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My closest ones visited on the first Saturday of July. My father got to know about the real state of the things not until he had arrived after a long car drive. He realised at once his grand parenthood would be a fading dream only. In between the mother had merited herself by attending the child supervisor on the June 30. Her business was to forbid paternity inquest from this municipal authority. The child supervisor Mr Ahti Korhonen told me that later in the August. The mother was to receive child allowance from the municipality, but besides that she began to beg 1500 Marks monthly of me. (~500 USD now). This was the price to be paid for seeing the child, definitely all in cash and without a receipt. Pure extortion, I never paid. My Statement of Paternity I travelled to my relatives in Ostrobotnia in turn and returned from there on the last day of July. I phoned to her to inquiry how they are. The call did not surprise her; we were on terms with each other to be able to talk. I did not know before there is a civil servant in the community called ’child supervisor’. But I was to learn a lot more of the child law in the continuation. I booked time at the supervisor’s to make an account of paternity starting the process from this point. One of his questions embarrassed me particularly. - Can you proove you have slept with the mother of the child at the time of beget I was supposed to name persons who knew we have had a sexual relationship! Some days passed by, I called her up to tell her I visited the supervisor’s just to tell I am the father of this child. The woman began to shrill into the receiver half hysterically “what the devil have you gone to do” I explained “I shall hold on to my fatherhood, that’s the reason.” But I continued promising I shall draw back the given statement before the judge establishes the paternity, provided I may see my daughter. One phone call and the paternity statement was drawn out. The child supervisor Korhonen received the call laconically not at-
tempting to convert me. His indifference made me a bit restless at that moment, since also this baby girl had the right to a father. I got the answers later. The mother promised to allow the child access. Since I knew the law requires the child must be baptised within three months from the birth, I called to the Vigar of Riihimäki parish to get to know the names of my child and the date of christening. It was early autumn. I supposed my daughter might be A. E. which was confirmed by the Vigar. He committed malfeasance doing so. He did not reveal the christening date, but I got to know about it from another source: the day was August 16. I saw my daughter next time in October after begging the mother to let me meet her. I visited her appartement irregularly till the end of the year. In turn she begged for sex of me, which I was rather reluctant to. Sometimes I gave in to her initiatives. She was receiving the child benefit and the communal child support already. She claimed I had to pay 1200 (~400 USD now) Marks monthly and again without a receipt, which was a tie-in with the child access. Free passengers will not be tolerated, she argued. I had just finished my work, being unemployed that time; it was obvious I would not pay such a cut-throat price. She was relentless, now she dropped the price to 800 a month. My paternity was still not confirmed lawful. I was willing to pay first after the confirmation and by the consequent agreement of the child support. Therefore I marched to the child supervisor’s again to renew the paternity statement. She confessed me to be the father of our child with her confirmative signature on the 30 th of December. The child supervisor may have pressurized on her a bit. The Year 1993 The First Agreement on Child Access, Made in the Social Centre I spent the Christmas time at my relatives’, returned home at the Epiphany. The mother arranged child accesses on her condition our sex life would go on. Once a quarrel rose, thereafter I had no contact with the child for a couple of months. I got hot and told her I would sue
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