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CONTENTS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 12 ISSUE VIII<br />

on the cover<br />

22 SPECIAL KIDS, SPECIAL NEEDS<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

Raising children with challenges<br />

28<br />

features<br />

28 LIVED TO TELL<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

Iraq’s Fr. Douglas impresses local community<br />

departments<br />

8 FROM THE EDITOR<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

Inspired<br />

10 GUEST COLUMN<br />

BY RAMSAY F. DASS<br />

Divided we fall -- what next?<br />

12 NOTEWORTHY<br />

13 COMMUNITY BULLETIN BOARD<br />

14 IRAQ TODAY<br />

16 CHAI TIME<br />

18 RELIGION<br />

20 OBITUARIES<br />

44 ECONOMICS AND ENTERPRISE<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

Young Entrepreneur: ‘Donut’<br />

Be Afraid to Dream<br />

46 CLASSIFIED ADS<br />

48 EVENTS<br />

36<br />

Awake My Soul<br />

Keys Grace Ribbon Cutting<br />

Project Bismutha Walkathon<br />

42<br />

30 SISTER TO SISTER<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

Dominicans continue their support of Iraq<br />

32 NO PICNIC<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

Dating over 30 can be tricky<br />

34 IF THESE WALLS COULD TALK<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

Historic home has Chaldean charisma<br />

36 WHERE’S THE BEEF?<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

Shawarma is hot, hot, hot<br />

38 WANT FRIES WITH THAT?<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

New app a godsend to the visually impaired<br />

40 CHALDEAN ON THE STREET<br />

BY JOSEPH ABRO<br />

What would you ask Pope Francis?<br />

building community<br />

42 SCORING A BINGO<br />

BY GAIL KATZ<br />

ON THE COVER:<br />

JUVOLLIA ABLAHAD AND<br />

SOPHIA AZZOU AT THE<br />

GARDEN AT SHRINE OF<br />

THE LITTLE FLOWER<br />

PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />

Jewish, Chaldean groups meet and mingle<br />

<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7


from the EDITOR<br />

PUBLISHED BY<br />

The Chaldean News, LLC<br />

EDITORIAL<br />

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Inspired<br />

We all come across<br />

people in life who<br />

truly inspire us. If<br />

you use the important communication<br />

tool of listening<br />

more than speaking, what<br />

these people share will have<br />

a deeper impact. I did a lot<br />

of listening this past month<br />

as I was truly fortunate to<br />

have interviewed some of<br />

the most inspiring people.<br />

I also carefully absorbed information<br />

I was reading as<br />

I conducted research for articles and<br />

read books for background.<br />

This month I was inspired to<br />

share these stories.<br />

Let’s first start with the cover story.<br />

I had the pleasure of interviewing<br />

four amazing moms. I greatly appreciate<br />

their willingness to share their<br />

stories that I know will inspire other<br />

families in similar situations.<br />

I know the feeling when you find<br />

out you’re pregnant. How exciting<br />

it is, especially when you have been<br />

trying for a while. For some parents<br />

that joy is clouded by news from doctors<br />

that something is wrong. Some<br />

parents find out during the pregnancy<br />

and others after. Regardless, the<br />

pain is still great.<br />

We share this story about raising<br />

children with challenges who bring<br />

their families great joy. Their strength,<br />

determination and faith inspire me,<br />

as do their children. I know Sophia<br />

Azzou personally and she is a bright,<br />

sweet and loving child. I admire Lisa<br />

for many reasons including her ability<br />

to look at the challenges she faces and<br />

turn them into opportunities.<br />

I met Julia Garmo once in person.<br />

Her presence lit up St. Thomas<br />

VANESSA<br />

DENHA-GARMO<br />

EDITOR IN CHIEF<br />

CO-PUBLISHER<br />

Church one July afternoon<br />

in 2014 when she came to<br />

visit for a prayer service in<br />

her honor in between medical<br />

treatments in New York.<br />

I admire Anita for her honesty<br />

and bravery for sharing<br />

Julia’s journey with all of us.<br />

I have never met Juvollia<br />

but it was a pleasure to interview<br />

her mom Sandra for<br />

the cover story. I felt such an<br />

instant connection as I was<br />

writing down her quotes and<br />

felt her pain and joy at the same time.<br />

We also share with you a sidebar<br />

story about a special artist all grown<br />

up and making a name for himself.<br />

They call him Noofi and his mom<br />

Amani couldn’t be prouder of her<br />

26-year-old eldest child, who was recently<br />

