gamocdili maswavlebeli

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rom Tanamoazre maswavlebelTa gundis gareSe, romlebic erTad gegmavdnen moswavlis daxmarebas,
araferi moxdeboda.
TviTSecnobis strategiebi Sesaferisia myife emociuri mdgomareobis moswavleebisTvisac.
am moswavleebma SeiZleba icodnen gansxvaveba produqtiul da araproduqtiul qcevas
Soris, magram ar SeeZloT sakuTari Tavis kontroli. maTi temperamenti xSirad kontrols ar
eqvemdebareba; maT ar sjeraT sakuTari Tavis da uWirT damegobreba. isini SeiZleba ganmartovdnen,
bevri dro gaataron xatvaSi, kiTxvaSi an romelime obieqtur aqtivobaSi. Tu mecnierebis
an xelovnebisaken midrekileba aqvT, SeiZleba Seqmnan zRapruli proeqtebi da faqtobrivad,
mxolod am proeqtebiT daamyaron zedapiruli urTierToba sxvebTan. maT sZulT
sakuTar grZnobebze saubari, faqtobrivad, arc SeuZliaT, eSiniaT da daZalebis SemTxvevaSi
SeiZleba uari Tqvan. maT mier sakuTar Tavze saubari ukavSirdeba movlenebsa, nivTebs, da
ara adamianebs an SegrZnebebs. mcire asakis bavSvebisTvis am mdgomareobaSi zedgamoWrilia
volfgangisa (Wolfgang 1977) da ledermanis (Lederman 1969) strategiebi, mozardebisTvis ki
maixenbaumis (Meichenbaum) TviTinstruqciuli strategiebi ufro Sesatyvisia, Tumca, maTi
zogierTi forma dawyebiT klaselebsac gamoadgebaT (mag.: `kus teqnika~).
moswavleebi, romlebic ergebian pirovnuli gavlenis models, CvenSi xSirad siyvarulisa
da siZulvilis grZnobebs warmoSoben. maT aqvT mosawoni, momxiblavi, sayvareli Tvisebebic
ki. erT wuTSi giCndebaT survili, gulSi CaikraT isini, meore wuTSi ki _ kedels mianarcxoT.
individualuri urTierTobis dros isini araCveulebrivebi arian; jgufSi ki SeuZliaT CxubisTavebi,
wamqezeblebi, poziorebi iyvnen. gasakviria, magram isini xSirad wynarebi arian
did jgufebSi, sadac aris meti TviTmmarTveloba, magram gamousworeblebi patara jgufebSi,
sadac socialuri daZabuloba TviTdamkvidrebis gamo Zalze didia. diliT klasSi Semosvlisas,
maT SeiZleba iaron oTaxSi, Seamowmon moswavleTa saqmianoba, gadavidnen nivTidan niv-
Tze da ver ipovon adgili. maT namdvilad aqvT im siyvarulisa da CarTulobis moTxovnileba,
romelic akliaT cxovrebaSi. dilaobiT, aseTi `seirnobis~ dros, isini sakuTar adgils eZeben,
surT gaigon, sad SeuZliaT CarTva da kargad arc ki ician, rogor daamyaron urTier-
Toba. reputaciisa da sxva moswavleebTan urTierTobebis gamo, uWirT arastruqturirebul
situaciebSi adgilis povna. maT enatrebaT megobrebi, sxva moswavleebTan da maswavlebelTan
siaxlove, magram maTi qceva antagonizms iwvevs. pirovnuli gavlenis modelis struqtura,
moTxovnebi, siTbo da urTierTobis Camoyalibeba maT cxovrebis rTuli periodis gadalaxvaSi
exmareba.
ufro mcire asakis bavSvebTan maswavlebelma SeiZleba qcevis modifikacia gamoiyenos maT
mier sakuTari yvelaze xelis SemSleli qcevis ukeT Sesacnobad da gasakontroleblad.
xandaxan iseT moswavleebs vxvdebiT, romlebic `aras~ amboben, gvewinaaRmdegebian da Riad
gviwveven TavianTi qceviT. es moswavleebi SeiZleba logikuri Sedegebis modelis kandidatebi
iyvnen. isini uars amboben samuSaos Sesrulebaze an mas mxolod survilis SemTxvevaSi asruleben.
isini eZeben Zalauflebis konfliqtebs ufrosebTan, faqtobrivad, iwveven maT. ra
Tqma unda, iseTi moswavleebic gvxvdebian, romlebic xSirad, Tumca ara ganzrax, erTvebian
kamaTSi TanatolebTan da maswavleblebTan; im moswavleebis mier ufrosebis gamowvevisa
da maTTan kamaTis dawyeba, romlebzec vsaubrobT, rogorc wesi, `Cemeburad keTebas~ ukav-
Sirdeba. aseTi moswavleebi SeiZleba sxvebTan TamaSis dros xSirad tiranebi, CxubisTavebi
iyvnen, daundoblad hkran xeli sxva moswavleebs da maswavlebelsac. maT qcevas kontrolis
fsiqologiuri moTxovnileba amoZravebs. rogorc dreikursi ityoda, maTi azriT, samyaroSi
adgilis damkvidrebis erTaderTi gza Zalauflebis Cveneba, sxvebis gakontrolebaa. swored
ase unda moiqcnen, rom pativsacemi da Rirseuli adamianebi gaxdnen sxvis TvalSi. es mcdari
rwmena, maTi qceva unda Seicvalos, unda Seicvalos nebismieri gziT, garda droebiTisa.
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