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Resilience in Children Exposed to<br />
Sexual Abuse and Sexual Exploitation in Merkato,<br />
Addis Ababa, <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />
A Research <strong>Report</strong> Submitted to<br />
The <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong><br />
by<br />
Gebre Yntiso, PhD, Ayalew Gebre, PhD, Rahel Shiferaw, Hiwot Workineh<br />
Addis Ababa<br />
30 December 2009<br />
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The Bamboo project is a multi-country, multi-phase research project, commissioned and supported<br />
by <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong>, to stimulate new thinking and new approaches in the field of work with<br />
children who are at risk of or have experienced sexual abuse and/or exploitation. It is hoped that it<br />
will generate innovative practice and policy that responds not only to the needs of the children but<br />
builds on their own experience and on the knowledge and experience of their families and<br />
communities.<br />
This report details the process and initial findings from the first phase of the research,<br />
conducted from February to September 2009 in Addis Abeba, <strong>Ethiopia</strong>. The report is being made<br />
available on <strong>Oak</strong>'s website, to share the initial findings and to stimulate discussion between<br />
researchers and practitioners. Using the material generated by this research, additional<br />
complementary reports will be developed, including a summary of the findings and reflections on<br />
practice and policy implications. As research is conducted in new sites, there will be reports<br />
comparing the respective findings.<br />
The views expressed in this report are those of the authors and not necessarily those of <strong>Oak</strong><br />
<strong>Foundation</strong> or the members of the International Steering Committee who offer strategic guidance<br />
to the overall project.<br />
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Acknowledgements<br />
A number of organizations and individuals deserve recognition for their contributions to the<br />
present study. First and foremost, acknowledgements are due to the 68 children and young people<br />
who shared their personal life experiences, sometimes very sensitive and private matters. All other<br />
informants (parents, community representatives, and NGO representatives) also deserve<br />
appreciation and thanks for providing valuable information. CHAD-ET played a critical role in<br />
introducing the research team to the network of NGOs operating in Merkato area, and to its own<br />
project beneficiaries. Although the research was eventually carried out in three kebeles (grassroots<br />
level administrative tiers), all others that we contacted initially provided the support that we<br />
needed. Our special thanks are due to CHAD-ET and the kebele administrations for facilitating<br />
entry into the communities. Our field assistants, Zemedkun Ayele and Hailu Lema, were highly<br />
motivated, concerned and resourceful young men. The research team is indebted to Fasil Wolde-<br />
Mariam (<strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> Representative in East Africa) for being supportive and enabling the<br />
researchers to use his long-established networks with local organizations to facilitate the study.<br />
Last but not least, the research team would like to express its indebtedness to members of the<br />
International Steering Committee (namely, Prof. Robert Gilligan, Dr. Elisabeth Protacio-De<br />
Castro, Stefan Vanistendael, and Shirley Fozzard) and Jane Warburton of the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> for<br />
their professional input and advice from the inception to the completion of the resilience research<br />
project in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>.<br />
Preface<br />
This report is a result of field research carried out in Merkato area, which is located in the heart of<br />
Addis Ababa, the capital of <strong>Ethiopia</strong>. The study was undertaken in accordance with an agreement<br />
concluded between the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> and Dr. Gebre Yntiso Deko, representing a team of four<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n researchers. The context for the research exercise was the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong>'s<br />
international learning initiative to understand resilience in children exposed to sexual abuse and<br />
sexual exploitation. The foundation intends to develop a learning initiative to determine what<br />
could be learnt from the experiences of children, families, communities, as well as program<br />
practice regarding the prevention of and recovery from child sexual abuse and exploitation. With<br />
this in mind, the present study was set to (1) explore the common risk factors that expose children<br />
to sexual abuse and sexual exploitation, and the vulnerability factors that increase their<br />
susceptibility to these ordeals; (2) investigate the protective factors and individual competencies<br />
that enable children not only to overcome risks of sexual abuse and exploitation but also undergo<br />
processes of successful transformation in their lives; and (3) shed light on the relevance of the<br />
insights on child resilience to policy and program practice aimed at prevention of and recovery<br />
from child sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
A total of 68 children and young people between 10 and 24, and 30 adults representing parents,<br />
communities, and NGOs participated in the study. The interview method was employed as the<br />
main data collection tool. The 68 children and young people were divided into three major<br />
categories: vulnerable but non-abused/exploited, currently/recently abused/exploited, and<br />
recovered from exploitative situations. In recognition of age-related differences in the knowledge<br />
and experiences of the 68 participants, each category was further divided into three age groups:<br />
10-13, 14-17, and 18-24. The study identified (1) various risk and vulnerability factors that<br />
subjected some children and young people to sexual abuse/exploitation, (2) protective factors that<br />
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enabled many to overcome such risks, and (3) strategies that former commercial sex workers<br />
employed to recover from exploitative situations. The report is expected to contribute to our<br />
knowledge of child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation in the context of <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, serve as a<br />
database for comparative study, and/or help as an entry point for program intervention or further<br />
research within <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and beyond.<br />
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CONTENTS<br />
Acknowledgements ........................................................................................ 2<br />
Preface ............................................................................................................ 3<br />
Acronyms ....................................................................................................... 7<br />
Executive Summary ...................................................................................... 8<br />
1. Background .............................................................................................. 11<br />
1.1 Introduction ............................................................................................................................ 11<br />
1.2 The study area ........................................................................................................................ 11<br />
1.3 Research design and methods ................................................................................................ 15<br />
1.3.1 Selection of research site ................................................................................................ 15<br />
1.3.2 Selection of informants ................................................................................................... 15<br />
1.3.3 Data collection ................................................................................................................ 16<br />
1.3.4 Data analysis and structuring .......................................................................................... 17<br />
1.3.5 Challenges encountered and measures taken .................................................................. 17<br />
1.3.6 Ethical issues ................................................................................................................... 19<br />
1.4 Literature review .................................................................................................................... 19<br />
1.4.1 Definitions ....................................................................................................................... 20<br />
1.4.2 Child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation .................................................................. 20<br />
1.4.3 Core concepts in resilience research ............................................................................... 22<br />
1.4.4 Child resilience research in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> .............................................................................. 23<br />
1.5 Policy and legal framework: <strong>Ethiopia</strong>.................................................................................... 24<br />
2. Common Risk Factors in Merkato ........................................................ 25<br />
2.1 Prevalence of commercial sex work ...................................................................................... 26<br />
2.2 Crime and delinquency .......................................................................................................... 27<br />
2.3 Substance and alcohol abuse .................................................................................................. 28<br />
2.4 Video houses .......................................................................................................................... 28<br />
2.5 Street business ........................................................................................................................ 29<br />
2.5.1 Street vending/peddling .................................................................................................. 29<br />
2.5.2 Bed renting ...................................................................................................................... 29<br />
2.6 Congestion/over-crowdedness ............................................................................................... 30<br />
2.7 Presence of bus terminal ........................................................................................................ 30<br />
3. Vulnerable Children and Young People ............................................... 31<br />
3.1 Children from poor families................................................................................................... 31<br />
3.2 Children from unstable/broken homes ................................................................................... 32<br />
3.3 Children from child-headed families ..................................................................................... 33<br />
3.4 Migrant/trafficked children .................................................................................................... 33<br />
3.5 Street children ........................................................................................................................ 34<br />
3.6 Children living in a state of loose family control .................................................................. 35<br />
4. Factors Averting Risks of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation ........................ 35<br />
4.1 Daily routines of the non-abused ........................................................................................... 36<br />
4.2 Perspectives of children and young people ............................................................................ 37<br />
4.2.1 Loving and supportive family ......................................................................................... 37<br />
4.2.2 Peer influence .................................................................................................................. 38<br />
4.2.3 Personal qualities/strategies ............................................................................................ 39<br />
4.2.4 Religious affiliation and faith ......................................................................................... 41<br />
4.2.5 External support .............................................................................................................. 41<br />
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4.2.6 Clubs at schools .............................................................................................................. 43<br />
4.2.7 General precaution .......................................................................................................... 43<br />
4.3 Perspectives of parents, community figures, and NGOs representatives .............................. 43<br />
4.3.1 Perspective of parents ..................................................................................................... 43<br />
4.3.2 Perspectives of NGOs and community representatives .................................................. 45<br />
4.4 Intra-category differences and similarities ............................................................................. 45<br />
5. Recovery from Sexual Exploitation ....................................................... 47<br />
5.1 Reflections of recovered young women ................................................................................ 47<br />
5.1.1 Motivation for recovery .................................................................................................. 47<br />
5.1.2 Strategies employed/steps taken ..................................................................................... 49<br />
5.1.3 Turning points ................................................................................................................. 50<br />
5.1.4 Support obtained ............................................................................................................. 52<br />
5.1.5 Relapse incidences and worries ...................................................................................... 53<br />
5.1.6 Daily routines of recovered young women ..................................................................... 53<br />
5.2 Perspectives of parents, community and NGO representatives ............................................. 54<br />
5.3 Intra-category similarities and differences ............................................................................. 55<br />
6. Victims of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation ................................................... 56<br />
6.1 Forms of abuse and sexual exploitation ................................................................................. 56<br />
6.1.1 Physical abuse ................................................................................................................. 56<br />
6.1.2 Sexual abuse of young girls ............................................................................................ 56<br />
6.1.3 Sexual abuse of male children ........................................................................................ 57<br />
6.1.4 Sexual exploitation of child girls by brothel owners ...................................................... 58<br />
6.2 Coping with day-to-day life situations ................................................................................... 59<br />
6.2.1 Resource sharing and mutual assistance ......................................................................... 60<br />
6.2.2 Maintaining relationships with ‘boyfriends’ or ‘husbands’ ............................................ 61<br />
6.2.3 The avoidance of risk situations ..................................................................................... 61<br />
6.2.4 Refusing sex without condom ......................................................................................... 62<br />
6.2.5 Stealing from customers ................................................................................................. 62<br />
6.3 Coping with problems related to work and life ................................................................. 63<br />
6.4 Relationships with the family ................................................................................................ 64<br />
6.5 Efforts made to recover .......................................................................................................... 65<br />
6.6 Intra-category similarities and differences ............................................................................. 66<br />
7. Cross-category Similarities and Differences ........................................ 67<br />
7.1 Vulnerable versus currently abused/exploited children ......................................................... 67<br />
7.2 Vulnerable versus recovered children .................................................................................... 68<br />
7.3 Currently abused/exploited versus recovered children .......................................................... 69<br />
7.4 Comparison/contrast of the three categories of children ....................................................... 69<br />
8. Conclusion ................................................................................................ 71<br />
8.1 Conclusion ............................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined.<br />
References .................................................................................................... 74<br />
Annex 1. Interview Guides ......................................................................... 77<br />
Annex 2. Thematic areas for data organization and transcription ........ 85<br />
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Acronyms<br />
ACPF African Child Policy Forum<br />
ANPPCAN Association for the Nationwide Action for Prevention and Protection<br />
against Child Abuse and Neglect<br />
AU (OAU) African Union (Organization of African Unity)<br />
Birr <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n currency (1 US$ = 12.7 Birr, January 2010)<br />
CHAD-ET Children Aid <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />
CBO Community-based Organization<br />
CSA Central Statistical Authority<br />
FSCE Forum for Street Children <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />
HIV/AIDS Human Immunodeficiency Virus/Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />
IFSO Integrated Family Service Organization<br />
MCDP Multi-purpose Community Development Project<br />
MoLSA Ministry of Labor and Social Affairs<br />
NGO Non-governmental Organization<br />
UNECA United Nations Economic Commission for Africa<br />
ORAAMP Office for the Revision of Addis Ababa Master Plan<br />
OPRIFS Organization for Prevention, Rehabilitation, and Integration of Female<br />
Street Children<br />
UN United Nations<br />
US United States<br />
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Executive Summary<br />
The study reveals that the Merkato area in Addis Ababa has a multitude of risks that exposed<br />
children to different adversities such as sexual abuse/exploitation. Commercial sex work, which<br />
offered easy access to generate easy money, attracted desperate and excited girls and young<br />
women. Crime and delinquency were also common in the study area. The common forms of<br />
criminal behavior included rape, gang rape and other forms of sexual violence. The violent<br />
behavior shown by criminal youngsters and children was fed and aggravated by alcohol/substance<br />
abuse, which was also common in Merkato. Under the influence of alcohol and drugs, young<br />
people and adults engaged in forms of violent sexual abuse. The presence of numerous video<br />
houses, where pornographic and action films were screened, similarly exposed children to a high<br />
risk of sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
A large number of families in Merkato area are engaged in occupations such as street vending and<br />
peddling, which are often undertaken by children and youngsters. In such situations, the children<br />
tend to encounter different sorts of people, including drunks, gangsters and strangers who use<br />
forceful and deceptive means to abuse them sexually. Children involved in bed renting were<br />
similarly at risk because they had to stay on the street to find people looking for bed. They were<br />
the targets of sexual abuse by drunks, street boys, passersby, or guests who stayed overnight.<br />
Congestion was a defining characteristic of the settlement patterns and living arrangements in the<br />
study area. Many families lived and slept packed into small, often one-room houses, and some<br />
households rented available space to strangers for overnight stays. The living arrangements put<br />
children at high risks for rape.<br />
Poverty was the dominant factor responsible for the increased susceptibility of children to sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation. The majority of sexually exploited children ended up in prostitution in a bid to<br />
extract themselves out of economic deprivation and support their families. Parents were pressured<br />
by poverty into sending their children to engage in street business to generate income. These<br />
engagements were dangerous for the children. Many homes were unable to provide children the<br />
affection, care, and security they needed for their well-being and prosperity. A hostile home<br />
climate marred by marital disharmony, alcoholism, drug addiction and physical and sexual<br />
violence made it hard for children to stay safe. Family breakup because of divorce, separation and<br />
other difficult circumstances caused the children to leave home and become vulnerable to a host of<br />
risks. The death of either or both parents is found to result in single parent or child-headed<br />
families. In order to cope with economic problems, many children took jobs that increased their<br />
vulnerability to risks. Out of desperation, some became commercial sex workers.<br />
Driven by push and pull factors, countless rural children migrated to Addis Ababa. Innumerable<br />
others were also trafficked from rural communities by bus and truck drivers, brokers, relatives,<br />
and brothel owners. Once at their destination in the urban setting, the children seldom achieved the<br />
dreams that they expected or were promised. Instead, they got involved in street life, domestic<br />
work in private homes or hired labor, which made them vulnerable to the risks of sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation. Multitudes of vulnerable and homeless children lived or worked on the street<br />
under harsh conditions. In the street environment, they were extremely vulnerable to sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation. Strangers, passersby, and sugar daddies were among the categories of people<br />
in whose hands underage or young street girls suffered rape and abuse.<br />
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Despite the prevalence of risk factors in Addis Ababa and individual vulnerabilities, many<br />
children and young people remained resilient to sexual abuse/sexual exploitation. Some even<br />
excelled in education and succeeded in their lives. The study reveals that a number of factors<br />
protected them from becoming victims of sexual abusers/exploiters. Family love, support, and<br />
guidance contributed to resilient qualities of most children. Such positive family relationships preempted<br />
any desire to search for affection and support from outside, which would have exposed<br />
them to sexual assault. Positive peer pressure motivated children to succeed and encouraged them<br />
to embrace appropriate social behavior, thereby reducing exposure to sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />
Some children demonstrated competence in locating/utilizing protective resources at the disposal<br />
of their peers and other supporters.<br />
Many children and young people demonstrated competence in their critical consciousness to<br />
understand threats around them and devise strategies to overcome those threats. Those who lived<br />
in risky neighborhoods managed to avert the dangers by, for example, refraining from walking in<br />
risky neighborhoods at certain times, not wearing provocative clothing, and avoiding<br />
entertainment places. Some children possessed problem-solving skills that involved networking or<br />
mutual cooperation against common threats. Street peddlers, bed renters, and commercial sex<br />
workers, who constituted the majority of prey to potential sex predators, cooperated to protect<br />
each other from offenders. A good number of children and young people displayed the ability to<br />
act independently and make their environments as safe and productive as possible. The common<br />
language used was 'keeping oneself busy with some work'. Many spent their leisure time reading<br />
books, studying hard for school, helping families, and engaging in creative work (e.g., writing,<br />
painting, etc.).<br />
The protective qualities and strategies of some children were enhanced by support obtained from<br />
external agencies. Some NGOs had programs to support poor families, thereby reducing the<br />
vulnerability of children; schools had girls clubs and anti-AIDS clubs to raise awareness about<br />
sexuality and protection from sex offenders; some CBOs contributed funds to support children<br />
from poor families; religious institutions had educational programs that partly focused on moral<br />
instruction; and some concerned citizens started supporting children at risk.<br />
After starting sex work, many soon realized the gap between their pre-entry expectations (material<br />
betterment and freedom) and the reality on the ground. Hence, some thought of quitting rather<br />
early, although the actual recovery demanded time. The underlying reason to quit commercial sex<br />
work was the need to disengage oneself from an activity surrounded by social stigma, health risks,<br />
and different forms of abuse/exploitation. A few former sex workers recovered without plans.<br />
However, the recovery experiences of the majority represented a well thought-out and step-by-step<br />
process. They needed their own savings, external support, or a new job to fall back on. Some had<br />
to initiate difficult negotiations with their families to be allowed to return home.<br />
Specific moments/events triggered the descent of children and young women into abusive and<br />
exploitative situations, while others facilitated recovery from such situations. Most informants<br />
indicated that disagreements/quarrels with family members forced them out of home. Others left<br />
home due to various reasons such as parental death and the culminating effect of poverty. The<br />
majority did not leave home with the intention to become prostitutes. Many were swayed into sex<br />
work out of frustration and economic desperation. It is equally important to note that certain<br />
events turned the lives of commercial sex workers around. Even those who had been planning to<br />
quit sex work mentioned that certain moments triggered fresh momentum to be more decisive than<br />
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ever before. Unexpected job offers, acceptance into a shelter for those who need support, and<br />
pleasing/disturbing medical test results caused abrupt decisions to quit.<br />
Support obtained from family members, friends, and/or NGOs played vital roles in inspiring,<br />
encouraging, facilitating, and consolidating recovery from sexual exploitation. Assistance was<br />
given in the form of ideas, funds, materials, and/or training. While the limited financial and<br />
material supports gave them short-term security, assistance in the form of sponsorship for<br />
education and skill training addressed their worries for the long-term. The attention they were<br />
given elevated their self-esteem and feelings of social relevance. Most recovered former sex<br />
workers received help from their friends rather than from families or NGOs.<br />
According to adult informants, factors that facilitate recovery from sexual abuse/exploitation may<br />
be grouped into three: the presence of motivation and determination to recover on the part of the<br />
victim; the presence of external support to facilitate the recovery; and the presence of a welcoming<br />
environment to ensure reintegration into family and society. Many informants were cautious about<br />
recovery stories because if one recovers, it does not necessarily mean that one will not relapse.<br />
Hence, most informants underlined the need for a favorable environment and external support to<br />
sustain resilience.<br />
The research explored the forms of abuse that sex workers endured. The perpetrators included<br />
customers, street gangs, and senior prostitutes. Physical abuse was reported to result from the<br />
customer's refusal to pay for sex and wear condoms, their demands for unconventional sex acts,<br />
and street gangs’ attempts to coerce child prostitutes into having sex for free or to take their<br />
money. Closely associated with the physical abuse of child prostitutes was the practice of sexual<br />
abuse such as rape and gang rape. Children practicing sex in the brothel environment experienced<br />
the worst aspects of sexual exploitation under ladies who own rooms. Besides having to pay for<br />
the rooms, the children had to share a large portion of their income with the room owners, and<br />
were forced to work for long hours.<br />
Despite being the targets of diverse forms of sexual abuse and exploitation, children involved in<br />
prostitution are not, however, passive victims of the adversities they face. As their life experience<br />
shows, they devise and adopt various coping strategies to manage difficulties. Mutual assistance<br />
and resource sharing represented the main coping mechanisms used to deal with financial<br />
problems. They also employed other coping strategies to deal with the threats and challenges<br />
posed by customers and other abusers. Chief among these are establishing relationship with young<br />
men considered as boyfriends/husbands, risk avoidance in the form of not going out with<br />
customers to unfamiliar places, and refusing sex without condom. Various addictive habits such as<br />
drinking alcohol, chewing khat, smoking tobacco and shisha, and inhaling ganja are other<br />
practices that the child prostitutes engage in as coping strategies when facing difficulties. Church<br />
attendance or fulfilling religious requirements is yet another strategy used to cope with troubles.<br />
In regard to family relationships, the findings revealed that child prostitutes in the research<br />
community, by and large, apparently operated without the knowledge or approval of their<br />
parents. The social stigma attached to commercial sex explains the decision of the children to<br />
practice prostitution in anonymity. Some maintained close family ties, while others<br />
communicated with family via different channels. Many of those who maintained some contacts<br />
with their families provided financial support to their parents and/or siblings.<br />
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1. Background<br />
1.1 Introduction<br />
Children are vulnerable to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation due to their innocence, tenderness,<br />
and powerlessness. In <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and the capital Addis Ababa, children’s exposure to such risks is<br />
exacerbated by poverty, family breakdown, peer influence, child migration and trafficking,<br />
commercial sex work, the screening of pornographic films, and drug/substance abuse, to mention<br />
some. Studies indicate that child sexual abuse/exploitation and child trafficking have been on the<br />
rise in the country (MoLSA 2002; ANPPCAN-<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Chapter 2004; Ayalew 2006; Belete, et<br />
al 2006; Ermias 2007). A significant number of migrants and trafficked children from the<br />
countryside had become commercial sex workers in Addis Ababa (Lome 2002; Fekade 2006;<br />
Asham 2007). According to the official records of FSCE, the number of children trafficked to the<br />
city increased from 213 in 2004 to 972 in 2008. Some of the findings underscored that the sexual<br />
exploitation of children was particularly evident in urban areas (MoLSA 2002; Ayalew 2006;<br />
Ermias 2007). In <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, cases of sexual abuse/exploitation are surrounded by fear, shame,<br />
secrecy, and a culture of silence and indifference. This makes recovery and reintegration of<br />
abused/exploited children and young people into family and society rather difficult.<br />
While acknowledging the existence and magnitude of the challenges as described above, the<br />
present study 1 explored whether all children exposed to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation<br />
succumbed to the likely consequences and remained passive victims. The international literature<br />
reveals that while some children exposed to adversities become helpless victims, others remain<br />
resilient to risks or demonstrate competence to recover from dangerous situations (Palma and<br />
Balanon 2007; Ungar, et al 2007; Benard 1995; Masten, et al 1990). In this regard, children in<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong> cannot be exceptions. The present study was undertaken to explore the common risks that<br />
expose children and young people to sexual abuse/exploitation as well as the vulnerability factors<br />
that increase their susceptibility to these risks. The most important focus of the study is the<br />
protective factors that enable children not only to overcome these risks but also to undergo<br />
processes of successful transformation in their lives. Addis Ababa was selected as the research site<br />
because it is a high-risk area for the occurrence of sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, and related<br />
child trafficking.<br />
As discussed in the methods section of this report, qualitative research methods, especially life<br />
history interviewing and observation were employed. The research unequivocally revealed that<br />
many children in the three kebeles of Addis Ketema Sub-City not only avoided or escaped from<br />
eminent problems, but also turned the trajectory of failure in life into a positive outcome. The rich<br />
life experiences of the children included in the study are expected to enhance our understanding of<br />
child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation. Thus far, very little was known about child resilience<br />
in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>, and this constraint may have precluded the development of intervention strategies.<br />
The present research is expected to contribute to the narrowing of the critical information gap and<br />
pave the way for learning, awareness-raising, and program intervention using the resilience<br />
framework.<br />
1.2 The study area<br />
Addis Ababa, <strong>Ethiopia</strong>’s largest metropolis, is a chartered City Administration that serves as the<br />
capital of both the Oromia Region and the nation. The site was chosen in 1886 by Empress Taytu<br />
1 The present study was carried out in three kebeles of Addis Ketema, one of the 10 Sub-Cities of Addis Ababa.<br />
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Betul and a year later, the city was founded by her husband, Emperor Menelik II (Fasil and Gérard<br />
2007). Historical events, political changes, economic development, and demographic increment<br />
have transformed Addis Ababa over the years. The changes that have occurred from 1886 to<br />
present can be summarized in four major phases: the early period of establishment and<br />
consolidation, the intermediate period of modernization, the socialist period of centralized<br />
administration, and the post-socialist period of transition to market economy (Wubshet 2002).<br />
Over the years, several master plans were developed, often with the help of foreign planners. 2<br />
Currently, Addis Ababa is divided into 10 Sub-Cities and 99 kebeles.<br />
Table 1. Population, Sub-Cities and Kebeles of Addis Ababa<br />
Sub-City Number of<br />
Population size<br />
Kebeles Male Female Total<br />
1 Arada 10 99,392 112,617 212,009<br />
2 Addis Ketema 9 124,741 130,351 255,092<br />
3 Akaki Kality 8 88,676 92,526 181,202<br />
4 Bole 11 145,057 163,657 308,714<br />
5 Gullele 10 129,239 138,142 267,381<br />
6 Kirkos 11 103,314 117,677 220,991<br />
7 Kolfe Keranio 10 207,506 221,148 428,654<br />
8 Lideta 9 96,221 105,392 201,613<br />
9 Nifas Silk Lafto 10 148,892 167,216 316,108<br />
10 Yeka 11 161,480 185,004 346,484<br />
Total 99 1,304,518 1,433,730 2,738,248<br />
Source: Central Statistical Authority, 2008.<br />
According to the 2007 national census, the total population of Addis Ababa is 2,738,248 (CSA<br />
