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Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869<br />

<strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />

Church of St Andrew<br />

Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye<br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY


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Best <strong>Magazine</strong> of the Year 2018<br />

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Contents <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— Vicar's 50th birthday, 7<br />

— FoStAC garden party, 7<br />

— Church Defibrillator, 7<br />

— For your prayers, 7<br />

— STAY, 8-9<br />

— Christian Community Action, 11<br />

— From the editor's desk, 11<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 13<br />

FEATURES<br />

— Mysterious Mary, 15<br />

— Macmillan Coffee, 17<br />

— Claude recalls the rain, 17<br />

— World Peace Day, 19<br />

— School grief, 21<br />

— What is an angel? 21<br />

— Charvil heritage, 22-23<br />

—around the villages<br />

— Sonning School, 25<br />

— Inner Wheel 100 years, 27<br />

— Sonning Scout camp, 27<br />

— Art group go 'en plein air', 27<br />

— Twyford and Ruscombe show, 27<br />

— SSES autumn programme, 27<br />

— Sonning Village Show, 27<br />

health<br />

— Dr Simon Ruffle headaches 2, 29<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— Jan Davidsz. de Heem, 31<br />

— Poetry Corner, 31<br />

HOME AND GARDEN<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Ripple Effect, 33<br />

— Recipe of the month, 33<br />

THE sciences<br />

— Archaeology and the Bible, 33<br />

— Suffering in the image of God, 33<br />

FASHION<br />

— <strong>The</strong> ethical answer, 35<br />

history, 37<br />

PUZZLE PAGES, 37 - 39<br />

children's page, 41<br />

information<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers' index, 42<br />

This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />

<strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Parish</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong><br />

<strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

Painting 'en plein air' (see page 27)<br />

Picture: Maggie Hollidge<br />

EDITORIAL DEADLINE<br />

<strong>The</strong> editorial deadline for every issue<br />

of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is 12 noon on<br />

the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />

date of publication.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deadline for the October<br />

issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is:<br />

Wednesday 6 <strong>September</strong><br />

at 12 noon<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> online<br />

<strong>The</strong> most recent issues can be viewed at:<br />

http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

Earlier issues from 1869 onwards<br />

are stored in a secure online archive.<br />

If you wish to view these archives<br />

contact the editor:<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

From the Registers<br />

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Services at<br />

St Andrew’s<br />

Sunday 3 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Service<br />

— 4pm Choral Evensong<br />

followed by tea in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

Sunday 10 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 17 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />

Sunday 24 <strong>September</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

— 5.45pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />

Morning Prayer is held in church<br />

every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />

Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />

held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />

and coffee follows the service.<br />

Home Communion at Sonning<br />

Lawns Care Home is held on the first<br />

Monday of each month at 11.00am.<br />

baptisms<br />

— Sunday 11 June, Lily Grace Loughlin Harvey; Jake Jeremy Loughlin Harvey;<br />

Henry Alexander Lamont Virgo; Miranda Sarah Longworth-Kraft<br />

— Sunday 9 July, Evan Joshua Hawkins; Darla Jane Christine Grant<br />

WEDDINGS<br />

— Friday 23 June, Kirk Andrew Williamson and Alexandra Dickinson<br />

— Saturday 24 June, Paul David Giles and Nicola Murray-Smith<br />

— Saturday 29 July, Christian Owain Rennison-Jones and Martina Leoncini<br />

— Sunday 6 August, Anthony James Green and Amy Krystyna Lewis<br />

funerals<br />

— Monday 12 June, Joan Elizabeth Pierce, funeral service in church followed<br />

by burial in churchyard<br />

— Thursday 29 June, Rosemary Stella Holt, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />

— Tuesday 18 July, Kathleen Betty Banks, service at Reading crematorium<br />

— Monday 20 July, Josephine Bodley-Scott – funeral service in church followed<br />

by cremation at Reading Crematorium<br />

— Wednesday 26 July, Kathleen Betty Banks, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />

— Monday 31 July, Andrew Kenneth Bell, funeral service in church followed<br />

by cremation at Reading Crematorium


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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

We are witnessing an 'epidemic' of mental health problems among young<br />

people, to quote a GP I was recently speaking with. <strong>The</strong> reasons are manifold<br />

and complex, and I am sure will be the subject of research for years to come.<br />

Covid has certainly played a part, but the problems were evident before that<br />

extraordinary period, and one suspects that so many of the causes have<br />

stemmed from social media. I am aware of some of these problems as a parent<br />

of two teenagers but also from several local schools and because of our youth<br />

ministry in the parish. Social Services and the other agencies tasked with<br />

addressing this are utterly overwhelmed with huge waiting lists and even<br />

private clinics face similar pressures.<br />

One of the personal delights of my 15 years in this parish has been to have<br />

a hand in creating the facilities and recruiting the right people to start and<br />

grow a youth ministry. For this to get off the ground, the Church Council back<br />

in 2009 needed to take a large leap of faith, and this has been amply rewarded<br />

by God over the years. In July of this year, they took another significant step<br />

of faith and have committed to the creation of a second post, committed to<br />

youth and children’s work, focusing specifically on girls. We shall be advertising<br />

from this month (see page 9), and we have committed to providing housing in<br />

addition to a salary. We believe this to be a much-needed addition to our youth<br />

ministry and it will also be a wonderful opportunity for someone to work with,<br />

and learn from, our very experienced youth minister. One of their roles will<br />

be to provide mentoring support in local schools for young people suffering all<br />

kinds of difficulties, just as Westy does. This is behind the scenes work, yet a<br />

vital support that we as a church offer to the young people in this area.<br />

In order to resource this new work in the medium to long term, the PCC is<br />

creating a new charitable trust, designated to support all our work with young<br />

people and children in this locality. All those who wish to support this will be<br />

able to become a member/supporter for an annual fee and there will be one<br />

high quality fund raising event each year, providing an opportunity for people<br />

of good will, but with no church connections, to support this specific youth<br />

work, separate from parish finances. More details will follow in the coming<br />

months.<br />

While writing about our work with young people and our aspirations for<br />

developing it further, I feel it is important to state that rigorous safeguarding<br />

is uppermost in all our minds, and we take very seriously the need to protect all<br />

our young people and those who work with them. <strong>The</strong> PCC has recently thanked<br />

Rachel Argent for her excellent service as parish safeguarding officer as she has<br />

stepped down from the role, and we have been pleased to appoint Nichola Riley<br />

as her successor. Nichola is an experienced social worker and so is well placed to<br />

oversee this vital part of our ministry. I am most grateful to her and know we<br />

shall all benefit from her insights and expertise.<br />

We have come a long way and I am hugely grateful to all those who have<br />

been prepared to take risks with far sighted proposals and plans developed by<br />

successive PCC’s over the last 15 years. However, we take nothing for granted<br />

and will always strive to serve the children and young people of our parish, and<br />

beyond, to the very best of our capability.<br />

Warm wishes.<br />

Jamie<br />

A LEAP OF FAITH<br />

NEW CHARITABLE TRUST<br />

RIGOROUS SAFEGUARDING<br />

TAKING NOTHING FOR GRANTED


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Happy 50th Birthday Jamie!<br />

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<strong>The</strong>re's nothing we, as a church, enjoy more than celebrating<br />

in a garden and we have had two opportunities to do so<br />

recently. On Sunday 23 July, following the morning service,<br />

we hurried to <strong>The</strong> Ark garden to celebrate Rev Jamie's 50th<br />

birthday.<br />

<strong>The</strong> toast was led by the Rt Hon <strong>The</strong>resa May MP who<br />

reminded us of some of Jamie's many achievements in the<br />

15 years that he has served as the Vicar of Sonning. As well<br />

as the bubbly, we demolished two cakes — one for vegan<br />

and gluten free members and the other, for the others!<br />

Earlier in July the Friends of St Andrew’s Church held<br />

their annual Garden Tea Party hosted by Jill and Richard<br />

Brighton. Over 60 'friends' enjoyed a splendid four-course<br />

afternoon tea in radiant sunshine. <strong>The</strong> tickets and a raffle,<br />

raised over £1,000 towards FoSTAC's vicar’s vestry wall<br />

project.<br />

Pictures: top: Keith Hawkins, below left: Sally Wilson; below right: Keith Hawkins<br />

