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Contents <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />
THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />
THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />
— Vicar's 50th birthday, 7<br />
— FoStAC garden party, 7<br />
— Church Defibrillator, 7<br />
— For your prayers, 7<br />
— STAY, 8-9<br />
— Christian Community Action, 11<br />
— From the editor's desk, 11<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 13<br />
FEATURES<br />
— Mysterious Mary, 15<br />
— Macmillan Coffee, 17<br />
— Claude recalls the rain, 17<br />
— World Peace Day, 19<br />
— School grief, 21<br />
— What is an angel? 21<br />
— Charvil heritage, 22-23<br />
—around the villages<br />
— Sonning School, 25<br />
— Inner Wheel 100 years, 27<br />
— Sonning Scout camp, 27<br />
— Art group go 'en plein air', 27<br />
— Twyford and Ruscombe show, 27<br />
— SSES autumn programme, 27<br />
— Sonning Village Show, 27<br />
health<br />
— Dr Simon Ruffle headaches 2, 29<br />
THE ARTS<br />
— Jan Davidsz. de Heem, 31<br />
— Poetry Corner, 31<br />
HOME AND GARDEN<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Ripple Effect, 33<br />
— Recipe of the month, 33<br />
THE sciences<br />
— Archaeology and the Bible, 33<br />
— Suffering in the image of God, 33<br />
FASHION<br />
— <strong>The</strong> ethical answer, 35<br />
history, 37<br />
PUZZLE PAGES, 37 - 39<br />
children's page, 41<br />
information<br />
— Church services, 3<br />
— From the registers, 3<br />
— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />
— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />
— Advertisers' index, 42<br />
This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />
<strong>The</strong><br />
<strong>Parish</strong><br />
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<strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />
the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />
CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />
Painting 'en plein air' (see page 27)<br />
Picture: Maggie Hollidge<br />
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From the Registers<br />
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Services at<br />
St Andrew’s<br />
Sunday 3 <strong>September</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Service<br />
— 4pm Choral Evensong<br />
followed by tea in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />
Sunday 10 <strong>September</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />
STAY and Sunday Club<br />
Sunday 17 <strong>September</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Communion<br />
— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />
Sunday 24 <strong>September</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />
STAY and Sunday Club<br />
— 5.45pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />
OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />
Morning Prayer is held in church<br />
every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />
Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />
held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />
and coffee follows the service.<br />
Home Communion at Sonning<br />
Lawns Care Home is held on the first<br />
Monday of each month at 11.00am.<br />
baptisms<br />
— Sunday 11 June, Lily Grace Loughlin Harvey; Jake Jeremy Loughlin Harvey;<br />
Henry Alexander Lamont Virgo; Miranda Sarah Longworth-Kraft<br />
— Sunday 9 July, Evan Joshua Hawkins; Darla Jane Christine Grant<br />
WEDDINGS<br />
— Friday 23 June, Kirk Andrew Williamson and Alexandra Dickinson<br />
— Saturday 24 June, Paul David Giles and Nicola Murray-Smith<br />
— Saturday 29 July, Christian Owain Rennison-Jones and Martina Leoncini<br />
— Sunday 6 August, Anthony James Green and Amy Krystyna Lewis<br />
funerals<br />
— Monday 12 June, Joan Elizabeth Pierce, funeral service in church followed<br />
by burial in churchyard<br />
— Thursday 29 June, Rosemary Stella Holt, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />
— Tuesday 18 July, Kathleen Betty Banks, service at Reading crematorium<br />
— Monday 20 July, Josephine Bodley-Scott – funeral service in church followed<br />
by cremation at Reading Crematorium<br />
— Wednesday 26 July, Kathleen Betty Banks, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />
— Monday 31 July, Andrew Kenneth Bell, funeral service in church followed<br />
by cremation at Reading Crematorium
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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />
Dear Friends,<br />
We are witnessing an 'epidemic' of mental health problems among young<br />
people, to quote a GP I was recently speaking with. <strong>The</strong> reasons are manifold<br />
and complex, and I am sure will be the subject of research for years to come.<br />
Covid has certainly played a part, but the problems were evident before that<br />
extraordinary period, and one suspects that so many of the causes have<br />
stemmed from social media. I am aware of some of these problems as a parent<br />
of two teenagers but also from several local schools and because of our youth<br />
ministry in the parish. Social Services and the other agencies tasked with<br />
addressing this are utterly overwhelmed with huge waiting lists and even<br />
private clinics face similar pressures.<br />
One of the personal delights of my 15 years in this parish has been to have<br />
a hand in creating the facilities and recruiting the right people to start and<br />
grow a youth ministry. For this to get off the ground, the Church Council back<br />
in 2009 needed to take a large leap of faith, and this has been amply rewarded<br />
by God over the years. In July of this year, they took another significant step<br />
of faith and have committed to the creation of a second post, committed to<br />
youth and children’s work, focusing specifically on girls. We shall be advertising<br />
from this month (see page 9), and we have committed to providing housing in<br />
addition to a salary. We believe this to be a much-needed addition to our youth<br />
ministry and it will also be a wonderful opportunity for someone to work with,<br />
and learn from, our very experienced youth minister. One of their roles will<br />
be to provide mentoring support in local schools for young people suffering all<br />
kinds of difficulties, just as Westy does. This is behind the scenes work, yet a<br />
vital support that we as a church offer to the young people in this area.<br />
In order to resource this new work in the medium to long term, the PCC is<br />
creating a new charitable trust, designated to support all our work with young<br />
people and children in this locality. All those who wish to support this will be<br />
able to become a member/supporter for an annual fee and there will be one<br />
high quality fund raising event each year, providing an opportunity for people<br />
of good will, but with no church connections, to support this specific youth<br />
work, separate from parish finances. More details will follow in the coming<br />
months.<br />
While writing about our work with young people and our aspirations for<br />
developing it further, I feel it is important to state that rigorous safeguarding<br />
is uppermost in all our minds, and we take very seriously the need to protect all<br />
our young people and those who work with them. <strong>The</strong> PCC has recently thanked<br />
Rachel Argent for her excellent service as parish safeguarding officer as she has<br />
stepped down from the role, and we have been pleased to appoint Nichola Riley<br />
as her successor. Nichola is an experienced social worker and so is well placed to<br />
oversee this vital part of our ministry. I am most grateful to her and know we<br />
shall all benefit from her insights and expertise.<br />
We have come a long way and I am hugely grateful to all those who have<br />
been prepared to take risks with far sighted proposals and plans developed by<br />
successive PCC’s over the last 15 years. However, we take nothing for granted<br />
and will always strive to serve the children and young people of our parish, and<br />
beyond, to the very best of our capability.<br />
Warm wishes.<br />
Jamie<br />
A LEAP OF FAITH<br />
NEW CHARITABLE TRUST<br />
RIGOROUS SAFEGUARDING<br />
TAKING NOTHING FOR GRANTED
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Happy 50th Birthday Jamie!<br />
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<strong>The</strong>re's nothing we, as a church, enjoy more than celebrating<br />
in a garden and we have had two opportunities to do so<br />
recently. On Sunday 23 July, following the morning service,<br />
we hurried to <strong>The</strong> Ark garden to celebrate Rev Jamie's 50th<br />
birthday.<br />
<strong>The</strong> toast was led by the Rt Hon <strong>The</strong>resa May MP who<br />
reminded us of some of Jamie's many achievements in the<br />
15 years that he has served as the Vicar of Sonning. As well<br />
as the bubbly, we demolished two cakes — one for vegan<br />
and gluten free members and the other, for the others!<br />
Earlier in July the Friends of St Andrew’s Church held<br />
their annual Garden Tea Party hosted by Jill and Richard<br />
Brighton. Over 60 'friends' enjoyed a splendid four-course<br />
afternoon tea in radiant sunshine. <strong>The</strong> tickets and a raffle,<br />
raised over £1,000 towards FoSTAC's vicar’s vestry wall<br />
project.<br />
Pictures: top: Keith Hawkins, below left: Sally Wilson; below right: Keith Hawkins<br />
Please remember your<br />
donations for the Woodley Food<br />
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just inside St Andrew's Church.<br />
Thank you!<br />
Pictures by Julie Costis<br />
Defibrillator at the <strong>Parish</strong> Office<br />
A Defibrillator, donated and<br />
installed by Keith Nichols in<br />
memory of his wife, Daphne, is<br />
fully functioning and available<br />
24 hours a day from the yellow<br />
cabinet to the right of the<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Office door. <strong>The</strong> letter<br />
box has been moved to the left.<br />
Keith Nichols<br />
