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Obituaries<br />

<strong>The</strong>se were his days of forging the first leveraged buyouts and what are now IPO’s.<br />

But corporate structures were not for him personally, so he and another partner<br />

started their own business buying companies and creating investment opportunities<br />

for other entities – the first private equity deals. Such transactions formed the basis<br />

of what became Colin’s fortune, and those involved with him in those endeavours<br />

hatched new, long-lasting friendships both in the US and England.<br />

During these years he had married Virginia Decker. Like many eccentric men of<br />

brilliance Colin could be demanding, cussed and curmudgeonly, but Ginnie handled<br />

him marvellously. She became a wonderful wife to him in every way and remained<br />

so his whole life long. She also became a much-loved friend to all of us, his friends.<br />

Eventually they settled, as far as New York was concerned, on Park Avenue, their<br />

apartment spacious enough to accommodate, essential for Colin, his library. Not<br />

surprisingly given his academic prowess he read all the time, a good deal of the<br />

serious grist necessary for his particular mill being historical. <strong>The</strong>ir second home,<br />

much loved by them both, was a large, elegant clapboard villa in Newport RI, again<br />

with the private library. It is a beautiful place with well-timbered grounds, wide sea<br />

frontage and a private jetty.<br />

Evelyn Waugh once famously said, “you must always keep your friendships in good<br />

repair”. Colin and Ginnie always worked hard to achieve exactly that, and far more. It<br />

has been one of their main preoccupations to do as much as possible to share their<br />

good fortune with their friends. <strong>The</strong>ir generosity has been legendary. Regularly there<br />

have been entertainments, parties, even cruises. No-one lucky enough to have been<br />

on board will ever forget the MV Hallas. This retired and refurbished ex-Bosphorus<br />

ferry paddle-steamer was hired to celebrate Colin’s fiftieth birthday: visits along the<br />

coast of Turkey taking in Ephesus and other ancient sites, meticulously researched<br />

by Colin, and all comforts beautifully overseen by Ginnie. A trip of a lifetime.<br />

As well as generosity on a personal level, Colin never forgot his debt to his old<br />

<strong>College</strong>. Our immediate coterie of friends has always remained staunchly proud<br />

of being Queensmen. In Colin’s case these feelings have manifested themselves<br />

under a veil of discretion, if not secrecy, in endowments and gifts to his old <strong>College</strong>.<br />

Queen’s always remained in his heart. He was due to return in September <strong>2023</strong> to<br />

our undergraduate dining club <strong>The</strong> Queen’s Table, for which he always if possible<br />

crossed the Atlantic. This year, sadly, this was not to be. To say he was missed is<br />

an understatement.<br />

I remember his once telling me at Queen’s where he had just returned after some<br />

time away, that he heard echoing round the cloister a loud, unmistakably Yorkshire,<br />

voice shouting to a friend. “Ay oop lad, did y’ ‘ear ‘Aaaaalifax got thraashed....”.<br />

He never forgot it and he and I used frequently to greet each other when meeting,<br />

108 <strong>The</strong> Queen’s <strong>College</strong> | <strong>College</strong> <strong>Record</strong> <strong>2023</strong>

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