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The Elim Connection, April 2024

The Elim Connection is a community publication distributed three times per year to all residents of Elim Village, across two campuses. It is also shared with subscribers to our mailing list and those visiting our communities. The Elim Connection focuses on the stories and lifestyle of those living and aging in place at our two retirement communities.

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SAY YES TO<br />

NEW ADVENTURES!<br />

ISSUE 21 SPRING <strong>2024</strong>


From<br />

the Editor<br />

It’s SPRING! (Anyone else’s soul singing with delight<br />

right now?) Even though we experience this season<br />

literally every year, somehow it feels brand new each<br />

time. <strong>The</strong> hope that arises with the warmth breaking<br />

through erratic rain showers and crisp mornings<br />

enlivens me, and I imagine it does the same for you.<br />

This experience mirrors the life budding forth around<br />

us—what a truly beautiful season we are in.<br />

I trust you’ll enjoy this 21st edition of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Elim</strong><br />

<strong>Connection</strong>. You’ll discover a mix of content that<br />

will stir excitement, pique interest, inspire, encourage<br />

reflection, and foster connection, thanks to the many<br />

talented writers who contributed. Isn’t it amazing how<br />

our words can bring life too?<br />

Katrina LaRoy,<br />

Manager of Marketing & Communications<br />

Smiles from recent Easter<br />

events at both Fleetwood<br />

and Garrison Crossing! SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 3


LIFE AT<br />

ELIM VILLAGE<br />

A snapshot of the last few months, with community highlights from <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood (FW), including<br />

Independent Living (IL), Assisted Living (AL), and Full Care (FC), and <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing (GC).<br />

FOOTLOOSE IN<br />

GARRISON CROSSING!<br />

Our GC campus recently hosted two line dancing classes in<br />

the Selkirk Multi-Purpose Room, both of which were a hit!<br />

Led by a husband and wife duo with 10+ years of experience,<br />

these introductory sessions attracted enthusiastic participants<br />

who enjoyed both spectating and participating. Lorna, an IL<br />

resident, summed it up by saying, “This was great fun!” We<br />

look forward to hosting more enjoyable events like these for<br />

Garrison Crossing residents in the future.<br />

GOEDE REIS—<br />

BON VOYAGE!<br />

Ever since its introduction at the<br />

Health & Wellness Fair in October<br />

2023, IL residents at FW have been<br />

immersing themselves in the world<br />

of Virtual Reality (VR)—traveling<br />

to national parks in Canada and the<br />

tulip fields in Holland, all the way<br />

over to the iconic Eiffel Tower<br />

in Paris! Be prepared to hear, and<br />

say, “This is amazing!” if you try it<br />

out yourself. VR unlocks a world<br />

of possibilities for those with travel<br />

constraints, and we are so thrilled<br />

residents are enjoying it!<br />

2 ND FLOOR<br />

LOUNGE RENO<br />

Some rooms in <strong>The</strong> Emerald (AL<br />

at FW) have received a refreshing<br />

update. Last year, the computer<br />

lab was transformed into the new<br />

Innovation Station, and recently, the<br />

2 nd Floor Lounge was revitalized!<br />

With access to the outdoor gardens<br />

through the lounge, the goal was<br />

to incorporate more nature into<br />

this room by adding a green accent<br />

wall, fresh plants, and a living moss<br />

art piece on the wall. “I love to draw<br />

in this new, bright space,” shares AL<br />

resident, Irene Mills.<br />

GREEN DELIGHTS<br />

IN FULL CARE<br />

FC residents at FW embraced the<br />

spirit of St. Patrick’s Day with a<br />

themed lunch. Residents indulged<br />

in green delights like non-alcoholic<br />

green beer and savoury broccoli<br />

cheddar soup, alongside tasty dishes<br />

such as creamy colcannon potatoes,<br />

beef stew, and Irish stout chocolate<br />

cupcakes—yum! We always look<br />

forward to bringing FC residents<br />

together for special occasions<br />

like this, where smiles, laughter,<br />

and community is formed among<br />

residents and staff.<br />

CHILLIWACK<br />

ACADEMY OF MUSIC<br />

Throughout the initial months of <strong>2024</strong>, Garrison Crossing has<br />

been graced with monthly classical music concerts. Hosted<br />

by <strong>The</strong> Chilliwack Academy of Music, these performances<br />

showcase talented musicians. On March 15, a cello and piano<br />

duo captivated the audience, following a classical piano<br />

performance by the renowned Dr. Boris Konovalov in January.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se events have proven to be a resounding success, and<br />

residents can’t wait for the next performance!<br />

CALL FOR WRITERS!<br />

If you’re a resident at <strong>Elim</strong> Village, you’re eligible to write for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Elim</strong> <strong>Connection</strong>.<br />

