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September / October Issue of Southern Indiana Living
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A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />
The Tale of a Lost Billfold<br />
This will be a story, nay a possible<br />
movie, about a lost billfold,<br />
the amazing bureaucratic<br />
response to same and<br />
the destruction of an old piano with<br />
a sledgehammer named “Buster.”<br />
Yes, that old plotline.<br />
It begins with the lost billfold,<br />
a worn, faded brown-leather relic<br />
that has been a passenger in my<br />
left rear pocket for maybe 15 to 20<br />
years. It contained a driver’s license<br />
with a photo of me looking like a<br />
depressed bank robber, a Visa credit<br />
card and the address-card of my<br />
foot doctor who cuts my toenails<br />
every 10 weeks or so. It takes him<br />
about five minutes. Minor bleeding.<br />
Occasional salve. God bless<br />
Medicare.<br />
Speaking of which, tucked<br />
away in a fold of my lost billfold<br />
was that Medicare card, my AARP<br />
medicine card, proof of my car insurance<br />
and an ever-evolving, typewritten<br />
list of old-guy medicines<br />
with typical multi-syllable names<br />
such as Clopidogrel Bisulfate and<br />
Atorvastatin Calcium.<br />
Losing a billfold at my stage<br />
of the game is a depressing experience.<br />
I know the smart folks stuff<br />
all that is important and useful into<br />
cellphones, then find ways to find<br />
lost cellphones. I’m an old guy. My<br />
accumulated life was in that worn<br />
brown billfold. Financial, gastronomical<br />
and pedicurical. I was now<br />
in charge of finding myself.<br />
The billfold was last seen during<br />
a possible hand-off to my wife<br />
while I was sitting in a golf cart<br />
just behind the house, and she<br />
headed into the house through the<br />
garage. It was a possible hand-off.<br />
We agreed on that. Then it got lost.<br />
Bitter divorces have occurred over<br />
less.<br />
The search was on. A bomb<br />
squad couldn’t have done a better<br />
job of searching the house with its<br />
thousands of nooks and crannies<br />
and bookshelves and drawers and<br />
closets and heat ducts. It was also my<br />
understanding some lost billfolds<br />
have been found in refrigerators<br />
next to Hellmann’s mayonnaise. A<br />
guy can hope while fully understanding<br />
anything lost will finally<br />
be found in the last place he looks. I<br />
just hadn’t found that last place yet.<br />
We also repeatedly and unsuccessfully<br />
drove the golf cart past<br />
trees, shrubs and fountains and<br />
my depression kicked up another<br />
notch. I knew what came next and<br />
feared the bureaucracy involved,<br />
the minutes, hours, days, months<br />
and years required in contacting all<br />
the various agencies needed to get<br />
my life and financial security back.<br />
The first call was to our insurance<br />
carrier. I explained the situation<br />
as the kind woman on the<br />
phone took my personal information<br />
and said, “Don’t worry about<br />
it, I’ll get you a new card out today.”<br />
Somewhat encouraged by that<br />
experience, I decided to go after<br />
the missing elephant in the room:<br />
Medicare. I was a little worried that<br />
I might suffer a heart attack in the<br />
lengthy process, thus unable to get<br />
in the hospital door without my<br />
Medicare card.<br />
I Googled the Medicare phone<br />
number and was directed to a<br />
pleasant-voiced Medicare robot<br />
who kept asking what my problem<br />
was. I less than pleasantly explained<br />
he was the problem: “How<br />
about a live person, please?”<br />
In a flash, R2-D2 connected<br />
me to a live person who was very<br />
official yet kind, understanding<br />
and helpful. She took my personal<br />
information and promised a new<br />
card in the mail in two weeks. She<br />
then connected me to the very live<br />
AARP prescription lady who was<br />
equally fast and helpful; my card<br />
soon in the mail.<br />
Moving on by phone, once I<br />
got past the Social Security robot to<br />
a live voice, I got the same results. A<br />
very understanding person promised<br />
a new card before Christmas,<br />
maybe sooner, and I was still going<br />
to get my monthly checks.<br />
My lost Visa card experience<br />
went just as smoothly. The call. A<br />
five-minute wait. A live voice. A<br />
new Visa card within three days —<br />
somebody wants me out there buying<br />
stuff. Probably plant nurseries.<br />
I was happily astounded. The<br />
whole dreaded bureaucratic, getmy-life-back<br />
by telephone experience<br />
took less than 45 minutes.<br />
Giddy was on the horizon. Leaving<br />
only the missing driver’s license.<br />
It required a personal visit unless<br />
I wanted to try online — which<br />
would have taken me until Christmas.<br />
I walked into the Clarksville<br />
Bureau of Motor Vehicles the next<br />
morning fearing I would need a<br />
sack lunch. Wrong. I was number<br />
48 in line and 46 had already been<br />
called. I had, for some reason, taken<br />
a photo of my driver’s license on<br />
my cellphone. The clerk looked at<br />
it, banged away on her computer<br />
and told me my new card would be<br />
in the mail within 24 days.<br />
Then she leaned over and sort<br />
of whispered, “But it usually only<br />
takes about a week.”<br />
Shazam. A genuine love for<br />
bureaucrats. Our tax dollars and<br />
Visa at work, I had become a fully<br />
and duly authorized man in about<br />
36 hours. And only $9 for the new<br />
plasticized driver’s license.<br />
But what of my missing billfold?<br />
Lean in a little closer for the<br />
big finish. We did find it in the last<br />
place we looked. A buddy was over<br />
to help me take a sledgehammer we<br />
call “Buster” to take apart a very<br />
old piano and salvage its sounding<br />
board for Hoosier yard art. The<br />
process did offer some serious reverberating<br />
sound.<br />
Buster’s home is in the corner<br />
of our garage next to where my<br />
billfold had been placed on a step<br />
stool by my wife and forgotten. We<br />
had searched high in the garage but<br />
never got to the low part. A truly<br />
happy reunion without blame or recrimination.<br />
We have been married<br />
61 years and have gone through<br />
worse than a lost billfold.<br />
The resonating theme through<br />
this tale is if we had not decided to<br />
demolish the old piano, we never<br />
would have had need for Buster,<br />
and thus not found my billfold as<br />
quickly.<br />
Piano. Buster. Bingo.<br />
Before finding my old billfold,<br />
we purchased a shiny new one. All<br />
new bureaucratic cards will go in<br />
there for the next time I lose my old<br />
billfold. Stay tuned for the movie. •<br />
About the Author<br />
Former Courier-Journal<br />
columnist Bob Hill enjoys<br />
gardening, good fun, good<br />
friends and the life he and<br />
his wife, Janet, have created<br />
on their eight bucolic<br />
acres near Utica, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
8 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2023</strong> • <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong>