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WINTER <strong>2023</strong>/<strong>24</strong> • Volume 13 Issue 4 • greybrucekids.com<br />

EYE SPY<br />

Good vision<br />

key to good<br />

overall health<br />

LOVE, PEACE<br />

AND UNITY<br />

in troubled times<br />

CONCUSSIONS<br />

Recognize the signs<br />

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FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />

Enjoy the season!<br />

Somehow it’s winter again in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong>. Each year the holiday season seems to creep<br />

up on me more quickly.<br />

CONTENTS<br />

4 Concussion awareness<br />

10 Sharing your memories<br />

While I’m well aware winter always comes after fall, I’m always surprised by the first<br />

snowfall (which happened on Halloween this year, a cruel joke!), leaving me, like many<br />

others, scrambling to get snow tires on, finish raking leaves, put away patio furniture<br />

and then think about the long list of Christmas duties that lie ahead.<br />

Many of us – especially those Moms who want everything to be just perfect for their<br />

family during the holidays – find this time of year exhausting. Though it’s easier said<br />

than done, we should all take a step back and remember that our loved ones aren’t<br />

going to remember every perfect little detail of the holiday season, they’re going to<br />

remember the warmth and comfort they felt, the laughs the family shared, and the<br />

feeling of togetherness more so than the decorations or presents.<br />

Give yourself a break, take a breath, and be sure to savour every minute with your<br />

family, as they grow up so quickly!<br />

Regardless of whether or not we are ready, the holidays will be over and we’ll be left<br />

with the snow and cold, so we might as well enjoy it, check out the activities at the<br />

local arena, hopefully get the snowmobile out, play in the snow with the kids or<br />

hunker down with a good book or movie and wait it out until spring.<br />

14 Eye health<br />

18 Cultural celebrations<br />

22 Postpartum fathers<br />

26 Resources<br />

30 Recipes<br />

In this issue we have an informative article about a very important and seemingly alltoo-common<br />

topic of concussions, by physiotherapist Kyle Kortegaard. We also have<br />

health stories on the importance of vision screening by <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public Health and<br />

what postpartum depression looks like in men around the holidays, contributed by<br />

Chanel Wainscott.<br />

Writer and memory keeper Arlen Wiebe also writes about the importance of keeping<br />

the past alive and recording the life story of both yourself and your aging loved ones.<br />

Chandrashekhar Tripathi also shares an<br />

article about cultural diversity in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

and how holidays are celebrated in many<br />

different ways.<br />

I hope you have a safe and healthy holiday<br />

season surrounded by those you love, and<br />

all the best in 20<strong>24</strong>!<br />

Amy Irwin, Publisher<br />

WINTER <strong>2023</strong>/<strong>24</strong><br />

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />

CONCUSSIONS<br />

WITH HOCKEY SEASON UPON US, IT’S IMPORTANT<br />

TO KNOW THE SIGNS BY KYLE KORTEGAARD<br />

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Another hockey season is well underway. Those of us with young children<br />

get to see them develop their skating skills, as those with older kids start<br />

to see the transition toward contact hockey.<br />

In either case, we are likely to witness some falls, trips, and collisions; and<br />

inevitably, some injuries. There’s one injury that can happen to any player<br />

at any time out on the ice – concussion – and we parents and coaches need<br />

to be on lookout for them.<br />

WHAT IS A CONCUSSION?<br />

A concussion is an injury to the brain and is often referred to as a mild<br />

traumatic brain injury (mTBI). Don’t be fooled by the word “mild,” as every<br />

concussion should be taken very seriously. Concussions are not always obvious<br />

like other injuries we see in sports. They cannot be seen on X-ray, CT scans, or<br />

MRIs. A concussion can change how a person thinks, acts, and feels.<br />

HOW DO CONCUSSIONS HAPPEN?<br />

In sustaining a concussion, we often think of a direct blow or impact to the<br />

head. However, indirect blows to the head, where the head and neck are<br />

quickly whipped around as the result of a hit to the body, can also cause<br />

a concussion. In either case, the brain is moved quickly within the skull,<br />

imparting a rapid stretch and strain on nerve fibres within the brain, leading to<br />

a brain injury. The stress on the brain cells causes an immediate shift in their<br />

chemical makeup. The brain starts correcting this imbalance, but it takes an<br />

enormous amount of energy (glucose or blood sugar). At the same time, there<br />

is a reduction in blood flow to the brain, further limiting the supply of glucose<br />

to the brain. This leads to an “energy crisis” as the brain tries to heal itself,<br />

which can last seven to 14 days in adults, and up to 30 days in children and<br />

adolescents. 1<br />

HOW TO RECOGNIZE CONCUSSION<br />

Concussion should be suspected following any direct or indirect blow to the<br />

head. Checking in with your child, even after what may appear to be a minor<br />

bump, collision, or fall, is always warranted to identify a potential head injury.<br />

Some common signs and symptoms include:<br />

• Headache<br />

• Nausea or vomiting<br />

• Dizziness<br />

• Balance problems<br />

• Fatigue and drowsiness<br />

• Sleeping difficulties<br />

• Sensitivity to light/sound<br />

• Irritability<br />

• Difficulty concentrating and/or remembering<br />

• Feeling “foggy” mentally<br />

• Visual problems<br />

• Sadness and depression<br />

• Nervousness and increased anxiety<br />

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Symptoms may present immediately following the injury or may be delayed in their onset, so it<br />

is important to watch for any signs or symptoms in the hours or days after a potential concussive<br />

injury. One sign or symptom is enough to suspect concussion.<br />

If you suspect this is the case, they should be assessed by their doctor as a first step. The physician<br />

will help determine the severity of the head injury, rule out potential serious injuries, and direct<br />

you in next steps of management and treatment. If your child is experiencing a progressively<br />

worsening headache, excessive confusion or disorientation, significant unsteadiness or coordination<br />

issues, weakness or tingling in the arms or legs, or repeated vomiting, they should be taken to the<br />

emergency room as these features may indicate a more serious, medically urgent, injury.<br />

EARLY MANAGEMENT FOLLOWING A CONCUSSION INJURY<br />

Knowing some basic management strategies in the first few days following a concussion can<br />

drastically change the trajectory of recovery. Our visual system often gets wrapped up in<br />

concussion injuries due to extensive connections between our eyes and brain. Therefore, visual<br />

stimulation should be avoided in the acute stages (first few days) of concussion. This means no<br />

screens – TV, smartphones, tablets, computers, and video games – and no reading. This can be<br />

very challenging in today’s tech-heavy culture. Listening to audio books or sports games on the<br />

radio (at a tolerable volume) is a temporary, recommended alternative that won’t overwhelm your<br />

child’s healing nervous system.<br />

Current consensus guidelines recommend one to two days of complete rest, followed by a<br />

gradual return to activity. 2 Research now supports getting back to light activity within a few days<br />

post-concussion as opposed to strict rest until symptoms resolve. In fact, one study found that<br />

those who undergo prolonged, strict rest have a higher symptom burden and slower resolution of<br />

symptoms, 3 while other studies have found no difference in recovery outcomes. 4,5,6<br />

Early return to light aerobic exercise at a sub-symptom threshold, such as going for an easy walk,<br />

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is safe and encouraged, so long as it does not aggravate your<br />

child’s symptoms (or if symptoms do worsen slightly, they should<br />

return to baseline fairly quickly). There is no cookie-cutter<br />

approach to concussion recovery – each concussion is unique, and<br />

management should be individualized to each person.<br />

Your child may be referred by your doctor for rehabilitation after<br />

a concussive injury. Health care professionals trained to assess<br />

and treat concussions include physiotherapists, occupational<br />

therapists, chiropractors, athletic therapists, and osteopaths.<br />

They will help educate you on the nature of concussions, your<br />

child’s specific presentation, and management strategies during<br />

healing and recovery.<br />

Specific exercises are often prescribed to help integrate the visual<br />

and balance systems so that they can work in unison again.<br />

Optometrists and ophthalmologists may be involved to assess<br />

the health and function of your child’s eyes. Vision therapy can<br />

be another compliment to concussion rehab when the visual<br />

system is not integrating well with the rest of the brain.<br />

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS<br />

Myth: It’s not a concussion if the person didn’t lose<br />

consciousness or get “knocked out.”<br />

This is a common misconception, and in fact, the majority of<br />

concussions occur without a loss of consciousness. 7 Recovery<br />

may be lengthier and more complex if the person loses<br />

consciousness, but it is not needed to cause a concussion.<br />

Myth: You shouldn’t sleep after concussion.<br />

In the past, it was thought that falling asleep soon after<br />

concussion increased the risk of slipping into a coma. That is not<br />

the case with concussions as there is no bleeding of the brain or<br />

structural damage that would cause complications like a coma.<br />

As mentioned above, if your child is displaying any signs or<br />

symptoms outside of those consistent with concussion and more<br />

consistent with a serious injury to the head, seek immediate<br />

medical attention.<br />

Myth: You can’t get a concussion if you don’t hit your head.<br />

Another common assumption is that if there was no direct<br />

impact to the head, there cannot be a concussion. This is also<br />

incorrect. With indirect blows to the head, where the body is hit<br />

or moved suddenly causing the rapid acceleration/deceleration<br />

of the head, the brain can be quickly shaken within the skull,<br />

causing a concussive injury. Some examples of this are being in<br />

a rear-end or side-swipe car accident, being cross-checked from<br />

behind in hockey causing the neck and head to be whipped<br />

backward, or slipping on ice and catching yourself before<br />

actually falling to the ground.<br />

Myth: Your child can return to their sport as soon as they<br />

feel better.<br />

Once your child’s symptoms have resolved (clinical recovery),<br />

it does not necessarily mean that their brains have completely<br />

healed yet (physiological recovery). Symptoms may abate within<br />

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a few days to a week post-concussion however, it has been<br />

suggested that physiological recovery may take up to 30 days<br />

in children and adolescents. 2 Therefore, a cautious approach<br />

should be taken when returning to sport and it should be based<br />

on functional recovery (ie. no symptom exacerbation during<br />

sport-specific tasks, normalized balance, concentration, reaction<br />

time, etc.) rather than symptom experience alone. Following<br />

concussion, the brain is left more susceptible to cellular injury 8<br />

and, if another head injury is sustained within the window of<br />

healing from the original concussion, more severe damage to<br />

the brain may occur. This was the case with Rowan Stringer, a<br />

17-year-old rugby player from Ottawa, who tragically died in<br />

2013 from what’s called “Second Impact Syndrome.”<br />

ROWAN’S LAW<br />

In the week before her last game, Rowan Stringer was hit twice<br />

during play and was believed to have sustained a concussion<br />

with each hit. Afterwards she knew something was off by the<br />

way she was feeling, and she had let one of her teammates know,<br />

but did not tell her parents about her symptoms. In her final<br />

game a few days later, she sustained another hit which caused a<br />

catastrophic secondary brain injury because her brain was still<br />

in a vulnerable state from the previous recent concussions. She<br />

sadly succumbed to her injuries four days later.<br />

In 2018, new legislation called ‘Rowan’s Law’ was introduced<br />

and passed by the Ontario government, and set out a framework<br />

for concussion prevention, detection, and management within<br />

youth sports. Rowan’s Law applies to every sport organization<br />

in the province, and requires that all coaches and officials<br />

review concussion awareness resources prior to the start of<br />

their respective seasons. 9 The law also requires that each sport<br />

organization around the province develop and follow a returnto-sport<br />

protocol following concussion injuries. Concussion<br />

awareness resources have been developed and made available<br />

to the public. Every parent of a child in sport is encouraged<br />

to read these resources and know where to access them. They<br />

can be found at www.ontario.ca/page/rowans-law-concussionawareness-resources.<br />

With return-to-sport and return-to-school protocols in place,<br />

parents and health care providers can follow a stepwise,<br />

graduated plan to ensure kids recovering from concussion can<br />

return to their activities safely. The Rowan’s Law e-booklet<br />

(found at https://files.ontario.ca/mtcs-rowans-law-bookletages-15-and-up-en-2019-05.pdf)<br />

lays out common steps in<br />

graduated return-to-sport protocols which are consistent with<br />

current international consensus guidelines. 2,10 There should be<br />

a minimum of <strong>24</strong> hours between each step and if the athlete<br />

experiences any symptoms they must return to the previous step.<br />

We as parents, coaches, and trainers have a responsibility to<br />

ensure our children’s and players’ safety above all else. It is always<br />

better to err on the side of caution if you suspect your child may<br />

have sustained a concussion. Recognize the signs and symptoms<br />

of a concussion and remove the athlete from play, even if they<br />

insist they feel OK. Remember, competitive kids often do not<br />

want to take themselves out of the game, so we need to be very<br />

direct in our communication with them.<br />

Get your child assessed by a physician or nurse practitioner,<br />

then follow a graduated return to sport (Rowan’s Law, 2018).<br />

Reach out to a trained allied health professional if you need extra<br />

guidance in managing a concussion injury. Most concussions in<br />

children will resolve within one to four weeks. Recovery requires<br />

patience and an understanding on how and when to ease back<br />

into usual activities like school and sport. Please take advantage<br />

of the free concussion awareness resources that are out there –<br />

they could save your child’s life.<br />

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References<br />

1. Haller, S. and Walter, K. (<strong>2023</strong>). Best Practices in Concussion<br />

Management. Shift Concussion Management. https://www.<br />

shiftconcussion.ca/training<br />

2. McCrory, P. et al. (2017). Consensus statement on concussion<br />

in sport – the 5th international conference on concussion in sport<br />

held in Berlin, October 2016. British Journal of Sports Medicine,<br />

51(11).<br />

3. Thomas, D., Apps, J., Hoffman, R., McCrea, M., & Hammeke,<br />

T. (2015). Benefits of strict rest after acute concussion: a<br />

randomized controlled trial. Pediatrics, 135(2); 213-23.<br />

4. De Kruijk, J., Leffers, P., Meerhoff, S., Rutten, J., & Twijnstra,<br />

A. (2002). Effectiveness of bed rest after mild traumatic brain<br />

injury: a randomized trial of no versus six days of bed rest. Journal<br />

of Neurology, Neurosurgery, and Psychiatry, 73(2); 167-72.<br />

5. Gibson, S., Nigrovic, L., O’Brien, M., & Meehan, W. (2013).<br />

The effect of recommending cognitive rest on recovery from sportrelated<br />

concussion. Brain Injury, 27(7); 839-42.<br />

6. Buckley, T., Munkasy, B., & Clouse, B. (2016). Acute cognitive<br />

and physical rest may not improve concussion recovery time. The<br />

Journal of Head Trauma Rehabilitation, 31(4); 233-41.<br />

7. McCrory, P. Meeuwisse, W., Echemendia, R., Iverson, G.,<br />

Dvorak, J., & Kutcher, J. (2013). What is the lowest threshold to<br />

make a diagnosis of concussion? British Journal of Sports Medicine,<br />

47(5).<br />

8. Signoretti, S., Lazzarino, G., Tavazzi, B., & Vagnozzi, R.<br />

(2011). The pathophysiology of concussion. The Journal of Injury,<br />

Function, and Rehabilitation, 3(10); 359-68.<br />

9. Rowan’s Law (Concussion Safety) (2018). https://www.ontario.<br />

ca/laws/statute/s18001<br />

10. Patricios, J. et al. (<strong>2023</strong>). Consensus statement on concussion<br />

in sport: the 6th International Conference on Concussion in Sport–<br />

Amsterdam, October 2022. British journal of Sports Medicine,<br />

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COMMUNITY<br />

Saving Your<br />

Memories<br />

THE “WHY” AND “HOW” OF SAVING YOUR PRECIOUS RECOLLECTIONS<br />

BY ARLEN WIEBE<br />

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People have always been captivated by a compelling story.<br />

