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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />

JULY 2024 EDITION 1<br />

THIS EDITION IS<br />

DEDICATED TO<br />

THE ABANDONED<br />

CHILDREN OF<br />

SOUTH AFRICA<br />

THE INVENTION<br />

OF THE CENTURY<br />

PAGE 04<br />

PAGE 06 PAGE 13


R30 000<br />

will fund<br />

one box<br />

You can<br />

make a<br />

difference<br />

BABY SAVERS<br />

SOUTH AFRICA<br />

<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />

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FNB 63057833650 | Universal Code<br />

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OUR PARTNERS 14<br />

02 HELP US FUND BABY BOXES PEBBLES OF GRACE<br />

FOR PARENTS 15<br />

THE INVENTION OF THE<br />

04 CENTURY<br />

CHARITY GOLF DAY<br />

17<br />

GO AND MAKE ATONEMENT<br />

06<br />

IT TAKES A VILLAGE<br />

18<br />

SOUTH AFRICAN HISTORY ON<br />

09 BABY BOXES AND SAVERS STAND UP! SHOW UP!<br />

SPEAK UP! 20<br />

WALL OF HONOUR<br />

11 END UNSAFE INFANT<br />

ABONDONMENT 22<br />

12<br />

WE NEED TO TAKE ACTION!<br />

GET INVOLVED<br />

23<br />

BECOME A PLATINUM<br />

PARTNER<br />

25<br />

EDITING COMMITTEE<br />

Ignat van Dyk<br />

Cindyann van Dyk<br />

Dave de Jager<br />

Marina de Jager<br />

Evert Haasbroek<br />

Andre van Dyk<br />

SOCIAL MEDIA<br />

Karina Duvenhage<br />

LAYOUT & GRAPHICS<br />

Jacqueline Rademeyer


THE ISSUE OF BABY<br />

ABANDONMENT IS A SEVERE AND<br />

HEARTBREAKING REALITY THAT<br />

NEEDS URGENT ATTENTION AND ACTION<br />

IN OUR COUNTRY.<br />

The act of dumping an unwanted baby in dangerous and inhumane<br />

locations like rivers, pit toilets, or rubbish dumps is a tragic and<br />

severe form of child abandonment that puts the lives of innocent<br />

infants at grave risk. This is a heartbreaking reflection of the<br />

desperate situation prospective parents find themselves in due<br />

to complex social, economic and psychological factors.<br />

To address this extreme form of baby abandonment and prevent<br />

these tragic incidents from occurring it is imperative to take<br />

immediate action by implementing targeted interventions.<br />

The “baby saver” or “baby box,” also known as a “door of hope,”<br />

is indeed a remarkable innovation that has provided a safe<br />

and anonymous way for anguished parents to relinquish their<br />

newborn baby in a secure manner while ensuring the well-being<br />

and survival of the infant. Baby boxes are typically installed in<br />

hospitals, fire stations, or other designated trustworthy locations<br />

enabling distraught parents to safely and anonymously place<br />

their baby in the box. When the box is opened an alarm is triggered<br />

and a message sent to alerted caregivers who then retrieve the<br />

baby enabling the provision of immediate care and setting in<br />

motion the process of future provision for the child.<br />

The concept of baby boxes or baby savers has been implemented<br />

in various countries around the world as a response to the issue<br />

of baby abandonment and as a means of preventing tragedies<br />

resulting from infants being abandoned in unsafe locations.<br />

These facilities offer a compassionate and non-judgmental<br />

alternative for parents who may feel overwhelmed or who are<br />

unable to care for their newborns, providing a second chance for<br />

these babies to be placed in safe hands and receive the care and<br />

support they need.<br />

The introduction of baby boxes has been widely regarded as<br />

a significant transformation in child welfare and protection,<br />

offering a practical solution to a complex and sensitive issue. By<br />

providing a safe and anonymous way for parents to surrender their<br />

babies, baby boxes help to ensure that infants are not abandoned<br />

in dangerous or life-threatening situations, while also offering<br />

BY PS IGNAT VAN DYK 4


support and resources to the infants.<br />

While the use of baby boxes has sparked ethical and legal<br />

debates in some regions, their presence has undeniably saved<br />

the lives of many vulnerable infants and provided hope for a<br />

brighter future for these children. The compassionate and<br />

humane approach of baby boxes underscores the importance<br />

of finding innovative and alternative solutions to address the<br />

challenges of child abandonment and to protect the most<br />

vulnerable members of society. Baby savers are the safe<br />

alternative to unsafe baby abandonment through the use of a<br />

Baby “Saver” box.<br />

The use of a baby box or baby haven should always be considered<br />

as a last resort for parents or caregivers who are unable to care<br />

for their newborn infants, and all efforts should be made to<br />

provide support and resources to prevent unsafe abandonment<br />

in the first place.<br />

While baby boxes can serve as a critical safety net for infants<br />

in situations of extreme crisis, it is essential to address the<br />

root causes that lead to child abandonment and to provide<br />

comprehensive support services to individuals and families<br />

facing difficult circumstances. Prevention strategies, such as<br />

access to counselling, healthcare, social services, financial<br />

assistance and community support networks can help address<br />

the underlying issues and support parents in raising their<br />

children in a safe and nurturing environment.<br />

Encouraging open communication, reducing stigma around<br />

crisis pregnancies, and promoting awareness about available<br />

resources are key components of efforts to prevent unsafe<br />

abandonment and support families in need. By fostering a<br />

supportive and compassionate society that values the wellbeing<br />

of all children, we can work towards reducing the<br />

incidence of child abandonment and ensuring that every<br />

child has the opportunity to grow up in a loving and stable<br />

environment.<br />

While baby boxes can provide a temporary solution in<br />

emergency situations, the ultimate goal should be to create<br />

a society where families in crisis receive the assistance and<br />

support, they need to care for their children where every child is<br />

valued, protected and given the chance to thrive. Collaboration<br />

among government agencies, non-profit organizations,<br />

healthcare providers and community members are essential in<br />

developing holistic approaches to address the complexities of<br />

child welfare and protection. Together, we can strive to create<br />

a safer and more compassionate world for all children.<br />

WE NEED TO LEGALISE BABY SAVERS AND<br />

BABY SAFE HAVENS! ENCOURAGING THE SAFE<br />

ALTERNATIVE TO UNSAFE ABANDONMENT.<br />

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One morning my Husband and I were driving from<br />

