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Resilience in Children Exposed to<br />

Sexual Abuse and Sexual Exploitation in Merkato,<br />

Addis Ababa, <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />

A Research <strong>Report</strong> Submitted to<br />

The <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong><br />

by<br />

Gebre Yntiso, PhD, Ayalew Gebre, PhD, Rahel Shiferaw, Hiwot Workineh<br />

Addis Ababa<br />

30 December 2009<br />

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The Bamboo project is a multi-country, multi-phase research project, commissioned and supported<br />

by <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong>, to stimulate new thinking and new approaches in the field of work with<br />

children who are at risk of or have experienced sexual abuse and/or exploitation. It is hoped that it<br />

will generate innovative practice and policy that responds not only to the needs of the children but<br />

builds on their own experience and on the knowledge and experience of their families and<br />

communities.<br />

This report details the process and initial findings from the first phase of the research,<br />

conducted from February to September 2009 in Addis Abeba, <strong>Ethiopia</strong>. The report is being made<br />

available on <strong>Oak</strong>'s website, to share the initial findings and to stimulate discussion between<br />

researchers and practitioners. Using the material generated by this research, additional<br />

complementary reports will be developed, including a summary of the findings and reflections on<br />

practice and policy implications. As research is conducted in new sites, there will be reports<br />

comparing the respective findings.<br />

The views expressed in this report are those of the authors and not necessarily those of <strong>Oak</strong><br />

<strong>Foundation</strong> or the members of the International Steering Committee who offer strategic guidance<br />

to the overall project.<br />

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Acknowledgements<br />

A number of organizations and individuals deserve recognition for their contributions to the<br />

present study. First and foremost, acknowledgements are due to the 68 children and young people<br />

who shared their personal life experiences, sometimes very sensitive and private matters. All other<br />

informants (parents, community representatives, and NGO representatives) also deserve<br />

appreciation and thanks for providing valuable information. CHAD-ET played a critical role in<br />

introducing the research team to the network of NGOs operating in Merkato area, and to its own<br />

project beneficiaries. Although the research was eventually carried out in three kebeles (grassroots<br />

level administrative tiers), all others that we contacted initially provided the support that we<br />

needed. Our special thanks are due to CHAD-ET and the kebele administrations for facilitating<br />

entry into the communities. Our field assistants, Zemedkun Ayele and Hailu Lema, were highly<br />

motivated, concerned and resourceful young men. The research team is indebted to Fasil Wolde-<br />

Mariam (<strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> Representative in East Africa) for being supportive and enabling the<br />

researchers to use his long-established networks with local organizations to facilitate the study.<br />

Last but not least, the research team would like to express its indebtedness to members of the<br />

International Steering Committee (namely, Prof. Robert Gilligan, Dr. Elisabeth Protacio-De<br />

Castro, Stefan Vanistendael, and Shirley Fozzard) and Jane Warburton of the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> for<br />

their professional input and advice from the inception to the completion of the resilience research<br />

project in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>.<br />

Preface<br />

This report is a result of field research carried out in Merkato area, which is located in the heart of<br />

Addis Ababa, the capital of <strong>Ethiopia</strong>. The study was undertaken in accordance with an agreement<br />

concluded between the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> and Dr. Gebre Yntiso Deko, representing a team of four<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n researchers. The context for the research exercise was the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong>'s<br />

international learning initiative to understand resilience in children exposed to sexual abuse and<br />

sexual exploitation. The foundation intends to develop a learning initiative to determine what<br />

could be learnt from the experiences of children, families, communities, as well as program<br />

practice regarding the prevention of and recovery from child sexual abuse and exploitation. With<br />

this in mind, the present study was set to (1) explore the common risk factors that expose children<br />

to sexual abuse and sexual exploitation, and the vulnerability factors that increase their<br />

susceptibility to these ordeals; (2) investigate the protective factors and individual competencies<br />

that enable children not only to overcome risks of sexual abuse and exploitation but also undergo<br />

processes of successful transformation in their lives; and (3) shed light on the relevance of the<br />

insights on child resilience to policy and program practice aimed at prevention of and recovery<br />

from child sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

A total of 68 children and young people between 10 and 24, and 30 adults representing parents,<br />

communities, and NGOs participated in the study. The interview method was employed as the<br />

main data collection tool. The 68 children and young people were divided into three major<br />

categories: vulnerable but non-abused/exploited, currently/recently abused/exploited, and<br />

recovered from exploitative situations. In recognition of age-related differences in the knowledge<br />

and experiences of the 68 participants, each category was further divided into three age groups:<br />

10-13, 14-17, and 18-24. The study identified (1) various risk and vulnerability factors that<br />

subjected some children and young people to sexual abuse/exploitation, (2) protective factors that<br />

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enabled many to overcome such risks, and (3) strategies that former commercial sex workers<br />

employed to recover from exploitative situations. The report is expected to contribute to our<br />

knowledge of child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation in the context of <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, serve as a<br />

database for comparative study, and/or help as an entry point for program intervention or further<br />

research within <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and beyond.<br />

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CONTENTS<br />

Acknowledgements ........................................................................................ 2<br />

Preface ............................................................................................................ 3<br />

Acronyms ....................................................................................................... 7<br />

Executive Summary ...................................................................................... 8<br />

1. Background .............................................................................................. 11<br />

1.1 Introduction ............................................................................................................................ 11<br />

1.2 The study area ........................................................................................................................ 11<br />

1.3 Research design and methods ................................................................................................ 15<br />

1.3.1 Selection of research site ................................................................................................ 15<br />

1.3.2 Selection of informants ................................................................................................... 15<br />

1.3.3 Data collection ................................................................................................................ 16<br />

1.3.4 Data analysis and structuring .......................................................................................... 17<br />

1.3.5 Challenges encountered and measures taken .................................................................. 17<br />

1.3.6 Ethical issues ................................................................................................................... 19<br />

1.4 Literature review .................................................................................................................... 19<br />

1.4.1 Definitions ....................................................................................................................... 20<br />

1.4.2 Child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation .................................................................. 20<br />

1.4.3 Core concepts in resilience research ............................................................................... 22<br />

1.4.4 Child resilience research in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> .............................................................................. 23<br />

1.5 Policy and legal framework: <strong>Ethiopia</strong>.................................................................................... 24<br />

2. Common Risk Factors in Merkato ........................................................ 25<br />

2.1 Prevalence of commercial sex work ...................................................................................... 26<br />

2.2 Crime and delinquency .......................................................................................................... 27<br />

2.3 Substance and alcohol abuse .................................................................................................. 28<br />

2.4 Video houses .......................................................................................................................... 28<br />

2.5 Street business ........................................................................................................................ 29<br />

2.5.1 Street vending/peddling .................................................................................................. 29<br />

2.5.2 Bed renting ...................................................................................................................... 29<br />

2.6 Congestion/over-crowdedness ............................................................................................... 30<br />

2.7 Presence of bus terminal ........................................................................................................ 30<br />

3. Vulnerable Children and Young People ............................................... 31<br />

3.1 Children from poor families................................................................................................... 31<br />

3.2 Children from unstable/broken homes ................................................................................... 32<br />

3.3 Children from child-headed families ..................................................................................... 33<br />

3.4 Migrant/trafficked children .................................................................................................... 33<br />

3.5 Street children ........................................................................................................................ 34<br />

3.6 Children living in a state of loose family control .................................................................. 35<br />

4. Factors Averting Risks of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation ........................ 35<br />

4.1 Daily routines of the non-abused ........................................................................................... 36<br />

4.2 Perspectives of children and young people ............................................................................ 37<br />

4.2.1 Loving and supportive family ......................................................................................... 37<br />

4.2.2 Peer influence .................................................................................................................. 38<br />

4.2.3 Personal qualities/strategies ............................................................................................ 39<br />

4.2.4 Religious affiliation and faith ......................................................................................... 41<br />

4.2.5 External support .............................................................................................................. 41<br />

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4.2.6 Clubs at schools .............................................................................................................. 43<br />

4.2.7 General precaution .......................................................................................................... 43<br />

4.3 Perspectives of parents, community figures, and NGOs representatives .............................. 43<br />

4.3.1 Perspective of parents ..................................................................................................... 43<br />

4.3.2 Perspectives of NGOs and community representatives .................................................. 45<br />

4.4 Intra-category differences and similarities ............................................................................. 45<br />

5. Recovery from Sexual Exploitation ....................................................... 47<br />

5.1 Reflections of recovered young women ................................................................................ 47<br />

5.1.1 Motivation for recovery .................................................................................................. 47<br />

5.1.2 Strategies employed/steps taken ..................................................................................... 49<br />

5.1.3 Turning points ................................................................................................................. 50<br />

5.1.4 Support obtained ............................................................................................................. 52<br />

5.1.5 Relapse incidences and worries ...................................................................................... 53<br />

5.1.6 Daily routines of recovered young women ..................................................................... 53<br />

5.2 Perspectives of parents, community and NGO representatives ............................................. 54<br />

5.3 Intra-category similarities and differences ............................................................................. 55<br />

6. Victims of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation ................................................... 56<br />

6.1 Forms of abuse and sexual exploitation ................................................................................. 56<br />

6.1.1 Physical abuse ................................................................................................................. 56<br />

6.1.2 Sexual abuse of young girls ............................................................................................ 56<br />

6.1.3 Sexual abuse of male children ........................................................................................ 57<br />

6.1.4 Sexual exploitation of child girls by brothel owners ...................................................... 58<br />

6.2 Coping with day-to-day life situations ................................................................................... 59<br />

6.2.1 Resource sharing and mutual assistance ......................................................................... 60<br />

6.2.2 Maintaining relationships with ‘boyfriends’ or ‘husbands’ ............................................ 61<br />

6.2.3 The avoidance of risk situations ..................................................................................... 61<br />

6.2.4 Refusing sex without condom ......................................................................................... 62<br />

6.2.5 Stealing from customers ................................................................................................. 62<br />

6.3 Coping with problems related to work and life ................................................................. 63<br />

6.4 Relationships with the family ................................................................................................ 64<br />

6.5 Efforts made to recover .......................................................................................................... 65<br />

6.6 Intra-category similarities and differences ............................................................................. 66<br />

7. Cross-category Similarities and Differences ........................................ 67<br />

7.1 Vulnerable versus currently abused/exploited children ......................................................... 67<br />

7.2 Vulnerable versus recovered children .................................................................................... 68<br />

7.3 Currently abused/exploited versus recovered children .......................................................... 69<br />

7.4 Comparison/contrast of the three categories of children ....................................................... 69<br />

8. Conclusion ................................................................................................ 71<br />

8.1 Conclusion ............................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined.<br />

References .................................................................................................... 74<br />

Annex 1. Interview Guides ......................................................................... 77<br />

Annex 2. Thematic areas for data organization and transcription ........ 85<br />

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Acronyms<br />

ACPF African Child Policy Forum<br />

ANPPCAN Association for the Nationwide Action for Prevention and Protection<br />

against Child Abuse and Neglect<br />

AU (OAU) African Union (Organization of African Unity)<br />

Birr <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n currency (1 US$ = 12.7 Birr, January 2010)<br />

CHAD-ET Children Aid <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />

CBO Community-based Organization<br />

CSA Central Statistical Authority<br />

FSCE Forum for Street Children <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />

HIV/AIDS Human Immunodeficiency Virus/Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />

IFSO Integrated Family Service Organization<br />

MCDP Multi-purpose Community Development Project<br />

MoLSA Ministry of Labor and Social Affairs<br />

NGO Non-governmental Organization<br />

UNECA United Nations Economic Commission for Africa<br />

ORAAMP Office for the Revision of Addis Ababa Master Plan<br />

OPRIFS Organization for Prevention, Rehabilitation, and Integration of Female<br />

Street Children<br />

UN United Nations<br />

US United States<br />

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Executive Summary<br />

The study reveals that the Merkato area in Addis Ababa has a multitude of risks that exposed<br />

children to different adversities such as sexual abuse/exploitation. Commercial sex work, which<br />

offered easy access to generate easy money, attracted desperate and excited girls and young<br />

women. Crime and delinquency were also common in the study area. The common forms of<br />

criminal behavior included rape, gang rape and other forms of sexual violence. The violent<br />

behavior shown by criminal youngsters and children was fed and aggravated by alcohol/substance<br />

abuse, which was also common in Merkato. Under the influence of alcohol and drugs, young<br />

people and adults engaged in forms of violent sexual abuse. The presence of numerous video<br />

houses, where pornographic and action films were screened, similarly exposed children to a high<br />

risk of sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

A large number of families in Merkato area are engaged in occupations such as street vending and<br />

peddling, which are often undertaken by children and youngsters. In such situations, the children<br />

tend to encounter different sorts of people, including drunks, gangsters and strangers who use<br />

forceful and deceptive means to abuse them sexually. Children involved in bed renting were<br />

similarly at risk because they had to stay on the street to find people looking for bed. They were<br />

the targets of sexual abuse by drunks, street boys, passersby, or guests who stayed overnight.<br />

Congestion was a defining characteristic of the settlement patterns and living arrangements in the<br />

study area. Many families lived and slept packed into small, often one-room houses, and some<br />

households rented available space to strangers for overnight stays. The living arrangements put<br />

children at high risks for rape.<br />

Poverty was the dominant factor responsible for the increased susceptibility of children to sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation. The majority of sexually exploited children ended up in prostitution in a bid to<br />

extract themselves out of economic deprivation and support their families. Parents were pressured<br />

by poverty into sending their children to engage in street business to generate income. These<br />

engagements were dangerous for the children. Many homes were unable to provide children the<br />

affection, care, and security they needed for their well-being and prosperity. A hostile home<br />

climate marred by marital disharmony, alcoholism, drug addiction and physical and sexual<br />

violence made it hard for children to stay safe. Family breakup because of divorce, separation and<br />

other difficult circumstances caused the children to leave home and become vulnerable to a host of<br />

risks. The death of either or both parents is found to result in single parent or child-headed<br />

families. In order to cope with economic problems, many children took jobs that increased their<br />

vulnerability to risks. Out of desperation, some became commercial sex workers.<br />

Driven by push and pull factors, countless rural children migrated to Addis Ababa. Innumerable<br />

others were also trafficked from rural communities by bus and truck drivers, brokers, relatives,<br />

and brothel owners. Once at their destination in the urban setting, the children seldom achieved the<br />

dreams that they expected or were promised. Instead, they got involved in street life, domestic<br />

work in private homes or hired labor, which made them vulnerable to the risks of sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation. Multitudes of vulnerable and homeless children lived or worked on the street<br />

under harsh conditions. In the street environment, they were extremely vulnerable to sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation. Strangers, passersby, and sugar daddies were among the categories of people<br />

in whose hands underage or young street girls suffered rape and abuse.<br />

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Despite the prevalence of risk factors in Addis Ababa and individual vulnerabilities, many<br />

children and young people remained resilient to sexual abuse/sexual exploitation. Some even<br />

excelled in education and succeeded in their lives. The study reveals that a number of factors<br />

protected them from becoming victims of sexual abusers/exploiters. Family love, support, and<br />

guidance contributed to resilient qualities of most children. Such positive family relationships preempted<br />

any desire to search for affection and support from outside, which would have exposed<br />

them to sexual assault. Positive peer pressure motivated children to succeed and encouraged them<br />

to embrace appropriate social behavior, thereby reducing exposure to sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />

Some children demonstrated competence in locating/utilizing protective resources at the disposal<br />

of their peers and other supporters.<br />

Many children and young people demonstrated competence in their critical consciousness to<br />

understand threats around them and devise strategies to overcome those threats. Those who lived<br />

in risky neighborhoods managed to avert the dangers by, for example, refraining from walking in<br />

risky neighborhoods at certain times, not wearing provocative clothing, and avoiding<br />

entertainment places. Some children possessed problem-solving skills that involved networking or<br />

mutual cooperation against common threats. Street peddlers, bed renters, and commercial sex<br />

workers, who constituted the majority of prey to potential sex predators, cooperated to protect<br />

each other from offenders. A good number of children and young people displayed the ability to<br />

act independently and make their environments as safe and productive as possible. The common<br />

language used was 'keeping oneself busy with some work'. Many spent their leisure time reading<br />

books, studying hard for school, helping families, and engaging in creative work (e.g., writing,<br />

painting, etc.).<br />

The protective qualities and strategies of some children were enhanced by support obtained from<br />

external agencies. Some NGOs had programs to support poor families, thereby reducing the<br />

vulnerability of children; schools had girls clubs and anti-AIDS clubs to raise awareness about<br />

sexuality and protection from sex offenders; some CBOs contributed funds to support children<br />

from poor families; religious institutions had educational programs that partly focused on moral<br />

instruction; and some concerned citizens started supporting children at risk.<br />

After starting sex work, many soon realized the gap between their pre-entry expectations (material<br />

betterment and freedom) and the reality on the ground. Hence, some thought of quitting rather<br />

early, although the actual recovery demanded time. The underlying reason to quit commercial sex<br />

work was the need to disengage oneself from an activity surrounded by social stigma, health risks,<br />

and different forms of abuse/exploitation. A few former sex workers recovered without plans.<br />

However, the recovery experiences of the majority represented a well thought-out and step-by-step<br />

process. They needed their own savings, external support, or a new job to fall back on. Some had<br />

to initiate difficult negotiations with their families to be allowed to return home.<br />

Specific moments/events triggered the descent of children and young women into abusive and<br />

exploitative situations, while others facilitated recovery from such situations. Most informants<br />

indicated that disagreements/quarrels with family members forced them out of home. Others left<br />

home due to various reasons such as parental death and the culminating effect of poverty. The<br />

majority did not leave home with the intention to become prostitutes. Many were swayed into sex<br />

work out of frustration and economic desperation. It is equally important to note that certain<br />

events turned the lives of commercial sex workers around. Even those who had been planning to<br />

quit sex work mentioned that certain moments triggered fresh momentum to be more decisive than<br />

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ever before. Unexpected job offers, acceptance into a shelter for those who need support, and<br />

pleasing/disturbing medical test results caused abrupt decisions to quit.<br />

Support obtained from family members, friends, and/or NGOs played vital roles in inspiring,<br />

encouraging, facilitating, and consolidating recovery from sexual exploitation. Assistance was<br />

given in the form of ideas, funds, materials, and/or training. While the limited financial and<br />

material supports gave them short-term security, assistance in the form of sponsorship for<br />

education and skill training addressed their worries for the long-term. The attention they were<br />

given elevated their self-esteem and feelings of social relevance. Most recovered former sex<br />

workers received help from their friends rather than from families or NGOs.<br />

According to adult informants, factors that facilitate recovery from sexual abuse/exploitation may<br />

be grouped into three: the presence of motivation and determination to recover on the part of the<br />

victim; the presence of external support to facilitate the recovery; and the presence of a welcoming<br />

environment to ensure reintegration into family and society. Many informants were cautious about<br />

recovery stories because if one recovers, it does not necessarily mean that one will not relapse.<br />

Hence, most informants underlined the need for a favorable environment and external support to<br />

sustain resilience.<br />

The research explored the forms of abuse that sex workers endured. The perpetrators included<br />

customers, street gangs, and senior prostitutes. Physical abuse was reported to result from the<br />

customer's refusal to pay for sex and wear condoms, their demands for unconventional sex acts,<br />

and street gangs’ attempts to coerce child prostitutes into having sex for free or to take their<br />

money. Closely associated with the physical abuse of child prostitutes was the practice of sexual<br />

abuse such as rape and gang rape. Children practicing sex in the brothel environment experienced<br />

the worst aspects of sexual exploitation under ladies who own rooms. Besides having to pay for<br />

the rooms, the children had to share a large portion of their income with the room owners, and<br />

were forced to work for long hours.<br />

Despite being the targets of diverse forms of sexual abuse and exploitation, children involved in<br />

prostitution are not, however, passive victims of the adversities they face. As their life experience<br />

shows, they devise and adopt various coping strategies to manage difficulties. Mutual assistance<br />

and resource sharing represented the main coping mechanisms used to deal with financial<br />

problems. They also employed other coping strategies to deal with the threats and challenges<br />

posed by customers and other abusers. Chief among these are establishing relationship with young<br />

men considered as boyfriends/husbands, risk avoidance in the form of not going out with<br />

customers to unfamiliar places, and refusing sex without condom. Various addictive habits such as<br />

drinking alcohol, chewing khat, smoking tobacco and shisha, and inhaling ganja are other<br />

practices that the child prostitutes engage in as coping strategies when facing difficulties. Church<br />

attendance or fulfilling religious requirements is yet another strategy used to cope with troubles.<br />

In regard to family relationships, the findings revealed that child prostitutes in the research<br />

community, by and large, apparently operated without the knowledge or approval of their<br />

parents. The social stigma attached to commercial sex explains the decision of the children to<br />

practice prostitution in anonymity. Some maintained close family ties, while others<br />

communicated with family via different channels. Many of those who maintained some contacts<br />

with their families provided financial support to their parents and/or siblings.<br />

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1. Background<br />

1.1 Introduction<br />

Children are vulnerable to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation due to their innocence, tenderness,<br />

and powerlessness. In <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and the capital Addis Ababa, children’s exposure to such risks is<br />

exacerbated by poverty, family breakdown, peer influence, child migration and trafficking,<br />

commercial sex work, the screening of pornographic films, and drug/substance abuse, to mention<br />

some. Studies indicate that child sexual abuse/exploitation and child trafficking have been on the<br />

rise in the country (MoLSA 2002; ANPPCAN-<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Chapter 2004; Ayalew 2006; Belete, et<br />

al 2006; Ermias 2007). A significant number of migrants and trafficked children from the<br />

countryside had become commercial sex workers in Addis Ababa (Lome 2002; Fekade 2006;<br />

Asham 2007). According to the official records of FSCE, the number of children trafficked to the<br />

city increased from 213 in 2004 to 972 in 2008. Some of the findings underscored that the sexual<br />

exploitation of children was particularly evident in urban areas (MoLSA 2002; Ayalew 2006;<br />

Ermias 2007). In <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, cases of sexual abuse/exploitation are surrounded by fear, shame,<br />

secrecy, and a culture of silence and indifference. This makes recovery and reintegration of<br />

abused/exploited children and young people into family and society rather difficult.<br />

While acknowledging the existence and magnitude of the challenges as described above, the<br />

present study 1 explored whether all children exposed to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation<br />

succumbed to the likely consequences and remained passive victims. The international literature<br />

reveals that while some children exposed to adversities become helpless victims, others remain<br />

resilient to risks or demonstrate competence to recover from dangerous situations (Palma and<br />

Balanon 2007; Ungar, et al 2007; Benard 1995; Masten, et al 1990). In this regard, children in<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong> cannot be exceptions. The present study was undertaken to explore the common risks that<br />

expose children and young people to sexual abuse/exploitation as well as the vulnerability factors<br />

that increase their susceptibility to these risks. The most important focus of the study is the<br />

protective factors that enable children not only to overcome these risks but also to undergo<br />

processes of successful transformation in their lives. Addis Ababa was selected as the research site<br />

because it is a high-risk area for the occurrence of sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, and related<br />

child trafficking.<br />

As discussed in the methods section of this report, qualitative research methods, especially life<br />

history interviewing and observation were employed. The research unequivocally revealed that<br />

many children in the three kebeles of Addis Ketema Sub-City not only avoided or escaped from<br />

eminent problems, but also turned the trajectory of failure in life into a positive outcome. The rich<br />

life experiences of the children included in the study are expected to enhance our understanding of<br />

child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation. Thus far, very little was known about child resilience<br />

in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, and this constraint may have precluded the development of intervention strategies.<br />

The present research is expected to contribute to the narrowing of the critical information gap and<br />

pave the way for learning, awareness-raising, and program intervention using the resilience<br />

framework.<br />

1.2 The study area<br />

Addis Ababa, <strong>Ethiopia</strong>’s largest metropolis, is a chartered City Administration that serves as the<br />

capital of both the Oromia Region and the nation. The site was chosen in 1886 by Empress Taytu<br />

1 The present study was carried out in three kebeles of Addis Ketema, one of the 10 Sub-Cities of Addis Ababa.<br />

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Betul and a year later, the city was founded by her husband, Emperor Menelik II (Fasil and Gérard<br />

2007). Historical events, political changes, economic development, and demographic increment<br />

have transformed Addis Ababa over the years. The changes that have occurred from 1886 to<br />

present can be summarized in four major phases: the early period of establishment and<br />

consolidation, the intermediate period of modernization, the socialist period of centralized<br />

administration, and the post-socialist period of transition to market economy (Wubshet 2002).<br />

Over the years, several master plans were developed, often with the help of foreign planners. 2<br />

Currently, Addis Ababa is divided into 10 Sub-Cities and 99 kebeles.<br />

Table 1. Population, Sub-Cities and Kebeles of Addis Ababa<br />

Sub-City Number of<br />

Population size<br />

Kebeles Male Female Total<br />

1 Arada 10 99,392 112,617 212,009<br />

2 Addis Ketema 9 124,741 130,351 255,092<br />

3 Akaki Kality 8 88,676 92,526 181,202<br />

4 Bole 11 145,057 163,657 308,714<br />

5 Gullele 10 129,239 138,142 267,381<br />

6 Kirkos 11 103,314 117,677 220,991<br />

7 Kolfe Keranio 10 207,506 221,148 428,654<br />

8 Lideta 9 96,221 105,392 201,613<br />

9 Nifas Silk Lafto 10 148,892 167,216 316,108<br />

10 Yeka 11 161,480 185,004 346,484<br />

Total 99 1,304,518 1,433,730 2,738,248<br />

Source: Central Statistical Authority, 2008.<br />

According to the 2007 national census, the total population of Addis Ababa is 2,738,248 (CSA<br />

2008:13). The total area of the city is estimated at 54,000 sq km, out of which 18,174 sq km is<br />

rural (Wubshet 2002:101; Meheret 1999:2). The city, which stretches from 1800 to 3200 meters<br />

above sea level, is located at 90° 2' N and 38° 45' E. The lowest and the highest annual average<br />

temperatures of the city are 9.89°C and 24.64°C respectively. The annual average rainfall is 1178<br />

mm (Dierig 1999). Addis Ababa is the home of various ethnic groups: 47.05 percent Amhara,<br />

19.51 percent Oromo, 16.34 percent Gurage, 6.15 percent Tigray, and the remaining represent<br />

other <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n ethnic groups and foreign nationals (CSA 2008:104-106). Regarding religion, 74.7<br />

percent of the population are Orthodox Christians, 16.2 percent Muslims, 7.8 percent Protestants,<br />

0.5 percent Catholics, 0.1 percent traditional believers, and 0.8 percent followers of other religions<br />

(CSA 2008:112). Earlier reports indicate that some 93.6 percent of the men and 79.9 percent of the<br />

women in the city are literate (CSA and ORC Macro 2005:35-36). Some 96.2 percent of the city’s<br />

households have tap water and 34.4 percent of the population own houses (Golini et al 2001).<br />

2 The first guideline sketch of Addis Ababa was made in 1936 by the French Architect Le Corbusier. In 1936, two<br />

Italians, I. Guidi and C. Valle prepared the second Master Plan. The British planner Sir Patrick Abercrombie prepared<br />

the third Master Plan, which was completed in 1956. In 1959, Bolton, Hennesy and Partners (a British Consultancy<br />

Office) reviewed Abercrombie’s plan. In 1965, a French consulting team led by L. De Marien prepared a new Master<br />

Plan. During the Socialist regime (1974-1991) a city plan was prepared by a Hungarian planner, C. K. Polony. See<br />

Fitsum (2007) and Wubshet (2002 ) for details on the Master Plans of Addis Ababa.<br />

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The city's residents are engaged in diverse activities, such as trade/commerce, manufacturing and<br />

industry, homemaking of different types, civil administration, transport and communication, social<br />

services (education, health, etc.), hotel and catering services, and farming (CSA and ORC Macro<br />

2005). The same report revealed that 68.9 percent of the men and 44.2 percent of the women are<br />

employed. UN-Habitat’s (2007:25) recent report, based on a 2002 study by the Association of<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Micro-finance Institutions, indicates that the informal sector, often located in slum parts<br />

of the city, employs about 51 percent of the economically active labor force. Addis Ababa is the<br />

official diplomatic capital of Africa with more than 90 embassies and consular representatives,<br />

which makes it the fourth diplomatic center in the world. The city has been serving as the<br />

