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The Elim Connection, December 2023

The Elim Connection is a community publication distributed three times per year to all residents of Elim Village, across two campuses. It is also shared with subscribers to our mailing list and those visiting our communities. The Elim Connection focuses on the stories and lifestyle of those living and aging in place at our two retirement communities.

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‘TIS THE SEASON OF<br />

LOVE, JOY & PEACE<br />

ISSUE 20 WINTER <strong>2023</strong>


A collection of<br />

photos from this year’s<br />

Health & Wellness Fair,<br />

titled: Imagine! Read<br />

more on page 10.<br />

FROM THE EDITOR<br />

Community is at its peak this time of year at ELIM. <strong>The</strong>re are so many wonderful opportunities<br />

and events going on in our villages that bring us together and lift our spirits. This 20th edition<br />

of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Connection</strong> celebrates those moments and also shares a unique collection of thoughts,<br />

stories, and memories—many thanks to the resident and staff contributors who penned the<br />

words within. I found myself laughing at times, and in other moments, pausing to reflect. By the<br />

end, I felt stitched a little bit tighter into the fabric of our communities—I hope by the end, you<br />

feel that way too.<br />

Katrina LaRoy,<br />

Brand & Communications Manager<br />

WINTER <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 3


LIFE AT<br />

ELIM VILLAGE<br />

A snapshot of the last few months, with community highlights from <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood (FW),<br />

including Independent Living (IL), Assisted Living (AL), and Full Care (FC), and <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing (GC).<br />

FRIENDSHIPS IN BLOOM<br />

Fairfield Flowers, a local Chilliwack floral design shop, provides<br />

arrangements for the main floor of <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn. As residents<br />

always comment on how beautiful a job they do, we decided to<br />

bring Fairfield Fowers in to host a flower arranging workshop!<br />

Residents from all five buildings came and enjoyed connecting with<br />

each other while creating colourful, fresh arrangements to take back<br />

home to their suites. We are excited to host more floral workshops<br />

in the future, and residents are too!<br />

CHRISTMAS MARKET<br />

AT THE EMERALD<br />

AN ENCORE<br />

FOR GREG ALCOCK!<br />

A DAY OF<br />

INSPIRATION<br />

We believe everyone deserves<br />

to feel the embrace of a caring,<br />

Christian community, and our<br />

inaugural Day of Inspiration did just<br />

that! Organized by our Pastoral<br />

team, this event provided insights<br />

on this year’s topic: <strong>The</strong> Spirituality<br />

of Aging. “When ELIM does<br />

something, they do it well, and<br />

this event was amazing!” shares<br />

IL resident, Ann Clark (pictured).<br />

We’re already looking forward to<br />

the next inspiring event in 2024!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Emerald Christmas Market<br />

celebrated its busiest year yet!<br />

Drawing in residents and visitors<br />

from across the village, the market<br />

featured handknit items, wooden<br />

magnets, and more from the<br />

Emerald Crafter’s Corner, which<br />

meets each Monday, year round.<br />

This year, the market brought in<br />

almost $3,000 in proceeds, and a<br />

generous portion of this will be<br />

donated to the Surrey Food Bank’s<br />

Tiny Bundles program to aid<br />

young mothers in need.<br />

TUNES OF<br />

TOGETHERNESS<br />

Lenny Lan, a Full Care resident<br />

and former music teacher, held<br />

a concert at Fleetwood with<br />

his former students. <strong>The</strong> vocal<br />

styling and piano performances<br />

left residents feeling like they’d<br />

attended a professional opera!<br />

Lenny chose “Edelweiss” from <strong>The</strong><br />

Sound of Music as his final song.<br />

“It’s for the staff here,” says Lenny,<br />

“Like the song says: Every morning<br />

they greet us, they are happy and<br />

bright, and they bless our home.”<br />

We recently welcomed back concert pianist Greg Alcock to<br />

Garrison Crossing by popular demand. Known for playing old<br />

familiar tunes like “So Happy Together” by <strong>The</strong> Turtles, Alcock’s<br />