<strong>The</strong> defibrillator is registered with the Ambulance Service<br />
so they can direct people to it. Access to the Defibrillator<br />
is via a combination lock on the cabinet door. In an<br />
emergency phone 999 and the ambulance service will<br />
provide the combination number that will enable you to<br />
open it and follow the instructions to use it.<br />
For your prayers in <strong>September</strong><br />
— Children starting school, moving schools<br />
and returning to school<br />
— Teachers and the new academic year<br />
— Christian Community Action<br />
— Rev Kate as she prepares to join<br />
Earley St Peter's Church as their vicar<br />
— <strong>The</strong> recruitment of an additional<br />
youth minister<br />
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St Andrew's Youth<br />
£100,000+ for<br />
fatherless boys<br />
A huge thanks to everyone who sponsored us for<br />
our big 100km in 24 hours walk on 17-18 June. I’ve<br />
never been in so much pain and I’m hoping to never<br />
do that again! However, despite my moaning the<br />
whole way, we actually raised £8,800 towards<br />
the grand total of £100,000 for fatherless boys in<br />
Reading. Chapter 2 use the money to recruit, train<br />
and provide mentors and positive activities for lads<br />
who need that little bit of extra support where a<br />
father figure is absent. In a recent interview with a<br />
trauma specialist a comment was made that while<br />
more formal styles of therapy help, it’s long term,<br />
positive and trusting relationships that will make<br />
the real difference!<br />
STAY on Sunday<br />
Reading Youth Event at KVFC16<br />
On 16 July we met with over 200 other Reading young people and youth workers<br />
and fun! We headed over to Kennet Valley Free Church in Calcot and had a great t<br />
when one of our youth looked over and saw a mate from school, they both pointe<br />
said; 'Hey, I didn’t know you went to church!' What a great event seeing young pe<br />
worshipping together and hearing about unity across our communities and churc<br />
STAY for Summer Holiday Activities<br />
For the Summer Holidays we organised some fun activities for the young<br />
Footgolf, paddleboarding, sports sessions in Charvil, a football match v<br />
Caversham, a Thorpe Park trip and a trip to<br />
the Waterpark at Caversham Lakes.<br />
p<br />
S<br />
We finished the parables series in July and took<br />
a break for the summer. We restart on Sunday 10<br />
<strong>September</strong> at 10.30am in <strong>The</strong> Ark. We meet on the<br />
2nd, 4th and 5th Sunday of each month.<br />
STAY on Monday<br />
We meet every two weeks in the young people's<br />
homes. Last term's series finished with our STIR<br />
cards and then took a summer break.<br />
<strong>The</strong> format for our meetings is: cake and<br />
questions one week; faith building one week;<br />
and games one week. Our first meeting after the<br />
summer break will be on Monday 18 <strong>September</strong>.<br />
Thank you to all the parents and volunteers who make STAY activities happen! email or text me for ideas, a
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STAY and Emmanuel Church camp out<br />
at the Satellites Youth Festival<br />
for a night of worship<br />
ime! Best moment was<br />
d at each other and<br />
ople playing games,<br />
hes.<br />
eople to enjoy, including:<br />
YNC youth group in<br />
STAY on Friday<br />
Youth Club is in <strong>The</strong><br />
Ark every Friday<br />
in term time from<br />
6.45pm-8.15pm for<br />
young people in years<br />
7-13 at school. On the<br />
4th Friday we welcome<br />
the year 6s to help<br />
with their transition to<br />
year 7. We have games,<br />
sports, consoles,<br />
baking, nail bar and a<br />
tuck shop which now<br />
takes card payments.<br />
STAY in Schools<br />
will be back this month<br />
after the summer<br />
holiday break!<br />
We joined with the youth from Emmanuel Church<br />
to spend a week camping at the Satellites Youth Festival this<br />
summer. We spent the week deepening our faith in Jesus through sung worship,<br />
Bible teaching, sports, cafes, games and seminars. <strong>The</strong> youth absolutely loved it!<br />
Dates for next year will be coming out soon! Watch this space.<br />
chat or to encourage what we are doing — Westy: youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk 0794 622 4306
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Christian Community Action<br />
(CCA) thanks St Andrew's for its<br />
regular financial support and for<br />
its parishioners making frequent<br />
donations of goods to its shops.<br />
'Your support' they said, 'supports<br />
our mission to demonstrate God's<br />
love by providing practical support<br />
to those in need in Reading while<br />
encouraging environmental<br />
sustainability through reuse'.<br />
Many will be familiar with at least<br />
one of the charity shops in Sonning<br />
Common, Whitley, Southcote and<br />
Oxford Road and its furniture shop<br />
in Whitley. You may be less aware<br />
that CCA shops don't provide an<br />
income. <strong>The</strong>y said:<br />
'We keep prices low so that<br />
people living in poverty in local<br />
communities can buy household<br />
essentials. Although we're supported<br />
in our shops by volunteers we still<br />
need some paid staff and we have to<br />
pay rent, electricity, waste collection<br />
and other overheads. Costs have<br />
risen significantly in the last few<br />
years particularly in Oxford Road.'<br />
CONTINUED SUPPORT<br />
CCA has put much effort into<br />
reviewing the costs of each shop and<br />
the needs of the community it serves.<br />
Its target is to ensure that overall the<br />
shops break even while recognising<br />
that in some locations the levels of<br />
deprivation in the community served<br />
means some won't.<br />
As a result of the review CCA has<br />
made several changes in the way it<br />
operates and asks that we continue<br />
to support them with donations and<br />
especially our prayers.<br />
You can find out more about<br />
CCA, its shops, and how to help by<br />
volunteering and making donations<br />
of furniture, household accessories,<br />
and money that will be used to help<br />
deprived families in the Reading area<br />
on its website at:<br />
https://www.ccam.org.uk<br />
Sad news<br />
and good<br />
news . . .<br />
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From the<br />
editor's<br />
desk<br />
editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />
I have some sad and some good news. Gordon Nutbrown who has played an<br />
essential part in the development and day-to-day running of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> has begun to hand over the responsibility of managing the<br />
'business' side of our publication to someone else. He feels that, now he is<br />
in his eighties, a younger person is needed. That's the sad news, of course,<br />
even though we have known for sometime that he would be stepping down.<br />
<strong>The</strong> good news is that our prayers have been answered and we have been<br />
able to start the hand-over.<br />
Gordon's role has not only been to manage and generate the revenue to<br />
enable us to create a magazine that has become recognised as one of the<br />
best of its kind in the country, it has also been to offer his knowledge of<br />
the printing and publishing world and his skill in using it to create a sound<br />
business model that has given us the freedom to do what we do today. He will<br />
not be dropping everything and walking away, our plan is for him to hand<br />
things over in a well-ordered fashion — which, if you know Gordon, is what<br />
you would expect!<br />
EXCITING CHALLENGE<br />
<strong>The</strong> first phase will be the handover of the management of the advertising,<br />
and the good news is that we have already started doing this. Harriet Nelson,<br />
who I and some other church members, have known since she was a baby, has<br />
offered to help us. Some years ago it was my privilege to lead a group of young<br />
people through the Confirmation preparation course and Harriet, with her<br />
twin sister, Ella, were two of the young people. Both of the twins sometimes<br />
help at the Rendezvous in <strong>The</strong> Ark lunch and at the Friday youth club.<br />
Recently, Harriet graduated from university with a degree in Fashion<br />
Marketing. Importantly, her main interest is in printed publications,<br />
rather than those designed for viewing on the internet — there are distinct<br />
differences in the two types.<br />
Harriet will begin by managing the day-to-day advertising which involves<br />
liaising with our advertisers, not only to sell them the space in the magazine,<br />
but to ensure the advertisements are kept up-to-date and of a quality that<br />
adds to the overall look and feel of our magazine. When you realise that<br />
we have over 65 regular advertisers you can see that it is a challenging task<br />
to look after them all, but I know it is a challenge that she is excited about<br />
taking on.<br />
While Harriet gets to grip with the advertising challenge, Gordon will<br />
continue for a short time with his other responsibilities of liaising with our<br />
printers and distributors and negotiating next year's contracts with them.<br />
KEEPING UP WITH THE FASHION<br />
And there is more good news concerning Harriet. As well as being<br />
interested in the marketing side of publishing printed magazines, Harriet is<br />
keen to develop her journalistic skills that were also part her degree studies.<br />
One of her great interests is in fashion journalism and strangely I have had<br />
in mind for sometime to include a family fashion page in our magazine, but I<br />
had no idea how or who could help me — and as I'm sure all those who know<br />
me, will also know that fashion is not my strong point! God has answered<br />
another of my prayers and in this issue I am pleased to announce that we<br />
have introduced a new, and I hope, regular page, written by Harriet, that will<br />
look at aspects of family fashion — see page 35. I hope you enjoy it!
