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The July/August 2024 issue of Southern Indiana Living Magazine includes wedding venues, a local watercolor artist, and more!

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Watercolor Beauty: Local Artist Cathy Hillegas<br />

<strong>Southern</strong><br />

<strong>Indiana</strong><br />

<strong>July</strong> / <strong>August</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

<strong>Living</strong><br />

The Barn @ Marengo Cave<br />

A Unique Wedding & Event Venue<br />

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Honoring every<br />

moment together.<br />

Jacob’s wife, Emily, was his rock. When illness struck, Hosparus Health <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

became their lifeline. Our compassionate team provided dignified care, easing Emily’s pain<br />

and offering support to Jacob. If you’re on a similar journey, don’t wait. Call 812-945-4596,<br />

scan the QR code or visit HosparusHealth.org to experience our warmth and expertise.<br />

Because every moment matters — for your loved one, for you, for all of us.<br />

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Missi Bush-Sawtelle, Owner<br />

812-267-3030<br />

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IN THE WOODS<br />

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• Charming • Private<br />

• Rustic • Unique<br />

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JULY / AUG <strong>2024</strong><br />

VOL. 17, ISSUE 4<br />

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12 | A MAGICIAN WITH A BRUSH<br />

Local artist Cathy Hillegas<br />

20 | THE BARNS AT MARENGO CAVE<br />

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<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong><br />

In Every Issue<br />

7 | FLASHBACK<br />

In the News, Mauckport, IN, 1940<br />

11 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />

Man’s Best Friend<br />

27 | REAL LIFE NUTRITION<br />

Go with your gut<br />

29 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />

A Coyote Close Call<br />

JULY / AUG <strong>2024</strong><br />

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Flashback Photo<br />

In the News<br />

Mauckport, <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

ca. 1940<br />

// Photo courtesy of the Frederick Porter Griffin Center, Harrison County Public Library<br />

According to library records, a group gathered in front of Lucy Rogge’s store to discuss a newspaper article that reported<br />

the U.S. government might be purchasing land in the <strong>Southern</strong> part of Harrison County. Pictured are Grant Gary, Lucy<br />

Rogge, Herman McBride, and Clayborn Breese.<br />

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Discover What Makes Washington County a<br />

Great<br />

Destination!<br />

3rd Junior Rodeo of the Season<br />

<strong>July</strong> 6th | 9:00AM-1:00PM<br />

This is a very kid friendly environment. The events are designed for grade<br />

specific children.<br />

• Pre- Kindergarten Division<br />

• Kindergarten—2nd Grade Div.<br />

• 3rd Grade—5th Grade Division<br />

• 6th Grade—8th Grade Division<br />

The events are designed to prepare cowboys and cowgirls for future rodeos.<br />

We look forward to seeing past participants and meet new ones!<br />

For more information: sijra.org<br />

Pekin 194th Annual Independence Day Festival & Parade<br />

<strong>July</strong> 3rd & 4th | 9:00AM-1:00PM<br />

Pageants |Contests | Food and Craft | Youth Activities | Fireworks<br />

The Independence Day parade will begin at 10AM on <strong>July</strong> 4th.<br />

Parade Registration Deadline: June 28, <strong>2024</strong> at 5PM<br />

30th Annual Campbellsburg Country Festival<br />

Kick Off Event<br />

<strong>July</strong> 20th | 4PM-10PM<br />

Food, Music, Craft and Commercial Vendors | Fireworks Show<br />

174 E Vine Street | Campbellsburg, IN 4710<br />

216th Birthday Party at Beck’s Mill<br />

<strong>August</strong> 24th | 11AM<br />

Featuring The Corydon Dulcimer Society playing at 11:30am, birthday<br />

cake provided by Walmart, spinning, blacksmithing and tomahawk<br />

throwing.<br />

Parking Lot Activities: Blue River Fire Department will serve food<br />

(Pulled pork BBQ, Coleslaw, Baked beans and Chips). Craft and flea market<br />

vendors will be onsite. Beck’s Mill Moonshine History by Alan Bishop.<br />

Special adult admission of $2.16<br />

Contact Judy: 812-896-3447<br />

Be sure to check visitwashingtoncounty.org for more information and<br />

other events planned, or call 812-883-5533 to plan your trip!<br />

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A Note to Baby Boomers<br />

