q hv‡ev|
ÔFacebookÕ-Gi †b‡MwUf w`K
Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv w`b w`b †dBmey‡Ki gva¨‡g Avm³ n‡q hv‡”Q| wKš‘ Avgiv
wK KL‡bv wPš—v K‡i †`‡LwQ †h Gi †b‡MwUf w`K¸‡jv Kx Kx A‡bK †‡ÎB
†`Lv hv‡”Q †h GB Avm³Zv G‡Zv cÖ‡KvU AvKvi aviY K‡i‡Q †h Zv K›Uª‡ji
evB‡i P‡j hv‡”Q| †hgb wb‡gœ †dBm ey‡Ki wKQz †b‡MwUf w`K Zz‡j aiv n‡jv|
GB wel‡q Avgv‡`i evev-gv‡q‡`i mgq _vK‡Z m‡PZb nIqv DwPZ|
1) A‡bK †‡ÎB †m Zvi Av‡kcv‡ki Ab¨‡`i †Kqvi K‡i bv| ZLb †m
ïay Zvi wb‡Ri RMr wb‡q _v‡K|
2) mvgvwRK eÜb K‡g †h‡Z _v‡K| †m Av‡¯— Av‡¯— Zvi mvgvwRK `vwqZ¡
†_‡K `~‡i m‡i †h‡Z _v‡K|
3) mg‡qi Ace¨envi| Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv †h WKfv‡e N›Uvi ci N›Uv
†dBm ey‡Ki g‡a¨ mgq KvUvq Zv wnmve Ki‡j †`Lv hv‡e †h Rxe‡bi
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GKUv `xN© g~j¨evb mgq bó K‡i †dj‡Q, hv Ab¨ wKQz w`‡q wZc~iY
m¤¢e bq|
4) ØxN©Y †dBmey‡K mgq KvUv‡bv gvbwmKfv‡e Ges kvwiwiKfv‡e
¯^v‡¯’i Rb¨ wZKi|
5) cvwiev‡ii Ab¨vb¨‡`i mv‡_I m¤ú‡K©i AebwZ NU‡Z _v‡K| w`b w`b
Zvi Kv‡Q cwiev‡ii m`m¨‡`i †P‡q eÜz-evÜe‡`i ¸i“Z¡ †ekx n‡Z
_v‡K|
6) Z…Zxq c‡i mv‡_ Ø›Ø| †dBm ey‡Ki gva¨‡g A‡bK AcwiwPZ
†jvK‡`i mv‡_ eÜzZ¡ nq| GB MÖ“‡c _v‡K wewfbœ eq‡mi cyi“l-gwnjv|
Kvi PwiÎ †Kgb †KD Rv‡b bv| Ggb A‡bK `~N©Ubv N‡U‡Q †h G‡K
Ac‡ii mv‡_ †`Lv-mvv‡Zi gva¨‡g eo ai‡Yi µvB‡gi mv‡_ Rwo‡q
†M‡Q|
7) e−¨vK‡gBj| †dBm ey‡K mvaviYZ mevB Zv‡`i bvbv iKg bvbv fw½i
Qwe Avc‡jvW K‡i w`‡q _v‡K| mK‡jB mK‡ji Qwe †`L‡Z cvq| †h
†KD GLvb †_‡K Qwe WvBb‡jvW K‡i wb‡q KvU-†c‡ói gva¨‡g ev
Gwb‡gk‡bi gva¨‡g Ab¨vb¨ GWvë Qwei mv‡_ wgwj‡q cb©MÖvwd ˆZix
Ki‡Z cv‡i|
8) BmjvwgK Islamic point of view| Avwg hw` †g‡q n‡q _vwK Zvn‡j
Avwg Avgvi Qwe Ab¨‡K †`Lv‡ev †Kb Avgvi Qwe †`‡L cicyi“liv
†Zv Lvivc wPš—vfvebv Ki‡Z cv‡i| †hLv‡b Bmjvg †g‡q‡`i‡K †Kvgj
¯^‡i cicyi“‡li mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z wb‡la K‡i‡Q †mLv‡b wb‡Ri bvbv
fw½i Qwe †Zv †kqvi Kivi cÖkœB D‡V bv|
ÔFacebookÕ-Gi mwVK e¨envi
Dc‡i Avgiv †dBmey‡Ki †b‡MwUf w`K m¤ú‡K© wKQz Z_¨ Zz‡j a‡iwQ| wKš‘
Gi cwRwUf w`KI i‡q‡Q| nü v, Avgiv GB †dBmeyK‡K mwVK Kv‡R jvwM‡q
Avevi A‡bK DcKviI †c‡Z cvwi| †hgb t †KD †dBmey‡Ki gva¨‡g friend
circle ˆZix K‡i Zv‡`i g‡a¨ Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZx KvR Ki‡Z cv‡i, Zv‡`i‡K
wbqwgZ mwVK Øxb m¤ú‡K© m‡PZb Ki‡Z cv‡i, bvbviKg BmjvwgK
WKz‡g›Uvwii wfwWI wK¬c cvVv‡Z cv‡i, fvj fvj ¯‹jvi‡`i †jKPv‡ii wjsK
cvVv‡Z cv‡i, wewfbœ iKg AvwU©K¨vj cvVv‡Z cv‡i| GUv‡K Avgiv wWwRUvj
`vIqv ej‡Z cvwi| †ekxifvM †‡Î †`Lv †M‡Q †h AvRKvj gvbyl covi
PvB‡Z wfwWI †`L‡Z †ekx cQ›` K‡ib| ZvB Avgv‡`iI DwPZ GB my‡hvM‡K
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Kv‡R jvMv‡bv| Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZx Kv‡R GB AvaywbK †UK‡bvjwRi mبenv‡ii
gva¨‡g gnvb Avj−vni Av‡`k cvjb Kiv| KviY ivm~j (mv.) e‡j‡Qb ÒAvgvi
KvQ †_‡K GKwU evK¨ n‡jI Zv †jvK‡`i Kv‡Q †cuŠ‡Q `vIÓ (mnxn eyLvix)|
GUv cÖwZwU gymwjg bibvixi Rb¨ mve©wYK dih KvR|
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P¨vcUvi 8
Sex education for
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Bmjv‡gi `„wó‡Z †m·
gvbe Rxe‡bi j¨B DbœwZ I cÖMwZ| G D‡Ïk¨ KLbI eêvnxbfv‡e Kvgbv
PwiZv‡_©i gva¨‡g jvf Kiv hvq bv| eêvnxb Rxeb-hvcb ïay Rxebxkw³i
AcPq NwU‡q cvkweK Rxe‡bi w`‡K †U‡b wb‡q hvq|
G K_v Aek¨ ¯§iY ivL‡Z n‡e †h, Bmjvg cÖe„wËi `v‡m cwiYZ nIqv cQ›`
K‡i bv| hw` cÖ‡Z¨‡KB Zvi Kvgbv-evmbvi `v‡m cwiYZ nq Zv n‡j gvbe-
Rxeb fyj c‡_ cwiPvwjZ n‡Z eva¨| †h e¨w³ me mgq Zvi ˆ`wnK Kvgbv
PwiZv_© Ki‡Z wjß _v‡K Zvi Rxebxkw³ AwZ `~ªZ qcÖvß nq| Giƒc cÖe„wËi
AbyPi‡`i Øviv mgvR-Rxe‡bi †Kvb gnr KvR m¤¢e bq|
eêvnxb †fvM-wejv‡mi gva¨‡g †Kvb e¨w³ hv‡Z Zvi wb‡Ri, Ac‡ii, Zvi
cwiev‡ii ev Zvi mgv‡Ri †Kvb wZmvab ev wech©q NUv‡Z bv cv‡i, Zvi
Rb¨B Bmjv‡gi ixwZbxwZ iwPZ n‡q‡Q| G mKj ixwZbxwZ cvjb mv‡c‡
Rxe‡bi mKj myL ¯^v”Q›`¨ †fvM Kivi c~Y© AwaKvi gymwjg‡`i i‡q‡Q|
cÖK„Zc‡ Bmjvg mKj‡K c~Y©fv‡e Rxeb‡K †fvM Kivi AvnŸvb Rvbvq|
Bmjvg gvby‡li ˆea †hŠb¯ú„nv‡K ¯^vfvweK e‡j ¯^xKvi K‡i †bq|
Avbvm ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û †_‡K ewY©Z t Òivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
Avgv‡`i‡K we‡q Ki‡Z wb‡`©k w`‡Zb| Avi AweevwnZ wbtm½ Rxeb hvcb Kiv
†_‡K Lye Kov fvlvq wb‡la Ki‡Zb|Ó (gymbv‡` Avngv`)
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Beby AveŸvm ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û †_‡K ewY©Z, ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t ÒKzgvwiZ¡ I AweevwnZ wbtm½ Rxeb-hvc‡bi †Kvb cÖ_v Bmjv‡gi
g‡a¨ †bB|Ó (gymbv‡` Avngv`)
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Avi GK nv`x‡m D‡j−L K‡i‡Qb t Ògvbyl
Zvi ¯¿x-mnev‡mi Rb¨ Avj−vi mš‘wó I cyi¯‹vi jvf K‡i|Ó GKRb mvnvex
we¯§q cÖKvk K‡i ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-†K wRÁvmv Ki‡jb,
Ò†Kvb †jvK Zvi †hŠb cÖe„wË PwiZv_© Kivi Rb¨ cyi¯‹vi cv‡e, G †Kgb K_vÓ
Dˇi ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg ej‡jb, ÒZzwg wK eyS‡Z cvi‡Qv bv
†h, hw` †m Giƒc bv K‡i wbwl×fv‡e †hŠb-wµqvq wjß nZ Zvn‡j †m †Mvbv‡ni
KvR KiZ myZivs hw` †m AvBbvbyhvqx Zvi †hŠb-zav wbe„Ë K‡i Zvn‡j †m
cyi¯‹vi cv‡e|Ó (mnxn gymwjg)
G Kvi‡YB Bmjv‡gi weavb g‡Z †hŠbcÖe„wË `g‡bi †Kvb cÖkœB I‡V bv| hw` hye
m¤cÖ`v‡qi g‡a¨ †hŠb¯ú„nvi D‡b¥l nq Zvn‡j Zv‡Z `~lYxq wKQz †bB Ges
Zv‡`i c‡ Giƒc ¯ú„nv‡K K`h© ev Ab¨vq wKQz g‡b KiviI KviY †bB|
Bmjvg hv Pvq Zv n‡”Q GB †h, hye-m¤cÖ`v‡qi DwPZ Zv‡`i ¯ú„nv‡K Zv‡`i
wbqš¿‡Y ivLv Ges Dchy³ mgq I cwi‡ek bv Avmv ch©š— †hŠbKvh© n‡Z weiZ
_vKv| Giƒc weiwZi A_© `gb bq| †hŠbweÁvbx d«‡qWI e‡j‡Qb †h, †hŠbKvh©
n‡Z wbe„wË I †hŠb¯ú„nv `gb GK K_v bq| †hŠb cÖe„wË `gb Ki‡j mœvqyi Dci
A¯^vfvweK Pvc m„wó nq Ges Zvi d‡j bvbvwea gvbwmK cxovi DrcwË N‡U|
mvgwqKfv‡e †hŠbKvh© n‡Z weiZ _vK‡j Giƒc mœvqweK I gvbwmK cxovi †Kvb
KviY N‡U bv|
†hŠb¯ú„nv‡K mywbqwš¿Z Kivi D‡Ïk¨ GB bq †h, Rxe‡bi me©cÖKvi Avb›` I
†fvM †_‡K `~‡i m‡i _vK‡Z n‡e| e¨w³MZ I mvgvwRK Rxeb‡K kw³kvjx I
DbœZ Ki‡Z n‡j me©‡‡Î k„•Ljv I wbqgvbyewZ©Zv Avek¨K| †Kvb RvwZB Zvi
mve©‡fŠgZ¡ I AvZ¥gh©v`v wbqgvbyewZ©Zv e¨ZxZ eRvq ivL‡Z cv‡i bv| hw`
cÖ‡Z¨‡KB B”Qvbyhvqx KvR Ki‡Z _v‡K Zvn‡j RvZxq Rxe‡b k„•Ljvi Afve
N‡U| Giƒc wek„•Lj RvwZ‡K evwn‡ii kΓ mn‡RB Kvey Ki‡Z cv‡i| cÖ‡Z¨K
RvwZ‡K ZvB AvZ¥Z¨vM, AvZ¥mshg I AvZ¥wbqš¿‡Yi wkvMÖnY Ki‡Z nq|
Bmjv‡gi wkvI ZvB| D`vniY ¯^iƒc †ivhvi K_v D‡j−L Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i|
cÖvqB ejv n‡q _v‡K †h, hviv a‡g©i Abykvmb †g‡b P‡j Zv‡`i Rxeb LyeB
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cxov`vqK, KviY cv‡ci fq me mgq Zv‡`i‡K weeªZ K‡i iv‡L| Z‡e
Bmjv‡gi †ejvq GK_v Lv‡U bv, KviY Bmjv‡g kvw¯—i †P‡q Avj−vi
gvM‡div‡Zi K_vB evi evi D‡j−L Kiv n‡q‡Q|
ZIevi DcKvwiZv Avj−vni ingZ Ges gvM‡divZ m¤ú‡K© Avj KyiAv‡b eûevi
D‡j−L Kiv n‡q‡Q| Avj−vni ing‡Zi Øvi KZ cÖk¯—! wZwb ïay ZIevKvixi
ZIevB MÖnY K‡ib bv, Zv‡K wZwb cyi¯‹…ZI K‡ib Ges mr I Av`k© ¯’vbxq
e¨w³‡`i Aš—f~©³ K‡ib| GLv‡b †R‡b ivLv `iKvi ZIev gv‡b ÒAvj−vni w`‡K
wd‡i AvmvÓ, A_©vr ZIev Kivi ci H Ab¨vq KvRwU wØZxq evi Avi bv Kivi
cÖwZÁv Kiv Ges Zv cvjb Kiv|
wkï mš—v‡bi †hŠbZv wkv
Avwg wK Rvwb
Avgvi mš—vb Aek¨B †hŠbZv m¤^‡Ü wkv cv‡”Q!
wKfv‡e -- Zvi eÜz‡`i Kv‡Q -- cÖPvi gva¨‡gi Kv‡Q -- mgv‡Ri Kv‡Q|
G‡Z mgm¨v †Kv_vq
†h mgm¨v n‡Z cv‡i Zv n‡jv...
• weåvš—Ki
• fyj Z_¨
• wZKi Z_¨
Avgvi mš—vb cwi‡ek †_‡K hv wkL‡Q Zv memgq Avgvi wbqš¿‡b bv _vK‡jI
Avwg Zv‡K mwVK wkv †c‡Z mvnvh¨ Ki‡Z cvwi|
†QvU wkïi †hŠbZvi weKvk
Rb¥jMœ †_‡K `yBeQi ch©š—
• †Q‡jiv gv‡qi Rivqy‡Z _vK‡Z Ges R‡b¥i wKQy‡Yi g‡a¨ D‡ËwRZ
nq|
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• R‡b¥i wKQz‡Yi g‡a¨ †g‡qiv ¯¿xRb‡bw›`ªq im Drcv`b K‡i Ges
f„½vKzi Dw®§Z K‡i|
• †hŠbv½mn kix‡ii wewfbœ Ask D`NvUb K‡i|
• †hŠbv½mn kix‡ii wewfbœ Ask ¯ú‡k©i gva¨‡g Avb›`jv‡fi AwfÁZv
AR©b K‡i|
• nq‡Zv ev †Ljbv ev K¤^‡ji mv‡_ †hŠbv½ N‡l As‡Mi mvov m¤ú‡K©
AwfÁZv AR©b K‡i|
• wbR kix‡ii wewfbœ As‡ki cÖwZ BwZevPK ev †bwZevPK `„wóf½x
Rb¥v‡Z ïi“ K‡i|
• †Q‡j ev †g‡qi Rb¨ MÖnY‡hvM¨ AvPiY wkL‡Z ïi“ K‡i|
wZbeQi †_‡K PvieQi ch©š—
• †jvKR‡bi mvg‡bB †hŠbv½ ¯úk© K‡i †hŠbv½ wbixv K‡i Ges wbRm‡¤¢vM
K‡i|
• wewfbœ wj½ Ges Ges ˆ`wnK ev Ab¨vb¨ gwnjvi eyK aivi †Póv K‡i|
• eÜz‡`i mv‡_ Ges fvB‡evb‡`i mv‡_ †hŠb †Ljv †L‡j _v‡K|
• †hŠbkãmn †Mvm‡ji kã I †kŠPvMv‡ii e¨eüZ kã e¨envi Ki‡Z
wk‡L|
• bvix ev cyi“‡li f~wgKv m¤ú‡K© GKwU mswß ¯^”Q aviYv cÖwZwôZ nq|
• wKfv‡e ev”Pv ˆZix nq Ges Rb¥ †bq †m wel‡q †KŠZznj R‡b¥|
• hvB ejv †nvK bv ev”Pv †Kv_v †_‡K Av‡m †m e¨vcv‡i, Zv‡`i wbR¯^
GKwU aviYv R‡b¥|
cuvPeQi †_‡K AvUeQi ch©š—
• eo‡`i Kv‡Q †KvbwU MÖnY‡hvM¨/AMÖnY‡hvM¨ Ges eoiv †Kvb wel‡q
¯^w¯— †eva K‡i †mwU wk‡L|
• eÜz‡`i †fOv‡bv, AvNvZ Ki‡Z, VvÆvq, Awff~Z Kivi Rb¨ †hŠbZv
welqK kã e¨envi K‡i|
• mgwj½ ev wecixZwj‡½i wkï‡`i mv‡_ nq‡Zv †hŠb‡Ljv Pvwj‡q hvq|
• nq‡Zv wbRm‡¤¢vM Pvwj‡q hvq|
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• hLb †jv‡Kiv bMœ nq ev †cvkvK cwieZ©b K‡i ZLb Zv †`Lvi †Póv
K‡i|
• nq‡Zv j¾vkxj nq|
• cÖvqk bvix/cyi“‡li cÖPwjZ f~wgKvi cÖwZ cÖPÛ AvMÖn †`Lvq|
• evB‡ii cÖfv‡e cÖfvweZ nq|
bqeQi †_‡K `keQi ch©š—
• †hŠb‡Ljv Ges wbRm‡¤¢vM Pvwj‡q hvq| †cÖg welqK wµqvKjvc
m¤ú‡K© m‡PZb nq|
• mgwj‡½i `j Lyu‡R †ei K‡i; wecixZ wj½‡K †fOv‡bv Ges wcQz avIqv
K‡i|
• eqtmwÜi jY †`Lv †`q|
• evB‡ii cÖfv‡ei mv‡_ myi wgjvq; nq‡Zv iwOb ¯^cœ †`‡L I ¯^cœf½
nq|
†hŠbZv wel‡q wkïi cÖ‡kœi Reve †`qv
†Kb Avgiv †hŠbZv wel‡q wkïi cÖ‡kœi Reve †`e
• †hŠbZv wel‡q wkïiv †KŠZznjx|
• wkïiv memgq Zv‡`i Pvicv‡ki mewKQz †`‡L wØavwš^Z n‡q _v‡K|
• memgq cÖkœ Kivi Rb¨ AvnŸvb Ki‡j, wkïwU †KvbwKQz‡Z wØavwš^Z
n‡j fyj ev mwVK Reve bv cvIqvi g‡Zv Dr‡mi Kv‡Q hvevi e`‡j †m
wcZv-gvZvi Kv‡Q Avm‡e|
• GwU GKwU wkï‡`i mv‡_ evev gv‡qi mȳ ’ m¤úK© M‡o †Zvjvi c_|
• Avgv‡`i wkï‡`i mv‡_ ms¯‹„wZK, cwievwiK g~j¨‡eva‡K Rvbv‡bvi GwU
GKwU DËg my‡hvM|
• wkï‡`i BwZevPK f½x‡Z cÖ‡kœi Reve w`‡Z n‡e Zviv hv‡Z eyS‡Z
cv‡i †h †hŠbZv Zv‡`i Aw¯—‡Z¡i GKwU g~j¨evb Ask|
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KLb Avgiv †hŠbZv wel‡q wkïi cÖ‡kœi Reve †`e
• hLb Zviv cÖkœ K‡i| Avgiv DËiwU bv Rvb‡jI ej‡Z cvwi t ÔDËg
cÖkœ, c‡i Avgiv G e¨vcv‡i K_v ejeÕ| c‡i Kivi Rb¨ hv‡Z g‡b
_v‡K †mwU wbwðš— †nv‡Z n‡e|
• hLb Avgiv my‡hvM cvB, †hgb wUwf †`Lv - Aš—¯^Ëv gwnjv‡K †`L‡j,
†cvlvcÖvYxi ev”Pv n‡j|
• Zv‡`i ejvi Rb¨ Pvc bv w`‡q-Zviv hw` DËiwU bvI Rv‡b Zey cÖkœ
Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i ÔZzwg wK g‡b Ki Zzwg G m¤ú‡K© wK RvbÕ G‡Z
eySvq †h hLwb cÖkœ Avm‡e ZLbB Zv‡`i mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z cviv hv‡e|
• hLb mgq cvIqv hvq Ges K_v ejvi ¯’vb cvIqv hvq A_ev †h mgqwU
Avgv‡`i `yR‡bi Rb¨B ¯^w¯—Ki A_ev Nygv‡bvi mgq A_ev hLb Avgiv
`yR‡b GKmv‡_ nvUwQ|
†hŠbZv wel‡q wkïi cÖ‡kœi Reve †`qvi mgq Avgiv Kx eje
• DËiwU mwVK, mr, mswß Ges mijfv‡e w`‡Z n‡e|
• eqm Abyhvqx Zviv hv‡Z eyS‡Z cv‡i †m Abyhvqx kã Ges aviYvi
e¨envimn DËi w`‡Z n‡e|
• mvs¯‹…wZK, cwievwiK, agx©q g~j¨‡eva hv Avgvi Rb¨ g~j¨evb †m¸wj
wkv w`‡Z n‡e|
• Zvi eq‡m †hwU MÖnY‡hvM¨, Dchy³ †m¸wj wkv w`‡Z n‡e|
• BwZevPK n‡Z n‡e| wkï‡`i Rvbv‡Z n‡e †h Zviv Avgvi Kv‡Q cÖkœ
wb‡q Avm‡j Avwg Lywk nB, wei³ nB bv|
• e³„Zvg~jK Ges ivMvwš^Z K_vevZ©v Gwo‡q Pj‡Z n‡e|
• kvjxbZv wkvi gva¨‡g †hŠb wµqvKg© welqK cÖ‡kœi DËi w`‡Z n‡e|
wKfv‡e †hŠb wel‡q wkïi cÖ‡kœi Reve w`‡Z n‡e
• Avgvi wkïwU Kx Rv‡b, †ev‡S, wPš—v K‡i Zv Zv‡K cÖkœ Kiv †h‡Z
cv‡i|
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• hLb Avwg A¯^w¯— †eva Kwi ev weeªZ‡eva Kwi Zv D‡j−L/wPwýZ Ki‡Z
n‡e|
• wKfv‡e cÖkœwUi Reve w`‡Z n‡e Zv fvevi Rb¨ mgq wb‡Z n‡e| Avgvi
wkïwUi cÖ‡kœi DËi Lyu‡R cvIqvi Rb¨ Avwg K‡qK gyn~Z© Ab¨vb¨ cÖvß
eq¯‹‡`i mv‡_ K_v ejvi †Póv Ki‡Z cvwi|
• hLb Avwg cÖ‡kœi †Kvb DËi bv Rvwb, Zv D‡j−L Ki‡Z n‡e|
• wkïi cÖ‡kœi wel‡q mwVK DËi †ei K‡i `yR‡b GKmv‡_ wg‡j †mwU
cov †h‡Z cv‡i|
• evev-gv wkïi †hŠbZv wb‡q Av‡jvPbv PP©vi Rb¨ GB PviwU c‡q›U g‡b
ivLv cª‡qvRb t
Z_¨
g~j¨‡eva
`vwqZ¡
AvZ¥-kw³
†hŠbmȳ ’Zvmn wkïi weKv‡ki Rb¨ †hfv‡e
evev-gv mvnvh¨ Ki‡Z cv‡i
1. †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i Rb¨ hZœkxj ¯úk© Ges Avš—wiKZv Zv‡`i wb‡R‡`i Ges
Ab¨vb¨‡`i m¤ú‡K© BwZevPK Abyf~wZ ˆZix Ki‡e|
2. Avgv‡`i †g‡q A_ev †Q‡j wkï‡`i Rb¨ mgvb my‡hvM †`qv|
3. wkïi mv‡_ Ggb fvlvq Ges Ggbfv‡e K_v ej‡Z n‡e hv Dfq wjsM‡K
eySvq|
4. †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i wkv w`‡Z n‡e †h Zvi kix‡ii †hŠbvsMmg~n nj Zvi
kix‡ii e¨w³MZ Ask|
5. †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i wkv w`‡Z n‡e †h Zvi kixi GKwU wbR¯^ welq Ges cÖwZwU
gvby‡li AwaKvi Av‡Q †h †K Zvi kixi ¯úk© Ki‡e ev ¯úk© Ki‡e bv Zv
w¯’i Kiv|
6. cÖkœ Kivi Rb¨ Avgv‡`i wkï‡`i ¯^vMZ Rvwb‡q ej‡Z n‡e †h, ÔZzwg cÖkœ
K‡iQ e‡j Avwg Lywk n‡qwQÕ| hw` DËiwU Avgv‡`i Rvbv bv _v‡K,
†Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i wb‡q GKmv‡_ Avgiv DËiwU LyuR‡Z cvwi|
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7. cwiev‡ii mKj‡K (wkï I cÖvßeq¯‹) Zv‡`i Abyf~wZ Rvbv‡bvi Rb¨
DrmvwnZ Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i|
8. ev”Pv‡`i eyS‡Z mvnvh¨ Ki‡Z n‡e †h WKfv‡e Zv‡`i e¨envi Ab¨‡`i
cÖfvweZ Ki‡Z cv‡i|
9. ev”Pv‡`i Zvi eqm Ges weKvk Abyhvqx mxgv wba©viY Ki‡Z I Dchy³
AvPiY m¤ú‡K© wkL‡Z mvnvh¨ Ki‡Z n‡e|
10. †KvbwU Dchy³ AvPiY Ges †KvbwU Dchy³ AvPiY bq Zv ev”Pv‡`i mivmwi
I ¯úó K‡i ejv hv‡Z Zviv Aciva‡Ÿv‡a bv †fv‡M ev j¾v bv cvq|
11. Avgv‡`i wkï‡`i Rb¨ BwZevPK Av`k© f~wgKv cvjbKvix n‡Z n‡e|
evev gv‡qi Rb¨ wKQz wUcm
1. hLwb Avgvi †Pv‡Li evB‡i Avgvi wkïwU †Lj‡Z wk‡L ZLb †_‡KB cÖK…Z
Zvi fvjg›` ïi“ nq|
2. ev”Pv‡K ïay GB ejv wVK bv †h Zvi ïay ÒbvÓ ejvi AwaKvi Av‡Q|
ev”Pv‡`i AwaKvi‡KI kª×v Ki‡Z n‡e| ev”Pv‡K †Rvo K‡i Pzgy, myomywo
†`qv, †Kvb AcQ›`bxq fvlv ev cÖvßeq‡¯‹i mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡Z †`qv hv‡e
bv|
3. ev”Pvi KviY wenxb cÖwZwµqv eyS‡Z †Póv Ki‡Z n‡e| †hgb - ÒAvwg Avi
wcqv‡bv wkK‡K cQ›` Kwi bvÓ, nq‡Zv K_vwU GKwU ¸i“Z¡c~Y© ms‡KZ
enb K‡i| †mwU ¸i“Z¡ mnKv‡i ïb‡Z n‡e|
4. Ri“ix cwiw¯’wZ‡Z Lvc LvIqv‡bvi Rb¨ ev”Pvi mv‡_ ÒKx n‡eÓ †Ljv †h‡Z
cv‡i| Òhw` Zzwg GKv _vK Ges †Zvgvi weovjwU Amȳ ’ n‡j Kx n‡eÓ
Òhw` Zzwg †Zvgvi eyU RyZvwU ¯‹z‡j nvwi‡q †dj Ges evB‡i †mœv ci‡Z
_v‡K, Kx n‡eÓ †eex wmUvi hw` Zvi cyi“lv½ ¯úk© Ki‡Z e‡j Zv n‡j Kx
n‡e| BZ¨vw`|
5. ev”Pv‡K ej‡Z n‡e †h †Kvb hZœ/ØvwqZ¡kxj cÖvßeq¯‹ wkï‡K †Kvb welq
†Mvcb ivL‡Z ej‡e bv (Aek¨ mvicÖvBR Rb¥w`‡bi gZ †Kvb †MvcbK_v
bq)|
6. ¯^w¯—Kifv‡e †hŠb wbh©vZb K_vwU eY©bv Ki‡Z n‡e| evKaviv e¨envi Kiv
†h‡Z cv‡i, †hgb - Ò†Zvgvi e¨w³MZ ¯’vb ¯úk© Ki‡jÓ ev †Zvgv‡K Zvi
Rb‡b›`ªxq ¯úk© Ki‡Z ej‡j Ab¨vb¨ D`vniY e¨envi Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i,
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†hgb - Ò†Zvgv‡K Pz¤^b Ki‡j ev Rwo‡q ai‡jÓ Ges Ò†Zvgvi Kvco Ly‡j
†dj‡Z ej‡jÓ| BZ¨vw`|
7. ev”Pv wbh©vZ‡bi K_v ej‡j, Av‡eM‡K wbqš¿Y K‡i ax‡i ax‡i we¯—vwiZ
Rvbvi Rb¨ †Póv Ki‡Z n‡e| ejv †h‡Z cv‡i ÒAvwg Lywk n‡qwQ †h Zzwg
†mUv Avgv‡K e‡jQÓ Ges ÒG‡Z †Zvgvi †Kvb †`vl †bB|Ó
†hŠb nqivbx †_‡K mZK©Zv
A‡bK ev”PvivB Sexual abuse n‡q _v‡K eo‡`i Øviv †hgb, evevi eÜz, PvPv,
gvgv, Lvjy, †Rbv‡ij wkK, Aviex wkK, †eexwmUvi BZ¨vw`| wKš‘ ev”Pviv
A‡bK mgqB Zv evev-gvi Kv‡Q e‡j bv ev ej‡Z fy‡j hvq| ZvB GB wel‡q
cÖwZwU evev-gv‡KB mZK© _vKv DwPZ| GKwU mZ¨ NUbv wkYxq wn‡m‡e Zz‡j
aiv hvK|
NUbv-1 t NUbvi mZ¨-wg_¨v Rvwb bv, GKw`b Toronto Sun cwÎKvq
cwiwPZ GK gyi“eŸxi Qwemn wbDR Qvcv n‡q‡Q, wbD‡Ri welq e¯‘ Child
Abuse| gyi“eŸxi eqm 70 Gi KvQvKvwQ Ges Aemi cÖvß| wZwb GB Aemi
mg‡q ev”Pv‡`i‡K wewfbœ evmvq-evmvq Aviex covb| hv‡nvK nq‡Zv †Kvb
ev”Pv‡K wb‡q `yN©Ubv GKw`b N‡U †M‡Q| AevK nIqvi wKQz †bB, GB ai‡Yi
NUbv A‡bK-B N‡U _v‡K wKš‘ Avgiv Zv Rvwb bv| Z‡e Av‡gwiKv ev K¨vbvWvi
AvBb GB e¨vcv‡i LyeB m‡PZb| GKevi aiv co‡j H e¨w³i Avi †invB
†bB|
NUbv-2 t GB NUbvwU Av‡iv ü`qwe`viK| ev”PvwUi evev-gv `yR‡bB nq‡Zv
PvKzix K‡ib ZvB ev”Pv‡K cwiwPZ GK fvexi evmvq wbqwgZ w`‡q hvb †eex
wmwUs Gi Rb¨| fvex †Kvb GKw`b ev”PvwU‡K Zvi nvRe¨v‡Ûi Kv‡Q †i‡L
†`vKv‡b wM‡q‡Qb wKQz Avbvi R‡b¨| Hw`b evmvq Avi †KD-B wQj bv Ges
Bewjm kqZv‡bi cÖ‡ivPbvq `yN©Ubv ZLbB N‡U †M‡Q| fvexi nvRe¨vÛ Zvi
Abycw¯’wZ‡Z ev”PvwU‡K †ic K‡i‡Q Ges AwZwi³ we−wWs nIqv‡Z Ae‡k‡l
ev”PvwU gviv †M‡Q| f‡qi wKQz †bB, nq‡Zv GB ai‡Yi NUbv weij| me
†eexwmUvi‡KI m‡›`n Kiv wVK bq Z‡e mZK© _vKv fvj|
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c‡b©vMÖvwd †_‡K `~‡i ivLvi
wel‡q KwZcq c`‡c
AvR B›Uvi‡b‡Ui hy‡M GB cb©MÖvwd GK Awfkvc| GB Awfkvc mK‡ji Rb¨|
hvivB GUv‡Z Avm³ n‡q‡Q ZvivB gvbwmK Ges kvixwiKfv‡e wZMÖ¯’ n‡”Q|
we‡kl K‡i hyemgvR AvR aŸs‡mi gy‡L| b_© Av‡gwiKvi †cÖvc‡U GKwU
mvi‡f‡Z †`Lv †M‡Q †h Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv Zv‡`i ¯‹z‡ji jKv‡i cb©MÖvwd
†cvóvi ev g¨vMvwRb ivL‡Z cv‡i| †m K¬v‡k em‡jI Zvi g‡bi g‡a¨ ev‡i ev‡i
H GWvë wPÎ †f‡m Avm‡e| Avevi †`Lv hv‡”Q B›Uvi‡b‡U B‡gBj ev Ab¨
†Kvb KvR Ki‡Z _vK‡j gwbU‡ii Av‡k cv‡k w`‡q GWvë Qwe P‡j Av‡m hv
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i g‡bi g‡a¨ cÖfve †d‡j|
GB cb©MÖvwdi GwWKkb gv`K Avmw³i g‡ZvB, †Kvb †Kvb †‡Î Zvi †P‡qI
†ekx| GLb Gi cÖwZKvi Kx B›Uvi‡b‡Ui cÖwZKvi Lye mnR| B›Uvi‡bU mvwf©m
cÖfvBWviv mvaviYZ fvBivm cÖ‡UKk‡bi mv‡_ mv‡_ GWvë †cÖv‡UKkb mvwf©mI
w`‡q _v‡K| GB mvwf©‡mi Rb¨ Zv‡`I †UKwbK¨vj wWcvU©‡g‡›Ui mv‡_ K_v
ej‡Z n‡e| Zviv fvBivm Mv‡W©i mv‡_ mv‡_ cb©MÖvwd cª‡UKkbI w`‡q w`‡e
Zvici †_‡K †KD PvB‡jI cb©MÖvwd eªvDR Ki‡Z cvi‡e bv|
wKš‘ GWvë g¨vMvwRb ev †cvóvi ev wWwfwW G¸‡jv †_‡K mš—vb‡`i‡K `y‡i
ivL‡Z n‡j wcZv-gvZv‡`i‡K memgq mZK© _vK‡Z n‡e| mš—vb‡`i mv‡_ h‡_ó
mgq w`‡Z n‡e eÜzi g‡Zv|
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P¨vcUvi 9
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i fyj
aviYv
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
mš—vb‡`i wb‡q Av‡gwiKv, K¨vbvWv,
BD‡iv‡ci ¯‹jvi‡`i wfwWI Dc‡fvM
GB bb-gymwjg †`‡k Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv bvbv iKg cÖ‡kœi m¤§yLxb nq| †hgb t
Concept of God, Was Jesus Christ (pbuh) crucified Can Islam
offer more to mankind than just a religion Terrorism/Jihad and
Islam, Islam and secularism, Peace vision of Islam, Islam and
Christanity, Women's rights in Islam, Muslims character, Marriage
in Islam, Islamic view of the return of Jesus, Muslim divorce, Is the
Bible the true word of God Jesus man or God The Quran or the
Bible - which is Gods word Polygamy and the wives of the
Prophet (pbuh), why Hijab Who is Muhammad (pbuh) BZ¨vw`|
GB cÖkœ¸‡jvi authentic Ges logical DËi cvIqvi Rb¨ wb‡gœi ¯‹jvi‡`i
