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HERLIFE | content 

AUGUST 2012 

Amy JAmes: One WOmAn Finds Her VOice 

It started as a lark in high school that soon sparked into a full-time career. When Amy James found her voice– 

literally–radio listeners in the Twin Cities area were the lucky ones. Now broadcasting midday during the week on 

K102 FM, Amy shares how following her passion was music to her ears! 

TOp sTyle misTAkes 

No one intends to look unkempt, disheveled or 

inappropriate when she leaves the house, but 

sometimes it happens. people tend to repeat their 

“favorite” style mistakes because of habit or reinforced 

perceptions of how they think they appear. Therefore, 

it makes sense to attempt to refrain from making some 

of the most common errors while striving to look your 

best 

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Fun FAmily GAme niGHT ideAs 

Cell phones, video games and computers are a prevalent 

part of many families’ lives these days, but they don’t 

have to rule the roost when it comes to entertaining the 

troops. As much as our children may want us to think they 

are mortified at the idea of being cooped up rolling the 

dice with dear old mom and dad, they just might welcome 

the switch from normal plans and even enjoy family time 

without disturbance from modern-day media. 

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SpoTlIGhT 14 

beAUTy 16 

INSpIrATIoNS 18 

reCIpeS 22 

TreNdSeTTer 24 

MoTher’S perSpeCTIve 30 

WorKING WoMeN 34 

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Ah, summer in Minnesota. Everyone is going “up north” or 

“to the cabin” on the weekends, and for the lucky ones, many 

weekdays. I’ve been fortunate to have friends and family who 

have cabins in many of the lakes areas in Northern and Central Minnesota—all 

special in their own way with different vintages, styles and 

shapes, and all truly fantastic! From Gull Lake to Crosslake to Maple 

Lake…you can’t take a wrong turn (and added bonus, nachos and 

pizza at Zorbaz is on or near them all!). 

The cabin is a great way to beat the heat when temperatures 

soar and I’m sure you all have your favorite ways to chill out (Slip-N- 

Slide anyone?). I know for my dog Oliver, it’s a ride in the car with 

the windows down, tongue flapping in the wind… 

Whether it’s one hour or five, there’s something about the road 

trip from the Cities to our cabin destinations that is so much fun. It’s 

like cabin weekend begins out on the open road! And there’s no better 

summer soundtrack when heading north than country music. Phil Vassar 

said it best, “Sing to me babe I’ll be your dashboard drummer!” 

Our cover girl, Amy James, has been providing that soundtrack 

over the airwaves for years. From International Falls, to Fargo, to K102 

in the Twin Cities, she simply makes you feel good! Her energy and 

sweet personality, mixed with rocking country anthems, cause you to 

forget everything you know about HD TVs and laptops. 

When it comes down to it, I think what we mostly love about the 

cabin is that it is a retreat filled with simple days. It’s incredible how 

time flies so much quicker sitting around a bonfire, playing cards or 

listening to the radio, rather than our “fast-paced,” high-tech entertainment 

back home. A day at the cabin really is worth a month in town! 

Lindsey Lee


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HERLIFE | health 


defining your path 

to Sustainable Fitness 

The first step on your path to fitness may not be the one you 

think. In fact, it may not even include the word “exercise.” 

How is this possible, you ask? Simply put, many people start 

out with good intentions only to mistake strategy for fitness goals. 

The first step in creating a fitness plan that lasts relies heavily on that 

second word—plan. Losing a pre-defined amount of weight, such 

as ten pounds, is not a final fitness goal. Running five miles is not 

a fitness goal. Doing 100 abdominal crunches each day is not the 

ultimate target when planning a permanent health regimen. While 

these are all great accomplishments and may very well be a large 

part of the activities you perform to become healthy, they are more 

accurately described as milestones on the path to reaching your true 

goal, which is permanent fitness health. 

Knowing how to reach your goal is the key. There are many resources 

to help you create steps to achieve your goal, such as reading 

books, browsing the Internet or consulting with a fitness professional. 

Take advantage of the knowledge and techniques available from your 

personal trainer. He or she will likely be more than happy to share 

any information that will make your personal goals easier to obtain. 

To be effective, ultimate goals need to be long-term. This is im- 

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portant to understand because fitness cannot be achieved overnight, 

or in one week, or even in one month. The first step in achieving 

true fitness is to identify and understand your overall fitness goal. 

It is at that point that you can create a sustaining and reasonable 

fitness program to get you there. People often say they exercise “to be 

healthy.” While that’s true, it’s vague. Without goals that are specific, 

measurable and tangible, it’s difficult to reward yourself and stay 

focused on long-term behaviors. 

Once you know what you want, the next step is to figure out 

how to go about creating a plan. To achieve the long-term results 

defined above, it’s crucial to divide the process into short-term goals. 

Short-term goals are day-to-day goals that will, in the end, help you 

achieve your overall fitness goal. These will include positive habit 

development like eating breakfast, getting a minimum eight hours of 

sleep and drinking plenty of water. Consistency plays a big role in the 

pattern development necessary to achieve your goals. 

According to Sami Papacek, Wellness Program Manager at 

Kansas City Cancer Center and The University of Kansas Cancer 

Center, a fitness plan that will last needs to be “stick-tuitive.” 

“A stick-tuitive plan has a few important qualities. It will include

activities that get visible results, meaning you 

have to be able to see that it makes a change 

in your body either physically or in how you 

feel,” shared Sami. “If you are simply taking 

a walk every day, then you may notice results 

at first. But once that initial excitement wears 

off, what is going to get you out of bed when 

you are tired? If you do the same exercise 

routine and your mind is bored, so is your 

body!” Sami recommends that your fitness 

program stays fresh by: changing up your 

fitness routine every six weeks; make it fun 

and don’t choose exercises that don’t fit your 

personality (some people love biking, others 

don’t); try new things and new classes, and 

don’t feel you have to commit for a year with 

a long-term contract at a gym; get a trainer 

for at least a few sessions so you can learn the 

basics that you should be able to continue on 

your own; check out YouTube or other websites 

for free or inexpensive workout ideas; 

and, sign up for a community events where 

you walk or run because being with others 

can offer a great sense of motivation and 

pride as well as a change in your fitness plan. 

Give yourself enough time to achieve 

your personal expectations. Reaching your 

goals will require patience. In the end, giving 

yourself a realistic timeframe will help keep 

you from becoming frustrated and disappointed. 

Create a reward system in order to 

maintain interest and increase the likelihood 

of longevity. Consider non-food prizes to 

avoid reversing the results from achieving 

your goal. It’s a good idea to pair with a 

buddy who will keep you accountable since 

your reciprocated enthusiasm will be support 

for one another. 

Wellness is not just about exercise—it’s 

also about being emotionally healthy. We 

tend to treat ourselves better when we feel 

good. We choose better meal options and 

are naturally more sociable when we feel 

productive. Knowledge is power. Now you 

know how to effectively create a sustainable 

fitness plan that will work for you. ■ 

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healthbeautyandfitness.com. 


HERLIFE | spotlight 

by ann e. butenas 

photography by michelle lockwood 

T 

here is something to be said about a 

salon that has withstood the test of 

time, expanded to multiple locations, 

and offers not only the best in luxurious treatments 

and products, but provides unparalleled 

customer service in an atmosphere that breeds 

style, friendship and trust. 

Founded by Doug Cole in 1979, Cole’s 

Salon, with its original location in Burnsville, 

quickly became recognized for its commitment 

to high standards, customer satisfaction and 

attention to service. They offer innovative cuts 

and amazing color, as well as exquisite facials, 

and a host of signature treatments for hair, skin 

and nails, as well as luxurious massages. 