Man’s Best Friend<br />

I<br />

root through our nearest closet<br />

for a rawhide chew. Toby<br />

chomps the treat and I settle in<br />

at the desktop.<br />

Deadline looms.<br />

Every other month, the dog<br />

gnaws until his worn-out gums<br />

nearly bleed. While every other<br />

month this dog’s owner tries to<br />

write something readable. Journalism<br />

used to come easier.<br />

Then again, so did digesting<br />

food and hearing TV and everything<br />

else. I am old.<br />

Toby is older.<br />

I left out the part where Toby<br />

meets me at the closet door. He<br />

hears the beep of our relic coffee<br />

pot — only used, yes, every other<br />

month — and invariably recalls<br />

Dad is about to commit hours to<br />

emptying the dictionary.<br />

Toby just knows. He need not<br />

be beeped twice. I search for ideal<br />

adjectives and adverbs and Toby<br />

chews. I stop to check email and<br />

Toby chews.<br />

I get up for more coffee and<br />

Toby chews.<br />

Toby joined the family 12<br />

years ago, not long after I retired<br />

from full-time newspapering. I was<br />

around and he was around and<br />

in no time, we fell in love being<br />

around together.<br />

Mostly black, mostly herding<br />

dog, Toby was a rescue, a bit older<br />

than a puppy. He already had been<br />

through way too much, it seems.<br />

Move the wrong way, touch him at<br />

the wrong time, Toby might growl,<br />

possibly nip usually at the nearest<br />

foot. Not every day, not every<br />

month, but it happened from the<br />

start. It still does. Toby has his moments,<br />

his moods. For instance, no<br />

dog digs a vet visit, I figure. Then<br />

there’s Toby. He is on his way to being<br />

blacklisted at every clinic this<br />

side of Seymour.<br />

Toby is a dog who needs<br />

a therapy dog. Relatives think<br />

twice about visiting, though they<br />

shouldn’t. The grandkids likewise<br />

love Toby but love him more from<br />

across the room.<br />

To be groomed meant to be<br />

anesthetized.<br />

My last Toby mark — a thumb<br />

scrape — long since healed, I never<br />

hesitate to rub noses, to scratch ears<br />

or stop for a second believing this<br />

dog remains this man’s best friend.<br />

Toby is at my side not just through<br />

writing but through lunches and<br />

naps and book-club reads. His routines<br />

sync with mine.<br />

I feed him too much people<br />

food because he loves too much<br />

people food. Guess what, Toby resembles<br />

a beached manatee. But<br />

it makes me happy to make Toby<br />

happy. Sharing sandwiches and<br />

pizza and popcorn and animal<br />

crackers makes him happiest.<br />

He no longer can jump on<br />

our bed, which he also loved to<br />

share. He struggles to climb steps.<br />

He gave up taking neighborhood<br />

walks with my wife. Trimming<br />

nails is a dream. Hobbling even on<br />

his best days, the hips, the legs, they<br />

are not what they used to be.<br />

Whose are?<br />

I grew up an only child, officially.<br />

Reggie, our dog, was my<br />

brother, my confidant. Not all my<br />

friends’ families owned dogs. I did<br />

not understand why.<br />

I still do not.<br />

Dogs are absolutely, positively,<br />

always worth it — whatever it<br />