wWwfwW †`L‡Z cvwi| hv G hy‡Mi mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ LyeB Dc‡hvMx| GQvov
B›Uvi‡b‡U mvP© w`‡j GB mKj ¯‹vjvi‡`i I‡qiemvBU cvIqv hv‡e|
• Dr. Yusuf Estes
• Dr. Bilal Philips
• Dr. Abdullah Hakim Quick
• Sheikh Ahmed Deedat
• Shabir Ally
• Khalid Yasin
• Dr. Mokhtar Maghraoui
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• Dr. Jamal Badawi
• Dr. Yousuf Islam
• Abdur Rahim Green
• Dr. Tawfiq Chowdhury
Avgvi mš—vb †hb Avgv‡K eÜz fv‡e
Avgvi mš—vb †hb Avgv‡K eÜz fv‡e †m ai‡Yi cwi‡ek ˆZix Ki‡Z n‡e| d‡j
†m Kx K‡i bv K‡i meB Avwg Rvb‡Z cvi‡ev| Avj−vn bv Ki“b, †m †Kvb †bkv
RvZxq gv`K †meb K‡i wKbv, ev †m ai‡Yi †Kvb MÖ“‡ci ms¯ú‡k© P‡j hvq
wKbv Zv †KŠk‡j †Lqvj ivL‡Z n‡e| gv‡S gv‡S QywUi w`‡b mš—vb‡`i mv‡_
wb‡q Bmjvwg wfwWI †`Lv †h‡Z cv‡i| GLb Bmjvwg wWwfwW Av‡gwiKv, weª‡Ub
Avi K¨vbvWvq ˆZix nq| GLv‡b Bmjvwg we‡klÁiv w`bivZ cwikªg K‡i wewfbœ
cÖKvkbv evRv‡i Qvo‡Q| e¨vcK nv‡i cvðvZ¨ †`‡ki ¸YxRb Bmjvg MÖnY
Ki‡Qb| GUv †MvUv gymwjg RvwZi Rb¨ wkvi welq|
wKQy cwievwiK AwjwLZ
g~j¨‡eva ev HwZn¨
fy³‡fvMx wcZvgvZviv wb‡R‡`i welq¸wji e¨vcv‡i hZUv Av‡cvm K‡ib Zvi
PvB‡Z †ekx Av‡cvm K‡ib mš—vb‡`i welqvw`‡Z| Avi Lvivc Kvwnbxi ïi“
GLvb n‡Z| cÖvZ¨wnK Rxe‡bi Pvwn`v c~i‡Y Av‡cvm, cvwievwiK g~j¨‡eva a‡i
ivLvi †‡Î Ae‡njv, mš—vb‡`i eÜzevÜe wbe©vP‡b G‡Kev‡i jvMvgnxb ¯^vaxbZv
`vb, KiYxqmg~‡ni wj‡ó agx©q wkv`vb‡K mewKQyi †cQ‡b ivLv, wcZvgvZv‡`i
GKvš— wbR¯^ welq¸wji cÖwZ D`vmxb _vKv, mš—vb‡`i Avjv`v mËvi ¯^xK…wZ bv
†`qv, mš—vb‡`i Ab¨vq Ave`vi †g‡b †bqv BZ¨vw` n‡jv cwievi bvgK †`‡n
K¨vÝv‡ii cÖv_wgK jY|
cÖ‡Z¨KwU cwiev‡ii wKQy AwjwLZ g~j¨‡eva ev HwZn¨ i‡q‡Q| cwiev‡ii
KZ©vMY hw` †m g~j¨‡eva¸wji e¨vcv‡i g‡bv‡hvMx nb Zvn‡jI GKUv eo ai‡Yi
AR©b mvwaZ n‡q hvq| †hgb †Kvb †Kvb cwiev‡i G wbqg i‡q‡Q †h ¯‹zj co–qv
mš—vbMY †Kvb Ae¯’v‡ZB AbygwZ Qvov gvMwi‡ei ci N‡ii evB‡i _vK‡Z
cvi‡e bv| GwUI Kg bq| G welqwUI Ggb †h Av‡gwiKvi miKvi †Kvb †Kvb
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A½iv‡R¨ Kvwd©D Rvix K‡i ¯‹zj co–qv †Q‡j †g‡q‡`i N‡ii †fZi _vK‡Z eva¨
Ki‡Q| Avi G msµvš— M‡elYvq 534wU Av‡gwiKvb kn‡i mvܨKvjxb KviwdD
w`‡q RbZvi †h gZvgZ cvIqv †M‡Q Zv GB t kZKiv 97 fvM knievmx
e‡j‡Qb KviwdDi d‡j wkï Aciva A‡bK K‡g‡Q; 96 fvM e‡j‡Qb KviwdDi
Kvi‡Y dvuwKevRx K‡g‡Q; 88 fvM e‡j‡Q KviwdD gv¯—vwb Kwg‡q‡Q; KviwdDi
d‡j 56 fvM kn‡i eo ai‡Yi Aciva K‡g‡Q| AZGe Avgvi cwiev‡i hw` G
ai‡Yi †Kvb HwZn¨ †_‡K _v‡K Zvn‡j cwðgv †`‡k G‡mwQ e‡j Zv wkw_j †hb
bv Kwi| eis Av‡iv KovKwofv‡e mš—vb‡`i G wbqg cvj‡b DrmvwnZ Kwi|
Zviv hw` G wbqg cvjb K‡i Zvn‡j cyi¯‹„Z Ki‡Z cvwi|
mš—vb‡`i‡K wRnv` Ges †UiwiR‡gi
mwVK aviYv cÖ`vb
gymwjg bvgavix Z_vKw_Z wKQz †jvK hw` †Kvb Ab¨vq KvR K‡i _v‡K †mRb¨
Bmjvg‡K †`vl †`qv hv‡e bv ev cy‡iv gymwjg RvwZ‡K †`vl †`qv hv‡e bv| †mB
Ab¨v‡qi Rb¨ H e¨w³ wb‡R †`vlx Ges †mRb¨ Zvi Dchy³ kvw¯— nIqv DwPZ|
Bmjvg ag©Uv †Kgb Zv hw` Avgiv cixv Ki‡Z PvB Zvn‡j Gfv‡e D`vniY
†`qv †h‡Z cv‡i| GKUv Mvwoi †KvqvwjwU †Kgb Zv cixv Kivi Rb¨ fvj
PvjK w`‡q Zv Pvwj‡q †`L‡Z n‡e, PvjK hw` Lvivc nq Zvn‡j †m MvwoI
Lvivc Pvjv‡e Avevi PvjK hw` fvj nq Zvn‡j Mvwoi Avmj †KvqvwjwU †evSv
hv‡e| ZvB Bmjvg fvj bv g›` Zv eyS‡Z n‡j fvj Bmjvg whwb cvjb K‡ib
Zv‡K w`‡q eyS‡Z n‡e Avi GB c„w_ex‡Z me‡P‡q DrK…ó Bmjvg cvjbKvix
n‡”Q gynv¤§v` (mv.), Zuvi Rxe‡bi Av`k© w`‡q Bmjv‡gi †KvqvwjwU‡K eyS‡Z
n‡e|
wRnv` m¤ú‡K© fyj aviYv t Bmjv‡gi kΓiv AvaywbK wgwWqvi gva¨‡g
wewfbœ Dcv‡q gymwjg-Agymwjg mK‡ji †eªB‡b wRnv` m¤ú‡K© fyj aviYv XywK‡q
w`‡”Q †h -
Bmjvg gv‡b †UiwiRg
gymwjg gv‡b †Uiwió
fvj gymwjg gv‡b dvÛv‡g›Uvwjó, Avi
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wRnv` gv‡b mk¯¿ hy×, binZ¨v, aŸsm, i³cvZ, †evgv nvgjv, AvZ¥NvZx
BZ¨vw`|
wRnv` Gi mwVK aviYv t ÔwRnv`Õ k‡ãi A_© cÖ‡Póv ev Struggle. †Kvb
wKQz jvf Kivi Rb¨ kvixwiK, gvbwmK, Avw_©K, eyw×e„wËK mKj cÖKvi cÖ‡Póv
Ges Zvi R‡b¨ mKj Dcvq-Dcv`vb Kv‡R jvMv‡bv‡K wRnv` e‡j|
dx mvexwjj−vn A_© Avj−vni iv¯—vq| Avj−vni iv¯—vq me©w`K †_‡K Ges me Dcvq
Aej¤^b K‡i cÖ‡Póv Pvjv‡bv‡K wRnv` e‡j| Øxb cÖPvi I cÖwZôvi Rb¨ Revb,
†jLbx, cÖPvi gva¨g, e¨w³MZ I mvgwóK ZrciZv, m¤ú` e¨q, m‡e©vcwi wb‡Ri
Rxeb wewj‡q †`evi bvg wRnv`| Øx‡bi Rb¨ GKwU evK¨ e¨q Kiv, GK K`g
†nu‡U hvIqv, GKwU †jLbx, my›`i e¨envi meB wRnv‡`i Ask| Øxb‡K mgy¾j
Kivi Rb¨ †h †Kvb cÖ‡PóvI wRnv‡`i Ask| Øx‡bi Kv‡R jvM‡e, gymwjg
RbZvi DcKv‡i Avm‡e Ggb mKj cÖ‡Póvq iZ KvRB wRnv‡`i mgZyj¨|
wRnv‡`i A_© hy×, aŸsm ev i³cvZ bq| hy× n‡”Q Ònvi&eÓ Ges ÒKZjÓ n‡”Q
†jvK nZ¨v| wRnv` `yB ai‡Yi n‡Z cv‡i t
1. Avj−vni c‡_ wRnv`|
2. kqZv‡bi c‡_ wRnv`|
Avgvi †h cÖ‡Póv Øx‡bi DcKv‡i Avm‡e ZvB Avj−vni c‡_ wRnv`| Avi Avgvi
†h cÖ‡Póv Øx‡bi †Kvb DcKv‡i Avm‡e bv ies Øx‡bi wZ Ki‡e Zv n‡”Q
kqZv‡bi c‡_ wRnv`| †hgb A‡bK gymwjg bvgavix eyw×Rxex Av‡Qb Zviv
Avj−vni †`qv H eywׇK Avj−vniB wei“‡× Kv‡R jvMv‡”Qb| Zviv wewfbœ iKg
M‡elYv K‡i †ei Kivi †Póv Ki‡Qb †h KziAv‡b Kx Kx fyj åvwš— Av‡Q,
Bmjv‡g Kx Kx shortcomings Av‡Q ev Bmjv‡gi †Kvb †Kvb welq¸‡jv wVK
bq ev Bmjv‡gi †Kvb †Kvb w`K¸‡jv back-dated| ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg Zvi Rxe‡b Kx Kx KvR wVK K‡ibwb| Avj−vn KziAv‡b †h
welq¸‡jv‡K nvivg K‡i‡Qb Zviv Zvi †_‡K wKQz wKQz welq hyw³ w`‡q nvjvj
Kivi †Póv Ki‡Qb| †KD †KD Avevi KziAvb‡K revise Kivi Rb¨ cÖ¯—ve
w`‡”Qb| Zviv Zv‡`i we‡eK-eyw× w`‡q KziAvb-nv`x‡mi evB‡i Zv‡`i †Pv‡L
†`Lv Bmjv‡gi fyj-åvwš—i mgvavb †ck Ki‡Qb, Bmjvg‡K AvaywbK Kivi †Póv
Ki‡Qb| Zv‡`i GB AK¬vš— cÖ‡PóvI GK cÖKv‡ii wRnv` Avi Zv n‡”Q
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kqZv‡bi c‡_ wRnv` Ges Avj−vn I ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi
wei“‡× wRnv`|
Bmjv‡g eû weevn m¤ú‡K©
fyj aviYv cwi®‹vi Kiv
ïay Agymwjgiv bq, A‡bK gymwjg‡`i g‡bI G m¤ú‡K© bvbv cÖkœ †h, GKRb
†jvK †Kb PviwU we‡q Ki‡Z cvi‡e gwnjviv †Kb cyi“‡li g‡Zv GKvwaK we‡q
Ki‡Z cvi‡e bv ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg †Kb G‡Zv¸‡jv we‡q
K‡iwQ‡jb BZ¨vw`, BZ¨vw`| Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv Zv‡`i Agymwjg eÜz-evÜe‡`i
wbKU †_‡K G ai‡Yi cÖ‡kœi m¤§yLxb nq| ZLb mwVK Ávb bv _vKvi Kvi‡Y
Zviv DËi w`‡Z cv‡i bv, Avi ZLbB Agymwjgiv Avgv‡`i fyj ey‡S| Avgv‡`i
mš—v‡bivI wb‡R‡`i‡K †QvU g‡b K‡i, †nq g‡b K‡i|
1) cyi“liv G‡Ki AwaK we‡q Ki‡Z cvi‡e hw` †m Zvi mKj ¯¿x‡K mgvb
AwaKvi w`‡Z cv‡i, Avi Zv n‡Z n‡e 100% mgvb mgvb, fvjevmv †_‡K ïi“
K‡i †Kvb As‡k KvD‡K Kg †`qv Pj‡e bv|
2) ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg cÖwZwU we‡qB K‡i‡Qb mgq Ges
†cÖvc‡Ui Dci wfwË K‡i †Kvb bv †Kvb mgm¨v mgvav‡bi R‡b¨ Ges gnvb
Avj−vn Zvqvjvi ûKz‡g| Avgv‡`i‡K GKwU my›`i BmjvwgK mgvR Dcnvi †`qvi
R‡b¨ ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-†K w`‡q Avj−vn Zvqvjv A‡bK wKQzB
cÖ¨vw±K¨vj Kwi‡q‡Qb|
GB wel‡qi Dci Wv. RvwKi bv‡q‡Ki GKwU †jKPvi Ges cÖkœ-DËi ce© i‡q‡Q
Zv youtube †_‡K †`‡L wb‡Z cvwi| GQvov GB wel‡q Av‡iv we¯—vwiZ Rvbvi
Rb¨ Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K GB eBwU co‡Z w`‡Z cvwi Polygamy in Islam
By - Dr. Abu Ameenah Bilal Philips & Jameelah Jones.
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Bmjv‡gi AvBb Ôee©iZvÕ
mš—vb‡`i‡K GB fyj fvw½‡q †`qv
wgwWqv bvbvfv‡e Bmjv‡gi wei“‡× †j‡M Av‡Q| wewfbœ w`K w`‡q Bmjv‡gi
kΓiv Bmjvg‡K Nv‡qj Kivi †Póv Pvjv‡”Q| Zviv KziAv‡bi AvBb‡K ej‡Q
Ôee©iZvÕ ïay Zv‡`i †`vl w`w”Q bv, †mŠw` Avie Qvov c„w_exi †Kvb gymwjg †`‡k
KziAv‡bi AvBb cÖwZwôZ †bB| Avgiv gymwjgiv gy‡L ejwQ Avj−vn Qvov KvD‡K
gvwb bv wKš‘ cvjb KiwQ gvby‡li ˆZix AvBb (GLv‡b Agymwjg †`‡ki K_v ejv
n‡”Q bv)|
†hgb awi A‡b‡K e‡j, Bmjvg Kx ee©i, Pzwi Ki‡j nvZ †K‡U w`‡Z n‡e! Kx
AgvbweK! Gevi Avmyb welqUv wb‡q mswß we‡k−lY Kiv hvK| †Kvb GjvKvq
hw` †KD Pzwi K‡i Avi Zvi kvw¯—¯^iƒc hw` Rb-mg‡ Zvi nvZ †K‡U †`qv nq
Zvn‡j mevB mZK© n‡q hv‡e, †KD Avi Pzwi K‡i Zvi nvZ nviv‡Z PvB‡e bv|
GiKg cÖKv‡k¨ K‡qKUv nvZ KvU‡j †KD Avi Pzwi Ki‡Z mvnm cv‡e bv Ges
cÖkvmb‡K Avi cÖwZw`b nvZ KvU‡Z n‡e bv| †`Lv hv‡e †h GK mgq †m †`‡k
Pzwi-WvKvwZ 100% eÜ n‡q †M‡Q| Gfv‡e mš—vb‡`i wbKU Bmjvg †h
gvbeZvi ag© Zv Zy‡j ai‡Z cvwi| Zviv †hb Bmjvg‡K fv‡jv‡e‡m MÖnY K‡i,
Avgvi f‡q ev Pv‡c c‡o bq|
GKwU cwimsL¨vb t
Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv wnRve wb‡q
bvbv cÖ‡kœi m¤§yLxb
Avjnvg`ywjj−vn Ui‡›Uv BDwbfvwm©wUmn K¨vbvWvi wewfbœ BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z A‡bK
wnRve cwiwnZv QvÎx Abv‡q‡mB †`Lv hvq| wKš‘ `yt‡Li welq GB wnRve
cwiwnZv A‡b‡KiB mvvZKvi wb‡q †`Lv †M‡Q †h Zviv †Kb wnRve c‡i †mUvB
Rv‡bbv| A‡b‡K mvvZKv‡i e‡j‡Q †h, GUv Zv‡`i cvwievwiK †UªwWkb, Avevi
A‡b‡K e‡j‡Q †h Zvi evev-gv ci‡Z e‡j‡Q ZvB Zviv c‡i BZ¨vw`| A_©vr
cvwievwiKfv‡e Giv cÖK…Z BmjvwgK wkv cv‡”Q bv|
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Av‡gwiKv-K¨vbvWvq Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv A‡bK mgqB bb-gymwjg‡`i †_‡K
wnRve wb‡q bvbv iKg cÖ‡kœi m¤§yLxb nq| Avi †h mKj †g‡qiv mvaviYZ
wnRve c‡i _v‡K Zviv Av‡iv †ekx cÖ‡kœi m¤§yLxb nq| ZvB wnRve m¤ú‡K© Lye
fvj aviYv cvIqvi Rb¨ Wv. RvwKi bv‡q‡Ki Women in Islam, Question &
Answer for the Non-Muslims wWwfwW †`Lv DwPZ Ges www.irf.net GB
I‡qemvBU †_‡K Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv Av‡iv g~j¨evb Z_¨ †c‡Z cv‡i| c`©v ev
wnRve n‡”Q GKRb gwnjvi Rb¨ †cÖv‡UKkb, ZvB gwnjv‡`i Rb¨ Avgv‡`i
†jLv Ògv-†evbiv †f‡e †`L‡eb wKÓ eBwU Aek¨B msMÖn K‡i c‡o †bqv
DwPZ|
Avwg wK Rvwb Avgvi mš—v‡bi
wiwjwRqvm ivBUm Kx
Avgiv A‡b‡KB Canadian constitution Abyhvqx Avgv‡`i Religious
rights-¸‡jv Kx Kx Zv wVK g‡Zv Rvwb bv| wb‡gœ Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i wKQz
religious rights-Gi D`vniY †`qv n‡jv t
1. Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv PvB‡j ¯‹z‡j †hvni I AvQ‡ii bvgvh co‡Z
cvi‡e|
2. Zviv ¯‹z‡j prayer room PvB‡j school management Aek¨B
RvqMv w`‡Z eva¨|
3. PvB‡j ¯‹z‡j student-iv RvgvZ K‡i GKmv‡_ bvgvh Av`vq Ki‡Z
cvi‡e|
4. C‡`i w`‡b QzwU PvB‡j QzwU w`‡Z n‡e|
5. †ivhvi gv‡m †ivhv Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
6. ïµev‡i mgqgZ Ry¤§vi bvgvh co‡Z cvi‡e Ges Ry¤§vi bvgv‡hi
Rb¨ ¯‹z‡ji evB‡i gmwR‡` †h‡Z cvi‡e|
7. †KD PvB‡j dance Ges music class cwiZ¨vM Ki‡Z cvi‡e Ges
H K¬vk¸‡jvi cwie‡Z© †m Ab¨ †Kvb assignment K‡i Zvi gva¨‡g
marks carry Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
8. †KD PvB‡j outdoor camping-I cwiZ¨vM Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
9. †KD PvB‡j †Q‡j‡g‡q GK mv‡_ swiming class cwiZ¨vM Ki‡Z
cvi‡e|
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10. Zviv PvB‡j Helloween party, Christmas party BZ¨vw`
cwiZ¨vM Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
11. ¯‹z‡j †Kvb Abyôv‡bi mv‡_ refreshment-Gi e¨e¯’v _vK‡j Zviv
nvjvj Lvevi cwi‡ek‡bi Rb¨ Aby‡iva Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
12. Avgvi †g‡q PvB‡j Aek¨B wnRve ev †eviKv c‡i ¯‹z‡j †h‡Z
cvi‡e|
13. Avgvi mš—vb PvB‡j bb-gymwjg QvÎ-QvªÎx Ges wUPvi‡`i gv‡S
Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZ w`‡Z cvi‡e|
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P¨vcUvi 10
evev-gvi cÖwZ mš—v‡bi
KZ©e¨
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Avgiv mš—vb‡`i memgq eq‡mi w`K †_‡K
†QvU g‡b Kwi
Avgvi mš—vb GKwU ¯^Zš¿ mËv| wcZvgvZv‡`i GK‡cwk ¯^fve n‡jv mš—vb‡`i
memgq eq‡mi w`K †_‡K †QvU g‡b Kiv| Avgiv cÖvq GiKg gš—e¨ Kwi †h,
Avgvi †Q‡j GL‡bv Aí eq¯‹, †m Avi GKUz eo †nvK Zvici wbqgKvby‡bi
e¨vcv‡i K‡Vvi nIqv hv‡e| Avgiv wcZvgvZviv g‡b Kwi mš—vbMY memgq
Avgv‡`i K_v ïb‡e| G GKwU fyj aviYv| Avgvi `„wói Av‡MvP‡i mš—vbMY eo
n‡q hv‡”Q| nVvr GKw`b †Ui cvIqv hv‡e †h †m Avi Avgvi K_v ïb‡Q bv|
Avgvi †hŠw³K `vex¸wjI gvb‡Qbv| Avgv‡K †nq Kiv ïi“ K‡i‡Q| ZLb Avi
wKQy Kivi mgq _vK‡ebv| cvwievwiK, agx©q I mvgvwRK †Kvb g~j¨‡ev‡a hw`
Avwg wek¦vm Kwi Zvn‡j †m¸wj‡Z †QvUKvj n‡ZB Af¨¯— Kiv ïi“ Ki‡Z n‡e|
†kLvi Rb¨ †Kvb eqmB Kg ev †ekx bq| hv wKQy fvj Zv †QvUKvj n‡Z wkv
w`‡j h_vh_ dj Avkv Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i| Avgvi †g‡qwU GKw`b †`L‡Z bv
†`L‡ZB eo n‡q hv‡e| Zv‡K hv †kLv‡bvi Zv †QvU Ae¯’v n‡ZB ïi“ Ki‡Z
n‡e| Avwg hw` †`ix Kwi Zvn‡j Zviv Zv‡`i gb bvgK cvÎwU‡K wewfbœ
mnRcÖvc¨ gqjv-AveR©bv w`‡q c~iY K‡i †b‡e| ûuk nIqvi ci Avwg hLb
wbR¯^ g~j¨‡eva †kLv‡Z hv‡ev ZLb †ek †`ix n‡q †M‡Q| GLb †Zv Avgvi mš—
vb Avgv‡K D‡ëv g~j¨‡eva †kLv‡e| ZLb Avwg Avd‡mvm Ki‡ev !
weËevb wcZvgvZv‡`i Ae¯’v Av‡iv Ki“Y| Zv‡`i Rb¨ Avd‡mvm| †h A‡_©i
†cQ‡b Qy‡U Zviv mš—vb‡`i mgq †`b bv, cieZx©‡Z †m A_©‡K Ab‡_©i g~j e‡j
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g‡b Ki‡Z _v‡Kb| †ejv‡k‡l Avd‡mvm K‡ib wKš‘ ZLb †ek †`ix n‡q hvq|
weËkvjx cwievi¸‡jv AwaKvsk †‡Î mš—vb‡`i AwZwi³ ¯^vaxbZv w`‡q wZ
K‡ib| Kó ¯^xKv‡ii Abykxjb Kivi mgq wkï Ae¯’v| wKš‘ †kLvi G mgqwU‡Z
wcZvgvZviv mš—vb‡`i cÖvPz‡h© fvwm‡q †`b| d‡j mš—vb‡`i g‡a¨ cÖwZK‚j
cwi‡e‡k wb‡R‡K Lvc LvB‡q †bqvi gZv m„wó nq bv| KwVb Ae¯’vq wb‡R‡K
mvgwj‡q Pjvi wkvi Afv‡e †m †LB nvwi‡q †d‡j|
mš—vb‡K eywS‡q ej‡Z n‡e gvZv-wcZvi
mv‡_ fvj AvPi‡Y Zv‡`i Kx jvf
gnvb Avj−vn Avj KziAv‡b e‡jb t
ÒAvi †Zvgiv Avj−vn ZvÕAvjviB Bev`Z Ki Ges Zvui mv‡_ KvD‡K kixK K‡iv
bv| Ges gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Ki|Ó (m~iv wbmv t 36)
ÒAvj−vn Avgv‡K gvZvi cÖwZ mبenvi Kivi wb‡`©k w`‡q‡Qb, Avi wZwb Avgv‡K
AZ¨vPvix I nZfvMv K‡ibwb|Ó (m~iv gviBqvg t 32)
GK t Avj−vni †bqvgZmg~‡ni g‡a¨ me‡P‡q e‡ov †bqvgZ n‡jv gvZv-wcZv;
gvby‡li Rb¥MÖnY I jvjb-cvj‡b Avj−vni c‡iB gvZv-wcZvi eo Ae`vb| Zzwg
Zuv‡`i Bnmv‡bi ¯^xK…wZ Rvbv‡j gv‡b Avj−vni Bnmv‡bi ¯^xK…wZ Rvbv‡j| Avi
Zuv‡`i cÖwZ K…ZÁ _vK‡j Avj−vni cÖwZ K…ZÁ _vK‡j| (m~iv jyKgvb t 14 Gi
mvigg©)
`yB t gvZv-wcZv‡K mš‘ó ivL‡j Avj−vnI †Zvgvi Dci mš‘ó _vK‡eb| †Zvgvi
†Kv‡bv Ae‡njv ev bvdigvbxi Kvi‡Y Zuviv Amš‘ó n‡j Avj−vnI †Zvgvi Dci
Amš‘ó n‡eb| gvZv-wcZvi mš‘wó‡Z Avj−vni mš‘wó, gvZv-wcZvi Amš‘wó‡Z
Avj−vni Amš‘wó| (wZiwghx eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
wZb t gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ fv‡jv AvPiY I Zuv‡`i wL`gZ Kiv wRnv` Kivi
mgZzj¨ eis †Kv‡bv †Kv‡bv mgq Zvi †_‡KI eo KvR| Zzwg Zuv‡`i wL`g‡Z
iZ _vK‡j GKRb gyRvwn‡`i b¨vq ZzwgI Øxb cÖwZôvKvix‡`i `‡j MY¨ n‡e|
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Avj−vni `„wó‡Z hy‡×i gq`v‡b wRnv‡` Ask MÖnYKvix‡`i mgZzj¨ gh©v`vi
AwaKvix ZzwgI| (mnxn eyLvix I mnxn gymwjg eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
Pvi t gvZv-wcZvi mš‘wó Rvbœv‡Zi PvweKvwV| gvZv-wcZv‡K mš‘ó Kivi KvR
Ki‡Z _vK‡j Avj−vni mš‘wó cvIqv hv‡e| (gymbv‡` Avngv` eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
cuvP t hv‡K Avj−vn ZvÕAvjv gvZv-wcZvi wL`gZ Kivi my‡hvM w`‡q‡Qb Zv‡K
Avm‡j Rvbœv‡Zi c‡_ PjviB my‡hvM K‡i w`‡q‡Qb| †h G my‡hvM Kv‡R jvMv‡e
Zv‡K Avj−vn RvbœvZ †`‡eb| Avi †h G my‡hvM MÖnY Ki‡e bv †m Kó cv‡e|
(mnxn gymwjg I gymbv‡` Avngv` eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
Qq t Avj−vni N‡ii ZvIqvd Kiv, n¾ I Dgivn Kiv ¸i“Z¡c~Y© Bev`vZ| †KD
hw` gvZv-wcZvi wL`gZ Ki‡Z _v‡K Avj−vn Zv‡K n¾ I DgivnKvixi mgZzj¨
mIqve †`‡eb| (gymbv‡` Avngv` I Zvevivbx eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
mvZ t Zzwg †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi Av`e I m¤§vb Ki‡j fwel¨‡Z †Zvgvi mš—
vbI †Zvgv‡K m¤§vb Ki‡e| Zzwg †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi fv‡jv Ki‡j Avj−vn
ZvÕAvjvI †Zvgvi mš—vb‡`i‡KI †m wkvB †`‡eb| (Zvevivbx eY©bv Gi
mvigg©)
AvU t gvZv-wcZvi wL`g‡Z mg¯— gywmeZ I `ywðš—v `~i n‡q hvq| gv-evevi
`yÕAv jvf Kiv hvq| (mnxn eyLvix I mnxn gymwjg eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
bq t gvZv-wcZvi AvbyMZ¨, Av`e I m¤§vb cÖ`k©b n‡Z KLbI `~‡i _vK‡e
bv| G‡Z nvqv‡Z eiKZ Ges i“wR-†ivRMv‡ii c_ cÖk¯— n‡e| (mnxn eyLvix I
mnxn gymwjg eY©bv Gi mvigg©)
`k t ZvB Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K Aek¨B GUv eySv‡Z n‡e †h gvZv-wcZvi
mv‡_ mبenvi Ges Zv‡`i Rb¨ `yÕAv Kiv mš—v‡bi Rb¨ IqvwRe| (m~iv ebx
BmivCj t 23-24 Gi mvigg©)
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Avj−vni ci mš—v‡bi Dci me‡P‡q
eo AwaKvi n‡jv gvZv-wcZvi
Avj−vn e‡j‡Qb t
ÒGes Avcbvi ie dvqmvjv K‡i w`‡q‡Qb †h, †Zvgiv Zuv‡K Qvov Aek¨B
A‡b¨i e‡›`Mx Ki‡e bv Ges gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ my›`i e¨envi Ki‡Z _vK‡e|
Zuv‡`i g‡a¨ †Kv‡bv GKRb A_ev Df‡qB hw` †Zvgv‡`i mvg‡b eva©‡K¨ †cuŠ‡Q
hvq, Zvn‡j Zuv‡`i‡K Dn&! kã ch©š— ej‡e bv Ges Zv‡`i‡K ag‡Ki ¯^‡i
A_ev Mvwj w`‡q †Kv‡bv K_vi Reve †`‡e bv| eis Zv‡`i mv‡_ Av`e I
m¤§v‡bi mv‡_ K_v e‡jv Ges big I webxZfv‡e Zuv‡`i mvg‡b AebZ n‡q _vK
Ges Zuv‡`i Rb¨ G fvlvq `yÕAv Ki‡Z _vK †hgb, †n Avj−vn! Zuv‡`i Dci (G
Amnvq Rxe‡b) ing K‡iv| †hgb wkïKv‡j (Avgvi mnvqnxb mg‡q) Zuviv
Avgv‡K ingZ I AcZ¨‡mœn w`‡q jvjbcvjb K‡iwQ‡jb|Ó (m~iv ebx BmivCj
t 23-24)
cÖ_gZ t gyÕwg‡bi Dci Avj−vni ci me‡P‡q eo AwaKvi n‡jv gvZv-wcZvi|
KziAv‡b i‡ei GKZ¡ev‡`i ci me©cÖ_g wb‡`©‡k ejv n‡q‡Q †h, gvZv-wcZvi
mv‡_ fv‡jv e¨envi K‡iv| AZci G wb‡`©k GKB ai‡Yi eY©bvi gva¨‡g
KziAv‡b evievi D‡j−L Kiv n‡q‡Q|
wØZxqZ t gvZv-wcZv hLb e„× n‡q hvb ZLb ¯^vfvweK Kvi‡YB Zuv‡`i
†gRv‡R wKQzUv i“èZv I wLUwL‡U fve m„wó nq Ges eq‡mi Kvi‡Y Ggb me
K_vI Zuv‡`i w`K †_‡K Avmv ïi“ nq hv KL‡bv KL‡bv AbvKvw•Z|
gymwjg‡`i DwPZ, G eva©‡K¨i eq‡m gvZv-wcZvi i“è †gRv‡Ri cÖwZ `„wó ivLv,
Zuv‡`i cÖwZwU K_v Lykxi mv‡_ mn¨ Kiv Ges Zuv‡`i †Kv‡bv K_vq wei³ n‡q
Rev‡e Dn& kãI bv ejv Ges ag‡Ki mv‡_ †Kv‡bv K_vi Reve bv †`qv|
Z…ZxqZ t gvZv-wcZvi gvb-gh©v`vi cÖwZ m¤ú~Y© mZK© `„wó ivL‡Z n‡e| K_vevZ©v
ejvi mgq Zuv‡`i B¾‡Zi cÖwZ †Lqvj Ki‡Z n‡e| eq‡mi †kl ch©v‡q
hLb kw³ iwnZ n‡q hvq ZLb ¯^vfvweKfv‡eB e„× gvZv-wcZvi gvb-m¤§vb
cÖwZwôZ ivLv Ges wb‡Ri ¸i“Z¡ cÖKv‡ki Rb¨ wewfbœ ai‡Yi K_v e‡j _v‡Kb|
nvwmgy‡L Zuv‡`i †mBme K_v mB‡Z n‡e Ges †Kv‡bv mgq wei³ n‡q Ggb K_v
D”PviY Kiv hv‡e bv hv Zuv‡`i gvb-m¤§v‡bi cwicš’x nq|
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PZz_©Z t AvPvi-AvPi‡Y Zuv‡`i mv‡_ webq Ges big ¯^fv‡ei n‡Z n‡e|
Zuv‡`i me wb‡`©k g‡bv‡hvM w`‡q ïb‡Z n‡e Ges Zv cvjb K‡i ¯^w¯— Abyfe
Ki‡Z n‡e| eva©‡K¨ gvZv-wcZv hLb mš—v‡bi me ai‡Yi mvnv‡h¨i gyLv‡cx
nb ZLb GK AbyMZ Lv‡`g wn‡m‡e Zuv‡`i wL`gZ K‡i hvIqv AZ¨vek¨K|
cÂgZ t gvZv-wcZv‡K Amnvq I `ye©j eq‡m †c‡q wb‡Ri ˆkk‡ei †mB
mg‡qi K_v ¯§iY Kiv `iKvi, hLb wkï AZ¨š— `ye©j I Amnvq _v‡K| ZLb
gvZv-wcZv KZ †mœn fv‡jvevmv Ges g‡bv‡hvM w`‡q kZ ai‡Yi `ytL-Kó mn¨
K‡i wkïi jvjb-cvjb K‡ib|
gvZvi AwaKvi wcZvi †_‡K †ekx
Avey ûivBiv ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û eY©bv K‡i‡Qb t GK e¨w³ ivm~j mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi wL`g‡Z nvwRi n‡q wR‡Ám Ki‡jv, †n Avj−vni ivm~j!