Over the past three decades, Cole’s Salon 

has expanded across the south metro area 

boasting locations in Burnsville, Apple Valley, 

Savage and two in Eagan. Each salon features 

top-of-the-line technologies, equipment and 

products, along with some of the best designers, 

massage therapists, aestheticians, nail techs 

and front desk teams in the country. 

Trish Storhoff, vice president of Cole’s 

and the general manager of the Burnsville site, 

is truly grateful to Doug, not only for providing 

her with an amazing career the past 32 years, 

but for giving her the opportunity to work with 

a man for whom kindness, respect and compassion 

for others are genuine instincts. 

“Doug has a very generous and kind 

heart,” she emphasized. “He is the most valuedriven 

person I have ever met. He cares not 

only for our clients, but just as much for the 

people who work at Cole’s. It’s truly a family 

atmosphere here.” 

Although Doug no longer offers his 

services as a barber, which he did for years, 

he now is heavily involved in maintaining the 

company’s vision, goals and developing new 

leaders. His son, Tim, also a barber, is a vice 

president and oversees all five locations, along 

with Trish and Melissa Hanson, COO. 

“We cater to men, women and children. 

In fact, all of our stylists are professionally 

trained in razor cutting and barber style tech- 


niques,” noted Trish. 

This award-winning salon has enjoyed a 

host of accolades and honors over the years, 

and in 2010 was nominated by the Star Tribune 

as one of the Top Work Places that year 

based on a poll conducted by its employees. 

“Our commitment to the best in training, 

and the generosity Doug extends to his employees, 

account for the longevity of the team,” 

said Trish, who noted that 31 team members 

have been working at Cole’s for over 20 years, 

and that one of Doug’s ways of thanking all of 

his employees for their dedication is by giving 

them 44 percent ownership of the company 

through Cole’s Employee Stock Ownership 

Plan (ESOP). 

Each location has a full-service spa menu 

for skin, nails and massages. Recently added to 

the Burnsville and Savage locations are laser 

hair removal and photofacials, with the goal to 

offer these at all five locations in the future. 

All of the services are also continually 

backed by the best in training and education. 

Cole’s provides teaching systems to train their 

team members to not only do quality work but 

to do it efficiently. They also receive an appreciable 

amount of support and training from 

Aveda, Bumble and bumble, Oribe, Image 

Skincare and jane iredale mineral makeup, all 

of whose products they carry.

Over the past three decades, Cole’s Salon 

has expanded across the south metro area 

boasting locations in Burnsville, Apple Valley, 

Savage and two in Eagan. Each salon features 

top-of-the-line technologies, equipment and 

products, along with some of the best designers, 

massage therapists, aestheticians, nail techs 

and front desk teams in the country. 

“This is a very positive learning organization,” 

said Trish. “We are always looking for 

the next best answer and technique to learn. 

We give our guests options and make them feel 

comfortable. We have between 45 and 55 service 

providers at most of our locations which 

allows for a diversity of personalities that blend 

well with the varying needs of our customers.” 

The team at Cole’s are also making their 

mark within the community and are actively 

involved in a variety of local events. “We 

enjoy giving back to the community whenever 

possible through various cut-a-thons, the ‘Get 

Your Rear in Gear’ event, the 3-Day Walk and 

Locks of Love, among others,” said Trish. “We 

also provide hair and make-up services for 

HERLIFE Magazine photo shoots.” 

No matter how well-trained the team 

members are or how wonderful the products 

and services are at Cole’s Salon, one thing 

remains consistent: the experts at Cole’s make 

people feel good inside and out every day. ■ 

Cole’s Salon is always looking to expand 

their team. For more information, visit Cole’s 

Salon in Burnsville at Cobblestone Court or 

call 952-435-8585; in Eagan at Cedar Cliff or 

call 651-454-1390; in Eagan at Eagan Station 

or call 651-456-9454; in Apple Valley at Southport 

Centre or call 952-891-4112; and in Savage 

at Marketplace at 42 or call 952-226-5310. 

You can also go online at colessalon.com. 


HERLIFE | beauty 

by vicky gilpin 

No one intends to look unkempt, disheveled or inappropri- 

ate when she leaves the house, but sometimes it hap- 

pens. People tend to repeat their “favorite” style mistakes 

because of habit or reinforced perceptions of how they think they 

appear. Therefore, it makes sense to attempt to refrain from making 

some of the most common errors while striving to look your best. 

The most commonsense preventative to making major style 

mistakes can be borrowed from Shakespeare: “To thine own self be 

true.” Too often, dressing ourselves to match someone else’s body 

type, age or profession causes problems such as: ill-fitting clothes; 

unflattering patterns, styles, or colors; or an unprofessional appearance. 

If you remain aware of what flatters your body at your age, 

in your physical condition and in your profession, you can prevent 

major mishaps. 

SIzE AIN’T NOThIN’ BUT A NUMBER 

Even though women are encouraged to love themselves at any 

size, the moment you face the tags in the store, it’s easy to forget. 

However, nothing makes a woman look more self-conscious than illfitting 

clothes. Whether you like to hide in swathes of fabric or strain 

the architectural integrity of buttons on items not cut for your body 


Top style 

mistakes 

& How to 

Avoid Them 

If you remain aware of what 

flatters your body at your age, 

in your physical condition and 

in your profession, you can 

prevent major mishaps. 

type, you are going to appear unprofessional. Many women, particularly 

in rushed situations, “eyeball” an item before buying it rather 

than trying it on. Make “if I don’t try it, I won’t buy it” your mantra, 

so you can see how and if items fit, no matter the size on the tag. 

ThINk ClASSIC OR FlATTERINg OvER TRENDS 

Even though many up-to-the-second fashions seem fun, they 

can become style mistakes if they scream “this was popular for a 

month five years ago.” Examine modern trends with an eye toward 

items already in your closet, your personal style, your profession and 

their durability. For example, autumn’s influx of buckled black boots 

can add a funky edge for years to come, but the frog-printed neon 

green rubber rain boots may seem silly next year. However, you are 

the best judge of your own style. You know if you can incorporate 

certain trends into your wardrobe. However, if you constantly buy 

articles that are more trendy than classic, you will not only spend a 

lot of money each year, you may find yourself pushing some pieces 

into “retro” fashion before time for their comeback. 

ThINk FlATTERINg OvER EvERyThINg ElSE 

On one hand, with the variety of fashionable and interest-

ing pieces available through a spectrum 

of prices, mature women need not assume 

“matronly” as their required fashion approach. 

However, that doesn’t mean you 

don’t want to have some guidelines. If your 

look is more Seventeen than HERLIFE, you 

might reconsider how your preferred items 

can convey elegance rather than “I got lost 

in the teen department and couldn’t find my 

way out.” Every so often, you might want to 

look at your closet and ponder whether stilettos 

are appropriate at 60 or if the micro-mini 

trend popular among high schoolers and 

undergrads is really appropriate for someone 

attempting to project a professional or adult 

image. Again, your own style should win 

out, as some women can make stilettos and 

miniskirts work for the office. 