performance delighted residents. “I really enjoyed it!” remarks<br />

Veronica Slamon, an Independent Living resident. “It brought me<br />

back to the boogie-woogie, jiving days. Greg was very enjoyable.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> event offered a simple, yet enjoyable, trip down memory lane<br />

for every resident in attendance.<br />

‘TIS THE SEASON OF<br />

LOVE, JOY & PEACE<br />

ISSUE 20 WINTER <strong>2023</strong><br />

BEHIND THE COVER<br />

ELIM’s Christmas spirit shines through on the front cover of<br />

this edition, capturing Fleetwood’s annual Light up the Village<br />

event! Adrian and Jannette Vandop (Fleetwood residents,<br />

Carmanah building), were all smiles at this recent gathering.<br />

Amid cherished traditions like hearing the Surrey Christian<br />

School youth choir sing, sipping on hot cocoa, and participating<br />

in a collective countdown to light up the village, a sense of<br />

community filled the crisp <strong>December</strong> air. New conversations<br />

and memories were forged, and friendships strengthened.<br />

What a gift it is to continue this annual tradition in Surrey<br />

and to have witnessed its passage to our Garrison Crossing<br />

community last year.<br />

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A SANTA<br />

CHRISTMAS<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

FRANK DEVRIES,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

I couldn’t believe it. Some 50 years ago Celia, my<br />

wife, and I had been walking through what was then<br />

called Champlain Mall, a small shopping centre in<br />

south Vancouver. Arriving back near the entrance,<br />

our eyes were drawn to a variety shop displaying<br />

everything Christmassy from glow to glitter and<br />

beyond. But lo and behold, nearly hidden in the<br />

bewildering mishmash, I spied a nativity scene<br />

complete with Joseph, Mary, baby Jesus, the wise<br />

men, shepherds, and several sheep that had followed<br />

their herders into the stable. And Santa.<br />

Santa?<br />

Yes, there was Santa, worshipping Jesus. Disgruntled<br />

already about the annual hoopla surrounding the<br />

birth of the Saviour, Santa really did me in—this<br />

was simply outrageous. Walking back to the car, I<br />

let Celia in, but turned and went back into the mall;<br />

perturbed though I was, I just had to look at that<br />

scene again. Because for reasons I could not explain<br />

to myself, I wanted it!<br />

<strong>The</strong> price of the set was $35.00, well beyond our<br />

budget at that time, and I did not purchase it. Yet<br />

over the years sometimes my thoughts would stray<br />

back to that strange nativity scene, and for the<br />

umpteenth time I would wonder what had driven its<br />

creator to include Santa.<br />

In already early November, notices appear on TV<br />

and in store windows reminding everyone that<br />

Christmas is a-coming, and within a short time,<br />

too, stores launch their annual Christmas Jingle Bell<br />

jingles to their unsuspecting customers. Now it so<br />

happened that once, while shopping for Quaker low<br />

fat Bran Muffin mix, the reason for the inclusion of<br />

Santa became crystal clear to me: the creator of<br />

the nativity scene must have had an epiphany. Fully<br />

accepting Jesus as the Lord of all (Acts 10:36) and<br />

worthy of worship, he included into the holy scene<br />

a mythical non-existent entity: Santa.<br />

You and I know well that God’s laws enforce the<br />

stars in their courses, make the sun in its orbit<br />

obediently shine, and that hills and mountains, rivers<br />

and fountains, and the deeps of the ocean declare<br />

him divine (Katherine Davis, “Let All Things Now<br />

Living”). But perhaps there’s more. Could it be<br />

that at Christmas time God simply ordains that all<br />

his children, whether they believe in him or not,<br />

knowingly or unknowingly will celebrate the birth<br />

of his Son, the Christ?<br />

Just think: already long ago secular historians divided<br />

world history at a point where it would forever<br />

revolve around the birth of Christ: BC/AD.<br />

As well you will not only see churches, but also<br />

Hindu temples, Gurdwaras, and many homes of<br />

agnostics, humanists, God’s people, Buddhists,<br />

and atheists alike, light up in festive explosions of<br />

colour and Christmas lights. And everyone tries to<br />

outdo the other in kindnesses performed, giving<br />

presents, preparing foods, caring for the needy,<br />

and during cold winter nights churches are seen to<br />

open their doors to the homeless, feeding them,<br />

and keeping them warm. Everywhere you hear<br />