Headquarters of the United Nations Economic Commission for Africa (UNECA) since 1958 and<br />

the Headquarters of the former Organization of African Unity (OAU), now Africa Union (AU),<br />

since 1963.<br />

Meheret Ayenew (1999:1) wrote, “Addis Ababa is a fast growing urban center that is beset with<br />

the problems afflicting most cities in the developing world, including extensive poverty,<br />

joblessness, inadequate housing, severe overcrowding/congestion and an undeveloped physical<br />

infrastructure.” According to Sandra Dierig (1999), pollution, poverty and environmentally<br />

induced hazards are among the major problems threatening the health and life of the majority of<br />

the city’s inhabitants, particularly the urban poor. The author wrote, “Especially in the last few<br />

years, urban poverty in Addis Ababa has increased tremendously… an increase from 45-63%<br />

between 1993 and 1995… Unemployment, very poor housing, sanitation and water supply, and<br />

insufficient healthcare are rampant problems…. The number of homeless is said to be 40,000"<br />

(Dierig 1999:52). The reports by Meheret (1999), Dierig (1999), Kamete et al (2001), Golini et al<br />

(2001), Wubshet (2002), and UN-Habitat (2004; 2007) reveal the presence of many other<br />

problems: an estimated 85 percent of the population is believed to live in slums; 85 percent of the<br />

housing stock is located in unplanned areas; 41 percent of the households earn less than Birr 13<br />

per day; about 35 percent live below the poverty line; 25.2 percent do not have indoor toilets; only<br />

60 percent of the demand for water has been met; unemployment rate is 30-35 percent; etc.<br />

On the positive side, currently, Addis Ababa is witnessing phenomenal public and private<br />

investments. The strategic development framework of the city provides a ten-year (2001-2010)<br />

policy and development direction. Housing, slum upgrading, development of the inner-city,<br />

construction of roads, establishment of industries and warehouses, and protection and<br />

development of the environment are the six priority strategic development goals to be achieved<br />

during the ten-year plan (ORAAMP 2002:48). The major transformations of the city are evidenced<br />

by the construction of public schools, private hospitals, road networks, hotels (notably, Sheraton<br />

Addis), new airport, several high rises in the inner-city, and the housing real estate in the outskirts<br />

(Gebre 2008). Moreover, banks, shopping centers, colleges, healthcare services, and many other<br />

private businesses are flourishing throughout the city.<br />

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Figure 1. The research site<br />

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1.3 Research design and methods<br />

1.3.1 Selection of research site<br />

Addis Ababa was selected as the research site because it represented a high-risk area for child<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation and related child trafficking. This was established through regular police<br />

reports, the prevalence of prostitution in several corners of the city (Bethlehem 2005), and the<br />

large number of children trafficked to the city from different parts of the country (Asham 2007).<br />

The Merkato area, especially the neighborhoods of the bus terminal, in Addis Ketema Sub-City<br />

was selected as the specific research site. Merkato is well known for widespread poverty,<br />

prevalent prostitution, sexual offence cases, and drug/alcohol abuse. The location of the bus<br />

station in the middle of Addis Ketema Sub-city made Merkato the destination of rural migrants<br />

and trafficked children from all directions. After contacting six of the nine kebeles in Addis<br />

Ketema Sub-City close to central Merkato and the bus station, three adjacent kebeles (namely,<br />

13/15, 10/11/12, and 06/07) were selected because of their suitability for the study. 3<br />

1.3.2 Selection of informants<br />

Two categories of informants participated in the study. The first category consisted of 68 children<br />

and young people aged 10-24. The second category comprised 30 adults: 10 parents, 10<br />

community representatives, and 10 representatives of NGOs working with children. The first<br />

category, which consists of the 68 children and young people, is further divided into three subcategories:<br />

vulnerable and non-abused (high risk children not subjected to sexual abuse and<br />

exploitation); currently/recently abused/exploited (those under abusive/exploitative situation at the<br />

time of the research); and recovered (prostitute who quit sex work). Because of their age<br />

differences, children and young people between 10 and 24 years old were expected to differ from<br />

each other in their experiences and capacities to deal with risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. This<br />

warranted the division of informants into three age groups: 10-13, 14-17, and 18-24.<br />

Table 2. Categories of informants by age group<br />

Age Vulnerable but Recently<br />

Recovered from<br />

Group Non-Abused Abused/Exploited Exploitative Situation<br />

M F T M F T M F T<br />

10-13 3 5 8 3 5 8 0 0 0<br />

14-17 3 6 9 2 8 10 0 3 3<br />

18-24 3 11 14 1 8 9 0 7 7<br />

Total 9 22 31 6 21 27 0 10 10<br />

Prior to the informant identification and the interview process, the two female researchers spent<br />

some three weeks familiarizing themselves with the research site and potential informants. The<br />

male researchers also made their presence noticed by traveling around with NGO and kebele staff.<br />

Then, potential informants considered suitable for the study were identified using four strategies.<br />

First, the major NGOs that operate in Merkato area were contacted to obtain the list of potential<br />

informants and secure entry into the neighborhoods. Three individuals working for two NGOs and<br />

some knowledgeable beneficiaries were employed as contact persons and part-time field assistants<br />

3 The Sub-Cities of Addis Ababa are divided into kebeles (lowest administrative tiers) known by numbers.<br />

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to help with the informant identification and entry. Second, six kebeles were contacted, again, to<br />

identify potential informants and help with the entry. Since the cooperation of three kebele offices<br />

was sufficient for the purpose, it was not necessary to revisit the other three units. Third, during<br />

interviews with parents and community representatives, informants were briefed about the three<br />

categories of children/young people that were being studied. Then, they were asked to name<br />

children in their neighborhood, who fit in any of the categories. Fourth, child/youth informants<br />

were also asked about their knowledge of other children in their situation (same category) or<br />

different situations (in the other two categories). The first two strategies were employed early and<br />

simultaneously, while the other two were pursued rather late, after securing entry into the<br />

neighborhoods. All potential informants identified through the four means were visited often more<br />

than once by the researchers for suitability assessment. Those determined suitable for the study<br />

were revisited for the actual interviews on dates/times of their choice.<br />

Most of the parents were chosen based on the participation of their children in the study, while few<br />

others were purposefully selected because of their prominence in their neighborhoods. The<br />

community representatives were selected based on their recognized knowledge of certain interests<br />

and/or communities that they represented. The representatives of the major NGOs operating in<br />

Merkato and those of little-known organizations were included in the research. The basis of<br />

selection was their involvement in issues related to child sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, and/or<br />

child trafficking.<br />

1.3.3 Data collection<br />

Two main data collection techniques were employed: observation and interview. The observation<br />

method was employed to understand the socio-economic conditions of families; the types of<br />

businesses in the study neighborhood; the way the children spent their time and with whom; the<br />

participation of children in religious programs; and other physical and social environments that<br />

increased vulnerability or enhanced resilience.<br />

The life history interview method was used to obtain the narrative reconstruction of the lives of the<br />

68 children and young people in some coherent order. 4 As established in Robert Atkin's work, the<br />

life history method helps to understand a child's current situations and how they may have been<br />

influenced by decisions that may have been made at another time and in another place. This<br />

approach helps to produce thorough information about the way the children view their lives, their<br />

perception of societal attitudes towards them, and the implications of these perceptions. Data were<br />

obtained by getting young people to tell their individual stories in their own words, rather than by<br />

asking them leading questions, and this was accomplished by beginning the interview process with<br />

the informant’s early childhood experiences and then proceeding to the present.<br />

The life history method is not the best strategy to solicit information from much younger children<br />

because of their age and limited experiences. Therefore, those between 10 and 13 were asked to<br />

tell about their current situations and their experiences from the recent past in free narrative style.<br />

During the early contacts, they were asked questions that might interest them most (e.g., sports,<br />

celebrities, and movies) and things they did prior to the interview. Open-ended questions expected<br />

to invite them to share uninfluenced and undirected information were presented. All efforts were<br />

made to ensure that the interviews were conducted in a relaxed and playful atmosphere. As the<br />

4 Regarding the interview of children and young people, attempts were made to ensure that the male principal<br />

investigators interviewed male informants and the female research assistants interviewed female informants.<br />

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interview proceeded, the researchers probed and systematically directed the nature of the questions<br />

so that the exercise produced the desired research results. Information from the adults (parents,<br />

community figures, and representatives of NGOs) was collected largely through in-depth<br />

interviews.<br />

1.3.4 Data analysis and structuring<br />

A number of factors have influenced the process of the data organization and analysis. Hence, the<br />

structure of the report evolved to assume its present form as the research progressed. The review<br />

of resilience literature was a crucial primary step taken to become acquainted with the current<br />

thinking on the issue. This has made it possible for the research team to communicate with a good<br />

measure of shared understanding about resilience, and it facilitated discussions with the<br />

International Steering Committee (ISC). Moreover, the literature review has played an important<br />

role in conceptualizing the problem, shaping the concept note, and later developing the research<br />

proposal in accordance with the terms of reference.<br />

To ensure in-depth understanding of resilience in children exposed to sexual abuse/exploitation,<br />

three principal categories were formed: vulnerable and non-abused, currently/recently<br />

abused/exploited, and recovered. To appreciate age-based differences and similarities in life<br />

experiences of the informants, each category was sub-divided into three age groups (10-13, 14-17,<br />

and 18-24). Subsequently, data collection instruments and specific life history interview questions<br />

were developed in a manner that suited the said categories and age groups. It should be<br />

emphasized that the standard concepts of resilience gleaned from the relevant literature had an<br />

influence on the identification of the categories and the design of the data collection instruments.<br />

However, discussions with the ISC also played a major part in the refinement of the research<br />

procedure and the design of instruments. Insofar as the research design followed these important<br />

steps, it is inevitable that the results of this exercise would ultimately surface in the process of the<br />

data analysis and organization. Nonetheless, the stories of the children narrated during fieldwork<br />

largely shaped the present structure of the report. Once the data collection was complete, members<br />

of the research team held a meeting to discuss and determine the course that the data transcription<br />

and organization should take, and whether the transcription should be done in English or Amharic.<br />

Thematic areas were identified to guide data organization and both languages were used for data<br />

transcription.<br />

Once the data were organized and transcribed along thematic areas, the principal investigators<br />

took assignments to review the data thoroughly and prepare tentative report outlines. A common<br />

report structure was developed and agreed upon after merging the outlines in a manner that<br />

avoided overlap, while ensuring that issues were not missed in the data reduction process.<br />

Feedbacks/comments from the research assistants played a part in shaping the report structure.<br />

Lastly, the principal investigators divided the chapters between themselves and embarked upon the<br />

task of data analysis and write-up before putting the parts together to make a single report. The<br />

report was written in such as way that the voices of the children are heard.<br />

1.3.5 Challenges encountered and measures taken<br />

The research team encountered a number of challenges that demanded careful attention and<br />

appropriate measures. Some informants, particularly those who had been sexually exploited,<br />

provided distorted stories. Attempts were made to convince such informants to provide genuine<br />

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information. Those who provided suspicious and contradictory information were deselected and<br />

the data discarded. Interviewing children between the ages of 10 and 13 in the category called<br />

'vulnerable and non-abused' presented a special challenge. Since culturally, sexuality is treated<br />

with secrecy and apprehension, young children felt uncomfortable with such terms as sex, sexual<br />

abuse, sexual exploitation, and sexual harassment. Hence, the researchers used indirect<br />

expressions such as inappropriate request and touch. Prior to inquiring about the personal<br />

experiences of the informants, younger children were first told the experiences of other children.<br />

The interviews were conducted in a playful fashion and friendly atmosphere in such a way that<br />

discussions moved back-and-forth between serious talks and entertaining conversations.<br />

Although different strategies were eventually devised to ensure their participation, identifying and<br />

arranging meetings with maids and sex workers on 24-hour duty presented a challenge because it<br />

was rather difficult for them to secure permission from the people they worked for. Since they<br />

engaged in sex work at night, slept in the mornings, and socialized in the afternoons, conducting<br />

interviews with the regular prostitute also demanded flexibility in interview times. Some<br />

informants came to interviews while under the influence of alcohol and drugs, and this required reinterviewing<br />

them when they were sober.<br />

Some sexually abused children suffered from gossips and humiliation by peers and other people in<br />

their neighborhoods. The gossips and name-calling increased when NGO workers and other<br />

strangers such as researchers visited such children. Hence, some abused children and their parents<br />

were uncomfortable, if not unwilling, to participate in the research. In order to address their<br />

worries, the researchers agreed to pretend that the visits were unrelated to the incidences of sexual<br />

assaults, and to conduct the interviews at places and times convenient to the children and their<br />

parents/guardians. A few informants consented to be interviewed but refused be tape-recorded or<br />

became tense by the recording process. When efforts to persuade them or calm them down failed,<br />

the researchers shifted to note-taking to capture the information provided. Many informants<br />

demanded payment for the time they spent. Hence, it was necessary to pay informants a token to<br />

compensate for their time that would have been used productively.<br />

The original plan was to interview 90 children and young people and 30 adults. According to the<br />

plan, each category would have 30 informants (21 female and 9 male), and each age-based subcategory<br />

would have seven female and three male informants. As indicated in Table 1 above, the<br />

original plan was not strictly observed because certain challenges warranted some adjustments.<br />

Regarding the category called non-abused/exploited, for example, instead of 30 children and<br />

young people, 31 were interviewed. Eight of the 31 informants came from the age group 10-13,<br />

nine informants from 14-17, and 14 from 18-24. In the lower age categories, child resilience to<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation is largely explained in terms of the ability of children to bear enticement<br />

and avoid the use of force. Since they were young and still vulnerable, one can only hope that they<br />

will remain resilient. Those in the upper age group seemed to have reached a stage where the risks<br />

were minimum or none and success was attained or within reach. Hence, more samples were taken<br />

from the upper age group to increase diversity and bring depth to the study.<br />

Concerning the complicated category called currently/recently abused/exploited, the research team<br />

encountered multiple challenges. It is complicated because, when unpacked, this category was<br />

found to consist of four sub-categories: currently abused male/female, currently exploited<br />

male/female, recently abused male/female, and recently exploited male/female. And, this is apart<br />

from the three age-based groupings that apply to all categories. One of the challenges related to<br />

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identifying currently abused male and female informants. Since the experience of abuse was<br />

surrounded by fear and shame, nobody came forward. Thus, the balance was totally biased<br />

towards currently exploited girls and young women. Moreover, finding male informants for this<br />

category was generally difficult, as male sexual abuse/exploitation is rare and underreported.<br />

The major challenge related to the third category (recovered) was identifying male informants who<br />

recovered from sexual abuse/exploitation for all three age groups. Incidences of male sexual<br />

abuse, male participation in sex work, and homosexual orientations are recent developments in<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong>. Rumors and media stories in the last few years shocked and disgusted the public,<br />

religious institutions, and authorities. The incidences seem to be very rare and the social<br />

environment discourages openness. Although the research team managed to locate a few male sex<br />

workers, they refused to have face-to-face interviews because of the shame involved and perceived<br />

harsh consequences from the public and authorities if their secrecy is unveiled. The second<br />

challenge was that the team could not identify girls for the age group 10-13. At an early age,<br />

according to informants, entry into abusive/exploitative situation is more likely to happen than<br />

recovery from it.<br />

The research team witnessed crisis that three informants (Alem Behailu, Menelik Geremew, and<br />

Dagne Aizo) encountered. They decided to secure them assistance from NGOs and succeeded<br />

partly. Two organizations offered to accept and help two of the children (Alem and Dagne).<br />

Before we had the chance to find him a sponsor, the third child (Menelik), was taken to a youth<br />

correctional facility due to a pending attempted child molestation charge against him.<br />

1.3.6 Ethical issues<br />

The present study was conducted in accordance with the code of ethics related to research with<br />

children. Generally, the ethical requirements relate to scientific validity, welfare of the<br />

participants, and respect for the dignity of participants. Accordingly, the ethical norms for this<br />

study were designed to respect human dignity, respect freedom and self-determination of the<br />

participants, obtain informed consent, inform participants about the research, and keep the<br />

confidentiality of participants. As part of keeping the confidentiality of informants, pseudonyms<br />

have been used throughout this report. The consent of parents/guardians was secured for children<br />

younger than 16. All children were informed that they could refuse to participate, or withdraw in<br />

the middle of the interview process, and that they should not volunteer out of fear or respect for<br />

adults. Since exploring children's feelings and traumatic experiences might trigger discomfort, the<br />

interviews were conducted with utmost sensitivity. Informants were given written consent<br />

documents that provided details about the research, responsibilities/duties of the researchers, the<br />

rights of informants, and the use of the research results. Interviews were conducted after ensuring<br />

that the informants understood the message and securing the signed consent letter.<br />

Parents/guardians signed the consent form for children below the age of 16. In the case of<br />

unaccompanied children, the consent of adult figures associated with or known to them was<br />

secured.<br />

1.4 Literature review<br />

The scientific study of child resilience is a field of research endeavor that spans two and half<br />

decades. The investigations undertaken during this time have increased the understanding of the<br />

subject by giving fresh insights and enlightenment on various aspects of the issue as the years<br />

have passed by. For example, the traditional approach toward child welfare used to focus on the<br />

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investigation of risk factors. As a result, the output and lessons learned from the investigative<br />

processes were intended to inform the design of interventions aimed at mitigating the impacts of<br />

the risk conditions.<br />

Nevertheless, observations indicated that not all children were susceptible to, or adversely affected<br />

by, the risks they faced. Thus, such understanding and insights redirected the focus of attention to<br />

the study of protective factors and resilience outcomes. In recent years, research activity has<br />

therefore been geared toward the development of knowledge in the area, and a shift in the<br />

approach adopted toward child-focused program design. Informed practice in devising<br />

interventions and the promotion of resilience is thought to be a more effective approach in terms<br />

of enabling children to achieve positive outcomes in their interactions with single or multiple risk<br />

factors.<br />

1.4.1 Definitions<br />

Researchers in the field have come up with a number of definitions that reflect the characteristics<br />

of resilience from different angles and perspectives. Hence, a uniform definition that all<br />

investigators accept has not been achieved. For this reason, for the purpose of the study at hand, it<br />

is deemed appropriate to provide descriptions of the different facets of the conceptualization of<br />

resilience, rather than focusing on a definition that does not after all encompass or reflect all the<br />

stated features of the concept. Accordingly, in the conduct of the research, the investigators<br />

approached the subject of child resilience from the point of view of resilience characteristics<br />

identified at the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> sponsored consultative discussion held in 2007 5 . Therefore, the<br />

definitional characteristics which guided the direction of the research are the following:<br />

� Resilience encompasses growth as well as resistance and coping in the face of adversity.<br />

� It is a long-term process, or a life path.<br />

� It may need adversity to develop, i.e., it develops in the face of adversity.<br />

� A resilient child copes with adversity better than he or she should.<br />

� Resilience should be seen as a process in interaction with the environment, not an inherent<br />

quality in the child.<br />

� It needs more than positive qualities or resources – active use of resources is required.<br />

� It may be seen in individuals or in the group environment.<br />

� It is never absolute, but varies with circumstances and time, and from person to person.<br />

1.4.2 Child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation<br />

The vulnerability model, adopted in previous years, tended to view children as “weak, passive,<br />

helpless, dependent, and incapable of doing things” (Palma and Balanon, 2007 quoting<br />

Warburton). However, there has of late been a shift to the resilience model which considers<br />

children as “having the capacity to cope, adapt and overcome traumatic experiences” (Palma and<br />

Balanon, 2007 quoting Warburton). Further, the resilience model views children as “active agents<br />

in their own development and not as passive victims of adversity” (Palma and Balanon, 2007<br />

citing Gilligan, 2001). From this perspective, “the concept of resilience is often associated with<br />

successful adaptation, well-being, positive functioning and competence in the face of uncertainty,<br />

chronic stress, and prolonged or severe trauma” (Palma and Balanon, 2007 citing Luthar, 1993 and<br />

Egeland et al 1993).<br />

5<br />

‘Towards an Operational Definition of the Resilience Approach’. A working synthesis of an <strong>Oak</strong>-sponsored<br />

discussion held in 2007.<br />

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The discussion of the subject in the context of the resilience model, therefore, begs the question:<br />

Who then are resilient children? In the answer to this, Masten et al (1990) has identified three<br />

categories that can be described as resilient: Children who do not succumb to adversities, despite<br />

their high-risk status; children who develop coping strategies in situations of chronic stress; and<br />

children who have suffered extreme trauma or abuse and who have recovered and prospered. In<br />

order to expound on what kind of children are resilient in connection with sexual abuse and<br />

exploitation, emphasis is given to the discussion of risk and vulnerability situations 6 , protective<br />

factors 7 and recovery outcomes.<br />

In order to understand and appreciate resilience in the context of child sexual abuse and<br />

exploitation, one needs to investigate what kind of children are at risk, vulnerable, and can make<br />

use of available protective resources to avoid succumbing to threats or manage the impacts.<br />

Children who are at high risk of sexual abuse and exploitation are those who live in families,<br />

neighborhoods or community where the exposing factors to abusive and exploitative situations are<br />

common or widely prevalent. On the other hand, vulnerable children are those who find<br />

themselves in situations which increase their susceptibility to sexual abuse and exploitation, where<br />

the risks that lead to the same outcomes may or may not exist. In the face of exposing factors,<br />

some children can still manage to avoid becoming the victims of sexual abuse and exploitation. In<br />

other instances, children who may have succumbed to the adversities manifest process or<br />

outcomes of successfully coping with the impacts or making a durable recovery from adverse<br />

situations. Such children are the ones able to exploit to their advantage resilience factors located<br />

within them, their families, or the community.<br />

The assets or resources that enhance children’s capacity for resilience are described as individual<br />

factors or personality traits, cognitive factors, familial factors, and sociological factors (Morales,<br />

2007). According to the same source, qualities referred to as individual factors/personality traits<br />

are self-organization, self-esteem, personal effectiveness, internal-external control, psychological<br />

endurance, and drawing on positive emotions. Characteristics defined as cognitive factors are<br />

coping strategies adopted by resilient children to effectively manage the impacts of adversities<br />

such as seeking emotional support, disclosure to a third person (adult or sibling), and cognitive<br />

restructuring or cognitive reframing 8 , cognitive aptitude 9 , and dispositional optimism 10 . Referred<br />

to as familiar factors are emotional attachment and familial cohesion, emotional security, warm<br />

emotional climate within the family created by the quality of parent-child and conjugal<br />

relationships. Included among sociological factors are (a) membership groups such as family,<br />

neighborhood, community which provide each other mutual support and require adherence to a<br />

group’s moral rules. These elements favor or foster resilience in children and young people<br />

exposed to difficult conditions. The cultural environment and the socio-political system also<br />

6 Based on the definition of Newman (2004), risk refers to any factor or combination of factors that increases the<br />

chance of an undesirable outcome affecting a person. Vulnerability is a feature that renders a person more susceptible<br />

to a threat.<br />

7 Protective factors are the circumstances that moderate the effects of risk (Newman (2004).<br />

8 Cognitive restructuring/cognitive reframing is a strategy that leads to a change in the understanding of the traumatic<br />

event and its implications (Morales, 2007 citing Spaccarelli, 1994:41)<br />

9 Resilient children often demonstrate a greater capacity for understanding and analyzing situations and a greater<br />

capacity for attention and concentration (Morales, 2007).<br />

10 Dispositional optimism refers to a stable, generalized set of expectations of positive things that will come to us in<br />

different areas of life and at different times in our existence (Morale, 2007)<br />

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constitute membership groups that influence, through their values and attitudes, what resilience<br />

might be; (b) peer relations which take on a new significance during adolescence period can play<br />

an important role in healthy development and favor resilience to the extent that they may exert<br />

positive influence on children and young people. In fact, identification with peer group, where the<br />

identification is strong, can lead to a greater emotional support which nurtures resilience; (c)<br />

socio-demographic factors relate to the variables of age, gender and socio-economic status. The<br />

same source (Morales, 2007, citing different authorities) explains that the risks of psychological<br />

disturbance resulting from sexual abuse tend to vary in intensity and severity depending on how<br />

young the victim was at the time of the experience. Poverty aggravates the risk of suffering<br />

adverse conditions, intensifies the chances of experiencing psychological distress and denies the<br />

resources needed to cope with adversities. Indeed, (Morales, 2007, citing Dumont, Widom et el<br />

2007:15) states: “…the abused child who grows up in an economically advantaged neighborhood<br />

has more possibility of appearing resilient than a child who grows up in a disadvantaged<br />

neighborhood”; (d) spiritual and religious belief refers to active participation in the practice of a<br />

religious group or membership of a system of beliefs. Identification with a spiritual fellowship for<br />

the purpose of seeking divine backing can produce a therapeutic effect to recover from<br />

psychological stress that adults suffer as a consequence of sexual abuse during childhood.<br />

1.4.3 Core concepts in resilience research<br />

In the literature, the discussions of resilience are premised on five core concepts: risk factors,<br />

vulnerability factors, competence, protective factors, and developmental assets (Rutter 1990;<br />

Masten and Coatsworth 1998; Kaplan 1999; Scales, et al 2000; Masten 2001). The complex<br />

interplay of these factors is believed to ultimately determine children’s successful outcomes in the<br />

process of their development into adulthood.<br />

Risk factors are conditions internal or external to the child that are likely to aggravate the<br />

possibilities of undergoing sexual exploitation and abuse as the negative outcomes of poor social<br />

adjustment. Conditions identified as common risk factors include traumatic life events (such as the<br />

death of a parent), socioeconomic disadvantages, family conflict, and chronic exposure to<br />

violence, and serious parental problems such as substance abuse, criminality, or mental illness<br />

(Kaplan 1999 in Braveman 2001). A particular concern also identified as a major risk factor is<br />

having to grow up in poverty and destitution as it presents numerous and serious threats to the<br />

child’s successful development. Vulnerability factors pertain to the child’s characteristic features<br />

or environmental circumstances that tend to increase a degree of susceptibility to the effects of a<br />

given risk factor. Vulnerability factors predispose children to the impact of the risk processes, but<br />

do not by themselves result in negative outcomes, sexual exploitation and abuse in this case,<br />

where the actual risk variables are not manifest.<br />

Competence refers to children’s adaptive behavior of various kinds that enable them to withstand<br />

the knocks and blows of adverse conditions and to manage to exhibit resilience and overcome the<br />

odds (Masten and Coatsworth 1998). Competence may be manifested in broader terms or more<br />

specific areas that relate to psychological health and adaptation, or in the latter case, good<br />

performance at school, healthy social relationships, etc.<br />

Protective factors are the characteristics of the child or environmental circumstances that moderate<br />

or counteract the potentially negative outcomes (such as child sexual exploitation and abuse to be<br />

specific) of the risk variables involved (Rutter 1990). Protective factors operate in several ways,<br />

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although full agreement does not exist among researchers regarding their relationships with risk<br />

factors. Benard (1995) grouped protective factors into three categories: caring and supportive<br />

relationships, positive and high expectations, and opportunities for meaningful participation. Some<br />

view or treat protective and risk factors as two different sets of variables, while others consider<br />

them only as opposing points of a single continuum.<br />

Developmental assets are individual or environmental factors that work to heighten the possibility<br />

of attaining positive outcomes, in the face of threatening conditions for exposure to sexual<br />

exploitation and abuse. Conceptually, strong relationships exist between protective factors and<br />

developmental assets, while a wide definitional difference separates the two concepts in practical<br />

terms. Protective factors are defined and understood in relation to risk processes, insofar as they<br />

operate to mitigate the possible effect of risk situations. On the other hand, developmental assets<br />

find their expression directly in terms of their connections with desirable outcomes. Where assets<br />

exist, the likelihood to achieve positive outcomes is high.<br />

On the whole, resilience is a concept that embodies two fundamental components: exposure to<br />

risks and demonstration of competence and successful adaptation. Thus resilience represents a<br />

dynamic process rather than a fixed character trait of a child. Hence, children who seem to<br />

demonstrate resilience at one point in life may or may not do so with changing circumstances<br />

through later years. The understanding of the concept as a process, a perspective which is<br />

increasingly gaining emphasis, suggests that a child’s successful adaptation and demonstration of<br />

competence within the context of a high-risk environment is an outcome of interactive processes<br />

between resilient factors located within the child, the family, and the community.<br />