Rustenburg to Pretoria, on the N4 Highway for a<br />

routine Gynecologist checkup. At the time I was<br />

about 26 weeks pregnant. We were excited to see<br />

our baby girl on the scans again as we were counting<br />

down the checkups until we were going to meet her<br />

and hold her in our arms.<br />

As we were driving, something caught our attention, I<br />

wasn’t sure what I had seen but we both felt strongly<br />

compelled to turn around. We found a safe place to<br />

do so, and by the time we got back to the scene a<br />

truck driver had also stopped.<br />

There, right next to the white line on the tar, lay a baby<br />

boy, his body so perfectly formed but lifeless, blown<br />

out of a plastic bag… abandoned. It was clear that he<br />

hadn’t been there long as there was no insect activity<br />

yet. With every car that rushed by, I dreaded the bag<br />

blowing up and pulling his tiny lifeless body away, but<br />

he lay there, stuck to the tar with the flapping plastic<br />

bag somehow still attached to him. Everything in me<br />

wanted to pick him up and console him, hold him, help<br />

him! But it was too late! I stood there, torn between<br />

feeling my own baby moving frantically inside of me,<br />

probably sensing my tense emotions and the lifeless<br />

baby on the roadside that I could do nothing for. I had<br />

never felt so helpless in my entire life…<br />

Knowing that we could not move him, due to forensic<br />

proceedings that would have to be followed I started<br />

looking for something to cover him with but couldn’t<br />

find anything that wouldn’t compromise what now<br />

had turned from life into evidence. Instead, I started<br />

phoning the police, first the closest police station.<br />

They said they would send someone to the scene.<br />

Thirty minutes later no one had responded so I called<br />

again at which point the jurisdictional card was<br />

played and I had to call another station that I must<br />

say responded rather quickly. We thanked the police<br />

and allowed the truck driver to give his report as he<br />

had been the first responder on the scene. Still in<br />

shock and with heavy hearts we continued to our<br />

doctor’s appointment.<br />

I had phoned the Doctor’s office to inform them we<br />

would be late, so she already knew to debrief us<br />

professionally and confirmed what I had expected.<br />

The baby was about the same gestational age as our<br />

daughter at the time, and the Dr said her suspicions<br />

would be that the baby had been dumped there after<br />

an illegal abortion. At 26 weeks of gestation a baby is<br />

still very small but has a decent chance at survival<br />

should it be born at this point provided it receives the<br />

correct medical care. Unfortunately, this baby was<br />

never even given the chance!<br />

We went on with our day as ‘normally’ as possible<br />

although we were clearly moved by the events. We<br />

prayed about it and asked the Lord to turn a difficult<br />

situation into something good. I asked God what we<br />

should do and received word from Numbers 16: 46 –<br />

48 “And Moses said to Aaron, “Take your censer and<br />

put fire in it from the altar, and place incense on it;<br />

then bring it quickly to the congregation and make<br />

atonement for them, for wrath has gone out from the<br />

Lord, the plague has begun!” Then Aaron took it just<br />

as Moses had spoken, and he ran into the midst of the<br />

assembly; and behold, the plague had begun among<br />

the people. So, he put on the incense and made<br />

atonement for the people. And he took his stand<br />

between the dead and the living, so that the plague<br />

was brought to a halt.”<br />

The word atonement is used in the bible to make<br />

reference to ‘cover, appease, cleanse, cancel out, put<br />

off or reconcile’. According to Wikipedia atonement<br />

is defined as: “Atonement (also atoning, or, to atone)<br />

is the concept of a person taking action to correct<br />

previous wrongdoing on their part either through<br />

direct action to undo the consequences of that act,<br />

equivalent action to do good for others or some other<br />

expression of feelings of remorse.”<br />

Since this incident we have become very passionate 6


about child protection and standing up for the voiceless.<br />

Our eyes were opened to the magnitude of the current<br />

reality of child abuse, neglect and abandonment. In our<br />

world as we currently know it there are daily reports of<br />

child abuse, rape, abandonment, misconduct towards<br />

women and children, human trafficking, the list sadly<br />

goes on and on. As I was writing this article I received<br />

a video from a concerned Mother, showing evidence<br />

of children who were found in animal feed bags in<br />

Congo, believed to be sold by human traffickers.<br />

There is no age or color partiality to the selection of<br />

children for trafficking. In this instance some were<br />

about 8 years old while others were just toddlers. I<br />

realized again the value or lack thereof, for human life<br />

that our modern society is facing. The value of a<br />

child’s life is shockingly low, no wonder a baby<br />

‘in vitro’ or newborn is dumped in a plastic bag<br />

next to the highway so carelessly. A few weeks<br />

after our incident there was another report of an<br />

abandoned baby at the exact same bridge on the<br />

N4 Highway.<br />

How has this become acceptable in our world?<br />

How has this become so normal? When speaking<br />

to most social workers or police, they aren’t<br />

even surprised by our shocking experience. This<br />

has become the everyday norm to most police,<br />

health care and social relief service providers!<br />

Numbing their feelings towards it the more<br />

common it becomes, sometimes even numbing<br />

their resolve to take the necessary action.<br />

We ALL have the responsibility to go and make<br />

atonement! Although we can never make right what<br />

happened to that discarded baby next to the road<br />

we can and must make a difference to the other<br />

vulnerable children in our world! God already did His<br />

part. He sent His son Jesus as the ultimate sacrifice<br />

to cleanse us all from our sins. Now, he is asking us<br />

to do our part! We have to ‘take a stand between the<br />

dead and the living’, we have to draw the line and make<br />

this stop! We must unite, and stop this plague of child<br />

abuse, misuse, violation and total misconduct. It has<br />

become a virus in our world like no other!<br />

How do we do this? One child at a time! If just one<br />

child can be saved, esteemed, lifted up, rehabilitated<br />

or can even just hear that there is indeed a glimmer<br />

of hope, then it’s worth it! We are living in an urgent<br />

hour and it’s time to get our hands dirty! The biggest<br />

misconception is that our hands are tied, or that<br />

there’s nothing we can do!<br />

Everyone can and should be making a difference!<br />

Let’s fight back and make a stand for the next<br />

generation who cannot fight for themselves. We have<br />

to stop looking the other way! Every adult has moral<br />

(and legal) RESPONSIBILITY to report <strong>Child</strong> abuse<br />

and neglect!<br />

REMEMBER, EVERY CHILD IS SPECIAL, and we don’t<br />

get to decide which ones are or are not worthy! Every<br />

child deserves to have ‘a future and a hope’! Every day,<br />

you will face certain situations, your choices and how<br />

you react to these situations matter!<br />

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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />

EMOTIONAL ABUSE<br />

IS STILL CHILD ABUSE!<br />

YOUR WORDS MATTER<br />

Rustenburg hotline:<br />

071 352 9788<br />

info@childrc.co.za | www.childrc.co.za<br />

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Door of Hope <strong>Child</strong>ren’s Mission founder, Pastor Cheryl Allen, installed the first<br />

‘modern day’ Baby Box (saver) at their premises in Berea, Johannesburg in July 1999.<br />

Later that year a lady from Germany came to visit to view the operational Baby Box<br />