2008:13). The total area of the city is estimated at 54,000 sq km, out of which 18,174 sq km is<br />
rural (Wubshet 2002:101; Meheret 1999:2). The city, which stretches from 1800 to 3200 meters<br />
above sea level, is located at 90° 2' N and 38° 45' E. The lowest and the highest annual average<br />
temperatures of the city are 9.89°C and 24.64°C respectively. The annual average rainfall is 1178<br />
mm (Dierig 1999). Addis Ababa is the home of various ethnic groups: 47.05 percent Amhara,<br />
19.51 percent Oromo, 16.34 percent Gurage, 6.15 percent Tigray, and the remaining represent<br />
other <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n ethnic groups and foreign nationals (CSA 2008:104-106). Regarding religion, 74.7<br />
percent of the population are Orthodox Christians, 16.2 percent Muslims, 7.8 percent Protestants,<br />
0.5 percent Catholics, 0.1 percent traditional believers, and 0.8 percent followers of other religions<br />
(CSA 2008:112). Earlier reports indicate that some 93.6 percent of the men and 79.9 percent of the<br />
women in the city are literate (CSA and ORC Macro 2005:35-36). Some 96.2 percent of the city’s<br />
households have tap water and 34.4 percent of the population own houses (Golini et al 2001).<br />
2 The first guideline sketch of Addis Ababa was made in 1936 by the French Architect Le Corbusier. In 1936, two<br />
Italians, I. Guidi and C. Valle prepared the second Master Plan. The British planner Sir Patrick Abercrombie prepared<br />
the third Master Plan, which was completed in 1956. In 1959, Bolton, Hennesy and Partners (a British Consultancy<br />
Office) reviewed Abercrombie’s plan. In 1965, a French consulting team led by L. De Marien prepared a new Master<br />
Plan. During the Socialist regime (1974-1991) a city plan was prepared by a Hungarian planner, C. K. Polony. See<br />
Fitsum (2007) and Wubshet (2002 ) for details on the Master Plans of Addis Ababa.<br />
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The city's residents are engaged in diverse activities, such as trade/commerce, manufacturing and<br />
industry, homemaking of different types, civil administration, transport and communication, social<br />
services (education, health, etc.), hotel and catering services, and farming (CSA and ORC Macro<br />
2005). The same report revealed that 68.9 percent of the men and 44.2 percent of the women are<br />
employed. UN-Habitat’s (2007:25) recent report, based on a 2002 study by the Association of<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Micro-finance Institutions, indicates that the informal sector, often located in slum parts<br />
of the city, employs about 51 percent of the economically active labor force. Addis Ababa is the<br />
official diplomatic capital of Africa with more than 90 embassies and consular representatives,<br />
which makes it the fourth diplomatic center in the world. The city has been serving as the<br />
Headquarters of the United Nations Economic Commission for Africa (UNECA) since 1958 and<br />
the Headquarters of the former Organization of African Unity (OAU), now Africa Union (AU),<br />
since 1963.<br />
Meheret Ayenew (1999:1) wrote, “Addis Ababa is a fast growing urban center that is beset with<br />
the problems afflicting most cities in the developing world, including extensive poverty,<br />
joblessness, inadequate housing, severe overcrowding/congestion and an undeveloped physical<br />
infrastructure.” According to Sandra Dierig (1999), pollution, poverty and environmentally<br />
induced hazards are among the major problems threatening the health and life of the majority of<br />
the city’s inhabitants, particularly the urban poor. The author wrote, “Especially in the last few<br />
years, urban poverty in Addis Ababa has increased tremendously… an increase from 45-63%<br />
between 1993 and 1995… Unemployment, very poor housing, sanitation and water supply, and<br />
insufficient healthcare are rampant problems…. The number of homeless is said to be 40,000"<br />
(Dierig 1999:52). The reports by Meheret (1999), Dierig (1999), Kamete et al (2001), Golini et al<br />
(2001), Wubshet (2002), and UN-Habitat (2004; 2007) reveal the presence of many other<br />
problems: an estimated 85 percent of the population is believed to live in slums; 85 percent of the<br />
housing stock is located in unplanned areas; 41 percent of the households earn less than Birr 13<br />
per day; about 35 percent live below the poverty line; 25.2 percent do not have indoor toilets; only<br />
60 percent of the demand for water has been met; unemployment rate is 30-35 percent; etc.<br />
On the positive side, currently, Addis Ababa is witnessing phenomenal public and private<br />
investments. The strategic development framework of the city provides a ten-year (2001-2010)<br />
policy and development direction. Housing, slum upgrading, development of the inner-city,<br />
construction of roads, establishment of industries and warehouses, and protection and<br />
development of the environment are the six priority strategic development goals to be achieved<br />
during the ten-year plan (ORAAMP 2002:48). The major transformations of the city are evidenced<br />
by the construction of public schools, private hospitals, road networks, hotels (notably, Sheraton<br />
Addis), new airport, several high rises in the inner-city, and the housing real estate in the outskirts<br />
(Gebre 2008). Moreover, banks, shopping centers, colleges, healthcare services, and many other<br />
private businesses are flourishing throughout the city.<br />
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Figure 1. The research site<br />
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1.3 Research design and methods<br />
1.3.1 Selection of research site<br />
Addis Ababa was selected as the research site because it represented a high-risk area for child<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation and related child trafficking. This was established through regular police<br />
reports, the prevalence of prostitution in several corners of the city (Bethlehem 2005), and the<br />
large number of children trafficked to the city from different parts of the country (Asham 2007).<br />
The Merkato area, especially the neighborhoods of the bus terminal, in Addis Ketema Sub-City<br />
was selected as the specific research site. Merkato is well known for widespread poverty,<br />
prevalent prostitution, sexual offence cases, and drug/alcohol abuse. The location of the bus<br />
station in the middle of Addis Ketema Sub-city made Merkato the destination of rural migrants<br />
and trafficked children from all directions. After contacting six of the nine kebeles in Addis<br />
Ketema Sub-City close to central Merkato and the bus station, three adjacent kebeles (namely,<br />
13/15, 10/11/12, and 06/07) were selected because of their suitability for the study. 3<br />
1.3.2 Selection of informants<br />
Two categories of informants participated in the study. The first category consisted of 68 children<br />
and young people aged 10-24. The second category comprised 30 adults: 10 parents, 10<br />
community representatives, and 10 representatives of NGOs working with children. The first<br />
category, which consists of the 68 children and young people, is further divided into three subcategories:<br />
vulnerable and non-abused (high risk children not subjected to sexual abuse and<br />
exploitation); currently/recently abused/exploited (those under abusive/exploitative situation at the<br />
time of the research); and recovered (prostitute who quit sex work). Because of their age<br />
differences, children and young people between 10 and 24 years old were expected to differ from<br />
each other in their experiences and capacities to deal with risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. This<br />
warranted the division of informants into three age groups: 10-13, 14-17, and 18-24.<br />
Table 2. Categories of informants by age group<br />
Age Vulnerable but Recently<br />
Recovered from<br />
Group Non-Abused Abused/Exploited Exploitative Situation<br />
M F T M F T M F T<br />
10-13 3 5 8 3 5 8 0 0 0<br />
14-17 3 6 9 2 8 10 0 3 3<br />
18-24 3 11 14 1 8 9 0 7 7<br />
Total 9 22 31 6 21 27 0 10 10<br />
Prior to the informant identification and the interview process, the two female researchers spent<br />
some three weeks familiarizing themselves with the research site and potential informants. The<br />
male researchers also made their presence noticed by traveling around with NGO and kebele staff.<br />
Then, potential informants considered suitable for the study were identified using four strategies.<br />
First, the major NGOs that operate in Merkato area were contacted to obtain the list of potential<br />
informants and secure entry into the neighborhoods. Three individuals working for two NGOs and<br />
some knowledgeable beneficiaries were employed as contact persons and part-time field assistants<br />
3 The Sub-Cities of Addis Ababa are divided into kebeles (lowest administrative tiers) known by numbers.<br />
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to help with the informant identification and entry. Second, six kebeles were contacted, again, to<br />
identify potential informants and help with the entry. Since the cooperation of three kebele offices<br />
was sufficient for the purpose, it was not necessary to revisit the other three units. Third, during<br />
interviews with parents and community representatives, informants were briefed about the three<br />
categories of children/young people that were being studied. Then, they were asked to name<br />
children in their neighborhood, who fit in any of the categories. Fourth, child/youth informants<br />
were also asked about their knowledge of other children in their situation (same category) or<br />
different situations (in the other two categories). The first two strategies were employed early and<br />
simultaneously, while the other two were pursued rather late, after securing entry into the<br />
neighborhoods. All potential informants identified through the four means were visited often more<br />
than once by the researchers for suitability assessment. Those determined suitable for the study<br />
were revisited for the actual interviews on dates/times of their choice.<br />
Most of the parents were chosen based on the participation of their children in the study, while few<br />
others were purposefully selected because of their prominence in their neighborhoods. The<br />
community representatives were selected based on their recognized knowledge of certain interests<br />
and/or communities that they represented. The representatives of the major NGOs operating in<br />
Merkato and those of little-known organizations were included in the research. The basis of<br />
selection was their involvement in issues related to child sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, and/or<br />
child trafficking.<br />
1.3.3 Data collection<br />
Two main data collection techniques were employed: observation and interview. The observation<br />
method was employed to understand the socio-economic conditions of families; the types of<br />
businesses in the study neighborhood; the way the children spent their time and with whom; the<br />
participation of children in religious programs; and other physical and social environments that<br />
increased vulnerability or enhanced resilience.<br />
The life history interview method was used to obtain the narrative reconstruction of the lives of the<br />
68 children and young people in some coherent order. 4 As established in Robert Atkin's work, the<br />
life history method helps to understand a child's current situations and how they may have been<br />
influenced by decisions that may have been made at another time and in another place. This<br />
approach helps to produce thorough information about the way the children view their lives, their<br />
perception of societal attitudes towards them, and the implications of these perceptions. Data were<br />
obtained by getting young people to tell their individual stories in their own words, rather than by<br />
asking them leading questions, and this was accomplished by beginning the interview process with<br />
the informant’s early childhood experiences and then proceeding to the present.<br />
The life history method is not the best strategy to solicit information from much younger children<br />
because of their age and limited experiences. Therefore, those between 10 and 13 were asked to<br />
tell about their current situations and their experiences from the recent past in free narrative style.<br />
During the early contacts, they were asked questions that might interest them most (e.g., sports,<br />
celebrities, and movies) and things they did prior to the interview. Open-ended questions expected<br />
to invite them to share uninfluenced and undirected information were presented. All efforts were<br />
made to ensure that the interviews were conducted in a relaxed and playful atmosphere. As the<br />
4 Regarding the interview of children and young people, attempts were made to ensure that the male principal<br />
investigators interviewed male informants and the female research assistants interviewed female informants.<br />
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interview proceeded, the researchers probed and systematically directed the nature of the questions<br />
so that the exercise produced the desired research results. Information from the adults (parents,<br />
community figures, and representatives of NGOs) was collected largely through in-depth<br />
interviews.<br />
1.3.4 Data analysis and structuring<br />
A number of factors have influenced the process of the data organization and analysis. Hence, the<br />
structure of the report evolved to assume its present form as the research progressed. The review<br />
of resilience literature was a crucial primary step taken to become acquainted with the current<br />
thinking on the issue. This has made it possible for the research team to communicate with a good<br />
measure of shared understanding about resilience, and it facilitated discussions with the<br />
International Steering Committee (ISC). Moreover, the literature review has played an important<br />
role in conceptualizing the problem, shaping the concept note, and later developing the research<br />
proposal in accordance with the terms of reference.<br />
To ensure in-depth understanding of resilience in children exposed to sexual abuse/exploitation,<br />
three principal categories were formed: vulnerable and non-abused, currently/recently<br />
abused/exploited, and recovered. To appreciate age-based differences and similarities in life<br />
experiences of the informants, each category was sub-divided into three age groups (10-13, 14-17,<br />
and 18-24). Subsequently, data collection instruments and specific life history interview questions<br />
were developed in a manner that suited the said categories and age groups. It should be<br />
emphasized that the standard concepts of resilience gleaned from the relevant literature had an<br />
influence on the identification of the categories and the design of the data collection instruments.<br />
However, discussions with the ISC also played a major part in the refinement of the research<br />
procedure and the design of instruments. Insofar as the research design followed these important<br />
steps, it is inevitable that the results of this exercise would ultimately surface in the process of the<br />
data analysis and organization. Nonetheless, the stories of the children narrated during fieldwork<br />
largely shaped the present structure of the report. Once the data collection was complete, members<br />
of the research team held a meeting to discuss and determine the course that the data transcription<br />
and organization should take, and whether the transcription should be done in English or Amharic.<br />
Thematic areas were identified to guide data organization and both languages were used for data<br />
transcription.<br />
Once the data were organized and transcribed along thematic areas, the principal investigators<br />
took assignments to review the data thoroughly and prepare tentative report outlines. A common<br />
report structure was developed and agreed upon after merging the outlines in a manner that<br />
avoided overlap, while ensuring that issues were not missed in the data reduction process.<br />
Feedbacks/comments from the research assistants played a part in shaping the report structure.<br />
Lastly, the principal investigators divided the chapters between themselves and embarked upon the<br />
task of data analysis and write-up before putting the parts together to make a single report. The<br />
report was written in such as way that the voices of the children are heard.<br />
1.3.5 Challenges encountered and measures taken<br />
The research team encountered a number of challenges that demanded careful attention and<br />
appropriate measures. Some informants, particularly those who had been sexually exploited,<br />
provided distorted stories. Attempts were made to convince such informants to provide genuine<br />
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information. Those who provided suspicious and contradictory information were deselected and<br />
the data discarded. Interviewing children between the ages of 10 and 13 in the category called<br />
'vulnerable and non-abused' presented a special challenge. Since culturally, sexuality is treated<br />
with secrecy and apprehension, young children felt uncomfortable with such terms as sex, sexual<br />
abuse, sexual exploitation, and sexual harassment. Hence, the researchers used indirect<br />
expressions such as inappropriate request and touch. Prior to inquiring about the personal<br />
experiences of the informants, younger children were first told the experiences of other children.<br />
The interviews were conducted in a playful fashion and friendly atmosphere in such a way that<br />
discussions moved back-and-forth between serious talks and entertaining conversations.<br />
Although different strategies were eventually devised to ensure their participation, identifying and<br />
arranging meetings with maids and sex workers on 24-hour duty presented a challenge because it<br />
was rather difficult for them to secure permission from the people they worked for. Since they<br />
engaged in sex work at night, slept in the mornings, and socialized in the afternoons, conducting<br />
interviews with the regular prostitute also demanded flexibility in interview times. Some<br />
informants came to interviews while under the influence of alcohol and drugs, and this required reinterviewing<br />
them when they were sober.<br />
Some sexually abused children suffered from gossips and humiliation by peers and other people in<br />
their neighborhoods. The gossips and name-calling increased when NGO workers and other<br />
strangers such as researchers visited such children. Hence, some abused children and their parents<br />
were uncomfortable, if not unwilling, to participate in the research. In order to address their<br />
worries, the researchers agreed to pretend that the visits were unrelated to the incidences of sexual<br />
assaults, and to conduct the interviews at places and times convenient to the children and their<br />
parents/guardians. A few informants consented to be interviewed but refused be tape-recorded or<br />
became tense by the recording process. When efforts to persuade them or calm them down failed,<br />
the researchers shifted to note-taking to capture the information provided. Many informants<br />
demanded payment for the time they spent. Hence, it was necessary to pay informants a token to<br />
compensate for their time that would have been used productively.<br />
The original plan was to interview 90 children and young people and 30 adults. According to the<br />
plan, each category would have 30 informants (21 female and 9 male), and each age-based subcategory<br />
would have seven female and three male informants. As indicated in Table 1 above, the<br />
original plan was not strictly observed because certain challenges warranted some adjustments.<br />
Regarding the category called non-abused/exploited, for example, instead of 30 children and<br />
young people, 31 were interviewed. Eight of the 31 informants came from the age group 10-13,<br />
nine informants from 14-17, and 14 from 18-24. In the lower age categories, child resilience to<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation is largely explained in terms of the ability of children to bear enticement<br />
and avoid the use of force. Since they were young and still vulnerable, one can only hope that they<br />
will remain resilient. Those in the upper age group seemed to have reached a stage where the risks<br />
were minimum or none and success was attained or within reach. Hence, more samples were taken<br />
from the upper age group to increase diversity and bring depth to the study.<br />
Concerning the complicated category called currently/recently abused/exploited, the research team<br />
encountered multiple challenges. It is complicated because, when unpacked, this category was<br />
found to consist of four sub-categories: currently abused male/female, currently exploited<br />
male/female, recently abused male/female, and recently exploited male/female. And, this is apart<br />
from the three age-based groupings that apply to all categories. One of the challenges related to<br />
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identifying currently abused male and female informants. Since the experience of abuse was<br />
surrounded by fear and shame, nobody came forward. Thus, the balance was totally biased<br />
towards currently exploited girls and young women. Moreover, finding male informants for this<br />
category was generally difficult, as male sexual abuse/exploitation is rare and underreported.<br />
The major challenge related to the third category (recovered) was identifying male informants who<br />
recovered from sexual abuse/exploitation for all three age groups. Incidences of male sexual<br />
abuse, male participation in sex work, and homosexual orientations are recent developments in<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong>. Rumors and media stories in the last few years shocked and disgusted the public,<br />
religious institutions, and authorities. The incidences seem to be very rare and the social<br />
environment discourages openness. Although the research team managed to locate a few male sex<br />
workers, they refused to have face-to-face interviews because of the shame involved and perceived<br />
harsh consequences from the public and authorities if their secrecy is unveiled. The second<br />
challenge was that the team could not identify girls for the age group 10-13. At an early age,<br />
according to informants, entry into abusive/exploitative situation is more likely to happen than<br />
recovery from it.<br />
The research team witnessed crisis that three informants (Alem Behailu, Menelik Geremew, and<br />
Dagne Aizo) encountered. They decided to secure them assistance from NGOs and succeeded<br />
partly. Two organizations offered to accept and help two of the children (Alem and Dagne).<br />
Before we had the chance to find him a sponsor, the third child (Menelik), was taken to a youth<br />
correctional facility due to a pending attempted child molestation charge against him.<br />
1.3.6 Ethical issues<br />
The present study was conducted in accordance with the code of ethics related to research with<br />
children. Generally, the ethical requirements relate to scientific validity, welfare of the<br />
participants, and respect for the dignity of participants. Accordingly, the ethical norms for this<br />
study were designed to respect human dignity, respect freedom and self-determination of the<br />
participants, obtain informed consent, inform participants about the research, and keep the<br />
confidentiality of participants. As part of keeping the confidentiality of informants, pseudonyms<br />
have been used throughout this report. The consent of parents/guardians was secured for children<br />
younger than 16. All children were informed that they could refuse to participate, or withdraw in<br />
the middle of the interview process, and that they should not volunteer out of fear or respect for<br />
adults. Since exploring children's feelings and traumatic experiences might trigger discomfort, the<br />
interviews were conducted with utmost sensitivity. Informants were given written consent<br />
documents that provided details about the research, responsibilities/duties of the researchers, the<br />
rights of informants, and the use of the research results. Interviews were conducted after ensuring<br />
that the informants understood the message and securing the signed consent letter.<br />
Parents/guardians signed the consent form for children below the age of 16. In the case of<br />
unaccompanied children, the consent of adult figures associated with or known to them was<br />
secured.<br />
1.4 Literature review<br />
The scientific study of child resilience is a field of research endeavor that spans two and half<br />
decades. The investigations undertaken during this time have increased the understanding of the<br />
subject by giving fresh insights and enlightenment on various aspects of the issue as the years<br />
have passed by. For example, the traditional approach toward child welfare used to focus on the<br />
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investigation of risk factors. As a result, the output and lessons learned from the investigative<br />
processes were intended to inform the design of interventions aimed at mitigating the impacts of<br />
the risk conditions.<br />
Nevertheless, observations indicated that not all children were susceptible to, or adversely affected<br />
by, the risks they faced. Thus, such understanding and insights redirected the focus of attention to<br />
the study of protective factors and resilience outcomes. In recent years, research activity has<br />
therefore been geared toward the development of knowledge in the area, and a shift in the<br />
approach adopted toward child-focused program design. Informed practice in devising<br />
interventions and the promotion of resilience is thought to be a more effective approach in terms<br />
of enabling children to achieve positive outcomes in their interactions with single or multiple risk<br />
factors.<br />
1.4.1 Definitions<br />
Researchers in the field have come up with a number of definitions that reflect the characteristics<br />
of resilience from different angles and perspectives. Hence, a uniform definition that all<br />
investigators accept has not been achieved. For this reason, for the purpose of the study at hand, it<br />
is deemed appropriate to provide descriptions of the different facets of the conceptualization of<br />
resilience, rather than focusing on a definition that does not after all encompass or reflect all the<br />
stated features of the concept. Accordingly, in the conduct of the research, the investigators<br />
approached the subject of child resilience from the point of view of resilience characteristics<br />
identified at the <strong>Oak</strong> <strong>Foundation</strong> sponsored consultative discussion held in 2007 5 . Therefore, the<br />
definitional characteristics which guided the direction of the research are the following:<br />
� Resilience encompasses growth as well as resistance and coping in the face of adversity.<br />
� It is a long-term process, or a life path.<br />
� It may need adversity to develop, i.e., it develops in the face of adversity.<br />
� A resilient child copes with adversity better than he or she should.<br />
� Resilience should be seen as a process in interaction with the environment, not an inherent<br />
quality in the child.<br />
� It needs more than positive qualities or resources – active use of resources is required.<br />
� It may be seen in individuals or in the group environment.<br />
� It is never absolute, but varies with circumstances and time, and from person to person.<br />
1.4.2 Child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation<br />
The vulnerability model, adopted in previous years, tended to view children as “weak, passive,<br />
helpless, dependent, and incapable of doing things” (Palma and Balanon, 2007 quoting<br />
Warburton). However, there has of late been a shift to the resilience model which considers<br />
children as “having the capacity to cope, adapt and overcome traumatic experiences” (Palma and<br />
Balanon, 2007 quoting Warburton). Further, the resilience model views children as “active agents<br />
in their own development and not as passive victims of adversity” (Palma and Balanon, 2007<br />
citing Gilligan, 2001). From this perspective, “the concept of resilience is often associated with<br />
successful adaptation, well-being, positive functioning and competence in the face of uncertainty,<br />
chronic stress, and prolonged or severe trauma” (Palma and Balanon, 2007 citing Luthar, 1993 and<br />
Egeland et al 1993).<br />
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‘Towards an Operational Definition of the Resilience Approach’. A working synthesis of an <strong>Oak</strong>-sponsored<br />
discussion held in 2007.<br />
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The discussion of the subject in the context of the resilience model, therefore, begs the question:<br />
Who then are resilient children? In the answer to this, Masten et al (1990) has identified three<br />
categories that can be described as resilient: Children who do not succumb to adversities, despite<br />
their high-risk status; children who develop coping strategies in situations of chronic stress; and<br />
children who have suffered extreme trauma or abuse and who have recovered and prospered. In<br />
order to expound on what kind of children are resilient in connection with sexual abuse and<br />
exploitation, emphasis is given to the discussion of risk and vulnerability situations 6 , protective<br />
factors 7 and recovery outcomes.<br />
In order to understand and appreciate resilience in the context of child sexual abuse and<br />
exploitation, one needs to investigate what kind of children are at risk, vulnerable, and can make<br />
use of available protective resources to avoid succumbing to threats or manage the impacts.<br />
Children who are at high risk of sexual abuse and exploitation are those who live in families,<br />
neighborhoods or community where the exposing factors to abusive and exploitative situations are<br />
common or widely prevalent. On the other hand, vulnerable children are those who find<br />
themselves in situations which increase their susceptibility to sexual abuse and exploitation, where<br />
the risks that lead to the same outcomes may or may not exist. In the face of exposing factors,<br />
some children can still manage to avoid becoming the victims of sexual abuse and exploitation. In<br />
other instances, children who may have succumbed to the adversities manifest process or<br />
outcomes of successfully coping with the impacts or making a durable recovery from adverse<br />
situations. Such children are the ones able to exploit to their advantage resilience factors located<br />
within them, their families, or the community.<br />
The assets or resources that enhance children’s capacity for resilience are described as individual<br />
factors or personality traits, cognitive factors, familial factors, and sociological factors (Morales,<br />
2007). According to the same source, qualities referred to as individual factors/personality traits<br />
are self-organization, self-esteem, personal effectiveness, internal-external control, psychological<br />
endurance, and drawing on positive emotions. Characteristics defined as cognitive factors are<br />
coping strategies adopted by resilient children to effectively manage the impacts of adversities<br />
such as seeking emotional support, disclosure to a third person (adult or sibling), and cognitive<br />
restructuring or cognitive reframing 8 , cognitive aptitude 9 , and dispositional optimism 10 . Referred<br />
to as familiar factors are emotional attachment and familial cohesion, emotional security, warm<br />
emotional climate within the family created by the quality of parent-child and conjugal<br />
relationships. Included among sociological factors are (a) membership groups such as family,<br />
neighborhood, community which provide each other mutual support and require adherence to a<br />
group’s moral rules. These elements favor or foster resilience in children and young people<br />
exposed to difficult conditions. The cultural environment and the socio-political system also<br />
6 Based on the definition of Newman (2004), risk refers to any factor or combination of factors that increases the<br />
chance of an undesirable outcome affecting a person. Vulnerability is a feature that renders a person more susceptible<br />
to a threat.<br />
7 Protective factors are the circumstances that moderate the effects of risk (Newman (2004).<br />
8 Cognitive restructuring/cognitive reframing is a strategy that leads to a change in the understanding of the traumatic<br />
event and its implications (Morales, 2007 citing Spaccarelli, 1994:41)<br />
9 Resilient children often demonstrate a greater capacity for understanding and analyzing situations and a greater<br />
capacity for attention and concentration (Morales, 2007).<br />
10 Dispositional optimism refers to a stable, generalized set of expectations of positive things that will come to us in<br />
different areas of life and at different times in our existence (Morale, 2007)<br />
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constitute membership groups that influence, through their values and attitudes, what resilience<br />
might be; (b) peer relations which take on a new significance during adolescence period can play<br />
an important role in healthy development and favor resilience to the extent that they may exert<br />
positive influence on children and young people. In fact, identification with peer group, where the<br />
identification is strong, can lead to a greater emotional support which nurtures resilience; (c)<br />
socio-demographic factors relate to the variables of age, gender and socio-economic status. The<br />
same source (Morales, 2007, citing different authorities) explains that the risks of psychological<br />
disturbance resulting from sexual abuse tend to vary in intensity and severity depending on how<br />
young the victim was at the time of the experience. Poverty aggravates the risk of suffering<br />
adverse conditions, intensifies the chances of experiencing psychological distress and denies the<br />
resources needed to cope with adversities. Indeed, (Morales, 2007, citing Dumont, Widom et el<br />
2007:15) states: “…the abused child who grows up in an economically advantaged neighborhood<br />
has more possibility of appearing resilient than a child who grows up in a disadvantaged<br />
neighborhood”; (d) spiritual and religious belief refers to active participation in the practice of a<br />
religious group or membership of a system of beliefs. Identification with a spiritual fellowship for<br />
the purpose of seeking divine backing can produce a therapeutic effect to recover from<br />
psychological stress that adults suffer as a consequence of sexual abuse during childhood.<br />
1.4.3 Core concepts in resilience research<br />
In the literature, the discussions of resilience are premised on five core concepts: risk factors,<br />
vulnerability factors, competence, protective factors, and developmental assets (Rutter 1990;<br />
Masten and Coatsworth 1998; Kaplan 1999; Scales, et al 2000; Masten 2001). The complex<br />
interplay of these factors is believed to ultimately determine children’s successful outcomes in the<br />
process of their development into adulthood.<br />
Risk factors are conditions internal or external to the child that are likely to aggravate the<br />
possibilities of undergoing sexual exploitation and abuse as the negative outcomes of poor social<br />
adjustment. Conditions identified as common risk factors include traumatic life events (such as the<br />
death of a parent), socioeconomic disadvantages, family conflict, and chronic exposure to<br />
violence, and serious parental problems such as substance abuse, criminality, or mental illness<br />
(Kaplan 1999 in Braveman 2001). A particular concern also identified as a major risk factor is<br />
having to grow up in poverty and destitution as it presents numerous and serious threats to the<br />
child’s successful development. Vulnerability factors pertain to the child’s characteristic features<br />
or environmental circumstances that tend to increase a degree of susceptibility to the effects of a<br />
given risk factor. Vulnerability factors predispose children to the impact of the risk processes, but<br />
do not by themselves result in negative outcomes, sexual exploitation and abuse in this case,<br />
where the actual risk variables are not manifest.<br />
Competence refers to children’s adaptive behavior of various kinds that enable them to withstand<br />
the knocks and blows of adverse conditions and to manage to exhibit resilience and overcome the<br />
odds (Masten and Coatsworth 1998). Competence may be manifested in broader terms or more<br />
specific areas that relate to psychological health and adaptation, or in the latter case, good<br />
performance at school, healthy social relationships, etc.<br />
Protective factors are the characteristics of the child or environmental circumstances that moderate<br />
or counteract the potentially negative outcomes (such as child sexual exploitation and abuse to be<br />