featured on Channel 4 for his<br />

artwork. I am so inspired by Amani,<br />

who encourages other parents in similar<br />

situations to be strong and have<br />

faith “because with every disability<br />

there is a gift, so search for this gift in<br />

your son or daughter.”<br />

These moms taught this mom the<br />

importance of being your child’s advocate<br />

no matter the situation.<br />

This month I was inspired to be a<br />

better mom.<br />

Then I met Fr. Douglas Bazi. To<br />

say he inspired me would be an understatement.<br />

He moved me to become a<br />

better Christian. There are no words<br />

really to describe listening to his testimony,<br />

which I had the opportunity<br />

to do several times this past month.<br />

I interviewed him twice, sat in on a<br />

meeting and set up media interviews<br />

for him. What inspired me the most<br />

was the joy he exuded. This was one<br />

of those moments where I needed to<br />

open my ears, close my mouth, put<br />

down my cell phone and give someone<br />

my full attention. I knew he was going<br />

to say things God wanted me to hear.<br />

I encourage you to read his story.<br />

Then do a quick Internet search and<br />

listen to interviews and watch his<br />

talks anywhere you can find them.<br />

Fr. Bazi’s testimony is also on line.<br />

I promise he will inspire you in the<br />

way you need to be inspired.<br />

This month I was inspired to find joy.<br />

My friend and colleague Teresa<br />

Tomeo sent me a fun and motivational<br />

read inside a very clever marketing<br />

pitch — yep, a purse. She has penned<br />

a new book, which I write about on<br />

the religion page of this issue. It is perfectly<br />

designed to carry around with<br />

you, which I do inside the very purse<br />

she sent it in, and it is now always in<br />

my car because I read it while waiting.<br />

I sat and read it while waiting for my<br />

daughter at gymnastics and ice skating.<br />

I took it with me while I waited in<br />

the car for my daughter at camp. It is a<br />

handy manuscript that every woman<br />

should own.<br />

I also was mailed a copy of Matthew<br />

Kelley’s book, Rediscover Jesus,<br />

which is a MUST read for all Christians.<br />

It is truly an inspirational message<br />

about getting to know Jesus better.<br />

Kelley is quickly becoming one<br />

of my favorite speakers and authors.<br />

This month I was inspired to<br />

learn.<br />

What inspires you?<br />

Alaha Imid Koullen<br />

(God Be With Us All)<br />

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GUEST column<br />

Divided we fall — what next?<br />

The time has come<br />

for His Holiness<br />

Pope Francis to<br />

hold an extraordinary<br />

emergency meeting in the<br />

Vatican with invitees from<br />

all the Middle East heads<br />

of Christian communities<br />

— church and laity<br />

— along with the foreign<br />

ministers of the United<br />

States of America, Europe<br />

and the Middle East. The<br />

meeting should have one agenda: the<br />

present and future existence of the<br />

Middle East Christians in countries<br />

such as Iraq, Syria, Egypt, Lebanon<br />

and Jordan, with a precise timetable<br />

and hopeful outcome.<br />

Throughout history, the presence<br />

of Christians and Christianity in the<br />

Middle East has been at the whims<br />

of rulers of the Middle East — those<br />

who befriended them and those who<br />

persecuted them but who have never<br />

RAMSAY F. DASS<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

been able to eliminate<br />

them ... until now.<br />

During these perilous<br />

times, Middle East Christian<br />

leadership has sometimes<br />

been its own worst<br />

enemy, with inter-denominational,<br />

inter-cultural,<br />

and inter-geopolitical<br />

squabbles. Throughout<br />

my conversations with<br />

the majority of the Middle<br />

East Christians’ hierarchy,<br />

from Cardinals to Patriarchs to<br />

Bishops and other church leaders, all<br />

have agreed that these divisions have<br />

weakened us and must end.<br />

The world still looks to Pope<br />

Francis as the moral authority. As a<br />

shepherd must protect his flock, he<br />

has been candid, courageous and<br />

outspoken, whether during the Armenian<br />

Genocide or other occasions<br />

of Christian global persecution.<br />

The Middle East is a special spot<br />

in the history of Christianity. The<br />

Middle East Christians are the ones<br />

who spread Christianity all over the<br />

world. They are the main vine that<br />

extends its branches all over the<br />

world.<br />

Pope Francis must now rethink<br />

and develop new approaches, including,<br />

