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vlel naTesav qals erTxel ki gauelva TavSi azrma ojaxsa da sofelzexom ar dardobso da SeekiTxa kidec amis Sesaxeb, magram raki kakom araferiupasuxa, maSinve ukuagdo es azri, radgan maT irgvliv bevri bavSvi iyogamogzavnili soflebidan qalaqSi saswavleblad da yvela Tavs kargadgrZnobda. kakos dumili Tavisi mdgomareobis mizezebze migvaniSnebs, romis gaurkvevlobaSia, Sinagani konfliqtis tyveobaSia, arc swavla eTmoba,da amitom sofelSi dabrunebas ver iTxovs da ojaxTan da mSoblebTan gan-Sorebasac ver egueba, arc is unda, rom qalaqSi cxovrebaze uaris TqmiT,rac faqtiurad swavlaze uaris Tqmas niSnavda, mSoblebs imedi gaucruos.am mwvave, urTierTsapirispiro gancdebma gamoiwvia bavsvis fsiqikuri dafizikuri Zalebis sruli paralizeba.cnobilia, rom niWieri bavSvebis gonebrivi ganviTareba win uswrebsasakobriv normebs, Tumca yovelmxrivi, harmoniuli asakis winmswrebi ganviTarebaiSviaTia. ufro xSiria SemTxvevebi, roca bavSvi gonebrivi ganvi-TarebiT bevrad uswrebs win Tavis asaks, emociuri ganviTarebiT ki normisfarglebsia, an zogierTTan SeiZleba kidec CamorCeba mas. amitom ni-Wieri bavSvebis erTi nawilisaTvis mZlavri SemecnebiTi interesebis,inteleqtualuri aqtivobisa da swavlaSi warmatebebis paralelurad damaxasiaTebeliamtkivneuli, nevrotuli reagireba sasurveli emociurikavSirebis gawyvetaze, mijaWvulobis obieqtebTan ganSorebaze, Cveuli,sasiamovno yofiTi pirobebis Secvlaze sruliad axali pirobebiT. amasadasturebs kakos depresiaSi Cavardnac da Semdeg uecari gamojanmrTelebismizezic. rogorc ki man gaigona, rom isev sofelSi unda daebrunebinaTsoflis eklesiaSi RvTismSoblis xatTan salocavad, saxe gaubrwyinda,gamococxlda, Wama moiTxova da mTeli dRe Tavis sofelze ocnebeb-Si, xolo Rame soflis cxovrebis amsaxvel sizmrebSi gaatara, rasac Tanaxlda bednierebis gamometyveleba mZinare bavSvis saxeze da aRtacebisgamomxatveli bgerebi.moTxrobis bolos avtori gvamcnobs, rom aRwerili ambavi TiTonmas gadaxda Tavs da roca SemdegSi TbilisSi kvlav dabrunda da swavlisgemo gautkba, es qalaqi varianze metad Seuyvarda. aq yuradRebas iqcevsda moTxrobil ambavs met fsiqologiur damajereblobas matebs sityvebi:`ras movifiqrebdi maSin, Tu SemdegSi roca swavla g a m i t k b e b d a~ udavoa,rom niWierma bavSvma skolaSi pirvel gakveTilebze ver hpova Tavisiasakis winmswrebi SemecnebiTi interesebis dakmayofileba, soflis cxovrebisagangansxvavebul pirobebSi aRzrdil qalaqel bavSvebTanac gau-Znelda dasawyisSi socialuri kontaqtebi, Tavi sruliad umweod da martosuladigrZno; amitom sofelTan da axloblebTan ganSorebiT gamowveuliemociuri danaklisis gancda araTu ver iqna daZleuli, aramed kidevufro gamZafrda, ramac bavSvi bolosdabolos sasowarkveTilebasada depresiaSi Caagdo. garda zemoTaRniSnulisa, metad mniSvnelovaniamoTxrobis bolo fraza: `patara kako viyavi me da es ambavi mogonebaa siy-210