proves to be. Sure, they are costly<br />

and messy or sometimes do not<br />

fit every life situation or plan. And<br />

once in a while, a dog comes along<br />

that, yes, won’t always keep his<br />

teeth to himself.<br />

No matter, I can manage an occasional<br />

Band-Aid. Toby remains as<br />

loved, as welcome, as the first time<br />

he chewed through his leash. I hate<br />

that he does not have another dozen<br />

years to perk up when the coffeemaker<br />

beeps.<br />

I have written column by the<br />

thousands. Among those most<br />

memorable — to readers as well<br />

as to me — were ones honoring<br />

Toby’s predecessors. They, too, had<br />

their quirks. They also tested the<br />

Moss family hospitality. Suzi, Scarlett,<br />

Christopher, Duffy, Hershey,<br />

George, Friday, each became my<br />

favorite until the next came along.<br />

One after another after another,<br />

the family dog greeted me at the<br />

door, licked the dinner plates, shed<br />

until vacuum cleaners wore out. My<br />

children are not like me in a way or<br />

two or 37. But both likewise love<br />

dogs, have more than one. Neither<br />

kid considered the alternative.<br />

Like now, I wrote then about<br />

my dogs so readers would be reminded<br />

of theirs. I shared the anguish<br />

of that is-this-the-end decision.<br />

Readers, strangers, called me<br />

in tears to relive their own heartbreak.<br />

Adopt again when ready, they<br />

urged, I urged. For every void there<br />

Toby joined the family 12 years ago, not long<br />

after I retired from full-time newspapering. I<br />

was around and he was around and in no time,<br />

we fell in love being around together.<br />

is another dog — too many — every<br />

bit as lovable as was the last. I<br />

offer decades of proof.<br />

Toby is part of the proof. He<br />

is far sweeter than screwed up. He<br />

cares far more than he threatens. He<br />

leaves be the cat. I feel blessed for<br />

every day Toby wakes up from my<br />

bedside. I want that feeling to go on<br />

and on and, of course, it will not.<br />

He still eats like crazy, though.<br />

He still lets himself in and out of the<br />

dog yard’s door, still hoots and hollers<br />

at the barks of neighbor pets. I<br />

relish these signs.<br />

I want to grow older with Toby,<br />

grow grumpier and slower and<br />

grayer. There are more columns to<br />

write, after all, more bones to chew<br />

and more coffee to drink.•<br />

After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />

retired as <strong>Indiana</strong> columnist<br />

for The Courier-Journal. He<br />

now writes weekly for the<br />

News and Tribune. Dale and<br />

his wife Jean live in Jeffersonville<br />

in a house that has been<br />

in his family since the Civil War. Dale’s e-mail<br />

is dale.moss@twc.com<br />

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Artists of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

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“Autumn Fire,” a watercolor by Cathy Hillegas // Photo by Cathy Hillegas<br />

A Magician with a Brush<br />

Students enrolled in Cathy<br />

Hillegas’ advanced watercolor<br />

class at Arts Alliance of<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> (AASI)<br />