Please remember your<br />

donations for the Woodley Food<br />

Bank and place them in the box<br />

just inside St Andrew's Church.<br />

Thank you!<br />

Pictures by Julie Costis<br />

Defibrillator at the <strong>Parish</strong> Office<br />

A Defibrillator, donated and<br />

installed by Keith Nichols in<br />

memory of his wife, Daphne, is<br />

fully functioning and available<br />

24 hours a day from the yellow<br />

cabinet to the right of the<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Office door. <strong>The</strong> letter<br />

box has been moved to the left.<br />

Keith Nichols<br />

<strong>The</strong> defibrillator is registered with the Ambulance Service<br />

so they can direct people to it. Access to the Defibrillator<br />

is via a combination lock on the cabinet door. In an<br />

emergency phone 999 and the ambulance service will<br />

provide the combination number that will enable you to<br />

open it and follow the instructions to use it.<br />

For your prayers in <strong>September</strong><br />

— Children starting school, moving schools<br />

and returning to school<br />

— Teachers and the new academic year<br />

— Christian Community Action<br />

— Rev Kate as she prepares to join<br />

Earley St Peter's Church as their vicar<br />

— <strong>The</strong> recruitment of an additional<br />

youth minister<br />

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St Andrew's Youth<br />

£100,000+ for<br />

fatherless boys<br />

A huge thanks to everyone who sponsored us for<br />

our big 100km in 24 hours walk on 17-18 June. I’ve<br />

never been in so much pain and I’m hoping to never<br />

do that again! However, despite my moaning the<br />

whole way, we actually raised £8,800 towards<br />

the grand total of £100,000 for fatherless boys in<br />

Reading. Chapter 2 use the money to recruit, train<br />

and provide mentors and positive activities for lads<br />

who need that little bit of extra support where a<br />

father figure is absent. In a recent interview with a<br />

trauma specialist a comment was made that while<br />

more formal styles of therapy help, it’s long term,<br />

positive and trusting relationships that will make<br />

the real difference!<br />

STAY on Sunday<br />

Reading Youth Event at KVFC16<br />

On 16 July we met with over 200 other Reading young people and youth workers<br />

and fun! We headed over to Kennet Valley Free Church in Calcot and had a great t<br />

when one of our youth looked over and saw a mate from school, they both pointe<br />

said; 'Hey, I didn’t know you went to church!' What a great event seeing young pe<br />

worshipping together and hearing about unity across our communities and churc<br />

STAY for Summer Holiday Activities<br />

For the Summer Holidays we organised some fun activities for the young<br />

Footgolf, paddleboarding, sports sessions in Charvil, a football match v<br />

Caversham, a Thorpe Park trip and a trip to<br />

the Waterpark at Caversham Lakes.<br />

p<br />

S<br />

We finished the parables series in July and took<br />

a break for the summer. We restart on Sunday 10<br />

<strong>September</strong> at 10.30am in <strong>The</strong> Ark. We meet on the<br />

2nd, 4th and 5th Sunday of each month.<br />

STAY on Monday<br />

We meet every two weeks in the young people's<br />

homes. Last term's series finished with our STIR<br />

cards and then took a summer break.<br />

<strong>The</strong> format for our meetings is: cake and<br />

questions one week; faith building one week;<br />

and games one week. Our first meeting after the<br />

summer break will be on Monday 18 <strong>September</strong>.<br />

Thank you to all the parents and volunteers who make STAY activities happen! email or text me for ideas, a


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STAY and Emmanuel Church camp out<br />

at the Satellites Youth Festival<br />

for a night of worship<br />

ime! Best moment was<br />

d at each other and<br />

ople playing games,<br />

hes.<br />

eople to enjoy, including:<br />

YNC youth group in<br />

STAY on Friday<br />

Youth Club is in <strong>The</strong><br />

Ark every Friday<br />

in term time from<br />

6.45pm-8.15pm for<br />

young people in years<br />

7-13 at school. On the<br />

4th Friday we welcome<br />

the year 6s to help<br />

with their transition to<br />

year 7. We have games,<br />

sports, consoles,<br />

baking, nail bar and a<br />

tuck shop which now<br />

takes card payments.<br />

STAY in Schools<br />

will be back this month<br />

after the summer<br />

holiday break!<br />

We joined with the youth from Emmanuel Church<br />

to spend a week camping at the Satellites Youth Festival this<br />

summer. We spent the week deepening our faith in Jesus through sung worship,<br />

Bible teaching, sports, cafes, games and seminars. <strong>The</strong> youth absolutely loved it!<br />

Dates for next year will be coming out soon! Watch this space.<br />

chat or to encourage what we are doing — Westy: youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk 0794 622 4306


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Christian Community Action<br />

(CCA) thanks St Andrew's for its<br />

regular financial support and for<br />

its parishioners making frequent<br />

donations of goods to its shops.<br />

'Your support' they said, 'supports<br />

our mission to demonstrate God's<br />

love by providing practical support<br />

to those in need in Reading while<br />

encouraging environmental<br />

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need some paid staff and we have to<br />

pay rent, electricity, waste collection<br />

and other overheads. Costs have<br />

risen significantly in the last few<br />

years particularly in Oxford Road.'<br />

CONTINUED SUPPORT<br />

CCA has put much effort into<br />

reviewing the costs of each shop and<br />

the needs of the community it serves.<br />

Its target is to ensure that overall the<br />

shops break even while recognising<br />

that in some locations the levels of<br />

deprivation in the community served<br />

means some won't.<br />

As a result of the review CCA has<br />

made several changes in the way it<br />

operates and asks that we continue<br />

to support them with donations and<br />

especially our prayers.<br />

You can find out more about<br />

CCA, its shops, and how to help by<br />

volunteering and making donations<br />

of furniture, household accessories,<br />

and money that will be used to help<br />

deprived families in the Reading area<br />

on its website at:<br />

https://www.ccam.org.uk<br />

Sad news<br />

and good<br />

news . . .<br />

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From the<br />

editor's<br />

desk<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

I have some sad and some good news. Gordon Nutbrown who has played an<br />

essential part in the development and day-to-day running of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> has begun to hand over the responsibility of managing the<br />

'business' side of our publication to someone else. He feels that, now he is<br />

in his eighties, a younger person is needed. That's the sad news, of course,<br />

even though we have known for sometime that he would be stepping down.<br />

<strong>The</strong> good news is that our prayers have been answered and we have been<br />

able to start the hand-over.<br />

Gordon's role has not only been to manage and generate the revenue to<br />

enable us to create a magazine that has become recognised as one of the<br />

best of its kind in the country, it has also been to offer his knowledge of<br />

the printing and publishing world and his skill in using it to create a sound<br />

business model that has given us the freedom to do what we do today. He will<br />

not be dropping everything and walking away, our plan is for him to hand<br />

things over in a well-ordered fashion — which, if you know Gordon, is what<br />

you would expect!<br />

EXCITING CHALLENGE<br />

<strong>The</strong> first phase will be the handover of the management of the advertising,<br />

and the good news is that we have already started doing this. Harriet Nelson,<br />

who I and some other church members, have known since she was a baby, has<br />

offered to help us. Some years ago it was my privilege to lead a group of young<br />

people through the Confirmation preparation course and Harriet, with her<br />

twin sister, Ella, were two of the young people. Both of the twins sometimes<br />

help at the Rendezvous in <strong>The</strong> Ark lunch and at the Friday youth club.<br />

Recently, Harriet graduated from university with a degree in Fashion<br />

Marketing. Importantly, her main interest is in printed publications,<br />

rather than those designed for viewing on the internet — there are distinct<br />

differences in the two types.<br />

Harriet will begin by managing the day-to-day advertising which involves<br />

liaising with our advertisers, not only to sell them the space in the magazine,<br />

but to ensure the advertisements are kept up-to-date and of a quality that<br />

adds to the overall look and feel of our magazine. When you realise that<br />

we have over 65 regular advertisers you can see that it is a challenging task<br />

to look after them all, but I know it is a challenge that she is excited about<br />

taking on.<br />

While Harriet gets to grip with the advertising challenge, Gordon will<br />

continue for a short time with his other responsibilities of liaising with our<br />

printers and distributors and negotiating next year's contracts with them.<br />

KEEPING UP WITH THE FASHION<br />

And there is more good news concerning Harriet. As well as being<br />

interested in the marketing side of publishing printed magazines, Harriet is<br />

keen to develop her journalistic skills that were also part her degree studies.<br />

One of her great interests is in fashion journalism and strangely I have had<br />

in mind for sometime to include a family fashion page in our magazine, but I<br />

had no idea how or who could help me — and as I'm sure all those who know<br />

me, will also know that fashion is not my strong point! God has answered<br />

another of my prayers and in this issue I am pleased to announce that we<br />

have introduced a new, and I hope, regular page, written by Harriet, that will<br />

look at aspects of family fashion — see page 35. I hope you enjoy it!