and subsequently installed one in [town? City? Country?] in April 2000.<br />

After Germany began installing Baby Boxes (savers),<br />

they had visitors from Japan and Switzerland who<br />

took the concept back to their countries. Poland went<br />

to visit Switzerland in 2006, which resulted in them<br />

proceeding with the installation of 60 Baby Savers<br />

in honour of Pope John Paul II, a known great ‘life<br />

defender’ (the Catholic Church had provided places<br />

for mothers to leave their babies anonymously if they<br />

could not look after them in the 1400 / 1500s).<br />

Some years later a Pastor in South Korea had a few<br />

instances of babies abandoned in front of his home.<br />

This prompted him to do some research into child<br />

abandonment in developing countries and resulted in<br />

him installing a Baby Saver in 2009. By<br />

2011 Russia and Latvia had also come<br />

on board.<br />

In 2013 Monica Kelsey (an abandoned<br />

infant herself) visited South Africa<br />

from the USA, where she saw the Baby<br />

Saver at the King of Kings Church in<br />

Sun Valley, Cape Town. She went on<br />

to launch the Safe Haven Baby Boxes<br />

organisation in America (where many<br />

states have a Safe Haven Law in place,<br />

but unsafe abandonment continues to<br />

be an issue).<br />

The next baby saver in South Africa was<br />

opened in 2008 by New BeginningZ in<br />

Pretoria and in 2013 a third Baby Saver<br />

was opened in Wellington in the Cape,<br />

followed by the Helderberg Baby Saver<br />

in Somerset West in 2014. There are now<br />

35 operational Baby Savers in South<br />

Africa.<br />

Nadene Grabham, Director of Door of Hope was proud<br />

to represent South Africa at the 14th annual Asia Health<br />

and Baby Box Symposium in Kumamoto Japan in early<br />

2018, along with 10 other countries. Here it emerged that<br />

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India had installed a “baby saver” as early as 1978 (however<br />

this was simply a wicker basket outside the door of an<br />

orphanage at night). There are now Baby Boxes / Savers<br />

in almost every country in the world. Nadene was also<br />

invited to do a Tedx Talk on Baby Savers in November 2021.<br />

The chain reaction that has spread across the globe started<br />

in South Africa because of a baby that was found alive on<br />

the Queen Elizabeth bridge who died whilst journalists were<br />

taking photos, and subsequently, another dead baby was<br />

dumped in a rubbish bin of a Deacon in the Church<br />

where Cheryl Allen was the pastor. Thanks to<br />

her actions in trying to provide an anonymous<br />

safer option for desperate mothers, there has<br />

been a ripple effect around the world which<br />

has saved many lives.<br />

Sadly, abandonment rates remain high in<br />

South Africa and are up there with India and<br />

China although we have a quarter of the<br />

population but often our abandonments<br />

are far more violent. It is estimated<br />

that around 3500 babies survive unsafe<br />

abandonment every year and that for every<br />

baby found alive, two are found dead.<br />

In February 2021, Dr Whitney Rosenberg (Senior law<br />

lecturer) and Nadene Grabham (Operations<br />

Director of Door of Hope) drafted a<br />

law proposal which was presented to<br />

parliament. The proposal aims to legalise<br />

safe relinquishment of a baby through a<br />

Baby Saver. They co-founded Baby Savers<br />

SA and were joined by founding members<br />

Sandy Immelman (Helderberg Baby Savers)<br />

and Tahiyya Hassim (New BeginningZ).<br />

And so Baby Savers SA came to be a<br />

national coalition with the aim of ending<br />

unsafe baby abandonment in South Africa.<br />

After all, our constitution states that everyone has a right to life.<br />

Unsafe abandonment takes away this right, a baby saver reinstates this right. The fight continues<br />

and we won’t give up!<br />

To date over 540 babies have safely been relinquished through baby<br />

savers in South Africa but this is a drop in the ocean as almost all<br />

research has shown that around 10 000 babies are abandoned across the<br />

country every year and 2 out of 3 babies die from unsafe abandonment.<br />

A BABY SAVER IS A LIFE SAVING DEVICE.<br />

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10 000 babies<br />

Over 10 000 babies are abandoned<br />

every year in South Africa<br />

We are sorry<br />

that the people<br />

of south africa<br />

failed you!<br />

We aim to make<br />

your future<br />

better!<br />

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The history of South Africa is marked by an era<br />