on Market Street in New Albany are<br />

grateful to be there, learning with a<br />

Master.<br />

Advanced student and artist<br />

Judy Wasson summed up her experience:<br />

“My skills have taken a leap<br />

forward under Cathy’s guidance.<br />

She is a generous and constructive<br />

teacher who brings out each student’s<br />

unique gifts.”<br />

A former student and artist,<br />

Cathy Thorpe, saluted Hillegas’<br />

talent: “She is a magician with a<br />

brush.”<br />

For Hillegas, teaching is as rewarding<br />

as painting. The two activities<br />

do not compete in her life. “In<br />

order to teach, I have to learn,” Hillegas<br />

said, “so teaching pushes me<br />

to grow as an artist. It is also gratifying<br />

to watch my students move<br />

forward. When a student sells a<br />

work or gets accepted into a show,<br />

I am elated, proud of their achievement.”<br />

The classroom space at AASI<br />

appeals to Hillegas, who often<br />

paints there after class.<br />

“The light is first-rate,” she<br />

said. “There is a monarch garden<br />

on the grounds that I have often<br />

photographed and painted, and it<br />

is quiet.”<br />

Hillegas has been teaching<br />

watercolor painting classes for 24<br />

years. She began teaching at Preston<br />

Arts Center in New Albany in<br />

2000.<br />

“I was invited to teach the<br />

same watercolor class in which I<br />

had been a student,” Hillegas said.<br />

When that business closed 12 years<br />

ago, she taught at the Mary Anderson<br />

Center for the Arts at Mount<br />

St. Francis and other venues before<br />

settling at AASI.<br />

Painting is not Hillegas’ first<br />

career. She pursed counseling, interpreting<br />

for the deaf and writing<br />

in her younger years. But painting<br />

and drawing were always part of<br />

her life.<br />

“Both of my parents loved to<br />

draw and paint and encouraged me<br />

to do the same,” she said.<br />

The story of how she turned<br />

back to art and became a full-time<br />

artist is fascinating. Her mother<br />

had been captivated by a watercolor<br />

painting of a mill, offered for<br />

sale at an art show at Spring Mill<br />

Park. Hillegas, then around 37, secretly<br />

purchased the painting as a<br />

Christmas gift for her mother. As<br />

she waited for Christmas to arrive,<br />

she studied the artwork.<br />

“I decided that I wanted to<br />

learn to paint like that; it was a powerful<br />

feeling,” she said. When Hillegas<br />

gave her mother the gift, her<br />

mother offered, in return, to pay for<br />

the two of them to take watercolor<br />

classes. “After those classes,” Hillegas<br />

said, “I was hooked.”<br />

Within a few years of that first<br />

watercolor class in 1993, Hillegas<br />

Watercolor artist Cathy Hillegas<br />

Story by Judy Cato<br />

Photos by Lorraine Hughes (except where noted)<br />

began winning contests and awards<br />

and was invited to exhibit her work<br />

in some prestigious art shows.<br />

In 2020, her painting “Rise<br />

Up” was accepted into the National<br />

Watercolor Society’s 100th International<br />

Exhibition. In 2021, her work<br />

“Autumn Fire” was accepted into<br />

the 101st exhibition, only this time<br />

she received the Winsor & Newton<br />

Award and was granted signature<br />

status in the National Watercolor<br />

Society.<br />

“Rise Up” is a painting of bare


white sycamore branches against<br />

a bright blue winter sky filled with<br />

light that cascades over the tree, revealing<br />

minute details of the bark.<br />

“I am particularly drawn to<br />

objects or scenes that are filled with<br />

light,” Hillegas said. “Light transforms<br />

the mundane, making colors<br />

glow, illuminating details and causing<br />

unexpected color to spill into<br />

shadow. For example, I had passed<br />

by that tree every day for years, without<br />

paying much attention, until one<br />

day the light was brilliant. I grabbed<br />

my camera and immediately began<br />

snapping shots.”<br />

Hillegas eventually spent over<br />

200 hours painting the complex<br />

composition.<br />

The reference photos for “Autumn<br />

Fire” were taken while Hillegas<br />

was hiking at Mount St. Francis.<br />

“I have loved spending time<br />

outdoors in nature since childhood,”<br />

she said. “Family time often<br />

included long walks in the woods<br />

where my father would teach me<br />

the names of wildflowers and trees.<br />

I have developed a spiritual connection<br />

to nature.”<br />

Jim Book, Owner<br />

Artist Cathy Hillegas<br />

“I am particularly drawn to objects or scenes that<br />

are filled with light. Light transforms the mundane,<br />

making colors glow, illuminating details and causing<br />

unexpected color to spill into shadow.<br />

- Cathy Hillegas<br />

“Sun-filled,” a watercolor by Cathy Hillegas<br />

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This is evident in her painting<br />