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THE persecuted church by colin bailey<br />
Pray that a terrorist resurgence in Africa is not realised<br />
Public Domain Crown copyright<br />
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Ben Wallace, the longest serving Conservative Secretary of State for Defence<br />
is said to be resigning from the Cabinet at the next reshuffle — likely to be in<br />
this Autumn. He has also announced that he will not run for Parliament at the<br />
next General Election. In an article by Tim Shipman for '<strong>The</strong> Sunday Times' on<br />
15 July, he points out that the three things that keep him awake at night are<br />
the continuing threat from Putin’s Russia, an ‘increasingly aggressive’ China,<br />
and terrorist groups. He is also cited as warning that Britain could be dragged<br />
into a shooting war in Africa where al-Qaeda and Isis (the ‘Islamic State’ group)<br />
threaten the future of nation states.<br />
He warns of a possible ‘resurgence’<br />
of Isis, or al-Qaeda in Africa. <strong>The</strong><br />
latter’s growth is because some<br />
governments are not able to withstand<br />
them. <strong>The</strong> biggest faction is Al-Shabaab<br />
in Somalia, who pose a threat also in<br />
north and west Africa — he mentions<br />
Mali and Burkina Faso. Isis, he reports,<br />
took over a town in Mozambique.<br />
In this column in January we noted<br />
Islamic extremism is on the rise in<br />
Mozambique, with 21 Christians killed<br />
by Islamists in the north of the country<br />
during 2022. In February we discussed<br />
the growing influence of Islamic<br />
extremist groups in Burkina Faso. <strong>The</strong><br />
country went up nine places in the<br />
<strong>2023</strong> Open Doors World Watch List of<br />
the top 50 countries that are the most<br />
dangerous to be a Christian in.<br />
MILLIONS OF REFUGEES<br />
Open Doors has reported how<br />
Sudan had re-entered the Top Ten in<br />
the World Watch List this year. African<br />
Commonwealth countries Cameroon,<br />
Mozambique and Nigeria feature in the<br />
<strong>2023</strong> World Watch List at numbers 45,<br />
32 and six respectively.<br />
Barnabas Aid has launched an<br />
appeal, Bless Africa (helping suffering<br />
Christians in Africa - project PR1619).<br />
This is in the light of ‘rampant’<br />
anti-Christian violence in much of<br />
sub-Saharan Africa, where there are<br />
millions of refugees in desperate need.<br />
Burkina Faso has also been particularly<br />
subject to jihadi attacks. At least 11,000<br />
Christians in northern and middle<br />
belt Nigeria have died due to violent<br />
persecution since 2015. Call 0179 374<br />
4557 or go to the Barnabas Aid Bless<br />
Africa Appeal web page (see references<br />
below) if you would like to learn more<br />
and/or support.<br />
CONCERNS<br />
Another country hitherto without<br />
the same incidence of persecution has<br />
recently made the news: a massacre<br />
claiming 42 lives took place at a<br />
Christian school in Kasese District,<br />
western Uganda. Even more recently,<br />
news has come in that soldiers in Niger<br />
who staged a coup which sparked<br />
international condemnation declared<br />
their leader the new head of state on 28<br />
July. <strong>The</strong>re are concerns that this will<br />
hinder Niger’s fight against jihadists<br />
and also boost Russia’s influence<br />
in west Africa. According to NPR<br />
(National Public Radio of the US), Niger<br />
is seen as the last reliable partner for<br />
the West in efforts to battle jihadists<br />
linked to al-Qaeda and the ‘Islamic<br />
State’ group in Africa’s Sahel region.<br />
This is the area broadly between the<br />
Sahara and the Sudanian savanna,<br />
encompassing the countries of Burkina<br />
Faso, Cameroon, Chad, <strong>The</strong> Gambia,<br />
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Guinea, Mauritania, Mali, Niger,<br />
Nigeria and Senegal.<br />
At the time of writing it is Niger’s<br />
Independence Day and US President<br />
Joe Biden took the opportunity to say<br />
the US ‘stands with the people of Niger’<br />
and called for President Bazoum and<br />
his family to be immediately released.<br />
Meanwhile, European countries have<br />
continued to evacuate foreign nationals<br />
from the country. <strong>The</strong> 15-nation bloc<br />
ECWAS (Economic Community of West<br />
African States) has threatened to use<br />
force to put down the coup. Defence<br />
heads from the bloc have said military<br />
intervention was ‘the last resort’.<br />
Let us pray that Ben Wallace’s<br />
warnings about resurgence of the<br />
terrorist forces are not realised, and<br />
that stable government and peace is<br />
established in the region.<br />
REFERENCES<br />
Sunday Times Ben Wallace article: https://<br />
www.thetimes.co.uk/article/ben-wallaceim-resigning-from-politics-next-cabinetreshuffle-<strong>2023</strong>-k0x9st2rt<br />
Open Doors: https://www.opendoorsuk.org/<br />
persecution/world-watch-list/<br />
Barnabas Aid Bless Africa Appeal: https://<br />
mailchi.mp/barnabasfund/bless-africanchristians-with-aid-in-the-midst-of-violentpersecution?e=a668ae9426<br />
Barnabas Aid on Ugandan Christian school<br />
massacre: https://www.barnabasaid.org/<br />
gb/latest-needs/urgent-aid-for-ugandanchristians-after-school-massacre/<br />
NPR article on Niger general declared head<br />
of state by soldiers following coup: https://<br />
www.npr.org/<strong>2023</strong>/07/29/1190897332/<br />
soldiers-declare-niger-general-head-ofstate-coup<br />
President Biden on Niger: https://www.<br />
whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statementsreleases/<strong>2023</strong>/08/03/statement-frompresident-biden-on-the-occasion-of-nigersindependence-day/<br />
Guardian article on Niger: https://www.<br />
theguardian.com/world/<strong>2023</strong>/aug/02/<br />
african-bloc-to-meet-to-discuss-niger-coupas-evacuations-continue
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Mysterious<br />
Mary<br />
the<br />
virgin<br />
mother<br />
of<br />
Jesus<br />
<strong>The</strong> Blessed Virgin Mary , Vividaphoto, dreamstime.com<br />
On Friday 8 <strong>September</strong> Christians<br />
around the world celebrate the<br />
birthday of the Blessed Virgin<br />
Mary. While being the best known<br />
and much loved mother in history,<br />
she remains one of the greatest<br />
mysteries of all time.<br />
Most of what we know about Mary<br />
are the brief mentions of her in the<br />
New Testament concerned with the<br />
birth and early life of Jesus, and that<br />
she witnessed his death on the Cross.<br />
She said very little apart from telling<br />
the waiters at a wedding feast to do<br />
as Jesus told them, which is good<br />
advice for us all.<br />
HYMN OF PRAISE<br />
According to Sister M Danielle<br />
Peters, University of Dayton, there<br />
are four different occasions when<br />
Mary’s words are recorded in the<br />
Bible:<br />
Luke gives an account of the<br />
Mary's dialogue with the angel at the<br />
Annunciation when she was told that<br />
she would give birth to the Saviour<br />
(Luke 1:26-38);<br />
Her encounter with Elizabeth<br />
her cousin that prompted a hymn<br />
of praise known as the Magnificat,<br />
(Luke 1:46-56);<br />
When Jesus, aged 12 years old was<br />
found in the temple (Luke 2:41-52).<br />
And when Mary's words are<br />
recorded at a wedding at Cana (John<br />
2:1-11) when she tells the waiters<br />
to do as Jesus tells them, and this<br />
results in the first recorded miracle<br />
performed by Jesus when he turned<br />
water into wine<br />
However, we can also unravel<br />
the mystery of Mary a little more<br />
in Matthew's account of an angel<br />
visiting Joseph who was betrothed<br />
to her. We are told that when Joseph<br />
woke up, he did what the angel of the<br />
Lord had commanded him and took<br />
Mary home as his wife.<br />
FOUR BROTHERS<br />
However, in an unsubstantiated<br />
document called the Protoevangelium<br />
of James, there are some more details<br />
of Mary's early life. It is believed<br />
to have been written in the 2nd<br />
Century by James a brother of Jesus.<br />
According to Mark 6:3, Jesus had four<br />
brothers and two sisters: 'Is he not<br />
the carpenter, the son of Mary, and the<br />
brother of James and Joses and Judas<br />
and Simon?'<br />
<strong>The</strong> Protoevangelium reveals that<br />
Mary was born miraculously to a<br />
wealthy man and his wife who up<br />
until then had not been able to have<br />
children. Her story seems to reflect<br />
the Old Testament account of the<br />
<strong>The</strong> Protoevangelium of James, Public Domain<br />
birth of Samuel to Hannah and her<br />
husband Elkanah.<br />
Mary was then shielded from the<br />
world in a sanctuary where she was<br />
cared for by 'undefiled daughters of the<br />
Hebrews'.<br />
At 3 years of age, the child was<br />
moved to the Temple in Jerusalem<br />
where she is said to have been fed by<br />
an angel.<br />
As she grew to puberty at about<br />
12 years old, the strict temple rules<br />
meant she could no longer live there<br />
and so a safe home was found for<br />
her with Joseph, a village carpenter,<br />
who we are told was a member of the<br />
'House of David'.<br />
Following the immaculate<br />
conception, Joseph had a series of<br />
dreams that prompted him to marry<br />
Mary. And so when Jesus — a name<br />
chosen by God — was born he was a<br />
member of the House of David as had<br />
long been expected.<br />
THE REALITY<br />
Just as there are many legends<br />
about Mary and her life following<br />
the death of Jesus, there are many<br />
legends about Joseph. But legends<br />
fuel mysteries, and while they can be<br />
fun, they can't distract us from the<br />
reality of God's love for each of us<br />
and the world he created for us.
