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“I saw very clearly the benefit to<br />

our family, not only medical care but<br />

that wonderful holistic support that<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> provides the families.<br />

It has been a most rewarding and<br />

fulfilling six years, I personally get so<br />

much out of it.”<br />

<strong>Di</strong>’s father, Jack Cooper was admitted<br />

to St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong> (our name prior<br />

to our relocation in 2007) in 1981.<br />

“He was there for over 10 weeks<br />

and during Dad’s stay, Mum and I<br />

formed a close relationship with Sister<br />

Margaret Timms and the dedicated<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> staff. After Dad’s passing the<br />

Sisters and some of the nurses became<br />

regular visitors to my mother’s home in<br />

Papakura. Mother would look forward<br />

to these visits and enjoyed preparing<br />

delicious goodies for their morning or<br />

afternoon tea.”<br />

Eight years after her husband’s<br />

December 2009 Newsletter<br />

<strong>Di</strong> <strong>Goldsworthy</strong> with Sister Margaret Timms, taken at a ‘High Tea’ <strong>Di</strong> had<br />

recently to commemorate the 20th anniversary of her mother’s passing.<br />

Firsthand<br />

experience<br />

stirred a<br />

desire to<br />

give back.<br />

Volunteering for <strong>Hospice</strong> can be motivated by any number of reasons. For <strong>Di</strong> <strong>Goldsworthy</strong> it was firsthand<br />

experience of <strong>Hospice</strong> and their involvement with both her father and mother that stirred a desire to give back.<br />

death it became time for Kathleen<br />

(better known as Nan Cooper) to<br />

require hospice care.<br />

“Mum’s dream was to spend her<br />

last days under Sister Margaret’s care.<br />

I rang Sister and she simply said ‘Call<br />

an ambulance and bring her to me’.<br />

What more could we ask for.”<br />

<strong>Di</strong>’s daughter Nicola travelled in<br />

the ambulance with her Nan and <strong>Di</strong><br />

followed in her car. Having made many<br />

trips to St Joseph’s, <strong>Di</strong> was somewhat<br />

surprised when the ambulance driver<br />

turned left off the motorway and<br />

took a completely different direction<br />

to where St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong> was in<br />

Mountain Road, Epsom.<br />

“All of a sudden we were<br />

travelling down Queen Street! I<br />

dutifully followed and eventually<br />

we made it to the <strong>Hospice</strong>.”<br />

On arrival <strong>Di</strong> questioned the<br />

ambulance driver about the detour<br />

and was informed that Mrs Cooper<br />

requested a last look at Smith and<br />

Caughey’s windows!<br />

“I had to laugh, that was Mum to a<br />

tee. She was such a character, tiny in<br />

stature, but very strong minded. I am<br />

sure the ambulance driver didn’t stand<br />

a chance. He simply did as he was told.”<br />

Sister Margaret welcomed her to the<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> by serving afternoon tea in<br />

fine china cups and dainty sandwiches<br />

with the crusts cut off, just as Nan<br />

Cooper would have expected.<br />

Nan was in St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

care for just 10 days, during this time<br />

she celebrated her 74th birthday.<br />

<strong>Di</strong> <strong>Goldsworthy</strong> is a member of the <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

<strong>Auckland</strong> fundraising committee which organises<br />

events such as Shake It Up Baby, featured in this<br />

newsletter. The team also manned a table at the<br />

Strawberry Festival.<br />

Contents: New York Marathon | A Fitting Momento | “Shake It Up Baby” | Ellerslie Shop Moves | $17,000 - Love<br />

Heroic Gardens | <strong>Mercy</strong> History Wall | Remembrance Service | <strong>Di</strong>ary Dates | Thank Yous | Strawberry Festival


November was a month of milestones for many in the hospice, not<br />

least for the team who made a commitment early in 2009 to run the<br />

New York Marathon to raise both funds and awareness for the <strong>Hospice</strong>.<br />

Blisters and<br />

Angel Wings<br />

The team of thirteen<br />

was launched on June 25th after<br />

considerable discussion and personal<br />

thought. It was no light decision to<br />

make and would involve hours of<br />

training and a commitment to fundraising<br />

from each team member.<br />

Everyone paid their own way fully,<br />

but agreed to raise funds for <strong>Mercy</strong><br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong>.<br />

But as Jan Nichols describes it,<br />

“We all decided to run the marathon<br />

as a tribute to people whom we will<br />

never forget. The race was tough - but<br />

knowing what we know and having<br />

met the people we have, we knew<br />

that in the scheme of things it was a<br />

small battle in comparison. We ran by<br />

choice for people who have had<br />

experiences that were not their choice.<br />

We ran for people who have left us<br />

with an enormous sense of value and<br />

appreciation for the life we have.”<br />

It was these sentiments that got the<br />

team through, a mix of novice and elite<br />

runners, many of whom had never<br />

entered anything like this before, but<br />

all inspired to make a difference.<br />

Advice from a variety of fitness<br />

trainers, therapists and well-wishers<br />

assisted with the get fit programme, as<br />

did the advice and inspiration of team<br />

leader Viv James, our Opening Doors<br />

coordinator and experienced runner.<br />

2<br />

Sponsorship by companies such as<br />

2XU that provided training and race<br />

gear, Pasta Nostra, Sky City Cinemas<br />

and Glow Design all helped the team<br />

move forward.<br />

So November 1st dawned - a very<br />

early start, with buses to Staten Island<br />

at 5.45am. One of the world’s great<br />

road races, the 2009 New York<br />

Marathon attracted 43,471 contestants,<br />

before a crowd of over a million cheering<br />

spectators. It is as much a triumph of<br />

logistics as a race. Members of the<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> team left at different start times<br />

depending on their experience, and the<br />

last group didn’t begin running till 10.35.<br />

The team tell us that the race itself<br />

is an unforgettable experience.<br />

Nothing prepares you for the crowds,<br />

the enormous public support all along<br />

the way. When you enter 1st Avenue,<br />

you are met by an unforgettable roar,<br />

which you need for this avenue is very<br />

straight and very long. Even when<br />

Central Park comes into sight, it is<br />

deceptively far away with a gentle but<br />

not so easy undulation all the way<br />

along. By this time your muscles are<br />

really complaining.<br />

Not surprisingly, crossing the finish<br />

line in Central Park is said to be one of<br />

the great thrills of a lifetime. All 13<br />

runners managed to finish in very<br />

respectable although unofficial times<br />

ranging from 3 hours and<br />

5 minutes to 5 hours 29 minutes.<br />

A number of the team managed PBs<br />

and felt they ran with angel wings and<br />

that the people they represented were<br />

there with them urging them on.<br />

“The New York experience - the<br />

marathon and the city - is a once in a<br />

lifetime affair and there is truly<br />

nothing like it. On behalf of the <strong>Mercy</strong><br />

Marathon Team, I would like to thank<br />

all those who have helped us enjoy<br />

that experience through advice,<br />

assistance, sponsorship, messages of<br />

support and contributions.”<br />

Jan Nichols comments.<br />

In total, the team raised just over<br />

$70,000, all of which will go towards a<br />

staff education scholarship fund.<br />

* The full New York Marathon Team is<br />

listed on the ‘Thank Yous’ page later<br />

in this issue<br />

Mark Colthart, with the Inpatient Nurses,<br />

and Jan Nichols. Mark ran the <strong>Auckland</strong><br />

Marathon, achieving a personal best 4:07<br />

and raising a fantastic $9,677.50, the most<br />

money raised in that event.


A Fitting Momento<br />

Goldman Sachs JBWere is a corporate that doesn’t want to just write a<br />

cheque for a charity. They want to do their bit and that involves rolling<br />

up their sleeves and getting stuck in.<br />

Kathleen Fogarty (left) and Kirsten Muxlow of FHE Galleries with Clark Perkins and Amanda Howley (right) of Goldman Sach JBWere<br />

Earlier this year they embarked on<br />

a journey to find three charities to work<br />

with after a private equity fund<br />

matured and there were residual funds<br />

left over. Goldman Sachs JBWere<br />

wanted to put these funds to good use<br />

by supporting New Zealand charities.<br />

Project manager, Amanda Howley<br />

from Goldman Sachs JBWere says<br />

they wanted to assist the charities with<br />

something that was important for them<br />

to achieve.<br />

“It was all about making a true<br />

connection with the chosen charities,<br />

rather than posting off a cheque that<br />

would have little impact on our staff.”<br />

Charities were shortlisted and three<br />

charities were chosen; The Prostate<br />

Cancer Foundation of New Zealand,<br />

Sweet Louise and <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

<strong>Auckland</strong>.<br />

“After meeting with the <strong>Hospice</strong> we<br />

were thrilled with their suggestion to<br />

assist with purchasing artwork.”<br />

FHE Galleries were approached and<br />

came onboard with huge passion and<br />

enthusiasm for the project.<br />

“They were very keen to be a part<br />

of the project. Together we all worked<br />

with the <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> team<br />

discussing what might best suit their<br />

environment. It was such a team effort.”<br />

A decision was made to concentrate<br />

on the entrance of the building and the<br />

two main rooms; a meeting room and<br />

the hospice chapel.<br />

“Through FHE Galleries’ contacts<br />

and their vision, artists Chris Charteris<br />

and Emily Siddell became involved.<br />

The results are incredible.”<br />

Known for his Pacific Island links<br />

Clark Perkins<br />

(CEO of Goldman<br />

Sachs JBWere<br />

at the time)<br />

Chris Charteris has created exquisite<br />

pounamu light boxes. His Aroha<br />

installation has ensured the entrance<br />

to the chapel not only stands out but is<br />

a welcoming beacon for visitors as you<br />

enter through the main doors, while<br />

the Awhi piece radiates a calming energy.<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> CEO Jan<br />

Nichols says the work created by Emily<br />

Siddell is perfectly named.<br />

“It’s called Momento and is a series<br />

of ceramic leaves that cover our chapel<br />

walls. The chapel has been transformed.<br />

It is very simple and very effective.”<br />

Representatives from Goldman<br />

Sachs JBWere joined the hospice team<br />

for a blessing.<br />

“The people at <strong>Hospice</strong> are very<br />

special, we are incredibly lucky to have<br />

this sort of service in our communities.<br />

The people make it. It truly has been a<br />

pleasure to have played a small part in<br />

helping to create such a beautiful and calm<br />

environment for everyone who lives, works<br />

and visits the hospice. The experience<br />

has been very special and fulfilling for<br />

staff at Goldman Sachs JBWere.”<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> has personally touched a number of Goldman Sachs JBWere staff, including one of their own teammates - Doug Smaill. Doug was a<br />

much loved and admired team member of the company. Goldman Sachs JBWere would like to dedicate the beautiful <strong>Hospice</strong> artwork project to his memory.<br />

Let Them Eat Cake!<br />

They certainly will be! We have received record orders for cakes and puddings this year. A big thank you to everyone who<br />

has ordered and to all the volunteers who kindly pounded the pavement to distribute flyers. Don’t forget, there are still<br />

some cakes and puddings available from hospice reception. Contact Sandy McGregor 361 5966.<br />

3


4<br />

The Town Hall<br />

R o ck e d !<br />

Saturday 21st November will be long remembered by hospice staff, friends and<br />

associates and supportive businesses. Because that was the night of the hospice’s<br />

30th birthday at the wonderful <strong>Auckland</strong> Town Hall. ANd iT rocked!<br />

The origins of the evening lay in a<br />

desire to put on a special birthday as<br />

a thank you to all staff and volunteers<br />

for all their hard work over the past 30<br />

years. This happily coincided with fundraising<br />

committee member Cheryl<br />

Whiting’s idea to have a celebration in the<br />

Town Hall. Her efforts and connections<br />

helped make this possible. Special thanks<br />

to His Worship the Mayor John Banks<br />

for his support and to The Edge for their<br />

generosity and great assistance.<br />

Lesley Dawson and the fundraising<br />

team then developed a baby boomers 50s,<br />

60s and 70s theme, “Shake It Up, Baby”,<br />

a lot of which went on, on the night.<br />

A great deal more work behind the<br />

scenes with Ray Columbus and Larry<br />

Morris achieved a stunning line-up of<br />

artists, all of whom were Kiwi icons of<br />

the 60s and 70s.<br />

So to the night, and from the very<br />

beginning, it was clear it was going to<br />

be an evening to remember. Shouts of<br />

Ellerslie Shop Makes a Move<br />

Written by Sarah Moyes, reproduced with thanks to the East and Bays Courier.<br />

celebrate the baby boomer years with mercy hospice auckland<br />

delight could be heard as the 600 plus<br />

guests arrived in an array of 50s, 60s<br />

and 70s gear begged, borrowed, hired,<br />

or found in the dress-up box.<br />

The welcome Pimms immediately<br />

took everyone back to the good old<br />

days, especially after they entered the<br />

main hall, with its disco lighting and<br />

themed balloons.<br />

The night’s entertainment was<br />

incredible, kicking off with MC Frankie<br />

Stevens, and performers Larry Morris<br />

You no longer need a map to find<br />

the <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> shop in Ellerslie.<br />

It’s moved out onto the street and<br />

the bright signs are hard to miss.<br />

Store manager Amanda Killick says<br />

a lot of people didn’t know where the<br />

old shop was because it was hidden<br />

behind other businesses on Main<br />

Highway. “The location was good, but<br />

we had maxed out the client base,”<br />

she says. She believes the shop would<br />

have sold more if they had street<br />

frontage. The new shop, which is the<br />

largest of the six <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> shops<br />

in <strong>Auckland</strong>, has been relocated across<br />

the road to 188 Ladies Mile.


and his band, who also provided backing<br />

for Shane, Suzanne, Tom Sharplin and<br />

Ray Columbus. They were all received<br />

with huge enthusiasm and the dance<br />

floor remained packed all evening.<br />

Great choreography by the Candy Lane<br />

dancers on several songs added to<br />

the mood.<br />

The final set of the night was<br />

performed by Shane Cortese and the<br />

Class of ’58 which was a superb finale<br />

to an already great evening.<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> Ellerslie now sells<br />

electrical goods and furniture, as well<br />

as clothing, home-ware and much<br />

more. “We are always looking for more<br />

good quality products,” says <strong>Mercy</strong><br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> project manager<br />

Sarah Perry.<br />

“People come because they are<br />

supporting the <strong>Hospice</strong>, because the<br />

prices are excellent and because the<br />

shop is fantastic.” Mrs Perry believes<br />

the new shop will bring more people,<br />

especially because a free car park is<br />

just across the road.<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong>’s chief<br />

executive officer Jan Nichols says the<br />

Shake It Up, Baby was great fun,<br />

there was a huge amount of energy<br />

expended on the dance floor (which<br />

actually shook), and everyone went<br />

home buzzing, highly satisfied with<br />

their big night out. As spokesman Larry<br />

Morris commented, “It was a blast and<br />

we were all thrilled with the reaction<br />

we received from those there that very<br />

special evening”.<br />

Visit mercyhospice.org.nz to view and<br />

purchase photos of the night.<br />

hospice shops offer a way for people to<br />

give back to a very special service.<br />

“We currently need to raise more<br />

than $2 million net each year to keep<br />

our community and inpatient services<br />

operating.” She says the shops also<br />

help <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> connect with the<br />

community in a positive way.<br />

The new <strong>Mercy</strong><br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> Ellerslie<br />

shop at 188<br />

Ladies Mile<br />

opened for<br />

business on<br />

November 28th.<br />

Maria, Amanda & Sarah<br />

Special thanks must be extended to the<br />

sponsors - Barfoot & Thompson, The edge,<br />

AppServ, Austins, The New Zealand Herald<br />

and NorWest Advertising.<br />

Also to all the performers. Also Marbecks,<br />

Walker & Hall, Mollies Boutique Hotel and<br />

Frances davies of the international Art<br />

centre, for their generous contribution<br />

of raffle prizes.<br />

Thanks also to the hard-working fundraising<br />

committee - cheryl Whiting, di <strong>Goldsworthy</strong>,<br />

Luna cameron, cyndy Hendry, christina<br />

cairns, Jillian Bashford, Stephanie Tattersfield,<br />

Alma Sax, Penny clydesdale & Lesley dawson.<br />

Also Sara o’Brien for managing the<br />

performers so well, out the back.<br />

Thanks to the fabulous support and generosity of the<br />

following who have helped with the fitout of our new<br />

Ellerslie shop: Patrick Moyne, Shears & Mac4 / Pat Coll,<br />

Coll Electrical Ltd / Shaun Bartlett, Godfrey Hirst Carpets /<br />

Dean Stuart, Total Supply Ltd / Joel Tetro, Sign of the<br />

Times Ltd / Leigh <strong>Di</strong>xon, Planit Design / Grant Nicoll,<br />

National Glass / Leanne Selwood, A E Tilley Ltd / Karen<br />

Valder, Commercial Office Equipment Ltd / Nathan<br />

Takau, Aluminium Security Doors & Screens / Stan<br />

Murphy, Swinnock Industries Ltd / Sunil Kumar, A1<br />

Cleaners / Brett Webster, Fire Control Services Ltd /<br />

George Martin, Global Bizpro / Robert Faasse, Fox<br />

Faasse & Baddock Ltd / Andrew Flint, Surplus Traders Ltd /<br />

Bruce Woodman, Aegis Ltd / Leonard St James<br />

Vander Vlis, Ullrich Aluminium Company / Andrew<br />

Brown, Connect NZ Ltd / Craig Mathieson, Armstrong<br />

Smarter Security / Brett Mattson, W. Mattson Ltd /<br />

Peter Jolliffe, J. R. Webb & Son (1932) Ltd / Karen<br />

Warman, Resene Paints / Paul Wilson, Faulkner Collins /<br />

Karen Jennings, Checkpoint Security Systems Ltd /<br />

Ian Cooke, Glass Arts / David Perry, Buddle Findlay<br />

Barristers & Solicitors. Amanda Killick also thanked the<br />

whole Ellerslie business community for its support,<br />

particularly Rennells Jewellers & Engravers,<br />

Gemmell’s Footwear and Ellerslie Eyecare.<br />

5


6<br />

Heroic Gardens Festival<br />

6th-7th March 2010<br />

The Heroic Gardens Festival has<br />

chosen <strong>Hospice</strong> NZ and the hospices<br />

of the <strong>Auckland</strong> region as the<br />

beneficiaries of this fabulous two day<br />

garden festival for a second year<br />

running. This event raised $30,000 for<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> in 2009 and promises an even<br />

bigger and better festival for March<br />

2010. At the time of going to print, 28<br />

gardens are confirmed as participants<br />

including both small city and large<br />

country gardens, the Rannoch<br />

Sculpture Forest and the Kelliher<br />

Estate on Puketutu Island. This festival<br />

has plenty of subtropicals, dramatic<br />

foliage and architectural delight.<br />

It showcases <strong>Auckland</strong>’s summer<br />

life-style and generally provides an<br />

inspiration for visitors.<br />

Tickets are $30 each and all ticket<br />

sales go to <strong>Hospice</strong>. Tickets and<br />

programmes will be available from 1st<br />

February 2010. The programme will<br />

be published in the February issue of<br />

NZ Gardener and will also be available<br />

at garden centres and selected retailers,<br />

Wish List: •Foosball Football Table<br />

•<br />

White wine, especially Chardonnay<br />

Photocopy paper<br />

Table cloths<br />

OPENINGDOORS<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> and www.heroicgardens.org.nz<br />

Christmas Gift Vouchers for tickets<br />

are available through <strong>Hospice</strong>. We will<br />

send to your chosen recipients, the<br />

programme and actual tickets closer<br />

to the event. Contact Verity at <strong>Mercy</strong><br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> on 361 5966 to<br />

purchase your tickets, which can also<br />

be purchased at the gate on the day.<br />

Or pay $5 per garden that you visit.<br />

Additional volunteers to help on<br />

gates are welcome, please contact<br />

Verity if you would like to assist.<br />

The Pat McKenzie Memorial Tennis Tournament took place on Friday 4th September and raised<br />

close to $17,000 towards the palliative care services of the <strong>Hospice</strong>.<br />

Players participated in a doubles tournament which<br />

meant there were many happy winners to take home<br />

prizes. Tennis players and spectators also participated<br />

in a live auction where a painting by New Zealand<br />

artist, Helena Blair sold for $2,000, and where<br />

“nothing” sold for $200. To sweeten things up there was<br />

an array of delicious jams and chutneys available for<br />

sale and Christmas cake from The Great New Zealand<br />

Christmas Cake Co. to sample and buy for Christmas.<br />

Volunteer and Event Coordinator for this tournament,<br />

•<br />

Boxed or loose chocolates for special celebrations<br />

Cotton balls, nail polish remover, nail files and a Therapist<br />

to donate a few hours a week - please contact Julie Reid<br />

Sue Rowell was most impressed with the generosity<br />

from the sponsors, players and spectators and is<br />

delighted with the amount raised.<br />

As there simply isn’t room to thank all our sponsors and<br />

helpers by name we would like to thanks those who<br />

sponsored courts - ARA Lodge, Ariadne Marinas<br />

Oceania Pty Ltd, Astor Construction, Barfoot & Thompson<br />

Real Estate, Coll Electrical, Red Bull and Walker & Hall,<br />

and everyone else who helped to make this such a<br />

successful day.


History Wall tells<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong>’s <strong>Hospice</strong> Story<br />

In August <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> marked its 30th birthday with an open day for families and friends, offering a chance to<br />

inspect the newly installed history wall which tells the story of <strong>Mercy</strong>’s ongoing care for those with life-limiting illnesses.<br />

“Modern palliative care has made<br />

huge advances” says Sr Margaret<br />

Timms, “and <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong><br />

is among the leaders in the field. But<br />

the foundations were laid by our<br />

pioneer sisters who established the<br />

Mater in 1900. We stand today on<br />

their shoulders.”<br />

Combining text and photos, the<br />

five-metre wall is made from a series<br />

of scrolls, woven through vertical rods.<br />

The weaving concept was developed<br />

to illustrate the intertwining of the<br />

many threads of the story.<br />

It also reflects the link with the<br />

cloak that gives the hospice its Maori<br />

name, Te Korowai Atawhai.<br />

A koru design derived from the<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> logo visually links and focuses<br />

on the bronze by Gael O’Leary,<br />

originally cast for <strong>Mercy</strong> Hospital,<br />

which traces the ministries brought by<br />

the Sisters of <strong>Mercy</strong> from Ireland to<br />

New Zealand and the Pacific.<br />

Nurse Manager, Julia Thomson,<br />

who is also on the hospices’ mission<br />

team, says plans for the wall began to<br />

take shape after <strong>Mercy</strong> Hospital was<br />

sold in 2001. “There was a feeling that<br />

the history of the hospice would be<br />

lost unless there was a concerted<br />

effort to capture it.<br />

After we moved to College Hill<br />

it seemed timely to put something<br />

together for our 30th anniversary.”<br />

At that point, Penny Clydesdale<br />

and Warren Bott of NorWest<br />

Advertising were briefed to develop<br />

the concept for the wall. Penny<br />

worked with a number of the Sisters<br />

of <strong>Mercy</strong>, to identify strands of<br />

the story, among them archivist Sr<br />

Marcienne Kirk, Sr Margaret Timms<br />

and Sr Rita Vessey, a former Sister<br />

Administrator of <strong>Mercy</strong> Hospital. Penny<br />

comments, “It was fascinating to<br />

unravel the key steps in the <strong>Hospice</strong>’s<br />

history with the Sisters. Delightful<br />

material such as Sr Philomena’s diary<br />

of the Sisters’ first voyage to New<br />

Zealand in 1831, the original of which<br />

is still safely stored in the archives,<br />

shed interesting and often humorous<br />

light on the subject.”<br />

Back from a pilgrimage to Baggot<br />

Street earlier this year, hospice CEO<br />

Jan Nichols brought her own sense of<br />

the <strong>Mercy</strong> story.<br />

The final history was then<br />

transformed into the wall design by<br />

Penny and Warren, which was then<br />

installed with the generous assistance<br />

and manpower of Espies Ltd.<br />

“The whole concept has turned<br />

out very well”, Julia comments, “with<br />

a good response from the sisters and<br />

other guests who visited on our recent<br />

open day and felt the wall helps to<br />

capture the legacy of <strong>Mercy</strong>.<br />

The history wall provides everyone<br />

involved here - staff, volunteers and<br />

patients - with a sense that they<br />

belong to something extraordinary,<br />

which has grown and continued to<br />

evolve for over 180 years.”<br />

Penny Clydesdale, NorWest Advertising<br />

with Sr Teresa Anderson<br />

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I have been very aware this year of the number of eating places - hotels and<br />

the like - who have advertised Christmas <strong>Di</strong>nners and invited the public to<br />

“book soon” for these events. Perhaps for the cook or chef in the family,<br />

having the Christmas dinner prepared and served would be a great attraction.<br />

For others there is no cosy home, or larger family gathering; those living alone<br />

may well wish for more company at the meal table, once a year at least. Other<br />

people may desire, or need, a change; something different this Christmas to<br />

help face their altered personal circumstances for this seasonal celebration.<br />

Along with all the other celebrations of the season ‘Christmas <strong>Di</strong>nner’ is often<br />

a major event, with its own traditions and family customs. <strong>Di</strong>fferent cultures<br />

and religions place a lot of emphasis around the hospitality of the meal;<br />

offering and preparing food, then the fellowship of eating and drinking<br />

together. Sharing food draws people closer, it can create a special kind of<br />

intimacy where strangers become friends and memories are created.<br />

This Christmas we will recall those who have sat and shared with us in past<br />

years. In your remembering, you may wish to name these you love aloud, or<br />

silently in your hearts and minds. Say their name(s), and maybe raise a glass<br />

and give thanks for all you shared.<br />

Mealtimes can become a special time of remembering, and<br />

Christmas perhaps even more. I trust your Christmas will be<br />

blessed with good memories as you observe the feast this year. I<br />

hope you are able to create new memories this Christmas for the<br />

years ahead.<br />

Remembrance Service<br />

Join us for our<br />

Christmas Remembrance Service<br />

This will be held in the <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

61 College Hill, Ponsonby<br />

Thursday 17th December 7pm<br />

This is an opportunity for family and friends to<br />

gather for a time of reflection and to honour<br />

the memory of those who have died.<br />

We look forward to welcoming you.<br />

Shalom (peace)<br />

Robert Matthews,<br />

Pastoral care Coordinator, <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong><br />

Some of you may not be able (or wish)<br />

to join us for this Remembrance<br />

Service. You can however remember<br />

a loved one through our New Zealand<br />

Christmas Memories Tree on our<br />

website. Visit mercyhospice.org.nz to<br />

buy a Pohutakawa memory blossom in<br />

the name of your loved one.<br />

Don’t forget, this year as always we<br />

will have our Remembrance Trees at<br />

selected shopping malls.


What is Quality?<br />

William Foster stated that quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere<br />

effort, intelligent direction and skilful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives.<br />

In 1992 when St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

was part of <strong>Mercy</strong> Hospital we<br />

undertook our first Accreditation<br />

Survey. Since that time we have been<br />

surveyed every three years. These<br />

surveys highlight the areas we excel in<br />

but they also identify areas that we<br />

can improve on. As we work on these<br />

opportunities for improvement so<br />

we build on our Quality foundations.<br />

Quality, whilst being the fabric of<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> requires<br />

constant commitment behind the<br />

scenes to make it happen. Our<br />

commitment to Quality is significant.<br />

Our Quality Committee meets monthly<br />

and our Quality Manager oversees our<br />

project teams. To hone our skills we enter<br />

December 2009 Newsletter<br />

<strong>Di</strong> goldsworthy with Sister Margaret Timms, taken at a ‘High Tea’ <strong>Di</strong> had<br />

recently to celebrate the 20th anniversary of her mother’s passing.<br />

? ?<br />

? ?<br />

Firsthand<br />

experience<br />

stirred a<br />

desire to<br />

give back.<br />

?<br />

?<br />

? ?<br />

Volunteering for <strong>Hospice</strong> can be motivated by any number of reasons. For <strong>Di</strong> <strong>Goldsworthy</strong> it was firsthand<br />

experience of <strong>Hospice</strong> and their involvement with both her father and mother that stirred a desire to give back.<br />