Having a mixture of staff and resident voices is one of the best things about this<br />

magazine, and we’re always on the hunt for talented writers in our midst.<br />

We publish <strong>The</strong> <strong>Elim</strong> <strong>Connection</strong> three times a year, and curate content to align<br />

with our aim of connecting us together. Examples include stories about people or<br />

happenings within our villages, stories from your own life, or a more contemplative,<br />

reflective piece that gives insight into your thoughts.<br />

If you’re interested in submitting a piece for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Elim</strong> <strong>Connection</strong>, please contact<br />

Katrina LaRoy at klaroy@elimvillage.com, or by phone at 604-583-3546 ext 8622.<br />

4 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2024</strong> SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 5


Faith in Action<br />

WRITTEN BY RACHEL NEDELEC, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

<strong>The</strong> origins of <strong>Elim</strong> Village are a testament to the power of community and the resilience of faith.<br />

At its heart is a small group of Christians who participated in a bible study in the early 90s. Wilma<br />

van Brummelen, a resident at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing, was one of those individuals.<br />

However, the roots of Wilma’s journey can be traced back decades earlier when she and her<br />

family immigrated to Canada.<br />

At the age of 15, Wilma found herself embarking on an 11-day voyage across the Atlantic Ocean,<br />

from Holland to Canada. Despite battling seasickness and recalling moments of “feeding the fish”<br />

with a chuckle, attending church on board provided her with comfort<br />

amidst the waves of change shaping her young life.<br />

Canada presented new challenges for Wilma. At the time, Wilma’s<br />

mom was pregnant with her ninth child, and it became Wilma’s<br />

responsibility to stay home from school and take care of the<br />

baby. “I didn’t mind,” she says, “I was happy to have a little<br />

sister instead of another brother!” Her parents’ mantra<br />

(shared by many other immigrants at the time) brought<br />

her strength during these times: Ora et Labora—<br />

a Latin phrase which means “pray and work”.<br />

“You don’t just pray; you have to put in<br />

the work too,” shares Wilma.<br />

This phrase echoed throughout Wilma’s upbringing<br />

and future in Canada. It stuck with her when she<br />

met her husband, Harro. It rang through her mind<br />

when they had children and moved across Canada<br />

for work, eventually landing in Surrey in the late<br />

1970s. And it fueled her when she decided to pursue<br />

her childhood dream of becoming a kindergarten<br />

teacher after her youngest child entered grade<br />

one. Driven by prayer and hard work, Wilma took<br />

classes at Kwantlen Polytechnic University and later<br />

taught at Langley Christian School for 22 years.<br />

As the van Brummelens settled in Surrey, Wilma<br />

and Harro became active members of the Christian<br />

Reformed Church (now known as Fleetwood<br />

Church). Later, they joined a young couples’ bible<br />

study that would ultimately transform the lives of<br />

older adults. And Wilma was right there, at the<br />

heart of it all, seeing the origins of <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

unfold before her eyes.<br />

“I recall sitting at bible study one day and hearing<br />

another member say, ‘I have an idea’.” <strong>The</strong> idea was a<br />

Christian community where couples would be able<br />

to stay together, even if their health circumstances<br />

changed. “This idea came about after we read<br />

the book of James, which talks a lot about faith in<br />

action,” she adds. So, the group began unpacking<br />

this idea together—an idea that we’d come to<br />

know as <strong>Elim</strong> Village.<br />

Fast forward to today, Wilma finds herself living<br />

amidst the fruition of the vision she discussed in<br />

a small group over 30 years ago. “I know lots of<br />

people at Fleetwood,” she shares, listing off familiar<br />

names like the Vandermeys and the Wierdas, as<br />

well as Gertrude Elgersma, whom she calls every<br />

Monday morning! Despite these deep connections,<br />

Wilma wanted to be closer to family for support<br />

after Harro passed away in 2014, leading her to<br />

make the decision to move to Chilliwack.<br />

As Wilma settles into the ‘Independent Plus’<br />

lifestyle at <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn, she finds comfort in the<br />

familiar cadence of daily life—the shared meals,<br />

the laughter, and the support of friends. And as she<br />

looks towards the future, Wilma sees <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

as more than just a retirement community. It’s a<br />

home where faith meets action—or as she calls it,<br />

Ora et Labora.<br />

Wilma enjoying a game<br />

of chess in the Selkirk<br />

Multi-Purpose Room<br />

in <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cedar!<br />

Exciting news—<strong>Elim</strong>’s Board of Directors has<br />

approved ‘<strong>The</strong> Cedar’ for <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison<br />