and in her conversation. When<br />

asked if her paintings have more<br />

detail and more color than can actually<br />

be found in nature, she is firm<br />

about nature’s splendor: “If you really<br />

look at nature, you will see so<br />

much color, even in the shadows. If<br />

you look, you will see it,” she said.<br />

One of the judges for the Winsor<br />

& Newton Award referred to<br />

Hillegas’ painting as “hyperrealism,”<br />

a genre of painting that looks<br />

like a high-resolution photo. When<br />

Hillegas takes the reference photos<br />

for her paintings, she sometimes<br />

holds the camera just a few inches<br />

from the object, zooming in to capture<br />

the most intimate details of the<br />

natural world.<br />

The process by which Hillegas<br />

creates a painting is both painstaking<br />

and intuitive. She begins with a<br />

detailed drawing, very lightly penciled<br />

because watercolor will not<br />

hide pencil marks.<br />

“The key to creating the effect<br />

of light in a watercolor is to leave<br />

the white paper untouched,” Hillegas<br />

said. “White paint will not<br />

achieve the same effect. It makes<br />

the painting chalky.”<br />

So, she begins the painting<br />

by applying a masking fluid to the<br />

parts of the painting where she<br />

wants to keep the paper dry and<br />

free of paint — where she wants<br />

light. After applying the masking<br />

fluid, pale colors are painted first,<br />

and darker colors last. While each<br />

layer is drying, Hillegas thinks<br />

about the painting.<br />

“I am not a fast painter,” she<br />

said. “I spend as much time stepping<br />

back and thinking about the<br />

piece as I do applying paint.” Perhaps<br />

this is the point where her<br />

brush with magic happens. •<br />

The watercolors of Cathy Hillegas will<br />

be on display in her solo show, “Chasing<br />

the Light,”at Harrison County Arts in<br />

Corydon from <strong>July</strong> 12 to Sept. 7. There<br />

will be an opening reception for this<br />

show on Saturday, <strong>July</strong> 13, from 5:30<br />

to 7:30 p.m. You can also check out her<br />

work at cathyhillegas.com.<br />

Pictured: (top) “Pink Water Lillies,” a watercolor by<br />

Cathy Hillegas.<br />

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Compassionate Care When It’s Needed Most<br />

Story and photos submitted by Hosparus of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

“I want all families to have access<br />

to the same compassionate<br />

care my parents had.”<br />

Beth and Tony Jenkins<br />

experienced the profound impact<br />

of Hosparus Health over 20 years<br />

ago when Beth’s mother, Marcella<br />

Sheets, was diagnosed with lung<br />

cancer. Initially unfamiliar with<br />

hospice care, the family found immense<br />

comfort and guidance from<br />

the Hosparus team. The compassionate<br />

support they received during<br />

this challenging time left a lasting<br />

impression on their hearts.<br />

A Family Affair<br />

Following their experience,<br />

the Jenkins family became involved<br />

in Hosparus Health’s “Dancing<br />

with our <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> Stars”<br />

fundraiser. This annual event offers<br />

local support to ensure hospice<br />

care is accessible for everyone in<br />

the community, regardless of their<br />

financial situation.<br />

Rex, Beth’s father, was known<br />

for bringing people together. As<br />

owner of Ernie’s Tavern in New<br />

Albany, friends gravitated around<br />

him. Rex also cherished intimate<br />

family gatherings that he affectionately<br />

called “Whiskey Saturdays.”<br />

The COVID-19 pandemic influenced<br />

the drive-by party for<br />

Rex’s 87th birthday celebration.<br />

Deep down, he appeared to know<br />

it might be his last, saying, “This is<br />

the end of the trail for me.”<br />

Compassionate Care<br />

A month later, Rex received<br />

a terminal cancer diagnosis. The<br />

family, familiar with the benefits<br />

of early hospice intervention, immediately<br />

reached out to Hosparus<br />

Health. From the moment the team<br />

arrived, the family was treated<br />

with the utmost respect and kindness.<br />

Tony reflected, “They become<br />

embedded into your family – they<br />

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<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> welcomes<br />

an elegant and unique addition<br />

to its wedding and<br />

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Nestled just a few yards from<br />