Since the birth of language, people from all cultures have<br />

been telling stories that both instruct and entertain.<br />

Long ago, people gathered around a fire at the end of a long<br />

day to hear myths, legends, fables, epic poems, proverbs,<br />

chants, rhymes, and songs. Storytellers preserved and passed a<br />

community’s stories down the generations.<br />

A big shift occurred when people created written language to<br />

record spoken words. People weren’t completely dependent on a<br />

community storyteller to preserve the oral stories anymore. With<br />

the printing press, books could be easily mass produced, and<br />

more people learned to read.<br />

Today, another huge shift has occurred. Instead of a communal<br />

experience around a living fire, families now congregate facing a<br />

glowing electronic screen. The storytelling task seems to be taken<br />

over by filmmakers and television writers.<br />

WHY ARE STORIES SO POWERFUL?<br />

It’s incredibly fortunate that stories are both instructive and<br />

entertaining. While it might be possible to commit bits of<br />

knowledge to memory if we try hard enough, stories help us<br />

engage with our history, traditions and values much more easily.<br />

Stories help us to create order and make sense of our lives. They<br />

help us appreciate how other people think and feel. Stories use<br />

language in a way that is unlike our everyday way of speaking<br />

and writing. Stories fashion ordinary words and events into<br />

extraordinary dramas.<br />

SHOULD YOU RECORD YOUR<br />

PERSONAL STORIES?<br />

Yes! Our personal stories can be extremely valuable to ourselves<br />

and our families. We can preserve important family stories<br />

for our children and grandchildren. We can gain insight into<br />

our struggles and choices and share our wisdom. We can find<br />

direction for the rest of our lives and heal, especially if our lives<br />

have been shaped by pain or tragedy. We can connect names and<br />

stories to old family photos or add details to the family tree.<br />

Have you ever thought you’d like to know what your ancestors’<br />

lives were really like, in their own words? Consider how your<br />

own life will be interesting to your descendants. Even people<br />

that don’t know us may be interested in our stories. Many people<br />

enjoy reading the personal anecdotes, stories and essays in the<br />

“First Person” section of The Globe and Mail. Maclean’s magazine<br />

publishes “My Arrival: The Lives of New Canadians” on the last<br />

page of each issue. CBC posts personal stories and experiences in<br />

its online “First Person” columns.<br />

I’ve started writing about my own childhood experiences and<br />

coming to terms with how they have affected my adult life.<br />

A CANADIAN BOY IN CALIFORNIA<br />

I could see my boyhood coming to an end when I was 12 years<br />

old. The curious warmth of springtime in Winnipeg had come<br />

back like a long-lost relative returning from a freezing and<br />

miserable journey. Light green leaves were budding once more<br />

on ancient elm trees as I walked south along Arlington Street,<br />

turned west onto Wolseley Avenue, and begrudgingly arrived at<br />

my weekday destination, Laura Secord School.<br />

Like all boys of school age should be, I was in a terrible hurry<br />

for the unbearable monotony of the daily academic ordeal to be<br />

done for the year. I was exhausted from trying to speak and write<br />

in my teacher’s funny foreign language. Pourquoi apprenais-je<br />

le français when my forebears spoke Plautdietsch, Nederlands,<br />

or Russki yazyk and wrote in Hochdeutsch? Other kids in my<br />

class came from families that spoke even more exotic languages.<br />

Why were we all being forced to learn a language not one of our<br />

families had ever spoken and likely never would?<br />

And why this inanely prescribed schedule? All this writing,<br />

reading, presenting, doing, and going here and there at the<br />

same time every day. Had the adults who ran the school given a<br />

maniacal villain permission to set up a labyrinth of torture? Why<br />

were we tested for our ability to remember the random order of<br />

letters in words or how numbers changed themselves when they<br />

met the funny symbols on the page?<br />

Once the clock on the classroom wall was finally persuaded to<br />

place a short stingy hand on the number three and its longer<br />

hand on six, I fled the prison and quickly reversed the route I<br />

had slowly walked that morning.<br />

Once at home, I put on a blue jersey, white pants, and cap<br />

and held my baseball glove in my hand. I finally felt free of all<br />

restraints. My mother had mercifully signed me up for a team<br />

through the R.A. Steen Community Centre, located on the far<br />

end of the field behind my school. We played our games in a<br />

sunken double baseball diamond circled by a gravel walking and<br />

biking path, near Omand’s Creek.<br />

I tried all the baseball positions in the field but I most enjoyed<br />

pitching. Standing high on an elevated mound. Controlling the<br />

start of each play. Deciding where to place the baseball to the<br />

waiting batters.<br />

I always held the baseball with the fastball grip. I hadn’t been<br />

taught how to throw any other kinds of pitches. Instead of<br />

variety, I tried to throw the same pitch again and again, laser<br />

focused on the shifting strike zone. Sometimes the ball would<br />

thread through that invisible rectangle between the elbows and<br />

knees of the cocky boy poised at home plate. Other times, it flew<br />

out of control, avoiding that rectangle, and rolling to the chain<br />

link fence behind our catcher.<br />

Most of my pitches flew past the boys at the plate. On the<br />

rare occasion when the batter made contact with the ball, my<br />

teammates organized themselves around the ball, stopped it, and<br />

threw it to first base.<br />

Midway through the baseball season, my mother got an<br />

emotional phone call. My absent father lay dying in a Regina<br />

hospital. She and I dropped everything and immediately drove<br />

600 kilometres west across Manitoba and Saskatchewan to visit<br />

the man my mother had once given her heart to and that we<br />

barely knew anymore. When we entered my father’s hospital<br />

room, I saw a sickly, shriveled man in a hospital gown. He could<br />

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A childhood photo of Arlen<br />

Wiebe and his mother.<br />

barely sit up in his bed to greet us. Who was this person? I stood<br />

there stoically, listening to my parents catching up on years of<br />

missed time together.<br />

My father had three brothers. His brother Jake, from B.C.,<br />

came with his wife and two kids to visit in the hospital. Once<br />

his daughter, Shalom, had seen my father and left the room,<br />

she started to sob in the hallway. I watched her from my dad’s<br />

bedside. Why was she so upset? It wasn’t her father dying, it<br />

was mine. If anyone should be worked up, it should be me. I<br />

looked inside myself to find something that matched my cousin’s<br />

emotion but there was nothing there.<br />

We returned to Winnipeg and the baseball season continued. A<br />

few weeks later, there was another difficult phone call. We buried<br />

my father beside a little country church on the Saskatchewan<br />

prairie.<br />

Soon after, my mother was very surprised to receive a large<br />

payment from my father’s life insurance policy that had been<br />

kept active. This set the gears in motion for my mother’s next<br />

step. She had always dreamed of studying to become a pastor<br />

and now she had the money to do it. She wanted to study at a<br />

seminary in California. All that summer, my mother prepared<br />

us to move. I was devastated. I didn’t want to live in a foreign<br />

country without friends or anything familiar.<br />

In late August, my mother and I boarded an airplane that took<br />

us from Winnipeg to Minneapolis, then on to Los Angeles. We<br />

crossed that huge airport to catch a tiny airplane to take us to<br />

Fresno. We moved into a small apartment on the campus where<br />

my mother would study the Bible and theology.<br />

I would attend school as a light-skinned Canadian among a sea<br />

of black and brown faces. I would travel to Yosemite National<br />

Park, San Francisco, and Hollywood. I would be forced to adapt<br />

to many new things as I started Grade 7. My Canadian boyhood<br />

had come to an end in California.<br />

WHAT’S INVOLVED WITH RECORDING<br />

YOUR PERSONAL STORIES?<br />

Recording your personal stories is a way to connect generations<br />

and preserve memories. Sometimes called a personal history, it<br />

could be a memoir, a tribute, a life story, a family biography, an<br />

oral history, a legacy letter, or ethical will.<br />

If you work on your own personal history or that of a loved one,<br />

your only cost is your time and expenses. If you hire a personal<br />

historian, the cost will range in price from a few hundred dollars<br />

(audio and/or transcripts for oral history), to thousands of<br />

dollars (a life story with photos), to tens of thousands of dollars<br />

(longer or more complex projects).<br />

WHAT FORMAT DOES PERSONAL<br />

HISTORY TAKE?<br />

Personal histories can be recorded in many ways. Here are some<br />

areas in which personal historians may have expertise.<br />

Audio recordings/CDs – Recording your stories electronically<br />

in an audio file or a CD allows your children, grandchildren,<br />

and great-grandchildren to hear you telling your stories with<br />

your own voice. Would you enjoy hearing stories told in the<br />

voices of your ancestors?<br />

Books – A book can be narrative only or it can feature photos,<br />

documents, and other illustrations. Books can be paperback or<br />

hardcover, simple or elegant.<br />

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Art books, scrapbooks, handmade books – These are one-of-akind<br />

products that can include written stories, photos, drawings,<br />

scraps of fabric, pressed flowers, jewelry, and any other kind of<br />

valued memento.<br />

Photo books, collages, calendars – These products are mostly<br />

photos or drawings combined with very few written words. You<br />

could create a beautiful photo book, a poster-sized collage, or<br />

a photo calendar with pictures of family members included on<br />

their birthdays, anniversaries, or other important dates.<br />

Photo videos – You can use photos, home movies, slides,<br />

videotapes, and other memorabilia to create a memorable video<br />

set to music.<br />

DVDs – You can capture a person’s voice, personality, gestures,<br />

and spirit for posterity on video. This kind of project can be<br />

simple or complex, include individual or group interviews, and<br />

range from short tribute to TV-style biography.<br />

Ethical wills or legacy letters – An ethical will or legacy letter is a<br />

statement of your personal values, beliefs, life lessons, and a message<br />

you want to convey to your family, friends, and community.<br />

Legacy planning – Legacy planning helps you preserve your<br />

values and heritage for future generations. Tasks might include<br />

taking care of historical family documents and photos, creating<br />

an archive, preparing material for an obituary, or memorial<br />

service planning.<br />

Family websites – It’s becoming increasingly popular for<br />

families to create a website to preserve and share family stories<br />

and information. These sites might include a family tree,<br />

genealogy, photos, letters, stories, videos, and sound files.<br />

Unique products – Some people enjoy being creative with their<br />

precious memories. A special quilt could be made of valued<br />

fabrics or decorations. Inspiring images and music can lead to a<br />

painting, drawing, mural, collage, memory box or multimedia<br />

presentation. Valued recipes could be collected into a family<br />

cookbook. What else could you imagine?<br />

TELL YOUR STORY<br />

People now recognize that reminiscence and life review are<br />

important life processes. Working through our memories to find<br />

patterns, meaning, and values are key to a fully examined life.<br />

Many of us think about interviewing our aging family members<br />

but put it off until later. When we finally find the time, it may<br />

be too late, the loved one could be too frail to tell their stories or<br />

their memories may have faded. Or worse, they may have passed<br />

away. If recording your own stories or that of a loved one is<br />

important to you, take the first step today to making it happen!<br />

ARLEN WIEBE is a personal historian, writer, musician, and teacher<br />

living in Owen Sound. He enjoys helping people find meaning and<br />

purpose through writing their life stories, memoirs, and family history.<br />

You can learn more about him at your-life-stories.ca. You can contact<br />

him by email at arlen.wiebe.writer@gmail.com or by text/phone at 226-<br />

668-3352..<br />

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />

EYE SPY<br />

GOOD VISION KEY TO<br />

GOOD OVERALL HEALTH<br />

BY JODY KROEPLIN<br />

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They say the eyes are the window to our soul – the part of the<br />