In addition, some of us spin the other 

direction into the world of “comfort over 

everything” in combination with finding 

a look and sticking with it—forever. That 

can also be a style mistake. If your look 

hasn’t changed with your age and professional 

status since high school, you may be 

enjoying the return to the 80s fashions, but 

is that really the best look for you? No matter 

what fashion gurus may say, there is nothing 

wrong with a woman of any age wearing a 

t-shirt and jeans. However, you should see if 

that combination includes the most flattering 

items available. For example, skinny jeans 

may not be the best choice for you, particularly 

if you choose longer t-shirts to hide 

“problem areas,” as a t-shirt does not have 

stealth capabilities and may just make you 

look bulky. Instead, look for good quality, 

flattering jeans (and they don’t have to look 

like “mom jeans” from the 80s just because 

you are an adult). You can even keep the 

concert t-shirts or those featuring animated 

or cutesy animals, but a fitted blazer or jacket 

in combination may add a touch of adult 

flair while also drawing the t-shirt and jeans 

combination to a more flattering level. 

Remember, we all have the tendency to 

fall into style traps, often the same traps over 

and over again. Let your personal style be 

your guide, but with this constant question 

on your mind: “Does this look present my 

style in the most flattering way?” ■ 


HERLIFE | inspirations 


by ann e. butenas 

photography by eliesa johnson 

hair and makeup by julie swenson 

of julie swenson beauty 

styling provided by corset boutique 

and personal styling studio 

A m y J a m e s 

O n e W o m a n F i n d s H e r V o i c e 

I can’t 

believe I get 

“Wow! 

paid for doing 

this!” exclaimed Amy James just 

a few minutes into our interview 

when I began asking her about her 

job. This small-town girl, who has a 

decided flair for making just about 

anyone feel right at home when 

they are with her, is keeping the 

radio airwaves full of excitement 

and fun as she hosts the 10:00 a.m. 

to 3:00 p.m. weekday slot on 102.1 

FM, Today’s Country K102. Spend 

just a few minutes listening to her, 

and you will believe this is what she 

was born to do. She’s uniquely fresh, 

insightful, grounded and ambitious. 

In short, she’s amazing—a gifted 

spirit whose presence enchants her 

listeners and whose passion fuels her 

soul. 

Originally from International 

Falls, Minnesota, this dynamic gal 

learned to embrace her down home 

roots where radio ruled the day. “I 

grew up listening to the radio and I 

loved it,” she recalled, referring to the 

numerous summers she spent on the 

island at Rainy Lake with her family. 

They were caretakers for five homes on 

the lake during the winter months, and 

they lived in one of the homes. In the summertime, 

they lived in a cabin on Stop Island. 

“It was such a cool way to grow up. We had no 

TV on the island—just radio. That was our entertainment. 

I just naturally gravitated toward it,” Amy 

reflected.

“Working for 

K102 is such a 

unique and great 

experience. I 

wouldn’t trade 

it for anything. 

Someday I will 

look back and 

say, ‘Wow! I 

got to do that 

for a living!’” 


Although she always had an interest in radio, it wasn’t until her 

high school days that she was encouraged to consider getting involved 

in this medium as a career. “I was in a yearbook class, and the 

teacher asked if anyone would be interested in doing a radio internship,” 

Amy recalled. “I raised my hand and before I knew it, I had 

my first gig during my second semester of my senior year. I had four 

classes that semester, and spent the afternoons working at K104.” 

At the station, Amy honed her skills in writing and recording 

commercials. Despite the multiple commercials she produced, she 

laughs when she recalls the promo tape she later made to use as 

part of her résumé. “It was a tape full of animal voices and sounds I 

made,” she joked. “It was really bad.” 

Nevertheless, she filled her post-high school summer days 

making $6 an hour working at the station before heading off to 

college in the fall. The director at the station more or less gave 

her creative license to do whatever she wanted, as long as she 

provided the news at the top of each hour. 

“I was so nervous being on the air, but I must have 

done fairly well because one day they asked me to fill 

in on the morning slot for another host who had been 

released from his job. It was a total disaster for me. 

I had no idea what I was doing, but somehow I 

muddled through. Fortunately, it lasted only a few 

weeks,” said Amy. 

Upon attending college at Moorhead 

State University, now known as Minnesota 

State University at Moorhead, Amy pursued a 

degree in Mass Communications with an academic 

emphasis on broadcast journalism and 

public relations. While she was in school, she 

responded to an ad for part-time radio work at 

101.9 FM in Fargo, North Dakota. Despite her 

crazy promo tape (you know the one with those 

animal voices she made!), the program director 

saw her potential and hired her to do part-time, 

on-air work on the weekends. 

Her talent recognized, she was soon courted 

by the manager at a nearby Top 40 radio station, 

housed in the same building which was home to 

multiple stations, and before she knew it, Amy was 

a tandem radio show host, working for Moose 

Country (101.9 FM) part of the day, and then 

providing the on-air talent for the Top 40 

station,Y94 WDAY FM, later in the day 

under a different name. She continued 

with this endeavor until the end of 

that school year. 

As one thing led to another 

and Amy’s talent and passion 

became increasingly evident, 


she found herself jockeying between classes and part-time radio work. 

Finally, she told herself one day that she had more fun working than 

going to class. Hence, three years into her academic career, Amy pulled 

up stakes and took a full-time job at the Top 40 station. In theory, that 

was the easy part. “Telling my parents was not so easy,” she expressed. 

“They were not very pleased with my decision at the time.” 

As she advanced in her career at the station, the conglomerate of 

stations in the building at which she worked was bought out by Clear 

Channel, her current employer. Little did she realize at the time, 

the stars were aligning for her to assume her on-air place with K102, 

and Amy enhanced her résumé doing midday, morning and Saturday 

shows. 

For 18 months, Amy’s voice amplified 

the airwaves at nearly every possible hour 

available. She then transitioned to the morning 

show in Fargo, and was a co-host and the 

show’s producer until 2005. Then, at the 

invitation of her current boss who at the 

time was the Regional Director of all of 

the stations housed in that one location in 

Fargo, she left and came to K102 FM. “I 

don’t know if it was really an invitation as 

much as him mentioning that if I wanted 

to work part-time at K102 to let him 

know,” she commented. 

Although he had no full-time 

position for her, she decided to go for 

it. However, that meant a few changes 

in Amy’s life. She packed up her bags, 

leaving the independence of her own 

apartment in Fargo and moved to a 

less appealing, but necessary at the time, 

abode in the Twin Cities. 

“Yeah, I lived in my uncle Todd’s basement temporarily in 2005,” 

she said, with a slight laugh in her voice, not mocking her uncle but 

poking fun at the regression of her independence. 

Eager to get another place of her own, Amy asked for any and all 

work she could get at the station and by Christmas of that year, she was 

offered a full-time position. Best. Gift. Ever. “That was the most exciting 

moment of my career,” she smiled. “I almost cried.” 

She began with the 8:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. time slot, and eventually 

moved into her current midday slot, filling in on the morning 

show, The K102 Wake-Up Crew, as needed. 

Moving out of Uncle Todd’s basement was another exciting moment, 

too. “It’s not easy to get up at 3:00 in the morning to be at work 

by 4:30, but it is so much fun once you get there,” she said about her 

morning show fill-in work. 

So much has happened since that momentous rise from the 

depths of Uncle Todd’s basement until now. While leaving college a 

year shy of her degree may still haunt her in those rare moments of 

reflection, what’s far more important is how she pursued a dream with 

tenacity and passion, and proved to herself that she could do what 

she put her mind to. Those easy-breezy radio days of summer on that 

island were more than just a means of entertainment. They forecasted 

her future. 

Amy’s daily schedule keeps her busy, yet she still keeps both feet 

humbly on the ground. Representing the station, she attends numerous 

events about town in the summer, going to all of the music festivals, 

most recently Winstock Country Music Festival and Country Fest 

in June. “Winstock was a blast!” she noted. “Willie Nelson gave me a 

cool bandana. Wearing it with pigtail braids, I looked like the female 

version of Willie.” 