but not limited to, inviting all<br />

the heads of the Middle East Christian<br />

churches — Catholics, Orthodox,<br />

Protestant and others — with a<br />

few other lay leaders who have been<br />

active in this field. In a closed and<br />

continuous session they can come<br />

up with a few ideas on how to deal<br />

Pope Francis must now rethink and develop<br />

new approaches, including, but not limited<br />

to, inviting all the heads of the Middle East<br />

Christian churches.<br />

with the new realities. Maybe he is<br />

the only person who can succeed in<br />

this endeavor and save Christians<br />

and Christianity in the Middle East.<br />

When Christians come together<br />

and act together, the world will listen.<br />

If the church leadership does<br />

not rise to the occasion, then the laypeople<br />

at large should act and make<br />

their voices heard. If not, then all of<br />

us should be blamed for our demise<br />

— and nobody else.<br />

Ramsay F. Dass, M.D., is president<br />

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noteworthy<br />

Off-Duty Cop Killed in<br />

Motorcycle Crash<br />

Ronnie Karjo, a Harper Woods police<br />

officer, was killed in a motorcycle<br />

crash August 3 in Chesterfield Township,<br />

just minutes from his home.<br />

Karjo, 46, of Macomb Township,<br />

was killed when his motorcycle collided<br />

with a car just before 10 p.m. on<br />

Gratiot Avenue. Chesterfield Township<br />

police say Karjo was traveling<br />

southbound when he was struck by<br />

a car traveling northbound that was<br />

making a turn into a gas station.<br />

Karjo was transported to McLaren<br />

Macomb Hospital where he died<br />

from his injuries. The driver of the<br />

car is a 21-year-old resident of Chesterfield<br />

Township who was treated<br />

for minor injuries.<br />

Karjo had been a police officer<br />

for 19 years during which he worked<br />

as an officer with the Inkster Police<br />

Department. He was with the Harper<br />

Woods Police Department for two<br />

years, said Chief Jim Burke. He is<br />

survived by a wife and four children.<br />

Karjo will be remembered at the<br />

Harper Woods department as a man<br />

who mentored younger officers.<br />

“He made a huge impact in the<br />

community. We’re really feeling it,”<br />

said Burke. “He has been in law enforcement<br />

for over 21 years and his<br />

dedication, compassion and willingness<br />

to share his experience and<br />

knowledge with our younger officers<br />

was invaluable.”<br />

“I get a lot of joy from helping<br />

those who can’t defend or help<br />

themselves,” Karjo told the Chaldean<br />

News in 2008 as part of a cover<br />

story on Chaldean law enforcement<br />

officers.<br />

What, Karjo was asked, makes a<br />

good cop?<br />

“Chaldeans approach me about<br />

this all the time. I tell them they<br />

can’t get into trouble – stay in school<br />

and have no arrests,” he replied.<br />

“Ninety-nine percent of being a good<br />

cop is common sense – if you have<br />

that, you can get through anything.”<br />

Services were handled by EJ<br />

Mandziuk and Son Funeral Home in<br />

Sterling Heights. After a mass at St.<br />

George Chaldean Catholic Church,<br />

Karjo was buried at White Chapel<br />

Cemetery.<br />

Click On Detroit and the Detroit News<br />

contributed to this report<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

Clerk Calls for<br />

Millage Review<br />

During the August 17 West Bloomfield<br />

Township Board Meeting, Clerk<br />

Catherine Shaughnessy stated that a<br />

Special Meeting was needed to assess<br />

the township’s financial condition.<br />

She moved to table the approval of<br />

the 2016 Tax Year millage rate until<br />

further analysis of the Township’s 10<br />

Year Projection.<br />

“The revenue predictions, which<br />

we base our 10 year projection on,<br />

were lower than actual revenues. Since<br />

we are bringing in more revenue than<br />

what we expected, we need to know<br />

if we can consider providing our residents<br />

with a reduction to their taxes,”<br />

Shaughnessy said in a statement.<br />

Giving Hearts Gives<br />

a Fashion Show<br />

The Fourth Annual Giving Hearts<br />

fundraiser, which benefits Chaldean<br />

women with breast cancer, will include<br />

a fashion show on October 1<br />

at Orchard Mall in West Bloomfield.<br />

The event is held in honor of<br />

Vivian Esshaki Shouneyia, who died<br />

of the disease.<br />

Retailers participating in the show<br />

include Eleganza, Guys N Gals, Maria’s<br />

Bridal and Beauty Lounge. The<br />

event takes place from 6-9 p.m. and<br />

includes wine, appetizers and dessert.<br />

Tickets are $40 in advance, $50<br />