1.4.4 Child resilience research in <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />

The available information on the sexual abuse/exploitation of children in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> remains scanty<br />

and fragmentary due to the absence of a comprehensive study on the subject. The studies<br />

conducted on the issue to date provide not much more than an overview of the situation because of<br />

being limited in their coverage and placing emphasis on specific geographic locations and child<br />

groups. As indicated in the introduction, the existing evidence, no matter how small and scattered,<br />

reveals that the problem has been prevalent and on steady increase around the country (FSCE<br />

2003; 2008; ACPF 2005: MOLSA 2005). Major reported forms of child sexual abuse/exploitation<br />

in the <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n context are sexual violence including rape, sexual harassment, abduction, child<br />

trafficking, and exploitation of children by engaging them in commercial sex (MOLSA 2005).<br />

Similarly, research on child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation is almost non-existent. The<br />

only report that could be located and consulted is the consultancy research that was commissioned<br />

by Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and conducted on factors related to resilience of girl students in Amhara,<br />

Gambella and SNNP Regions (Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> 2008). The major objective of the study was to<br />

identify the external and individual factors that enhanced or hindered resilience among targeted<br />

girl students attending high school in the three project regions. The research was undertaken as<br />

part the initiative known as Girls’ Empowerment and Management Project (GEM), implemented<br />

by Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> in 15 secondary schools in the three regions, with an aim to enable 500 girl<br />

students to complete secondary education and acquire leadership and life skills. In the rural sociocultural<br />

setting where they grew up, the beneficiary girls are reported to have experienced<br />

hardships and challenges that could have resulted in their being sexually abused exploited. The<br />

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adversities that the targeted girl students are said to have endured range from early marriage and<br />

abduction to other forms of gender-based violence.<br />

1.5 Policy and legal framework: <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />

With a view to mitigating child sexual abuse/exploitation and addressing the various exposing<br />

factors, the Government of <strong>Ethiopia</strong> has adopted a number of policy and legal instruments and<br />

ratified the relevant international laws. Of particular interest in this regard is the government’s<br />

ratification of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, UNCRC (UN 1989) and<br />

the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child, ACRWC (OAU 1990). Indeed, the<br />

norms and standards that define the domestic policy and legal frameworks geared towards fighting<br />

child sexual abuse/exploitation have their origin in these UN and AU legal instruments. Thus, not<br />

only has the convention been made an integral part of the law of land as per article 9(4) of the<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution (Negarit Gazeta 1995), but it has also been domesticated through<br />

Proclamation No. 10 of 1992. Besides, with a view to ensuring its wide dissemination, the<br />

UNCRC has been translated into 11 local languages. Likewise, the government has ratified the<br />

ACRWC through Proclamation No. 283/2002. The ILO Convention 182 for the Elimination on the<br />

Worst Forms of Child Labor is another relevant international law which <strong>Ethiopia</strong> is party to, since<br />

it has ratified the convention and made it an integral part of its domestic legal framework pursuant<br />

to article 9(4) of the constitution.<br />

The <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution addresses the rights of children in full endorsement of the UNCRC, as<br />

it stipulates under article 36. In connection with exploitative practices directed against children,<br />

sub article 1(d) states: “Every child has the right …not to be subject to exploitative practices,<br />

neither to be required nor permitted to perform work which may be hazardous or harmful to his or<br />

her education, health or well-being”. Moreover, the constitution provides for a general policy<br />

guideline by identifying the best interests of the child as a fundamental principle that governs the<br />

design and implementation of program interventions dealing with children. In this respect, sub<br />

article 2 reads: “In all actions concerning children undertaken by public and private welfare<br />

institutions, courts of law, administrative authorities or legislative bodies, the primary<br />

consideration shall be the best interest of the child”.<br />

The provisions of the constitution regarding children may have had a positive impact that is<br />

reflected in a number of government polices and national plans of actions meant to, directly or<br />

indirectly, promote and protect the rights and welfare of the child. Yet, a comprehensive policy<br />

devoted exclusively to the prevention and tackling of the sexual abuse/exploitation of children has<br />

not so far been enacted. In admission of this gap in the existing policy and legal frameworks, the<br />

National Action Plan on Sexual Abuse and Exploitation of Children (2006-2010), issued by<br />

MOLSA (2005) states: “Although there are various policies and national plans of actions that<br />

touch upon the issue in specific and limited sense, there is no single comprehensive policy dealing<br />

with the exploitation and abuse of children in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>”.<br />

However, although far from comprehensive, the Developmental and Social Welfare Policy of<br />

<strong>Ethiopia</strong> concerns itself with the protection of children in general, and those under difficult<br />

circumstances in particular. In a similar fashion, the Cultural Policy of <strong>Ethiopia</strong> addresses the<br />

issue of abolishing harmful traditional practices, which traditional customs may well be the<br />

causes, predisposing factors and manifestations of child sexual abuse/exploitation (MOLSA<br />

2005). A review of other pertinent documents such as the National Youth Policy, the National<br />

Education Policy, the Social Affairs Policy, and the Policy on Woman may in one way or the other<br />

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touch upon the sexual abuse/exploitation of children, but fail to directly or broadly address the<br />

issue. Besides, the government has at different times prepared and put into action a serious of<br />

national action plans that relate to the promotion and protection of the rights of children. Among<br />

these are the National Action Plan for Children (1996-2000) and the National Action Plan on<br />

Orphans and Vulnerable Children (2004-2006). It is, however, noteworthy that a National Acton<br />

Plan on Sexual Abuse and Exploitation of Children (2006-2010) represents a major step forward<br />

in the series, inasmuch as it makes direct mention of child sexual abuse and exploitation and<br />

addresses it as its center of focus, by setting out key prevention and rehabilitation strategies. On<br />

top of this, it identifies four areas of intervention: Prevention of sexual abuse and exploitation of<br />

children, protection of victims, rehabilitation and reintegration of child victims, and coordination<br />

and monitoring of interventions.<br />

In relation to legal frameworks, the country’s subsidiary legislations like the Revised Criminal<br />

Code of 2005 and the Revised Family Code of 2000 are significant improvements on their<br />

predecessor legislations in that they contain specific provisions that deal with aspects and elements<br />

of child sexual abuse and exploitation. As for the Revised Criminal Code, it discuses elaborately<br />

and imposes punishments on specific offenses that it identifies as: trafficking in infants and young<br />

persons for the purpose of prostitution, making a profession of or living by the prostitution or<br />

immorality of another, exposing children to indecent acts, obscene or indecent publications and<br />

advertisements, child pornography, rape where the victim is a minor, sexual outrage on minors and<br />

young persons, seduction, and early marriage. The Revised Family Code is a result of the attempt<br />

to bring this legal instrument into conformity with the constitution of 1995 and relevant<br />

international legal instruments including the UNCRC. One major area of improvement is that the<br />

Revised Family Code incorporates the principles of the best interest of the child as per article 3 (1)<br />

of the UNCRC and article 36 of the <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution. Secondly, the Revised Family Code<br />

reinforces the safeguarding of the family as an appropriate setting for full and harmonious<br />

development of a child’s personality (MOLSA 2005). The most significant contribution of the<br />

Code is nonetheless the setting of the minimum marriageable age of 18 for girls, which used to be<br />

15 under the repealed provisions of the Civil Code of 1960. All in all, encouraging progress can<br />

be observed in the designing and enactment of polices and laws toward the protection of children<br />

against sexual abuse and exploitation. Yet, a lot remains to be done to fight and stop the practice<br />

in all its forms and dimensions. To that end, it is crucially important to ensure strong government<br />

commitment, forthcoming donor support, effective coordination of efforts, and the cooperation of<br />

stakeholders and actors.<br />

2. Common Risk Factors in Merkato<br />

The results of interviews conducted for this study indicate that the research area is rife with factors<br />

exposing children to sexual abuse/exploitation. The focus of this chapter is on environmental<br />

circumstances, generally those external to children, which act as common risk factors exposing<br />

them to sexual abuse and exploitation. Of course, in the context of individual children, the<br />

experience of sexual abuse/exploitation may be the outcome of a single common risk or two or<br />

more risk factors working in combination. However, for the sake of convenience, factors identified<br />

as common risks from the perspective of the research community are treated separately. In other<br />

cases, where the overlap between common risks is such that one cannot be analyzed independent<br />

of the other, it may be necessary to group these together.<br />

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2.1 Prevalence of commercial sex work<br />

The Addis Ketema area, where the research neighborhoods are located, lies within one of the<br />

oldest parts of Addis Ababa. As such, the area makes up part of the city center where the capital’s<br />

largest market (Merkato) and the main bus terminal are located. Wide prevalence of commercial<br />

sex is among the characteristic features of the Addis Ketema area. Commercial sex has been<br />

practiced here for generations. In fact, as informants pointed out, so widespread and predominant<br />

is commercial sex in the area that community members generally tolerate it. Given the high<br />

prevalence and long history of sex work in this quarter of the city, there is every indication that<br />

entry into the practice hardly meets any deterrent. Senait Damte (18), a female sex worker living<br />

in a nearby neighborhood in Addis Ketema Sub-City stated:<br />

In my view, there is not much in the area that prevents children entering into prostitution.<br />

Community members generally do not exclude sex workers. This is not the case in other<br />

parts of the city. Peers and acquaintances normally shun young girls who practice<br />

prostitution. Here it is different. Child prostitutes do not become the objects of gossip and<br />

stigma. They may even find assistance from fellow children who offer help to train them<br />

and facilitate their entry into sex work.<br />

On top of this, sex work is considered as a means of earning money without much effort, as<br />

pointed out by several of the child informants involved in the practice (Tihun Getachew, Brzawit<br />

Ketema, Jemanesh Tamene, and Belaynesh Mengistu). Unlike other types of business common in<br />

that district, the practice does not require the investment of resource in terms of initial capital and<br />

specialist knowledge and skills. Besides the fulfillment of personal needs, sex work helps generate<br />

easy money to support parents and siblings, as three young girls indicated (Senait Damete, Tiblet<br />

Dagne, and Hiwot Getamesay). The story told by a presently recovered child prostitute is<br />

particularly telling. Hiwot Getamesay (20) related:<br />

I belong to a family of many children. Several of us were born in quick succession. My<br />

parents were too poor to support us through our education. It was unbearable for me to see<br />

my brothers out of school for lack of money. Prostitution was the only possible way I had<br />

to earn money. I could have found work as a housemaid. But the money from domestic<br />

work would barely have been enough to support my brothers. Sex work offered an income<br />

that enabled me not only to help my siblings with their education, but also to take care of<br />

my own needs.<br />

Unlike other kinds of job, sex work does not require certain conditions to engage in it. This makes<br />

commercial sex an even greater risk to vulnerable children in the study area. Young girls who<br />

might have taken up domestic service have instead ended up becoming child prostitutes, for not<br />

being able to produce guarantors or certificate to prove their HIV free status.<br />

Moreover, children born and raised in a family or neighborhood where commercial sex is<br />

routinely practiced find themselves at a high risk. Child prostitutes, parents and community<br />

representatives interviewed for this study have drawn attention to this aspect of the issue. The case<br />

of a child prostitute named Jemanesh Tamene (age 17) is worth mentioning in this regard. She said<br />

that she had a one-year baby girl. She is extremely concerned about the future of her little<br />

daughter. Raised by a mother who is a sex worker, Jemanesh cannot imagine her daughter<br />

escaping the possibility of getting involved in prostitution by the time she has grown up. Hence,<br />

Jemanesh intends to quit sex work before her baby is old enough to learn to become a prostitute.<br />

As an alternative, she contemplates handing her over to the custody of her mother who lives in her<br />

home village.<br />

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In sum, common presence, quick entry, and easy money make commercial sex attractive to<br />

vulnerable children in the study community. As such the practice acts as a widely prevalent risk<br />

factor that exposes children to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

2.2 Crime and delinquency<br />

Different forms of crime and delinquency are rampant in the research community. These include<br />

theft, robbery, burglary, and physical violence. Such delinquent and criminal behavior is attributed<br />

to common factors such as joblessness, substance and alcohol abuse, and the watching of violent<br />

and pornographic films. Sexual harassment and abuse stands out as a single dominant type of<br />

criminal activity routinely perpetrated by adults and young people alike on children and other<br />

targets. In particular, child girls as well as boys faced constant threat of being raped by individuals<br />

or groups of people. The following statistical data on the number of raped children in Addis<br />

Ketema Sub-City during 2005 to 2008 come from the Addis Ketema Sub-City Police.<br />

Table 3. <strong>Report</strong>ed cases of rape in Addis Ketema sub-City, 2004/5 - 2007/8<br />

Year Sex<br />

Female Male Total<br />

2004/05 53 4 57<br />

2005/06 76 6 82<br />

2006/07 65 6 71<br />

2007/08 66 11 77<br />

Total 260 27 287<br />

Source: Addis Ketema Sub-City Police Department<br />

The above figures do not, however, paint the actual picture of the magnitude of the problem. The<br />

figures represent only a fraction of the rape cases perpetrated or attempted, since a huge proportion<br />

of rape incidents go unreported to the police. The failure to report is blamed on a number of<br />

factors. NGOs and parents involved in the study explained the underreporting in terms of cultural<br />

and economic factors. On the cultural front, families of victims are reluctant to disclose rape cases<br />

for fear of social stigma. Especially is the stigma severe when the rape has been committed by<br />

close relatives such as stepfathers and siblings. Lack of open parent-child communication and not<br />

knowing what the consequences might be contribute to the hesitation of children who are rape<br />

victims to confide in their parents. In situations where fathers or stepfathers are the culprits,<br />

mothers come under pressure not to report and seek legal action for economic reasons. They may<br />

be anxious that the outcome of disclosure and pursuing the case will do the family more harm than<br />

good. Most families cannot afford to lose husbands who are usually the breadwinners through<br />

arrest, despite being guilty of domestic rape.<br />

The findings of the research strongly suggest that the raping of child boys is a phenomenon that is<br />

only beginning to manifest itself. In fact, the raping of male children is a type of criminal behavior<br />

that is more serious than is actually appreciated in the community. This view is shared by a range<br />

of study subjects including parents, CBO representatives, religious leaders, teachers, NGO staff<br />

and police officers.<br />

The information obtained reveals that children who are the victims of rape mostly come from<br />

similar family backgrounds. Accordingly, a large number of rape cases indicate that the child<br />

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victims belong to low income families or single parent homes headed by mothers or older siblings.<br />

Rape victims may also be children who live under the care of guardians. Lack of follow-up,<br />

protection and support is believed to be the main exposing factor. On the other hand, the rapists, in<br />

order to abuse the children sexually, exploit their naivety and inexperience besides the effects of<br />

poverty and inability to defend themselves.<br />

Despite being a growing social menace, the legal action taken against rape is not encouraging.<br />

Indeed, rapists are said to be emboldened by apparent impunity and inadequate response on the<br />

part of the legal system. For similar reasons, victims and affected families are discouraged from<br />

bringing rape cases to the attention of the law. A female legal advisor shared her observations on<br />

the same note:<br />

It is necessary that the full force of the law be used to deal with rapists. At the moment,<br />

child abusers are not brought to book under the pretext that there is no evidence. As a<br />

result, perpetrators are saying “what can the law do to me?” On the other hand, families of<br />

victims decline seeking legal recourse by saying “what will I gain by doing so?”<br />

2.3 Substance and alcohol abuse<br />

Substance and alcohol abuse is widely practiced in the research community by young people in<br />

particular. Child and parent informants, as well as CBO, NGO and GO representatives expressed<br />

that the problem is serious. In the context of the study community, substance abuse refers to the<br />

chewing of khat 11 , and the smoking of shisha and hashish. In regard to street children, substance<br />

abuse also involves the puffing of petrol and the sniffing of glue for the sake of excitement or<br />

suppressing hunger. The major types of alcohol consumed are a range of home-brewed drinks<br />

locally known as tella, tej, and araqe. These alcoholic beverages are sold in ordinary drinking<br />

houses, visited mostly by young people and adults of low income levels.<br />

It is no surprise that addiction and intoxication are the common results of alcohol and substance<br />

abuse. Among other consequences, the practice influences the users toward criminal and<br />

delinquent behavior. Under alcohol and drug influence, young people and others are usually<br />

driven to manifest sexual impulses. The evidence strongly suggests that such indulgence presents<br />

itself as a common risk of sexual abuse to vulnerable female and male children in the area. A<br />

half-orphaned boy, Kebede Alemayehu, age l1 and recently raped, stated:<br />

In our kebele, there are many drinking houses. Moreover, there are a number of khat and<br />

shisha houses. Smoking tobacco is also common. A lot of minibuses are parked in the area.<br />

During their slack hours, the minibus drivers and their assistants heavily engage in these<br />

practices. Under the influence, they deceive unaware children into their cars. One way they<br />

do this is by persuading the children to buy something from the shop. Then they choke and<br />

rape the kids.<br />

2.4 Video houses<br />

The youth culture of spending time at video houses as a form of recreation is proving to be another<br />

common risk of child sexual abuse. The fact that by far a vast portion of the film content consists<br />

of pornographic material has become a particular challenge. In a small crowded neighborhood of<br />

1,973 homes, 99 were used for showing videos (17 operated 24 hours a day), 21 for serving<br />

shisha, seven for selling chat, and numerous others for serving alcoholic beverages. As noted by a<br />

great number of the informants, the young viewers of obscene films sooner or later imitate the<br />

11 Khat, Cathula edulis, is a leafy drug that is chewed with stimulating effects.<br />

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actors, trying to adopt their behavior and styles in real life. As a consequence, they become<br />

tempted to engage not only in early sexual activity, but also in sexual outrage including rape. The<br />

legal advisor mentioned earlier commented:<br />

Video houses are ample in the area, some of them working round the clock. Street children<br />

often spend the night watching films partly to avoid sleeping rough in the open. The films<br />

screened are usually sexually provocative, influencing the behavior of the watching<br />

children so badly that they are tempted to experiment what they have seen on their peers.<br />

2.5 Street business<br />

As the capital’s largest market and centre of the research community, Merkato and its vicinities<br />

bustle with almost every form of business. Yet urban poverty and congestion persist as the<br />

distinguishing marks of this part of the city. As a result, needy families find it to be an absolute<br />

necessity to practice different forms of small business on the street as well as in the house, just to<br />

survive from day to day. Nonetheless, much of the activity done to earn a living is bound to pose<br />

the risks of sexual abuse to children.<br />

2.5.1 Street vending/peddling<br />

The sale of various small consumer items is a common sight in the crowded research<br />

neighborhoods. The things sold include fruit and vegetables, clothing, lottery tickets, roasted and<br />

boiled grain, sweets, cigarettes, tissue papers, and plastic bags. The street vending is done mostly<br />

by children sent out by their poor parents. Children may also do street peddling on their own<br />

initiative, influenced by peers, or asked by other people.<br />

Normally, the children spend long hours, often into the evenings, as they do street<br />

vending/peddling. They may stay in the street at a fixed vending point, or keep moving around to<br />

sell their items including in eating and drinking houses. As they do so, it is no strange an affair for<br />

them to experience sexual harassment or seduction. Some adults exploit the children’s financial<br />

disadvantage and entice them with the offer or promise of money to establish connections and<br />

trust with them. In these situations, particularly child girls find themselves at a high risk of sexual<br />

violence and abuse. In this regard, the story of a young girl named Selamawit Fikre, age 23, is<br />

very illustrative. Although she was highly vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation as a child,<br />

she managed to succeed in her education. Having graduated from the university, she currently<br />

practices law in a government institution. She relates:<br />

I used to sell boiled maize on the street when I was about 12 years old. Of course, street<br />

business involved risks. I met bigger boys who harassed me sexually. Looking back, I<br />

realize that there was a chance for me to have taken the wrong turn and ruined my life.<br />

Many of my friends, who used to work on the street, later dropped out of school and<br />

became sex workers.<br />

2.5.2 Bed renting<br />

A great many families in Addis Ketema neighborhoods eke out hand-to-mouth existence from the<br />

renting of beds in the family house. For this purpose, they partition their dwellings into small<br />

sections. In these partitions, they put up structures that are in the form of double layer wooden<br />

beds to economize on the available limited space and pack into it as many users as possible. Or<br />

they spread on the floor sacks and straw-stuffed mattresses where individuals renting the rooms<br />

for the night are made to sleep next to each other so close that they are forced to lie down on one<br />

side, and can hardly turn around or change position.<br />

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The business of renting beds presents a tremendous challenge to child girls as a risk factor of<br />

sexual abuse and exploitation. Most of the time, young or underage female children are made to do<br />

the job. The children spend a great deal of time in the afternoons and evenings, as they seek<br />

around customers looking for bed. The work generally keeps them late out on the street, often for<br />

as long as past midnight. Oftentimes, this is the time when drunken men walk around and find the<br />

child girls. Tired of waiting for customers out in the cold, the children may even fall asleep where<br />

they sit or stand. Found in this situation, they are the likeliest targets of sexual abuse by drunken<br />

strangers or passersby. In other cases, the girls are caught by street gangsters, who use seductive,<br />

persuasive or forceful tactics to abuse them sexually.<br />

Back home, the girls are not any safer from the risk of sexual violence and abuse. As has been<br />

proven by a number of case materials, they remain vulnerable to sexual abuse by the same people<br />

they have been brought from the street to rent beds. In addition, individuals who have established<br />

themselves as regular or occasional customers exploit their familiarity and accountantship to rape<br />

the children in the house. Regardless of the circumstances surrounding the rape, such sexual<br />

violence generally leads the victims to a life of sexual abuse and exploitation. The case of a<br />

seventeen-year-old named Gezashegn Zeru is selected for its relevance in this regard. She said:<br />

The work of bed renting is full of risks and challenges for children involved in it. As we<br />

look around for customers, we experience sexual harassment and molestation by gangsters<br />

and drunks. Customers also sexually harass us as we walk together to the place of the bed.<br />

After we arrive at the place, many customers try to force us to sleep with them.<br />

2.6 Congestion/over-crowdedness<br />

Congestion is a characteristic of impoverished neighborhoods in Addis Ketema area. A census<br />

conducted in one small neighborhood called '32' reveals that there were 1078 official residential<br />

units and 895 unofficially built/extended houses. Of the total 1,973 homes, only 164 were used for<br />

purely residential purposes, others were partly rented out or used for different activities. In<br />

Merkato, it is common for several families to share the same dwelling. The over-crowding of<br />

dwellings is aggravated by the fact that most poor families rent beds to customers, who usually<br />

bring along prostitutes to sleep with them, adding to the congestion. In such conditions, group and<br />

individual privacy is almost impossible. Worse still, the circumstances increase the risks of child<br />

sexual violence and abuse, perpetrated on children by relatives or bed renting strangers. In such<br />

overcrowding, children sleep while adults practice sex in their hearing. Because of this, children<br />

are tempted to experiment with sex at an early age. Such exposure and influence can result in child<br />

girls adopting a lifestyle that places them at the risk of sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

2.7 Presence of bus terminal<br />

The presence of the central bus station is a major factor that makes the Addis Ketema area a<br />

crowded and bustling part of the city. For the same reason, migrant rural children are attracted to<br />

stay and work in this surrounding. This is underscored by representatives of child focused NGOs<br />

operating in the Addis Ketema Sub-City. After arrival, the child migrants mostly start work as<br />

domestic servants. In the course of time, they get used to the urban environment and make<br />

contacts with people. Thus, they change to work that offers greater income and better conditions.<br />

The types of work taken as alternatives are usually brewing and serving tea and coffee at khat,<br />

shisha, or video houses, washing, cleaning, and cooking in eating and drinking places, and renting<br />

and arranging beds in households doing this business. But most often, such jobs put the children in<br />

risk environments that expose them to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

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According to the informants at the child focused NGOs, brokers facilitate the contact between job<br />

seeking child migrants and prospective employers. The brokers operate around the main bus<br />

terminal and identify the migrants by their appearance. At the start, the brokers deliver the<br />

children to families or businesses that hire them to do jobs largely of domestic nature. But sooner<br />

or later, such kinds of work end up becoming stepping stones for the children to enter into<br />

prostitution.<br />

3. Vulnerable Children and Young People<br />

The main thrust of this chapter is drawing attention to the set of exposing factors that are internal<br />

to, or closely associated with the specific family backgrounds or personal situations of children<br />

that aggravate their susceptibility to sexual abuse/exploitation. In view of this, the points of<br />

analysis pertain to the state of children coming from poor families, broken homes, and female or<br />

child headed households. Factors relating to the children’s situation as migrants or trafficked, and<br />

living on and off the street are also considered. These subjects are treated as individual units of<br />

analysis, despite their overlap with poverty as cross cutting issue.<br />

3.1 Children from poor families<br />

Family poverty is a single major vulnerability factor of child sexual abuse and exploitation. The<br />

bulk of the case material involving interviewed children corroborates this finding. Of course,<br />

individual children involved in prostitution expressed different purposes for doing so. Thus, some<br />

said they wanted to support poor parents or siblings. Others were compelled by the desire to fend<br />

for themselves or obtain the material things that their peers had. A number of children were also<br />

urged by their parents to earn an income for the family in this way. In any case, the underlying<br />

factor that made the children vulnerable to prostitution is family poverty and destitution. The case<br />

of Menbere Demere, age 13, is typical of children forced into commercial sex by family poverty.<br />

She relates:<br />

My father was a low-paid guard. Being a housewife, my mother had no income. In the<br />

house, our parents always argued about financial problems. As a result, there were<br />

misunderstandings and unhappiness. I was upset and disturbed by the difficulties we had. I<br />

wished to do something about the situation. One day, I decided not to return home from<br />

school. I began to spend my time on the street. For one year, I survived on kifela 12<br />

(begging). Then I moved into prostitution. I have been practicing this for two years.<br />

In addition, children from poor families are vulnerable to sexual abuse. Informants such as<br />

parents, community representatives and NGO staff have given accounts of children exposed to<br />

rape because of poverty. As they do street vending or daily labor, it is common for poor parents to<br />

leave their children in the home by themselves, or under the care of neighbors. In these situations,<br />

children become exposed to sexual abuse. The attackers may be the same individuals trusted to<br />

take care of the minors or they may be people who know that there is no one around to watch or<br />

protect them.<br />

Prostitute mothers often allow their children to spend time playing outside late into the night. They<br />

do so to make sure that the children do not watch them practicing commercial sex. These<br />

circumstances increase the children’s vulnerability to becoming sexually abused. The perpetrators<br />

are mostly strangers, gangsters, and adults in the neighborhood. A fieldworker from CHAD-ET<br />

12 In the argot of street children, kifela refers to the act of begging around for money.<br />

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commented: “Children playing around late at night are a common sight in the area. Strangers may<br />

find this to be surprising. Normally, other children (whose mothers are not prostitutes) are safe and<br />

asleep in their homes at this time of night”.<br />

3.2 Children from unstable/broken homes<br />

Besides physical necessities, children want their parents to meet their emotional and psychological<br />

needs. Unfortunately, however, too many families fail to fulfill this fundamental human need for<br />

their children. As a result, countless children live in a home environment where they are not given<br />

love, affection, and sense of security. As the evidence shows, such denial will sooner or later act<br />

as an exposing factor to child sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

According to the research findings, unstable homes are characterized by marital disharmony,<br />

alcohol abuse by either parent or both, or abusive behavior towards family members. Broken<br />

homes refer to single parent families headed by father or mother alone because of divorce or<br />

decease. Such problems make it difficult for children to feel secure in the home. The pressures<br />

may even be so severe that they force the children to leave home. However, this may only expose<br />

the children to extreme risk processes. Eventually, the children are likely to face the risk of<br />

becoming sexually abused and exploited.<br />

The foregoing is substantiated by the information obtained from IFSO 13 . This is an NGO working<br />

on the prevention of child sexual abuse and the rehabilitation of sexually abused children. The<br />

findings of the NGO indicate that the vast majority of sexually abused children reported to have<br />

come from poor families, broken homes, families affected by serious marital disharmony, and<br />

where one parent or both are alcoholic and/or abusive. According to the statistical data from the<br />

same source, out of the 210 cases of child sexual abuse, only 76 (36.2%) lived with both parents.<br />

The remaining 134 (63.8%) were orphans or semi-orphans, lived with divorced parents, or were<br />

trafficked or migrant children. It can, therefore, be concluded that when children become insecure<br />

because of family disharmony, instability and breakdown, vulnerability to sexual abuse and<br />

exploitation is a likely outcome. The following two cases bear out the forgoing.<br />

