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<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

Real Estate Investments for Retirement<br />

Real estate can be a wise choice to boost your income. While investing in<br />

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Find your financial footing: You want to be clear about your finances<br />

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Real estate investment is a smart move for securing your retirement. It<br />

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“<br />

What are you doing?” I said to my dad in total<br />

disbelief.<br />

We were talking outside his home, and out of<br />

nowhere, he had come to a complete stop, snapped<br />

to attention and saluted the volunteer patrol car as<br />

it made its daily rounds around his Florida senior<br />

community.<br />

“They’re pretend cops,” he said with his smile.<br />

“I figured I would give them a pretend salute.”<br />

That was my dad. He’s gone now but (as always)<br />

I think of him; especially with Father’s Day<br />

occurring this month.<br />

In his own way, my dad taught me about life,<br />

love and the meaning of family. He was my hero<br />

and there surely can be no higher tribute or<br />

compliment in honoring a person than to try and<br />

imitate him.<br />

Simply stated, my dad lived for and loved his family and our family<br />

lived for and loved him right back. How’s that for a role model?<br />

Growing up in the Bronx, he taught me to how to swing a bat and<br />

always use 2 hands with my Stan Musial baseball glove when catching.<br />

He was my Little League coach and I cannot imagine a better childhood<br />

memory.<br />

He made me appreciate that whether going to Shea Stadium to see<br />

the Mets or watching them on TV, the best seats of the house were<br />

always those when I sat next to him.<br />

He taught me kindness, respect and that there were those certain<br />

words – certain expressions that could be said only during a football<br />

game when his (and now my) New York Giants were playing.<br />

My dad made it very clear that such language, while highly offensive<br />

was allowed – if not mandated when our team screwed up. And believe<br />

me, while growing up (and even to this day) they screwed up a lot.<br />

Such “tradition” has passed on to a new generation - my four sons.<br />

I cannot begin to describe the look on her face and how horrified my<br />

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Like Father, Like Son<br />

By: Dan Roberts / Roberts Rules<br />

Rana was when she first heard, and then realized, that such choice of<br />

phrases among this publisher and his “children” was not only tolerated<br />

but expected.<br />

While it may not have been some Norman Rockwell “father-son”<br />

(and also grandsons) portrait, I ask you: Where else in the world<br />

would any son/grandson want to be on a Sunday<br />

afternoon?<br />

My dad also showed me how to be a loving,<br />

caring husband and he proudly did so by example.<br />

And while I have written (more than) a good deal<br />

about my failings, shortcomings, and downright<br />

stupidity, my PILL (partner in love & life) cannot<br />

ever fault me to my devotion and respect that I<br />

always had and have for her.<br />

Perhaps you can now understand Rana’s<br />

consternation when our Sun City’s community<br />

patrol car drove by when we were unpacking<br />

groceries from our driveway last month. While<br />

in mid-sentence and with a tear in my eye, but a<br />

smile on my face, I placed the bundles on the ground, stood tall and<br />

saluted the patrol car.<br />

“Like father, like son,” she said as she shook her head. It was the<br />

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You Gotta Laugh - Dad’s Turn<br />

By: Bill Caserta / Bill’s Blurbs<br />

In honor of Father’s Day, what better way to<br />

show our love and appreciation than to run<br />

the following words of wisdom? Agree, disagree,<br />

smile, laugh or shake your head all you want, but<br />

you know that the quotes below are entirely true.<br />

To dads and grandpas everywhere, a very Happy Father’s Day.<br />

I gave my father $100 and said, “Buy yourself something that will<br />

make your life easier.” So he went out and bought a present for my<br />

mother. - Rita Rudner<br />

I enjoy Father’s Day. It’s a time when I pause to reflect on the joy<br />

that has come into my life thanks to my two wonderful children, whose<br />

names escape me. - Dave Barry<br />

When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant, I could hardly<br />

stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was<br />

astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.<br />

- Mark Twain<br />

The message of Mother’s Day is “Mothers are amazingly good<br />

at mothering! They deserve a special day!” Whereas the message of<br />

Father’s Day is: “We’re only doing this because we have Mother’s Day.”<br />

- Dave Barry<br />

To be a successful father there’s one absolute rule: When you have a<br />

kid, don’t look at it for the first two years. - Ernest Hemingway<br />

I got my Dad a GPS for Father’s Day. Now someone other than my<br />

mom can tell him where to go. - Melanie White<br />

On Father’s Day, I’m doing something for my Dad that he’s wanted<br />

for years. I’m getting a job. - Melanie White<br />

* That’s My Boy: A small boy was at the zoo with his father. They<br />

were looking at the tigers, and his father was telling him how ferocious<br />

they were.<br />

“Daddy, if the tigers got out and ate you …”“Yes, son?” the father<br />

asked, ready to console him.<br />

The son replied, Which bus would I take home?”<br />

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<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong>


55+<br />

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8<br />

A Daughter Remembers<br />

By: Rana Goodman / On My Soapbox<br />

To me he was just Dad!<br />

I have written several times over the years<br />

about my father, but<br />

as Father’s Day approaches, as the war in<br />

Israel/Gaza rages on, as demonstrations<br />

around our country continue, and the<br />

80 th anniversary of D-Day is remembered, it<br />

seems appropriate to talk about another side<br />

to my Dad.<br />

Although he was raised by orthodox<br />

Jewish parents, my dad was very laxed in<br />

his religion and the way he practiced our<br />

faith. He had, however, no tolerance for<br />

antisemitism in any form. I’m sure that<br />

only increased in his mind-set after his<br />

service in the British army during and after<br />

World War II.<br />

A perfect example of that attitude was the<br />

time before Israel became an independent<br />

country. My father was stationed there while<br />

it was under British rule.<br />

His unit (which was under his control)<br />

was ordered to be stationed one night on<br />

the beach. Their orders were to turn away<br />

any boats attempting to bring European<br />

(meaning Jewish, consisting mostly<br />

survivors from Germany’s concentration<br />

camps) immigrants ashore.The men in<br />

my father’s patrol stood at attention in a<br />

straight line facing the ocean diligently<br />

watching throughout the night. Suddenly,<br />

in the distance they spotted several small<br />

boats apparently heading for shore.<br />

Instinctively my father turned his back<br />

to the sea, folded his arms across his chest<br />

in defiant stubbornness and waited. One<br />

by one his men followed suit, even though<br />

my father was the only Jewish man among<br />

them.<br />

As the boats landed, my father and<br />

his men rushed forward to assist the<br />

elder immigrants ashore. He completely<br />

followed his order to stop any boat he saw<br />

approaching, but nothing was said about<br />

assisting anyone on the beach.<br />

Once they were safe, the soldiers went back to their formation as if<br />

nothing happened. They all followed orders as required.<br />

I lost my father in February, 2003 and when I think of him it is of<br />

a very handsome older man, mid-summer, minus his shirt, military<br />

“swagger stick” tucked under his arm walking, marching style, along<br />

<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

Maryland Parkway, politely turning down any neighbor stopping to<br />

offer a ride.<br />

While speaking, he never lost his British accent. He was as British as<br />

they come, yet he celebrated receiving his American Citizenship 5 years<br />

after arriving in this country.<br />

And to hear him tell it, (again and again)<br />

it was the proudest day in his life.<br />

*Broken-hearted but not a victim:<br />

Without question, I am an animal lover.<br />

When I recently lost my two dogs (after 13<br />

years) I was devastated.<br />

After one month, I realized my house was<br />

too darn quiet, so I began searching all the<br />

rescue groups in town hoping to find a fluffy<br />

dog. My searches turned up large “bully<br />

breeds.” I had to admit that I was not as<br />

young as I once was so I began to focus on<br />

small breeds.<br />

I have always loved the Shih-Tzu breed<br />

and eventually I began communicating<br />

with a lady whose was getting great referrals<br />

on Facebook. She said she had pups for sale,<br />

the price was reasonable, and I committed<br />

to buy the one in the photo.<br />

As the delivery day approached the<br />

breeder sent me an “ownership certificate”<br />

and said that she was unable to deliver the<br />

pup but hired a delivery company she had<br />

used often. The company would reach out<br />

to me with a tracking number and time of<br />

arrival.<br />

Another text followed. I was to choose<br />

between a rental or purchase an airconditioned<br />

crate for the pup (I already had<br />

a name for her – Hershey) to travel in.<br />

The rental was $700 (purchase price $900)<br />

but 95% of that fee would be reimbursed to<br />

me with the return of the crate. And yes, I<br />

was beginning to get that “scam feeling.”<br />

My response was that I didn’t want<br />

“Hershey” delivered in a crate. I’d jump in<br />

my car and pick up the pup.<br />

I asked for an address. No address was<br />

given but when I did an internet search for<br />

Express Logisticx Delivery Agency, I could<br />

not find any listing.<br />

When I claimed that this was an elaborate scam all I received was<br />

denials. I then (sadly) checked out the breeder’s listed address (it<br />

claimed an address in Fallon) on the so-call ownership papers and<br />

found that to be a fake as well.<br />

What is it that Publisher Dan always says regarding scammers?<br />

HANG UP THE PHONE! So with a broken heart I did.