Crossing! Work will commence on this fourth<br />

Independent Living life lease building mid-year.<br />

With the approval of this building project, <strong>Elim</strong><br />

enters the final chapter of construction for IL at<br />

our Chilliwack site, as <strong>The</strong> Cedar is expected to<br />

complete the IL community for the village.<br />

GC is currently home to 307 suites. <strong>The</strong> Cedar will<br />

offer an additional 73,324 sq.ft. of modern housing<br />

inventory to our village. This five-storey building<br />

will house 55 suites, a spacious amenity room,<br />

a tranquil reading room, and a games and craft<br />

room for social activities and personal relaxation.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cedar will be situated on the southwestern<br />

corner of the property and will share a parkade<br />

with the adjacent Maple and future amenity building.<br />

Construction of <strong>The</strong> Cedar will begin in just a few<br />

months, with an anticipated completion date in<br />

early 2026! If you have friends or family interested in<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cedar, have them call 604-769-0022 to speak<br />

with our Presentation Centre.


Innovation at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Meet KERi !<br />

Have you met our newest resident? KERi recently<br />

moved into <strong>Elim</strong>’s Education Centre, located on the<br />

lower floor of <strong>The</strong> Harrison at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood.<br />

Having an open and willing spirit to embrace<br />

a new way of doing things has been part of<br />

<strong>Elim</strong>’s ethos since its inception (in the 90s,<br />

there weren’t too many retirement homes<br />

offering an aging-in-place model, making our<br />

founders trailblazers!) This proactive approach<br />

aligns with our mission to bring the best in<br />

housing, wellness, and care, and—as a result—<br />

we are characterized by innovation through and<br />

through—across both of our villages, and in<br />

every department.<br />

You’ve read in previous <strong>Elim</strong> <strong>Connection</strong>s of<br />

new technologies we’ve adopted, such as our<br />

hungry ORCA food processor, the Tovertafel “magic<br />

table” in Full Care, virtual reality experiences, or<br />

the introduction of the Innovation Station located<br />

in Assisted Living. More recently, our Facilities teams<br />

have adopted a new security system, which comes<br />

with so many benefits that Kris and Neil are<br />

tickled pink (if you can believe it).<br />

Below (and beside), we share a few more examples<br />

of innovation across <strong>Elim</strong> Village. <strong>The</strong> first is a system<br />

you’ve likely heard of, although we’ve not written<br />

about it extensively…it’s called Yardi. And the second,<br />

is about our newest resident at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood,<br />

named KERi.<br />

KERi is a full-size-adult, innovative skills manikin,<br />

designed to simulate over 35 nursing and medical<br />

procedures. From bandaging and wound dressing to<br />

patient transfer techniques, KERi provides a handson<br />

learning opportunity for practicum students and<br />

for staff looking to refine their skills.<br />

One remarkable feature about KERi is its adaptability.<br />

It can easily be converted to its male counterpart,<br />

GERi , by changing out a few aspects of its anatomy.<br />

It’s also designed with a lifelike appearance, including<br />

skin wrinkles and folds, and provides a realistic range<br />

of motion and patient positioning. This makes every<br />

training session a true-to-life and engaging experience.<br />

KERi in a sling, one of the many patient care simulations<br />

that can be performed at <strong>Elim</strong>’s Education Centre.<br />

Yardi—A New Way to Manage Data<br />

In the not-so-distant past, the medical system relied on<br />

clipboards, paper charts, and hand-written notes. Now,<br />

if you were to bump into a nurse from our Community<br />

Life team at Fleetwood, you would see them equipped<br />

with a fashionable mobile tablet, through which they<br />

input data into an Electronic Health Record (EHR). EHR<br />

is a module of a much bigger system called Yardi.<br />

Yardi is a cloud-based, enterprise information system.<br />

It connects information from different departments<br />

in order to manage data and help with the flow of<br />

communication. Yardi consists of multiple modules,<br />

such as EHR, that connect to form a centralized<br />

database. Prior to the development of cloud-based<br />

solutions like Yardi, companies had little choice but to<br />

leverage a smattering of systems to manage the various<br />

aspects of their business. This led to siloed information,<br />

redundancy, and inefficiencies, but today, solutions like<br />

Yardi open up a whole new world of data management,<br />

and to great advantage.<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> began transitioning to Yardi in 2018, starting<br />