at the door, and can be purchased by<br />

mailing a check to Giving Hearts,<br />

3220 Erie Drive, Orchard Lake, MI<br />

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for more<br />

information.<br />

Protesters outside<br />

the Iraqi Consulate<br />

General in Southfield<br />

on August 14.<br />

Protests Bring Cabinet Changes in Iraq<br />

Iraq’s Prime Minister Haider al-Abadi ordered<br />

his Cabinet reduced from 33 members to just 22,<br />

consolidating the body as part of a major reform<br />

push in response to mass protests against corruption<br />

and poor governance.<br />

Tens of thousands of people have protested<br />

in Iraq over the last month. Locally, on August<br />

14, about 100 Iraqi Americans demonstrated in<br />

Southfield against corruption and religious division<br />

in Iraq’s government. Outside the Iraqi Consulate<br />

General they held up signs that read “Long<br />

live Iraqi people” and “No to sectarian parties in<br />

Iraq.”<br />

Abadi’s decision, announced by his office on<br />

August 15, would eliminate four ministries, including<br />

those of human rights and women’s affairs,<br />

and consolidate others. The announcement<br />

did not mention whether there would be any<br />

changes to the remaining ministries.<br />

The move follows a far-reaching reform plan<br />

approved by parliament that eliminated the<br />

country’s three vice presidencies and three deputy<br />

prime ministers. The plan also reduced the<br />

budget for the personal bodyguards of senior officials<br />

and transferred it to the interior and defense<br />

ministries.<br />

The reform plan cut positions held by a number<br />

of prominent Iraqi politicians, including<br />

Nouri al-Maliki, who was prime minister of Iraq<br />

for eight years before he was pushed out in August<br />

2014 in response to growing outrage over the fall<br />

of Mosul to ISIS.<br />

– Associated Press<br />

12 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>


Community Bulletin Board<br />

When in Rome …<br />

... find other American Chaldean<br />

newlyweds! That’s what<br />

these three West Bloomfield-area<br />

couples, who all got married in<br />

the same week this summer, did<br />

on their Italian honeymoons. Congrats<br />

to Amit & Jewells Hingorani,<br />

Andy & Zena Ibrahim, and Remy<br />

& Brittany Jonna, seen here after<br />

being blessed by Pope Francis<br />

at St. Peter Square in a special<br />

ceremony for newly marrieds.<br />

Special Blessing<br />

Francis Ibrahim, in his mother Rita’s<br />

arms, was recently baptized by Pope<br />

Francis as proud father Feras looks on.<br />

Fore!<br />

Nearly 100 golfers came out for the Second Annual<br />

Lance Atisha Memorial/CALC Golf Outing on July 27<br />

at Shenandoah Country Club. Pictured at the left are<br />

Reem Sesi, Rita Foumia and Lisa Paulus, while on the<br />

right are Jon Randall, Marlene Witthoft, Sue McDermott<br />

and Ted McDermott. Proceeds benefit CALC’s<br />

Health and Behavioral Health Programs.<br />

Have an item for the Bulletin Board? Send it to Chaldean News,<br />

30850 Telegraph Road, Suite 220, Bingham Farms, MI 48025,<br />

or e-mail info@chaldeannews.com.<br />

Happy Meal<br />

BEAM project students went on a recent<br />

fieldtrip to the AbleZone store for the visually impaired,<br />

then enjoyed lunch at ChickPea Kitchen<br />

in Sterling Heights. The sight-challenged refugee<br />

students were able to practice their navigating<br />

skills as they made their way through the<br />

restaurant, then showed off their newly acquired<br />

English as they placed their food orders.<br />

<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 13


IRAQ today<br />

Lost Hope: Life in Exile for Refugees<br />

A<br />

year after tens of thousands<br />

of Iraqi Christians fled communities<br />

overtaken by Islamic<br />

State militants, their lives are<br />

on hold in exile: They won’t go back<br />

to Iraq, saying it’s not safe for Christians,<br />

but as refugees they’re barred<br />

from working in temporary asylum<br />

countries such as Jordan. Expectations<br />

of quick resettlement to the<br />

West have been dashed.<br />

“We’ve lost hope in everything,’’<br />

said Hinda Ablahat, a 67-year-old<br />

widow who lives with dozens of fellow<br />

refugees in plywood cubicles set<br />

up in a church compound in downtown<br />

Amman, the capital of Jordan.<br />

“We’ve been sitting here for a year<br />

and nothing’s happened.’’<br />

About 7,000 Christians from<br />

northern Iraq have found refuge in<br />

Jordan, including about 2,000 living<br />

in church-sponsored shelters.<br />

On Saturday evening, Patriarch<br />

Louis Sako of Iraq’s Chaldean Catholic<br />