Tihun Getachew, age16, shared the following:<br />

My father was alcoholic. He drank so heavily that he spent the income he earned as a daily<br />

laborer on liquor. When he ran short of money to pay for drinks, he forced my sisters to<br />

give him what they had earned by doing small jobs. Not able to cope, my mother, not alive<br />

now, also started to drink. Both of our parents being alcoholic, they stopped caring about<br />

us. As a result, my three elder sisters had to fend for themselves by doing domestic and<br />

similar work. For the same reason, I left home and ultimately became prostitute.<br />

Dagne Aizo, a boy of age 12, is left vulnerable by an alcoholic and abusive father. He relates:<br />

My father came home drunk and late almost every day. In that mood, I was not<br />

comfortable to be around. I also suffered severe beatings in his hands, besides other forms<br />

of mistreatment. He even did not spare any small amount of money I had to spend on his<br />

habit. One day, I found my wooden coin box broken and empty of the money I had<br />

deposited. The one who did it was my father. Moreover, he took from me by force my<br />

weekly wage of Birr 5, only to squander it on alcohol.<br />

13 Obtained from a group interview held with the General Manger, Deputy Manager, and expert of IFSO.<br />

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3.3 Children from child-headed families<br />

The death of parents as a result of AIDS and other causes is leaving an increasing number of<br />

children orphans. Older orphans are thus forced to take over the responsibility of caring for<br />

younger siblings. Because of this, many children have to carry the burden of heading a family.<br />

In this state, the children become vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation, among other risks.<br />

In a bid to get the necessitates of life for themselves and their siblings, they are forced to engage in<br />

various small jobs such as running errands, street vending, and domestic work. As the children do<br />

these jobs, they run a high chance of being sexually abused. Furthermore, there is a possibility of<br />

them directly entering into prostitution. They perceive the practice as a means of earning more<br />

money without much effort. The case of Tihit Mamaw, age 17 and currently recovered, is<br />

interesting and illustrative:<br />

I belong to a child-headed family of six orphans, including myself. Our eldest sister took<br />

care of us. She supported us with the income she earned by making and selling tea. As the<br />

second eldest child, I felt I had an obligation to contribute to the support of our family.<br />

Hence, I was determined to pay a sacrifice. So I decided to practice commercial sex when I<br />

was only 14. To make sure I could do so with anonymity, I moved to Nazareth Town. For<br />

a time, I managed to visit my siblings regularly. I also provided them with cash from my<br />

earnings.<br />

3.4 Migrant/trafficked children<br />

Studies indicate that child girls account for a large portion of the migrant population that continues<br />

to flock from the rural areas to Addis Ababa. Besides, multitudes are trafficked to the capital by<br />

bus and truck drivers, brokers and relatives who reside in Addis Ababa. In addition, children are<br />

trafficked from rural communities by sex workers who migrated to Addis Ababa earlier and return<br />

to their home village on holidays.<br />

Once they arrive at their destination, their dreams and expectations of a better life fail to be<br />

realized. Contrary to their hopes or the promises made by their traffickers, the city offers them<br />

little more than small jobs like domestic service and daily labor. In turn, such types of work often<br />

expose the children to labor and sexual exploitation. It is reported that domestic work in particular<br />

makes the children vulnerable to sexual abuse. Most of the time, the perpetrators are said to be<br />

household heads (husbands), older children in the family, visitors and neighbors. According to a<br />

study report commissioned by Forum on Street Children-<strong>Ethiopia</strong> (FSC-E) in 2008, a significant<br />

number of migrant children in their early teens work as domestics all around the city. Besides<br />

being exploited as child laborers, these children suffer sexual abuse beyond the notice of the<br />

general public. After experiencing sexual abuse, it is believed that many of these children enter<br />

into prostitution. The case of Haimanot Mebratu, age 14 and orphan migrant from Gonder, is<br />

typical. She narrates:<br />

I was persuaded to migrate to Addis Ababa by a female peer. I accepted what she told me<br />

about the good things we could get in Addis Ababa. I grew up hearing exciting stories<br />

about this city. So I had always wished to move to this place. Upon arrival a certain lady<br />

directed me to a broker’s house. The broker got me hired as a worker at a small hotel. After<br />

two months, I changed work to become a dishwasher at a restaurant. Upon the suggestion<br />

of a fellow worker, I left the restaurant to enter into sex work.<br />

Nonetheless, domestic work is not the only stepping stone to prostitution for rural migrant<br />

children. A large number are picked up by brokers as they arrive at the bus terminal. Then they are<br />

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delivered to business owning ladies who hire the children to serve drinks at their brothels. It is<br />

reported that in too many instances, the brothel owners get the children sexually abused by their<br />

customers to facilitate their entry into prostitution.<br />

The fate of trafficked children is no different. Still, the number of new arrivals through child<br />

trafficking is said to be on the rise. The statistical data obtained from FSC-E substantiates this<br />

trend. The data comes from the NGO’s Preventative and Support Program against Child<br />

Trafficking, a unit based at the main bus terminal. The statistics obtained is disaggregated by year<br />

and sex. According to this source, the number of trafficked children increased from 213 in 2004 to<br />

972 in 2008.<br />

Table 4. Number of trafficked children by year and sex, 2004-2008<br />

Sex<br />

Year Male Female Total<br />

2004 49 164 213<br />

2005 79 332 411<br />

2006 378 547 925<br />

2007 230 464 694<br />

2008 344 628 972<br />

Total 1080 2135 3215<br />

Source: Child Trafficking Unit, FSC-E<br />

It is alleged that community residents in the Addis Ketema area who come from rural villages<br />

exploit their kinship ties to traffic rural children to Addis Ababa. To this end, they persuade their<br />

relatives in rural communities to send them over their children. They promise their parents that<br />

they will raise the children and give them education. As it often turns out, the relatives instead<br />

make the children work as bar girls or get them to do bed renting. These kinds of work generally<br />

expose the children to sexual abuse and later to commercial sex.<br />

3.5 Street children<br />

Street children are faced with the risks of sexual violence committed by various perpetrators, not<br />

least by fellow street boys. The interview conducted with the representatives of Forum on Street<br />

Children-<strong>Ethiopia</strong> (FSC-E) underscores the same point. Older street children, some of them<br />

members of criminal gangs, target younger peers who may be girls or boys. Especially, newly<br />

arriving homeless and inexperienced migrant children become easy targets of sexual attack by<br />

senior and violent street boys. Such violent behavior is aggravated by substance abuse, under the<br />

influence of which the predators gang rape their victims. The circumstances in which street<br />

children sleep together are the other factors that cause them to practice group sex and sodomy in<br />

their ranks. Normally, street children sleep in groups on verandas, sidewalks, in street corners and<br />

tunnels under bridges. In order to stay warm, among other reasons, they mostly sleep close<br />

together. Alcohol and substance abuse is common as well among the group as a characteristic of<br />

street life. In these conditions, many are driven to sexually abuse and rape fellow street children.<br />

Furthermore, street children are sexually abused by sugar daddies, drunken people, passersby, and<br />

gangsters. Most often, the abusers find their prey through deception and trickery. They exploit<br />

their poverty and desperation by offering or promising them financial and material gifts. Richer<br />

and older men, referred to as sugar daddies, are particularly said to use such tactics to get the<br />

children into their hands. In this way, they manage to drive the children away with them to a<br />

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destination where they abuse them sexually. The desire to find a place of stay for the night is<br />

another factor that causes street children to become vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />

As a result, they negotiate sex for free or at small payments.<br />

3.6 Children living in a state of loose family control<br />

In the opinion of parent informants, constant family attention and follow-up are essential to<br />

ensuring the well-being of children in the face of adversities. On the contrary, loose family control<br />

can have an adverse impact on the prospects of children, as the case of a currently sexually<br />

exploited fourteen-year-old girl illustrates. She reports:<br />

I was raised by my aunt who did not care to control the way I behaved. She ignored the<br />

mistakes I made. She let me go out with my friends and did not supervise where I stayed<br />

and when I got back. There were times when I spent the night outside without her<br />

permission. As for her own children, she kept checking whether they went to school and<br />

did things the way she wanted. Looking back, I think my upbringing is responsible for my<br />

present situation as a child prostitute.<br />

Figure 2. Risks and vulnerabilities to sexual abuse/exploitation in Merkato<br />

Risk Factors<br />

- crime and delinquency<br />

- prevalence of sex work<br />

- pornographic films<br />

- street business<br />

- negative peer influence<br />

- congested residence<br />

- drug/substance abuse<br />

4. Factors Averting Risks of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation<br />

�<br />

Vulnerability Factors<br />

- extreme poverty<br />

- parental death<br />

- family disorganization<br />

- child neglect<br />

- migration to the city<br />

- trafficking to the city<br />

- streetism<br />

Despite the presence of common risks in Merkato in general, and the specific challenges in their<br />

immediate environments in particular, a number of children managed to avoid/evade risks, while<br />

others further triumphed in their lives. In order to understand the reasons behind such child<br />

resilience cases, the interview results of 31 children and young people are analyzed in this section.<br />

Eight of the 31 informants are from the age group 10-13, nine from 14-17, and 14 from 18-24.<br />

Comparatively, more samples were taken from the upper age groups in order to increase diversity<br />

and bring depth to the study.<br />

The 31 informants are considered vulnerable based on the attributes discussed in part 2 and 3<br />

above. Of the total 31, twenty-seven informants reported to be poor; 21 lost one or both parents;<br />

and seven were migrants from the countryside. All lived in neighborhoods where commercial sex<br />

was practiced, pornographic films were screened, alcoholic beverages were consumed, and drugs<br />

(e.g., khat and shisha) were used. Some even lived with family members and/or friends who were<br />

engaged in such activities for a living. Some experienced enticement, intimidation, and/or other<br />

forms of sexual advance. In spite of such odds, all remained resilient because of a combination of<br />

factors discussed under 4.2 below.<br />

�<br />

Exposure to<br />

Sexual abuse and<br />

exploitation<br />

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4.1 Daily routines of the non-abused<br />

The category named 'vulnerable and non-abused' consists of students (non-formal, primary,<br />

secondary, and tertiary education levels), bed renters, street venders/peddlers, maids, college<br />

graduates, salaried workers, and children neither working nor studying. Some informants engaged<br />

in different activities, while others combined work and schooling. Due to the nature of their works<br />

that require traveling and interaction with other people, bed renters, street peddlers, and some<br />

salaried workers seemed to be more exposed to sexual assault than others. Comparatively, the<br />

risks for the maids, regular students, and home-bound children appeared lower, as they spend most<br />

of their time in safe places, namely, home and school. In this section, two illustrative accounts are<br />

presented to shed light on the relationship between daily routines and resilience to sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation.<br />

Alem Behailu (11) is an orphan who lived alone in a neighborhood where prostitution is widely<br />

practiced; alcohol and certain drugs were openly used; and pornographic videos are screened.<br />

Alem spent her time attending non-formal education, staying at home, and visiting her friends. Her<br />

daily routine does not show engagement in activities that could have exposed her to danger.<br />

I always attend classes [non-formal education] in the morning. Sometimes, I attend the<br />

3:00 pm program. Yesterday, I woke up in the morning, washed my face, prepared and ate<br />

my breakfast, and then I washed my clothes. Then, I cleaned my room and chatted outside<br />

with friends from the neighborhood. In the afternoons, I often go to my old neighborhood.<br />

There is a woman [her late mother's friend] who gives me food. I have friends there. After<br />

their school time, I play with them and return home. Since they invite me to eat and drink<br />

with them, I go there. Sometimes, they give me money. These friends of mine were here<br />

the day before yesterday. One of them brought me Birr 2. They are students. One of them,<br />

with the permission of her parents, sometimes comes here to stay the night with me. She<br />

brings dinner for both of us from her home. When my friend comes, I like to sleep in my<br />

house. In the past, I used to sleep at the house of a neighboring woman. When I slept here<br />

alone, I experienced nightmares.<br />

Abebech Dana (13), an orphan, lived with her grandmother in a neighborhood known for sexual<br />

abuse against girls and boys. She was a student who supported her grandmother in street peddling.<br />

Despite the risks involved in street peddling, the way Abebech's time and work were scheduled<br />

and the way she associated with people helped her avoid the risks.<br />

Yesterday morning, I went to school. In the afternoon, I studied a little and went to the<br />

market to sell injera. At night, we had dinner and studied a little again, and went to bed.<br />

Today, after breakfast, I went to school and sat for several exams - there were four tests. I<br />

did not do much in the afternoon. We canceled our plan to go to the market to sell injera<br />

because of the appointment with you [the researcher].I help my grandmother by selling<br />

injera in the market. I do this in the afternoon. In the morning or late in the afternoon, I buy<br />

firewood for baking the injera and carry the bundles home. I used to help my sister sell<br />

qolo [roasted grain]. Selling injera requires going to the market everyday in the late<br />

afternoon. My grandmother advises me all the time about the dangers awaiting girls. Since<br />

I behave very well, she is not strict on me. I do not go out with people [boys/men]. I have<br />

no boyfriend, and I do not want one. I am young and I will have time for everything in the<br />

future. I do not even have close friends to hang out with. I do not like the behavior of my<br />

age-mates in the school and in the neighborhood; they want to have boyfriends and go to<br />

unnecessary places. I prefer going to the church. On Tuesdays, I participate in the choir<br />

and on Sundays we learn God's words. They also teach us to be careful. In the school, I<br />

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participate in the Girls Club, where we learn about sexual abuse, early marriage, forced<br />

marriage, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.<br />

4.2 Perspectives of children and young people<br />

4.2.1 Loving and supportive family<br />

Informants noted that loving and caring relationships and the provision of material and emotional<br />

support bring a sense of belongingness and security. 14 Some children pointed to certain family<br />

members as inspirational for providing thoughtful advice or for serving as role models. While<br />

some recognized the role of their fathers and siblings as crucial in forming their personality, most<br />

informants mentioned mothers and grandmothers as the main sources of support and guidance. 15<br />

Family support takes different forms. Some children noted that guidance or encouragement gave<br />

them a sense of direction. In other words, the early parental advice/instruction remained vivid in<br />

the memories of many children and served as guidance. Abdela Jemal, an orphan who lost both<br />

parents, remembered that his mother not only loved him, but also advised him on how to get along<br />

with other kids and avoid trouble. Alem Behailu, another orphan, mentioned that her mother told<br />

her to be careful in choosing friends, to be serious when boys and men approach her, and to work<br />

hard to live a dignified life. Lula Cheneke, who is from a very poor family, always maintained an<br />

optimistic view of life, a quality that he claims to have inherited from his mother and<br />

grandmother.<br />

It is also important to state the role of parents in promoting learning motivation. Maritu recounted<br />

that her late parents inspired her to excel in education as a means to get out of difficult situations.<br />

Tseday (a girl with physical disability) remembered her mother's advice that she could be as<br />

efficient or proficient as able-bodied people if she worked hard in her studies. Children and young<br />

people with high learning motivations spent their time reading books, and this contributed to their<br />

intellectual and moral development, which in turn contributed to their resilience.<br />

Some parents sacrificed personal interests for the sake of their children. When their respective<br />

husbands passed away, Dejene's and Iyayu's mothers dropped out of school and decided not to get<br />

remarried to ensure the welfare of their children. Selamawit Fikre recognized the positive<br />

contribution of her family members, particularly her brother, to her success as follows.<br />

My father was a merchant. He died when I was in grade 1. That was a test of life for the<br />

entire family. My mother faced difficulty in raising us. One of my brothers completed<br />

medicine with difficulty. I am the youngest in the family, and the problem was worse for<br />

me. Around the age of 11 and 12, I was on the street selling boiled maize. At that time, my<br />

brother had already graduated from the university and was working somewhere in the<br />

south. He learned that I was selling boiled corn on the street when he came home for<br />

vacation. He felt very sorry about it and promised to send some money to the family so<br />

that I could concentrate on my studies. He pulled me out of a very dangerous situation. In<br />

Merkato, it is hard to find role models to inspire you. But I have found so many of them<br />

from the books that I have been reading. Through reading, I learned what people are<br />

capable of doing. I rediscovered myself from the books. My brother is also my role model.<br />

14 Of the 31 informants, 23 claim to have come from loving and supportive families. Although the sample is not<br />

statistically representative, the strong correlation between resilience and favorable family environments could not be<br />

reduced to accidental occurrence.<br />

15 It appears that many children in Merkato are raised by single mothers.<br />

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[He] followed my father's advice [to read books] and excelled in education. I also wanted,<br />

and still want, to be smart like my brother. He has been my role model. Thanks to my<br />

father's efforts and my brothers' determination, I began to read books earlier than many of<br />

my age-mates. Two of my brothers played important roles in getting me into the reading<br />

habit. They used to choose and bring different books for me. The reading habit contributed<br />

immensely to my personality and success in education.<br />

It is equally important to note that some children exhibited resilience despite the absence of love<br />

and support in their families. Dagne Aizo, a migrant from Arbaminch, lived with a violent and<br />

physically abusive father. His mother deserted them because of his father's behavior. Thanks to a<br />

barber who offered to help, Dagne was safe and continued with his education. Imnet Ahmed, a<br />

migrant from Harar, was on ill terms with her father, who was very controlling and physically<br />

abusive. She moved to Addis Ababa with a young baby born out of wedlock. Despite her<br />

desperate economic situation, Imnet preferred bed renting for sex work. Loving and caring<br />

environments were disrupted rendering some children utterly vulnerable. Due to parental death,<br />

Hilina Giday and Dejene Esatu moved from loving and supportive family environment to one that<br />

was quite difficult to bear. In spite of the setbacks, both children managed to remain resilient,<br />

partly drawing on the earlier advice of their deceased and other protective strategies.<br />

4.2.2 Peer influence<br />

Most people want to be connected with others, and thus choose friends who accept them and<br />

whom they also accept. Children like to be with their peers, and peers tend to influence each<br />

other's attitudes, interests, and actions. Peer influence could be positive or negative. Although<br />

some informants avoided association with peers due to perceived negative pressure, the majority<br />

reported to have benefited from healthy peer relationships. Peer pressure motivated some to<br />

succeed or encouraged them to embrace appropriate social behavior. The experiences/advice of<br />

peers helped some to deal with practical problems. Tseday Deme (19, orphan, migrant, and poor)<br />

reported to have developed a sense of purpose and future thanks to her friends who served as role<br />

models and sources of inspiration. She had goal orientation, educational aspiration, and hope in a<br />

bright future. Tseday described the role of peer influence in her educational pursuit as follows:<br />

The positive influence of good friends has been helpful in directing my daily routine along<br />

the right line and keeping me focused. I was closely associated with school friends. I<br />

observed that these friends of mine, who had families to provide them with what they<br />

needed, were purposeful and determined to achieve big results in their education. Their<br />

desire to achieve something for themselves had a powerful positive impact on me. Their<br />

example [exemplar efforts] motivated me to imitate their behavior and adopt a similar<br />

pattern of thinking regarding my performance in school and future plans. I devoted a large<br />

portion of my time to attending school, studying at the library and going to the church.<br />

Many children displayed the ability to locate protective resources (knowledge, experiences,<br />

materials, etc.) at the disposal of peers and other friends. They sought and effectively secured such<br />

resources to deal with challenges that they encountered. Sara (17) lived in a house often rented to<br />

strangers and prostitutes. She explained how her best friend (AZ, a former prostitute) prevented<br />

her from becoming a prostitute.<br />

On the street and in the neighborhood, it is common to be bothered by men. When this<br />

happens, first I tell her [AZ, her friend], 'This guy said this, so what shall I do about it?'<br />

She advised me to be serious. I am closer to her than my family. Since we are age-mates,<br />

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there is nothing that we hide from each other. The relationship I have with [AZ] prevented<br />

me from becoming a commercial sex worker. She [AZ] was not like this [before she<br />

became a prostitute]. She had a good body [healthy and fit]. She did not want to join<br />

[commercial sex]. I talked to her [about prostitution]. She did not have a good feeling<br />

about it. Thank God she is out of it. I learnt [about the bad side of prostitution] from her<br />

and others.<br />

In some cases, the opinions of the child's peers seemed to carry more weight than those of parents<br />

and siblings. This is mainly because, according to the informants, peers tend to understand the<br />

dreams and concerns of each other more than parents and relatives could possibly appreciate.<br />

Fatima Solana (18), who prefers to handle problems on her own whenever possible, noted that she<br />

shares her concerns with her friends rather than with family members. She stated,<br />

In Merkato, men are the main problems of women. They would insult you. Some want to<br />

fight. Generally, Merkato is a very difficult place for women. from your house to the shop,<br />

you would encounter many things. One would stop you or grab your arm. When you treat<br />

them peacefully, some get angry. Usually I prefer to be silent, think about what happened,<br />

why it happened, how it happened, and if there is anything I could do about it. When there<br />

is a problem, I would tell my friends. I wouldn't talk to my family. I do not tell my brothers<br />

and sisters, who are very close to me. I think that the problem will get worse if I tell them.<br />

What they may suggest as a solution may not be acceptable to me. Therefore, it is better to<br />

discuss with friends who are equal to you.<br />

4.2.3 Personal qualities/strategies<br />

Most children and young people in Merkato (particularly the girls) were aware of the high risks of<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation. Hence, they had to pursue different strategies to protect themselves<br />

against sex offenders. Hilina Giday (14), who was responsible for renting her uncle's 11 rooms<br />

every single day, sometimes stayed late on the street waiting for customers looking for rooms. She<br />

heard that girls engaged in the bed renting business were sexually attacked at night. One of the<br />

problems she repeatedly encountered was the customers' demand and pressure to sleep with her.<br />

Hilina had what resilience researchers call 'critical consciousness' to understand the threat around<br />

her and devise a strategy to overcome it. Moreover, she also had educational aspirations and<br />

achievement motivation. She narrated her encounters and her strategies as follows: 16<br />

I leave the house to look for customers at 7:00 pm and wait outside until all rooms are<br />

taken. Sometimes, it could be over by 8:00 p.m. Sometimes, I may have to stay up until<br />

4:00 am. One of the problems I encountered was customers' request to sleep with me. I<br />

refused. I kept quiet even when they insulted me. There were some who tried to entice and<br />

trick me. For example, they would say, "Baby, come. I will do whatever you want; I will<br />

give you Birr 50, which I wouldn't offer to prostitutes; let me do anything you like to sleep<br />

with you; come, it will not take a minute and your family would never know." However, I<br />

[always] said no. When they asked me to sleep with them, [I replied], "If you want a<br />

woman, I can bring you a prostitute." I heard that most girls are attacked late at night,<br />

when it is dark. I stayed on the street only when there is light. What I want is education. If<br />

I study well, I know that I will succeed through education.<br />

Many girls (e.g., Bizunesh, Senbet, Wongelawit, Hilina, and Kasanesh) reported to have evaded<br />

risks of sexual abuse/exploitation through self-imposed restrictions on physical movement, dress<br />

16 According to the study, Hilina's story represents a typical challenge that most children working at night faced.<br />

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style, and entertainment. 17 Since certain corners of Merkato at certain times are considered to be<br />

dangerous, the girls reported to be taking precautionary measures such as traveling in groups and<br />

taking alternative routes. Some girls reported to have refrained from wearing short and thin<br />

dresses which are believed to be sexually provocative. There is a growing realization on the part of<br />

many people that alcohol, drugs, and videos (especially pornographic films) have been used to<br />

perpetrate sexual acts against unsuspecting children. Hence, many young girls reported to be<br />

conscious of these traps. Yodit Bentew (12) was a student living with her mother and siblings. The<br />

economy of the family was based on selling boiled grain on the streets of Merkato, and Yodit had<br />

to take part after school hours. Her strategy to avoid an unexpected tragedy was to go to safe<br />

places, deal with dependable customers, and return home before it gets late. She said,<br />

Now, I am 12… I am a student of grade 8. My family makes a living by selling nifro<br />

[boiled grain]… I sell nifro. I do not know when I started it, some two or three years ago, I<br />

guess. I work after school. My mother, my sister, and I sell in different places from 7:00<br />

pm to 9:00 pm or 9:30 pm. Then, we gather where my mother would stay. All of us have<br />

customers, not so far from each other. I sell near Amede [a place], in a house where draft<br />

beer is sold. The owner is a very nice man. He advises me to know myself and avoid bad<br />

things. In that house, the customers are government officials and people with lots of<br />

money. I do not think people who want something else [sex] would go there.<br />

A good number of children and young people displayed the ability to act independently and make<br />

their environment as safe and productive as possible. The common language used by the majority<br />

was 'keeping oneself busy' with a determination to achieve certain goals. Thirteen-year-old Hanko<br />

Tilaye stated, "I keep myself busy by doing homework, playing with friends, or sleeping." Dejene<br />

noted, "Keeping myself busy as a parking attendant, electrician and student has benefited me a lot.<br />

I simply do not have the time to think about engaging in harmful practices. My fellow children<br />

who are idle have to do these things to keep themselves occupied." Fatima, in an elaborate remark<br />

on this issue, said:<br />

One can be protected [against sexual abuse]. Do you know how? First, you convince<br />

yourself. You must have a goal. When you have a goal, you would strive to achieve that<br />

goal than pay attention to other things. But if you are purposeless, you will be paying<br />

attention to what your friends did, what happened in the society, and then you ask yourself,<br />

'How about me?' A friend would come and tell you what she did with her [boy] friend, and<br />

you get jealous. If you have a purpose, you wouldn't care about such talk. The reason I<br />

have not been exposed to sexual abuse is that I kept myself busy. The other source of my<br />

strength is my love of reading. There are things that you learn by reading. Each book has<br />

its own story and a message behind it. Knowledge is acquired by discovering that message.<br />

Street peddlers, bed renters, and commercial sex workers constitute the majority of prey to<br />

potential sex predators. These groups, therefore, often cooperated to protect each other against<br />

offenders. They also operated in close collaboration with the owners of the rental rooms, 18 who<br />

were expected to come to their rescue or call the police when they are in trouble with men. From<br />

this, it is apparent that the resilient children possessed problem-solving skills that involved<br />

networking or mutual cooperation against common threats.<br />

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For leisure, these girls seem to spend time with family, play with friends, sleep, read novels, write, paint, and take<br />

walks with friends.<br />

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Some owners are reported to place pressure on the girls to accept the demands of some customers.<br />

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4.2.4 Religious affiliation and faith<br />

Spirituality seems to serve as an environment that fosters child resilience to adversity. Many of the<br />

informants seemed to follow some kind of religious guidance and frequented places of worship,<br />

while others, including those who rarely visited religious places, mentioned God as the ultimate<br />

protector against sexual predators. For the strictly religious adherents, the notion of sexuality is<br />

something surrounded by fear, taboo, prejudice, shame, and discomfort.<br />

Many informants reported having participated in the Sunday schools of the Orthodox and<br />

Protestant Churches. Lula stated, "From childhood, I have developed a fear of God, which has<br />

been nurtured and strengthened by constant church attendance and Bible reading. Out of devotion<br />

and keen interest to know about other Christian faiths, I discuss the words of God with friends<br />

who are Protestants." Dejene, another informant, noted, "In my belief, religious devotion is a<br />

powerful means of protecting children against risks. When attending the church service, children<br />

are exposed to spiritual instruction and council that exerts a positive influence on their thought and<br />

action. I can testify about this from my own experience." Tseday noted, "The church also has a<br />

role to play in shaping a person’s spiritual life. Usually, I go to Saint Michael's Church where I<br />

listen to spiritual instruction and gain knowledge that helps me to lead my life in the right way."<br />

Benjamin stated, "I was participating in the church. I learnt a lot about life, God's words, and<br />

things that are expected of any Christian. I joined Sunday school and studied ethics and church<br />

secrets, for which I was awarded a certificate."<br />

Kasu Merid, whose story is narrated under 4.2.5 below noted:<br />

When I encounter a problem beyond my control, my first reaction is weeping. I believe<br />

that God brings challenges to test my strength. Whatever happens, no matter how bad, it<br />

could be for good. I believe that my destiny is ahead of me, not behind me. So, I do not<br />

want the past to destroy my future. I am positive about life. Even when something goes<br />

wrong, I think that it is for good. If you are patient and if you do not give in, the bad times<br />

will pass and the good days will come. When I have time, I go to the church to pray and<br />

listen to God's words. By doing so, I learn about good behavior and good manners. I also<br />

save myself from spending time in unnecessary places that could later hurt me.<br />

