May 24 - Ballito_Umhlanga

BALLITO • Umdloti 

• UMHLANGA 

Discover the 

romance of rail 

THE BIG DAY 

Floral trends, venues 

& wedding inspiration 

Explore a new 

foodie hub 

in Salt Rock 

VOICE OF 

AN ANGEL 

Jemma Kate 

Badenhorst 

follows 

her dream 

Let’s celebrate our 

MOMS 

SHOPPING, PEOPLE AND LIFESTYLE IN YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD 

may 2024

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contents 

Wish List 

6 Bubbles, jewellery and fragrance for the big day 

people 

10 Jemma Kate Badenhorst follows her dream 

12 Nikita Schmeltzer finds purpose in motherhood 

14 Bec Howie supports patients with serious illness 

FOOD & drinks 

26 The Ngidi twins start a new chapter in Salt Rock 

36 Extra-special bubbles for wedding season 

bridal 

31 Wedding day glam 

32 Roxy and Billy Bolt celebrate in style 

34 Preserved bouquets keep memories alive 

38 Floral arches make an impact 

42 Tash and Rich Lange are all about visual story-telling 

travel 

46 Enjoy a romantic stay on the Kruger Shalati 

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A hot date! 

Enjoy good food, drinks, shopping and live music this May. 

04 

The Umhlanga Craft 

Beer Festival at Chris 

Saunders Park in 

Umhlanga is set to showcase 

some of the finest craft beers on 

offer in South Africa. The festival 

will also feature a line-up of 

top live acts and a selection of 

scrumptious food stalls. Tickets 

include entry into the event as 

well as a complimentary festival 

beer glass. 

Details: Tickets cost R200 per 

person and are available on 

www.webtickets.co.za 

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Gifting is so close to 

Gateway’s heart that they 

offer a free gift-wrapping 

concierge service all year round. Finding 

the perfect Mother’s Day gift is a cinch 

at Gateway with a wide range of local 

and global brands, as well as stores 

unique to the mall, like DKNY, Dior 

and Skins, from which to choose. In 

the lead-up to Mother’s Day, the free 

gift-wrapping service will help to bring 

hope to children as the mall donates 

R25 to the children’s charity, Reach for a 

Dream, for each gift wrapped between 

10 and 12 May. 

Details: www.gatewayworld.co.za 

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Celebrate Mother’s Day with good food 

and live music at Eat Street at the Ballito 

Lifestyle Centre. When it comes to dining, 

you’ll be spoilt for choice, plus you can 

expect some first-class entertainment by 

Afritude from 1pm to 4pm. 

Details: www.ballitolifestylecentre.co.za 

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Book club 

Interesting women, passionate love... and a look into the future! 

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Compiled by: Kym Argo 

It’s 1954 on far-flung Verona Island, 

a tropical paradise with a fragile 

economy and a rising crime rate. 

Prostitution is legal and Lila Gulliver 

is proud of her business - a highend 

brothel where her clients are 

guaranteed privacy and discretion. 

When Carità Bercy, a young, destitute, 

and beautiful blind woman arrives at 

her door seeking employment, Lila 

decides to give her a chance. Carità 

proves a valuable asset to the house, 

as well as a psychological puzzle to her 

employer. One hot night, Ian Drohan, 

a handsome son of a wealthy judge, 

visits Lila’s house for the first time, 

and falls madly in love with Carità. 

Lila doubts his sincerity and fears for 

Carità‘s future. But Carità has no such 

fears. In fact, she is a reckless force of 

nature, determined to succeed in ways 

Lila hasn’t even contemplated. Valerie 

Martin’s Mrs Gulliver ... a steamy tale 

of passionate love, found and lost, and 

found again! Doubleday 

04 Get It • Ballito • Umdloti • Umhlanga May 2024 

The first thing Vanessa Carvin does 

when she arrives on the small island 

off the coast of Ireland is change her 

name. To the locals, she will be Willow 

Hale. The second is to shave her head 

... no longer shoulder length blonde, 

it’s now cropped and grey, more 

in keeping with a solitary outsider 

escaping Dublin to live a hermetic 

existence in a small cottage, and not a 

notorious woman trying to get away 

from the media after her husband 

committed a crime - one they think 

she is guilty of, too. Escaping her old 

life might seem like a good idea but 

the choices she has made throughout 

her marriage have consequences. 

Here, on the island, Vanessa must 

reflect on what she did, and did 

not, do. Only then can she discover 

whether she is worthy of finding 

peace at all. Water by John Boyne ... 

a story of a woman coming to terms 

with the demons of her past and 

finding a new path forward. Penguin 

It’s 2050. A climate-changed world, 

where humans and digital devices 

are closely entwined. It’s a world filled 

with natural disasters, drought, famine 

and floods. People are displaced as 

new immigration laws are put into 

effect, and the gap between the 

haves and have nots widens. Future 

Imperfect by Babette Gallard is 

the story of a family determined to 

be together ... despite the horrific 

obstacles in their way ... exhaustion, 

terror, the xenophobia of people 

struggling to protect their increasingly 

scarce resources. Thought-provoking, 

this novel raises the question of what 

may happen to our world in the nottoo-distant 

future. LightEye

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Wish list 

We’re wishing for romance … mwah mwah 

“We’ve been waiting eight years for this.” Matured over eight 

years, Spier has just released the small-lot 2016 Prestige 

Cuvée Cap Classique. And Spier Cellar Master Johan Jordaan 

continues, “But let me tell you, those eight years were worth 

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“It’s not just about when you drink it, but more importantly, 

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Johan. R450 a bottle from spier.co.za 

May you be blessed with light and 

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For the bride, the bridesmaids, the mothers of the bride and groom 

... the pieces of handcrafted jewellery from Shelley Taylor make 

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Patchouli, bold Amber and creamy 

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Sophisticated antique-toned brass and 

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Family time 

The Easter Family Fun Day at Rain Farm was a hit with 

families! Kids loved the egg hunt around the dam, as well 

as the water slides, jumping castle and face painting, while 

parents enjoyed drinks from the exclusive wine bar. 

Ntokozo, Mihle & Sethu Pepu 

Emke, Adele & Mine Steenkamp 

A fun, 

creative 

space 

Roshika and Nivi Reddy 

The Re-Creative Lab at Gateway in 

Umhlanga was a fun activation, which 

allowed children the opportunity 

to participate in creative workshops 

and make creations using recycled 

materials. Activities included recycling 

art, beadwork, cardboard creations 

and string art. 

Alexander Pillay and Avanti Singh 

Yara Jassat and Shaa’ista Kathree

Ready, 

steady, swim! 

Crawford International North Coast 

Preparatory hosted a wonderful day of 

swimming at their beautiful campus in 

Westbrook recently. With enthusiastic 

support from parents, staff and students, 

the houses battled it out with Cameron 

House eventually securing the coveted 

inter-house trophy. The gala was one 

of many well attended swimming 

events hosted at the school. A focus on 

swimming continues into the winter 

months, with Grade 000 – 2 students 

who are still learning to swim, enjoying a 

heated pool and a comprehensive learn 

to swim programme. 

Akira Naicker 

Nadine Tozer and Chantal Kemp 

Khulumani Shwabede and 

Phiwo Majola 

Dr Yernush Naidoo, Sathie Govender, Rajan Naidoo, 

Mehmood Bana and Suhail Maraj 

Raising autism awareness 

Golf enthusiasts and special guests gathered at Zimbali Lakes to meet 

golfing legend Ernie Els and to hear more about his involvement in the new 

development. The estate will be supporting future Els for Autism foundation 

golf days, which aim to raise funds and awareness for the cause. Guests had the 

unique opportunity to swing a club with The Big Easy in a spectacular location. 

Liezl and Ernie Els

Text: Jennifer Campbell Photograph: Shren Media Makeup: Michelle Haywood Dress: Belly & Button 


Voice 

of an angel 

Singer-songwriter Jemma Kate Badenhorst has thrown herself into her career as 

an artist and creates music that is deeply personal. 

Bubbly and warm, Jemma’s passion for music is evident 

in the way she talks about her journey – one that has led 

her to stages around the country. She has always had a 

passion for performing and says she danced throughout 

her school career, originally starting with ballet, tap and 

modern, and moving onto Latin and then Freestyle. In her 

matric year, she competed in the 

South African Championships and 

was awarded second place. Soon 

after that, she entered the world of 

professional dancing. 

Jemma moved to Cape Town to 

study, and in 2013 her performing 

career really took off when she 

landed a role in The Rocky Horror 

Picture Show at the Fugard Theatre. 

She then spent some time working 

as a singer on the MSC cruise 

ships, before returning to Durban 

and joining the Barnyard Theatre, 

first as a dancer and then a singer. 

During this time, she travelled and 

performed with the company, and 

met her husband Nico who was also 

with the Barnyard at the time as a 

bass player. Although they loved the 

experience, there came a time when 

Jemma and Nico realised it was time 

to create their own music. “We were just ready,” she admits. 

“Nico began writing all my music and I decided to focus a 

lot on my singing and my music career.” 

In 2021, Jemma and Nico welcomed their first baby and 

she took a break from singing as she adjusted to life as a 

mom. Last year, she felt ready to really throw herself back 

into her work and released three songs, Home, Sweet 

Love and Breaking Through, all of which are on local radio 

stations now. Knowing that her music is out in the world 

feels amazing, if a little daunting. “Everything I write is quite 

personal,” she says. “Everybody gets a bit of insight into 

your life, so it’s a vulnerable thing.” 

Juggling a work-life balance with family isn’t always easy, 

but Nico is her biggest supporter, especially since she 

became a mother. “My husband 

has been so supportive, 

encouraging me to still 

dance and perform, and still 

do stuff that I love,” she says. 

“Motherhood is so consuming 

and it can take everything out 

of you. I wouldn't have been 

able to continue my career if my 

husband wasn't so supportive.” 

Besides writing and performing 

her music, Jemma does mobile 

theatre shows for corporates 

and other events. She is also the 

founder and owner of Freedom 

Dance Studio and offers classes 

at FITPOD at the Ballito Lifestyle 

Centre, as well as in Umhlanga. 

“I was very intentional about 

being welcoming to anybody,” 

she says. “I really wanted to 

create a community of women, supporting women. I don't 

care if you're doing it right or wrong, I just want you to 

have fun!” 

Professionally, her goal this year is to focus specifically on 

her own music and show concepts, but the most exciting 

prospect is growing her family. Jemma is due with her 

second child this month, and is excited about what the 

future holds. 

Details: www.jemmakatemusic.com; IG: @jemmakatemusic 

I really wanted to create 

a community of women, 

supporting women. 

I don’t care if you’re 

doing it right or wrong, 

I just want you to have 

fun! 


Finding 

hope 

After struggling with 

depression and addiction 

for many years, Nikita 

Schmeltzer has turned 

her life around and found 

her true purpose in 

motherhood. 

Text: Jennifer Campbell Photograph: KELLY PRETORIUS 

ikita is the proud owner 

of The Artisan Hair Studio 

in Salt Rock, a space she 

has created with love. “At 

my shop, I want to serve people,” 

she says. “I want people to feel good 

about themselves, to feel valued and 

appreciated.” She opened the salon 

at the end of last year, and being able 

to run her own business represents 

a huge milestone for her, having 

been through recovery for substance 

abuse and dealing with profound 

childhood trauma. 

Nikita spent the early years of her 

childhood in an unstable home, and 

when she was just 14 years old, was 

admitted to rehab for depression. 

Although she thrived at school, doing 

particularly well at art and sport, 

she says she never really felt like she 

belonged. After school, while studying 

hairstyling, she began using cocaine 

and became increasingly wrapped 

up in the world of drugs and alcohol. 

“I was in a very vulnerable place at 

the time and my life spiralled, “she 

explains. “I realise now that I hadn’t 

worked through my childhood issues.” 


It was at this time that Nikita fell pregnant, and with her 

dad’s help, she returned to her family home in Kokstad. 

Becoming a single mom wasn’t easy, but it shifted the 

course of her life completely. “Today I have a beautiful 

11-year-old daughter,” she says. “She’s my saving grace. If it 

wasn’t for her, I probably wouldn’t have made it. I believe 

God sent her to me through that pain to save me.” 

Nikita slowly but surely started to rebuild her life. “When 

that little girl was born, I took one look at her and 

everything changed,” she says. “Bringing up a child by 

myself has been so humbling and rewarding.” She opened 

a small salon in Kokstad and met her husband Chesney, 

who provided her with the love and support she needed. 

When Chesney was offered a job in Australia, Nikita and 

her daughter joined him, but when they returned home 

to renew their visas in 2020, they found themselves 

stuck in South Africa because of Covid-19 restrictions. 

Lockdown, along with financial and emotional stress 

took a toll on the couple and both of them turned to 

substances. Chesney booked himself into a rehab facility 

near Ballito, and this was a turning point for Nikita. “I was 

left to cope by myself when I actually needed just as 

much healing and help,” she admits. 

Having hit rock bottom emotionally, she drove to Grace 

Family Church, where she eventually reached out for help. 

There, she joined Project Exodus, a recovery programme, 

and has been part of the group ever since. “My healing 

journey started there,” she says. “Through Project Exodus, 

I realised that the drugs and the drinking were never 

the problem. The true problems are trauma, emotional 

abuse and abandonment issues. I had a lot of things to 

work through. I’m still on a journey of healing, but now I 

have the coping skills.” Nikita credits her faith, as well as 

the support of her husband, dad and step-mom for her 

success in turning her life around. 

Nikita and Chesney have been in recovery for over 

two years. In November last year, with Chesney’s 

encouragement, Nikita opened her new salon. “It’s a new 

chapter of hope and restoration,” she says. “I hope when 

people visit, they feel the true joy that I’m trying to reflect.” 

Through her work, she’s found a sense of community and 

is motivated by the people she meets and connects with 

every day. 

Having been through her own journey of healing, 

Nikita urges others to reach out to others who might 

be struggling. “If we see people suffering, we need to 

ask if they’re ok,” she says. “We don’t know what people 

are going through behind closed doors. If we’ve got the 

capability to help someone, we should do it.” 

It’s also important to her that she breaks the cycle of 

trauma and addiction for her daughter. “We can’t raise 

strong women if we don’t heal ourselves first,” she says. “It’s 

hard to face our wounds but we have to open them up to 

find freedom.” 

Details: The Artisan Hair Studio; Salt Rock Centre, Salt Rock; 

IG: @the_artisan_hairstudio; Grace Recovery Ballito; 

074 923 9543; gracerecoveryballito@gmail.com

A calling for care 

Palliative nurse Rebecca Howie has been working with Beacon of Care for the last five 

years. She finds meaning in supporting patients (and their families) with serious illness. 

Text: Jennifer Campbell 

ost people are uncomfortable talking about 

death, but for Rebecca, her work in end-of-life 

care is deeply rewarding. “People ask me a lot 

how I do this work, and it is hard. It takes a lot 

of courage to accompany families during a difficult time” 

she admits. 

Originally from New Zealand, Rebecca found herself 

drawn to nursing at a young age. At just 19 years old, 

while studying a commerce degree at university, she 

started working in a frail care facility. At the facility, 

she trained to be a care giver, and decided then that 

she wanted to be a nurse. She began specialising in 

oncology and loved the relationships she formed with 

her patients. “You really get to know people when 

they’re going through treatment” she says. 