As for her favorite country artists, there are many, 

but ones that readily come to 

mind include Eric Church, Kenny 

Chesney, the Zac Brown Band and 

Miranda Lambert. “I love 90s country 

music and someday would like to 

host a show focusing on that decade 

of music,” she smiled. 

In her personal life, Amy has a 

co-host of sorts in her husband Jeff, to 

whom she has been married for five 

years. They also enjoy the rowdy company 

of their big German wire-haired 

dog, Tuffy. Weighing in at 65 pounds, he 

is a handful. 

When she is not enchanting listeners, 

Amy likes to go for long runs or 

engage in some speed walking. This selfproclaimed 

hyper personality has to find a 

way to release all of her energy! “I also love 

shopping,” she beamed. “Vintage shopping. 

That’s my favorite. But I love to be up on the latest trends, too.” 

What about dining out? “Yes! I love going to new restaurants. I 

also enjoy being on or near the water. I just bought a fishing boat for 

my husband, so it is getting plenty of use,” she said. 

Still, her career is never far from her mind. “Working for K102 is 

such a unique and great experience. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. 

Someday I will look back and say, ‘Wow! I got to do that for a living!’” 

she beamed. Yes, Amy. You can actually get paid to do what you love. 

Fortunately for your faithful listeners, we are glad you found your place 

on the dial. 

As for her parents, let’s just say that her mom Terry and stepdad, 

Steve, along with her dad Bill and stepmom Debbie, are very pleased. 

“They, along with my sisters Stephanie and Olivia, are my biggest 

fans,” said Amy.■ 

For more information on when to find Amy on the dial, go to 

k102.com. 


HERLIFE | recipes 

butter y brown Sugar popcorn 

recipes and photography by kristen doyle 

Ingredients: 

1 cup unpopped popcorn 

¼ cup butter, melted 

1 Tablespoon Kosher salt 

¼ cup brown sugar 

Instructions: 

1. Preheat oven to 250 degrees. 

2. Pop unpopped popcorn on stovetop or in air popper. 

3. Pour popped popcorn onto a parchment lined baking sheet. 

4. Meanwhile, melt the butter in the skillet. Pour melted butter onto the 

baking sheet over the popped popcorn. Stir until evenly distributed. 

5. Sprinkle salt and brown sugar over the popcorn. Bake for 10 minutes. 

Pour into a large bowl and serve. ■ 

bacon Cheese breakfast Muffins 


Ingredients: 

1 egg 

1 cup milk 

¼ cup vegetable oil 

8 bacon strips, cooked and crumbled 

1 cup shredded cheddar cheese 

2 cups all purpose flour 

Instructions: 

2 Tablespoons sugar 

3 teaspoons baking powder 

¼ teaspoon Kosher salt 

⅛ teaspoon garlic powder 

½ teaspoon cracked black pepper 

1 teaspoon Zatarain’s Creole Seasoning 

1. In a large bowl, beat egg, milk and oil together. Stir in the bacon crumbles and 

shredded cheddar cheese. 

2. Add the dry ingredients, stirring as you go, incorporating just until blended. 

3. Grease muffin pan, and then fill cups ⅔ full. Bake at 400 degrees for 15-20 

minutes until cooked all the way through. 

4. Cool for 5 minutes and remove from the muffin pan, placing on a wire rack to 

cool. Best served when warm. ■


HERLIFE | trendsetter 

Spectacle 

Shoppe 

www.spectacleshoppe.biz 

photography by spencer combs 

models jenny taft and leigh foster of wehmann models and talent, inc. 

hair by jennifer swyter of simonson’s salon and spa 

make-up by breanna sturgeleski of simonson’s salon and spa 

shot on location st. anthony main & wilde roast café 

his clothing provided by martinpatrick3 www.martinpatrick3.com 

her clothing provided by cliché www.clichempls.com 

styling by alex brandt barnard and natalie powers 





HERLIFE | mother’s perspective 

Let the Games Begin! 

Fun 

Family 

Game 

Night 

Ideas 

by lisa taranto butler 

Cell phones, video games and computers are a prevalent part 

of many families’ lives these days, but they don’t have to rule 

the roost when it comes to entertaining the troops. As much as 

our children may want us to think they are mortified at the idea of being 

cooped up rolling the dice with dear old mom and dad, they just might 

welcome the switch from normal plans and even enjoy family time 

without disturbance from modern-day media. 

So why not plan an easy game night to get back to basics and bring 

the family closer together while fostering a little friendly competition? 

Whether you are already gaming or just getting started, here are few 

ideas to pump up the family fun. 

Pick a Night 

With parents’ work and kids’ activities, weeknights may be a bit 

hectic, so choosing a weekend evening or Sunday afternoon may offer a 

bit more peace and quiet. Either way, pick a convenient time and then 

decide if you want to get your “game on” each week or once a month— 

whatever works best for your brood. 

iNdoors or outdoors? 

Depending on the time of year, you may want to choose indoor 

board games for a cozy night in, or if weather permits, challenge each 

other to some favorite outdoor games where you can use your outside 

voices and skills. 


iNdoor FuN 

Nothing beats a good old board game. Favorites like MONOPOLY ® 

and SCRABBLE ® are always a hit, but check toy and department stores 

for new games on the market. Anything active like charades and drawing 

games are always exciting and call for a little creativity. Check out garage 

and tag sales for game boards and puzzles. Many times, these cast-offs have 

been entertaining families for years, but are still in good shape, contain all 

the pieces and are a fraction of the price. 

outdoor FuN 

Good weather calls for good fun in the backyard. Older and younger 

kids will all appreciate some basic relay games like egg in the spoon, sack 

race and three-legged race. Divide teams evenly by skill level, or if your 

family is smaller in size, pair up with everyone once. Use small, inexpensive 

inflatable balls to aim into trash bins or buckets. Feed your fitness 

frenzy with a make-your-own obstacle course. Set out old tires, cones, 

ladders, hula hoops and jump ropes to concoct a kicking course. 

a diFFereNt take oN Family FuN: game Night at the 

amusemeNt Park 

Plan ahead and visit the local amusement park or even a county fair 

to partake in a little carnival fun. Enjoy a few games of Soda Bottle Ring 

Toss, Milk Bottle Throw or Guess Your Weight/Age. Afterwards, nosh on a 

caramel apple or salt water taffy. 

If budget is a concern, try making your own games at home. A duck 

pond, dart game, fishing game or penny toss are easy and inexpensive

when homemade. Use candy or small trinkets as 

prizes. Make the evening merrier and invite the 

kids’ friends and their parents over for a night of 

carnival festivities. 

BowliNg 

If indoors is where you’ll hang, then head 

to the local bowling alley. Take your time sizing 

shoes and choosing the right ball. Teach 

children the correct way to roll and keep score. 

There is no time limit, so discuss your rolling 

techniques and high-five one another after a 

fantastic roll! 

miNi golF 

Mini golf is much cheaper than playing 

eighteen or even nine holes at your local public 

course, so decide your budget and play as much 

as time allows. Some mini golf courses offer interactive 

holes with obstacles such as volcanoes 

or spraying water. Do some research to find a 

great course for your family. 

kids PlaN 

Now mom and dad can rest and siblings 

get a chance to take control! Have the kids work 

together to develop an easy game that everyone 

can play. Let them be in charge of the rules and 

equipment while you enjoy the competition that 

your children create. 