Avgvi my›`i AvPi‡Yi me‡P‡q †ekx nK`vi †K wZwb ej‡jb, †Zvgvi gv| †m
wR‡Ám Ki‡jv, AZtci †K wZwb ej‡jb, †Zvgvi gv| †m wR‡Ám Ki‡jv,
AZtci †K bex Kixg mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Bikv` Ki‡jb, †Zvgvi
gv| †m ej‡jv, AZtci †K wZwb ej‡jb, †Zvgvi wcZv| (mnxn eyLvix, mnxn
gymwjg)
cyÎ I Zvi DcvR©b Zvi wcZviB Rb¨
Beby gvhvn Rvwei (iv.) n‡Z GB g‡g© nv`xm eY©bv K‡i‡Qb †h, GK e¨w³
ej‡jb t †n Avj−vni ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Avgvi m¤§` I mš—
vbvw` Av‡Q, Avi Avgvi wcZv Avgvi m¤ú` webó (LiP) Ki‡Z Pvq| ivm~j~j−vn
ej‡jb t Zzwg Ges †Zvgvi m¤ú` (meB) †Zvgvi wcZvi| (mnxn eyLvix, mnxn
gymwjg)
Beby Avex kvqevn gvqvh Beby Rvevj (iv.) n‡Z eY©bv K‡i‡Qb †h, Zv‡K
wR‡Ám Kiv n‡qwQj mš—v‡bi Dci gvZv-wcZvi Kx nK Zvi Dˇi wZwb
e‡jwQ‡jb, †Zvgvi mg¯— ab m¤ú` hw` Zv‡`i‡K w`‡qI `vI ZeyI Zv‡`i nK
Av`vq Ki‡Z cvi‡e bv|
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gvZv-wcZvi AvbyMZ¨ Kiv IqvwRe
Ave~ `vi`v (iv.) n‡Z ewY©Z, wZwb e‡jb - ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
Avgv‡K 9wU wel‡q IqvwmqZ K‡i‡Qb t
1) †K‡U UzK‡iv UzK‡iv Ki‡j A_ev Av¸‡b R¡vwj‡q w`‡jI Avj−vni mv‡_
KvD‡K kixK Ki‡e bv|
2) B”QvK…Zfv‡e KL‡bv dih bvgvh Z¨vM Ki‡e bv| †h e¨w³ B”QvK…Zfv‡e
bvgvh Z¨vM Kij (Avj−vni KvQ †_‡K †m wR¤§v gy³ n‡q †Mj|
3) KL‡bv g` cvb Ki‡e bv, KviY g` nj mKj AcK‡g©i PvweKvwV|
4) †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi AvbyMZ¨ Ki| hw` Zviv †Zvgv‡K †Zvgvi `ywbqvi
(hveZxq KvR) †_‡K †ei n‡q †h‡Z e‡j Z‡e Zv‡`i wb‡`©k cvjbv‡_© ZvB
Ki‡e|
5) hw`I Zzwg †Zvgv‡K A‡bK eo g‡b Ki ZeyI Zzwg hy× †Î n‡Z cjvqb
K‡iv bv|
6) hw`I Zzwg aŸsm n‡q hvI ZeyI Zzwg hy× †Î n‡Z cjvqb K‡iv bv|
7) †Zvgvi cwievi e‡M©i Dci n‡Z (Av`‡ei) jvwV DwV‡q wbI bv|
8) Zv‡`i‡K Avj−vni Iqv‡¯— fq †`wLI|
(mnxn eyLvix)
mvnvex‡`i (iv.) Rxe‡bi NUbv‡K
D`vniY wn‡m‡e Zz‡j ai‡Z cvwi
GKevi gviIqvb ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û-†K Avey ûivBiv ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û wKQz
w`‡bi Rb¨ wb‡Ri ¯’jvwfwl³ evwb‡qwQ‡jb| †m mgq wZwb Ryj ûjvBdvq
Ae¯’vb KiwQ‡jb| Zuvi gvZv wKQz `~‡i Ab¨ GK evox‡Z wQ‡jb| hLbB wZwb
evB‡i hvIqvi B”Qv Ki‡Zb, ZLbB cÖ_‡g G‡m gvZvi `iRvq `uvov‡Zb Ges
ej‡Zb, wcÖq Av¤§vRvb! Avm&mvjvgy AvjvBKzg Iqv ivngvZzj−vwn Iqv evivKvZzû|
Av¤§vRvb †fZi †_‡K ej‡Zb, wcÖq cyÎ! Iqv AvjvBKzgymmvjvg Iqv
ivngvZzj−vn Iqv evivKvZzû| AZtci Avey ûivBiv ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û ej‡Zb,
Av¤§vRvb! ˆkkeKv‡j †hgb Avcwb †mœn I ggZv w`‡q Avgv‡K jvjb-cvjb
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K‡iwQ‡jb †Zgwb †hb Avj−vn cvK Avcbvi Dci ing K‡ib| wZwb Rev‡e
ej‡Zb, wcÖq cyÎ! G e„× eq‡m Zzwg Avgvi mv‡_ †h ai‡Yi my›`i AvPiY K‡iQ
Ges Avivg w`‡qQ Avj−vnI †hb †Zvgvi cÖwZ †m ai‡Yi ingZ bvwhj K‡ib|
AZci wZwb hLb evB‡i †_‡K Avm‡Zb Ges N‡i cÖ‡ek Ki‡Zb ZLb
†Zgwbfv‡e gvZv‡K mvjvg Ki‡Zb I GKB K_v ej‡Zb|
gvZv-wcZvi B‡š—Kv‡ji ci KiYxq
ÒAvey DmvB` ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û e‡jb, Avgiv bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
Gi wL`g‡Z Dcw¯’Z wQjvg| GK e¨w³ wR‡Ám Ki‡jv, †n Avj−vni ivm~j!
gvZv-wcZvi g„Zz¨i ciI wK Ggb †Kv‡bv c×wZ m¤¢e †h, Avwg Zv‡`i mv‡_
my›`i AvPiY Ae¨vnZ ivL‡Z cvwi bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg ej‡jb,
nü v| PviwU cš’vq Zzwg Zv Ki‡Z cvi (1) gvZv-wcZvi Rb¨ `yÕAv Ges
BmwZM&dvi (2) Zv‡`i K…Z Iqv`vmg~n Ges ˆea IwmqZ c~iY, (3) wcZvi eÜzevÜe
Ges gvZvi evÜex‡`i m¤§vb I Av`i-hZœ Ges (4) Zuv‡`i mv‡_
AvZ¥xqZvi m¤úK© eRvq I my›`i AvPiY Kiv, hviv gvZv-wcZvi w`K †_‡K
†Zvgv‡`i AvZ¥xq nb|Ó (Avj Av`veyj gvdi“R)
1) `yÕAv I BmwZM&dvi t bvgv‡hi ci Ges Ab¨ mgq Avj−vni wbKU †Ku‡`
†Ku‡` `yÕAv Kiv DwPZ †h, †n Avj−vn! Avgvi gvZv-wcZv‡K gv Ki“b| Zuv‡`i
¸Yvnmg~n‡K gy‡Q w`b Ges Zuv‡`i‡K Avcwb ZvB `vb Ki“b hv Avcwb †bK
ev›`v-ev›`x‡K w`‡q _v‡Kb| †n Avj−vn! hLb Avgiv mš—vbiv Zuv‡`i mvnvh¨,
†mœn I jvjb-cvj‡bi gyLv‡cx wQjvg ZLb Zviv mewKQz Avgv‡`i Rb¨ Z¨vM
K‡iwQ‡jb| †n Avj−vn! GLb Zuviv †Zvgvi wbKU mgycw¯’Z| ˆkkeKv‡j Amnvq
Ae¯’vq Avgiv Zuv‡`i gyLv‡cx wQjvg| GLb Zuviv †mB mg‡qi †P‡q †ekx
†Zvgvi ingZ I mỳ „wói gyLv‡cx| †n Avj−vn! Zzwg Zuv‡`i‡K wb‡Ri ingv‡Zi
Qvqv `vb Ki Ges wb‡Ri Rvbœv‡Z Zuv‡`i Avkªq `vI|
ÒiweŸi nvgûgv Kvgv ieŸv Bqvwbm& mwMivÓ
2) gvZv-wcZvi Iqv`v I IwmqZ c~iY Kiv t gvZv-wcZv RxweZ
Ae¯’vq A‡bK †jv‡Ki mv‡_ Iqv`v K‡i _vK‡Z cv‡ib| wewfbœ e¨vcv‡i wKQz
Iqv`v Ki‡Z cv‡ib| g„Zz¨i Av‡M IwmqZ Ki‡Z cv‡ib|
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gvZv-wcZvi g„Zz¨i ci mš—v‡bi Rb¨ Zuv‡`i mv‡_ my›`i AvPi‡Yi GKwU cš’v
Aewkó _v‡K| Zvn‡jv Zuv‡`i K…Z Iqv`vmg~n I IwmqZ c~iY Kiv| Avi
Gfv‡eB Zuv‡`i iƒn‡K Lykx Kivi cÖ‡Póv Ae¨vnZ ivL‡Z n‡e| wKš‘ Zuv‡`i
Rv‡qh ev ˆea IwmqZB c~iY Ki‡Z n‡e, Zuv‡`i A‰ea IwmqZ bq|
3) gvZvi evÜex Ges wcZvi eÜz‡`i mv‡_ AvPiY t gvZv-wcZvi
g„Zz¨i ci Zuv‡`i mv‡_ AvPi‡Yi Z…Zxq cš’v n‡jv, gvZvi evÜex Ges wcZvi
eÜz‡`i mv‡_ my›`i AvPiY Kiv| mvgvwRK Rxe‡b e‡qve„× e¨w³‡`i g‡Zv
Zuv‡`i‡KI kª×v Ki‡Z n‡e| Zuv‡`i g‡Zi cÖwZ m¤§vb cÖ`k©b Ki‡Z n‡e|
wewfbœ cÖ‡kœ civg‡k©i mgq Zuv‡`i‡K kixK Kiv Ges memgq kª×v cÖ`k©b c~e©K
Zuv‡`i mv‡_ my›`i AvPiY Kiv Avek¨K| bex Kixg mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t wcZvi eÜz‡`i mv‡_ DËg e¨envi Kiv me‡P‡q my›`i AvPiY|
4) gvZv-wcZvi AvZ¥xq-¯^R‡bi mv‡_ my›`i AvPiY t gvZv-wcZvi
g„Zz¨i ci AvPi‡Yi PZz_© cš’v n‡jv, gvZv-wcZvi AvZ¥xq-¯^R‡bi mv‡_ my›`i
AvPiY Kiv| gvZvg‡ni c‡i AvZ¥xq †hgb Lvjv, gvgv, bvbv-bvbx cÖf„wZ Ges
wcZvg‡ni c‡i AvZ¥xq †hgb PvPv, dzdz, `v`v-`v`x BZ¨vw`| G mKj
AvZ¥xqi cÖwZ Ag‡bv‡hvMx _vKv Ges †ec‡ivqv fve cÖ`k©b cÖK…Zc‡ gvZvwcZvi
cÖwZ Ag‡bv‡hvMx _vKvi bvgvš—i Ges GKRb gyÕwgb I gyÕwgbv gvZvwcZvi
mv‡_ G ai‡Yi AvPiY Ki‡Z cv‡i bv| Avj−vni ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg Gi Bikv` n‡jv, †Zvgiv †Zvgv‡`i wcZv I wcZvg‡ni mv‡_ KLbI
†eqv`emyjf AvPiY Ki‡e bv| gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ †eqv`ex Kiv Avj−vni cÖwZ
AK…ZÁ nIqvi kvwgj|
Father’s Day – Mother’s Day
Avcbvi mš—vb †QvU _vK‡ZB mZK© †nvb| Zviv †hb Father’s Day Ges
Mother’s Day-†Z Af¨¯— n‡q bv hvq, GB KvjPvi †hb Zv‡`i i‡³ cÖ‡ek
Ki‡Z bv cv‡i| Avgiv Rvwb GB †`kxq †Q‡j‡g‡qiv 18 eQi n‡jB evev-gv‡K
†Q‡o P‡j hvq Ges Zviv cieZx© Rxe‡b GKvKxB eo n‡Z _v‡K| GKmgq
evev-gvi cÖwZ Zv‡`i Avi Uvb _v‡K bv Ges Zviv Avi evev-gv‡qi †Kvb
`vwqZ¡I cvjb K‡i bv| `vwqZ¡ cvjb Kiv‡Zv `~‡ii K_v A‡bK mgq evev-gv
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Rv‡bB bv †Q‡j‡g‡qiv †Kvb †`‡k ev †Kvb kn‡i _v‡K! ZvB G‡`‡ki mgvR
`ywU w`b wbw`©ó K‡i wb‡q‡Q evev-gv‡K ¯§iY Kivi R‡b¨| GKw`b evevi R‡b¨
Ges Ab¨ Avi GKwU w`b gv‡qi R‡b¨| eQ‡ii GB w`bwU Avm‡j †Q‡j‡g‡qiv
evev-gv‡K ¯§iY K‡i wMÖwUsm KvW© cvVvq, wMd&U cvVvq, dzj cvVvq, K¨vwÛ
cvVvq| Zvici Avevi GKeQi †Kvb †LuvR Lei iv‡L bv| wKš‘ Bmjvg Zvi
D‡ëv| evev-gvÕi mg¯— `vq-`vwqZ¡ Zv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Dci| mš—vbiv hw` G
`vwqZ¡ cvj‡b e¨_© nq Zvn‡j Zv‡K gnvb Avj−vni `iev‡i Revew`wn Ki‡Z
n‡e| Bmjv‡g Father’s Day Ges Mother’s Day cÖwZw`bB A_v©r eQ‡ii
365 w`bB|
GKwU mZ¨ NUbv
Ui‡›Uv‡Z emevmiZ GK fvB‡qi AwfÁZv| wZwb ev‡m K‡i †Kv_vI hvw”Q‡jb
Zvi cv‡ki wm‡U GK K¨vbvwWqvb e„×v gwnjv emv wQ‡jb| wKQz `~i †h‡Z †h‡Z
†Kvb GK evm ÷c †_‡K GKwU hyeK H GKB ev‡m DVj, D‡V H gwnjv‡K
†`‡L ejj Ònvq ggÓ| Zvi ci wKQz `~i hvIqvi ci H †Q‡jUv Avevi †Kvb
GKUv evm ÷‡c †b‡g †Mj| Gevi H f`ª‡jvK Zvi cv‡ki wm‡Ui gwnjv‡K
wR‡Ám Ki‡jb Ô†Q‡jUv †KÕ gwnjv ej‡jb GUv ZviB †Q‡j Ges GB kn‡iB
†Kv_vI _v‡K, †m wVK Rv‡b bv| gwnjvi †Q‡j Zv‡K Ònvq ggÓ e‡j‡Q Zv‡ZB
gv †eRvq Lywk| GB gv Zvi †Q‡ji Kv‡Q Gi †P‡q Avi †ekx wKQz Avkv K‡i
bv| KviY GUvB GLvbKvi KvjPvi| Mother’s Day-†Z nq‡Zv †Q‡j
greetings card cvVv‡e G‡ZB gv Lywk| KviY KvjPvi AbyhvqB †mI nq‡Zv
Zvi gv-evev‡K Gfv‡eB ¯§iY K‡i‡Q|
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P¨vcUvi 11
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i GKv‡WwgK
Bmjvwg wkv
A‡b‡KiB aviYv †h, mš—vb‡K we‡K‡j ûRy‡ii Kv‡Q Kvq`v ev KziAvb co‡Z
cvVv‡jB me n‡q †Mj, †m Bmjvg wk‡L †dj‡e Ges cv°v gymywj− n‡q hv‡e| G
aviYv fyj| mvaviYZ ILv‡b KziAvb wZjvIqvZ A_©vr ï× K‡i KziAvb wiwWs
co‡Z wkLv‡bv nq gvÎ| BmjvwgK ÷vwWR cov‡bv nq bv| Z‡e †Kvb †Kvb
RvqMvq KziAvb wZjvIqv‡Zi cvkvcvwk wKQz gvmjv-gvmv‡qj, `yÕAv nq‡Zv
†kLv‡bv nq|
ZvB Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i‡K cÖK…Z gymwjg evbv‡bvi Rb¨ Zvi mvaviY
GWy‡Kk‡bi cvkvcvwk real life oriented “Islamic Science & Islamic
Studies” cov‡Z n‡e, †hLv‡b Zvi Rxeb cwiPvjbvi Rb¨ _vK‡e mg¯— wkv|
GB cÖev‡m e‡m mš—vb‡`iK cÖK…Z Bmjvwg wkvq wkwZ Ki‡Z Avgv‡`i mv‡_
†hvMv‡hvM Ki“b – Weekend Islamic School, Toronto Islamic Centre
(TIC), 575 Yonge Street, Toronto, Phone: 647-350-4262.
www.torontoislamiccentre.com, BbkvAvj−vn Avgv‡`i wm‡jev‡mi Aš—fy©³
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Course Outline
1. Tawheed (Islamic Aqidah OR Islamic Creed)
2. Basic principles of Islam
3. How to pray Salah (Prayer of Muhammad PBUH)
4. Learn basic Dua for our daily life
5. Personal hygiene in Islam
6. What should be the character of a Muslim
7. Biography of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
8. Biography of other 25 Prophets in the Quran
9. Who is Jesus & Background of Christmas
10. Biography of Sahaba (Companions of Prophet PBUH)
11. Islam in the West: and challenges
12. Islamic history & world history
13. Duty of children towards parents
14. Objective of Ramadan and what is Taqwa
15. Hajj and its teaching
16. Importance of Sadaqa and Zakat
17. Islamic Banking & Economics
18. Islam & Sex
19. Gay – Lesbian & same sex marriage in Islam
20. What is Sunnah And practice of Sunnah
21. What is lawful and unlawful in Islam (Halal – Haram)
22. What is our real culture (Islamic way of life)
23. Terrorism & Jihad in Islam (Real conception of Jihad)
24. Who is a Fundamentalist
25. Islam and Science
26. Miracles of the Quran: Modern scientific discoveries
27. Human Rights in Islam
28. Women in Islam and clear conception on Hijab
29. Why Islam & who are Muslim
30. Gender equity in Islam
31. Music vision of Islam
32. Clear conception of Shirk and Bidah
33. Collective life & brotherhood
34. Importance of Dawah & Dawah in the West
35. Fiqh & Islamic Law (Jurisprudence)
36. Life after death: Road map of Akhirah
37. Memorization of selected Suras
38. Tafseer of Sahih Hadith
39. Translation and Tafseer of The Quran
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Avjnvg`ywjj−vn, Avgv‡`i Kv‡Q Av‡Q g`xbv BDwbfvwm©wUi course
curriculum Ges Islamic Education Series Grade 1 to 10 Gi dzj †mU
eB| hv Avcwb Abvqv‡m Avcbvi mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ msMÖn Ki‡Z cv‡ib| Ges
†mB Abyhvqx Zv‡`i‡K Bmjvwg wkvq wkwZ Ki‡Z cv‡ib|
ZvB Dc‡ii welq¸‡jvi Dci eB Ges wWwfwW msMÖn Kwi Ges †Rbv‡ij
GWy‡Kk‡bi cvkvcvwk mš—vb‡`i wbqwgZ Bmjv‡gi Dci i“wUb K‡i cÖwZw`b
Ávb AR©b Ki‡Z mvnvh¨ Kwi| g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, Bewjm (kqZvb) wKš‘ GUv
PvB‡e bv, evav †`‡e; ZvB †Rvi K‡i n‡jI GwM‡q †h‡Z n‡e|
Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ eyK wjó
Quran Translation & Tafseer:
1) Quran Translation – Abdullah Yousuf Ali
2) Tafseer Ibn Kathir – Ibn Kathir
3) In the Shade of the Quran – Sayyid Qutb
Sahih Hadith:
1) Sahih Bukhari
2) Sahih Muslim
3) Riyadhus Saleheen
4) Bulugul Maram
Biography of Muhammad (PBUH):
1) The Sealed Nectar (Arraheeqal-Makhtum) - by Shafiur Rahman Mubarakpuri
2) A Biography of Prophet of Islam - Part 1 & 2 - Darussalam Publications
3) Muhammad - by Dr. Martin Lings
4) The Life and Work of Muhammad - by Yahiya Emerick
5) Movie: The Message - DVD
6) Cartoon: Son Paygambar (pbuh) – DVD (Badar International Production)
Life of Companions of the Prophet:
1) Biography of Umar Ibn Khattab - Darussalam Publications
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2) Biography of Uthman bin Affan - Part 1 & 2 - Darussalam Publications
3) Biography of Abu Bakr - Part 1 & 2 - Darussalam Publications
4) The Wives of the Holy Prophet – Fida Hussain Malik
5) The Daughters of The Holy Prophet – S. M. Madni Abbasi
Biographies of other Prophets in the Quran:
1) Stories of the Prophets – Allama Ibn Kathir - Darussalam Publications
Islamic Creed:
1) Fundamentals of Tawhid – Dr. Bilal Philips
2) Towards understanding Islam – Syeed Abul Ala
3) Kitab at Tawheed – Muhammad bin Abdul Wahhab
4) The Book of Tawheed – Darussalam Publications
5) The Concise Coll. Creed Tauhid - Darussalam Publications
6) The Many Shades of Shirk - Darussalam Publications
7) Four Principles of Shirk – Muhammad Bin Abdul Wahhab
8) Commentary on the Three Fundamental Principles of Islam - Darussalam
Publications
Other Islamic Literature:
1) Milestone – Sayyid Qutb
2) Islam and Ignorance - Syeed Abul Ala
3) The Prophet’s Prayer – Nasir Uddin Al Albani
4) Islam and Management
5) Islamic Banking and Economics
6) Way to the Quran – Dr. Khurram Murad
7) The History of Islam - Part 1, 2, 3 - Darussalam Publications
8) The Islamic Law of Succession - Part 1 & 2 - Darussalam Publications
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Avgvi mš—v‡bi †WBwj i“wUb
(Sample)
Day 06:00 – 8:00
am
Fajr salat
Monday Quran recitation
to
with meaning &
Friday Tafseer study
Saturday
Sunday
Fajr salat
Quran recitation
with meaning &
Tafseer study
(And group
discussion with
parents)
Fajr salat
Quran recitation
with meaning &
Tafseer study
(And group
discussion with
parents)
08:00 – 4:00
pm
School/
University
Zuhar &
Asr salat
To study Islamic
literature
(from syllabus)
Zuhar &
Asr salat
To study Islamic
literature
(from syllabus)
Zuhar &
Asr salat
05:00 – 7:00
pm
Game
Magrib salat
Hadith study
(10 hadith every
day)
Game
Magrib salat
Hadith study
(10 hadith every
day)
Game
Magrib salat
Hadith study
(10 hadith every
day)
07:00 – 10:00
pm
School study &
Homework
Dinner
Isha salat
School study &
Homework
Dinner
Isha salat
School study &
Homework
Dinner
Isha salat
10 – 11:00
pm
To watch Islamic
TV/DVD
with parents
To watch Islamic
TV/DVD
with parents
To watch Islamic
TV/DVD
with parents
bgybv ¯^iƒc Avgv‡`i mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ Dc‡i GKwU †WBwj i“wUb †`qv n‡jv|
Avwg PvB‡j Avgvi g‡Zv Kv‡óvgvBR K‡i wb‡Z cvwi| mg‡qi cwieZ©‡bi
Kvi‡Y kxZKv‡j i“wUb n‡e GKiKg Ges Mig Kv‡j n‡e Ab¨iKg| Avevi
mvgvi †f‡Kk‡b n‡e Av‡iK iKg|
evev-gv‡q‡`i cÖwZ we‡kl Aby‡iva
`qv K‡i Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡`i Bmjvwg wkv ïaygvÎ ÒKziAvb wZjvIqv‡ZiÓ
g‡a¨ mxgve× †hb bv ivwL| Zv‡`i‡K †MvUv KziAvbUv A_© I e¨vL¨vmn eyS‡Z
†`B| KziAv‡bi ev¯—e Gwc−‡Kkbm Abyaveb Ki‡Z †`B Ges †mB Abyhvqx
Rxeb‡K cwiPvjbv Kivi my‡hvM K‡i †`B|
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wKQz Ri“ix `yÕAv wkv
Avgv‡`i wcÖq bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg ˆ`wbw›`b Rxe‡b wKQy `yÕAv cvV
Ki‡Zb| hw` KyiAvb I nv`x‡mi AvgjKvix Avjøvni †Kvb ev›`v †m mg¯Í `yÕAv
cvV K‡ib Zvn‡j wZwbI Avjøvni A‡kl AbyMÖn jv‡f ab¨ n‡Z cvi‡eb| wb‡gœ
ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi †Zgb wKQy `yÕAv mwbœ‡ewkZ n‡jv t
†kvqvi mgq `yÕAv
1. †kvqvi mgq co‡Z n‡e t ÒAvjøvû¤§v weBmwgKv Avg~Zz Iqv Avn&BqvÓ|
A_© t †n Avjøvn! †ZvgviB bv‡g g„Zz¨eiY Kwi Ges †eu‡P _vwK A_©vr
NygvB Ges RvwM| (mnxn eyLvix)
2. Nyg n‡Z D‡V t ÒAvjnvg`y wjjøvwnjøvhx Avn&Bqvbv evÕ`v gv AvgvZvbv
Iqv BjvBwnb byk~iÓ| A_© t me cÖksmv Avjøvni whwb g„Zz¨`v‡bi ci
Avevi Avgv‡`i‡K RxweZ K‡i‡Qb Ges Zuvi-B Kv‡Q wd‡i †h‡Z
n‡e| (mnxn eyLvix)
3. kqbKv‡j Zvm&exn, Zvngx` I ZvK¡exi t 33evi myenvbvj−vn (Avj−vn
gnvb Ges cweÎ), 33evi Avjnvg`ywjj−vn (mg¯— cÖksmv GKgvÎ
Avj−vni) Ges 33 A_ev 34evi Avj−vû AvKevi (Avj−vn me© ‡kªô)|
(mnxn eyLvix)
4. im~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg hLb iv‡Z Nygv‡Z †h‡Zb, ZLb
m~iv Avj-dvjvK I m~iv Avb-bvm c‡o wb‡Ri `yÕnv‡Z duy w`‡Zb Ges
kixi gvmn Ki‡Zb| (mnxn eyLvix)
