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Some of the isolation and loneliness which people in the Fourth Age experience is due to the ageism in our society and in our churches. It is now time for churches to stand-up to the prejudices and discrimination of older people, to challenge the ageism we see in society and show that people in the Fourth Age are valued, celebrated, respected and included. Churches and Christian faith organisations should be leading the way to reach out to older people, to tackle ageist views and attitudes and demonstrate that older people matter.

Some of the isolation and loneliness which people in the Fourth Age experience is due to the ageism in our society and in our churches. It is now time for churches to stand-up to the
prejudices and discrimination of older people, to challenge the ageism we see in society and show that people in the Fourth Age are valued, celebrated, respected and included. Churches
and Christian faith organisations should be leading the way to reach out to older people, to tackle ageist views and attitudes and demonstrate that older people matter.

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Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy for <strong>Older</strong> <strong>People</strong> -<br />

‘Offer<strong>in</strong>g spiritual care <strong>in</strong> later life’<br />

Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy is a timely response to our rapidly age<strong>in</strong>g population<br />

and the complex pastoral needs of older people, many of whom describe<br />

themselves as lonely.<br />

Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s are named after the widow Anna, who appears with Simeon<br />

<strong>in</strong> Luke’s Gospel. Both are good role models of faithful, expectant, hopeful,<br />

older people. They are skilled listeners who help accompany people f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g life hard <strong>in</strong> their<br />

later years, as well as be<strong>in</strong>g a voice for some who might feel they are becom<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>visible as they<br />

age. Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s are companions on the journey, with advice to offer on the art of age<strong>in</strong>g<br />

well.<br />

Counter cultural<br />

An Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong> is someone who celebrates old age, <strong>in</strong> a society which often tends to overlook<br />

and denigrate people of advanced years. This is counter-cultural work, <strong>in</strong> a society which prizes<br />

autonomy, youth, beauty and productivity so highly.<br />

The Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong> can be a friend to someone who is lonely; a key l<strong>in</strong>k for the bereaved,<br />

someone who is isolated, and those feel<strong>in</strong>g alone. They can signpost what help is on offer <strong>in</strong> any<br />

given context, for example for a husband or wife car<strong>in</strong>g for their spouse liv<strong>in</strong>g with Dementia.<br />

How did it start?<br />

Former broadcaster, Debbie Thrower, became the first Anna chapla<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> Alton, Hampshire, <strong>in</strong><br />

2010. Anglicans and Methodists <strong>in</strong> Alton had created the post seek<strong>in</strong>g someone who would, as<br />

she says, ‘spot the gaps <strong>in</strong> exist<strong>in</strong>g provision and raise the whole standard of good practice of<br />

m<strong>in</strong>istry among older people’ <strong>in</strong> their area. Four years of develop<strong>in</strong>g a suitable model and the<br />

Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy was ready to be replicated elsewhere.<br />

To that end, Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy became part of Bible Read<strong>in</strong>g Fellowship, BRF, <strong>in</strong> 2014. It was<br />

hoped it could emulate some of the success of Messy Church, another BRF <strong>in</strong>itiative, which had<br />

spread nationally and <strong>in</strong>ternationally <strong>in</strong> the previous decade.<br />

Work began on develop<strong>in</strong>g Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy across the UK and <strong>in</strong> September 2021 there were<br />

172 Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s for <strong>Older</strong> <strong>People</strong> and others <strong>in</strong> equivalent roles - such as <strong>Older</strong> <strong>People</strong>’s<br />

Pastor, or Director of <strong>Older</strong> <strong>People</strong>’s M<strong>in</strong>istry - <strong>in</strong> the network nationally. Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s are<br />

<strong>in</strong> cities, towns and villages as far afield as Devon and Kent, the Midlands, Northumbria and<br />

Cumbria, as well as <strong>in</strong> the very north of Scotland and even <strong>in</strong> Orkney! The tally of Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s<br />

is ris<strong>in</strong>g fast.<br />

More churches are recruit<strong>in</strong>g Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>s<br />

As the implications of an age<strong>in</strong>g population hit home, churches are <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>gly want<strong>in</strong>g to ‘up<br />

their game’ pastorally among this age group. They are realis<strong>in</strong>g the benefits of valu<strong>in</strong>g older<br />

congregation members as well as reach<strong>in</strong>g out to others <strong>in</strong> their later years beyond church, out<br />

<strong>in</strong> the wider community. The name ‘Anna’ means gift or grace, and Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong>cy is a gracious<br />

gift from the church.<br />

There are men as well as women <strong>in</strong> the network; some are paid, though the majority are<br />

volunteers. Each Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong> is sent out from a church that prays for them. Whichever church<br />

the chapla<strong>in</strong> is based <strong>in</strong> signs a ‘Head Licence Agreement’ with Bible Read<strong>in</strong>g Fellowship, BRF,<br />

to use the trademarked name. Each Anna Chapla<strong>in</strong> is thus appo<strong>in</strong>ted and authorised by and<br />

accountable to their local church (or group of ‘Churches Together’).<br />

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