After completing her oncology training, she moved 

to Australia where she worked in oncology and bone 

marrow transplant for two years. She then relocated to 

London and gained more experience at chemotherapy 

and haematology day care centres, as well as an HIV clinic. 

After meeting her South African husband and starting 

a family, she moved to Salt Rock. “When I moved here, 

it was in my heart to work in home-based care, not 

focusing so much on cancer treatment” she says. “I’ve 

always been drawn to this kind of work. When people 

are unwell, they are most comfortable in their home 

environment. You become an important part of the 

family’s journey. It’s a privilege being with people at such 

a significant time in their lives.” 

Now, Rebecca works with Beacon of Care, an 

organisation that provides home-based palliative care 

to people with life-threatening illnesses on the North 

Coast. She completed a Certificate in Palliative Nursing 

in 2020 and last year completed her Diploma in Palliative 

Medicine through UCT. She says that these courses have 

helped her immensely in her approach to patient care. 

“Even though I had nursed for years, I not only needed 

the knowledge in managing pain and other distressing 

symptoms, but in these courses, communication is 


We care for patients not only 

physically but spiritually 

and psychosocially to 

improve their quality of life. 

a large component, which has helped me grow in 

confidence in having conversations with patients and 

families that are often hard” she says. 

Rebecca works as part of a multi-disciplinary team 

and helps to plan individualised care for patients and 

their families. “Each person is unique,” she explains. 

“We care for patients not only physically but spiritually 

and psychosocially to improve their quality of life. We 

have doctors, nurses, a physiotherapist, dietician and 

occupational therapist and a psychologist. It’s very 

rewarding to work as part of a supportive team and we 

are always learning so much from each other.” 

Self-care is key for Rebecca and her team. “The kind of 

work we do needs to be done out of a place of rest which 

means putting routines into place that fill our cup,” she 

says. To make sure that she can do her best every day, 

she walks a lot, spends time in her garden and attends 

Pilates. She also prioritises her own relationships with her 

husband, children, and friends and attends Linc church. 

She meets with her team every two weeks to discuss 

patients’ needs and to plan care, but also to share, debrief 

and to check in on each other. 

Dealing with end-of-life is incredibly difficult for patients 

and their families, and even though there is so much 

uncertainty, Rebecca believes that being well-prepared 

can help considerably in their bereavement. When she 

meets with families, she talks a lot about what matters to 

people and what their wishes are for their remaining time. 

These conversations help patients and their families to 

process their experiences. 

“We want people to understand that we are an extra layer 

of support,” explains Rebecca. “We don’t take the place 

of the treating doctor. We see the patient as the head of 

the team, along with their family, and as a team, we put 

together a plan of care based on the patient’s and family 

needs and what kind of support they need.” 

A mom of three, Rebecca says that she loves life in South 

Africa. “It suits my personality,” she laughs. Her and her 

family love the laid-back, outdoor lifestyle and spend their 

free time on the beach and in the bush. “There’s so much 

life here, so much potential” she says. “I’ve found my home.” 

Details: www.beaconofcare.co.za; 065 135 5214; 

admin@beaconofcare.co.za; FB: Beacon of Care

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From cute and quirky to downright luxurious, 

we've rounded up the coolest gift ideas from 

Ballito’s go-to shopping spot. 

Indulge your mom's taste buds and 

brighten her day by treating her to a 

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Most moms will agree that motherhood 

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Coast’s most inspiring mamas… 

KITA VEALE, Homestead Décor 

Q: How do you balance life as a mom with your work? 

A: I go with the flow and I feel that it works for our family and my business. 

Each day is completely different for me. I focus my energy on what needs me more that 

day. Thank goodness my team at work are incredible and that my hubby helps me out 

when I can’t be the taxi driver for the kids. 

Q: What’s your favourite thing to do on the North Coast? 

A: Definitely Karibu Padel! We absolutely love spending time there as a family. We all love 

playing padel and the boys are in their element fishing. 

Q: What’s on your wish list this Mother’s Day? 

A: I just want to have fun and create memories with my family. 

Details: www.homestead-decor.co.za; info@homestead-decor.co.za 

RENE VAN DEN HEEVER, Kijk Optometrist 


A: Be present in the moment. Having a very supportive husband who helps juggle the balls 

obviously makes it much easier. 


A: The Salt Rock Hotel is such a hidden gem between the palm trees and beautiful view of the 

ocean, but nothing recharges me like a walk on the beach with my family. 

Q: How will you be spending Mother’s Day? 

A: This year we will be celebrating Mother’s Day weekend together with my daughter Nina’s 

birthday. I do, however, expect a handmade card. 

Details: Shop G5, 59 Basil Hulett Drive, Salt Rock; www.kijkoptom.co.za; 032 815 2911 

NIKITA Schmeltzer, The Artisan Hair Studio 


A: Balance is achieved through routine and being fully present in situations at home and the 

work place; keeping the two separate is very important. 


A: Beach days are my favourite. With a busy work schedule, I’m always searching for anything 

to rejuvenate my soul through nature so catching a sunrise or sunset with a delicious coffee 

while my family surfs has become something I appreciate. 


A: For Mother’s Day all I want is a good old-fashioned breakfast in bed, a home-made card 

and a foot massage. 

Details: The Artisan Hair Studio; Salt Rock Centre, Salt Rock; IG: @the_artisan_hairstudio

Lesego Mpyana, Social Entrepreneur & CSR Strategist, Move Africa 


A: I have two young ones (4 and 5). I try to prioritise them and really build my work life around 

their schedules as much as possible. I am also an 'all in' kind of person, so there isn't really 

balance. I either throw myself into my work at a given time or spend very intentional time with 

my kids. 


A: Okay, priorities! I love to eat. We are weekend regulars at Burnedale. The kids love the 

animals and play. I also love taking a nice stroll on the promenade with a good coffee in hand. 

Q: What’s on your Mother's Day wish list? 

A: Scented candles, chocolates and a good perfume! 

Details: www.moveafricaco.com; IG: @move_africa_co; @the_red_movement_ 

CAROL REYNOLDS, PRINCIPAL, Pam Golding Properties 


A: I am lucky that my job allows for some flexibility. Networking is a critical part of the job, so 

supporting school and university events goes hand-in-hand with what I do. 


A: I absolutely love Christmas Bay! Spending time on the beautiful beaches on the North Coast is at the 

top of my list. 


A: I will be experiencing my dream weekend away at a yoga retreat in the mountains with my husband! 

Details: 031 573 6000, Tel: 031 561 5300, 031 568 1299; durbannorth@pamgolding.co.za; 

umhlanga@pamgolding.co.za; umdloti@pamgolding.co.za 

IG @pamgolding_durbannorthumhlanga; FB: pamgolding.durbannorth.umhlanga.umdloti 

MICHELLE HAYWOOD, Brush Bridal 


A: I am blessed to be able to be a hands-on mom and do what I love. I have a supportive 

husband who steps in when I need to work, so it’s definitely a team effort. 


A: We love doing family-oriented things such as going to rugby or grabbing a coffee together 

at one of the many amazing coffee spots in town. 


A: We start the morning off together with the kids jumping in the bed and then spend 

the day with the moms in our lives. Family is extremely important to me so any time spent 

together is the best gift. 

Details: 061 492 2321; IG: @brushb_makeupbymich 

NIRVASHNEE NAIDU, Writer 


A: My kids don’t live in the same city as I do but I am fortunate in that I am not office bound. I just 

double up most weeks, so I have extra time off to be with them. 


A: A stop at my favourite coffee shop just downstairs from me, followed by a walk to the beach 

where I just rewire or find inspiration to write, or both. 

Q: What is on your wish list this Mother’s Day? 

A: For the first time in 11 years, my kids and my parents live in the same city as each other. 

Spending my day with my four most precious people will be my wish come true for Mother’s Day. 