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It's never too late to have a Macmillan<br />
Coffee Morning – just do it!<br />
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C laude<br />
recalls ...<br />
It ain’t<br />
gonna<br />
rain no<br />
more!<br />
<strong>The</strong> official Macmillan Coffee Morning this year is on Friday 29 <strong>September</strong>,<br />
but you can, of course, host one anytime throughout the year. And it doesn't<br />
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nurses. <strong>The</strong> Society's first notable<br />
achievement was to publish <strong>The</strong> Blue<br />
Book which was heralded as a ground<br />
breaking study of cancer mortality in<br />
the UK.<br />
It's easy to underestimate the<br />
significance of Douglas Macmillan's<br />
achievements until you realise that<br />
humans and animals have suffered<br />
from cancer since time began.<br />
According to the American Cancer<br />
Society there is evidence of cancer<br />
in fossilized bone tumours, human<br />
mummies in ancient Egypt, and it is<br />
mentioned in ancient manuscripts.<br />
Growths suggestive of the bone<br />
cancer called osteosarcoma have<br />
been seen in mummies. Bony skull<br />
destruction as seen in cancer of the<br />
head and neck has also been found.<br />
<strong>The</strong> oldest description of cancer<br />
was discovered in Egypt and<br />
dates from about 3,000 BC, which<br />
interestingly is also about the time<br />
of Noah's flood in Bible.<br />
As well describing the disease,<br />
the Egyptian descriptions of cancer<br />
say that there is no treatment for<br />
it. <strong>The</strong>se early reports did not call<br />
it cancer, this name is credited to<br />
Hippocrates (460-370 BC), who is<br />
known as the 'Father of Medicine'.<br />
Hippocrates used the terms carcinos<br />
and carcinoma to describe non-ulcer<br />
forming and ulcer-forming tumours.<br />
Douglas Macmillan helped<br />
to change the way the world had<br />
thought about, and treated, cancer,<br />
and as the organisation he founded<br />
says. 'Today much of Douglas's<br />
legacy lives on. We’ve continually<br />
adapted the support we offer to<br />
ensure it’s right for people today<br />
and will be right in the future too.<br />
Our determination to continually<br />
improve the experience of cancer is<br />
something that will never waver.'<br />
To find out more about how<br />
holding a coffee morning can raise<br />
funds for Macmillan Cancer Support,<br />
and the support materials and ideas<br />
that are available to help you, see:<br />
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A very British habit is to talk<br />
continually about the weather.<br />
A family friend of mine from<br />
Hungary came to live in Britain<br />
for some years and wondered why<br />
the British were fixated about the<br />
weather. Within weeks she came<br />
to understand our ‘four seasons<br />
in a day climate’ and very quickly<br />
became as obsessed as the rest of<br />
us.<br />
I remember well the 1947 floods<br />
when the Thames burst its banks and<br />
our church — St John the Baptist<br />
Caversham — appeared as an island<br />
as the water crept up Donkin Hill. It<br />
benefited from being built on higher<br />
ground than the houses around it.<br />
I lost about 6 weeks of school due<br />
to the flooding and then came a coal<br />
shortage. It was at this time that the<br />
ditties below stuck in my mind and<br />
came to mean more to me.<br />
'It ain’t gonna rain no more no more.<br />
It ain’t gonna rain no more. How in the<br />
hell can the old folks tell that it ain’t<br />
gonna rain no more!’<br />
And… 'We’ll weather the weather<br />
what ever the weather, whether we<br />
like it or not!'<br />
<strong>The</strong>y came from my grandfather<br />
who I still remember. He was a<br />
printer by trade and lived with us<br />
from when I was born until he died<br />
in 1947. He was the most kind and<br />
generous man and became ‘Grandad’<br />
to every kid on the street.
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United Nations International Day of Peace, Saturday 23 <strong>September</strong><br />
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Shlama l'kulhum — Shalom Aleichem — Peace be upon you!<br />
2,000 years ago, Jesus left God's<br />
peace in the world when he told his<br />
followers: Peace I leave with you; my<br />
peace I give to you. Not as the world<br />
gives do I give to you. (John 14:27).<br />
<strong>The</strong> Bible teaches us that God's peace<br />
is to be shared with everyone, yet<br />
today the opposite of peace — war<br />
and violent conflicts — still rank<br />
alongside climate change and hunger<br />
as one of the most serious issues<br />
facing our world.<br />
Indeed, the United Nations<br />
Secretary-General António Guterres<br />
said,<br />
'Peace is needed today more than<br />
ever. War and conflict are unleashing<br />
devastation, poverty, and hunger,<br />
and driving tens of millions of people<br />
from their homes. Climate chaos is all<br />
around. And even peaceful countries<br />
are gripped by gaping inequalities and<br />
political polarization.'<br />
An International Day of Peace<br />
was established in 1981 by the<br />
United Nations General Assembly<br />
to highlight this issue. Two decades<br />
later, in 2001, the General Assembly<br />
unanimously voted to designate it as<br />
a period of non-violence and ceasefire.<br />
EVERYDAY PEACE<br />
This year the UN International<br />
Day of Peace is on Saturday 23<br />
<strong>September</strong>.<br />
While a special day for the laying<br />
down of arms and to encourage<br />
people to think and act peacefully<br />
is an excellent idea and should be<br />
welcomed by all, to achieve the true,<br />
lasting peace that God had in mind<br />
when the world was created requires<br />
every person to accept the gift of<br />
peace that Jesus brought into it, and<br />
then share it with everyone they<br />
meet everyday of their life.<br />
<strong>The</strong> true, everlasting peace that<br />
we all long for can only become a<br />
reality if it begins to be shared by<br />
individuals and spreads upwards<br />
and outwards into the world, rather<br />
than from the top down. <strong>The</strong>re's<br />
an excellent example of how this<br />
'bottom-to-top' peace spreading idea<br />
works in the Old Testament book of<br />
Ezekiel (47).<br />
Pointing the way to peace in three languages<br />
Ezekiel writes about a vision<br />
he saw of the Temple in Jerusalem<br />
(below). <strong>The</strong> water he sees coming<br />
out of the Temple contains the Holy<br />
Spirit that had been poured over<br />
the altar. Instead of soaking away<br />
into the dry ground as water would<br />
usually do, the Holy Spirit makes<br />
it grow into a stream, then a river<br />
that gets deeper and stronger. It<br />
eventually travels from one of the<br />
highest places in the world — the<br />
site of the Temple — to the deepest,<br />
deadliest place, the Dead Sea, where<br />
it brings new life and abundant food.<br />
This is how we can expect the<br />
Holy Spirit to work within us when<br />
Ezekiel 47: <strong>The</strong> River of Life<br />
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we share God's love and peace with<br />
others and encourage them to<br />
share it with their families, friends,<br />
neighbours colleagues and everyone<br />
they meet.<br />
This bottom-to-top process is<br />
what the UN's World Peace Day is all<br />
about. We can't all initiate ceasefires<br />
in our neighbourhood, but by doing<br />
peaceful acts of kindness and love to<br />
all whom we meet we can help peace<br />
spread into the world — and don't<br />
forget, there are 364 more days in<br />
the year that we can start spreading<br />
some peace or Shalom, which is<br />
Hebrew for all the good things in life<br />
that God wants for each of us.<br />
<strong>The</strong> man brought me back to the entrance to the temple, and I saw water coming out from<br />
under the threshold of the temple toward the east (for the temple faced east). <strong>The</strong> water<br />
was coming down from under the south side of the temple, south of the altar. He then<br />
brought me out through the north gate and led me around the outside to the outer gate<br />
facing east, and the water was trickling from the south side.<br />
As the man went eastward with a measuring line in his hand, he measured off a<br />
thousand cubits and then led me through water that was ankle-deep. He measured off<br />
another thousand cubits and led me through water that was knee-deep. He measured off<br />
another thousand and led me through water that was up to the waist. He measured off<br />
another thousand, but now it was a river that I could not cross, because the water had risen<br />
and was deep enough to swim in — a river that no one could cross. He asked me, 'Son of<br />
man, do you see this?'<br />
<strong>The</strong>n he led me back to the bank of the river. When I arrived there, I saw a great number<br />
of trees on each side of the river. He said to me, 'This water flows toward the eastern region<br />
and goes down into the Arabah, where it enters the Dead Sea. When it empties into the sea,<br />
the salty water there becomes fresh. Swarms of living creatures will live wherever the river<br />
flows. <strong>The</strong>re will be large numbers of fish, because this water flows there and makes the<br />