songs commemorating the birth of Jesus and, most<br />

interesting, everybody talks about “having the<br />

Christmas Spirit,” with most not aware of what is<br />

really going on: God’s will at work!<br />

And God just smiles, I think. He knows that many<br />

will wake up to the fact that unto them is born a<br />

Saviour, his one and only Son, and that whoever<br />

believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.<br />

Yes, the creator of that nativity scene with the Santa<br />

had it right. Although he might have included a<br />

Christmas tree. Maybe.<br />

6 THE ELIM CONNECTION WINTER <strong>2023</strong> WINTER <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 7


MEMORIES OF CHRISTMAS PAST<br />

ROLF FUHRMANN,<br />

FW INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

MARION PETERSON,<br />

GC INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

DICK NOORT,<br />

FW ASSISTED LIVING<br />

Growing up, Christmas wasn’t just a day but<br />

an entire season. My mother and grandmother<br />

kicked it off in mid-November, with the<br />

sweet aroma of Christmas cookies filling the<br />

air. Sneaking bites before the big day was a<br />

tempting tradition for my two sisters and I,<br />

but mother always had her watchful eyes on<br />

us. I’m thankful we still have those recipes in<br />

our family. Grandmother passed them down to<br />

mother, then to my wife Charlotte, and now to<br />

our daughter. Although cookies kicked off the<br />

season, the real countdown began with Advent.<br />

Each Sunday, our family gathered in the evening<br />

and lit a candle on the wreath. Dad would place<br />

mandarin oranges, nuts, and chocolates on the<br />

table, and the tunes of cherished German carols<br />

filled our home. I loved those nights because I<br />

remember my dad sharing stories about him and<br />

mother when they were young. And now here I<br />

am, sharing some of mine.<br />

IRMA BULLING,<br />

FW FULL CARE<br />

Christmas was always a highlight of the year<br />

because it meant my dad was home. For 364<br />

days of the year, he was busy with business and<br />

farming, but Christmas was his day. I remember<br />

him carving the turkey and watching us kids<br />

open our gifts, but there is one memory I can<br />

still vividly see if I close my eyes. It was the year<br />

dad suggested we have Christmas at the farm.<br />

So, we loaded up a buggy with presents and a<br />

hot dinner and borrowed a neighbour’s horse<br />

to pull us across a snowy field from the city to<br />

the farm. It was a journey filled with laughter,<br />

until we got stuck! <strong>The</strong> horse, named Bob, was<br />

no longer able to pull us so he dumped us out<br />

of the buggy and took off, solo. “Bob!” my dad<br />

shouted, “Bob! Stop!” He didn’t. Thankfully<br />

Bob ran to his owner who then came to rescue<br />

us and deliver us to the farm. Although we<br />

celebrated Christmas soaking wet, we were all<br />

together and it soon became a hilarious tale.<br />

I was born in Poland in 1919, and times were much different than today. I remember making home-made,<br />

decorative paper chains that wrapped around our Christmas tree, which we cut down fresh every year.<br />

Tall, skinny candles clamped onto the pine-filled arms. One-by-one, my grandmother lit each candle,<br />

and I kept a close eye on the flames. With no electricity, the tree outshined our petroleum oil lamps and<br />

became a beacon of light in our home. Once grandmother lit the last candle, we held hands and sang a<br />

Christmas song or two, usually Stille Nacht (Holy Night in German). Hearing this song still brings me to<br />

tears. With one war over and another on the brink, the future wasn’t always hopeful during Christmas,<br />

but moments like this got us through. Sweet, Polish vanilla cookies helped too!<br />

We didn’t have much growing up, but Christmas and Easter were important Christian holidays in our<br />

humble household. <strong>The</strong> joy came not from grand gifts but from simple things, like sipping a glass of orange<br />

juice—a luxury in those times. In fact, I can remember the excitement I felt at Sunday School on Christmas<br />

morning. After performing the Christmas songs we had been practicing in the weeks leading up, we each<br />

received an orange and a cookie or apple fritter. Both were dearly treasured. Not only were oranges<br />

expensive, but you had to import them to Holland, which was nearly impossible during the war. It was<br />

moments like this that I savoured. This, and of course, the chocolates and candies that were placed in the<br />

wooden shoe we left under the chimney for Sinterklaas—a tradition many Dutch celebrated and still do.<br />