Religious prohibitions of alcohol, drugs and prostitution and strong cultural values associated with<br />

such prohibitions serve as protective factors. Alcohol is forbidden to the followers of Islam and<br />

Protestant Christianity. The <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Orthodox Church, which is rather silent on drinking,<br />

prohibits the use of stimulants such as khat and shisha, which are widely used by Muslims.<br />

According to informants, the use of alcohol and drugs tend to make children vulnerable to sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation. Religiosity was recognized to have helped many children avoid alcohol and<br />

substance abuse thereby minimizing such risks. Prostitution is associated with immorality, disease,<br />

and shame; and the prevalence of such perceptions in the family, in the neighborhood, and in<br />

religious institutions have had protective effects.<br />

4.2.5 External support<br />

The protective qualities and strategies of resilient children were enhanced by supports obtained<br />

from external sources that children and young people managed to secure. In this regard, the<br />

contributions of NGOs, church organizations, and individuals were mentioned. Hanko, Benjamin,<br />

Dejene, Tseday, Woynareg, and Maritu explained how the support of CHAD-ET helped them<br />

pursue their lives and goals. Dejene said, "In the worst of cases, I turn to CHAD-ET officials for<br />

assistance and counseling. They usually provided me with the necessary help. They suggested<br />

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solutions, advised me on how to cope, what to do or where to go for further assistance." Maritu<br />

Wale, an orphan and now a university student, reported how CHAD-ET assistance helped her and<br />

her brother as follows.<br />

[We] survived on the monthly financial support of Birr 100 and provisions in the form of<br />

grain and edible oil from CHAD-ET. Since I have joined Haramaya University, our<br />

neighbors who live next door and who were close to our parents are assisting in facilitating<br />

things for my brother and me. They take care of my brother by receiving the financial and<br />

material support from CHAD-ET and making sure that his needs are fulfilled and that he<br />

attends school regularly. In addition, they also send me money to Haramaya from the<br />

financial assistance provided [by adding] to it a little of their own. They are such caring<br />

neighbors to my brother; they give him the support and follow-up needed to relieve me of<br />

worry and concern about his well-being, [so that I can] concentrate on my studies with<br />

undivided attention.<br />

Some children and young people secured highly needed protective support from other people.<br />

Kasu Merid (17) started to live on the street due to a disagreement with his brother, who brought<br />

him from the countryside at the age of 10. He could have been assaulted and his dreams for<br />

educational attainment would have been shattered had it not been for the critical assistance he<br />

obtained from some people. He said,<br />

The first three days [after leaving his brother's house], I was on the street in the rain<br />

without any food and any clothing. On the third day, my brother's sister-in-law saw me on<br />

the street at night, when she was going home from a small khat shop that she owned. The<br />

next day, she gave me a copy of the key to her khat shop and told me to sneak in the shop<br />

every night to sleep. She trusted me with all her property in the shop. We kept the secret<br />

that I was sleeping in the khat shop for a long time. After leaving my brother's home, I<br />

continued with my education with much greater determination. While I was in the khat<br />

shop, my brother's sister-in-law gave birth. One day, I went to her residence to visit her.<br />

On that day, she had an argument and a fight with her husband, who became violent and<br />

caused her finger to bleed while trying to pull out a gold ring. I confronted him physically,<br />

in her rescue. Because of this, he asked me to vacate the khat shop. Once again, I had no<br />

place to sleep and went back to the street for the second time. This time, I started to sleep<br />

in the school classroom without the knowledge of teachers and the school guards. Later on,<br />

however, the teachers and the guards knew that I was sleeping in the classroom. The<br />

guards allowed me to sleep there without any worry. A Physical Education teacher gave<br />

me his office key to sleep there. The main problem was finding food to eat. There was one<br />

female teacher, who sometimes brought me dinner to school at night. The timing was very<br />

critical because I was kicked out of the khat shop when the time for the 8 th grade national<br />

examination was approaching. The good news was that I continued with my education<br />

until the exam week, sat for the exam, scored a high average, and successfully passed to<br />

the 9 th grade. Next to God, there were some important individuals who helped me get<br />

through the difficult time. Their helping hands extended my hopes and got me to where I<br />

am now.<br />

Workalem learnt during her teens that she is an adopted child. When the son of her adopters made<br />

repeated sexual advances against her will, Werkalem decided to move out and live with a friend.<br />

She stated,<br />

I do not know where I was born. Since they raised me, I consider them relatives. The<br />

reason why I left the house had to do with a heavy workload, the decrease in my school<br />

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esults, and the pressure from her [the adoptive mother's] son. He used to come to the place<br />

where I slept and take off the blanket. After this happened three or four times, I left the<br />

house, as I thought that he might destroy my life. I knew my friend with whom I now live.<br />

I started to live with her when she said, "I am living alone, we can live together." [Now] I<br />

am not exposed to sexual attack.<br />

4.2.6 Clubs at schools<br />

Schools provided learning opportunities not only through curricular instruction and library<br />

facilities but also through the establishment of different clubs. Many informants reported having<br />

learnt how to protect themselves against sexual offenders by joining HIV/AIDS clubs and/or girls<br />

clubs. Sara Gebremichael (17) recounted, "I worked in a girls’ club, I am a participant [of the<br />

club]. What I learnt there was very useful for self-protection. What I learnt include the reasons<br />

why people get into such problems [sexual abuse/exploitation], details about the development of<br />

human organs, mate selection, and many others." Woinareg (15) stated that she learnt about selfprotection<br />

from CHAD-ET's counseling programs offered every Saturday. She also learnt about<br />

reproductive organs and sexuality as a member of the girls’ club at her school. Other girls, such as<br />

Abebech, Yodit, and Kasanesh learnt about sexual abuse, early marriage, forced marriage,<br />

unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases at school.<br />

Some schools have mini-media through which students are given advice of various kinds or are<br />

informed about, among others, certain precautionary measures. Few informants also indicated that<br />

the mass media helped them learn about the risks of sexual abuse and exploitation and the<br />

strategies to avoid them. According to Dejene Esatu, for example, "Listening to the radio and<br />

reading newspapers are among the good habits that have proved to be protective. Through these<br />

media, I have been able to keep myself informed about factors that can expose children to<br />

dangerous behavior and its consequences. As a result, I have learned to be cautious and watchful<br />

of anything that can pose a threat or put me at risk."<br />

4.2.7 General precaution<br />

Some children developed protective habits/qualities without knowing the existence of risks of<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation. All grown up boys included in the sample noted that as children they<br />

were unaware of risks of male sexual abuse. The 13-year-old Hanko Tilaye did not know about the<br />

sexual abuse of boys during the research time. He avoided the risks by taking precautionary<br />

measures for other worries. He noted,<br />

Theft is a major problem in our neighborhood. Houses are broken into and property stolen.<br />

The gangsters rob children when they are sent to shops to buy things. Walking alone is not<br />

safe for children and girls. We do not go out at night. I heard that girls are sexually abused<br />

in other neighborhoods. Sometimes, those coming from the countryside are sexually<br />

abused by people who promise to find them jobs. I never heard about boys being abused. I<br />

never thought that there was a risk of being sexually abused because I did not know that<br />

something like that existed.<br />

4.3 Perspectives of parents, community figures, and NGOs representatives<br />

4.3.1 Perspective of parents<br />

All parents interviewed for the present study agreed that personality development of children starts<br />

in the family environment. However, whatever behavioral traits acquired in the family may be<br />

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shaped and reshaped when the child walks into the outside world. Most recognized that because of<br />

poverty and tremendous challenges outside of the family, parenting has become a difficult task.<br />

All parents involved in the study were extremely bitter about the leniency of authorities towards<br />

alcohol/drug/substance abuse among the youth, the wide distribution and display of obscene<br />

materials (uncensored pornographic films), suspected sex offenders, organized urban gangsters,<br />

and human traffickers. A strict measure against these challenges is believed to reduce incidences<br />

of sexual abuse/exploitation significantly.<br />

On the issue of parenting, different parents raised different views and concerns. Some stressed<br />

that, despite the presence of external challenges, parents could still do better to protect their<br />

children. The following comment by Iyayu's mother touches on issues raised by many parents.<br />

A wheat seed dies to bring life to another seed. Parents should sacrifice to save their<br />

children. There are things beyond our control. For example, we cannot control the<br />

movement of drugs and the kinds of videos shown in video houses. However, we can<br />

advise our children; give them love and all the assistance they need; make them our<br />

priorities. Physical punishment or scolding does not work. It makes them liars and<br />

secretive. If you want your children to open up, you should be the role model. The problem<br />

is that there are many children without an adult figure in the family. There are migrants.<br />

Such children need NGOs or government assistance.<br />

For parents whose children were sexually abused or exploited, the ordeals were unexpected and<br />

dramatic or complex and uncontrollable. A father whose son was raped by a man said, "My son’s<br />

experience is hard to believe and imagine. No one would have conceived that he would have been<br />

subjected to such a cruel and immoral act. Otherwise, I would have taken every possible measure<br />

to prevent [it]." According to a mother of another victim (a boy), "I believe that I am raising my<br />

children with the utmost care and attention. It is only one, of my five children, who became a<br />

victim. It never occurred to me that such a thing would befall him." Both parents became vigilant<br />

after the devastating incidents that they had never expected to happen. A mother of two female<br />

commercial sex workers and one street boy explained how difficult it was for her to command<br />

respect from, and discipline, her children. The fact that she was poor and a prostitute made it much<br />

more difficult for her to protect them. She reported:<br />

I have taken serious measures to prevent the girls from becoming prostitutes and the boy<br />

from living on the street. I tried to advise them over and over again. It did not work. I<br />

scolded them. It did not work. I used physical punishment. That never worked, either.<br />

There was nothing that I did not try to save my children from danger. The problem is that I<br />

cannot command moral power to advise my children on ethics and cultural values. They do<br />

not listen to me. They ask: who are you to tell us what to do? My 14-year-old daughter has<br />

attended counseling programs. However, she did not stop commercial sex work.<br />

Another view came from a guardian of a migrant girl. The informant explained why she failed to<br />

stop the girl from commercial sex. She noted, "I tried to advise her to try jobs other than<br />

prostitution. But other jobs require a guarantor and the HIV/ADIS test. She did not have a<br />

guarantor, and nor did she want to take the HIV test. On the other hand, prostitution does not<br />

require any condition."<br />

Parents were asked to characterize the quality of resilient children or factors that helped children<br />

remain resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation. According to lists obtained from different parents,<br />

resilient children are those who care about themselves, have a purpose/goal, respect parents, listen<br />

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to adults, have a few good friends, frequent the church, read books, come from loving/supportive<br />

families, love education, are patient and tolerant, have self-confidence, are raised in families that<br />

are less controlling, have personal strength, are conscious and quick minded, have the courage to<br />

discuss matters openly, are under close family supervision, are not poor, and are born lucky. Most<br />

parents mentioned positive family roles, goal orientation of children, positive peer influence,<br />

learning motivation, and religious affiliation as the key factors.<br />

4.3.2 Perspectives of NGOs and community representatives<br />

Community and NGO representatives were also asked about the characteristics of resilient<br />

children. What they mentioned as protective factors were consistent with those outlined by<br />

children and parents. Like the parents, many representatives of NGOs and communities<br />

complained about the lack of political commitment and weaknesses in the legal system to<br />

clampdown on sex offenders; the failure of the neighborhoods to be vigilant; and the feeling of<br />

shame that discourages victims and their families to report sex offenses. Many noted that the<br />

traditional protective mechanisms have been eroded and that many community level institutions<br />

rarely addressed the problems of sexual abuse and exploitation. A priest stated, "I shall admit the<br />

fact that the church does not have a special program designed to address sexual abuse and sexual<br />

exploitation. We shall work on that front in the future." Regarding a solution, the community<br />

representatives maintained a unanimous view that all should join hands to protect children. The<br />

comment of Paul sums up the views of most informants:<br />

Parents in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> do not share information with children. The usual tendency is to scold<br />

and punish them rather than discuss with them openly and advise them. Communities do<br />

not seem to worry much about sexual abuse/exploitation taking place in the<br />

neighborhoods. This has to change. People should not wait to react until the problem<br />

knocks at their doors. Some religious institutions encourage multiple marriages. Some<br />

discourage the use of condoms. If a poor man has several wives and several children, you<br />

can imagine the difficulty awaiting such families and children. So, religious institutions<br />

should teach that those people who do not have the resources to raise their children<br />

properly should not have many children. At school, there are teachers who think that their<br />

responsibility is to read books for students. Teachers should play important roles in<br />

positively influencing the behavior of children.<br />

The informants also raised commendable initiatives/developments. On the positive side, they<br />

recounted the establishment of new initiatives designed to provide protection to children. For<br />

example, a Deputy Chairman of a community-based organization acknowledged that NGOs have<br />

programs to support poor families, thereby reducing the vulnerability of children; schools have<br />

girls’ clubs and anti-AIDS clubs to fight, among others, sexual abuse/exploitation; and some idir<br />

organizations contribute funds monthly to provide children from poor families with school<br />

uniforms and supplies. This view was consistent with a comment of an NGO director, who stated<br />

that government enactment of laws pertaining to child rights/protection, the sensitization activities<br />

of girls' clubs, and the support provided by NGOs to individuals, families, and communities have<br />

been helpful. Some of the informants representing NGOs indicated their current and/or planned<br />

projects designed to address the issue of sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />

4.4 Intra-category differences and similarities<br />

Informants between 10 and 24 years old were divided into three age groups (10-13; 14-17; and 18-<br />

24) with anticipation that they might differ from each other in their experiences and capacities to<br />

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deal with risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. However, the study does not reveal unique features<br />

that correspond to the three age groups. Instead, a number of differences and similarities between<br />

younger children and grown-ups were observed. Regarding the similarities, almost all informants<br />

have knowledge about sexual abuse/exploitation, although a few appeared not to know about<br />

sexual attacks against boys. Most mentioned names of family members, relatives, friends, or<br />

fellow residents recently or currently subjected to sexual abuse/exploitation. Second, the<br />

overwhelming majority of children and young people in this category were not using addictive<br />

substances such as khat, shisha, cigarettes, and alcoholic beverages. It is important to underline<br />

that these substances are believed to increase vulnerability to sexual attack. Third, most of the<br />

informants mentioned the role of the family or certain members of the family as having a<br />

protective effect. Some also recognized the help of relatives, friends, teachers, and school clubs.<br />

The study revealed age-based intra-category differences as well. First, the older groups (15+)<br />

mentioned that the media, books, and the social environment (e.g., expectations of community,<br />

religion, etc.) influenced their behavior and/or broadened their horizons. The effects of the media,<br />

reading, and social expectations were not felt by smaller children. Second, when asked to express<br />

their aspirations, the smaller children mentioned professions that are highly valued in society<br />

and/or those directly relevant to practical social problems that they witness (e.g., medical doctor).<br />

On the contrary, the aspirations of the grown-ups were rather measured and realistic, and most of<br />

them admitted to have changed their wishful thoughts as they grew up and discovered their<br />

limitations. For example, Imnet Ahmed (19) reported abandoning her old dream of becoming a<br />

medical doctor in favor of an achievable goal - becoming a merchant. In order to realize her new<br />

dream, Imnet reported she is saving Birr 200 to 300 per month.<br />

Third, regarding protection against sexual attack, the smaller children believed that they could<br />

avert risks of sexual abuse by avoiding laughing, cuddling, and talking to boys/men. Hence, they<br />

appeared overconfident and dismissive of possible future assault. Yodit Bantew (12) is one of the<br />

overconfident girls engaged in street vending. She said, "So far, I have not encountered anything. I<br />

do not send wrong signals [to men]. It all depends on how you behave. [The problem is] when you<br />

laugh/smile at their provocative talk." Maritu Birru (13) believed that cuddling and playing around<br />

with boys/men can expose girls to sexual abuse, and she said she refrains from these acts to avoid<br />

the risk. Hilina Giday (14) stated that she does not think she will encounter [sexual assault] in the<br />

future because she returns home on time and refuses men's requests to sleep with her. The smaller<br />

children's idea of risk and protection seem to have been shaped by the crude family instructions<br />

that they should protect themselves by keeping distance from boys/men and the erroneous societal<br />

tendency to blame the victim.<br />

The older groups on the other hand, believed that any woman can be attacked at anytime, and it<br />

takes more than behavioral reservation to prevent sexual assault. Gezashgn Zeru (17) who serves<br />

tea in a neighborhood video screening room, stated, "Although I did not conclude that it will<br />

happen, I ask myself that what if it [rape] happens to me? I get scared. Working in a video room is<br />

difficult because it is crowded with adolescents. I do not want to work here [video room] forever."<br />

Imnet (19), noted, "I experienced [rape] attempts in the past. I am worried that I could be attacked<br />

in the future because of the nature of my work and the place I sleep at night. The owner of the<br />

rental rooms [if offered money] could conspire with the customers to get me into an abusive<br />

situation." Selamawit Fikre (23), said, "I might be attacked by someone, someday, and<br />

somewhere. Rapists are not always strangers. They do not necessarily go for younger girls or<br />

single women. I think all women face the risk."<br />

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5. Recovery from Sexual Exploitation<br />

5.1 Reflections of recovered young women<br />

As indicated earlier, people want to belong to a community. The need for belongingness seems to<br />

increase when one feels isolated, rejected, lonely, and distanced from familiar environments. As it<br />

seems, vulnerability and desperation tend to force some children and young people to accept views<br />

that they would otherwise reject or question under ordinary circumstance. In other words, out of<br />

frustration, due to negative peer influence, for reasons beyond their control, and sometimes with<br />

honorable intentions (e.g., to help family), some children engage in risky behavior such as<br />

commercial sex work. While some continue with their engagements in such risky behavior, others<br />

manage to pull themselves out of exploitative situations. This section examines the recovery of 10<br />

young women from commercial sex work. Most informants reported that different factors<br />

impaired their judgments about the risks involved in their activities. Poverty and family problems<br />

were mentioned as the main reasons behind their decisions to become sex workers. Moreover,<br />

prior rape experiences and negative peer influence activated their risk-taking potentials. The<br />

following discussion focuses on factors that led to recovery, strategies employed, turning points,<br />

support obtained, and relapse experiences/worries.<br />

5.1.1 Motivation for recovery<br />

Although they expected material betterment, none of the ten informants liked sex work. All of<br />

them considered it a shameful, degrading, and risky activity. Many soon realized the gap between<br />

their pre-entry expectations (e.g., material betterment, freedom, etc.) and the reality that awaited<br />

them on the ground (e.g., abuse, exploitation, humiliation, isolation from loved ones, health risks,<br />

etc.). Therefore, some of them thought of the idea of quitting rather early, though the actual<br />

process of recovery demanded time for material, social, and psychological preparation. The<br />

underlying desire to quit commercial sex work was the need to disengage oneself from an activity<br />

surrounded by social stigma, health risks, and different forms of abuse/exploitation.<br />

Some informants (such as Amenech, Azenegash, Saba, and Atsede) decided to quit sex work due<br />

to certain health problems they had and/or major health risks they feared. As soon as she left home<br />

because of poverty and disagreement in the family, Azenegash Fedlu's (15) friends (prostitutes)<br />

rushed her into commercial sex work in less than 48 hours. Azenegash gave up this risky business<br />

after one year and returned home when she was diagnosed with a kidney infection. She said, "I left<br />

the business [sex work] because of sickness. When I went to the health station, I was told that I<br />

had a kidney infection. Then, I decided to stop the business and return home." She believed that<br />

sexual intercourse exacerbates kidney wounds. The 18-year-old Saba Garuma became a sex<br />

worker out of economic desperation and lack of a place to stay following the death of her mother.<br />

She decided to give up sex work due to health problems that made it difficult for her to wait for<br />

customers on the street. Saba added that her current boyfriend's (former customer) insistence to<br />

stop prostitution and live with him as partners partly influenced her decision. Atsede Esatu (18),<br />

who came from Fiche town, north of Addis Ababa, in search of a job as a maid, started<br />

commercial sex work after her employers refused to pay her salary for three months. Prostitutes<br />

living in the neighborhood encouraged her to join the business rather than work as a maid for free.<br />

She quit due to sickness and fear of HIV/AIDS. As indicated in Section 2, Amenech (18), who<br />

started domestic work for a living, was raped twice before she became a prostitute and once<br />

afterwards. She quit the sex work when her health situation deteriorated due to HIV/AIDS. She<br />

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stated, "Now I stopped the business. It is not good for those with HIV. It makes one weaker. I was<br />

told that sex is not good. I experienced pain after every sexual intercourse: exhaustion, trouble<br />

with my knees, internal discomfort, and headache."<br />

Four informants (Tihit, Tigat, Tizita, and Aziza) reported quitting sexually exploitative situations<br />

due to a lack of interest and worries about various risks. As discussed earlier, Tihit (17), started<br />

sex work at the age of 14 to help her elder sister, who was responsible for raising five younger<br />

siblings upon the death of their parents. Tihit was unhappy with sex work. After five months into<br />

the business, she started to seriously think about the risks. One day, she thought of going to the<br />

Middle East to work as a maid rather than staying in the risky activity. Tihit recounted,<br />

I was in the business for five months. Afterwards, I could not bear it…. There were lots of<br />

problems. On the one hand, I did not want my brothers and sisters to run hungry. On the<br />

other hand, I was worried of losing my life. I did not want to die claiming that I was<br />

helping my family. At one moment, I thought of asking my relatives to send me [cover the<br />

visa and transportation cost] to an Arab country. I volunteered for an HIV/AIDS test with a<br />

plan to ask them to send me to an Arab country if the result was negative, and remain a<br />

prostitute if it was positive. When I took the test, you never know God's will, I was free<br />

[the result was negative]. Luckily, I got the visa [to Dubai] within a month.<br />

Tigat Zerihun (18), who lost her father as a child, was sent to Addis Ababa (by her brother to work<br />

and generate income) at the age of six or seven. After working as a dishwasher in a restaurant in<br />

Addis Ababa, she returned to the countryside to live with her mother and uncle. However, she was<br />

re-sent to Addis Ababa to live with her aunt. She could not live at her aunt's home, as she was on<br />

bad terms with her cousins. Out of desperation and negative peer influence, Tigat joined the world<br />

of commercial sex, which she hated and soon abandoned. Worries of HIV/AIDS infection and<br />

advice from another friend (a former prostitute) highly influenced Tigat's decision to stop<br />

practicing commercial sex. Tigat stated, "I started business when I was 15/16. While practicing it,<br />

I quarreled with my friend [who swayed her to sex work]. When you realize that the work is<br />

awful, you complain. I complained to her, we quarreled. Finally, I decided to stop. I had no<br />

intention [to become a prostitute]. When friends push, you get into it, hoping for better."<br />

Tizita Ayalew (18), who had left home due to an argument with her brother following the death of<br />

her mother, became a prostitute at the age of 17 out of desperation. She recovered after six or<br />

seven months into the business. Customers' demands to have sex in unnatural styles and without<br />

condoms, among others, discouraged her from pursuing the business. Aziza Kenedy (18), who<br />

came from the countryside due to a minor argument with her father, started life in Addis Ababa as<br />

a dishwasher. Three months later, she became a commercial sex worker. She got tired of it and<br />

abruptly quit after two years in the business when she was offered a bed-renting job.<br />

Hiwot Getamesay (20) who started sex work to help her brothers complete their studies, decided<br />

to stop after accomplishing her mission. Although her family kicked her out because of her<br />

engagement in the 'shameful activity,' she continued to send money to prevent her brothers from<br />

dropping out of school due to poverty. The time they finished their studies coincided with three<br />

other developments that facilitated her determination to quit. First, one of her best friends saved<br />

Birr 3000, disengaged herself from sex work, and left for the Middle East to work as a maid.<br />

Before she left for the Middle East, her friend arbitrated between Hiwot and her family to ensure<br />

their reunion. Second, two other friends of Hiwot's (sex workers) suffered major injuries during<br />

fights with customers: one lost her eye and the other sustained a broken tooth. Hiwot took this as a<br />

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divine warning to her. Third, she was accepted by CHAD-ET as a peer educator (for which she<br />

was paid Birr 75/moth), given skills training, and hired as a staff member of the organization.<br />

5.1.2 Strategies employed/steps taken<br />

Two former sex workers (Aziza and Tizita) recovered without prior plan and preparation. This is<br />

because they enjoyed opportunities and support that they never knew, received, or considered<br />

important. Aziza disengaged herself from commercial sex work the day she was accepted by<br />

Naod, a young man who has a small NGO dedicated to supporting the recovery of prostitutes.<br />

Likewise, Tizita quit the day she got the bed-renting job.<br />

For others (such as Tihit, Tigat, and Hiwot), however, the recovery experiences represented a well<br />

thought-out and step-by-step process. Tihit's plans involved step-by-step actions: taking an<br />

HIV/AIDS test to know if she was free of the virus; confronting her uncle about her sex work<br />

story head-on and challenging him with a request to cover the cost of her trip to the Middle East;<br />

quitting sex work and going abroad. The plan worked for her. Tigat needed five months from the<br />

day she decided to stop sex work. This is because she did not have any alternative means of<br />

livelihood to fall back on. While practicing sex for a living, she started to sell boiled potatoes. In<br />

the course of the five months, she managed to secure dependable customers to buy her potatoes<br />

and other items. Then, she quit. Tigat recounted,<br />

What you see after entering [commercial sex work] is not good. You could get pregnant<br />

when the condom breaks, and then you would suffer more as a single mother. I decided to<br />

quit and survive by selling qolo [roasted grain]. Thank God, selling potatoes is good. I did<br />

not quit the business [sex work] immediately after deciding to start this work [selling<br />

potatoes]. While selling potatoes, I was practicing sex for money, as I had to pay house<br />

rent. Now, I stopped [the sex work]. What else do you need, if you can pay house rent and<br />

fill your stomach? In the past, my dream was to be a merchant, to sell things on the street. I<br />

started to cook potatoes near the house I rented. It took some five months [to quit sex<br />

work]. Quitting was very difficult. For the time being, you would think about the money<br />

[needed to live]. It took five months because the potato business, until people got used to<br />

it, did not have a market. Since there was house rent and the cost of food [to be covered], it<br />

was necessary to stay [in commercial sex business] until the [potato selling] business was<br />

established.<br />

Hiwot's strategy to get back home was also a step-by-step move. First, she started to visit her<br />

family more frequently than ever before, in order to reestablish an emotional connection. Second,<br />

she sent elders (arbitrators) from the neighborhood and her friend to convince her family to let her<br />

return home. Although the negotiation lasted for about six months, her efforts paid off in that the<br />

family accepted her. Azenegash had difficulty in deciding to quit sex work. Originally, she left her<br />

family partly due to poverty, which remained the same by the time she was considering quitting.<br />

She was worried not only about the poor quality/quantity of food at home, but also about her<br />

addiction to khat and cigarettes. Moreover, she had to make sure that her family was willing to<br />

accept her return home. Her elder sister conveyed her message that she was sick and determined to<br />

quit sex work. The family received her back. Later on, her parents asked her to take an HIV/AIDS<br />

test, and the result was negative. Mekdelawit (14), who left home around the age of nine due to an<br />

argument with her mother, became a prostitute after a while. She quit the business when Naod<br />

accepted her in his temporary shelter for recovering sex workers.<br />

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5.1.3 Turning points<br />

Entry into commercial sex work and quitting the profession may be explained in terms of causal<br />

factors and turning points that mark the transition from good-to-bad and bad-to-good. The ten<br />

recovered former commercial sex workers shared their experiences about moments or events that<br />

turned their lives around for better or worse. This section discusses specific moments that<br />

triggered the descent of these young women into abusive/exploitative situations and those that<br />

motivated or facilitated their recovery.<br />

a) Starting sex work<br />

The ten young women lived in family environments with parents, siblings, and/or other close<br />

relatives. The transition from a family environment to the world of sex work may be discussed at<br />

two levels: the decision to leave home and that to become a prostitute. The study reveals that five<br />

of the ten informants (Amenech, Aziza, Mekdelawit, Tigat, and Tizita) left their homes because of<br />

disagreements/quarrels with family members. Although the individual stories are different, lack of<br />

patience/understanding and failure to resolve family matters peacefully led to adverse situations.<br />