specific) of the risk variables involved (Rutter 1990). Protective factors operate in several ways,<br />
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although full agreement does not exist among researchers regarding their relationships with risk<br />
factors. Benard (1995) grouped protective factors into three categories: caring and supportive<br />
relationships, positive and high expectations, and opportunities for meaningful participation. Some<br />
view or treat protective and risk factors as two different sets of variables, while others consider<br />
them only as opposing points of a single continuum.<br />
Developmental assets are individual or environmental factors that work to heighten the possibility<br />
of attaining positive outcomes, in the face of threatening conditions for exposure to sexual<br />
exploitation and abuse. Conceptually, strong relationships exist between protective factors and<br />
developmental assets, while a wide definitional difference separates the two concepts in practical<br />
terms. Protective factors are defined and understood in relation to risk processes, insofar as they<br />
operate to mitigate the possible effect of risk situations. On the other hand, developmental assets<br />
find their expression directly in terms of their connections with desirable outcomes. Where assets<br />
exist, the likelihood to achieve positive outcomes is high.<br />
On the whole, resilience is a concept that embodies two fundamental components: exposure to<br />
risks and demonstration of competence and successful adaptation. Thus resilience represents a<br />
dynamic process rather than a fixed character trait of a child. Hence, children who seem to<br />
demonstrate resilience at one point in life may or may not do so with changing circumstances<br />
through later years. The understanding of the concept as a process, a perspective which is<br />
increasingly gaining emphasis, suggests that a child’s successful adaptation and demonstration of<br />
competence within the context of a high-risk environment is an outcome of interactive processes<br />
between resilient factors located within the child, the family, and the community.<br />
1.4.4 Child resilience research in <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />
The available information on the sexual abuse/exploitation of children in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> remains scanty<br />
and fragmentary due to the absence of a comprehensive study on the subject. The studies<br />
conducted on the issue to date provide not much more than an overview of the situation because of<br />
being limited in their coverage and placing emphasis on specific geographic locations and child<br />
groups. As indicated in the introduction, the existing evidence, no matter how small and scattered,<br />
reveals that the problem has been prevalent and on steady increase around the country (FSCE<br />
2003; 2008; ACPF 2005: MOLSA 2005). Major reported forms of child sexual abuse/exploitation<br />
in the <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n context are sexual violence including rape, sexual harassment, abduction, child<br />
trafficking, and exploitation of children by engaging them in commercial sex (MOLSA 2005).<br />
Similarly, research on child resilience to sexual abuse/exploitation is almost non-existent. The<br />
only report that could be located and consulted is the consultancy research that was commissioned<br />
by Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> and conducted on factors related to resilience of girl students in Amhara,<br />
Gambella and SNNP Regions (Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> 2008). The major objective of the study was to<br />
identify the external and individual factors that enhanced or hindered resilience among targeted<br />
girl students attending high school in the three project regions. The research was undertaken as<br />
part the initiative known as Girls’ Empowerment and Management Project (GEM), implemented<br />
by Pact <strong>Ethiopia</strong> in 15 secondary schools in the three regions, with an aim to enable 500 girl<br />
students to complete secondary education and acquire leadership and life skills. In the rural sociocultural<br />
setting where they grew up, the beneficiary girls are reported to have experienced<br />
hardships and challenges that could have resulted in their being sexually abused exploited. The<br />
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adversities that the targeted girl students are said to have endured range from early marriage and<br />
abduction to other forms of gender-based violence.<br />
1.5 Policy and legal framework: <strong>Ethiopia</strong><br />
With a view to mitigating child sexual abuse/exploitation and addressing the various exposing<br />
factors, the Government of <strong>Ethiopia</strong> has adopted a number of policy and legal instruments and<br />
ratified the relevant international laws. Of particular interest in this regard is the government’s<br />
ratification of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, UNCRC (UN 1989) and<br />
the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child, ACRWC (OAU 1990). Indeed, the<br />
norms and standards that define the domestic policy and legal frameworks geared towards fighting<br />
child sexual abuse/exploitation have their origin in these UN and AU legal instruments. Thus, not<br />
only has the convention been made an integral part of the law of land as per article 9(4) of the<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution (Negarit Gazeta 1995), but it has also been domesticated through<br />
Proclamation No. 10 of 1992. Besides, with a view to ensuring its wide dissemination, the<br />
UNCRC has been translated into 11 local languages. Likewise, the government has ratified the<br />
ACRWC through Proclamation No. 283/2002. The ILO Convention 182 for the Elimination on the<br />
Worst Forms of Child Labor is another relevant international law which <strong>Ethiopia</strong> is party to, since<br />
it has ratified the convention and made it an integral part of its domestic legal framework pursuant<br />
to article 9(4) of the constitution.<br />
The <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution addresses the rights of children in full endorsement of the UNCRC, as<br />
it stipulates under article 36. In connection with exploitative practices directed against children,<br />
sub article 1(d) states: “Every child has the right …not to be subject to exploitative practices,<br />
neither to be required nor permitted to perform work which may be hazardous or harmful to his or<br />
her education, health or well-being”. Moreover, the constitution provides for a general policy<br />
guideline by identifying the best interests of the child as a fundamental principle that governs the<br />
design and implementation of program interventions dealing with children. In this respect, sub<br />
article 2 reads: “In all actions concerning children undertaken by public and private welfare<br />
institutions, courts of law, administrative authorities or legislative bodies, the primary<br />
consideration shall be the best interest of the child”.<br />
The provisions of the constitution regarding children may have had a positive impact that is<br />
reflected in a number of government polices and national plans of actions meant to, directly or<br />
indirectly, promote and protect the rights and welfare of the child. Yet, a comprehensive policy<br />
devoted exclusively to the prevention and tackling of the sexual abuse/exploitation of children has<br />
not so far been enacted. In admission of this gap in the existing policy and legal frameworks, the<br />
National Action Plan on Sexual Abuse and Exploitation of Children (2006-2010), issued by<br />
MOLSA (2005) states: “Although there are various policies and national plans of actions that<br />
touch upon the issue in specific and limited sense, there is no single comprehensive policy dealing<br />
with the exploitation and abuse of children in <strong>Ethiopia</strong>”.<br />
However, although far from comprehensive, the Developmental and Social Welfare Policy of<br />
<strong>Ethiopia</strong> concerns itself with the protection of children in general, and those under difficult<br />
circumstances in particular. In a similar fashion, the Cultural Policy of <strong>Ethiopia</strong> addresses the<br />
issue of abolishing harmful traditional practices, which traditional customs may well be the<br />
causes, predisposing factors and manifestations of child sexual abuse/exploitation (MOLSA<br />
2005). A review of other pertinent documents such as the National Youth Policy, the National<br />
Education Policy, the Social Affairs Policy, and the Policy on Woman may in one way or the other<br />
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touch upon the sexual abuse/exploitation of children, but fail to directly or broadly address the<br />
issue. Besides, the government has at different times prepared and put into action a serious of<br />
national action plans that relate to the promotion and protection of the rights of children. Among<br />
these are the National Action Plan for Children (1996-2000) and the National Action Plan on<br />
Orphans and Vulnerable Children (2004-2006). It is, however, noteworthy that a National Acton<br />
Plan on Sexual Abuse and Exploitation of Children (2006-2010) represents a major step forward<br />
in the series, inasmuch as it makes direct mention of child sexual abuse and exploitation and<br />
addresses it as its center of focus, by setting out key prevention and rehabilitation strategies. On<br />
top of this, it identifies four areas of intervention: Prevention of sexual abuse and exploitation of<br />
children, protection of victims, rehabilitation and reintegration of child victims, and coordination<br />
and monitoring of interventions.<br />
In relation to legal frameworks, the country’s subsidiary legislations like the Revised Criminal<br />
Code of 2005 and the Revised Family Code of 2000 are significant improvements on their<br />
predecessor legislations in that they contain specific provisions that deal with aspects and elements<br />
of child sexual abuse and exploitation. As for the Revised Criminal Code, it discuses elaborately<br />
and imposes punishments on specific offenses that it identifies as: trafficking in infants and young<br />
persons for the purpose of prostitution, making a profession of or living by the prostitution or<br />
immorality of another, exposing children to indecent acts, obscene or indecent publications and<br />
advertisements, child pornography, rape where the victim is a minor, sexual outrage on minors and<br />
young persons, seduction, and early marriage. The Revised Family Code is a result of the attempt<br />
to bring this legal instrument into conformity with the constitution of 1995 and relevant<br />
international legal instruments including the UNCRC. One major area of improvement is that the<br />
Revised Family Code incorporates the principles of the best interest of the child as per article 3 (1)<br />
of the UNCRC and article 36 of the <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Constitution. Secondly, the Revised Family Code<br />
reinforces the safeguarding of the family as an appropriate setting for full and harmonious<br />
development of a child’s personality (MOLSA 2005). The most significant contribution of the<br />
Code is nonetheless the setting of the minimum marriageable age of 18 for girls, which used to be<br />
15 under the repealed provisions of the Civil Code of 1960. All in all, encouraging progress can<br />
be observed in the designing and enactment of polices and laws toward the protection of children<br />
against sexual abuse and exploitation. Yet, a lot remains to be done to fight and stop the practice<br />
in all its forms and dimensions. To that end, it is crucially important to ensure strong government<br />
commitment, forthcoming donor support, effective coordination of efforts, and the cooperation of<br />
stakeholders and actors.<br />
2. Common Risk Factors in Merkato<br />
The results of interviews conducted for this study indicate that the research area is rife with factors<br />
exposing children to sexual abuse/exploitation. The focus of this chapter is on environmental<br />
circumstances, generally those external to children, which act as common risk factors exposing<br />
them to sexual abuse and exploitation. Of course, in the context of individual children, the<br />
experience of sexual abuse/exploitation may be the outcome of a single common risk or two or<br />
more risk factors working in combination. However, for the sake of convenience, factors identified<br />
as common risks from the perspective of the research community are treated separately. In other<br />
cases, where the overlap between common risks is such that one cannot be analyzed independent<br />
of the other, it may be necessary to group these together.<br />
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2.1 Prevalence of commercial sex work<br />
The Addis Ketema area, where the research neighborhoods are located, lies within one of the<br />
oldest parts of Addis Ababa. As such, the area makes up part of the city center where the capital’s<br />
largest market (Merkato) and the main bus terminal are located. Wide prevalence of commercial<br />
sex is among the characteristic features of the Addis Ketema area. Commercial sex has been<br />
practiced here for generations. In fact, as informants pointed out, so widespread and predominant<br />
is commercial sex in the area that community members generally tolerate it. Given the high<br />
prevalence and long history of sex work in this quarter of the city, there is every indication that<br />
entry into the practice hardly meets any deterrent. Senait Damte (18), a female sex worker living<br />
in a nearby neighborhood in Addis Ketema Sub-City stated:<br />
In my view, there is not much in the area that prevents children entering into prostitution.<br />
Community members generally do not exclude sex workers. This is not the case in other<br />
parts of the city. Peers and acquaintances normally shun young girls who practice<br />
prostitution. Here it is different. Child prostitutes do not become the objects of gossip and<br />
stigma. They may even find assistance from fellow children who offer help to train them<br />
and facilitate their entry into sex work.<br />
On top of this, sex work is considered as a means of earning money without much effort, as<br />
pointed out by several of the child informants involved in the practice (Tihun Getachew, Brzawit<br />
Ketema, Jemanesh Tamene, and Belaynesh Mengistu). Unlike other types of business common in<br />
that district, the practice does not require the investment of resource in terms of initial capital and<br />
specialist knowledge and skills. Besides the fulfillment of personal needs, sex work helps generate<br />
easy money to support parents and siblings, as three young girls indicated (Senait Damete, Tiblet<br />
Dagne, and Hiwot Getamesay). The story told by a presently recovered child prostitute is<br />
particularly telling. Hiwot Getamesay (20) related:<br />
I belong to a family of many children. Several of us were born in quick succession. My<br />
parents were too poor to support us through our education. It was unbearable for me to see<br />
my brothers out of school for lack of money. Prostitution was the only possible way I had<br />
to earn money. I could have found work as a housemaid. But the money from domestic<br />
work would barely have been enough to support my brothers. Sex work offered an income<br />
that enabled me not only to help my siblings with their education, but also to take care of<br />
my own needs.<br />
Unlike other kinds of job, sex work does not require certain conditions to engage in it. This makes<br />
commercial sex an even greater risk to vulnerable children in the study area. Young girls who<br />
might have taken up domestic service have instead ended up becoming child prostitutes, for not<br />
being able to produce guarantors or certificate to prove their HIV free status.<br />
Moreover, children born and raised in a family or neighborhood where commercial sex is<br />
routinely practiced find themselves at a high risk. Child prostitutes, parents and community<br />
representatives interviewed for this study have drawn attention to this aspect of the issue. The case<br />
of a child prostitute named Jemanesh Tamene (age 17) is worth mentioning in this regard. She said<br />
that she had a one-year baby girl. She is extremely concerned about the future of her little<br />
daughter. Raised by a mother who is a sex worker, Jemanesh cannot imagine her daughter<br />
escaping the possibility of getting involved in prostitution by the time she has grown up. Hence,<br />
Jemanesh intends to quit sex work before her baby is old enough to learn to become a prostitute.<br />
As an alternative, she contemplates handing her over to the custody of her mother who lives in her<br />
home village.<br />
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In sum, common presence, quick entry, and easy money make commercial sex attractive to<br />
vulnerable children in the study community. As such the practice acts as a widely prevalent risk<br />
factor that exposes children to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
2.2 Crime and delinquency<br />
Different forms of crime and delinquency are rampant in the research community. These include<br />
theft, robbery, burglary, and physical violence. Such delinquent and criminal behavior is attributed<br />
to common factors such as joblessness, substance and alcohol abuse, and the watching of violent<br />
and pornographic films. Sexual harassment and abuse stands out as a single dominant type of<br />
criminal activity routinely perpetrated by adults and young people alike on children and other<br />
targets. In particular, child girls as well as boys faced constant threat of being raped by individuals<br />
or groups of people. The following statistical data on the number of raped children in Addis<br />
Ketema Sub-City during 2005 to 2008 come from the Addis Ketema Sub-City Police.<br />
Table 3. <strong>Report</strong>ed cases of rape in Addis Ketema sub-City, 2004/5 - 2007/8<br />
Year Sex<br />
Female Male Total<br />
2004/05 53 4 57<br />
2005/06 76 6 82<br />
2006/07 65 6 71<br />
2007/08 66 11 77<br />
Total 260 27 287<br />
Source: Addis Ketema Sub-City Police Department<br />
The above figures do not, however, paint the actual picture of the magnitude of the problem. The<br />
figures represent only a fraction of the rape cases perpetrated or attempted, since a huge proportion<br />
of rape incidents go unreported to the police. The failure to report is blamed on a number of<br />
factors. NGOs and parents involved in the study explained the underreporting in terms of cultural<br />
and economic factors. On the cultural front, families of victims are reluctant to disclose rape cases<br />
for fear of social stigma. Especially is the stigma severe when the rape has been committed by<br />
close relatives such as stepfathers and siblings. Lack of open parent-child communication and not<br />
knowing what the consequences might be contribute to the hesitation of children who are rape<br />
victims to confide in their parents. In situations where fathers or stepfathers are the culprits,<br />
mothers come under pressure not to report and seek legal action for economic reasons. They may<br />
be anxious that the outcome of disclosure and pursuing the case will do the family more harm than<br />
good. Most families cannot afford to lose husbands who are usually the breadwinners through<br />
arrest, despite being guilty of domestic rape.<br />
The findings of the research strongly suggest that the raping of child boys is a phenomenon that is<br />
only beginning to manifest itself. In fact, the raping of male children is a type of criminal behavior<br />
that is more serious than is actually appreciated in the community. This view is shared by a range<br />
of study subjects including parents, CBO representatives, religious leaders, teachers, NGO staff<br />
and police officers.<br />
The information obtained reveals that children who are the victims of rape mostly come from<br />
similar family backgrounds. Accordingly, a large number of rape cases indicate that the child<br />
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victims belong to low income families or single parent homes headed by mothers or older siblings.<br />
Rape victims may also be children who live under the care of guardians. Lack of follow-up,<br />
protection and support is believed to be the main exposing factor. On the other hand, the rapists, in<br />
order to abuse the children sexually, exploit their naivety and inexperience besides the effects of<br />
poverty and inability to defend themselves.<br />
Despite being a growing social menace, the legal action taken against rape is not encouraging.<br />
Indeed, rapists are said to be emboldened by apparent impunity and inadequate response on the<br />
part of the legal system. For similar reasons, victims and affected families are discouraged from<br />
bringing rape cases to the attention of the law. A female legal advisor shared her observations on<br />
the same note:<br />
It is necessary that the full force of the law be used to deal with rapists. At the moment,<br />
child abusers are not brought to book under the pretext that there is no evidence. As a<br />
result, perpetrators are saying “what can the law do to me?” On the other hand, families of<br />
victims decline seeking legal recourse by saying “what will I gain by doing so?”<br />
2.3 Substance and alcohol abuse<br />
Substance and alcohol abuse is widely practiced in the research community by young people in<br />
particular. Child and parent informants, as well as CBO, NGO and GO representatives expressed<br />
that the problem is serious. In the context of the study community, substance abuse refers to the<br />
chewing of khat 11 , and the smoking of shisha and hashish. In regard to street children, substance<br />
abuse also involves the puffing of petrol and the sniffing of glue for the sake of excitement or<br />
suppressing hunger. The major types of alcohol consumed are a range of home-brewed drinks<br />
locally known as tella, tej, and araqe. These alcoholic beverages are sold in ordinary drinking<br />
houses, visited mostly by young people and adults of low income levels.<br />
It is no surprise that addiction and intoxication are the common results of alcohol and substance<br />
abuse. Among other consequences, the practice influences the users toward criminal and<br />
delinquent behavior. Under alcohol and drug influence, young people and others are usually<br />
driven to manifest sexual impulses. The evidence strongly suggests that such indulgence presents<br />
itself as a common risk of sexual abuse to vulnerable female and male children in the area. A<br />
half-orphaned boy, Kebede Alemayehu, age l1 and recently raped, stated:<br />
In our kebele, there are many drinking houses. Moreover, there are a number of khat and<br />
shisha houses. Smoking tobacco is also common. A lot of minibuses are parked in the area.<br />
During their slack hours, the minibus drivers and their assistants heavily engage in these<br />
practices. Under the influence, they deceive unaware children into their cars. One way they<br />
do this is by persuading the children to buy something from the shop. Then they choke and<br />
rape the kids.<br />
2.4 Video houses<br />
The youth culture of spending time at video houses as a form of recreation is proving to be another<br />
common risk of child sexual abuse. The fact that by far a vast portion of the film content consists<br />
of pornographic material has become a particular challenge. In a small crowded neighborhood of<br />
1,973 homes, 99 were used for showing videos (17 operated 24 hours a day), 21 for serving<br />
shisha, seven for selling chat, and numerous others for serving alcoholic beverages. As noted by a<br />
great number of the informants, the young viewers of obscene films sooner or later imitate the<br />
11 Khat, Cathula edulis, is a leafy drug that is chewed with stimulating effects.<br />
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actors, trying to adopt their behavior and styles in real life. As a consequence, they become<br />
tempted to engage not only in early sexual activity, but also in sexual outrage including rape. The<br />
legal advisor mentioned earlier commented:<br />
Video houses are ample in the area, some of them working round the clock. Street children<br />
often spend the night watching films partly to avoid sleeping rough in the open. The films<br />
screened are usually sexually provocative, influencing the behavior of the watching<br />
children so badly that they are tempted to experiment what they have seen on their peers.<br />
2.5 Street business<br />
As the capital’s largest market and centre of the research community, Merkato and its vicinities<br />
bustle with almost every form of business. Yet urban poverty and congestion persist as the<br />
distinguishing marks of this part of the city. As a result, needy families find it to be an absolute<br />
necessity to practice different forms of small business on the street as well as in the house, just to<br />
survive from day to day. Nonetheless, much of the activity done to earn a living is bound to pose<br />
the risks of sexual abuse to children.<br />
2.5.1 Street vending/peddling<br />
The sale of various small consumer items is a common sight in the crowded research<br />
neighborhoods. The things sold include fruit and vegetables, clothing, lottery tickets, roasted and<br />
boiled grain, sweets, cigarettes, tissue papers, and plastic bags. The street vending is done mostly<br />
by children sent out by their poor parents. Children may also do street peddling on their own<br />
initiative, influenced by peers, or asked by other people.<br />
Normally, the children spend long hours, often into the evenings, as they do street<br />
vending/peddling. They may stay in the street at a fixed vending point, or keep moving around to<br />
sell their items including in eating and drinking houses. As they do so, it is no strange an affair for<br />
them to experience sexual harassment or seduction. Some adults exploit the children’s financial<br />
disadvantage and entice them with the offer or promise of money to establish connections and<br />
trust with them. In these situations, particularly child girls find themselves at a high risk of sexual<br />
violence and abuse. In this regard, the story of a young girl named Selamawit Fikre, age 23, is<br />
very illustrative. Although she was highly vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation as a child,<br />
she managed to succeed in her education. Having graduated from the university, she currently<br />
practices law in a government institution. She relates:<br />
I used to sell boiled maize on the street when I was about 12 years old. Of course, street<br />
business involved risks. I met bigger boys who harassed me sexually. Looking back, I<br />
realize that there was a chance for me to have taken the wrong turn and ruined my life.<br />
Many of my friends, who used to work on the street, later dropped out of school and<br />
became sex workers.<br />
2.5.2 Bed renting<br />
A great many families in Addis Ketema neighborhoods eke out hand-to-mouth existence from the<br />
renting of beds in the family house. For this purpose, they partition their dwellings into small<br />
sections. In these partitions, they put up structures that are in the form of double layer wooden<br />
beds to economize on the available limited space and pack into it as many users as possible. Or<br />
they spread on the floor sacks and straw-stuffed mattresses where individuals renting the rooms<br />
for the night are made to sleep next to each other so close that they are forced to lie down on one<br />
side, and can hardly turn around or change position.<br />
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The business of renting beds presents a tremendous challenge to child girls as a risk factor of<br />
sexual abuse and exploitation. Most of the time, young or underage female children are made to do<br />
the job. The children spend a great deal of time in the afternoons and evenings, as they seek<br />
around customers looking for bed. The work generally keeps them late out on the street, often for<br />
as long as past midnight. Oftentimes, this is the time when drunken men walk around and find the<br />
child girls. Tired of waiting for customers out in the cold, the children may even fall asleep where<br />
they sit or stand. Found in this situation, they are the likeliest targets of sexual abuse by drunken<br />
strangers or passersby. In other cases, the girls are caught by street gangsters, who use seductive,<br />
persuasive or forceful tactics to abuse them sexually.<br />
Back home, the girls are not any safer from the risk of sexual violence and abuse. As has been<br />
proven by a number of case materials, they remain vulnerable to sexual abuse by the same people<br />
they have been brought from the street to rent beds. In addition, individuals who have established<br />
themselves as regular or occasional customers exploit their familiarity and accountantship to rape<br />
the children in the house. Regardless of the circumstances surrounding the rape, such sexual<br />
violence generally leads the victims to a life of sexual abuse and exploitation. The case of a<br />
seventeen-year-old named Gezashegn Zeru is selected for its relevance in this regard. She said:<br />
The work of bed renting is full of risks and challenges for children involved in it. As we<br />
look around for customers, we experience sexual harassment and molestation by gangsters<br />
and drunks. Customers also sexually harass us as we walk together to the place of the bed.<br />
After we arrive at the place, many customers try to force us to sleep with them.<br />
2.6 Congestion/over-crowdedness<br />
Congestion is a characteristic of impoverished neighborhoods in Addis Ketema area. A census<br />
conducted in one small neighborhood called '32' reveals that there were 1078 official residential<br />
units and 895 unofficially built/extended houses. Of the total 1,973 homes, only 164 were used for<br />
purely residential purposes, others were partly rented out or used for different activities. In<br />
Merkato, it is common for several families to share the same dwelling. The over-crowding of<br />
dwellings is aggravated by the fact that most poor families rent beds to customers, who usually<br />
bring along prostitutes to sleep with them, adding to the congestion. In such conditions, group and<br />
individual privacy is almost impossible. Worse still, the circumstances increase the risks of child<br />
sexual violence and abuse, perpetrated on children by relatives or bed renting strangers. In such<br />
overcrowding, children sleep while adults practice sex in their hearing. Because of this, children<br />
are tempted to experiment with sex at an early age. Such exposure and influence can result in child<br />
girls adopting a lifestyle that places them at the risk of sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
2.7 Presence of bus terminal<br />
The presence of the central bus station is a major factor that makes the Addis Ketema area a<br />
crowded and bustling part of the city. For the same reason, migrant rural children are attracted to<br />
stay and work in this surrounding. This is underscored by representatives of child focused NGOs<br />
operating in the Addis Ketema Sub-City. After arrival, the child migrants mostly start work as<br />
domestic servants. In the course of time, they get used to the urban environment and make<br />
contacts with people. Thus, they change to work that offers greater income and better conditions.<br />
The types of work taken as alternatives are usually brewing and serving tea and coffee at khat,<br />
shisha, or video houses, washing, cleaning, and cooking in eating and drinking places, and renting<br />
and arranging beds in households doing this business. But most often, such jobs put the children in<br />
risk environments that expose them to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
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According to the informants at the child focused NGOs, brokers facilitate the contact between job<br />
seeking child migrants and prospective employers. The brokers operate around the main bus<br />
terminal and identify the migrants by their appearance. At the start, the brokers deliver the<br />
children to families or businesses that hire them to do jobs largely of domestic nature. But sooner<br />
or later, such kinds of work end up becoming stepping stones for the children to enter into<br />
prostitution.<br />
3. Vulnerable Children and Young People<br />
The main thrust of this chapter is drawing attention to the set of exposing factors that are internal<br />
to, or closely associated with the specific family backgrounds or personal situations of children<br />
that aggravate their susceptibility to sexual abuse/exploitation. In view of this, the points of<br />
analysis pertain to the state of children coming from poor families, broken homes, and female or<br />
child headed households. Factors relating to the children’s situation as migrants or trafficked, and<br />
living on and off the street are also considered. These subjects are treated as individual units of<br />
analysis, despite their overlap with poverty as cross cutting issue.<br />
3.1 Children from poor families<br />
Family poverty is a single major vulnerability factor of child sexual abuse and exploitation. The<br />
bulk of the case material involving interviewed children corroborates this finding. Of course,<br />
individual children involved in prostitution expressed different purposes for doing so. Thus, some<br />
said they wanted to support poor parents or siblings. Others were compelled by the desire to fend<br />
for themselves or obtain the material things that their peers had. A number of children were also<br />
urged by their parents to earn an income for the family in this way. In any case, the underlying<br />
factor that made the children vulnerable to prostitution is family poverty and destitution. The case<br />
of Menbere Demere, age 13, is typical of children forced into commercial sex by family poverty.<br />
She relates:<br />
My father was a low-paid guard. Being a housewife, my mother had no income. In the<br />
house, our parents always argued about financial problems. As a result, there were<br />
misunderstandings and unhappiness. I was upset and disturbed by the difficulties we had. I<br />
wished to do something about the situation. One day, I decided not to return home from<br />
school. I began to spend my time on the street. For one year, I survived on kifela 12<br />
(begging). Then I moved into prostitution. I have been practicing this for two years.<br />
In addition, children from poor families are vulnerable to sexual abuse. Informants such as<br />
parents, community representatives and NGO staff have given accounts of children exposed to<br />
rape because of poverty. As they do street vending or daily labor, it is common for poor parents to<br />
leave their children in the home by themselves, or under the care of neighbors. In these situations,<br />
children become exposed to sexual abuse. The attackers may be the same individuals trusted to<br />
take care of the minors or they may be people who know that there is no one around to watch or<br />
protect them.<br />
Prostitute mothers often allow their children to spend time playing outside late into the night. They<br />
do so to make sure that the children do not watch them practicing commercial sex. These<br />
circumstances increase the children’s vulnerability to becoming sexually abused. The perpetrators<br />
are mostly strangers, gangsters, and adults in the neighborhood. A fieldworker from CHAD-ET<br />
12 In the argot of street children, kifela refers to the act of begging around for money.<br />
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commented: “Children playing around late at night are a common sight in the area. Strangers may<br />
find this to be surprising. Normally, other children (whose mothers are not prostitutes) are safe and<br />
asleep in their homes at this time of night”.<br />
3.2 Children from unstable/broken homes<br />
Besides physical necessities, children want their parents to meet their emotional and psychological<br />
needs. Unfortunately, however, too many families fail to fulfill this fundamental human need for<br />
their children. As a result, countless children live in a home environment where they are not given<br />
love, affection, and sense of security. As the evidence shows, such denial will sooner or later act<br />
as an exposing factor to child sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
According to the research findings, unstable homes are characterized by marital disharmony,<br />
alcohol abuse by either parent or both, or abusive behavior towards family members. Broken<br />
homes refer to single parent families headed by father or mother alone because of divorce or<br />
decease. Such problems make it difficult for children to feel secure in the home. The pressures<br />
may even be so severe that they force the children to leave home. However, this may only expose<br />
the children to extreme risk processes. Eventually, the children are likely to face the risk of<br />
becoming sexually abused and exploited.<br />
The foregoing is substantiated by the information obtained from IFSO 13 . This is an NGO working<br />