Looking back, we didn’t have much, but my parents always gave us all their love.<br />

LORNA CONNOLLY,<br />

GC INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

Born on Christmas Day, Mom said I was the best<br />

present she ever received! But a gift that stands<br />

out to me is a German electric train set my dad<br />

and uncle found in the Eaton catalogue. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

convinced me to add it to my wish list (and of<br />

course Santa checked it off his list!), but I suspect<br />

they wanted to play with it themselves. It was<br />

hard to resist watching the train glide along its<br />

tracks in a mesmerizing loop running around the<br />

tree skirt. For almost 90 years I’ve been bringing<br />

out that very same train set for Christmas.<br />

It’s needed repairs over the years, but I’m<br />

grateful my son has been able to do this at his<br />

home on the island. Every sight of the train brings<br />

back memories of my dad, uncle, and my kids’<br />

childhood, which are captured in photos (like<br />

my son, Jim, pictured!) <strong>The</strong> train isn’t valuable<br />

money-wise, but it’s invaluable in memories.


I IMAGINED A SUCCESS—AND IT WAS!<br />

WRITTEN BY CLARA ATAGI, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

LIFE IN EVERY STEP<br />

WRITTEN BY RACHEL NEDELEC (HOFFOS), STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

This year’s Health & Wellness Fair was<br />

immeasurably more than we could have asked<br />

for or imagined! <strong>The</strong> event sold out to a diverse<br />

audience of over 330 people, which included<br />

residents from both villages, family members, staff,<br />

and many outside guests interested in joining our<br />

communities one day.<br />

Keynote speaker Steph Jagger delivered an engaging<br />

talk, encouraging us to live in the present, and<br />

Terry Small, <strong>The</strong> Brain Guy, had the audience in<br />

laughter with his humourous presentation about the<br />

brain (Did you know? Laughter creates 37 chemical<br />

reactions in your brain!) We’ve included another<br />

one of Terry’s great tips below.<br />

Guests enjoyed a delicious buffet lunch, many door<br />

prizes, an exhibitor fair, and an outstanding concert<br />

DID YOU KNOW?<br />

with Dennis Enns & Gillian Gjernes—a highlight!<br />

Imagine <strong>2023</strong> was a beautiful time of learning<br />

and community. It was also an inspiring day,<br />

particularly when Fleetwood staff member<br />

Michele Damjanovic highlighted residents in<br />

our midst living intentionally and with purpose.<br />

She spoke of volunteer efforts, of residents using<br />

their talents and gifts to benefit charities, and of<br />

those serving our communities in profound ways.<br />

What a great day!<br />

Our village communities are filled with inspiring<br />

people. Some of these people were highlighted at the<br />

Health & Wellness Fair, but there are many more<br />

whose stories remain untold. It’s our goal to learn<br />

these stories and to share them with you—starting<br />

with Garrison Crossing resident, Henry, who you can<br />

meet on the next page.<br />

Several studies indicate that morning light exposure is an all-day gift to your brain, providing better focus,<br />

more alertness, a happier mood, reduced depression, and better sleep 1 2 . <strong>The</strong> challenge? Get outside in<br />

nature each morning at 10am! Try for at least ten minutes. Terry calls it “the magic of 10 at 10”.<br />

1<br />

Choi, K., Shin, C., Kim, T. et al. Awakening effects of blue-enriched morning light exposure<br />

on university students’ physiological and subjective responses. Sci Rep 9, 345 (2019).<br />

