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Tavi 7 112 II nawili molodinebisa da Sedegebis sistema wesebi da maTi Sesabamisi qcevis Sedegebi sakmarisad mkafio da konkretulia Tu ara CemTvis da Cemi moswavleebisaTvis? am kiTxvaze pasuxis gacemis wina piroba is aris, rom moswavleebs naTeli da araorazrovani warmodgena hqondeT imaze, Tu rogor saqciels moelian maTgan. am informaciis gadasacemad uamravi gza arsebobs: pirdapir Tqma, cxrilis gakeTeba, moulodnelad problemis wamoWra an klasis Sexvedris dros wesebze SeTanxmeba. xandaxan molodini sistemis saxiT oficialur wesebad da saboloo formiT ar aris Camoyalibebuli, magram mas maswavleblis reaqciis mixedviT Tanamimdevrulad ecnobian moswavleebi. nebismier SemTxvevaSi, moswavleTaTvis molodinis arsi naTeli da konkretuli unda iyos, raTa Tavidan aviciloT gaugebroba (an kamaTi). SesaZloa, gancxadeba `Cumi kiTxvis droa~ ar kmarodes da klass siCumis ganmarteba dasWirdes. siCume sruli siCumea, Tu CurCuli an wynari saubari? SeuZliaT moswavleebs am gansxvavebaTa danaxva da qcevis kontroli? Tu `siCume~ sinamdvileSi `wynars~ niSnavs, maSin, albaT, mas `siCume~ ar unda vuwodoT da, piriqiT. ras niSnavs gakveTilze droulad misvla? ara umetes ori wuTiT dagvianebas, zaris dros oTaxSi yofnas, ubralod adgilze yofnas Tu adgilze gakveTilisTvis mzadyofnas? sad aris gavlebuli es sazRvrebi ufro naklebmniSvnelovania, vidre maTi mkafiod Camoyalibeba. ar unda arsebobdes eWvi imasTan dakavSirebiT, rodis dairRva wesi. mendleri da kurvini (Mendler & Curwin 1983) aRweren wesebis dadgenaSi moswavleTa CarTvis (e.w. `socialur kontraqtis~) mravalmxriv strategias, rac wesis raobasTan dakavSirebiT nebismier eWvs ebrZvis. maswavleblis mier savaldebulod misaRebi wesebis Camoyalibebis Semdeg, moswavleebi mcire jgufebad muSaoben qcevis am wesebis Sedegebis ganxilvaze. (magali- Tad, `wesi: maswavlebelma unda gamoiZaxos moswavle saxeliT. wesis darRvevis SemTxvevaSi: a) maswavlebels axseneben wess, b) maswavlebeli ixdis bodiSs~. `wesi: maswavlebelma individualurad unda gaasworos moswavleTa namuSevrebi. wesis darRvevis SemTxvevaSi: maswavlebeli moswavleebs waukiTxavs or Tavs im wignidan, romelsac amJamad kiTxulobs~). mendleri da kurvini ganmartaven: yvela wessa da mis Sedegs ganixilavs klasi, raTa uzrunvelyofili iyos maTi raobis swori gageba. rolebis Sesruleba xSirad sasargeblo strategiaa wesisa da Sedegis zusti mniSvnelobis sailustraciod. magaliTad, zogierT moswavles surs, rom maswavlebelma ar iyviros. maswavleblisTvis mniSvnelovania, isaubros ufro da ufro xmamaRla, sanam miiRweva SeTanxmeba imasTan dakavSirebiT, Tu ra aris yvirili (Mendler and Curwin 1983, gv. 73). Semdeg mimdinareobs gadawyvetilebis miRebis saguldagulo procesi, romlis drosac maswavlebeli da moswavleebi wyveten, SeTavazebuli wesebidan da Sedegebidan romeli Seva kontraqtSi. (detaluri informaciisaTvis ix. mendleri da kurvini, gv. 73-74) dabolos, moswavleebi abareben gamocdas kontraqtis codnaSi. klasSi privilegiis mopoveba testirebaSi 100 quliT xdeba! socialuri kontraqtis es axleburi procedura ramdenime mizans emsaxureba: pirveli, moswavleTa mier wesebis SemuSaveba sasargebloa maTi Sesrulebis TvalsazrisiT; meore, kontraqtis codnis Sesamowmebeli testi da misi Sedegebis kavSiri klasSi privilegiis mopovebasTan, xazs usvams kontraqtisa da wesebis mniSvnelobas. gadavcemT Tu ara dadebiT molodins? saWiroa molodini gavimeoroT, Tanac xSirad. aRmoCnda rom, zogierTi maswavlebeli, gansakuTrebiT saswavlo wlis dasawyisSi, xSirad umeorebs da axsenebs moswavleebs molodins,