Church and Jerusalem-based<br />

Latin Patriarch Fouad Twal led hundreds<br />

of worshippers in an outdoor<br />

prayer service in the town of Fuheis,<br />

near Amman, to mark a year since<br />

the Iraqi Christians’ displacement.<br />

The service included a message of<br />

encouragement from Pope Francis,<br />

saying he is appealing for solidarity<br />

with those victimized by fanaticism<br />

and intolerance, “often under the<br />

eyes and in the silence of all.’’ The<br />

church “does not forget and does not<br />

abandon her children who have been<br />

exiled on account of their faith,’’<br />

read the message, first published late<br />

last week.<br />

The words rang hollow to some in<br />

the crowd.<br />

“Everyone has forgotten us,’’ said<br />

Johnny al-Behno, 25, standing in the<br />

back with friends. Al-Behno holds<br />

an engineering degree, but is forced<br />

to live off dwindling savings because<br />

of the ban on working.<br />

Jordan struggles with high unemployment<br />

and says it cannot afford<br />

to integrate hundreds of thousands<br />

of Syrian and Iraqi refugees into the<br />

labor force.<br />

The Christian exodus began a<br />

year ago when Islamic State militants<br />

swept across northern Iraq, targeting<br />

indigenous religious minorities.<br />

The militants forced out most of the<br />

AP PHOTO/RAAD ADAYLEH<br />

area’s 120,000 Christians, many of<br />

whom now live in the nearby semiautonomous<br />

Kurdish region.<br />

Bahnam Atallah, 47, said he and<br />

his family fled their hometown of Qaraqosh,<br />

near Mosul, on Aug. 6, 2014.<br />

Islamic State had been shelling<br />

the town all day, Atallah said. The<br />

family of six fled for safety at nightfall<br />

to Erbil, the capital of the Kurdish region,<br />

with just two small duffel bags<br />

holding clothes, passports and family<br />

photos. The drive normally takes less<br />

than an hour, but thousands were<br />

fleeing and the Atallahs only arrived<br />

in Erbil after midnight.<br />

After three months, they relocated<br />

to Jordan, while oldest son Andre<br />

left for studies abroad.<br />

Now home for Atallah, his wife<br />

Jinan, and their children Eidier, Sarah<br />

and Maryam is a church shelter in<br />

Amman they share with 60 other refugees.<br />

Plywood cubicles are lined up<br />

in rows, some decorated with posters<br />

of the Virgin Mary. Children run in<br />

the hallways while others play dominos<br />

in the common area.<br />

The Atallahs’ cubicle contains<br />

two bunk beds, a single bed and a<br />

small table. Toddler Maryam slept,<br />

oblivious to the noise.<br />

Atallah, a thresher operator and<br />

carpenter, said the year in limbo<br />

has taken its toll. The parents and<br />

20-year-old Eidier can’t work, while<br />

15-year-old Sarah has missed a year<br />

of school.<br />

Food and medical care are provided<br />

by Caritas, a Catholic charity,<br />

but with nothing to do, days are tedious.<br />

Atallah dreams of emigration<br />

to Australia. A brother who lives<br />

there has started the paperwork, but<br />

prospects are uncertain.<br />

Atallah and other refugees say<br />

they’ll never go back home. “Iraq is<br />

not a safe place’’ for Christians, he<br />

said.<br />

Refugee aid officials say Iraqi<br />

Christians had expected quick resettlement<br />

in the West when they first<br />

arrived in Jordan, but those hopes<br />

have been dashed in part because of<br />

the region’s escalating refugee crisis.<br />

More than 4 million Syrians have<br />

fled conflict in their country since<br />

2011, while Iraqis of all religions<br />

continue to flee ongoing sectarian<br />

violence back home.<br />

Jordan hosts about 630,000 Syrian<br />

and 58,000 Iraqi refugees, according<br />

the U.N. refugee agency.<br />

Only a tiny minority has resettled in<br />

the West, with U.N. officials saying<br />

preference is given to the most vulnerable.<br />

In this August 8, Christian refugees walk between their rooms in a refugee shelter in a church compound in downtown Amman.<br />

Caritas has spent $3 million<br />

to help Iraqi Christian refugees in<br />

Jordan and will run out of funds by<br />

the end of the year, said Wael Suleiman,<br />

the head of the organization<br />

in Jordan. He said the international<br />

community should support the Iraqi<br />

Christian refugees by helping them<br />

stay in a region where their numbers<br />

have been dwindling due to conflict.<br />

“They were born to live in the<br />

Middle East, not in any other place,’’<br />

he said.<br />

– Karin Laub, Associated Press<br />

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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 15