Details: www.nirvashneenaidu.com; IG: nirvashneenaiduauthor

Queen 

FOR THE 

OF OUR HEARTS 

This Mother’s Day, create magical memories that she 

will treasure forever at Suncoast. From an unforgettable 

meal at one of our restaurants to a spa treatment that will 

recharge her soul, to dancing the night away to live music 

at the Barnyard Theatre, Suncoast is the place to be. 

Feel the Good Vibrations at 

Barnyard Theatre as you 

groove the night away to 

timeless hits by legendary 

artists such as UB40, The Beach 

Boys, Toto, Bryan Adams, 

Mango Groove, Prince, Celine 

Dion, and many others. Be 

ready for a memorable evening 

filled with non-stop music and 

dancing! 

Take some time out with a 

great movie with all the 

trimmings at Suncoast 

Cinecentre. Choose from the 

latest blockbusters including 

Kingdom of the Planet of the 

Apes, Garfield, The Heist and 

many more. 

Join the Suncoast East Coast Radio Big 

Walk, the largest family walk in KZN, for a 

wonderful opportunity to bond with Mom 

and the whole family. Create cherished 

memories as you stroll along Durban’s 

iconic promenade. Don’t miss out - 

registrations close on 1 May! 

ENTERTAIN. IT’S WHAT WE DO.

Laughter is the best medicine! 

Sifiso Nene is back at Suncoast 

on 18 May with his show, Combo 

Comedy. He will be joined by some 

of SA’s favourites comedians, Mpho 

Popps, David Kau, Sis Maria, Maka 

Thangithini and Churchboy. Tickets 

available at Computicket. 

Treat Mom to the ultimate 

relaxation experience with a 

variety of treatments at 

Suncoast Spa, situated within the 

luxurious Suncoast Towers hotel. 

Enjoy breathtaking views of the 

Indian Ocean while indulging in 

spa therapies that will soothe 

both the body and mind. 

Indulge Mom with a delicious 

family feast at one of Suncoast’s 

fantastic dining spots. Whether 

her favourite is Greek, Indian, 

Spanish, or traditional South 

African favorites, Suncoast offers 

a culinary delight for every taste 

bud. 

A Suncoast experience valued at R5000 that includes 

a hotel stay, tickets to Barnyard and Suncoast vouchers. 

To stand in line to win, pop over to getitmagazine. 

co.za/highway-berea, find the competition post and 

follow the prompts. Or simply scan this QR code. 

Entries close May 25 – winners will 

be contacted.

A NEW ERA OF 

CANCER CARE 

ICON’S RADIOTHERAPY 

UNIT IN UMHLANGA GETS 

A HIGH-TECH UPGRADE! 

Icon Oncology, the leading cancer care provider in 

the country, is proud to announce the upgrade of its 

radiotherapy unit at Umhlanga Oncology Centre. This 

is good news for cancer patients who need life-saving 

radiotherapy treatment in Umhlanga and the north of Durban. 

In mid-April the centre took delivery 

of a brand-new Varian Halcyon® linear 

accelerator (linac) which forms part of a 

multi-million Rand technology investment 

and refurbishment at the well-established 

oncology centre. 

ESTABLISHED EXCELLENCE 

Since its launch in 2012, the Icon 

Radiotherapy unit at the Umhlanga 

Oncology Centre has delivered over 85,000 

individual radiation treatments to 4,500 

patients. The recent upgrade means that 

oncologists in KZN can treat more patients 

using the latest radiotherapy technology to 

destroy cancer cells. 

LATEST TECHNOLOGY 

The Halcyon radiotherapy system is engineered to 

deliver treatment harnessing the latest advances in radiation 

therapy. It allows the very careful delivery of external beam 

radiation therapy. 

PRECISION 

THE UMHLANGA 

ONCOLOGY CENTRE 

OFFERS A WARM, 

RELAXED AND 

COMPASSIONATE 

ENVIRONMENT WITH 

EXPERT CLINICIANS AND 

SUPPORTING SERVICES 

WHERE PATIENTS 

CAN FOCUS ON THEIR 

JOURNEY TOWARDS 

BETTER HEALTH. 

The biggest benefit of the machine is that it delivers a precise, 

tightly controlled, and focused radiation dose to the tumour, 

while it reduces the impact on surrounding healthy tissue. The 

treatment is fast and the linac is designed to move quietly, 

which means a more relaxed experience for our patients. 

IMPROVED PATIENT EXPERIENCE 

Cancer is a traumatic disease and patient 

comfort is key to reduce stress and deliver 

better outcomes for them. The Varian 

Halcyon linac is designed to make the 

experience as comfortable as possible 

during treatment sessions. It also allows for 

quicker treatment duration, which means 

patients can focus on recovery and getting 

on with their everyday activities. 

THE RIGHT CARE 

Icon Oncology’s holistic approach to 

providing the right care for our patients 

means we concentrate on putting our 

patients at the centre of everything we do. Our purpose is 

to give cancer patients the best opportunity to live healthier 

lives. To deliver on this promise, we combine decades of clinical 

expertise, research, cutting-edge technology, big data and 

managed healthcare experience to deliver the best possible 

care to our patients. 

For more information visit www.iconsa.co.za or email 

communications@iconsa.co.za. 

Umhlanga Oncology Centre 

The Centenary 

30 Meridian Drive 

Umhlanga 

Tel: 087 820 0848

& 

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If I gave you diamonds and pearls 

Would you be a happy boy or a girl? 

If I could, I would give you the world 

But all I can do is just offer you my love. 

Diamonds pearls 

Messy bucket bag 

with metallic effect 

and fringe details 

with mirrored 

beading and chain 

crossbody strap. 

R1199 from 

’ 

zara.com 

Metallic-effect quilted 

mini bucket bag, with 

detachable and adjustable 

crossbody strap. R579 

from zara.com 

Round ball wedding 

handbag with pearl details, 

R469 from takealot.com 

High-heel, pointed toe, 

slingback shoes with 

faux pearls on the front. 

R1299 from zara.com 

Silver open back sequin maxi dress, 

R649 from superbalist.com 


Staying healthy 

& happy 

Text: Jennifer Campbell Photographs: Mbali mpofu, rainmaker marketing 

A dedicated family man, former 

professional rugby player and 

property expert Pat Lambie 

absolutely loves the North Coast 

lifestyle. We chatted to him about 

how he maintains a balance and 

keeps wellness a priority. 

24 Get It • Ballito • Umdloti • Umhlanga May 2024

aily movement is an important part of 

Pat’s routine. He fully embraces the 

North Coast lifestyle by walking his 

springer spaniel Wallace, trail running 

and surfing, while also making time 

for watt biking and body weight 

workouts at home. For Pat, exercise is 

about more than fitness – it’s essential for his 

mental health too. “I feel like a better person, 

I’m more productive at work and a better 

husband and father at home when I have had 

my exercise fix,” he says. “A little bit of exercise 

every day is better than a handful of big, long, 

hard sessions each week.” 

He admits that for people with busy schedules, 

it can be hard to prioritise exercise, but finding 

a balance is key. “There is enough time in the 

day for everything,” he says. “Setting aside some 

time to exercise helps me to be more proactive 

about it.” 

When it comes to nutrition, Pat admits that 

he absolutely loves food. “I’ve always had a big 

appetite,” he says. “In order to eat a lot, keeping 

a balanced and varied eating plan is always the 

aim. No diets, just everything in moderation.” 

Some of his favourite meals include eggs and 

oats for breakfast; wraps and salads for lunch; and 

pastas and chicken and vegetables for supper. 

Pat is currently building a home at Seaton 

Estate, which he hopes to complete later this 

year. He’s looking forward to exploring the 

walking trails and beach with his family, and 

taking advantage of the lap pool, gym and other 

amenities on his doorstep. “We see ourselves 

taking full advantage of living at Christmas Bay 

Beach,” he says. “With active young boys, I am 

sure we will spend endless hours amongst all 

the various sports facilities.”