Park PlayiNg 

If your backyard space is limited or if you 

just want a change of scenery, head to a local 

park and take advantage of what the city has to 

offer. Get ‘old school’ and play HORSE on the 

basketball courts or doubles in tennis. If the park 

has a lake, try your hand at fishing or paddle 

boating. Pack a simple picnic for a full evening 

of family togetherness. 

Game night can be taken to new heights 

just by thinking outside of the box. As your family 

event becomes a household tradition, expect kids 

to become more talkative and open—a sign that 

they are comfortable and relaxed. By practicing 

teamwork and using imagination, family game 

nights will make memories for a lifetime. ■ 

Sources for this article are voices.yahoo. 

com and parents.com. 




HERLIFE | working women 

Working women travel the country in increasing numbers 

for job training, professional conferences and to network 

on behalf of their corporations. Not only do we have 

to remember numerous details associated with travel, we also have to 

consider how to choose the best travel clothes. Although choosing clothing 

seems to be one of the easiest 

decisions, many factors contribute 

to these choices. 

The best travel clothes have a 

number of specific characteristics 

that set them apart from your professional 

clothing. They are able to 

transition from daytime meetings 

to evening events with little to no 

effort other than an eye-catching 

accessory. A bright scarf and jewelry should draw the eye, making it 

more noticeable than the clothes themselves, which is important if a 

jacket or blouse may be worn later in the trip. 

This wardrobe is chosen with regard to color and material. Per- 


The 

Best 

Travel 

Clothes 

The best travel clothes have a number of 

specific characteristics that set them apart 

from your professional clothing. They are 

able to transition from daytime meetings to 

evening events with little to no effort other 

than an eye-catching accessory. 

by vicky gilpin 

sonal style and first impressions are important, but materials that resist 

wrinkles, and colors that resist stains, necessitate careful thought. Unfortunately, 

natural fabrics are not always the best choice. An exception to 

this rule would be a broomstick skirt which is meant to be stored twisted 

up to retain the “crinkles,” so it is excellent for travel. Additionally, it is 

remarkably comfortable. 

A major point to remember is 

that the best travel clothes should be 

comfortable. Obviously, you want 

your clothing to fit well in order to 

make the best impression. However, 

pick something a little looser than 

normal, particularly to fly in or for 

days when you might spend most of 

the time sitting around a boardroom 

table. This is a better option than wearing something that will cause you 

to notice it after hours of being cinched at the waist. 

Although many women choose solid colors, or items revolving 

around one solid color, in order to make the most efficient choices,

some fabrics or colors are better able to resist 

stains or an unkempt look. Some women enjoy 

tweed and plaids for this reason, particularly in 

autumn. Others prefer items that have color 

gradations to disguise water droplets from 

bathrooms with unreliable hand dryers. 

A debate exists over whether the best 

travel clothes should be high quality or somewhat 

expendable. On one hand, finer quality 

clothing usually has a better fit, encouraging 

positive first impressions as well as comfort. 

On the other hand, which is going to be more 

traumatic: getting ink on the sleeve of the nice 

but less expensive blazer, or on one from a 

high-end store? 

With increased costs of travel, the most 

efficient way to fly is to pack one carry-on bag. 

Make every inch of space count by ensuring 

that each article can be used in a variety of 

ways. For example, not only should pieces be 

versatile for various types of events you might 

encounter (such as brunches, board meetings, 

focus groups and receptions), but they should 

also coordinate with every other item you pack. 

Stick with a color scheme that allows you to 

mix and match items. Black discourages obvious 

stains, but you should also consider items 

in a color palette. The important part is that 

the items work together in a versatile way. 

However, some articles are integral for 

the intrepid traveler. If you can fit a t-shirt 

and pajama pants in your bag, you will thank 

yourself as you try to wind down at the end of 

the day. In addition, many conferences and 

business trips encourage dinners offsite, so you 

may end up walking several blocks from your 

location. This may not seem like a lot, but 

if you have been standing in uncomfortable 

dress shoes all day, those few blocks are going 

to feel miserable. Therefore, your shoes must 

also be able to fit a variety of situations. If not, 

you want some comfortable shoes to wear in 

the evening which must also work with your 

professional clothing, unless you also take one 

business casual outfit for this very situation. 

The best travel clothes vary from situation 

to situation, and from woman to woman. 

However, the major components are comfort, 

imperviousness to dirt and wrinkles, and 

versatility! ■ 


HERLIFE | spotlight 

Pink Door Boutique 

by ann e. butenas | photography by michelle lockwood 

D 

o you like to shop for fun and unique clothing, 

accessories and gift items but get tired of the same 

old shopping routine and usual stores? Then check 

out what is behind the door at Pink Door Boutique, and you 

will find yourself in a shopper’s paradise. Owner Lisa Vossen is a 

huge part of what makes this exquisite boutique so exciting. 

“I have definitely found my calling with this store,” she 

smiled, noting her prior career in the mortgage industry that took 

an unsurprising downturn when the economy became turbulent 

in recent years. “I have always had a passion for boutiques and 

thought if I don’t do it now, I probably never will.” 

The commitment to realizing her dreams began in 2008 

when she opened the doors to her store that July in the historic 

downtown area of Lakeville, Minnesota, which is where she grew 

up. Her roots are here and she is decidedly dedicated to adding 

continued fun and vitality to this small but vibrant community. 

Inspired by her desire to have her own business, Lisa actually 

came up with the name before a business plan was even in 

full effect. “Every female can relate to the color pink in some 

way,” she expressed. “It’s a color that is so feminine and so welcoming, 

just like it is in the store. Pink embraces you here. The 

walls are pink and we even have a pink crystal chandelier as our 

focal point.” 

On opening day July 11, 2008, Lisa admits to a nervous 

excitement that overcame her, but she instinctively knew it was 

a great day to welcome the masses. After all, it was the week of 


Independence Day and the famed Pan-O-Prog weeklong celebra- 

tion. Large crowds were expected in the downtown area, and as 

expected, many of them ventured into Pink Door Boutique. 

As that weeklong celebration turned into months of growing 

recognition for her boutique, Lisa continued to fill her delightful 

store with a host of fun clothing items, jewelry, baby gifts, personal 

gifts and even antique furniture that her parents, Michael and 

Karen Vossen, fully restore and refurbish. It seems she can barely 

keep anything on the shelves, yet she continually adds new items 

on a regular basis. 

“I go to trade shows a few times each year in Las Vegas and 

Chicago, and find so many interesting and unique products to 

bring back to the store. It’s a lot of fun,” she said. 

As one who spotlights local vendors, Lisa loves to showcase 

the vintage jewelry and unique hats made by her friend, Renee 

Johnston of Cuff N Stuff Jewelry. “She creates these hats that 

are adorned with vintage jewelry. There’s nothing like them out 

there,” said Lisa. 

As business continued to blossom and she was anticipating her 

one-year anniversary at the boutique, the unexpected happened 

and turned her world upside down in ways never imagined. She 

was in a car accident that killed a close friend, and resulted in Lisa 

being in a coma for eight weeks with several months of painful 

rehabilitation afterwards. Even though she lay in a hospital bed 

with an uncertain future, struggling with injuries so severe that 

surviving them seemed impossible, the community of Lakeville did 

what any loving and supportive community would do. They tended 

the store for Lisa until she could return in full swing. 

“I was so overwhelmed and humbled by the support I received 

from the people who basically took over my store and kept it going 

for me while I recovered,” Lisa reflected. “I am forever grateful as 

my business would not have survived without their love and support. 

It means so much to me.” 