CHAI time<br />

CHALDEANS CONNECTING<br />

COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

[Friday, September 4 –<br />

Monday, September 7]<br />

Festival: Royal Oak’s 18th Annual Arts,<br />

Beats, and Eats offers a large selection<br />

of food, a number of new artsy attractions,<br />

and a diverse musical line-up of<br />

nearly all genres. The festival goes from<br />

11 a.m. to 11 p.m. Friday through Sunday<br />

and 11 a.m. to 9:30 p.m. Monday.<br />

ArtsBeatsEats.com.<br />

[Saturday, September 5]<br />

Golf: Shenandoah hosts a 9 & Dine<br />

event that includes nine holes of golf,<br />

margaritas and a Mexican buffet. $35<br />

for pass holders, $60 for others. Teeoff<br />

is at 4:30 p.m. (248)-682-4300.<br />

[Sunday, September 6]<br />

Fundraiser: The 10th Annual Walk-<br />

4Friendship raises funds for the Friendship<br />

Circle, a nonprofit organization for<br />

people with special needs. Registration<br />

opens at 11:30 a.m., followed by an<br />

opening ceremony and the walk. The<br />

final destination is the Jewish Community<br />

Center in West Bloomfield, where<br />

there will be entertainment, activities<br />

and food. WalkForFriendship.com.<br />

[Wednesday, September 16]<br />

Fundraiser: Fifth Annual Healing Hands<br />

for Arthritis is a one-day national fundraiser<br />

in which Massage Envy Spas donate<br />

$10 from every massage or facial,<br />

and 10 percent of all store purchases,<br />

to the Arthritis Foundation. MassageEnvy.com.<br />

[Friday, September 18]<br />

Music: The Sounds of Babylon features<br />

the Detroit Symphony Orchestra playing<br />

with Chaldean musicians and vocalists.<br />

The show starts at 7 p.m. Benefits the<br />

Chaldean Community Foundation and<br />

the Chaldean Voice. For ticket and/or<br />

sponsor information, call Lisa Kalou at<br />

(248)-996-8340 or email lisa.kalou@<br />

chaldeanfoundation.org.<br />

[Saturday, September 19]<br />

Event: West Bloomfield Parks & Recreation<br />

presents Grub Crawl at Drake<br />

Park from 2-5 p.m., followed by a<br />

concert from 5-7 p.m. The crawl features<br />

21 different restaurants and raffle<br />

prizes. $40. Proceeds benefit Greater<br />

West Bloomfield Community Coalition,<br />

Optimists Club of West Bloomfield,<br />

West Bloomfield Rotary Club and West<br />

Bloomfield Youth Assistance. West-<br />

BloomfieldParks.org or (248) 451-1900.<br />

[Sunday, September 20]<br />

Fundraiser: The Second Annual Stride<br />

for Seminarians, in loving memory of<br />

Alexander and Gabrielle Mansour, includes<br />

a walk and a mass at the Detroit<br />

Zoo. All proceeds go towards Chaldean<br />

seminarians to complete their<br />

studies. Registration begins at 7:30<br />

a.m., which includes a tee-shirt, breakfast,<br />

lunch, kids’ activities, and admission<br />

to the zoo. The walk starts at 8:30<br />

a.m. followed by mass at 10. The fee<br />

is $40 adults and $30 for ages 2-12.<br />

AlexAndGabby.com.<br />

[Thursday, September 24]<br />

Food: What to do with all the herbs and<br />

vegetables from a bountiful season?<br />

Henry Ford West Bloomfield Hospital’s<br />

Resident Farmer Trevor Johnson<br />

teaches how to dry, freeze and store<br />

your produce, and how to make salsas<br />

and sauces. 6 p.m., $23. 6777 W.<br />

Maple Road, West Bloomfield. (248)<br />

325-3890 or dk@hfhs.org.<br />

[Friday, September 25]<br />

Fundraisers: Gala to raise funds for Yatooma’s<br />

Foundation for the Kids is at<br />

the Westin Book Cadillac. On Monday,<br />

September 28, the charity’s golf outing<br />

is at the Detroit Golf Club. ForTheKids-<br />

Foundation.org.<br />

[Saturday, September 26]<br />

Women: Women’s Health & Fitness<br />

Day includes a yoga and meditation<br />

class, tips from an exercise physiologist,<br />

a tour and self-facials. 10 a.m.-<br />

noon, $10. Henry Ford West Bloomfield<br />

Hospital, 6777 W. Maple Road, in<br />

West Bloomfield.<br />

[Sunday, September 27]<br />

Football: The Detroit Lions are back<br />

in their first home game of the season<br />

against the Denver Broncos. Kickoff is<br />

at 8:30 p.m. at Ford Field.<br />

Send items for Chai Time to<br />

info@chaldeannews.com.<br />

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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 17


eligion<br />

PLACES OF PRAYER<br />

CHALDEAN CHURCHES IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT<br />

THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED<br />

STATES<br />

St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />

25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033; (248) 351-0440<br />

Bishop: Francis Kalabat<br />

Retired Bishop: Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

HOLY CROSS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

32500 Middlebelt Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 626-5055<br />

Rector: Msgr. Zouhair Toma Kejbou<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon in Chaldean; Saturdays, 4:30 p.m. in<br />

English; Sundays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, noon in English, 6<br />

p.m., in Arabic<br />

HOLY MARTYRS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

43700 Merrill, Sterling Heights, MI 48312; (586) 803-3114<br />

Rector: Fr. Manuel Boji<br />

Parochial Vicar: Fr. Matthew Zetouna<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Thursdays, 8 p.m. Seed of<br />

Faith in English;<br />

Saturdays, 7 p.m. Witness to Faith in Arabic<br />

Youth Groups: Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for High Schoolers<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 9 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />

English; Sundays: 9 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 10:30 a.m. in English,<br />

Morning Prayer at noon, High Mass at 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean; 7 p.m.<br />

Arabic and Chaldean<br />

MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237; (248) 547-4648<br />

Pastor: Fr. Stephen Kallabat<br />

Retired Priest: Fr. Suleiman Denha<br />

Adoration: Last Friday of the month, 4 p.m. Adoration; 5 p.m. Stations of<br />

the Cross; 6 p.m. Mass; Wednesdays, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.<br />

Bible Study: Fridays, 8-10 p.m. in Arabic and Chaldean<br />

Youth Groups: Thursdays, 7:30-9 p.m. Jesus Christ University High<br />

School and College Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon; Sundays, 10 a.m.<br />

in Chaldean and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. High Mass in Chaldean<br />

MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; (248) 356-0565<br />

Administrator: Fr. Pierre Konja<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7-9 p.m. in English; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for college<br />

students in English<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Tuesdays, 8:45 p.m. in English;<br />

Saturdays, 4 p.m. in English; Sundays: 8:30 a.m. in Arabic, 10 a.m. in<br />

English, noon in Chaldean, 7 p.m. in English<br />

OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HELP CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

11200 12 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48093; (586) 804-2114<br />

Pastor: Fr. Fadi Philip<br />

Bible Study: Thursday, 8 p.m. for ages 18-45; Friday, 8 p.m. in Arabic.<br />

Teens 4 Mary Youth Group: Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.<br />

