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tempting to convert me. His indifference made me a bit restless at that<br />
moment, since also this baby girl had the right to a father. I got the answers<br />
later. The mother promised to allow the child access.<br />
Since I knew the law requires the child must be baptised within three<br />
months from the birth, I called to the Vigar of Riihimäki parish to get<br />
to know the names of my child and the date of christening. It was<br />
early autumn. I supposed my daughter might be A. E. which was confirmed<br />
by the Vigar. He committed malfeasance doing so. He did not<br />
reveal the christening date, but I got to know about it from another<br />
source: the day was August 16.<br />
I saw my daughter next time in October after begging the mother to let<br />
me meet her. I visited her appartement irregularly till the end of the<br />
year. In turn she begged for sex of me, which I was rather reluctant to.<br />
Sometimes I gave in to her initiatives. She was receiving the child benefit<br />
and the communal child support already. She claimed I had to<br />
pay 1200 (~400 USD now) Marks monthly and again without a receipt,<br />
which was a tie-in with the child access. Free passengers will<br />
not be tolerated, she argued. I had just finished my work, being unemployed<br />
that time; it was obvious I would not pay such a cut-throat<br />
price. She was relentless, now she dropped the price to 800 a month.<br />
My paternity was still not confirmed lawful. I was willing to pay first<br />
after the confirmation and by the consequent agreement of the child<br />
support. Therefore I marched to the child supervisor’s again to renew<br />
the paternity statement. She confessed me to be the father of our child<br />
with her confirmative signature on the 30 th of December. The child supervisor<br />
may have pressurized on her a bit.<br />
The Year 1993<br />
The First Agreement on Child Access, Made in the Social Centre<br />
I spent the Christmas time at my relatives’, returned home at the Epiphany.<br />
The mother arranged child accesses on her condition our sex<br />
life would go on. Once a quarrel rose, thereafter I had no contact with<br />
the child for a couple of months. I got hot and told her I would sue