where the majority of citizens were living in<br />

sub-standard conditions. The election of Nelson<br />

Mandela as the country’s first black President was<br />

a watershed moment that brought hope for a new<br />

era of unity, reconciliation and progress within our<br />

society.<br />

The challenges of overcoming the past have proven<br />

to be an immense task further complicated by the<br />

ruling party who adopted a “go slow” attitude in<br />

the upliftment of the most desperate people in<br />

our society. High crime rates, economic instability<br />

and political corruption have added additional<br />

layers of complexity that has effectively halted<br />

the path towards progress, development and<br />

equality in South Africa.<br />

Despite these challenges, many South Africans<br />

have shown remarkable resilience and strength<br />

in the face of adversity. Communities have<br />

come together to support one another, to create<br />

opportunities for growth and empowerment, and<br />

to advocate for change and social justice. It’s<br />

important to address serious issues that arise and<br />

work towards finding solutions to them.<br />

The issue of baby abandonment is indeed a<br />

serious and heartbreaking problem that South<br />

Africa, like many other countries, is facing. The<br />

act of abandoning a baby is a complex and tragic<br />

situation that can have severe consequences<br />

for the child, both physically and emotionally. It<br />

reflects the deep social and economic challenges<br />

that many individuals and families in South Africa<br />

are struggling with right now!<br />

The future of a country is closely tied to the<br />

well-being and welfare of its youngest and<br />

most vulnerable citizens. The high rate of baby<br />

abandonment raises serious concerns about<br />

the state of social support systems, access to<br />

healthcare, economic opportunities and mental<br />

health services in the country.<br />

Addressing the issue of baby abandonment<br />

requires a multi-faceted approach that involves<br />

government intervention, community support,<br />

education and awareness campaigns. It is<br />

essential to provide support and resources to<br />

individuals and families who are facing such<br />

immense difficulties that they have to consider<br />

abandoning their babies. This includes access<br />

to counselling, healthcare, housing and social<br />

services.<br />

Furthermore, efforts to prevent baby<br />

abandonment should focus on addressing the<br />

root causes of the problem, such as education,<br />

poverty, lack of support networks, stigma,<br />

and mental health issues. By creating a<br />

more supportive and inclusive society, where<br />

individuals feel empowered to seek help and<br />

support, we can work towards reducing the<br />

incidence of baby abandonment and ensuring a<br />

brighter future for all children in South Africa.<br />

It is crucial for all sectors of society<br />

to come together to address this issue<br />

and work towards creating a country<br />

where every child is valued, protected<br />

and given the opportunity to thrive. Only<br />

through collective action, a commitment<br />

to compassion and empathy can we<br />

create a future where the abandonment<br />

of babies is no longer a tragic reality in<br />

South Africa.<br />

By Ps Ignat van Dyk<br />

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We would like to introduce Bridge of Hope. We are a NPO<br />