“I saw very clearly the benefit to death it became time for Kathleen ambulance driver about the detour<br />

our family, not only medical care but (better known as Nan Cooper) to and was informed that Mrs Cooper<br />

that wonderful holistic support that require <strong>Hospice</strong> care.<br />

requested a last look at Smith and<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> provides the families.<br />

“Mum’s dream was to spend her Caughey’s windows!<br />

It has been a most rewarding and last days under Sister Margaret’s care. “I had to laugh, that was Mum to a<br />

fulfilling six years, I personally get so I rang Sister and she simply said ‘Call tee. She was such a character, tiny in<br />

much out of it.”<br />

an ambulance and bring her to me’. stature, but very strong minded. I am<br />

What more could we ask for.”<br />

sure the ambulance driver didn’t stand<br />

to St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong> (our name prior <strong>Di</strong>’s daughter Nicola travelled in<br />

to our relocation in 2007) in 1981. the ambulance with her Nan and <strong>Di</strong><br />

“He was there for over 10 weeks followed in her car. Having made many <strong>Hospice</strong> by serving afternoon tea in<br />

and during Dad’s stay, Mum and I trips to St. Joseph’s, <strong>Di</strong> was somewhat fine china cups and dainty sandwiches<br />

formed a close relationship with Sister surprised when the ambulance driver with the crusts cut off, just as Nan<br />

Margaret Timms and the dedicated turned left off the motorway and took Cooper would have expected.<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> staff. After Dad’s passing the a completely different direction to Nan was in St Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

Sisters and some of the nurses became where St. Joseph’s <strong>Hospice</strong> was in care for just 10 days, during this time<br />

regular visitors to my mother’s home in Mountain Road, Epsom.<br />

she celebrated her 74th birthday.<br />

Papakura. Mother would look forward “All of a sudden we were<br />

travelling down Queen Street! I<br />

delicious goodies for their morning or dutifully followed and eventually<br />

afternoon tea.”<br />

we made it to the <strong>Hospice</strong>.”<br />

Eight years after her husband’s On arrival <strong>Di</strong> questioned the<br />

<strong>Di</strong>’s father, Jack Cooper was admitted<br />

to these visits and enjoyed preparing<br />

? ? ?<br />

?<br />

? ?<br />

? ?<br />

a chance. He simply did as he was told.”<br />

Sister Margaret welcomed her to the<br />

<strong>Di</strong> <strong>Goldsworthy</strong> is a member of the <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

<strong>Auckland</strong> fundraising cimmittee which organises<br />

events such as Shake It Up Baby, featured in this<br />

newsletter. The team also manned a table at the<br />

Strawberry Festival.<br />

New Newsletter<br />

Name<br />

quality innovation awards. Particularly<br />

recognised has been our Day Stay<br />

programme (Opening Doors).<br />

Your contribution is important to<br />

us. We take your feedback and any<br />

complaints very seriously and we work<br />

on all of your issues to improve the<br />

quality of the care we provide. To raise<br />

the bar even higher we are working with<br />

the NZ Business Excellence Foundation<br />

to take Quality to a new level. This<br />

international framework gives us the<br />

opportunity to benchmark against the<br />

best in the world and we will keep you<br />

informed of our progress. We are very<br />

fortunate to have wonderful links to<br />

world class health care providers who<br />

help and support us on our way. We<br />

A good number of names were<br />

entered into our “Name the<br />

Newsletter” competition.<br />

Thank you to all those who put<br />

their thinking caps on. The final<br />

selected title will stay under wraps<br />

until the February 2010 issue.<br />

Contents: The Prime Minister’s Second Visit | Garden Sanctuary | Marathon Update | Celebrating 30 Years<br />

Strawberry Festival | Opening Doors | <strong>Di</strong>ary Dates | Wish List | Thank Yous | Earlybird Christmas Shopping<br />

As<br />

always,<br />

we will have<br />

our remembrance<br />

trees in 4 of <strong>Auckland</strong>’s<br />

shopping malls 277<br />

on Broadway, St Lukes,<br />

Eastridge and Royal Oak.<br />

For a donation, you can select a bauble,<br />

write the name of the loved one you<br />

wish to remember and hang it on the tree.<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

TREES<br />

would particularly like to thank NZBEF<br />

for their sponsorship.<br />

“Quality is not an act,<br />

it is a habit”. Aristotle<br />

To give your feedback please click<br />

the feedback icon on our website.<br />

Or write to our CEO at PO Box<br />

47693, Ponsonby.<br />

Moving in with Old Friends<br />

In September <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong>’s inpatient unit was relocated<br />

for a total of ten days. Intensive corrective work was needed<br />

on our floors - a daunting task.<br />

This was made easier by <strong>Mercy</strong>Ascot Hospital who offered us<br />

a full ward for a two week period while surgeons were on leave.<br />

The location was new for us - Ascot Hospital in Greenlane,<br />

but many of the people and services were familiar from our<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> Hospital days. Catering, cleaning, pharmacy,<br />

security and other support were all provided by Ascot staff<br />

who were extremely accommodating and welcoming.<br />

We value the tradition of collegiality and service with<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong>Ascot Hospital, built over many years and wish to<br />

thank them again for their invaluable assistance.<br />

Get your running<br />

shoes on for <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

Sign up for the Round the Bays 2010, Sunday 14th March<br />

and run for <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong>.<br />

If you’re interested in running/walking for us and raising<br />

funds, please contact Verity on 361 5966.<br />

For information about the actual event<br />

visit www.roundthebays.co.nz<br />

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<strong>Di</strong>ary Dates:<br />