LvIqvi `yÕAv
5. LvIqvi ïi“‡Z ej‡Z n‡e t Òwemwgj−vnÓ|
6. LvIqvi ïi“‡Z ej‡Z fy‡j †M‡j t Òwemwgj−vnx dx AvDqvjxwn Iqv
AvwLwiwnÓ|
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7. LvIqvi †k‡l ej‡Z n‡e t ÒAvjnvg`y wjj−vnxj−vRx AvZ&qvgvwb nvhv
Iqv ihvKK¡bxn, wgb& Mqwi nvIwjb wgbwb Iqv jv KzIqvwZb|
cvqLvbvi `yÕAv
8. cÖ‡e‡ki `yÕAv t ÒAvjøvû¤§v Bbœx AvDhy weKv wgbvj Lyeywm Iqvj Lvev-
BmÓ| A_© t †n Avjøvn! Avwg (Lyeym I Lvev‡qm) mg¯— g›` wRwbm
†_‡K †Zvgvi Kv‡Q Avkªq cÖv_©bv KiwQ| (mnxn eyLvix)
9. †ei nIqvi `yÕAv t ÒAvjnvg`y wjjøvwnjøvhx Avhnvev Avbœxj Avhv
IqvAv-dvbxÓ| A_© t †mB Avjøvni ïKwiqv Av`vq KiwQ, whwb Avgvi
KvQ †_‡K Kó`vqK wRwbm `~i K‡i w`‡jb Ges cÖkvwšÍ `vb K‡i‡Qb|
(Be‡b gvRvn)
GQvov †ei nIqvi mgq ïay Ò¸d&ivbvKvÓI ejv †h‡Z cv‡i| (A_© t
Avj−vn †Zvgvi Kv‡Q gv PvB)
mZK©Zv t cvqLvbvi mgq †Kvb cÖKvi whwKi ev `yÕAv Kiv hv‡e bv|
cvqLvbvq A‡bK mgq Lvivc wRb _v‡K ZvB GB `yÕAv co‡Z nq|
Pig wec` I `y`©kvi mgq `yÕAv
11. Òjv Bjvnv Bj−vj−vûj Avhxgyj nvjxg, jv Bjvnv Bj−vj−vû ieŸym
mvgvIqvwZ Iqvj Aviw` ieŸyj Aviwkj AvhxgÓ| A_© t Avjøvn Qvov
†Kvb Bjvn †bB| wZwb AwZ gnvb, AwZ mnbkxj| Avj−vn Qvov †Kvb
Bjvn †bB| wZwb Avmgvb-hgx‡bi ie Ges gnvb Avi‡ki gvwjK|
(mnxn eyLvix)
Ih~ Kivi ci `yÕAv
12. ÒAvknv`y Avjøv Bjvnv Bjøvjøvû, Iqvn&`vû jv kvixKvjvû, Iqv Avknv`y
Avbœv gynv¤§v`vb Ave`yû Iqv im~jyûÓ| A_© t Avwg mvÿ¨ w`w”Q †h,
Avjøvn e¨ZxZ Ab¨ †Kvb Bjvn †bB, wZwb GKK Ges Zuvi †Kvb kixK
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†bB| Avwg Av‡iv mvÿ¨ w`w”Q †h, gynv¤§v` mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg Zuvi ev›`v I ivm~j| (mnxn gymwjg)
Avhv‡bi mv‡_ mv‡_ Avgiv wK eje
13. Dgi Bebyj LvËve ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û e‡jb, ivm~j mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t gyqvw¾b Avj−vû AvKevi, Avj−vû AvKevi ej‡j
†Zvgv‡`i †Kvb e¨w³ Avš—wiKZvi mv‡_ Zvi Dˇi e‡j Avj−vû
AvKevi, Avj−vû AvKevi, gyqvw¾b Avknv`y Avj jv-Bjvnv Bj−vj−vn
ej‡j Zvi Dˇi †mI e‡j, Avknv`y Avj jv-Bjvnv Bj−vj−vn; Gici
gyqvw¾b Avknv`y Avbœv gynv¤§v`vi im~jyj−vn ej‡j Zvi Dˇi ‡m e‡j,
Avknv`y Avbœv gynv¤§v`vi im~jyj−vn; Gici gyqvw¾b nvBq¨v AvjvQ
Qjvn-ej‡j Zvi Dˇi †m e‡j, jv nvIjv Iqvjv KzqvZv Bj−v wej−vn;
Gici gyqvw¾b nvBq¨v Avjvj dvjvn ej‡j Rev‡e †m e‡j, jv nvIjv
Iqvjv KzqvZv Bj−v wej−vn; Gici gyqvw¾b Avj−vû AvKevi, Avj−vû
AvKevi-ej‡j Rev‡e †m e‡j, Avj−vû AvKevi, Avj−vû AvKevi;
Gici gyqvw¾b e‡j, jv-Bjv-nv Bj−vj−vn-Gi Rev‡e †m e‡j, jv-Bjvnv
Bj−vj−vn Avhv‡bi G cÖwZDËi †`qvi Kvi‡Y †m Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek
Ki‡e| (mnxn gymwjg)
Avhv‡bi `yÕAv
13. ÒAvj−vû¤§v ieŸv nvwhwn`-`vIqvwZZZv¤§vwZ Iqvm-mjvwZj K¡wqgvwZ
AvwZ gynv¤§v`vwbj IqvwmjvZv Iqvj dv`xjvZv Iqve-qvmû gvK¡gvggvngỳ
vwbjjvhx Iqv`ZvnÓ|
A_© t †n Avj−vn G cwic~Y© AvnŸvb I bvgv‡hi cªwZwôZ gvwjK, gynv¤§`
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-†K Iqvmxjv I m‡e©v”P gh©v`vi AwaKvix
Ki“b Ges Zuv‡K †m gvKv‡g gvngy‡` †cuŠwQ‡q w`b hvi A½xKvi Avcwb
K‡i‡Qb|
Rvwei Beb Ave`yj−vn ivw`Avj−vû Avb&û n‡Z ewY©Z, ivm~j mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Bikv` K‡i‡Qb, †h e¨w³ Avhvb ï‡b `yÕAv K‡i
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wKqvg‡Zi w`b †m Avgvi kvdvAvZ jv‡fi AwaKvix n‡e| (mnxn
eyLvix)
evox †_‡K †ei nIqvi `yÕAv
14. Òwemwgj−vnx ZvI°vjZz Avjvj−vwn Iqvjv nvIjv Iqvjv Kzq¨vZv Bj−v
wej−vnÓ| A_© t Avjøvni bv‡g iIqvbv KiwQ, Avjøvni Dci fimv
KiwQ| Avjøvn Qvov Ab¨ †Kvb gZv I kw³ †bB| (Avey `vD`,
wZiwghx)
evox‡Z cÖ‡e‡ki `yÕAv
15. Òwemwgj−vnx IqvjvRbv Iqvwemwgj−vnx LivRbv IqvAvjvBqv ieŸvbv
ZvIqvK&KvjbvÓ| A_© t Avjøvni bv‡g Avgiv cÖ‡ek Kwi, Avj−vni
bv‡gB Avgiv †ei nB Ges Avgv‡`i cÖfy Avjøvni DciB Avgiv fimv
Kwi| (Avey `vD`)
hvbevn‡b Povi `yÕAv
16. Òmyevnvbvj−vwh mvLLvijvbv nvhv Iqvgv Kzbœv jvû gyKwibxb| IqvBbœv
Bjv iweŸbv jvgybK¡wjeybÓ| (m~iv hyLi“d t 13-14) A_© t cweÎZv
†NvlYv KiwQ †mB mË¡vi, whwb GBme wKQy‡K Avgv‡`i wbqš¿‡Y G‡b
w`‡q‡Qb| Ab¨_vq Avgiv Gme Avq‡Z¡ Avb‡Z cviZvg bv| Avi
wbðqB Avgiv mK‡j gnvb cÖfyi w`‡K cÖZ¨veZ©bKvix|
wcZv-gvZvi Rb¨ mš—v‡bi `yÕAv
17. ÒiweŸinvgûgv Kvgv ieŸvBqvbx mwMivÓ| (m~iv ebx BmivBj t 24)
A_©t †n Avgvi ie| Avgvi wcZv-gvZvi Dci †Zgwb ing Ki †hgb
Zviv wkï †ejvq Avgv‡K jvjb cvjb K‡i‡Qb| [cÖ‡Z¨K bvgv‡hi ci
GB `yÕAv Ki‡Z nq]
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¯§iYkw³ e„w×i `yÕAv
18. ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114) A_© t †n Avgvi ie, Avgvi
Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI|
gy‡Li RoZv `~i Kivi `yÕAv
19. ÒiweŸkin jx m`ix Iqv Bqvm&wmiwj Avgix Iqvnjyj IK¡`vZvg
wgjwjmv-bx BqvdK¡û K¡IjxÓ| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 25-28)
A_© t †n Avgvi ieŸ! Avgvi eÿ (ü`q) Ly‡j `vI| Avgvi KvR‡K
mnR K‡i `vI| Avgvi wRnŸvi RoZv `~i K‡i `vI| hv‡Z Iiv
(†jv‡K) Avgvi K_v †ev‡S|
†bvUt mwVK D”Pvi‡Yi e¨vcv‡i Av‡iv GKwU ¸i“Z¡c~Y© welq n‡”Q, †h †Kvb
`yÕAvmg~n mivmwi Aviex †`‡L co‡Z cvi‡j fvj G‡Z D”PviYI ï×
nq|
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P¨vcUvi 12
GKRb Av`k© gv‡qi
AwfÁZv
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
GLv‡b GKRb gv‡qi AwfÁZv Zz‡j aiv n‡jv
mš—vb cÖwZcvj‡b Avgvi wZbUv we‡kl myweav wQj| cª_gZ, Avgvi AwfÁZv|
†QvU fvB `yÕwU h_vµ‡g Avgvi Qq Ges ev‡iv eQ‡ii †QvU wQj| we‡kl K‡i
we‡`‡k _vKvq †QvUwUi cªvq mvwe©K `vwqZ¡cªvß n‡q ev‡iv eQi eqm †_‡KB
gvZ…‡Z¡i AwfÁZv mÂq Kivi my‡hvM n‡q‡Q| ZvQvov evev Aí eq‡m we‡q
Kiv‡Z evevi eÜy‡`i †Q‡j‡g‡qivI wQj Avgvi A‡bK A‡bK †QvU| Zvuiv wewfbœ
mgq Avgvi Kv‡Q ev”Pv †i‡L †h‡Zb, G‡Z K‡i wewfbœ ai‡Yi wkï‡`i †`Lvi
Ges wbqš¿Y Kivi Af¨vm n‡q wM‡qwQj Aí eq‡mB| wØZxqZ, Avwg me©f~K|
†QvU‡ejv †_‡KB †hLv‡b hv †cZvg, eywS bv eywS, coZvg| c‡i GB UyK‡iv
UyK‡iv Z_¨¸‡jv A‡bK Kv‡R †j‡M hvq| Z…ZxqZ, Avgvi evevgvi cvkvcvwk
Ab¨vb¨‡`i evevgv‡K ch©‡eY K‡i A‡bK wKQy †kLvi Ges †evSvi my‡hvM
†c‡qwQ|
Avwg †QvU‡ejv †_‡KB Avgvi mš—vb‡`i Avj−vni mv‡_ eÜyZ¡ Kwi‡q w`‡qwQ|
co‡Z †kLvi mv‡_ mv‡_ nv‡Z A_©mn KyiÕAvb awi‡q w`‡qwQ| Zv‡`i e‡jwQ,
Ò†Zvgv‡`i Avgv‡K ev AveŸy‡K ev Avi KvD‡K Lykx Kivi PvB‡Z gnvb
Avj−vn‡K Lykx Kivi cÖwZ †ekx †Rvi w`‡Z n‡e| Avj−vn †Zvgv‡`i Ici Amš‘ó
n‡Z cv‡ib Ggb †Kvb KvR †Zvgiv KL‡bv K‡ivbv| †Zvgiv hw` jywK‡q wKQy
Ki Avwg †`L‡evbv, AveŸy †`L‡ebv, nq‡Zv †KDB †`L‡ebv, wKš‘ Avj−vn
†`L‡eb| Zvn‡j Avj−vn †Zvgv‡`i kvw¯— w`‡eb| Avi Ibvi K_v ïb‡j †Zvgiv
hv PvI me Dwb †Zvgv‡`i †`‡ebÓ| Avwg PvBbv Avgvi mš—v‡biv iƒcK_v
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wkLyK| Avgv‡`i AwaKvs‡kB Bmjvg m¤ú‡K© aviYv iƒcK_vi gZB|
wewfbœR‡bi Kv‡Q UyKUvK †kvbv ev PwUeB cov‡ZB Avgv‡`i ag©xq Ávb
mxgve×| d‡j Avgv‡`i g‡a¨ Rb¥ †bq bvbvbiKg fyj aviYv, A‡bK fyj
AvPiY| Avm‡j †h Kx Ki‡Z ejv n‡q‡Q, Kx gvbv Kiv n‡q‡Q ev †Kb
GÕe¨vcv‡i Avgv‡`i ¯úó †Kvb aviYv †bB| ZvB Avgiv bvgme©¯^ gymwjg
wn‡m‡e †e‡o DwV| KyiÕAv‡bi †Kvb Ask ïb‡j Òwb‡Ri hyw³Ó w`‡q wePvi
Kwi| A_P Avgv‡`i gvb`Û nIqv DwPZ KyiÕAvb Ges Òhyw³Ó nIqv DwPZ †mB
gvb`‡Ûi †cªw‡Z| ZvB Avwg PvB Iiv wb‡R c‡o †R‡b ey‡S ÒgvbylÓ †nvK|
ZvQvov Avgv‡`i mš—v‡biv hw` Avj-KziAvb‡K mivmwi AbymiY K‡i Zvn‡j †m
†kªô mš—vb, †kªô evev ev †kªô gv, †kªô eÜy, †kªô cªwZ‡ekx, †kªô gvwjK ev †kªô
Kg©Pvix meB n‡Z cvi‡e| e¨vm, Avgv‡`i wcZv-gvZv‡`i KvR n‡q †Mj|
Avwg hLb Rvbjvg wZbgvm eqm †_‡K Mf©¯’ wkïi ürwcÛ Pvjy n‡q hvq Ges
cvuPgvm eqm †_‡K †m ïb‡Z cvq ZLb GKUv c−¨vb Kijvg| wZbgv‡mi mgq
Pywc Pywc covi cwie‡Z© †Rv‡i‡Rv‡i KziÕAvb nvw`m eBcÎ co‡Z ïi“ Kijvg,
ivM Kwg‡q nvwmLykx _vKvi †Póv Ki‡Z ïi“ Kijvg, gvby‡li mv‡_ Av‡iv †ekx
fv‡jv AvPiY Ki‡Z ïi“ Kijvg| cvuPgv‡mi mgq Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡`i mv‡_
K_v ej‡Z ïi“ KiZvg, fv‡jv Lvivc †evSvZvg| A‡b‡K GUv‡K cvMjvgx g‡b
K‡i| wKš‘ GKUv mvaviY cixv Ki‡jB eyS‡Z cviv hvq G‡Z cvMjvgxi wKQy
†bB| f~wgô nevi ci wkï Zvi evev‡K †`‡L wcUwcU K‡i ZvKvq, Zvi Mjvi
¯^‡i mvov †`q| †m Kx K‡i †ev‡S GUv Zvi evev KviY †m Av‡M †_‡KB
evev‡K †P‡b|
Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡`i mv‡_ Zv‡`i R‡b¥i mv‡_ mv‡_B K_vevZ©v Pvwj‡q
†hZvg| Baby talk by, adult talk. Zv‡`i iƒcK_vi Mí bv e‡j wewfbœ bexivm~j
Ges mvnvev‡`i K_v ejZvg| Avgvi bvbv`v`viv nvmZ|
A‡bK gv‡qiv Zv‡`i mš—vb‡`i †QvU‡ejvq kvmb Ki‡Z Pvb bv| e‡jb, ÒI †Zv
GL‡bv †QvU, eo n‡j wVK n‡q hv‡eÓ| wKš‘ †QvU‡ejv †_‡K GKUv wkï‡K
b¨vq-Ab¨v‡qi gvb`Û hw` evev-gv bv †kLvq Z‡e †m ÒwVKÓ n‡e Kx K‡i
GKUv wkï Ab¨‡`i mv‡_ †Ljbv †kqvi Ki‡Z PvB‡e bv, A‡b¨i N‡ii
wRwbmcÎ fvsPyi Ki‡e, ivZ ev‡ivUvq evB‡i wM‡q †mœv w`‡q †Ljvi Avn¬v`
Ki‡e Avi Avwg wgwó nvwm w`‡q eje, Ò†QvUev”Pv, wVK n‡q hv‡e K‡bv bq|
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Responsibility Ggb GKUv wRwbm hv mevB‡K †QvU‡ejv †_‡KB †kLv‡bv
DwPZ|
GKBfv‡e GUvI wbqš¿Y Kiv cª‡qvRb †h Avgv‡`i wkïiv wUwf‡Z Kx †`L‡Q|
mvivw`b wUwf‡Z Awkœj bvP-Mvb Pj‡Q Avi wkï evevgvÕi mv‡_ e‡m ZvB
†`L‡Q, GB wkïi j¾v‡eva †Zv ILv‡bB †kl n‡q hv‡”Q! wkï‡K †h ai‡Yi
i“wP w`‡q eo Kiv n‡e ZvB wkïi fv‡jv g‡b n‡e| †hgb Avgiv hLb †QvU
wQjvg evev fv‡jv Qwe †e‡Q Avgv‡`i †`LvZ, mv‡_ e‡m eywS‡q w`‡Zb| Avgvi
†g‡q †QvU‡ejv †_‡K Peace TV †`‡L Af¨¯—|
me‡P‡q eo K_v Avgv‡`i wb‡R‡`i ms‡kvab Ki‡Z n‡e| Avgv‡`i GUv †evSv
cª‡qvRb †h Avgiv wkï‡`i Kx ewj Zvi †P‡qI Iiv AbymiY K‡i Avgiv Kx
Kwi| cª‡Z¨K wkïB g‡b K‡i Zvi wcZvgvZv Av`k©| myZivs, Avgiv †Kvb
Ab¨vq Ki‡j ZLb Zviv g‡b K‡i, Òevn, AveŸy †h‡nZy wg_¨v K_v e‡j, Avwg
ej‡jI wbðqB †Kvb Amyweav †bB!Ó GUv Lye Ri“ix †hb evev-gv mš—vb‡`i
mvg‡b SMov bv K‡ib ev ci¯ú‡ii ev Zv‡`i cwiev‡ii e¨vcv‡i †Kvb ev‡R
gš—e¨ bv K‡ib| KviY GKUv wkï wb‡R‡K g~j¨vqb K‡i Zvi evev-gv‡qi
gva¨‡g| Zvi hw` wb‡Ri evevgvÕi cªwZ kª×v‡eva bó n‡q hvq Z‡e †m wb‡RI
low self esteemG fyM‡Z ïi“ K‡i| GÕ GKB Kvi‡Y Avgv‡`i Ggb Ab¨vq
Kiv DwPZ bq hv Avgiv PvB bv Avgv‡`i mš—vb Ki“K hw`I †mUv Avgiv g‡b
Kwi Avgvi mš—v‡bi my‡Li Rb¨|
†hgb, Avgvi Avq-†ivRMvi Kg nevi Kvi‡Y hw` Avgvi mš—vb GK‡ejv bv
†L‡qI _v‡K Zv‡Z Zvi mvgvb¨ yav Qvov Avi †Kvb Kó n‡ebv| wKš‘ hw` Avwg
A‰ea UvKvq Avgvi mš—vb‡K GKwU fv‡jv Rxeb †`qvi †Póv Kwi Zv‡Z Zvi
wZ eB †Kvb jvf n‡ebv| †m UvKvi g~j¨ eyS‡ebv, kª‡gi g~j¨ wkL‡ebv Ges
GB UvKv Zv‡K c…w_exi †RŠjy‡mi cªwZ AvK…ó K‡i g~j wRwbm¸‡jv †_‡K Zv‡K
wew”Qbœ K‡i †dj‡e, d‡j myL Zvi Kv‡Q KL‡bvB aiv †`‡ebv| Dciš‘, Avj−vn
e‡j‡Qb hvi kix‡i GKwe›`y cwigvY nvivg cª‡ek Ki‡e †m †Kvbw`b Rvbœv‡Z
cª‡ek Ki‡ebv| myZivs, Kvh©Z G‡Z K‡i Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡K †Kej
`ywbqv‡ZB bq eis AvwLiv‡ZI aŸs‡mi w`‡K †V‡j †`e|
Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡`i mvaviY gvbyl wn‡m‡eB eo Ki‡Z PvB| Zviv Avgvi mv‡_
gvwU‡Z ï‡q Nygv‡Z fv‡jvev‡m| Iiv †Kvbw`b I‡`i evev-gv‡K AwZwi³ `vgx
RvgvKvco ci‡Z †`‡Lwb, ZvB hLb I‡`i Rb¨ mvaviY gv‡K©U †_‡K bb-
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eª¨v‡Ûi Kvco †Kbv nq ZLb I‡`i Avu‡Z Nv jvMvi gZ wKQy N‡Ubv| I‡`i
†QvU‡ejv †_‡K needs Ges wants-Gi ZdvZ Ki‡Z †kLv‡bvi †Póv K‡iwQ|
ÒPvwnevgvÎ w`‡Z eva¨ _vwK‡eÓ K_vUv Iiv †Kvbw`b †kv‡bwb| hLb Iiv wKQy
Pvq ZLb I‡`i wPš—v Kivi my‡hvM †`B Avm‡j GUv KZUv ¸i“Z¡c~Y© ev Gi
cwie‡Z© Ab¨ wKQy w`‡j †Kgb nq| †hgb Avwg Avgvi mš—vb‡`i †kLv‡bvi †Póv
Kwi Zviv †hb wb‡R‡`i †gav, ¸b, e¨env‡ii gva¨‡g mycwiwPZ nevi †Póv K‡i|
Avwg Avgvi †g‡q‡K mvgvb¨ cqmvi wjáwUK wK‡b †`Bwb †Kvbw`b, wKš‘ Zvi
†P‡q A‡bK †ekx `vg w`‡q gvB‡µv‡¯‹vc wK‡b w`‡qwQ| †Kbbv wjáwUK Zv‡K
†mŠ›`h© cª`k©‡bi cªwZ AvK…ó K‡i Zv‡K †jvfx cyi“l‡`i `…wói †Lviv‡K cwiYZ
Ki‡e, wKš‘ gvB‡µv‡¯‹v‡ci †fZi w`‡q †`Lv Av‡iKUv RMZ Zvi Aš—t`©…wó‡K
cªmvwiZ Ki‡e|
Avgvi evevi KvQ †_‡K Avwg `yÕ‡Uv ¸i“Z¡c~Y© wRwbm wk‡LwQ| evev h_vm¤¢e
cwievi‡K mgq w`Z Ges mevi mv‡_ Ggb eÜyZ¡c~Y© AvPiY KiZ †h Avgv‡`i
KL‡bv g‡b nqwb GÕK_vUv evev‡K ejv hv‡ebv ev GUv jyKv‡bv `iKvi| mš—vb
hLb g‡b K‡i †h †m Zvi cwiev‡ii KvQ †_‡K h‡_ó fv‡jvevmv Ges eÜyZ¡
cv‡”Q ZLb †m evB‡i fv‡jvevmv LyuR‡Z hvevi cª‡qvRb †eva K‡ibv| myZivs,
Zvi my‡hvMmÜvbx Kv‡iv nv‡Z c‡i RxebUv G‡jv‡g‡jv K‡i †djvi m¤¢vebv
_v‡K Kg| cvkvcvwk †m hw` g‡b K‡i evev-gv‡qi mv‡_ me K_v ejv hvq
Zvn‡j †m †Kvb wec‡` co‡j ev KvD‡K fv‡jv jvM‡j wbwØ©avq ej‡Z cvi‡ed‡j
evev-gv DËg civgk© w`‡q Zv‡K mn‡hvwMZv Ki‡Z cvi‡eb|
Aš—Z GKRb Awffve‡Ki GB `vwqZ¡Uv cvjb Kiv DwPZ hv‡Z mš—vb
wcZvgvZvi KvQ †_‡K wb‡R‡K distant g‡b bv K‡i, Zvi g‡b bv nq Zvi
civgk© Kiv DwPZ eÜy‡`i mv‡_ (eÜy‡`i Ávbeyw× Avi evev-gv‡qi AwfÁZv I
we‡ePbvi g‡a¨ wK †Kvb Zyjbv nq), †m wb‡R‡K Pvchy³ g‡b bv K‡i Ges †m
eva¨ n‡q bq, Lykx n‡q evev-gv‡qi Av‡`k Dc‡`k †kv‡b| cvwievwiK m¤cÖxwZ
M‡o †Zvjvi Rb¨ †Ljvayjvi weKí †bB| Avgiv evevi mv‡_ ¯‹ª¨vej, g‡bvcwj,
wd«mwe †_‡K ïi“ K‡i jy‡Wv ch©š— †LjZvg- GL‡bv mgq †c‡j †Lwj| Av‡iKUv
e¨vcvi n‡jv Mímí Kiv, fwel¨Z cwiKíbv wb‡q K_v ejv, cQ›` AcQ›`
Avjvc Kiv hv‡Z Df‡qi ci¯ú‡ii gbgvbwmKZv eyS‡Z cv‡i Ges g‡bvgvwjb¨
Gwo‡q Pj‡Z cv‡i|
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†QvU‡ejvq, hLb cy‡ivcywi me K_v eySZvgbv ZLb cwÎKvq GKUv Rixc
c‡owQjvg XvKv wek¦we`¨vj‡qi Dci| G‡Z ejv n‡qwQj, hviv `~ieZ©x AÂj
†_‡K GLv‡b co‡Z Av‡m AwaKvsk †‡Î ZvivB bvbvcªKvi †c«gNwUZ e¨vcv‡i
RwM‡q c‡o †h‡nZy `xN©w`b cwievi †_‡K wew”Qbœ _vKvi d‡j Zv‡`i gb cªvqB
Lvivc _v‡K| Avgvi †mB †QvÆ gv_vq ZLb GUvB G‡mwQj, GZ †jLvcov K‡i
Kx n‡e hw` GKUv gvbyl Zvi me‡P‡q g~j¨evb m¤ú`, Zvi PwiÎB nvwi‡q
†d‡j GKUv gvby‡li Wv³vi, BwÄwbqvi ev gv÷vm© nIqvUvB Kx Rxe‡bi g~j
j¨ mevi Av‡M wK Zvi GKRb fv‡jv gvbyl nevi †Póv Kiv DwPZ bq
GLb eo n‡qwQ| GLb eywS gvby‡li mwVK eq‡m we‡q Kiv DwPZ| GUv
†jLvcWv ev Avi †Kvb e¨vcv‡i cªwZeÜK bq| Rxe‡b †Kvb wKQy‡K Avi
†KvbwKQyi Rb¨ †VwK‡q †i‡L †`qvUv GKUv Pig †evKvgx| gvby‡li i‡q‡Q Amxg
m¤¢vebv Avi cªPÛ Pvc †bevi gZv hw` †m wb‡Ri g‡bvej‡K DbœxZ Ki‡Z
cv‡i| ZvB gvbyl we‡q, mš—vb, msmvi, †jLvcov, PvKix me GKmv‡_ Pvjv‡Z
cv‡i hw` evev-gv mn‡hvwMZvc~Y© nb| Avgv‡`i evev-gv‡`i DwPZ mš—v‡bi
cvw_©e DbœwZi cvkvcvwk Zv‡`i cvi‡jŠwKK Rxe‡b †V‡K bv hvIqv wbwðZ Kivi
Rb¨ Zv‡`i mgqgZ we‡q †`qv| Avgiv we‡q bvgK mvgvwRK Abyôv‡b bvbviKg
we`ÕAvZ †hvM K‡i G‡K GK cªKvi wewfwlKvq iƒcvš—wiZ K‡i †d‡jwQ| A_P
G¸‡jv ev` w`‡j GUv Lye GKUv KwVb wKQy bq|
awi Avgvi we‡q| evev ney RvgvB‡K ejj Ò†Zvgvi bZyb PvKzix, GLb †Mvì
†`qv Ri“ix bq| c‡i Zywg hLb cv‡iv ZLb Zywg †Zvgvi †eŠ‡K B‡”QgZ wK‡b
w`‡qvÓ| ney RvgvB ej‡jb, ÒAvwg †hŠZyK †bebv, w`‡j we‡qB Ki‡ev bvÓ|
Avwg ejjvg, ÒMv‡q njỳ we`ÕAvZ, myZivs Mv‡q njỳ Kiv, we‡q evox‡Z jvBU
jvMv‡bv hv‡ebv| eis H cwigvY UvKv Zywg †Kvb Mixe †g‡qi we‡q w`‡Z LiP
†Kvi| G‡Z nq‡Zv Avgv‡`i we‡q‡Z Avj−vn eiKZ †`‡ebÓ| e¨vm, Aí msL¨K
AvZ¥xq ¯^Rb eÜyevÜe LvB‡q, GK Abyôv‡b we‡q n‡q †Mj| `yB cwiev‡iiB
mvg_¨© wQj RvuKRgK K‡i we‡qi Abyôvb Kivi| wKš‘ Avgiv Avbw›`Z †h
Avgiv Avgv‡`i evev-gv‡K Avgv‡`i we‡q Dcj‡¨ †Kvb Kó †fvM Ki‡Z
†`Bwb|
Avevi A‡bK mgq gvby‡li we‡q Ki‡Z †`ix n‡q hvq Òc¨v‡KRÓ LyuR‡Z
LyuR‡Z| †Q‡j Kx K‡i KqUv evwo Av‡Q †g‡q †`L‡Z Hk¦h© iv‡qi †P‡q
my›`ix wKÕbv| †hB criteria †`‡L we‡q Kiv cª‡qvRb †m¸‡jv wbM„wnZ nq| d‡j
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wKQyw`‡bi g‡a¨B ïi“ nq mgm¨v| nq †mcv‡ikb, bq Akvwš—c~Y©fv‡e mnve¯’vb,
bB‡j me‡P‡q Lvivc Ae¯’vq ci¯ú‡ii mv‡_ Ae¯’vb K‡iI PvwiwÎKfv‡e
weP~¨Z n‡q cov| evev-gv‡K wbe©vPb Ki‡Z n‡e gvbyl †`‡L, mš—vb‡KI
GÕe¨vcv‡i evev-gv‡K DrmvwnZ Ki‡Z n‡e †h gvbyl †Kgb GUvB Zvi g~j j¨
Ges hw` Gi Rb¨ Zv‡K wKQy Qvo w`‡Z nq Zv‡Z †m Abyrmvnx bq| me‡P‡q
eo K_v Avwg GLb †_‡KB Avgvi mš—vb‡`i Rb¨ `yÕAv Kwi †hb Avj−vn Zv‡`i
Rb¨ m‡e©vËg m½x wgwj‡q †`b Ges Avgv‡`i gb‡K Zv‡`i Rb¨ Ggbfv‡e
Db¥y³ K‡i †`b hv‡Z Avgiv Zv‡`i wb‡R‡`i mš—vb †_‡K c„_Kfv‡e bv †`wL|
me‡P‡q eo †h Ab¨vqwU Avgiv wb‡Ri mš—v‡bi mv‡_ Kwi Zv n‡jv Zvi cªwZ
ccvwZZ¡ Kiv| ccvwZZ¡ hvi wei“‡× Kiv nq Zvi †P‡qI †ekx wZ Kiv
nq †m mš—vbwUi hvi cªwZ ccvwZZ¡ Kiv nq| mvaviYZ G‡nb AvPi‡Yi
†cQ‡b evev ev AwaKvsk †‡Î gv‡qi GKUv myß D‡Ïk¨ _v‡K| †Kvb †Kvb
†‡Î gv GB mš—vbwU‡K e¨venvi K‡ib Kv‡iv wei“‡×- †mUv n‡Z cv‡i Zvui
¯^vgx, k¦vïox ev †Q‡ji †eŠ| KL‡bv mš—v‡bi fw³ Zv‡K GB mš—v‡bi Ici
AwZgvÎvq wbf©ikxj K‡i †Zv‡j| wKš‘ †mB mš—vbwU hLb eyS‡Z cv‡i †h †m
e¨eüZ nevi wewbg‡q wKQy we‡kl myweav Av`vq Ki‡Z cv‡i ev †Kvb Ab¨vq
K‡iI scot free †eu‡P †h‡Z cv‡i, ZLb †mI GB special status Dc‡fvM
Ki‡Z ïi“ K‡i| wKš‘ Kvh©Z G‡Z †m †jLvcov dvuwK w`‡Z ïi“ K‡i, Kv‡Ri