(Non-Profit Organization) concerned about the children of<br />

Rustenburg. We are committed to networking with<br />

other organizations in order to provide a holistic<br />

approach to intervening and caring for abandoned,<br />

orphaned, and vulnerable children in our communities.<br />

In 2022, we built a house intended to be a home<br />

that would provide a safe alternative to care for<br />

little ones in crisis. When a child is abandoned or<br />

needs to be removed from a dangerous situation,<br />

social workers often need a temporary, safe,<br />

loving place for that child to stay while they are<br />

busy organizing a more permanent family solution<br />

for the child. We want to be a place of security,<br />

hope, and healing for children in acute crisis, a<br />

bridge between their current scary reality and<br />

their healthy secure future in a forever family.<br />

So, in 2023, we submitted our business plan to<br />

the Department of Social Development. We are<br />

still working toward getting approval to begin<br />

caring for children.<br />

We are also<br />

committed to helping<br />

support and strengthen<br />

families that are struggling<br />

so that they don’t reach a point of crisis. We<br />

are located next to Dinie Estates, a semiformal<br />

housing community near the rural edge<br />

of Rustenburg. We plan to work with local<br />

social workers to identify families in need of<br />

support and offer structured after school care<br />

including homework help and life-skills training<br />

for children as well as parenting courses and<br />

practical training for parents and caregivers.<br />

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OUR PARTNERS<br />

COMMUNITY PARTNERS<br />

BABY SAVERS<br />

SOUTH AFRICA<br />

<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />

CORPORATE PARTNERS<br />

DO THE RIGHT THING<br />

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BABY SAFE<br />

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PEBBLES OF<br />

GRACE FOR<br />

PARENTS<br />

JUNE 2024<br />

MOMMY, WHO IS GOING TO TIE MY SHOELACES?<br />

Parenthood is an immense blessing from God.<br />

A colossal responsibility, a journey we can only<br />

undertake by the grace of God, and with faith<br />

in Jesus, as he equips us daily in our parenting<br />

ministry.<br />

My name is Brenda, I am a single mother. I have<br />

spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy due to an<br />

injury at birth. I will share that story, (it won’t be<br />

today though.) If I had to explain it in a simple<br />

way all I can say is that my muscles and nerves<br />

don’t function normally. I could also<br />

say that I am in a wheelchair<br />

for now, but certainly not for<br />

eternity… (Please laugh, I<br />

have a mischievous look<br />

on my face.) My son,<br />

Pietie, is six years<br />

old and I am in<br />

the process of<br />

adopting him.<br />

(The story<br />

o f<br />

how we met is a beautiful testimony for<br />

another day)<br />

What is the most important thing we could<br />

consider doing when raising our children?<br />

Is it providing a roof over their heads? Is it<br />

clothing their bodies? Is it providing them<br />

with a good education? Is the answer to this<br />

all the above and so much more? What if the<br />

best thing we could do for our children above<br />

all else before we do anything was praying for<br />

them?<br />

We were getting ready for school one morning<br />

and his granny was on a trip away from home.<br />

He came to me and asked: Mommy, who is<br />

going to tie my shoelaces? I told him I would<br />

ask our neighbour to help when he fetched<br />

him for school. It sounds simple enough right?<br />

Inside of me though I was falling apart.<br />

I felt like a failure. I cannot even tie my son’s<br />

laces…. What kind of mother am I? Questions<br />

and voices raced through my head, they made<br />

me feel unworthy of motherhood, but I kept my<br />

cool and a happy smile on my face. …<br />

My little guy and the neighbour left for<br />

school that day, laces tied perfectly,<br />

then the flood gates opened, and I<br />

began to cry for everything I would<br />

never be able to do…. I think all parents<br />

feel overwhelmed sometimes, just like I<br />

felt at that moment.<br />

It felt like an hour, but I am pretty sure it wasn’t.<br />

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I felt as if the Holy spirit was stirring in my heart<br />