with Finance as the first department onboarded. In<br />

the subsequent years, additional teams have become<br />

‘live’ in the system, as more modules have been<br />

implemented. Today, staff in Finance, Marketing,<br />

Operations, Community Life in Fleetwood, and<br />

Garrison Crossing use Yardi on a daily basis.<br />

More recently, our Wellness teams (at both villages)<br />

have gone live in a module called Wellness Elevate.<br />

Through this module, staff can create and publish<br />

monthly activity calendars, as well as track things<br />

Did you know?<br />

like program attendance. This work was previously<br />

conducted in a separate program, siloed from the rest<br />

of <strong>Elim</strong>’s data, but now it is centralized.<br />

In <strong>2024</strong>, additional modules will be implemented,<br />

including EHR for the Home Care team in Garrison<br />

Crossing. Looking back, the progress of the Yardi<br />

project over the years is apparent, and it’s encouraging.<br />

On a daily basis, we experience the benefits of<br />

this innovative solution, which include enhanced<br />

customer service to residents and families, while also<br />

supporting staff in their daily work.<br />

?<br />

During the implementation of Wellness Elevate, <strong>Elim</strong> was given the unique opportunity to be beta<br />

partners with Yardi on the development of this system. Yardi has implemented much of <strong>Elim</strong>’s feedback,<br />

and the new and improved module is now being used by wellness professionals across North America!<br />

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Spring Chorale<br />

FRANK DEVRIES,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

Not only does Frank write stories, but he also pens<br />

poems and songs. In fact, Wilma van Brummelen<br />

remembers singing his songs with her kindergarten<br />

class! Enjoy this beautiful piece he wrote about spring.<br />

Silent seeds in quiet slumber<br />

Long for light and sun and sky<br />

Waiting for the words of waking<br />

Breaking up their lullaby<br />

Drowsy dreaming in the darkness<br />

Stirring soft in silent soil<br />

Yearn for freedom, wind, and living<br />

Slowly start their gentle toil<br />

Urgent searching faster, higher<br />

Tiring task now nearly done<br />

Breaking from the womb of darkness<br />

By the light of smiling sun<br />

Born again in bursts of splendour<br />

All the flowers and grasses sing<br />

One in worship, thank, and bless<br />

<strong>The</strong> Giver of the gift of spring<br />

Behind<br />

the Cover<br />

You may have heard it said that “nothing<br />

compares to the simple pleasure of riding a<br />

bike.” For residents of <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison<br />

Crossing, this sentiment rings true. Beginning<br />

in 2022, our Chilliwack village has enjoyed<br />

a partnership with the University of the<br />

Fraser Valley (UFV) and their Trishaw Rides<br />

initiative. A trishaw is a three-wheeled<br />

bicycle that accommodates a pilot rider with<br />

passengers. In contrast to a rickshaw, the<br />

trishaw situates the pilot at the back, with<br />

passengers up front, giving them a wide-open<br />

experience of the world before them.<br />

<strong>The</strong> UFV trishaw program is associated with<br />

the global Cycling Without Age (CWA)<br />

initiative (cyclingwithoutage.ca), which has a<br />

vision to ensure that every Canadian has<br />

the opportunity to feel the wind in their hair.<br />

<strong>The</strong> guiding principles underpinning CWA<br />

are generosity (volunteer pilots); slowness (time<br />

to talk and enjoy nature and the outdoors);<br />

storytelling (listening to the older adult<br />

passengers); relationships (building trust and<br />

quality of life); and without age (equity and<br />

inclusion), all within a natural environment.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first season of offering trishaw rides to<br />