cªwZ wb¯ú„nv n‡q c‡o, ciwbf©ikxj n‡q c‡o, wbj©¾ I ¯^v_©ci n‡q hvq Ges
†kl ch©š— cwiev‡ii mevi weiw³i KviY wn‡m‡e cwiev‡ii Ab¨vb¨ m`m¨‡`i
†_‡K wew”Qbœ n‡q c‡o| GKRb wcZv ev gvZv mš—v‡bi Gi †P‡q eo Avi Kx
wZ Ki‡Z cv‡ib G‡‡Î wcZv-gvZvi cvi¯úwiK civgk©µ‡g mš—vb jvjbcvjb
Kiv, mš—vb‡K wb‡R‡`i g‡a¨ power playi ¸wU bv evbv‡bv Ges
wb‡R‡`i ga¨Kvi mgm¨v mš—vb‡K eyS‡Z bv †`qv AZ¨š— Ri“ix|
Pvicv‡k †`LwQ, wkLwQ, fyj KiwQ Avevi ms‡kvab KiwQ| mš—v‡bi mv‡_ cªwZwU
g~n~Z©B †Zv Avm‡j GK bZyb AwfÁZv, KviY cªwZwU wkï Avjv`v ¯^fvePwiÎ
wb‡q Rb¥vq, cª‡Z¨K‡K ch©‡eY K‡i Zv‡K †evSvi †Póv Ki‡Z nq, Zvici
Zv‡K WKfv‡e †evSv‡bv hvq Zv wba©viY Kiv m¤¢e nq|
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P¨vcUvi 13
b_© Av‡gwiKvi
wKQz ev¯—e wPÎ
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
b_©-Av‡gwiKvi nvB¯‹z‡ji
wKQz ev¯—e wPÎ
GLvbKvi nvB¯‹z‡ji wKQz ev¯—e wPÎ K‡qKRb wk‡Ki AwfÁvi Av‡jv‡K
wkYxq wn‡m‡e Zz‡j aiv n‡jv| †hgb t
• G‡`‡ki mš—v‡biv mvaviYZ nvB¯‹zj †_‡KB cÖPÛ †eqv`e n‡q hvq hv
wPš—vi evB‡i|
• Zviv K¬v‡k wkK‡K m¤§vb K‡i bv ev Av`e †`Lvq bv|
• eq‡d«Û Mvj©‡d«Û K¬vk Pjv Kv‡jB K¬v‡ki g‡a¨ Awk−jZv †`Lvq|
• ¯‹z‡ji Kwo‡Wvi ev njI‡q‡Z †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i Pzgyi `„k¨ Ges RovRwoi
`„‡k¨i eb¨v e‡q hvq|
• ¯‹z‡ji g‡a¨ †Q‡j †g‡qi †Kv‡j ev †g‡q †Q‡ji †Kv‡ji Dci e‡m
_v‡K Ggb wK K¬v‡mi g‡a¨I|
• K¬vk PjvKv‡j †mj †dv‡bi g‡a¨‡g G‡K Ac‡ii g‡a¨ †U· g¨v‡mR
cvVv‡Z _v‡K ev AvB †dv‡b B›Uvi‡bU eªvDR K‡i _v‡K|
• K¬vk PjvKv‡j Kv‡bi g‡a¨ †nW †dvb jvwM‡q AvBc‡Wi gva¨‡g Mvb
ïb‡Z _v‡K|
• wk‡Ki mvg‡bB †Pqv‡i e‡m †Uwe‡ji Dci cv DwV‡q _v‡K|
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• wkKiv A‡bK wel‡qB QvÎ-QvÎx‡`i kvmb Ki‡Z fq cvb KviY
GLvbKvi AvBb AbyhvB †Kvb QvÎ ev QvÎx wk‡Ki wei“‡× Awf‡hvM
Ki‡j Zvi PvKzix P‡j †h‡Z cv‡i|
• ¯‹zj QzwUi ci mveI‡q‡Z Ges evm÷‡c †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i g‡a¨ av°vavw°,
GKRb Av‡iK R‡bi wc‡Vi Dci DVv, mK‡ji mvg‡b eq‡d«Û-
Mvj©‡d«Û G‡K Aci‡K Rwo‡q a‡i _vKv, we`vq Kv‡j wKm †`qv
BZ¨vw`i `„k¨ we‡Kj 3Uv 4Uvi w`‡K †Pv‡L c‡i|
• mveI‡qi GB `„k¨ †`‡L A‡bK wcZv-gvZvivB AevK n‡q ZvwK‡q
_v‡Kb wKš‘ wKQz ej‡Z cv‡ib bv| A‡b‡KB Ab¨w`‡K gyL Nywi‡q
iv‡Lb j¾vq|
K¨vbvWvi wUb-GBRvi‡`i eZ©gvb Ae¯’v
B`vwbs Avgiv wUwf wbD‡R Ges Le‡ii KvM‡R cªvqB †`LwQ K¨vbvWvi †Kv_vI
bv †Kv_vI wUb-GBRvi Lyb nIqvi NUbv| Gi g‡a¨ †ek K‡qKwU NUbv N‡U‡Q
nvB¯‹zj¸‡jv‡Z, ¯‹z‡ji †fZ‡i A_ev ¯‹z‡ji mvg‡b ¸wj K‡i nZ¨v KvÊ NUv‡bv
n‡q‡Q| GQvovI jvk cvIqv hv‡”Q Av‡k-cv‡ki RsMj ev †Svc-Sv‡oi g‡a¨|
G ai‡Yi NUbvi g~‡j i‡q‡Q eÜz‡`i g‡a¨ SMov-SvwU| G †`‡ki bb-gymwjg
gv‡qivI Zvi wUbGBR †g‡q‡`i‡K wb‡q Lye wPwš—Z, †Kvb gv-B Pvb bv †h Zvi
†g‡qUv GB eq‡mB cª¨vM‡b›U n‡q hvK| ZvB †md&wU ¯^iƒc Zviv Zv‡`i
†g‡q‡`i Rb¨ KÛg wK‡b Zvi ¯‹zj e¨v‡Mi †fZi w`‡q iv‡Lb KviY, cÖ‡qvR‡bi
mgq †m GB K›Uªv‡mcwUf †hb nv‡Zi Kv‡Q cvq| ZvB e‡j GUv ejv n‡”Q bv
†h gymwjg gv‡qivI Zv wK‡b Zv‡`i †g‡qi e¨v‡M †i‡L w`K| eis Avgvi
†g‡q‡K KziAvb nv`x‡mi Av‡jv‡K Ggbfv‡e ˆZix Ki‡Z n‡e hv‡Z Avgv‡K Zv
wK‡b w`‡Z bv nq ev Avgvi †g‡qi Zv we‡qi Av‡M KL‡bvB cÖ‡qvRb bv c‡o|
Avevi A‡bK Agymwjg gv‡qiv-B Pvb Zvi ¯‹zj co–qv †g‡qUvi h‡Zv ZvovZvwo
m¤¢e GKRb eq‡d«Û †hb n‡q hvq| KviY Zvi hw` GKUv wbw`©ó eq‡dªÛ bv
_v‡K Zvn‡j †m Zvi †hŠb AvKv•v †gUv‡bvi Rb¨ G‡KK w`b G‡KK †Q‡ji
mv‡_ weQvbvq hv‡e, bv, Zvi‡P‡q fvj GKRb _vKv|
eq‡dªÛ-Mvj©‡d«Û KvjPvi
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Avgiv Rvwb GLvbKvi †Rbv‡ij ¯‹zj¸‡jv‡Z †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i wkvi Ggb †Kvb
e¨e¯’v †bB †h †mLv‡b BmjvwgK KvjPvi †kLv‡bv nq| Zviv GUv wk‡L bv †h
GKUv A¨vWvë †Q‡j Ges GKUv A¨vWvë †g‡qi g‡a¨ GKwU wbw`©ó `~iZ¡ eRvq
†i‡L Pj‡Z nq| eis GLvbKvi KvjPvi n‡”Q †h nvB¯‹zj †_‡KB eq‡dªÛ-
Mvj©‡d«Û m¤úK© ˆZix Kiv| Ges hv‡`i eq‡dªÛ ev Mvj©‡d«Û †bB Zv‡`i‡K
A‡b¨iv GKUz Ab¨iKg †Pv‡LB †`‡L _v‡K| GQvov Zviv wb‡RivI A‡bK mgq
GB Kvi‡Y nxbgb¨Zvq fy‡M| ZviciI Av‡iv K_v †_‡K hvq| GB eq‡mi gbI
Pvq †mUv, Zvi Dci Avevi AevwiZ cwi‡ek| mevi eq‡dªÛ-Mvj©‡d«Û Av‡Q
wKš‘ Avgvi †Q‡ji ev †g‡qi †bB Zv Zv‡`i g‡bI h‡_ó cªfve we¯—vi K‡i|
Avgv‡`i A‡bK gymwjg †Q‡j‡g‡qivB GB cÖfv‡e c‡o eq‡dªÛ-Mvj©‡d«Û m¤úK©
ˆZix K‡i wKš‘ evev-gv †h‡nZz cQ›` K‡ib bv †m‡nZz Zv Zviv mevi wbKU
jywK‡q †i‡L evB‡iB KvRUv †m‡i evmvq Av‡m| GLv‡b Zv‡`i †Kvb †`vl †`qv
hv‡e wK KviY AvgivB‡Zv Zv‡`i‡K GLv‡b G‡b GB cwi‡e‡k †Q‡o w`‡qwQ|
g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, Avgvi mš—vb †Kv-GWy‡Kk‡b c‡o Ges 8-10 N›Uv evmvi
evB‡i _v‡K| b_©-Av‡gwiKvb 15-16 eQi eqm †_‡KB †Q‡j‡g‡qiv G‡K
Ac‡ii mv‡_ †m· Ki‡Z cv‡i| †mBd&wUi Rb¨ ¯‹y‡ji Iqvki“g¸‡jv‡ZI KÛg
†fwÛs †gwkb Gi e¨e¯’v Av‡Q| GKevi Lye Mfxifv‡e wPš—v K‡i †`wL Avwg
wb‡RI hw` GB eq‡m GB dªx †m‡·i †`‡k AvmZvg Avi GB †Lvjv‡gjv
cwi‡ek †cZvg Zvn‡j Kx KiZvg ZvB Avwg wK m‡PZb n‡ev bv Avgvi mš—
vb‡`i Rb¨ wK cÖ‡qvRbxq c`‡c †b‡ev bv
†Kv-GWy‡Kk‡bi cÖfve ev djvdj
†Kv-GWy‡Kkb gv‡b †Q‡j‡g‡qiv GKB mg‡q GKB ¯’v‡b, GKB †kªYxK‡ e‡m
cov‡jLv Kiv| hvi `xN©‡gqv`x djvdj A‡bK †‡ÎB Lvivc n‡”Q| G‡Z bvbv
ai‡Yi mgm¨vi m„wó n‡”Q| GgbwK A‡bK †‡ÎB †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i gv‡S A‰ea
m¤ú‡K©i cÖfve cwijwZ n‡”Q| hw`I cwðgv `„wó‡Z I AvBbvbymv‡i GB
m¤úK© ‰ea| G m¤ú‡K© evsjv‡`‡ki GKwU wPÎ †`wL| evsjv‡`k AeRvf©vi
cwÎKvq Wv. mvewibv wKD ikx` GKwU AvwU©K¨v‡j wj‡L‡Qb, Ôc~‡e© KL‡bv Avgiv
Wv³v‡iiv GZ AwaK msL¨K AweevwnZ Aí eq¯‹ †g‡q‡K Mf©eZx n‡Z
†`wLwbÕ| wZwb G gš—e¨ mnwkv cÖwZôv‡bi †g‡q‡`i m¤ú‡K© Ki‡Z wM‡q
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cÖe‡Ü D‡j−L K‡ib - QvÎ-QvÎx‡`i cvi¯úwiK K_vevZ©v †kl ch©š— Avi ïay
K_vi g‡a¨ mxgve× _v‡K bv| G¸‡jv cieZ©x‡Z ¯úk© ch©v‡q †cuŠ‡Q hvq| G
eq‡mi QvÎ-QvÎx‡`i g‡a¨ †hŠb ni‡gv‡bi wbtmiY nIqvq †h †Kvb ¯úk© kixi
I g‡b Av¸b awi‡q †`q| GwU †Q‡j‡`i †‡Î †ewk N‡U| †Kbbv †g‡qiv GKUz
VvÊv n‡jI †Q‡jiv A‡bK †ewk Av‡eMcÖeY| myZivs †g‡qiv †Q‡j‡`i eÜz
wn‡m‡e wb‡Z PvB‡jI †Q‡jiv Zvi †P‡q A‡bK †ewk fv‡e|
†mRb¨ Wv. mvewibv mnwkv cÖwZôv‡bi †g‡q‡`i †Q‡j‡`i m‡½ Aeva
†gjv‡gkv bv Ki‡Z Ges wbivc` `~iZ¡ iv K‡i Pj‡Z e‡j‡Qb| Wv. mvewebv
ikx‡`i civgk© hyw³hy³| evsjv‡`‡ki g‡Zv GKwU gymwjg †`‡ki wPÎ hw` nq
Ggb Zvn‡j AvR‡K GB DbœZ †`k¸‡jv‡Z †h Avgv‡`i †Q‡j‡g‡qiv †Kv-
GWy‡Kk‡b eo n‡”Q Zv‡`i Kx Ae¯’v Avmyb GKUz †f‡e †`wL|
ZvQvov wPš—v Kiv DwPZ †h †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K `y‡Uv wfbœ Avw½‡K, wfbœ †gRv‡R,
wfbœ Pvwn`v I kvixwiK MV‡b, wfbœ cwi‡e‡k, wfbœ e¯¿ cwiavb Kivi Av‡`k
w`‡q mªóv m„wó K‡i‡Qb| Zvn‡j wKfv‡e Zv‡`i g‡a¨ mªóvi Av‡`k e¨wZ‡i‡K
wgj ev eÜzZ¡ n‡Z cv‡i (we‡q Qvov wK m¤¢e!) Z‡e †h‡nZz Zv‡`i mv‡_
AvcvZZ K¬vm Ki‡ZB n‡”Q Kv‡RB Zv‡`i Dfq c‡iB AvPiY AZ¨š—
mZK©Zvi mv‡_ dg©vj nIqv DwPZ, Nwbó bq hv‡Z wZKi AvPi‡Yi my‡hvM bv
_v‡K|
Bmjvg †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K Aev‡a Pjv‡div Kiv, webv cÖ‡qvR‡b cvkvcvwk e‡m
K_v ejv, iv¯—v w`‡q hvIqv, kwcs g‡j GKmv‡_ †KbvKvUv Ki‡Z hvIqv BZ¨vw`
wbi“rmvwnZ Ki‡Q| Awd‡m ev Kg©¯’‡j cyi“l I gwnjv GKUv wbivc` `~iZ¡
e¨wZ‡i‡K cvkvcvwk KvR KivI wbwl× †NvlYv Ki‡Q| †Q‡j I †g‡q Df‡qB
gvbyl; gvbyl †m‡nZz Zv‡`i gv‡S wfbœZvI Av‡Q| Avj−vn iveŸyj Avjvgxb
†g‡q‡`i †`n‡K †Kvgjiƒ‡c m„wó K‡i‡Qb| bgªZv, webq, gvqv ggZvi AvwaK¨
Ges cÖLi †mŠ›`h©vbyf~wZ Zuv‡`i Pwi‡Îi f~lY| d‡j Zv‡`i gv‡S cÖfve MÖn‡Yi
cÖeYZv †ewk|
Ab¨w`‡K AvR‡Ki mgv‡Ri ev¯—e wPÎB n‡jv Gme Avj−vn cÖ`Ë MRe|
†ijMvwo †hgb Avcb Avcb jvBb a‡i D¤§v‡`i gZ Qz‡U P‡j‡Q, Kv‡iv mv‡_
Kv‡iv msNvZ †bB, wVK Gfv‡eB Avj−vni wb‡`©k gvb¨ K‡i Avgiv hw` Avcb
Avcb mxgv‡iLvi g‡a¨ Pjv‡div Kwi, Zvn‡j Avgv‡`i Rxe‡b †Kvbiƒc Akvwš—
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Avm‡e bv| Avgiv hZY Avj−vni ûKzg ev weavb †g‡b Pj‡ev, ZZY Avj−vni
mg¯— m„wó Avgv‡`i c n‡q Avgv‡`i mvnvh¨ Ki‡e| †hgb Av¸b mvnvh¨
K‡iwQj Beªvwng (Av.)-†K| cvwb mvnvh¨ K‡iwQj g~mv (Av.)-†K, Qzwi mvnvh¨
K‡iwQj nhiZ BmgvCj (Av.)-†K| Avi hw` Avj−vni weavb Agvb¨ K‡i wb‡Ri
Lywkg‡Zv Lvg‡Lqvjxfv‡e Pjv‡div Kwi, Z‡e Avj−vni mg¯— m„wó Avgvi wei“‡×
`uvov‡e| †hgb (Red Sea) †jvwnZ mvM‡ii cvwb †divD‡bi wei“‡× j‡owQj,
Avj−vni m„wó gkv †hgb bgiƒ‡`i wei“‡× j‡owQj, Avevwej cvwL †hgb j‡owQj
ev`kv Aveivnv I Zvi weivU nvZx I ˆmb¨evwnbxi wei“‡× BZ¨vw`|
Avgv‡`i mwZ¨Kvi KvjPvi Kx
NUbv-GK t Avwg GKw`b Ui‡›Uv‡Z ev‡m K‡i evqZzj †gvKviig gmwR‡`i
w`‡K hvw”Q| †gBb †÷kb mveI‡q †_‡K `yÕRb f`ª gwnjv D‡V‡Qb, c¨v›U-mvU©
cov, nq‡Zv KvR †_‡K wdi‡Qb| GKRb Avgvi cv‡ki Lvwj wm‡U e‡m‡Qb
Ges AciRb `vwo‡q Mí Ki‡Qb| Zviv evsjvq Mí Ki‡Qb e‡j Avwg cv‡k
e‡m ïbvi B”Qv bv _vKv m‡Ë¡I meB kyb‡Z cviwQ| Zviv g~jZ Avgv‡`i
KvjPvi wb‡q K_v ej‡Qb| Avwg Zv‡`i `yÕR‡bi Avjv‡ci wKQzUv Ask
Avgv‡`i wkYxq wnmv‡e Zz‡j aiwQ|
1g gwnjv t fvex, Avcbviv †Zv K¨vbvWvq A‡bK w`b n‡jv, Avcbvi †g‡qiv
evsjv‡`kx KvjPvi fy‡j hv‡”Q bv
2q gwnjv t bv bv fvex, Avwg †Zv G e¨vcv‡i Lye m‡PZb| Avwg Avgvi
†g‡q‡`i‡K evsjv Mv‡bi Ges bv‡Pi ¯‹z‡j fwZ© K‡i w`‡qwQ, Iiv bvP-Mvb
`y‡UvB wkL‡Q, GQvov Iiv cÖwZ eQi ˆekvLx †gjvq c¨v›U-kvU© bv c‡i kvwo c‡i
_v‡K, †mLv‡b †÷‡R bv‡P, dzj wb‡q GKz‡ki †gjvqI hvq| Avi Avgvi eo
†g‡qUv †Zv ïUwK fZv© †L‡Z Lye cQ›` K‡i| BZ¨vw` BZ¨vw`|
we‡k−lY t †`Lyb GB f`ª gwnjvi Kv‡Q KvjPvi gv‡b Bmjvg we‡ivax KvR-
Kg©! gymwjg KvjPvi †_‡K KZ `~‡i! Avm‡j ïay GB gwnjv †Kb, Avgv‡`i
evsjv‡`‡ki †ekxifvM gvby‡li Kv‡QB KvjPvi gv‡b AvbBmjvwgK KvR
Kvievi| Avi Avgv‡`i †`‡k cÖwZ eQi c‡njv ˆekv‡L XvKv BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z hv
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nq Zv †ec`©v Avi †envqvcbv Qvov wKQzB bq| Bmjvg KL‡bv GB RvZxq Aeva
†gjv‡gkv Aby‡gv`b K‡i bv|
NUbv-`yB t Ui‡›Uvi GKUv evsjv‡`kx †gjvq Avgiv Bmjv‡gi `vIqvwZ
g¨vUvwiqvjm wWw÷weDk‡bi D‡Ï‡k¨ ÷j w`‡qwQjvg| D‡Øvabx w`‡bi GKwU
NUbv Avgv‡`i wkYxq wnmv‡e Zz‡j aiwQ| XvKv BDwbfvwm©wUi eUZjvi g‡ZvB
Lye my›`i K‡i †÷BR mvRv‡bv n‡q‡Q| cÖavb AwZw_ wnmv‡e evsjv‡`‡ki G·
†cÖwm‡W›U Avm‡Qb kyf D‡Øvab Kivi Rb¨| mK‡jB cÖavb AwZw_i Rb¨
A‡cgvb, †h †Kvb mgq wZwb G‡m co‡eb|
wPÎ 1 t cÖavb AwZw_ h_v mg‡q Avm‡jb| AwW‡Uvwiqv‡gi †M‡U GK`j †g‡q
Mv‡bi Zv‡j Zv‡j †b‡P cÖavb AwZw_‡K ¯^vMZg Rvbv‡jv Ges bvP †k‡l GKwU
†g‡q Zvi Mjvq dz‡ji gvjv cwo‡q w`j| GwU wQj cÖavb AwZw_‡K eiY Kivi
cÖ_g ce©|
wPÎ 2 t Gevi cÖavb AwZw_‡K eiY Kivi wØZxq ce©| AwZw_ g~j †÷‡Ri
KvQvKvwQ †M‡jb Ges c~e© †_‡KB BDwbfvwm©wU co–qv `ywU hyeZx †g‡q bv‡Pi
mv‡R †m‡R †÷‡Ri g‡a¨ Av‡M †_‡KB wmR`viZ Ae¯’vq i‡q‡Q Ges †g‡q `ywU
wmR`vi gva¨‡g cÖavb AwZw_‡K eiY Ki‡jv g‡bvgy»Ki bv‡Pi Zv‡j Zv‡j|
Gevi cÖavb AwZw_ Zvi wbR Avmb MÖnY Ki‡jb|
we‡k−lY t †cÖvMÖvg †k‡l GK f`ª‡jvK GK †g‡qi evev‡K ej‡Qb, ÒfvB
Avcbvi †g‡q †Zv Lye my›`i †b‡P‡Q!Ó †g‡qi evev‡Zv GB K‡g›Um ï‡b Lye
Lywk, Zvi eyKUv †hb M‡e© f‡i †Mj| †`Lyb Avgv‡`i KvjPv‡ii Ae¯’v| Avgvi
†g‡q †÷‡R †b‡P †`n cÖ`k©‡bi gva¨‡g Ab¨ cyi“‡li gb Rq Ki‡Q Avi Avwg
evev n‡q †mRb¨ Me©‡eva KiwQ, g‡b Lye Avb›` cvw”Q, Z…wß cvw”Q, kvwš— cvw”Q|
Avi we‡kl wKQy wjL‡Z PvB bv Avkv Kwi Avgiv evev-gv‡qiv m‡PZb n‡ev|
Avgiv mevB Rvwb GKgvÎ gnvb Avj−vn Qvov Avi Kv‡iv mvg‡bB gv_vbZ
(wmR`v) Kiv hv‡e bv, Avi †KD hw` K‡i Zv n‡e mivmwi wkiK, Avi wki‡Ki
¸bvn Avj−vn KL‡bv gv Ki‡eb bv| hviv Avj−vn‡K wek¦vm K‡i wKš‘ Zvi mv‡_
mv‡_ Ab¨ wKQz kwiK K‡i Zv‡`i‡K ejv nq gykwiK, Avj−vni AvBb Abyhvqx
gykwiKiv gymwjg bq|
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f¨vbKzfv‡ii nvB¯‹z‡ji GKwU NUbv
2008 mv‡ji Ryb gv‡mi GKwU NUbv| K¨vbvWvi f¨vbKzfv‡ii GKwU nvB¯‹z‡ji
Uz‡qj&f †MÖ‡Wi 12 Rb wUbGBR †g‡qi kL n‡jv Zviv b¨vs‡Uv n‡q dzUej
†Lj‡e| GUv wQj Zv‡`i nvB¯‹zj MÖvRy‡qk‡bi Avb›` cÖKv‡ki GKUv Ask|
ixwZg‡Zv Zviv b¨vs‡Uv n‡q GKUv UzY©v‡g›UI †L‡jwQj| GB †Ljv Dcj‡
`k©K I wgwWqv Dcw¯’Z wQj †mLv‡b Ges c‡ii w`b Qwemn B›Uvi‡b‡U cÖKvkI
n‡qwQj| G n‡jv cvðvZ¨ †`‡ki gvby‡li ¯^vaxbZv Dc‡fv‡Mi bgybv|
A‡b‡Ki Kv‡Q g‡b n‡Z cv‡i †h Gme wK wjLv n‡”Q GLv‡b ¯‹zj-K‡jR co–qv
mš—vb‡`i gv-evev‡`i `„wó AvKl©‡Yi D‡Ï‡k¨ AwZ ¸i“Z¡c~Y© wKQz wel‡qi Dci
Av‡jvKcvZ Kiv n‡q‡Q| Avwg †h †`‡k _vwK Zvi ÒAvBb-Kvbyb Ges ivBUmÓ
Avgv‡K †g‡b wb‡Z n‡eB| Ges hv ev¯—e Zvi †gvKv‡ejv Ki‡Z n‡e my›`i
Dcv‡q| Zv bvn‡j †`Lv hv‡e K‡qK †Rbv‡ikb c‡i Avgv‡`i Avi †Kvb Aw¯—Z¡
_vK‡e bv, _vK‡e bv gymwjg‡Z¡i †Kvb bvg MÜI|
wUb-GBRvi‡`i Dci GKwU Rwic
World Health Organization (WHO) 2004 mv‡j 15 eQ‡ii Kg eqmx
†Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i Dci GKwU Rwic Pvjvq| Rwi‡c †`Lv †M‡Q †h weª‡U‡b G
ai‡Yi †Q‡j‡g‡qiv kZKiv 30 Rb †hŠb¯^v` †bq| kZKiv 66 Rb Gj‡Kvnj
cvb K‡i gvZjvgx K‡i, AwaKvskB cÖwZ mßv‡n g` Lvq| kZKiv 30 Rb
Cannabis ev MvuRv †meb K‡i| 15 eQi eq‡m †cŠuQ‡ZB kZKiv 50 Rb
†Q‡j‡g‡q g` Lvq, kZKiv 25 Rb †g‡q a~gcv‡b Af¨¯— n‡q hvq| Avi GUv
ïay weª‡U‡bi wPÎ bq| cy‡iv BD‡ivc-Av‡gwiKvi ms¯‹…wZUvB Ggb| Rwi‡c †`Lv
†M‡Q BD‡iv‡ci †h †`k¸wj‡Z 15 eQi eq‡mi g‡a¨B †g‡qiv †hŠb¯^v` †bq
Zvi g‡a¨ m‡ev©”P cwimsL¨v‡b i‡q‡Q t MÖxYj¨vÛ, Bsj¨vÛ, I‡qjm, ¯‹Uj¨vÛ|
G ai‡Yi GKwU Rwi‡ci djvdj Avgv‡`i Rb¨ MÖnY‡hvM¨ bq| wKš‘ n‡Z cv‡i
Zv‡`i Rb¨ GUv mnbxq I MÖnY‡hvM¨| Gi KviY n‡jv Rxeb m¤^‡Ü Zv‡`i
†eva, g~j¨‡eva I `„wófw½|
K¨vbvWv GKwU Free Sex Country A_v©r BD‡ivc Av‡gwiKvi gZ GLv‡b
†Q‡j‡g‡qiv †h †Kvb ai‡Yi †hŠbKg© m¤úv`b Ki‡Z cv‡i| G‡Z ivóª ev
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cwiev‡ii c n‡Z †Kvb evav †`qvi weavb †bB| Z‡e `ywU Soft AvBbx kZ©
i‡q‡Q †h Dfq c‡K 15 eQi ev Gi †P‡q †ekx eq‡mi n‡Z n‡e Ges KvRwU
Dfq c‡i m¤§wZ‡Z n‡Z n‡e| GQvov Avi †Kvb AvBwb ev ˆbwZK evav †bB|
GLv‡b GKwU †Q‡j Avi GKwU †Q‡j‡K Ges GKwU †g‡q Avi GKwU †g‡q‡K
Same Sex Marriage Law Abyhvqx we‡qI Ki‡Z cv‡i|
K¨vbvWvq wUbGBR †cÖM‡bwÝi nvi K‡g‡Q
The Sex Information and Education Council of Canada Zv‡`i
M‡elYvq †c‡q‡Q †h 1996 mvj †_‡K 2006 mv‡ji g‡a¨ K¨vbvWvq wUbGBR
†cÖM‡bwÝi nvi 37% K‡g‡Q| ïay K¨vbvWvqB bq Av‡gwiKvq 25% K‡g‡Q,
Bsj¨v‡Û 4.75% K‡‡g‡Q wKš‘ myB‡W‡b 19.1% †e‡o‡Q| 1996 mv‡j cÖwZ
1000 Rb 15 †_‡K 19 eQ‡ii wUbGB‡Ri Dci Rwic K‡i †`Lv †M‡Q Kg
ev_© †iU K¨vbvWvq 27.9%, myB‡W‡b 31.4%, Bsj¨v‡Û 60.3% Ges
Av‡gwiKvq 61.2 †cÖMb¨v›U n‡q‡Q|
GB †cÖMb¨vwÝi nvi K‡g‡Q e‡j g‡b Kiv hv‡e bv †h Zviv G‡K Ac‡ii mv‡_
†m· Kiv Kwg‡q w`‡q‡Q| Avm‡j Zv bq| Rwi‡c Gi KviY wn‡m‡e ejv n‡q‡Q
†h t
AvRKvjKvi †g‡qiv LyeB ¯§vU©, Zviv LyeB m‡PZb, Zviv IqvwKs wK¬wb‡K wM‡q
civgk© †bq| Rwi‡c Av‡iv †`Lv †M‡Q †h 16 †_‡K 17 eq‡mi wUbGBRvi‡`i
50% Sexually active|
wUbGBR gv‡`i eZ©gvb Ae¯’v
30 †_‡K 39 eq‡mi gwnjv‡`i Dci Rwic K‡i †`Lv †h hviv wUbGBR eq‡m
gv n‡q‡Q Zviv LyeB `vwi`ªZvi g‡a¨ Rxeb-hvcb Ki‡Q| Gi KviY wn‡m‡e
†`Lv †M‡Q †h Zv‡`i †ekxi fvMB nvB¯‹zj †kl Ki‡Z cv‡iwb, †ekx `~i Avi
cov‡kvbv Ki‡Z cv‡iwb|
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_© Av‡gwiKvq wUbGBR g`¨cvb cÖKU
AvKvi aviY K‡i‡Q
b_© Av‡gwiKvq wUbGBR g`¨cvb cÖKU AvKvi aviY K‡i‡Q| GB g`¨cv‡bi
gva¨‡g Zviv Wªv‡Mi mv‡_ Rwo‡q hv‡”Q| hviv g`¨cv‡b GwWK‡UW n‡q hv‡”Q
Zv‡`i g‡a¨ wKQy gvbwlK cÖwZwµqv j¨ Kiv hvq|
• Avm³ nIqvi Rb¨ Av‡iv Gj‡Kvnj cÖ‡qvRb nq|
• Gj‡Kvnj eÜ K‡i w`‡j Zviv fvj mgm¨vq c‡i hvq|
• Zviv hv Pvq Zvi †P‡q †ekx mgq a‡i Gj‡Kvnj cvb Ki‡Q|
• Gj‡Kvnj Gi Kvi‡Y Zviv Rxe‡b Av‡iv mgm¨vq c‡i|
Rwi‡c Av‡iv wKQz Z_¨ Rvbv †M‡Q †h,
• Rywbqi nvB¯‹zj Ges wmwbqi nvB¯‹y‡ji A‡a©K QvÎ-QvÎxiv cÖwZ gv‡m
Gj‡Kvnj cvb K‡i Ges Av‡gwiKvq 13,000 GiI †ekx ev”Pviv Ges
wUbGBRviiv cÖwZw`bB Gj‡Kvnj cvb K‡i|
• weMZ eQ‡i Aš—Zc‡ 14% wUbGBR GKevi g‡` Avm³ nq|
• 8% wUbGBR hviv Gj‡Kvnj cvb K‡i Ges Zviv Aš—Zc‡ cuvP
A_ev Zvi †P‡q †ekx Gj‡Kvnj RvZxq wKQz Zv‡`i Lv`¨ ZvwjKvq
iv‡L|
• Av‡gwiKvb cÖvß eq‡¯‹v 21 eQ‡ii Dc‡i hviv Gj‡Kvnj cvb K‡i
Zv‡`i †_‡K †ekx msL¨K 15 eq‡mi Av‡M wUbGBR Ae¯’vq
Gj‡Kvnj cvb K‡i|
• cÖwZ eQi 1,400 K‡jR QvÎ-QvÎx hv‡`i eqm 18 †_‡K 24 Zviv
Gj‡Kvnj msµvš— `~N©Ubvq gviv hvq|
Gj‡Kvnj cvbKvixi wKQz PvwiwÎK wmgUg
1. ï‡q _vK‡Z cQ›` K‡i|
2. memgq bvbv iKg AhynvZ †`Lvq|
3. wbqg f½ K‡i|
4. memgq wb‡Ri i“‡g _vK‡Z cQ›` K‡i|
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5. Ab¨‡`i mv‡_ ZK© K‡i|
6. cwi®‹vi cwi”QbœZv n«vm cvq|
7. Zvi wb‡Ri e¨eüZ wRwbm¸‡jvi mv‡_ Gj‡Kvn‡ji m¤úK© _v‡K|
8. cÖk¦v‡m Ges kixi w`‡q MÜ †ei nq|
9. †gRvR DVvbvgv K‡i|
10. Pzwi Kivi A‡f¨m M‡o D‡V|
11. cªvq eÜz cwieZ©b K‡i|
12. kix‡ii Pvgov †dKv‡m †`Lv hvq|
13. ¯§iY kw³ Kg‡Z _v‡K|
mš—v‡bi Rb¥`vZv ÔwcZvÕ †K
ÔgvÕ Zv Rv‡b bv !