on the prevention of child sexual abuse and the rehabilitation of sexually abused children. The<br />
findings of the NGO indicate that the vast majority of sexually abused children reported to have<br />
come from poor families, broken homes, families affected by serious marital disharmony, and<br />
where one parent or both are alcoholic and/or abusive. According to the statistical data from the<br />
same source, out of the 210 cases of child sexual abuse, only 76 (36.2%) lived with both parents.<br />
The remaining 134 (63.8%) were orphans or semi-orphans, lived with divorced parents, or were<br />
trafficked or migrant children. It can, therefore, be concluded that when children become insecure<br />
because of family disharmony, instability and breakdown, vulnerability to sexual abuse and<br />
exploitation is a likely outcome. The following two cases bear out the forgoing.<br />
Tihun Getachew, age16, shared the following:<br />
My father was alcoholic. He drank so heavily that he spent the income he earned as a daily<br />
laborer on liquor. When he ran short of money to pay for drinks, he forced my sisters to<br />
give him what they had earned by doing small jobs. Not able to cope, my mother, not alive<br />
now, also started to drink. Both of our parents being alcoholic, they stopped caring about<br />
us. As a result, my three elder sisters had to fend for themselves by doing domestic and<br />
similar work. For the same reason, I left home and ultimately became prostitute.<br />
Dagne Aizo, a boy of age 12, is left vulnerable by an alcoholic and abusive father. He relates:<br />
My father came home drunk and late almost every day. In that mood, I was not<br />
comfortable to be around. I also suffered severe beatings in his hands, besides other forms<br />
of mistreatment. He even did not spare any small amount of money I had to spend on his<br />
habit. One day, I found my wooden coin box broken and empty of the money I had<br />
deposited. The one who did it was my father. Moreover, he took from me by force my<br />
weekly wage of Birr 5, only to squander it on alcohol.<br />
13 Obtained from a group interview held with the General Manger, Deputy Manager, and expert of IFSO.<br />
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3.3 Children from child-headed families<br />
The death of parents as a result of AIDS and other causes is leaving an increasing number of<br />
children orphans. Older orphans are thus forced to take over the responsibility of caring for<br />
younger siblings. Because of this, many children have to carry the burden of heading a family.<br />
In this state, the children become vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation, among other risks.<br />
In a bid to get the necessitates of life for themselves and their siblings, they are forced to engage in<br />
various small jobs such as running errands, street vending, and domestic work. As the children do<br />
these jobs, they run a high chance of being sexually abused. Furthermore, there is a possibility of<br />
them directly entering into prostitution. They perceive the practice as a means of earning more<br />
money without much effort. The case of Tihit Mamaw, age 17 and currently recovered, is<br />
interesting and illustrative:<br />
I belong to a child-headed family of six orphans, including myself. Our eldest sister took<br />
care of us. She supported us with the income she earned by making and selling tea. As the<br />
second eldest child, I felt I had an obligation to contribute to the support of our family.<br />
Hence, I was determined to pay a sacrifice. So I decided to practice commercial sex when I<br />
was only 14. To make sure I could do so with anonymity, I moved to Nazareth Town. For<br />
a time, I managed to visit my siblings regularly. I also provided them with cash from my<br />
earnings.<br />
3.4 Migrant/trafficked children<br />
Studies indicate that child girls account for a large portion of the migrant population that continues<br />
to flock from the rural areas to Addis Ababa. Besides, multitudes are trafficked to the capital by<br />
bus and truck drivers, brokers and relatives who reside in Addis Ababa. In addition, children are<br />
trafficked from rural communities by sex workers who migrated to Addis Ababa earlier and return<br />
to their home village on holidays.<br />
Once they arrive at their destination, their dreams and expectations of a better life fail to be<br />
realized. Contrary to their hopes or the promises made by their traffickers, the city offers them<br />
little more than small jobs like domestic service and daily labor. In turn, such types of work often<br />
expose the children to labor and sexual exploitation. It is reported that domestic work in particular<br />
makes the children vulnerable to sexual abuse. Most of the time, the perpetrators are said to be<br />
household heads (husbands), older children in the family, visitors and neighbors. According to a<br />
study report commissioned by Forum on Street Children-<strong>Ethiopia</strong> (FSC-E) in 2008, a significant<br />
number of migrant children in their early teens work as domestics all around the city. Besides<br />
being exploited as child laborers, these children suffer sexual abuse beyond the notice of the<br />
general public. After experiencing sexual abuse, it is believed that many of these children enter<br />
into prostitution. The case of Haimanot Mebratu, age 14 and orphan migrant from Gonder, is<br />
typical. She narrates:<br />
I was persuaded to migrate to Addis Ababa by a female peer. I accepted what she told me<br />
about the good things we could get in Addis Ababa. I grew up hearing exciting stories<br />
about this city. So I had always wished to move to this place. Upon arrival a certain lady<br />
directed me to a broker’s house. The broker got me hired as a worker at a small hotel. After<br />
two months, I changed work to become a dishwasher at a restaurant. Upon the suggestion<br />
of a fellow worker, I left the restaurant to enter into sex work.<br />
Nonetheless, domestic work is not the only stepping stone to prostitution for rural migrant<br />
children. A large number are picked up by brokers as they arrive at the bus terminal. Then they are<br />
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delivered to business owning ladies who hire the children to serve drinks at their brothels. It is<br />
reported that in too many instances, the brothel owners get the children sexually abused by their<br />
customers to facilitate their entry into prostitution.<br />
The fate of trafficked children is no different. Still, the number of new arrivals through child<br />
trafficking is said to be on the rise. The statistical data obtained from FSC-E substantiates this<br />
trend. The data comes from the NGO’s Preventative and Support Program against Child<br />
Trafficking, a unit based at the main bus terminal. The statistics obtained is disaggregated by year<br />
and sex. According to this source, the number of trafficked children increased from 213 in 2004 to<br />
972 in 2008.<br />
Table 4. Number of trafficked children by year and sex, 2004-2008<br />
Sex<br />
Year Male Female Total<br />
2004 49 164 213<br />
2005 79 332 411<br />
2006 378 547 925<br />
2007 230 464 694<br />
2008 344 628 972<br />
Total 1080 2135 3215<br />
Source: Child Trafficking Unit, FSC-E<br />
It is alleged that community residents in the Addis Ketema area who come from rural villages<br />
exploit their kinship ties to traffic rural children to Addis Ababa. To this end, they persuade their<br />
relatives in rural communities to send them over their children. They promise their parents that<br />
they will raise the children and give them education. As it often turns out, the relatives instead<br />
make the children work as bar girls or get them to do bed renting. These kinds of work generally<br />
expose the children to sexual abuse and later to commercial sex.<br />
3.5 Street children<br />
Street children are faced with the risks of sexual violence committed by various perpetrators, not<br />
least by fellow street boys. The interview conducted with the representatives of Forum on Street<br />
Children-<strong>Ethiopia</strong> (FSC-E) underscores the same point. Older street children, some of them<br />
members of criminal gangs, target younger peers who may be girls or boys. Especially, newly<br />
arriving homeless and inexperienced migrant children become easy targets of sexual attack by<br />
senior and violent street boys. Such violent behavior is aggravated by substance abuse, under the<br />
influence of which the predators gang rape their victims. The circumstances in which street<br />
children sleep together are the other factors that cause them to practice group sex and sodomy in<br />
their ranks. Normally, street children sleep in groups on verandas, sidewalks, in street corners and<br />
tunnels under bridges. In order to stay warm, among other reasons, they mostly sleep close<br />
together. Alcohol and substance abuse is common as well among the group as a characteristic of<br />
street life. In these conditions, many are driven to sexually abuse and rape fellow street children.<br />
Furthermore, street children are sexually abused by sugar daddies, drunken people, passersby, and<br />
gangsters. Most often, the abusers find their prey through deception and trickery. They exploit<br />
their poverty and desperation by offering or promising them financial and material gifts. Richer<br />
and older men, referred to as sugar daddies, are particularly said to use such tactics to get the<br />
children into their hands. In this way, they manage to drive the children away with them to a<br />
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destination where they abuse them sexually. The desire to find a place of stay for the night is<br />
another factor that causes street children to become vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation.<br />
As a result, they negotiate sex for free or at small payments.<br />
3.6 Children living in a state of loose family control<br />
In the opinion of parent informants, constant family attention and follow-up are essential to<br />
ensuring the well-being of children in the face of adversities. On the contrary, loose family control<br />
can have an adverse impact on the prospects of children, as the case of a currently sexually<br />
exploited fourteen-year-old girl illustrates. She reports:<br />
I was raised by my aunt who did not care to control the way I behaved. She ignored the<br />
mistakes I made. She let me go out with my friends and did not supervise where I stayed<br />
and when I got back. There were times when I spent the night outside without her<br />
permission. As for her own children, she kept checking whether they went to school and<br />
did things the way she wanted. Looking back, I think my upbringing is responsible for my<br />
present situation as a child prostitute.<br />
Figure 2. Risks and vulnerabilities to sexual abuse/exploitation in Merkato<br />
Risk Factors<br />
- crime and delinquency<br />
- prevalence of sex work<br />
- pornographic films<br />
- street business<br />
- negative peer influence<br />
- congested residence<br />
- drug/substance abuse<br />
4. Factors Averting Risks of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation<br />
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Vulnerability Factors<br />
- extreme poverty<br />
- parental death<br />
- family disorganization<br />
- child neglect<br />
- migration to the city<br />
- trafficking to the city<br />
- streetism<br />
Despite the presence of common risks in Merkato in general, and the specific challenges in their<br />
immediate environments in particular, a number of children managed to avoid/evade risks, while<br />
others further triumphed in their lives. In order to understand the reasons behind such child<br />
resilience cases, the interview results of 31 children and young people are analyzed in this section.<br />
Eight of the 31 informants are from the age group 10-13, nine from 14-17, and 14 from 18-24.<br />
Comparatively, more samples were taken from the upper age groups in order to increase diversity<br />
and bring depth to the study.<br />
The 31 informants are considered vulnerable based on the attributes discussed in part 2 and 3<br />
above. Of the total 31, twenty-seven informants reported to be poor; 21 lost one or both parents;<br />
and seven were migrants from the countryside. All lived in neighborhoods where commercial sex<br />
was practiced, pornographic films were screened, alcoholic beverages were consumed, and drugs<br />
(e.g., khat and shisha) were used. Some even lived with family members and/or friends who were<br />
engaged in such activities for a living. Some experienced enticement, intimidation, and/or other<br />
forms of sexual advance. In spite of such odds, all remained resilient because of a combination of<br />
factors discussed under 4.2 below.<br />
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Exposure to<br />
Sexual abuse and<br />
exploitation<br />
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4.1 Daily routines of the non-abused<br />
The category named 'vulnerable and non-abused' consists of students (non-formal, primary,<br />
secondary, and tertiary education levels), bed renters, street venders/peddlers, maids, college<br />
graduates, salaried workers, and children neither working nor studying. Some informants engaged<br />
in different activities, while others combined work and schooling. Due to the nature of their works<br />
that require traveling and interaction with other people, bed renters, street peddlers, and some<br />
salaried workers seemed to be more exposed to sexual assault than others. Comparatively, the<br />
risks for the maids, regular students, and home-bound children appeared lower, as they spend most<br />
of their time in safe places, namely, home and school. In this section, two illustrative accounts are<br />
presented to shed light on the relationship between daily routines and resilience to sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation.<br />
Alem Behailu (11) is an orphan who lived alone in a neighborhood where prostitution is widely<br />
practiced; alcohol and certain drugs were openly used; and pornographic videos are screened.<br />
Alem spent her time attending non-formal education, staying at home, and visiting her friends. Her<br />
daily routine does not show engagement in activities that could have exposed her to danger.<br />
I always attend classes [non-formal education] in the morning. Sometimes, I attend the<br />
3:00 pm program. Yesterday, I woke up in the morning, washed my face, prepared and ate<br />
my breakfast, and then I washed my clothes. Then, I cleaned my room and chatted outside<br />
with friends from the neighborhood. In the afternoons, I often go to my old neighborhood.<br />
There is a woman [her late mother's friend] who gives me food. I have friends there. After<br />
their school time, I play with them and return home. Since they invite me to eat and drink<br />
with them, I go there. Sometimes, they give me money. These friends of mine were here<br />
the day before yesterday. One of them brought me Birr 2. They are students. One of them,<br />
with the permission of her parents, sometimes comes here to stay the night with me. She<br />
brings dinner for both of us from her home. When my friend comes, I like to sleep in my<br />
house. In the past, I used to sleep at the house of a neighboring woman. When I slept here<br />
alone, I experienced nightmares.<br />
Abebech Dana (13), an orphan, lived with her grandmother in a neighborhood known for sexual<br />
abuse against girls and boys. She was a student who supported her grandmother in street peddling.<br />
Despite the risks involved in street peddling, the way Abebech's time and work were scheduled<br />
and the way she associated with people helped her avoid the risks.<br />
Yesterday morning, I went to school. In the afternoon, I studied a little and went to the<br />
market to sell injera. At night, we had dinner and studied a little again, and went to bed.<br />
Today, after breakfast, I went to school and sat for several exams - there were four tests. I<br />
did not do much in the afternoon. We canceled our plan to go to the market to sell injera<br />
because of the appointment with you [the researcher].I help my grandmother by selling<br />
injera in the market. I do this in the afternoon. In the morning or late in the afternoon, I buy<br />
firewood for baking the injera and carry the bundles home. I used to help my sister sell<br />
qolo [roasted grain]. Selling injera requires going to the market everyday in the late<br />
afternoon. My grandmother advises me all the time about the dangers awaiting girls. Since<br />
I behave very well, she is not strict on me. I do not go out with people [boys/men]. I have<br />
no boyfriend, and I do not want one. I am young and I will have time for everything in the<br />
future. I do not even have close friends to hang out with. I do not like the behavior of my<br />
age-mates in the school and in the neighborhood; they want to have boyfriends and go to<br />
unnecessary places. I prefer going to the church. On Tuesdays, I participate in the choir<br />
and on Sundays we learn God's words. They also teach us to be careful. In the school, I<br />
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participate in the Girls Club, where we learn about sexual abuse, early marriage, forced<br />
marriage, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.<br />
4.2 Perspectives of children and young people<br />
4.2.1 Loving and supportive family<br />
Informants noted that loving and caring relationships and the provision of material and emotional<br />
support bring a sense of belongingness and security. 14 Some children pointed to certain family<br />
members as inspirational for providing thoughtful advice or for serving as role models. While<br />
some recognized the role of their fathers and siblings as crucial in forming their personality, most<br />
informants mentioned mothers and grandmothers as the main sources of support and guidance. 15<br />
Family support takes different forms. Some children noted that guidance or encouragement gave<br />
them a sense of direction. In other words, the early parental advice/instruction remained vivid in<br />
the memories of many children and served as guidance. Abdela Jemal, an orphan who lost both<br />
parents, remembered that his mother not only loved him, but also advised him on how to get along<br />
with other kids and avoid trouble. Alem Behailu, another orphan, mentioned that her mother told<br />
her to be careful in choosing friends, to be serious when boys and men approach her, and to work<br />
hard to live a dignified life. Lula Cheneke, who is from a very poor family, always maintained an<br />
optimistic view of life, a quality that he claims to have inherited from his mother and<br />
grandmother.<br />
It is also important to state the role of parents in promoting learning motivation. Maritu recounted<br />
that her late parents inspired her to excel in education as a means to get out of difficult situations.<br />
Tseday (a girl with physical disability) remembered her mother's advice that she could be as<br />
efficient or proficient as able-bodied people if she worked hard in her studies. Children and young<br />
people with high learning motivations spent their time reading books, and this contributed to their<br />
intellectual and moral development, which in turn contributed to their resilience.<br />
Some parents sacrificed personal interests for the sake of their children. When their respective<br />
husbands passed away, Dejene's and Iyayu's mothers dropped out of school and decided not to get<br />
remarried to ensure the welfare of their children. Selamawit Fikre recognized the positive<br />
contribution of her family members, particularly her brother, to her success as follows.<br />
My father was a merchant. He died when I was in grade 1. That was a test of life for the<br />
entire family. My mother faced difficulty in raising us. One of my brothers completed<br />
medicine with difficulty. I am the youngest in the family, and the problem was worse for<br />
me. Around the age of 11 and 12, I was on the street selling boiled maize. At that time, my<br />
brother had already graduated from the university and was working somewhere in the<br />
south. He learned that I was selling boiled corn on the street when he came home for<br />
vacation. He felt very sorry about it and promised to send some money to the family so<br />
that I could concentrate on my studies. He pulled me out of a very dangerous situation. In<br />
Merkato, it is hard to find role models to inspire you. But I have found so many of them<br />
from the books that I have been reading. Through reading, I learned what people are<br />
capable of doing. I rediscovered myself from the books. My brother is also my role model.<br />
14 Of the 31 informants, 23 claim to have come from loving and supportive families. Although the sample is not<br />
statistically representative, the strong correlation between resilience and favorable family environments could not be<br />
reduced to accidental occurrence.<br />
15 It appears that many children in Merkato are raised by single mothers.<br />
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[He] followed my father's advice [to read books] and excelled in education. I also wanted,<br />
and still want, to be smart like my brother. He has been my role model. Thanks to my<br />
father's efforts and my brothers' determination, I began to read books earlier than many of<br />
my age-mates. Two of my brothers played important roles in getting me into the reading<br />
habit. They used to choose and bring different books for me. The reading habit contributed<br />
immensely to my personality and success in education.<br />
It is equally important to note that some children exhibited resilience despite the absence of love<br />
and support in their families. Dagne Aizo, a migrant from Arbaminch, lived with a violent and<br />
physically abusive father. His mother deserted them because of his father's behavior. Thanks to a<br />
barber who offered to help, Dagne was safe and continued with his education. Imnet Ahmed, a<br />
migrant from Harar, was on ill terms with her father, who was very controlling and physically<br />
abusive. She moved to Addis Ababa with a young baby born out of wedlock. Despite her<br />
desperate economic situation, Imnet preferred bed renting for sex work. Loving and caring<br />
environments were disrupted rendering some children utterly vulnerable. Due to parental death,<br />
Hilina Giday and Dejene Esatu moved from loving and supportive family environment to one that<br />
was quite difficult to bear. In spite of the setbacks, both children managed to remain resilient,<br />
partly drawing on the earlier advice of their deceased and other protective strategies.<br />
4.2.2 Peer influence<br />
Most people want to be connected with others, and thus choose friends who accept them and<br />
whom they also accept. Children like to be with their peers, and peers tend to influence each<br />
other's attitudes, interests, and actions. Peer influence could be positive or negative. Although<br />
some informants avoided association with peers due to perceived negative pressure, the majority<br />
reported to have benefited from healthy peer relationships. Peer pressure motivated some to<br />
succeed or encouraged them to embrace appropriate social behavior. The experiences/advice of<br />
peers helped some to deal with practical problems. Tseday Deme (19, orphan, migrant, and poor)<br />
reported to have developed a sense of purpose and future thanks to her friends who served as role<br />
models and sources of inspiration. She had goal orientation, educational aspiration, and hope in a<br />
bright future. Tseday described the role of peer influence in her educational pursuit as follows:<br />
The positive influence of good friends has been helpful in directing my daily routine along<br />
the right line and keeping me focused. I was closely associated with school friends. I<br />
observed that these friends of mine, who had families to provide them with what they<br />
needed, were purposeful and determined to achieve big results in their education. Their<br />
desire to achieve something for themselves had a powerful positive impact on me. Their<br />
example [exemplar efforts] motivated me to imitate their behavior and adopt a similar<br />
pattern of thinking regarding my performance in school and future plans. I devoted a large<br />
portion of my time to attending school, studying at the library and going to the church.<br />
Many children displayed the ability to locate protective resources (knowledge, experiences,<br />
materials, etc.) at the disposal of peers and other friends. They sought and effectively secured such<br />
resources to deal with challenges that they encountered. Sara (17) lived in a house often rented to<br />
strangers and prostitutes. She explained how her best friend (AZ, a former prostitute) prevented<br />
her from becoming a prostitute.<br />
On the street and in the neighborhood, it is common to be bothered by men. When this<br />
happens, first I tell her [AZ, her friend], 'This guy said this, so what shall I do about it?'<br />
She advised me to be serious. I am closer to her than my family. Since we are age-mates,<br />
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there is nothing that we hide from each other. The relationship I have with [AZ] prevented<br />
me from becoming a commercial sex worker. She [AZ] was not like this [before she<br />
became a prostitute]. She had a good body [healthy and fit]. She did not want to join<br />
[commercial sex]. I talked to her [about prostitution]. She did not have a good feeling<br />
about it. Thank God she is out of it. I learnt [about the bad side of prostitution] from her<br />
and others.<br />
In some cases, the opinions of the child's peers seemed to carry more weight than those of parents<br />
and siblings. This is mainly because, according to the informants, peers tend to understand the<br />
dreams and concerns of each other more than parents and relatives could possibly appreciate.<br />
Fatima Solana (18), who prefers to handle problems on her own whenever possible, noted that she<br />
shares her concerns with her friends rather than with family members. She stated,<br />
In Merkato, men are the main problems of women. They would insult you. Some want to<br />
fight. Generally, Merkato is a very difficult place for women. from your house to the shop,<br />
you would encounter many things. One would stop you or grab your arm. When you treat<br />
them peacefully, some get angry. Usually I prefer to be silent, think about what happened,<br />
why it happened, how it happened, and if there is anything I could do about it. When there<br />
is a problem, I would tell my friends. I wouldn't talk to my family. I do not tell my brothers<br />
and sisters, who are very close to me. I think that the problem will get worse if I tell them.<br />
What they may suggest as a solution may not be acceptable to me. Therefore, it is better to<br />
discuss with friends who are equal to you.<br />
4.2.3 Personal qualities/strategies<br />
Most children and young people in Merkato (particularly the girls) were aware of the high risks of<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation. Hence, they had to pursue different strategies to protect themselves<br />
against sex offenders. Hilina Giday (14), who was responsible for renting her uncle's 11 rooms<br />
every single day, sometimes stayed late on the street waiting for customers looking for rooms. She<br />
heard that girls engaged in the bed renting business were sexually attacked at night. One of the<br />
problems she repeatedly encountered was the customers' demand and pressure to sleep with her.<br />
Hilina had what resilience researchers call 'critical consciousness' to understand the threat around<br />
her and devise a strategy to overcome it. Moreover, she also had educational aspirations and<br />
achievement motivation. She narrated her encounters and her strategies as follows: 16<br />
I leave the house to look for customers at 7:00 pm and wait outside until all rooms are<br />
taken. Sometimes, it could be over by 8:00 p.m. Sometimes, I may have to stay up until<br />
4:00 am. One of the problems I encountered was customers' request to sleep with me. I<br />
refused. I kept quiet even when they insulted me. There were some who tried to entice and<br />
trick me. For example, they would say, "Baby, come. I will do whatever you want; I will<br />
give you Birr 50, which I wouldn't offer to prostitutes; let me do anything you like to sleep<br />
with you; come, it will not take a minute and your family would never know." However, I<br />
[always] said no. When they asked me to sleep with them, [I replied], "If you want a<br />
woman, I can bring you a prostitute." I heard that most girls are attacked late at night,<br />
when it is dark. I stayed on the street only when there is light. What I want is education. If<br />
I study well, I know that I will succeed through education.<br />
Many girls (e.g., Bizunesh, Senbet, Wongelawit, Hilina, and Kasanesh) reported to have evaded<br />
risks of sexual abuse/exploitation through self-imposed restrictions on physical movement, dress<br />
16 According to the study, Hilina's story represents a typical challenge that most children working at night faced.<br />
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style, and entertainment. 17 Since certain corners of Merkato at certain times are considered to be<br />
dangerous, the girls reported to be taking precautionary measures such as traveling in groups and<br />
taking alternative routes. Some girls reported to have refrained from wearing short and thin<br />
dresses which are believed to be sexually provocative. There is a growing realization on the part of<br />
many people that alcohol, drugs, and videos (especially pornographic films) have been used to<br />
perpetrate sexual acts against unsuspecting children. Hence, many young girls reported to be<br />
conscious of these traps. Yodit Bentew (12) was a student living with her mother and siblings. The<br />
economy of the family was based on selling boiled grain on the streets of Merkato, and Yodit had<br />
to take part after school hours. Her strategy to avoid an unexpected tragedy was to go to safe<br />
places, deal with dependable customers, and return home before it gets late. She said,<br />
Now, I am 12… I am a student of grade 8. My family makes a living by selling nifro<br />
[boiled grain]… I sell nifro. I do not know when I started it, some two or three years ago, I<br />
guess. I work after school. My mother, my sister, and I sell in different places from 7:00<br />
pm to 9:00 pm or 9:30 pm. Then, we gather where my mother would stay. All of us have<br />
customers, not so far from each other. I sell near Amede [a place], in a house where draft<br />
beer is sold. The owner is a very nice man. He advises me to know myself and avoid bad<br />
things. In that house, the customers are government officials and people with lots of<br />
money. I do not think people who want something else [sex] would go there.<br />
A good number of children and young people displayed the ability to act independently and make<br />
their environment as safe and productive as possible. The common language used by the majority<br />
was 'keeping oneself busy' with a determination to achieve certain goals. Thirteen-year-old Hanko<br />
Tilaye stated, "I keep myself busy by doing homework, playing with friends, or sleeping." Dejene<br />
noted, "Keeping myself busy as a parking attendant, electrician and student has benefited me a lot.<br />
I simply do not have the time to think about engaging in harmful practices. My fellow children<br />
who are idle have to do these things to keep themselves occupied." Fatima, in an elaborate remark<br />
on this issue, said:<br />
One can be protected [against sexual abuse]. Do you know how? First, you convince<br />
yourself. You must have a goal. When you have a goal, you would strive to achieve that<br />
goal than pay attention to other things. But if you are purposeless, you will be paying<br />
attention to what your friends did, what happened in the society, and then you ask yourself,<br />
'How about me?' A friend would come and tell you what she did with her [boy] friend, and<br />
you get jealous. If you have a purpose, you wouldn't care about such talk. The reason I<br />
have not been exposed to sexual abuse is that I kept myself busy. The other source of my<br />
strength is my love of reading. There are things that you learn by reading. Each book has<br />
its own story and a message behind it. Knowledge is acquired by discovering that message.<br />
Street peddlers, bed renters, and commercial sex workers constitute the majority of prey to<br />
potential sex predators. These groups, therefore, often cooperated to protect each other against<br />
offenders. They also operated in close collaboration with the owners of the rental rooms, 18 who<br />
were expected to come to their rescue or call the police when they are in trouble with men. From<br />
this, it is apparent that the resilient children possessed problem-solving skills that involved<br />
networking or mutual cooperation against common threats.<br />
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For leisure, these girls seem to spend time with family, play with friends, sleep, read novels, write, paint, and take<br />
walks with friends.<br />
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Some owners are reported to place pressure on the girls to accept the demands of some customers.<br />
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4.2.4 Religious affiliation and faith<br />
Spirituality seems to serve as an environment that fosters child resilience to adversity. Many of the<br />
informants seemed to follow some kind of religious guidance and frequented places of worship,<br />
while others, including those who rarely visited religious places, mentioned God as the ultimate<br />
protector against sexual predators. For the strictly religious adherents, the notion of sexuality is<br />
something surrounded by fear, taboo, prejudice, shame, and discomfort.<br />
Many informants reported having participated in the Sunday schools of the Orthodox and<br />
Protestant Churches. Lula stated, "From childhood, I have developed a fear of God, which has<br />
been nurtured and strengthened by constant church attendance and Bible reading. Out of devotion<br />
and keen interest to know about other Christian faiths, I discuss the words of God with friends<br />
who are Protestants." Dejene, another informant, noted, "In my belief, religious devotion is a<br />
powerful means of protecting children against risks. When attending the church service, children<br />
are exposed to spiritual instruction and council that exerts a positive influence on their thought and<br />
action. I can testify about this from my own experience." Tseday noted, "The church also has a<br />
role to play in shaping a person’s spiritual life. Usually, I go to Saint Michael's Church where I<br />
listen to spiritual instruction and gain knowledge that helps me to lead my life in the right way."<br />
Benjamin stated, "I was participating in the church. I learnt a lot about life, God's words, and<br />
things that are expected of any Christian. I joined Sunday school and studied ethics and church<br />
secrets, for which I was awarded a certificate."<br />
Kasu Merid, whose story is narrated under 4.2.5 below noted:<br />
When I encounter a problem beyond my control, my first reaction is weeping. I believe<br />
that God brings challenges to test my strength. Whatever happens, no matter how bad, it<br />
could be for good. I believe that my destiny is ahead of me, not behind me. So, I do not<br />
want the past to destroy my future. I am positive about life. Even when something goes<br />
wrong, I think that it is for good. If you are patient and if you do not give in, the bad times<br />
will pass and the good days will come. When I have time, I go to the church to pray and<br />
listen to God's words. By doing so, I learn about good behavior and good manners. I also<br />
save myself from spending time in unnecessary places that could later hurt me.<br />
Religious prohibitions of alcohol, drugs and prostitution and strong cultural values associated with<br />
such prohibitions serve as protective factors. Alcohol is forbidden to the followers of Islam and<br />
Protestant Christianity. The <strong>Ethiopia</strong>n Orthodox Church, which is rather silent on drinking,<br />
prohibits the use of stimulants such as khat and shisha, which are widely used by Muslims.<br />
According to informants, the use of alcohol and drugs tend to make children vulnerable to sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation. Religiosity was recognized to have helped many children avoid alcohol and<br />
substance abuse thereby minimizing such risks. Prostitution is associated with immorality, disease,<br />
and shame; and the prevalence of such perceptions in the family, in the neighborhood, and in<br />
religious institutions have had protective effects.<br />
4.2.5 External support<br />
The protective qualities and strategies of resilient children were enhanced by supports obtained<br />
from external sources that children and young people managed to secure. In this regard, the<br />
contributions of NGOs, church organizations, and individuals were mentioned. Hanko, Benjamin,<br />
