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Lamanye -ke emabandla kuIenkholo yebukhritsu avame kutbandaza ngeMgcibel0. Labo kutsiwa ngemaSabatha. Akhona-ke nemaSwati lasathandaza nemaSulumane(Muslim) .Lawo ehlukile kuIamanye emabandla ngobe bakhonza malanga onkhe evikini, kutsi ngeLesihlanu bonkhe bayewuhlanganela e'Ihempelmi labo, kusukela ngensimbi yelishumi nakubili kute kushaye yesibili. Elion (2001:107) ufakaza utsi: Muslim men attend communal prayers on Friday, between the hours of12:30 and 14:00. Muslim businesses are closed during this time slot. Those congregational prayers are kuown as Juma. Empeleni nakufikwa endzabeni yesifo inkholo yebuKhrestu ifike iphanibane nesintfu. Inkholo yesilumbi itsi bemndeni kufanele bakhetse kutsi umufi angangcwatjwa kumbe ashiswe. Kulisiko Iakhona, kutsi libhokisi Iemufi livulwe kute abonwe tihlobo nebangani ngembi kwekuba ayewungcwatjwa. Kuletinsuku umndeni lotsite nawehlelwe lifu lelimnyama sekwaba yiritfo yemmango ngekwenkholo yebuKhristu. Broodryk (2002:106) utsi: As soon as word spreads that someone has died, people rally up to give their condolences to the family and do all they can to try to ease their pain and suffering. In the evening they come together, offer prayer and sing hymns, also read from the scripture, and address a few words to the family and community present. . - 142

Likhaya lelishonelwe liyahlonishwa nangekwenkholo yebuKbristu. Elion (2001:63) utsi: Unless one is a very close friend I family members, one does not go the home of the deceased, before funeral. Visiting the home after funeral is an act of compassion. However, if one wishes to make an offer ofpractical/financial help, then a quick visit before hand will be appreciated. Nakungcwatjwa ngekwebuKbristu, kuye kutsi libhokisi lingehla bese bemndeni bavutfutela timbali ekhatsi, Bakholelwa ekutseni umuntfu nakashonile akayi kulabaphansi kepha uya kuSimakadze, ezulwini lapho ayawulindzela khona lusuku lwekuvuka nekukhala kwelicilongo. 5.8 KUTALWA KWEMNTFWANA Kutalwa kwenmtfwana yintfo lengasahlonishwa kangaka. Ngekwesilumbi umntfwana akatalelwa ekhaya utalelwa esibhedlela. Kukholelwa kutsi babelekisi basekhaya bangenta liphutsa bese umntfwana nenina bayashona. Akubikwa kuta kwemntfwana emadlotini njengelisiko lesintfu, lona lelitsi mkhulu uye abikele labaphansi abacele kutsi basite lona lotetfwele kutsi aphumelele kahle. Sikhatsi samake sekuhlala asilandzelwa kangako. Make uyaphuma endlini ahlangane nalabanye bantfu nome mongwane asengakawi. Ngaleso sikhatsi umntfwana ubonwa, atsintfwe nanome ngubani Inongwana ayitiIiswa ngobe nasesibhedlela iyasala. Ngekwesintfu Kasenene (1993:55) utsi: • - 143

Likhaya lelishonelwe liyahlonishwa nangekwenkholo yebuKbristu.<br />

Elion (2001:63) utsi:<br />

Unless one is a very close friend I family members, one does not go<br />

the home <strong>of</strong> the deceased, before funeral. Visiting the home after<br />

funeral is an act <strong>of</strong> compassion. However, if one wishes to make an<br />

<strong>of</strong>fer <strong>of</strong>practical/financial help, then a quick visit before hand will be<br />

appreciated.<br />

Nakungcwatjwa ngekwebuKbristu, kuye kutsi libhokisi lingehla bese<br />

bemndeni bavutfutela timbali ekhatsi, Bakholelwa ekutseni umuntfu<br />

nakashonile akayi kulabaphansi kepha uya kuSimakadze, ezulwini lapho<br />

ayawulindzela khona lusuku lwekuvuka nekukhala kwelicilongo.<br />

5.8 KUTALWA KWEMNTFWANA<br />

Kutalwa kwenmtfwana yintfo lengasahlonishwa kangaka. Ngekwesilumbi<br />

umntfwana akatalelwa ekhaya utalelwa esibhedlela. Kukholelwa kutsi<br />

babelekisi basekhaya bangenta liphutsa bese umntfwana nenina bayashona.<br />

Akubikwa kuta kwemntfwana emadlotini njengelisiko lesintfu, lona lelitsi<br />

mkhulu uye abikele labaphansi abacele kutsi basite lona lotetfwele kutsi<br />

aphumelele kahle. Sikhatsi samake sekuhlala asilandzelwa kangako. Make<br />

uyaphuma endlini ahlangane nalabanye bantfu nome mongwane<br />

asengakawi. Ngaleso sikhatsi umntfwana ubonwa, atsintfwe nanome<br />

ngubani Inongwana ayitiIiswa ngobe nasesibhedlela iyasala. Ngekwesintfu<br />

Kasenene (1993:55) utsi:<br />

• - 143

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