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W O M E N I N H O T E L S<br />

LESSONS<br />

Delegates at the Women<br />

In <strong>Hotel</strong>s Conference were<br />

taken into Sam’s “battle with<br />

the darkness”. She admitted<br />

that she found herself “filled<br />

with shame and anger”,<br />

“hated waking up” and<br />

“craved oblivion”.<br />

Such ‘confessions’ make<br />

her messages all the more<br />

powerful. While self-help<br />

gurus tout similar lessons,<br />

they lack the lived misery that<br />

is at the core of Sam’s advice.<br />

Lessons such as:<br />

• While “some things suck”,<br />

don’t let misery block you<br />

from great happiness.<br />

You may be “shocked that<br />

so much can change for<br />

the better in a relatively<br />

short time”.<br />

• Make your dreams happen today, not tomorrow.<br />

• “Frequent lows and rare highs - gravel and diamonds<br />

- that’s what almost everyone’s life journey looks<br />

like, and mine is no exception.”<br />

• While we are stronger than we think we are, we<br />

can’t do it alone. Ask for help instead of giving up or<br />

surrendering to self pity.<br />

• “Don’t fixate on what you can’t do, or don’t have.”<br />

• Nothing feels as good as helping others.<br />

Sam shared her story because, as she puts it, “anything<br />

is possible if you are creative and determined enough to<br />

make it happen.”<br />

A compelling part of the day was a discussion about<br />

the difficulties of access in the hotel sector, which was<br />

brought to life by this video .<br />

Future issues of <strong>Hotel</strong> <strong>SA</strong> will feature advice on how to<br />

improve access at your property.<br />

A week following Sam’s presentation, she travelled to<br />

the U<strong>SA</strong> to compete at the US Para Surf Championships<br />

and became a three times World Champion in the<br />

unassisted category.<br />

You can find more information about Sam here .<br />

Photo courtesy Cameron Bloom<br />

Photo courtesy Cameron Bloom<br />

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