body that reflects our true emotions, thoughts, and feelings.<br />

Our eyes – and, more specifically, our vision – are also a window<br />

to learning and knowledge, particularly as we grow.<br />

For children, good vision can play a critical role in physical<br />

development, success in school, and overall well-being. Children<br />

who cannot see the board in school, focus on a picture, or follow<br />

words in a book may struggle to achieve their full learning<br />

potential, according to the Ontario Association of Optometrists<br />

(OAO). Vision problems can also impact a child’s hand-eye<br />

coordination for physical activities and even impact their social<br />

development. However, many parents are unaware of just how<br />

important good vision is to their child’s overall health and<br />

development.<br />

According to the OAO:<br />

• Almost three-quarters of Ontario parents are unaware that<br />

vision problems can cause speech difficulties.<br />

• Nearly two-thirds of Ontario parents are unaware that<br />

vision problems can lead to developmental delays.<br />

• Half of Ontario parents do not realize that a vision problem<br />

may cause short attention spans in children.<br />

OVERALL WELL-BEING<br />

Roughly 80 per cent of what children learn is gained through<br />

vision, according to the Vision Institute of Canada. However,<br />

vision problems can go undetected in early childhood because<br />

children cannot always recognize that they have vision issues.<br />

They believe everyone sees the world as they do.<br />

Although many activities in the classroom and at school<br />

can draw attention to possible vision concerns in children,<br />

extracurricular or household activities also rely on vision-based<br />

skills. Many eye health concerns, if caught early, can be treated.<br />

Some common signs and symptoms of vision problems in<br />

children include:<br />

• Squinting.<br />

• Excessive blinking.<br />

• Excessive eye rubbing.<br />

• Tearing, red, itchy, or burning eyes.<br />

• Holding objects close to the eyes.<br />

• Headaches or eye strain.<br />

• Blurry vision or double vision.<br />

• Eye turn (strabismus).<br />

• Turning or tilting the head.<br />

• Covering or closing one eye.<br />

Other, less obvious, signs of vision problems in children can<br />

include:<br />

• A dislike of near work.<br />

• A short attention span.<br />

• Daydreaming during work time.<br />

• Skipping words, letters, or lines when reading or taking<br />

notes from the board.<br />

• Using a finger or moving the head to track when reading.<br />

• Trouble reading, difficulty remembering what was read, or<br />

poor comprehension.<br />

• Delayed learning of the alphabet.<br />

• Persistent letter, number, or word reversals.<br />

• Not completing assignments on time.<br />

• Difficulty with geometric shapes.<br />

• Poor hand-eye coordination.<br />

• Poor performance in school.<br />

• Behaviour problems.<br />

IMPORTANCE OF EYE EXAMS<br />

As many as one-quarter of children have a vision problem,<br />

according to the OAO. However, thousands of children start<br />

school each year without ever having an eye exam. Regularly<br />

visiting an optometrist is key to ensuring vision issues are<br />

diagnosed and treated as quickly as possible and maintaining<br />

healthy vision and overall health.<br />

The OAO recommends that children have a comprehensive<br />

eye examination by an optometrist at six to nine months of<br />

age, two to five years of age, and every year after age five, or<br />

as recommended by an optometrist. Eye exams performed by<br />

optometrists look at the structural development of the eye and<br />

identify any underlying health conditions.<br />

The Ontario Health Insurance Plan (OHIP) covers the cost of<br />

a comprehensive eye examination once every 12 months for<br />

individuals with a valid OHIP card who are 19 years of age and<br />

younger or 65 years of age and older. Additional vision support<br />

is available for people accessing Ontario Works, the Ontario<br />

Disability Support Program, Non-insured Health Benefits<br />

Program or Interim Federal Health Program.<br />

‘Eye See… Eye Learn’ is a program made possible by<br />

participating optometrists and corporate partners Onesight<br />

EssilorLuxottica Foundation Canada and Modern Optical<br />

Canada. The program provides Junior or Senior Kindergarten<br />

students in need of prescription eyeglasses with one<br />

complimentary pair of frames and lenses.<br />

LOCAL VISION SCREENING PROGRAM<br />

In 2018, the Ontario Public Health Standards outlined that,<br />

in collaboration with community partners, Public Health<br />

units will provide visual health supports and vision screening<br />

services. Since the 2022/23 school year, <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public<br />

Health (GBPH) has, in partnership with District A9 Lions<br />

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Club International, conducted vision screening with Senior<br />

Kindergarten students in schools within <strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

counties with the goal of increasing awareness of visual health<br />

and the availability of OHIP-covered comprehensive eye exams<br />

with an optometrist.<br />

During the last school year, screening was provided to every SK<br />

classroom within the Bluewater District School Board, <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board, Ecole Catholique Saint-<br />

Dominique-Savio, and Kikendaasogamig Elementary School.<br />

During the in-school screening, three vision screening tests<br />

are used to help assess the most common vision impairments<br />

in young children. Screening takes an average of 20 minutes<br />

or less per child and results are sent home with students in<br />

an information letter. The letter encourages families to book<br />

a routine, comprehensive eye examination for their child,<br />

regardless of their vision screening results, with an optometrist.<br />

GBPH collects screening data for analysis and interpretation, as<br />

specified by the Ministry of Health.<br />

This school year, GBPH and District A9 Lions volunteers are<br />

again visiting public elementary schools in <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong>. Schools<br />

will be sending home notification letters with SK students about<br />

the upcoming screening clinics, issued from GBPH. Following<br />

the screening, students will be sent home with a letter indicating<br />

the results of the screening and recommendations for ongoing<br />

eye health.<br />

Regardless of their screening results, all children are strongly<br />

encouraged to visit an optometrist for a comprehensive eye<br />

exam. In-school screenings do not replace this necessity for eye<br />

health. If you have any questions about the in-school vision<br />

program, results from the in-school vision program, or need<br />

support in finding a local optometrist or vision resources, call<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Public Health at 519-376-9420 x 3110 or 1-800-<br />

263-3456, or email schools@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca.<br />

TIPS FOR PROTECTING VISION<br />

Eat well – Eating a variety of fruits and vegetables provides our<br />

bodies with important vitamins and nutrients – many which are<br />

necessary for maintaining healthy eyes.<br />

Limit screen time – Uncorrected vision can become worse with<br />

increased screen time. Protect children’s vision by encouraging<br />

frequent breaks from digital devices, as well as near-vision<br />

activities like reading and writing.<br />

Get a good night’s sleep – Sleep is an essential component to<br />

our health to allow the body to heal. This includes resting our<br />

eyes impacted by eye strain and irritants in the environment.<br />

Go outside – Physical activity and Vitamin D from the sun are<br />

not the only benefits to our eyes when it comes to outside play.<br />

Allowing our eye muscles to relax and break from the many<br />

hours of near-vision activities we do each day is important to eye<br />

health.<br />

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Put on sunglasses – With outside play comes sun exposure and<br />

ultraviolet (UV) rays. Wearing sunglasses with 100 per cent UV<br />

protection will help to protect your eyes from the harmful effects<br />

that UV can have on your eyes over time.<br />

Wear protective eyewear – If you play sports or are involved<br />

in other activities that may cause injury to the eye, protective<br />

eyewear can prevent about 90 per cent of eye injuries.<br />

Sources<br />

Proper Vision & Hearing Identification for Schools, Ontario<br />

Association of Optometrists (OAO) and the Ontario Association of<br />

Speech-Language Pathologists and Audiologists.<br />

Eye See...Eye Learn® Program - Ontario Association of Optometrists<br />

Keep an Eye on Your Child’s Vision | CDC<br />

The Eye Exam | The Canadian Association of Optometrists<br />

Vision Problems and Learning | The Canadian Association of<br />

Optometrists<br />

GBK<br />

JODY KROEPLIN is a Registered Nurse who has worked at <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

Public Health for 18 years. She is part of the School Health Team.<br />

Jody’s main interest in Public Health work is supporting the community<br />

with knowledge and skills to promote health and well-being. In her<br />

spare time, Jody enjoys being with her family and friends, camping,<br />

the outdoors, and watching her children play various organized sports<br />

within the community.<br />

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COMMUNITY<br />

LOVE, PEACE, AND UNITY<br />

in troubled times<br />

CORE MESSAGES OF CULTURAL CELEBRATIONS ARE UNIVERSAL<br />

BY CHANDRASHEKHAR TRIPATHI<br />

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Amidst the ongoing global turmoil and<br />

strife, the search for messages of love,<br />

peace, and unity becomes increasingly crucial.<br />

This article explores how diverse winter<br />

festivals celebrated in Canada offer a beacon of<br />

hope during these challenging times.<br />

Through the lenses of Christmas, Hanukkah,<br />

Eid, Bodhi Day, and Diwali, we discover that,<br />

despite their cultural and religious diversity, the<br />

core message of these celebrations is universal<br />

– oneness (vasudhaiv kutumkam – whole<br />

world is one family), acceptance, and the<br />

spread of goodwill. These festivals inspire us<br />

to transcend chaos, discover common ground,<br />

and collaborate for a brighter future.<br />

In Canada’s multicultural landscape, the<br />

celebration of diversity is fundamental to<br />

society. Canadians firmly believe in ‘unity<br />

in diversity,’ where individuals from various<br />

ethnic backgrounds coexist harmoniously,<br />

contributing collectively to the nation’s<br />

progress. This inclusive spirit is beautifully<br />

demonstrated in multicultural festivals that<br />

introduce people to new cultures, languages,<br />

cuisines, and traditions. For the past 18 years,<br />

these festivals have been a consistent force<br />

in fostering unity and understanding among<br />

communities.<br />

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As we embrace the<br />

lessons from each<br />

festival, we find<br />

inspiration to rise<br />

above the turmoil and<br />

chaos that plague the<br />

world. The message<br />

is crystal clear – let’s<br />

work together for a<br />

brighter future.<br />

Major local employers like <strong>Bruce</strong> Power play a significant role in<br />