salt water fresh; so where the river flows everything will live. Fishermen will stand along<br />
the shore; from En Gedi to En Eglaim there will be places for spreading nets. <strong>The</strong> fish will be<br />
of many kinds — like the fish of the Mediterranean Sea. But the swamps and marshes will<br />
not become fresh; they will be left for salt. Fruit trees of all kinds will grow on both banks of<br />
the river. <strong>The</strong>ir leaves will not wither, nor will their fruit fail. Every month they will bear fruit,<br />
because the water from the sanctuary flows to them. <strong>The</strong>ir fruit will serve for food and their<br />
leaves for healing.'<br />
Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal. (Martin Luther King Jr)
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Editor: As part of her English language course work,<br />
our granddaughter, Angel (right) aged 14 years and<br />
who does not attend a school in our parish, had<br />
to research and present a short speech about any<br />
subject of her choice. She chose . . .<br />
How education<br />
responds to grief<br />
Hello! I will be speaking about<br />
something very personal to me —<br />
education's response to grief.<br />
Grief affects many people in<br />
different ways but it is how the<br />
people around you support you that<br />
counts the most.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are five stages of grief:<br />
denial, anger, bargaining, depression<br />
and acceptance. None of these are<br />
easy, especially when you are a<br />
student — and I should know.<br />
MY FAULT?<br />
My father died in early December<br />
2022 and the next day I was forced to<br />
go into school as it was not permitted<br />
for me to have time off to grieve, and<br />
this is the case for many people.<br />
A few days after my father passed<br />
away some other students were<br />
causing trouble about it and made<br />
fun of my father.<br />
When I took it to the school they<br />
blamed me for the problem, as if it<br />
was my own fault that my dad had<br />
died? It was certainly not the case.<br />
Many schools around the world do<br />
this and it certainly isn't the fault of<br />
the grieving student.<br />
Sue Peters<br />
After the bullying had continued<br />
for a few months the school<br />
eventually changed my tutor group<br />
because they didn't have any other<br />
way to resolve the problem.<br />
Again, they were punishing me<br />
for something that was not my fault!<br />
Grieving can be a very long<br />
process but education seems to think<br />
it only takes a few days.<br />
It would be easier if they provided<br />
support such as counselling, safe<br />
spaces or even just an adult to talk<br />
to, but, in my experience, they don't<br />
consider the pupil's feelings and<br />
constantly upset grieving students<br />
by shouting, or getting angry with<br />
them for simply grieving, which<br />
is something that doesn't hurt<br />
anybody.<br />
Through the tears and everlasting<br />
fear, I carry on day by day without<br />
further words spoken nor heard. I<br />
had to get over it to meet the school's<br />
requirements, not mine.<br />
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29 <strong>September</strong>: St Michael and All Angels<br />
What is an<br />
angel?<br />
By Rev Canon David Winter<br />
A shining figure with glorious wings<br />
who appears from time to time to do<br />
mighty work for God or bring a very<br />
special message from him?<br />
That’s right in a sense, apart from the<br />
wings, which we owe more to stained<br />
glass windows than the Bible. But<br />
the fact that not all ‘angels’ in the<br />
Bible are ‘glorious’ or ‘shining’ should<br />
make us hesitate to categorise them in<br />
this spectacular way. After all, three<br />
apparently ordinary men who visited<br />
Abraham and Sarah to say she would<br />
have a son even though she was long<br />
past child-bearing. Nevertheless,<br />
Abraham recognised them as divine<br />
messengers.<br />
WHO ARE ANGELS?<br />
<strong>The</strong> Bible is full of angels who have a<br />
key role in crucial events. It seems that<br />
Michael was their leader, an ’archangel’.<br />
In many stained glass windows he has a<br />
sword, because in a vision in Revelation<br />
he led the angelic host who defeated<br />
Satan and his army.<br />
In the Gospels, an angel appeared to<br />
Zechariah, to tell him that his elderly<br />
wife was to have a son, the forerunner<br />
of the Messiah, John the Baptist. <strong>The</strong><br />
angel Gabriel – appeared to Mary to<br />
say she would be the mother of the<br />
Messiah. An angel appeared to Joseph,<br />
the carpenter, to tell him to marry<br />
Mary, and, in another dream, warned<br />
him not to go back to Bethlehem.<br />
A ‘young man’, another angel, was<br />
waiting in the empty tomb on Easter<br />
morning, to tell the startled women<br />
that Jesus had risen.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se, and others, show the word<br />
angel covers an enormous diversity of<br />
experience. Some recognised angels<br />
for who they were, and some didn’t.<br />
Angels, quite simply, are God’s agents or<br />
messengers and ministers of God's will.<br />
Sometimes they are human; sometimes<br />
spiritual beings.<br />
Perhaps we could say that anyone,<br />
in any situation, who is at that moment<br />
God’s ‘messenger’ to us, or serves us<br />
graciously, is an ‘angel’. So, when we say,<br />
‘Be an angel and pop up to the chemist<br />
for my prescription’, we may be nearer<br />
the heart of the matter than we think!
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feature — 5<br />
DELVING INTO C<br />
Old Bath Road<br />
Railway Line<br />
Park View Drive<br />
Park Lane<br />
Waingels Road<br />
Milestone Avenue<br />
New Bath Road<br />
Old Bath Road<br />
Wee Waif<br />
Charvil Lane<br />
6 JUNE 1942<br />
English Heritage (NMR) Photography<br />
<strong>September</strong> is now well established as the month when the UK celebrates its unique<br />
heritage, so this year we thought we would delve a little into Charvil's heritage, but you<br />
may ask, where can you delve? writes Bob Peters.<br />
<strong>The</strong> answer is, there are three places to<br />
start: the English Heritage National<br />
Monuments Record, an excellent little<br />
book called A Walk around Charvil by Bill<br />
Crane, and, of course, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
archives which date from 1869 (see page 3).<br />
English Heritage is a charity that<br />
looks after a public archive containing<br />
10 million photographs, plans, database<br />
records and other information on<br />
England's architecture and archaeology,<br />
and my experience of using their<br />
service recently is excellent. One of our<br />
churchwardens has in his possession a<br />
set of aerial photographs of part of our<br />
parish. <strong>The</strong>y date from 1942 to the 1970s<br />
and include the two aerial photographs<br />
published above. <strong>The</strong>y clearly show that<br />
Charvil's heritage is primarily agricultural<br />
like many English villages.<br />
In 1942 wartime Britain, there<br />
were only a few isolated homesteads in<br />
Charvil, while 25 years later it had begun<br />
to be developed into a more residential<br />
community. Since then, of course, it has<br />
probably doubled in size to the Charvil<br />
we know today to include a good variety<br />
of housing, a much-used village hall, a<br />
A <strong>Parish</strong> Landmark: <strong>The</strong> Wee Waif at Charvil by Stev
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HARVIL'S HERITAGE<br />
Railway Line<br />
Old Bath Road<br />
Park View Drive<br />
Park Lane<br />
Waingels Road<br />
Old Bath Road<br />
New Bath Road<br />
Milestone Avenue<br />
Wee Waif<br />
Charvil Lane<br />
13 JUNE 1967<br />
English Heritage (NMR) Photography<br />
e Daniels<br />
wikimedia commons<br />
primary school, well-used recreation fields<br />
with tennis courts and other facilities.<br />
<strong>The</strong> photographs were taken by the<br />
RAF and were originally restricted for<br />
obvious reasons of national security. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
are now part of the National Monuments<br />
Record and we therefore had to seek<br />
permission to publish them. To my<br />
surprise the charity's service was very<br />
efficient especially as I tend to do things<br />
at the last minute!<br />
I also delved into Bill Crane's book,<br />
which was published in 1994 by the<br />
Twyford and Ruscombe Local History<br />
Society, to check when Charvil's<br />
'landmark', the Wee Waif hotel, garage<br />
and shop complex, was established. Bill<br />
dates it from the 1920s and writes 'in the<br />
1930s many well known people, including<br />
Royalty, are said to have stopped regularly<br />
at the Wee Waif for lunch or tea.'<br />
<strong>The</strong> name, Wee Waif, came from a<br />
fund raising event held there for Sir<br />
Alfred Fripp's East End Charities that<br />
benefitted his 'wee waifs'.<br />
By the start of the 190os Charvil<br />
had about 20 homes, but this has<br />
steadily grown as can be seen in our two<br />
photographs above. Since 1967 further<br />
development has seen even greater<br />
growth which means this magazine<br />
is delivered to over 3,000 people<br />
in Charvil. In terms of population,<br />
Charvil, which had a handful of people<br />
is now the largest part of the parochial<br />
church parish of St Andrew's.