Av‡gwiKv-K¨vbvWvi wUwf‡Z cÖwZ w`b Jerry Ges Murry bv‡g mwZ¨ NUbv
Aej¤^‡b `ywU Abyôvb cÖPvwiZ nq| GB Abyôv‡b GKwU Bqs †g‡q Zvi beRvZ
wkï mš—vb wb‡q Dcw¯’Z nq| Ges 5-10wU Bqs †Q‡jI Dcw¯’Z nq| AbyôvbwU
jvBf †iKW© Kiv nq Dcw¯’Z `k©K‡`i mvg‡b Ges c‡i wUwf‡Z cÖPvi Kiv nq|
Dcw¯’Z †g‡qwU Rv‡b bv Zvi M‡f©i H wkïwUi Avmj Rb¥`vZv wcZv †K| KviY
†m †cÖM‡b›U nIqvi Av‡M A‡bK †Q‡ji mv‡_B weQvbvq wM‡qwQj Z‡e mK‡ji
ga¨ †_‡K Dcw¯’Z H †Q‡j¸‡jvi g‡a¨ †KD GKRb H wkïi wcZv nIqvi
m¤¢vebv †ekx ZvB Zv‡`i‡K BbfvBU Kiv n‡q‡Q| †g‡qwU Gevi wkïwUi
†Pnvivi Dci Abygvb K‡i GB Dcw¯’Z †Q‡j¸‡jv ga¨ †_‡K GKRb‡K wkïi
Rb¥ `vZv wnmv‡e Luy‡R †ei Kivi †Póv K‡i| AbyôvbwU wi‡qj jvBd wb‡q GK
ai‡Yi dvb|
GKUv K_v e‡j ivLv cÖ‡qvRb| Abyôv‡bi ïi“‡ZB `yB c‡i wW.Gb.G.
cixvi Rb¨ j¨v‡e cvwV‡q †`qv nq Ges wiRvë Avmv ch©š— Abyôvb Pj‡Z
_v‡K| hLb wiRvë Av‡m ZLb †`Lv hvq †h †g‡qUv †h †Q‡jUv‡K mš—v‡bi
wcZv wnmv‡e m‡›`n K‡i‡Q Avm‡j †mUv wVK bq Ges Zv‡`i †fZi †_‡K Ab¨
Av‡iKRb| Avi ZLb m‡›`‡ni †Q‡jUv Lywk‡Z jvwd‡q D‡V Ges wkïi
mwZ¨Kvi Rb¥`vZv wcZv iv‡M wbR gv_vi Pyj wQuo‡Z _v‡K| Avevi A‡bK mgq
†`Lv hvq †h Dcw¯’Z †Q‡j¸‡jvi g‡a¨ †KD-B H mš—v‡bi wcZv bq, A_v©r
G‡`i evB‡i Ab¨ †KD|
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AevK nIqvi wKQz †bB| GLvbKvi A‡bK †g‡qivB ¯^vgx Qvov gv n‡Z Pvq|
A‡bK wUbGBRviiv-B k‡Li e‡m †cªM‡b›U n‡Z Pvq|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 1
wKQz ev¯—e wPÎ Ges Gi we‡k−lY
wbDBq‡K© emevmiZ eymiv GKwU †g‡qi bvg| Zvi eqm 17 eQi| Zvi
cwiev‡ii Ab¨ m`m¨‡`i g‡a¨ Av‡Q gv, evev I GK †evb| Zvi wcZvgvZv
Df‡qB PvKzix K‡ib| Rxe‡bi j¨ D‡Ïk¨ m¤^‡Ü eymiv wcZvgvZv †_‡K †Kvb
wkvB cvqwb| ¯‹zj Ges Av‡kcv‡ki cwi‡ek †_‡K hv †c‡q‡Q ZvB Zvi m¤^j|
eymivi gv GKw`b Avwe®‹vi Ki‡jb Zviv hLb †KD evmvq bv _v‡Kb ZLb †m
eq‡d«Û wb‡q evmvq w`‡bi †ejvq GKv‡š— mgq KvUvq| G‡Z eymivi evevgv‡qi
gv_vq AvKvk †f‡½ coj|
GLb eymivi evev-gvi KiYxq t eû †`ix‡Z n‡jI G wcZvgvZv Pig ˆah© I
mnbkxjZvi mv‡_ wKQz c`‡c wb‡Z cv‡ib| m¤¢e n‡j eymivi gv Zvi PvKzix
†Q‡o †`Iqv DwPZ A_ev GK-`yB gv‡mi QzwU wb‡Z cv‡ib| Avgiv a‡i wbjvg
wZwb PvKzix †Q‡o w`‡q cwiev‡ii mv‡_ cy‡iv mgq e¨q Ki‡Qb|
me©cÖ_g gb n‡Z †g‡qi cÖwZ mKj N„Yv, †vf, ivM †S‡o †dj‡Z n‡e| †Kvb
Ae¯’v‡ZB Zvi mv‡_ D”PevP¨ Kiv hv‡e bv| Zvi Pwi‡Îi †h AskwU AcQ›`bxq
†mwU m¤^‡Ü †Kvb cÖwZev` Kiv hv‡e bv| g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e Mv‡Qi †Mvov †K‡U
AvMvq cvwb †X‡j †Kvb jvf †bB| eymivi Kg©Kv‡Ûi †Kvb †bwZevPK w`K wb‡q
Zvi mvg‡b †Kvb ûgwK, agK, kvmb wKQzB Kiv hv‡e bv| G¸wj m¤ú~Y© cwinvi
K‡i Zvi fvj w`K¸wj Av‡jvPbv Ki‡Z n‡e| †m¸wji Rb¨ Zv‡K DrmvwnZ
Ki‡Z n‡e|
hw`I Zvi mv‡_ mgq †`qvi ev Zvi mv‡_ Nwbó nIqvi eqm cÖvq †k‡li w`‡K
ZviciI eymivi mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡bvi my‡hvM LuyR‡Z n‡e| mgq †c‡j mcwiev‡i
wewfbœ RvqMvq Nyi‡Z †h‡Z n‡e A_©vr Zvi mv‡_ mgq KvUv‡Z n‡e| eymiv‡K
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wR‡Ám Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i †h G QzwUi w`‡b Zvi †Kvb cwiKíbv ev civgk© Av‡Q
wKbv| m¤¢e n‡j GK mßvi Rb¨ †Kv_vI f¨v‡Kk‡b hvIqv †h‡Z cv‡i| †Kvb
Ae¯’v‡ZB Zvi †Kvb Lvivc w`K wb‡q †Kvb K_v ejv hv‡e bv| Gi KviY n‡jv
†h welqwU‡K Avgiv Lvivc ejwQ †mwU Zvi wbKU Lvivc wKQz bq| †h DbœZ
†`‡k †m emevm Ki‡Q G¸wj †m †`‡ki DbœZ ms¯‹…wZi welqvw`| Avgvi wbKU
fvj jv¸K Avi bvB jv¸K, eymiv G ms¯‹…wZ‡Z eo n‡q‡Q| wcZvgvZvi wbKU
n‡Z †Kvb B‡dw±f BbcyU bv cvIqvq GLb Zv Zxeª AvKvi aviY K‡i‡Q| †m
hvB †nvK|
Avkv Kiv hvq Aí wKQzw`‡bi g‡a¨B eymiv Zvi wcZvgvZv‡K kΓ bv †f‡e eÜz
ev ïfvKv•x g‡b Ki‡e| eymivi mv‡_ †mme wel‡q K_v ej‡Z n‡e hv †m
cQ›` K‡i| me wel‡q D¤§y³ gb wb‡q †Lvjv †gjv Av‡jvPbv Ki‡Z n‡e|
wcZvgvZv‡`i Ae‡njvi Rb¨ eymivi †h Ac~iYxq wZ n‡q †M‡jv Zvi wKQzUv
cÖvqwðË Kivi †Póv Kiv DwPZ| wb‡Ri An¼vi‡K cwinvi Ki‡Z n‡e| GwU‡K
GKwU eo I ¸i“Z¡c~Y© cÖ‡R± wn‡m‡e wb‡Z n‡e| ¯^vgx ¯¿x `yR‡b `xN© †gqv`x
cwiKíbv wb‡q ` Wv³v‡ii gZ eymivi †iv‡Mi wPwKrmv K‡i †h‡Z n‡e| QzwUi
w`b¸wj‡Z eymiv‡K wb‡q GKmv‡_ †eªKdv÷ Ki‡Z n‡e| bv¯—vi †Uwe‡j bv¯—v
†k‡l N›UvLv‡bK wewfbœ wel‡q Av‡jvPbv Kiv †h‡Z cv‡i|
eymivi mv‡_ wcZvgvZvi D®§ m¤úK© ˆZixi ci Gevi wØZxq av‡ci cvjv|
eymivi gZ GKwU †g‡qi Rxeb m¤ú‡K© `„wóf½x cwieZ©‡bi †h cÖ‡R± wcZvgvZv
nv‡Z wb‡jb Zv †Kvb `ytmva¨ KvR bq| G ch©v‡q wcZvgvZv wb‡R‡`i gb gw¯—®‹
ï× Kivi Rb¨ cÖ¯‘wZ wb‡Z n‡e| G KvRwU Ki‡Z n‡e `ywbqvi †kªô Av`©k I
Gi g~j `k©b weï× Áv‡bi Drm Avj-KziAvb Aa¨q‡bi gva¨‡g| AwZ `ª“Z †`k
n‡Z Avj-KziAv‡bi Zvdmxi Avwb‡q wb‡Z n‡e Ges we¯—vwiZ Aa¨qb ïi“
Ki‡Z n‡e|
cÖwZ mßv‡n wKQz Aa¨q‡bi gva¨‡g KziAvb‡K eyS‡Z n‡e| ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg-Gi Rxebx hZ `ª“Z m¤¢e cvV K‡i wb‡Z n‡e| mvnvex‡`i
Rxebx msMÖn Ki‡Z n‡e| Avj-KyiAv‡bi Zvdmxi Aa¨q‡bi gva¨‡g Rxe‡bi
PovB-DrivB mdjZvi mv‡_ AwZµg Kivi cvV wk‡L †b‡Z n‡e| mvnvex‡`i
Rxebx cvV Kivi ga¨ w`‡q KziAvb-nv`x‡mi DrK…óZg Abymi‡Yi c×wZ Rvbv
hv‡e, BbkvAvj−vn| Avi BwZg‡a¨ eymiv‡K wKfv‡e ms‡kva‡bi w`‡K wb‡q Avmv
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hvq Zv †kLv n‡q hv‡e| Avj−vni ing‡Z I Zvi AbygwZ‡Z Avgiv ax‡i ax‡i
wbR mš—vb‡K mKj Awb‡ói nvZ n‡Z iv Ki‡Z cvi‡ev|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 2
K¨vbvWvq emevmiZ kv‡n` bv‡g GKwU †Q‡j nvB¯‹z‡j c‡o| evev-gv, fvB-
†evb mK‡jB LyeB avwg©K A_v©r cy‡iv cwieviUvB ag©civqY| evev e¨emv K‡ib
Ges gv nvDR-IqvBd, evev-gv mvivY †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K †Pv‡L †Pv‡L ivLvi
†Póv K‡ib| cwieviwU j¨ Ki‡Qb †h kv‡n‡`i cixvi wiRvëm LyeB Lvivc
n‡”Q A_v©r †ekxifvM mve‡R‡±B †dj| evev-gv †Póv K‡i hv‡”Qb wKš‘ mwVK
KviYUv wVK eyS‡Z cvi‡Qb bv †Kb †Q‡ji wiRvëm G‡Zv Lvivc n‡”Q! Gfv‡e
Pj‡Q †ek wKQzw`b|
nVvr GKw`b AevK n‡q cwieviwU Avwe®‹vi Ki‡jb †h, kv‡n` wbqwgZ ¯‹z‡j
hvq bv| †m ¯‹zj dvuwK w`‡q mvBevi K¨v‡d‡Z wM‡q cªvq cÖwZw`b Kw¤úDUvi
†MBg †L‡j| wKš‘ GLb cÖkœ, †m cÖwZw`b mvBevi K¨v‡di Rb¨ UvKv cvq
†Kv_vq hv ‡nvK, evev-gv †mUvI wKQzw`‡bi g‡a¨ D˜NvUb K‡i †dj‡jb| Avi
Zv n‡”Q kv‡n` evevi c‡KU †_‡K gv‡S g‡a¨ bv e‡j UvKv wb‡q _v‡K|
NUbvi we‡k−lY t GLv‡b cuvPwU welq 1) kv‡n` wbqwgZ ¯‹zj dvuwK w`‡”Q 2)
cixvi wiRvëm Lvivc Ki‡Q 3) ev‡R eÜz‡`i cvj−vq c‡o‡Q 4) Kw¤úDUvi
†MB‡gi †bkvq c‡o‡Q Ges 5) evevi c‡KU †_‡K bv e‡j UvKv wb‡”Q| †`Lyb
cwieviwU avwg©K Ges h‡_ó mZK© nIqvi ciI G ai‡Yi NUbv N‡U‡Q| evev-gv
†Kvbw`b KíbvI Ki‡Z cv‡ibwb †h G ai‡Yi NUbv Zvi †Q‡ji Øviv n‡Z
cv‡i| g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, wUbGBRvi‡`i wb‡Ri Dci wb‡Ri K‡›Uªvj Lye KgB
_v‡K| GB eq‡m gb A‡bK wKQyB Pvq| Zvi Dci Avevi cvðvZ¨ cwi‡ek|
GLv‡b evev-gv †Q‡ji e¨vcv‡i G‡ZvUv Mfxifv‡e KLbI wPš—v K‡ib bvB wKš‘
hLbB †Q‡ji wiRvëm Lvivc n‡q‡Q ZLbB Ibviv †ek wPš—vq c‡o †M‡Qb|
mgm¨vi mgvavb t Avjnvg`ywjj−vn, mgm¨vi mgvavb cwieviwU wb‡RivB
K‡i‡Qb| kv‡n`‡K †ek wKQzw`b evev wb‡R mv‡_ K‡i ¯‹z‡j w`‡q G‡m‡Qb Ges
¯‹zj †k‡l evmvq wb‡q G‡m‡Qb| gv‡S g‡a¨B ¯‹z‡j wM‡q †LuvR-Lei wb‡q‡Qb
†m ¯‹z‡j Av‡Q wKbv Ges wUPvi‡`i mv‡_ wbqwgZ †hvMv‡hvM †i‡L‡Qb|
kv‡n`‡K evmvq fvj Kw¤úDUvi wK‡b w`‡q‡Qb †hb wbR N‡i e‡mB Kw¤úDUvi
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†MBg †Lj‡Z cv‡i| evmvq cov-†kvbvi cvkvcvwk Kw¤úDUvi †MBg †Ljvi Rb¨
wbw`ó i“wUb K‡iI w`‡q‡Qb| cwiev‡ii mK‡j wg‡j e‡Üi w`b¸‡jv‡Z wewfbœ
BmjvwgK †cÖvMÖv‡g †hvM w`‡”Qb|
Avjnvg`ywjj−vn, kv‡n` GLb cov‡kvbvi cvkvcvwk K‡qKwU BmjvwgK
AMv©bvB‡Rk‡bi mv‡_ wbqwgZ fjv›Uvix KvR Ki‡Q, Ui‡›Uvi wewfbœ ¯’v‡b eo
eo BmjvwgK †mwgbvi, †Kvm©, IqvK©kc AMv©bvBR Ki‡Q| wewfbœ †cÖvMÖv‡g Ges
†dw÷f¨v‡j `vIqvZx Booth w`‡”Q Ges bb-gymwjg‡`i g‡a¨ Bmjv‡gi
`vIqvZx KvR Ki‡Q| Avmyb Avgiv Zvi Rb¨ `yÕAv Kwi †m †hb Rxe‡b GKRb
fvj GKv‡WwgK nIqvi cvkvcvwk GKRb fvj gymwjg nq| Avgxb|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 3
KvR †k‡l we‡K‡j evmvq wdiwQ| Gwj‡fU‡i Rvgvj fvB‡qi ¯¿x Zvi wUbGBR
†Q‡j‡K cÖkœ Ki‡Qb Ò†Zvgv‡K ¯‹zj †_‡K †Kb †ei K‡i w`‡q‡Q Zzwg wbðqB
†Kvb Ab¨vq K‡iQ, Kx K‡iQ Ab¨ KvD‡K †Zv †ei K‡i †`qwb, †Zvgv‡K †Kb
†ei K‡i w`‡q‡QÓ BZ¨vw` BZ¨vw` K_v n‡Z n‡Z Avgvi †d¬vi G‡m †M‡Q Ges
Avwg †b‡g hvB| cwieviwUi GKUz eY©bv †`qv hvK, Rvgvj fvB bvBU K¬v‡e KvR
K‡ib Avi ¯¿x †jwLKv, †Q‡jUv †g‡q‡`i g‡Zv j¤^v Pzj †i‡L‡Q Ges wcQ‡b SzwU
K‡i‡Q Avi c‡i‡Q Kv‡jv‡`i g‡Zv Avwg©i c¨v›U I †MwÄ| hv nDK, c‡ii
NUbv| Ab¨ Av‡iKw`b we‡K‡j KvR †_‡K evmvq wdiwQ Ggb mgq †`wL
wewìs‡qi mvg‡b cywj‡ki Mvwo `uvov‡bv Ges `y‡Uv cywjk Rvgvj fvB‡qi H
†Q‡jUv‡KB n¨vÛKvd jvwM‡q jwe w`‡q wb‡q Avm‡Q| Zvi †PvL gy‡L †Kvb
f‡qi Qvc †bB Ges †m LyeB ¯^vfvweKfv‡e cywj‡ki mv‡_ †n‡U hv‡”Q, †`‡L
g‡b n‡”Q †m GiKg cÖvqB hvq|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 4
Avgv‡`i GK cwiwPZ fvB‡qi †Q‡j cÖvBgvix ¯‹z‡j c‡o| ¯‹zj †k‡l †m GKw`b
†nu‡U †nu‡U evmvq wdi‡Q, nv‡Z Zvi ¯‹y‡ji wiRvëm kxU| Avgvi mv‡_ Zvi
c‡_ †`Lv, Avwg Zvi evevi eÜz wnmv‡e Lye AvMÖn K‡i Zvi wiRvëm kxUUv
†`L‡Z PvBjvg| wKš‘ †m Zvi cÖwZ Dˇi Avgv‡K AevK K‡i w`‡q ejj t “It’s
not your business!” hv †nvK, Avwg wb‡Ri Kv‡Q Lye jw¾Z njvg Ges
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Avgvi †QvU †ejvi K_v g‡b c‡o †Mj| Avgvi evevi eÜz‡`i‡KI Avgiv
AwffveK wnmv‡eB gvb¨ KiZvg|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 5
K¨vbvWv-Av‡gwiKvq Bwg‡MÖkb KvMR bv _vKvi Kvi‡Y A‡bK fvB‡`iB `xN© w`b
A‡cv Ki‡Z nq ÷¨vUvm cvIqvi Rb¨| hviv AweevwnZ _v‡Kb Zv‡`i †mB
Kvi‡Y A‡bK †ekx eq‡m we‡q Ki‡Z nq| GgbB GKwU NUbv| fvBi eqm
40, †`‡k wM‡q we‡q K‡i G‡b‡Qb wUbGBR †`‡L, ¯¿x †Kej †gwUªK cixv
w`‡q‡Qb| hv‡nvK ¯¿x‡K K¨vbvWvq G‡b nvB¯‹z‡j fwZ© K‡i w`‡q‡Qb Ges fvB
Avgvi w`b ivZ wb‡Ri e¨emv wb‡q 18-20 N›Uv e¨¯— _v‡Kb| ¯¿xI wbqwgZ
wUbGBRvi‡`i g‡Zv ¯‹zj Ki‡Qb| NUbv GLv‡bB ïi“ t
Ab¨vb¨ wUbGBRvi hv K‡i ev K¨vbvwWqvb nvB¯‹y‡ji KvjPvi hv ¯¿xI ZvB
K‡i‡Qb A_v©r eQi bv Nyi‡ZB GK K¬vm‡gU‡K eq‡d«Û evwb‡q‡Qb| nvR‡e‡Ûi
Abycw¯’wZ‡Z ¯¿x Zvi eq‡dªÛ‡K wb‡q wbR †eWi“‡gB mgq KvUvb| Gfv‡eB
Pj‡Z _v‡K †ek wKQzw`b| hv‡nvK| †`Lyb †h †Q‡jUv GB gwnjvi eq‡d«Û †m
nq‡Zv †Kvb Avkvev`x BwgMª¨v›U wcZv-gvZvi mš—vb hviv GB †`‡k G‡m‡Qb mš—
v‡bi fwel¨‡Zi R‡b¨|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 6
Avãyi iv¾vK fvB mcwiev‡i `xN© w`b K¨vbvWvq emevm K‡ib| Zvi †QvU †Q‡j
cÖvBgvix ¯‹z‡j c‡o| GKw`b †m c‡o wM‡q gy‡L e¨_v †c‡q‡Q Ges e¨_vi
AvNvZUv gy‡L †`Lv hv‡”Q| c‡ii w`b †m hLb ¯‹z‡j †M‡Q ZLb wUPviiv Zv‡K
†Riv K‡i‡Q †h, Zvi evev-gv Zv‡K †g‡i‡Q wKbv †m bigvj DËi w`‡q‡Q hv
N‡U‡Q| wKš‘ ¯‹zj Zv wek¦vm K‡iwb Ges Bb‡fw÷‡Mkb A_wiwU‡K Rvwb‡q
w`‡q‡Q| c‡ii w`b Bb‡fw÷‡Mkb A_wiwU †_‡K †jvK G‡m Avãyi iv¾vK
fvB‡qi evmvq nvwRi| Zviv bvbvbfv‡e Avãyi iv¾vK fvB‡K †Riv Ki‡Q †h
Dwb Dbvi mš—vb‡K †g‡i‡Qb wKbv (like a criminal investigation)| hw`
Zviv cÖgvY Ki‡Z cv‡i †h, evev mš—vb‡K †g‡i‡Q Zvn‡j Zviv mvaviYZ mš—
vb‡K miKvix †mëv‡i wb‡q hvq Ges evev‡K cywjk G‡ió K‡i †R‡j wb‡q
hvq|
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hv †nvK Avãyi iv¾vK fvB wewfbœ hyw³ w`‡q Bb‡fw÷‡Mkb A_wiwU‡K
eywS‡q‡Qb †h Dwb cÖnvi K‡ibwb|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 7
evsjv‡`kx cwieviwU K¨vbvWvq G‡m‡Qb wgWj Bó †_‡K| LyeB my‡Li msmvi
Zv‡`i, UvKv cqmvi †Kvb Afve †bB| `yB †Q‡j †g‡q‡K wgWj BóG BmjvwgK
cwi‡e‡kB eo K‡i‡Qb| K¨vbvWv G‡m `yRb‡KB †Rbv‡ij ¯‹y‡j fwZ© K‡i
w`‡q‡Qb| †Q‡j‡K cÖvBgvix ¯‹z‡j Ges †g‡q‡K nvB ¯‹z‡j| GKmgq evev-gv
`yR‡bB KvR Xy‡K †M‡Qb Ges `yR‡bB `yR‡bi KvR wb‡q cÖPÛ e¨¯—|
†Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i‡K ch©vß mgqI w`‡Z cv‡ib bv|
hv‡nvK, K¨vbvwWqvb KvjPvi hv ZvB N‡U‡Q| wKQzw`b ciB †g‡qUvi eq‡d«Û
Ry‡U †M‡Q, Gfv‡e `yR‡bi fvjB †K‡U hv‡”Q| GB †`kxq KvjPv‡i eq‡d«Û-
Mvj©‡d«Û †h Kv‡iv evmvq wjwfsUz‡M`vi Ki‡Z cv‡i (A_v©r †g‡qi evmvq A_ev
†Q‡ji evmvq) Avi G‡Z cwiev‡ii †KD wKQz g‡b K‡i bv| wKš‘ Avgv‡`i
gymwjg †mvmvBwU GUv wKQz‡ZB †g‡b wb‡Z cv‡i bv|
hv‡nvK, †g‡qUv cÖvqB Awbqg K‡i evmvq wd‡i A_v©r eq‡d«‡Ûi evmvq GKv‡š—
Zviv mgq KvUvq| GKw`b †Q‡jUv †g‡qi evmvq G‡m nvwRi Ges iv‡Z Zvi
Mvj©‡d«‡Ûi mv‡_ _vK‡e, evmvq hv‡e bv| †g‡qi evev-gv †Zv †i‡M Av¸b,
wKQz‡ZB Zviv GB †Q‡j‡K Zv‡`i †g‡qi mv‡_ iv‡Z Nygv‡Z w`‡eb bv| G wb‡q
†Q‡j‡g‡q Ges evev-gv‡qi g‡a¨ Zzgyj K_v-KvUvKvwU| Ae‡k‡l †g‡q cywjk
Kj K‡i‡Q, gyn~‡Z©i g‡a¨ cywjk G‡m nvwRi| cywjk cy‡iv NUbv ky‡b †g‡qi
evev-gv‡K cÖ_g ev‡ii g‡Zv gvd K‡i w`‡q‡Q Z‡e Dc‡`k w`‡q †M‡Q †h,
Zviv †hb Zv‡`i †g‡q‡K cÖwZ DB‡K‡Û Zvi eq‡d«‡Ûi evmvq w`‡q Av‡m
Zv‡`i GKv‡š— mgq KvUv‡bvi R‡b¨|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 8
GB evsjv‡`kx cwieviwU K¨vbvWvq _v‡Kb `xN©w`b a‡i| GKwUB †g‡q, †g‡qwU
†QvU †ejv †_‡KB †Kv-GWy‡Kk‡b eo n‡”Q| GKmgq evev-gv hLb ev¯—eZvi
gy‡LvgywL n‡jb ZLb Abyaveb Ki‡jb †h GB cvðvZ¨ cwi‡e‡k †g‡q‡K mwVK
c‡_ eo Kiv LyeB `yiƒn KvR| AZtci Zviv wm×vš— wb‡jb †h †`‡k wb‡q
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†g‡q‡K Av‡iv eo K‡i G‡`‡k Avevi Avm‡eb| `xN©w`b K¨vbvWvq _vKvi
Kvi‡Y K‡qK eQi †`‡k †_‡K †`‡ki mv‡_ Lvc-LvIqv‡Z cvi‡jb bv Ges
Avevi K¨vbvWvq wd‡i Avm‡jb|
Gfv‡e K¨vbvWvq †K‡U †M‡jv Av‡iv K‡qK eQi| †g‡qwU Gevi †MÖW 12-G
D‡V‡Q †mB mv‡_ K¨vbvwWqvb AvBb Abyhvqx Zvi e¨w³ ¯^vaxbZv †e‡o‡Q| Gevi
†m Zvi cQ›`mB GKwU †Q‡j‡K fvjev‡m wKš‘ †Q‡jwU Ab¨ KwgDwbwUi A_v©r
kªxjsKvb| evev-gv cªPÛ kK †c‡jb, Zviv GUv †g‡b wb‡Z cvi‡jb bv|
†g‡q‡K wKQz eyS‡Z bv w`‡q cwieviwU †g‡q‡K wb‡q Avevi P‡j †M‡jb
evsjv‡`‡k| †`‡k wb‡q †g‡q‡K K‡j‡R fwZ© K‡i w`‡jb Ges †`‡kB emevm
Kiv ïi“ Ki‡jb|
ev¯—e wPÎ t 9
fy³‡fvMx GKRb wcZv Av‡gwiKvq emevm K‡ib| mš—vb‡`i wkvi Rb¨ wZwb
m‡e©v”P Z¨vM ¯^xKvi K‡i‡Qb| †Q‡j‡K Av‡gwiKvi wek¦we`¨vj‡qi m‡e©v”P wWMÖx
AR©b Kwi‡q‡Qb| Ae‡k‡l mycÖwZwôZ K‡i‡Qb| eZ©gv‡b eo K‡c©v‡ik‡b eo
PvKzix K‡ib| G wb‡q wcZvi my‡Li †kl †bB, M‡e©i Aš— †bB| wKš‘ GZwKQzi
ci G wcZvi nVvr GKw`b wn‡me cv‡ë hvq| KviY G mš—vb‡K †Kej eo
PvKzixi D‡Ï‡k¨ eo wWMÖx AR©‡bi wkv †`qv n‡q‡Q; AvZ¥vi †Kvb †LvivK †`qv
nqwb| Zv‡K Rxe‡bi cÖ‡qvRbxq †gŠwjK welq¸wji wKQzB wkv †`qv nqwb|
ˆbwZK †Kvb wkv _vK‡Z cv‡i ZvI Rvb‡Z †`qv nqwb| Avj-KyiAvb bvgK
†bqvg‡Zi †Kvb cwiPqB Zvi wbKU Zz‡j aiv nqwb| GB fy‡ji mwVK wiU©vb
GKw`b GB D”Pwfjvlx wcZv †c‡q hvb hLb Zvi gyL D¾¡jKvix mš—vb wcZv‡K
ejwQj Dad! You should save more money for the Home in your old
age! A_©vr AveŸy, Avcwb Avcbvi e„× eq‡m old age home-G _vKvi Rb¨
GLb n‡Z A_© Rgv Ki‡Z _vKzb|
†Kej Av‡gwiKv‡Z bq, eis mKj DbœZ †`‡ki DbœZ KvjPv‡ii GwU Ask n‡q
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`vqx| DbœZ we‡k¦i gymwjg wcZvgvZviv hw` mveavb bv nb Zvn‡j mš—vb‡`i
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ev¯—e wPÎ t 10
2008 m‡bi Ryb gv‡m †hvM`vb K‡iwQjvg Islamic Circle of North
America-i Annual Conference 2008-G, hv Pviw`b e¨vcx AbywôZ
n‡qwQj Av‡gwiKvi Kv‡bw±KvU‡Z| Avjnvg`ywj−jvn, mviv b_© Av‡gwiKv †_‡K
cÖvq 20 nvRvi gymwjg bibvix †hvM`vb K‡iwQ‡jb| g~j Bs‡iRx †cÖvMÖv‡gi
cvkvcvwk wewfbœ fvlv-fvlx‡`i Rb¨I Avjv`v Avjv`v †cÖvMv‡gi Av‡qvRb wQj|
Avi ZvB †mLv‡b evsjv‡`kx‡`i Rb¨I GKUv Avjv`v evsjvq †cÖvMÖvg n‡qwQj
hvi welqe¯‘ wQj ÒAvgv‡`i eZ©gvb Ae¯’vÓ A_v©r b_© Av‡gwiKvq evsjv‡`kx
cÖevmx‡`i eZ©gvb Ae¯’v| GB †cÖvMÖv‡gi GKRb wewkó e³v wQ‡jb wbDBq‡K©i
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wnmv‡e wb‡gœ Zv †`qv n‡jv|
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GK`g mgq w`‡Z cv‡ib bv| gv gv‡Sg‡a¨ wKQzUv mgq w`‡Z cvi‡jI evev
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ZvI Aí wKQz‡Yi R‡b¨| GB †Q‡j R‡b¥i ci †_‡KB eo n‡”Q †eexwmUv‡ii
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ev¯—e wPÎ t 11
K¨vbvWvq emevmiZ AvKvk bv‡g GKwU †Q‡j nvB¯‹z‡j c‡o| evev-gvi †Pv‡L
†m wbqwgZ ¯‹z‡j hvq| wKš‘ hLb †Kvb cixv Av‡m ZLb †m ¯‹zj‡K Amȳ ’Zv
†`wL‡q wVK mgqg‡Zv cixv †`q bv| Ges cixv n‡q hvIqvi ciciB †m
eÜz‡`i KvQ †_‡K cÖkœcÎ Kv‡j± K‡i ïay H KUv cÖ‡kœi DËi c‡o Ab¨ GKUv
ZvwiL wVK K‡i cixv w`‡q _v‡K| Gfv‡e †m wbqwgZ ¯‹y‡ji cov-†kvbv bv
K‡i ïay wm‡j‡±W KUv cÖkœ c‡o fvj wiRvëm& K‡i hv‡”Q| Gevi †`wL GB
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GB fvj wiRvë‡m&i Rb¨ nq‡Zv †m fvj BDwbfvwm©wU‡ZI PvÝ cv‡e Avi ZLb
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ev¯—e wPÎ t 12
wkï wkv
2010 mv‡ji NUbv| Avgv‡`i †g‡qi eqm cuvP, Ui‡›Uvi GKwU cÖvBgvix ¯‹z‡j
†KwR UzÕ‡Z c‡o| cÖwZ mßv‡nB ¯‹z‡ji jvB‡eªix †_‡K eqm Abyhvix wewfbœ
wkYxq eB †`qv nq evmvq covi R‡b¨| †m †Kvb GK gv‡m ¯‹zj †_‡K GKUv
eB wb‡q G‡m‡Q hvi g~j welq e¯‘ Ges wkYxq welqUv Avgiv evsjvq Abyev`
K‡i ms‡‡c Avgv‡`i mvg‡b Zz‡j aiwQ|
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ev¯—e wPÎ t 13
wnRve inm¨
†njvj fvB bv‡g K¨vbvWvq GKRb U¨vw· WªvBfv‡ii AwfÁZv| GKw`b †m
GKRb hvw·K Zvi evmv †_‡K Mš—‡e¨ wb‡q hvIqvi Rb¨ Zz‡j‡Qb| hvwÎwU wQj
GKRb Bqs gymwjg †g‡q| gymwjg aviYv Kivi KviY †m †eviKv Ges wnRve
cov wQj| Mš—‡e¨ †cuŠQvi ci hLb hvwÎwU U¨vw· fvov w`‡”Q ZLb U¨vw·
WªvBfvi fvB wKQzUv AevK n‡q †M‡jb| KviY wZwb †hB †g‡qUv‡K Zvi evmv
†_‡K Zz‡jwQ‡jb GLb †`L‡Qb Ab¨ Av‡iKRb‡K| Ab¨ Av‡iKRb gv‡b †mB
†eviKv cwiwnZv gymwjg †g‡qwUi †ekeylv 100% cwiewZ©Z, †m U¨vw·i g‡a¨
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ev¯—e wPÎ t 14
BDwbfvwm©wUi cwi‡ek
Avgv‡`i wkYxq wn‡m‡e K¨vbvWvi `ywU eo BDwbfvwm©wUi `yÕRb Qv‡Îi
AwfÁZv Zz‡j aiv n‡jv|
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ZLb †m GB †`‡k G‡Kev‡iB bZzb| BDwbfvwm©wUi Av‡k cv‡ki evwo¸‡jv
evwoi gvwjKiv mvaviYZ Qv·`i Dc‡hvMx K‡i Zv‡`i Kv‡Q fvov w`‡q
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hvIqvi Rb¨ wKš‘ wjwfsi“‡g †m †`‡L 4-5wU †Q‡j Ges †g‡q wg‡j cy‡iv Dj½
n‡q GK mv‡_ MÖ“c †m· Ki‡Q| Hiv‡Z †m cÖPÛ fq †c‡qwQj wKš‘ cieZx©‡Z
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†m Rvb‡Z cvi‡j †h GKmv‡_ mK‡j wg‡j g` LvIqv Ges †m· Kiv Gai‡Yi
KvR GLv‡b LyeB ¯^vfvweK|
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AwZó n‡q †kl ch©š— GjvKv †Q‡o Ab¨Î evmv fvov wb‡Z eva¨ n‡q‡Q|
GLb Mfxifv‡e wPš—v K‡i †`wL, GB KwVb cixvi g‡a¨ †Kvb †Q‡j ev †g‡q
wb‡R‡K wVK ivL‡Z cvi‡e! GB KwVb cixvq cvk Ki‡Z n‡j Avgv‡`i mš—
vb‡`i K‡Zv DbœZgv‡bi ZvKIqv AR©b Ki‡Z n‡e !
