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The girl went out and then came back .. and started beating me and playing
with my penis. Then she carried me into the room and asked me to lie on
her; she was forcing me and I did not know what it was that she was about;
she put me on her and was lifting me up and down…. She must have been
about 16-18 and I was about 12 years old.
The respondent, a 36 year old, was recalling an event that took place
when he was too young to appreciate sexual relations with a person of
the opposite sex. An older girl who may not have had much experience
herself took advantage of the boy’s condition to experiment. The case
seems to fall between rape and masturbation. These are events that are
more rampant that many respondents care to recall and relate. It would
seem that when the victim reported the care-taker’s behaviour to his
mother, the latter did nothing much about it except to desist from entrusting
the care of her children to the girl.
The victim went on to recount another episode of female-male rape or
pseudo-rape.
... we were uprooting the cassava when suddenly she embraced me and pulled
me down, then began to undress me. She laid on me. At that point I was
grown enough to know about sex and what she was attempting to do, though
I did not show interest.
Though there are too few accounts of females attempting to rape boys,
it seems that boys do not usually put up a resistance.
Explaining Non-reportage of Adult Rapes
A Ga cultural expert when asked about rape remarked that ‘Rape did not
exist among Gas, ...’ This statement may seem at first sight surprising but
it reflects the general Ghanaian attitude of denial where rape is concerned.
The public tendency is to raise doubts when a woman reports
having been raped. This is changing thanks to the advocacy role being
played by the alliance of women’s NGOs in recent years, as women’s issues
come to the fore in public discussions. Hitherto it was assumed
that women were to blame for rape episodes, or that those women
claiming to have been raped just wanted to get even with a man by accusing
him of rape in reaction to some unfulfilled promise. Thus the
doubts and the insensitivity that greeted complainants and accusations
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