Dejene, Tseday, Woynareg, and Maritu explained how the support of CHAD-ET helped them<br />
pursue their lives and goals. Dejene said, "In the worst of cases, I turn to CHAD-ET officials for<br />
assistance and counseling. They usually provided me with the necessary help. They suggested<br />
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solutions, advised me on how to cope, what to do or where to go for further assistance." Maritu<br />
Wale, an orphan and now a university student, reported how CHAD-ET assistance helped her and<br />
her brother as follows.<br />
[We] survived on the monthly financial support of Birr 100 and provisions in the form of<br />
grain and edible oil from CHAD-ET. Since I have joined Haramaya University, our<br />
neighbors who live next door and who were close to our parents are assisting in facilitating<br />
things for my brother and me. They take care of my brother by receiving the financial and<br />
material support from CHAD-ET and making sure that his needs are fulfilled and that he<br />
attends school regularly. In addition, they also send me money to Haramaya from the<br />
financial assistance provided [by adding] to it a little of their own. They are such caring<br />
neighbors to my brother; they give him the support and follow-up needed to relieve me of<br />
worry and concern about his well-being, [so that I can] concentrate on my studies with<br />
undivided attention.<br />
Some children and young people secured highly needed protective support from other people.<br />
Kasu Merid (17) started to live on the street due to a disagreement with his brother, who brought<br />
him from the countryside at the age of 10. He could have been assaulted and his dreams for<br />
educational attainment would have been shattered had it not been for the critical assistance he<br />
obtained from some people. He said,<br />
The first three days [after leaving his brother's house], I was on the street in the rain<br />
without any food and any clothing. On the third day, my brother's sister-in-law saw me on<br />
the street at night, when she was going home from a small khat shop that she owned. The<br />
next day, she gave me a copy of the key to her khat shop and told me to sneak in the shop<br />
every night to sleep. She trusted me with all her property in the shop. We kept the secret<br />
that I was sleeping in the khat shop for a long time. After leaving my brother's home, I<br />
continued with my education with much greater determination. While I was in the khat<br />
shop, my brother's sister-in-law gave birth. One day, I went to her residence to visit her.<br />
On that day, she had an argument and a fight with her husband, who became violent and<br />
caused her finger to bleed while trying to pull out a gold ring. I confronted him physically,<br />
in her rescue. Because of this, he asked me to vacate the khat shop. Once again, I had no<br />
place to sleep and went back to the street for the second time. This time, I started to sleep<br />
in the school classroom without the knowledge of teachers and the school guards. Later on,<br />
however, the teachers and the guards knew that I was sleeping in the classroom. The<br />
guards allowed me to sleep there without any worry. A Physical Education teacher gave<br />
me his office key to sleep there. The main problem was finding food to eat. There was one<br />
female teacher, who sometimes brought me dinner to school at night. The timing was very<br />
critical because I was kicked out of the khat shop when the time for the 8 th grade national<br />
examination was approaching. The good news was that I continued with my education<br />
until the exam week, sat for the exam, scored a high average, and successfully passed to<br />
the 9 th grade. Next to God, there were some important individuals who helped me get<br />
through the difficult time. Their helping hands extended my hopes and got me to where I<br />
am now.<br />
Workalem learnt during her teens that she is an adopted child. When the son of her adopters made<br />
repeated sexual advances against her will, Werkalem decided to move out and live with a friend.<br />
She stated,<br />
I do not know where I was born. Since they raised me, I consider them relatives. The<br />
reason why I left the house had to do with a heavy workload, the decrease in my school<br />
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esults, and the pressure from her [the adoptive mother's] son. He used to come to the place<br />
where I slept and take off the blanket. After this happened three or four times, I left the<br />
house, as I thought that he might destroy my life. I knew my friend with whom I now live.<br />
I started to live with her when she said, "I am living alone, we can live together." [Now] I<br />
am not exposed to sexual attack.<br />
4.2.6 Clubs at schools<br />
Schools provided learning opportunities not only through curricular instruction and library<br />
facilities but also through the establishment of different clubs. Many informants reported having<br />
learnt how to protect themselves against sexual offenders by joining HIV/AIDS clubs and/or girls<br />
clubs. Sara Gebremichael (17) recounted, "I worked in a girls’ club, I am a participant [of the<br />
club]. What I learnt there was very useful for self-protection. What I learnt include the reasons<br />
why people get into such problems [sexual abuse/exploitation], details about the development of<br />
human organs, mate selection, and many others." Woinareg (15) stated that she learnt about selfprotection<br />
from CHAD-ET's counseling programs offered every Saturday. She also learnt about<br />
reproductive organs and sexuality as a member of the girls’ club at her school. Other girls, such as<br />
Abebech, Yodit, and Kasanesh learnt about sexual abuse, early marriage, forced marriage,<br />
unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases at school.<br />
Some schools have mini-media through which students are given advice of various kinds or are<br />
informed about, among others, certain precautionary measures. Few informants also indicated that<br />
the mass media helped them learn about the risks of sexual abuse and exploitation and the<br />
strategies to avoid them. According to Dejene Esatu, for example, "Listening to the radio and<br />
reading newspapers are among the good habits that have proved to be protective. Through these<br />
media, I have been able to keep myself informed about factors that can expose children to<br />
dangerous behavior and its consequences. As a result, I have learned to be cautious and watchful<br />
of anything that can pose a threat or put me at risk."<br />
4.2.7 General precaution<br />
Some children developed protective habits/qualities without knowing the existence of risks of<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation. All grown up boys included in the sample noted that as children they<br />
were unaware of risks of male sexual abuse. The 13-year-old Hanko Tilaye did not know about the<br />
sexual abuse of boys during the research time. He avoided the risks by taking precautionary<br />
measures for other worries. He noted,<br />
Theft is a major problem in our neighborhood. Houses are broken into and property stolen.<br />
The gangsters rob children when they are sent to shops to buy things. Walking alone is not<br />
safe for children and girls. We do not go out at night. I heard that girls are sexually abused<br />
in other neighborhoods. Sometimes, those coming from the countryside are sexually<br />
abused by people who promise to find them jobs. I never heard about boys being abused. I<br />
never thought that there was a risk of being sexually abused because I did not know that<br />
something like that existed.<br />
4.3 Perspectives of parents, community figures, and NGOs representatives<br />
4.3.1 Perspective of parents<br />
All parents interviewed for the present study agreed that personality development of children starts<br />
in the family environment. However, whatever behavioral traits acquired in the family may be<br />
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shaped and reshaped when the child walks into the outside world. Most recognized that because of<br />
poverty and tremendous challenges outside of the family, parenting has become a difficult task.<br />
All parents involved in the study were extremely bitter about the leniency of authorities towards<br />
alcohol/drug/substance abuse among the youth, the wide distribution and display of obscene<br />
materials (uncensored pornographic films), suspected sex offenders, organized urban gangsters,<br />
and human traffickers. A strict measure against these challenges is believed to reduce incidences<br />
of sexual abuse/exploitation significantly.<br />
On the issue of parenting, different parents raised different views and concerns. Some stressed<br />
that, despite the presence of external challenges, parents could still do better to protect their<br />
children. The following comment by Iyayu's mother touches on issues raised by many parents.<br />
A wheat seed dies to bring life to another seed. Parents should sacrifice to save their<br />
children. There are things beyond our control. For example, we cannot control the<br />
movement of drugs and the kinds of videos shown in video houses. However, we can<br />
advise our children; give them love and all the assistance they need; make them our<br />
priorities. Physical punishment or scolding does not work. It makes them liars and<br />
secretive. If you want your children to open up, you should be the role model. The problem<br />
is that there are many children without an adult figure in the family. There are migrants.<br />
Such children need NGOs or government assistance.<br />
For parents whose children were sexually abused or exploited, the ordeals were unexpected and<br />
dramatic or complex and uncontrollable. A father whose son was raped by a man said, "My son’s<br />
experience is hard to believe and imagine. No one would have conceived that he would have been<br />
subjected to such a cruel and immoral act. Otherwise, I would have taken every possible measure<br />
to prevent [it]." According to a mother of another victim (a boy), "I believe that I am raising my<br />
children with the utmost care and attention. It is only one, of my five children, who became a<br />
victim. It never occurred to me that such a thing would befall him." Both parents became vigilant<br />
after the devastating incidents that they had never expected to happen. A mother of two female<br />
commercial sex workers and one street boy explained how difficult it was for her to command<br />
respect from, and discipline, her children. The fact that she was poor and a prostitute made it much<br />
more difficult for her to protect them. She reported:<br />
I have taken serious measures to prevent the girls from becoming prostitutes and the boy<br />
from living on the street. I tried to advise them over and over again. It did not work. I<br />
scolded them. It did not work. I used physical punishment. That never worked, either.<br />
There was nothing that I did not try to save my children from danger. The problem is that I<br />
cannot command moral power to advise my children on ethics and cultural values. They do<br />
not listen to me. They ask: who are you to tell us what to do? My 14-year-old daughter has<br />
attended counseling programs. However, she did not stop commercial sex work.<br />
Another view came from a guardian of a migrant girl. The informant explained why she failed to<br />
stop the girl from commercial sex. She noted, "I tried to advise her to try jobs other than<br />
prostitution. But other jobs require a guarantor and the HIV/ADIS test. She did not have a<br />
guarantor, and nor did she want to take the HIV test. On the other hand, prostitution does not<br />
require any condition."<br />
Parents were asked to characterize the quality of resilient children or factors that helped children<br />
remain resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation. According to lists obtained from different parents,<br />
resilient children are those who care about themselves, have a purpose/goal, respect parents, listen<br />
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to adults, have a few good friends, frequent the church, read books, come from loving/supportive<br />
families, love education, are patient and tolerant, have self-confidence, are raised in families that<br />
are less controlling, have personal strength, are conscious and quick minded, have the courage to<br />
discuss matters openly, are under close family supervision, are not poor, and are born lucky. Most<br />
parents mentioned positive family roles, goal orientation of children, positive peer influence,<br />
learning motivation, and religious affiliation as the key factors.<br />
4.3.2 Perspectives of NGOs and community representatives<br />
Community and NGO representatives were also asked about the characteristics of resilient<br />
children. What they mentioned as protective factors were consistent with those outlined by<br />
children and parents. Like the parents, many representatives of NGOs and communities<br />
complained about the lack of political commitment and weaknesses in the legal system to<br />
clampdown on sex offenders; the failure of the neighborhoods to be vigilant; and the feeling of<br />
shame that discourages victims and their families to report sex offenses. Many noted that the<br />
traditional protective mechanisms have been eroded and that many community level institutions<br />
rarely addressed the problems of sexual abuse and exploitation. A priest stated, "I shall admit the<br />
fact that the church does not have a special program designed to address sexual abuse and sexual<br />
exploitation. We shall work on that front in the future." Regarding a solution, the community<br />
representatives maintained a unanimous view that all should join hands to protect children. The<br />
comment of Paul sums up the views of most informants:<br />
Parents in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> do not share information with children. The usual tendency is to scold<br />
and punish them rather than discuss with them openly and advise them. Communities do<br />
not seem to worry much about sexual abuse/exploitation taking place in the<br />
neighborhoods. This has to change. People should not wait to react until the problem<br />
knocks at their doors. Some religious institutions encourage multiple marriages. Some<br />
discourage the use of condoms. If a poor man has several wives and several children, you<br />
can imagine the difficulty awaiting such families and children. So, religious institutions<br />
should teach that those people who do not have the resources to raise their children<br />
properly should not have many children. At school, there are teachers who think that their<br />
responsibility is to read books for students. Teachers should play important roles in<br />
positively influencing the behavior of children.<br />
The informants also raised commendable initiatives/developments. On the positive side, they<br />
recounted the establishment of new initiatives designed to provide protection to children. For<br />
example, a Deputy Chairman of a community-based organization acknowledged that NGOs have<br />
programs to support poor families, thereby reducing the vulnerability of children; schools have<br />
girls’ clubs and anti-AIDS clubs to fight, among others, sexual abuse/exploitation; and some idir<br />
organizations contribute funds monthly to provide children from poor families with school<br />
uniforms and supplies. This view was consistent with a comment of an NGO director, who stated<br />
that government enactment of laws pertaining to child rights/protection, the sensitization activities<br />
of girls' clubs, and the support provided by NGOs to individuals, families, and communities have<br />
been helpful. Some of the informants representing NGOs indicated their current and/or planned<br />
projects designed to address the issue of sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />
4.4 Intra-category differences and similarities<br />
Informants between 10 and 24 years old were divided into three age groups (10-13; 14-17; and 18-<br />
24) with anticipation that they might differ from each other in their experiences and capacities to<br />
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deal with risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. However, the study does not reveal unique features<br />
that correspond to the three age groups. Instead, a number of differences and similarities between<br />
younger children and grown-ups were observed. Regarding the similarities, almost all informants<br />
have knowledge about sexual abuse/exploitation, although a few appeared not to know about<br />
sexual attacks against boys. Most mentioned names of family members, relatives, friends, or<br />
fellow residents recently or currently subjected to sexual abuse/exploitation. Second, the<br />
overwhelming majority of children and young people in this category were not using addictive<br />
substances such as khat, shisha, cigarettes, and alcoholic beverages. It is important to underline<br />
that these substances are believed to increase vulnerability to sexual attack. Third, most of the<br />
informants mentioned the role of the family or certain members of the family as having a<br />
protective effect. Some also recognized the help of relatives, friends, teachers, and school clubs.<br />
The study revealed age-based intra-category differences as well. First, the older groups (15+)<br />
mentioned that the media, books, and the social environment (e.g., expectations of community,<br />
religion, etc.) influenced their behavior and/or broadened their horizons. The effects of the media,<br />
reading, and social expectations were not felt by smaller children. Second, when asked to express<br />
their aspirations, the smaller children mentioned professions that are highly valued in society<br />
and/or those directly relevant to practical social problems that they witness (e.g., medical doctor).<br />
On the contrary, the aspirations of the grown-ups were rather measured and realistic, and most of<br />
them admitted to have changed their wishful thoughts as they grew up and discovered their<br />
limitations. For example, Imnet Ahmed (19) reported abandoning her old dream of becoming a<br />
medical doctor in favor of an achievable goal - becoming a merchant. In order to realize her new<br />
dream, Imnet reported she is saving Birr 200 to 300 per month.<br />
Third, regarding protection against sexual attack, the smaller children believed that they could<br />
avert risks of sexual abuse by avoiding laughing, cuddling, and talking to boys/men. Hence, they<br />
appeared overconfident and dismissive of possible future assault. Yodit Bantew (12) is one of the<br />
overconfident girls engaged in street vending. She said, "So far, I have not encountered anything. I<br />
do not send wrong signals [to men]. It all depends on how you behave. [The problem is] when you<br />
laugh/smile at their provocative talk." Maritu Birru (13) believed that cuddling and playing around<br />
with boys/men can expose girls to sexual abuse, and she said she refrains from these acts to avoid<br />
the risk. Hilina Giday (14) stated that she does not think she will encounter [sexual assault] in the<br />
future because she returns home on time and refuses men's requests to sleep with her. The smaller<br />
children's idea of risk and protection seem to have been shaped by the crude family instructions<br />
that they should protect themselves by keeping distance from boys/men and the erroneous societal<br />
tendency to blame the victim.<br />
The older groups on the other hand, believed that any woman can be attacked at anytime, and it<br />
takes more than behavioral reservation to prevent sexual assault. Gezashgn Zeru (17) who serves<br />
tea in a neighborhood video screening room, stated, "Although I did not conclude that it will<br />
happen, I ask myself that what if it [rape] happens to me? I get scared. Working in a video room is<br />
difficult because it is crowded with adolescents. I do not want to work here [video room] forever."<br />
Imnet (19), noted, "I experienced [rape] attempts in the past. I am worried that I could be attacked<br />
in the future because of the nature of my work and the place I sleep at night. The owner of the<br />
rental rooms [if offered money] could conspire with the customers to get me into an abusive<br />
situation." Selamawit Fikre (23), said, "I might be attacked by someone, someday, and<br />
somewhere. Rapists are not always strangers. They do not necessarily go for younger girls or<br />
single women. I think all women face the risk."<br />
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5. Recovery from Sexual Exploitation<br />
5.1 Reflections of recovered young women<br />
As indicated earlier, people want to belong to a community. The need for belongingness seems to<br />
increase when one feels isolated, rejected, lonely, and distanced from familiar environments. As it<br />
seems, vulnerability and desperation tend to force some children and young people to accept views<br />
that they would otherwise reject or question under ordinary circumstance. In other words, out of<br />
frustration, due to negative peer influence, for reasons beyond their control, and sometimes with<br />
honorable intentions (e.g., to help family), some children engage in risky behavior such as<br />
commercial sex work. While some continue with their engagements in such risky behavior, others<br />
manage to pull themselves out of exploitative situations. This section examines the recovery of 10<br />
young women from commercial sex work. Most informants reported that different factors<br />
impaired their judgments about the risks involved in their activities. Poverty and family problems<br />
were mentioned as the main reasons behind their decisions to become sex workers. Moreover,<br />
prior rape experiences and negative peer influence activated their risk-taking potentials. The<br />
following discussion focuses on factors that led to recovery, strategies employed, turning points,<br />
support obtained, and relapse experiences/worries.<br />
5.1.1 Motivation for recovery<br />
Although they expected material betterment, none of the ten informants liked sex work. All of<br />
them considered it a shameful, degrading, and risky activity. Many soon realized the gap between<br />
their pre-entry expectations (e.g., material betterment, freedom, etc.) and the reality that awaited<br />
them on the ground (e.g., abuse, exploitation, humiliation, isolation from loved ones, health risks,<br />
etc.). Therefore, some of them thought of the idea of quitting rather early, though the actual<br />
process of recovery demanded time for material, social, and psychological preparation. The<br />
underlying desire to quit commercial sex work was the need to disengage oneself from an activity<br />
surrounded by social stigma, health risks, and different forms of abuse/exploitation.<br />
Some informants (such as Amenech, Azenegash, Saba, and Atsede) decided to quit sex work due<br />
to certain health problems they had and/or major health risks they feared. As soon as she left home<br />
because of poverty and disagreement in the family, Azenegash Fedlu's (15) friends (prostitutes)<br />
rushed her into commercial sex work in less than 48 hours. Azenegash gave up this risky business<br />
after one year and returned home when she was diagnosed with a kidney infection. She said, "I left<br />
the business [sex work] because of sickness. When I went to the health station, I was told that I<br />
had a kidney infection. Then, I decided to stop the business and return home." She believed that<br />
sexual intercourse exacerbates kidney wounds. The 18-year-old Saba Garuma became a sex<br />
worker out of economic desperation and lack of a place to stay following the death of her mother.<br />
She decided to give up sex work due to health problems that made it difficult for her to wait for<br />
customers on the street. Saba added that her current boyfriend's (former customer) insistence to<br />
stop prostitution and live with him as partners partly influenced her decision. Atsede Esatu (18),<br />
who came from Fiche town, north of Addis Ababa, in search of a job as a maid, started<br />
commercial sex work after her employers refused to pay her salary for three months. Prostitutes<br />
living in the neighborhood encouraged her to join the business rather than work as a maid for free.<br />
She quit due to sickness and fear of HIV/AIDS. As indicated in Section 2, Amenech (18), who<br />
started domestic work for a living, was raped twice before she became a prostitute and once<br />
afterwards. She quit the sex work when her health situation deteriorated due to HIV/AIDS. She<br />
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stated, "Now I stopped the business. It is not good for those with HIV. It makes one weaker. I was<br />
told that sex is not good. I experienced pain after every sexual intercourse: exhaustion, trouble<br />
with my knees, internal discomfort, and headache."<br />
Four informants (Tihit, Tigat, Tizita, and Aziza) reported quitting sexually exploitative situations<br />
due to a lack of interest and worries about various risks. As discussed earlier, Tihit (17), started<br />
sex work at the age of 14 to help her elder sister, who was responsible for raising five younger<br />
siblings upon the death of their parents. Tihit was unhappy with sex work. After five months into<br />
the business, she started to seriously think about the risks. One day, she thought of going to the<br />
Middle East to work as a maid rather than staying in the risky activity. Tihit recounted,<br />
I was in the business for five months. Afterwards, I could not bear it…. There were lots of<br />
problems. On the one hand, I did not want my brothers and sisters to run hungry. On the<br />
other hand, I was worried of losing my life. I did not want to die claiming that I was<br />
helping my family. At one moment, I thought of asking my relatives to send me [cover the<br />
visa and transportation cost] to an Arab country. I volunteered for an HIV/AIDS test with a<br />
plan to ask them to send me to an Arab country if the result was negative, and remain a<br />
prostitute if it was positive. When I took the test, you never know God's will, I was free<br />
[the result was negative]. Luckily, I got the visa [to Dubai] within a month.<br />
Tigat Zerihun (18), who lost her father as a child, was sent to Addis Ababa (by her brother to work<br />
and generate income) at the age of six or seven. After working as a dishwasher in a restaurant in<br />
Addis Ababa, she returned to the countryside to live with her mother and uncle. However, she was<br />
re-sent to Addis Ababa to live with her aunt. She could not live at her aunt's home, as she was on<br />
bad terms with her cousins. Out of desperation and negative peer influence, Tigat joined the world<br />
of commercial sex, which she hated and soon abandoned. Worries of HIV/AIDS infection and<br />
advice from another friend (a former prostitute) highly influenced Tigat's decision to stop<br />
practicing commercial sex. Tigat stated, "I started business when I was 15/16. While practicing it,<br />
I quarreled with my friend [who swayed her to sex work]. When you realize that the work is<br />
awful, you complain. I complained to her, we quarreled. Finally, I decided to stop. I had no<br />
intention [to become a prostitute]. When friends push, you get into it, hoping for better."<br />
Tizita Ayalew (18), who had left home due to an argument with her brother following the death of<br />
her mother, became a prostitute at the age of 17 out of desperation. She recovered after six or<br />
seven months into the business. Customers' demands to have sex in unnatural styles and without<br />
condoms, among others, discouraged her from pursuing the business. Aziza Kenedy (18), who<br />
came from the countryside due to a minor argument with her father, started life in Addis Ababa as<br />
a dishwasher. Three months later, she became a commercial sex worker. She got tired of it and<br />
abruptly quit after two years in the business when she was offered a bed-renting job.<br />
Hiwot Getamesay (20) who started sex work to help her brothers complete their studies, decided<br />
to stop after accomplishing her mission. Although her family kicked her out because of her<br />
engagement in the 'shameful activity,' she continued to send money to prevent her brothers from<br />
dropping out of school due to poverty. The time they finished their studies coincided with three<br />
other developments that facilitated her determination to quit. First, one of her best friends saved<br />
Birr 3000, disengaged herself from sex work, and left for the Middle East to work as a maid.<br />
Before she left for the Middle East, her friend arbitrated between Hiwot and her family to ensure<br />
their reunion. Second, two other friends of Hiwot's (sex workers) suffered major injuries during<br />
fights with customers: one lost her eye and the other sustained a broken tooth. Hiwot took this as a<br />
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divine warning to her. Third, she was accepted by CHAD-ET as a peer educator (for which she<br />
was paid Birr 75/moth), given skills training, and hired as a staff member of the organization.<br />
5.1.2 Strategies employed/steps taken<br />
Two former sex workers (Aziza and Tizita) recovered without prior plan and preparation. This is<br />
because they enjoyed opportunities and support that they never knew, received, or considered<br />
important. Aziza disengaged herself from commercial sex work the day she was accepted by<br />
Naod, a young man who has a small NGO dedicated to supporting the recovery of prostitutes.<br />
Likewise, Tizita quit the day she got the bed-renting job.<br />
For others (such as Tihit, Tigat, and Hiwot), however, the recovery experiences represented a well<br />
thought-out and step-by-step process. Tihit's plans involved step-by-step actions: taking an<br />
HIV/AIDS test to know if she was free of the virus; confronting her uncle about her sex work<br />
story head-on and challenging him with a request to cover the cost of her trip to the Middle East;<br />
quitting sex work and going abroad. The plan worked for her. Tigat needed five months from the<br />
day she decided to stop sex work. This is because she did not have any alternative means of<br />
livelihood to fall back on. While practicing sex for a living, she started to sell boiled potatoes. In<br />
the course of the five months, she managed to secure dependable customers to buy her potatoes<br />
and other items. Then, she quit. Tigat recounted,<br />
What you see after entering [commercial sex work] is not good. You could get pregnant<br />
when the condom breaks, and then you would suffer more as a single mother. I decided to<br />
quit and survive by selling qolo [roasted grain]. Thank God, selling potatoes is good. I did<br />
not quit the business [sex work] immediately after deciding to start this work [selling<br />
potatoes]. While selling potatoes, I was practicing sex for money, as I had to pay house<br />
rent. Now, I stopped [the sex work]. What else do you need, if you can pay house rent and<br />
fill your stomach? In the past, my dream was to be a merchant, to sell things on the street. I<br />
started to cook potatoes near the house I rented. It took some five months [to quit sex<br />
work]. Quitting was very difficult. For the time being, you would think about the money<br />
[needed to live]. It took five months because the potato business, until people got used to<br />
it, did not have a market. Since there was house rent and the cost of food [to be covered], it<br />
was necessary to stay [in commercial sex business] until the [potato selling] business was<br />
established.<br />
Hiwot's strategy to get back home was also a step-by-step move. First, she started to visit her<br />
family more frequently than ever before, in order to reestablish an emotional connection. Second,<br />
she sent elders (arbitrators) from the neighborhood and her friend to convince her family to let her<br />
return home. Although the negotiation lasted for about six months, her efforts paid off in that the<br />
family accepted her. Azenegash had difficulty in deciding to quit sex work. Originally, she left her<br />
family partly due to poverty, which remained the same by the time she was considering quitting.<br />
She was worried not only about the poor quality/quantity of food at home, but also about her<br />
addiction to khat and cigarettes. Moreover, she had to make sure that her family was willing to<br />
accept her return home. Her elder sister conveyed her message that she was sick and determined to<br />
quit sex work. The family received her back. Later on, her parents asked her to take an HIV/AIDS<br />
test, and the result was negative. Mekdelawit (14), who left home around the age of nine due to an<br />
argument with her mother, became a prostitute after a while. She quit the business when Naod<br />
accepted her in his temporary shelter for recovering sex workers.<br />
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5.1.3 Turning points<br />
Entry into commercial sex work and quitting the profession may be explained in terms of causal<br />
factors and turning points that mark the transition from good-to-bad and bad-to-good. The ten<br />
recovered former commercial sex workers shared their experiences about moments or events that<br />
turned their lives around for better or worse. This section discusses specific moments that<br />
triggered the descent of these young women into abusive/exploitative situations and those that<br />
motivated or facilitated their recovery.<br />
a) Starting sex work<br />
The ten young women lived in family environments with parents, siblings, and/or other close<br />
relatives. The transition from a family environment to the world of sex work may be discussed at<br />
two levels: the decision to leave home and that to become a prostitute. The study reveals that five<br />
of the ten informants (Amenech, Aziza, Mekdelawit, Tigat, and Tizita) left their homes because of<br />
disagreements/quarrels with family members. Although the individual stories are different, lack of<br />
patience/understanding and failure to resolve family matters peacefully led to adverse situations.<br />
Amenech's father asked her to leave when she tested positive for HIV/AIDS. Aziza regretted<br />
leaving her family over a minor problem with her father, who behaved difficult when he got<br />
drunk. Mekdelawit left home after a furious argument with her mother over an allegation by her<br />
teacher that she was cuddling with boys in the school. Mekdelawit denied the allegation and left<br />
home out of fear and anger. Tigat lived with very loving and caring aunt, but she decided to run<br />
away because of disagreement with her cousins. Like with many others, the experience of Tizita<br />
reveals how frustration built up over long period culminated in a decision that adversely affected<br />
her life. She explained how she left home and started sex work as follows.<br />
I do not know my father. My mother raised me. She has a son from another man. Now, my<br />
mother is not alive. I could not live in harmony with him [her brother]. He got married in<br />
the house [that belonged to both]. We could not be in harmony, we quarreled often. When<br />
he started to beat me up, I eventually got angry and left the house. Then, I had no place to<br />
pass the night. With some money that I had, I found accommodation. When the money was<br />
finished, I stayed a night on the street. Then, I started the business.<br />
Three informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit) left their homes mainly due to economic reasons.<br />
As discussed under 5.1.1 above, Hiwot and Tihit claim to have planned to take the risk and<br />
sacrifice to support their siblings, while Azenegash abandoned her home without any clear plan.<br />
The remaining two informants (Atsede and Saba) left their homes for different reasons. Atsede<br />
was sent by her family to work in Addis Ababa (as a maid), while Saba was kicked out of a rental<br />
house when her mother (the breadwinner) died.<br />
Except for Hiwot and Tihit, the eight recovered young women did not leave their homes to engage<br />
in sex work. The study shows that six (Atsede, Azenegash, Aziza, Tigat, Saba, and Tizita) had no<br />
intention to become prostitutes. However, they were swayed into the profession and coached by<br />
friends, neighbors, and acquaintances, who were themselves prostitutes. After leaving their homes,<br />
it appears, these young women got disoriented, frustrated, and sought advice from the wrong<br />
people. Amenech started sex work because of heavy pressure from her employer and co-workers<br />
in a local bar. Azenegash's experience, which could be considered typical, illustrates that entry<br />
into sex work is rather fast and easy.<br />
I started business on my second day after leaving home. I started it at age 13 and stopped at<br />
14. I got into it through my friends. They convinced me to work with them. We stood on<br />
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the street, with makeovers and wearing cosmetics. A man approached me and asked how<br />
much I charge. I told him, 'Birr 20 for short [one round] and 40 for all night.' The man<br />
agreed, and we went to a room. My friends were looking out for me in case the guy tried to<br />
hurt me. In the room, he asked me to drink some alcohol, and I declined. I told him that it<br />
