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shelter for the night. They laughed<br />

with me and cried with me. We<br />

experienced harrowing things<br />

involving war and all its ugliness. I<br />

learnt to pray under threat of death,<br />

and I learnt that politicians are a lying,<br />

deceiving lot. Up until then, I had no<br />

real political ideology. All I knew was<br />

that there was a worldwide battle<br />

going on between communism and<br />

capitalism, and by virtue of my birth, I<br />

had ended up on the capitalist side.”<br />

Eventually all of this ended, and Pieter<br />

reapplied for admission to med school.<br />

Those days having been a lieutenant<br />

and being part of a fighting unit in the<br />

SADF were seen as a sign of at least<br />

Pieter and his wife Karin<br />

some degree of grit, and with these<br />

bonus points Pieter was selected for<br />

medical studies. “To my amazement,<br />

I passed my first year at Tuks with a<br />

distinction,” he says. “It dawned on<br />

me that I might actually be able to<br />

make it! Commune life was wild and<br />

wonderful, but between the partying<br />

and swotting like a madman when<br />

needed, time flew by, and eventually I<br />

was a young, qualified doctor.”<br />

Working as a doctor in a public<br />

hospital is very similar to combat,<br />

Pieter explains, with lots of sights,<br />

sounds, smells, fear and desperation,<br />

and an all-pervasive sense of sadness.<br />

“I loved it, and realised I could do it<br />

well and make a huge difference in<br />

people’s lives,” he says. “The labour ward<br />

really overwhelms most med students<br />

when they enter it for the first time,<br />

but I thrived there despite the mindnumbing<br />

hours and the total physical<br />

exhaustion that comes from being on<br />

call for 36 hours.” Pieter got better and<br />

better at managing a busy labour unit,<br />

feeling at home in the gynaecology<br />

outpatients as well as doing theatre<br />

work. “Surgery was very challenging,”<br />

he adds, “but as time went on, I<br />

realised I had steady hands and<br />

could perform difficult procedures<br />

exceptionally well. Specialising was just<br />

the next logical step, and I took to it<br />

like a duck to water.”<br />

Pieter met his wife Karen in the busy<br />

labour ward in Kalafong Hospital, and<br />

says the minute he saw her, he knew<br />

they should get married and have<br />

children together. “It was a stormy<br />

affair, and after some pushing and<br />

shoving, we eventually settled down<br />

and realised we were meant to write<br />

our story together.” In 1995, after<br />

having graduated as a gynaecologist<br />

and Karen as a general practitioner,<br />

they decided to open a private<br />

consulting service in Nelspruit. “Karen<br />

and I worked like demons in those first<br />

few years,” says Pieter. “Permanently<br />

on call with lots of after-hours and<br />

weekend emergencies made for a<br />

stressful life, and it certainly took its toll<br />

on both of us. Somehow we managed<br />

to hold on and build something,<br />

including a home and a family with<br />

three boys.”<br />

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