Windward Review Vol. 20 (2022): Beginnings and Endings
"Beginnings and Endings" (2022) challenged South Texas writers and beyond to narrate structures of beginnings and ends. What results is a collection of poetry, prose, hybrid writing, and photography that haunts, embraces, and consoles all the same. Similar to past WR volumes, this collection defies easy elaboration - it contains diverse tones, languages, colors, and creative spaces. Creative pieces within the text builds upon others, allowing polyvocal narratives to interlock and defy the logic of 'beginning-middle-end'. By the end of this collection, you will neither sense nor crave the finality that a typical text brings. Instead, you will be inspired to learn and create beyond a narrative linear structure. Your reading and support is sincerely appreciated.
"Beginnings and Endings" (2022) challenged South Texas writers and beyond to narrate structures of beginnings and ends. What results is a collection of poetry, prose, hybrid writing, and photography that haunts, embraces, and consoles all the same. Similar to past WR volumes, this collection defies easy elaboration - it contains diverse tones, languages, colors, and creative spaces. Creative pieces within the text builds upon others, allowing polyvocal narratives to interlock and defy the logic of 'beginning-middle-end'. By the end of this collection, you will neither sense nor crave the finality that a typical text brings. Instead, you will be inspired to learn and create beyond a narrative linear structure. Your reading and support is sincerely appreciated.
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steady my breath. Dad was gone. I scanned<br />
the store—he was nowhere in sight. We<br />
split up into two groups <strong>and</strong> searched the<br />
store, but there was no sign of him. We<br />
moved outside <strong>and</strong> began to inspect the<br />
shopping mall. We searched the adjacent<br />
stores <strong>and</strong> parking lot, asking passersby<br />
if they had seen him. No one had. Fearing<br />
the worst, we decided to call the police.<br />
Hours passed, <strong>and</strong> when it became<br />
evident that he was not in the area, a police<br />
officer approached me <strong>and</strong> said, “Ma’am,<br />
go home <strong>and</strong> wait for a call from the police<br />
department.” I feared the worst as I walked<br />
to the car with tears streaming down my<br />
face <strong>and</strong> my double breathing teetering on<br />
the verge of hyperventilating. That’s when<br />
another police officer appeared tenderly<br />
cradling a bedraggled, elderly gentleman.<br />
It was him! Dad’s face was as red as a<br />
summer ripe tomato, <strong>and</strong> his bright white<br />
hair stood straight up on his head. He<br />
resembled a sunburned, disheveled Albert<br />
Einstein! I burst into nervous laughter.<br />
We never found out what exactly<br />
happened that afternoon. We imagined<br />
that Dad must have convinced someone<br />
that he needed a ride. Then, when it<br />
became apparent that he was not in his<br />
right mind, they returned him to the<br />
shopping mall. Or, maybe Dad just climbed<br />
into the back of a parked pickup truck, <strong>and</strong><br />
once the driver noticed him in the back,<br />
they brought him back to the shopping<br />
mall. All we know is that he rode in the<br />
back of a pickup truck for god knows how<br />
many miles, white hair flying in the hot,<br />
stagnant, sticky Houston air.<br />
Later that year, Mom <strong>and</strong> Dad<br />
came to visit during the holidays. I knew<br />
Mom wanted to stay. I knew she wanted<br />
help with him, <strong>and</strong> being a stay-at-home<br />
mom, I felt I could offer her that. I thought<br />
between us, we could manage him.<br />
However, it quickly became apparent that<br />
taking proper, round-the-clock care of him<br />
was impossible. The time I was awakened<br />
in the middle of the night to find him going<br />
from room to room as he lit matches to see<br />
in the dark because he didn’t remember<br />
that he could turn the light on with the<br />
flick of a switch was the moment that I<br />
knew we had to do something.<br />
We began to discuss professional<br />
care in a nursing home. It took months<br />
of Dad’s crazy behaviors <strong>and</strong> many family<br />
discussions to finally make the painful<br />
decision. The decision was only made<br />
worse by my sister’s reaction to the news.<br />
She berated my mom as only she could<br />
do. Mom was devastated <strong>and</strong> depressed,<br />
but ultimately she knew what she had to<br />
do, <strong>and</strong> not even my sister’s hurtful words<br />
<strong>and</strong> actions would keep her from doing the<br />
right thing for her husb<strong>and</strong> of over fifty<br />
years. And finally, after much research <strong>and</strong><br />
government bureaucracy, we settled on a<br />
beautiful new facility just minutes from<br />
home. We knew it was best for him, but our<br />
hearts hurt from the thought of leaving<br />
him in a strange place with unfamiliar<br />
people. We explained, over <strong>and</strong> over, what<br />
his new living situation would be, but he<br />
just didn’t underst<strong>and</strong>.<br />
We arrived at the nursing home<br />
with big smiles to disguise our heavy<br />
hearts. It was a beautifully decorated,<br />
serene place, <strong>and</strong> Dad loved all the<br />
attention from the female nurses. Mom<br />
<strong>and</strong> I spent the entire day getting him<br />
settled in <strong>and</strong> showing him around the<br />
grounds. Then, when it came time to leave,<br />
he resisted very little, but enough to drain<br />
us of what little we had left in us to keep it<br />
together. “¿Me vas a dejar aqui solito?”<br />
he asked us, <strong>and</strong> the question shattered<br />
my heart into a million pieces. That night,<br />
however, I slept like a baby, not having to<br />
listen for the sounds of him w<strong>and</strong>ering the<br />
house or backyard. It felt good to know he<br />
was safe <strong>and</strong> in good h<strong>and</strong>s.<br />
The nurses <strong>and</strong> staff became<br />
family, <strong>and</strong> as time passed, it became our<br />
home away from home. I could bring him<br />
home on the weekends for the first few<br />
years. Dad would enjoy home-cooked<br />
meals <strong>and</strong> outings with the family, <strong>and</strong><br />
most importantly, he would spend quality<br />
time with Mom, cuddling, watching<br />
telenovelas, <strong>and</strong> working in the garden.<br />
The time came when he could no<br />
longer manage the step into the garage<br />
from the house. I watched as my husb<strong>and</strong><br />
tenderly picked him up <strong>and</strong> carried him to<br />
the car. At that moment, I knew this would<br />
be one of his last visits to the house. After<br />
that, the visits home began to dwindle.<br />
Every weekend turned into a couple of<br />
times a month, which turned into once a<br />
month, which turned into holidays, which<br />
eventually turned into one-way visits—<br />
from us to him.<br />
Dad began to share with me that<br />
he was ready to die. “Ya mija quiero<br />
morir, estoy listo,” he would tell me. Mom,<br />
however, refused to accept this. As a result,<br />
he would be in <strong>and</strong> out of hospitals for<br />
months. Finally, on one occasion, arriving<br />
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