whispering to me, saying: “I didn’t give him to<br />

you, so that you could tie his laces, I have given<br />

him to you so that you can love him and teach<br />

him my ways”<br />

Well, that revelation bowled me over and<br />

brought me a sense of peace that only Jesus<br />

can give. I began to see things differently and<br />

realized that one of the vital things we can do<br />

as parents is pray for our children.<br />

The Bible is filled with narratives of mothers<br />

praying for their children. Hannah prayed for<br />

Samuel. For this child I have prayed. (1 Sam<br />

1:27-28)<br />

How should we as parents pray for our children?<br />

Consider the acronym PRAY.<br />

Pray for them on purpose, for their redemption<br />

that they may walk in an awareness of the love<br />

and grace of Jesus for them. When we pray, we<br />

must have hearts that are yielding faithfully<br />

to the will of God for their lives through Jesus<br />

Christ.<br />

Pray the Word of God over your children<br />

Speak and pray scripture over the lives of our<br />

children. We have the power to speak life over<br />

our children daily. Pray the will of God over<br />

their lives, that they may be empowered to<br />

dwell in their God-given destiny according<br />

to his glorious purposes.<br />

Pray for the redemption of your children,<br />

SCRIPTURES TO<br />

PRAY FOR OUR<br />

LITTLE ONES:<br />

the day of acceptance of Jesus as their savior,<br />

the day the redemption of Jesus becomes a<br />

reality in their lives.<br />

Pray for our children to experience an<br />

awareness of the presence of the love, grace<br />

and peace of Jesus.<br />

Yield to Jesus as you pray for your children<br />

because our children belong to God and not to<br />

us. Our children, our gift from God, given to us<br />

to raise for his honor and glory in a posture of<br />

surrender to him.<br />

When we are unable to tie their shoelaces,<br />

may we find the strength to give our treasures<br />

to him as we pray…<br />

“Thy will be done in their lives”<br />

• Luke 2:52<br />

• Romans 15:13<br />

• Philippians 4:13<br />

• Psalm 119:105<br />

• Psalms 139:14-16<br />

Brenda Klopper<br />

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IT TAKES A VILLAGE…<br />

BY EWERT HAASBROEK<br />

‘THE TRUE CHARACTER OF A<br />

SOCIETY IS REVEALED IN HOW<br />

IT TREATS ITS CHILDREN.’<br />

These words were spoken by former President<br />

Nelson Mandela, and it still rings true today.<br />

In recent years and especially during Covid, there<br />

has been a multitude of cases reported of abuse<br />

against children whether physical, sexual or<br />

verbal. This abuse happens among us, by and to<br />

people you would not expect it from, people that<br />

look good and are respected in public.<br />

A concerned adult recently cared enough<br />

to report a case anonymously of a man who<br />

allegedly sexually abused a high school boy. The<br />

mother of the boy was aware of the situation but<br />

was either too afraid or embarrassed to speak up<br />

or report the matter. Was it not for the anonymous<br />

caller informant the sexual abuse of this boy<br />

would have been prolonged and possibly other<br />

boys would have been tormented by the same<br />

perpetrator.<br />

Another case was reported by a concerned<br />

neighbour about children growing up in a house<br />

where there is no food, but alcohol is always<br />

available. The dad starts drinking early in the<br />

morning and later in the day physically abuses<br />

the mother and children. His oldest son, in high<br />

school now, is following his dad’s footsteps<br />

without any intervention or course correction<br />

from his father.<br />

Another case reported was of a man using<br />

drugs who shouts at his children while under<br />

the influenceand and does not provide or care<br />

for them. Reportedly it is also common<br />

knowledge that he sleeps with women for<br />

money. All the while there are kids entrapped<br />

in this whole situation.<br />

The tragedy of the matter is that cases like<br />

these are a daily reality and get reported but<br />

due to factors such as a lack of people<br />

to investigate or reach out, institutions<br />

not receiving the required permits to<br />

intervene or government departments<br />

that are unable to take action due to a<br />

lack of funding to assist the innocent<br />

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stuck in these positions.<br />

