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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />
JULY 2024 EDITION 1<br />
THIS EDITION IS<br />
DEDICATED TO<br />
THE ABANDONED<br />
CHILDREN OF<br />
SOUTH AFRICA<br />
THE INVENTION<br />
OF THE CENTURY<br />
PAGE 04<br />
PAGE 06 PAGE 13
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OUR PARTNERS 14<br />
02 HELP US FUND BABY BOXES PEBBLES OF GRACE<br />
FOR PARENTS 15<br />
THE INVENTION OF THE<br />
04 CENTURY<br />
CHARITY GOLF DAY<br />
17<br />
GO AND MAKE ATONEMENT<br />
06<br />
IT TAKES A VILLAGE<br />
18<br />
SOUTH AFRICAN HISTORY ON<br />
09 BABY BOXES AND SAVERS STAND UP! SHOW UP!<br />
SPEAK UP! 20<br />
WALL OF HONOUR<br />
11 END UNSAFE INFANT<br />
ABONDONMENT 22<br />
12<br />
WE NEED TO TAKE ACTION!<br />
GET INVOLVED<br />
23<br />
BECOME A PLATINUM<br />
PARTNER<br />
25<br />
EDITING COMMITTEE<br />
Ignat van Dyk<br />
Cindyann van Dyk<br />
Dave de Jager<br />
Marina de Jager<br />
Evert Haasbroek<br />
Andre van Dyk<br />
SOCIAL MEDIA<br />
Karina Duvenhage<br />
LAYOUT & GRAPHICS<br />
Jacqueline Rademeyer
THE ISSUE OF BABY<br />
ABANDONMENT IS A SEVERE AND<br />
HEARTBREAKING REALITY THAT<br />
NEEDS URGENT ATTENTION AND ACTION<br />
IN OUR COUNTRY.<br />
The act of dumping an unwanted baby in dangerous and inhumane<br />
locations like rivers, pit toilets, or rubbish dumps is a tragic and<br />
severe form of child abandonment that puts the lives of innocent<br />
infants at grave risk. This is a heartbreaking reflection of the<br />
desperate situation prospective parents find themselves in due<br />
to complex social, economic and psychological factors.<br />
To address this extreme form of baby abandonment and prevent<br />
these tragic incidents from occurring it is imperative to take<br />
immediate action by implementing targeted interventions.<br />
The “baby saver” or “baby box,” also known as a “door of hope,”<br />
is indeed a remarkable innovation that has provided a safe<br />
and anonymous way for anguished parents to relinquish their<br />
newborn baby in a secure manner while ensuring the well-being<br />
and survival of the infant. Baby boxes are typically installed in<br />
hospitals, fire stations, or other designated trustworthy locations<br />
enabling distraught parents to safely and anonymously place<br />
their baby in the box. When the box is opened an alarm is triggered<br />
and a message sent to alerted caregivers who then retrieve the<br />
baby enabling the provision of immediate care and setting in<br />
motion the process of future provision for the child.<br />
The concept of baby boxes or baby savers has been implemented<br />
in various countries around the world as a response to the issue<br />
of baby abandonment and as a means of preventing tragedies<br />
resulting from infants being abandoned in unsafe locations.<br />
These facilities offer a compassionate and non-judgmental<br />
alternative for parents who may feel overwhelmed or who are<br />
unable to care for their newborns, providing a second chance for<br />
these babies to be placed in safe hands and receive the care and<br />
support they need.<br />
The introduction of baby boxes has been widely regarded as<br />
a significant transformation in child welfare and protection,<br />
offering a practical solution to a complex and sensitive issue. By<br />
providing a safe and anonymous way for parents to surrender their<br />
babies, baby boxes help to ensure that infants are not abandoned<br />
in dangerous or life-threatening situations, while also offering<br />
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support and resources to the infants.<br />
While the use of baby boxes has sparked ethical and legal<br />
debates in some regions, their presence has undeniably saved<br />
the lives of many vulnerable infants and provided hope for a<br />
brighter future for these children. The compassionate and<br />
humane approach of baby boxes underscores the importance<br />
of finding innovative and alternative solutions to address the<br />
challenges of child abandonment and to protect the most<br />
vulnerable members of society. Baby savers are the safe<br />
alternative to unsafe baby abandonment through the use of a<br />
Baby “Saver” box.<br />
The use of a baby box or baby haven should always be considered<br />
as a last resort for parents or caregivers who are unable to care<br />
for their newborn infants, and all efforts should be made to<br />
provide support and resources to prevent unsafe abandonment<br />
in the first place.<br />
While baby boxes can serve as a critical safety net for infants<br />
in situations of extreme crisis, it is essential to address the<br />
root causes that lead to child abandonment and to provide<br />
comprehensive support services to individuals and families<br />
facing difficult circumstances. Prevention strategies, such as<br />
access to counselling, healthcare, social services, financial<br />
assistance and community support networks can help address<br />
the underlying issues and support parents in raising their<br />
children in a safe and nurturing environment.<br />
Encouraging open communication, reducing stigma around<br />
crisis pregnancies, and promoting awareness about available<br />
