LUCWANINGO LOLUNZULU LOLUMAYELANA NEKUBALULEKA ...

lelingembi kwendlu kutakwakhelwa leliguma lelitungeletela indlu yonkhe.
Kumele kutsi lendlu ibe ngekhatsi kweliguma yonkhe. Loko kwentelwa kutsi
nakungenteka kutsi malukatane abeleke bakwati kubeka ludzengelo lakhe
lungabonwa ngumuntfu
Kuye kube nekudideka lokuncane kulabanye labangakwati kutsi kucalani
emkhatsini kwemshisanyongo nekwakha indlu yemfati. Kuyehluka uma
sekuphele konkhe kugidza ekhabo mkhwenyane basheshe balungisa
kwashiswa kahle tinyongo, indlu yemfati itakwakhiwa emva
kwemshisanyongo kodvwa nakushiswa tinyongo kutsatse sikhatsi lesidze
kutawucala ngako kutsi indlu yemfati isheshe yakhiwe. Kungako kubalulekile
kutsi letinyongo tisheshe tishiswe emva kwemaviki lambalwa khona konkhe
kutewuhamba ngeluhlelo Iwakhona lolwemukelekako emaSwatini.
5.6 SIPHETFO
Lolucwaningo lutfolile kutsi umtsimba unetigaba tawo lekumelwe
tilandzelwe ngendlela yakhona. Kutfolakele kutsi kumekeza ngusona
sicongo semtsimba. Kugidza umtsimba esiveni semaSwati ngiyona ndlela
lemukelekako uma umlobokati ayawukwendza, angena kulelinye Iikhaya
lapho afuna kuhlala khona imphilo yakhe yonkhe. Kugidza umtsimba
kusuke kuyindlela lenhle yekutekwa nangabe bekhakhakhe bavumile.
Lutsandvo emaSwatini alukho kuphela kulababili kepha
lusemindenini lemibili lehlangene. Kuper na Motsa -Dladla kuDlamini
(1995:74) batsi:
Swazi marriage is essentially a linking of two
families rather than two persons, and the bearing
of children is the essential consummation of
wisehood.
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