2<br />

Sleep Health, Volume 3, Issue 3, P. 204-215, June 1, 2017.<br />

?<br />

“Come in!” shouts a muffled Evelyn. I open the door to the Rempel’s<br />

seventh floor suite in <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn, and my face is instantly hit with a<br />

waft of what I can only describe as smoked hickory wood chips.<br />

“Are you cooking?” I ask. I also let out a giggle because I know Evelyn no<br />

longer needs to cook here; if she’s busy in the kitchen, then she’s usually<br />

baking something sweet, not savoury. I look over to see her husband,<br />

Henry, sitting comfortably in a red, velvet chair. In one hand is a tall and<br />

skinny branch of wood, and in the other is a handheld tool plugged into<br />

the wall—a pyrography pen.<br />

When I heard about Henry, a resident at Garrison Crossing who runs<br />

10 kilometers every other day, I knew I needed to meet him and capture<br />

his story. What I didn’t expect is that these runs, which he’s done for<br />

13 years by the way (and he’s in his 80’s!), are just the tip of the iceberg<br />

when it comes to his remarkable hobbies.<br />

“Does this smell?” Henry asks, looking down at the fresh burns he’s just<br />

etched into the wooden stick. I nod my head. “I lost my sense of smell—<br />

I had no idea!” he remarks, and the three of us fall into laughter. Henry<br />

went on to share that his desire to start running at age 32 began when he<br />

learned that our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit—we must take<br />

care of them. It became clear that he looks at all things through a lens of<br />

greater purpose, including the wobbly piece of wood that floated in from<br />

the ocean over 22 years ago—but we’ll get there!<br />

Our chat about running transitions to Henry sharing about his family. “My<br />

son, Michael, came into the world with Down syndrome,” he mentions.<br />

“His love was so overpowering that it could disarm anyone entering the<br />

same room as him.” In 2000, at age 27, Michael was diagnosed with a<br />

heart disorder. Reflecting on those tough times, Henry reveals, “A few<br />

weeks after Michael’s diagnosis, my first wife was diagnosed with cancer.”<br />

After a pause, he adds, “Michael peacefully passed away after two<br />

months, and my wife followed two and a half years later.”<br />

Henry stands up and as he heads towards his bedroom, he motions for<br />

me to follow. <strong>The</strong>re, propped against the wall, are six different wooden<br />

sticks; one is painted, the others bare. He reaches for the one with a<br />

beautiful, multi-colour pattern painted on it (pictured right).<br />

Continued on next page...


“This is the first walking stick I made,” he shares.<br />

“Not long after Michael passed, my wife and I took<br />

a trip to the Oregon coastline. On the beach, I<br />

discovered this piece of driftwood. It wasn’t neat or<br />

tidy, but it represented life. It represented Michael.”<br />

So, he brought the driftwood home, enhanced its<br />

beauty with paint, and dedicated it to his son.<br />

This act of creation marked the beginning of a new,<br />

meaningful hobby. Since that day at the beach,<br />

BEHIND THE COVER & LENS<br />

WRITTEN BY KATRINA LAROY, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

“Who’s that?” or “Awww…those kids are so cute!” may have<br />

been thoughts that entered your mind when our last ELIM<br />

<strong>Connection</strong> arrived in your hands.<br />

Meet Jurgen—or Jack—Logemann; Independent Living<br />

resident (Kootenay building) at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood.<br />