resources are key components of efforts to prevent unsafe<br />
abandonment and support families in need. By fostering a<br />
supportive and compassionate society that values the wellbeing<br />
of all children, we can work towards reducing the<br />
incidence of child abandonment and ensuring that every<br />
child has the opportunity to grow up in a loving and stable<br />
environment.<br />
While baby boxes can provide a temporary solution in<br />
emergency situations, the ultimate goal should be to create<br />
a society where families in crisis receive the assistance and<br />
support, they need to care for their children where every child is<br />
valued, protected and given the chance to thrive. Collaboration<br />
among government agencies, non-profit organizations,<br />
healthcare providers and community members are essential in<br />
developing holistic approaches to address the complexities of<br />
child welfare and protection. Together, we can strive to create<br />
a safer and more compassionate world for all children.<br />
WE NEED TO LEGALISE BABY SAVERS AND<br />
BABY SAFE HAVENS! ENCOURAGING THE SAFE<br />
ALTERNATIVE TO UNSAFE ABANDONMENT.<br />
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One morning my Husband and I were driving from<br />
Rustenburg to Pretoria, on the N4 Highway for a<br />
routine Gynecologist checkup. At the time I was<br />
about 26 weeks pregnant. We were excited to see<br />
our baby girl on the scans again as we were counting<br />
down the checkups until we were going to meet her<br />
and hold her in our arms.<br />
As we were driving, something caught our attention, I<br />
wasn’t sure what I had seen but we both felt strongly<br />
compelled to turn around. We found a safe place to<br />
do so, and by the time we got back to the scene a<br />
truck driver had also stopped.<br />
There, right next to the white line on the tar, lay a baby<br />
boy, his body so perfectly formed but lifeless, blown<br />
out of a plastic bag… abandoned. It was clear that he<br />
hadn’t been there long as there was no insect activity<br />
yet. With every car that rushed by, I dreaded the bag<br />
blowing up and pulling his tiny lifeless body away, but<br />
he lay there, stuck to the tar with the flapping plastic<br />
bag somehow still attached to him. Everything in me<br />
wanted to pick him up and console him, hold him, help<br />
him! But it was too late! I stood there, torn between<br />
feeling my own baby moving frantically inside of me,<br />
probably sensing my tense emotions and the lifeless<br />
baby on the roadside that I could do nothing for. I had<br />
never felt so helpless in my entire life…<br />
Knowing that we could not move him, due to forensic<br />
proceedings that would have to be followed I started<br />
looking for something to cover him with but couldn’t<br />
find anything that wouldn’t compromise what now<br />
had turned from life into evidence. Instead, I started<br />
phoning the police, first the closest police station.<br />
They said they would send someone to the scene.<br />
Thirty minutes later no one had responded so I called<br />
again at which point the jurisdictional card was<br />
played and I had to call another station that I must<br />
say responded rather quickly. We thanked the police<br />
and allowed the truck driver to give his report as he<br />
had been the first responder on the scene. Still in<br />
shock and with heavy hearts we continued to our<br />
doctor’s appointment.<br />
I had phoned the Doctor’s office to inform them we<br />
would be late, so she already knew to debrief us<br />
professionally and confirmed what I had expected.<br />
The baby was about the same gestational age as our<br />
daughter at the time, and the Dr said her suspicions<br />
would be that the baby had been dumped there after<br />
an illegal abortion. At 26 weeks of gestation a baby is<br />
still very small but has a decent chance at survival<br />
should it be born at this point provided it receives the<br />
correct medical care. Unfortunately, this baby was<br />
never even given the chance!<br />
We went on with our day as ‘normally’ as possible<br />
although we were clearly moved by the events. We<br />
prayed about it and asked the Lord to turn a difficult<br />
situation into something good. I asked God what we<br />
should do and received word from Numbers 16: 46 –<br />
48 “And Moses said to Aaron, “Take your censer and<br />
put fire in it from the altar, and place incense on it;<br />
then bring it quickly to the congregation and make<br />
atonement for them, for wrath has gone out from the<br />
Lord, the plague has begun!” Then Aaron took it just<br />
as Moses had spoken, and he ran into the midst of the<br />
assembly; and behold, the plague had begun among<br />
the people. So, he put on the incense and made<br />
atonement for the people. And he took his stand<br />
between the dead and the living, so that the plague<br />
was brought to a halt.”<br />
The word atonement is used in the bible to make<br />
reference to ‘cover, appease, cleanse, cancel out, put<br />
off or reconcile’. According to Wikipedia atonement<br />
is defined as: “Atonement (also atoning, or, to atone)<br />
is the concept of a person taking action to correct<br />
previous wrongdoing on their part either through<br />
direct action to undo the consequences of that act,<br />
equivalent action to do good for others or some other<br />
expression of feelings of remorse.”<br />
Since this incident we have become very passionate 6
about child protection and standing up for the voiceless.<br />
Our eyes were opened to the magnitude of the current<br />
reality of child abuse, neglect and abandonment. In our<br />
world as we currently know it there are daily reports of<br />
child abuse, rape, abandonment, misconduct towards<br />
women and children, human trafficking, the list sadly<br />
goes on and on. As I was writing this article I received<br />
a video from a concerned Mother, showing evidence<br />
of children who were found in animal feed bags in<br />
Congo, believed to be sold by human traffickers.<br />
There is no age or color partiality to the selection of<br />
children for trafficking. In this instance some were<br />
about 8 years old while others were just toddlers. I<br />
realized again the value or lack thereof, for human life<br />
that our modern society is facing. The value of a<br />
child’s life is shockingly low, no wonder a baby<br />
‘in vitro’ or newborn is dumped in a plastic bag<br />
next to the highway so carelessly. A few weeks<br />
after our incident there was another report of an<br />
abandoned baby at the exact same bridge on the<br />
N4 Highway.<br />
How has this become acceptable in our world?<br />
How has this become so normal? When speaking<br />
to most social workers or police, they aren’t<br />
even surprised by our shocking experience. This<br />
has become the everyday norm to most police,<br />
health care and social relief service providers!<br />
Numbing their feelings towards it the more<br />
common it becomes, sometimes even numbing<br />
their resolve to take the necessary action.<br />
We ALL have the responsibility to go and make<br />
atonement! Although we can never make right what<br />
happened to that discarded baby next to the road<br />
we can and must make a difference to the other<br />
vulnerable children in our world! God already did His<br />
part. He sent His son Jesus as the ultimate sacrifice<br />
to cleanse us all from our sins. Now, he is asking us<br />
to do our part! We have to ‘take a stand between the<br />
dead and the living’, we have to draw the line and make<br />
this stop! We must unite, and stop this plague of child<br />
abuse, misuse, violation and total misconduct. It has<br />
become a virus in our world like no other!<br />
How do we do this? One child at a time! If just one<br />
child can be saved, esteemed, lifted up, rehabilitated<br />
or can even just hear that there is indeed a glimmer<br />
of hope, then it’s worth it! We are living in an urgent<br />
hour and it’s time to get our hands dirty! The biggest<br />
misconception is that our hands are tied, or that<br />
there’s nothing we can do!<br />
Everyone can and should be making a difference!<br />
Let’s fight back and make a stand for the next<br />
generation who cannot fight for themselves. We have<br />
to stop looking the other way! Every adult has moral<br />
(and legal) RESPONSIBILITY to report <strong>Child</strong> abuse<br />
and neglect!<br />
REMEMBER, EVERY CHILD IS SPECIAL, and we don’t<br />
get to decide which ones are or are not worthy! Every<br />
child deserves to have ‘a future and a hope’! Every day,<br />
you will face certain situations, your choices and how<br />
you react to these situations matter!<br />
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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />
EMOTIONAL ABUSE<br />
IS STILL CHILD ABUSE!<br />
YOUR WORDS MATTER<br />
Rustenburg hotline:<br />
071 352 9788<br />
info@childrc.co.za | www.childrc.co.za<br />
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Door of Hope <strong>Child</strong>ren’s Mission founder, Pastor Cheryl Allen, installed the first<br />
‘modern day’ Baby Box (saver) at their premises in Berea, Johannesburg in July 1999.<br />
Later that year a lady from Germany came to visit to view the operational Baby Box<br />
and subsequently installed one in [town? City? Country?] in April 2000.<br />
After Germany began installing Baby Boxes (savers),<br />
they had visitors from Japan and Switzerland who<br />
took the concept back to their countries. Poland went<br />
to visit Switzerland in 2006, which resulted in them<br />
proceeding with the installation of 60 Baby Savers<br />
in honour of Pope John Paul II, a known great ‘life<br />
defender’ (the Catholic Church had provided places<br />
for mothers to leave their babies anonymously if they<br />
could not look after them in the 1400 / 1500s).<br />
Some years later a Pastor in South Korea had a few<br />
instances of babies abandoned in front of his home.<br />
This prompted him to do some research into child<br />
abandonment in developing countries and resulted in<br />
him installing a Baby Saver in 2009. By<br />
2011 Russia and Latvia had also come<br />
on board.<br />
In 2013 Monica Kelsey (an abandoned<br />
infant herself) visited South Africa<br />
from the USA, where she saw the Baby<br />
Saver at the King of Kings Church in<br />