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Carrying kindness, respect<br />
and support into a new year<br />
Sonning CofE Primary School headteacher, Phil Sherwood, reflects on the<br />
previous year as the new academic year is about to start . . .<br />
<strong>The</strong> summer holiday has been<br />
very busy, with lots of projects<br />
and improvements taking place.<br />
However, just like New Year’s Day,<br />
the beginning of a new academic year<br />
allows for a time of reflection and<br />
thoughts of a 'fresh start'.<br />
Looking back to last term, we<br />
enjoyed a brilliant sports day and<br />
saw some excellent kindness, respect<br />
and support for others from our<br />
pupils and the crowd.<br />
Our thanks to Reading Cricket<br />
and Hockey Club for allowing us to<br />
use their car park to ease parking<br />
congestion on the roads.<br />
RESULTS<br />
Our year culminated with goodbyes<br />
to our wonderful Oak class and<br />
celebrations for our Year 6 end of key<br />
stage assessment results, which were<br />
some of our best ever.<br />
Our results can be viewed at:<br />
https://www.sonning.wokingham.sch.uk/<br />
page/?title=Performance+Data&pid=31<br />
We are now looking forward to<br />
continuing the excellent work of the<br />
previous 12 months and providing<br />
even more for our pupils.<br />
It is also an opportunity for<br />
us to say thank you to our local<br />
community for all their support —<br />
we are always so grateful for the<br />
connections we have in the area.<br />
GARDEN HELP<br />
A summer project has been<br />
moving our growing beds and areas<br />
to our courtyard area to create a new<br />
growing area. We are always looking<br />
for volunteers to help with gardening<br />
and outdoor projects, so if you would<br />
be able and willing to offer your time<br />
to run a gardening club with our<br />
pupils at a lunchtime or after school,<br />
please get in touch via the school<br />
office: 0118 969 3399 or spsadmin@<br />
sonning.wokingham.sch.uk<br />
We will do all relevant<br />
safeguarding checks such as a DBS<br />
check.<br />
CAREER ADVICE<br />
One event occurring later in the<br />
year is a careers day for pupils. If<br />
there are any local residents who<br />
have a profession they would be<br />
willing to share with us, please get in<br />
touch. We would be very excited to<br />
hear from you.<br />
We hope to build a list of people<br />
willing to share their job and career<br />
with the pupils in school.<br />
Volunteers would need to be<br />
available in early July 2024, and<br />
be prepared to speak to different<br />
classes, and possibly the whole<br />
school as part of an assembly.<br />
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1st Sonning-on-Thames Scout Group Family Camp June <strong>2023</strong>: Beavers, cubs, scouts and their families met at Phasels Wood<br />
Activity Centre near Hemel Hempstead to enjoy a wide range of fun and adventurous activities, as well as top-notch food<br />
produced by the hard-working camp committee and adult helpers. <strong>The</strong> weekend was a great group send-off for the outgoing<br />
Group Scout Leader, Mike Moore, before he moves out of the area later this year. At the same time, they said goodbye to Group<br />
Chair, Oli Stickley, after five years’ dedicated service to Sonning Scouts.<br />
Inner Wheel<br />
celebrates 100<br />
years worldwide<br />
<strong>The</strong> Association of Inner Wheel<br />
Clubs in Great Britain & Ireland<br />
is celebrating its 100th birthday<br />
all over the world. Although it is<br />
now an international organisation<br />
with around 108,000 members in<br />
104 countries, it was founded in<br />
Manchester, England in January<br />
1924 (the Inner Wheel year runs<br />
from July to June).<br />
In the UK members support refuge<br />
centres for abused women, child<br />
centres and drop-in centres, school<br />
breakfast clubs and much more.<br />
<strong>The</strong> local Inner Wheel Club of<br />
Reading Maiden Erlegh, which meets<br />
on the third Thursday of every month<br />
in Sonning Golf Club at 7.15pm, has<br />
given support in many other ways.<br />
This coming year will include a<br />
Black Tie Gala Dinner Dance, Bridge<br />
Drives, an Art Cafe at the Rotary<br />
Charity Art and Craft Fair and<br />
supporting Santa as his elves in his<br />
Christmas Grotto.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Association's president's<br />
theme for this special year is '100 for<br />
100' when members will try to find<br />
100 ways to make a difference.<br />
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Painting inside and 'en plein air'<br />
Sonning Art Group's busy summer began with a very enjoyable<br />
workshop in watercolours from Jonathan Newey a talented<br />
artist (right) who generously gave many tips and useful advice<br />
suitable for all artists from beginners to experienced He runs<br />
classes and workshops monthly and it is well worth looking<br />
at https://jonathannewey.com for details of his classes in<br />
many mediums.<br />
<strong>The</strong> group had a perfect summer's day at<br />
Sonning Mill for an afternoon of sketching and<br />
painting 'en plein air' — outside. (See front cover)<br />
<strong>The</strong> group was extremely sad to learn of<br />
the death of Andy Bell, the husband of its<br />
chair, Sue. Although not officially a member<br />
of the club he was a great support for Sue and the<br />
group and did sterling work behind the scenes to<br />
ensure the smooth running of the club.<br />
Autumn show entries open to everyone<br />
Twyford and Ruscombe Horticultural Association is busy planning its Autumn<br />
Show, which will be held in Loddon Hall, Twyford, on Saturday 9 <strong>September</strong>.<br />
It will be an 'Open' competition so see the Schedule of Classes on their website<br />
if you want to exhibit. <strong>The</strong> association is looking forward to seeing the junior<br />
members who will be bringing their runner beans to be measured.<br />
Visitors are welcome and refreshments with homemade cakes will be available.<br />
<strong>The</strong> association's website is at http://www.trha.org.uk for details of all activities<br />
or, if you wish to take advantage of all the benefits of TRHA you can apply for<br />
membership by emailing Jenny Wager at trhamembership@gmail.com or visit their<br />
store in Loddon Hall Road, Twyford on Sunday mornings 9.30am to 11.00am.<br />
Sonning & Sonning Eye Society autumn programme<br />
29 <strong>September</strong> at 7.30pm: Lionel Williams, a talk on the history of the Reading<br />
Hospitals and how they evolved.<br />
27 October at 7.30pm: Neil Pitts, explorer and adventurer, entertains with the<br />
challenges he faced while attempting to ski across Norway.<br />
18 November: AGM and dinner<br />
All the above events are held in Pearson Hall.<br />
Tickets can be obtained from the society's website or from Penny Feathers on<br />
penny.feathers@btinternet.com 0118 934 3193<br />
Sonning Village Show is being held on Saturday 16 <strong>September</strong> at Sonning C of E Primary School.<br />
If you have not received a schedule, pick one up from St Andrew's Church porch and enter as many classes as<br />
possible. Entries must be submitted on the day between 10am and 12 noon. <strong>The</strong> Fete opens at 2pm.
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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 29<br />
HEALTH<br />
Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . Another headache?<br />
Kiosea39, dreamstime.com<br />
In the last issue (July/August) we talked about headaches, mainly migraine,<br />
but we skipped over one of the commonest — tension headache.<br />
My previous article discussed the importance of the history of the headache in<br />
making an accurate diagnosis. <strong>The</strong> same goes for tension headache. It has its<br />
own diagnosis and specific way of treating it. It is a primary headache disorder,<br />
which means that it has no other illness causing it<br />
Tension headache can last between<br />
30 minutes and 7 days. It has a<br />
pressing, or vice like nature.<br />
It is not associated with nausea<br />
and vomiting. It is not pulsatile;<br />
this symptom is more common<br />
with headache associated with viral<br />
illnesses, although when ‘chronic’ mild<br />
nausea and occasional vomiting can<br />
occur. We will explore this further.<br />
It is on both sides of the head<br />
but can come with light and sound<br />
sensitivity. Activity and normal life<br />
may be uncomfortable because of<br />
the headache but it doesn’t make it<br />
worse. <strong>The</strong> pain often spreads beyond<br />
the head and is common in the neck<br />
muscles.<br />
Most of us will experience a tension<br />
headache in a year. We would not make<br />
a diagnosis of a tension headache<br />
disorder.<br />
CATEGORIES<br />
Categories of tension headache can<br />
help with managing them.<br />
Patients can be categorised with<br />
infrequent episodic, frequent episodic<br />
and chronic tension headache disorder.<br />
To standardise diagnosis,<br />
treatment, and research, there is<br />
the International Classification of<br />
Headaches Disorders (ICHD). We are<br />
currently on version 3.<br />
Essentially, taking the correct<br />
history can match a patient to<br />
a diagnosis and the best way of<br />
treatment. It also allows us to<br />
recognise where the diagnosis may not<br />
fit or if there is treatment failure, we<br />
can understand why.<br />
<strong>The</strong> ICHD-3 describes tension<br />
headaches as<br />
Infrequent episodic — at least 10<br />
episodes of headache occurring on<br />
less than 1 day per month on average<br />
(fewer than 12 days per year).<br />
Frequent episodic — at least 10<br />
episodes of headache occurring on<br />
fewer than 15 days per month on<br />
average, for more than 3 months.<br />
Chronic — evolves from frequent<br />
episodic tension-type headache,<br />
headache occurring on 15 days or more<br />
per month on average, for more than 3<br />
months and:<br />
— Lasting hours to days, or<br />
unremitting.<br />
— At least two of bilateral location;<br />
pressing or tightening (non-pulsating)<br />
quality; mild or moderate intensity;<br />
and not aggravated by routine physical<br />
activity such as walking.<br />
— Neither moderate or severe nausea<br />
nor vomiting and no more than one<br />
of photophobia, phonophobia, or mild<br />
nausea.<br />
— Not better accounted for by another<br />
cause, such as medication overuse.<br />
MEDICATION OVERUSE<br />
Medication overuse headache<br />
(MOH) is useful as this is probably<br />
more common than we think. Use<br />
of daily paracetamol, ibuprofen and<br />
codeine can lead to a tension type<br />
headache because of treatment. MOH<br />
is more common but not exclusive to<br />
patients with other headache types<br />
such as migraine. Care is needed to<br />
ask patients, who don’t often admit, to<br />
using ‘pills’ daily.<br />
Infrequent headache can be<br />
managed by paracetamol or ibuprofen.<br />
If associated with neck pain, ice pack<br />
or heat packs can help.<br />
Frequent and chronic headaches<br />
need a different strategy. Finding out<br />
individual triggers may be beneficial<br />
— caffeine, alcohol, and stress being<br />
the common factors. Yoga, exercise,<br />
massage, and acupuncture may help.<br />
Painkillers may precipitate MOH so<br />
if the impact of the headache is severe<br />
then some antidepressants and antiepilepsy<br />
medication may be used but<br />
these have their own side effects.<br />
LIFE THREATENING?<br />
In the last two articles we have<br />
not mentioned anything that is lifethreatening<br />
because this is rare. Life<br />
threatening headaches have specific<br />
onsets and headaches associated with<br />
cancer in the brain come with other<br />
symptoms.<br />
A headache that feels like being<br />
struck in the back of the head with<br />
a bat is a 999 emergency. Headaches<br />
associated with brain tumours do not<br />
fit the ICHD categories and have other<br />
symptoms that are too numerous<br />
to list but a change in personality or<br />
fitting is worrying.<br />
If you are suffering with headaches<br />
keep a detailed diary and maybe<br />
send this to your doctor before an<br />
appointment.<br />
Like most conditions, a history is<br />
the key, a phone call is adequate for<br />
this; investigations, examinations and<br />
follow up can then be arranged.<br />
Brain scans are reassuring but<br />
rarely add anything to the diagnosis.<br />
Blood test may help in looking for<br />
secondary causes of headaches.<br />
Opiate medications, such as<br />
codeine, morphine, oxycodone,<br />
buprenorphine have no place in<br />
managing primary headache disorders.