Amenech's father asked her to leave when she tested positive for HIV/AIDS. Aziza regretted<br />

leaving her family over a minor problem with her father, who behaved difficult when he got<br />

drunk. Mekdelawit left home after a furious argument with her mother over an allegation by her<br />

teacher that she was cuddling with boys in the school. Mekdelawit denied the allegation and left<br />

home out of fear and anger. Tigat lived with very loving and caring aunt, but she decided to run<br />

away because of disagreement with her cousins. Like with many others, the experience of Tizita<br />

reveals how frustration built up over long period culminated in a decision that adversely affected<br />

her life. She explained how she left home and started sex work as follows.<br />

I do not know my father. My mother raised me. She has a son from another man. Now, my<br />

mother is not alive. I could not live in harmony with him [her brother]. He got married in<br />

the house [that belonged to both]. We could not be in harmony, we quarreled often. When<br />

he started to beat me up, I eventually got angry and left the house. Then, I had no place to<br />

pass the night. With some money that I had, I found accommodation. When the money was<br />

finished, I stayed a night on the street. Then, I started the business.<br />

Three informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit) left their homes mainly due to economic reasons.<br />

As discussed under 5.1.1 above, Hiwot and Tihit claim to have planned to take the risk and<br />

sacrifice to support their siblings, while Azenegash abandoned her home without any clear plan.<br />

The remaining two informants (Atsede and Saba) left their homes for different reasons. Atsede<br />

was sent by her family to work in Addis Ababa (as a maid), while Saba was kicked out of a rental<br />

house when her mother (the breadwinner) died.<br />

Except for Hiwot and Tihit, the eight recovered young women did not leave their homes to engage<br />

in sex work. The study shows that six (Atsede, Azenegash, Aziza, Tigat, Saba, and Tizita) had no<br />

intention to become prostitutes. However, they were swayed into the profession and coached by<br />

friends, neighbors, and acquaintances, who were themselves prostitutes. After leaving their homes,<br />

it appears, these young women got disoriented, frustrated, and sought advice from the wrong<br />

people. Amenech started sex work because of heavy pressure from her employer and co-workers<br />

in a local bar. Azenegash's experience, which could be considered typical, illustrates that entry<br />

into sex work is rather fast and easy.<br />

I started business on my second day after leaving home. I started it at age 13 and stopped at<br />

14. I got into it through my friends. They convinced me to work with them. We stood on<br />

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the street, with makeovers and wearing cosmetics. A man approached me and asked how<br />

much I charge. I told him, 'Birr 20 for short [one round] and 40 for all night.' The man<br />

agreed, and we went to a room. My friends were looking out for me in case the guy tried to<br />

hurt me. In the room, he asked me to drink some alcohol, and I declined. I told him that it<br />

was my first time and the drink could make me sick. He tried to convince me. Then he<br />

ordered beer to the room and we started drinking. I repeated that it [sex work] was my first<br />

time. He was a good man. He gave me the money and allowed me to go home. My friends<br />

were happy and I stood on the streets, waiting for more business. Some other guy came<br />

along and I asked Birr 25 for short. He agreed and asked to find a bed [room]. I took him<br />

to my neighborhood. He paid for short and for the bed. He wanted me to sleep with him<br />

again. I told him that he needed to pay another Birr 25. I made Birr 90 and I was<br />

encouraged. Then we went out into the street. One of our friends went for a short, but took<br />

a long time. We all went to her room. There was some kind of dispute. We told the man to<br />

go or we would beat him up. We all carried razor blades to use in case of trouble. He went<br />

away and we went to Merkato Hotel, and started to drink beer. [There] we all got<br />

customers and went out for overnight.<br />

b) Quitting sex work<br />

Many informants noted that certain moments triggered their decision to abandon prostitution.<br />

Tihit, who left home to practice prostitution in Nazareth to help her family, stopped sex work on<br />

the day she was tested negative for HIV/AIDS. She noted, "I was disgusted by the business the<br />

moment I was declared free [of the virus]. I stayed for one week [without engaging in sex work],<br />

during which my friends covered my expenses. I decided to return home. My friends gave me Birr<br />

20 to cover the transportation back to Addis Ababa." The good news about the test result marked<br />

the turning point for Tihit. Ironically, bad news about health status also turned the life of<br />

Azenegash around. A diagnosis of a kidney infection triggered her decision to quit sex work. The<br />

first time she got sick, she did not care much about her health. She resumed sex work as soon as<br />

she got well. During her second visit to the hospital, she was diagnosed with a kidney infection,<br />

and was told that sexual intercourse would exacerbate the infection. Azenegash believed that the<br />

sex work caused the infection, and decided to quit the business right away.<br />

Tizita wanted to quit sex work due to the multiple risks involved. However, she did not know<br />

when and how to stop. It was her violent encounter with a strange customer that made her decide<br />

on quitting the business suddenly and take up a job as a bed-renter. She said,<br />

I met him [a customer] on the street near Daniel Hotel. He asked me to drink with him and<br />

reserve a room at Daniel Hotel. However, we rented a room from a private owner in my<br />

neighborhood. He paid, and when we were about to make love, I saw him tearing the<br />

condom. When I asked what he was doing, he said that he does not like it. I told him that I<br />

had been careful so far, and that I could not have intercourse without [condoms]. Then he<br />

choked me and I struggled hard. The owner of the house arrived with a stick [to her<br />

rescue]. The owner's sister, who was living in the house, also came. We could not outpower<br />

him. The police arrived and as we all walked [to the police station], they were<br />

punching and scolding him. When we arrived at the police station, he showed them an ID<br />

card. He was a police officer. Then, they [the police] asked, 'How could you dare to go to<br />

that neighborhood?’ When I was expecting them to take a legal measure against him, they<br />

warned him not to go to that neighborhood again and set him free. I was disappointed and<br />

decided to quit [sex work]. I was crying. An old woman inquired what had happened to<br />

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me. Upon learning the story and my desire to quit, she asked if I was interested in bedrenting<br />

work. I said yes and started the job.<br />

5.1.4 Support obtained<br />

Support obtained from family members, friends, and/or NGOs played vital roles in inspiring,<br />

encouraging, facilitating, and consolidating recovery from sexual exploitation. Many informants<br />

reported to have obtained assistance in the form of ideas, encouragement, funds, materials, and/or<br />

training. The financial or material support gave them economic security, at least in terms of<br />

meeting their immediate needs. Assistance extended in the form of sponsorship for education,<br />

skills training, and trip to the Middle East addressed their worries about the future. The very act of<br />

considering commercial sex workers for some kind of assistance elevated their self-esteem and<br />

reassured their social relevance. Those who received support (especially assistance from NGO)<br />

felt connected to and accepted by the society.<br />

Seven of the ten informants have not been reintegrated into their respective families. Neither have<br />

they received any family support. Three informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit), however, have<br />

been reintegrated and received different forms of support from their respective families. For<br />

example, Tihit's travel to Dubai was covered by her uncle and her elder sister, who contributed<br />

Birr 5000 and Birr 2000 respectively.<br />

Seven informants reported receiving assistance from their friends as follows. Tigat mentioned that<br />

her friend (former prostitute) supported her recovery process through advice and by providing a<br />

helping hand in her potato business. Aziza indicated that her friend's (a student) advice and<br />

encouragement to give up sex work influenced her decision to quit. Tizita was thankful to an old<br />

woman who offered her a bed-renting job on the day she had a trouble with the police officer.<br />

Tihit received financial and moral support from her friends (commercial sex workers) from the<br />

day she was tested negative for HIV/AIDS to the day she left Nazareth town, a week later. Hiwot<br />

acknowledged her friend (ex-prostitute) for serving as a role model and for facilitating her reunion<br />

with her family. Saba's decision to abandon sex work was partly influenced by her boyfriend's<br />

strong desire to see her quit. Azenegash stated that she would not have pulled herself out of sex<br />

work had it not been for her friend's (a prostitute) offer to cover certain expenses. She explained,<br />

I went to my friend and told her that I had no khat, no money, and that I was frustrated and<br />

wanted to return [to sex work]. She promised to give me Birr 10 a day for my addictions.<br />

'Birr 1 for cigarette and Birr 9 for khat is enough,' she said. She made me stop thinking<br />

about going back to the streets. My family would not take me back had I left a second<br />

time. She convinced me not to do it. She told me that I could have breakfast and lunch with<br />

her and chew khat with her. Then, I went back home. She is still doing ‘business’. She<br />

warned that I would die if I restarted sex work. So, I stopped.<br />

Four informants recognized the contributions of NGOs to their recovery. Tizita was lucky to have<br />

met Zemi, a businesswoman dedicated to supporting recovering prostitutes through education and<br />

skills training. Accordingly, Tizita received support to continue with her education. Zemi asked<br />

Tizita to contact and list prostitutes willing to quit sex work and take up formal education or skills<br />

training. She said, "While working as a bed renter, accidentally, I met Zemi and I told her that I<br />

wanted to continue with my education. She supported me and now I am in grade 8 at school. Zemi<br />

encourages me by giving clothing. When I complain about hardships, her workers also give me<br />

money so that I do not return to the previous work." Aziza was also supported by Zemi. She<br />

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eceived training in hair dressing. Mekdelawit linked her decision to stop sex work to being<br />

accepted by Naod's shelter for recovering prostitutes. She was into the business until the day she<br />

was accepted to the shelter.<br />

The effect of NGO support on Hiwot deserves special mention. Her involvement in CHAD-ET (as<br />

a peer educator, skill trainer, and staff) was crucial in terms of preventing relapse. Working for<br />

CHAD-ET, as a regular staff, boosted her self-esteem and social acceptance in the family and the<br />

neighborhood. As a peer educator, she was proud to be of help to others. In the future, she wants<br />

to help children in exploitative situations. She noted,<br />

Now I make a monthly salary of Birr 300. There is pleasure in knowing that people treat<br />

me like a salaried employee. I feel contented when I dress up and go to work in the<br />

morning and get home at dusk. My parents and my brothers greet me in and out of home,<br />

calling me by my nickname. It is a gratifying thing to get recognition. My objective is to<br />

help girls and grown-up women in this kind of life get out, as I have seen the ugly face of<br />

it. I had suffered terrible discrimination. I know the stigma attached to commercial sex<br />

workers by the community. I want to teach young girls how to break out of this habit. I<br />

want to be a change agent.<br />

5.1.5 Relapse incidences and worries<br />

The recovery experiences of seven informants were fairly smooth in that none of them reported<br />

major challenges in quitting sex work, incidences of relapse, and/or worries about their future.<br />

However, two informants (Amenech and Hiwot) reported to have experienced relapses, while one<br />

informant (Azenegash) appeared uncertain about her future. Amenech experienced four relapses.<br />

She stopped sex work when she got sick and resumed whenever she recovered.<br />

Upon deciding to quit, Hiwot sent elders to convince her family to accept her back. It took her<br />

family six months to accept her request. In the meantime, Hiwot continued to sleep with men for<br />

money. She continued to see her old customers even after returning home and while working as a<br />

peer educator. She used the CHAD-ET work as an excuse to stay overnight. According to Hiwot,<br />

detaching oneself from habits such as sex work [especially from] regular customers presents a<br />

very difficult challenge.<br />

Azenegash's life was full of despair. Poverty remained a major challenge in her family, and she<br />

was often on bad terms with her siblings. It was not clear whether she wanted to stay with her<br />

family or in Addis Ababa, for that matter. For some reason, her dream to go to the Middle East to<br />

work as a maid appeared a remote chance. She also mentioned about going to the regional towns<br />

in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> to work as a sex worker - a disturbing revelation of possible relapse in the future.<br />

5.1.6 Daily routines of recovered young women<br />

Of the ten recovered young women, four (Atsede, Azenegash, Aziza, and Tizita) were engaged in<br />

bed renting and three (Amenech, Saba, and Tigat) in petty trade/street vending. Hiwot seemed to<br />

earn relatively more than most others as she worked for CHAD-ET as a regular employee and<br />

engaged in bed renting on a part-time basis. Tihit seemed to be in a much better financial position<br />

for she saved money in the Middle-East by working as a maid. Mekdelawit was enrolled in<br />

regular school with the help of an NGO and her mother. Although the daily incomes of the bed<br />

renters and street vendors were significantly lower than their earnings as sex workers, all but<br />

Azenegash expressed strong determination not to slide back to prostitution. The daily routines of<br />

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two informants are presented below to show a glimpse of their lives, the social environment in<br />

which they operated, and the ups-and-downs they experienced.<br />

Tizita, who was happy with her new life, operated under busy daily schedule. She said:<br />

Zemi [a business woman who supports recovering prostitutes] asked me to list the names<br />

of commercial sex workers who would like to quit like me. She gives training in hair<br />

dressing to those who do not want to enroll in school. She helps them in getting jobs, too.<br />

Every night, I contact those girls whom I knew and those willing to change, and I give the<br />

list to Zemi. In the morning, I make the [rental] beds and do other things. In the afternoon,<br />

I go to school. Then [at night], I go out early to rent the beds. After that, when the business<br />

workers [prostitutes] come out, I go there and take their names. Between 7:00 pm and 9:00<br />

pm, the beds will be rented out as they are not many. I hand the money over to the<br />

[land]lady. After 10:00 pm, I talk to business [sex] workers to find out those interested in<br />

education. I walk around to talk to them, and they come to me, saying, "She worked with<br />

us in the past and now she has changed.". This registration work does not take more than<br />

an hour [a day]. So far, I changed about 28 children. Now, all are not in the business [sex]:<br />

some are trained by Zemi, others are students.<br />

Saba, who also became busy with her new life, was optimistic about the future. She stated:<br />

My present friend advised me to quit and I did. He gave me Birr 100, with which I bought<br />

chickpeas, potatoes, cigarettes, peanuts, and service plates [to start street vending]. I sell<br />

these items every night on the street in front of my rented house. Although the income is<br />

not comparable [to what she earned as a prostitute], if I stay late at night, I earn Birr 10 to<br />

15 per day. I work from 5:00 pm to 1:00 am. He also helps me, meaning, he pays the house<br />

rent, Birr 150. Now, we live together. While quitting the business, I used to visit my<br />

friends [prostitutes] in the Berenda area. I did not want to cut off our friendship. However,<br />

I was not doing business because I hated that life. Now, I chew khat once in a while. He<br />

also chews. He brings Birr 30 to 40 [per day]. So far, we do not have children. My old<br />

neighbors know that I gave up the sex work. They see me selling items on the street. They<br />

say, "That is good, keep it up." I stay on the street until 1:00 am. I do not believe that<br />

staying late would expose me to other things [sexual assault] because Areqe [liquor] is sold<br />

in the area and there are lots of people on the street. There are bed renters. I stay with them.<br />

There is a demand [for her goods]. I sleep in the morning. Then, I purchase, prepare, and<br />

sell the goods. Tomorrow, change will come. It does not occur at once. This is what I<br />

think.<br />

5.2 Perspectives of parents, community and NGO representatives<br />

Parents, NGO representatives, and community leaders were asked questions about the kinds of<br />

children/young people with greater propensity to recover from sexual abuse/exploitation, and the<br />

social environment conducive for recovery. Different informants provided lists of personal<br />

qualities and the appropriate social contexts under which recovery may be expected. A community<br />

representative (a nurse) explained, "Those who were forced into abuse/exploitation, those who<br />

were not addicted to drugs, and those with goals to reach tend to recover." According to a guardian<br />

of a migrant prostitute, "Those who started commercial sex work against their interest out of<br />

desperation and those who received counseling from NGOs would quit the sex work easily." A<br />

priest remarked, "If they [sex workers] are provided with proper education [religious] and material<br />

support, they would recover. Children need a welcoming environment. Like the Church does,<br />

families and communities should welcome them to facilitate their recovery." A representative of a<br />

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local NGO working on children noted, "Recovery is facilitated when the victim has the confidence<br />

in his/her future, when support is available from other sources, and when the family or close<br />

relatives are supportive and welcoming.<br />

According to data gathered from the majority of informants, factors that facilitate recovery from<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation may be grouped into three: the presence of motivation and determination<br />

to recover on the part of the victim, the availability of external support to facilitate the recovery,<br />

and the existence of a welcoming environment to ensure reintegration into family and society.<br />

Most informants were cautious about the dynamics of recovery because once recovered does not<br />

necessarily mean a done deal. Hence, they underlined the need for a favorable environment and<br />

external support to prevent risks of relapse.<br />

With this fundamental understanding, certain NGOs claimed to be working on the recovery of<br />

sexually abused and/or exploited children in a variety of ways. CHAD-ET conducts recovery<br />

programs for vulnerable and sexually exploited children through the provision of different forms<br />

of skill training. IPSO works with families to build a strong and loving family environment, with<br />

communities to make them more responsible and vigilant, and with disadvantaged children to<br />

enhance their problem solving skills. Sexually abused and vulnerable children were the direct and<br />

primary beneficiaries of OPRIFIS, an NGO that provided a safe home, psychological support,<br />

education, medical support, reunification, child rights, capacity building, to list some. The<br />

organization also worked with families, communities, and local organizations that work with<br />

children. FSCE provided support to sexually abused and exploited children. These included<br />

washing and laundry services, health and sex education, medical treatment, non-formal education,<br />

play and recreation, guidance and counseling, reintegration, and skill training. In addition to<br />

providing counseling services to sexually abused children, ANPPCAN carried out legal advisory<br />

work and follow-up that included producing witnesses to give testimony to the police,<br />

encouraging children to supply information, and follow-up on the legal course of action.<br />

5.3 Intra-category similarities and differences<br />

Recovered young girls could not be identified for the age group 10-13. At early age, entry into<br />

exploitative situation is expected rather than recovery. Among the ten young women between the<br />

ages of 14 and 20 included in the sample, there was no significant age-based difference. Instead,<br />

they seemed to have a lot in common. For example, eight young women became sex workers<br />

when they were between the ages of 13 and 15. All of them expected material betterment and<br />

social freedom. However, all soon hated the business because of health risks and different forms<br />

of abuses, not to mention the social stigmatization. They realized the huge gap between their<br />

expectations and the reality, and hence wanted to quit as soon as they could.<br />

The study revealed location-based differences in the process of entry into prostitution. Of the ten<br />

informants, six were from Addis Ababa and the remaining four came from the countryside. The<br />

four from the countryside (Atsede, Aziza, Amenech, and Tigat) worked as maids or dishwashers,<br />

at least for three months, before taking up the sex work. On the other hand, the six from Addis<br />

Ababa (Azenegash, Hiwot, Mekdelawit, Saba, Tihit, and Tizita) became prostitutes soon after<br />

leaving their homes. Children living in Addis Ababa are aware of the risks of commercial sex<br />

work, and the availability of other means of making a living in the city. It is not clear why they<br />

made prostitution their first choice. The other difference is that some young women from Addis<br />

Ababa returned home after their recovery from exploitative situations. For instance, three of the<br />

six informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit) negotiated with their respective families and<br />

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managed to secure successful reintegration. On the other hand, none of the four village girls<br />

returned home after their recovery. For those from Addis Ababa, it is relatively easy to maintain<br />

close contact with family, negotiate to get back home, and find alternative means of living.<br />

6. Victims of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation<br />

This chapter lays emphasis on the different forms of abuse and sexual exploitation meted out to<br />

children. In regards to child prostitutes, the chapter considers the coping strategies they use to deal<br />

with problems related to sex work and day-to-day living. Other aspects of their life such as the<br />

nature of relationship with family and effort made to escape sex work are also discussed.<br />

6.1 Forms of abuse and sexual exploitation<br />

6.1.1 Physical abuse<br />

Based on the information provided by child prostitutes, it can be said that physical abuse of sex<br />

workers is a characteristic of the practice. The perpetrators include customers, gangsters in the<br />

neighbourhood and senior prostitutes. It is reported that customers use different pretexts to resort<br />

to physical violence. Thus, they may refuse to pay the negotiated sum after sex, practice sex with<br />

condom, or may demand an unconventional form of sex. Atsede Esatu, age 18, described the<br />

situation in this way:<br />

Some men demand sex for free. Or they refuse to pay after they had sex. Others steal<br />

money from the prostitutes. Intoxicated on alcohol or khat, a lot of men practice aggressive<br />

sex, or ask for unconventional forms. Prostitutes who refuse or challenge their customers<br />

risk physical abuse and brutalities.<br />

With the intention of getting sexual and financial advantages, gangsters who live around use<br />

physical attacks or threats to force child prostitutes to do their bidding. Currently sexually<br />

exploited Jember Feleke, age 17, related this bitter experience:<br />

A young boy asked me to sleep with him for free. I refused to go to bed without money.<br />

Then he started verbal abuse. But he could not threaten me into accepting his demand.<br />

Then he drew a razor blade and ran away after making a big cut on my neck.<br />

Older sex workers are also reported to commit physical abuse on younger and less experienced<br />

prostitutes. Mentioned as a reason is that the senior sex workers may want to force the younger<br />

children to share with them what they have earned from sex work. When the children refuse and<br />

resist, their seniors respond with physical violence to retaliate or pressure them to compromise.<br />

6.1.2 Sexual abuse of young girls<br />

Gang rape represents one of the serious forms of sexual abuse that child prostitutes experience.<br />

Normally, one man negotiates sex with a prostitute. But when she goes to sleep with the man, she<br />

may find a number of his friends waiting to have sex against her will. Currently recovered Hiwot<br />

Getamesay, age 20, shared this firsthand experience:<br />

One day, I agreed to sleep with a young man who was familiar with me. When we arrived<br />

at the place, I saw six young boys who were waiting. Once I got into the room, the young<br />

boys raped me one after another. Some of them refused to wear condom. When it was<br />

over, I had a sore body and walked back home with great pain.<br />

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According to the children who are currently exploited, a number of customers demand to have sex<br />

without condom. Initially, some men may agree to wear condom. But in the room, they start to<br />

argue against doing so. Or they wear the material only to remove it before the act. Others offer a<br />

greater sum of money to persuade the prostitute to accept unsafe sex. The case of Tihun Getachew,<br />

age 16, is one out of numerous stories descriptive of condom-related sexual abuse:<br />

I slept with a man after he agreed to wear condom. He did so in the first round. Later, he<br />

tried to do sex without one. When I refused, he began to beat me up. I reported to the<br />

police, but they did not help. Indeed, the police made fun of me, and sent me away without<br />

sympathy.<br />

Condom-related sexual abuse is known to be associated with the risks of HIV and other STIs,<br />

unwanted pregnancies, abortions and related health complications.<br />

Another form sexual abuse involves pressuring child prostitutes into practicing anal and oral sex,<br />

widely viewed as alien and unconventional in the cultural context of the study community.<br />

Generally, the child prostitutes are shocked and outraged at the thought of attempting such acts.<br />

But often they face the risk of physical abuse as a result of reluctance or refusal to follow these<br />

procedures. Besides, unconventional sex can have serious health implications for the children.<br />

This is because, according to the child informants, such sex is usually practiced without condom.<br />

6.1.3 Sexual abuse of male children<br />

Although not very common, the rape of male children is another form of child sexual abuse<br />

prevalent in the research community. As a result of being raped, the victims have to endure painful<br />

emotional and psychological consequences. Of course, the degree of the trauma, the coping<br />

mechanisms used, and the pace and extent of recovery may vary from one victim to another.<br />

The emotional and psychological impacts range from anger and resentment to hate, depression,<br />

anxiety, sense of insecurity, hopelessness and the drive for revenge. These negative emotions<br />

weigh heavily on the children so that they find it difficult to concentrate and remain stable. Also it<br />

becomes a challenge for them to mix with their peer group. In extreme cases, their problems may<br />

deteriorate into mental health cases that require professional therapy. Mequanent Temesgen, age<br />

12, described his situation as follows:<br />

My peers gossip about me around school and in the neighbourhood. They tell each other<br />

that I was raped. Some even shout insults making mention of my experience openly. I get<br />

annoyed and upset at such gossip and name-calling. This morning I was similarly harassed<br />

and verbally abused by my school mates. So I stayed away from class in the afternoon.<br />

A review of the responses by male children who were raped underscore that the social stigma<br />

attached to this form of sexual abuse has far-reaching consequences. In the local cultural context,<br />

the social stigma against raped boys is much more severe than against girls. As a result, victims<br />

are discouraged from disclosing what happened to the most intimate of family members. Given<br />

this, the emotional recovery of some raped boys may be attributed to their belief that no one<br />

knows about their rape. Sani Kemal, age 16, observes that he has not disclosed his case to anyone,<br />

which is helping him to cope successfully:<br />

I know children in my community who are said to have been raped by the same man who<br />

abused me. These children are constantly teased and harassed by their peers. The children<br />

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are irritated, embarrassed and troubled by such mistreatment. It also makes it difficult for<br />

them to forget about the rape. I do not experience these problems since my friends do not<br />

know that I am a victim as well.<br />

6.1.4 Sexual exploitation of child girls by brothel owners<br />

The study area is notorious for the commonness of brothels. These brothels are operated mostly by<br />

ladies who were themselves sex workers. The brothel owners hire child prostitutes to work at their<br />

place on conditions. Most of the child prostitutes who work under these ladies are young girls who<br />

migrated or were trafficked from the rural areas. Although some of the children approach the<br />

ladies on their own, a large number of them are, however, delivered to the brothel owners by<br />

brokers. As for children who come from the Addis Ketema community, the main reason why they<br />

join brothels on the terms of the ladies is the desire to operate in secret from relatives. The lady<br />

bosses are commonly referred to as balluka. The term signifies their ownership of the business. It<br />

also denotes their position as the sharers of the income of the sex workers.<br />

Usually, the children operate under the brothel bosses on the basis of two working arrangements.<br />

In the first case, the ladies allow the children to occupy a small room at the brothel for which they<br />

pay an agreed amount per day. The payment ranges from Birr 30 to Birr 50 daily. Location of the<br />

brothel, its condition, and the attitudes of individual brothel owners are the main factors that<br />

determine the rent. A child prostitute who operates on these terms has to pay the rent daily<br />

whether she has got an income or not.<br />

The second type of working arrangement is yekul (equal share of income). In this arrangement, the<br />

child prostitute is required to share with her boss half of the income that she gets from every client<br />

she sleeps with in a day. Children forced into this arrangement are mostly the ones who cannot<br />

afford to have their own beds and household utensils. The bosses make available these things for<br />

the children as part of the deal. The children may agree to operate for 12 or 24 hours. The bosses<br />

make sure that the children sleep with as many customers as possible to maximize the size of their<br />

income. To achieve this, the ladies impose restrictions on the children’s social contact, sleep and<br />

leisure time. Jemanesh Tamene, age 17, describes how exploitative yekul arrangement is:<br />

I operate day and night at a brothel. My sleeping time is when I share bed with a customer.<br />

I keep waiting for a customer at the door of the brothel whenever I am not with a man. I am<br />

not allowed to have a break and join my friends at coffee party. Nor does the lady permit<br />

me to sleep when I get too tired for lack of rest. She controls my work and income by<br />

counting the clients who sleep with me. She peeps through a hole in the shared wall to find<br />

out whether I am alone or with a man. She also counts the used condoms to calculate the<br />

amount of money I have earned.<br />

Brothel owners (balluka) were interviewed to capture their opinions on the subject of child sexual<br />

exploitation. They did not describe their business as exploitative. Still, they acknowledged that<br />

that they benefited from the child girls involved in prostitution. A brothel owner, who hires two<br />

child sex workers, remarked:<br />

I see to it that the child girls I hire are smart and attractive. I prefer to rent my rooms to sex<br />

workers since it brings me more income. If I rented them to other people, I would earn no<br />

more than Birr 600 monthly. But I get twice as much per room from the sex workers. So<br />