Sun Valley, Cape Town. She went on<br />
to launch the Safe Haven Baby Boxes<br />
organisation in America (where many<br />
states have a Safe Haven Law in place,<br />
but unsafe abandonment continues to<br />
be an issue).<br />
The next baby saver in South Africa was<br />
opened in 2008 by New BeginningZ in<br />
Pretoria and in 2013 a third Baby Saver<br />
was opened in Wellington in the Cape,<br />
followed by the Helderberg Baby Saver<br />
in Somerset West in 2014. There are now<br />
35 operational Baby Savers in South<br />
Africa.<br />
Nadene Grabham, Director of Door of Hope was proud<br />
to represent South Africa at the 14th annual Asia Health<br />
and Baby Box Symposium in Kumamoto Japan in early<br />
2018, along with 10 other countries. Here it emerged that<br />
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India had installed a “baby saver” as early as 1978 (however<br />
this was simply a wicker basket outside the door of an<br />
orphanage at night). There are now Baby Boxes / Savers<br />
in almost every country in the world. Nadene was also<br />
invited to do a Tedx Talk on Baby Savers in November 2021.<br />
The chain reaction that has spread across the globe started<br />
in South Africa because of a baby that was found alive on<br />
the Queen Elizabeth bridge who died whilst journalists were<br />
taking photos, and subsequently, another dead baby was<br />
dumped in a rubbish bin of a Deacon in the Church<br />
where Cheryl Allen was the pastor. Thanks to<br />
her actions in trying to provide an anonymous<br />
safer option for desperate mothers, there has<br />
been a ripple effect around the world which<br />
has saved many lives.<br />
Sadly, abandonment rates remain high in<br />
South Africa and are up there with India and<br />
China although we have a quarter of the<br />
population but often our abandonments<br />
are far more violent. It is estimated<br />
that around 3500 babies survive unsafe<br />
abandonment every year and that for every<br />
baby found alive, two are found dead.<br />
In February 2021, Dr Whitney Rosenberg (Senior law<br />
lecturer) and Nadene Grabham (Operations<br />
Director of Door of Hope) drafted a<br />
law proposal which was presented to<br />
parliament. The proposal aims to legalise<br />
safe relinquishment of a baby through a<br />
Baby Saver. They co-founded Baby Savers<br />
SA and were joined by founding members<br />
Sandy Immelman (Helderberg Baby Savers)<br />
and Tahiyya Hassim (New BeginningZ).<br />
And so Baby Savers SA came to be a<br />
national coalition with the aim of ending<br />
unsafe baby abandonment in South Africa.<br />
After all, our constitution states that everyone has a right to life.<br />
Unsafe abandonment takes away this right, a baby saver reinstates this right. The fight continues<br />
and we won’t give up!<br />
To date over 540 babies have safely been relinquished through baby<br />
savers in South Africa but this is a drop in the ocean as almost all<br />
research has shown that around 10 000 babies are abandoned across the<br />
country every year and 2 out of 3 babies die from unsafe abandonment.<br />
A BABY SAVER IS A LIFE SAVING DEVICE.<br />
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10 000 babies<br />
Over 10 000 babies are abandoned<br />
every year in South Africa<br />
We are sorry<br />
that the people<br />
of south africa<br />
failed you!<br />
We aim to make<br />
your future<br />
better!<br />
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The history of South Africa is marked by an era<br />
where the majority of citizens were living in<br />
sub-standard conditions. The election of Nelson<br />
Mandela as the country’s first black President was<br />
a watershed moment that brought hope for a new<br />
era of unity, reconciliation and progress within our<br />
society.<br />
The challenges of overcoming the past have proven<br />
to be an immense task further complicated by the<br />
ruling party who adopted a “go slow” attitude in<br />
the upliftment of the most desperate people in<br />
our society. High crime rates, economic instability<br />
and political corruption have added additional<br />
layers of complexity that has effectively halted<br />
the path towards progress, development and<br />
equality in South Africa.<br />
Despite these challenges, many South Africans<br />
have shown remarkable resilience and strength<br />
in the face of adversity. Communities have<br />
come together to support one another, to create<br />
opportunities for growth and empowerment, and<br />
to advocate for change and social justice. It’s<br />
important to address serious issues that arise and<br />
work towards finding solutions to them.<br />
The issue of baby abandonment is indeed a<br />
serious and heartbreaking problem that South<br />
Africa, like many other countries, is facing. The<br />
act of abandoning a baby is a complex and tragic<br />
situation that can have severe consequences<br />
for the child, both physically and emotionally. It<br />
reflects the deep social and economic challenges<br />
that many individuals and families in South Africa<br />
are struggling with right now!<br />
The future of a country is closely tied to the<br />
well-being and welfare of its youngest and<br />