disciplina riTac Tavidan icilebs arasasurvel qcevas. magaliTad, `axla kabinetSi mivdivarT. Tqveni azriT, ra gvelodeba iq? ra unda gavakeToT? ra unda gaviTvaliswinoT Cvens qcevaSi?~ an: `kargiT, axla mzad varT sportul darbazSi wasasvlelad. raze vfiqrobT, roca darbazSi varT? ratom?~ dadebiTi molodinis damokidebuleba maswavlebelma SeiZleba Yim sityvebiT gaamyaros, romliTac moswavles mimarTavs. aseT pozitiur molodins ori aspeqti aqvs. pirvelSi SeniRbulia kiTxva, `ratom unda gaakeToT es aucileblad~, romelsac maswavlebeli pirdapir ar ambobs, magram gadascems JestebiTa da damokidebulebiT. dadebiTi molodinis meore aspeqti ki aris gamxneveba, rwmena, `vici, rom amis gakeTeba SegiZliaT~, rac, xSirad, ufro specifikuri saqcielis an kiTxvebis dadebiT debulebebTan (`ar dagaviwydeT xelis aweva~) asocirdeba da ara pirdapir akrZalvasTan (`SewyviteT wamoZaxeba!~). dadebiTi molodinis gadacemis kidev erTi gza aris Tavdajerebuloba Sesatyvisi qcevis moTxovnisas. Tavdajerebulobis efeqtisaTvis li kanteri (Lee Canter) gvirCevs: yuradRebis oTxi moZraobis Sejerebas, rogoric aris TvaliT kontaqti, xelis Jesti, moswavlis saxelis warmoTqma da Sexeba: maswavlebelma SeamCnia, rom stivi uxeSad hkravda xels mwkrivSi mis gverdiT mdgom bavSvebs. is stivTan mivida, TvalebSi Caxeda, mxarze xeli daado da uTxra: `stiv, xe- lebi gaaCere~ (da aCvena sasurveli mdgomareoba) (Canter 1977, gv. 75)* Tu moswavleebi Tavis marTlebiT an sxva TavSesaqcevi moZraobebiT SegvekamaTebian, kanteri gvirCevs `gafuWebuli patefonis~ teqnikas: maswavlebeli: `siu, minda, rom xeli aswio da daicado, sanam gamogiZaxeben~. (survilis debuleba) siu: `ase arc erTi moswavle ar akeTebs~. maswavlebeli: `amas mniSvneloba ar aqvs. minda, rom Sen xeli aswio~. (gafuWebuli patefoni) siu: `Tqven me arasodes miZaxebT~. maswavlebeli: `amas mniSvneloba ar aqvs. me minda, rom Sen xeli aswio~. (gafuWebuli patefoni) siu: `kargiT, avwev~. am dialogSi maswavlebeli ubralod imeorebda (gafuWebuli patefoni) imas, rasac bavSvisgan moiTxovda da sius pasuxebis gamo gzidan ar gadauxvevia. maswavlebelma SeinarCuna bavSvTan urTierTobis kontroli. gafuWebuli patefonis gamoyenebis dros, pirvel yovlisa, saWiroa gansazRvroT, ra gsurT moswavlisgan (`minda, sium aswios xeli~. es xdeba Tqveni survilisa da Tqveni urTierTobis arsis gamoxatva. SegiZliaT Tqveni survilis debulebas win waumZRvaroT: `amas mniSvneloba ar aqvs, magram me minda, rom Sen aswio xeli~, an `mesmis, magram minda, rom Sen aswio xeli~.) mniSvneloba ara aqvs, ra manipulaciur pasuxs warmoadgens moswavle, Tu Tqven survilis debulebiT upasuxebT _ `mniSvneloba ara aqvs, minda, rom Sen~, an `mesmis, magram minda, rom Sen~ _ riTac Tqveni debuleba ufro efeqturi gaxdeba (Canter, gv. 79-80).* es teqnika SeiZleba saocrad efeqtiani iyos, gansakuTrebiT swavlis verbaluri stilis mqone moswavleebTan. Tumca, misi gamoyenebisas unda gaxsovdeT, ra SedegisTvis (SedegTa jaWvisTvis) unda iyoT mzad, arasasurveli saqcielis gagrZelebis SemTxvevaSi. amis gareSe Tavdajerebuloba usafuZvlo iqneba. metic, molodinis samjer gameorebis Semdeg, umjobesia, maswavlebeli mzad iyos Sedegis gansaxorcieleblad. * ibeWdeba nebarTviT. Canter, L. (with M. Canter). Assertive Discipline. Santa Monica, Calif.: Canter and Associates, 1977). 113