bringing together diverse populations, significantly transforming<br />

communities like Kincardine and Port Elgin into diverse hubs,<br />

exemplifying the success of multicultural integration. The<br />

festivals celebrated also play a pivotal role in unifying people,<br />

promoting forgiveness, and spreading the message of love and<br />

understanding.<br />

Christmas – One of the most important festivals of Christians,<br />

Christmas is observed on Dec. 25 and celebrates the birth<br />

of Jesus Christ. It is characterized by exchanging gifts within<br />

families and friends and gifts brought by Santa Claus. Christians<br />

wear new clothes and attend special prayers in the church<br />

and light the candles. The churches and houses are lit up and<br />

decorated during Christmas. The period of celebration varies<br />

in different countries from one day to several days. In modern<br />

marketing society, like all other celebrations, this is heavily<br />

commercialized. People decorate Christmas trees with toys and<br />

other decorative items, but the message of Christmas being a<br />

time of joy, peace and sacrifice for others remains.<br />

Hanukkah (Hebrew) – Also known as the Festival of<br />

Rededication, Hanukkah is an eight-day Jewish celebration<br />

beginning on the 25th day of Kislev, according to the<br />

Hebrew calendar. The festival is observed in Jewish homes<br />

by the kindling of lights on each of the festival’s eight nights,<br />

one on the first night, two on the second and so on. The<br />

holiday is called Hanukkah meaning “dedication,” which also<br />

commemorates the Miracle of the Oil (one-day olive oil used<br />

to fuel the eternal flame in the Temple miraculously lasted for<br />

eight days). The history of this festival chronicles the Jewish<br />

people celebrating the revolution against the suppression and<br />

assimilation of the Jewish religion.<br />

Eid al-Fitr and Eid a-Adha – Often abbreviated to Eids,<br />

these are Islamic holidays. Eid al-Fitr is a feast-breaking that<br />

marks the end of Ramadan, the month of fasting (austerity<br />

for goodness), which is observed on the 10th day of the last<br />

month of the Islamic lunar calendar. Eid a-Adha is celebrated<br />

to commemorate Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son<br />

at the behest of God. It is also called the ‘Festival of Sacrifice’<br />

or ‘Greater Eid.’ The celebrations start after the annual Hajj<br />

pilgrimage to Mecca. Families celebrate both Eids by spending<br />

time with friends and relatives, exchanging gifts and attending<br />

services at mosques.<br />

Bodhi Day – In commemoration of the enlightenment of the<br />

Buddha, Bodhi Day is traditionally celebrated by Buddhists<br />

on the eighth day of the 12th lunar month, so this year it falls<br />

on Dec. 8. It celebrates how Siddhartha Gautama, who was<br />

born in a Hindu family in India, became the central figure and<br />

founder of Buddhism. It is said Gautama lived a life of extreme<br />

discipline and abstained from indulgences, while continuing<br />

meditation under the Pipal tree until he was able to find the<br />

cause of suffering and how to achieve liberation from it. Families<br />

celebrate this important moment in their religion by hanging<br />

up multi-coloured lights and lighting candles, meditating and<br />

snacking on rice and milk called Khir, which is the first meal the<br />

Buddha ate after his enlightenment.<br />

Diwali – Originating from the Sanskrit word ‘Deepavali,’ Diwali<br />

literally means rows (avali) of lights (deepa), which is popularly<br />

known as Festival of Lights. It is regarded as the most important<br />

Hindu festival of the lunar calendar and is celebrated with great<br />

excitement across India (Bharat) and by Indians living abroad.<br />

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Celebrations continue over a period of five days, each of which<br />

has its own significance. The days are named as Dhanteras,<br />

Narak Chaturdashi, Lakshmi Puja, Padava and Bhaiya Dooj.<br />

Before the start of the festival, spring cleaning is undertaken<br />

to welcome the goddess Lakshmi (the giver of wealth).<br />

Traditionally, rows of clay lamps filled with oil were lit, but now<br />

candles are used and the celebration starts with prayers, sweets,<br />

songs and fireworks. This practice symbolizes the vanquishing<br />

of ignorance (darkness) by knowledge (light) and celebrates the<br />

victory of good over evil by driving away the evil sprit.<br />

There is an exchange of gifts and the distribution of sweets,<br />

which symbolizes the dispelling of the bitterness of the past and<br />

renewal of friendship for times to come. It also means to drop<br />

the regrets of the past and the worries of the future and to live in<br />

the present.<br />

When true wisdom dawns, it gives rise to celebration of every<br />

moment of life.<br />

In Hinduism, Diwali marks the return of Lord Rama to<br />

his kingdom of Ayodhya after defeating the demon king<br />

Ravana, in the epic Ramayana. It also celebrates the slaying<br />

of the demon king Narakasura by Lord Krishna. Both signify<br />

the victory of good over evil. In Jainism, Diwali marks the<br />

attainment of moksha by Mahavira in 527 BC. In Sikhism,<br />

Diwali commemorates the return of Guru Har Gobind SinghJi<br />

to Amritsar after freeing several kings imprisoned in by the<br />

Emperor, Jahangir.<br />

Diwali is also the day on which Emperor Vikramaditya ascended<br />

the throne, and when many Hindu start their New Year (Samvat<br />

– started 2,080 years ago).<br />

As we embrace the lessons from each festival, we find inspiration<br />

to rise above the turmoil and chaos that plague our world. The<br />

message is crystal clear – let’s work together for a brighter future,<br />

where love, peace, and service prevail. These festivals serve as<br />

a unifying force, fostering understanding, and acceptance. By<br />

embracing these principles, we can transcend the strife and<br />

create a world where peace, love, and unity flourish.<br />

I have taken the first step by greeting my neighbours during<br />

their festivals and sharing our traditions with open doors<br />

and warm smiles. I extend an invitation to you to join us in<br />

spreading the message of love, peace, and service. Together, we<br />

can build a more harmonious and compassionate world. GBK<br />

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CHANDRASHEKHAR TRIPATHI, a holder of a PhD in environmental<br />

engineering from the University of Toronto, has recently retired<br />

from <strong>Bruce</strong> Power. Apart from his professional achievements in the<br />

environmental field, he passionately champions principles of diversity,<br />

inclusiveness, and community service. He actively promotes holistic<br />

wellness and the pursuit of life goals through a balanced lifestyle.<br />

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />

Connecting<br />

THROUGH ISOLATION<br />

A POSTPARTUM FATHER’S GUIDE TO HOLIDAY MINDFULNESS<br />

AND DISTRESS TOLERANCE BY CHANEL WAINSCOTT<br />

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The holiday season is a time that invokes a multitude of memories, enveloping<br />

us in a sensory tapestry of sight, sound, touch, taste, and emotion. It’s during<br />

this time that we create traditions that become cherished memories. The familiar and<br />

comforting sights and sounds of the holidays can also bring a sense of novelty each<br />

year, as we become more deeply involved in the festive rituals.<br />

That warm feeling of belonging, of being part of something greater, is what many<br />

argue defines the essence of the holidays. However, in the same breath, for some, the<br />

holidays can be a period of heightened isolation, a time when they feel like they don’t<br />

fit in or lack a sense of purpose. It can serve as a stark reminder of the family and<br />

stability they long for but may not have.<br />

Within this group of individuals, we might find the new father on the challenging<br />

journey of postpartum life. This person understands the weight of their legacy and the<br />

responsibilities they now bear. They can share how it feels to be surrounded by many<br />

but still grapple with a profound sense of loneliness.<br />

One-in-10 new fathers experience depression, a condition marked by feelings of<br />

anger, physical symptoms (headache, stomach issues, etc.), and an urge to cope using<br />

substances. Anxiety often accompanies postpartum fathers’ experience. Unfortunately,<br />

the stigma surrounding men’s emotional well-being often prevents them or their<br />

friends from opening up about this common experience. For postpartum fathers, the<br />

three- to six-month mark is when depression tends to hit the hardest. If this period<br />

falls within the holiday season, the situation can become even more challenging due<br />

to the added stressors of dark, cold weather, painful memories, and overall exhaustion.<br />

It’s common for those with postpartum depression to isolate themselves from others<br />

during this time. However, it’s important to remember that change can arise from<br />

adversity. By seeking out rewarding connections and engagement, the momentum<br />

gained from your efforts can make a significant difference in your mental health. This<br />

approach is known as behavioural activation. Now, let’s explore two ways to foster<br />

genuine connections during the holidays.<br />

PRACTICING MINDFULNESS<br />

Mindfulness is a powerful way to connect with the reality of the present moment. By<br />

doing so, you can tap into the goodness in your life and establish deeper connections<br />

with others and the universe while reducing tension and stress. Mindfulness involves<br />

neither rejecting nor clinging to the present moment. Rejection takes effort and<br />

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energy, diverting you from what is constantly<br />

evolving in the present. Attachment, however, keeps<br />

you preoccupied with the past or future, preventing<br />

you from fully experiencing the now. The beauty of<br />

mindfulness is that you can practice it anywhere,<br />

anytime, and while doing anything. But how can<br />

you do it?<br />

The holiday season is a time that can evoke (and<br />

create) a plethora of memories, engaging all five of<br />

your senses – sight, sound, touch, taste, and feel.<br />

One straightforward way to practice mindfulness<br />

during this period is by observing both your internal<br />

and external worlds. Take a moment to notice the<br />

aroma of a delicious dessert, the sensation of your<br />

stomach excitedly anticipating a bite, the softness<br />

of your holiday sweater, and the high pitch of<br />

your baby’s squeals and babble. Once you become<br />

adept at observing these sensations, you can further<br />

enhance your mindfulness by describing your<br />

experience with words and labels. When a thought<br />

or feeling arises, acknowledge it, give it a name, and<br />

describe the physical sensations associated with it.<br />

Here is what these skills can look like as an internal<br />

dialogue in response to the above observation: “His<br />

laughter made me think of my childhood and the<br />

caring parents I never had. I’m feeling angry. I’m<br />

feeling tense in my jaw.” To make the most out<br />

of this exercise, it is important not to hold onto<br />

this experience. Imagine that this observation and<br />

description is a cloud in the sky – here one moment<br />

and floating on outside of view the next.<br />

Throughout this process, immerse yourself<br />

completely in the activities of the current moment.<br />

If you’re playing a game with your family and/or<br />

baby, allow your attention to be fully absorbed in the<br />

experience.<br />

DISTRESS TOLERANCE SKILLS<br />

It’s crucial to acknowledge that the holiday season<br />

can bring about high stress levels for many people.<br />

However, it’s essential to remember that this period<br />

is relatively short-lived. If we can develop the ability<br />

to tolerate the challenging aspects of the holidays,<br />

we can navigate through them. You may feel<br />

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overwhelmed at times, but there are opportunities to engage<br />