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10<br />

<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

Father & Son Memories<br />

By: Jonny Bird / Here’s Jonny<br />

It’s funny the memories that you keep, isn’t it?<br />

My dad was an interesting character, and a<br />

big influence on me when I was growing up. He<br />

was stoic, could build or fix anything and was the<br />

hardest-working man I knew.<br />

He was the guy that friends and neighbors would come to, to get<br />

something fixed, and could be the life of the party, as long as kids<br />

weren’t around. He drank beer, raced cars, owned two filling stations,<br />

and was a “man’s man” when men could still be that.<br />

We didn’t talk much, he and I. He didn’t have a whole lot to say. My<br />

Grandfather Obert was the same way, so I guess that’s where he must<br />

have got it. It’s<br />

amazing how<br />

much I learned<br />

from so few words,<br />

though.<br />

He taught me to<br />

work my hardest.<br />

This was a hard<br />

lesson for me to<br />

learn. At 13, I would<br />

procrastinate and<br />

mess around and<br />

do anything to<br />

avoid a chore like<br />

mowing the grass<br />

or bringing in<br />

wood for the wood<br />

stove.<br />

It wasn’t until<br />

he was particularly<br />

frustrated with my<br />

lackadaisical attitude that he would say the words that would change<br />

my life forever.<br />

“Do you want to grow up and be lazy and shiftless like “so-andso”!?”<br />

“So-and-so” was a person we all knew but no one respected<br />

because of a lifestyle unsuited for any sort of success.<br />

Well, those words pierced my soul and turned that lazy and shiftless<br />

kid into a workhorse for the rest of his life. I got my first job shortly after<br />

that, before I could legally do so, and never forgot that lesson.<br />

My dad is now in his eighties and finally winding down. We talk<br />

almost every day. He’ll call me to tell me about a bird that landed on<br />

the deck, the weather, or share his morning routine of banana bread<br />

and a banana.<br />

He turned into a chatterbox! I know he’ll read this and when he does,<br />

here’s my message to him and all the dads out there: I love you, and<br />

Happy Father’s Day!<br />

Jonny Bird is the entertainment host of all Vegas Voice shows. Have<br />

an idea or suggestion? Contact Jonny via email:birdlandmusic@<br />

hotmail.com


A Child Star Icon<br />

By: Beverly Washburn / Hollywood Memories<br />

wanted to write about one of the loveliest ladies<br />

I of whom I have the privilege of knowing. For<br />

those who remember<br />

films of the ‘40s and ‘50s, of course you<br />

remember child star Margaret O’Brien.<br />

She was one of the most famous child stars<br />

who ever graced the screen. It’s safe to say that<br />

she is right up there with Shirley Temple and<br />

Judy Garland. Margaret was born in 1937, did<br />

her first film in 1941 and was destined to<br />

become a movie star.<br />

A bit of trivia: She was born with the name<br />

Angela.” In 1942, she was cast in a movie<br />

called “Journey for Margaret” and quickly<br />

became famous for her role. Her mother then<br />

decided to change her name to “Margaret.”<br />

She was in quite a few movies. Some of<br />

her most famous ones were “Meet Me in St.<br />

Louis”, Our Vines Have Tender Grapes “ and<br />

“Little Women” just to name a few.<br />

She won a juvenile Academy Award as the most outstanding child<br />

star of 1944. Sadly it was stolen and lost for 50 years!<br />

What was ironic (and wonderful) at the same time was that after<br />

50 years it somehow ended up in a Swap Meet! Two movie collectors<br />

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bought it and found a way to get in touch with her and give it back to<br />

her!<br />

How wonderful to know there are still so many kind people in the<br />

world!<br />

As a side note, one of my scrap books<br />

containing many photos, somehow ended<br />

up in a yard sale in another state! Someone<br />

bought it and managed to track me down and<br />

wanted to sell it to me for a $1,000.00. Those<br />

of you who read my book know how I got it<br />

back.<br />

Growing up I was in awe of her and when<br />

I finally got to meet her several years ago, I<br />

was (as you can imagine) thrilled beyond<br />

measure. She is truly one of the sweetest<br />

people in the world.<br />

This is a photo of us a few months ago<br />

taken in Seattle where we did some old time<br />

radio reenactments together. How blessed I am<br />

to have worked with her and to now be able to<br />

call her a friend!<br />

Until next time, remember - To have joy, one must share it.<br />

Beverly Washburn graced the silver screen as a child actress and<br />

is the author of Reel Tears. You can contact Beverly at: bjradell@<br />

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Comic Barbutti Turns 90<br />

By: Sam Wagmeister / People & Places<br />

Back in the mid-‘60s, an enduring friendship<br />

developed between up and coming comedian<br />

Pete Barbutti<br />

and touring partner Nat King Cole.<br />

At a morning meeting in Cole’s<br />

hotel room, the phone rang.<br />

Cole’s responses to the caller,<br />

Barbutti remembered, were<br />

primarily, “Uh-huh”; “I’m with<br />

Pete Barbutti”; and “I don’t know,<br />

I’ll ask Pete.”<br />

The iconic vocalist turned to the<br />

promising comic and asked, “Pete,<br />

it’s JFK. Do you want to go to the<br />

White House for lunch?”<br />

Overwhelmed by the invitation,<br />

a young Barbutti declined JFK’s<br />

offer, but last month sat down for lunch and an interview with The<br />

Vegas Voice to reflect on his 60-plus years in show business.<br />

Barbutti’s comedy was the model of many of his era’s contemporaries:<br />

Bill Dana, Buddy Hackett, Shecky Greene and husband and wife team<br />

Nichols and May. His cerebral story telling that builds to pun-based<br />

punchlines was on display last month as hundreds of fans and industry<br />

pals packed Ahern Hotel’s<br />

comedy club to celebrate his<br />

90 th birthday.<br />

Barbutti’s path to the<br />

footlights began as a 10-<br />

year old accordion player<br />

at weddings in his native<br />

Scranton, PA. “Everybody<br />

in our neighborhood got an<br />

accordion,” he remembered.<br />

“It was important to keep the<br />

Italian culture alive.”<br />

He taught himself trumpet,<br />

drums and piano and soon<br />

was playing in the Big Bands<br />

of the day. Filling in for the band leader, “I got bored just calling the<br />

songs so I made up (humorous) stories as an intro. The people would<br />

start clapping and ignore the music.” From then on, storytelling<br />

became his focus.<br />

In his early days, Peter Lasally, producer of Arthur Godfrey’s show,<br />

caught Barbutti’s act at Reno’s Harold’s Club Casino. Lasally convinced<br />

Godfrey to invite Barbutti to appear and Barbutti became a regular<br />

guest.<br />

When Lasally moved to the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson, he<br />

scheduled Barbutti for an appearance. Out of character, Carson invited<br />

Barbutti to the guest chair.<br />

When Carson realized that the other guest, Mel Torme’s laughter was<br />

a result of Barbutti’s banter, not Johnny’s, Barbutti was barred from the<br />

show. It took 14 years for Lasally to convince Carson to invite Barbutti<br />

back.<br />

“After that, I could get away with anything on that show.” Barbutti’s<br />

lost count, but he holds the record for the most appearances, over 50,<br />

on Carson’s iconic late night show.<br />

The highlight of the comedian’s long career remains his 10-<br />

day engagement opening for Sinatra at Carnegie Hall. “There’s still<br />

something magical being in Carnegie Hall and having Sinatra sing<br />

New York New York.”<br />

Barbutti remains a student of nearly all forms of music, equally<br />

eloquent discussing opera, classical, show and movie music and diving<br />

deeply into all forms of jazz.<br />

Barbutti has called Las Vegas his home since January 2, 1960.<br />

Recalling New Year’s Eve in South Bend, IN: “After Auld Lang Syne, we<br />

got in the car and drove straight out.”Today he keeps busy with Master<br />

of Ceremonies duties, occasional headlining appearances and serving<br />

on the advisory board for the Las Vegas Jazz Society.<br />

Las Vegas auto executive Jim Marsh, whose friendship with Barbutti<br />

numbers over 35 years says, “He’s an iconic legend, one of the best.”<br />

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By: Pat Landaker / Positive Aging<br />

Everyone’s talking about manifesting<br />

abundance. You don’t need to manifest<br />

abundance. Open your eyes. It’s all around you!<br />

Why do we fail to notice?<br />

Abundance abounds with awareness. Once<br />

you’re aware of your abundances, you can<br />

learn and grow from them.<br />

We speak about a lot of things that we’re<br />

grateful for, but seldom do we speak about<br />

abundance and when we do, it’s often in a<br />

prayer. Acknowledging abundance in your<br />

everyday life comes when you least expect<br />

it. It’s usually a surprise…a realization…<br />

maybe even an epiphany.<br />

For me, my relationship with awareness of<br />

Abundance came with my relationship with<br />

grief after my husband passed. They kind of go hand and hand.<br />

The awareness I faced in grief is what led me through the Valley of<br />

Abundance. In grief, I was looking for solutions and distractions for my<br />

pain, while abundance brought me back center and reminded me of<br />

the many things offering fulfillment in my life.<br />

Abundance has had a rebirth. It’s the realization that it’s all around<br />

us. Fact is we don’t see it because we’re used to seeking it out. We never<br />

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Abundance Abounds with Awareness<br />

Mission Accomplished<br />

By: Adrea Nairne-Barrera / Senior Moments<br />

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll<br />

run out of ideas and new<br />

projects, but as time moves<br />

forward, I still have a legal pad full of notes to<br />

remind me to do something.<br />

So as I began writing this column, I realized<br />

that this is my “mark” that I can leave of my<br />

thoughts and adventures in my golden years. It’s<br />

not a biography or diary, but observations of how<br />

we perceive life events as we get older.<br />

Most importantly, you must maintain a sense of<br />

humor and be ready to tolerate a lot more than you<br />

did in your younger years. Learn to say “no”, trash<br />

the diet and cosmetics, choose wisely and don’t<br />

accept too much compromise. We’ve earned that<br />

right.<br />

If I don’t want to do something, I can say so<br />

because I don’t want to do it. If I don’t want to eat<br />

something, I can say no to that too.<br />

I can be as crabby as I want, as long as I don’t hurt someone’s<br />

feelings. I’m still ridden with guilt if someone doesn’t like me, so I<br />

guess that stays with you forever.<br />

Senior Moments became my soapbox and began with my dating<br />

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knew it was there for the taking.<br />

Abundance is often more than what we expected or anticipated. Once<br />

you recognize abundance, you realize you have more than enough,<br />

ample quantity equaling affluence and wealth. It’s appreciation of<br />

life and respect for the universe and what it<br />

provides.<br />

We walk through the orchard every day<br />

And fail to notice along the way<br />

Abundance hanging all around<br />

And generously lying on the ground<br />

When I stop to acknowledge what I see<br />

It’s the gifts of abundance providing for<br />

me.<br />

It’s a walk we should all take. An awareness<br />

of abundance results in Positive Aging!<br />

FYI: Please check out my new talk<br />

show, “There’s No Aging in Vegas.”<br />

To view the latest episode, visit: www.<br />

TheresNoAginginVegas.com. The show is sponsored by AARP<br />

Nevada.<br />

Pat Landaker is a Certified Senior Advisor (CSA) and owner of<br />

Living La Vida Senior, Ageless Aging, and Senior Solutions. She<br />

also teaches Positive Aging at UNLV/OLLI. Visit www.patlandaker-<br />

AGEncy.com or email her at: info@patlandakeragency.com.<br />

adventure when I turned 60 and found myself single again. I was<br />

amazed at how the whole thing worked and started to write about it.<br />

There had been a news story about dating horror<br />

stories and I got picked for an interview but mine<br />

was a good story and I was encouraged to keep<br />

going. The first one was The Internet Bar Scene<br />

and it’s in the book.<br />

Suddenly life was completely different. Most of<br />

it was whatever I wanted to make of it so I found<br />

absurdities, laughs and new adventures around<br />

every corner. Complaining is a lot of fun too.<br />

Now it’s <strong>2024</strong> and many of my writings made it<br />

to a book called “Senior Moments. A Tilted Look at<br />

Our Golden Years.”<br />

If you are interested in a copy, you can purchase<br />

it through The Vegas Voice.<br />

I hope you can relate. Try it, you’ll like it! It’s<br />

better than therapy.<br />

For a copy of my book, you can contact The Vegas<br />

Voice or donate $20 to my GoFundMe account and I will ship it using<br />

this link: https://gofund.me/d28d7545.<br />

Andrea brings a unique perspective on our tilted look at senior<br />

life.