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mš—v‡biv wKš‘ GB mKj gvjwU-KvjPvivj KwgDwbwUi mv‡_B wg‡jwg‡k eo
n‡”Q| Zv‡`i mgq KvUv‡bvi RvqMv g~jZ wZbwU|
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GLb evwK _vK‡jv KwgDwbwU †m›Uvi| Avgv‡`i‡K †Póv Ki‡Z n‡e Avgv‡`i
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mg‡q †mLv‡b wM‡qI mgq KvUv‡Z cv‡i|
c„ôv - 191

P¨vcUvi 14
mš—vb cÖwZcvj‡b
m~iv jyKgv‡b Dc‡`kvewj
c„ôv - 192

ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
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wQ‡jb| wZwb wbqwgZ Ávb PP©v Ki‡Zb Ges Zvi mš—vb‡`i mwVK wkv w`‡Zb
ZvB gnvb Avj−vn Zv‡K Lye fvjevm‡Zb Ges Zuvi bv‡g KziAv‡b GKwU m~iv
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cª_g Dc‡`k
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hyjyg|Ó(m~iv jyKgvb, 31 t 13)
GLv‡b jYxq †h, cª_‡g wZwb Zvi †Q‡j‡K wkiK n‡Z weiZ _vK‡Z wb‡`©k
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wek¦vmx n‡Z n‡e| KviY, ZvInx`B nj, hveZxq Kg©Kv‡Êi weï×Zv I
wbf©yjZvi GKgvÎ gvcKvwV| ZvB wZwb Zvi †Q‡j‡K cª_‡gB e‡jb, Avj−vni
mv‡_ Bev`‡Z KvD‡K kwiK Kiv n‡Z †eu‡P _vK| †hgb, g…Z e¨w³i wbKU
cªv_©bv Kiv A_ev cxi-AvIwjqv‡`i wbKU mvnvh¨ PvIqv ev cªv_©bv Kiv BZ¨vw`|
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GQvovI G ai‡Yi AviI A‡bK KvR Av‡Q, †h¸‡jv wki‡Ki Aš—f©y³| ivm~j
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡jb, Ò`yÕAv nj Bev`ZÓ| myZivs Avj−vni
gvLjy‡Ki wbKU `yÕAv Kivi A_© nj, gvLjy‡Ki Bev`Z Kiv, hv wkiK|
wØZxq Dc‡`k
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w`‡qwQ| Zvi gv K‡ói ci Kó †fvM K‡i, Zv‡K M‡f© aviY K‡i| Avi
Zvi `ya Qvov‡bv nq `yB eQ‡i; myZivs Avgvi I †Zvgvi wcZv-gvZvi
ïKwiqv Av`vq Ki| cªZ¨veZ©b-†Zv Avgvi Kv‡QB|Ó(m~iv †jvKgvb,
31 : 14)
wZwb Zvi †Q‡j‡K †KejB Avj−vni Bev`Z Kiv I Zvi mv‡_ Bev`‡Z KvD‡K
kixK Ki‡Z wb‡la Kivi mv‡_ mv‡_ gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ fv‡jv e¨envi Kivi
Dc‡`k †`b| KviY, gvZv-wcZvi AwaKvi mš—v‡bi Dci A‡bK †ewk| gv Zv‡K
Mf©aviY, `ya-cvb I †QvU‡ejv jvjb-cvjb Ki‡Z wM‡q A‡bK R¡vjv-hš¿Yv I
Kó mB‡Z n‡q‡Q| Zvici Zvi wcZvI jvjb-cvj‡bi e¨qfvi, cov-†jLv I
BZ¨vw`i `vwqZ¡ wb‡q Zv‡K eo Ki‡Qb Ges gvbyl wn‡m‡e M‡o Zyj‡Qb| ZvB
Zviv DfqB mš—v‡bi c n‡Z Awfm¤úvZ I †L`gZ cvIqvi AwaKvi iv‡L|
Z…Zxq Dc‡`k
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wel‡q †Zvgvi †Kvb Ávb †bB, ZLb Zv‡`i AvbyMZ¨ Ki‡e bv| Ges
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ZLb Avwg †Zvgv‡`i‡K Rvwb‡q †`e, hv †Zvgiv Ki‡Z|Ó (m~iv
jyKgvb, 31 t 15)
Avj−vgv Be‡b Kvmxi (in.) GB Avqv‡Zi Zvdmx‡i e‡jb, Ôhw` Zviv Df‡q
†Zvgv‡K cwic~Y©iƒ‡c Zv‡`i Øx‡bi AvbyMZ¨ Ki‡Z eva¨ K‡i, Zvn‡j Zywg
Zv‡`i K_v ïb‡e bv Ges Zv‡`i wb‡`©k gvb‡e bv| Z‡e Zviv hw` Øxb Keyj bv
K‡i, ZviciI Zywg Zv‡`i mv‡_ †Kvb cªKvi Akvjxb AvPiY Ki‡e bv| Zv‡`i
c„ôv - 194

Øxb Keyj bv Kiv Zv‡`i mv‡_ `ywbqvi Rxe‡b Zv‡`i mv‡_ fv‡jv e¨envi Kiv‡Z
†Kvb cªKvi cªwZeÜKZv m…wó Ki‡e bv| Zywg Zv‡`i mv‡_ fv‡jv e¨enviB
Ki‡e| Avi gyÕwgb‡`i c‡_i Abymvix n‡e, Zv‡Z †Kvb Amyweav †bB|Õ
PZy_© Dc‡`k
• Ò†n Avgvi wcªq erm! wbðq Zv [cvc-cyY¨] hw` mwilv `vbvi cwigvYI
nq, AZtci Zv _v‡K cv_‡ii g‡a¨ wKsev Avmgvb mg~‡n ev Rwg‡bi
g‡a¨, Avj−vn ZvI wb‡q Avm‡eb; wbðq Avj−vn my²`k©x me©Á|Ó (m~iv
jyKgvb, 31 t 16)
Avqv‡Zi e¨vL¨vq Avj−vgv Be‡b Kvmxi (in.) e‡jb, Ab¨vq ev Aciva hZB
†QvU †nvK bv †Kb, GgbwK hw` Zv km¨-`vbvi mgcwigvYI nq, wKqvg‡Zi w`b
gnvb Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv Zv Dcw¯’Z Ki‡e Ges gxhv‡b (`vwocvj−vq) IRb †`qv
n‡e| hw` Zv fv‡jv nq, Zvn‡j Zv‡K fv‡jv cªwZ`vb †`qv n‡e| Avi hw`
Lvivc KvR nq, Zvn‡j Zv‡K Lvivc cªwZ`vb †`qv n‡e|
cÂg Dc‡`k
• Ò†n Avgvi wcªq erm mjvZ Kv‡qg Ki|Ó (m~iv jyKgvb, 31 t 17)
Zywg mjvZ‡K Zvi IqvwRemg~n I †ivKbmg~n mn Av`vq Ki|
lô Dc‡`k
• ÒZywg fv‡jv Kv‡Ri Av‡`k `vI Ges g›` KvR n‡Z gvbyl‡K wb‡la
Ki|Ó (m~iv jyKgvb, 31 t 17)
webgª fvlvq Zv‡`i `vIqvZ `vI, hv‡`i Zywg `vIqvZ †`‡e Zv‡`i mv‡_ †Kvb
cªKvi K‡VviZv K‡iv bv|
mßg Dc‡`k
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• Ò†h †Zvgv‡K Kó †`q Zvi Dci Zywg ˆah© aviY Ki|Ó(m~iv jyKgvb,
31 t 17)
GB AvqvZ Øviv ¯úó nq ‡h, hviv fv‡jv Kv‡Ri Av‡`k †`‡e Ges Lvivc I g›`
KvR n‡Z gvbyl‡K wb‡la Ki‡e Zv‡K Aek¨B K‡ói m¤§yLxb n‡Z n‡e Ges
AwMœcixv w`‡Z n‡e| hLb cixvi m¤§yLxb n‡e ZLb †Zvgvi KiYxq nj,
ˆah©aviY Kiv I ˆa‡h©¨i cixvq DËxY© nIqv|
Aóg Dc‡`k
• ÒAvi Zywg gvby‡li w`K †_‡K †Zvgvi gyL wdwi‡q wb‡qv bv|Ó (m~iv
jyKgvb, 31 t 18)
Avj−vgv Be‡b Kvmxi (in.) e‡jb, ÔhLb Zywg K_v ej A_ev †Zvgvi mv‡_ gvbyl
K_v e‡j, ZLb Zywg gvbyl‡K N…Yv K‡i A_ev Zv‡`i Dci AnsKvi K‡i, Zv‡`i
†_‡K gyL wdwi‡q ivL‡e bv| Zv‡`i mv‡_ nv‡m¨v¾¡j n‡q K_v ej‡e| Zv‡`i
Rb¨ D`vi n‡Z n‡e Ges Zv‡`i cªwZ webqx n‡Z n‡e|Õ
beg Dc‡`k
• ÒAnsKvi I nVKvwiZv cà k©b K‡i Rwg‡b nvUv Pjv Ki‡e bv|Ó (m~iv
jyKgvb, 31 t18)
KviY, G ai‡Yi Kv‡Ri Kvi‡Y Avj−vn KvD‡K cQ›` K‡i bv| G Kvi‡YB gnvb
Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv e‡jb, Òwbðq Avj−vn †Kvb `vw¤¢K, AnsKvix‡K cQ›` K‡ib
bv|Ó A_©vr hviv wb‡R‡K eo g‡b K‡i Ges Ab¨‡`i Dci eovB K‡i, gnvb
Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv Zv‡`i cQ›` K‡i bv|
`kg Dc‡`k
• ÒAvi †Zvgvi Pjvi †‡Î ga¨cš’v Aej¤^b Ki|Ó (m~iv jyKgvb, 31
t19)]
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Lye ¯^vfvweKfv‡e PjvPj Ki‡Z n‡e| Lye `ª“Z nvuUv hv‡e bv Avevi G‡Kev‡i
gš’i MwZ‡ZI bv| ga¨g cš’vq PjvPj Ki‡Z n‡e A_©vr bgbxq n‡q nvUv Pjv
Kiv A‡f¨m Ki‡Z n‡e| PjvP‡j †hb †Kvb cªKvi mxgvj•Nb bv nq|
GKv`k Dc‡`k
big m~‡i K_v ejv| jyKgvb nvKxg Zvi †Q‡j‡K big m~‡i K_v ej‡Z Av‡`k
†`b| gnvb Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv e‡jb,
• Ò†Zvgvi AvIqvR wbPy Ki|Ó Avi K_vq K_vq †Kvb cªKvi evovevwo
Ki‡e bv| webv cª‡qvR‡b Zywg †Zvgvi AvIqvR‡K DuPy K‡iv bv| gnvb
Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv e‡jb, Òwbðq mePvB‡Z wbK…ó AvIqvR nj, Muvavi
AvIqvR|Ó (m~iv jyKgvb, 31 t 19 ]
Avj−vgv gyRvwn` e‡jb, ÔmePvB‡Z wbK…ó AvIqvR nj, Mvavi AvIqvR| A_©vr,
gvbyl hLb weKU AvIqv‡R K_v e‡j, ZLb Zvi AvIqvR Mvavi AvIqv‡Ri
mv`…k¨ nq| Avi G ai‡Yi weKU AvIqvR gnvb Avj−vn ZvÔAvjvi wbKU
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cªgvY K‡i †h, weKU k‡ã AvIqvR K‡i K_v ejv nvivg| KviY, gnvb Avj−vn
ZvÔAvjv Gi Rb¨ GKwU Lvivc `…óvš— Dc¯’vcb K‡i‡Qb|
Avqv‡Zi w`K-wb‡`©kbv
1. AvqvZ Øviv cªZxqgvb nq, †h me KvR Ki‡j `ywbqv I AvwLiv‡Zi
Kj¨vY wbwðZ nq, wcZv Zvi †Q‡j‡K †m wel‡q Dc‡`k w`‡e|
2. Dc‡`k †`qvi †‡Î cª_‡g ZvInx‡`i Dci AUj I AwePj _vK‡Z
n‡e Ges wkiK †_‡K weiZ _vK‡Z wb‡`©k †`‡e| KviY, wkiK nj,
Ggb GK hyjyg ev Ab¨vq, hv gvby‡li hveZxq mg¯— Avgj‡K bó K‡i
†`q|
3. cª‡Z¨K Cgvb`v‡ii Dci Avj−vni ïKwiqv Av`vq Kiv IqvwRe|
Avj−vni ïKwiqv Av`vq Kivi ci me©vwaK ¸i“Z¡c~Y© IqvwRe nj, gvZv-
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wcZvi K…ZÁZv ev ïKwiqv Av`vq Kiv| Zv‡`i mv‡_ DËg e¨envi
Kiv, †Kvb cªKvi Lvivc e¨envi bv Kiv Ges Zv‡`i Df‡qi mv‡_ mym¤úK©
eRvq ivLv|
4. Avj−vni bvdigvwb nq bv, Ggb †Kvb wb‡`©k hw` gvZv-wcZv w`‡q
_v‡K, ZLb mš—v‡bi Dci Zv‡`i wb‡`©‡ki AvbyMZ¨ Kiv IqvwRe|
Avi hw` Avj−vni bvdigvwb nq, Z‡e Zv cvjb Kiv IqvwRe bq|
5. cª‡Z¨K Cgvb`v‡ii Dci KZ©e¨ nj, Avj−vni GKZ¡ev‡` wek¦vmx gyÕwgbgymwjg‡`i
c‡_i AbyKiY Kiv, Avi Agymwjg I we`ÕAvwZ‡`i c_
cwinvi Kiv|
6. cªKv‡k¨ I †Mvc‡b me©ve¯’vq Avj−vn‡K fq Ki‡Z n‡e| Avi g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e †Kvb †bK-KvR Zv hZB †QvU †nvK bv †Kb, Zv‡K Zy”Q
g‡b Kiv hv‡e bv Ges †Kvb Lvivc-KvR Zv hZB †QvU †nvK bv ‡Kb,
Zv‡K †QvU g‡b Kiv hv‡e bv Ges Zv cwinvi Ki‡Z †Kvb cªKvi
Ae‡njv Kiv Pj‡e bv|
7. mjv‡Zi hveZxq AviKvb I IqvwRe¸wj mn mjvZ Kv‡qg Kiv cª‡Z¨K
gywg‡bi Dci IqvwRe; mjv‡Z †Kvb cªKvi Ae‡njv bv K‡i, mjv‡Zi
cªwZ we‡kl g‡bv‡hvMx nIqv Ges Lyïi mv‡_ mjvZ Av`vq Kiv
IqvwRe|
8. R‡b ï‡b, mr Kv‡Ri Av‡`k I Amr KvR n‡Z wb‡la Kivi `vwqZ¡
cvjb Ki‡Z n‡e| bv †R‡b G KvR Ki‡j A‡bK mgq wn‡Z-wecixZ
nq| Avi g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, G `vwqZ¡ cvj‡b h_v m¤¢e bgbxqZv cà k©b
Ki‡Z n‡e; K‡VviZv cwinvi Ki‡Z n‡e|
9. g‡b ivL‡Z n‡e, mrKv‡Ri Av‡`k I Amr KvR n‡Z eviYKvix‡K
Aek¨B-Aek¨B ˆah©kxj n‡Z n‡e| ˆa‡h©i †Kvb weKí †bB| ˆah©
aviY Kiv nj GKwU gnr KvR| Avj−vn ZvÔAvjv ˆah©kxj‡`i mv‡_B
_v‡Kb|
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10. nvUv Pjvq Me© I AnsKvi cwinvi Kiv| KviY, AnsKvi Kiv m¤ú~Y©
nvivg| hviv AnsKvi I eovB K‡i Avj−vn Zv‡`i cQ›` K‡ib bv|
11. nvUvi mgq ga¨g cš’v Aej¤^b K‡i nvU‡Z n‡e| Lye `ª“Z nvuUv wVK
bq Ges G‡Kev‡i axi MwZ‡ZI nvuUv wVK bq|
12. cª‡qvR‡bi †P‡q AwaK D”P AvIqv‡R K_v ejv n‡Z weiZ _vK‡Z
n‡e| KviY, AwaK D”P AvIqvR ev wPrKvi Kiv nj Mvavi ¯^fve|
Avi `ywbqv‡Z Mvavi AvIqvR nj, me© wbK…ó AvIqvR|
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P¨vcUvi 15
Parenting Matters
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ÒiweŸ wh`bx BjgvÓ
†n Avgvi ie, Avgvi Bjg [Ávb] evwo‡q `vI| (m~iv Z¡-nv t 114)
Teenage Parenting
Avgiv ¯^vgx-¯¿x `yÕR‡b Ui‡›Uv BDwbfvwm©wU‡Z Teenage Parenting Gi Dci
GKwU †Kvm© K‡iwQjvg| †mB †Kv‡m©i wKQz D‡j−L‡hvM¨ Ask GB cÖev‡mi wcZvgvZv‡`i
wkYxq wn‡m‡e Zz‡j aiv n‡jv| †Kvm©wU cwiPvjbv K‡iwQ‡jb Bsj¨vÛ
†_‡K AvMZ W. gynv¤§v` Avãyj evwi| wZwb weªwUm gymwjg KwgDwbwU‡Z GKRb
Educationalist, Community activist and Parenting consultant wn‡m‡e
`xN©w`b hveZ KvR K‡i hv‡”Qb|
Course Components
1. Balanced growth and development
2. Parent-child relationship
3. Discipline and control
4. Family and Community perspective
5. Faith, Culture and Spirituality
We should:
Some Useful Tips
• Watch our own mood & try to be role models.
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• Listen to them on identity, modesty, humility, discipline, selfcontrol.
• Give them sufficient space and freedom.
• Understanding their changing life and psychology.
• Empathise with them & be transparent.
• Apologies for our mistake & accept their apology.
• Involve them in creative activities.
• Sensitively talk on important e.g. sex.
• Encourage them, recongnise their worth & reward them to
gradually take responsibility.
• Avoide being dawn into sibling arguments.
• Avoide passing on our stress & keep family arguments out of
them.
• Discipline them according to their age, but avoid scolding them
in front of their friends.
• Maintain a good relationship with their school.
• Build a sound and everlating relationship with them.
Useful Tips for Teenage
Parenting
Regarding post-adolescence children, we should:
• Treat them according to their age.
• Involve them in decision-making at home.
• Be conssistent in our talk and behaviour.
• Apologise when we make mistakes.
• Be principled in our every day dealings.
• Negotiate and bargain with them when necessary.
• Give them space and necessary freedom.
• Encourage them to think and reflect.
• Inculcate the pride of being what they are.
• Make a habit to practise our faith.
• Socialise with good families.
• Creat good relations with neighbors.
• Arrange regular family sessions.
• Provide decent recreation.
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• Enjoy their company.
• Create s spiritual environment around.
Parenting Styles
Parents are the people of authority; they are the leaders, teachers,
mentors, role models and friends of their children. How they talk
and behave are important. There are basically four parenting
styles. e.g.
Parenting
Style
Authoritarian
Permissive
Authoritative
Neglectful
What does it mean
• Often aggressive
• Control freak
• Voice is harsh, goal is to
dominate or win
• Children are just supposed to
obey
• Very libertine attitude, passive
• Children should not be
guided, as this inhibits their
qualities
• Voice is hesitant, goal is to
avoid conflict
• Assertive but rational, flexible
and consistent
• Showing respect for oneself
and others
• Children needs guidance, but
convincing
• Voice is firm but sensible,
goal is mutuality
• Not interested
• It’s a burden
Example
do’s and don’ts
s/he is still a
child
I’ll explain, but
please do it
I am busy
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Teenage & Romance
• Attraction for opposite sex is embedded in our life. This
germinates during puberty when boys & girls see the world in
the prism of romance. In permissive society sexual indulgence
with lust for opposite sex can occupy a teenager’s life.
• Parents need to understand this. They should give extra
quality time to their teenage boys & girls & become extra
empathetic, vigilant and patient.
• Parents should be open with them, albeit within dignity &
Islamic mannerism, and discuss sensitive issues of sex &
relationship in the context marital and family responsibility.
• Fathers should discuss masculine issues with their sons &
mothers with daughters on feminine, within Islamic ethics.
• Older siblings should be brought in to help their younger
siblings on this.
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APPENDIX
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gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi
Avj−vn ZvÕAvjv e‡jb t
وَقَضَى رَب ُّكَ‏ أَل َّا تَعْبُدُوا إِل َّا إِي َّاهُ‏ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ‏ إِحْسَانًا
Avcbvi cÖwZcvjK dvqmvjv K‡i w`‡q‡Qb †h †Zvgiv Avj−vn Qvov Avi Avi
Kv‡iv Bev`Z Ki‡e bv Ges gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Ki‡e| (myiv evbx
BmivCj t 23)
Avj−vn ZvAvvjv e‡jb t
وَإِذْ‏ أَخَذْنَا مِيثَاقَ‏ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ‏ لَا تَعْبُدُونَ‏ إِل َّا الل َّهَ‏ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ‏ إِحْسَانًا
Avwg ebx BmivC‡ji wbKU †_‡K A½xKvi wb‡qwQ †h, †Zvgiv Avj−vn Qvov Avi
Kv‡iv Dcvmbv Ki‡e bv Ges gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Ki‡e| (myiv AvjevKviv
t 83)
وَاعْبُدُوا الل َّهَ‏ وَلَا تُشْرِآُوا بِهِ‏ شَيْئًا وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ‏ إِحْسَانًا
†Zvgiv Avj−vni Bev`Z-e‡›`Mx K‡iv, Zuvi mv‡_ KvD‡K kixK K‡iv bv gvZvwcZvi
mv‡_ mبenvi K‡iv| (myiv Avb-wbmv t 36)
wZwb Ab¨ GK Avqv‡Z e‡jb t
وَإِنْ‏ جَاهَدَاكَ‏ عَلى أَنْ‏ تُشْرِكَ‏ بِي مَا لَيْسَ‏ لَكَ‏ بِهِ‏ عِلْمٌ‏ فَلَا تُطِعْهُمَا وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي
الد ُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا
†Zvgvi gvZv-wcZv hw` Avgvi mv‡_ Ggb me welq‡K kixK Ki‡Z cxovcxwo
K‡i, hvi Ávb †Zvgvi †bB; Z‡e Zzwg Zv‡`i K_v gvb‡e bv Ges `ywbqv‡Z
Zv‡`i mv‡_ m¢v‡e mnAe¯’vb Ki‡e| (myiv jyKgvb t 15)
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gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Kiv bexM‡Yi ˆewkó¨
Avj−vn ZvÕAvjv e‡jb t
يَا يَحْيَى خُذِ‏ الْكِتَابَ‏ بِقُو َّةٍ‏ وَآَتَيْنَاهُ‏ الْحُكْمَ‏ صَبِيا ﴿12﴾ وَحَنَانًا مِنْ‏ لَدُن َّا وَزَآَاةً‏ وَآَانَ‏ تَقِيا
‏﴿‏‎13‎‏﴾وَبَرا بِوَالِدَيْهِ‏ وَلَمْ‏ يَكُنْ‏ جَب َّارًا عَصِيا ﴿14 ﴾
†n BqvnBqv! `„oZvi mv‡_ GB MÖš’ aviY K‡iv Avwg Zv‡K ˆkk‡eB wePvi eyw×
I cÖÁv `vb K‡iwQjvg Ges wb‡Ri c †_‡K `qv`ªZv I cweÎZv `vb K‡iwQ|
†m wQj ci‡nRMvi| gvZv-wcZvi AbyMZ Ges †m D×Z bvdigvb wQ‡jv bv|
(myiv gviBqvg t 12-14)
Cmv (Av.) e‡jb t
وَأَوْصَانِي بِالص َّلَاةِ‏ وَالز َّآَاةِ‏ مَا دُمْتُ‏ حَيا ﴿31 ﴾ وَبَرا بِوَالِدَتِي
wZwb (Avj−vn) Avgv‡K wb‡`©k w`‡q‡Qb, hZw`b RxweZ _vwK ZZw`b bvgvh
Kv‡qg I hvKvZ Av`vq Ki‡Z Ges Rbbxi AbyMZ _vK‡Z| (myiv gviBqvg t
31-32)
gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Kiv Avj−vni wbKU me©vwaK
wcÖq
Avãyj−vn Beb gvmD` (iv.) e‡jb, Avwg ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg‡K wR‡Ám Kijvg, †Kvb Avgj Avj−vni wbKU mePvB‡Z †ewk wcÖq
ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg ej‡jbt mgq g‡Zv bvgvh Av`vq Kiv|
Avwg Avevi wR‡Ám Kijvg, Gici †Kvb KvR wZwb ej‡jbt gvZv-wcZvi
mv‡_ my›`i AvPviY Kiv| Avwg wR‡Ám Kijvg, Gici wZwb ej‡jbt Avj−vni
iv¯—vq wRnv` Kiv | (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
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†Î we‡k‡l gvZv-wcZvi †mev Kiv wRnv‡`i PvB‡Z DËg
gyqvweqv Beb Rvwngv Avm-myjvgx (iv.) e‡jb, Avwg ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−v‡gi wbKU G‡m ejjvg, †n Avj−vni ivmyj! Avwg Avj−vni mš‘wó Ges
ciKvjxb bvRvZ jv‡fi D‡Ï‡k¨ Avcbvi mv‡_ wRnv‡` †h‡Z PvB| wZwb
ej‡jb t Avd‡mvm †Zvgvi Rb¨! †Zvgvi gv wK †eu‡P Av‡Qb Avwg ejjvg,
nü v, †eu‡P Av‡Qb| wZwb ej‡jb hvI, Zvi †L`g‡Z AvZ¥wb‡qvM K‡iv| Gici
Avwg Ab¨w`K †_‡K G‡m Avih Kijvg, †n Avj−vni ivmyj! Avwg Avj−vni mš‘wó
I ciKvjxb gyw³i Avkvq Avcbvi mv‡_ wRnv‡` †h‡Z PvB| wZwb ej‡jb t
Avd‡mvm †Zvgvi Rb¨! †Zvgvi gv wK †eu‡P †bB Avwg ejjvg nü v, †eu‡P
Av‡Qb| wZwb ej‡jb t hvI, Zuvi †mev Ki| AZtci Avwg Zuvi mvg‡bi w`K
w`‡q G‡m ejjvg, †n Avj−vni imyj! Avwg Avj−vni mš‘wó I ciKvjxb mdjZv
jv‡fi Avkvq Avcbvi mv‡_ wRnv‡` kvwgj n‡Z PvB| wZwb ej‡jb t Avd‡mvm
†Zvgvi Rb¨! †Zvgvi gv wK †eu‡P †bB Avwg ejjvg, Bqv ivmyj−vn! Avgvi gv
†eu‡P Av‡Qb| wZwb Avgv‡K ej‡jb t Avd‡mvm †Zvgvi Rb¨! Zzwg †Zvgvi
gv‡qi PiY AvuK‡o ai| †mLv‡bB i‡q‡Q RvbœvZ| (mybvby Beb gvRvn)
Avey mvB` Lỳ ix (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb , R‰bK e¨w³ B‡q‡gb †_‡K
wnRiZ K‡i ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi `iev‡i G‡m‡Q|
ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Zuv‡K ej‡jb t Zzwg wkiK cwiZ¨vM
K‡i G‡m‡Qv| Z‡e †Zvgvi wRnv` evwK i‡q †M‡Q| B‡q‡g‡b wK †Zvgvi gvZvwcZv
†bB †jvKwU ejj, nü v Av‡Qb| wZwb wR‡Ám Ki‡jb t Zviv wK †Zvgv‡K
wRnv‡` Avmvi AbygwZ w`‡q‡Qb Rev‡e †jvKwU ejj, bv, AbygwZ †`qwb|
ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Zuv‡K ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi
Kv‡Q hvI, Zuviv AbygwZ w`‡j wRnv‡`i Rb¨ G‡mv| Ab¨_vq Zv‡`i †mev- hZœ
K‡iv| (mybvb Avey `vD`)
Avãyj−vn Beb Dgvi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, GK e¨w³ ivm~jyj−vn
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi `iev‡i G‡m Avih Ki‡jv, †n Avj−vni imyj!