Now that she is back to her passion and embraces life with a 

renewed vision and perspective, Lisa brings great enthusiasm to 

that vision by offering the best in products and services to a community 

that has given its best to her. 

Also integral to Lisa’s success is her associate, Emily O’Brien, 

who began working for Lisa from day one as a high school student. 

Now a junior in college, Emily remains a vital part of the character 

and integrity of the boutique. 

Of course, Lisa would be remiss if she did not give a loving 

nod to Becum, her Maltese-Shih Tzu dog who is a staple at the 

store, greeting everyone and making them feel welcome. “I named 

her after two of my doctors, Dr. Becker and Dr. Cumming of 

HCMC, both of whom saved my life,” smiled Lisa. 

Pink Door Boutique is definitely a store designed on purpose 

by a woman who lives now with true purpose. “I just feel right 

when I am here, knowing that my visions are endless. I look forward 

to new beginnings and challenges to come,” she shared. ■ 

For more information, visit Pink Door Boutique at 20784 

Holyoke Avenue in Lakeville, call them at 952-985-4118 or go online at 

pinkdoorboutique.net. 


HERLIFE | finance 

IdenTITy ThefT 

ProTecTIon 

It’s More Than Your 

Credit Score 


by kathy stump 

While this poor economy may have made us all wiser 

consumers, there’s at least one area where we still need 

improvement: identity protection. The Federal Trade 

Commission (FTC) reports that identity theft led consumer complaints 

for twelve consecutive years. The FTC–the government’s identity theft 

watchdog–estimates that as many as nine million Americans’ identities 

are stolen annually. Some prevention experts note that identities are lost 

over 19,000 times per day at the rate of 799 times per hour, 13.3 times 

each minute. Identity theft protection entails more than checking your 

credit report. Take charge of your identity and avoid possible financial 

and personal ruin. 

deter, detect, deFeNd 

That’s the FTC’s approach to identity protection. But, where 

should you start? The first step is to track down all of your personal data. 

Make certain that you document your personal, financial and medical 

information. 

It’s critical to know the signs of identity theft, which include: you 

stop receiving bills and notices from creditors; you start getting billed for 

items you didn’t buy; you receive bills for credit cards you didn’t open; 

or you receive unsolicited credit cards. If your credit report includes 

unknown debts or unfamiliar credit inquiries/approvals, if you are unexpectedly 

denied credit or if you are offered a higher interest rate, you 

may be an identity theft victim. 

Certified Identity Theft Risk Management Specialist Joseph Campana 

tells consumers to protect all aspects of their identity, not just their 

credit report. Campana says it’s most important to guard your name, 

Social Security Number (SSN) and date of birth. He emphasizes that 

you should remove your SSN card from your purse/wallet, and you that 

you shouldn’t carry a checkbook. Other areas you may need to secure 

include any types of financial accounts: checking/savings/investments 

or lines of credit and online accounts; ATM/debit cards; driver’s license; 

work ID; passport/visa; voter registration card; and any information 

related to your health insurance. Cell phones and laptops/tablets that 

process mobile applications are quickly becoming targets as well. 

Protect yourselF 

Self-protection is critical and requires that you develop some good 

recordkeeping habits. Preparing an “emergency kit” that contains all 

of your account numbers and theft alert information is a good place to 

start. If your wallet is stolen or your computer is compromised, you can 

quickly access the right person. Time is of the essence to prevent further 

damage or loss to your accounts. Update this list often. 

Checking personal and financial information often, and reviewing 

bank statements and credit card bills line by line every month, are other 

important habits to develop. Some thieves will charge small amounts 

for several months to avoid detection. Investigate anything you don’t 

recognize. Write checks with a gel ink pen to avoid check washing. 

Request and review credit reports annually by accessing them via 

the reporting agencies’ websites. Identity theft victims are entitled to a 

free credit report, but you can request a “free” report for a refundable $1 

fee. Close unused accounts and shred unused credit and debit cards. 

Use hard-to-decipher security codes and passwords. Avoid birthdays 

and anniversaries, or combinations that are easy to guess. Don’t use the 

same password for all of your accounts, and change your codes annually. 

Finally, shred all unnecessary papers with your name, address or 

other identifiable information. This includes credit card offers because 

identity thieves will pull these from the mail, change the address and 

use your name to secure credit. 

restoratioN 

In the event that your identity is compromised, act quickly to 

prevent further damage; document all conversations and keep copies

of all correspondence. The restoration process can take between 40 

to 175 hours to complete. Some homeowners’ insurance policies may 

reimburse expenses incurred from identity theft. If you pursue further 

coverage, look for a plan that restores your identity versus resolving the 

crime. 

If you are a victim, place a Fraud Alert on your credit reports 

and review them. A fraud alert prevents the thief from opening new 

accounts in your name. You only need to contact one credit reporting 

agency; they must contact the other two on your behalf. Next, 

download the FTC’s guide, Take Charge: Fighting Back Against 

Identity Theft and consider securing professional assistance. Campana 

recommends hiring a professional if the theft involves more than 

credit fraud. However, he cautions consumers to carefully review 

the scope of services, and make sure a licensed professional will be 

handling your case. 

Close any affected accounts and place passwords and/or personal 

identification numbers on all new accounts. Speak with a security 

representative at each business, following up in writing and including 

copies of any documentation. 

Finally, you need to file a police report, keeping a copy for your 

records. Then, file a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission 

(FTC). ■ 

Sources for this article are ftc.gov, irs.gov, idefendfamily.com, 

huffingtonpost.com, identitytheftprotection.org, FarmersIdentityShield. 

com, financial-education-icfe.org and jcampana.com. 


HERLIFE | home 

Splurge on Big-Ticket Items to decorate your home 

You don’t need to spend a fortune to decorate your home with 

style. When it comes to buying furniture and accessories, take 

a tip from designers and splurge on one or two big-ticket items 

in each room. By paying more for a few classic furnishings, you can 

create an illusion that everything in the room is more expensive than it 

really is. If your big items have timeless style that won’t go out of fashion, 

you can easily change the look of a room by switching out items 

that you buy on a budget without having to reinvest in your priciest 

pieces. Here are five big items worth the splurge. 

seatiNg 

Chairs and sofas are subject to a great deal of wear and tear, so it 

pays to invest in high-quality pieces. Look for good construction and 

frames made from a hardwood like maple or birch that has been kilndried. 

Joints should be held together with dowels and screws rather 

than staples. Choose durable upholstery fabrics that will resist stains in 

colors and patterns that won’t quickly become dated. The frame of a 

chair or sofa should be well padded, and sofa cushions should be filled 

with high density foam. You won’t find these details in cheap seating, 

but the extra money you spend is well worth the investment. 


by catie watson 

diNiNg taBles 

Spending a bit more money for an heirloom-quality table is a 

great way to add a touch of warmth to your home. A kitchen or dining 

room table where you eat daily meals will see a lot of wear and tear 

over the years, so look for sturdy construction and a smooth finish. 

Tables made from hardwoods like oak, walnut, cherry, birch, teak 

and mahogany are less prone to scratches and dents. Avoid an applied 

acrylic finish in favor of a hand-rubbed finish that highlights the 

natural grain of the wood, or choose a high-quality veneer finish over 

solid wood. Check for traditional construction techniques like dovetail 

joints, and avoid tables that are held together with glue or staples. Buy 

the largest table that your space will allow in order to accommodate 

parties and family gatherings in years to come. 