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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 31<br />
THE ARTS<br />
All things bright and beautiful<br />
By Rev Canon Michael Burgess<br />
In <strong>September</strong>, we give thanks for God’s blessings<br />
in all that the earth yields us. Those blessings<br />
are focused in this wonderful painting 'A Vase of<br />
Flowers' by Jan Davidsz. de Heem.<br />
He was born in Utrecht, Holland in 1606 and<br />
studied art under his father’s guidance. De Heem<br />
then moved to Antwerp, where for the rest of his<br />
life he created paintings of such beauty and depth<br />
that one of them — a portrait of Prince William III<br />
surrounded by blossoms and fruits — received the<br />
highest price ever paid for a painting at that time.<br />
TIME STANDS STILL<br />
In the ‘Vase of Flowers’ de Heem has gathered a<br />
bouquet of variegated flowers and plants for our<br />
delight.<br />
Time stands still in his painting in two ways.<br />
First, these 31 blooms could never have flowered<br />
at the same time, but through the magical touch<br />
of the artist, they do for us. Caught on canvas,<br />
they are as fresh and vibrant as the day they were<br />
painted in 1645.<br />
But there are signs that the gifts of nature do<br />
wither and die, as we look closely and see on the<br />
marble slab a snail. Nearby is a salamander eyeing<br />
his next meal as a spider hangs on a thread from<br />
one of the flowers. In the centre, another snail<br />
looks at his food, the beautiful and rare red and<br />
white tulips.<br />
NEW LIFE<br />
Yet we look again and see also signs of new life:<br />
the ears of wheat are symbols of the Eucharistic<br />
bread; the caterpillar and butterfly on the striking<br />
white poppy at the top are signs of resurrection;<br />
and the peas in their pod and the blackberries<br />
mark out the fruitfulness of creation.<br />
<strong>The</strong> artist shows us a glorious range of flowers<br />
— some well-known, others more exotic and<br />
brought back to Holland through the colonial<br />
expansion of the 16th century.<br />
Tulips and poppies dominate, but to the left are<br />
some small, scented roses. Each is a testimony to<br />
the beauty and goodness of the world we live in.<br />
THE BEAUTY OF THE LORD<br />
100 years later, Christopher Smart wrote in<br />
‘Jubilate Agno’: ‘For the flowers are great blessings<br />
… for the flower glorifies God … for the flowers are<br />
peculiarly the poetry of Christ. And 200 years later<br />
Gerard Manley Hopkins wrote: ‘I do not think I<br />
have ever seen anything more beautiful than the<br />
bluebell I have been looking at. I know the beauty<br />
of our Lord by it.’<br />
And we, in our own century, can echo poet and<br />
painter as we praise God, the author of such flowers<br />
and plants that make up a world of ‘all things<br />
bright and beautiful.’<br />
Poetry Corner<br />
Meditative Meandering by Steven Rolling<br />
Tune: Ravenshaw - ‘Lord, thy word abideth’<br />
Forgive Lord, where I fret<br />
Of things past, not come yet<br />
Meditation disturbed<br />
Distracted from your word<br />
Search my heart, you know me<br />
All things of me you see<br />
All-seeing, All-knowing<br />
Ever my Lord and King<br />
Spirit e’er residing<br />
In sanctum abiding<br />
Of my heart, though fill me<br />
My whole being purely<br />
Jan Davidsz. de Heem, Wikimedia<br />
I may to you draw near<br />
Worship in lowly fear<br />
Your presence be dwelling<br />
In me, rule o’er each thing<br />
What I want or desire<br />
Your wisdom best by far<br />
Help me seek of those things<br />
Do what your glory brings<br />
Heart our central core be<br />
And too our mind you see<br />
E'en our whole life you know<br />
In Christ’s image we grow<br />
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Recipe of the Month<br />
A Victoria sponge for every cake<br />
lover including gluten free and vegan<br />
<strong>The</strong> recipe comes from https://edibleethics.com and has proved to be very<br />
popular with everyone at church gatherings whatever their dietary needs.<br />
Ingredients for the Cake<br />
For the filling<br />
— 3 tbsp Maple syrup<br />
— 75 g Vegan butter (room temperature)<br />
— 1 tsp Vanilla bean paste<br />
— 200 g icing sugar<br />
— 175 g Golden caster sugar — 1 tsp vanilla essence<br />
— 1 tsp Bicarbonate of soda — Jam<br />
— 1 tbsp Lemon juice<br />
— 300 g Gluten-free self-raising flour<br />
— 300 ml Soya milk or Almond Milk<br />
— 150 g Vegan butter – Stork is ideal<br />
Method<br />
You will need two 20cm Springform cake tins.<br />
Preheat the oven to 160°C (fan oven).<br />
Grease two round cake tins and line with baking paper.<br />
Stir the lemon juice in with the vegan milk and set aside to curdle slightly.<br />
In a small saucepan, melt the butter together with the maple syrup and vanilla<br />
bean paste. Leave it to cool slightly.<br />
Sieve the flour, sugar, and bicarbonate of soda into a large mixing bowl.<br />
Gradually pour in and mix both the milk and the butter mixes. Stir until<br />
smooth. If it starts to clump, use a hand whisk to continue mixing.<br />
Pour out the cake mix equally into the two cake tins.<br />
Place the tins into the oven and bake for 30-35 minutes. Try not to open the<br />
oven!<br />
Check the cakes with a skewer, if the mix sticks to the skewer and looks a bit<br />
too wet, put back in for 5 more minutes and check again.<br />
Take out of the oven and leave to cool.<br />
While waiting for the cakes to cool, place your room temperature butter, icing<br />
sugar and vanilla essence in a stand mixer and beat it together for about 3-5<br />
minutes, until it is whipped and fluffy. If you don't have a stand mixer you can<br />
use your hand, but this may take a little longer to achieve similar results. If<br />
needed, add in some of the water to help mix.<br />
Once the cakes have cooled, take them out of the tin and place one half on to a<br />
serving plate.<br />
Spread over your jam of choice and then spread on the frosting<br />
Carefully place the second half on top.<br />
If you have spare icing sugar, sprinkle on top using a sieve.<br />
For special occasions, you can ice it. ENJOY!<br />
Ants in the pantry!<br />
A recent rare visitor to our<br />
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FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />
Sustainable fashion is a term<br />
progressively being used — and<br />
possibly overused — these days,<br />
especially within the fashion world.<br />
As society's increased spending habits<br />
have evolved, we have become aware<br />
of the fashion industry's impact on the<br />
planet because of fast fashion. This<br />
overproduction of clothing is slowly<br />
killing our environment, and our<br />
clothes are the leading cause of this<br />
pollution. Today, anyone, anywhere,<br />
can purchase clothing faster, at a lower<br />
price, which is more convenient than<br />
ever before. So what's the issue?<br />
Buying fast fashion has been the new<br />
normal for online shoppers. This easy<br />
way of shopping online has rapidly<br />
increased over the past decade. We find<br />
ourselves continuously following the<br />
craze of purchasing trendy clothing sold<br />
at a low cost and designed to be worn<br />
just a few times. This widely popular<br />
trend will be around for a while as the<br />
mass desire for more clothes grows. I<br />
believe that we will need to completely<br />
rethink our purchasing habits and how<br />
we produce and purchase clothing,<br />
otherwise all these garments will end<br />
up in landfill and will not be recycled.<br />
However, sustainable fashion may be<br />
the solution!<br />
But what does sustainable fashion<br />
even mean? In short, it's a term used<br />
for clothing made and consumed in<br />
a way that has protected both the<br />
environment and those producing the<br />
garment. This sustainable business<br />
ensures that garment workers are paid a<br />
fair wage, have safe working conditions,<br />
and that the fabrics and materials used<br />
are made ethically.<br />
Fashion brands worldwide have<br />
started producing sustainable products<br />
that have become increasingly popular<br />
online in recent years. Designers such as<br />
Stella McCartney and Iris Van Herpen<br />
are current luxury runway designers<br />
beginning to show the world that<br />
fashion can be produced sustainably.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se sustainable styles have started to<br />
appear more and more and are explicitly<br />
designed to look good, but also to be<br />
wearable and last a lifetime.<br />
From its early days, the fashion<br />
world has been in a never-ending cycle<br />
of finding new and innovative ways to<br />
make itself appealing to modern-day<br />
consumers. This goes from frantically<br />
testing out weird and wonderful<br />
materials to picking out the latest<br />
trends that activists and celebrities<br />
alike can't get enough of. <strong>The</strong> most<br />
recent development for this industry<br />
has been the use of natural materials<br />
to create fashion that will not only<br />
have people looking their best but will<br />
ensure that these garments will be<br />
biodegradable, which is why fabrics<br />
such as mycelium are being used to pave<br />
the way for sustainability in fashion.<br />
But what exactly is this material, and<br />
how can it possibly replace the harmful<br />
substances the industry is currently<br />
using?<br />
Mycelium is the root part of a<br />