Tavi 7<br />

112<br />

II nawili<br />

molodinebisa da Sedegebis sistema<br />

wesebi da maTi Sesabamisi qcevis Sedegebi sakmarisad mkafio da konkretulia Tu ara CemTvis<br />

da Cemi moswavleebisaTvis?<br />

am kiTxvaze pasuxis gacemis wina piroba is aris, rom moswavleebs naTeli da araorazrovani<br />

warmodgena hqondeT imaze, Tu rogor saqciels moelian maTgan. am informaciis gadasacemad<br />

uamravi gza arsebobs: pirdapir Tqma, cxrilis gakeTeba, moulodnelad problemis wamoWra<br />

an klasis Sexvedris dros wesebze SeTanxmeba. xandaxan molodini sistemis saxiT oficialur<br />

wesebad da saboloo formiT ar aris Camoyalibebuli, magram mas maswavleblis reaqciis<br />

mixedviT Tanamimdevrulad ecnobian moswavleebi. nebismier SemTxvevaSi, moswavleTaTvis<br />

molodinis arsi naTeli da konkretuli unda iyos, raTa Tavidan aviciloT gaugebroba (an<br />

kamaTi). SesaZloa, gancxadeba `Cumi kiTxvis droa~ ar kmarodes da klass siCumis ganmarteba<br />

dasWirdes. siCume sruli siCumea, Tu CurCuli an wynari saubari? SeuZliaT moswavleebs am<br />

gansxvavebaTa danaxva da qcevis kontroli? Tu `siCume~ sinamdvileSi `wynars~ niSnavs, maSin,<br />

albaT, mas `siCume~ ar unda vuwodoT da, piriqiT. ras niSnavs gakveTilze droulad misvla?<br />

ara umetes ori wuTiT dagvianebas, zaris dros oTaxSi yofnas, ubralod adgilze yofnas Tu<br />

adgilze gakveTilisTvis mzadyofnas? sad aris gavlebuli es sazRvrebi ufro naklebmniSvnelovania,<br />

vidre maTi mkafiod Camoyalibeba. ar unda arsebobdes eWvi imasTan dakavSirebiT,<br />

rodis dairRva wesi.<br />

mendleri da kurvini (Mendler & Curwin 1983) aRweren wesebis dadgenaSi moswavleTa CarTvis<br />

(e.w. `socialur kontraqtis~) mravalmxriv strategias, rac wesis raobasTan dakavSirebiT<br />

nebismier eWvs ebrZvis. maswavleblis mier savaldebulod misaRebi wesebis Camoyalibebis Semdeg,<br />

moswavleebi mcire jgufebad muSaoben qcevis am wesebis Sedegebis ganxilvaze. (magali-<br />

Tad, `wesi: maswavlebelma unda gamoiZaxos moswavle saxeliT. wesis darRvevis SemTxvevaSi: a)<br />

maswavlebels axseneben wess, b) <strong>maswavlebeli</strong> ixdis bodiSs~. `wesi: maswavlebelma individualurad<br />

unda gaasworos moswavleTa namuSevrebi. wesis darRvevis SemTxvevaSi: <strong>maswavlebeli</strong><br />

moswavleebs waukiTxavs or Tavs im wignidan, romelsac amJamad kiTxulobs~). mendleri da<br />

kurvini ganmartaven:<br />

yvela wessa da mis Sedegs ganixilavs klasi, raTa uzrunvelyofili iyos maTi raobis<br />

swori gageba. rolebis Sesruleba xSirad sasargeblo strategiaa wesisa da Sedegis<br />

zusti mniSvnelobis sailustraciod. magaliTad, zogierT moswavles surs, rom<br />

maswavlebelma ar iyviros. maswavleblisTvis mniSvnelovania, isaubros ufro da<br />

ufro xmamaRla, sanam miiRweva SeTanxmeba imasTan dakavSirebiT, Tu ra aris yvirili<br />

(Mendler and Curwin 1983, gv. 73).<br />

Semdeg mimdinareobs gadawyvetilebis miRebis saguldagulo procesi, romlis drosac<br />

<strong>maswavlebeli</strong> da moswavleebi wyveten, SeTavazebuli wesebidan da Sedegebidan romeli<br />

Seva kontraqtSi. (detaluri informaciisaTvis ix. mendleri da kurvini, gv. 73-74) dabolos,<br />

moswavleebi abareben gamocdas kontraqtis codnaSi. klasSi privilegiis mopoveba testirebaSi<br />

100 quliT xdeba! socialuri kontraqtis es axleburi procedura ramdenime mizans emsaxureba:<br />

pirveli, moswavleTa mier wesebis SemuSaveba sasargebloa maTi Sesrulebis TvalsazrisiT;<br />

meore, kontraqtis codnis Sesamowmebeli testi da misi Sedegebis kavSiri klasSi<br />

privilegiis mopovebasTan, xazs usvams kontraqtisa da wesebis mniSvnelobas.<br />

gadavcemT Tu ara dadebiT molodins?<br />

saWiroa molodini gavimeoroT, Tanac xSirad. aRmoCnda rom, zogierTi <strong>maswavlebeli</strong>, gansakuTrebiT<br />

saswavlo wlis dasawyisSi, xSirad umeorebs da axsenebs moswavleebs molodins,

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