Garrison Crossing residents was such a hit, that<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> supplied a small grant to UFV through <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Elim</strong> Foundation to help fund the continued<br />

operation of the program. <strong>The</strong> program now<br />

has over 10 trained UFV student pilots<br />

working as part of the trishaw team. Each pilot<br />

receives training prior to embarking on their<br />

first ride, and these workshops are led by Dr.<br />

Canning (UFV) as well as Katie Stam, who is<br />

our very own Community Life & Wellness<br />

Coordinator at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing.<br />

In addition to providing a fun and memorable<br />

experience, the trishaw program also provides<br />

an exciting research opportunity. Student pilots<br />

and UFV faculty members are investigating<br />

the impacts of intergenerational engagement<br />

associated with the trishaw rides. Several <strong>Elim</strong><br />

residents have had the opportunity to participate<br />

in this research, which explores the reciprocal<br />

benefits for both generations. <strong>The</strong> UFV team has<br />

learned that passengers love the opportunity to<br />

be outside and participate in something unique,<br />

while the younger pilots really enjoy meeting and<br />

chatting with their older passengers.<br />

UFV personnel have already had a few<br />

opportunities to present their research findings<br />

to various audiences, including at the Canadian<br />

Association on Gerontology in Toronto this<br />

past fall. This research is ongoing, and now with<br />

the arrival of spring, both the student pilots and<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> residents are looking forward to continuing<br />

the program, the conversation, and collectively<br />

feeling the wind in their hair.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> trishaw is great!<br />

It’s nice to come down<br />

by the river; the scenery<br />

is just so beautiful here.”<br />

– Joyce Ross, GC Resident<br />

Follow <strong>Elim</strong> Online!<br />

Want to learn more about the activities happening<br />

at each village, like the trishaw program?<br />

Join <strong>Elim</strong>’s vibrant, online community! Follow us<br />

on social media to see the latest events, updates,<br />

and to read inspiring stories. Find us on Facebook,<br />

Instagram, or LinkedIn by searching “<strong>Elim</strong> Village”,<br />

and join in on the fun!<br />

Facebook.com/<strong>Elim</strong>Village<br />

Instagram: @<strong>Elim</strong>Village<br />

LinkedIn.com/<strong>Elim</strong>Village<br />

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SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 11


Staff Spotlight<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

ALBERT ZEHR,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

Over the years, Albert has written proverbs for everyday life on<br />

the topics of personal growth, spiritual life, relationships, family,<br />

and a few “nuggets of wisdom”—below are some of them!<br />

Proverbs<br />

For Faith & Life<br />

HILLARY<br />

Hello, my name is<br />

Hillary. I recently took<br />

on the role as the Wellness Supervisor at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood, but I’ve actually spent a total of 12 years<br />

in various roles (such as an Assisted Living Worker<br />

for 9 years), starting in 2005! I absolutely love the<br />

mission and vision of <strong>Elim</strong>—it’s why I returned in<br />

2020, without hesitation, after living overseas in<br />

Indonesia with my family for 6 years.<br />

I truly believe that those who work at <strong>Elim</strong> are<br />

invested in creating the optimal place, with the<br />

highest quality of services, for older adults as they<br />

age in place. Our unique and special services make<br />

it a blessing to work towards our mission every day!<br />

I’ve learned so much through my daily interactions<br />

with residents, such as how life doesn’t stop once<br />

you’ve moved out of the home you’ve raised your<br />

children in. It will look different, but it can still be very<br />

rewarding and enjoyable! That’s why I believe it’s<br />

important to always have a “what’s next?” mentality,<br />

and to treasure each moment.<br />

Outside of work, I love to spend time with my<br />

husband and four children aged 12, 14, 16, and 17.<br />

We enjoy going outdoors for walks, bike rides, road<br />

trips, and camping, as well as exploring as many<br />

different areas as possible. I also enjoy painting,<br />

cooking new dishes, and spending time with our little<br />

dog Bobo, who we brought back from Indonesia.<br />

KATIE<br />

Hi there, my name is Katie. Just<br />

like some of you, I watched <strong>Elim</strong><br />

Village Garrison Crossing being built over the years.<br />

A few years later, while I was working on my Masters<br />

of Science in Gerontology, I enrolled in a two-day<br />

workshop held at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood. As I walked<br />

around the beautiful campus, I saw happy residents<br />

and staff who thoroughly enjoyed their jobs. It left a<br />

very big impression on me.<br />

This experience ignited my passion to serve in a<br />

community like <strong>Elim</strong>, and today, I’ve been part of<br />

the GC team for just over a year and half, serving<br />

as the Community Life & Wellness Coordinator. It’s<br />

been a fulfilling journey planning events for residents,<br />

managing the Clearwater Spa, and working alongside<br />

other departments, all while connecting with the<br />

wonderful residents who call <strong>Elim</strong> ‘home’!<br />

In the workplace, I aspire to make a meaningful<br />

difference in the lives of residents each and every<br />

day by advocating for them and striving to create a<br />

positive impact. <strong>Elim</strong> holds a special place in my heart<br />

as it aligns perfectly with my faith and passion for older<br />

adults, whom I’ve been working with since age 16.<br />

When I’m not at work, you can find me spending<br />

time with my dog Hazel, or exploring the outdoors<br />

through biking and kayaking. Family is also incredibly<br />

important to me, and I cherish each moment I spend<br />

with my two nephews and three nieces.<br />

If I start my morning thanking<br />

God with song and dance,<br />

my day will go much better<br />

and not just by chance.<br />

Born in a family,<br />

that’s how we<br />

all got our start.<br />

No matter the<br />

issues, we agree<br />

to never depart.<br />

We may differ in<br />

opinions, some<br />

things right,<br />

others wrong.<br />

But that family<br />

bond will remain<br />

forever strong.<br />

If we are one body,<br />

then if I hurt you,<br />

I am hurting myself.<br />

“If I had more time” is an excuse and idle thought,<br />

I’ll never have more or less than the time that I’ve got.<br />

So, I’ll turn from vain wishes & appreciate my present lot.<br />

I’ll deal realistically with what is and not with what is not.<br />

Is my time of prayer about<br />

expressing my choice?<br />

Or is it a time to listen<br />

and hear His voice?<br />

<strong>The</strong> measure of life is<br />

not how fast and how<br />

much we can talk, but in<br />

the integrity and impact<br />

of our daily walk.<br />

When I forgive others, it’s not just them<br />

that I set free; the one who gains the most is<br />

actually me. You may win the argument and<br />

bring the debate to an end, but what have<br />

you gained if you lost your friend?<br />

To<br />

change<br />

the fruit,<br />

we need<br />

to deal<br />

with the<br />

root.<br />

Love can:<br />

- Open a gate<br />

- Dispel hate<br />

- Disarm fate<br />

- Excuse being late


Be a<br />

Blessing<br />

WRITTEN BY KATRINA LAROY, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

What would your days hold if you woke up each<br />

morning and determined, “Today, I’m going to be a<br />

blessing”? That’s how Gwen tries to live.<br />

Gwen Smith is a resident in Independent Living at<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood, where she’s resided for<br />

over a decade. She moved in at the sprightly age of<br />

64, when she was still working as a nurse aide in a<br />

long-term care building. <strong>The</strong>re, she staffed a care<br />

unit for those with brain injuries and Alzheimer’s.<br />

“I loved it,” she says. “Many times, I would sit with<br />

people and hold their hand during their final hours.<br />

It was a privilege to be there, so they weren’t<br />

alone.” It takes a special kind of person to work<br />

in an environment like that, but Gwen was already<br />

practicing being a blessing even then.<br />

Gwen has two boys and six grandchildren, and<br />

even before retiring, she was an active grandma.<br />

She would babysit, chauffeur the kids to sports,<br />

and help with school drop-off and pick-up. Being<br />

“Nana Gwen” in this way kept her life full for two<br />

decades, but just in the last year the two youngest<br />

have become independent. Gwen is no longer<br />

needed in the same way. While the new freedom<br />

has its benefits, in all honesty, it’s been a tough<br />

transition. “I went from going full tilt to a dead<br />

stop,” she comments. <strong>The</strong> new, slower pace has<br />

allowed more time to think—and more time to<br />

feel. <strong>The</strong> arthritis that had long been present now<br />

felt more pronounced somehow. And then, the<br />

headaches began. Gwen tried to keep her chin up.<br />

“You have to keep moving; you have to stay positive.<br />

What’s the alternative?” Soon, relief came for the<br />

headaches, as Gwen began to visit a chiropractor,<br />

as recommended by her friend, Penny.<br />

To Gwen’s surprise and delight, these new visits<br />

brought more than just pain relief—they also<br />

brought new relationships, and a sharpened<br />

outlook on life. One day, the chiropractor<br />

encouraged her to think of a guiding word for<br />

the year; one word with which to live by. Upon<br />

giving this some thought, Gwen believed the Lord<br />

brought the following word to mind—blessing.<br />

She shared it with her chiropractor. This word<br />

perfectly aligned with his experience of her, as well<br />

as that of his staff team. “You’re kind of a special<br />

patient,” they said to her. “You’re always happy, and<br />

you have a good attitude.” When she came in for<br />

her next appointment, she was touched when they<br />

presented her with heart-shaped earrings with the<br />

word “blessing” etched on them.<br />

Guided by her word of the year, it was a natural<br />

progression to become involved in a new volunteer<br />

opportunity through <strong>Elim</strong>. <strong>The</strong> school adjacent<br />