Double the passion 

For most people, opening a restaurant is a daunting prospect. Twin brothers Andile and 

Ayanda Ngidi have taken ambition to the next level, having recently launched three 

brand-new spaces in Salt Rock. 


Many North Coast foodies will remember The Danté 

Experience in Umhlanga, a triple-story space that 

housed a restaurant, five bars and a rooftop. The venue 

was co-founded by Andile and Ayanda Ngidi and 

was the first of its kind in KZN. In 2022, the brothers 

sold the business and took some time to travel and 

recharge. Now, back home and feeling inspired, they 

have opened three new spots – Donna Modern Italian, 

Butcher & Wine, and St Yves Bar – all of which are 

located in Salt Rock. 

Born and raised in Durban, the Ngidi brothers 

discovered a passion for hospitality soon after school 

when they worked as waitrons and bartenders while 

they were studying for their business degrees. During 

this time, they realised that it was the industry for 

them. “We just knew it was the space we wanted 

to throw ourselves into,” says Andile. Together 

they started an events company in their early 20s, 

where they learnt a lot about managing people, 

coordination and running a business, and after a 

short stint in the corporate world, found themselves 

drawn back into hospitality. 

Andile and Ayanda are similar in many ways and 

have shared many experiences, but they each have 

attributes that contribute something different to 

the business. Ayanda is all about numbers and 

administration, while Andile is the people person in 

the duo. “We sometimes pull in different directions, 

but we’re on the same page when it comes to what 

we want to achieve,” says Andile. “The twin relationship 

is very unique. We always say to people that we 

are among the closest twins because we’ve done 

everything together for so long. It’s been my brother 

and me through thick and thin, always. We look out for 

each other, we support each other. It’s motivating to 

be on the same team.” 

During their recent travels in the United States, the 

brothers were exposed to a whole new world of 

hospitality and they took some inspiration from the 

spaces they experienced there. “When we came 

home, we had millions of dollars of ideas,” says Andile. 

“From there, we tried to mould the perfect model.” 

After looking at a few sites in Umhlanga, the brothers 

decided to venture further north, eventually finding 

a spot in Salt Rock last year. They knew they wanted 

to open multiple spaces and decided to launch three 

concepts next to each other to create a hub where 


there’s something for everyone. “It’s hard work, but we 

love people,” says Andile. “It’s so rewarding when people 

enjoy a space that we’ve created.” 

The brothers have had the concept of Donna Modern 

Italian in their minds for a while – a space that’s wellsuited 

to families and celebrates a rich culinary heritage 

while also incorporating modern techniques and 

contemporary design. Right next door, Butcher & Wine 

is a classic steak house that also offers seafood and sushi, 

while St Yves Bar (pronounced Saint Eves) is a fun spot for 

after-work drinks or weekend celebrations with friends. 

Each of the interiors has been beautifully done by Kirsten 

Margaret Lotze, a designer that Andile and Ayanda 

have known for many years. “We wanted the spaces 

to include elements that are a bit different,” explains 

Andile. Some of the stand-out details include a beautiful 

mural of ‘Donna’, as well as custom wall papers and light 

installations that really make a statement. 

Having recently moved to Ballito, Andile admits they still 

have a lot to learn about the area but they’re enjoying 

life on the North Coast so far. “We’re excited to really be 

part of the growth of the area,” says Andile. “It feels like 

the next chapter of our lives is just meant to be here.” 

Details: New Salt Rock Centre; IG: @donnamodernitalian; 

@butcherandwine; @saintyvesbar

The discovery of the late Anthonij Rupert’s 

packaging notes and mock-ups was the departure 

point for realising his dream and producing the 

Cap Classique range on L’Ormarins Estate. After 

his passing, his brother, Johann, continued the 

dream, with the L’Ormarins Private Cuvée (R475) 

envisioned as the pinnacle of the range. It is an 

exceptionally elegant, sophisticated option for 

grand celebrations. There are four more that we 

love ... this L’Ormarins Brut Vintage Blanc de 

Blancs (R245), a Vintage Brut Rosé (R195), a NV 

Brut Classique (R195) and a NV Brut Classique 

Rosé (R195). They are described, aptly, as reserved, 

refined and revered. From lormarinswines.com 

The award-winning 

Kruger Family 

Reserve Marguerite 

MCC Brut 2019 is 

an elegant Cap 

Classique with 

a light golden 

hue and fine 

persistent 

mousse ... a 

lovely steady 

stream of small 

bubbles. All 

white pear, 

delectable 

biscotti, this Cap 

Classique makes 

any occasion 

a memorable 

celebration. 

R2100 for a 

case from 

stellenview.co.za 


Cin cin 

We’re getting married. So the bubbles 

this month are extra special! 

This evocative Franschhoek Cellar Brut Royale 

Brut MCC has beautiful lemon cream and almond 

biscotti flavours on the nose, backed by refreshing 

citrus and tropical fruit notes on the palate. The finish 

is long and moreish with the playfulness of delicate 

bubbles. R1140 a case from franschhoekcellar.co.za 

Fresh rose petals 

and orange 

blossom, 

strawberries 

and cranberries, 

nectarines and 

lemons... this 

Blaauwklippen 

Estate Cap 

Classique Brut 

pairs brilliantly with 

all seafood dishes. 

R1560 a case from 

blaauwklippen.com 

Christiena Trousseau Methode 

Cap Classique Brut is a 

combination of Chardonnay 

and Pinot Noir, two of 

the grape varieties used 

in Champagne. The 

Chardonnay provides the 

finesse and longevity 

while Pinot Noir adds 

body and fruit. This 

is an elegant and 

distinguished wine, 

with upfront red apple, 

freshly baked biscuits, 

lime and lemon peel, 

and small refined bubbles 

in the glass. R1188 a case 

from vanloveren.co.za 



Wedding day glam 

We take a peek inside the bridal beauty kit of celebrity artist Ryno Mulder 

Blush with the 

brand who 

brought the 

world its most 

famous cheek 

colour of all time. 

Now trending 

on TikTok for 

good reason. 

Nars Afterglow 

Liquid Blush in 

Dolce Vita. 

R760, from 

arcstore.co.za 

Define your cheekbones elegantly with Stila 

Heaven’s Dew All Over Glimmer, R595, from 

Truworths, Woolworths and Superbalist. Quite 

possibly the best highlighter I’ve ever used. 

Your brows will stay put 

all day and night if you 

style them with a 

spoolie - a makeup 

brush shaped like 

a mascara wand - 

swirled in Anastasia 

Beverly Hills Brow 

Freeze. R520 from 


Bridal beauty is all about 

radiance. Give your lips 

a pillowy plush feel and 

smoothness with Huda 

Beauty Silk Balm. R425, 

from arcstore.co.za 

No other 

makeup sponge 

gives that airbrushed 

finish to your bridal 

beat like the original 

Beautyblender 

does. R395, from 


The only glitter 

that never 

scratches your 

eyes nor messes 

everywhere is 

Bodyography 

Glitter Pigment. 

R420 from Takealot. 

Having trained with the A-list of Hollywood makeup artists - think Mario for 

Kim Kardashian, Sir John for Beyoncé, Rae Morris for Kylie Minogue - Ryno, who 

recently scooped a Best Makeup Artist award, has more than 3000 faces and near 

three hundred weddings under his belt. He basically has a PhD in bridal beauty! 

Ryno and his team work countrywide and you can request your makeup and hair 

quotation on WhatsApp 071 688 0242. 

For protected, 

radiant skin 

that looks and 

feels like skin, 

not makeup, 

use Makeup 

by Ryno 

ICON SPF50 

Foundation. 

R549. Whatsapp 

to order 

071-688-0242 


Happily, ever after 

Floral trends, wedding venues and all the pros you need on your big day. 