most vulnerable citizens. The high rate of baby<br />
abandonment raises serious concerns about<br />
the state of social support systems, access to<br />
healthcare, economic opportunities and mental<br />
health services in the country.<br />
Addressing the issue of baby abandonment<br />
requires a multi-faceted approach that involves<br />
government intervention, community support,<br />
education and awareness campaigns. It is<br />
essential to provide support and resources to<br />
individuals and families who are facing such<br />
immense difficulties that they have to consider<br />
abandoning their babies. This includes access<br />
to counselling, healthcare, housing and social<br />
services.<br />
Furthermore, efforts to prevent baby<br />
abandonment should focus on addressing the<br />
root causes of the problem, such as education,<br />
poverty, lack of support networks, stigma,<br />
and mental health issues. By creating a<br />
more supportive and inclusive society, where<br />
individuals feel empowered to seek help and<br />
support, we can work towards reducing the<br />
incidence of baby abandonment and ensuring a<br />
brighter future for all children in South Africa.<br />
It is crucial for all sectors of society<br />
to come together to address this issue<br />
and work towards creating a country<br />
where every child is valued, protected<br />
and given the opportunity to thrive. Only<br />
through collective action, a commitment<br />
to compassion and empathy can we<br />
create a future where the abandonment<br />
of babies is no longer a tragic reality in<br />
South Africa.<br />
By Ps Ignat van Dyk<br />
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We would like to introduce Bridge of Hope. We are a NPO<br />
(Non-Profit Organization) concerned about the children of<br />
Rustenburg. We are committed to networking with<br />
other organizations in order to provide a holistic<br />
approach to intervening and caring for abandoned,<br />
orphaned, and vulnerable children in our communities.<br />
In 2022, we built a house intended to be a home<br />
that would provide a safe alternative to care for<br />
little ones in crisis. When a child is abandoned or<br />
needs to be removed from a dangerous situation,<br />
social workers often need a temporary, safe,<br />
loving place for that child to stay while they are<br />
busy organizing a more permanent family solution<br />
for the child. We want to be a place of security,<br />
hope, and healing for children in acute crisis, a<br />
bridge between their current scary reality and<br />
their healthy secure future in a forever family.<br />
So, in 2023, we submitted our business plan to<br />
the Department of Social Development. We are<br />
still working toward getting approval to begin<br />
caring for children.<br />
We are also<br />
committed to helping<br />
support and strengthen<br />
families that are struggling<br />
so that they don’t reach a point of crisis. We<br />
are located next to Dinie Estates, a semiformal<br />
housing community near the rural edge<br />
of Rustenburg. We plan to work with local<br />
social workers to identify families in need of<br />
support and offer structured after school care<br />
including homework help and life-skills training<br />
for children as well as parenting courses and<br />
practical training for parents and caregivers.<br />
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PEBBLES OF<br />
GRACE FOR<br />
PARENTS<br />
JUNE 2024<br />
MOMMY, WHO IS GOING TO TIE MY SHOELACES?<br />
Parenthood is an immense blessing from God.<br />
A colossal responsibility, a journey we can only<br />
undertake by the grace of God, and with faith<br />
in Jesus, as he equips us daily in our parenting<br />
ministry.<br />
My name is Brenda, I am a single mother. I have<br />
spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy due to an<br />
injury at birth. I will share that story, (it won’t be<br />
today though.) If I had to explain it in a simple<br />
way all I can say is that my muscles and nerves<br />
don’t function normally. I could also<br />
say that I am in a wheelchair<br />
for now, but certainly not for<br />
eternity… (Please laugh, I<br />
have a mischievous look<br />
on my face.) My son,<br />
Pietie, is six years<br />
old and I am in<br />
the process of<br />
adopting him.<br />
(The story<br />
o f<br />
how we met is a beautiful testimony for<br />
another day)<br />
What is the most important thing we could<br />
consider doing when raising our children?<br />
Is it providing a roof over their heads? Is it<br />
clothing their bodies? Is it providing them<br />
with a good education? Is the answer to this<br />
all the above and so much more? What if the<br />
best thing we could do for our children above<br />
all else before we do anything was praying for<br />
them?<br />
We were getting ready for school one morning<br />
and his granny was on a trip away from home.<br />
He came to me and asked: Mommy, who is<br />
going to tie my shoelaces? I told him I would<br />
ask our neighbour to help when he fetched<br />
him for school. It sounds simple enough right?<br />
Inside of me though I was falling apart.<br />
I felt like a failure. I cannot even tie my son’s<br />