Jack was born in Germany and trained as a cabinet maker<br />

before coming to Canada at the age of 21. Making his way<br />

to Winnipeg, he became a husband while there, having<br />

met his sweetheart Hanna at a local church. <strong>The</strong> winters,<br />

though, were cold and long, driving the young couple<br />

further west, where they settled in Burnaby in 1956. Jack<br />

became ‘Dad’ to three girls, and over the years became<br />

‘Opi’ to four grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.<br />

Two of those great-grandchildren are little Hudson and<br />

Henry has continued to craft walking sticks, giving<br />

them freely to family, friends, and even gifting<br />

miniature ones to children. Today, he ventures to<br />

the Vedder River to gather wood, peel back the<br />

bark, and use his pyrography pen to tailor each<br />

walking stick to the person receiving it, just like the<br />

one pictured above.<br />

If your life was captured on a walking stick, what<br />

designs or words would you like it to bear?<br />

EVERY DAY<br />

IS A NEW DAY<br />

ISSUE 19 SUMMER <strong>2023</strong><br />

SUMMER <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 1<br />

Forest—the very two from the photo. When<br />

visiting their Opi, they like to see the big fish in the<br />

pond, so Opi picks them up, plunks them on his<br />

walker, and off they go, seeking patterned poisson<br />

in the watery depths.<br />

Another person along for these adventures is<br />

Brandon—grandson to Jack, and dad to the boys.<br />

This “Behind the Cover” doubles as a “behind the<br />

lens” tale, as Brandon is the one who captured<br />

our wonderful cover shot for the last edition.<br />

He has also captured many more ELIM moments<br />

over the last decade and will be recognizable to<br />

many readers. As an organization, ELIM works<br />

with hundreds of contractors, everything from<br />

allied health professionals to architects to creatives,<br />

like Brandon. <strong>The</strong> extent of connections within the<br />

ELIM community never ceases to amaze me (just<br />

the other week a resident in Garrison Crossing<br />

told me she was the aunt of a staff person in<br />

Fleetwood; case in point!), so I shouldn’t have<br />

been surprised to learn that Brandon—naturally<br />

—has a relative living with us.<br />

“I always liked the sea,”<br />

Jack said, “so, I built a<br />

sailboat.”<br />

While Brandon was onside for a recent<br />

photoshoot, we snuck in a quick interview with his<br />

Opi. While the three of us sat together, there were<br />

a few “Isn’t it obvious?” moments (it wasn’t obvious<br />

to me). Like, for example, learning of their family’s<br />

Christmas tradition of eating slices of a marzipan<br />

bar as a special treat, which is an almond mixture<br />

covered in chocolate. For many readers this will be<br />

a familiar treat, but incredibly I’d never heard of it;<br />

possibly because my own family favours a different<br />

Christmas sweet, called halva—a sesame paste<br />

(and the clear sister to marzipan in the nutty/seed<br />

delicacy world)!<br />

Brandon pulled a marzipan bar out of his pocket<br />

when we arrived and it was promptly unwrapped<br />

and shared. I savoured my inaugural slice as I<br />

listened to the two stroll down memory lane. I<br />

learned that Brandon’s most prominent childhood<br />

memories of his Opi included listening to him play<br />

trumpet at church. I learned that, sadly, Hanna<br />

had passed away due to a stroke many years prior<br />

(and although dearly missed, the memory of her<br />

remains strong, including her wonderful sense of<br />

humour!) I also learned that Jack had built a sailboat<br />

in life (this was the second, “isn’t it obvious?”<br />

moment of our visit). “I always liked the sea,” Jack<br />

said, “so, I built a sailboat.” He said this so casually,<br />

that an astounded exclamation sprang from my lips.<br />

“Well,” he replied matter-of-factly, “I was a cabinet<br />

maker” (as though all cabinet makers double as<br />

shipwrights!) He constructed the 15-foot, fourperson<br />

sailboat right in his carport, and frequently<br />

went out on the water with Hanna for a sail. He<br />

had also built the grandfather clock which adorns<br />

the corner of his living room (and which Brandon<br />

plans to keep in the family).<br />

It was a very lovely visit, illuminating again the<br />

depth of community at ELIM, the importance of<br />

family, and the unique story and talents of each<br />

person’s life.<br />

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STAFF SPOTLIGHT<br />

FOR THE BIRDS<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

ALBERT ZEHR,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

VICKY<br />

Hi, I’m Vikashni, but you can<br />

call me Vicky! I started my<br />

journey with <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood back in 2017,<br />

