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MAY <strong>2024</strong> 29<br />
▲ ATHLETE MEETING AT<br />
THE CASSADAGAMAN.<br />
MIKE FRAME IMAGES<br />
KICKING OFF THE 20TH<br />
YEAR OF HVTC SUMMER<br />
TRI SERIES. PAUL SUTTON<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
▼ CASSADAGA KIDS RACE,<br />
MARK CHEERING ON ALL<br />
OF THE FINISHERS.<br />
MIKE FRAME IMAGES<br />
they can go on gentle walks and enjoy<br />
the seasons. They also enjoy visiting historical<br />
sites, going to concerts, and riding<br />
bikes. They are huge Buffalo Bills fans and<br />
go to games whenever possible. Since they<br />
just love being together, they pretty much<br />
do everything together. Tonia says that<br />
one of her favorite things is listening to<br />
Mark play the guitar and sing for me. Most<br />
people may not know that Mark loves to<br />
split wood and sit by the campfire.<br />
Tonia’s role in the business is handling<br />
the administrative side. “My background<br />
in front office management and service<br />
allows me to deliver an excellent experience.<br />
We emphasize the no cut-off times<br />
for our races, and so anyone who starts<br />
can finish. The triathlon community is<br />
like none other; encouraging, celebratory,<br />
generous and genuine. I’m a beginner triathlete.<br />
I enjoy swimming and biking, but<br />
not running,” she said. Most importantly,<br />
what drives her is getting new people<br />
involved, “I really want them to make triathlon<br />
a part of their life.”<br />
For Mark, he recognizes that triathlon<br />
is a very social sport. He encourages<br />
people to meet other triathletes at their<br />
weekly training sessions in Cassadaga. He<br />
believes in welcoming everyone to their<br />
events. “When I was a kid, I was always<br />
inviting the not-so-talented kids to play<br />
sports, because I hated seeing people<br />
being left out,” he said.<br />
They both have future goals. Tonia<br />
loves riding her e-bike with Mark. She’s<br />
done an 88-mile ride, but would like to<br />
do a century ride of 100 miles. However,<br />
she said their first priority is growing the<br />
business. “We are not seeking to have bigger<br />
crowds, since we like the 350-person<br />
capacity. Our goal is to grow the sport, be<br />
grassroots, and be so dialed-in to the athlete-centered,<br />
friendly racing experience<br />
that participants leave having a fabulous<br />
time – and a sense of accomplishment.”<br />
Mark added, “I’m not competing right<br />
now; however, I may get into shape for my<br />
60th birthday in three years.”<br />
Tonia is really good with people and<br />
customer service, but you may be surprised<br />
to learn is that she’s actually an<br />
introvert. She is also super sentimental<br />
and it’s hard for her let go of things,<br />
“However, after moving eight times in six<br />
years I learned to part with most of it.”<br />
Mark is a lover of animals and trees. He<br />
is also a very emotional person and deeply<br />
grateful for his life and gifts. His best<br />
teacher and where he finds the most<br />
peace is in nature. “I’ll sit and look at our<br />
lake for hours just thinking about our life,<br />
and how to proceed into the future.” He<br />
added, “If I hadn’t discovered triathlon, I<br />
could have been a lumberjack. I love chain<br />
sawing, splitting, stacking, and burning<br />
wood in our campfires.”<br />
Tonia’s father was ill or injured most<br />
of her life, and the family spent years<br />
with a hospital bed in their living room.<br />
“He never quit. During the last decade of<br />
his life, he gave back to others in a very<br />
small, meaningful way that touched thousands<br />
of lives around the world. Giving<br />
is powerful. Loving even more so,” she<br />
recalled. Tonia’s grandparents taught<br />
her what was important and gave her the<br />
courage to make the right decisions.<br />
Mark recalled that he didn’t have an<br />
easy childhood. “I could have chosen<br />
other paths that would have been expected,<br />
but I found joy in life at every turn, and<br />
constantly learn from those around me,”<br />
he reflected.<br />
They’re content and at peace with<br />
their lives. Tonia spent most of her youth<br />
and adult life wanting to change places<br />
with just about anyone. She now admits,<br />
“I would not change places with anyone. In<br />
2015, my life changed completely when I<br />
reconnected with Mark. I love my life, my<br />
husband, my home and my sons. Each day,<br />
I tell myself how completely blessed I am.”<br />
Mark said that he wouldn’t want to<br />
be anyone else either. “My life has been<br />
incredibly beautiful and challenging,<br />
and it’s not over. I have so many goals to<br />
accomplish; business, relationship, and<br />
personal,” he stated.<br />
Having competed for years now, I<br />
can say that their races are truly athlete<br />
focused. If I do well in a triathlon, I always<br />
leap into Mark’s arms and give him a big<br />
hug before I step up on the podium. If it<br />
▲ COACH MARK<br />
COMPETING AT<br />
STTC SUMMER TRI<br />
SERIES IN 2022.<br />
MIKE FRAME IMAGES<br />
weren’t for Wilson Endurance <strong>Sports</strong>, I’d<br />
have to travel a lot farther to participate in<br />
triathlons. Many of us in the community<br />
are very grateful for their help in living our<br />
passion. Finally, Tonia and Mark, are two<br />
of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. They<br />
would give you the shirt off their back,<br />
even if you registered at the last minute,<br />
and they ran out of race shirts.<br />
Dr. Tom Denham (careersintransition@<br />
yahoo.com) is a career counselor in private<br />
practice. He loves to share his enthusiasm<br />
for mountaineering, kayaking, curling,<br />
and ice/rock climbing, but only when he’s<br />
not trying to win his age group in running,<br />
duathlons and triathlons. He enjoys spend<br />
time with his fiancée Lisa, and their two<br />
dogs, living in their converted van down<br />
by the river.