was my first time and the drink could make me sick. He tried to convince me. Then he<br />
ordered beer to the room and we started drinking. I repeated that it [sex work] was my first<br />
time. He was a good man. He gave me the money and allowed me to go home. My friends<br />
were happy and I stood on the streets, waiting for more business. Some other guy came<br />
along and I asked Birr 25 for short. He agreed and asked to find a bed [room]. I took him<br />
to my neighborhood. He paid for short and for the bed. He wanted me to sleep with him<br />
again. I told him that he needed to pay another Birr 25. I made Birr 90 and I was<br />
encouraged. Then we went out into the street. One of our friends went for a short, but took<br />
a long time. We all went to her room. There was some kind of dispute. We told the man to<br />
go or we would beat him up. We all carried razor blades to use in case of trouble. He went<br />
away and we went to Merkato Hotel, and started to drink beer. [There] we all got<br />
customers and went out for overnight.<br />
b) Quitting sex work<br />
Many informants noted that certain moments triggered their decision to abandon prostitution.<br />
Tihit, who left home to practice prostitution in Nazareth to help her family, stopped sex work on<br />
the day she was tested negative for HIV/AIDS. She noted, "I was disgusted by the business the<br />
moment I was declared free [of the virus]. I stayed for one week [without engaging in sex work],<br />
during which my friends covered my expenses. I decided to return home. My friends gave me Birr<br />
20 to cover the transportation back to Addis Ababa." The good news about the test result marked<br />
the turning point for Tihit. Ironically, bad news about health status also turned the life of<br />
Azenegash around. A diagnosis of a kidney infection triggered her decision to quit sex work. The<br />
first time she got sick, she did not care much about her health. She resumed sex work as soon as<br />
she got well. During her second visit to the hospital, she was diagnosed with a kidney infection,<br />
and was told that sexual intercourse would exacerbate the infection. Azenegash believed that the<br />
sex work caused the infection, and decided to quit the business right away.<br />
Tizita wanted to quit sex work due to the multiple risks involved. However, she did not know<br />
when and how to stop. It was her violent encounter with a strange customer that made her decide<br />
on quitting the business suddenly and take up a job as a bed-renter. She said,<br />
I met him [a customer] on the street near Daniel Hotel. He asked me to drink with him and<br />
reserve a room at Daniel Hotel. However, we rented a room from a private owner in my<br />
neighborhood. He paid, and when we were about to make love, I saw him tearing the<br />
condom. When I asked what he was doing, he said that he does not like it. I told him that I<br />
had been careful so far, and that I could not have intercourse without [condoms]. Then he<br />
choked me and I struggled hard. The owner of the house arrived with a stick [to her<br />
rescue]. The owner's sister, who was living in the house, also came. We could not outpower<br />
him. The police arrived and as we all walked [to the police station], they were<br />
punching and scolding him. When we arrived at the police station, he showed them an ID<br />
card. He was a police officer. Then, they [the police] asked, 'How could you dare to go to<br />
that neighborhood?’ When I was expecting them to take a legal measure against him, they<br />
warned him not to go to that neighborhood again and set him free. I was disappointed and<br />
decided to quit [sex work]. I was crying. An old woman inquired what had happened to<br />
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me. Upon learning the story and my desire to quit, she asked if I was interested in bedrenting<br />
work. I said yes and started the job.<br />
5.1.4 Support obtained<br />
Support obtained from family members, friends, and/or NGOs played vital roles in inspiring,<br />
encouraging, facilitating, and consolidating recovery from sexual exploitation. Many informants<br />
reported to have obtained assistance in the form of ideas, encouragement, funds, materials, and/or<br />
training. The financial or material support gave them economic security, at least in terms of<br />
meeting their immediate needs. Assistance extended in the form of sponsorship for education,<br />
skills training, and trip to the Middle East addressed their worries about the future. The very act of<br />
considering commercial sex workers for some kind of assistance elevated their self-esteem and<br />
reassured their social relevance. Those who received support (especially assistance from NGO)<br />
felt connected to and accepted by the society.<br />
Seven of the ten informants have not been reintegrated into their respective families. Neither have<br />
they received any family support. Three informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit), however, have<br />
been reintegrated and received different forms of support from their respective families. For<br />
example, Tihit's travel to Dubai was covered by her uncle and her elder sister, who contributed<br />
Birr 5000 and Birr 2000 respectively.<br />
Seven informants reported receiving assistance from their friends as follows. Tigat mentioned that<br />
her friend (former prostitute) supported her recovery process through advice and by providing a<br />
helping hand in her potato business. Aziza indicated that her friend's (a student) advice and<br />
encouragement to give up sex work influenced her decision to quit. Tizita was thankful to an old<br />
woman who offered her a bed-renting job on the day she had a trouble with the police officer.<br />
Tihit received financial and moral support from her friends (commercial sex workers) from the<br />
day she was tested negative for HIV/AIDS to the day she left Nazareth town, a week later. Hiwot<br />
acknowledged her friend (ex-prostitute) for serving as a role model and for facilitating her reunion<br />
with her family. Saba's decision to abandon sex work was partly influenced by her boyfriend's<br />
strong desire to see her quit. Azenegash stated that she would not have pulled herself out of sex<br />
work had it not been for her friend's (a prostitute) offer to cover certain expenses. She explained,<br />
I went to my friend and told her that I had no khat, no money, and that I was frustrated and<br />
wanted to return [to sex work]. She promised to give me Birr 10 a day for my addictions.<br />
'Birr 1 for cigarette and Birr 9 for khat is enough,' she said. She made me stop thinking<br />
about going back to the streets. My family would not take me back had I left a second<br />
time. She convinced me not to do it. She told me that I could have breakfast and lunch with<br />
her and chew khat with her. Then, I went back home. She is still doing ‘business’. She<br />
warned that I would die if I restarted sex work. So, I stopped.<br />
Four informants recognized the contributions of NGOs to their recovery. Tizita was lucky to have<br />
met Zemi, a businesswoman dedicated to supporting recovering prostitutes through education and<br />
skills training. Accordingly, Tizita received support to continue with her education. Zemi asked<br />
Tizita to contact and list prostitutes willing to quit sex work and take up formal education or skills<br />
training. She said, "While working as a bed renter, accidentally, I met Zemi and I told her that I<br />
wanted to continue with my education. She supported me and now I am in grade 8 at school. Zemi<br />
encourages me by giving clothing. When I complain about hardships, her workers also give me<br />
money so that I do not return to the previous work." Aziza was also supported by Zemi. She<br />
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eceived training in hair dressing. Mekdelawit linked her decision to stop sex work to being<br />
accepted by Naod's shelter for recovering prostitutes. She was into the business until the day she<br />
was accepted to the shelter.<br />
The effect of NGO support on Hiwot deserves special mention. Her involvement in CHAD-ET (as<br />
a peer educator, skill trainer, and staff) was crucial in terms of preventing relapse. Working for<br />
CHAD-ET, as a regular staff, boosted her self-esteem and social acceptance in the family and the<br />
neighborhood. As a peer educator, she was proud to be of help to others. In the future, she wants<br />
to help children in exploitative situations. She noted,<br />
Now I make a monthly salary of Birr 300. There is pleasure in knowing that people treat<br />
me like a salaried employee. I feel contented when I dress up and go to work in the<br />
morning and get home at dusk. My parents and my brothers greet me in and out of home,<br />
calling me by my nickname. It is a gratifying thing to get recognition. My objective is to<br />
help girls and grown-up women in this kind of life get out, as I have seen the ugly face of<br />
it. I had suffered terrible discrimination. I know the stigma attached to commercial sex<br />
workers by the community. I want to teach young girls how to break out of this habit. I<br />
want to be a change agent.<br />
5.1.5 Relapse incidences and worries<br />
The recovery experiences of seven informants were fairly smooth in that none of them reported<br />
major challenges in quitting sex work, incidences of relapse, and/or worries about their future.<br />
However, two informants (Amenech and Hiwot) reported to have experienced relapses, while one<br />
informant (Azenegash) appeared uncertain about her future. Amenech experienced four relapses.<br />
She stopped sex work when she got sick and resumed whenever she recovered.<br />
Upon deciding to quit, Hiwot sent elders to convince her family to accept her back. It took her<br />
family six months to accept her request. In the meantime, Hiwot continued to sleep with men for<br />
money. She continued to see her old customers even after returning home and while working as a<br />
peer educator. She used the CHAD-ET work as an excuse to stay overnight. According to Hiwot,<br />
detaching oneself from habits such as sex work [especially from] regular customers presents a<br />
very difficult challenge.<br />
Azenegash's life was full of despair. Poverty remained a major challenge in her family, and she<br />
was often on bad terms with her siblings. It was not clear whether she wanted to stay with her<br />
family or in Addis Ababa, for that matter. For some reason, her dream to go to the Middle East to<br />
work as a maid appeared a remote chance. She also mentioned about going to the regional towns<br />
in <strong>Ethiopia</strong> to work as a sex worker - a disturbing revelation of possible relapse in the future.<br />
5.1.6 Daily routines of recovered young women<br />
Of the ten recovered young women, four (Atsede, Azenegash, Aziza, and Tizita) were engaged in<br />
bed renting and three (Amenech, Saba, and Tigat) in petty trade/street vending. Hiwot seemed to<br />
earn relatively more than most others as she worked for CHAD-ET as a regular employee and<br />
engaged in bed renting on a part-time basis. Tihit seemed to be in a much better financial position<br />
for she saved money in the Middle-East by working as a maid. Mekdelawit was enrolled in<br />
regular school with the help of an NGO and her mother. Although the daily incomes of the bed<br />
renters and street vendors were significantly lower than their earnings as sex workers, all but<br />
Azenegash expressed strong determination not to slide back to prostitution. The daily routines of<br />
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two informants are presented below to show a glimpse of their lives, the social environment in<br />
which they operated, and the ups-and-downs they experienced.<br />
Tizita, who was happy with her new life, operated under busy daily schedule. She said:<br />
Zemi [a business woman who supports recovering prostitutes] asked me to list the names<br />
of commercial sex workers who would like to quit like me. She gives training in hair<br />
dressing to those who do not want to enroll in school. She helps them in getting jobs, too.<br />
Every night, I contact those girls whom I knew and those willing to change, and I give the<br />
list to Zemi. In the morning, I make the [rental] beds and do other things. In the afternoon,<br />
I go to school. Then [at night], I go out early to rent the beds. After that, when the business<br />
workers [prostitutes] come out, I go there and take their names. Between 7:00 pm and 9:00<br />
pm, the beds will be rented out as they are not many. I hand the money over to the<br />
[land]lady. After 10:00 pm, I talk to business [sex] workers to find out those interested in<br />
education. I walk around to talk to them, and they come to me, saying, "She worked with<br />
us in the past and now she has changed.". This registration work does not take more than<br />
an hour [a day]. So far, I changed about 28 children. Now, all are not in the business [sex]:<br />
some are trained by Zemi, others are students.<br />
Saba, who also became busy with her new life, was optimistic about the future. She stated:<br />
My present friend advised me to quit and I did. He gave me Birr 100, with which I bought<br />
chickpeas, potatoes, cigarettes, peanuts, and service plates [to start street vending]. I sell<br />
these items every night on the street in front of my rented house. Although the income is<br />
not comparable [to what she earned as a prostitute], if I stay late at night, I earn Birr 10 to<br />
15 per day. I work from 5:00 pm to 1:00 am. He also helps me, meaning, he pays the house<br />
rent, Birr 150. Now, we live together. While quitting the business, I used to visit my<br />
friends [prostitutes] in the Berenda area. I did not want to cut off our friendship. However,<br />
I was not doing business because I hated that life. Now, I chew khat once in a while. He<br />
also chews. He brings Birr 30 to 40 [per day]. So far, we do not have children. My old<br />
neighbors know that I gave up the sex work. They see me selling items on the street. They<br />
say, "That is good, keep it up." I stay on the street until 1:00 am. I do not believe that<br />
staying late would expose me to other things [sexual assault] because Areqe [liquor] is sold<br />
in the area and there are lots of people on the street. There are bed renters. I stay with them.<br />
There is a demand [for her goods]. I sleep in the morning. Then, I purchase, prepare, and<br />
sell the goods. Tomorrow, change will come. It does not occur at once. This is what I<br />
think.<br />
5.2 Perspectives of parents, community and NGO representatives<br />
Parents, NGO representatives, and community leaders were asked questions about the kinds of<br />
children/young people with greater propensity to recover from sexual abuse/exploitation, and the<br />
social environment conducive for recovery. Different informants provided lists of personal<br />
qualities and the appropriate social contexts under which recovery may be expected. A community<br />
representative (a nurse) explained, "Those who were forced into abuse/exploitation, those who<br />
were not addicted to drugs, and those with goals to reach tend to recover." According to a guardian<br />
of a migrant prostitute, "Those who started commercial sex work against their interest out of<br />
desperation and those who received counseling from NGOs would quit the sex work easily." A<br />
priest remarked, "If they [sex workers] are provided with proper education [religious] and material<br />
support, they would recover. Children need a welcoming environment. Like the Church does,<br />
families and communities should welcome them to facilitate their recovery." A representative of a<br />
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local NGO working on children noted, "Recovery is facilitated when the victim has the confidence<br />
in his/her future, when support is available from other sources, and when the family or close<br />
relatives are supportive and welcoming.<br />
According to data gathered from the majority of informants, factors that facilitate recovery from<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation may be grouped into three: the presence of motivation and determination<br />
to recover on the part of the victim, the availability of external support to facilitate the recovery,<br />
and the existence of a welcoming environment to ensure reintegration into family and society.<br />
Most informants were cautious about the dynamics of recovery because once recovered does not<br />
necessarily mean a done deal. Hence, they underlined the need for a favorable environment and<br />
external support to prevent risks of relapse.<br />
With this fundamental understanding, certain NGOs claimed to be working on the recovery of<br />
sexually abused and/or exploited children in a variety of ways. CHAD-ET conducts recovery<br />
programs for vulnerable and sexually exploited children through the provision of different forms<br />
of skill training. IPSO works with families to build a strong and loving family environment, with<br />
communities to make them more responsible and vigilant, and with disadvantaged children to<br />
enhance their problem solving skills. Sexually abused and vulnerable children were the direct and<br />
primary beneficiaries of OPRIFIS, an NGO that provided a safe home, psychological support,<br />
education, medical support, reunification, child rights, capacity building, to list some. The<br />
organization also worked with families, communities, and local organizations that work with<br />
children. FSCE provided support to sexually abused and exploited children. These included<br />
washing and laundry services, health and sex education, medical treatment, non-formal education,<br />
play and recreation, guidance and counseling, reintegration, and skill training. In addition to<br />
providing counseling services to sexually abused children, ANPPCAN carried out legal advisory<br />
work and follow-up that included producing witnesses to give testimony to the police,<br />
encouraging children to supply information, and follow-up on the legal course of action.<br />
5.3 Intra-category similarities and differences<br />
Recovered young girls could not be identified for the age group 10-13. At early age, entry into<br />
exploitative situation is expected rather than recovery. Among the ten young women between the<br />
ages of 14 and 20 included in the sample, there was no significant age-based difference. Instead,<br />
they seemed to have a lot in common. For example, eight young women became sex workers<br />
when they were between the ages of 13 and 15. All of them expected material betterment and<br />
social freedom. However, all soon hated the business because of health risks and different forms<br />
of abuses, not to mention the social stigmatization. They realized the huge gap between their<br />
expectations and the reality, and hence wanted to quit as soon as they could.<br />
The study revealed location-based differences in the process of entry into prostitution. Of the ten<br />
informants, six were from Addis Ababa and the remaining four came from the countryside. The<br />
four from the countryside (Atsede, Aziza, Amenech, and Tigat) worked as maids or dishwashers,<br />
at least for three months, before taking up the sex work. On the other hand, the six from Addis<br />
Ababa (Azenegash, Hiwot, Mekdelawit, Saba, Tihit, and Tizita) became prostitutes soon after<br />
leaving their homes. Children living in Addis Ababa are aware of the risks of commercial sex<br />
work, and the availability of other means of making a living in the city. It is not clear why they<br />
made prostitution their first choice. The other difference is that some young women from Addis<br />
Ababa returned home after their recovery from exploitative situations. For instance, three of the<br />
six informants (Azenegash, Hiwot, and Tihit) negotiated with their respective families and<br />
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managed to secure successful reintegration. On the other hand, none of the four village girls<br />
returned home after their recovery. For those from Addis Ababa, it is relatively easy to maintain<br />
close contact with family, negotiate to get back home, and find alternative means of living.<br />
6. Victims of Sexual Abuse/Exploitation<br />
This chapter lays emphasis on the different forms of abuse and sexual exploitation meted out to<br />
children. In regards to child prostitutes, the chapter considers the coping strategies they use to deal<br />
with problems related to sex work and day-to-day living. Other aspects of their life such as the<br />
nature of relationship with family and effort made to escape sex work are also discussed.<br />
6.1 Forms of abuse and sexual exploitation<br />
6.1.1 Physical abuse<br />
Based on the information provided by child prostitutes, it can be said that physical abuse of sex<br />
workers is a characteristic of the practice. The perpetrators include customers, gangsters in the<br />
neighbourhood and senior prostitutes. It is reported that customers use different pretexts to resort<br />
to physical violence. Thus, they may refuse to pay the negotiated sum after sex, practice sex with<br />
condom, or may demand an unconventional form of sex. Atsede Esatu, age 18, described the<br />
situation in this way:<br />
Some men demand sex for free. Or they refuse to pay after they had sex. Others steal<br />
money from the prostitutes. Intoxicated on alcohol or khat, a lot of men practice aggressive<br />
sex, or ask for unconventional forms. Prostitutes who refuse or challenge their customers<br />
risk physical abuse and brutalities.<br />
With the intention of getting sexual and financial advantages, gangsters who live around use<br />
physical attacks or threats to force child prostitutes to do their bidding. Currently sexually<br />
exploited Jember Feleke, age 17, related this bitter experience:<br />
A young boy asked me to sleep with him for free. I refused to go to bed without money.<br />
Then he started verbal abuse. But he could not threaten me into accepting his demand.<br />
Then he drew a razor blade and ran away after making a big cut on my neck.<br />
Older sex workers are also reported to commit physical abuse on younger and less experienced<br />
prostitutes. Mentioned as a reason is that the senior sex workers may want to force the younger<br />
children to share with them what they have earned from sex work. When the children refuse and<br />
resist, their seniors respond with physical violence to retaliate or pressure them to compromise.<br />
6.1.2 Sexual abuse of young girls<br />
Gang rape represents one of the serious forms of sexual abuse that child prostitutes experience.<br />
Normally, one man negotiates sex with a prostitute. But when she goes to sleep with the man, she<br />
may find a number of his friends waiting to have sex against her will. Currently recovered Hiwot<br />
Getamesay, age 20, shared this firsthand experience:<br />
One day, I agreed to sleep with a young man who was familiar with me. When we arrived<br />
at the place, I saw six young boys who were waiting. Once I got into the room, the young<br />
boys raped me one after another. Some of them refused to wear condom. When it was<br />
over, I had a sore body and walked back home with great pain.<br />
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According to the children who are currently exploited, a number of customers demand to have sex<br />
without condom. Initially, some men may agree to wear condom. But in the room, they start to<br />
argue against doing so. Or they wear the material only to remove it before the act. Others offer a<br />
greater sum of money to persuade the prostitute to accept unsafe sex. The case of Tihun Getachew,<br />
age 16, is one out of numerous stories descriptive of condom-related sexual abuse:<br />
I slept with a man after he agreed to wear condom. He did so in the first round. Later, he<br />
tried to do sex without one. When I refused, he began to beat me up. I reported to the<br />
police, but they did not help. Indeed, the police made fun of me, and sent me away without<br />
sympathy.<br />
Condom-related sexual abuse is known to be associated with the risks of HIV and other STIs,<br />
unwanted pregnancies, abortions and related health complications.<br />
Another form sexual abuse involves pressuring child prostitutes into practicing anal and oral sex,<br />
widely viewed as alien and unconventional in the cultural context of the study community.<br />
Generally, the child prostitutes are shocked and outraged at the thought of attempting such acts.<br />
But often they face the risk of physical abuse as a result of reluctance or refusal to follow these<br />
procedures. Besides, unconventional sex can have serious health implications for the children.<br />
This is because, according to the child informants, such sex is usually practiced without condom.<br />
6.1.3 Sexual abuse of male children<br />
Although not very common, the rape of male children is another form of child sexual abuse<br />
prevalent in the research community. As a result of being raped, the victims have to endure painful<br />
emotional and psychological consequences. Of course, the degree of the trauma, the coping<br />
mechanisms used, and the pace and extent of recovery may vary from one victim to another.<br />
The emotional and psychological impacts range from anger and resentment to hate, depression,<br />
anxiety, sense of insecurity, hopelessness and the drive for revenge. These negative emotions<br />
weigh heavily on the children so that they find it difficult to concentrate and remain stable. Also it<br />
becomes a challenge for them to mix with their peer group. In extreme cases, their problems may<br />
deteriorate into mental health cases that require professional therapy. Mequanent Temesgen, age<br />
12, described his situation as follows:<br />
My peers gossip about me around school and in the neighbourhood. They tell each other<br />
that I was raped. Some even shout insults making mention of my experience openly. I get<br />
annoyed and upset at such gossip and name-calling. This morning I was similarly harassed<br />
and verbally abused by my school mates. So I stayed away from class in the afternoon.<br />
A review of the responses by male children who were raped underscore that the social stigma<br />
attached to this form of sexual abuse has far-reaching consequences. In the local cultural context,<br />
the social stigma against raped boys is much more severe than against girls. As a result, victims<br />
are discouraged from disclosing what happened to the most intimate of family members. Given<br />
this, the emotional recovery of some raped boys may be attributed to their belief that no one<br />
knows about their rape. Sani Kemal, age 16, observes that he has not disclosed his case to anyone,<br />
which is helping him to cope successfully:<br />
I know children in my community who are said to have been raped by the same man who<br />
abused me. These children are constantly teased and harassed by their peers. The children<br />
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are irritated, embarrassed and troubled by such mistreatment. It also makes it difficult for<br />
them to forget about the rape. I do not experience these problems since my friends do not<br />
know that I am a victim as well.<br />
6.1.4 Sexual exploitation of child girls by brothel owners<br />
The study area is notorious for the commonness of brothels. These brothels are operated mostly by<br />
ladies who were themselves sex workers. The brothel owners hire child prostitutes to work at their<br />
place on conditions. Most of the child prostitutes who work under these ladies are young girls who<br />
migrated or were trafficked from the rural areas. Although some of the children approach the<br />
ladies on their own, a large number of them are, however, delivered to the brothel owners by<br />
brokers. As for children who come from the Addis Ketema community, the main reason why they<br />
join brothels on the terms of the ladies is the desire to operate in secret from relatives. The lady<br />
bosses are commonly referred to as balluka. The term signifies their ownership of the business. It<br />
also denotes their position as the sharers of the income of the sex workers.<br />
Usually, the children operate under the brothel bosses on the basis of two working arrangements.<br />
In the first case, the ladies allow the children to occupy a small room at the brothel for which they<br />
pay an agreed amount per day. The payment ranges from Birr 30 to Birr 50 daily. Location of the<br />
brothel, its condition, and the attitudes of individual brothel owners are the main factors that<br />
determine the rent. A child prostitute who operates on these terms has to pay the rent daily<br />
whether she has got an income or not.<br />
The second type of working arrangement is yekul (equal share of income). In this arrangement, the<br />
child prostitute is required to share with her boss half of the income that she gets from every client<br />
she sleeps with in a day. Children forced into this arrangement are mostly the ones who cannot<br />
afford to have their own beds and household utensils. The bosses make available these things for<br />
the children as part of the deal. The children may agree to operate for 12 or 24 hours. The bosses<br />
make sure that the children sleep with as many customers as possible to maximize the size of their<br />
income. To achieve this, the ladies impose restrictions on the children’s social contact, sleep and<br />
leisure time. Jemanesh Tamene, age 17, describes how exploitative yekul arrangement is:<br />
I operate day and night at a brothel. My sleeping time is when I share bed with a customer.<br />
I keep waiting for a customer at the door of the brothel whenever I am not with a man. I am<br />
not allowed to have a break and join my friends at coffee party. Nor does the lady permit<br />
me to sleep when I get too tired for lack of rest. She controls my work and income by<br />
counting the clients who sleep with me. She peeps through a hole in the shared wall to find<br />
out whether I am alone or with a man. She also counts the used condoms to calculate the<br />
amount of money I have earned.<br />
Brothel owners (balluka) were interviewed to capture their opinions on the subject of child sexual<br />
exploitation. They did not describe their business as exploitative. Still, they acknowledged that<br />
that they benefited from the child girls involved in prostitution. A brothel owner, who hires two<br />
child sex workers, remarked:<br />
I see to it that the child girls I hire are smart and attractive. I prefer to rent my rooms to sex<br />
workers since it brings me more income. If I rented them to other people, I would earn no<br />
more than Birr 600 monthly. But I get twice as much per room from the sex workers. So<br />
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the child prostitutes are a source of income for us. For this reason, we refer to them as<br />
minibus taxies 19 .<br />
6.2 Coping with day-to-day life situations<br />
The category of currently exploited children includes young prostitutes operating in different<br />
situations and coming from diverse backgrounds. Some are literate with limited exposure to<br />
formal schooling. Others are migrants from the rural background, often with little schooling. The<br />
way they practice prostitution also differs from child to child. Many operate on the street where<br />
they wait and get the customers. Others are based at brothels where they share the money they<br />
earn with the room owners. Depending on the working arrangement, the child prostitute may<br />
operate for twenty-four or twelve hours each day. There are a few involved in bed renting during<br />
the day, and sex work during the night. Some street girls go out for sex whenever they find a man<br />
who pays for their meals and a place to spend the night. Although not too many, there are young<br />
prostitutes who are also child mothers. Most of the child prostitutes are alcohol and substance<br />
users - addicts to one or another type of substance. Still, there are very few who say that they are<br />
not involved in any form of substance/drug abuse. In spite of this, the vast majority of the child<br />
prostitutes practice a daily routine of life which has a regular pattern. The following two cases<br />
illustrate a typical day in the life of child prostitutes.<br />
Case one (Tiblet Dagne)<br />
Past midnight (at about 1:00 am), when the police chased us away from the street, I<br />
returned to my place to sleep. This morning, I watched a collection of video film clips. The<br />
previous day, I helped my mother with housework until 4:00 pm. Then I went to watch<br />
film at the cinema. About 8:00 pm, I was out on the street to do business. As I was<br />
standing and waiting around, a young man approached me. He asked me if I would sleep<br />
with him. I agreed and he invited me to dinner. He also offered me drinks. But I refused. I<br />
saw the boy was too drunk. When he insisted, I pretended to drink. But actually, I was<br />
emptying the glass on the floor. As we were in bed, I stole the money he had, and got out<br />
of the room leaving him asleep. Three days ago, I woke up late in the morning. In the<br />
afternoon, I went to the video house and stayed there until 8:00 pm. Afterwards, I slept<br />
with a man overnight and earned Birr 80. I have a friend nicknamed Mitta. She had no luck<br />
that night in dong business. So the next morning, I ate breakfast with her.<br />
Case two (Tihun Getachew)<br />
Yesterday I did not do business. It was the same the previous night. Three days ago I had<br />
some luck. I slept with two men at different times and got Birr 30 each time. But I am<br />
bored today as I was yesterday. I had to ask people for money to go to video house<br />
yesterday. Before that, I had been to the hairdresser’s. A certain boy paid for my lunch.<br />
The same boy offered me khat which I agreed to chew to relieve myself of boredom.<br />
Today I had decided to sleep in all the time since I am without money. I only left bed when<br />
they woke me up for this interview.<br />
Children practicing prostitution employ various strategies to cope with problems that they face in<br />
the course of their life. The children select and adopt coping mechanisms that they feel are bestsuited<br />
to the particular kinds of problems that they experience. The actions meant to deal with<br />
challenges may be taken by individual children or in groups.<br />
19 The analogy is that sex workers generate income for their bosses like the taxies do for their owners on daily basis.<br />
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6.2.1 Resource sharing and mutual assistance<br />
Mutual assistance and resource sharing is one of the coping strategies that currently sexually<br />
exploited children adopt to manage economic hardships. It seems that the adversities that are<br />
common to the exploited children forges in them a group identity and sense of solidarity. A<br />
manifestation of this is the tendency among the children to extend mutual support, share resources<br />
and come to one another’s rescue.<br />
By its very nature, commercial sex does not guarantee the child prostitutes a source of income that<br />
they can rely upon or even predict. Hence, certain days of the week may only be better than others<br />
in terms of the number of customers who pay for sex. Even then, it is not that the child prostitutes<br />
keep the earnings entirely for themselves. Many have to share it with exploitative room owners. A<br />
large number of others must meet the costs incurred by different habits and needs on a daily basis.<br />
In these situations, it is not uncommon for the children to be penniless. However, it is in the nature<br />
of the business that some earn well on certain days of the week during which others may earn<br />
little. Those who have managed to earn well support their friends who have not been so lucky.<br />
Thus, they share meals with them, spend time together at coffee parties or khat chewing<br />
ceremonies, or join in other activities. Besides, as a common practice, the child prostitutes swap<br />
clothes and lend money to each other as a means to deal with the shortage of clothing and finance.<br />
In connection with this, Tihun Getachew says:<br />
Things are too difficult for me when I run short of money. It is only me who knows how I<br />
made it yesterday. I become so worried and disturbed when I have no cash to spend. I get<br />
confused and do not know what to do. These days, there is not much business and we earn<br />
little. I do not know why this happens. Business goes up and down. It becomes too hard to<br />
manage if I go without work for two days. I pay Birr 15 daily to rent a bed. I cannot afford<br />
to cover the cost on my own each day. So I have to live in a room with another girl who<br />
shares the rent with me. Hence, on the days when I have not earned any money and my<br />
friend has, she pays the rent. Other times when I have got income, I take my turn to settle<br />
the bed rent.<br />
Zuriash Fasika, another teenage girl currently in a state of sexual exploitation, adds:<br />
Normally, we support each other. Whether we operate in rented rooms or on the streets, we<br />
do not make difference between ourselves. Those of us who live and work in rented rooms<br />
help children who do sex work on the streets by giving them clothes to wear or money to<br />