with others and partake in activities that can significantly benefit<br />

your mental health by combatting isolation. Here are some ways<br />

to build distress tolerance skills while remaining connected to<br />

the people and events around you.<br />

First, use your mindfulness skills to monitor the signs of<br />

increasing stress in your body and the thoughts and emotions<br />

that may drive you towards isolation. When you recognize these<br />

initial warning signs, it’s a crucial moment to stop what you’re<br />

doing. Resist the urge to react impulsively and take a step back<br />

from the situation. Breathe deeply and reconnect with your<br />

earlier observations and descriptions. Compare these with the<br />

current situation, and then move forward with awareness. Ask<br />

yourself, what actions will improve the situation, and which<br />

might make it worse?<br />

After evaluating your current state of being, you can name<br />

that your anger is increasing and you feel like you’re out of<br />

“mindfulness fuel.” Taking space to yourself would make the<br />

situation better, but following through with the urge to storm<br />

out of the house might make it worse. This is a moment where<br />

you can take a premade sandwich bag of ice water to the<br />

bathroom and apply it to your forehead as a way to calm your<br />

nervous system. Returning back to the function, you can offer<br />

to help a friend or family member set the table for the evening.<br />

If thoughts of unworthiness or self-doubt arise, practice selfsoothing<br />

techniques. Play soothing music and retreat to the<br />

couch and wrap yourself in a cozy blanket. In these moments,<br />

focus on the positive aspects of your present experience and find<br />

meaning in them. As you observe yourself returning to a state of<br />

calm, you can attempt to rejoin the group and fully engage in<br />

the next activity or conversation with mindfulness and a sense of<br />

well-being.<br />

Incorporating these changes into your life may take time and<br />

effort, but remember that new behaviours must be learned and<br />

practiced in the situations where they are most needed. It’s not<br />

just about acquiring the skills but using them effectively when<br />

it counts. Additionally, it’s important to recognize that change<br />

requires continuous effort. While doing your best is a great start,<br />

it’s also necessary to push a little harder for growth. The fact that<br />

you’re committed to making positive changes in your life is a<br />

significant step in the right direction.<br />

As you journey through the challenges of postpartum depression<br />

and work on enhancing your mental well-being, remember that<br />

with perseverance and the right support, you can find yourself<br />

in a better place at the end of it all. You’ve got this, and there is<br />

hope for brighter days ahead. GBK<br />

CHANEL WAINSCOTT is a qualifying psychotherapist who specializes in<br />

perinatal mental health. She can be reached at info@carecultivator.ca or<br />

www.carecultivator.ca for additional resources and support.<br />

‘Share your personal or family story with future generations’<br />

• We record you telling your stories and<br />

transcribe your words<br />

• We suggest writing prompts to help<br />

you recall important memories<br />

• We research your family history<br />

• We write and edit your stories<br />

• We publish a custom-made book or<br />

other creative memory project<br />

__________________________________________<br />

ARLEN WIEBE<br />

Personal Historian<br />

at Your Life Stories<br />

www.your-life-stories.ca<br />

arlen.wiebe.writer@gmail.com<br />

226-668-3352<br />

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RESOURCES<br />

ABUSE<br />

Assaulted Women’s Helpline<br />

Crisis line: 1-866-863-0511<br />

www.awhl.org<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

(<strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong> Children’s Aid Societies<br />

amalgamated April 1, 2012)<br />

1-855-322-4453<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384; 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Saugeen First Nation - Kabaeshiwim<br />

Respite Women’s Shelter<br />

519-797-2521<br />

cgeorge@saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Sexual Assault and Partner<br />

Abuse Care Centre<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services<br />

1-888-525-0552 or www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852<br />

Administration: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

Owen Sound - 1-866-259-4823<br />

Walkerton - 1-866-994-9904<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

Women’s Centre (<strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong>)<br />

Administration: 519-376-0755<br />

Crisis: 1-800-265-3722<br />

womenscentre@bmts.com<br />

www.bmts.com/~womenscentre<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Women’s House Serving <strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Sexual assault crisis: 1-866-578-5566<br />

Crisis line: 1-800-265-3026<br />

Administration: (519) 396-9814<br />

crisis@whsbg.on.ca<br />

www.whsbg.on.ca<br />

Kincardine<br />

BREASTFEEDING<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-2021 or 519-881-1920<br />

RN/certified Lactation Consultant available<br />

www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

RN/Certified Lactation Consultant<br />

519-506-4348<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

La Leche League Canada<br />

Owen Sound; 519-376-5916; www.lllc.ca<br />

Moms Walkerton<br />

New Mom support<br />

320 Durham St.., Walkerton; 519-379-6769<br />

Support groups<br />

Southampton, Port Elgin, Paisley, and Tara -<br />

519-797-2010<br />

Kincardine, Ripley, Tiverton, and Lucknow -<br />

519-368-4847<br />

South-<strong>Bruce</strong> Breastfeeding Buddies -<br />

519-881-1920<br />

Wiarton and <strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula - 519-534-0912<br />

Markdale - 519-369-3381<br />

Owen Sound - 519-372-1330<br />

The Mama Nurse<br />

www.themamanurse.com<br />

CHILDBIRTH<br />

Glamma Doula<br />

Christine Piotrowski, Postpartum Doula<br />

www.glammadoula.com; 519-477-9985<br />

Hanover and District Hospital Obstetrics/<br />

Family Centred Care Birthing Centre<br />

519-364-2340<br />

admin@hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

www.hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

Jessica Connor Doula Services<br />

519-580-0612 or jconnor.doula@gmail.com<br />

www.jessicaconnor.ca<br />

Midwives <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

519-371-2886<br />

www.midwivesgreybruce.com<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Owen Sound Hospital Labour and Delivery<br />

519-376-2121<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca/owensound.php<br />

Walkerton Hospital Family Birthing Centre<br />

519-881-1220<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

CHILD CARE<br />

Acorn Montessori<br />

705-606-1642<br />

Thornbury<br />

Amabel-Sauble Child Care Centre<br />

519-422-3611<br />

Sauble Beach<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach<br />

519-599-2577<br />

Bobi’s Playschool<br />

519-538-5483<br />

Meaford<br />

Brockton Child Care Centre<br />

sbross@brockton.ca<br />

Brooke Montessori Toddler Program<br />

519-376-3447, Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

519-881-0431 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Family Centre<br />

519-793-4100<br />

Lion’s Head<br />

Chesley Nursery School<br />

519-363-9544<br />

Durham Nursery School<br />

519-369-6973<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

519-376-73<strong>24</strong>, www.greycounty.ca/childcare<br />

Hanover Montessori Children’s House<br />

1-800-906-7036 or 519-364-6455<br />

Happy Hearts Day Care Centre<br />

519-376-1284<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Inglenook Creche Day Care<br />

519-371-9471; Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> & Us Community Childcare<br />

and Family Education Centres<br />

Ayton - 519-665-2022<br />

Dundalk - 519-923-2182<br />

Durham - 519-369-9911<br />

Holstein - 519-334-3132<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3692<br />

Osprey - 519-922-2333<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7220<br />

www.kidsandus.ca<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Street Nursery School - Port Elgin<br />

519-389-9050<br />

Kinhuron Integrated Day Nursery School<br />

Co-op<br />

519-396-4532<br />

Kincardine<br />

Le Jardin des decouvertes - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-4411<br />

Military Family Resource Centre - Meaford<br />

519-538-1371 x6509<br />

mfrc.meaford@gmail.com<br />

www.cafconnection.ca/Meaford/Home.aspx<br />

Meaford Co-operative Nursery School<br />

519-538-3854<br />

Nawash N’Shiime Day Care Centre<br />

519-534-3909<br />

Neyaashiinigmiing (Cape Croker)<br />

OneList – Find and apply for child care<br />

brucecountychildcare.ca<br />

greycountychildcare.ca<br />

Queen of Hearts Nursery School<br />

109 Balmy Beach Rd., Owen Sound<br />

www.queenofheartsnurseryschool.com<br />

Sandbox Daycare - Hanover<br />

519-506-7263<br />

Saugeen First Nation G’Shaw-da-Gawin<br />

Day Care Centre<br />

519-797-<strong>24</strong>19<br />

gshawdagawin@bmts.com<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Saugeen Shores Childcare Centre<br />

519-832-<strong>24</strong>00<br />

Tobermory Primary Place<br />

519-596-2606<br />

Unity House - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-8686<br />

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Viola Jean’s Garden Daycare - Owen Sound<br />

519-416-5633 or 519-371-2362<br />

Wiarton <strong>Kids</strong> Den Day Care/<strong>Kids</strong> Club<br />

School age Program<br />

519-534-4434<br />

Wiarton Nursery School<br />

519-534-2121<br />

Wooden Hill Child Care Centre (La Colline<br />

De Bois) at Notre Dame School<br />

519-376-6952<br />

Owen Sound<br />

YMCA Childcare<br />

Arran Tara - 519-376-0484<br />

Hanover - 519-364-4938<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-9622<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-0484<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-6225<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5570<br />

ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

DIET/NUTRITION<br />

EatRight Ontario<br />

Ministry of Health Promotion and Sport<br />

1-877-510-5102; www.eatrightontario.ca<br />

Foodlink <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

Find locally grown meat, fruit and produce<br />

www.foodlinkgreybruce.com<br />

Good Food Box<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348; www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384, 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Ontario Student Nutrition Program <strong>Grey</strong><br />

<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

www.osnp.ca<br />

EDUCATION<br />

Academy of Learning - Owen Sound<br />

1077 2nd Ave. E., Suite B (2nd floor)<br />

519-371-6188 or www.academytraining.ca<br />

Adult Learning Centres<br />

Collingwood, Port Elgin, Markdale, Owen<br />

Sound, Walkerton, Wiarton<br />

www.adultlearningcentres.com<br />

Bluewater District School Board<br />

1-800-661-7509 or www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong>-<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board<br />