to <strong>Elim</strong>’s property was looking for volunteers to<br />

read to their school children. With time on her<br />

hands, and a love for children in her heart, Gwen<br />

signed up. She was soon partnered with a tenyear-old<br />

boy who had recently moved to Canada<br />

as a refugee with his family. <strong>The</strong> two formed an<br />

immediate connection, and Gwen enjoys reading<br />

to him on Thursday mornings. When she arrives,<br />

he runs up and gives her a great big hug. She is his<br />

“Nana Gwen” now too.<br />

Nana Gwen is still, of course, involved with her<br />

own grandchildren, despite having less day-today<br />

interaction. <strong>The</strong> family has been through a lot<br />

together, and it is perhaps the pain of refinement<br />

that has blossomed them into people of resilience<br />

and character. If you were to know, you would be<br />

quite torn up to hear of the many painful moments<br />

from Gwen’s life. Some of the pain is from long<br />

before the grandchildren arrived, but the trials<br />

of life didn’t stop: a granddaughter diagnosed<br />

with Type 1 diabetes at the tender age of five; a<br />

grandson diagnosed with osteogenic sarcoma at 16.<br />

<strong>The</strong> responsibility and maturity required of both<br />

children to deal with these diseases is astounding<br />

to think on, yet it’s matured in them something far<br />

beyond their years. “I really believe that God has<br />

plans for them,” Gwen says.<br />

One can’t help but wonder, though, if the<br />

strength and perseverance demonstrated by the<br />

grandchildren is a blessing passed down from their<br />

Nana Gwen. Throughout her own trials, she’s<br />

learned the importance of gratitude and taking<br />

every thought captive—a sentiment easy to say<br />

and hard to do. <strong>The</strong> struggle never ends this side<br />

of heaven, but the strength is there to choose<br />

anew each day. “I look out the window, I thank<br />

the Lord for my family, friends, and home.<br />

One day at a time.”<br />

One day at a time. Another day to be a blessing.<br />

What choices will you make today, in your thoughts<br />

and actions?<br />

14 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2024</strong> SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 15


In Loving Memory<br />

FROM DECEMBER 6 TH to APRIL 17 TH , <strong>2024</strong><br />

* Resident has a spouse living at <strong>Elim</strong> Village ^ Prior IL or AL resident<br />

Residents from Garrison Crossing represented by (GC)<br />

A Psalm<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

MARGARET REIMER,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

I know that the sun will rise every morning,<br />

Even when the dawn is grey and there is no heightening of colour in the east.<br />

I know that the grass is green even when my feet are on concrete,<br />

And that beyond the city’s haze, the night sky is bright.<br />

I know that the branches of the trees dance to the movement of the wind,<br />

And the crocus lies flat against the bosom of the hill when the spring winds pass over it.<br />

I know that the One who created the foundation of the world takes care with a blade of grass,<br />

And with infinite love He created man in His own image.<br />

When I am out of touch with Him,<br />

I am like a withered vine with no life flowing through me.<br />

INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

John Feaver (GC)<br />

Siegfried Goliath *<br />

Jim Rishel<br />

Bruce Robertson *<br />

Bob Rowse (GC) *<br />

ASSISTED LIVING<br />

Dirk Diepeveen * ^<br />

Peter Giesbrecht<br />

Ted Hoekstra<br />

Helena Kasyna-Harvey<br />

Marie Paul<br />

Henry Schellenberg<br />

Mervin Stewart<br />

Hank Van Eyk ^<br />

Jean van Halst<br />

INDEPENDENT PLUS (GC)<br />

Annette Cram<br />

Bob Friesen *<br />

Andy Tokaryk *<br />

FULL CARE<br />

Susan Budden<br />

Maria Cabuco<br />

Fung Yu Ching<br />

Lois Collins<br />

Marion Cooper<br />

Charles Cuthbert<br />

Luis De Villa ^<br />

Tabea Ferris ^<br />

Huai Kang<br />

Duck-Ku Lee<br />

Brian Mitchell<br />

Dorothy Peachey<br />

Ella Pedersen<br />

John Tofte<br />

Gretta Trayers<br />

Gerda Vandermey ^<br />

Elizabeth Yablonski<br />

When the pressure and commitments of the day pre-occupy my consciousness,<br />

I am still surrounded by His love.<br />

His goodness is from everlasting to everlasting.<br />

SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 17


“When my eyes are lifted to the hills<br />

my thoughts are inexorably drawn to God.”<br />

Looking<br />

to the<br />

Hills<br />

Vern and Wilma Gleddie live in Independent Living at<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood. Prior to <strong>Elim</strong>, they lived in Southern<br />