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“We wanted our clients to<br />

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Adding to its allure is the<br />

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Real Life Nutrition<br />

Go with your Gut<br />

Have you ever given much<br />

thought to your gut health?<br />

If you haven’t, it might be<br />

time to start! Gut health<br />

affects many aspects of the body, including<br />

sleep; digestion; allergies; the<br />

immune system; mental health; autoimmune<br />

diseases; and the risks of diabetes,<br />

cardiovascular diseases and cancer.<br />

There are about 200 different species<br />

of bacteria, viruses and fungi that<br />

live in your large intestine and are<br />

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to break down and digest food for your<br />

body. There may be both good and bad<br />

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Symptoms of poor gut health can<br />

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heartburn, fatigue, trouble sleeping,<br />

anxiety and frequent illnesses.<br />

The gut microbiome can be affected<br />

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such as stress, limited sleep, inactivity,<br />

smoking, alcohol use and antibiotic use.<br />

How could you improve your gut<br />

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getting exercise; reducing stress;<br />

getting adequate sleep; avoiding antibiotics<br />

as preventative care; and increasing<br />

water intake. (Refer to <strong>Southern</strong><br />

<strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong> magazine’s November/<br />

December 2023 issue, where dietitian<br />

Bailey Lankster discusses ways to add<br />

fiber to your diet.)<br />

Probiotics and prebiotics are<br />

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a nondigestible food ingredient that<br />

promotes the growth of beneficial microorganisms<br />

in the intestines and can<br />

be found in foods such as legumes, oats,<br />

bananas, berries, garlic, onions and asparagus.<br />

Probiotics are live microorganisms,<br />

such as those found in yogurt,<br />

kefir, sauerkraut and other fermented<br />

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Consult a health professional prior<br />

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perkins@bhsi.com. It may be answered in a<br />

future issue!<br />

About the Author<br />

Kate Perkins, MS, RD,<br />

LD is a clinical dietitian<br />

at Baptist Health Floyd<br />

in New Albany, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />

She graduated from<br />

University of Kentucky<br />

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Personal Counseling Service<br />

Unmasking Mental Health<br />

Personal Counseling Services’ annual<br />

The Norman Melhiser Samaritan<br />

Awards Gala will occur<br />

on <strong>August</strong> 15, <strong>2024</strong> at Huber’s<br />

Winery Plantation Hall. If you would<br />

like to see amazing people and organizations<br />

receive prestigious awards recognizing<br />

their selfless accomplishments,<br />

join us to celebrate them. Our community<br />

judges had a difficult task choosing<br />

only one winner in four categories. The<br />

judges commented, “all of the nominees<br />

were worthy of an award”. All of<br />

the nominees were stellar but only one<br />

could be selected in each category.<br />

AWARD WINNERS<br />

Personal Counseling Services Award<br />

of Excellence (First Responder/Healthcare)<br />

- Officer Chris Bartley<br />

Nancy & John Keck Award of Excellence<br />

(Non-Profit) - The Mustard Seed<br />

Les & Virginia Albro Award of Excellence<br />

(For-Profit) - Family Time, Inc.<br />

Alice and Richard Schleicher Award of<br />

Excellence (Individual) – Jessica Sawyer<br />

Mental health touches everyone in<br />

one way or another; at home, work or<br />

play. When we have a physical concern<br />

we have no problem sharing that with<br />

others. Why do we have concerns about<br />

expressing how we are feeling mentally<br />

or emotionally? Our theme this year is<br />

Unmasking Mental Health.<br />

According to the Newport Institute<br />

we all mask our true feelings at<br />

times to hide our vulnerability. Even<br />

though we may be worried about money,<br />

angry at a friend, blue from a breakup,<br />

or exhausted with work, or grieving<br />

over the loss of a loved one we still<br />

answer “Fine”, “I’m Okay” or “Good”<br />

when people ask how we are. We are<br />

afraid of how we will be perceived; will<br />

I be accepted or shunned? We ask ourselves,<br />

do people really want to know<br />

how we are doing?<br />

People with mental health issues<br />

may routinely hide their true emotions<br />

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beneath a “mask.” Over time, the consequences<br />