Confession: 1 hour before mass or by appointment.<br />

Adoration: Thursday, 5-7 p.m. Chapel open 24/7 for adoration.<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday-Wednesday, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Thursday, 1<br />

p.m. in English and 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Friday 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Sunday,<br />

10 a.m. in Arabic and 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean.<br />

SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

30590 Dequindre Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 393-5809<br />

Pastor: Fr. Sameem Belius<br />

Mass Schedule: Sundays, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean<br />

ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI 48317; (586) 254-7221<br />

Pastor: Fr. Wisam Matti<br />

Parochial Vicars: Fr. Anthony Kathawa<br />

Youth Groups: Disciples for Christ for teen boys, Tuesdays, 7 p.m.; Circle<br />

of Friends for teen girls; Thursdays, 6 p.m.; Bible Study for college students,<br />

Wednesdays 8 p.m.<br />

Bible Study: Wednesdays, 8 p.m. in English; Fridays, 8 p.m. in Arabic<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Wednesdays, 7 p.m.<br />

Adoration; 8-10 p.m. Confession; Saturdays, 6:30 p.m. in English (school<br />

year); 6:30 p.m. in Chaldean (summer); Sunday: 8:30 a.m. in Chaldean,<br />

10 a.m. in Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1:15 p.m. in Chaldean; 7:30<br />

p.m. in English<br />

ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083; (248) 528-3676<br />

Administrator: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Arabic; Tuesdays, 7 p.m. in English; Thursdays,<br />

7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ Youth Group for High Schoolers<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean except Wednesdays,<br />

10 a.m. in Arabic<br />

Saturdays, 6 p.m. in English and Chaldean; Sundays, 9 a.m. in Arabic,<br />

10:30 a.m. in English, noon in Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Chaldean and Arabic,<br />

7 p.m. in Chaldean<br />

Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />

ST. PAUL CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

5150 E. Maple Avenue, Grand Blanc, MI 48439; (810) 820-8439<br />

Pastor: Fr. Ayad Hanna<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 6 p.m.; Sundays, 12:30 p.m.<br />

ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322; (248) 788-2460<br />

Pastor: Fr. Bashar Sitto<br />

Parochial Vicars: Fr. Jirgus Abrahim, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />

Retired Priest: Fr. Emanuel Rayes<br />

Bible Study: Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. in Arabic<br />

Youth Groups: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Girls Challenge Club for Middle<br />

Schoolers; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ for High<br />

Schoolers; Thursdays, 6:30 p.m. Boys Conquest Club for Middle Schoolers<br />

Other: First Thursday and Friday of each month, 10 a.m. Holy Hour; 11<br />

a.m. Mass in Chaldean; Wednesdays from midnight to Thursdays midnight,<br />

adoration in the Baptismal Room; Saturdays 3 p.m. Night Vespers<br />

(Ramsha) in Chaldean<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />

English;<br />

Sundays, 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean,<br />

2 p.m. in Arabic<br />

Grotto is open for Adoration 24/7 for prayer and reflection<br />

____________________________ _________________________________________________________________________<br />

CHALDEAN SISTERS, DAUGHTERS OF MARY IMMACULATE<br />

24900 Middlebelt Road<br />

Farmington, MI 48336; (248) 615-2951<br />

NOVITIATE HOUSE<br />

31855 Allison Drive<br />

Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 987-6731<br />

CONVENT<br />

43261 Chardennay<br />

Sterling Heights, MI 48314; (586) 203-8846<br />

EASTERN CATHOLIC RE-EVANGELIZATION CENTER (ECRC)<br />

4875 Maple Road, Bloomfield Township, MI 48301; (248) 538-9903<br />

Director: Patrice Abona<br />

Daily Mass: Monday-Friday 8 a.m.<br />

Thursdays: 5:30 Adoration and 6:30 Mass<br />

First Friday of the month: 6:30 p.m. Adoration, Confession and Mass<br />

Bible Study in Arabic: Wednesdays 7 p.m.<br />

Bible Study in English: Tuesdays 7 p.m.<br />

ST. GEORGE SHRINE AT CAMP CHALDEAN<br />

7000 Clements Road, Brighton, MI 48114; (888) 822-2267<br />

Campgrounds Manager: Sami Herfy<br />

____________________________ _________________________________________________________________________<br />

ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC<br />

CATHOLIC ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />

4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 825-0290<br />

Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />

Mass Schedule: Sundays, 9 a.m. in Assyrian; noon in Assyrian and English<br />

ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25600 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335; (248) 478-0835<br />

Pastor: Fr. Toma Behnama<br />

Fr. Safaa Habash<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m.<br />

All in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />

Submission Guidelines The Chaldean News welcomes submissions of obituaries. They should include the deceased’s name, date of birth and<br />

death, and names of immediate survivors. Please also include some details about the person’s life including career and hobbies. Due to space constraints,<br />

obituaries can not exceed 300 words. We reserve the right to edit those that are longer. Send pictures as a high-resolution jpeg attachment.<br />