Bed 

Splurging on a comfortable bed is an investment in your own 

comfort and peace of mind. You spend about a third of your life sleeping, 

so it pays to shop around and find a bed that will provide the best 

night’s rest. Some of the signs of a good mattress are a supportive yet 

supple innerspring system and multiple layers of fiber filling. For durability, 

a mattress should be double-sided so it can be flipped and used

on either side. The accompanying box spring should be built with steel 

coils. To protect the investment you’ve made in your mattress and box 

spring, buy a bed frame that provides adequate support and complements 

your room. 

wiNdow treatmeNts 

Curtains, blinds and shutters can provide stylish detail in any room. 

When shopping for curtains, look for silk, linen, velvet or high-quality 

synthetics that resemble natural fibers. Since sunlight can fade curtains 

and make them look dated, avoid bright colors in favor of neutral colors 

A kitchen or dining room table 

where you eat daily meals will 

see a lot of wear and tear over 

the years, so look for sturdy 

construction and a smooth finish. 

that are easier to blend with any décor. Invest in curtains with linings 

which keep out light, and add body and fullness. If you favor window 

blinds or shutters instead of curtains, it pays to consult a window treatment 

expert to find the best style for your room and budget. 

Continued on next page 



FlooriNg 

You’ll live with the floors and carpets in your home for many 

years, so it pays to invest in the best. Hardwood and stone floors 

are durable options that become permanent additions your home. 

If you live in a colder climate, consider splurging on underfloor 

heating. In terms of high-quality carpeting, look for a dense loop 

pile that will resist stains and wear well. You can check the density 

by folding a carpet sample back on itself and making sure that the 

backing doesn’t show through. Take the time find a carpet pad with 

the correct thickness (too thin and your carpet will wear faster, too 

thick and it will ripple over time). 

We’ve listed some of the most important big-ticket items that 

deserve a splurge. In order to afford more expensive versions of big 

items, try to save money on accessories like throw pillows, bedding, 

artwork and area rugs. When you want to refresh the design of a 

room, you can easily replace these less expensive items without 

breaking the bank. You’ll also be able to follow the latest design 

trends and not have to worry that your room will appear dated in a 

few short years. ■ 

Sources for this article are The New York Times, Elle Décor, 

Utah State University’s Cooperative Extension and bettersleep.org.


HERLIFE | tie the knot 


& 

Leah 

Adam 

Vierthaler 

TIed The KNoT | JulY 23, 2011 

by candi smith | photography by max caven 

L eah (Danz) Vierthaler is 30 years old, has a Bachelor’s 

degree from North Dakota State University and works in 

sales for a banking compliance company. Adam Vierthaler 

is also 30 and has a Bachelor’s degree from University of St. Thomas. 

The newlyweds live in downtown Minneapolis. 

Leah and Adam met through mutual friends but when Adam 

moved into the condo building next door to Leah, it allowed them to 

see each other more often. 

A little over a year after they started dating, Adam asked Leah to 

go for a bike ride and to plan on dinner afterwards. They went their 

usual route along the Mississippi River, and he had them stop at a lookout 

spot. It was a quiet location with nobody else around, but because 

there were so many trees in front of them, they couldn’t actually see 

the river. Just as he was about to start his proposal, Leah blurted out, “I 

don’t know why this is your favorite spot. It’s not as pretty as the other 

one.” He knew it wasn’t the right moment to propose, so they hopped 

back on their bikes and headed toward the next look-out (which she almost 

biked right past), only to find it was very busy. Luckily, the people

cleared out after a few minutes, and Adam was able to finally pop the question. Leah was so 

surprised that her first words were, “You really want to marry me?!” followed by, “Is this a joke?” 

When it sunk in that he was serious, Leah gave Adam an enthusiastic “Yes!” 

The happy couple tied the knot on July 23, 2011. Leah had two Maids of Honor (her 

sister and her best friend from high school) and three bridesmaids (her cousin, sister-in-law and 

friend). Adam had two Best Men and three groomsmen. There were also two ushers. The girls 

wore Bill Levkoff dresses in two styles. As part of their wedding gift, Adam purchased his wedding 

party Thomas Pink ties in a paisley pattern, and contributed toward the purchase of a new 

suit for each person. 

The couple chose July 23 as their wedding date because it was the wedding date of Adam’s 

grandpa and grandma who were married for over 50 years. Instead of getting married in downtown 

Minneapolis where they live, they had their wedding in Biwabik, Minnesota, because they 

both have family in that area, have spent many summers up North, and it’s a special place to 

both of them. Also, Adam’s uncle, Dan Mayasich, became ordained just so he could perform 

their wedding. 

Leah and Adam had a few unique hiccups in the planning process. The first florist they 

booked went out of business just a few months before their wedding. They were getting married 

in a small town so there were not a lot of vendors from which to choose! Luckily, they were 

able to find a new florist, and were happy to have been able to work with her. The next snag 

was when the State of Minnesota’s government shutdown occurred, and their ceremony site–a 

state-run golf course–was closed along with it. With no idea how long the government would be 

shut down, the couple had to scramble to come up with a back-up ceremony site. They also had 

to decide how and when to notify all 225 guests that the site location may be changed. They 

held off telling everyone that it could change, hoping that the government would settle their 

SepTeMBer 23, 2011 

loCal BUsinesses tHat 

sHared in tHe loVe 

Bridal gown: 

lea Ann Belter from raffine Bridal, 

Stillwater 

Bridesmaids’ gowns: 

Bill levkoff from rush’s Bridal, 

Minneapolis 

Hair styling: 

The Spa at Giants ridge, 

Biwabic, MN 

maKe-UP: 

Stephanie Varone 

PHotograPHy: 

Max Caven, 

duluth, MN 

Florist: 

Silver lake Floral, 

Virginia, MN 

dJ: 

eric King 

diamond Max entertainment, 

Superior, WI 

Caterer: 

The lodge at Giants ridge 

CaKe: 

pep’s Bake Shop, 

Virginia, MN 

Ceremony: 

The Quarry at Giants ridge 

reCePtion: 

The lodge at Giants ridge 


negotiations and open up again. 

It wasn’t until the Thursday 

before their Saturday wedding 

that Leah got a call from their 

coordinator, saying they had 

been allowed to go back to work 

and their first day open would 

be Saturday for their wedding! 

The couple thought they were 

in the clear, only to wake up 

to a downpour the morning of 

their wedding. But it cleared up 

around noon and was dry in time 

for their ceremony. They had to 

deal with major complications, 

but Leah knew that rain or shine, 

government in session or not, 

they would have a beautiful and 

special wedding day. 

The newlyweds honeymooned in Banff, Alberta, Canada. They 

wanted an active, outdoor honeymoon, and wanted to see the beautiful, 

turquoise glacial lakes and mountains that are in Banff. They did a 

lot of outdoor activities including canoeing, hiking, taking a helicopter 

ride and walking on a glacier. ■


HERLIFE | in the city 

Calendar Co of events 

AuGuST 1 


Brought to you by Herlife magazine 

and Minneapolis2night.com 

Enrique Iglesias & Jennifer 

Lopez 

date: August 1 

time: 7:30pm 

locatioN: Target Center, 600 First Avenue 

North, Minneapolis 

details: With combined album sales 

of almost 125 million, Enrique Iglesias 

and Jennifer Lopez are more than just 

superstars—they are two of the most 

dominant powerhouses in music today 

tallying countless chart-topping hits, sold-out 

tours and accolades from around the world. 

And they are bringing the hottest summer 

tour to Minneapolis! For more information, 

visit targetcenter.com. 