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By: Renee Riendeau / Movie Revelations<br />

This “R” rated drama, “Civil War” written by<br />

Alex Garland, gives you something you did<br />

not expect.<br />

What kind of an American are<br />

you? This is the question asked of<br />

a soldier holding an assault rifle<br />

as he confronts a group of terrified<br />

journalists.<br />

The question and its underlying<br />

impulse to divide and demonize is<br />

at the heart of why Garland made a<br />

much-anticipated and already much<br />

debated film about the implosion of<br />

the United States. He warns against<br />

the dangers of extreme partisanship.<br />

In the film, America’s divisions have erupted into chaos. Fleets of<br />

helicopters patrol the skies and explosions rock major cities as the<br />

secessionist Western Forces (including those from Texas and California)<br />

advance on the President.<br />

A team of military journalists race against time to reach Washington<br />

as rebel fractions descend upon the White House. Garland wanted to<br />

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Civil War<br />

X Burlesque<br />

By: Dianne Davis / That’s Entertainment<br />

Burlesque, a topless review at the Flamingo<br />

X Las Vegas has been entertaining audience<br />

members on the Las Vegas Strip for 22 years.<br />

Here’s why – It’s sexy, fun, provocative,<br />

titillating, and entertaining.<br />

The sexy production in the X Burlesque<br />

theater features attractive woman with<br />

various sized attributes. Wink, Wink. You<br />

know what I mean.<br />

None are what you’d call voluptuous,<br />

which is fine. Big boobs don’t enhance<br />

dance numbers. These ladies have just<br />

the right amount of bounce as they strut<br />

their stuff through the course of the show.<br />

What makes this entertainment work<br />

is the light-hearted attitude that permeates the production. Naturally<br />

the costuming is skimpy. Hey, you didn’t go for the costumes.<br />

But the ladies’ outfits are colorful, creative, and well designed for<br />

the proper exposure with a sense of merriment. Tuxedos, roller skates,<br />

boas, tassels – you’ll see them all through the course of the 75 minute<br />

production.<br />

They recently introduced some stunning new costumes. They’ve even<br />

got one number that glows in the darkened theater.<br />

The ladies are all attractive and wholesome, but with just the right<br />

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make the press the heroes of the story.<br />

The cast includes Kirsten Dunst, Calee Spaeny, Stephen McKinley<br />

Henderson, and Wagner Moura. The movie is presenting old fashioned<br />

reporters, as opposed to the extreme<br />

bias of journalist who are essentially<br />

producing propaganda. The movie tries<br />

to function like those reporters.<br />

Critics say: A torturous, overrated<br />

movie without a point, well-crafted<br />

but has nothing to say, this splashy<br />

provocative yarn about photojournalist<br />

on the front lines of an imaginary war,<br />

tough and unsettling by design.<br />

“Civil War” is a close up look at<br />

violent uncertainly of a nation in crisis.<br />

I was somewhat disappointed in this<br />

film. Lots of shoot ’em up and lack of a solid story line. I rate this film<br />

#3 on a scale of #5. I probably won’t see you at the movies this time.<br />

Renee Riendeau is the movie reviewer for The Vegas Voice. Renee<br />

can be reached at rriendeau@aol.com and is anxious to hear<br />

from you.<br />

amount of twinkle in their eyes that says, “Hey fella, I like you.” The<br />

interaction with the audience in the intimate, cabaret-like environment<br />

adds to the enjoyment.<br />

The dance numbers are high energy, titillating and provocative, but<br />

never sleazy. This is not the dance numbers you’ll find in a gentlemen’s’<br />

club.<br />

Rather about the splendid on-spot<br />

choreography of the dance routines. The<br />

butt shaking Stayin Alive number was a<br />

stand out. In honor of its anniversary, X<br />

Burlesque introduced eight captivating,<br />

new dance routines.<br />

The pole dancing was spectacular<br />

and done on an elevated platform in the<br />

center of the room where all could enjoy<br />

the ladies’ physical agility. Yes, all. Ladies<br />

will enjoy this show as well.<br />

Special effects included scenes on the high hung screens on each<br />

side of the room and the requisite smoke on occasion. There were even<br />

balloons at one point and bubbles at another. Enjoy this sexy topless<br />

review inside the X Burlesque Theatre at Flamingo Las Vegas.<br />

Dianne Davis specializes in “senior entertainment” and is the<br />

Las Vegas Associate Editor of lasvegassplash.com. She hikes, works on<br />

her stand-up comedy, and looks forward to more travels with her<br />

husband Burt.


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Swimming Pool<br />

Memories - Continued<br />

By: Mike Murphy / Social Insecurity<br />

For kids growing up in the hot and humid<br />

Midwest with no air-conditioning, public<br />

swimming pools in the 1950s were fun…if one survived.<br />

At my neighborhood pool, we had the standard low and high diving<br />

boards which were mainly used as launching pads for shoving kids off<br />

who were too timid to jump. And, of course, surviving a dive off the<br />

high board was a mandatory rite of passage to manhood.<br />

There was also another way in which the local swimming pool was<br />

connected to survival for me and my friends: it was a very dangerous<br />

place to hang out - a dunk or be dunked world.<br />

I would spend much of my afternoon at the pool trying to hide in<br />

the crowd and dodge detection by the “greasers” and “hoods.” One had<br />

to carefully time entering the locker room to avoid getting snapped by<br />

their wet towels.<br />

One preventive step a kid could take upon entering the pool area was<br />

to carefully scan the water for guys wearing black Speedos. Without<br />

fail, they were always the bad dudes.<br />

Whenever a female lifeguard took an occasional stroll around the<br />

pool, the tough guys sporting black Speedos would go nuts attempting<br />

to catch her eye and show off by dunking each other and any sap (i.e.,<br />

me) who just happened to be innocently dog-paddling by.<br />

Back then everyone wanted to get a tan because. . . well, because we<br />

were basically dumb. We had no idea that too much sun could be bad<br />

for you.<br />

Although, in hindsight, you’d think that we would have been a bit<br />

suspicious when we came home with 90% of our body beet red, forcing<br />

us to sleep standing up for several nights due to excruciating pain.<br />

Plus, it should have been obvious that one’s skin peeling like a snake<br />

and falling off in tangled, nasty globs was not a healthy process. But,<br />

no, we were suckers for Coppertone’s push that tanning was cool and<br />

healthy.<br />

A nice tan could even make up for bad hair, acne, and a host of other<br />

physical defects. Keep in mind, that I grew up when body shaming was<br />

de rigueur for many teen boys.<br />

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Daily Healthy Routines - Continued<br />

By: Tom Harmon / Lean Dog<br />

Hey Kids! I thought I’d continue with the same<br />

theme from last month’s article that listed<br />

some of my daily<br />

healthy routines.<br />

Let’s talk first about food. It’s probably<br />

the most important decision we make<br />

every day and being indifferent to the<br />

importance of making good choices is<br />

just asking for trouble, health wise.<br />

I’ve been a proponent of the Eat Right<br />

4 Your Type diet for decades and if you’re<br />

not familiar with it I encourage you to<br />

look into it. It is based on the premise<br />

that we should make our food choices<br />

based upon our blood type.<br />

I can only speak to the benefits from my personal experience. Before<br />

I tried this approach I “thought” I was eating healthy by cutting out<br />

meat, balancing carbs/fats/protein but was always suffering from<br />

chronic heartburn, indigestion, and elimination problems.<br />

The second I went to the recommended diet for blood type O, all<br />

my symptoms and discomfort went away. I also found it far easier to<br />

maintain my weight and most of my aches and pains disappeared.<br />

Check it out. Dr. Peter D’Adamo is the author and proponent of this<br />

natural way of eating.<br />

With that said, I feel that the biggest challenge in getting people to<br />

make changes in what they eat is overcoming their indifference about<br />

their food choices. It’s too easy to opt for<br />

convenience.<br />

The old complaint “but I love” this<br />

food when they know, that’s it’s ruining<br />

their health is a challenge you can<br />

overcome and defeat.<br />

Bottom line is if we don’t become<br />

serious about our food and drink,<br />

that indifference is going to become a<br />

very expensive decision in the form of<br />

unnecessary medical treatment and,<br />

sadly, cutting short all the wonderful things this life has to offer.<br />

Remember…Dancing is a great activity so get off your butt.<br />

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Pretty Feet<br />

By: Linda Bateman-Gomez / Timeless Beauty<br />

Summertime and sandals are back! Living in<br />

Las Vegas, sandals are not<br />

really just summertime shoes,<br />

but we often tend to wear more<br />

open-toed and open back shoes this time of year.<br />

Pedicures are one way to make sure we take care of<br />

our feet, so our toes look pretty and manicured. While<br />

my favorite part of a Pedi is the massage, having a<br />

good pedicure usually addresses the callouses on our<br />

feet as well.<br />

While our heels may not seem as important as our<br />

toes visually they are if you’re wearing open back<br />

shoes. Our heels in slingbacks or flip-flops can be<br />

very noticeable.<br />

Going barefoot can cause our heels to look dirty<br />

even after washing because they are often rough and<br />

look dark. Callous files used at home are one way to keep our heels<br />

smoother between pedicures. Using a good scrub with a washcloth or<br />

loofah also helps.<br />

I recently found a great product that combines a loofah type material<br />

and soap designed for our feet. It’s a Pedi buffer from a company called<br />

Spongelle, offering gentle cleansing and exfoliation.<br />

There are several wonderful fragrances, French lavender being my<br />

personal favorite. The bars sell for $18.00 on their<br />

website and last for 30+ washes.<br />

Aside from the Pedi buffers Spongelle has an entire<br />

line of similar products for all over body cleansing.<br />

They even have some specialty products designed<br />

with men in mind - like the extreme back buffer<br />

scrubber.<br />

Keep in mind if you use the Pedi buffer in the<br />

shower, it is very soapy and can be very slippery.<br />

Having recently recovered from a broken leg, I’m<br />

very aware of possible slip & fall situations, so be<br />

extra careful should you decide to try this.<br />

Keeping your heels soft and clean will help ensure<br />

you look as good walking out as you do walking in.<br />

Happy summer!<br />

Linda Bateman-Gomez has an international beauty company<br />

based in Las Vegas that specializes in cosmetics and other beauty<br />

products. Contact Linda at TimelessBeauty2020@gmail.com or<br />

through her website www.fullips.com.<br />

By: Lisa Kemmerling / Fashion Couture<br />

Summer has arrived and so have all the new<br />

shoe styles. It’s always exciting to see the new<br />

designs.<br />

Men’s shoes<br />

have changed tremendously over the<br />

years. Some people think that men’s<br />

shoes are boring and the styles don’t<br />

really change. Nothing can be further<br />

than the truth.<br />

As it turns out, men’s shoes have a bit<br />

of history behind them. Even in biblical<br />

times, people walked around with<br />

protective footwear to avoid the rocks,<br />

and harsh elements.<br />

Passing through the middle ages,<br />

men’s shoes were flat, made of leather<br />

and silk and oftentimes were pointed at the tips. During Louis XIV<br />

reign, there was the introduction of buckles and the elite even wore<br />

rhinestones to adorn their shoes.<br />

Moving towards the 1950s, who doesn’t remember the Florsheim or<br />

oxford styles. The Chelsea boots (made popular by the Beatles) also<br />

made an important contribution.<br />

As the ‘60s and ‘70s rolled around, I can recall my sisters and many<br />

of their dates breaking out the platform shoes, and wouldn’t you know,<br />

everything about that era can be seen in many of the stores today.<br />

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The Many Styles of Men’s Shoes<br />

