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Max<strong>in</strong>e, 14<br />

Max<strong>in</strong>e Dolan is 14 and has an eight-month-old<br />

son. While she wants to make certa<strong>in</strong> that the child<br />

receives love and attention, she also wants to return<br />

to the <strong>school</strong> that suspended her when they learned<br />

she was pregnant and that rema<strong>in</strong>s unwill<strong>in</strong>g to let<br />

her return on the grounds that she now represents a<br />

dangerous <strong>in</strong>fluence to other girls.<br />

"What do they th<strong>in</strong>k I'm go<strong>in</strong>g to do <strong>in</strong> that <strong>school</strong><br />

-teach everybody to make babies? They th<strong>in</strong>k all<br />

us girls don't want anyth<strong>in</strong>g but jllst to get pregnant.<br />

They th<strong>in</strong>k that's all we're do<strong>in</strong>g, mak<strong>in</strong>g babies."<br />

In fact, Max<strong>in</strong>e knows her friends are privately relieved<br />

that it wasn't one <strong>of</strong> them. She understands<br />

that no one 14 years old really wants a baby. "I can<br />

tell that," she says, "just from look<strong>in</strong>g at their eyes.<br />

They wouldn't change places with me for all the<br />

money <strong>in</strong> the world. I'm really a good <strong>in</strong>fluence-look<br />

at old Dolan, that's how you'll end up if you<br />

a<strong>in</strong>'t careful."<br />

When Max<strong>in</strong>e learned that she was pregnant, her<br />

grandmother suggested that the family consult the<br />

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<strong>school</strong>. "Perhaps they have ideas on what to do.<br />

Max<strong>in</strong>e couldn't be the first child to have this happen."<br />

A guidance counselor agreed to meet with<br />

Max<strong>in</strong>e, her mother and her grandmother, but the<br />

<strong>in</strong>terview was short and the advice simple: whatever<br />

the girl did, it had to be done <strong>out</strong>side <strong>of</strong> <strong>school</strong>. Nobody<br />

pregnant could attend class. After the baby<br />

was born or an abortion was performed, they could<br />

meet aga<strong>in</strong> and decide what to do.<br />

"But why can't this girl go to <strong>school</strong> like she's<br />

supposed to until the last days?" her grandmother<br />

wanted to know. "She just can't," was the reply.<br />

"That's the policy and it can't be changed. I'm afraid<br />

that any right she had has just gone <strong>out</strong> the w<strong>in</strong>dow.<br />

You all should have thought ab<strong>out</strong> this before."<br />

That was the last time any <strong>of</strong> the three women<br />

entered· the <strong>school</strong>. They never spoke with the assistant<br />

pr<strong>in</strong>cipal, because they were advised that the<br />

<strong>school</strong> adm<strong>in</strong>istration would be even less open to discussion<br />

than the guidance counselor. Max<strong>in</strong>e Dolan<br />

rema<strong>in</strong>s <strong>out</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>school</strong>. The time is just ab<strong>out</strong> right to<br />

make an application for re-entrance, but Max<strong>in</strong>e<br />

wonders whether she can face the humiliation that so<br />

many people at the <strong>school</strong> might cause her to feel.<br />

"I'm his mama and there's noth<strong>in</strong>g I'd rather be,<br />

but I'm still sorry that they made me leave the <strong>school</strong>,<br />

even if I did make a mistake. My baby would be<br />

better <strong>of</strong>f if they let me go back, but all they can<br />

th<strong>in</strong>k ab<strong>out</strong> is that there a<strong>in</strong>'t no mama go<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

<strong>school</strong>. "8<br />

Melv<strong>in</strong>, 18; Jim, 16; Danny, 13; Melanie, 7<br />

When their father became disabled, Melv<strong>in</strong> and<br />

Jim had to drop <strong>out</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>school</strong> <strong>in</strong> Floyd County, Kentucky<br />

to help support the family. But when Mr.<br />

Johnson started to receive state aid, they tried to return<br />

to <strong>school</strong> but were not admitted because <strong>school</strong><br />

8 Max<strong>in</strong>e is not alone. As Chapter 3 <strong>of</strong> this report notes,<br />

pregnant girls and <strong>school</strong>-age mothers face many altitud<strong>in</strong>al<br />

and policy barriers to attendance. "One <strong>of</strong> every ten<br />

<strong>school</strong>-age girls is a mother ... ab<strong>out</strong> 35,000 are less than<br />

16 years old. . . . Pregnancy is the major known cause <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>school</strong> drop<strong>out</strong>s among girls <strong>in</strong> the United States." Address<br />

by Cyril B. Busbee, State Super<strong>in</strong>tendent <strong>of</strong> Schools, to the<br />

S<strong>out</strong>h Carol<strong>in</strong>a State Conference on School-Age Parents,<br />

Columbia, S<strong>out</strong>h Carol<strong>in</strong>a, November 20, 1973. See also<br />

"Magnitude and Severity <strong>of</strong> Early Childbear<strong>in</strong>g," Marion<br />

Howard and Morris Cohen (Wash<strong>in</strong>gton, D.C.: Consortium<br />

on Early Childbear<strong>in</strong>g and Childrear<strong>in</strong>g), February 18,<br />

1972.

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