BEST 

DAY 

EVER 

Roxy and Billy Bolt recently tied the 

knot in a beautiful ceremony in Cape 

Town. We chatted to the couple about 

how they brought their vision of a 

unique and personal celebration to life. 

Text: Jennifer Campbell Photographs: krust photography 

Born and raised in Umhlanga, Roxy met Billy, the British 

man of her dreams, when he was visiting South Africa. 

Billy is a six-time world champion off-road motorbike 

rider and youtuber and after a long-distance 

relationship, the couple are thrilled to finally be living 

together as husband and wife. 

When coming up with a wedding theme, Roxy 

wanted a Palm Springs aesthetic – funky, bold and 

bright. “Both mine and Billy’s favourite colour is pink 

so we naturally gravitated towards that,” she explains. 

“And then I went with a touch of vintage with big 

ballroom chandeliers, traditional silver cutlery, crystal 

glassware and a grand piano.” The couple decided 

against a traditional wedding cake, choosing instead 

to cut a pizza as part of the celebration. “I knew I 

wanted my first meal as a married woman to be pizza!” 

says Roxy. In a unique twist, mini cakes were used as 

the guests’ name tags on the tables. 

The wedding included many beautiful details, but 

it was Roxy’s dress that took centre stage. Designed 

and created by Umhlanga artist Jane Wolff, the dress 

included various elements as tributes to Billy, the 

couple’s relationship and the things that are special 

to them. “Jane came up with the idea to make custom 

lace and for this I provided her with things like my first 

plane ticket to go visit Billy, a drawing of us from a trip 


to Paris, and reference images for my love of hearts 

and chandeliers,” says Roxy. The bodice was beaded 

with personalised elements like lightning bolts and 

57s (Billy’s race number), while silver beads and 

diamantes made it really pop. “The end result had me 

gobsmacked,” she says. “It was as regal as regal gets. It 

was a dream come true.” 

Billy kept his outfit a surprise, which Roxy loved. 

After Roxy gave him a piece of her dress fabric as 

a reference, he had a suit custom-made, which he 

paired with Doc Martins. And when it came to the 

bridesmaids, Roxy opted for the quiet luxury of 

Umhlanga-based design Milliditz. “I always joked 

with my girls that I couldn’t wait to dress them like 

cupcakes when I got married,” she says. “We mixed 

things up with each girl in a different style and in 

various shades of pink.” 

With loads of personal touches, a fun colour palette 

and a stunning setting, the wedding day was nothing 

short of perfect. Roxy’s advice to couples planning 

their big day is to start the ceremony early. “It really 

does go by in a flash! Everyone will tell you about the 

sun and the heat and why you need to start later, but 

it’s such a special day that you only get to do once 

so make it last! I wish I started at 10am with a brunch,” 

she laughs. 


A lasting memory 

For many years, Jane Wolff poured her energy into designing and 

creating bridal dresses. Now, she has made a shift, focusing on her 

love of art and floral preservation. 

Text: Jennifer Campbell Photographs: jane wolff 


“I have always been an artist. From the day I could hold 

a crayon, it was the most natural thing for me in the 

world,” says Jane. “As I got older, I was drawn to florals, 

birds and nature. There is a romance to flowers – their 

fleeting beauty, and the process of aging in which I 

find such deep romance.” 

Jane was drawn to bridal design because of the 

personalised nature of the industry. “I got into fashion 

because it was a practical place to be creative,” she 

explains. “For anyone who is artistically minded, the 

wedding industry can be a wonderful place to be 

because your artwork and unique vision is celebrated.” 

Although she loved creating wedding gowns and the 

opportunity the work gave her to create something 

special and individual, she found herself craving more 

ways to express her creativity. She started creating 

artworks at home after work. “I love texture, floral 

abstracts, dried and pressed flowers – the creative mess 

that slowly transforms, like a puzzle and into something 

beautiful,” she says. After becoming a mom six years 

ago, she found herself leaning more into art as a 

healing space and found deep satisfaction in exploring 

and playing. The pressure and intensity of the wedding 

industry caused her considerable stress, and she 

eventually made the decision to change her path. 

Although she has left the world of wedding gowns 

behind, she hasn’t said goodbye to weddings 

altogether. Among her offerings as an artist are 

preserved bridal bouquets. “There is a significance to 

the bouquet,” she says. “It represents the merging of 

worlds before the marriage and after the wedding; the 

blooming beauty of the bride in that exact moment 

in time; and of course, it is also incredibly pretty. 

Heirloom pieces are such a big part of the wedding 

day and to be able to look back and remember the 

moment you really began your journey in front of all 

of your friends and family is very special.” 

Although there are a number of ways to preserve 

a bouquet, Jane prefers the natural process of 

allowing flowers to age gracefully. Once she receives 

a bouquet, there is a short window in which she can 

prepare the flowers by removing any excess petals, 

stems or leaves. She uses a silica gel to dry the flowers 

out, sometimes using a press to flatten them. Once 

the flowers come out of the gel (some weeks later), 

she figures out how to arrange them. “At this point, the 

bouquet will take its own journey and I put the pieces 

back together in a way that works for the new look of 

the flowers,” she explains. 

It's important to understand that, over time, all flowers 

will age and change, but for Jane this is part of the magic 

of the process. “I love that the preserved flowers are 

different from what they looked like on the wedding day,” 

she says. “To me it adds a romance, having been carried 

down an aisle, and loved by the bride.” 

Details: www.janewolff.co.za; info@janewolff.co.za; 

IG: @jane_wolff_art 


PROMOTION 

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When it comes to planning a wedding, there are so many details to consider – from outfits and 

photography, to accessories and makeup. Here are the people you need to get your big day just right… 

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outfitters 

At Armitage Men’s Outfitters, the team 

understands that the groom’s attire is 

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Whether you’re planning a traditional 

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their personalised service ensures that 

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you’re impeccably groomed, including 

bespoke tailored suits and alterations, 

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FB & IG: @armitageoutfitters 

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BRUSH BRIDAL 

Michelle Haywood is a make-up artist based 

in Salt Rock. She has worked in the industry 

for 16 years and has experience in film and TV, 

prosthetics and make-up design. She specialises in 

bridal, editorial and one-on-one make-up. Being part 

of a bride’s special day is extremely important to her 

and she loves being able to make someone feel their 

best. With her attention to detail and calm manner, 

she works hard to make the process as stress-free 

as possible for her brides and ensures that the 

experience is happy and memorable. Whether you’re 

looking for a makeup that’s natural, glam or glowing, 

Michelle will help you achieve the makeup of your 

dreams. She is passionate about the work she does 

and absolutely loves transforming her clients into 

the most beautiful versions of themselves. 

Details: 061 492 2321; IG: @brushb_makeupbymich

L'ATELIER 

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Walk at the Oceans Mall, you'll find an unparalleled 

selection of engagement rings and bridal jewellery to mark 

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symbol of love that resonates with your unique style and 

sentiment. Let our expert team at L’Atelier Paris guide you 

through this enchanting journey to find the perfect expression 

of your enduring love and commitment. 

Details: Shop 243, Oceans Mall Platinum Walk, Umhlanga; 

www.latelierparis.co.za; IG:@latelierparisofficial 

JEANNELLE L'AMOUR BRIDAL 

This small team of ladies have been around offering 

designer quality gowns for eight incredible years, 

servicing brides and stores around the world whilst 

holding the South African flag high. If you are trying the knot 

this season, make a booking to try on JLB's wide range of 

trendy and fashion-forward wedding gowns in their temporary 

showroom at their workshop and have the perfect dress 

tailored just for you. 

Details: www.jeannellelamourbridal.com; 

hello@jeannellelamourbridal.com; IG: @jeannelle.la.amour_bridal 

THE FRAMES 

COLLECTION 

The Frames is not your 

typical team of photographers and 

film makers. They love fun, carefree, 

untraditional couples, old school 

hip-hop dance offs, champagne 

showers, microphone drops, 

groovy boots and loved-up lovers. 