spend to the extent we can. Our habit is such that whatever money some of us earn on a<br />
given day, we spend it in groups with others on meals, khat, and drinks. We do so in the<br />
hope that God will take care of our needs the next day. As usual, we prepare ourselves to<br />
go out and try our luck on the street when evening comes. Of course, not every one of us<br />
may be lucky enough to make it. Still, if one fails another of us succeeds. The practice of<br />
mutual assistance and resource sharing binds us together as a group.<br />
In other cases, forms of mutual assistance or cooperation involve defending a friend who has come<br />
under attack by an abusive customer, or fighting back in her support. In regards to this, a child<br />
prostitute named Roman Tesfahun, age 19, remarked:<br />
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When I face men who insist on having sex with me for free and by force, I resist their<br />
advance. When they do not relent, I shout for help. My friends who hear me shouting<br />
gather from wherever they are around the corner. Then they join me as I try to defend<br />
myself and force him out of my place. If he is too strong for us to overpower, a friend will<br />
report the case to the police patrolling the area so that they come and deal with him.<br />
6.2.2 Maintaining relationships with ‘boyfriends’ or ‘husbands’<br />
As stated earlier, child prostitutes are faced with the threats of sexual and physical violence posed<br />
by gangsters and bullyboys. In order to cope with these problems, they identify themselves with a<br />
certain boy or man as a ‘friend’ or ‘husband’. Such relationship, as they say, spares them the<br />
experience of physical abuse in the hands of gangsters and difficult customers. It is common for<br />
such boys to say that this or that child prostitute belongs to such and such boy or man. Knowing<br />
this, the gangsters are deterred from harassing a child prostitute identified with or belonging to<br />
somebody of their ranks as his ‘girlfriend’ or ‘wife’. The child prostitute who enjoys such<br />
protection reciprocates in the form of free sex, gifts of money or supply of food, drinks, cigarettes<br />
and khat to the boy or man playing the role of ‘husband/protector’. In this respect, Jember Feleke,<br />
who is currently sexually exploited, explains:<br />
I have a boyfriend. His presence protects me against harassment and attack. The boys and<br />
young men in the neighbourhood involved in harassing and attacking girls respect one<br />
another’s interests and do not engage in provocative acts. They leave me alone by saying<br />
“this is the wife of (Mr. X)”. So they show me respect for his sake. They want to avoid a<br />
fight with him that may possibly result if they harass or attack me. Still, when he is not<br />
around, a friend of his can harass and give me a lot of trouble.<br />
On the same note, Emebet Zeleke goes on to say:<br />
I am in a relationship with a certain young man who resides in this neighbourhood. I<br />
started and continue to maintain the relationship so that he protects me against gangsters<br />
and trouble making customers. In return for such service, I give him part of the income that<br />
I have earned by selling my body. He spends the money he receives on drinks and khat. I<br />
cannot refuse giving him money which he demands as a matter of right. In case I<br />
sometimes do not do so, he challenges me by saying “where is the cash from the work you<br />
have done?” When he feels that I have not given him enough money, he complains of<br />
being cheated and may even beat me up. Still, I cannot manage without him since he<br />
comes to my rescue when bullyboys or difficult customers give me a hard time. Since he<br />
lives nearby, I send for him when I need his help. He shows up at once. He kicks around<br />
the trouble makers and drags them out of my place.<br />
6.2.3 The avoidance of risk situations<br />
From experience, child prostitutes are generally aware of what kinds of situations can pose risks as<br />
they practice commercial sex. Hence, they are careful to choose surroundings, customers or means<br />
of travel that they assume are less likely to cause them harm. Accordingly, the children are<br />
cautious about going out for business at distant places or in unfamiliar rented rooms. Similarly,<br />
they tend to avoid a ride accompanying customers in their car. The following cases told by child<br />
prostitutes underscore that risk avoidance is another coping mechanism that they use to deal with<br />
potentially dangerous situations.<br />
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Case one (Tihun Getachew)<br />
I have heard stories about children being driven by customers far away to be raped and<br />
abandoned in the forest. Even more horrifying are the ones I heard about, the so-called the<br />
hyena-men. The [hyena-]men are alleged to eat up or leave the girls that they have taken in<br />
their car stricken with shock and fear. It is said that after such an ordeal the children suffer<br />
the consequence for years. As a result, I never take a ride with customers in their car. Even<br />
in the neighbourhood where I live, I go with the man as long as he walks with me only to a<br />
familiar place.<br />
Case two (Senait Damte)<br />
As street prostitutes, we identify people who practice sex styles and habits alien to our<br />
culture. So when a fellow child sees a man whom she knows to have this tendency or habit<br />
approaching or conversing with me, she signals to me to watch out. At this, I tell the man<br />
that I am waiting for another customer, just to avoid him safely. After his departure, I ask<br />
my friend why she suggested that I avoid him. Then her likely reply is that the man is the<br />
one who asked to do anal sex on her on a previous occasion.<br />
6.2.4 Refusing sex without condom<br />
Child prostitutes report that they have to cope with the demand and use of force by customers to<br />
have sex without condom. Indeed, they indicate that this is one of the common forms of sexual<br />
abuse meted out to them on a routine basis, as stated earlier in this chapter. The children use<br />
different means to protect themselves against such abuse and the risks involved. The mechanisms<br />
employed include persuading the man to wear condom, carrying their own condom, and declining<br />
to sleep except on the condition of safe sex. To make sure that customers are wearing condom,<br />
some of the children said that they insist on watching them doing so. To prevent the risk of the<br />
condom being removed by accident or on purpose, a child prostitute said that she insists on<br />
making sure that her man wears a layer of two condoms. In situations where these mechanisms do<br />
not work, the children reported that they take additional and serious measures. Among these are<br />
dashing out of the room, returning the money paid in advance, and shouting for help. In regard to<br />
this, Getenesh Hailu said:<br />
When a man refuses to use condom, I try to persuade him otherwise. I tell him that it is in<br />
the interest of both of us. But if he continues to resist and resorts to force, I dash out of the<br />
room not even taking time to put on my clothes. At any cost, I avoid sex without condom.<br />
Some men offer more money to make the child prostitutes accept their demand to have sex<br />
without condom. In my case, I never give attention to such enticements or coercion. I shout<br />
to get help or report the matter to the police.<br />
6.2.5 Stealing from customers<br />
Cheating and robbery are said to be among the crimes committed by customers against sex<br />
workers. Child prostitutes retaliated through acts of stealing, but not necessarily from the same<br />
offenders. Driven perhaps by their perception that most men are similarly abusive/exploitative,<br />
besides the motive to use every opportunity to maximize their income, they cheat or steal from all<br />
unsuspecting customers. Most of the children who were interviewed reported that stealing from<br />
customers is a common practice. The following quote from a fourteen-year-old, Tiblet Dagne,<br />
represents a scenario of how the children steal from their customers:<br />
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After making a deal with a man to sleep with him overnight, I receive the payment in<br />
advance. I make sure that we go to a sleeping place where I know the women in charge of<br />
arranging and renting the rooms. Usually, we work hand-in-hand with such women and<br />
street boys that roam around. Supposedly to fetch water for use in the room, I get out<br />
pretending to talk to the woman. Knowing what I am up to, the women lets me disappear<br />
from the place. I waste no time to escape by running as fast as I can. In case, the man<br />
suspects or finds out and runs after me, the street boys who understand the matter from my<br />
rush stop him. They ask him what has gone wrong, pretending to help and calm him down.<br />
Actually, they do that to allow me time to get away so that the man will not be able to<br />
catch up with me. Of course, I will afterward have to share part of the stolen money with<br />
the street boys and the woman responsible for the room.<br />
6.3 Coping with problems related to work and life<br />
Children involved in commercial sex try to manage the problems they face in their daily life in<br />
different ways. Twelve of the twenty-one currently sexually exploited children stated that they<br />
engage in various habits that they believe will make them forget their problems. The common<br />
habits that the children practice when faced with difficulties are chewing khat, drinking alcohol,<br />
breathing in ganja, and smoking tobacco and shisha. When confronted with a serious challenge,<br />
Haimanot Mebratu said that she would cope with it in this way: “I resort to breathing in ganja to<br />
help me forget all about the problem. When I chew khat after puffing on ganja, I am relieved of<br />
my concerns and anxieties”. Zuriash Fasika added: “Chewing khat makes us feel stronger to<br />
withstand sexually vigorous and aggressive men who have themselves chewed khat. Without<br />
chewing khat, it is difficult to cope with men who can inflict pain and harm because of being<br />
sexually too energetic. But when we have chewed khat and feel stronger as a result, we withstand<br />
the impact and cope with the harm inflicted”.<br />
Ten of the twenty-one children mentioned going to church and praying to God as one of the<br />
mechanisms they use to deal with life’s problems. They may employ this mechanism in addition<br />
to other coping methods, or as a sole means of coping with difficulties. Bezawit Ketema relates:<br />
When I am upset, I weep bitterly and implore my God to come to my rescue. I can discuss<br />
the problem with my friends, but most of the time they will only gossip around and spread<br />
my secret to others rather than helping me to solve it. Hence, what is helpful is only to cry<br />
to the Lord. He can free me from this situation at some unexpected day. I never get<br />
involved in the smoking habit. I hate smoking completely. When I encounter a problem, I<br />
only resort to drinking alcohol to help me forget about it.<br />
However, although the children may have faith in God, not all of them still consider themselves<br />
worthy enough to attend church. Feelings of guilt resulting from their practicing prostitution cause<br />
them to perceive themselves as being too unclean to be true believers. Jemanesh Tamene stated:<br />
I consult a close friend about problems other than financial difficulties. But never have I<br />
been to church since I started commercial sex. I hope to resume attending church once I am<br />
out of this kind of life. I do not even stop to look and salute when I walk past the church.<br />
This is because as long as I remain in prostitution, I continue to engage in sinful practices<br />
and lead an immoral life. While I was living with my parents as a small child, I liked to go<br />
to church regularly, though, at present I have completely given up doing so. For example, I<br />
do not fast although this is a major fasting season. I cannot imagine doing it living the kind<br />
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of life in which I sell my body for money. Still, I continue to petition God in my heart and<br />
refrain from visiting the church.<br />
Discussing personal problems with friends is another coping mechanism, as reported by five of the<br />
twenty-one children currently in the state of sexual exploitation. Menbere Demere said: “When<br />
something troubles or outrages me, I prefer to talk it over with my friends. This helps to calm me<br />
down or lay my worries to rest. However, if my anger or anxiety persists, then I resort to drinking.<br />
Afterwards, I forget about it completely.” As indicated earlier, some child prostitutes cope with<br />
problems by crying, using this as one of their mechanisms to manage situations that upset, worry<br />
or enrage them. Stated as further coping mechanisms by certain children are sleeping, singing or<br />
listening to music when faced with troubling thoughts or circumstances.<br />
6.4 Relationships with the family<br />
Children involved in commercial sex by and large continue to practice it without the knowledge<br />
or approval of their families, particularly parents and siblings. For this reason, they make sure<br />
that they operate at a place where they can remain anonymous, and practice out of the sight and<br />
notice of relatives and acquaintances. Hence, in the case for example of children whose origin is<br />
around the research area, they make it a point to do their business in a neighbourhood or part of<br />
the Addis Ketema community away from their place of birth and upbringing. The stigma<br />
associated with the cultural taboo against prostitution is the factor that forces the children to<br />
operate hidden from their families.<br />
Therefore, it is common for the children to lie to their families about their job. Those who<br />
maintain contact with their parents tell them that they are working as waitresses or cashiers in the<br />
service industry such as restaurants, cafes, and hotels. As for the children from the rural areas,<br />
they claim to do domestic work in private homes, or cleaning and washing at places like hotels.<br />
In spite of hiding the truth about their means of livelihood, however, many of the children,<br />
particularly the natives of Addis Ababa, maintain relationships with their families. Depending on<br />
individual children, the degree of their ties with their families may be close or loose. The<br />
relationships may take the forms of paying visits from time to time, especially on holidays or<br />
other occasions marking different family events, making phone calls, and supporting parents and<br />
siblings with material and financial gifts. Based on the stories told by some of the children, it is<br />
possible to observe that there are many who maintain even stronger family ties. For instance,<br />
three of the children interviewed, all practicing prostitution currently, stated that they support<br />
their families as often as they can. They said that they contribute money to supplement the<br />
family budget, or assist their siblings in their education by covering school expenses, as well as<br />
by buying them school uniforms, educational materials and cloths.<br />
Nonetheless, not all of the children have similarly positive or strong relationships with their<br />
families. Some mainly from the rural communities said that they had lost all contact with their<br />
families. As a result, parents and relatives back in the home villages have no idea of their<br />
whereabouts. In the case of children who have lost family contact, the reasons may be family<br />
break-up because of the death of parents, or parental disapproval of engagement in sex work.<br />
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6.5 Efforts made to recover<br />
In view of sexual abuse and exploitation that they suffer, it is no wonder that the vast majority of<br />
child sex workers show an interest to get out of prostitution. Thus, a number of them make an<br />
effort to that end.<br />
Some may show an interest to get out of prostitution, but may not do enough in practice. The<br />
reasons vary according to their individual circumstances. Some expressed that stopping sex work<br />
as a means of income is difficult as child mothers. They assume that, with a baby to take care of,<br />
an alternative source of livelihood is difficult to find. A couple of the children interviewed said<br />
that they did not succeed in their effort to find domestic work because householders are reluctant<br />
to hire children who have babies to care for. In this regard, Jemanesh Tamene said:<br />
So far I have not made any serious effort to stop prostitution. But I am intending to do so<br />
in the future. At the moment, there is no one who will hire me with a child under my care.<br />
The instant they see that I have a baby, they will say: ‘Is she going to do our work or care<br />
for her baby? I am thinking of transferring my baby to the care of my parents after<br />
sometime, and consider trying other activities even peddling.<br />
What prevents others from putting forth the effort to make successful recovery, despite their<br />
interest, is the concern that they cannot manage to get money to finance their various habits such<br />
drinking, smoking, and khat chewing. In the case of Tihun Getachew for instance, her effort to<br />
make recovery was thwarted by her addiction to alcohol and substance. Tihun said:<br />
I have tried to get out of commercial sex. As an alternative means of survival, I started<br />
work as domestic, but I could not manage to continue. The main problem was that I was<br />
addicted to alcohol, khat, and smoking. It was difficult for me to practice these habits<br />
working in a private home. So I had to quit the job days after I started it.<br />
Other children pointed out that the difficulty of making sufficient savings that enables a successful<br />
recovery process was a constraint that stood on their way. They were concerned that lack of<br />
necessities would mean either a return to prostitution or starving to death. Many of them may try<br />
to deposit from their earnings with the intention of saving up enough money to shift to other types<br />
of business. But income from commercial sex is not reliable. They may not do work and thus not<br />
earn money for several days. During this time, they are forced to survive on their savings meant to<br />
help them pull out of sexual exploitation. Others expressed that the difficulty of not getting a<br />
guarantor made it impossible to find other jobs such as domestic work. Hence, they could not take<br />
a courageous step to escape from their situation.<br />
Still, there are some children who are determined not to give up on their efforts, despite<br />
discouraging factors and the patience needed to achieve the desired outcomes. As regards her<br />
experience, Emawayish Zena says:<br />
I am fed up with commercial sex. That is why I have obtained a passport in order to<br />
migrate to an Arab country for work. I processed it as an option to try work opportunities<br />
abroad, if it is not possible to find job here because of not having a guarantor. I was<br />
encouraged by a woman who works as an employment agent. As long as I could afford the<br />
costs for passport, visa and HIV test, she promised that my employment would be<br />
facilitated. However, after I met these requirements, I was asked to pay Birr 2,000 to go to<br />
Qatar, and Birr 6,000 to fly to Dubai. But I cannot afford the travel cost to either<br />
destination.<br />
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6.6 Intra-category similarities and differences<br />
An attempt was made to examine similarities and differences in the range of experience and<br />
patterns of response to situations among children who are currently sexually exploited. From a<br />
close scrutiny of the research data, it was not easy to establish clear differences across the three<br />
age groups (10-13, 14-17, and 18-24). The commonalities across these age groups are so dominant<br />
that they overshadow any shades of differences that may exist. Hence, re-categorizing the children<br />
as junior (10-17) and senior (18-24) was deemed a more practical approach to discern and<br />
recognize the existing similarities and differences.<br />
Accordingly, a number of salient intra-category similarities were identified and captured that cut<br />
across the mentioned two broad age groups. To begin with, a regular pattern is observed in the<br />
daily routines of both the junior and senior child prostitutes. An overwhelming majority of the<br />
children in the two age groups spend a large portion of the day sleeping, after working overnight.<br />
In the afternoons, they mostly spend their time by socializing at coffee parties, chewing khat,<br />
watching video or playing and chatting in groups. By evening they start preparing for the night’s<br />
routine of sex work. Another outstanding and cross-cutting intra-category commonality is that the<br />
parents have no or little knowledge about what the children are doing to eke out their living.<br />
Especially are they ignorant about the children practicing prostitution. Nor are the children willing<br />
to let their parents and relatives know of their involvement in commercial sex. The range of<br />
experience of junior and senior children is also similar in respect to the kinds of physical and<br />
sexual abuse that they are victims of as prostitutes, as discussed earlier in this chapter. Moreover,<br />
the two groups of children in this category adopt closely resembling strategies and mechanisms to<br />
cope with the threats and acts of abuse coming from different abusers and exploiters.<br />
In regard to intra-category differences, the variations observed seem to be tendencies rather than<br />
patterns of behaviour or characteristics that define the respective age groups. In the case of the<br />
junior children, particularly those whose origin is in Addis Ababa, entry into commercial sex tends<br />
to be direct and automatic. This is to say that they jump into the practice without first trying other<br />
activities as a means of livelihood. Senior children, especially of rural background, however, got<br />
involved in small jobs such as domestic work and cleaning and washing in the hotels, before they<br />
shifted to commercial sex. Another mentionable difference is that some child prostitutes in the<br />
junior age group generally appear not to exhibit a keen desire to quit. The 13-year-old Menbere<br />
Demere stated,<br />
I have never tried to pull myself out of this work. I have not experienced a way of life<br />
better than this one. So, I am carrying on with this practice. I am getting the money I need<br />
for my survival from this practice. Hence, I have not thought of trying other jobs such as<br />
serving as a waitress. May be, I will embark on some kind of business provided someone<br />
offers me the capital.<br />
Similar sentiments are echoed by the remarks made by seven other junior child prostitutes<br />
(Birkenesh Aschalew (13), Tihut Temegen (13), Zuriash Fasika (15), Tihun Getachew (16),<br />
Jemanesh Tamene (17), Jembere Feleke (17), Haimanot Mebratu (17). By contrast, senior child<br />
prostitutes exhibit the desire and exert the effort to get out as soon as possible. To that end, they<br />
make savings from their income to shift to an alternative means of livelihood or get the money to<br />
cover their travel cost so as to go and work in Arab countries. Twenty-year old Samrawit Abeje<br />
explains her plan to stop commercial sex in this way:<br />
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Side by side with sex work, I wash laundry for customers. Since the fasting season began, I<br />
have not practiced any of my addictive habits. I was sprinkled with holy water at the<br />
church and made an oath to abstain from such acts and non-fasting food during this period.<br />
The elderly woman who is renting me a room advises me to give up prostitution and try<br />
other business instead. I am intending to take up work as domestic servant in the Sudan.<br />
But I need Birr 2,000 to 3,000 to process my employment.<br />
It is worth noting that, because of their tender age, the junior children look more attractive to sex<br />
customers, as compared with their seniors. Such self-perception gives them the confidence that<br />
they are needed for their comparative physical appeal. Sixteen-year-old Tihun Getachew had this<br />
to say:<br />
My customers are mostly elderly men. They are interested in me because I am a teenager.<br />
Most of the prostitutes in the area where I work are senior to me by age. As a result, men<br />
generally prefer me to them for sex. I am operating in Piazza area. It requires wearing high<br />
quality clothes and make-ups to practice commercial sex in this part of town. But this does<br />
not concern or worry me much. Most men simply take me out seeing that I am much<br />
younger.<br />
As for the senior prostitutes, competition is high among them as they try to outshine one another<br />
in the quality of their dress and make-ups. Notable points of contrast are also apparent between the<br />
junior and senior child prostitutes in regards to future ambitions. In the case of the former, it is<br />
evident that they are inclined to plan for resuming school and realizing a professional dream<br />
commonly shared by their age mates, such as becoming a nurse or a physician. As for the latter,<br />
pursuing education is not on their priority list, probably because of considering themselves as<br />
being too late for it, or unable to succeed after many years of quitting school. Instead, they seem to<br />
think that it is easier for them to perform better and improve their life in small business activities<br />
or vocational skill training and practice like hairdressing, tailoring, and cookery.<br />
7. Cross-category Similarities and Differences<br />
An analysis of cross-cutting features among the three categories of children and young people<br />
reveals the following similarities and differences in their experience.<br />
7.1 Vulnerable versus currently abused/exploited children<br />
It is noteworthy that children who are at risk and those currently abused/exploited can be found in<br />
all three age groups established for the purpose of the research. There is, however, a point of<br />
difference between the two categories in relation to connection with the family. As for vulnerable<br />
children, they generally live with their parents/guardians and therefore get family attention and<br />
follow-up. As a result, they have the benefit of attending school in most cases. It is the opposite<br />
with children currently abused/exploited. By and large, they start practicing commercial sex after<br />
they leave home. Therefore, their families may not have knowledge of their whereabouts or what<br />
they are doing, let alone follow-up on them and make sure that they are secure. In a state of sexual<br />
abuse and exploitation, it is generally unlikely, if not impossible, for such children, to attend<br />
school and make progress.<br />
On the other hand, those currently abused/exploited develop and employ various mechanisms to<br />
cope with problems. This characteristic is apparently a product of their exposure to or experience<br />
of adversities that require the adoption of strategies to manage and survive through sex work and<br />
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the difficulties surrounding it. The use of alcohol and substance abuse as a coping mechanism<br />
distinguishes the currently abused/exploited from the vulnerable, since these habits are closely<br />
linked with their way of life and sub-culture as prostitutes. Vulnerable children also need to cope<br />
with problems that they face. But their coping behavior largely does not involve addictive habits,<br />
and is limited to consulting friends/family members/relatives, turning to the church/God, engaging<br />
in more than one type of activity to support oneself, and inquiring to understand more about things<br />
that they are not knowledgeable about.<br />
The two categories of children also differ in regards to their future ambitions and aspirations. As<br />
far as the vulnerable are concerned, their plans and wishes center around successful completion of<br />
school, and achieving a professional career of some type usually emulating individuals that they<br />
consider as role models. In the case of the currently abused/exploited, particularly the senior<br />
children, their ambitions and goals focus on extracting themselves from the state of abuse and<br />
exploitation, and improving their life in a certain kind of business engagement.<br />
7.2 Vulnerable versus recovered children<br />
A large number of the vulnerable school children engage in small jobs such as bed renting and<br />
street vending/peddling during out-of-school hours and the weekends to support parents and<br />
themselves. These children said that they did not see becoming involved in prostitution as personal<br />
threat or concern. Indeed, some of them totally ruled out such a possibility or outcome. They<br />
explained that routinely observing the bitter experiences that other child prostitutes have to endure<br />
in their neighborhood, it is unthinkable for them to get into a similar situation. It seems that the<br />
same risk environment in which they live and which exposes them to sexual exploitation has<br />
taught them a lesson to protect themselves against becoming the victims of this eventuality. The<br />
following case narrated by the 17-year-old Gezashgn Zeru, vulnerable young girl doing bed<br />
renting, is particularly telling and representative of the views shared by her fellow children.<br />
I am not tempted to become a prostitute, although I daily practice the work of bed renting,<br />
which is exposing by its nature. There is a lot for me to learn from the experiences of<br />
children who operate as prostitutes in the area. It is easy to weigh the advantages and<br />
disadvantages from my observations and the conversations of the prostitutes themselves.<br />
Their common subjects of talk are the abuses perpetrated on them by the men with whom<br />
they sleep. Most of them have unpleasant stories to tell, some of which involve horrifying<br />
incidents such as being attacked for refusing unsafe or abnormal sex. Another common<br />
experience that I observe is that many of the young girls go out for sex work in the evening<br />
well-dressed and looking good, only to return the next morning with bruised faces as a<br />
result of beatings by their customers. There are times when I get into a dilemma and<br />
hesitate to give up the work of bed renting and start prostitution. This happens when I<br />
become frustrated by problems related to the bed renting business. Yet the hardships faced<br />
by child sex workers and my observations of their bitter situation come to my mind. Then I<br />
stop thinking in that direction. I tell myself that, however desperate I may be, I will go for<br />
domestic work rather than becoming a prostitute.<br />
Similarly, most of the recovered children are positive that they will not relapse into the kind of life<br />
situation of which they have bad memories. Surviving on institutional support, assistance of<br />
husbands or boyfriends, or activities such as bed renting and street vending, the children still seem<br />
exposed to the risk. Yet, having firsthand experience of the adversities associated with sexual<br />
exploitation, they appear determined not to return to the practice once again. The position that<br />
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these children generally maintain is that their decision is based not simply on observations, but on<br />
personal experience. Hence, they said that they would never imagine themselves practicing<br />
commercial sex, after extracting themselves from that state. But they added that access to support<br />
to enable them engage in some form income generating activity would facilitate and strengthen the<br />
process of their recovery.<br />
Many vulnerable children live with their parents/guardians and enjoy the advantage of receiving<br />
family attention and support. Having left home and spent a time in prostitution, the recovered<br />
children have detached themselves from their families and maintained loose ties with parents and<br />
relatives. There is also a line of contrast between the two categories in regards to age. Children<br />
regarded as vulnerable exist in all three age groups ranging from 10 to 24. As for recovered<br />
children, they are mostly found in the senior age group because the moment of recovery likely<br />
comes after a child has spent some years practicing prostitution.<br />
7.3 Currently abused/exploited versus recovered children<br />
An important commonality that currently abused/exploited and recovered children share is that, in<br />
a large majority of cases, they have lost ties with their parents/guardians. As a result, they no<br />
longer receive or enjoy the parental guidance, affection, and follow-up that they may at one time<br />
have had. Despite having stopped practicing commercial sex, most recovered children do not<br />
reestablish their relationship with the family.<br />
It should be mentioned as a point of similarity that children in the currently abused/exploited and<br />
recovered categories share common attitudes toward sexual abuse and exploitation. This is a result<br />
of the fact that they have both been subjected to common experiences of physical and sexual abuse<br />
as sex workers. When they discuss or give accounts of their experiences, both portray their<br />
encounters in a similar language and with the same degree of emotion and sense of bitterness.<br />
Even though they are recovered, children who have extracted themselves from sexual exploitation<br />
live with disturbing memories of different forms of abuse that others continue to face.<br />
In respect to age, currently abused/exploited children come from different age groups ranging<br />
from 12 to 24. However, most of the recovered children belong to the senior age group of 17 years<br />
and above. As far as future ambitions are concerned, the currently abused/exploited children<br />
focused on pulling themselves out of sexually abusive and exploitative situations. As for the<br />
recovered, they are mainly concerned with reinforcing and maintaining their present status. Their<br />
efforts focus on the avoidance of sliding back into prostitution, while working hard to improve<br />
their situation in other activities.<br />
7.4 Comparison/contrast of the three categories of children<br />
It must be mentioned as a strong similarity that the children in all three categories identified the<br />
same situations in their community as common risk factors of sexual abuse and exploitation. The<br />
common risks pointed out by one or the other of the children include common presence of sex<br />
work, wide prevalence of alcohol and substance abuse, the existence of video houses which screen<br />
plenty of pornography, and bed renting business, among many others.<br />
Despite variations in the levels of their knowledge and the means by which they obtain the<br />
information, the children in the three categories are aware of sexual abuse and exploitation. Many<br />
of the smaller children in the vulnerable category said that they did not know of anyone who had<br />
been raped, and were not themselves approached by anyone in this way. Moreover, they did not<br />
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have knowledge about the practice of sexual exploitation, and particularly of the raping of boys by<br />
men. But still these children identify, recognize and express what they consider as exposing<br />
situations. In their view, such attitudes or situations are: not rejecting sexual overtures or<br />
provocation by men, not frowning upon tendencies towards sexual abuse, flirting behavior, and<br />
missing school to visit shisha/khat houses. Other areas of resemblance relate to the future<br />
ambitions of the children. When stating what they desire to become or achieve in the future, the<br />
interest to go and work in Arab countries has been mentioned by a certain number of children in<br />
all categories (3 in the vulnerable category, 6 in the currently abused/exploited category, and 2 in<br />
the recovered category). In addition, the desire to help the vulnerable and the abused/exploited<br />
children is a future aspiration expressed by children in the three categories (6 in vulnerable, 4 in<br />
currently abused/exploited, and 3 in recovered).<br />
Worth noting as a difference between the currently abused/exploited children on the one hand, and<br />
the vulnerable and recovered on the other is that the former adopt as a group a regular pattern or<br />
style of living on day-to-day basis. It is in the nature of the practice of prostitution that the children<br />
generally stay awake and are active during much of the night and take rest during the day. Their<br />
daily routine of life is, therefore, shaped by the way of doing things that they follow by night and<br />
by day. Thus, they spend the night getting themselves ready for business and practicing sex work.<br />
Most of the time, they sleep in during the day. In the afternoons they spend time in groups<br />