and since then I’ve taken on various roles. First,<br />

I was a dietary aide and then I worked my way up<br />

to my current role—Food Supervisor for Assisted<br />

Living at <strong>The</strong> Emerald. If you’ve seen me at events<br />

around the Fleetwood village, it’s because I’m also<br />

a supervisor for catered events.<br />

At work, I strive to give my best each day to bring<br />

joy to residents. Providing top-notch service is my<br />

goal, and I take pride in being a team player, ready<br />

to assist anyone in any way I can. What also makes<br />

work a joy is my strong and reliable team mates;<br />

I consider them to be my second family.<br />

I love every opportunity I get to work with the<br />

residents here—they remind me to smile. Even<br />

though life may have its ups and downs, a smile can<br />

make a difference. I also enjoy catering their meals<br />

to their special diets. Taking the opportunity to sit<br />

down and connect with them is a time I cherish.<br />

Outside of work, my life is bustling with four kids,<br />

three dogs, and my mother-in-law who lives with<br />

us. I enjoy spending time with them, watching<br />

movies (especially suspenseful ones!), and baking<br />

and cooking. Just as I ensure no resident goes<br />

without a satisfying meal, my home is always open<br />

for people to enjoy a meal!<br />

JODI<br />

Hello, I’m Jodi Sunshine Belzer (yes,<br />

my middle name really is Sunshine!) I’ve<br />

been a part of ELIM for the past two years, and time<br />

has flown by in the blink of an eye. I hold a license as<br />

a Practical Nurse and currently serve as the Home<br />

Care Coordinator at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing.<br />

In the workplace, I aspire to embody qualities of<br />

friendliness, helpfulness, kindness, advocacy, and<br />

to be a perpetual seeker of the positive in any<br />

situation. What makes ELIM truly special for me is<br />

the incredible team of staff. <strong>The</strong>y are all excellent to<br />

work with, learn from, and grow with.<br />

<strong>The</strong> appreciation we receive from residents for our<br />

hard work is heartwarming. It’s the little victories<br />

that make a big difference. Through them, I’ve<br />

learned the impact small decisions have on one’s<br />

life—the good and the bad. Hearing their stories,<br />

witnessing the lives they’ve led and continue to lead,<br />

is inspiring. We have some incredible seniors here<br />

that I admire and learn from daily!<br />

In my spare time, you’ll find me immersed in nature,<br />

whether it’s kayaking, biking, or walking in forests,<br />

trails, or on beaches. I’m also a proud ‘nana’ to<br />

four grandchildren who live next door on our small<br />

property. I love caring for our chickens, dogs, cat,<br />

and tending to our veggie gardens. Just as I love<br />

supporting my family, I enjoy supporting ELIM<br />

residents in this chapter of their lives too.<br />

When we were children we had a song, “Here<br />

we sit like birds in the wilderness, waiting to be<br />

fed.” At our age, many of us may feel at times<br />

that those lyrics are becoming our experience.<br />

Meanwhile, we hear much about sowing and<br />

reaping. How, though, can one expect to reap<br />

if they don’t sow? However, in a certain stage<br />

of life, perhaps sowing is not so easy anymore.<br />

Matthew 6:26 is a very interesting verse,<br />

which reads, “Look at the birds of the air, for<br />

they neither sow nor reap nor gather into<br />

barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them.<br />

Are you not of more value than they?” Very<br />

seldom have I noticed and considered that the<br />

birds do not reap nor sow, and yet God takes<br />

care of them. From this we can be assured that<br />

even if we are unable to sow or reap, He still<br />

cares for us and will take care of us. Maybe<br />

that’s a good thought for our age group.<br />

In further consideration of the birds, it’s<br />

interesting to note the way they feed and<br />

nourish the little birds of the next generation—<br />

first they digest food themselves, and then use<br />

that same food to feed their young. Perhaps<br />

as “older birds” we can learn from this and be<br />

encouraged that we too can still feed others,<br />

as based on our own nourishment.<br />

Some years ago, I was privileged to have with<br />

me a pastor friend from Africa. We went<br />

together to visit Pastor Birch, who was a man<br />

I greatly admired. Pastor Birch shared with us<br />

his reflection that morning from Jeremiah 13,<br />

which is the passage where Jeremiah is told to<br />

bury a sash which he earlier had around his<br />

waist. He is told to take it and hide it in a hole.<br />

After many days, he retrieves it and finds it<br />

decayed and useless.<br />

Pastor Birch interpreted the passage for us,<br />

which is the need to remain close to the Lord’s<br />

heart in order to remain useful; our usefulness<br />

can be lost if we simply go and hide in a hole.<br />

My African friend, who was quite deeply moved<br />

by this, later told me that he took great personal<br />

insight from this and was able to nourish his<br />

congregation for several weeks because of it.<br />

Even though Pastor Birch was no longer<br />

travelling at that time and doing what we<br />

consider as “sowing”, he digested food—truth<br />

—and imparted it to us, the next generation,<br />

just like the birds feed their young. In the same<br />

way, we too can digest the word and also<br />

nourish the body.<br />

WINTER <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 15


IN LOVING MEMORY<br />

FROM AUGUST 16 TH to DECEMBER 5 TH , <strong>2023</strong><br />

* Resident has a spouse living at <strong>Elim</strong> Village ^ Prior IL or AL resident<br />