EVERY TUESDAY at 10.30am -<br />

Bereavement Team Walking Group<br />

Please telephone the <strong>Hospice</strong> reception<br />

on 361 5966 if you are interested.<br />

OPENINGDOORS<br />

OPENING DOORS<br />

EVERY TUESDAY - 10am to 2pm<br />

WEDNESDAY - 10am to midday<br />

Our Day Stay programme at the <strong>Hospice</strong>,<br />

61 College Hill, Ponsonby. Contact Viv<br />

James for more information on 361 5966.<br />

CANDLE LIGHTING SERVICE<br />

Every Wednesday at Midday<br />

Held in the chapel at the <strong>Hospice</strong>,<br />

61 College Hill, Ponsonby.<br />

DECEMBER<br />

Thursday 17th.<br />

Remembrance Service<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong>,<br />

61 College Hill, Ponsonby,<br />

7pm.<br />

FEBRUARY 2010<br />

Sunday 7th<br />

Sunday Club Bereavement Support Group<br />

St Peter’s Anglican Church, cnr Church St &<br />

Onehunga Mall between 3.00pm and 4.30pm.<br />

Please phone the <strong>Hospice</strong> reception for more<br />

information on 361 5966.<br />

MARCH 2010<br />

6th-7th<br />

Heroic Gardens Festival.<br />

A number of beautiful gardens.<br />

See the article earlier in this issue.<br />

Sunday 14th<br />

Round the Bays<br />

Run for <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> - see the<br />

article earlier in this issue.<br />

Date to be confirmed<br />

Garden Party, Florence Court, Epsom<br />

For tickets, sponsorship opportunities<br />

and donations of prizes please contact<br />

Lesley Dawson 2376 7571.<br />

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Thank<br />

Yous<br />

• ARA Charitable Trust for their<br />

recent and continued sponsorship<br />

of our hospice fundraising events<br />

• ASB Community Trust for funding<br />

towards essential operating and<br />

equipment costs<br />

• CR Stead Trust for a contribution<br />

towards petrol costs for our fleet<br />

of motor vehicles<br />

• The Holzer Trust and Les Wood<br />

Masonic Trust for their contribution<br />

towards operating costs<br />

• Four Winds Foundation for funds<br />

to purchase stackable chairs<br />

• Community Post who recently<br />

provided us with 1,000 free<br />

envelopes<br />

• Mt Wellington Foundation for<br />

their contribution towards salaries<br />

of 2 community nurses working in<br />

the Mt Wellington, Glen Innes,<br />

Tamaki and Ellerslie areas<br />

• The Maurice Paykel Charitable<br />

Trust for their contribution<br />

towards meals for patients in the<br />

inpatient unit for six months<br />

• The New Zealand Community<br />

Trust for their contribution<br />

towards operating costs<br />

• The William & Lois Manchester<br />

Trust for their continued support<br />

• Rotary Club of Newmarket for the<br />

funds to purchase a television for<br />

our family lounge and a specialised<br />

electric lift chair for one of our<br />

inpatient rooms<br />

• Ted & Mollie Carr Endowment<br />

Fund for their contribution<br />

towards clinical staff salaries<br />

• Redwood Charitable Trust for their<br />

continued support of our services<br />

through grant funding<br />

• Vodafone NZ staff who raised<br />

$2,925.40 from the hat day they<br />

organized in memory of a<br />

staff member<br />

• New World Victoria Park and<br />

Remuera stores for donating<br />

grocery vouchers and selling<br />

Strawberry Angels<br />

• Epsom Girls Grammar for organising<br />

a fundraising Op Shop market day<br />

• St Cuthberts College $696.90 -<br />

Year 12 Mufti Day and Glendowie<br />

College $1,606.60 - Mufti Day<br />

• New York Marathon Team -<br />

Jan Nichols, Viv James, <strong>Di</strong>anne<br />

Cochrane, Toni Edwards, June<br />

McCathie, Kristy Robertson, Ruth<br />

Jillings, Tim James, Simon Cochrane,<br />

Derek Meyer, Geoff Watson,<br />

Amanda Trail and Tony Banks


Strawberry Festival<br />

Strawberries – sweet, red, juicy - a symbol of new life and ‘living every moment.’ What better way to celebrate<br />

spring and the arrival of the festive season than a taste of these gorgeous berries?<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> was<br />

delighted to host the inaugural<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> Strawberry Festival in the<br />

heart of <strong>Auckland</strong> City. This was part<br />

of a national event for <strong>Hospice</strong> with<br />

13 hospices around the country<br />

participating in the fundraising effort.<br />

On the day of the festival <strong>Auckland</strong><br />

City commuters were welcomed to the<br />

event in style by the “Strawberry<br />

Angels” and invited to chill out and<br />

enjoy their strawberries and ice cream<br />

in the afternoon sun. QEII square was<br />

transformed into a festival atmosphere<br />

with music, live entertainment,<br />

marquees and a café setting providing<br />

a welcome place to relax for city<br />

office workers.<br />

Fundraiser Verity Lee Sang says the<br />

inaugural event had a great response<br />

from the public and was a fantastic<br />

opportunity to raise awareness of<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong>.<br />