chewing khat, drinking coffee, and watching films at the video house, among other activities. As<br />
for vulnerable and recovered children, their daily routines vary according to the nature of the<br />
activities that they engage in during the day, which range from attending school to carrying out<br />
different kinds of jobs. Hence, children in these two categories do not practice a consistent pattern<br />
of living that defines them as a group. Instead, they follow daily routines required by the particular<br />
kinds of activities that they pursue.<br />
Deserving mention as distinctive of the currently abused/exploited children is their group<br />
characteristics of mutual assistance and resource sharing. Such cooperation may be attributed to<br />
the threats and adversities that they face in common in the form of physical, verbal and sexual<br />
abuse and exploitation. They are usually targeted for abuse by their customers, bullyboys in the<br />
neighborhood, boyfriends/husbands, room renting ladies, and allegedly even the police. In<br />
addition, they have to cope with negative social attitudes and the resulting stigma and contempt<br />
toward prostitution. In general, the problems they face are compounded by a variety of factors,<br />
which necessitate them to develop multi-faceted coping mechanisms to manage and respond to<br />
difficulties. In the case of the vulnerable and recovered children, exposure to abusive and<br />
exploitative situations of the same degree of intensity or magnitude is not evident. This may<br />
explain why a similar degree of group solidarity and support system is not in evidence. The coping<br />
mechanisms that they employ to deal with difficulties are limited and not so elaborate.<br />
In regards to awareness about sexual abuse and exploitation, cross-category differences are<br />
observed in the way the knowledge is obtained. In the case of the vulnerable children, they learn<br />
about these problems through their observations of what happens in their immediate environment.<br />
In addition, the media, TV and radio in particular, are other sources of the same information.<br />
Vulnerable children attending school have an opportunity to get informed about such issues by<br />
way of different school clubs. On the other hand, currently abused/exploited and recovered<br />
children are not only more knowledgeable and conversant about sexual abuse and exploitation, but<br />
their source of knowledge and understanding is a lived experience.<br />
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Figure 3. Links between risks/vulnerabilities, protection, and resilience<br />
Risk and<br />
Vulnerability<br />
Factors<br />
8. Conclusions<br />
Non-Abuse/Exploitation<br />
Presence of<br />
protective<br />
factors lead<br />
to<br />
Abuse/Exploitation<br />
Resilience in<br />
Children<br />
Recovery<br />
No Recovery<br />
The Merkato area in Addis Ababa has a host of risk factors that expose children and young people<br />
to sexual abuse and sexual exploitation. Some of the risks include crime and delinquency, the<br />
prevalence of commercial sex work, the screening of pornographic and other violent films, street<br />
business, peer influence, congested pattern of residence, and widespread drug/substance abuse. As<br />
a result, many children have become victims of sexual abuse/exploitation. Certain children and<br />
young people are more susceptible to these risks because of circumstances such as extreme<br />
poverty, parental death, family disorganization, neglect, migration, trafficking, and streetism.<br />
Despite the presence of the risk and vulnerability factors, many children and young people in<br />
Merkato remained resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation due to the presence of various protective<br />
factors. These include personal qualities of individual children plus the role of the family, peers,<br />
school clubs, NGOs, religious institutions, and private citizens.<br />
Regarding personal qualities, many children and young people developed critical consciousness to<br />
understand threats around them and devised appropriate strategies to overcome those threats.<br />
Many children developed the ability to operate in teams, a strategy devised partly to protect each<br />
other against sex offenders. A good number of them also possessed the ability to act independently<br />
and make their environment as safe and productive as possible. They kept themselves busy with<br />
different activities (e.g., education, work, and creative venture), and these strategies helped them<br />
not only build their futures but also keep distance from dangerous situations. These remarkable<br />
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personal qualities affirm the view that children are active players who have their own ideas/views<br />
and who make choices or take actions independently.<br />
A loving and caring family environment represented another protective factor in that it served as a<br />
safeguard against any desire to seek affection, material support, security, and guidance from<br />
outside, which might have exposed children to risks of sexual abuse/exploitation. Many children<br />
and young people stressed family love, inspiration, and sacrifice as crucial factors that reduced<br />
their exposure to risks. Outside the family context, positive peer influence served as a protective<br />
factor. Peer pressure motivated children for success, encouraged them to exhibit appropriate social<br />
behavior, and kept them away from risky situations. Some high-risk children also demonstrated<br />
competence in locating and accessing protective resources (given in the form of ideas, motivation,<br />
funds, materials, and/or skills training) at the disposal of such institutions as schools, NGOs,<br />
religious organizations, and the private sector. From this it is evident that resilience is a product of<br />
actor competencies as well as relations and interactions of different factors and environments.<br />
Some children and young people managed to avoid dangerous situations, while others could not<br />
withstand the pressure/temptation that subjected them to abuse/exploitation. While some managed<br />
to disengage themselves from risky sex work, others continued to practice it. Many sex workers<br />
wanted to quit because of the social stigma, health risks, and abuses by customers. However, the<br />
actual recovery is reported to be rather difficult without adequate preparation and/or external<br />
assistance to ensure a dependable source of income. Most sex workers explained that their income<br />
from sex work was so insufficient and highly variable that they could not save money for<br />
investment beyond meeting survival needs. Despite such challenges, however, there were still<br />
some who managed to set aside money to embark on activities intended to contribute to their<br />
recovery. Some recovered former prostitutes decided to quit as soon as they discovered alternative<br />
means such as jobs, training opportunities, and shelter. It can be argued that most prostitutes in the<br />
study area would quit sex work if they were provided with support schemes that addressed their<br />
short-term and long-term life concerns.<br />
Most sex workers and those who recovered from the business reported that poverty and family<br />
disharmony forced them to leave their homes and become prostitutes. Others left home for reasons<br />
such as parental death and the cumulative effect of poverty. The majority of girls did not leave<br />
their homes with the intention of becoming prostitutes. Out of desperation and frustration, they<br />
were rather swayed into sex work largely by peers who were working as prostitutes. After entry,<br />
some exhibited features of resilience by pulling themselves out of the exploitative situations.<br />
Recovery from sex work for some was represented by reunion with families and reintegration into<br />
society. Efforts made to assist the recovery of former prostitutes significantly elevated their selfesteem<br />
and reassured them about their social relevance.<br />
It is important to note that most recovered former commercial sex workers received help from<br />
their friends rather than from families or NGOs. Despite the absence of meaningful external<br />
support, the recovery experiences were largely smooth. Exposure to risks of sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation could be reduced through economic assistance to vulnerable individuals and<br />
families.<br />
The study revealed that unattended children, namely, migrants, trafficked children, orphans, those<br />
in child-headed households, and those living on the street are highly exposed to sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation. Risks might be addressed with more active monitoring to identify the most<br />
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vulnerable children among this already vulnerable group, and report cases of sexual<br />
abuse/exploitation earlier. It is also important to provide these unattended children with the<br />
assistance they need such as educational opportunities, skills training, income generating<br />
activities, and problem solving skills.<br />
Most informants (children and adults) indicated that some families and most neighborhoods failed<br />
to act as protective agencies. Some families turned deaf ears and blind eyes to risks of sexual<br />
exploitation; neighborhoods are less vigilant and little concerned about sex offences; the feeling of<br />
shame discourages victims and their families to report such offenses; and, in many cases, victims<br />
of sexual assault are blamed and ashamed. Their protective role might be enhanced through<br />
awareness raising work, enhancement of the capacities/mandates of neighborhood organizations<br />
(e.g., idir), etc.<br />
For the majority of the children and young women in sex work, recovery was rather difficult for<br />
various reasons. However, this does not mean that they all are passive victims or powerless losers.<br />
The study revealed that many have adopted coping strategies that range from legally and morally<br />
unacceptable activities (e.g., stealing and drug use) to socially and economically appropriate<br />
behaviours (e.g., sharing resources and saving money).<br />
Quitting sex work seemed to be the dream of every prostitute included in the study. Most<br />
commercial sex workers and those who recovered from the exploitative situations underlined the<br />
presence of the strong desire among many prostitutes to disengage themselves from sex work,<br />
which is surrounded by stigma, health risks, and different forms of sexual abuses and exploitation.<br />
Many are reported to be practicing prostitution for lack of dependable alternative means of making<br />
a living. When the alternatives existed, some took the opportunity to recover.<br />
Children, parents, community leaders, and NGO representatives expressed their dissatisfaction<br />
with the legal system in preventing sexual assault and bringing the perpetrators to justice. Most<br />
felt that the system is ineffective in taking measures against organized gangsters, drug/substance<br />
abusers, pornographic film distributors/screeners, child traffickers, and sexual predators. There<br />
seems to be a need to make kebele administrations and law-enforcement agencies (e.g., the police<br />
and the court) key players or primary partners in the effort to strengthen child protection.<br />
The crowded neighborhoods of Merkato are filled with numerous children, many of whom were<br />
born out of wedlock and being raised by single mothers. Mothers working as prostitutes are<br />
reported to be practicing sex wok in the presence of their children. Access to good family planning<br />
services might be useful in reducing the numbers of unwanted pregnancies.<br />
The study revealed that most young women who recovered from sexual abuse/exploitation<br />
continued to live in risky situations. Many were not reintegrated with families. Most village girls<br />
were ashamed to return home after recovery because they have lost contact with their families and<br />
lacked the economic resources and skills to start new lives in their respective villages. Given their<br />
present economic and social circumstances, one cannot rule out possibilities of relapse.<br />
The study showed that children in peer groups influenced each other's attitudes, interests, and<br />
actions positively or negatively. Some became victims of sexual abuse/exploitation because of<br />
their association with bad friends while others were prevented or rescued from such adversities by<br />
good peers.<br />
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Religious institutions have leverage on their followers. The major religious institutions in Merkato<br />
have educational programs that involve moral instruction. A significant number of non-abused<br />
children reported that their involvement in religious programs contributed to their resilience to<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation.<br />
Some schools (not most) have girls’ clubs and anti-HIV/AIDS clubs. A good number of<br />
informants reported to have learnt how to protect themselves against sexual offenders after joining<br />
these clubs. Besides sexual abuse/exploitation, the club members discuss such issues as sexuality,<br />
early marriage, forced marriage, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.<br />
The study revealed that individuals and businesses could make significant contributions to child<br />
protection efforts. A case in point is Ms Zemi Yenus, the owner of NIANA Business, who<br />
provided skills training in hair dressing to more than 2000 sex workers. Merkato is a center of<br />
business in Addis Ababa, and the business community in the area might be mobilized to play their<br />
part in supporting vulnerable children and facilitating the recovery efforts of commercial sex<br />
workers.<br />
Child protection initiatives and programs in Merkato could focus on prevention strategies<br />
designed to reduce the risks and vulnerabilities; measures to address the concerns of children in<br />
distress; and a learning process to gain knowledge not only from the experiences of resilient<br />
children but also the commendable works of individuals, families, communities, and<br />
organizations. It needs to be stressed that schools, NGOs, CBOs, religious institutions, and the<br />
private sector have the potential to make significant contributions to child protection, alongside<br />
the involvement of such key players as kebele administrations and law-enforcement agencies.<br />
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Annex 1. Interview Guides<br />
I. Interview guides for different categories of children<br />
Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />
1.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />
1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />
about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />
work, etc.)<br />
2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were?<br />
6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses, chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
7. Does/did anyone hurt/bother you at the moment or recently? (Probe: after confirming<br />
sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it started (forced, enticed) and continued)<br />
8. If sexual abuse/exploitation was involved, do/did your parents and neighbors know about<br />
it? If yes, how did they know, what was their reaction, and how did it affect your relation<br />
with them? If no, why did you keep it secret?<br />
9. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />
relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />
me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />
10. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />
turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />
Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />
1.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />
1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />
about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />
work, etc.)<br />
2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, socialization, educational<br />
attendance/attainment, family relationship, religious affiliation, ethnic background,<br />
economic status of family, previous/current residence, migration experience, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
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4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were?<br />
6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
7. Did anyone make a sexual advance to you? Did you ever experience sexual intercourse?<br />
(Probe: after confirming sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it stated and continued)<br />
8. If sexual abuse/exploitation was involved, do/did your parents and neighbors know about<br />
it? If yes, how did they know, what was their reaction, and how did it affect your relation<br />
with them? If no, why did you keep it secret?<br />
9. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />
relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />
me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />
10. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />
turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />
Category 1. Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />
1.3 Questions for children aged 18-21<br />
1. Tell me about yourself from birth to present (place and date of birth, socialization,<br />
educational attendance/attainment, family relationship, religious affiliation, ethnic<br />
background, economic status of family, previous/current residence, migration experience,<br />
etc.).<br />
2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. What kinds of things are most challenging for you growing up here or where you were?<br />
5. What did/do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses drug, chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
6. Did you ever experience sexual abuse/exploitation? If yes, tell me where, when, and how it<br />
happened and continued? (Probe if forced by people/situations, enticed, etc.)<br />
7. Did/do your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If<br />
yes, how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, why?<br />
8. If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are you trying) to get out of the existing<br />
relations? If yes, when and what happened? If no, why didn't you try to get out of it? Tell<br />
me if you need any specific form of support to get out of the situation.<br />
9. If recently abused/exploited, how did you to get out of it? (Probe: ask the moments of<br />
turning point, strategies employed, assistance obtained, incidence of recurrence, etc.)<br />
10. Do you know anyone who has recovered from abusive/exploitative situation? If yes, could<br />
you tell me details about the person(s): who, how, when, where?<br />
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11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.)<br />
Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />
2.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />
1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />
about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />
work, etc.)<br />
2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were?<br />
6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
7. Did anyone hurt/bother you in the past? (Probe: after confirming sexual abuse and/or<br />
exploitation, ask how it started and continued)<br />
8. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />
how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />
9. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />
decision, turning points, incidence of relapse, support received from others, etc.) (Probe:<br />
ask whether the child sought help, when, how or agencies reached out to child)<br />
10. Did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all. (Probe: ask if<br />
challenges are economic, social, and/or psychological; ask if the child was back or worried<br />
of getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation and why; etc.).<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />
Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />
2.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />
1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
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4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were?<br />
5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
6. Did anyone make a sexual advance to you? Did you ever experience sexual intercourse?<br />
(Probe: after confirming sexual abuse/exploitation, ask how it started and continued)<br />
7. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />
how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />
8. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />
decision, earlier plan, persuaded by someone, turning points, steps taken from the decision<br />
day, incidence of relapse, other details about recovery, current income level, current<br />
relationships with family, etc.)<br />
9. Do/did you receive any form of support from people/agencies to recover? If yes, give<br />
details about the support. Ask whether the child sought help or an agency reached out to<br />
the child, when, and how.<br />
10. Do/did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all and the<br />
kind of support you need. (Probe: ask for the nature of challenge; if the child was back or<br />
worries about getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation; etc.).<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />
Category 2. Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />
2.3 Questions for children aged 18-24<br />
1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were?<br />
5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
6. Did you ever experience sexual abuse/exploitation? If yes, tell me where, when, and how it<br />
happened and continued? (Probe if forced by people/situations, enticed, etc.)<br />
7. Did your family/neighbors know about your sexual abusive/exploitative situation? If yes,<br />
how did they learn, react, and the effects? If kept secret, for how long and why?<br />
8. How did you get out of the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: what contributed to the<br />
decision, earlier plan, persuaded by someone, turning points, steps taken from the decision<br />
day, incidence of relapse, other details about recovery, current income level, current<br />
relationships with family, etc.)<br />
9. Do/did you receive any form of support from people/agencies to recover? If yes, give<br />
details about the support. Ask whether the child sought help or an agency reached out to<br />
the child, when, and how.<br />
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10. Do/did you encounter any problem/challenge after recovery? If yes, mention all and the<br />
kind of support you need. (Probe: ask for the nature of challenge; if the child was back or<br />
worries about getting back to the abusive/exploitative situation; etc.).<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for one's dream before, during, and after<br />
the abuse/exploitation encounter; specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such as education,<br />
business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; the experience of someone who<br />
recovered; any effort made so far; etc.).<br />
Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />
3.1 Questions for children aged 10-13<br />
1. Tell me what you have done today, yesterday, and the day before yesterday (Probe: ask<br />
about school/education, play, visit, sports/games, films/videos watched, helping family,<br />
work, etc.)<br />
2. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
5. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />
6. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
7. Are there people in the neighborhood who make inappropriate advances to children like<br />
you? If yes, do you know children who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />
happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />
where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />
8. What exposes young children to people who make inappropriate advances? (Probe: ask for<br />
what the child considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them.)<br />
9. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />
you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />
source of your confidence?<br />
10. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />
family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />
11. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued,<br />
such as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort<br />
made so far; etc.).<br />
Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />
3.2 Questions for children aged 14-17<br />
1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
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2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />
5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
6. Are there people in the neighborhood who try to sexually abuse/exploit children/youth like<br />
you? If yes, do you know children/youth who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />
happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />
where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />
7. What do you think exposes young children/youth to sexual abusers/ exploiters? (Probe: ask<br />
for what the informant considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them)<br />
8. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />
you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />
source of your confidence?<br />
9. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />
family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />
10. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do you plan to achieve it? When did<br />
you form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued,<br />
such as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort<br />
made so far; etc.).<br />
11. Did you receive any support to pursue your dream? (Probe: ask if one obtained/obtains<br />
idea, material, financial, technical, etc. help from family, relatives, and other sources).<br />
Category 3. Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />
3.3 Questions for children aged 18-24<br />
1. Tell me about yourself and your family (place and date of birth, family job,<br />
previous/current residence, migration experience, whether one is attending school, etc.).<br />
2. Did/do you work to support yourself/your family? (Probe: the type of work, since when,<br />
how often, income level, work-related challenges, coping strategies/opportunities, etc.)<br />
3. What is the nature of your relationship with you family over the years? (Probe: ask if the<br />
relationship is caring, supportive, conflicting, broken, dysfunctional, etc.)<br />
4. What kinds of things are difficult or challenging for you growing up here or where you<br />
were? (Probe: ask if there is prostitution, alcoholism, crime, economic hardships, etc.)<br />
5. What do you do when you face difficulties in your life? (Probe: ask how difficulties are<br />
handled, if humor is employed, if one counts on others, if one uses chat, alcohol, etc.)<br />
6. Are there people in the neighborhood who try to sexually abuse/exploit children/youth like<br />
you? If yes, do you know children/youth who are sexually abused/exploited? Tell me what<br />
happened to them. Tell me if someone has tried to approach you too. (Probe: ask who,<br />
where, when and whether the attempt was to force, lure, etc.)<br />
7. What do you think exposes young children/youth to sexual abusers/ exploiters? (Probe: ask<br />
for what the informant considers risks and if he/she could talk about avoiding them)<br />
8. Do you think that you may face sexual abuse/exploitation in the future? If yes, what makes<br />
you think so and what kinds of support do you need to avert those risks? If no, what is the<br />
source of your confidence?<br />
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9. Where/how did you learn about protecting oneself from abusers/exploiters? (Probe if<br />
family members, peers, religion, school, etc. played role).<br />
10. What do you aspire t become in the future and how do plan to achieve it? When did you<br />
form this goal/hope in your mind? (Probe: ask for specific strategies dreamt/pursued, such<br />
as education, business, and out-migration; the influence of role models; any effort made so<br />
far; etc.).<br />
11. Did you receive any support to pursue your dream? (Probe: ask if one obtained/obtains<br />
idea, material, financial, technical, etc. help from family, relatives, and other sources).<br />
II. Interview Guides for Parents of Three Categories of Children<br />
A. For Parents of Children Currently/Recently Abused/Exploited<br />
1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />
abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />
poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.) If<br />
no, what makes this neighborhood safer/better than others? If there are worse places,<br />
specify the location(s) and explain what makes them worse.<br />
2. Has your child(ren) ever been abused/exploited? If yes, when/how, how did you learn<br />
about it, how did you react to it, and how did it affect your relation with your child?<br />
3. What could have been done to avoid it? Whose fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the<br />
abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any other agency was held responsible)<br />
4. What is the current situation of your child? If currently abused/exploited, did you try (are<br />
you trying) to get her/him out? If yes, what did you do and what happened? If no, why not?<br />
If recently abused/exploited, how did he/she get out of it? Does she/he face risks of<br />
relapse?<br />
5. All children are not victims of child sexual abuse/exploitation. Some remain resilient,<br />
while others try to recover from such ordeals. What explains the behavior of resilient (nonabused)<br />
children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from abuse and<br />
exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />
B. For Parents of Abused/Exploited, but Recovered/Recovering Children<br />
1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />
abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />
poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.) If<br />
no, what makes this neighborhood safer/better than others? If there are worse places,<br />
specify the location(s) and explain what makes them worse.<br />
2. Did anyone abuse/exploit your child? If yes, when/how did it happen, how/when did you<br />
learn, how did you react to it, and how did it affect your relation with your child?<br />
3. What could have been done to avoid it? Whose fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the<br />
abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any other agency was held responsible)<br />
4. How did your child recover from the abusive/exploitative situation? (Probe: ask if the child<br />
helped herself/himself, helped by parents/relatives, helped by agencies, etc.).<br />
5. All children are not victims of child sexual abuse/exploitation. Some remain resilient,<br />
while others try to recover from such ordeals. What explains the behavior of resilient (nonabused)<br />
children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from abuse and<br />
exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />
C. For Parents of Vulnerable but None-Abused/Exploited Children<br />
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1. Does your neighborhood present any challenge for children to grow up without being<br />
abused/exploited? If yes, what are the vulnerability and risk factors? (Probe: check if<br />
poverty, prostitution, etc are mentioned; ask if the risk has always been there or new.)<br />
2. Do you know any abused/exploited child(ren) in your neighborhood? If yes, when/how did<br />
it happen, how did you learn about it, and how did you react to it?<br />
3. What could have been done to avoid what happened to the neighbors child(ren)? Whose<br />
fault do you think it was? (Probe: ask if the abuser/exploiter, the child, the family, or any<br />
other agency was held responsible)<br />
4. How did your child avoid risks of sexual abuse/exploitation? (Probe: ask if it has to do<br />
with child's personality, family help, culture, religion, school, help by agency, etc).<br />
5. All children are not resilient to sexual abuse/exploitation. What explains the behavior of<br />
resilient (non-abused) children? How about the behaviors of those try to recover from<br />
abuse and exploitation and those who continue to be abused/exploited?<br />
III. Interview Guides for NGO Representatives<br />
1. What is the particular area of concern that your project strives to address in relation to<br />
child issues?<br />
2. How serious a problem are child sexual abuse and sexual exploitation in the area of your<br />
project intervention?<br />
3. What forms do child sexual abuse and sexual exploitation take in your project community?<br />
(Probe for: the forms of the practice for female and male children and older girls and<br />
boys)<br />
4. What are the factors that expose children and young people to sexual abuse and sexual<br />
exploitation in the area where you operate? (Probe for: external circumstances such as<br />
family problems, environmental situations or internal factors existing within individual<br />
children) What are the factors that expose particularly male children and young boys to<br />
sexual abuse?<br />
5. Which of these factors are more or less likely to expose children in your project localities<br />
to the problems of child sexual abuse and child sexual exploitation and why?<br />
6. Have you observed children who manage to avoid becoming forced or lured into sexual<br />
abuse and sexual exploitation, regardless of living in the risk situations? What type of<br />
children are the ones that manage to do so? What factors or qualities (in the children, in the<br />
family, neighborhood, school, or the wider community) help to protect these children?<br />
7. What type of children are those that are particularly vulnerable to becoming the objects of<br />
sexual abuse and sexual exploitation? Why do such children succumb to these adversities,<br />
whereas others of like age, and family and environmental background happen to avoid<br />
them?<br />
8. Have you made observations of children who have succeeded in extracting themselves<br />
from sexually abusive and sexually exploitative situations, once they have experienced<br />
living under these circumstances? What do you think lies behind the success of these<br />
children in pulling themselves out of these situations?<br />
9. Have you witnessed cases in which children slip back into the life sexual abuse and sexual<br />
exploitation, once they have successfully lifted themselves out of the situation? How<br />
common is such experience and why does it happen at all?<br />
10. Based on your observations and lessons from project implementation, what types of<br />
support do children require to stay out of sexually abusive and sexual exploitative<br />
situations, succeed in pulling themselves out in case they find themselves forced or enticed<br />
into the problems, and avoid the possibility of relapse after getting out?<br />
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Annex 2. Thematic areas for data organization and transcription<br />
Vulnerable, Non-abused/exploited<br />
1. Daily routine<br />
2. Family and personal background<br />
3. Nature of family relationship<br />
4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />
5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />
6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />
7. Knowledge about sexual abuse/exploitation/any children who may have been victims<br />
8. Protection of self against sexual abuse/exploitation (including personal experience and<br />
assistance obtained)<br />
9. Worry of becoming abused/exploited<br />
10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />
Currently/recently abused/exploited<br />
1. Daily routine<br />
2. Family and personal background<br />
3. Nature of family relationship<br />
4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />
5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />
6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />
7. Experience of abuse/exploitation or worry that it may be repeated<br />
8. Knowledge of parents/neighbors about the situation<br />
9. Intention or attempt to get out of the situation and support obtained<br />
10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />
Recovered/recovering<br />
1. Daily routine<br />
2. Family and personal background<br />
3. Nature of family relationship<br />
4. Type of work done to support family and self<br />
5. Difficulties/challenges in the neighborhood acting as vulnerability factors to CSAE<br />
6. Behavior/coping strategies when faced with problems<br />
7. Experience of abuse/exploitation or worry that it may be repeated<br />
8. Knowledge of parents/neighbors about the situation<br />
9 Process of recover<br />
� Pre-recovery challenges/opportunities<br />
� Moment of recovery<br />
� Post-recovery challenges/opportunities<br />
� Support obtained<br />
10. Future aspirations and methods of achievement<br />
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