If one looks at these cases<br />

objectively it is easy to criticize,<br />

draw conclusions and to judge<br />

but these things happen for<br />

several reasons. People dont<br />

just wake up one day and<br />

become the monster that<br />

abuses children. There are<br />

things that happened in their<br />

lives like poverty, loss of a job,<br />

death of a loved one or rejection<br />

by an authority figure in their<br />

lives and rejection by society<br />

that has severely impacted<br />

their outlook, perception and resultant behaviour.<br />

This is why we as individuals in our community need to get<br />

involved where we can. At this moment as you are reading<br />

this article, there is a child in a terrible situation somewhere<br />

being abused and in need of help. Sometimes helping the child<br />

means helping the person abusing them. Sometimes it just<br />

takes something as simple as an act of kindness or a prayer.<br />

Get involved in the lives of the people around you, really care for<br />

anyone crossing your path. You might be the person breaking the<br />

cycle of rejection in someone’s life and by doing so unwittingly<br />

prevents a child from being abused even just for a short while.<br />

Unfortunately, sometimes a child must be removed out of<br />

a situation and work has to be done with the abuser to later<br />

reunite them with their children in a healthy way.<br />

They say it<br />

takes a village<br />

to raise a child,<br />

it also takes a<br />

village to look<br />

out for and<br />

protect a child.<br />

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ANDREA KRUGER, MAY 2024<br />

IN A WORLD OF INSTANT INFORMATION, WE CAN EASILY BECOME CONSUMED BY<br />

WHAT WE ARE INVOLVED IN OR WITH BUT WHAT DO WE DO WITH THE INFORMATION<br />

WE’RE CONSUMING SCROLL BY SCROLL? WHAT STICKS? AND WHAT AND WHO LEADS<br />

OR CAUSES US TO ACT?<br />

WHAT DO WE STAND UP FOR? WHERE DO WE SHOW UP? WHEN DO WE SPEAK UP?<br />

Say for example you read an article of a new bill the Government<br />

wants to pass. Do you do research on the proposed bill? Find<br />

out what the practical implications would be? Maybe start a<br />

petition? Or do you just know about it until you forget about<br />

it? In this scenario, do you stand up by signing a petition?<br />

Show up by protesting or speak up by joining conversations<br />

concerning the bill?<br />

Another example would be if you see a post on social<br />

media concerning the abduction of a child. Do you repost<br />

instantly, warning your social media circle? Do you start<br />

digging for more information to check the facts? And<br />

do you change your behaviour and/or movements in<br />

response?<br />

Again, the questions arise, stand up, show up or<br />

speak up?<br />

In a consumer and reaction driven society how<br />

can we utilise the vast information at hand not<br />

only to be consumers but to become active<br />

contributors, transforming information into<br />

weapons to fight the battles of today and<br />

tomorrow? Taking what we are learning<br />

and standing up for what is just,<br />

showing up for those who need us<br />

and speaking up against injustice.<br />

Across the world Intelligence<br />

Agencies make use of a cycle<br />

called the Intelligence cycle,<br />

transforming information into<br />

intelligence. These reports are<br />

part of the Government’s decisionmaking<br />

processes. Following the same cycle can lead<br />

to informed decision making enabling the correct action<br />

is taken to implement an appropriate solution.<br />

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STEP<br />

01<br />

1. PLANNING AND DIRECTION<br />

Say you hear or heard of a topic that is concerning to you. Stop for a moment, ask yourself. Do<br />

I plan to stand up, show up or speak up about this? Do I want to find out more? Or do I want<br />

to share it without any further knowledge about its validity? Answering yes to any of these<br />

questions leads you into what happens next. Forward, skip or start asking more questions.<br />

Should you want to find out more, start planning where you will find out more about the topic,<br />

who you can ask and what you can do.<br />

STEP<br />

02<br />

2. COLLECTION<br />

Start collecting the information. This can take<br />

on various forms e.g. reading up about laws,<br />

speaking to a professional or reading different<br />

articles about the same subject. Get to know the<br />

topic.<br />

WHAT<br />

DOES THIS<br />

CYCLE<br />

ENTAIL?<br />

3. PROCESSING AND<br />

STEP EXPLOITATION<br />

03<br />

The amount of information you<br />

have gathered can be daunting.<br />

Little by little process the<br />

information by looking at similarities<br />

and differences. Highlight what stands out<br />

and what raises more questions.<br />

STEP<br />

04<br />

4. ANALYSIS AND<br />

PRODUCTION<br />

Consider the information gathered, is<br />

it reliable, valid, and relevant? Ask and<br />

answer who, what, where, why, when and how<br />

on every occasion. Continually answering these<br />

questions will lead you to produce intelligence<br />

from information.<br />

In a world of instant information, we can<br />

easily become consumed by what we are<br />

scrolling through. But what if we apply this<br />

cycle to our daily lives? Using information so<br />

STEP 5. DISSEMINATION AND<br />

05<br />

INTEGRATION<br />

Policy makers across the world make daily<br />

decisions based on intelligence reports<br />

compiled by analysts. Integrating it into policies<br />

and actions. Some of these decisions lead to more<br />

reporting requirements. Leading back to the planning step<br />

in the cycle. .<br />

widely available to make informed decisions whether the situation at hand requires us to stand<br />