Passionate about documenting 

the stories that are worth 

remembering, they love a wedding 

done your way because, at the end 

of the day, this is your day! 

Details: 084 535 3497; 

info@weddingframes.co.za; 

IG: @the_frames_collection; 

FB: The Frames Collection

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floral arch serves as a 

beautiful focal point 

for the wedding 

ceremony, drawing 

attention to the area 

where the happy 

couple exchanges 

vows. “The arch sets the tone for the 

rest of the wedding – be it romantic, 

rustic or modern,” explains Cindy. 

“Most arches can be moved after the 

ceremony, and double as a backdrop 

for a photo booth or to frame the 

bridal couple. They’re great for adding 

a touch of elegance, romance and 

bloom 

In full 

Floral arches have become increasingly popular and make a striking feature at a 

wedding ceremony. We chatted to Cindy Rynhoud, florist and owner of Love Laugh in 

Ballito, about the trend and what it takes to create an impactful piece. 

natural beauty to a wedding venue 

and create a memorable backdrop.” 

When it comes to designing a floral 

arch for a wedding ceremony, there 

are a few key elements to consider. 

“It’s important to understand the 

couple’s vision, wedding theme, 

colour palette and any specific flowers 

or styles they would like to include,” 

explains Cindy. After visiting the 

venue, she develops a design concept 

that aligns with the couple’s vision 

and the look and feel of the space. 

She always chooses high-quality, 

seasonal flowers and greenery, as 

well as a sturdy arch framework that 

can support the weight of the plants. 

Cindy urges couples to understand 

that proper preparation is key as a lot 

of time and effort goes into preparing 

the flowers even before the assembly 

stage can begin. Ideally, the arch 

should be assembled on site on the 

day of the wedding. Because the 

flowers are attached to the arch with 

cable ties or floral wire and secured 

with reusable floral mesh, there’s no 

need to use floral foam. “It’s very ecofriendly 

and sustainable,” says Cindy. 

For the best possible effect, Cindy 


suggests ensuring that the arch is 

balanced and symmetrical. “It will 

appear in some of the most important 

photos of your special day,” she says. 

“Adding finishing touches with fillers 

and flowers creates depth and texture. 

This is when chandeliers or lighting 

can be added.” 

There are a few flowers that are 

proving particularly popular at 

the moment. Roses are classic and 

romantic, are available in many 

colours and last well in arches, while 

peonies work well because of their 

size. Cindy says that hydrangeas are 

wonderful to bulk up an arch and 

create a striking visual impact, but 

it’s important to note that they don’t 

enjoy heat. Lillies come in various 

types and shades and offer a unique 

look; dahlias boast vibrant colours and 

add drama and personality to an arch; 

succulents and aloes add a trendy 

element to your design; Phalaenopsis 

orchids, which include exposed roots 

can be reused and enjoyed after the 

wedding; and gypsophila can be used 

on its own for a stunning effect, or 

mixed with other florals. 

“There are currently a number of 

innovative twists and variations for 

couples to consider when selecting 

a wedding arch,” explains Cindy. 

Hanging installations can be made to 

look like floating clouds of florals or 

greenery, while living walls or vertical 

gardens made of flowers or foliage are 

eco-friendly options that add texture 

and depth to a space. Geometric 

shapes are on trend. “We often use 

triangles, hexagons and squares in 

arch designs,” says Cindy. “The oval 

arch is no longer the norm.” 

Dried flowers and grasses are still 

very popular, and can be kept as 

memorabilia for the bridal couple. 

More and more couples are also 

looking at ways to make their 

wedding décor more sustainable. 

Some good eco-friendly options 

include wild flowers and grasses; 

local and seasonal florals; reusable 

materials; and natural elements such 

as branches, vines and foraged foliage. 

Details: www.lovelaugh.co.za; 032 648 

0039; ballito@lovelaugh.co.za; IG: @ 

lovelaughproteas; FB: LoveLaughSA 

The arch sets 

the tone for 

the rest of 

the wedding 


Promotion 

Perfect spot 

to say I do 

Whether you’re looking for an intimate space, a 

sprawling garden or an ultra-luxe wedding venue, 

there are plenty of options on the North Coast. Here are 

some of the best places to say ‘I do’… 

COLLISHEEN ESTATE 

Through top-class service and a high 

level of professionalism, Collisheen 

Estate has earned an outstanding 

reputation as a wedding venue on the 

North Coast. Located just outside of 

Ballito, Collisheen Estate offers a choice 

of two charming country venues, 

and it’s possible to host up to 400 

guests. Complete with private chapels, 

beautiful gardens, bridal salons, an 

outdoor arena with a water feature and 

landscaped gardens, this is the perfect 

venue for your dream wedding. Contact 

the team to turn your dream wedding 

into a reality. 

Details: www.collisheen.co.za; 

IG: @collisheen_estate; FB: Collisheen 

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2 

THE PLACE 

A tranquil setting tucked away in 

the Claremont Indigenous Nursery, 

The Place in Salt Rock offers a bright 

16-seater dining room that resembles 

a greenhouse. This beautiful space 

is surrounded by trees and wild 

garden vegetation. The intimate 

and understated outdoor wedding 

and functions venue is ideal for 

20-80 guests. Décor and catering 

are available to suit your needs and 

budget. This is a ‘home away from 

home’ space. Workshops are held 

throughout the year. Please note that 

viewings by appointment only. 

Details: Claremont Farm, Sheffield 

Beach Rd; www.theplacekzn.co.za; 

083 775 8537.

SALA BEACH HOUSE 

At Sala Beach House, your wedding day 

is a canvas for lifelong memories. The 

professional team is dedicated to turning 

your dream celebration into reality. The 

beach wedding venue provides a unique 

blend of privacy and exclusivity. Imagine 

a haven where opulent accommodation, 

exceptional service, fine dining, and 

natural beauty converge to create the 

perfect backdrop for your love story. 

Whether it’s an intimate bespoke 

wedding, a private ceremony for you and 

your partner, or a dreamy elopement, 

Sala Beach House is the canvas for your 

romantic masterpiece. 

Details: 75 Ocean Drive, Shaka’s Rock, 

Ballito; www.salabeach.co.za; 

032 495 0420; FB: Sala Beach House 

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LA HACIENDA 

Experience an evening at La Hacienda, situated in Foxhill in 

Salt Rock. It’s a tropical oasis, offering a thatched boma, bar, 

dance floor and kitchen with an authentic pizza oven. The 

boma seats up to 60 or 100 standing, with an additional 100 

outside. They team up with North Coast catering and decor 

suppliers to ensure your bespoke event is magical. The lawn is 

perfect for ceremonies, live bands and various celebrations. It’s 

a tranquil venue with comfortable accommodation on offer as 

well. Viewings by appointment only. 

Details: bookings@la-hacienda.co.za 

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PRINCE’S GRANT GOLF ESTATE 

Say “I do” amidst a picturesque landscape of golf greens, lush 

vegetation and breath-taking sea views on KZN’s North Coast. 

Prince’s Grant is an award-winning residential and golf estate 

offering the best in prestigious golfing, luxury accommodation, 

and unforgettable weddings and events. For a secluded beach 

or garden ceremony, followed by a magical reception in the 

newly renovated Jeremy Stubbs venue, get in touch with the 

team and let them create a wedding experience that you’ll 

never forget. 

Details: 032 482 0005; commercial1@pghoa.co.za; 

IG: @princesgrant_coastalestate; FB: Prince’s Grant Coastal Golf Estate 

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The art of 

storytelling 

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Husband-and-wife team 

Tash and Rich Lange 

love capturing special 

moments through 

photography and film. 