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In the ‘80s and ‘90s it was mostly about comfort for men’s shoes. Doc<br />

Martens (which is still a huge hit) made their way onto the rows of new<br />

shoe styles for both men and women.<br />

Seeing a change towards comfort mixed with stylish looks shows that<br />

men’s shoes are definitely not boring. There are too many styles to list<br />

them all so it’s easier to highlight a few:<br />

1. Derby lace up shoes that come in<br />

suede and various colors,<br />

2. Slip-on sneakers,<br />

3. Adidas trainers making a comeback<br />

from the ‘80s,<br />

4. The Sperry top sider aka “the boat<br />

shoe”,<br />

5. The Bass Weejuns loafers,<br />

6. And my personal favorite Cole Haan<br />

oxford style shoes that lace up.<br />

So for our gentleman readers, if any<br />

of these styles are still in your closet then<br />

you’re in luck, as men’s shoe fashions have reinvented themselves. If<br />

not, one new pair might be a great addition.<br />

“To go where you’re wishing you could go, first you must tie your<br />

shoes and step off the porch.” — John Avery.<br />

Lisa Kemmerling is the owner of Clean Lines Fashion Consulting,<br />

helping individuals with their packing needs for travel, as<br />

well as finding current styles for both men & women. You can<br />

contact her at: lisa@cleanlinesfashion.com or 925/518-4950.


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Dining vs. Eating<br />

By: Gayla Kalp / Life is Laughter<br />

like to dine where you are seated at a lovely<br />

I table or booth, waited on like a Queen and<br />

served great food. As opposed to standing in a<br />

line to order, service is minimal and the food is<br />

a mystery.<br />

When you are greeted at a dining restaurant, the Hostess is nicely<br />

dressed and has skills. They make you feel welcome.<br />

As opposed to a place like “Big Bubba’s Bar B Q” where the Hostess<br />

looks like they threw on something from their dirty clothes bin and acts<br />

like you are interrupting his day to seat you.<br />

In the Dining Restaurant, the seating at a lovely table or booth is<br />

“the Norm.” At the Eating Place, you get a very used, marred table with<br />

chairs that rock because one of the legs is too short.<br />

My Kingdom for a<br />

Handyman<br />

By: Dianne Hahn / Back in the Days<br />

woke up the other morning to find Niagara<br />

I Falls cascading from my kitchen faucet. When<br />

hubby was alive, I would have said, “Honey, the kitchen facet is broken.”<br />

He’d bring his can-do attitude, his toolbox and roll of duct tape and<br />

fix it! Now I have to find a handyman…no easy feat!<br />

I know not where to look. Plus, all handymen are not created equal!<br />

A good plumber is hard to find, too. I called one about Niagara Falls.<br />

“I can squeeze you in on Tuesday ” he said.<br />

I wondered if he’d come to my rescue before my kitchen was<br />

transformed into an indoor swimming pool? I was wearing swim shoes<br />

and jumping over puddles around the house.<br />

The menu in the Dining Restaurant is simple and each item is very<br />

tempting. At the Eating Place, you are given a menu as big as a phone<br />

book with very confusing names like “Momma’s Amazing Homestyle<br />

Mock Meatloaf Wonder.”<br />

The presentation is no better. Huge plates of mountains of food. I will<br />

say however, that the Dining Restaurant serves its food on a regular<br />

plate but the food is piled on top of each other.<br />

The potatoes are at the bottom, the vegetable is put on top of the<br />

potatoes and the entre is put on top of all of that. It looks good but you<br />

have to dig through it all to get to one item.<br />

The bathroom is sickly hysterical. The Dining Restaurant is clean<br />

with piped in concert music and great soap and towels. The Easting<br />

Place bathroom is like entering a really bad third world country.<br />

There is always overflowing trash bins, no soap, little toilet paper<br />

except for the wet wads on the floor and toilet seats that move when you<br />

sit on them. It is like a free ride on a broken Ferris wheel.<br />

I could write on and on about these Restaurants but I think you get<br />

“the Drift” of why I prefer Dining.<br />

Gayla is a speaker, author, psychologist and humorist. She also<br />

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Then my shower door broke. I called back. “How do you mean it’s<br />

broken? Is the glass cracked?<br />

“No, I can’t close the door all the way.” “What kind of door is it?” “I<br />

don’t know. A regular shower door.”<br />

“Does it slide, or swing shut.” “It swings but it’s cockeyed. Do you fix<br />

that type of problem?”<br />

Sigh. “I have to see it.”<br />

When he arrived, he said he couldn’t do the job. I needed a man who<br />

fixes shower doors. Why didn’t he mention that over the phone?<br />

I called a shower door guy. “Can you give me an estimate over the<br />

phone?” He said no.<br />

Well, that’s a problem. I don’t know what the going rate is for fixing<br />

shower door hinges.<br />

How do I know if he’s going to overcharge me? Or if he can even fix<br />

it. What if he says I need a whole new door? What are they going for<br />

these days?<br />

I know what you’re going to say. Depends on whether it’s a slider or<br />

a swing door. Well, never mind, I’ll ask the knight in shining overalls<br />

when he arrives to tackle the problem. Maybe I should buy a roll of duct<br />

tape for myself, just in case.<br />

What’s that you say? Not a good plan? Well, I don’t have a Plan B, but<br />

okay. You’re probably right. What was I thinking?<br />

A former schoolteacher, Dianne Sebis Hahn also writes for kids!<br />

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<strong>June</strong>teenth<br />

By: Rhonda Long / Exploring Your Roots<br />

<strong>June</strong>teenth, celebrated annually on <strong>June</strong> 19th,<br />

marks a pivotal moment in American history<br />

– the day in 1865 when enslaved people in<br />

Galveston, Texas, finally received news of their<br />

freedom, a full two-and-a-half years after the<br />

Emancipation Proclamation.<br />

Today, <strong>June</strong>teenth is a time for all Americans to celebrate freedom. This<br />

day also particularly inspires many African Americans to reflect on and<br />

remember the incredible strength of our ancestors and learn about our<br />

own family histories.<br />

Genealogical research can be especially challenging for African<br />

Americans due to the legacy of slavery and the ways it disrupted families<br />

and erased records. However, there is a wealth of information and<br />

resources, such as census records, vital records, military records, church<br />

records, that can be used to unlock those details, which can be known, in<br />

our family histories.<br />

Genealogy is<br />

not just about<br />

dates and<br />

names – it’s<br />

about trying to<br />

fully understand<br />

the lives of all<br />

the incredible<br />

people who<br />

made us who we<br />

are today.<br />

Every one of us have ancestors who faced immense challenges and<br />

still managed to persevere and rise above those challenges. Genealogy<br />

research is a great way to discover all of those incredible people who<br />

paved the way.<br />

As more of us uncover our family stories, we help create a more diverse<br />

narrative of the African American experience. By piecing together these<br />

histories, we challenge stereotypes, fill in gaps, and promote a more<br />

accurate understanding of, not only our own families but also our<br />

nation’s past.<br />

So, this <strong>June</strong>teenth, take a step towards discovering your amazing<br />

family history. It’s a way to honor the past, celebrate the present, and<br />

build a brighter future where every ancestor’s story is remembered and<br />

cherished.<br />

A great way to start is by getting involved in a local genealogy group<br />

like the Nevada African American Genealogy Society. In these groups,<br />

you can meet other researchers who can help you as you complete your<br />

family tree.<br />

Don’t be afraid to start your family history adventure – your ancestors<br />

are waiting to meet you!<br />

Rhonda Long is the vice president of the Nevada African American<br />

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month at the Las Vegas Family Search Center 509 S. 9th Street, Las<br />

Vegas. Contact her: Naagsvp@gmail.com<br />

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<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

Remember Manual<br />

Transmissions?<br />

By: BJ Killeen / Down the Road<br />

For those of us who grew up driving vehicles<br />

with the radio being the most technologically<br />

advanced feature on the car, learning to drive a manual transmission<br />

was the norm. Manuals were preferred for performance, fuel efficiency,<br />

and a fun-to-drive quotient that couldn’t be matched by an automatic.<br />

Driving a vehicle with a stick shift wasn’t an issue back in the day<br />

because road congestion wasn’t bad. For those who have spent time in<br />

stop-and-go traffic in a big city, a manual transmission is only for those<br />

with strong left legs… and an even stronger ability to manage stress.<br />

In 2020, car buyers could choose from 80 different models if they<br />

wanted a manual. Today, that number has dwindled to 35, with almost<br />

half being high-priced performance vehicles.<br />

My test car this month was the Toyota GR Corolla Circuit <strong>Edition</strong>. The<br />