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the child prostitutes are a source of income for us. For this reason, we refer to them as<br />

minibus taxies 19 .<br />

6.2 Coping with day-to-day life situations<br />

The category of currently exploited children includes young prostitutes operating in different<br />

situations and coming from diverse backgrounds. Some are literate with limited exposure to<br />

formal schooling. Others are migrants from the rural background, often with little schooling. The<br />

way they practice prostitution also differs from child to child. Many operate on the street where<br />

they wait and get the customers. Others are based at brothels where they share the money they<br />

earn with the room owners. Depending on the working arrangement, the child prostitute may<br />

operate for twenty-four or twelve hours each day. There are a few involved in bed renting during<br />

the day, and sex work during the night. Some street girls go out for sex whenever they find a man<br />

who pays for their meals and a place to spend the night. Although not too many, there are young<br />

prostitutes who are also child mothers. Most of the child prostitutes are alcohol and substance<br />

users - addicts to one or another type of substance. Still, there are very few who say that they are<br />

not involved in any form of substance/drug abuse. In spite of this, the vast majority of the child<br />

prostitutes practice a daily routine of life which has a regular pattern. The following two cases<br />

illustrate a typical day in the life of child prostitutes.<br />

Case one (Tiblet Dagne)<br />

Past midnight (at about 1:00 am), when the police chased us away from the street, I<br />

returned to my place to sleep. This morning, I watched a collection of video film clips. The<br />

previous day, I helped my mother with housework until 4:00 pm. Then I went to watch<br />

film at the cinema. About 8:00 pm, I was out on the street to do business. As I was<br />

standing and waiting around, a young man approached me. He asked me if I would sleep<br />

with him. I agreed and he invited me to dinner. He also offered me drinks. But I refused. I<br />

saw the boy was too drunk. When he insisted, I pretended to drink. But actually, I was<br />

emptying the glass on the floor. As we were in bed, I stole the money he had, and got out<br />

of the room leaving him asleep. Three days ago, I woke up late in the morning. In the<br />

afternoon, I went to the video house and stayed there until 8:00 pm. Afterwards, I slept<br />

with a man overnight and earned Birr 80. I have a friend nicknamed Mitta. She had no luck<br />

that night in dong business. So the next morning, I ate breakfast with her.<br />

Case two (Tihun Getachew)<br />

Yesterday I did not do business. It was the same the previous night. Three days ago I had<br />

some luck. I slept with two men at different times and got Birr 30 each time. But I am<br />

bored today as I was yesterday. I had to ask people for money to go to video house<br />

yesterday. Before that, I had been to the hairdresser’s. A certain boy paid for my lunch.<br />

The same boy offered me khat which I agreed to chew to relieve myself of boredom.<br />

Today I had decided to sleep in all the time since I am without money. I only left bed when<br />

they woke me up for this interview.<br />

Children practicing prostitution employ various strategies to cope with problems that they face in<br />

the course of their life. The children select and adopt coping mechanisms that they feel are bestsuited<br />

to the particular kinds of problems that they experience. The actions meant to deal with<br />

challenges may be taken by individual children or in groups.<br />

19 The analogy is that sex workers generate income for their bosses like the taxies do for their owners on daily basis.<br />

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6.2.1 Resource sharing and mutual assistance<br />

Mutual assistance and resource sharing is one of the coping strategies that currently sexually<br />

exploited children adopt to manage economic hardships. It seems that the adversities that are<br />

common to the exploited children forges in them a group identity and sense of solidarity. A<br />

manifestation of this is the tendency among the children to extend mutual support, share resources<br />

and come to one another’s rescue.<br />

By its very nature, commercial sex does not guarantee the child prostitutes a source of income that<br />

they can rely upon or even predict. Hence, certain days of the week may only be better than others<br />

in terms of the number of customers who pay for sex. Even then, it is not that the child prostitutes<br />

keep the earnings entirely for themselves. Many have to share it with exploitative room owners. A<br />

large number of others must meet the costs incurred by different habits and needs on a daily basis.<br />

In these situations, it is not uncommon for the children to be penniless. However, it is in the nature<br />

of the business that some earn well on certain days of the week during which others may earn<br />

little. Those who have managed to earn well support their friends who have not been so lucky.<br />

Thus, they share meals with them, spend time together at coffee parties or khat chewing<br />

ceremonies, or join in other activities. Besides, as a common practice, the child prostitutes swap<br />

clothes and lend money to each other as a means to deal with the shortage of clothing and finance.<br />

In connection with this, Tihun Getachew says:<br />

Things are too difficult for me when I run short of money. It is only me who knows how I<br />

made it yesterday. I become so worried and disturbed when I have no cash to spend. I get<br />

confused and do not know what to do. These days, there is not much business and we earn<br />

little. I do not know why this happens. Business goes up and down. It becomes too hard to<br />

manage if I go without work for two days. I pay Birr 15 daily to rent a bed. I cannot afford<br />

to cover the cost on my own each day. So I have to live in a room with another girl who<br />

shares the rent with me. Hence, on the days when I have not earned any money and my<br />

friend has, she pays the rent. Other times when I have got income, I take my turn to settle<br />

the bed rent.<br />

Zuriash Fasika, another teenage girl currently in a state of sexual exploitation, adds:<br />

Normally, we support each other. Whether we operate in rented rooms or on the streets, we<br />

do not make difference between ourselves. Those of us who live and work in rented rooms<br />

help children who do sex work on the streets by giving them clothes to wear or money to<br />

spend to the extent we can. Our habit is such that whatever money some of us earn on a<br />

given day, we spend it in groups with others on meals, khat, and drinks. We do so in the<br />

hope that God will take care of our needs the next day. As usual, we prepare ourselves to<br />

go out and try our luck on the street when evening comes. Of course, not every one of us<br />

may be lucky enough to make it. Still, if one fails another of us succeeds. The practice of<br />

mutual assistance and resource sharing binds us together as a group.<br />

In other cases, forms of mutual assistance or cooperation involve defending a friend who has come<br />

under attack by an abusive customer, or fighting back in her support. In regards to this, a child<br />

prostitute named Roman Tesfahun, age 19, remarked:<br />

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When I face men who insist on having sex with me for free and by force, I resist their<br />

advance. When they do not relent, I shout for help. My friends who hear me shouting<br />

gather from wherever they are around the corner. Then they join me as I try to defend<br />

myself and force him out of my place. If he is too strong for us to overpower, a friend will<br />

report the case to the police patrolling the area so that they come and deal with him.<br />

6.2.2 Maintaining relationships with ‘boyfriends’ or ‘husbands’<br />

As stated earlier, child prostitutes are faced with the threats of sexual and physical violence posed<br />

by gangsters and bullyboys. In order to cope with these problems, they identify themselves with a<br />

certain boy or man as a ‘friend’ or ‘husband’. Such relationship, as they say, spares them the<br />

experience of physical abuse in the hands of gangsters and difficult customers. It is common for<br />

such boys to say that this or that child prostitute belongs to such and such boy or man. Knowing<br />

this, the gangsters are deterred from harassing a child prostitute identified with or belonging to<br />

somebody of their ranks as his ‘girlfriend’ or ‘wife’. The child prostitute who enjoys such<br />

protection reciprocates in the form of free sex, gifts of money or supply of food, drinks, cigarettes<br />

and khat to the boy or man playing the role of ‘husband/protector’. In this respect, Jember Feleke,<br />

who is currently sexually exploited, explains:<br />

I have a boyfriend. His presence protects me against harassment and attack. The boys and<br />

young men in the neighbourhood involved in harassing and attacking girls respect one<br />

another’s interests and do not engage in provocative acts. They leave me alone by saying<br />

“this is the wife of (Mr. X)”. So they show me respect for his sake. They want to avoid a<br />

fight with him that may possibly result if they harass or attack me. Still, when he is not<br />

around, a friend of his can harass and give me a lot of trouble.<br />

On the same note, Emebet Zeleke goes on to say:<br />

I am in a relationship with a certain young man who resides in this neighbourhood. I<br />

started and continue to maintain the relationship so that he protects me against gangsters<br />

and trouble making customers. In return for such service, I give him part of the income that<br />

I have earned by selling my body. He spends the money he receives on drinks and khat. I<br />

cannot refuse giving him money which he demands as a matter of right. In case I<br />

sometimes do not do so, he challenges me by saying “where is the cash from the work you<br />

have done?” When he feels that I have not given him enough money, he complains of<br />

being cheated and may even beat me up. Still, I cannot manage without him since he<br />

comes to my rescue when bullyboys or difficult customers give me a hard time. Since he<br />

lives nearby, I send for him when I need his help. He shows up at once. He kicks around<br />

the trouble makers and drags them out of my place.<br />

6.2.3 The avoidance of risk situations<br />

From experience, child prostitutes are generally aware of what kinds of situations can pose risks as<br />

they practice commercial sex. Hence, they are careful to choose surroundings, customers or means<br />

of travel that they assume are less likely to cause them harm. Accordingly, the children are<br />

cautious about going out for business at distant places or in unfamiliar rented rooms. Similarly,<br />

they tend to avoid a ride accompanying customers in their car. The following cases told by child<br />

prostitutes underscore that risk avoidance is another coping mechanism that they use to deal with<br />

potentially dangerous situations.<br />

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Case one (Tihun Getachew)<br />

I have heard stories about children being driven by customers far away to be raped and<br />

abandoned in the forest. Even more horrifying are the ones I heard about, the so-called the<br />

hyena-men. The [hyena-]men are alleged to eat up or leave the girls that they have taken in<br />

their car stricken with shock and fear. It is said that after such an ordeal the children suffer<br />

the consequence for years. As a result, I never take a ride with customers in their car. Even<br />

in the neighbourhood where I live, I go with the man as long as he walks with me only to a<br />

familiar place.<br />

Case two (Senait Damte)<br />

As street prostitutes, we identify people who practice sex styles and habits alien to our<br />

culture. So when a fellow child sees a man whom she knows to have this tendency or habit<br />

approaching or conversing with me, she signals to me to watch out. At this, I tell the man<br />

that I am waiting for another customer, just to avoid him safely. After his departure, I ask<br />

my friend why she suggested that I avoid him. Then her likely reply is that the man is the<br />

one who asked to do anal sex on her on a previous occasion.<br />

6.2.4 Refusing sex without condom<br />

Child prostitutes report that they have to cope with the demand and use of force by customers to<br />

have sex without condom. Indeed, they indicate that this is one of the common forms of sexual<br />

abuse meted out to them on a routine basis, as stated earlier in this chapter. The children use<br />

different means to protect themselves against such abuse and the risks involved. The mechanisms<br />

employed include persuading the man to wear condom, carrying their own condom, and declining<br />

to sleep except on the condition of safe sex. To make sure that customers are wearing condom,<br />

some of the children said that they insist on watching them doing so. To prevent the risk of the<br />

condom being removed by accident or on purpose, a child prostitute said that she insists on<br />

making sure that her man wears a layer of two condoms. In situations where these mechanisms do<br />

not work, the children reported that they take additional and serious measures. Among these are<br />

dashing out of the room, returning the money paid in advance, and shouting for help. In regard to<br />

this, Getenesh Hailu said:<br />

When a man refuses to use condom, I try to persuade him otherwise. I tell him that it is in<br />

the interest of both of us. But if he continues to resist and resorts to force, I dash out of the<br />

room not even taking time to put on my clothes. At any cost, I avoid sex without condom.<br />

Some men offer more money to make the child prostitutes accept their demand to have sex<br />

without condom. In my case, I never give attention to such enticements or coercion. I shout<br />

to get help or report the matter to the police.<br />

6.2.5 Stealing from customers<br />

Cheating and robbery are said to be among the crimes committed by customers against sex<br />

workers. Child prostitutes retaliated through acts of stealing, but not necessarily from the same<br />

offenders. Driven perhaps by their perception that most men are similarly abusive/exploitative,<br />

besides the motive to use every opportunity to maximize their income, they cheat or steal from all<br />

unsuspecting customers. Most of the children who were interviewed reported that stealing from<br />

customers is a common practice. The following quote from a fourteen-year-old, Tiblet Dagne,<br />

represents a scenario of how the children steal from their customers:<br />

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After making a deal with a man to sleep with him overnight, I receive the payment in<br />

advance. I make sure that we go to a sleeping place where I know the women in charge of<br />

arranging and renting the rooms. Usually, we work hand-in-hand with such women and<br />

street boys that roam around. Supposedly to fetch water for use in the room, I get out<br />

pretending to talk to the woman. Knowing what I am up to, the women lets me disappear<br />

from the place. I waste no time to escape by running as fast as I can. In case, the man<br />

suspects or finds out and runs after me, the street boys who understand the matter from my<br />

rush stop him. They ask him what has gone wrong, pretending to help and calm him down.<br />

Actually, they do that to allow me time to get away so that the man will not be able to<br />

catch up with me. Of course, I will afterward have to share part of the stolen money with<br />

the street boys and the woman responsible for the room.<br />

6.3 Coping with problems related to work and life<br />

Children involved in commercial sex try to manage the problems they face in their daily life in<br />

different ways. Twelve of the twenty-one currently sexually exploited children stated that they<br />

engage in various habits that they believe will make them forget their problems. The common<br />

habits that the children practice when faced with difficulties are chewing khat, drinking alcohol,<br />

breathing in ganja, and smoking tobacco and shisha. When confronted with a serious challenge,<br />

Haimanot Mebratu said that she would cope with it in this way: “I resort to breathing in ganja to<br />

help me forget all about the problem. When I chew khat after puffing on ganja, I am relieved of<br />

my concerns and anxieties”. Zuriash Fasika added: “Chewing khat makes us feel stronger to<br />

withstand sexually vigorous and aggressive men who have themselves chewed khat. Without<br />

chewing khat, it is difficult to cope with men who can inflict pain and harm because of being<br />

sexually too energetic. But when we have chewed khat and feel stronger as a result, we withstand<br />

the impact and cope with the harm inflicted”.<br />

Ten of the twenty-one children mentioned going to church and praying to God as one of the<br />

mechanisms they use to deal with life’s problems. They may employ this mechanism in addition<br />

to other coping methods, or as a sole means of coping with difficulties. Bezawit Ketema relates:<br />

When I am upset, I weep bitterly and implore my God to come to my rescue. I can discuss<br />

the problem with my friends, but most of the time they will only gossip around and spread<br />

my secret to others rather than helping me to solve it. Hence, what is helpful is only to cry<br />

to the Lord. He can free me from this situation at some unexpected day. I never get<br />

involved in the smoking habit. I hate smoking completely. When I encounter a problem, I<br />

only resort to drinking alcohol to help me forget about it.<br />

However, although the children may have faith in God, not all of them still consider themselves<br />

worthy enough to attend church. Feelings of guilt resulting from their practicing prostitution cause<br />

them to perceive themselves as being too unclean to be true believers. Jemanesh Tamene stated:<br />

I consult a close friend about problems other than financial difficulties. But never have I<br />

been to church since I started commercial sex. I hope to resume attending church once I am<br />

out of this kind of life. I do not even stop to look and salute when I walk past the church.<br />

This is because as long as I remain in prostitution, I continue to engage in sinful practices<br />

and lead an immoral life. While I was living with my parents as a small child, I liked to go<br />

to church regularly, though, at present I have completely given up doing so. For example, I<br />

do not fast although this is a major fasting season. I cannot imagine doing it living the kind<br />

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of life in which I sell my body for money. Still, I continue to petition God in my heart and<br />

refrain from visiting the church.<br />

Discussing personal problems with friends is another coping mechanism, as reported by five of the<br />

twenty-one children currently in the state of sexual exploitation. Menbere Demere said: “When<br />

something troubles or outrages me, I prefer to talk it over with my friends. This helps to calm me<br />

down or lay my worries to rest. However, if my anger or anxiety persists, then I resort to drinking.<br />

Afterwards, I forget about it completely.” As indicated earlier, some child prostitutes cope with<br />

problems by crying, using this as one of their mechanisms to manage situations that upset, worry<br />

or enrage them. Stated as further coping mechanisms by certain children are sleeping, singing or<br />

listening to music when faced with troubling thoughts or circumstances.<br />

6.4 Relationships with the family<br />

Children involved in commercial sex by and large continue to practice it without the knowledge<br />

or approval of their families, particularly parents and siblings. For this reason, they make sure<br />

that they operate at a place where they can remain anonymous, and practice out of the sight and<br />

notice of relatives and acquaintances. Hence, in the case for example of children whose origin is<br />

around the research area, they make it a point to do their business in a neighbourhood or part of<br />

the Addis Ketema community away from their place of birth and upbringing. The stigma<br />

associated with the cultural taboo against prostitution is the factor that forces the children to<br />

operate hidden from their families.<br />

Therefore, it is common for the children to lie to their families about their job. Those who<br />

maintain contact with their parents tell them that they are working as waitresses or cashiers in the<br />

service industry such as restaurants, cafes, and hotels. As for the children from the rural areas,<br />

they claim to do domestic work in private homes, or cleaning and washing at places like hotels.<br />

In spite of hiding the truth about their means of livelihood, however, many of the children,<br />

particularly the natives of Addis Ababa, maintain relationships with their families. Depending on<br />

individual children, the degree of their ties with their families may be close or loose. The<br />

relationships may take the forms of paying visits from time to time, especially on holidays or<br />

other occasions marking different family events, making phone calls, and supporting parents and<br />

siblings with material and financial gifts. Based on the stories told by some of the children, it is<br />

possible to observe that there are many who maintain even stronger family ties. For instance,<br />

three of the children interviewed, all practicing prostitution currently, stated that they support<br />

their families as often as they can. They said that they contribute money to supplement the<br />

family budget, or assist their siblings in their education by covering school expenses, as well as<br />

by buying them school uniforms, educational materials and cloths.<br />

Nonetheless, not all of the children have similarly positive or strong relationships with their<br />

families. Some mainly from the rural communities said that they had lost all contact with their<br />

families. As a result, parents and relatives back in the home villages have no idea of their<br />

whereabouts. In the case of children who have lost family contact, the reasons may be family<br />

break-up because of the death of parents, or parental disapproval of engagement in sex work.<br />

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6.5 Efforts made to recover<br />

In view of sexual abuse and exploitation that they suffer, it is no wonder that the vast majority of<br />

child sex workers show an interest to get out of prostitution. Thus, a number of them make an<br />

effort to that end.<br />

Some may show an interest to get out of prostitution, but may not do enough in practice. The<br />

reasons vary according to their individual circumstances. Some expressed that stopping sex work<br />

as a means of income is difficult as child mothers. They assume that, with a baby to take care of,<br />

an alternative source of livelihood is difficult to find. A couple of the children interviewed said<br />

that they did not succeed in their effort to find domestic work because householders are reluctant<br />

to hire children who have babies to care for. In this regard, Jemanesh Tamene said:<br />

So far I have not made any serious effort to stop prostitution. But I am intending to do so<br />

in the future. At the moment, there is no one who will hire me with a child under my care.<br />

The instant they see that I have a baby, they will say: ‘Is she going to do our work or care<br />

for her baby? I am thinking of transferring my baby to the care of my parents after<br />

sometime, and consider trying other activities even peddling.<br />

What prevents others from putting forth the effort to make successful recovery, despite their<br />

interest, is the concern that they cannot manage to get money to finance their various habits such<br />

drinking, smoking, and khat chewing. In the case of Tihun Getachew for instance, her effort to<br />

make recovery was thwarted by her addiction to alcohol and substance. Tihun said:<br />

I have tried to get out of commercial sex. As an alternative means of survival, I started<br />

work as domestic, but I could not manage to continue. The main problem was that I was<br />

addicted to alcohol, khat, and smoking. It was difficult for me to practice these habits<br />

working in a private home. So I had to quit the job days after I started it.<br />

Other children pointed out that the difficulty of making sufficient savings that enables a successful<br />

recovery process was a constraint that stood on their way. They were concerned that lack of<br />

necessities would mean either a return to prostitution or starving to death. Many of them may try<br />

to deposit from their earnings with the intention of saving up enough money to shift to other types<br />

of business. But income from commercial sex is not reliable. They may not do work and thus not<br />

earn money for several days. During this time, they are forced to survive on their savings meant to<br />

help them pull out of sexual exploitation. Others expressed that the difficulty of not getting a<br />

guarantor made it impossible to find other jobs such as domestic work. Hence, they could not take<br />

a courageous step to escape from their situation.<br />

Still, there are some children who are determined not to give up on their efforts, despite<br />

discouraging factors and the patience needed to achieve the desired outcomes. As regards her<br />

experience, Emawayish Zena says:<br />

I am fed up with commercial sex. That is why I have obtained a passport in order to<br />

migrate to an Arab country for work. I processed it as an option to try work opportunities<br />

abroad, if it is not possible to find job here because of not having a guarantor. I was<br />

encouraged by a woman who works as an employment agent. As long as I could afford the<br />

costs for passport, visa and HIV test, she promised that my employment would be<br />

facilitated. However, after I met these requirements, I was asked to pay Birr 2,000 to go to<br />

Qatar, and Birr 6,000 to fly to Dubai. But I cannot afford the travel cost to either<br />

destination.<br />

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6.6 Intra-category similarities and differences<br />

An attempt was made to examine similarities and differences in the range of experience and<br />

patterns of response to situations among children who are currently sexually exploited. From a<br />

close scrutiny of the research data, it was not easy to establish clear differences across the three<br />

age groups (10-13, 14-17, and 18-24). The commonalities across these age groups are so dominant<br />

that they overshadow any shades of differences that may exist. Hence, re-categorizing the children<br />

as junior (10-17) and senior (18-24) was deemed a more practical approach to discern and<br />

recognize the existing similarities and differences.<br />

Accordingly, a number of salient intra-category similarities were identified and captured that cut<br />

across the mentioned two broad age groups. To begin with, a regular pattern is observed in the<br />

daily routines of both the junior and senior child prostitutes. An overwhelming majority of the<br />

children in the two age groups spend a large portion of the day sleeping, after working overnight.<br />

In the afternoons, they mostly spend their time by socializing at coffee parties, chewing khat,<br />

watching video or playing and chatting in groups. By evening they start preparing for the night’s<br />

routine of sex work. Another outstanding and cross-cutting intra-category commonality is that the<br />

parents have no or little knowledge about what the children are doing to eke out their living.<br />

Especially are they ignorant about the children practicing prostitution. Nor are the children willing<br />

to let their parents and relatives know of their involvement in commercial sex. The range of<br />

experience of junior and senior children is also similar in respect to the kinds of physical and<br />

sexual abuse that they are victims of as prostitutes, as discussed earlier in this chapter. Moreover,<br />

the two groups of children in this category adopt closely resembling strategies and mechanisms to<br />

cope with the threats and acts of abuse coming from different abusers and exploiters.<br />

In regard to intra-category differences, the variations observed seem to be tendencies rather than<br />

patterns of behaviour or characteristics that define the respective age groups. In the case of the<br />

junior children, particularly those whose origin is in Addis Ababa, entry into commercial sex tends<br />

to be direct and automatic. This is to say that they jump into the practice without first trying other<br />

activities as a means of livelihood. Senior children, especially of rural background, however, got<br />

involved in small jobs such as domestic work and cleaning and washing in the hotels, before they<br />

shifted to commercial sex. Another mentionable difference is that some child prostitutes in the<br />

junior age group generally appear not to exhibit a keen desire to quit. The 13-year-old Menbere<br />

Demere stated,<br />

I have never tried to pull myself out of this work. I have not experienced a way of life<br />

better than this one. So, I am carrying on with this practice. I am getting the money I need<br />

for my survival from this practice. Hence, I have not thought of trying other jobs such as<br />

serving as a waitress. May be, I will embark on some kind of business provided someone<br />

offers me the capital.<br />

Similar sentiments are echoed by the remarks made by seven other junior child prostitutes<br />

(Birkenesh Aschalew (13), Tihut Temegen (13), Zuriash Fasika (15), Tihun Getachew (16),<br />

Jemanesh Tamene (17), Jembere Feleke (17), Haimanot Mebratu (17). By contrast, senior child<br />

prostitutes exhibit the desire and exert the effort to get out as soon as possible. To that end, they<br />

make savings from their income to shift to an alternative means of livelihood or get the money to<br />

cover their travel cost so as to go and work in Arab countries. Twenty-year old Samrawit Abeje<br />

explains her plan to stop commercial sex in this way:<br />

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Side by side with sex work, I wash laundry for customers. Since the fasting season began, I<br />

have not practiced any of my addictive habits. I was sprinkled with holy water at the<br />

church and made an oath to abstain from such acts and non-fasting food during this period.<br />

The elderly woman who is renting me a room advises me to give up prostitution and try<br />

other business instead. I am intending to take up work as domestic servant in the Sudan.<br />

But I need Birr 2,000 to 3,000 to process my employment.<br />

It is worth noting that, because of their tender age, the junior children look more attractive to sex<br />

customers, as compared with their seniors. Such self-perception gives them the confidence that<br />

they are needed for their comparative physical appeal. Sixteen-year-old Tihun Getachew had this<br />

to say:<br />

My customers are mostly elderly men. They are interested in me because I am a teenager.<br />

Most of the prostitutes in the area where I work are senior to me by age. As a result, men<br />

generally prefer me to them for sex. I am operating in Piazza area. It requires wearing high<br />

quality clothes and make-ups to practice commercial sex in this part of town. But this does<br />

not concern or worry me much. Most men simply take me out seeing that I am much<br />

younger.<br />

As for the senior prostitutes, competition is high among them as they try to outshine one another<br />

in the quality of their dress and make-ups. Notable points of contrast are also apparent between the<br />

junior and senior child prostitutes in regards to future ambitions. In the case of the former, it is<br />

evident that they are inclined to plan for resuming school and realizing a professional dream<br />

commonly shared by their age mates, such as becoming a nurse or a physician. As for the latter,<br />

pursuing education is not on their priority list, probably because of considering themselves as<br />

being too late for it, or unable to succeed after many years of quitting school. Instead, they seem to<br />

think that it is easier for them to perform better and improve their life in small business activities<br />

or vocational skill training and practice like hairdressing, tailoring, and cookery.<br />

7. Cross-category Similarities and Differences<br />

An analysis of cross-cutting features among the three categories of children and young people<br />

reveals the following similarities and differences in their experience.<br />

7.1 Vulnerable versus currently abused/exploited children<br />

It is noteworthy that children who are at risk and those currently abused/exploited can be found in<br />

all three age groups established for the purpose of the research. There is, however, a point of<br />

difference between the two categories in relation to connection with the family. As for vulnerable<br />

children, they generally live with their parents/guardians and therefore get family attention and<br />

follow-up. As a result, they have the benefit of attending school in most cases. It is the opposite<br />

with children currently abused/exploited. By and large, they start practicing commercial sex after<br />

they leave home. Therefore, their families may not have knowledge of their whereabouts or what<br />

they are doing, let alone follow-up on them and make sure that they are secure. In a state of sexual<br />

abuse and exploitation, it is generally unlikely, if not impossible, for such children, to attend<br />

school and make progress.<br />

On the other hand, those currently abused/exploited develop and employ various mechanisms to<br />

cope with problems. This characteristic is apparently a product of their exposure to or experience<br />

of adversities that require the adoption of strategies to manage and survive through sex work and<br />

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the difficulties surrounding it. The use of alcohol and substance abuse as a coping mechanism<br />

distinguishes the currently abused/exploited from the vulnerable, since these habits are closely<br />

linked with their way of life and sub-culture as prostitutes. Vulnerable children also need to cope<br />

with problems that they face. But their coping behavior largely does not involve addictive habits,<br />

and is limited to consulting friends/family members/relatives, turning to the church/God, engaging<br />

in more than one type of activity to support oneself, and inquiring to understand more about things<br />

that they are not knowledgeable about.<br />

The two categories of children also differ in regards to their future ambitions and aspirations. As<br />

far as the vulnerable are concerned, their plans and wishes center around successful completion of<br />

school, and achieving a professional career of some type usually emulating individuals that they<br />

consider as role models. In the case of the currently abused/exploited, particularly the senior<br />

children, their ambitions and goals focus on extracting themselves from the state of abuse and<br />

exploitation, and improving their life in a certain kind of business engagement.<br />

7.2 Vulnerable versus recovered children<br />

A large number of the vulnerable school children engage in small jobs such as bed renting and<br />

street vending/peddling during out-of-school hours and the weekends to support parents and<br />

themselves. These children said that they did not see becoming involved in prostitution as personal<br />

threat or concern. Indeed, some of them totally ruled out such a possibility or outcome. They<br />

explained that routinely observing the bitter experiences that other child prostitutes have to endure<br />

in their neighborhood, it is unthinkable for them to get into a similar situation. It seems that the<br />

same risk environment in which they live and which exposes them to sexual exploitation has<br />

taught them a lesson to protect themselves against becoming the victims of this eventuality. The<br />

following case narrated by the 17-year-old Gezashgn Zeru, vulnerable young girl doing bed<br />

renting, is particularly telling and representative of the views shared by her fellow children.<br />

I am not tempted to become a prostitute, although I daily practice the work of bed renting,<br />

which is exposing by its nature. There is a lot for me to learn from the experiences of<br />

children who operate as prostitutes in the area. It is easy to weigh the advantages and<br />

disadvantages from my observations and the conversations of the prostitutes themselves.<br />