of concealing their real feelings<br />

can be detrimental to their well-being.<br />

This is known as mental health masking.<br />

Hiding our true feelings can result<br />

in physical conditions such as; elevated<br />

blood pressure; over eating or eating<br />

disorders; anger and many other health<br />

conditions. Our mind, body and spirit<br />

are all interconnected and when one is<br />

out of alignment so are the others.<br />

Key Takeaways<br />

• Mental health masking means camouflaging<br />

or suppressing your mental<br />

health symptoms so you fit in with others.<br />

• People mask their mental health<br />

symptoms because they want to maintain<br />

their relationships, keep their jobs,<br />

and be socially accepted.<br />

• It can be hard to identify mental health<br />

masking because people who mask<br />

behave as if they don’t have a mental<br />

health issue.<br />

• Long-term masking can increase<br />

stress, anxiety, depression, and suicidal<br />

thoughts and behavior, especially<br />

among those with autism.<br />

People who are unconsciously denying<br />

their distress and don’t seek treatment<br />

may eventually experience a mental<br />

health crisis. If you genuinely care<br />

about someone and ask them how they<br />

are doing, be prepared to listen to what<br />

they desire to share because it could<br />

change their life and yours. Everyone<br />

needs someone to listen and know that<br />

they are cared for without judgment.<br />

Come join us to celebrate our<br />

award winners, to Unmask Mental<br />

Health and raise money for those who<br />

are marginalized, at-risk or traumatized<br />

and have no insurance to get help desperately<br />

they need. Your support may<br />

truly save a life.<br />

There will be a Live Auction with<br />

some amazing Florida condos, beautiful<br />

Jewelry donated by Kinkade Jewelers<br />

and a Silent Auction. Hear the Jamey<br />

Aebersold Quartet and enjoy an evening<br />

with our amazing emcee, Dawne<br />

Gee, WAVE-TV Anchor.<br />

Individual seats are $150, a Table<br />

Sponsorship with 10 seats is $1,500 and<br />

other sponsorship levels are available.<br />

For more information contact Doug<br />

Drake via e-mail: ddrake@pcs-counseling.org<br />

or call 812.206.4273.