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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 13<br />

THE persecuted church by colin bailey<br />

Pray that a terrorist resurgence in Africa is not realised<br />

Public Domain Crown copyright<br />

Ekaterina Tsvetkova, dreamstime.com<br />

Ben Wallace, the longest serving Conservative Secretary of State for Defence<br />

is said to be resigning from the Cabinet at the next reshuffle — likely to be in<br />

this Autumn. He has also announced that he will not run for Parliament at the<br />

next General Election. In an article by Tim Shipman for '<strong>The</strong> Sunday Times' on<br />

15 July, he points out that the three things that keep him awake at night are<br />

the continuing threat from Putin’s Russia, an ‘increasingly aggressive’ China,<br />

and terrorist groups. He is also cited as warning that Britain could be dragged<br />

into a shooting war in Africa where al-Qaeda and Isis (the ‘Islamic State’ group)<br />

threaten the future of nation states.<br />

He warns of a possible ‘resurgence’<br />

of Isis, or al-Qaeda in Africa. <strong>The</strong><br />

latter’s growth is because some<br />

governments are not able to withstand<br />

them. <strong>The</strong> biggest faction is Al-Shabaab<br />

in Somalia, who pose a threat also in<br />

north and west Africa — he mentions<br />

Mali and Burkina Faso. Isis, he reports,<br />

took over a town in Mozambique.<br />

In this column in January we noted<br />

Islamic extremism is on the rise in<br />

Mozambique, with 21 Christians killed<br />

by Islamists in the north of the country<br />

during 2022. In February we discussed<br />

the growing influence of Islamic<br />

extremist groups in Burkina Faso. <strong>The</strong><br />

country went up nine places in the<br />

<strong>2023</strong> Open Doors World Watch List of<br />

the top 50 countries that are the most<br />

dangerous to be a Christian in.<br />

MILLIONS OF REFUGEES<br />

Open Doors has reported how<br />

Sudan had re-entered the Top Ten in<br />

the World Watch List this year. African<br />

Commonwealth countries Cameroon,<br />

Mozambique and Nigeria feature in the<br />

<strong>2023</strong> World Watch List at numbers 45,<br />

32 and six respectively.<br />

Barnabas Aid has launched an<br />

appeal, Bless Africa (helping suffering<br />

Christians in Africa - project PR1619).<br />

This is in the light of ‘rampant’<br />

anti-Christian violence in much of<br />

sub-Saharan Africa, where there are<br />

millions of refugees in desperate need.<br />

Burkina Faso has also been particularly<br />

subject to jihadi attacks. At least 11,000<br />

Christians in northern and middle<br />

belt Nigeria have died due to violent<br />

persecution since 2015. Call 0179 374<br />

4557 or go to the Barnabas Aid Bless<br />

Africa Appeal web page (see references<br />

below) if you would like to learn more<br />

and/or support.<br />

CONCERNS<br />

Another country hitherto without<br />

the same incidence of persecution has<br />

recently made the news: a massacre<br />

claiming 42 lives took place at a<br />

Christian school in Kasese District,<br />

western Uganda. Even more recently,<br />

news has come in that soldiers in Niger<br />

who staged a coup which sparked<br />

international condemnation declared<br />

their leader the new head of state on 28<br />

July. <strong>The</strong>re are concerns that this will<br />

hinder Niger’s fight against jihadists<br />

and also boost Russia’s influence<br />

in west Africa. According to NPR<br />

(National Public Radio of the US), Niger<br />

is seen as the last reliable partner for<br />

the West in efforts to battle jihadists<br />

linked to al-Qaeda and the ‘Islamic<br />

State’ group in Africa’s Sahel region.<br />

This is the area broadly between the<br />

Sahara and the Sudanian savanna,<br />

encompassing the countries of Burkina<br />

Faso, Cameroon, Chad, <strong>The</strong> Gambia,<br />

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Guinea, Mauritania, Mali, Niger,<br />

Nigeria and Senegal.<br />

At the time of writing it is Niger’s<br />

Independence Day and US President<br />

Joe Biden took the opportunity to say<br />

the US ‘stands with the people of Niger’<br />

and called for President Bazoum and<br />

his family to be immediately released.<br />

Meanwhile, European countries have<br />

continued to evacuate foreign nationals<br />

from the country. <strong>The</strong> 15-nation bloc<br />

ECWAS (Economic Community of West<br />

African States) has threatened to use<br />

force to put down the coup. Defence<br />

heads from the bloc have said military<br />

intervention was ‘the last resort’.<br />

Let us pray that Ben Wallace’s<br />

warnings about resurgence of the<br />

terrorist forces are not realised, and<br />

that stable government and peace is<br />

established in the region.<br />

REFERENCES<br />

Sunday Times Ben Wallace article: https://<br />

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/ben-wallaceim-resigning-from-politics-next-cabinetreshuffle-<strong>2023</strong>-k0x9st2rt<br />

Open Doors: https://www.opendoorsuk.org/<br />

persecution/world-watch-list/<br />

Barnabas Aid Bless Africa Appeal: https://<br />

mailchi.mp/barnabasfund/bless-africanchristians-with-aid-in-the-midst-of-violentpersecution?e=a668ae9426<br />

Barnabas Aid on Ugandan Christian school<br />

massacre: https://www.barnabasaid.org/<br />

gb/latest-needs/urgent-aid-for-ugandanchristians-after-school-massacre/<br />

NPR article on Niger general declared head<br />

of state by soldiers following coup: https://<br />

www.npr.org/<strong>2023</strong>/07/29/1190897332/<br />

soldiers-declare-niger-general-head-ofstate-coup<br />

President Biden on Niger: https://www.<br />

whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statementsreleases/<strong>2023</strong>/08/03/statement-frompresident-biden-on-the-occasion-of-nigersindependence-day/<br />

Guardian article on Niger: https://www.<br />

theguardian.com/world/<strong>2023</strong>/aug/02/<br />

african-bloc-to-meet-to-discuss-niger-coupas-evacuations-continue


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Mysterious<br />

Mary<br />

the<br />

virgin<br />

mother<br />

of<br />

Jesus<br />

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On Friday 8 <strong>September</strong> Christians<br />

around the world celebrate the<br />

birthday of the Blessed Virgin<br />

Mary. While being the best known<br />

and much loved mother in history,<br />

she remains one of the greatest<br />

mysteries of all time.<br />

Most of what we know about Mary<br />

are the brief mentions of her in the<br />

New Testament concerned with the<br />

birth and early life of Jesus, and that<br />

she witnessed his death on the Cross.<br />

She said very little apart from telling<br />

the waiters at a wedding feast to do<br />

as Jesus told them, which is good<br />

advice for us all.<br />

HYMN OF PRAISE<br />

According to Sister M Danielle<br />

Peters, University of Dayton, there<br />

are four different occasions when<br />

Mary’s words are recorded in the<br />

Bible:<br />

Luke gives an account of the<br />

Mary's dialogue with the angel at the<br />

Annunciation when she was told that<br />

she would give birth to the Saviour<br />

(Luke 1:26-38);<br />

Her encounter with Elizabeth<br />

her cousin that prompted a hymn<br />

of praise known as the Magnificat,<br />

(Luke 1:46-56);<br />

When Jesus, aged 12 years old was<br />

found in the temple (Luke 2:41-52).<br />

And when Mary's words are<br />

recorded at a wedding at Cana (John<br />

2:1-11) when she tells the waiters<br />

to do as Jesus tells them, and this<br />

results in the first recorded miracle<br />

performed by Jesus when he turned<br />

water into wine<br />

However, we can also unravel<br />

the mystery of Mary a little more<br />

in Matthew's account of an angel<br />

visiting Joseph who was betrothed<br />

to her. We are told that when Joseph<br />

woke up, he did what the angel of the<br />

Lord had commanded him and took<br />

Mary home as his wife.<br />

FOUR BROTHERS<br />

However, in an unsubstantiated<br />

document called the Protoevangelium<br />

of James, there are some more details<br />

of Mary's early life. It is believed<br />

to have been written in the 2nd<br />

Century by James a brother of Jesus.<br />

According to Mark 6:3, Jesus had four<br />

brothers and two sisters: 'Is he not<br />

the carpenter, the son of Mary, and the<br />

brother of James and Joses and Judas<br />

and Simon?'<br />

<strong>The</strong> Protoevangelium reveals that<br />

Mary was born miraculously to a<br />

wealthy man and his wife who up<br />

until then had not been able to have<br />

children. Her story seems to reflect<br />

the Old Testament account of the<br />

<strong>The</strong> Protoevangelium of James, Public Domain<br />

birth of Samuel to Hannah and her<br />

husband Elkanah.<br />

Mary was then shielded from the<br />

world in a sanctuary where she was<br />

cared for by 'undefiled daughters of the<br />

Hebrews'.<br />

At 3 years of age, the child was<br />

moved to the Temple in Jerusalem<br />

where she is said to have been fed by<br />

an angel.<br />

As she grew to puberty at about<br />

12 years old, the strict temple rules<br />

meant she could no longer live there<br />

and so a safe home was found for<br />

her with Joseph, a village carpenter,<br />

who we are told was a member of the<br />

'House of David'.<br />

Following the immaculate<br />

conception, Joseph had a series of<br />

dreams that prompted him to marry<br />

Mary. And so when Jesus — a name<br />

chosen by God — was born he was a<br />

member of the House of David as had<br />

long been expected.<br />

THE REALITY<br />

Just as there are many legends<br />

about Mary and her life following<br />

the death of Jesus, there are many<br />

legends about Joseph. But legends<br />

fuel mysteries, and while they can be<br />

fun, they can't distract us from the<br />

reality of God's love for each of us<br />

and the world he created for us.