laces…. What kind of mother am I? Questions<br />
and voices raced through my head, they made<br />
me feel unworthy of motherhood, but I kept my<br />
cool and a happy smile on my face. …<br />
My little guy and the neighbour left for<br />
school that day, laces tied perfectly,<br />
then the flood gates opened, and I<br />
began to cry for everything I would<br />
never be able to do…. I think all parents<br />
feel overwhelmed sometimes, just like I<br />
felt at that moment.<br />
It felt like an hour, but I am pretty sure it wasn’t.<br />
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I felt as if the Holy spirit was stirring in my heart<br />
whispering to me, saying: “I didn’t give him to<br />
you, so that you could tie his laces, I have given<br />
him to you so that you can love him and teach<br />
him my ways”<br />
Well, that revelation bowled me over and<br />
brought me a sense of peace that only Jesus<br />
can give. I began to see things differently and<br />
realized that one of the vital things we can do<br />
as parents is pray for our children.<br />
The Bible is filled with narratives of mothers<br />
praying for their children. Hannah prayed for<br />
Samuel. For this child I have prayed. (1 Sam<br />
1:27-28)<br />
How should we as parents pray for our children?<br />
Consider the acronym PRAY.<br />
Pray for them on purpose, for their redemption<br />
that they may walk in an awareness of the love<br />
and grace of Jesus for them. When we pray, we<br />
must have hearts that are yielding faithfully<br />
to the will of God for their lives through Jesus<br />
Christ.<br />
Pray the Word of God over your children<br />
Speak and pray scripture over the lives of our<br />
children. We have the power to speak life over<br />
our children daily. Pray the will of God over<br />
their lives, that they may be empowered to<br />
dwell in their God-given destiny according<br />
to his glorious purposes.<br />
Pray for the redemption of your children,<br />
SCRIPTURES TO<br />
PRAY FOR OUR<br />
LITTLE ONES:<br />
the day of acceptance of Jesus as their savior,<br />
the day the redemption of Jesus becomes a<br />
reality in their lives.<br />
Pray for our children to experience an<br />
awareness of the presence of the love, grace<br />
and peace of Jesus.<br />
Yield to Jesus as you pray for your children<br />
because our children belong to God and not to<br />
us. Our children, our gift from God, given to us<br />
to raise for his honor and glory in a posture of<br />
surrender to him.<br />
When we are unable to tie their shoelaces,<br />
may we find the strength to give our treasures<br />
to him as we pray…<br />
“Thy will be done in their lives”<br />
• Luke 2:52<br />
• Romans 15:13<br />
• Philippians 4:13<br />
• Psalm 119:105<br />
• Psalms 139:14-16<br />
Brenda Klopper<br />
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IT TAKES A VILLAGE…<br />
BY EWERT HAASBROEK<br />
‘THE TRUE CHARACTER OF A<br />
SOCIETY IS REVEALED IN HOW<br />
IT TREATS ITS CHILDREN.’<br />
These words were spoken by former President<br />
Nelson Mandela, and it still rings true today.<br />
In recent years and especially during Covid, there<br />
has been a multitude of cases reported of abuse<br />
against children whether physical, sexual or<br />
verbal. This abuse happens among us, by and to<br />
people you would not expect it from, people that<br />
look good and are respected in public.<br />
A concerned adult recently cared enough<br />
to report a case anonymously of a man who<br />
allegedly sexually abused a high school boy. The<br />
mother of the boy was aware of the situation but<br />
was either too afraid or embarrassed to speak up<br />
or report the matter. Was it not for the anonymous<br />
caller informant the sexual abuse of this boy<br />
would have been prolonged and possibly other<br />
boys would have been tormented by the same<br />
perpetrator.<br />
Another case was reported by a concerned<br />
neighbour about children growing up in a house<br />
where there is no food, but alcohol is always<br />
available. The dad starts drinking early in the<br />
morning and later in the day physically abuses<br />
the mother and children. His oldest son, in high<br />
school now, is following his dad’s footsteps<br />
without any intervention or course correction<br />
from his father.<br />
Another case reported was of a man using<br />
drugs who shouts at his children while under<br />
the influenceand and does not provide or care<br />
for them. Reportedly it is also common<br />
knowledge that he sleeps with women for<br />
money. All the while there are kids entrapped<br />
in this whole situation.<br />
The tragedy of the matter is that cases like<br />
these are a daily reality and get reported but<br />
due to factors such as a lack of people<br />
to investigate or reach out, institutions<br />
not receiving the required permits to<br />
intervene or government departments<br />
that are unable to take action due to a<br />
lack of funding to assist the innocent<br />
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stuck in these positions.<br />
If one looks at these cases<br />
objectively it is easy to criticize,<br />
draw conclusions and to judge<br />
but these things happen for<br />