mushroom and has been created to<br />
be a more eco-friendly material as it<br />
requires very little water to grow and<br />
contains no toxic chemicals, which is a<br />
great sustainable substitute for existing<br />
fashion materials cotton or nylon. This<br />
fully compostable material has been<br />
notably recognised by brands across<br />
the globe, with many famous fashion<br />
brands using Mylo — a leather material<br />
created from mycelium — which<br />
originated from the brand Bolt Threads,<br />
which is one of the leading technology<br />
companies in the production of<br />
mycelium.<br />
As this material is still at the start<br />
of being mass-produced, we have yet<br />
to see it on the market within our<br />
local high street stores. However,<br />
being sustainable doesn't just mean<br />
purchasing new eco-friendly fashions.<br />
You can be sustainable right now at<br />
home with your current clothing!<br />
Being sustainable sounds complex,<br />
but it really isn't! Whether purchasing<br />
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Is sustainable fashion the ethical answer?<br />
WHAT IS IT?<br />
COMPOSTABLE<br />
Images: pexels.com<br />
or donating your old clothes in a charity<br />
shop, recycling and upcycling garments,<br />
or creating new pieces yourself, being<br />
sustainable at home can significantly<br />
help reduce our fast fashion habits.<br />
Every small step we can take can help<br />
ensure that our garments aren't thrown<br />
into landfill.<br />
With second-hand and vintage<br />
clothing becoming trendy online,<br />
Generations Z and Alpha have made<br />
sustainable fashion the new norm.<br />
This young cohort uses pre-loved<br />
clothing items to create unique styles<br />
to add to their wardrobe and create<br />
individual pieces that no one else will<br />
have. This audience has been inspired<br />
by celebrities such as the singer Billie<br />
Eilish and model Bella Hadid, who are<br />
known to wear vintage and secondhand<br />
clothing.<br />
<strong>The</strong> fashion industry has<br />
continuously made substantial efforts<br />
in recent years to become more<br />
sustainable and environmentally<br />
friendly because of climate change.<br />
However, we can hope to see more<br />
changes made to help reduce fast<br />
fashion within the industry and tackle<br />
this worldwide issue.<br />
Could you see yourself and your<br />
favourite celebrities one-day wearing<br />
fashions made from mushrooms?
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History PUZZLE PAGE — 1<br />
Was it really ?<br />
Vatican City<br />
Bernard Bialorucki, dreamstime.com<br />
. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 26 <strong>September</strong> 1898 that George<br />
Gershwin, American composer, was born. He is known for<br />
his operas, Broadway musicals and film scores.<br />
. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 4 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that Noel<br />
Coward’s musical revue London Calling! was first<br />
performed, in London. It was his first publicly produced<br />
musical work.<br />
. . . ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 7 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that<br />
Interpol, the International Criminal Police Organisation,<br />
was founded.<br />
. . . AND ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 29 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that<br />
the British mandate for Palestine came into effect. Britain<br />
took control of Mandatory Palestine (formerly part of<br />
the Turkish Empire) until 1948, when Israel became an<br />
independent state.<br />
. . . 80 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1943 that the<br />
Germans occupied Rome, Italy, and took over the<br />
protection of the Vatican City.<br />
. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 9 <strong>September</strong> 1948 that the People’s<br />
Democratic Republic of Korea (North Korea) was<br />
established, headed by Kim Il Sung.<br />
. . . 70 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1953 that the<br />
discovery of rapid eye movement (REM) sleep was<br />
published in the journal Science. It had been discovered in<br />
1952 by Eugene Aserinsky and Nathaniel Kleitman at the<br />
University of Chicogo.<br />
. . . 50 YEARS AGO on 2 <strong>September</strong> 1973 that JRR Tolkien,<br />
British fantasy writer, poet, scholar, and educator died. He<br />
is best known for his novels <strong>The</strong> Hobbit and <strong>The</strong> Lord of the<br />
Rings.<br />
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Ralph Hewitt is a Sonning resident and a member of a local Baptist<br />
Church. He not only loves doing puzzles but he creates them for<br />
fun. <strong>The</strong> grid above contains the names of 34 creatures, including<br />
two eagles. <strong>The</strong>y all have four letters or more in their name. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />
initial letters are: 3A; 4C; 3D; 4E; 2H; 3L; 2M; 3N; O; P; 4R; 2T; 2W.<br />
See if you can find them! If you find all 34 animals you will<br />
find that the unused letters spell out a relevant verse from<br />
the New Testament (ESV). You might even manage to<br />
identify the verse. Answers in next month's issue. Good<br />
luck and God Bless!<br />
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Traditional Wedding?<br />
<strong>The</strong>n you might like to<br />
discuss the possibility of<br />
marriage in our ancient and<br />
beautiful parish church.<br />
If so, call the vicar, Jamie<br />
0118 969 3298<br />
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. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 4 <strong>September</strong> 1998 that Google, 25 years<br />
ago, on 4th Sep 1998 that Google, the internet search company,<br />
was founded by Larry Page and Sergey Brin, both students at<br />
Stanford University in California. <strong>The</strong> company was originally<br />
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. . . 15 YEARS AGO on 7 <strong>September</strong> 2008 that the Financial<br />
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Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, were put into government<br />
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Agency. On 15 <strong>September</strong> 2008 the global investment<br />
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2. Who was Henry VIII 5th wife?<br />
3. Who won the 1998 football World Cup?<br />
4. What is the highest possible break in a game of snooker?<br />
5. Which Spice Girl was known as ‘Sporty Spice’?<br />
6. Who played Saruman in the film trilogy <strong>The</strong> Lord Of the Rings?<br />
7. Which Shakespeare play has the famous line ‘All the world’s a stage’?<br />
8. Who composed the Coronation anthem ‘Zadok the Priest’?<br />
9. In a standard netball match, how many players of one team are allowed in the centre third?<br />
10. What is the capital city of Venezuela?<br />
11. What number is directly opposite the number 1 on a dartboard?<br />
12. Which Disney film features the song ‘Be Prepared’?<br />
13. Which famous actor is the father-in-law of the actor David Tennant?<br />
14a. Who painted the ‘Girl with a Pearl earring?’<br />
14b. Who wrote the novel of the same name?<br />
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<strong>Parish</strong> contacts<br />
Ministry Team<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Vicar: Revd Jamie Taylor (Day off Friday)<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR<br />
vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />
— Associate Vicar: Revd Kate Wakeman-Toogood<br />
revkate@sonningparish.org.uk / 0744 747 8048<br />
On duty Tuesday, Friday and Sunday<br />
— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)<br />
youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106<br />
— Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters<br />
bob@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />
Children's Ministry<br />
— Alison Smyly office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />
Churchwardens<br />
— Stuart Bowman sdbowman73@aol.com / 0118 978 8414<br />
— Liz Nelson liz.nelson1@ntlworld.com / 0779 194 4270<br />
Deputy Churchwardens<br />
— Simon Darvall sdarvall@businessmoves.com / 0793 928 2535<br />
— Terry Hunt terencehunt@me.com / 0773 470 7368<br />
— Sue Peters mail@susanjpeters.com / 0118 377 5887<br />
— Ruth Jeffrey, 0118 969 3298<br />
— Molly Woodley (deputy churchwarden emeritus)<br />
mollywoodley@live.co.uk / 0118 946 3667<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Office Manager<br />
— Hilary Rennie<br />
office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />
Parochial Church Council<br />
— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298<br />
— Treasurer: Jerry Wood 0118 969 3298<br />
Director of Music, organist and choirmaster<br />
— Hannah Towndrow BA(Oxon), MA(RAM), LRAM<br />
music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />
Safeguarding Officer<br />
— Nicola Riley 0118 969 3298<br />
Sonning Bell Ringers<br />
— Tower Captain: Pam Elliston<br />
pam.elliston@talktalk.net / 0118 969 5967<br />
— Deputy Tower Captain: Rob Needham<br />
r06needham@gmail.com / 0118 926 7724<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Website: http://www.sonningparish.org.uk<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>: http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />
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