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It's never too late to have a Macmillan<br />

Coffee Morning – just do it!<br />

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C laude<br />

recalls ...<br />

It ain’t<br />

gonna<br />

rain no<br />

more!<br />

<strong>The</strong> official Macmillan Coffee Morning this year is on Friday 29 <strong>September</strong>,<br />

but you can, of course, host one anytime throughout the year. And it doesn't<br />

matter what form your event takes; the only common denominator is that<br />

the result of your fund raising goes towards supporting people living with<br />

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nurses. <strong>The</strong> Society's first notable<br />

achievement was to publish <strong>The</strong> Blue<br />

Book which was heralded as a ground<br />

breaking study of cancer mortality in<br />

the UK.<br />

It's easy to underestimate the<br />

significance of Douglas Macmillan's<br />

achievements until you realise that<br />

humans and animals have suffered<br />

from cancer since time began.<br />

According to the American Cancer<br />

Society there is evidence of cancer<br />

in fossilized bone tumours, human<br />

mummies in ancient Egypt, and it is<br />

mentioned in ancient manuscripts.<br />

Growths suggestive of the bone<br />

cancer called osteosarcoma have<br />

been seen in mummies. Bony skull<br />

destruction as seen in cancer of the<br />

head and neck has also been found.<br />

<strong>The</strong> oldest description of cancer<br />

was discovered in Egypt and<br />

dates from about 3,000 BC, which<br />

interestingly is also about the time<br />

of Noah's flood in Bible.<br />

As well describing the disease,<br />

the Egyptian descriptions of cancer<br />

say that there is no treatment for<br />

it. <strong>The</strong>se early reports did not call<br />

it cancer, this name is credited to<br />

Hippocrates (460-370 BC), who is<br />

known as the 'Father of Medicine'.<br />

Hippocrates used the terms carcinos<br />

and carcinoma to describe non-ulcer<br />

forming and ulcer-forming tumours.<br />

Douglas Macmillan helped<br />

to change the way the world had<br />

thought about, and treated, cancer,<br />

and as the organisation he founded<br />

says. 'Today much of Douglas's<br />

legacy lives on. We’ve continually<br />

adapted the support we offer to<br />

ensure it’s right for people today<br />

and will be right in the future too.<br />

Our determination to continually<br />

improve the experience of cancer is<br />

something that will never waver.'<br />

To find out more about how<br />

holding a coffee morning can raise<br />

funds for Macmillan Cancer Support,<br />

and the support materials and ideas<br />

that are available to help you, see:<br />

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A very British habit is to talk<br />

continually about the weather.<br />

A family friend of mine from<br />

Hungary came to live in Britain<br />

for some years and wondered why<br />

the British were fixated about the<br />

weather. Within weeks she came<br />

to understand our ‘four seasons<br />

in a day climate’ and very quickly<br />

became as obsessed as the rest of<br />

us.<br />

I remember well the 1947 floods<br />

when the Thames burst its banks and<br />

our church — St John the Baptist<br />

Caversham — appeared as an island<br />

as the water crept up Donkin Hill. It<br />

benefited from being built on higher<br />

ground than the houses around it.<br />

I lost about 6 weeks of school due<br />

to the flooding and then came a coal<br />

shortage. It was at this time that the<br />

ditties below stuck in my mind and<br />

came to mean more to me.<br />

'It ain’t gonna rain no more no more.<br />

It ain’t gonna rain no more. How in the<br />

hell can the old folks tell that it ain’t<br />

gonna rain no more!’<br />

And… 'We’ll weather the weather<br />

what ever the weather, whether we<br />

like it or not!'<br />

<strong>The</strong>y came from my grandfather<br />

who I still remember. He was a<br />

printer by trade and lived with us<br />

from when I was born until he died<br />

in 1947. He was the most kind and<br />

generous man and became ‘Grandad’<br />

to every kid on the street.


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United Nations International Day of Peace, Saturday 23 <strong>September</strong><br />

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Shlama l'kulhum — Shalom Aleichem — Peace be upon you!<br />

2,000 years ago, Jesus left God's<br />

peace in the world when he told his<br />

followers: Peace I leave with you; my<br />

peace I give to you. Not as the world<br />

gives do I give to you. (John 14:27).<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bible teaches us that God's peace<br />

is to be shared with everyone, yet<br />

today the opposite of peace — war<br />

and violent conflicts — still rank<br />

alongside climate change and hunger<br />

as one of the most serious issues<br />

facing our world.<br />

Indeed, the United Nations<br />

Secretary-General António Guterres<br />

said,<br />

'Peace is needed today more than<br />

ever. War and conflict are unleashing<br />

devastation, poverty, and hunger,<br />

and driving tens of millions of people<br />

from their homes. Climate chaos is all<br />

around. And even peaceful countries<br />

are gripped by gaping inequalities and<br />

political polarization.'<br />

An International Day of Peace<br />

was established in 1981 by the<br />

United Nations General Assembly<br />

to highlight this issue. Two decades<br />

later, in 2001, the General Assembly<br />

unanimously voted to designate it as<br />

a period of non-violence and ceasefire.<br />

EVERYDAY PEACE<br />

This year the UN International<br />

Day of Peace is on Saturday 23<br />

<strong>September</strong>.<br />

While a special day for the laying<br />

down of arms and to encourage<br />

people to think and act peacefully<br />

is an excellent idea and should be<br />

welcomed by all, to achieve the true,<br />

lasting peace that God had in mind<br />

when the world was created requires<br />

every person to accept the gift of<br />

peace that Jesus brought into it, and<br />

then share it with everyone they<br />

meet everyday of their life.<br />

<strong>The</strong> true, everlasting peace that<br />

we all long for can only become a<br />

reality if it begins to be shared by<br />

individuals and spreads upwards<br />

and outwards into the world, rather<br />

than from the top down. <strong>The</strong>re's<br />

an excellent example of how this<br />

'bottom-to-top' peace spreading idea<br />

works in the Old Testament book of<br />

Ezekiel (47).<br />

Pointing the way to peace in three languages<br />

Ezekiel writes about a vision<br />

he saw of the Temple in Jerusalem<br />

(below). <strong>The</strong> water he sees coming<br />

out of the Temple contains the Holy<br />

Spirit that had been poured over<br />

the altar. Instead of soaking away<br />

into the dry ground as water would<br />

usually do, the Holy Spirit makes<br />

it grow into a stream, then a river<br />

that gets deeper and stronger. It<br />

eventually travels from one of the<br />

highest places in the world — the<br />

site of the Temple — to the deepest,<br />

deadliest place, the Dead Sea, where<br />

it brings new life and abundant food.<br />

This is how we can expect the<br />

Holy Spirit to work within us when<br />

Ezekiel 47: <strong>The</strong> River of Life<br />

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we share God's love and peace with<br />

others and encourage them to<br />

share it with their families, friends,<br />

neighbours colleagues and everyone<br />

they meet.<br />

This bottom-to-top process is<br />

what the UN's World Peace Day is all<br />

about. We can't all initiate ceasefires<br />

in our neighbourhood, but by doing<br />

peaceful acts of kindness and love to<br />

all whom we meet we can help peace<br />

spread into the world — and don't<br />

forget, there are 364 more days in<br />

the year that we can start spreading<br />

some peace or Shalom, which is<br />

Hebrew for all the good things in life<br />

that God wants for each of us.<br />

<strong>The</strong> man brought me back to the entrance to the temple, and I saw water coming out from<br />

under the threshold of the temple toward the east (for the temple faced east). <strong>The</strong> water<br />

was coming down from under the south side of the temple, south of the altar. He then<br />

brought me out through the north gate and led me around the outside to the outer gate<br />

facing east, and the water was trickling from the south side.<br />

As the man went eastward with a measuring line in his hand, he measured off a<br />

thousand cubits and then led me through water that was ankle-deep. He measured off<br />

another thousand cubits and led me through water that was knee-deep. He measured off<br />

another thousand and led me through water that was up to the waist. He measured off<br />

another thousand, but now it was a river that I could not cross, because the water had risen<br />

and was deep enough to swim in — a river that no one could cross. He asked me, 'Son of<br />

man, do you see this?'<br />

<strong>The</strong>n he led me back to the bank of the river. When I arrived there, I saw a great number<br />

of trees on each side of the river. He said to me, 'This water flows toward the eastern region<br />

and goes down into the Arabah, where it enters the Dead Sea. When it empties into the sea,<br />

the salty water there becomes fresh. Swarms of living creatures will live wherever the river<br />

flows. <strong>The</strong>re will be large numbers of fish, because this water flows there and makes the<br />

salt water fresh; so where the river flows everything will live. Fishermen will stand along<br />

the shore; from En Gedi to En Eglaim there will be places for spreading nets. <strong>The</strong> fish will be<br />

of many kinds — like the fish of the Mediterranean Sea. But the swamps and marshes will<br />

not become fresh; they will be left for salt. Fruit trees of all kinds will grow on both banks of<br />

the river. <strong>The</strong>ir leaves will not wither, nor will their fruit fail. Every month they will bear fruit,<br />

because the water from the sanctuary flows to them. <strong>The</strong>ir fruit will serve for food and their<br />

leaves for healing.'<br />

Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal. (Martin Luther King Jr)