several reasons. People dont<br />
just wake up one day and<br />
become the monster that<br />
abuses children. There are<br />
things that happened in their<br />
lives like poverty, loss of a job,<br />
death of a loved one or rejection<br />
by an authority figure in their<br />
lives and rejection by society<br />
that has severely impacted<br />
their outlook, perception and resultant behaviour.<br />
This is why we as individuals in our community need to get<br />
involved where we can. At this moment as you are reading<br />
this article, there is a child in a terrible situation somewhere<br />
being abused and in need of help. Sometimes helping the child<br />
means helping the person abusing them. Sometimes it just<br />
takes something as simple as an act of kindness or a prayer.<br />
Get involved in the lives of the people around you, really care for<br />
anyone crossing your path. You might be the person breaking the<br />
cycle of rejection in someone’s life and by doing so unwittingly<br />
prevents a child from being abused even just for a short while.<br />
Unfortunately, sometimes a child must be removed out of<br />
a situation and work has to be done with the abuser to later<br />
reunite them with their children in a healthy way.<br />
They say it<br />
takes a village<br />
to raise a child,<br />
it also takes a<br />
village to look<br />
out for and<br />
protect a child.<br />
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ANDREA KRUGER, MAY 2024<br />
IN A WORLD OF INSTANT INFORMATION, WE CAN EASILY BECOME CONSUMED BY<br />
WHAT WE ARE INVOLVED IN OR WITH BUT WHAT DO WE DO WITH THE INFORMATION<br />
WE’RE CONSUMING SCROLL BY SCROLL? WHAT STICKS? AND WHAT AND WHO LEADS<br />
OR CAUSES US TO ACT?<br />
WHAT DO WE STAND UP FOR? WHERE DO WE SHOW UP? WHEN DO WE SPEAK UP?<br />
Say for example you read an article of a new bill the Government<br />
wants to pass. Do you do research on the proposed bill? Find<br />
out what the practical implications would be? Maybe start a<br />
petition? Or do you just know about it until you forget about<br />
it? In this scenario, do you stand up by signing a petition?<br />
Show up by protesting or speak up by joining conversations<br />
concerning the bill?<br />
Another example would be if you see a post on social<br />
media concerning the abduction of a child. Do you repost<br />
instantly, warning your social media circle? Do you start<br />
digging for more information to check the facts? And<br />
do you change your behaviour and/or movements in<br />
response?<br />
Again, the questions arise, stand up, show up or<br />
speak up?<br />
In a consumer and reaction driven society how<br />
can we utilise the vast information at hand not<br />
only to be consumers but to become active<br />
contributors, transforming information into<br />
weapons to fight the battles of today and<br />
tomorrow? Taking what we are learning<br />
and standing up for what is just,<br />
showing up for those who need us<br />
and speaking up against injustice.<br />
Across the world Intelligence<br />
Agencies make use of a cycle<br />
called the Intelligence cycle,<br />
transforming information into<br />
intelligence. These reports are<br />
part of the Government’s decisionmaking<br />
processes. Following the same cycle can lead<br />
to informed decision making enabling the correct action<br />
is taken to implement an appropriate solution.<br />
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STEP<br />
01<br />
1. PLANNING AND DIRECTION<br />
Say you hear or heard of a topic that is concerning to you. Stop for a moment, ask yourself. Do<br />
I plan to stand up, show up or speak up about this? Do I want to find out more? Or do I want<br />
to share it without any further knowledge about its validity? Answering yes to any of these<br />
questions leads you into what happens next. Forward, skip or start asking more questions.<br />
Should you want to find out more, start planning where you will find out more about the topic,<br />
who you can ask and what you can do.<br />
STEP<br />
02<br />
2. COLLECTION<br />
Start collecting the information. This can take<br />
on various forms e.g. reading up about laws,<br />
speaking to a professional or reading different<br />
articles about the same subject. Get to know the<br />
topic.<br />
WHAT<br />
DOES THIS<br />
CYCLE<br />
ENTAIL?<br />
3. PROCESSING AND<br />
STEP EXPLOITATION<br />
03<br />
The amount of information you<br />
have gathered can be daunting.<br />
Little by little process the<br />
information by looking at similarities<br />
and differences. Highlight what stands out<br />
and what raises more questions.<br />
STEP<br />
04<br />
4. ANALYSIS AND<br />
PRODUCTION<br />
Consider the information gathered, is<br />
it reliable, valid, and relevant? Ask and<br />
answer who, what, where, why, when and how<br />
on every occasion. Continually answering these<br />
questions will lead you to produce intelligence<br />
from information.<br />
In a world of instant information, we can<br />
easily become consumed by what we are<br />
scrolling through. But what if we apply this<br />
cycle to our daily lives? Using information so<br />
STEP 5. DISSEMINATION AND<br />
05<br />
INTEGRATION<br />