GR has enough exterior details to make it appear as if it stepped right out<br />

of a Fast and Furious movie.<br />

A manual transmission is practically mandatory for vehicles that look<br />

and drive like this one, which is what the GR offers. But most people,<br />

especially when they get to a certain age, prefer the advantages of a<br />

manual without all the work.<br />

That’s why manufacturers have created automatic transmissions that<br />

are just as good (and often better) than manuals. Today’s automatics are<br />

so advanced that they get better fuel efficiency than a manual, plus utilize<br />

paddle shifters or a manual shift mode so you can experience the fun of a<br />

manual - yet save your leg and your sanity.<br />

Those who drive manuals call it the ultimate protection device from<br />

car thieves since they can’t drive away once they break in.<br />

Few new drivers will learn to drive a manual because, first, you’d have<br />

to find a vehicle with a manual. They don’t have them in rental fleets,<br />

and few driving schools offer to teach it.<br />

Second, what’s the point if an automatic is better in every way? But for<br />

those who love to drive, it’s hard to beat a manual transmission.<br />

BJ Killeen has been an automotive journalist for over 30 years.<br />

She welcomes all questions and inquiries, and can be reached at<br />

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Is Your Estate in Order?<br />

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Isn’t it about time you finally got your estate in<br />

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These days, most homeowners are getting a Living Trust and rightly so,<br />

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By: Howard Galin / Happy Gardening<br />

Now that we are into the summer watering<br />

schedule, one of the most important<br />

questions facing the desert gardener is how to properly irrigate while<br />

also trying to conserve the dwindling water supply.<br />

Remember, just because we are permitted to water six days each<br />

week, it doesn’t mean that we should or need to!<br />

The irrigation systems that were initially installed when many<br />

of our homes were built may now be in need of upgrades or major<br />

overhauls. The average irrigation system in Las Vegas has a lifespan of<br />

approximately 20 years.<br />

Under our landscapes, irrigation tubing is subjected to high<br />

temperatures and high deposits of alkali salts that can lead to<br />

deterioration, leaks and malfunctioning. Therefore, we must diligently<br />

check the emitters for<br />

damage, leaks and salt<br />

buildup that can affect our<br />

systems.<br />

You can check for leaks<br />

by looking for excessive wet<br />

spots on the ground, or water<br />

runoffs onto the street. If<br />

emitters are clogged, remove<br />

a group of emitters and<br />

soak in a solution of vinegar/water overnight. This will remove alkali<br />

deposits and the emitter will run properly.<br />

The size of your plants/trees/bushes has increased and their root<br />

systems have extended. Therefore, your irrigation system needs to<br />

spread out and water usage increased.<br />

Since all emitters are labeled with the hourly water discharge in<br />

gallons (1/2-5gph) you may need to add additional emitters and/or<br />

replace with higher capacity drips.<br />

In addition, take steps to foster efficient water usage. Do not water<br />

after recent rainfall. Irrigate before sun rise and after sunset to reduce<br />

evaporation.<br />

Add organic mulch around plants to prevent evaporation and lower<br />

soil temperature. Choose drought tolerant plants when updating your<br />

landscape.<br />

Position emitters under the canopies of large bushes, plants and<br />

trees where the active roots are located. Fertilize your landscape in early<br />

spring and fall to encourage strong root systems.<br />

Suggested Summer Watering Schedule :<br />

Non-Native Plants: Twice a day for ½ hour,<br />

Native Plants: 15-20 minutes, 1-2 days per week,<br />

Cactus, Yucca and Agave: 1 time a week for 5-10 minutes<br />

Have a Question? Contact me: Theplantwhisperer28@gmail.com<br />

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Summertime Watering<br />

Tips<br />

Howard Galin is a University of Nevada certified Master<br />

Gardener who lectures on, and writes about native plants and<br />

desert landscaping<br />

<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

What’s Inside Matters Most<br />

By: Eric Thurman / Thrive Spiritually<br />

special day arrives, like Mother’s Day or her<br />

A birthday, and Mom gets this gigantic box<br />

of mixed chocolates. Being generous, she says<br />

everyone can have one, just one, each day until they’re gone.<br />

That’s when the intrigue begins. How do you pick the best piece when<br />

you don’t know the filling? Some kids, who shall remain nameless, nibble<br />

off the tiniest bottom corner to discover what’s inside. “Strawberry cream,<br />

yuck.”<br />

The next sneaky taste test reveals caramel. A winner. “I’ll eat that one.”<br />

I admit, I’ve been known to fetch a toothpick for a tiny poke to reveal the<br />

inner flavor with minimal invasion.<br />

This candy escapade exposes a key life lesson. Just like with a box of<br />

candy, what really counts most is the inside of us.<br />

This is the essence of spiritual life. Inside of us is where God makes<br />

his biggest moves. Look at this: “I pray that out of His glorious riches He<br />

may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being.”<br />

(Eph. 3:16)<br />

The real me—the real you—is who we are inside, our private thoughts<br />

and feelings. God’s promises are for the inner part of us.<br />

As I get older, I think often about this verse from the Bible, “outwardly<br />

we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” (2<br />

Cor. 4:16) Renewed day by day? This is what I want!<br />

Deep within the innermost recesses of our hearts, each of us nurses old<br />

hurts, fears, and anxieties. Left undisturbed, those old injuries and worries<br />

are dreadfully toxic.<br />

But in place of anger, confusion, and self-protection, something else<br />

can happen inside of us. We can, quite literally, invite Jesus into the<br />

innermost recesses of our lives. Tell Jesus he is your invited guest. Then, let<br />

him become a permanent resident. That’s the first step to being renewed<br />

day by day.<br />

Growing older, well yes, some bits of me are in decline, but the promise<br />

is that our private, inside selves can be renewed every day — because<br />

what’s inside matters most.<br />

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By: Dan Hyde / Call to Action<br />

Hunger in America is resurging again! Recent<br />

news stories are painting a very bleak<br />

picture that food insecurity, especially for children,<br />

has gone from<br />

bad to worse - much worse!<br />

Two years ago, the federal government<br />

estimated that 1 in 6 school aged<br />

children (grades kindergarten to<br />

6) were malnourished. Today, that<br />

figure has risen to 2 in 6 as families<br />

are struggling financially because of<br />

inflation now estimated to be 3.6%<br />

annually.<br />

That doesn’t sound that bad<br />

considering that a year ago inflation was running 9.6 % annually. But<br />

these figures are national “averages”.<br />

My reality tells a different story! When I look at what I spend on<br />

groceries that 3.6% figure is a misnomer.<br />

Case in point, the basket of groceries I buy are consistently the same<br />

weekly. When I compare what my $100 spent last year weekly to what I<br />

spend today ($115) that reflects an “inflated rate” of 15% higher!<br />

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Need a Lawyer?<br />

By: Chuck Dean / Vet 2 Vet<br />

Something important came along in 2018 that<br />

needs a bit more broadcasting for veterans;<br />

especially if they are<br />

in need of legal representation and are<br />

shuddering at the outrageous costs involved.<br />

This little-known benefit came about when<br />

the VA mobilized many federal agencies to offer<br />

free legal services for Veterans. The Veterans’<br />

legal services community came together<br />

at the VA headquarters in Washington D.C.<br />

and formulated the Legal Partnership, and<br />

currently has many VA-based free legal clinics.<br />

At last count, the VA hosts at least 170 free legal<br />

clinics in its VA Medical Centers, Community<br />

Based Outpatient Clinics and Vet Centers across<br />

the country. They do this by partnering with<br />

external legal service providers, such as local<br />

bar associations, legal aid organizations, and<br />

law school clinics.<br />

Per VA Secretary Robert Wilkie, “Legal assistance stands high on the<br />

list of many Veterans’ important, but unmet, needs. Our goal is to make<br />

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well-being.”<br />

<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

That is unsustainable for many Nevada families supporting youngsters.<br />

What are those in need to do?<br />

One source of assistance are locally sponsored food banks that provide<br />

needed food to all in need! Problem is, these food banks are having a<br />

difficult time providing food for all in<br />

need.<br />

The demands for their help far exceed<br />

their ability to provide. That’s where YOU<br />

and ME come in.<br />

One food bank is THREE SQUARE. As<br />

I have written before, this is<br />

THE organization I support and suggest<br />

you do as well. Why? It’s because they get<br />

far more bang-for- the- buck.<br />

Every $1 donated produces three (3)<br />

nourishing meals! As hard as that is to<br />

imagine, it is a fact! Because of the enormous size of their organization,<br />

their economies of scale far exceeds any of the other food banks.<br />

If you are financially able to donate please do so. Every dollar you give<br />

will feed someone for a full day! Contact them at: THREESQUARE.ORG.<br />

Dan Hyde is a passionate and effective advocate for the senior<br />

community. He can be reached at: dhyde9@cox.net.<br />

Just like everyone else, Veterans often face stressful legal situations - such<br />

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much needed medical treatment.<br />

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VA-based legal clinics, attorneys, and<br />

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assistance to Veterans since the 2018 formation<br />

of this very needed benefit. During the first year<br />

of operation, the legal clinic at the Washington<br />

D.C. VA served more than 800 Veterans.<br />

Today, throughout America, these volunteer<br />

legal services are ready to serve Veterans, so<br />

if there’s a need, check it out. The price was<br />

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Dogs, Cars & Hot<br />

Summer Days<br />

By: Annoula Wylderich / Our Best Friends<br />

With regard to dogs in hot cars, it takes only 10<br />

minutes for the temperature inside a car to<br />

reach 100 degrees on a 75-degree day. Heatstroke<br />

can occur within 15 minutes. If the dog is not fatally impacted, they<br />

can suffer permanent organ damage.<br />

If you see an animal in distress inside a car:<br />

1. Check all the doors.<br />

2. Write down the vehicle’s make, model and license plate number.<br />

3. Contact nearby businesses asking them to page the owner. If they<br />

can’t be located, call Metro’s non-emergency line (311) to alert them<br />

of the situation. Personally, if I could not get through and the wait was<br />

long, I would resort to dialing 911.<br />

Note: It is illegal to break a car window to rescue a dog unless you<br />

are a police or animal control officer, and this should be your last<br />

resort to save the animal.<br />

Haunted Las Vegas<br />

By: Ali Guggenheim / Psychic Phenomenon<br />

With all its fascinating history, it’s no wonder<br />

that besides executive producer Zak Bagan’s<br />

Haunted Museum, Las Vegas has numerous<br />

haunted locations.<br />

The Mob Museum in Las Vegas displays numerous devices for<br />

murder, torture, and mass terror, used in some of the most violent<br />

events in U.S. history. The building that holds these artifacts is the old<br />

Vegas courthouse, where hundreds of mobsters and murderers are the<br />

lost souls of shadowy figures. Their spirits haunt the halls.<br />

The La Palazza mansion (The Devil’s Mansion), which is not open<br />

to the public, was previously owned by mob enforcer Tony Spilotro<br />

(the Ant) and Hole in the Wall Gang member. For decades, there were<br />

rumors about the mansion and Spilotro’s dark past. Plenty of spirits<br />

still linger.<br />

Previous owners claimed these entities harassed them when females<br />

showering would hear vulgar innuendos, the owner choked when<br />

provoking them, and wine glasses mysteriously fell and shattered.<br />

However, if response is slow and the animal appears to be in imminent<br />

danger (wide eyes, extreme drooling, desperate attempts at escaping,<br />

panicked and heavy panting, or completely unresponsive), document<br />

the temperature, status of the dog, and the delay in law enforcement<br />

response before making your decision to take any action.<br />

If you plan to run errands on warm days, requiring you to leave your<br />

pet in the car, leave them at home instead!<br />

As another reminder, pavement gets very hot during our summers<br />

and can burn sensitive paws. If the ground is too hot for your hand, it’s<br />

too hot for your companion.<br />

*Seniors on fixed incomes may have a challenging time meeting<br />

their pets’ needs due to escalating costs of veterinary care and pet food.<br />

Assistance is available, ranging from pet food pantries to low-cost spay/<br />

neuter, vaccines, microchips and help with other medical procedures.<br />

Here are several resources that you can Google (go to websites and<br />

click on the tabs):<br />

1. The Animal Foundation – click on “Get Pet Help” (then, “Pet<br />

Resource Center” and “Pet Food Pantry”).<br />

2. Nevada SPCA – click on “Community Support.”<br />

3. Hearts Alive Village Las Vegas – click on “Resources.”<br />

Annoula Wylderich is the founder of Animal Protection Affiliates,<br />

former District Leader for the HSUS, and former State Director for<br />

Animal Wellness Action. Contact her: wylderich@cox.net.<br />

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The Horseshoe Las Vegas, originally the MGM, had one of the most<br />

tragic events (1980), where 85 guests died in a fire in their towers.<br />

The rebuilt building was sold and renamed Bally’s, until most recently<br />

when it was renamed Horseshoe Las Vegas.<br />

Guests staying in the refurbished North Tower claim to experience<br />

an overwhelming smell of smoke and hear people screaming from the<br />

hallway. One of the most chilling visions is of a woman calmly playing<br />

with two slot-machines with her dress engulfed in flames. This tragedy<br />

led to some of the strictest Las Vegas fire regulations.<br />

Since the construction of The Luxor, the belief has been that it is<br />

haunted and cursed. Rumor had it that the black exterior and the<br />

sacred eye attract dark energy to its host.<br />

During construction, multiple workers’ deaths occurred; Legionella<br />

bacteria killed a guest, two guests jumped from interior balconies, and<br />

reports of moving objects and apparitions and ghostly hauntings were<br />

sited - much of which connected with the Titanic Artifact Exhibition.<br />

After the first three years of their Nile River ride, they shut it down<br />

and drained the canal due to many frightened guests seeing ghosts<br />

within the dark tunnels.<br />

To contact Ali or for spiritual consultations, coaching, workshops<br />

and readings, email: alivegasvoice@yahoo.com.


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<strong>June</strong> Sneezes!<br />

By: Mary Richard / Health Fitness<br />

Am I the only one who thinks this Spring has<br />

been more allergy-related than usual?<br />

In July, I will have been living here 22 years. And<br />

I’ve sneezed more this Spring<br />

than former years. Having been<br />

an allergy technician in my<br />

former career, I know you can<br />

develop allergies at any age.<br />

I made the mistake last<br />

month of opening the patio<br />

door on a lovely sunny day to let<br />

in some much needed fresh air.<br />

Litle did I know that the pollen<br />

count was elevated. I spent the<br />

rest of the evening (and the<br />

next day) sneezing.<br />

I still see and understand why people are wearing facemasks. It’s not<br />

to combat Covid, but to help with breathing difficulties from allergies.<br />

All we can do to combat the allergy season is to keep our windows<br />

and doors closed when the wind blows and to keep ourselves as safe as<br />

possible. I’m not a great fan of taking medications, but when the nasal<br />

faucet is running, I feel the need to take a pill… or two.<br />

What Are Allergies? Allergy symptoms are caused by your<br />

immune system mistaking harmless substances as threats and going<br />

into defense mode. These substances are called allergens.<br />

Common allergens include pollen, dust mites, pet dander and<br />

mold spores. Allergies are not<br />

contagious.<br />

What is a Cold? You catch<br />

a cold when a cold virus makes<br />

its way into your respiratory<br />

tract and your immune system<br />

attacks it. The immune system<br />

can’t always tell the difference<br />

between allergies vs. a cold,<br />

which is why symptoms are<br />

similar. Colds are contagious.<br />

We know the warmer weather<br />

is right around the corner and had been teasing us for a few weeks, so<br />

let’s do what we can to help keep our allergies under control.<br />

POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND HAPPY HEALTH TO ALL!<br />

Mary Richard is a long term supporter of senior fitness. She<br />

teaches Zumba, toning and dance classes throughout the Las<br />

Vegas Valley.<br />

By: Stan Popovich / Your Mental Health<br />

There are many reasons why some people are<br />

reluctant to get help for their mental health or<br />

addiction issues. In addition, many people are not<br />

sure what to do when encouraging<br />

someone to get the help they need<br />

for their mental health.<br />

Here are some suggestions<br />

on how to convince a person<br />

struggling to get some<br />

assistance.<br />

1. Talk to the person instead<br />

of talking at them: Nobody<br />

wants to be lectured or yelled at. The<br />

person who is struggling is scared<br />

and they need help in overcoming<br />

their fears and resistance to getting<br />

some guidance. Treat others the way you would want to be treated if the<br />

roles were reversed.<br />

2. Find out why the person won’t get help: Ask the individual<br />

who is struggling the reasons why they are reluctant to get some<br />

assistance. It might take a few tries, however, try to find out what is<br />

stopping your friend from getting treatment.<br />

3. Address the reasons why the individual won’t get<br />

help: Once you get the reasons why he or she won’t get some help, the<br />

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next step is to find the ways to address those factors that are preventing<br />

the individual from getting assistance.<br />

4. Find someone who understands: Try to find someone<br />

who used to struggle with their mental health for their advice. For<br />

example, a person who used drugs and alcohol in the past could use<br />

their past experiences and insights<br />

to convince the individual to seek<br />

treatment. A person who used to<br />

struggle with addiction or their<br />

mental health may be better able<br />

to relate to the person who is<br />

struggling.<br />

5. Get them to attend a<br />

support group: Another way to<br />

convince someone to get help is to<br />

get them to go to a mental health<br />

support group. A person who goes<br />

to a support group can at least<br />

listen to those who are also struggling, which may convince the person<br />

to get some assistance.<br />

6. Be persistent: Continue to be persistent with your loved ones in<br />

getting them the help they need. If things do not improve, continue to<br />

find other alternatives in getting the person some help.<br />

Stan Popovich is the author of “A Layman’s Guide to Managing<br />

Fear.” His website is: http://www.managingfear.com


America the Beautiful<br />

By: Pat Alexander / Art of Entertaining<br />

Some years ago I traveled the country for six<br />

months in a little travel<br />

trailer called a Puck, hauled<br />

by a little red Datsun. A Datsun? Does anyone even<br />

remember them?<br />

We visited 47 states on that trip and I loved every<br />

moment. Aside from the splendor of our beautiful<br />

country, it was surprising to see the scenery<br />

changing from state to state and to know when you<br />

were passing from one state to another.<br />

The people we met, however, were the same -<br />

unfailingly kind and friendly; from the mechanic<br />

in Illinois, who had never seen a Datsun, to the<br />

hairdresser in Nebraska, who came after closing<br />

to do my hair, to the farmer in Iowa, who gave<br />

directions so slowly I thought I’d fall asleep listening, to the toll taker<br />

in Massachusetts who finally understood me when I pronounced<br />

“Gloucester” the preferred “Glostah.”<br />

I love pizza and trying to find it while traveling was almost impossible.<br />

When we arrived in Bend, we were told of a restaurant reputed to have<br />

the best pizza in Oregon. Our hopes weren’t high since the last place I<br />

ordered a cheese pizza asked if I wanted tomato sauce on it!<br />

Anyway, now knowing how to order a pizza in Oregon, I asked for a<br />

“cheese and tomato” pizza. When our order was called, my husband<br />

walked back to the table with the pizza held high in his hand, grinning<br />

from ear to ear.<br />

My pizza arrived – with American cheese and<br />

sliced tomatoes! So much for knowing how to<br />

order!<br />

At one point, we shared breakfast at a campsite<br />

with a young couple who invited us to dinner<br />

when we passed through their city. She served<br />

these potatoes and I still make them occasionally<br />

as a reminder of that great trip. Try them for<br />

something different.<br />

Carla’s Potatoes: Peel 6-7 Russet potatoes.<br />

Cook until slightly tender. Sauté 1/3 cup diced<br />

onion in ½ stick butter until translucent.<br />

Add 1 can Cream of Mushroom soup, 1-1/2 cups<br />

grated Cheddar cheese and 1 pint sour cream. Stir<br />

until combined. Grate potatoes, fold in all ingredients. Place in greased<br />

9x13 pan.<br />

Top with ½ cup Parmesan cheese. Dot with ½ stick butter and bread<br />

crumbs. Bake at 350 for one hour.<br />

Pat Alexander writes about all things home. She is well known for<br />

her cooking, parties and interior design, and consults on kitchen<br />

and bath remodels.<br />

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love to look at Scripture to be reminded that<br />