519-364-5820 or www.bgcdsb.org<br />

Conseil Scolaire Catholique Providence<br />

(French Catholic School Board)<br />

1-888-768-2219; www.cscprovidence.ca<br />

Edgehill Country School, Durham<br />

www.edgehillschool.org<br />

Georgian Tutors<br />

www.georgiantutors.com<br />

EMPLOYMENT SERVICES<br />

JobsWork<br />

Aimee Kim, Job Developer, akim@clkd.ca<br />

519-396-9434 x223<br />

Leads Employment Services<br />

1051 2nd Ave. E Owen Sound<br />

1-866-955-3237<br />

www.leadsservices.com<br />

Live<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong><br />

www.livegreybruce.ca<br />

VPI Employment Strategies (Walkerton)<br />

519-881-4900 or 1-855-260-4900<br />

jobswalkerton@vpi-inc.com<br />

www.vpi-inc.com<br />

YMCA Employment Services<br />

1450 1st Ave. W., Suite 4A, Owen Sound<br />

519-371-9222<br />

employmentservices@ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FAMILY SUPPORT<br />

211 Ontario<br />

Online database of services in your area<br />

www.211ontario.ca<br />

Aspire Youth Services Inc.<br />

Ryan McLeod, CPT, RSW, MSW, CYC (BA)<br />

ryanmcleodplaytherapy@gmail.com<br />

aspireyouth.ca; 416-417-7098<br />

Big Brothers Big Sisters<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-4449<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/bbowensound<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3565<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/kincardine<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

1-855-322-4453<br />

www.bgcfs.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Mentorship<br />

504 10th St., Suite 2, Hanover<br />

519-506-5065; www.brucegreymentorship.ca<br />

Building Gender Diverse Communities<br />

Karen Houle, 519-377-3171 x238<br />

2spiritmentor@mwikwedong.com<br />

https://rb.gy/3qmoe1<br />

Chippewas of Nawash Unceded First Nation<br />

- Native Child Welfare - Cape Croker<br />

519-534-3818<br />

supervisor.ncw@gbtel.ca<br />

www.nawash.ca<br />

Counselling <strong>Bruce</strong> County<br />

616 Market St., Port Elgin<br />

519-266-3674<br />

www.counsellingbrucecounty.com<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />

Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />

Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />

Wiarton<br />

1-800-616-8116<br />

Family Support Initiative<br />

519-371-4802; fsi@hopegb.org<br />

mhagb.ca<br />

Frontier Therapy<br />

www.frontiertherapy.ca<br />

Grandparent Network<br />

For grandparents raising grandchildren<br />

Meets first Monday of month at 9:30 a.m.<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Call Mary Nuckowski at 519-371-<strong>24</strong>98<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Supervised Access Program<br />

519-371-5991; pc-superacc@bmts.com<br />

www.supervisedaccess.ca, Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone<br />

1-800-668-6868 (<strong>24</strong> hours)<br />

www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Multiples in <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

http://multiplesinbrucecounty.webs.com<br />

Nemesis Group Services<br />

Owen Sound; 519-372-<strong>24</strong>25<br />

www.nemesisgroupservices.com<br />

Parent Help Line<br />

1-888-603-9100<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

PFLAG Owen Sound<br />

1-888-530-6777 x570<br />

https://pflagcanada.ca/ontario/<br />

owensoundon@pflagcanada.ca<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-0353<br />

Trans Lifeline<br />

1-877-330-6366; translifeline.org<br />

Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852; Admin: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com;<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

1-866-259-4823 - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-994-9904 - Walkerton<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

FINANCIAL SUPPORT<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach (Thornbury)<br />

519-599-2577; info@bvo.ca; www.bvo.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Children are Special Foundation<br />

Directs donations to the children programs<br />

provided by <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family<br />

Services (formerly Children’s Aid)<br />

1-855-322-4453 ext 4133<br />

Social Services<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 1-800-265-3119<br />

www.grey.ca/health-social-services/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-3005<br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/ontworks.php<br />

Walkerton<br />

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RESOURCES<br />

United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560 or manager@unitedwaybg.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com<br />

YMCA of Owen Sound and <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

519-376-0484 or ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FOOD BANKS/HOUSING<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach - Thornbury<br />

519-599-2577, info@bvo.ca or www.bvo.ca<br />

Durham District Food Bank<br />

Monday and Friday, 9 a.m.-noon<br />

Flesherton and Area Food Bank<br />

Marian Doyle, 519-599-3576<br />

Kincardine Ministerial Food Bank<br />

519-396-2185 or circlek@bmts.com<br />

Lion’s Head and District Food Bank<br />

519-793-3860 or helen.rick@amtelecom.net<br />

Markdale and District Food Bank<br />

519-986-1432<br />

Meaford Food Bank<br />

519-538-4550<br />

Paisley Food Bank<br />

Immanuel Evangelical Mission Church<br />

307 Balaclava St.; 519-353-5270 (Carol)<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Tobermory Food Bank<br />

519-596-1501<br />

Walkerton and District Food Bank<br />

519-881-0168<br />

Wiarton Food Bank<br />

519-534-0353<br />

Habitat for Humanity <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

1-866-771-6776 or habitatos@bmts.com<br />

www.habitatgreybruce.com<br />

Ontario Tenants Rights<br />

ontariotenants@hotmail.com<br />

www.ontariotenants.ca<br />

Safe ‘n Sound Homelessness Initiative<br />

519-470-7233; www.safensoundgreybruce.com<br />

Subsidized housing<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-3022<br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/socialhousing.php<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 376-5744<br />

http://bit.ly/vVG1k0<br />

HEALTH CARE<br />

ActivEars Hearing Centres Inc.<br />

Owen Sound, Hanover, Durham<br />

226-784-3288<br />

www.activears.com<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-2021<br />

www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

Canadian Mental Health Association<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> Branch<br />

Administration - 519-371-3642<br />

Crisis: 1-877-470-5200<br />

jralph@cmhagb.org; www.cmhagb.org<br />

Collingwood General and Marine Hospital<br />

705-445-2550; www.cgmh.on.ca<br />

Connect Rehabilitation, Yoga and Fitness<br />

1100 16th Ave. E., Owen Sound<br />

admin@connectrehab.com; 519-372-2121<br />

www.connectrehab.com<br />

ConnexOntario Help Lines<br />

Drug and alcohol - 1-800-565-8603<br />

Gambling - 1-888-230-3505<br />

Mental health - 1-866-531-2600<br />

www.connexontario.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services (hospitals)<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-34<strong>24</strong><br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Meaford - 519-538-1311<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Southampton - 797-3230<br />

Wiarton - 534-1260<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover and District Hospital<br />

519-364-2340/info@hdhospital.ca<br />

www.hdhospital.ca<br />

Healthy Babies, Healthy Children<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348 or dford@hanoverfht.ca<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Healthy Smiles Ontario<br />

Dental for families making under $20,000/yr<br />

Register through the health unit<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/JAqJbY<br />

Honouring Life Network<br />

www.honouringlife.ca<br />

Hope<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong> - Owen Sound<br />

Mental Health and Addiction Services<br />

519-371-4120 or www.mhagb.ca/gbchc/<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384 or 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone (<strong>24</strong> hours)<br />

1-800-668-6868 or www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Kincardine Family Health Team<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-2700<br />

Ripley - 519-395-2601<br />

www.kincardinefht.ca<br />

Mino Bimadsawin Health Centre<br />

57 Mason Dr., Saugeen First Nation<br />

519-797-3336<br />

M’Wikwedong Native Cultural Resource<br />

Centre - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-202-2068 or admin@mwikwedong.com<br />

www.mwikwedong.com<br />

Owen Sound Crisis Pregnancy Centre<br />

1-888-371-2004; oscpc@wightman.ca<br />

Pediatric clinics<br />

Hanover - 519-364-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

Poison Control Centre<br />

1-800-268-9017<br />

Postpartum depression<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - 1-800-263-3456<br />

Keystone Child, Youth and Family Services -<br />

1-800-567-2384<br />

Ripley Physical Therapy and Wellness<br />

519-395-HEAL; info@ripleyptandwellness.ca<br />

https://ripleyptandwellness.ca/<br />

Sensational Skills Occupational Therapy<br />

226 Queen St., Kincardine; 519-270-KIDZ<br />

ashleysimmonsot@gmail.com<br />

South <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Health Centre (hospitals)<br />

Chesley - 519-363-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Durham - 519-369-2340<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

South East <strong>Grey</strong> Community Health Centre<br />

55 Victoria St., Markdale<br />

519-986-2222 or 1-855-519-2220<br />

info@segchc.ca or www.segchc.ca<br />

St. John Ambulance First Aid training<br />

519-364-7004 or grey.bruce@on.sja.ca<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/t3Ye8g<br />

TeleHealth Ontario<br />

1-866-797-0007<br />

TVCC<br />

519-3370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

LIBRARIES<br />

Blue Mountains Public Library/<br />

L.E. Shore Memorial Library<br />

519-599-3681 or thebluemountainslibrary.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Public Library<br />

opac.brucecounty.on.ca; 519-832-6935;<br />

libraryinfo@brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Cargill - 519-366-9990<br />

Chesley - 519-363-2239<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3289<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-3844<br />

Lucknow - 519-528-3011<br />

Mildmay - 519-367-2814<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7225<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-2201<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5919<br />

Sauble Beach - 519-422-1283<br />

Southampton - 519-797-3586<br />

Tara - 519-934-2626<br />

Teeswater - 519-392-6801<br />

Tiverton - 519-368-5655<br />

Tobermory - 519-596-<strong>24</strong>46<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-3<strong>24</strong>0<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-2602<br />

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Collingwood Public Library<br />