Residents from Garrison Crossing represented by (GC)<br />

I QUIETLY TRUST<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

FLORLI NEMETH,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

I quietly trust in the love of my King<br />

He favours me constantly, makes my heart sing<br />

He carries me in His arms, takes all my pain<br />

Forgives me and heals me again and again<br />

I come to my Father, find rest in His care<br />

His presence unchanging, His love everywhere<br />

His goodness and mercy abound everyday<br />

I yield to my Father and I’ve chosen His way<br />

I bring all my life, my moments, my days<br />

Surrender my all to His beauty, His gaze<br />

I quiet my heart in the peace that He gives<br />

Relax in His presence, the Father who lives<br />

FULL CARE<br />

Anna Aere<br />

Johanna Baars ^<br />

Johanna Barneveld<br />

Paris Chronopoulos<br />

Martin den Haan * ^<br />

Joy Floyd<br />

Margaret Forsyth<br />

Clarence Gereau<br />

Sherman Krause<br />

Dale Meers<br />

David Methven ^<br />

Ki Pak<br />

Velta Roberts<br />

Edo Schaafsma ^<br />

Karnail Singh<br />

Len Taylor ^<br />

Janny Van Eyk * ^<br />

Jimmy Wakabayashi<br />

William Windhorst<br />

INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

Fred Bartel (GC) *<br />

Marilyn Biccum (GC) *<br />

Bob Dodds (GC) *<br />

Eva Embree *<br />

Velma Ens (GC) *<br />

Katherine Klassen *<br />

Ella Nissen<br />

ASSISTED LIVING<br />

Terri Cousins<br />

Lily Fox<br />

Jean Robinson<br />

INDEPENDENT PLUS (GC)<br />

Hermie Lynch<br />

<strong>The</strong> Saviour who died for me carries my heart<br />

He’s promised His presence will never depart<br />

I give Him my sorrows, my pain and my fears<br />

He gives me His presence and wipes all my tears<br />

O Jesus my Shepherd, my Lover Thou art<br />

I rest in Your arms, know You’ll never depart<br />

I’ll worship forever the One I adore<br />

And live in Your presence, alive evermore!<br />

16 THE ELIM CONNECTION WINTER <strong>2023</strong>


CHRISTMAS REFLECTION<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

RON PIKE,<br />

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER<br />

When I reflect on my childhood Christmas’ I can vividly remember the feelings<br />

of anticipation and excitement. Granted, there was a portion of this focused on<br />

presents, however, I also fondly remember waiting for family to arrive for Christmas<br />

Day lunch. Seeing my grandpa walk up the driveway, playing with my cousins, and then<br />

of course enjoying my grandma’s cooking and baking—it gave me a feeling of comfort<br />

and warmth.<br />

Christmas time was not always easy though. In 1981 my grandfather passed away on<br />

Christmas Eve. It was a tough time for my whole family, and yet it was our family and<br />

faith traditions that kept us going.<br />

In the end, I learned that there is nothing like family and community to surround you<br />

with love and support through both good and tough times. At ELIM, I am so grateful<br />

to be part of one such community. We often hear stories that demonstrate the<br />

depth of relationships within our villages, as residents welcome one another, help one<br />

another, or just intentionally check in to make sure everything is okay. We know this<br />

community support is especially strong at this time of year, with the hope of Christ<br />

in our hearts. And how could it not? <strong>The</strong> advent of the greatest love to the world<br />

provides the deepest inspiration of all.<br />

Merry Christmas!<br />

18 THE ELIM CONNECTION WINTER <strong>2023</strong>


A UNIQUE CHRISTIAN RETIREMENT COMMUNITY<br />

9025 160 Street<br />

Surrey, BC V4N 2X7<br />

Phone 604.583.3546 Email info@elimvillage.com<br />

www.elimvillage.com

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