TAKIN’ IT TO THE 

LIMIT—A Tribute to The 

Eagles 

dates: August 1 & August 3 

times: Dinner Seating–6:00pm; Concert– 

8:00pm 

locatioN: Chanhassen Dinner Theatres, 

501 W. 78th Street, Chanhassen 

detail: Chanhassen Dinner Theatres 

presents a new concert offering featuring the 

best of The Eagles. A Twin Cities premiere, 

TAKIN’ IT TO THE LIMIT—A Tribute to 

The Eagles is performed by nine of Minnesota’s 

finest singers and instrumentalists, and is a 

tribute to the acclaimed Rock ’n’ Roll Hall of 

Fame band named the most successful musical 

act of the 1970s. With five number one 

singles, six GRAMMY Awards, five American 

Music Awards and six number one albums, 

the group was ranked as the highest-selling 

American band in United States history. So 

come on, sing along, stand up, dance, cheer 

and reminisce with this fun show! For more 

information, visit chanhassentheatres.com. 

AuGuST 2 

Ronald McDonald House 

Charities of the Upper 

Midwest Present Brew Love 

locatioN: Metropolitan Club, Target Field, 

1 Twins Way, Minneapolis 


time: 4:00pm–9:00pm 

details: Brew Love, an annual beer tasting 

event sponsored by 1500 ESPN, helps raise 

funds for the Ronald McDonald Care Mobile®, 

a dental clinic on wheels that delivers 

quality dental care directly to underserved 

children in the 14-county Twin Cities metropolitan 

area. Brew Love participants sample a 

variety of regional and craft brews, and enjoy 

food pairings. Summit Brewing Company, 

Granite City Food & Brewery, Cold Spring 

Brewery, Schell’s Brewing Company, Grain 

Belt, Lift Bridge Beer Company, Finnegans 

and Crispin Cider Company are among the 

brewers providing samples in the past. For 

more information, visit rmhc-um.org. 

Reach for Ralph: An 

Evening to Benefit Hammer 

Residences, Inc. 

locatioN: Nicollet Island Pavilion, 

40 Power Street, Minneapolis 


time: 5:30pm–10:00pm 

details: Come for a spectacular evening 

benefiting Hammer and their mission of 

providing adults and children who have developmental 

disabilities the opportunity to experience 

life to its fullest. This unforgettable 

night will feature entertainment, silent and 

live auctions, delicious bites, drinks, themed 

activities and more. For more information, 

visit hammer.org. 

AuGuST 3 

Glamorama 

locatioN: Orpheum Theatre, 910 

Hennepin Avenue, Minneapolis 


times: 8:00pm 

details: Macy’s is hosting their 20th 

Glamorama event! This hour-long combined 

fashion show and concert will include 

performances by Robin Thicke and Karmin. 

The event will showcase designs from Donna 

Karan, Marc Jacobs, Sean John and more! 

The after-party will be held on the eighth 

floor of the Macy’s Downtown Minneapolis. 

The show benefits the Children’s Cancer 

Research Fund. Tickets start at $60. For more 

information, visit macys.com/Glamorama. 

49th Annual Uptown 

Arts Fair 

locatioN: Lake Street and Hennepin 

Avenue and “The Mall,” Minneapolis 

dates: August 3–August 5 

times: Friday, 12:00pm--8:00pm; Saturday, 

10:00am–8:00pm; Sunday, 10:00am–5:00pm 

details: This year marks the 49th Annual

Uptown Art Fair! Featuring over 350 talented 

fine artists from around the world with works 

of art ranging from limited editions to one-ofa-kind 

treasures in each of 12 media including 

sculpture, painting, ceramics, jewelry, mixed 

media and more, 40 youth artists, 25 performers, 

20 food vendors and hundreds of Uptown 

businesses will help uphold the event’s 48year 

legacy of excellence. For more information, 

visit uptownartfair.com. 

AuGuST 4 

The Hartford & RE/MAX® 

Results Breast Cancer Ride 

locatioN: Eagan Community Center, 

1501 Central Parkway, Eagan 


time: All day 

details: Now in its fifth year, the Hartford & 

RE/MAX Results Breast Cancer Ride benefits 

Open Arms of Minnesota and the Minnesota 

Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure®. A 

beautiful southern route has been selected to 

take riders down to our overnight campsite at 

Treasure Island Resort and Casino. For more 

information, visit breastcancerride.org. 

Seward Co-op’s 40th 

Anniversary Celebration 

locatioN: East River Flats, 

360 East River Road, Minneapolis 


time: 12:00pm–8:00pm 

details: The co-op is celebrating its 40th 

anniversary and inviting the entire community 

to help celebrate with local favorites in music, 

food and beer. Enjoy Barrio’s Taco Truck, listen 

to great local music and talk with vendors 

while enjoying a local beer from Flat Earth 

brewery. Kids’ activities will also be provided 

including face painting and art projects. For 

more information, visit seward.coop. 

AuGuST 7 

Amadou & Mariam 

locatioN: The Walker Art Center, Cedar 

Cultural Center, 1750 Hennepin Avenue, 

Minneapolis 


time: 7:30pm 

details: After nearly a decade of pursuing 

these remarkable artists, the Walker (along 

with partners The Cedar and Sue McLean 

& Associates) bring African music superstars 

Amadou & Mariam to Minnesota for the 

first time for a rare and intimate concert 

experience. The blind husband and wife duo, 

along with full band, deliver their signature 

mix of Malian blues, rock, pop and traditional 

West African music. Tickets start at $39. For 

more information, visit walkerart.org. 

Chicago 

locatioN: Ordway Theatre, 345 

Washington Street, St. Paul 


times: Varies 

details: Sure we’ve all seen the movie but 

until you’ve seen Chicago performed live, you 

have yet to completely experience this incredible 

musical. It’s the funniest songs, the hottest 

dancing, the sexiest cast and the greatest story 

on Broadway. It’s also the winner of six Tony 

Awards, two Olivier Awards, a GRAMMY and 

thousands of standing ovations. Tickets start at 

$27. For more information, visit ordway.org. 

AuGuST 10 

Coldplay Live in Concert 

locatioN: Xcel Energy Center, 

199 W. Kellogg Boulevard, St. Paul 

date: August 10–August 11 

time: 7:00pm 

details: Coldplay sold more than 50 million 

records worldwide and won numerous awards, 

including seven GRAMMYs. Join them as 

they embark on their first North American 

tour in nearly three years. For more information, 

visit xcelenergycenter.com. 

AuGuST 16 

Fashion Fighting Stigma 

locatioN: Landmark Center, 

75 5th Street West, St. Paul 


time: 7:00pm 

details: Join People Incorporated for their 

Second Annual Fashion Fighting Stigma. Enjoy 

an evening of fashion and music to raise 

awareness of the connection between mental 

illness and homelessness. Runway show will 

feature local designers and boutiques, and 

proceeds benefit Homeless Services. For more 

information, visit peopleincorporated.org. 

AuGuST 25 

Open Your heART to Art 

Fundraiser 

locatioN: Hopkins Center for the Arts, 

1111 Mainstreet, Hopkins 


time: 10:00am–6:00pm 

details: Benefiting Free Arts, this event will 

include artist booths and a silent auction. You 

can also make a donation of $1 or more at 

the door to be entered in a drawing for door 

prizes. Live music all day long, free food and 

drink, family craft activities and a small gallery 

exhibit of Wing Young Huie in collaboration 

with Free Arts. There’s plenty to do to support 

a worthy cause. For more information, visit 

freeartsminnesota.org. 

NOTE: All calendar events must 

be received by August 1st for the 

September issue and adhere to our 

guidelines. 

Email llee@herlifemagazine.com 

for guidelines and to submit entries.

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