up, show up or speak up, not to be consumed by the information but contribute to our families,<br />

communities and nation with it.<br />

Disclaimer: Information provided should be used with discretion and within the law of the Country.<br />

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HELP US AND GET INVOLVED!<br />

It’s commendable that you are looking to get involved in helping children<br />

and women who are victims of abuse and abandonment. Here are<br />

some ways you can engage in different forms of partnership with<br />

organizations like the <strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre. Together we can do<br />

more! We have created and established different platforms where<br />

you as an individual can help us fight <strong>Child</strong> abuse. Whether it is direct<br />

or indirect every form of partnership takes us one step closer to<br />

helping our children. Here is a list of how you can engage in different<br />

forms of partnership.<br />

SIGN UP! Receive the organization’s newsletter and magazine is a powerful way<br />

to stay informed about their work, events, and opportunities to get involved.<br />

By staying connected, you can receive news and resources to help spread<br />

awareness about important issues like child abuse and abandonment.<br />

Your support and engagement can make a significant impact in raising<br />

awareness and supporting those in need.<br />

LIKE AND SHARE the organization’s social media pages helps increase visibility,<br />

raise awareness about child abuse, and engage more people in supporting the<br />

cause. It amplifies advocacy efforts, builds a sense of community, and supports<br />

the organization’s mission. Your simple actions can make a big difference<br />

in spreading the word and making a<br />

positive impact<br />

JOIN CHILD WATCH WHATSAPP GROUP. Our WhatsApp group is a convenient way<br />

to stay connected, receive news updates, articles, and event information easily. By<br />

joining the group, you can actively participate in creating support and awareness<br />

for the project and campaigns related to combating child abuse and abandonment.<br />

Your involvement in the group can help amplify the organization’s message, engage<br />

with like-minded individuals, and contribute to making a positive impact.<br />

Thank you for considering joining the WhatsApp group and being part of the<br />

community working towards a common goal of supporting children in need.<br />

BECOME A PLATINUM PARTNER! Partners are recognized in the media and<br />

receive invitations to attend all events, allowing for valuable networking and<br />

engagement opportunities. By becoming a partner, you can play a key role in the<br />

organization’s efforts to protect children and raise awareness about child abuse.<br />

Your involvement can make a real difference in the lives of those in need.<br />

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SIGN UP TO BECOME A VOLUNTEER. We aim to build relations across South<br />

Africa. We need counsellors, psychologists, teachers, doctors, and lawyers<br />

that can be of assistance to the broken and vulnerable people that become<br />

victims of abuse. Any form of volunteer work will be appreciated. Whatever<br />

skill you have we need it. Even a teenager in a school can assist the <strong>Child</strong> rescue<br />

centre by spreading the word and leading by example in their conduct.<br />

HELP US BY DONATING food parcels, stationary, toys, clothes etc. We donate<br />

these products to places of safety, schools, children’s homes, and rural areas<br />

in need.<br />

SUPPORT OUR ONLINE SHOP and purchase our merchandise.<br />

BOOK US FOR A FREE EDUCATIONAL TALK OR AWARENESS CAMPAIGNS at<br />

a school, to spread awareness and to help us to further educate and protect<br />

our children.<br />

Take part in our in our events like Golf days so we can create awareness and<br />

support our fund-raising campaigns.<br />

BECOME A SUPERHERO and organise fund raising events on our behalf<br />

TAKE PART IN OUR DIFFERENT COMPETITIONS from time to time<br />

SMS TO SUPPORT toward a monthly contribution.<br />

SUPPORT OUR ONLINE FUND RAISERS COMPAIGNS<br />

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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />

HOW CAN I BECOME A<br />

PLATINUM PARTNER?<br />

You can become a monthly platinum partner for<br />

R1000 per month or R12 000 per year.<br />

Your partnership will enable us to combat <strong>Child</strong> abuse.<br />

WHAT DO YOU BENEFIT?<br />

1. Your company logo or name will appear<br />

in our magazine, social media, Website,<br />

company profile, flyers, events and all<br />

other market related material.<br />

2. Qualify for Section 18A tax Benefit<br />

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donations.<br />

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