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Editor: As part of her English language course work,<br />

our granddaughter, Angel (right) aged 14 years and<br />

who does not attend a school in our parish, had<br />

to research and present a short speech about any<br />

subject of her choice. She chose . . .<br />

How education<br />

responds to grief<br />

Hello! I will be speaking about<br />

something very personal to me —<br />

education's response to grief.<br />

Grief affects many people in<br />

different ways but it is how the<br />

people around you support you that<br />

counts the most.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are five stages of grief:<br />

denial, anger, bargaining, depression<br />

and acceptance. None of these are<br />

easy, especially when you are a<br />

student — and I should know.<br />

MY FAULT?<br />

My father died in early December<br />

2022 and the next day I was forced to<br />

go into school as it was not permitted<br />

for me to have time off to grieve, and<br />

this is the case for many people.<br />

A few days after my father passed<br />

away some other students were<br />

causing trouble about it and made<br />

fun of my father.<br />

When I took it to the school they<br />

blamed me for the problem, as if it<br />

was my own fault that my dad had<br />

died? It was certainly not the case.<br />

Many schools around the world do<br />

this and it certainly isn't the fault of<br />

the grieving student.<br />

Sue Peters<br />

After the bullying had continued<br />

for a few months the school<br />

eventually changed my tutor group<br />

because they didn't have any other<br />

way to resolve the problem.<br />

Again, they were punishing me<br />

for something that was not my fault!<br />

Grieving can be a very long<br />

process but education seems to think<br />

it only takes a few days.<br />

It would be easier if they provided<br />

support such as counselling, safe<br />

spaces or even just an adult to talk<br />

to, but, in my experience, they don't<br />

consider the pupil's feelings and<br />

constantly upset grieving students<br />

by shouting, or getting angry with<br />

them for simply grieving, which<br />

is something that doesn't hurt<br />

anybody.<br />

Through the tears and everlasting<br />

fear, I carry on day by day without<br />

further words spoken nor heard. I<br />

had to get over it to meet the school's<br />

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29 <strong>September</strong>: St Michael and All Angels<br />

What is an<br />

angel?<br />

By Rev Canon David Winter<br />

A shining figure with glorious wings<br />

who appears from time to time to do<br />

mighty work for God or bring a very<br />

special message from him?<br />

That’s right in a sense, apart from the<br />

wings, which we owe more to stained<br />

glass windows than the Bible. But<br />

the fact that not all ‘angels’ in the<br />

Bible are ‘glorious’ or ‘shining’ should<br />

make us hesitate to categorise them in<br />

this spectacular way. After all, three<br />

apparently ordinary men who visited<br />

Abraham and Sarah to say she would<br />

have a son even though she was long<br />

past child-bearing. Nevertheless,<br />

Abraham recognised them as divine<br />

messengers.<br />

WHO ARE ANGELS?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bible is full of angels who have a<br />

key role in crucial events. It seems that<br />

Michael was their leader, an ’archangel’.<br />

In many stained glass windows he has a<br />

sword, because in a vision in Revelation<br />

he led the angelic host who defeated<br />

Satan and his army.<br />

In the Gospels, an angel appeared to<br />

Zechariah, to tell him that his elderly<br />

wife was to have a son, the forerunner<br />

of the Messiah, John the Baptist. <strong>The</strong><br />

angel Gabriel – appeared to Mary to<br />

say she would be the mother of the<br />

Messiah. An angel appeared to Joseph,<br />

the carpenter, to tell him to marry<br />

Mary, and, in another dream, warned<br />

him not to go back to Bethlehem.<br />

A ‘young man’, another angel, was<br />

waiting in the empty tomb on Easter<br />

morning, to tell the startled women<br />

that Jesus had risen.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se, and others, show the word<br />

angel covers an enormous diversity of<br />

experience. Some recognised angels<br />

for who they were, and some didn’t.<br />

Angels, quite simply, are God’s agents or<br />

messengers and ministers of God's will.<br />

Sometimes they are human; sometimes<br />

spiritual beings.<br />

Perhaps we could say that anyone,<br />

in any situation, who is at that moment<br />

God’s ‘messenger’ to us, or serves us<br />

graciously, is an ‘angel’. So, when we say,<br />

‘Be an angel and pop up to the chemist<br />

for my prescription’, we may be nearer<br />

the heart of the matter than we think!


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feature — 5<br />

DELVING INTO C<br />

Old Bath Road<br />

Railway Line<br />

Park View Drive<br />

Park Lane<br />

Waingels Road<br />

Milestone Avenue<br />

New Bath Road<br />

Old Bath Road<br />

Wee Waif<br />

Charvil Lane<br />

6 JUNE 1942<br />

English Heritage (NMR) Photography<br />

<strong>September</strong> is now well established as the month when the UK celebrates its unique<br />

heritage, so this year we thought we would delve a little into Charvil's heritage, but you<br />

may ask, where can you delve? writes Bob Peters.<br />

<strong>The</strong> answer is, there are three places to<br />

start: the English Heritage National<br />

Monuments Record, an excellent little<br />

book called A Walk around Charvil by Bill<br />

Crane, and, of course, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

archives which date from 1869 (see page 3).<br />

English Heritage is a charity that<br />

looks after a public archive containing<br />

10 million photographs, plans, database<br />

records and other information on<br />

England's architecture and archaeology,<br />

and my experience of using their<br />

service recently is excellent. One of our<br />

churchwardens has in his possession a<br />

set of aerial photographs of part of our<br />

parish. <strong>The</strong>y date from 1942 to the 1970s<br />

and include the two aerial photographs<br />

published above. <strong>The</strong>y clearly show that<br />

Charvil's heritage is primarily agricultural<br />

like many English villages.<br />

In 1942 wartime Britain, there<br />

were only a few isolated homesteads in<br />

Charvil, while 25 years later it had begun<br />

to be developed into a more residential<br />

community. Since then, of course, it has<br />

probably doubled in size to the Charvil<br />

we know today to include a good variety<br />

of housing, a much-used village hall, a<br />

A <strong>Parish</strong> Landmark: <strong>The</strong> Wee Waif at Charvil by Stev


<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 23<br />

HARVIL'S HERITAGE<br />

Railway Line<br />

Old Bath Road<br />

Park View Drive<br />

Park Lane<br />

Waingels Road<br />

Old Bath Road<br />

New Bath Road<br />

Milestone Avenue<br />

Wee Waif<br />

Charvil Lane<br />

13 JUNE 1967<br />

English Heritage (NMR) Photography<br />

e Daniels<br />

wikimedia commons<br />

primary school, well-used recreation fields<br />

with tennis courts and other facilities.<br />

<strong>The</strong> photographs were taken by the<br />

RAF and were originally restricted for<br />

obvious reasons of national security. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

are now part of the National Monuments<br />

Record and we therefore had to seek<br />

permission to publish them. To my<br />

surprise the charity's service was very<br />

efficient especially as I tend to do things<br />

at the last minute!<br />

I also delved into Bill Crane's book,<br />

which was published in 1994 by the<br />

Twyford and Ruscombe Local History<br />

Society, to check when Charvil's<br />

'landmark', the Wee Waif hotel, garage<br />

and shop complex, was established. Bill<br />

dates it from the 1920s and writes 'in the<br />

1930s many well known people, including<br />

Royalty, are said to have stopped regularly<br />

at the Wee Waif for lunch or tea.'<br />

<strong>The</strong> name, Wee Waif, came from a<br />

fund raising event held there for Sir<br />

Alfred Fripp's East End Charities that<br />

benefitted his 'wee waifs'.<br />

By the start of the 190os Charvil<br />

had about 20 homes, but this has<br />

steadily grown as can be seen in our two<br />

photographs above. Since 1967 further<br />

development has seen even greater<br />

growth which means this magazine<br />

is delivered to over 3,000 people<br />

in Charvil. In terms of population,<br />

Charvil, which had a handful of people<br />

is now the largest part of the parochial<br />

church parish of St Andrew's.


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around the villages — 1 SONNING E<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 25<br />

Carrying kindness, respect<br />

and support into a new year<br />

Sonning CofE Primary School headteacher, Phil Sherwood, reflects on the<br />

previous year as the new academic year is about to start . . .<br />

<strong>The</strong> summer holiday has been<br />

very busy, with lots of projects<br />

and improvements taking place.<br />

However, just like New Year’s Day,<br />

the beginning of a new academic year<br />

allows for a time of reflection and<br />

thoughts of a 'fresh start'.<br />

Looking back to last term, we<br />

enjoyed a brilliant sports day and<br />

saw some excellent kindness, respect<br />

and support for others from our<br />

pupils and the crowd.<br />

Our thanks to Reading Cricket<br />

and Hockey Club for allowing us to<br />

use their car park to ease parking<br />

congestion on the roads.<br />

RESULTS<br />

Our year culminated with goodbyes<br />

to our wonderful Oak class and<br />

celebrations for our Year 6 end of key<br />

stage assessment results, which were<br />

some of our best ever.<br />

Our results can be viewed at:<br />

https://www.sonning.wokingham.sch.uk/<br />

page/?title=Performance+Data&pid=31<br />

We are now looking forward to<br />

continuing the excellent work of the<br />

previous 12 months and providing<br />

even more for our pupils.<br />

It is also an opportunity for<br />

us to say thank you to our local<br />

community for all their support —<br />

we are always so grateful for the<br />

connections we have in the area.<br />

GARDEN HELP<br />

A summer project has been<br />

moving our growing beds and areas<br />

to our courtyard area to create a new<br />

growing area. We are always looking<br />

for volunteers to help with gardening<br />

and outdoor projects, so if you would<br />

be able and willing to offer your time<br />

to run a gardening club with our<br />

pupils at a lunchtime or after school,<br />

please get in touch via the school<br />

office: 0118 969 3399 or spsadmin@<br />

sonning.wokingham.sch.uk<br />

We will do all relevant<br />

safeguarding checks such as a DBS<br />

check.<br />

CAREER ADVICE<br />

One event occurring later in the<br />

year is a careers day for pupils. If<br />

there are any local residents who<br />

have a profession they would be<br />

willing to share with us, please get in<br />

touch. We would be very excited to<br />

hear from you.<br />

We hope to build a list of people<br />

willing to share their job and career<br />

with the pupils in school.<br />

Volunteers would need to be<br />

available in early July 2024, and<br />

be prepared to speak to different<br />

classes, and possibly the whole<br />

school as part of an assembly.<br />

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1st Sonning-on-Thames Scout Group Family Camp June <strong>2023</strong>: Beavers, cubs, scouts and their families met at Phasels Wood<br />

Activity Centre near Hemel Hempstead to enjoy a wide range of fun and adventurous activities, as well as top-notch food<br />

produced by the hard-working camp committee and adult helpers. <strong>The</strong> weekend was a great group send-off for the outgoing<br />

Group Scout Leader, Mike Moore, before he moves out of the area later this year. At the same time, they said goodbye to Group<br />

Chair, Oli Stickley, after five years’ dedicated service to Sonning Scouts.<br />

Inner Wheel<br />

celebrates 100<br />

years worldwide<br />

<strong>The</strong> Association of Inner Wheel<br />

Clubs in Great Britain & Ireland<br />

is celebrating its 100th birthday<br />

all over the world. Although it is<br />

now an international organisation<br />

with around 108,000 members in<br />

104 countries, it was founded in<br />

Manchester, England in January<br />

1924 (the Inner Wheel year runs<br />

from July to June).<br />

In the UK members support refuge<br />

centres for abused women, child<br />

centres and drop-in centres, school<br />

breakfast clubs and much more.<br />

<strong>The</strong> local Inner Wheel Club of<br />

Reading Maiden Erlegh, which meets<br />

on the third Thursday of every month<br />

in Sonning Golf Club at 7.15pm, has<br />

given support in many other ways.<br />

This coming year will include a<br />

Black Tie Gala Dinner Dance, Bridge<br />

Drives, an Art Cafe at the Rotary<br />

Charity Art and Craft Fair and<br />

supporting Santa as his elves in his<br />

Christmas Grotto.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Association's president's<br />

theme for this special year is '100 for<br />

100' when members will try to find<br />

100 ways to make a difference.<br />

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Painting inside and 'en plein air'<br />

Sonning Art Group's busy summer began with a very enjoyable<br />

workshop in watercolours from Jonathan Newey a talented<br />

artist (right) who generously gave many tips and useful advice<br />

suitable for all artists from beginners to experienced He runs<br />

classes and workshops monthly and it is well worth looking<br />

at https://jonathannewey.com for details of his classes in<br />

many mediums.<br />

<strong>The</strong> group had a perfect summer's day at<br />

Sonning Mill for an afternoon of sketching and<br />

painting 'en plein air' — outside. (See front cover)<br />

<strong>The</strong> group was extremely sad to learn of<br />

the death of Andy Bell, the husband of its<br />

chair, Sue. Although not officially a member<br />

of the club he was a great support for Sue and the<br />

group and did sterling work behind the scenes to<br />

ensure the smooth running of the club.<br />

Autumn show entries open to everyone<br />

Twyford and Ruscombe Horticultural Association is busy planning its Autumn<br />

Show, which will be held in Loddon Hall, Twyford, on Saturday 9 <strong>September</strong>.<br />

It will be an 'Open' competition so see the Schedule of Classes on their website<br />

if you want to exhibit. <strong>The</strong> association is looking forward to seeing the junior<br />

members who will be bringing their runner beans to be measured.<br />

Visitors are welcome and refreshments with homemade cakes will be available.<br />

<strong>The</strong> association's website is at http://www.trha.org.uk for details of all activities<br />

or, if you wish to take advantage of all the benefits of TRHA you can apply for<br />

membership by emailing Jenny Wager at trhamembership@gmail.com or visit their<br />

store in Loddon Hall Road, Twyford on Sunday mornings 9.30am to 11.00am.<br />

Sonning & Sonning Eye Society autumn programme<br />

29 <strong>September</strong> at 7.30pm: Lionel Williams, a talk on the history of the Reading<br />

Hospitals and how they evolved.<br />

27 October at 7.30pm: Neil Pitts, explorer and adventurer, entertains with the<br />

challenges he faced while attempting to ski across Norway.<br />

18 November: AGM and dinner<br />

All the above events are held in Pearson Hall.<br />

Tickets can be obtained from the society's website or from Penny Feathers on<br />

penny.feathers@btinternet.com 0118 934 3193<br />

Sonning Village Show is being held on Saturday 16 <strong>September</strong> at Sonning C of E Primary School.<br />

If you have not received a schedule, pick one up from St Andrew's Church porch and enter as many classes as<br />

possible. Entries must be submitted on the day between 10am and 12 noon. <strong>The</strong> Fete opens at 2pm.


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HEALTH<br />

Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . Another headache?<br />

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In the last issue (July/August) we talked about headaches, mainly migraine,<br />

but we skipped over one of the commonest — tension headache.<br />

My previous article discussed the importance of the history of the headache in<br />

making an accurate diagnosis. <strong>The</strong> same goes for tension headache. It has its<br />

own diagnosis and specific way of treating it. It is a primary headache disorder,<br />

which means that it has no other illness causing it<br />

Tension headache can last between<br />

30 minutes and 7 days. It has a<br />

pressing, or vice like nature.<br />

It is not associated with nausea<br />

and vomiting. It is not pulsatile;<br />

this symptom is more common<br />

with headache associated with viral<br />

illnesses, although when ‘chronic’ mild<br />

nausea and occasional vomiting can<br />

occur. We will explore this further.<br />

It is on both sides of the head<br />

but can come with light and sound<br />

sensitivity. Activity and normal life<br />

may be uncomfortable because of<br />

the headache but it doesn’t make it<br />

worse. <strong>The</strong> pain often spreads beyond<br />

the head and is common in the neck<br />

muscles.<br />

Most of us will experience a tension<br />

headache in a year. We would not make<br />

a diagnosis of a tension headache<br />

disorder.<br />

CATEGORIES<br />

Categories of tension headache can<br />

help with managing them.<br />

Patients can be categorised with<br />

infrequent episodic, frequent episodic<br />

and chronic tension headache disorder.<br />

To standardise diagnosis,<br />

treatment, and research, there is<br />

the International Classification of<br />

Headaches Disorders (ICHD). We are<br />

currently on version 3.<br />

Essentially, taking the correct<br />

history can match a patient to<br />

a diagnosis and the best way of<br />

treatment. It also allows us to<br />

recognise where the diagnosis may not<br />

fit or if there is treatment failure, we<br />

can understand why.<br />

<strong>The</strong> ICHD-3 describes tension<br />

headaches as<br />

Infrequent episodic — at least 10<br />

episodes of headache occurring on<br />

less than 1 day per month on average<br />

(fewer than 12 days per year).<br />

Frequent episodic — at least 10<br />

episodes of headache occurring on<br />

fewer than 15 days per month on<br />

average, for more than 3 months.<br />

Chronic — evolves from frequent<br />

episodic tension-type headache,<br />

headache occurring on 15 days or more<br />

per month on average, for more than 3<br />

months and:<br />

— Lasting hours to days, or<br />

unremitting.<br />

— At least two of bilateral location;<br />

pressing or tightening (non-pulsating)<br />

quality; mild or moderate intensity;<br />

and not aggravated by routine physical<br />

activity such as walking.<br />

— Neither moderate or severe nausea<br />

nor vomiting and no more than one<br />

of photophobia, phonophobia, or mild<br />

nausea.<br />

— Not better accounted for by another<br />

cause, such as medication overuse.<br />

MEDICATION OVERUSE<br />

Medication overuse headache<br />

(MOH) is useful as this is probably<br />

more common than we think. Use<br />

of daily paracetamol, ibuprofen and<br />

codeine can lead to a tension type<br />

headache because of treatment. MOH<br />

is more common but not exclusive to<br />

patients with other headache types<br />

such as migraine. Care is needed to<br />

ask patients, who don’t often admit, to<br />

using ‘pills’ daily.<br />

Infrequent headache can be<br />

managed by paracetamol or ibuprofen.<br />

If associated with neck pain, ice pack<br />

or heat packs can help.<br />

Frequent and chronic headaches<br />

need a different strategy. Finding out<br />

individual triggers may be beneficial<br />

— caffeine, alcohol, and stress being<br />

the common factors. Yoga, exercise,<br />

massage, and acupuncture may help.<br />

Painkillers may precipitate MOH so<br />

if the impact of the headache is severe<br />

then some antidepressants and antiepilepsy<br />

medication may be used but<br />

these have their own side effects.<br />

LIFE THREATENING?<br />

In the last two articles we have<br />

not mentioned anything that is lifethreatening<br />

because this is rare. Life<br />

threatening headaches have specific<br />

onsets and headaches associated with<br />

cancer in the brain come with other<br />

symptoms.<br />

A headache that feels like being<br />

struck in the back of the head with<br />

a bat is a 999 emergency. Headaches<br />

associated with brain tumours do not<br />

fit the ICHD categories and have other<br />

symptoms that are too numerous<br />

to list but a change in personality or<br />

fitting is worrying.<br />

If you are suffering with headaches<br />

keep a detailed diary and maybe<br />

send this to your doctor before an<br />

appointment.<br />

Like most conditions, a history is<br />

the key, a phone call is adequate for<br />

this; investigations, examinations and<br />

follow up can then be arranged.<br />

Brain scans are reassuring but<br />

rarely add anything to the diagnosis.<br />

Blood test may help in looking for<br />

secondary causes of headaches.<br />

Opiate medications, such as<br />

codeine, morphine, oxycodone,<br />

buprenorphine have no place in<br />

managing primary headache disorders.


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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 31<br />

THE ARTS<br />

All things bright and beautiful<br />

By Rev Canon Michael Burgess<br />

In <strong>September</strong>, we give thanks for God’s blessings<br />

in all that the earth yields us. Those blessings<br />

are focused in this wonderful painting 'A Vase of<br />

Flowers' by Jan Davidsz. de Heem.<br />

He was born in Utrecht, Holland in 1606 and<br />

studied art under his father’s guidance. De Heem<br />

then moved to Antwerp, where for the rest of his<br />

life he created paintings of such beauty and depth<br />

that one of them — a portrait of Prince William III<br />

surrounded by blossoms and fruits — received the<br />

highest price ever paid for a painting at that time.<br />

TIME STANDS STILL<br />

In the ‘Vase of Flowers’ de Heem has gathered a<br />

bouquet of variegated flowers and plants for our<br />

delight.<br />

Time stands still in his painting in two ways.<br />

First, these 31 blooms could never have flowered<br />

at the same time, but through the magical touch<br />

of the artist, they do for us. Caught on canvas,<br />

they are as fresh and vibrant as the day they were<br />

painted in 1645.<br />

But there are signs that the gifts of nature do<br />

wither and die, as we look closely and see on the<br />

marble slab a snail. Nearby is a salamander eyeing<br />

his next meal as a spider hangs on a thread from<br />

one of the flowers. In the centre, another snail<br />

looks at his food, the beautiful and rare red and<br />

white tulips.<br />

NEW LIFE<br />

Yet we look again and see also signs of new life:<br />

the ears of wheat are symbols of the Eucharistic<br />

bread; the caterpillar and butterfly on the striking<br />

white poppy at the top are signs of resurrection;<br />

and the peas in their pod and the blackberries<br />

mark out the fruitfulness of creation.<br />

<strong>The</strong> artist shows us a glorious range of flowers<br />

— some well-known, others more exotic and<br />

brought back to Holland through the colonial<br />

expansion of the 16th century.<br />

Tulips and poppies dominate, but to the left are<br />

some small, scented roses. Each is a testimony to<br />

the beauty and goodness of the world we live in.<br />

THE BEAUTY OF THE LORD<br />

100 years later, Christopher Smart wrote in<br />

‘Jubilate Agno’: ‘For the flowers are great blessings<br />

… for the flower glorifies God … for the flowers are<br />

peculiarly the poetry of Christ. And 200 years later<br />

Gerard Manley Hopkins wrote: ‘I do not think I<br />

have ever seen anything more beautiful than the<br />

bluebell I have been looking at. I know the beauty<br />

of our Lord by it.’<br />

And we, in our own century, can echo poet and<br />

painter as we praise God, the author of such flowers<br />

and plants that make up a world of ‘all things<br />

bright and beautiful.’<br />

Poetry Corner<br />

Meditative Meandering by Steven Rolling<br />

Tune: Ravenshaw - ‘Lord, thy word abideth’<br />

Forgive Lord, where I fret<br />

Of things past, not come yet<br />

Meditation disturbed<br />

Distracted from your word<br />

Search my heart, you know me<br />

All things of me you see<br />

All-seeing, All-knowing<br />

Ever my Lord and King<br />

Spirit e’er residing<br />

In sanctum abiding<br />

Of my heart, though fill me<br />

My whole being purely<br />

Jan Davidsz. de Heem, Wikimedia<br />

I may to you draw near<br />

Worship in lowly fear<br />

Your presence be dwelling<br />

In me, rule o’er each thing<br />

What I want or desire<br />

Your wisdom best by far<br />

Help me seek of those things<br />

Do what your glory brings<br />

Heart our central core be<br />

And too our mind you see<br />

E'en our whole life you know<br />

In Christ’s image we grow<br />

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Recipe of the Month<br />

A Victoria sponge for every cake<br />

lover including gluten free and vegan<br />

<strong>The</strong> recipe comes from https://edibleethics.com and has proved to be very<br />

popular with everyone at church gatherings whatever their dietary needs.<br />

Ingredients for the Cake<br />

For the filling<br />

— 3 tbsp Maple syrup<br />

— 75 g Vegan butter (room temperature)<br />

— 1 tsp Vanilla bean paste<br />

— 200 g icing sugar<br />

— 175 g Golden caster sugar — 1 tsp vanilla essence<br />

— 1 tsp Bicarbonate of soda — Jam<br />

— 1 tbsp Lemon juice<br />

— 300 g Gluten-free self-raising flour<br />

— 300 ml Soya milk or Almond Milk<br />

— 150 g Vegan butter – Stork is ideal<br />

Method<br />

You will need two 20cm Springform cake tins.<br />

Preheat the oven to 160°C (fan oven).<br />

Grease two round cake tins and line with baking paper.<br />

Stir the lemon juice in with the vegan milk and set aside to curdle slightly.<br />

In a small saucepan, melt the butter together with the maple syrup and vanilla<br />

bean paste. Leave it to cool slightly.<br />

Sieve the flour, sugar, and bicarbonate of soda into a large mixing bowl.<br />

Gradually pour in and mix both the milk and the butter mixes. Stir until<br />

smooth. If it starts to clump, use a hand whisk to continue mixing.<br />

Pour out the cake mix equally into the two cake tins.<br />

Place the tins into the oven and bake for 30-35 minutes. Try not to open the<br />

oven!<br />

Check the cakes with a skewer, if the mix sticks to the skewer and looks a bit<br />

too wet, put back in for 5 more minutes and check again.<br />

Take out of the oven and leave to cool.<br />

While waiting for the cakes to cool, place your room temperature butter, icing<br />

sugar and vanilla essence in a stand mixer and beat it together for about 3-5<br />

minutes, until it is whipped and fluffy. If you don't have a stand mixer you can<br />

use your hand, but this may take a little longer to achieve similar results. If<br />

needed, add in some of the water to help mix.<br />

Once the cakes have cooled, take them out of the tin and place one half on to a<br />

serving plate.<br />

Spread over your jam of choice and then spread on the frosting<br />

Carefully place the second half on top.<br />

If you have spare icing sugar, sprinkle on top using a sieve.<br />

For special occasions, you can ice it. ENJOY!<br />

Ants in the pantry!<br />

A recent rare visitor to our<br />

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with its young. <strong>The</strong>y were<br />

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FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />

Sustainable fashion is a term<br />

progressively being used — and<br />

possibly overused — these days,<br />

especially within the fashion world.<br />

As society's increased spending habits<br />

have evolved, we have become aware<br />

of the fashion industry's impact on the<br />

planet because of fast fashion. This<br />

overproduction of clothing is slowly<br />

killing our environment, and our<br />

clothes are the leading cause of this<br />

pollution. Today, anyone, anywhere,<br />

can purchase clothing faster, at a lower<br />

price, which is more convenient than<br />

ever before. So what's the issue?<br />

Buying fast fashion has been the new<br />

normal for online shoppers. This easy<br />

way of shopping online has rapidly<br />

increased over the past decade. We find<br />

ourselves continuously following the<br />

craze of purchasing trendy clothing sold<br />

at a low cost and designed to be worn<br />

just a few times. This widely popular<br />

trend will be around for a while as the<br />

mass desire for more clothes grows. I<br />

believe that we will need to completely<br />

rethink our purchasing habits and how<br />

we produce and purchase clothing,<br />

otherwise all these garments will end<br />

up in landfill and will not be recycled.<br />

However, sustainable fashion may be<br />

the solution!<br />

But what does sustainable fashion<br />

even mean? In short, it's a term used<br />

for clothing made and consumed in<br />

a way that has protected both the<br />

environment and those producing the<br />

garment. This sustainable business<br />

ensures that garment workers are paid a<br />

fair wage, have safe working conditions,<br />

and that the fabrics and materials used<br />

are made ethically.<br />

Fashion brands worldwide have<br />

started producing sustainable products<br />

that have become increasingly popular<br />

online in recent years. Designers such as<br />

Stella McCartney and Iris Van Herpen<br />

are current luxury runway designers<br />

beginning to show the world that<br />

fashion can be produced sustainably.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se sustainable styles have started to<br />

appear more and more and are explicitly<br />

designed to look good, but also to be<br />

wearable and last a lifetime.<br />

From its early days, the fashion<br />

world has been in a never-ending cycle<br />

of finding new and innovative ways to<br />

make itself appealing to modern-day<br />

consumers. This goes from frantically<br />

testing out weird and wonderful<br />

materials to picking out the latest<br />

trends that activists and celebrities<br />

alike can't get enough of. <strong>The</strong> most<br />

recent development for this industry<br />

has been the use of natural materials<br />

to create fashion that will not only<br />

have people looking their best but will<br />

ensure that these garments will be<br />

biodegradable, which is why fabrics<br />

such as mycelium are being used to pave<br />

the way for sustainability in fashion.<br />

But what exactly is this material, and<br />

how can it possibly replace the harmful<br />

substances the industry is currently<br />

using?<br />

Mycelium is the root part of a<br />

mushroom and has been created to<br />

be a more eco-friendly material as it<br />

requires very little water to grow and<br />

contains no toxic chemicals, which is a<br />

great sustainable substitute for existing<br />

fashion materials cotton or nylon. This<br />

fully compostable material has been<br />

notably recognised by brands across<br />

the globe, with many famous fashion<br />

brands using Mylo — a leather material<br />

created from mycelium — which<br />

originated from the brand Bolt Threads,<br />

which is one of the leading technology<br />

companies in the production of<br />

mycelium.<br />

As this material is still at the start<br />

of being mass-produced, we have yet<br />

to see it on the market within our<br />

local high street stores. However,<br />

being sustainable doesn't just mean<br />

purchasing new eco-friendly fashions.<br />

You can be sustainable right now at<br />

home with your current clothing!<br />

Being sustainable sounds complex,<br />

but it really isn't! Whether purchasing<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 35<br />

Is sustainable fashion the ethical answer?<br />

WHAT IS IT?<br />

COMPOSTABLE<br />

Images: pexels.com<br />

or donating your old clothes in a charity<br />

shop, recycling and upcycling garments,<br />

or creating new pieces yourself, being<br />

sustainable at home can significantly<br />

help reduce our fast fashion habits.<br />

Every small step we can take can help<br />

ensure that our garments aren't thrown<br />

into landfill.<br />

With second-hand and vintage<br />

clothing becoming trendy online,<br />

Generations Z and Alpha have made<br />

sustainable fashion the new norm.<br />

This young cohort uses pre-loved<br />

clothing items to create unique styles<br />

to add to their wardrobe and create<br />

individual pieces that no one else will<br />

have. This audience has been inspired<br />

by celebrities such as the singer Billie<br />

Eilish and model Bella Hadid, who are<br />

known to wear vintage and secondhand<br />

clothing.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fashion industry has<br />

continuously made substantial efforts<br />

in recent years to become more<br />

sustainable and environmentally<br />

friendly because of climate change.<br />

However, we can hope to see more<br />

changes made to help reduce fast<br />

fashion within the industry and tackle<br />

this worldwide issue.<br />

Could you see yourself and your<br />

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. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 26 <strong>September</strong> 1898 that George<br />

Gershwin, American composer, was born. He is known for<br />

his operas, Broadway musicals and film scores.<br />

. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 4 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that Noel<br />

Coward’s musical revue London Calling! was first<br />

performed, in London. It was his first publicly produced<br />

musical work.<br />

. . . ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 7 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that<br />

Interpol, the International Criminal Police Organisation,<br />

was founded.<br />

. . . AND ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 29 <strong>September</strong> 1923 that<br />

the British mandate for Palestine came into effect. Britain<br />

took control of Mandatory Palestine (formerly part of<br />

the Turkish Empire) until 1948, when Israel became an<br />

independent state.<br />

. . . 80 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1943 that the<br />

Germans occupied Rome, Italy, and took over the<br />

protection of the Vatican City.<br />

. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 9 <strong>September</strong> 1948 that the People’s<br />

Democratic Republic of Korea (North Korea) was<br />

established, headed by Kim Il Sung.<br />

. . . 70 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>September</strong> 1953 that the<br />

discovery of rapid eye movement (REM) sleep was<br />

published in the journal Science. It had been discovered in<br />

1952 by Eugene Aserinsky and Nathaniel Kleitman at the<br />

University of Chicogo.<br />

. . . 50 YEARS AGO on 2 <strong>September</strong> 1973 that JRR Tolkien,<br />

British fantasy writer, poet, scholar, and educator died. He<br />

is best known for his novels <strong>The</strong> Hobbit and <strong>The</strong> Lord of the<br />

Rings.<br />

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fun. <strong>The</strong> grid above contains the names of 34 creatures, including<br />

two eagles. <strong>The</strong>y all have four letters or more in their name. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />

initial letters are: 3A; 4C; 3D; 4E; 2H; 3L; 2M; 3N; O; P; 4R; 2T; 2W.<br />

See if you can find them! If you find all 34 animals you will<br />

find that the unused letters spell out a relevant verse from<br />

the New Testament (ESV). You might even manage to<br />

identify the verse. Answers in next month's issue. Good<br />

luck and God Bless!<br />

Planning Your<br />

Traditional Wedding?<br />

<strong>The</strong>n you might like to<br />

discuss the possibility of<br />

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ago, on 4th Sep 1998 that Google, the internet search company,<br />

was founded by Larry Page and Sergey Brin, both students at<br />

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42 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>September</strong> <strong>2023</strong> Please mention <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> when replying to advertisements<br />

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<strong>Parish</strong> contacts<br />

Ministry Team<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Vicar: Revd Jamie Taylor (Day off Friday)<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR<br />

vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

— Associate Vicar: Revd Kate Wakeman-Toogood<br />

revkate@sonningparish.org.uk / 0744 747 8048<br />

On duty Tuesday, Friday and Sunday<br />

— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106<br />

— Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters<br />

bob@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />

Children's Ministry<br />

— Alison Smyly office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Churchwardens<br />

— Stuart Bowman sdbowman73@aol.com / 0118 978 8414<br />

— Liz Nelson liz.nelson1@ntlworld.com / 0779 194 4270<br />

Deputy Churchwardens<br />

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— Sue Peters mail@susanjpeters.com / 0118 377 5887<br />

— Ruth Jeffrey, 0118 969 3298<br />

— Molly Woodley (deputy churchwarden emeritus)<br />

mollywoodley@live.co.uk / 0118 946 3667<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Office Manager<br />

— Hilary Rennie<br />

office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Parochial Church Council<br />

— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298<br />

— Treasurer: Jerry Wood 0118 969 3298<br />

Director of Music, organist and choirmaster<br />

— Hannah Towndrow BA(Oxon), MA(RAM), LRAM<br />

music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

Safeguarding Officer<br />

— Nicola Riley 0118 969 3298<br />

Sonning Bell Ringers<br />

— Tower Captain: Pam Elliston<br />

pam.elliston@talktalk.net / 0118 969 5967<br />

— Deputy Tower Captain: Rob Needham<br />

r06needham@gmail.com / 0118 926 7724<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Website: http://www.sonningparish.org.uk<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>: http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

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Queen Anne’s School 34<br />

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Richfield Flooring 14<br />

Sabella Interior Design 24<br />

Seniors Helping Seniors 32<br />

Shiplake College 14<br />

Signature Care Homes 36<br />

Sonning Golf Club 34<br />

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Smallwood Garden Services 40<br />

Style by Julie 6<br />

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