Policy makers across the world make daily<br />
decisions based on intelligence reports<br />
compiled by analysts. Integrating it into policies<br />
and actions. Some of these decisions lead to more<br />
reporting requirements. Leading back to the planning step<br />
in the cycle. .<br />
widely available to make informed decisions whether the situation at hand requires us to stand<br />
up, show up or speak up, not to be consumed by the information but contribute to our families,<br />
communities and nation with it.<br />
Disclaimer: Information provided should be used with discretion and within the law of the Country.<br />
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HELP US AND GET INVOLVED!<br />
It’s commendable that you are looking to get involved in helping children<br />
and women who are victims of abuse and abandonment. Here are<br />
some ways you can engage in different forms of partnership with<br />
organizations like the <strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre. Together we can do<br />
more! We have created and established different platforms where<br />
you as an individual can help us fight <strong>Child</strong> abuse. Whether it is direct<br />
or indirect every form of partnership takes us one step closer to<br />
helping our children. Here is a list of how you can engage in different<br />
forms of partnership.<br />
SIGN UP! Receive the organization’s newsletter and magazine is a powerful way<br />
to stay informed about their work, events, and opportunities to get involved.<br />
By staying connected, you can receive news and resources to help spread<br />
awareness about important issues like child abuse and abandonment.<br />
Your support and engagement can make a significant impact in raising<br />
awareness and supporting those in need.<br />
LIKE AND SHARE the organization’s social media pages helps increase visibility,<br />
raise awareness about child abuse, and engage more people in supporting the<br />
cause. It amplifies advocacy efforts, builds a sense of community, and supports<br />
the organization’s mission. Your simple actions can make a big difference<br />
in spreading the word and making a<br />
positive impact<br />
JOIN CHILD WATCH WHATSAPP GROUP. Our WhatsApp group is a convenient way<br />
to stay connected, receive news updates, articles, and event information easily. By<br />
joining the group, you can actively participate in creating support and awareness<br />
for the project and campaigns related to combating child abuse and abandonment.<br />
Your involvement in the group can help amplify the organization’s message, engage<br />
with like-minded individuals, and contribute to making a positive impact.<br />
Thank you for considering joining the WhatsApp group and being part of the<br />
community working towards a common goal of supporting children in need.<br />
BECOME A PLATINUM PARTNER! Partners are recognized in the media and<br />
receive invitations to attend all events, allowing for valuable networking and<br />
engagement opportunities. By becoming a partner, you can play a key role in the<br />
organization’s efforts to protect children and raise awareness about child abuse.<br />
Your involvement can make a real difference in the lives of those in need.<br />
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SIGN UP TO BECOME A VOLUNTEER. We aim to build relations across South<br />
Africa. We need counsellors, psychologists, teachers, doctors, and lawyers<br />
that can be of assistance to the broken and vulnerable people that become<br />
victims of abuse. Any form of volunteer work will be appreciated. Whatever<br />
skill you have we need it. Even a teenager in a school can assist the <strong>Child</strong> rescue<br />
centre by spreading the word and leading by example in their conduct.<br />
HELP US BY DONATING food parcels, stationary, toys, clothes etc. We donate<br />
these products to places of safety, schools, children’s homes, and rural areas<br />
in need.<br />
SUPPORT OUR ONLINE SHOP and purchase our merchandise.<br />
BOOK US FOR A FREE EDUCATIONAL TALK OR AWARENESS CAMPAIGNS at<br />
a school, to spread awareness and to help us to further educate and protect<br />
our children.<br />
Take part in our in our events like Golf days so we can create awareness and<br />
support our fund-raising campaigns.<br />
BECOME A SUPERHERO and organise fund raising events on our behalf<br />
TAKE PART IN OUR DIFFERENT COMPETITIONS from time to time<br />
SMS TO SUPPORT toward a monthly contribution.<br />
SUPPORT OUR ONLINE FUND RAISERS COMPAIGNS<br />
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<strong>Child</strong> <strong>Rescue</strong> Centre<br />
HOW CAN I BECOME A<br />
PLATINUM PARTNER?<br />
You can become a monthly platinum partner for<br />
R1000 per month or R12 000 per year.<br />
Your partnership will enable us to combat <strong>Child</strong> abuse.<br />
WHAT DO YOU BENEFIT?<br />
1. Your company logo or name will appear<br />
in our magazine, social media, Website,<br />
company profile, flyers, events and all<br />
other market related material.<br />
2. Qualify for Section 18A tax Benefit<br />
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donations.<br />
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