Their common subjects of talk are the abuses perpetrated on them by the men with whom<br />

they sleep. Most of them have unpleasant stories to tell, some of which involve horrifying<br />

incidents such as being attacked for refusing unsafe or abnormal sex. Another common<br />

experience that I observe is that many of the young girls go out for sex work in the evening<br />

well-dressed and looking good, only to return the next morning with bruised faces as a<br />

result of beatings by their customers. There are times when I get into a dilemma and<br />

hesitate to give up the work of bed renting and start prostitution. This happens when I<br />

become frustrated by problems related to the bed renting business. Yet the hardships faced<br />

by child sex workers and my observations of their bitter situation come to my mind. Then I<br />

stop thinking in that direction. I tell myself that, however desperate I may be, I will go for<br />

domestic work rather than becoming a prostitute.<br />

Similarly, most of the recovered children are positive that they will not relapse into the kind of life<br />

situation of which they have bad memories. Surviving on institutional support, assistance of<br />

husbands or boyfriends, or activities such as bed renting and street vending, the children still seem<br />

exposed to the risk. Yet, having firsthand experience of the adversities associated with sexual<br />

exploitation, they appear determined not to return to the practice once again. The position that<br />

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these children generally maintain is that their decision is based not simply on observations, but on<br />

personal experience. Hence, they said that they would never imagine themselves practicing<br />

commercial sex, after extracting themselves from that state. But they added that access to support<br />

to enable them engage in some form income generating activity would facilitate and strengthen the<br />

process of their recovery.<br />

Many vulnerable children live with their parents/guardians and enjoy the advantage of receiving<br />

family attention and support. Having left home and spent a time in prostitution, the recovered<br />

children have detached themselves from their families and maintained loose ties with parents and<br />

relatives. There is also a line of contrast between the two categories in regards to age. Children<br />

regarded as vulnerable exist in all three age groups ranging from 10 to 24. As for recovered<br />

children, they are mostly found in the senior age group because the moment of recovery likely<br />

comes after a child has spent some years practicing prostitution.<br />

7.3 Currently abused/exploited versus recovered children<br />

An important commonality that currently abused/exploited and recovered children share is that, in<br />

a large majority of cases, they have lost ties with their parents/guardians. As a result, they no<br />

longer receive or enjoy the parental guidance, affection, and follow-up that they may at one time<br />

have had. Despite having stopped practicing commercial sex, most recovered children do not<br />

reestablish their relationship with the family.<br />

It should be mentioned as a point of similarity that children in the currently abused/exploited and<br />

recovered categories share common attitudes toward sexual abuse and exploitation. This is a result<br />

of the fact that they have both been subjected to common experiences of physical and sexual abuse<br />

as sex workers. When they discuss or give accounts of their experiences, both portray their<br />

encounters in a similar language and with the same degree of emotion and sense of bitterness.<br />

Even though they are recovered, children who have extracted themselves from sexual exploitation<br />

live with disturbing memories of different forms of abuse that others continue to face.<br />

In respect to age, currently abused/exploited children come from different age groups ranging<br />

from 12 to 24. However, most of the recovered children belong to the senior age group of 17 years<br />

and above. As far as future ambitions are concerned, the currently abused/exploited children<br />

focused on pulling themselves out of sexually abusive and exploitative situations. As for the<br />

recovered, they are mainly concerned with reinforcing and maintaining their present status. Their<br />

efforts focus on the avoidance of sliding back into prostitution, while working hard to improve<br />

their situation in other activities.<br />

7.4 Comparison/contrast of the three categories of children<br />

It must be mentioned as a strong similarity that the children in all three categories identified the<br />

same situations in their community as common risk factors of sexual abuse and exploitation. The<br />

common risks pointed out by one or the other of the children include common presence of sex<br />

work, wide prevalence of alcohol and substance abuse, the existence of video houses which screen<br />

plenty of pornography, and bed renting business, among many others.<br />

Despite variations in the levels of their knowledge and the means by which they obtain the<br />

information, the children in the three categories are aware of sexual abuse and exploitation. Many<br />

of the smaller children in the vulnerable category said that they did not know of anyone who had<br />

been raped, and were not themselves approached by anyone in this way. Moreover, they did not<br />

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have knowledge about the practice of sexual exploitation, and particularly of the raping of boys by<br />

men. But still these children identify, recognize and express what they consider as exposing<br />

situations. In their view, such attitudes or situations are: not rejecting sexual overtures or<br />

provocation by men, not frowning upon tendencies towards sexual abuse, flirting behavior, and<br />

missing school to visit shisha/khat houses. Other areas of resemblance relate to the future<br />

ambitions of the children. When stating what they desire to become or achieve in the future, the<br />

interest to go and work in Arab countries has been mentioned by a certain number of children in<br />

all categories (3 in the vulnerable category, 6 in the currently abused/exploited category, and 2 in<br />

the recovered category). In addition, the desire to help the vulnerable and the abused/exploited<br />

children is a future aspiration expressed by children in the three categories (6 in vulnerable, 4 in<br />

currently abused/exploited, and 3 in recovered).<br />

Worth noting as a difference between the currently abused/exploited children on the one hand, and<br />

the vulnerable and recovered on the other is that the former adopt as a group a regular pattern or<br />

style of living on day-to-day basis. It is in the nature of the practice of prostitution that the children<br />

generally stay awake and are active during much of the night and take rest during the day. Their<br />

daily routine of life is, therefore, shaped by the way of doing things that they follow by night and<br />

by day. Thus, they spend the night getting themselves ready for business and practicing sex work.<br />

Most of the time, they sleep in during the day. In the afternoons they spend time in groups<br />

chewing khat, drinking coffee, and watching films at the video house, among other activities. As<br />

for vulnerable and recovered children, their daily routines vary according to the nature of the<br />

activities that they engage in during the day, which range from attending school to carrying out<br />

different kinds of jobs. Hence, children in these two categories do not practice a consistent pattern<br />

of living that defines them as a group. Instead, they follow daily routines required by the particular<br />

kinds of activities that they pursue.<br />

Deserving mention as distinctive of the currently abused/exploited children is their group<br />

characteristics of mutual assistance and resource sharing. Such cooperation may be attributed to<br />

the threats and adversities that they face in common in the form of physical, verbal and sexual<br />

abuse and exploitation. They are usually targeted for abuse by their customers, bullyboys in the<br />

neighborhood, boyfriends/husbands, room renting ladies, and allegedly even the police. In<br />

addition, they have to cope with negative social attitudes and the resulting stigma and contempt<br />

toward prostitution. In general, the problems they face are compounded by a variety of factors,<br />

which necessitate them to develop multi-faceted coping mechanisms to manage and respond to<br />

difficulties. In the case of the vulnerable and recovered children, exposure to abusive and<br />

exploitative situations of the same degree of intensity or magnitude is not evident. This may<br />

explain why a similar degree of group solidarity and support system is not in evidence. The coping<br />

mechanisms that they employ to deal with difficulties are limited and not so elaborate.<br />

In regards to awareness about sexual abuse and exploitation, cross-category differences are<br />

observed in the way the knowledge is obtained. In the case of the vulnerable children, they learn<br />

about these problems through their observations of what happens in their immediate environment.<br />

In addition, the media, TV and radio in particular, are other sources of the same information.<br />

Vulnerable children attending school have an opportunity to get informed about such issues by<br />

way of different school clubs. On the other hand, currently abused/exploited and recovered<br />

children are not only more knowledgeable and conversant about sexual abuse and exploitation, but<br />

their source of knowledge and understanding is a lived experience.<br />

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Figure 3. Links between risks/vulnerabilities, protection, and resilience<br />

Risk and<br />

Vulnerability<br />

Factors<br />

8. Conclusions<br />

Non-Abuse/Exploitation<br />

Presence of<br />

protective<br />

factors lead<br />

to<br />

Abuse/Exploitation<br />

Resilience in<br />

Children<br />

Recovery<br />

No Recovery<br />

The Merkato area in Addis Ababa has a host of risk factors that expose children and young people<br />

to sexual abuse and sexual exploitation. Some of the risks include crime and delinquency, the<br />

prevalence of commercial sex work, the screening of pornographic and other violent films, street<br />

business, peer influence, congested pattern of residence, and widespread drug/substance abuse. As<br />

a result, many children have become victims of sexual abuse/exploitation. Certain children and<br />

young people are more susceptible to these risks because of circumstances such as extreme<br />

poverty, parental death, family disorganization, neglect, migration, trafficking, and streetism.<br />

Despite the presence of the risk and vulnerability factors, many children and young people in<br />

Merkato remained resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation due to the presence of various protective<br />

factors. These include personal qualities of individual children plus the role of the family, peers,<br />

school clubs, NGOs, religious institutions, and private citizens.<br />

Regarding personal qualities, many children and young people developed critical consciousness to<br />

understand threats around them and devised appropriate strategies to overcome those threats.<br />

Many children developed the ability to operate in teams, a strategy devised partly to protect each<br />

other against sex offenders. A good number of them also possessed the ability to act independently<br />

and make their environment as safe and productive as possible. They kept themselves busy with<br />

different activities (e.g., education, work, and creative venture), and these strategies helped them<br />

not only build their futures but also keep distance from dangerous situations. These remarkable<br />

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personal qualities affirm the view that children are active players who have their own ideas/views<br />

and who make choices or take actions independently.<br />

A loving and caring family environment represented another protective factor in that it served as a<br />

safeguard against any desire to seek affection, material support, security, and guidance from<br />

outside, which might have exposed children to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. Many children<br />

and young people stressed family love, inspiration, and sacrifice as crucial factors that reduced<br />

their exposure to risks. Outside the family context, positive peer influence served as a protective<br />

factor. Peer pressure motivated children for success, encouraged them to exhibit appropriate social<br />

behavior, and kept them away from risky situations. Some high-risk children also demonstrated<br />

competence in locating and accessing protective resources (given in the form of ideas, motivation,<br />

funds, materials, and/or skills training) at the disposal of such institutions as schools, NGOs,<br />

religious organizations, and the private sector. From this it is evident that resilience is a product of<br />

actor competencies as well as relations and interactions of different factors and environments.<br />

Some children and young people managed to avoid dangerous situations, while others could not<br />

withstand the pressure/temptation that subjected them to abuse/exploitation. While some managed<br />

to disengage themselves from risky sex work, others continued to practice it. Many sex workers<br />

wanted to quit because of the social stigma, health risks, and abuses by customers. However, the<br />

actual recovery is reported to be rather difficult without adequate preparation and/or external<br />

assistance to ensure a dependable source of income. Most sex workers explained that their income<br />

from sex work was so insufficient and highly variable that they could not save money for<br />

investment beyond meeting survival needs. Despite such challenges, however, there were still<br />

some who managed to set aside money to embark on activities intended to contribute to their<br />

recovery. Some recovered former prostitutes decided to quit as soon as they discovered alternative<br />

means such as jobs, training opportunities, and shelter. It can be argued that most prostitutes in the<br />

study area would quit sex work if they were provided with support schemes that addressed their<br />

short-term and long-term life concerns.<br />

Most sex workers and those who recovered from the business reported that poverty and family<br />

disharmony forced them to leave their homes and become prostitutes. Others left home for reasons<br />

such as parental death and the cumulative effect of poverty. The majority of girls did not leave<br />

their homes with the intention of becoming prostitutes. Out of desperation and frustration, they<br />

were rather swayed into sex work largely by peers who were working as prostitutes. After entry,<br />

some exhibited features of resilience by pulling themselves out of the exploitative situations.<br />

Recovery from sex work for some was represented by reunion with families and reintegration into<br />

society. Efforts made to assist the recovery of former prostitutes significantly elevated their selfesteem<br />

and reassured them about their social relevance.<br />

It is important to note that most recovered former commercial sex workers received help from<br />

their friends rather than from families or NGOs. Despite the absence of meaningful external<br />

support, the recovery experiences were largely smooth. Exposure to risks of sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation could be reduced through economic assistance to vulnerable individuals and<br />

families.<br />

The study revealed that unattended children, namely, migrants, trafficked children, orphans, those<br />

in child-headed households, and those living on the street are highly exposed to sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation. Risks might be addressed with more active monitoring to identify the most<br />

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vulnerable children among this already vulnerable group, and report cases of sexual<br />

abuse/exploitation earlier. It is also important to provide these unattended children with the<br />

assistance they need such as educational opportunities, skills training, income generating<br />

activities, and problem solving skills.<br />

Most informants (children and adults) indicated that some families and most neighborhoods failed<br />

to act as protective agencies. Some families turned deaf ears and blind eyes to risks of sexual<br />

exploitation; neighborhoods are less vigilant and little concerned about sex offences; the feeling of<br />

shame discourages victims and their families to report such offenses; and, in many cases, victims<br />

of sexual assault are blamed and ashamed. Their protective role might be enhanced through<br />

awareness raising work, enhancement of the capacities/mandates of neighborhood organizations<br />

(e.g., idir), etc.<br />

For the majority of the children and young women in sex work, recovery was rather difficult for<br />

various reasons. However, this does not mean that they all are passive victims or powerless losers.<br />

The study revealed that many have adopted coping strategies that range from legally and morally<br />

unacceptable activities (e.g., stealing and drug use) to socially and economically appropriate<br />

behaviours (e.g., sharing resources and saving money).<br />

Quitting sex work seemed to be the dream of every prostitute included in the study. Most<br />

commercial sex workers and those who recovered from the exploitative situations underlined the<br />

presence of the strong desire among many prostitutes to disengage themselves from sex work,<br />

which is surrounded by stigma, health risks, and different forms of sexual abuses and exploitation.<br />

Many are reported to be practicing prostitution for lack of dependable alternative means of making<br />

a living. When the alternatives existed, some took the opportunity to recover.<br />

Children, parents, community leaders, and NGO representatives expressed their dissatisfaction<br />

with the legal system in preventing sexual assault and bringing the perpetrators to justice. Most<br />

felt that the system is ineffective in taking measures against organized gangsters, drug/substance<br />

abusers, pornographic film distributors/screeners, child traffickers, and sexual predators. There<br />

seems to be a need to make kebele administrations and law-enforcement agencies (e.g., the police<br />

and the court) key players or primary partners in the effort to strengthen child protection.<br />

The crowded neighborhoods of Merkato are filled with numerous children, many of whom were<br />

born out of wedlock and being raised by single mothers. Mothers working as prostitutes are<br />

reported to be practicing sex wok in the presence of their children. Access to good family planning<br />

services might be useful in reducing the numbers of unwanted pregnancies.<br />

The study revealed that most young women who recovered from sexual abuse/exploitation<br />

continued to live in risky situations. Many were not reintegrated with families. Most village girls<br />

were ashamed to return home after recovery because they have lost contact with their families and<br />

lacked the economic resources and skills to start new lives in their respective villages. Given their<br />

present economic and social circumstances, one cannot rule out possibilities of relapse.<br />

The study showed that children in peer groups influenced each other's attitudes, interests, and<br />

actions positively or negatively. Some became victims of sexual abuse/exploitation because of<br />

their association with bad friends while others were prevented or rescued from such adversities by<br />

good peers.<br />

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Religious institutions have leverage on their followers. The major religious institutions in Merkato<br />

have educational programs that involve moral instruction. A significant number of non-abused<br />

children reported that their involvement in religious programs contributed to their resilience to<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />

Some schools (not most) have girls’ clubs and anti-HIV/AIDS clubs. A good number of<br />

informants reported to have learnt how to protect themselves against sexual offenders after joining<br />

these clubs. Besides sexual abuse/exploitation, the club members discuss such issues as sexuality,<br />

early marriage, forced marriage, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.<br />

The study revealed that individuals and businesses could make significant contributions to child<br />

protection efforts. A case in point is Ms Zemi Yenus, the owner of NIANA Business, who<br />

provided skills training in hair dressing to more than 2000 sex workers. Merkato is a center of<br />

business in Addis Ababa, and the business community in the area might be mobilized to play their<br />

part in supporting vulnerable children and facilitating the recovery efforts of commercial sex<br />

workers.<br />

Child protection initiatives and programs in Merkato could focus on prevention strategies<br />

designed to reduce the risks and vulnerabilities; measures to address the concerns of children in<br />

distress; and a learning process to gain knowledge not only from the experiences of resilient<br />

children but also the commendable works of individuals, families, communities, and<br />

organizations. It needs to be stressed that schools, NGOs, CBOs, religious institutions, and the<br />

private sector have the potential to make significant contributions to child protection, alongside<br />

the involvement of such key players as kebele administrations and law-enforcement agencies.<br />

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Annex 1. Interview Guides<br />

I. Interview guides for different categories of children<br />

Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />

1.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />

1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />

about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />

work, etc.)<br />

2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were?<br />

6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses, chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

7. Does/did anyone hurt/bother you at the moment or recently? (Probe: after confirming<br />

sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it started (forced, enticed) and continued)<br />

8. If sexual abuse/exploitation was involved, do/did your parents and neighbors know about<br />

it? If yes, how did they know, what was their reaction, and how did it affect your relation<br />

with them? If no, why did you keep it secret?<br />

9. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />

relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />

me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />

10. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />

turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />

Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />

1.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />

1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />

about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />

work, etc.)<br />

2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, socialization, educational<br />

attendance/attainment, family relationship, religious affiliation, ethnic background,<br />

economic status of family, previous/current residence, migration experience, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

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4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were?<br />

6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

7. Did anyone make a sexual advance to you? Did you ever experience sexual intercourse?<br />

(Probe: after confirming sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it stated and continued)<br />

8. If sexual abuse/exploitation was involved, do/did your parents and neighbors know about<br />

it? If yes, how did they know, what was their reaction, and how did it affect your relation<br />

with them? If no, why did you keep it secret?<br />

9. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />

relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />

me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />

10. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />

turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />

Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />

1.3 Questions for children aged 18-21<br />

1. Tell me about yourself from birth to present (place and date of birth, socialization,<br />

educational attendance/attainment, family relationship, religious affiliation, ethnic<br />

background, economic status of family, previous/current residence, migration experience,<br />

etc.).<br />

2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. What kinds of things are most challenging for you growing up here or where you were?<br />

5. What did/do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses drug, chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

6. Did you ever experience sexual abuse/exploitation? If yes, tell me where, when, and how it<br />

happened and continued? (Probe if forced by people/situations, enticed, etc.)<br />

7. Did/do your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If<br />

yes, how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, why?<br />

8. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />

relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />

me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />

9. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />

turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />

10. Do you know anyone who has recovered from abusive/exploitative situation? If yes, could<br />

you tell me details about the person(s): who, how, when, where?<br />

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11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />

Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />

2.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />

1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />

about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />

work, etc.)<br />

2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were?<br />

6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

7. Did anyone hurt/bother you in the past? (Probe: after confirming sexual abuse and/or<br />

exploitation, ask how it started and continued)<br />

8. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />

how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />

9. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />

decision, turning points, incidence of relapse, support received from others, etc.) (Probe:<br />

ask whether the child sought help, when, how or agencies reached out to child)<br />

10. Did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all. (Probe: ask if<br />

challenges are economic, social, and/or psychological; ask if the child was back or worried<br />

of getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation and why; etc.).<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />

Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />

2.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />

1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

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4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were?<br />

5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

6. Did anyone make a sexual advance to you? Did you ever experience sexual intercourse?<br />

(Probe: after confirming sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it started and continued)<br />

7. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />

how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />

8. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />

decision, earlier plan, persuaded by someone, turning points, steps taken from the decision<br />

day, incidence of relapse, other details about recovery, current income level, current<br />

relationships with family, etc.)<br />

9. Do/did you receive any form of support from people/agencies to recover? If yes, give<br />

details about the support. Ask whether the child sought help or an agency reached out to<br />

the child, when, and how.<br />

10. Do/did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all and the<br />

kind of support you need. (Probe: ask for the nature of challenge; if the child was back or<br />

worries about getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation; etc.).<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />

Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />

2.3 Questions for children aged 18-24<br />

1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were?<br />

5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

6. Did you ever experience sexual abuse/exploitation? If yes, tell me where, when, and how it<br />

happened and continued? (Probe if forced by people/situations, enticed, etc.)<br />

7. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />

how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />

8. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />

decision, earlier plan, persuaded by someone, turning points, steps taken from the decision<br />

day, incidence of relapse, other details about recovery, current income level, current<br />

relationships with family, etc.)<br />

9. Do/did you receive any form of support from people/agencies to recover? If yes, give<br />

details about the support. Ask whether the child sought help or an agency reached out to<br />

the child, when, and how.<br />

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10. Do/did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all and the<br />

kind of support you need. (Probe: ask for the nature of challenge; if the child was back or<br />

worries about getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation; etc.).<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />

the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />

business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />

recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />

Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />

3.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />

1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />

about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />

work, etc.)<br />

2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />

6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

7. Are there people in the neighborhood who make inappropriate advances to children like<br />

you? If yes, do you know children who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />

happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />

where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />

8. What exposes young children to people who make inappropriate advances? (Probe: ask for<br />

what the child considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them.)<br />

9. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />

you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />

source of your confidence?<br />

10. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />

family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />

11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued,<br />

such as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort<br />

made so far; etc.).<br />

Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />

3.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />

1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

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2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />

5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

6. Are there people in the neighborhood who try to sexually abuse/exploit children/youth like<br />

you? If yes, do you know children/youth who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />

happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />

where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />

7. What do you think exposes young children/youth to sexual abusers/ exploiters? (Probe: ask<br />

for what the informant considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them)<br />

8. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />

you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />

source of your confidence?<br />

9. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />

family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />

10. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />

you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued,<br />

such as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort<br />

made so far; etc.).<br />

11. Did you receive any support to pursue your dream? (Probe: ask if one obtained/obtains<br />

idea, material, financial, technical, etc. help from family, relatives, and other sources).<br />

Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />

3.3 Questions for children aged 18-24<br />

1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />

previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />

2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />

how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />

3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />

relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />

4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />

were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />

5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />

handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />

6. Are there people in the neighborhood who try to sexually abuse/exploit children/youth like<br />

you? If yes, do you know children/youth who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />

happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />

where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />

7. What do you think exposes young children/youth to sexual abusers/ exploiters? (Probe: ask<br />

for what the informant considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them)<br />

8. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />

you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />

source of your confidence?<br />

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9. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />

family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />

10. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do plan to achieve it? When did you<br />

form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such<br />

as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort made so<br />

far; etc.).<br />

11. Did you receive any support to pursue your dream? (Probe: ask if one obtained/obtains<br />

idea, material, financial, technical, etc. help from family, relatives, and other sources).<br />

II. Interview Guides for Parents of Three Categories of Children<br />

A. For Parents of Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />

1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />

abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />

poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.) If<br />

no, what makes this neighborhood safer/better than others? If there are worse places,<br />

specify the location(s) and explain what makes them worse.<br />

2. Has your child(ren) ever been abused/exploited? If yes, when/how, how did you learn<br />

about it, how did you react to it, and how did it affect your relation with your child?<br />

3. What could have been done to avoid it? Whose fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the<br />

abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any other agency was held responsible)<br />

4. What is the current situation of your child? If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are<br />

you trying) to get her/him out? If yes, what did you do and what happened? If no, why not?<br />

If recently abused/exploited, how did he/she get out of it? Does she/he face risks of<br />

relapse?<br />

5. All children are not victims of child sexual abuse/exploitation. Some remain resilient,<br />

while others try to recover from such ordeals. What explains the behavior of resilient (nonabused)<br />

children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from abuse and<br />

exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />

B. For Parents of Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />

1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />

abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />

poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.) If<br />

no, what makes this neighborhood safer/better than others? If there are worse places,<br />

specify the location(s) and explain what makes them worse.<br />

2. Did anyone abuse/exploit your child? If yes, when/how did it happen, how/when did you<br />

learn, how did you react to it, and how did it affect your relation with your child?<br />

3. What could have been done to avoid it? Whose fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the<br />

abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any other agency was held responsible)<br />

4. How did your child recover from the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: ask if the child<br />

helped herself/himself, helped by parents/relatives, helped by agencies, etc.).<br />

5. All children are not victims of child sexual abuse/exploitation. Some remain resilient,<br />

while others try to recover from such ordeals. What explains the behavior of resilient (nonabused)<br />

children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from abuse and<br />

exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />

C. For Parents of Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />

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1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />

abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />

poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.)<br />

2. Do you know any abused/exploited child(ren) in your neighborhood? If yes, when/how did<br />

it happen, how did you learn about it, and how did you react to it?<br />

3. What could have been done to avoid what happened to the neighbors child(ren)? Whose<br />

fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any<br />

other agency was held responsible)<br />

4. How did your child avoid risks of sexual abuse/exploitation? (Probe: ask if it has to do<br />

with child's personality, family help, culture, religion, school, help by agency, etc).<br />

5. All children are not resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation. What explains the behavior of<br />

resilient (non-abused) children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from<br />

abuse and exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />

III. Interview Guides for NGO Representatives<br />

1. What is the particular area of concern that your project strives to address in relation to<br />

child issues?<br />

2. How serious a problem are child sexual abuse and sexual exploitation in the area of your<br />

project intervention?<br />

3. What forms do child sexual abuse and sexual exploitation take in your project community?<br />

(Probe for: the forms of the practice for female and male children and older girls and<br />

boys)<br />

4. What are the factors that expose children and young people to sexual abuse and sexual<br />

exploitation in the area where you operate? (Probe for: external circumstances such as<br />

family problems, environmental situations or internal factors existing within individual<br />

children) What are the factors that expose particularly male children and young boys to<br />

sexual abuse?<br />

5. Which of these factors are more or less likely to expose children in your project localities<br />

to the problems of child sexual abuse and child sexual exploitation and why?<br />

6. Have you observed children who manage to avoid becoming forced or lured into sexual<br />

abuse and sexual exploitation, regardless of living in the risk situations? What type of<br />

children are the ones that manage to do so? What factors or qualities (in the children, in the<br />

family, neighborhood, school, or the wider community) help to protect these children?<br />

7. What type of children are those that are particularly vulnerable to becoming the objects of<br />

sexual abuse and sexual exploitation? Why do such children succumb to these adversities,<br />

whereas others of like age, and family and environmental background happen to avoid<br />

them?<br />

8. Have you made observations of children who have succeeded in extracting themselves<br />

from sexually abusive and sexually exploitative situations, once they have experienced<br />

living under these circumstances? What do you think lies behind the success of these<br />

children in pulling themselves out of these situations?<br />

9. Have you witnessed cases in which children slip back into the life sexual abuse and sexual<br />

exploitation, once they have successfully lifted themselves out of the situation? How<br />

common is such experience and why does it happen at all?<br />

10. Based on your observations and lessons from project implementation, what types of<br />

support do children require to stay out of sexually abusive and sexual exploitative<br />

situations, succeed in pulling themselves out in case they find themselves forced or enticed<br />

into the problems, and avoid the possibility of relapse after getting out?<br />

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Annex 2. Thematic areas for data organization and transcription<br />

Vulnerable, Non-abused/exploited<br />

1. Daily routine<br />

2. Family and personal background<br />

3. Nature of family relationship<br />

4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />

5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />

6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />

7. Knowledge about sexual abuse/exploitation/any children who may have been victims<br />

8. Protection of self against sexual abuse/exploitation (including personal experience and<br />

assistance obtained)<br />

9. Worry of becoming abused/exploited<br />

10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />

Currently/recently abused/exploited<br />

1. Daily routine<br />

2. Family and personal background<br />

3. Nature of family relationship<br />

4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />

5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />

6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />

7. Experience of abuse/exploitation or worry that it may be repeated<br />

8. Knowledge of parents/neighbors about the situation<br />

9. Intention or attempt to get out of the situation and support obtained<br />

10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />

Recovered/recovering<br />

1. Daily routine<br />

2. Family and personal background<br />

3. Nature of family relationship<br />

4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />

5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />

6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />

7. Experience of abuse/exploitation or worry that it may be repeated<br />

8. Knowledge of parents/neighbors about the situation<br />

9 Process of recover<br />

� Pre-recovery challenges/opportunities<br />

� Moment of recovery<br />

� Post-recovery challenges/opportunities<br />

� Support obtained<br />

10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />

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