The tables were manned by volunteers<br />

from BNZ, House of Travel, Air New<br />

Zealand, Vodafone and Crockers who<br />

dished up over 2,000 serves of spring<br />

strawberries and ice cream topped off<br />

with strawberry syrup.<br />

<strong>Auckland</strong> Mayor John Banks joined<br />

the festivities at lunchtime and made<br />

a few sales - as well as having a taste<br />

himself, though he admits he enjoyed<br />

the ice cream the most. “I have been<br />

supporting the <strong>Hospice</strong> movement<br />

all my life, it is one of the great<br />

caring charities in this country.”<br />

said Mr Banks.<br />

Also on sale were fresh strawberry<br />

punnets, strawberry plants, strawberry<br />

tarts, Christmas cakes and the collectible<br />

<strong>Hospice</strong> Strawberry Angel Christmas<br />

decoration which you can purchase<br />

too, at the locations listed below.<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> acknowledges<br />

the generous support of sponsors that<br />

Mayor John Banks with some of the fundraising team Three “Strawberry Angels”<br />

Only<br />

$10!<br />

helped make the success of this event<br />

possible. Special mention must go to<br />

PSIS Onehunga and <strong>Auckland</strong> City<br />

branches for sponsoring all the festival<br />

marketing materials, Tip Top for<br />

providing the yummy ice cream,<br />

Carlton Party Hire, Town and Country<br />

Marquee Hire, Ripe Deli for their<br />

gorgeous strawberry tarts, AUT PR<br />

students and all those who distributed<br />

flyers and posters on the day.<br />

“The generosity of all those<br />

involved will be appreciated by many<br />

patients and their families through the<br />

services that can be provided with<br />

these funds,” says <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong><br />

<strong>Auckland</strong> CEO, Jan Nichols.<br />

In all $22,482 was raised from the<br />

event with additional sales of<br />

Strawberry Angels expected to take<br />

this total well over $30,000.<br />

2009 <strong>Hospice</strong> Collectable<br />

Strawberry Angels<br />

The star of our 2009 Strawberry Festival and one of what will be an annual collectible<br />

Christmas tree decoration, our Strawberry Angel is just $10. To purchase yours, visit any<br />

one of our <strong>Hospice</strong> Shops - Blockhouse Bay, Ellerslie, Mt Eden, Pt Chev and Royal Oak<br />

or New World Victoria Park Market, New World Remuera or the <strong>Hospice</strong> reception.<br />

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If you no longer wish to receive this newsletter, please let us know:<br />

<strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong><br />

Tel: 09 361 5966. Fax: 09 361 5977<br />

email: admin@mercyhospice.org.nz<br />

PO Box 47693 Ponsonby, 1144<br />

61 College Hill, Ponsonby<br />

<strong>Auckland</strong><br />

That thought was really put into<br />

perspective the next day when I was<br />

talking to Julia, our Nurse Manager.<br />

She was reviewing our needs for care<br />

equipment, including specialist<br />

mattresses that we currently have to<br />

rent for our most needy patients.<br />

She explained that some of the<br />

patients are so very frail, with tissuethin<br />

skin, that the simple act of moving<br />

them can be very distressing. But they<br />

have to be moved, for dignity, and to<br />

maintain skin integrity.<br />

Consequently, they need an extra<br />

comfortable mattress. No ordinary<br />

mattress but actually made up of<br />

fifteen individual air cushions, each of<br />

which is inflated to the correct level for<br />

the individual patient. Being computer<br />

controlled, the cushions can be used<br />

to move someone or even to provide<br />

pulsation therapy. The temperature of<br />

the air can also be adjusted to warm a<br />

patient when needed.<br />

At <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong>, we<br />

have to rent these mattresses for our<br />

most needy patients. “So why don’t<br />

we have our own?” I asked.<br />

“We wish we did - two in fact” said<br />

my colleague. “But they are so expensive<br />

- well over ten thousand dollars to<br />

buy - with specialist cleaning on top.“<br />

She paused and enquired cautiously,<br />

“Do you think our supporters could<br />

help us on this?”<br />

Now it was my turn to be cautious.<br />

“They have been incredibly generous<br />

in the past”, I replied. “Last year for<br />

example, we needed some new pain<br />

pumps. Our supporters rallied round<br />

and, as a direct result, we now have<br />

twenty new pumps.”<br />

“I suppose everyone knows that it<br />

has been a tough year for finances -<br />

D.O.B: / /<br />

www.mercyhospice.org.nz<br />

“How much? For a mattress!”<br />

�<br />

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<strong>With</strong> Christmas coming and friends and family to stay, I decided it was time to stop making do, time to get a decent<br />

replacement for that leaky, inflatable mattress. When you spend a third of your life in bed, a mattress is not something<br />

that you economise on. But when I heard the cost, I was still taken aback. It’s only a mattress!<br />

but hopefully our most loyal supporters<br />

would understand if we were to ask<br />

them again? And it is Christmas.”<br />

So that is why I am writing to you.<br />

Yes, these mattresses are very expensive.<br />

But if we could all make a gift of whatever<br />

could be afforded this Christmas,<br />

we would be able to get one (or maybe<br />

even two) of these specialist pieces<br />

of care equipment. These are not a<br />

luxury. They are precision items<br />

that are really needed by the most<br />

vulnerable. Can you help us please?<br />

Thank you for all of your support<br />

in the past, for listening and for your<br />

consideration once again. <strong>With</strong> all of<br />

our best wishes for Christmas and<br />

the New Year.<br />

Sandy McGregor<br />

P.S. What about my mattress? I can wait until the<br />

New Year sales. I just wish that all of our patients<br />

had that same option open to them as well.<br />

Please post this donation response to <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> in the envelope provided.<br />

Or visit www.mercyhospice.org.nz to donate online.<br />

I wish to make a bequest to hospice, please send me details<br />

I have left a bequest to <strong>Mercy</strong> <strong>Hospice</strong> <strong>Auckland</strong> in my will<br />

I wish to donate by Automatic payment, please send me details<br />

• All donations of over $5 will be sent a receipt.<br />

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