Alberta and were sheep farmers.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is something about a landscape of hills that is<br />

refreshing to the spirit. Often during our Alberta days,<br />

when the ground was frozen and field work or fencing<br />

was out of the question, my wife and I would head<br />

for B.C. We would visit family, but also enjoyed the<br />

milder climate. After crossing the Great Divide in the<br />

mountains where the rivers all flow west, the forests<br />

become more exotic than in Alberta, and leaves linger<br />

on the trees much longer. We would feast on the<br />

grandeur of the mountains and hills.<br />

As we drove along through the interior of B.C. one<br />

year, I wondered out loud about Psalm 121 (NIV)<br />

which begins as follows: “I lift up my eyes to the hills -<br />

where does my help come from? My help comes from<br />

the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.” What is<br />

the connection between looking up to the hills and the<br />

fact that our help comes from the Lord?<br />

It could be, as theologians and other wise people say,<br />

that the author was looking toward the hills of Zion<br />

because the dwelling place of God was situated there.<br />

<strong>The</strong> author may have written this psalm on a pilgrimage<br />

to Jerusalem, and he was not only anticipating his arrival<br />

at the temple in the hills, but counting on God to safely<br />

see him through hilled areas to his destination. <strong>The</strong> hills<br />

could hide dangerous marauders. That may be why<br />

the remainder of the psalm is filled with reminders of<br />

God as keeper.<br />

<strong>The</strong> above two observations are surely both correct<br />

and comforting, but another aspect may well be that<br />

the creation draws one’s attention to the Creator<br />

(Rom. 1:20). <strong>The</strong> smell of sagebrush, the call of a<br />

meadowlark, or the sight of a herd of antelope does it<br />

for me. <strong>The</strong> hills too, with a panorama of trees, grasses,<br />

and rock, speak of God. When my eyes are lifted to<br />

the hills my thoughts are inexorably drawn to God.<br />

Several years ago, one of my sons found healing<br />

through a creation encounter with God. He was<br />

teaching and coaching in his first year on staff at a<br />

college in the B.C. interior. In his eagerness to get into<br />

coaching he had agreed to too heavy a teaching<br />

assignment. As he neared the end of the year, he<br />

realized he was sinking under the load. “I hit the wall,”<br />

was his assessment.<br />

On a Sunday afternoon, emotionally and physically<br />

exhausted, he drove out of town into the surrounding<br />

hills. <strong>The</strong>re he discovered a vista where someone had<br />

thoughtfully placed a bench. He laid down for a nap<br />

in that sunny nook. While curled up there, the wind<br />

suddenly stirred, tugging on his coat.<br />

In rapid succession the following came to mind: first,<br />

irritation at the wind; then, he thought of Jonah’s<br />

resentment of God removing the vine that had given<br />

Jonah shade. Following that was the thought of Jesus<br />

calming the stormy sea, and finally, a psalm came to<br />

mind from his childhood: “Be still and know that I am<br />

God”. From that hillside epiphany, my son received<br />

the strength to go back and complete the year.<br />

“I lift up my eyes to the hills”. <strong>The</strong> tranquil blending<br />

of shades there of blue, green, and brown, no one<br />

else can mix the way God does. Who but God can<br />

make trees grow on steep rocky slopes? God designs<br />

interdependence of plants, animals, birds, insects, and<br />

microorganisms with the bonus of pleasing sounds and<br />

scents. <strong>The</strong> wind, mysterious in its coming and going,<br />

pulls music from the trees and grass.<br />

We, the crown of creation, worry and fret. Yet God<br />

clothes the lily and keeps His eye on the sparrow.<br />

And so He does with us. We are fortunate in being<br />

reminded by, and rested in, all that God has made.<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

VERN GLEDDIE,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

SPRING <strong>2024</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 19


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