I I am loved just as I am. To remember that<br />

everything is going to be okay, no matter what.<br />

But sometimes, the inspiration I need is alive and thriving in the words<br />

of friends.<br />

I have a friend who is dealing with the third death in his family in the<br />

past few years. He recently posted, “Sending love and prayers to anyone<br />

who is struggling and dealing with grief. You are not alone…”<br />

A dear friend from High School often sends reminders to not take<br />

life so seriously. Recently, she wrote, “To all my peeps: Remember, it’s<br />

better to be over the hill than under it!” Yes, laughter is always good<br />

medicine!<br />

THE SAINT & THE SINNER<br />

Inspiration in Scripture<br />

By: Bruce Ewing / Having Faith<br />

Birds Do It, Bees Do It<br />

By: Lauren Tallman / Erotic Las Vegas<br />

Feeling a little slump in your relationship?<br />

Want to tighten things up, get some zing in<br />

your step? Have an affair.<br />

Seniors go through years with the same partner, who they love, but<br />

time has taken its toll. Days become humdrum and the spark dulls.<br />

Chances are your relationship started with an affair during the freelove<br />

period of the ‘60s and early ‘70s. Bring back that era and do it<br />

again.<br />

Being the first generation to grow up during the sexual revolution,<br />

you made love at anytime, anywhere, and sometimes with anyone.<br />

Today, don’t hesitate and tell your partner that you two are running<br />

away. Steal kisses while looking for hotels or places to meet.<br />

Half the fun is talking about this secret and making plans. Drive<br />

in separate cars, from different directions to a strange, out-of-the-way<br />

place for your liaison and come together.<br />

Act out the fantasy and make your partner your lover. Remember to<br />

pack silk garments, perhaps a toy or two, and anything else that helps<br />

peak your sexual power. Try sex in new positions, ones you dared not<br />

try before.<br />

My friend Sierra encourages herself and others with the following<br />

words: “You are enough. You are so enough. It is unbelievable how<br />

enough you are!”<br />

Sometimes we all just need to hear some thoughts to remind us that,<br />

despite the struggles and the challenges, we are exactly where we are<br />

supposed to be, living the life and experiencing the experiences that are<br />

meant for us!<br />

I was in Los Angeles last month for a few days. While away, I still<br />

made sure to take my quiet time - my time to walk and get centered.<br />

While walking, I noticed some words stenciled on the side of a<br />

building, credited to “Trusty Scribe.” It read, “For all the storms you’ve<br />

weathered, all the heartbreaks you’ve suffered, all the physical and<br />

emotional scars you carry, all the setbacks, the bruises, the failures<br />

and defeats — these are the things that make you whole and complete.<br />

This is what makes you beautiful and unique. You are not alone.<br />

You are loved. You are golden!”<br />

I love to find inspiration in Scripture, but even more, I love to receive<br />

lessons from the people with whom I share this life. My “peeps” are<br />

some of my greatest faith heroes and their communications are much<br />

needed current-day scripture!<br />

Let’s all try to be living scripture today, by saying something to lift<br />

another person on their walk.<br />

Bruce Ewing - a singer/actor since the age of 12, has appeared in<br />

“Forever Plaid, Phantom, and The Phat Pack. He still sings where/<br />

when asked as well as teaching at OLLI/UNLV<br />

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Then, anything goes. Let the juices flow. For those hard-to-do<br />

positions, try as much as your senior bodies are able, laugh at any flops,<br />

and enjoy the moment.<br />

Be the lover you always dreamed of being. In that no-tell-motel, dim<br />

the lights or fling open the drapes. Whatever suits your fancy.<br />

Drink wine and eat icy grapes. Turn off the phones and let these few<br />

hours become your secret, hidden from everyone in the world. The<br />

exhilarating freedom will bring you to heights you have not felt in<br />

many years.<br />

An affair can be a climax to a wonderful moment. It can be quiet<br />

cuddling, just knowing you can share this tender moment after all<br />

these years.<br />

Whatever happens during these stolen hours, revel in it. Laugh out<br />

loud at the audacity of having an affair that you will brag about later.<br />

Seduce each other as if you were strangers meeting for the first time<br />

for a magnificent fling. Enjoy the tryst of a lifetime.<br />

Lauren Tallman is founder of the Erotic Writers Group of Las Vegas<br />

and author of “Harem of the Dragon,” “Come Again?,” and “How<br />

to Have an Affair and Not Get Caught.” Visit her website: laurentallman.com.


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Moving Your $ to Protect It<br />

By: Dan Roberts / Publisher<br />

Here’s a new one and seniors can potentially lose their life savings<br />

over this scam.<br />

Scammers are either calling or emailing you supposedly from<br />

your financial institution (be it a bank or your brokerage company)<br />

advising that “they” are spotting fraud or criminal activity on one of<br />

your accounts.<br />

They strongly urge you “protect” your money. In trying to “help”<br />

sometimes they ask for your verification codes, or suggest you move<br />

money from your bank, investment, or retirement account.<br />

Of course, it’s a scam. A couple of reminders:<br />

Never, never move or transfer your money to “protect<br />

it.” Your money is fine where it is, no matter what they say or how<br />

urgently they say it. Moving it means you’ll lose it, not protect it.<br />

Someone who says you have to move your money to protect it is a<br />

scammer. Period.<br />

Never, never share a verification code. Ever. Banks use<br />

these codes in online banking to prove you’re really you. If you share<br />

that code, the scammer can use it to prove they’re you.<br />

No caller (especially someone from your bank’s fraud department)<br />

will ever ask for the verification code. That’s always a scam.<br />

Stop and check it out. If you’re worried, call your real bank,<br />

broker, or investment advisor. Use the number you find on your<br />

statement not the telephone number or website address the scammer<br />

provided.<br />

So what should Vegas Voice readers do when Mr. (or Ms.) Bad Guy<br />

contacts you? It really is easy. Take a breath,<br />

think, and don’t hesitate to DELETE that email.<br />

And if you receive that telephone call, hang<br />

up the phone, hang up the phone and…<br />

HANG UP THE PHONE!<br />

Don’t give these SOBs a moment of your<br />

time. You’re better than all of them.<br />

Vegas Voyagers Cruises<br />

By: Stu Cooper / Happy Adventures<br />

Our February 9 – 25 16-night Bus to the Boat<br />

Hawaiian Island cruise featuring Tony Arias<br />

is proving to be very popular. We already have<br />

over 100 “Voyagers” booked and still have room<br />

for more. It is going to be a great fun filled, entertainment filled cruise.<br />

See next page for more information.<br />

There are two additional “Bus to the Boat” cruises available before<br />

that. Our next “Bus to the Boat” is a Coastal California cruise on the<br />

Discovery Princess November 2 – 9, <strong>2024</strong>.<br />

And this itinerary will feature an overnight stay in San Francisco.<br />

There will also be two full days to explore San Francisco or the Napa<br />

Valley region.<br />

Also available is a 10 night Baja Mexico cruise on the Grand Princess<br />

January 4 – 14, 2025.<br />

Ports of call include an overnight stay in Cabo San Lucas, La Paz and<br />

Loreto as well as Puerto Vallarta. This is a unique exciting itinerary,<br />

As always the price for these cruises includes all taxes and fees,<br />

round-trip bus transportation from Las Vegas to the Los Angeles pier, a<br />

Princess Plus drink package, all gratuities and unlimited Wi-Fi service<br />

for one devise per guest.<br />

While not a bus to the boat, we also will be escorting “Voyagers”<br />

headed to Alaska round-trip from Seattle, September 14 – 21 on<br />

Princess Cruise Line’s Discovery Princess. Contact us for full details on<br />

this or any of our trips.<br />

Better yet, join us at one of our Vegas Voyagers meetings<br />

this month. We will be at Sun City Summerlin at the Desert<br />

Vista Community Center, Monday <strong>June</strong> 17 at 10:00 am<br />

and at the Sun City McDonald Ranch Community Center<br />

Tuesday <strong>June</strong> 18 at 10:00 am.<br />

We will be discussing all our trips. RSVP by emailing us: fairtravel@<br />

aol.com.<br />

Jamming with the FLT<br />

Vegas Voice Executive Director Bill Caserta is joined by Publisher Dan<br />

in our Scams, Schemes & Senior Safety YouTube video. The video has<br />

received over 7,500 views. Check it out on our website: vegasvoicetv.net.<br />

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The fabulous Folk Legacy Trio jams with Vegas Voyagers during it’s<br />

March cruise. Only the Vegas Voyagers provide such “extras” with its<br />

trips and wait till you see what we have planned with entertainer Tony<br />

Arias for his Hawaiian cruise!


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Musical Director:<br />

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Prices are per person based on double occupancy, subject to availability and<br />

include your cruise, all port charges, taxes and fees, a Princess Plus Beverage package,<br />

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final payment is due.<br />

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In Defense of Dawdling<br />

By: Susan Goldfein / Susan’s Unfiltered Wit<br />

Dawdling has a bad rap. Check the dictionary:<br />

Move slowly, take one’s time; waste time;<br />

idle; linger; take more time than necessary; to<br />

spend time without haste or purpose.<br />

Sounds like a vice. Like a person<br />

who dawdles is first cousin to a<br />

sloth. And isn’t sloth a deadly sin?<br />

If so, then I’m a sinner!<br />

We learn at a young age that<br />

dawdling is morally undesirable. On<br />

a list of “Do’s and Don’ts” dawdling<br />

falls in the “Don’t” column. “Don’t<br />

dawdle over breakfast. You’ll be late<br />

for school.”<br />

Or “Stop dawdling and go do<br />

your homework if you want to get<br />

into Harvard. So, what if you’re<br />

only in second grade.”<br />

Later, we’re the ones issuing the<br />

anti-dawdling warnings to our kids.<br />

We rush to get them to school and perhaps ourselves to work. After<br />

school, there are appointments, games, lessons, rushing with no time<br />

to spare.<br />

<strong>June</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

Don’t forget shopping, preparing meals, laundry, and oh, yes, the<br />

family dog. Weekends bring little relief.<br />

No extra hour of sleep because our future A-Rod or Serena Williams<br />

must be chauffeured to their games. After all, excelling in athletics looks<br />

good on that Harvard application. Life is the antithesis of dawdling; it’s<br />

perpetual motion.<br />

The day finally arrives when your<br />

last child leaves for Punxsutawney<br />

State Junior College (you tried your<br />

best), and the color of life changes<br />

from fire engine red to salmon. Not<br />

quite peaceful pink, because you’re<br />

still working. And there remains the<br />

matter of the dog.<br />

Dawdling is on hold. But<br />

eventually you cross the threshold.<br />

You’re a retired person of a certain<br />

age. Life finally takes on a pinkish<br />

glow.<br />

I do my best dawdling at breakfast.<br />

I’ve never been a morning person,<br />

and frankly don’t understand them.<br />

I’ve always relied on that first cup of coffee to get my engine going,<br />

whereas morning people act like they had a caffeine drip inserted in<br />

their veins at bedtime. Getting myself and others out the door each day<br />

was difficult, like slogging through peanut butter. Nevertheless, I did<br />

what I had to do.<br />

But now, the mornings are luxurious. My life’s finally in step with my<br />

Circadian rhythm, which doesn’t awaken until 10 am.<br />

I’m usually up around seven, and enthusiastically looking forward<br />

to taking my time. I exchange a few grunts with my husband, who’s<br />

more of a morning person than I but remains horizontal until he<br />

smells the coffee.<br />

I don’t mind. I make my way downstairs followed by the dog who<br />

thankfully does not require communication as I let him outside.<br />

While leisurely sipping the second cup, I watch the news on TV. I<br />

reach for the crossword puzzle as a distraction from the latest depressing<br />

predicament.<br />

If I’m successful, I reach for a second puzzle from the other<br />

newspaper. How much time has elapsed? An hour? More? The beauty<br />

is it doesn’t matter.<br />

No early morning appointments, please. No breakfast dates, no golf<br />

games, no doctor’s visits if possible. I’m way too busy dawdling and<br />

loving every precious second.<br />

At some point I do activate. I’m happily productive for the remaining<br />

hours, right up until bedtime. Because tomorrow morning brings a<br />

brand-new opportunity to do my very best to elevate dawdling to an<br />

art form.<br />

Susan Goldfein’s newest book, Laughing My Way Through the<br />

Third Stage, is available at Amazon.com, BN.com, Read her blog<br />

at: www.SusansUnfilteredWit.com. Email Susan: SusanGoldfein@<br />

aol.com.