519-445-1571; www.collingwoodpubliclibrary.ca<br />

Dundalk/Southgate Public Library<br />

519-923-3<strong>24</strong>8; http://southgate-library.com/<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Highlands Public Library<br />

Flesherton - 519-9<strong>24</strong>-2<strong>24</strong>1<br />

Kimberley - 519-599-6990<br />

Walter Harris Memorial Library (Markdale) -<br />

519-986-3436; greyhighlandspubliclibrary.com<br />

Hanover Public Library<br />

519-364-1420 or www.hanoverlibrary.ca<br />

Meaford Public Library<br />

519-538-1060<br />

www.meaford.ca/meaford-library-home.html<br />

Owen Sound and North <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Union Public Library<br />

519-376-6623; www.owensound.library.on.ca<br />

West <strong>Grey</strong> Public Library system<br />

www.westgreylibrary.com<br />

Durham (main) branch - 519-369-2107<br />

Elmwood and area - 519-363-3321<br />

Neustadt - 519-799-5830<br />

Ayton/Normanby - 519-799-3<strong>24</strong>2<br />

MUSEUMS<br />

Billy Bishop Heritage Museum - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-0031 or www.billybishop.org<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Lighthouse Museums<br />

Cabot (Lion’s) Head - 519-795-7780<br />

Chantry Island (Southampton) - 866-318-8889<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3468<br />

Point Clark - 519-395-<strong>24</strong>94<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Museum, Cultural Centre &<br />

Archives - Southampton<br />

519-797-2080 or www.brucemuseum.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Visitors Centre<br />

519-596-2233 or http://bit.ly/rQQFf6<br />

Tobermory<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Power Visitors’ Centre<br />

519-361-7777; www.brucepower.com<br />

Chesley Heritage & Woodworking Museum<br />

519-363-9837<br />

Craigleith Heritage Depot - Thornbury<br />

519-599-3131<br />

www.thebluemountains.ca/Craigleith-Heritage-Depot.cfm<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives<br />

1-877-GREY ROOTS; www.greyroots.com<br />

RR4 Owen Sound<br />

Meaford Museum<br />

519-538-5974<br />

www.visitmeaford.com/meaford-museum.html<br />

Owen Sound Marine and Rail Museum<br />

519-371-3333; www.marinerail.com<br />

Paddy Walker Heritage Society - Kincardine<br />

519-396-1850<br />

www.walkerhousekincardine.com<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> Museum - Flesherton<br />

519-9<strong>24</strong>-2843 or museum@greyhighlands.ca<br />

www.southgreymuseum.ca<br />

St. Edmunds Township Museum - Tobermory<br />

519-596-<strong>24</strong>79<br />

http://bit.ly/vEdicK<br />

Tobermory Maritime Association<br />

519-596-2700; www.tobermorymaritime.ca<br />

Treasure Chest Museum - Paisley<br />

519-353-7176 or http://bit.ly/1PjTS1D<br />

NEWCOMER SERVICES<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Settlement & Langauge Services<br />

519-371-9222 or settlement@osgb.ymca.ca<br />

ONLINE SUPPORT<br />

www.211.ca<br />

LGBT YouthLine: www.youthline.ca<br />

www.mentallyfit.ca<br />

www.pathwaysawareness.org<br />

www.shelternet.ca<br />

www.targetyouth.ca<br />

www.thehealthline.ca<br />

www.wesforyouthonline.ca<br />

PLAYGROUPS<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Play<br />

Monthly inclusive playgroup<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>bruceplay@gmail.com<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Paisley, Kincardine, Port Elgin, and<br />

Wiarton - 1-800-616-8116<br />

Hanover, Markdale, Meaford, M’Wikwedong<br />

(Owen Sound), Owen Sound (East Ridge), and<br />

Thornbury - 1-866-483-7774<br />

SPECIAL NEEDS<br />

Autism Ontario <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Chapter<br />

226-787-0333 or marti@autismontario.com<br />

http://bit.ly/tO6kam; Owen Sound<br />

Autism Parent Support Group<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434 or www.clkd.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Children’s Services Resource<br />

Program<br />

1-800-265-3005 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula (Wiarton) Association<br />

for Community Living<br />

519-534-0553<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434; www.clkd.ca<br />

Community Living Meaford<br />

519-538-4165<br />

Community Living Owen Sound<br />

and District<br />

519-371-9251 or communitylivingowensound.ca<br />

Community Living Walkerton & District<br />

519-881-3713 or www.clwalkerton.org<br />

Georgian Riding Association<br />

for Challenged Equestrians<br />

519-372-2721; grace@log.on.ca<br />

Wicklen Stables, RR5 Owen Sound<br />

Hope Haven Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-986-1<strong>24</strong>7; www.hopehavencentre.org<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

Owen Sound; 1-800-567-2384<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

PRANCE Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-832-2522 or prance@bmts.com<br />

Miramichi Farms, Hwy. 21 Port Elgin<br />

Reading Rescue Ontario<br />

519-794-4745 or soehner@bmts.com<br />

www.readingrescueontario.ca<br />

Holland Centre<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Youth Literacy Council<br />

519-364-0008 or info@sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

www.sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

Hanover<br />

Special Therapy and Education<br />

Program of Saugeen (STEPS)<br />

519-797-1935<br />

info@stepsahead.ca; www.stepsahead.ca<br />

Southampton<br />

TVCC<br />

519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560; unitedwaybg@bmts.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

SPEECH/LANGUAGE<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

1-800-265-3005; www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

Closing the Gap Healthcare Group<br />

Rehab Express <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

1-866-990-9901 or www.closingthegap.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

South West Community Care Access Centre<br />

In-Home Services<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-2112<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1181<br />

www.sw.ccac-ont.ca<br />

TVCC<br />

519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

VOICE for Hearing Impaired Children<br />

Support, speech and language therapy<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong> chapter is free to families<br />

www.voicefordeafkids.com<br />

WISH PROGRAMS<br />

Children’s Wish Foundation of Canada<br />

1-800-267-9474<br />

on@childrenswish.ca or www.childrenswish.ca<br />

Ajax, ON<br />

Make-A-Wish - Southwestern Ontario Chapter<br />

519-471-4900 or www.makeawishswo.org<br />

London, ON GBK<br />

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RECIPES<br />

Soup season!<br />

TURKEY BARLEY SOUP<br />

This soup is rich with the flavour of roasted<br />

turkey. You can make this hearty soup with a<br />

fresh turkey leg or leftover turkey.<br />

ROASTING TIME: 25 MINUTES<br />

PREPARATION TIME: 35 MINUTES<br />

COOKING TIME: 2 HOURS<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

500 g turkey leg or 4 cups turkey, cooked and diced<br />

1 cup barley (pot or pearl)<br />

1½ cup carrots, diced<br />

1 cup onion, diced<br />

1 cup each fennel root and celery, diced<br />

1 tbsp vegetable oil<br />

6 whole black peppercorns<br />

1 bay leaf<br />

1 tsp salt<br />

4 cups sodium-reduced chicken broth<br />

2 tbsp fresh parsley and thyme leaves, chopped<br />

Fresh thyme sprigs<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

Place turkey leg on parchment paper-lined rimmed baking sheet. Roast<br />

at 375 F for 25 minutes.<br />

Meanwhile, in medium pot, cook barley in 3 cups water until tender,<br />

about 25 to 30 minutes or according to package instructions. Drain and<br />

set aside. Remove turkey from oven, set aside.<br />

In large pot, combine, carrots, onion, fennel, celery and oil. Cook over<br />

medium heat until vegetables start to soften, about 5 minutes. Add<br />

peppercorns, bay leaf, salt and turkey leg. Add broth and 1 cup water;<br />

cover and bring to boil. Reduce to simmer, cook for 1 hour. Remove<br />

turkey leg from pot, dice meat discarding skin and bones. Add barley<br />

and turkey to pot. (If using cooked diced turkey add it here.) Add<br />

parsley and thyme; simmer for 5 to 10 minutes, or until heated through.<br />

Ladle into soup bowls and garnish with thyme sprigs.<br />

Tip: Pre-cooking barley prevents it from absorbing too much broth when<br />

adding it to the soup.<br />

POTATO SOUP WITH CHEDDAR CROUTONS<br />

PREPARATION TIME: 15 MINUTES<br />

COOKING TIME: 25 MINUTES<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

1½ tbsp butter<br />

4 cups yellow-fleshed potatoes, cubed and peeled<br />

2 carrots, chopped<br />

1 large onion, chopped<br />

4 cups water<br />

1 tsp salt<br />

¼ tsp pepper<br />

1 cup milk<br />

2 tbsp fresh dill, chopped<br />

1 tbsp white wine vinegar<br />

CROUTONS<br />

2 tsp butter, at room temperature<br />

4 slices whole wheat bread<br />

4 slices cheddar cheese<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

In large pot, melt butter over medium heat. Add potatoes, carrots and<br />

onion; cook covered for 8 minutes, stirring frequently. Stir in water,<br />

salt and pepper, scraping up any bits from the bottom; cover and<br />

bring to boil over high heat. Reduce to medium-low and simmer until<br />

vegetables are tender, about 15 minutes.<br />

Croutons: Meanwhile, heat large skillet over medium heat. Spread<br />

butter on one side of each bread slice; place 2 slices buttered side down<br />

in skillet. Top with cheese to fit bread and remaining slices of bread,<br />

butter side up. Cook for 3 to 4 minutes per side or until bread is<br />

toasted. Cool slightly and cut into cubes.<br />

In blender, purée soup in batches until smooth; return to pot. Stir<br />

in milk. Heat over medium heat just until steaming. Stir in dill and<br />

vinegar. Ladle soup into bowls and top with croutons. GBK<br />

Recipes courtesy Foodland Ontario<br />

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