M<br />

y cat, Fluff, is not exactly<br />

a skilled hunter. In the 12<br />

years we’ve had him, I<br />

think I’ve only seen him<br />

catch one mole and one bird. That’s it.<br />

Not exactly an apex predator.<br />

When a groundhog or a raccoon<br />

turns up, he completely ignores them. If<br />

a chipmunk runs through our yard, he<br />

may stalk it for a minute, but he’s not<br />

ambitious enough to actually chase it<br />

down. That would require effort, and<br />

most of his effort goes into finding a<br />

sunny spot to take a nap.<br />

That’s why I was so surprised last<br />

week when I saw him on the prowl. I<br />

was working out in our living room<br />

early one morning, and I’d just let him<br />

out. A few minutes later, I glanced out<br />

the patio door and saw him crouched<br />

down, laser-focused on something<br />

across the yard.<br />

I didn’t think much of it at first. I<br />

figured it was a squirrel or something.<br />

Then I noticed he was slinking<br />

toward whatever had caught his attention.<br />

Since he was actually moving,<br />

I thought I’d better check it out before<br />

things turned ugly. I had no idea how<br />

right I was.<br />

Several years ago, I built a wooden<br />

clubhouse in the back corner of our<br />

yard for my kids. The playhouse is on<br />

the top level, but the first floor is open<br />

with three hammock chairs suspended<br />

from the ceiling. That’s exactly where<br />

Fluff was headed.<br />

When I looked out at the clubhouse,<br />

I expected to see a rodent or a<br />

bird, but instead I saw a coyote. It was<br />

just sniffing around the hammocks,<br />

looking for its next meal, which was<br />

about to be my cat.<br />

By the time I got outside, Fluff was<br />

about halfway across the yard, going in<br />

for the kill. I knew I only had seconds<br />

before the fur started flying.<br />

I ran out onto the patio and yelled,<br />

“Fluff, get back here,” which, of course,<br />

was dumb because that cat has never<br />

once come when I called him. Why did I<br />

think he would start now?<br />

Thankfully, though, it was enough<br />

to startle the coyote, and he bolted over<br />

the neighbors’ fence.<br />

Fluff, a cat who doesn’t even have<br />

his front claws, would never know<br />

just how close he came to meeting his<br />

maker. In fact, from his point of view,<br />

he probably thinks he scared the coyote<br />

away. In his little cat brain, that mangy<br />

mutt had invaded his yard, and, like a<br />

A Coyote Close Call<br />

marshal in the old West, he went out<br />

and took care of business.<br />

The reality, though, is that the<br />

coyote couldn’t have cared less about<br />

the foolhardy feline stalking him in the<br />

grass. It was the guy behind the cat who<br />

made the difference.<br />

But try telling Fluff that. Despite<br />

“Fluff the cat<br />

the fact that he was clearly outmatched,<br />

I will never get credit for saving the<br />

day. Cats aren’t exactly known for their<br />

gratitude, so it’s to be expected. Unfortunately,<br />

sometimes I see the same attitude<br />

operating in myself.<br />

How many times have I found<br />

myself in a jam, been bailed out by God,<br />

and failed to give Him credit? I’m sure<br />

there are far too many times when I’ve<br />

chalked up something going well to my<br />

own skill, wisdom, effort or just dumb<br />

luck rather than acknowledging the<br />

good God who is operating behind the<br />

scenes and helping me do things I could<br />

never do on my own.<br />

James 1:17 says, “Every good and<br />

perfect gift is from above” (NIV). I say<br />

I believe that, but do I really live like<br />

it? Sometimes, I don’t even stop to say,<br />

“Thank You, God!” Other times, even<br />

when I do, I don’t really take the time to<br />

reflect on what a big deal it was that the<br />

God who created the universe loved me<br />

enough to intervene on my behalf.<br />

That truth shouldn’t just change<br />

my circumstances, it should change my<br />

heart.<br />

Yes, in this sin-broken world, bad<br />

things happen that don’t make a whole<br />

lot of sense, but what about the good<br />

Everyday Adventures<br />

things that happen that don’t make a<br />

whole lot of sense either?<br />

Like my cat, we don’t always appreciate<br />

how much God has helped us,<br />

because we have no idea how close we<br />

may have come to disaster. His very intervention<br />

sometimes prevents us from<br />

seeing how He saved the day.<br />

If a chipmunk runs<br />

through our yard,<br />

he may stalk it<br />

for a minute, but<br />

he’s not ambitious<br />

enough to actually<br />

chase it down.<br />

That would require<br />

effort, and most of<br />

his effort goes into<br />

finding a sunny<br />

spot to take a nap.<br />

I don’t think we’ll ever know this<br />

side of heaven how many times God<br />

has protected us, provided for us and<br />

answered the prayers of those who have<br />

been praying for us from a distance.<br />

Why does this matter? Because not only<br />

does God deserve praise and gratitude,<br />

but this awareness of God’s activity in<br />

our lives helps us trust Him for the future.<br />

When I recognize the presence of<br />

the One who has helped me through so<br />

many struggles in the past, I really do<br />

begin to believe that there is nothing I<br />

will ever face alone. •<br />

Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />

dad who loves the quirky surprises God<br />

sends his way every day. You can read more<br />

from Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile<br />

and Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason<br />

on his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.<br />

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