Celeb’s Son Enriches<br />

Presentation<br />

By: Kathy Manney / Around Our World<br />

Actor and Nevada Lieutenant Governor (1954<br />

-1962) Rex Bell was known for his warm<br />

personality and good looks. On opening day, he was the Tropicana<br />

Hotel’s ribbon cutter.<br />

Twenty-years ago, I had the opportunity to visit the 400,000-acre<br />

Walking Box Ranch near Searchlight, Bell’s former home. The spread<br />

includes a 5,000 square feet two-story Spanish style main house and<br />

guest house.<br />

When I visited the property, it was owned by a mining company.<br />

The Bell home was their company guest house. Today, the property is<br />

maintained by the Bureau of Land Management.<br />

Former Walking Box<br />

Ranch owners, Rex Bell<br />

and Clara Bow were wellknown<br />

Golden Era celebs<br />

and Nevada residents.<br />

Their 1931 marriage set<br />

Hollywood’s trend for quick<br />

Las Vegas weddings. The<br />

couple had two sons.<br />

Clara’s film roles<br />

portrayed a sexually<br />

liberated flapper. Rex was<br />

a true cowboy as well as a<br />

movie cowboy. Hollywood<br />

friends frequently came by train for an escape destination, disembarking<br />

in Nippon to visit the ranch.<br />

Rex opened a western-wear store on Fremont Street. He died in 1962<br />

while campaigning to become Nevada governor.<br />

After my visit, I was asked to give a talk and photo presentation about<br />

the ranch and its former celebrity occupants. Even though having<br />

marginal knowledge about them, I accepted.<br />

Before the program, I was told Rex Bell, Jr. had heard about the<br />

presentation and planned to attend. What had I gotten myself into?<br />

Ahead of the audience arrival, the door opened. A tall, lean man<br />

entered. His build like that once associated with the old west. His pressed<br />

jeans held with a belt with a large silver buckle.<br />

I had never even seen a photograph of Rex Bell, Jr. yet knew this was<br />

him<br />

We eased into conversation. I shared my photographs of his former<br />

family home. He was gracious and touched while reminiscing.<br />

When the presentation began, we gave it together. He discussed the<br />

slides of his parent’s ranch and answered audience questions.<br />

What could have been a borderline success became an enriched,<br />

memorable and enjoyable experience.<br />

Kathy draws her articles from a diverse personal background. She<br />

hopes readers enjoy her column as much as she enjoys the writing and<br />

sharing.<br />

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Campus Chaos<br />

By: Liz Breier / This & That<br />

As a senior citizen I have lived long enough to<br />

witness many riots, disturbances, protests, and<br />

marches. I believe that all those instances had a<br />

common theme – a group of people wanting<br />

something.<br />

The race riots of<br />

the 1960s called for<br />

desegregation. There were<br />

marches on Washington<br />

calling for jobs. The Viet<br />

Nam War era saw plenty of<br />

protests – not all of them<br />

peaceful, but the goal of<br />

the participants was to see<br />

an end to a war that was<br />

being fought on foreign<br />

soil by our men and<br />

women.<br />

In the late ‘60s and<br />

early ‘70s women wanted<br />

equality in the workplace and the rise of the Women’s Liberation<br />

Movement. In the early 2020s there were riots calling for defunding the<br />

police.<br />

The theme of the past riots and protests, peaceful or otherwise, was<br />

that all were calling for change. What we see today, mainly on college<br />

campuses, is something else.<br />

Calls for “From The River to The Sea”, signs with swastikas (the symbol<br />

of the death of 6,000,000<br />

Jews), spitting on Jewish<br />

students, personal physical<br />

attacks, are all something<br />

different.<br />

Truly, if the point of<br />

the protests is to end the<br />

War in Gaza, then say<br />

that, because thankfully,<br />

we live in a nation that<br />

provides us the ability to<br />

speak freely. However, the<br />

precious right of Freedom<br />

of Speech afforded by the<br />

1 st Amendment does not<br />

protect those who incite<br />

riot or promote physical harm or block individuals from lawful entry.<br />

Protesting in favor of an end to war and release of hostages is one<br />

thing, but when it escalates to a point where a segment of the population<br />

is made to feel afraid, or is estopped from going to class, or a cafeteria or<br />

a library, then I fear we have seen the protests go too far.<br />

In the past, I do not recall any dissidents hiding their identity when<br />

they were protesting or marching. In fact, just the opposite.<br />

I saw marches where the participants walked proudly arm-in-arm<br />

chanting for change. If their cause is just, what are these protestors<br />

hiding from?<br />

Perhaps they do not have the courage of their convictions. Perhaps<br />

some are contemplating illegal activity and want to avoid detection.<br />

It seems to me that if they truly believe in their position of calling for<br />

the death of Jews they would gladly state their cause, but instead, I see<br />

them telling reporters they do not wish to speak and turning their backs.<br />

So what is the purpose of all the chaos, especially on college campuses?<br />

As a Jew I believe it is to let us know that we are not wanted, we are in<br />

danger and they would eradicate us if they could.<br />

The anti-Semitic rants give me and many fellow Jews the sense that we<br />

are living what many experienced in Germany in the1930s.<br />

I pray that our government will not succumb to the chants, turmoil<br />

and threats and avoid another Kristallnacht. But we cannot hide in attics<br />

and basements as once was the fate of Jews.<br />

We must speak out, speak up and display our Judaism with pride. Just<br />

as the protesters and agitators believe they have a right to spew their<br />

vitriol, so too do Jews have a right to freely (and without harassment)<br />

enter any campus, building or facility.<br />

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Liz Breier is an ex-New Yorker who retired to Florida for 24 years<br />

before deciding that Nevada means home to her. You can contact<br />

Liz at: bluesky090372@gmail.com.


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<strong>June</strong> is Bustin’ Out All Over!<br />

By: Nedra Paschal / Paschal’s Puzzle<br />

Directions: Each answer word will begin<br />

with the letter J. Example: “_______ and<br />

_______ went up the hill to fetch a pail of<br />

water.” Answers: Jack, Jill.<br />

1. Popular action figure toy: G.I. __________.<br />

2. Professional Canadian baseball team: Toronto Blue<br />

_________.<br />

3. Upbeat, energetic style of dance, with basic steps, from the<br />

1930’s: _____________.<br />

4. Largest cat species in America, as well as a luxury sports car:<br />

__________.<br />

5. Presider of a popular T.V. series featuring courtroom small<br />

claims cases: _______ _______.<br />

6. City in Israel, said to be one of the holiest places in the world:<br />

_______________.<br />

7. Two delicious items to put on breakfast toast: _________<br />

and/or _________.<br />

8. “_________Old Saint Nicholas, lean your ear this way . . .”<br />

9. A student in his third year of college is called a _________.<br />

10. Pop group of the ‘60s and ‘70s: “The ___________<br />

5.” Extra credit: Two members of that group had first names<br />

beginning with J. Who are they? __________, __________.<br />

11. State capitals beginning with J: __________, Alaska;<br />

__________, City, Missouri.<br />

12. Island country in the Caribbean: ___________.<br />

13. Items often worn around necks, wrists, and fingers for<br />

beautifying purposes: __________.<br />

14. I’m serious. This is no ________!<br />

15. Popular TV game show hosted by Alex Trebek from 1984 –<br />

2021: ____________.<br />

16. The above show is currently hosted by the person holding<br />

the record for the longest winning streak on that show: Ken<br />

____________.<br />

17. 1886 book by Robert Louis Stevenson: The Strange Case of<br />

Dr. ______ ____ and Mr. Hyde.<br />

18. Eddie Arcaro, famous _________ of five Kentucky Derby<br />

winners.<br />

19. Medium sized green chili pepper: ______________.<br />

20. From the Pledge of Allegiance: “ With liberty and<br />

_________ for all.”<br />

ANSWERS<br />

1. Joe 2. Jays 3. Jitterbug 4. Jaguar 5. Judge Judy 6. Jerusalem<br />

7. Jam, Jelly 8. Jolly 9. Junior 10. Jackson, Jackie, Jermaine 11.<br />

<strong>June</strong>au, Jefferson 12. Jamaica 13. Jewelry 14. Joke 15. Jeopardy<br />

16. Jennings 17. Jekyll 18. Jockey 19. Jalapeño 20. Justice<br />

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In the Year…<br />

By: Mark Richards / Games & Shows<br />

Guess the year that these events occurred. How<br />

many do you know? No cheating! Answers<br />

below.<br />

1. Henry Ford produced his first Model T Automobile _____<br />

2. Joe DiMaggio married Marilyn Monroe ______<br />

3. Fidel Castro gains control of Cuba _______<br />

4. The TV show Bonanza premiers on NBC ______<br />

5. Caesars Palace in Las Vegas opens _______<br />

6. The Super Sonic Concorde made its first flight ______<br />

7. Cigarette advertisements were banned on TV ______<br />

8. Actor James Dean was killed in a traffic accident _____<br />

9. Mother’s Day began ______<br />

10. Walt Disney World opened in Orlando ______<br />

11. Rodney King was severely beat in Los Angeles _____<br />

12. Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” album was released _____<br />

13. Facebook was launched _______<br />

14. Elizabeth the 2 nd is crowned Queen of England _____<br />

15. President Nixon resigns from office ______<br />

16. Meet the Press makes in television debut _____<br />

17. The world’s first drive-in movie opens ______<br />

18. The first legal gambling casino opens in Atlantic City<br />

_______<br />

ANSWERS<br />

1. 1908 2. 1954 3. 1959 4. 1959 5. 1966 6. 1969 7. 1971<br />

8. 1955 9. 1914 10. 1971 11. 1991 12. 1982 13. 2004 14.<br />

1952 15. 1974 16. 1947 17. 1933 18. 1978<br />

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