Avwg Avj−vni mš‘wó I ciKvjxb bvRvZ jv‡fi D‡Ï‡k¨ Avcbvi mv‡_ wRnv`
Kivi Rb¨ G‡mwQ| Avgv‡K Avm‡Z †`‡L Avgvi gvZv-wcZv `yRbB Kuv`wQ‡jb|
GK_v ï‡b wZwb †jvKwU‡K ej‡jbt Zzwg Zuv‡`i Kv‡Q wd‡i hvI Ges Zuv‡`i
gy‡L nvwm dzUvI, †hgwbfv‡e Zzwg Zuv‡`i‡K Kuvw`‡qwQ‡j| (Beb gvRvn)
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Avãyj−vn Beb Avgi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, GK e¨w³ bex mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi wbKU G‡m ejj, Avwg Avj−vni wbKU †_‡K cÖwZ`vb
cvIqvi Avmvq Avcbvi wbKU wnRiZ I wRnv‡`i evBAvZ KiwQ| wZwb
†jvKwU‡K wR‡Ám Ki‡jb t †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi g‡a¨ †KD wK RxweZ Av‡Qb
†jvKwU Dˇi ejj, Zuviv Df‡q RxweZ Av‡Qb| wZwb †jvKwU‡K ej‡jb t Zzwg
ev¯—weKB Avj−vni wbKU †_‡K wnRiZ I wRnv‡`i cÖwZ`vb †c‡Z PvI †jvKwU
Rev‡e ejj nü v, †c‡Z PvB| ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Gikv`
Ki‡jb t Zzwg †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi Kv‡Q wd‡i hvI Zuv‡`i mv‡_ mبenvi Ki‡Z
_v‡Kv| (mnxn gymwjg)
gvZvi AwaKvi wcZvi wZb ¸Y
Avj−vn ZvAvvjv e‡jb t
وَوَص َّيْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ‏ بِوَالِدَيْهِ‏ إِحْسَانًا حَمَلَتْهُ‏ أُم ُّهُ‏ آُرْهًا وَوَضَعَتْهُ‏ آُرْهًا وَحَمْلُهُ‏ وَفِصَالُهُ‏
ثَلَاثُونَ‏ شَهْرًا
Avwg gvbyl‡K gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ my›`i AvPi‡Yi ZvwM` w`‡qwQ| Zvi gv A‡bK
K‡ó Zv‡K M‡f© aviY K‡i‡Q Ges eû Kó K‡i f~wgó K‡i‡Q| M‡f© aviY Kiv I
`ya cvb Kiv‡bvi (KwVb Kv‡Ri) mgqKvj n‡jv AvovB eQi| (myiv Avj-
AvnKvd t 15)
wZwb Av‡iv e‡jb t
وَوَص َّيْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ‏ بِوَالِدَيْهِ‏ حَمَلَتْهُ‏ أُم ُّهُ‏ وَهْنًا عَلَى وَهْنٍ‏ وَفِصَالُهُ‏ فِي عَامَيْنِ‏ أَنِ‏ اشْكُرْ‏
لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ‏ إِلَي َّ الْمَصِي ‏ُر
Avwg gvbyl‡K Zvi gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Kivi †Rvi wb‡`©k w`‡qwQ| Zvi
gv Zv‡K K‡ói ci Kó ¯^xKvi K‡i M‡f© aviY K‡i‡Q| Avi `ya Qvov‡bv nq
`yÕeQ‡ii g‡a¨| G wb‡`©k w`‡qwQ †h, Avgvi cÖwZ I †Zvgvi gvZv-wcZvi cÖwZ
K…ZÁ nI| (myiv jyKgvb t 14)
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) e‡jb, GK e¨w³ ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi
`iev‡i nvwRi n‡q wR‡Ám Kij, Bqv ivmyjyj−vn ! Avgvi my›`i AvPi‡Yi
mePvB‡Z †ewk nK`vi †K wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv| †m c~bivq wR‡Ám
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Ki‡jv, Gici †K wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv| †m c~bivq wR‡Ám Ki‡jv
Zvici †K wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv| †m AveviI wR‡Ám Ki‡jv Gici †K
wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi wcZv| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
evn&h Beb nvwKg Zuvi wcZvi m~‡Î Zvi `v`v †_‡K eY©bv K‡ib| wZwb e‡jb,
Avwg Avih Kijvg, Bqv ivmyjvj−vn! Avwg Kvi mv‡_ mePvB‡Z †ekx fv‡jv
e¨envi Kie wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_| Avwg c~bivq wR‡Ám
Kijvg, Zvici Kvi mv‡_ wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_| wZwb AveviI
wRÁm Ki‡jbt Zvici Kvi mv‡_ GeviI wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi gv‡qi mv‡_|
Avwg c~bivq wR‡Ám Kijvg, Zvici Kvi mv‡_ wZwb ej‡jb t †Zvgvi wcZvi
mv‡_| AZtci ch©vqµ‡g wbKUZg AvZ¥xq- ¯^R‡bi mv‡_| (Beb gvRvn)
wgK`vg Beb gvÕw`Kvive (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb; ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t wbðq Avj−vn ZvAvjv †Zvgv‡`i gv‡q‡`i
m¤ú‡K© †Zvgv‡`i Dc‡`k w`‡”Qb| A_©vr Zv‡`i mv‡_ m`vPiY Kivi Av‡`k
w`‡”Qb| GK_v wZwb wZbevi ej‡jb| wbðq Avj−vn †Zvgv‡`i wcZv‡`i m¤ú‡K©
†Zvgv‡`i Dc‡`k w`‡”Qb| wbðq Avj−vn chv©qµ‡g wbKUewZ©‡`i m¤ú‡K©
†Zvgv‡`i Dc‡`k w`‡”Qb (m`vPv‡ii)| (mnxn gymwjg)
gvZv-wcZvi Rb¨ A_© e¨q
†hfv‡e mš—v‡bi Dci gvZv-wcZvi AwaKvi i‡q‡Q †Zgwbfv‡e mš—v‡bi m¤ú‡`i
DciI Zv‡`i AwaKvi i‡q‡Q| G m¤ú‡K© Avj−vn ZvAvjv e‡jb,
يَسْأَلُونَكَ‏ مَاذَا يُنْفِقُونَ‏ قُلْ‏ مَا أَنْفَقْتُمْ‏ مِنْ‏ خَيْرٍ‏ فَلِلْوَالِدَيْنِ‏
Ò†n bex †jv‡Kiv Avcbv‡K wR‡Ám K‡i , Avgiv wK e¨q Ki‡ev Avcwb
Zv‡`i‡K e‡j w`b, †h gvjB †Zvgiv e¨q K‡iv bv †Kb Zvi cÖ_g nK`vi n‡jv
†Zvgvi gvZv-wcZv|Ó (myiv Avj evKviv t 215)
GK e¨w³ ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi wbKU ¯^xq wcZvi wei“‡×
Awf‡hvM G‡b ej‡jv, wZwb hLbB B”Qv K‡ib Avgvi m¤ú` wb‡q †bb|
ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Zvi wcZv‡K WvK‡jb| jvwV fi K‡i
GK `ye©j e„× nvwhi n‡jb| wZwb e„ׇK wRÁvmvev` Ki‡jb| e„ׇjvKwU Reve
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w`‡jb, †n Avj−vni imyj! GK mgq Avgvi G †Q‡j `ye©j Amnvq I Kvc`©Knxb
wQj| Avwg ZLb wQjvg kw³kvjx I weËkvjx| Avwg KLbI Zv‡K Avgvi m¤ú`
wb‡Z evav †`Bwb| AvR Avwg `ye©j I Kvc`©Knxb, †m kw³kvjx I weËkvjx|
GLb Zvi m¤ú` Avgv‡K †`q bv| GK_v ï‡b ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg ej‡jbt Zzwg Ges †Zvgvi m¤ú` †Zvgvi wcZvi| (Beby gvRvn)
gvZv-wcZvi cÖwZ`vb
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t
†Kvb mš—vb wcZvi †mœ‡n-fvjevmv, jvjb-cvjb Ges K‡ói nK Av`vq Ki‡Z ev
Zvi e`jv w`‡Z mg bq| Z‡e †m hw` Zuv‡K Kv‡iv `vm iƒ‡c cvq, AZtci
Zuv‡K Lwi` K‡i gy³ K‡i †`q, Zvn‡j wKQy nK Av`vq nq| (mnxn gymwjg)
Agymwjg gvZv-wcZvi cÖwZ AvPiY
Avey evKi (iv.) Gi Kb¨v Avmgv (iv.) e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−v‡gi hy‡M Avgvi gv gykwiK Ae¯’vq Avgvi wbKU G‡mwQ‡jb| Avwg
ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi wbKU Avih Kijvg, Avgvi gv Avgvi
wbKU G‡m‡Qb, wZwb Bmjvg †_‡K wegyL i‡q‡Qb| Avwg wK Zuvi mv‡_ mبenvi
Kie wZwb ej‡jb nü v, gv‡qi mv‡_ mبenvi K‡iv| (mnxn Avj eyLvix, mnxn
gymwjg)
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) gymjgvb nIqvi ciI `xN©w`b hveZ Zuvi gv wki‡K wbgw¾Z
wQ‡jb| wZwb gv‡K me©`v wki‡Ki cwiYvg m¤ú‡K© mZ©K Ki‡Zb Ges Bmjvg
MÖn‡Yi `vIqvZ w`‡Zb| Avi Zuvi gvI me©`v A¯^xK…wZ Rvbv‡Z _vK‡Zb| Zv
m‡Z¡I Avey ûivBiv (iv.) Zuvi gv‡qi B¾Z- m¤§vb, †L`gZ I AvbyM‡Z¨ †Kvb
cÖKvi ΓwU K‡ibwb|
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, Avgvi gv gykwiK _vKv Ae¯’vq
Avwg Zuv‡K me©`v Bmjvg MÖnY Kivi `vIqvZ w`Zvg| GKw`b Avwg Zuv‡K
Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZ w`‡j wZwb ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg m¤ú‡K©
Avgv‡K Ggb wKQy K_v ïbv‡jb, Avgvi Aš—i †e`bvq fvivµvš— n‡q D‡V| Avwg
µ›`biZ Ae¯’vq ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi †L`g‡Z nvwhi n‡q
Avih Kijvg, †n Avj−vni ivmyj! Avwg me mgq Avgvi gv‡K Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZ
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w`‡Z _vwK, wZwb me mgq Zv A¯^xKvi Ki‡Z _v‡Kb| AvR Avwg Zv‡K
Bmjv‡gi `vIqvZ w`‡j wZwb ivMvwš^Z n‡q Avcbvi kv‡b †eqv`ex K‡i e‡mb
Ges Avcbv‡K Mvjg›` K‡ib| Avwg Zv mn¨ Ki‡Z cvwiwb| Avcwb Avj−vni
`iev‡i `yAv Ki“i, †hb wZwb Avey ûivBivi gv‡K †n`v‡qZ bmxe K‡ib|
ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg `yAv Ki‡jb t †n Avj−vn! Avcwb Avey
ûivBivi gv‡K †n`v‡qZ Ki“b| Avwg bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−‡gi `yAvi
mymsev` wb‡q †mLvb †_‡K †ewi‡q cojvg| Avwg evwo †cŠ‡Q †`wL N‡ii `iRv
e›×| wZwb Avgvi cv‡qi kã ï‡b †fZi †_‡K ej‡jb, Avey ûivBiv A‡cv
Ki| Avwg cvwb covi kã ïb‡Z †cjvg| Avey ûivBiv (iv.) e‡jb, wZwb
ZvovZvwo †Mvmj †kl K‡i †`vcvÆv cwiavb K‡i Dobv civ QvovB `iRv Ly‡j
w`‡jb| AZtci ej‡jb; Avey ûivBiv! Avwg mv¨ w`w”Q, Avj−vn Qvov †Kvb
Bjvn †bB Ges Ges Av‡iv mv¨ w`w”Q †h, gynv¤§` mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg Avj−vni ev›`v I Zuvi ivmyj| Avwg Avb‡›` µ›`biZ Ae¯’vq ivmyjyj−vn
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi †L`g‡Z nvwhi n‡q ejjvg, †n Avj−vni ivmyj!
Avwg Avcbv‡K mymsev` ïbv‡Z G‡mwQ| Avj−vn ZvAvjv Avcbvi `yAv Keyj
K‡i‡Qb| wZwb Avey ûivBivi gv‡K †n`v‡qZ bmxe K‡i‡Qb| GK_v ï‡b wZwb
Lywk n‡jb Ges Avj−vni cÖksmv I ¸bMvb Ki‡jb Ges Avgv‡K bwmnZ
Ki‡jb|
Gici Avwg Avih Kijvg, Bqv ivmyjvj−vn! Avcwb `yAv Ki“b †hb Avj−vn
Avgv‡K Ges Avgvi gv‡K mKj gywg‡bi wcÖq evwb‡q †`b| ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg `yAv Ki‡jb t Bqv Avj−vn! Avey ûivBiv I Zvi gv‡qi cÖwZ
fvjevmv mKj gywg‡bi Aš—‡i m„wó K‡i w`b Ges Zv‡`i Df‡qi Aš—‡i mKj
gymjgv‡bi cÖwZ fv‡jvevmv m„wó K‡i w`b| G `yAvi ci †h gymjgvbB Avgv‡K
†`‡L‡Q A_ev Avgvi K_v ï‡b‡Q †mB Avgv‡K fv‡jv‡e‡m‡Q| (mnxn gymwjg)
`ya gv‡qi cÖwZ m¤§vb cÖ`k©b
Avey Zzdv‡qj (iv.) e‡jb, Avwg †`Ljvg, bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
wRqÕivbv bvgK ¯’v‡b †MvkZ e›Ub KiwQ‡jb| Ggb mgq GKRb gwnjv G‡m
mivmwi bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi wbK‡U P‡j †M‡jb| wZwb Zuvi
Rb¨ wb‡Ri Pv`i wewQ‡q w`‡jb| AZtci f`ª gwnjvwU Zvi Dci Avmb MÖnY
Ki‡jb| (eY©bvKvix e‡jb) Avwg †jvK‡`i Kv‡Q Rvb‡Z PvBjvg, Bwb †K,
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Zviv ej‡jb, Bwb n‡”Qb ivmyj−yj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi `ya gvnvjxgv
mvw`qv (iv.)| wZwb Zuv‡K `ya cvb Kwi‡qwQ‡jb| (Avey `vD`)
wcZvi AvbyMZ¨
Avãyj−vn Beb Dgvi (iv.) e‡jb, Avgvi weevn e܇b Ggb GKRb gwnjv wQj
hv‡K Avwg fvjevmZvg| A_P Avgvi wcZv Dgvi (iv.) Zv‡K AcQ›` Ki‡Zb|
GKw`b wZwb Avgv‡K ej‡jb, Zzwg Zv‡K ZvjvK `vI| Avwg ZvjvK w`‡Z
A¯^xKvi Ki‡j Dgvi (iv.) ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg‡K welqwU
AewnZ Ki‡jb| ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg Avgv‡K ej‡jb t
Zv‡K ZvjvK `vI Ges †Zvgvi wcZvi AvbyMZ¨ K‡iv| Avwg Zv‡K ZvjvK
w`jvg| (Avey `vD`)
gvZv-wcZvi Bwš—Kv‡ji ci mš—v‡bi KiYxq
Avey DmvB` (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, GKevi Avgiv ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−v‡gi Kv‡Q emv wQjvg| Ggb mgq mvjvgv †Mv‡Îi GK e¨w³
G‡m ejj, †n Avj−vni ivmyj! gvZv-wcZvi Bwš—Kv‡ji ci Zuv‡`i mv‡_ Avgvi
mبenvi Kivi wKQy Aewkó Av‡Q wK wZwb ej‡jb nuv, Av‡Q| (PviwU Kv‡Ri
gva¨‡g Zuv‡`i mv‡_ mبenvi Ae¨vnZ ivL‡Z cvi) Zuv‡`i Rb¨ `yAv I gv
cÖv_©bv Kiv| Zuv‡`i g„Zÿ i ci Zuv‡`i K…Z Iqv`v mgyn c~Y© Kiv| Zuv‡`i mv‡_
hv‡`i AvZ¥xqZvi m¤úK© i‡q‡Q Zuv‡`i mv‡_ m`&¨envi I my›`i AvPiY Kiv|
Zuv‡`i eÜz-evÜe‡`i cÖwZ m¤§vb cÖ`k©b Kiv| (Avey `vD`)
gvZv-wcZvi Rb¨ `yAv Kiv
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb
t Rvbœv‡Z gvby‡li gh©v`v Aek¨B e„w× Kiv n‡e| †m ej‡e, GUv gh©v`v e„w×
wKfv‡e n‡jv ejv n‡e †Zvgvi Rb¨ †Zvgvi mš—v‡bi gv cÖv_©bvi e‡`Šj‡Z|
(Beb gvRvn)
Avbvm (iv.) e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t Kv‡iv
gvZv-wcZv Df‡q A_ev GKRb GgZve¯’vq Bwš—Kvj Kij †h, †m Zuv‡`i Aeva¨
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wQj| wKš‘ Zuv‡`i g„Zz¨i ci †m Zuv‡`i Rb¨ me©`v `yAv I Bw¯—Mdvi Ki‡Z
_v‡K Ges Zuv‡`i Rb¨ gv cÖv_©bv Ki‡Z _v‡K| Ae‡k‡l Avj−vn ZvAvjv Zv‡K
†bKKvi †jvK‡`i g‡a¨ kvwgj K‡i †bb| (mnxn gymwjg)
gvZv-wcZvi eÜz-evÜe‡`i mv‡_ mبenvi
Aãyj−vn Beb Dgvi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t †Kvb e¨w³i mev©‡cv eo mrKvR n‡”Q, wcZvi eÜz‡`i
mv‡_ mym¤úK© eRvq ivLv| (mnxn gymwjg)
Avey `vi`v (iv.) ej‡jb, Avwg †Zv Zv Rvwb bv| Avãyj−vn (iv.) ej‡jb, Avwg
ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg‡K ej‡Z ï‡bwQ, †h e¨w³ Ke‡i
Aew¯’Z wb‡Ri wcZvi mv‡_ my›`i AvPiY Ki‡Z Pvq, Zvi DwPZ, wcZvi g„Zz¨i
ci Zuvi eÜz-evÜe‡`i mv‡_ my›`i AvPiY Kiv| Gici wZwb ej‡jb, fvB!
Avgvi wcZv Dgvi (iv.)-Gi mv‡_ Avcbvi wcZvi åvZ…Z¡ I eÜzZ¡c~Y© m¤úK©
wQj| Avwg †mB eÜz‡Z¡i cÖwZ kª×v cÖ`k©bc~e©K Zvi nK Av`vq Ki‡Z PvB|
(mnxn gymwjg)
gvZv-wcZvi AvZ¥xq-¯^R‡bi mv‡_ m`vPiY Kiv
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t Avj−vn ZvAvjv mgMÖ gvLjyK m„wó K‡i hLb Aemi n‡jb,
ZLb †i‡ng (AvZ¥xqZv) D‡V `uvwo‡q ivngvbyi ivnx‡gi †Kvgi aij| Avj−vn
ej‡jb t _vg! (Zzwg wK PvI) †i‡ng Avih Kij, GUv AvZ¥xqZvi m¤úK©
wQbœKvix †_‡K †Zvgvi wbKU Avkªq cÖv_©bv Kivi ¯’vb| Avj−vn ZvAvjv ej‡jb t
Zzwg wK G‡Z mš‘ó bI, †h e¨w³ †Zvgvi mv‡_ m¤úK© envj ivL‡e, AvwgI Zvi
mv‡_ m¤úK© envj ivL‡ev| Avi †h e¨w³ †Zvgvi mv‡_ m¤úK© wQbœ Ki‡e,
AvwgI Zvi mv‡_ m¤úK© wQbœ& Ki‡ev| †i‡ng ejj, nü v Avwg ivwh AvwQ, †n
Avgvi cÖwZcvjK! Avj−vn ej‡jbt wVK Av‡Q †Zvgvi mv‡_ Avgvi G A½xKvi
_vKj| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
Avey ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv
mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t Ò†i‡ngÓ kãwU ingvb †_‡K D¢yZ| ZvB Avj−vn ZvAvjv
e‡jb t †h e¨w³ †Zvgvi mv‡_ mym¤úK© eRvq ivL‡e, AvwgI Zvi mv‡_ mym¤úK©
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eRvq ivL‡ev| Avi †h e¨w³ †Zvgv‡K wQbœ Ki‡e, AvwgI Zv‡K wQbœ Ki‡ev|
(mnxn Avj eyLvix)
Av‡qkv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t Ò†i‡ng Avj−vni Avi‡ki mv‡_ Szjš— i‡q‡Q| †m e‡j †h Avgvi
mv‡_ m¤úK© AUzU ivL‡e, Avj−vnI Zvi mv‡_ m¤úK© AUzU ivL‡eb| Avi †h
Avgv‡K wQbœ Ki‡e, Avj−vnI Zv‡K wQbœ Ki‡eb| (mnxn gymwjg)
Ryev‡qi Beb gyZwqg (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t AvZ¥xqZvi m¤úK© wQb&Kvix Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Ki‡e
bv| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
Avãyj−vn Beb Dgvi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z, ivmyjyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t †m e¨w³ AvZ¥xqZv ivKvix bq, †h ïay wewbgq ¯^i“c Zv iv K‡i|
eis †m e¨w³B AvZ¥xqZv ivKvix, hvi mv‡_ AvZ¥xqZvi m¤úK© wQbœ Kivi ci
†m Zv c~bt¯’vcb K‡i| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
gvZv-wcZvi bvdigvbx
Avj−vn e‡jb t
وَقَضَى رَب ُّكَ‏ أَل َّا تَعْبُدُوا إِل َّا إِي َّاهُ‏ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ‏ إِحْسَانًا إِم َّا يَبْلُغَن َّ عِنْدَكَ‏ الْكِبَرَ‏ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ‏
آِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ‏ لَهُمَا أُف ٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ‏ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا آَرِيمًا ﴿23﴾ وَاخْفِضْ‏ لَهُمَا
جَنَاحَ‏ الذ ُّل ِّ مِنَ‏ الر َّحْمَةِ‏ وَقُلْ‏ رَب ِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا آَمَا رَب َّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ﴿24
﴾
Ò†Zvgvi cvjbKZ©v Av‡`k K‡i‡Qb, †Zvgiv Zuv‡`i Qvov Ab¨ Kv‡iv Bev`Z
Ki‡e bv Ges gvZv-wcZvi mv‡_ mبenvi Ki‡e| Zv‡`i g‡a¨ †KD A_ev
Df‡q hw` †Zvgvi RxeÏkvq eva©‡K¨ DcbxZ nq, Z‡e Zv‡`i‡K ÔDnÕ kãwUI
ej‡e bv Ges Zv‡`i‡K fr©mbv Ki‡e bv| eis Zv‡`i mv‡_ m¤§vb I
wkóvPvic~Y© K_v ej‡e Ges webq I bgªZvmnKv‡i Zv‡`i mvg‡b bZ n‡q
_vK‡e| Avi G `yAv Ki‡Z _vK‡e t †n Avgvi cÖwZcvjK! Zuv‡`i Dfv‡qi cÖwZ
ing K‡iv, †hgb Zuviv Avgv‡K ˆkkeKv‡j jvjb-cvjb K‡i‡Qb|Ó (myiv ewb
BmivCj t 23-24)
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cweÎ KyiAv‡b G‡m‡Q, Avj−vn e‡jb t
وَأَم َّا الْغُلَامُ‏ فَكَانَ‏ أَبَوَاهُ‏ مُؤْمِنَيْنِ‏ فَخَشِينَا أَنْ‏ يُرْهِقَهُمَا طُغْيَانًا وَآُفْرًا ﴿80﴾ فَأَرَدْنَا أَنْ‏
يُبْدِلَهُمَا رَب ُّهُمَا خَيْرًا مِنْهُ‏ زَآَاةً‏ وَأَقْرَبَ‏ رُحْمًا ﴿81 ﴾
AZtci evjKwUi e¨vcv‡i- Zvi gvZv-wcZv wQj Cgvb`vi| Avwg AvksKv
Kijvg, †m Aeva¨Zv I Kzdi Øviv Zv‡`i‡K cÖfvweZ Ki‡e| AZtci Avwg
B”Qv Kijvg, Zv‡`i cvjbKZ©v Zv‡`i‡K Zvi PvB‡Z cweÎ I fv‡jvevmvq
†kªôZg GKwU mš—vb `vb Ki“b| (myiv Avj Kvnvd t 80-81)
Avj−vn e‡jb t
وَال َّذِي قَالَ‏ لِوَالِدَيْهِ‏ أُف ٍّ لَكُمَا أَتَعِدَانِنِي أَنْ‏ أُخْرَجَ‏ وَقَدْ‏ خَلَتِ‏ الْقُرُونُ‏ مِنْ‏ قَبْلِي وَهُمَا
يَسْتَغِيثَانِ‏ الل َّهَ‏ وَيْلَكَ‏ آَمِنْ‏ إِن َّ وَعْدَ‏ الل َّهِ‏ حَ‏ ٌّق
†h e¨w³ ¯^xq gvZv-wcZv‡K e‡j, waK †Zvgv‡`i cÖwZ, †Zvgiv Avgv‡K Lei
w`‡”Qv, Avwg Avevi cybi“wÌZ n‡ev, A_P Avgvi c~‡e© eû †jvK MZ n‡q †M‡Q
Avi (Zvi) gvZv-wcZv Avj−vni Kv‡Q dwiqv` K‡i e‡j, †Zvgvi aŸsm
(Awbevh©)| Zzwg Cgvb Av‡bv| wbðq Avj−vni Iqv`v mZ¨| (myiv Avj AvnKvd
t 17)
RNb¨Zg cvc
Ave`yi ingvb Beb Ave~ evKiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn
mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t Avwg wK †Zvgv‡`i‡K mePvB‡Z eo
Kexiv (RNb¨Zg) ¸bvn m¤ú‡K© AewnZ Ki‡ev bv| GK_v wZwb wZb evi
ej‡jb| mvnvev‡q †Kivg ej‡jb, †Kb bq, Aek¨B Ki‡eb, †n Avj−vni ivm~j!
wZwb ej‡jb t Avj−vni mv‡_ wkiK Kiv, gvZv-wcZvi bvdigvbx Kiv| wZwb
†njvb w`‡q emv wQ‡jb, AZtci †mvRv n‡q e‡m ej‡Z jvM‡jb, (Lye fv‡jv
K‡i †kvb!) wg_¨v K_v ejv I wg_¨v mv¨ †`qv| wZwb evi evi GK_v ej‡Z
_vK‡b| Ae‡k‡l Avgiv (g‡b g‡b) ejjvg, nvq! wZwb hw` Pzc n‡q †h‡Zb|
(mnxn Avj- eyLvix)
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Ave`yj−vn Beb Avgi Bebyj Avm (iv.) e‡jb, bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t Kexiv ¸bvnmg~n n‡”Q, 1. Avj−vni mv‡_ kixK Kiv 2. gvZv- wcZvi
Aeva¨ nIqv, 3. gvbyl nZ¨v Kiv I 4. wg_¨v kc_ Kiv| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
Avãyj−vn Be‡b Avgi iv. e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb
t †Kvb e¨w³i wb‡Ri gvZv-wcZv‡K Mvwj †`qv Ab¨Zg Kexiv ¸bvn| mvnvexMY
ej‡jb, †Kvb †jvK wK wb‡Ri gvZv-wcZv‡K Mvwj †`q wZwb ej‡jb t nü v
†`q| †Kvb e¨w³ Aci e¨w³i wcZv‡K Mvwj †`q, cÖZz¨Ë‡i †mI Zvi wcZv‡K
Mvwj †`q| Abyiƒcfv‡e †m Aci †Kvb e¨w³i gv‡K Mvwj †`q, Gi Dˇi †mI
Zvi (Mvwj `vZvi) gv‡K Mvwj †`q| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
Avãyj−vn Be‡b Avgi iv. e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb
t RNb¨Zg Kexiv ¸bvnmg~‡ni g‡a¨ Ab¨Zg n‡”Q, †Kvb e¨w³i wb‡Ri gvZvwcZv‡K
jvÕbZ Kiv| ejv n‡jv, †n Avj−vni ivm~j! †Kvb e¨w³ wKfv‡e Zvi
gvZv-wcZv‡K jvÔbZ Ki‡Z cv‡i wZwb ej‡jb t †Kvb e¨w³ A‡b¨i wcZv‡K
Mvwj †`q, cÖZz¨Ë‡i †mI Zvi wcZv‡K Mvwj †`q| Abyiƒcfv‡e †Kvb e¨w³
A‡b¨i gv‡K Mvwj †`q, Gi Dˇi †mI Zvi gv‡K Mvwj †`q| (mnxn gymwjg)
Avãyj−vn Beb AveŸvm iv. †_‡K ewY©Z, bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t †h e¨w³ MvBi“j−vni bv‡g cï hevB K‡i, †h e¨w³ Rwgi mxgvbv
e`‡j †`q Ges †h e¨w³ wb‡Ri gvZv- wcZv‡K Mvwj †`q, Avj−vn ZvAvjv Zvi
cÖwZ jvÔbZ (Awfm¤úvZ) K‡ib| (mnxn Avj eyLvix)
†h wcZv‡K Awfkvc †`q Zvi Dci Avj−vn ZvAvjvi
Awfkvc
mvnvex Avey Zzdv‡qj Avwgi Beb Iqvwmjv (iv.) e‡jb, Avwg Avjx (iv.) Gi
wbKU wQjvg| ZLb R‰bK e¨w³ G‡m Zuv‡K ejj, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqvmvj−vg wK Avcbv‡K Ggb †Kvb K_v e‡j‡Qb, hv Ab¨ KvD‡K e‡jbwb
eY©bvKvix e‡jb, wZwb ivMvwš^Z n‡q ej‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqvmvj−vg Avgv‡K Ggb †Kvb K_v e‡jbwb, hv wZwb Ab¨‡K e‡jbwb| Z‡e
wZwb Avgvi wbKU PviwU welq eY©bv K‡i‡Qb| eY©bvKvix e‡jb, †n Avgxi“j
gyÔwgbxb! †m PviwU welq Kx wZwb e‡jb t wZwb (ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
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Iqvmvj−vg) e‡j‡Qb t †h e¨w³ wcZv‡K Awfkvc †`q, Avj−vn ZvAvjv Zvi cÖwZ
Awfm¤úvZ K‡ib| †h e¨w³ MvBi“j−vni bv‡g cï RevB K‡i, Avj−vn ZvAvjv
Zvi cÖwZ Awfm¤úvZ K‡ib| †h e¨w³ Øx‡bi g‡a¨ bZzb wKQz m„wó K‡i Ges †h
e¨w³ Rwgi mxgvbv e`‡j †`q, Avj−vn ZvAvjv Zvi cÖwZ Awfm¤úvZ K‡ib|
(mnxn gymwjg)
Aeva¨ mš—vb Rvbœv‡Zi myNÖvYI cv‡e bv
Avãyj−vn Be‡b Dgvi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t wZb †kªYxi †jv‡Ki cÖwZ wKqvg‡Zi w`b Avj−vn ZvAvjv ing‡Zi
`„wó‡Z ZvKv‡eb bv| 1. gvZv-wcZv‡K Kó`vbKvix Aeva¨ mš—vb| 2. cyi“‡li
†ek aviYKvix bvix I 3. `vBq~¨m| Avi wZb †kªYxi †jvK Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Ki‡e
bv| 1. gvZv-wcZvi Aeva¨ mš—vb| 2. g`cv‡b Avm³ e¨w³ I 3. `vb K‡i
†LuvUv`vbKvix| (bvÔmvC)
bvdigvb mš—v‡bi aŸsm Awbevh©
KvÔe Beb ÔDRiv (iv.) e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t
†Zvgiv wg¤^‡ii Kv‡Q G‡mv Rvgv‡qZ nI| Avgiv mK‡j wg¤^‡ii Kv‡Q G‡m
Rvgv‡qZ njvg| wZwb wg¤^‡ii cÖ_g av‡c Av‡ivnb K‡i ej‡jb t Avgxb|
wØZxq av‡c Av‡ivnb K‡i cybivq ej‡jb Avgxb| Z…Zxq av‡c Av‡ivnb K‡i
Avev‡iv ej‡jb t Avgxb| wZwb wg¤^vi †_‡K AeZiY Kivi ci Avgiv Zuvi
wbKU Avih Kijvg, AvR Avgiv Avcbvi KvQ †_‡K Ggb wKQz K_v ï‡bwQ hv
BwZc~‡e© KL‡bv ïwbwb| wZwb ej‡jb t wReivBj (GBgvÎ) Avgv‡K G‡m
ej‡jb t †m e¨w³ aŸsm †nvK, †h ighvb gvm †c‡q‡Q, A_P Zvi ¸bvn gvd
nqwb| Avwg ejjvg Avgxb (Avj−vn Kzej Ki“b)| Avwg wØZxq av‡c Av‡ivnY
Ki‡j wZwb (wReivCj) ej‡jb t †m e¨w³ aŸsm †nvK, hvi mvg‡b Avgvi bvg
D”PviY Kiv n‡jv, A_P †m `iƒ` coj bv| Avwg ejjvg t Avgxb| Avwg
wg¤^v‡ii Z…Zxq av‡c Av‡ivnb Ki‡j wReivCj ej‡jb t †m e¨w³ aŸsm †nvK,
†h gvZv- wcZv Dfq‡K A_ev Zuv‡`i †Kvb GKRb‡K †cj, wKš‘ Zviv Zv‡K
Rvbœv‡Z cÖ‡ek Kiv‡jv bv| Avwg ejjvg t Avwgb| (mnxn gymwjg)
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gvZv- wcZvi AwaKvi Av`vq Kiv I bv Kivi cwiYvg
Avãyj−vn Beb Avgi (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû
AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t gvZv- wcZvi Amš‘wói g‡a¨ Avj−vni Amš‘wó
wbwnZ i‡q‡Q| (wZiwghx)
Ave~ Dgvgv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| R‰bK e¨w³ G‡m Avih Kij, Bqv ivm~jyj−vn!
mš—v‡bi Ici gvZv-wcZvi wK AwaKvi Av‡Q wZwb e‡jb t Zuviv Df‡q †Zvgvi
RvbœvZ I Rvnvbœvg| (Beby gvRvn)
mvnex Aveỳ `vi`v (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| R‰bK e¨w³ Zuvi wbKU G‡m ejj,
Avgvi GKRb ¯¿x Av‡Q, Avgvi gv Avgv‡K Av‡`k K‡ib, Zv‡K ZvjvK w`‡Z|
ZLb Aveỳ `vi`v (iv.) e‡jb, Avwg ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqvmvj−vg‡K
ej‡Z ï‡bwQ, gvZv-wcZv n‡”Q Rvbœv‡Zi †kªô `iRv| Zzwg B”Qv Ki‡j
`iRvwU‡K iv Ki‡Z cvi| B”Qv Ki‡j `iRvwU bóI Ki‡Z cvi| (wZiwghx)
gv‡qi mv‡_ bvdigvbx
mvnvex gyMxiv Be‡b †kvev iv. †_‡K ewY©Z, bex mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn Iqv mvj−vg
e‡j‡Qb t Avj−vn ZvAvjv †Zvgv‡`i Ici gv‡qi bvdigvbx, Kb¨v wkï‡K RxweZ
Kei †`qv, K…cYZv Kiv I wfv e„wË nvivg K‡i w`‡q‡Qb| Avi e„_v ZK©weZK©,
AwaK wRÁvmv m¤ú` bó Kiv‡K †Zvgv‡`i Rb¨ AcQ›` K‡i‡Qb|
(mnxn Avj eyLvix)
gvZv-wcZvi `yÕAv Keyj nq
mvnvex Ave~ ûivBiv (iv.) †_‡K ewY©Z| wZwb e‡jb, ivm~jyj−vn mvj−vj−vû AvjvBwn
Iqvmvj−vg e‡j‡Qb t wZb e¨w³i `yÕAv Keyj nq| G‡Z †Kvb cÖKvi m‡›`n
†bB| GK t gvRjy‡gi `yAv, `yB t gymvwd‡ii `yAv, wZb t mš—v‡bi †ejvq gvZvwcZvi
`yAv| (wZiwghx)
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