Romantic, warm and dreamy… 

Tash and Rich are passionate about 

creating images and videos that 

evoke a sweet sense of nostalgia. 

While Tash focuses on photography, 

Rich captures the real, raw moments 

in between with videography. 

Based in Ballito, they have worked 

together for a number of years 

offering brand development and 

photography for local businesses, 

but it is family and wedding shoots 

that remain at the heart of their 

business, Stories by Goya. Working 

together has its challenges. “There 

was a lot of butting heads in the 

beginning,” laughs Rich, but the 

couple has found a way to make it 

work, and each of them brings their 

own style and strengths to a shoot. 

Tash is a people-person with an 

eye for detail, and Rich is a creative 

spirit who likes to be behind the 

scenes where he can capture special, 

fleeting moments. “Storytelling is at 

the heart of all our work,” explains 

Tash. “To be able to preserve the art 

of storytelling in some way is why we 

love what we do.” 

When Tash and Rich shoot a wedding, 

they encourage the couple to keep 

it real. “We’re there the whole day. 

Let’s not fabricate it,” says Tash. “It’s 

not about the photography and the 

video, it’s about your wedding and 

we’re there to capture what’s actually 

happening. You’re marrying the 

person you love most in the world, 

surrounded by the rest of the people 

that you love most in the world. 

What’s not going to be beautiful 

about that?” 

When it comes to their visual style, 

Tash and Rich have remained 

traditional in an effort to create 

work that won’t date over time. 

“In 20 or 40 years’ time, you’re not 

going to remember a trend that was 

happening on Instagram,” says Rich. 

That said, their particular aesthetic has 

a desaturated, film-like quality with a 

soft, dreamy feel. 

Through their work, Tash and Rich 

have connected with some wonderful 

people, and there’s often a natural 

progression where they do maternity 

and family shoots for their wedding 

couples. “We just love being able to 

tell a real story about people, and to 

capture moments, because it all goes 

so fast,” says Tash. 

Details: www.storiesbygoya.com; 

071 382 4006; info@storiesbygoya.com; 

IG:@stories_by_goya_weddings; 

FB: Stories by Goya 

Storytelling is 

at the heart of 

all our work 


A taste for adventure 

Laura Lander spent 15 years travelling the world while 

working on superyachts. Now, she’s settled back in Umhlanga 

and shares her skills and experiences with others who have 

the urge to explore. 

Although Laura has been around the world, she is pleased 

to be back on South African shores. Originally from Westville 

and now based in Umhlanga with her Australian husband, 

she enjoys the lifestyle that the area offers. The couple 

met while working on a superyacht, and are happy to 

have settled on the North Coast. “Even though there are 

problems here, we love it! When you travel a lot, you realise 

that there are problems everywhere,” she says. “You can 

make a choice to stay and be part of the solution. South 

Africa is where my heart is; it’s home.” 

After school, Laura wasn’t sure what she wanted to do but 

when she was offered the opportunity to work on a fivestar 

private game reserve after university, her eyes were 

opened to the world of hospitality. “I just love doing a job 

that makes people happy,” she says. After some years at 

luxury game lodges, Laura took a job as a junior stewardess 

on a superyacht. Her work took her all over the world – off 

the beaten track in Papua New Guinea, to the sparkling 

archipelago of Vanuatu and some beautiful areas of India. 

Some of her personal highlights include swimming with 

bioluminescence in Palau, and discovering the tropical 

islands of Seychelles. Although she saw some amazing 

places over the course of 15 years, it was the people 

she met that really impacted her. “It was an incredible 

experience. The best thing for me was the opportunity to 

live and work with people from different cultures,” she says. 

Between the travels and the rewarding moments, however, 

life at sea wasn’t always easy. “In this industry, you have to 

be service-minded and comfortable following a lot of rules,” 

says Laura. “It’s really hard work and the hours are long.” 

Laura is now the director of Trilogy Luxury Training in 

Umhlanga, which offers courses to people looking to enter 

the superyacht industry, as well as seasoned professionals 

looking to upskill. Although she has traded work on 

superyachts for solid ground, she loves still being part of the 

industry and being able to share her knowledge. 

“I love being able to help the next generation of professional 

superyacht crew members navigate their maritime career 

path,” she says. 

Details: Trilogy Luxury Training; Unit 12 Meridian Park, 39 

Meridian Drive, Umhlanga; www.trilogyluxurytraining.co.za; 

074 130 6295; info@trilogyluxurytraining.co.za; 

IG: @trilogyluxurytraining 



GET IT DIRECTORY

The romance of rail 

Seven reasons why a stay on the Kruger Shalati should be on your romantic bucket list! 

The truly spectacular views from your 

bedroom ... be it one of the two dozen 

Carriage Suites on the Train on the Bridge 

or the seven Bridge House Suites, sitting 

adjacent to the bridge in a picturesque 

garden setting with the train’s gentle glow as 

your backdrop. All are opulent, with a hint of 

the 1920s rail safari. The views are equally 

marvelous from the lounge and dining 

areas and the swimming pools, which overlook the 

Sabie River... the river flows all year-round, drawing 

animals and birds that come to quench their thirst. 

The fact that you’ll be recreating 

history. The Kruger Shalati - The Train on 

the Bridge, sits on the exact spot where the 

train would park overnight close to 100 years 

ago, when visits to the Kruger National Park were 

first allowed. The refurbished train is permanently 

stationed on the historically rich Selati Bridge 

above the Sabie River ... a unique experience 

with luxury accommodation and activities 

reminiscent of days gone by. 

The option of a romantic turndown 

... with rose petals scattered around 

the room, a scented bubble bath 

and a bottle of Moët champagne or 

Steenburg Brut sparkling wine on ice. 


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The private bush dinner for two ... and 

the romantic bush picnic. Private dining 

... à deux or more if you’re travelling 

with friends, can be arranged ... with 

exceptional food, fine wine ... even 

entertainment if you want to go for 

the full experience. 

The game drives and walks ... 

private if you prefer. There are 

two game drives a day ... morning 

and afternoon, included in your 

stay. You can, if you wish, opt for 

a private game drive on either. 

There are also exceptionally 

enjoyable morning safari walks 

with Sanparks. And you’re in Kruger 

... you know the game viewing is 

going to be beyond fantastic! 

The extras. 

The heli flips 

and community 

tours and games 

of golf which can 

be arranged. The 

three swimming pools 

and the pre-game drive 

high teas and the staff, 

who go the extra mile. 

A bucket list trip indeed! 

The spa journey in the heart of the bush. 

An African Goddess facial, or hot stone 

massage, or the 75 minute Shalati 

Honeymoon Celebration ... in your 

room or on the deck. Bliss! 

The deets ... 

Rates, from R5890 per person, include 

accommodation, all meals, teas and 

coffees, daily soft drinks, house wines, 

local brand spirits and beers. It also 

includes two game drives daily in 

open game drive vehicles. There is 

also a complementary return road 

transfers between the Skukuza Airport 

and the lodge. All extras - like the 

private dinners and spa treatments 

and romantic turndowns - are 

optional and charged separately. 

Details: krugershalati.com 

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Spoil 

May 

A case of gorgeous wine to 

celebrate a special occasion 

Long, eventful lunches, with ripe cheese and tapas style platters, 

fresh salmon sushi, Mediterranean salads. The perfect 

celebration. And for the wine ... this Fairview Rose Quartz 

2023 is the ideal match. Pale rose quartz colour in the 

glass, with delicate notes of sweet pomegranate, summer 

berries and a hint of fresh blossoms, it’s daisy fresh on the 

palate with light oaking adding complexity. R140 from 

fairviewmarketplace.co.za. We’ve got a case of Fairview 

Rose Quartz to give away ... to stand in line to win, pop 

over to @getItmagnc on Instagram or Facebook. Entries 

close May 25. 

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