E-mail obits to info@chaldeannews.com, or through the mail at 30850 Telegraph Road, Suite 220, Bingham Farms, MI 48025.<br />

A book worth<br />

carrying around<br />

Creatively packaged inside a purse<br />

that complements the color of<br />

the book cover, Teresa Tomeo has<br />

launched her latest book: Walk Softly and<br />

Carry a Great Bag: On-the-go Devotions.<br />

This more-than-200-page book conveniently<br />

stows away inside a purse, diaper<br />

bag or briefcase. Tomeo uses scripture to<br />

address everyday issues with a meditative<br />

approach. As written in the Gospel<br />

of Matthew, God will be with us until the<br />

end of time. He is in the details, as Tomeo<br />

writes. We must look for Him.<br />

It has also been said and written many<br />

times that God speaks loudest in the silence.<br />

We must be still to hear His voice.<br />

“Don’t just do something – sit there,”<br />

writes Tomeo as she attributes Psalms<br />

46:10 (Be still, and know that I am God).<br />

Tomeo uses her own experiences as<br />

well as historical moments, periods in time<br />

and news reports to engage the reader and<br />

tie in devotions to the Bible.<br />

She is also humorous and lighthearted.<br />

She talks about not to ask for a lighter load<br />

but for a bigger bag, and appropriately selects<br />

Matthew 11:30 (My yoke is easy and<br />

my burden light) as she talks about Mother<br />

Teresa’s life and the work of St. Teresa of<br />

Avila.<br />

Tomeo most appropriately points out<br />

that all of us have crosses to bear in life.<br />

“If Jesus and some His most well-known<br />

witnesses have cried out to God the Father<br />

about the weight of the world on<br />

their shoulders, you can be sure you’re not<br />

alone,” she writes, citing Luke 22:42 (My<br />

Father, if you are willing, remove this chalice<br />

from me; nevertheless not my will, but yours,<br />

be done).<br />

The book can be found on Amazon,<br />

Servant Books, TeresaTomeo.com or<br />

wherever books are sold.<br />

– Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 19


obituaries<br />

RECENTLY DECEASED COMMUNITY MEMBERS<br />

Muwafak<br />

Achoom Jarbo<br />

July 1, 1963 -<br />

Aug. 18, <strong>2015</strong><br />

Nabil Ishak<br />

Shabilla<br />

June 1, 1947 -<br />

Aug. 18, <strong>2015</strong><br />

Janfiaf<br />

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special kids, special needs<br />

Raising children with challenges<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

Many parents know that children<br />

are gifts from God<br />

who bring excitement and<br />

joy. When a child is diagnosed with<br />

a disability or an illness, it is the parent<br />

with great faith and strength who<br />

steps up to meet the challenge and<br />

find the blessings. Just ask a few parents<br />

in the community raising children<br />

with challenges.<br />

PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />

Sophia’s Supporters<br />

When Lisa Azzou talks about her<br />

daughter Sophia, who is nearly 7,<br />

she is like any other proud mom. Despite<br />

the wheelchair, Sophia loves<br />

doing all the things little girls her<br />

age enjoy – swimming, cheerleading,<br />

dancing and even playing hockey<br />

for the USA Youth Hockey League<br />

of Michigan. Lisa and husband Don<br />

encourage it all.<br />

“She is a differently abled person,”<br />

said Lisa. “She loves to do all<br />

the things her friends do but she just<br />

does them differently.”<br />

Sophia was born with spina bifida,<br />

a congenital defect in which part<br />

of the spinal cord and its membranes<br />

are exposed through a gap in the<br />

backbone. It often causes paralysis of<br />

the lower limbs, and sometimes mental<br />

handicap. The Azzous discovered<br />

this while Lisa was 18 weeks pregnant<br />

with Sophia.<br />

She quickly realized that the<br />

medical profession didn’t have all<br />

the information they wanted and<br />

needed. “We asked for support groups<br />

or families to talk to and they couldn’t<br />

refer us to anyone,” said Lisa.<br />

She approached the situation as an opportunity<br />

to start the Spina Bifida Association of Michigan.<br />

Gathering information and creating a support network<br />

was just part of what the Azzous needed to do<br />

as parents raising Sophia.<br />

Since creating the local chapter, Lisa and other<br />

parents have hosted several fundraisers including a<br />

Walk and Roll annual event. A team of Sophia’s family<br />

and friends have joined the Sophia’s Supporters<br />

group to raise money for spina bifida on her behalf.<br />

Lisa and Don adapted their two-story home to<br />

Clockwise from above: Louie, Lisa and Sophia Azzou (dad Don was at work). Sophia Azzou walks with the help of leg braces and a<br />

walker … and skis via a special device.<br />

be wheelchair accessible. They put in hardwood<br />

floors throughout the house. “When Sophia hit the<br />

carpet with her chair, it was like trudging through<br />

mud,” said Lisa.<br />

They built ramps in three areas of the home including<br />

one on the back deck. They also installed<br />

a lift where Lisa and Don can transfer Sophia from<br />

her wheelchair into the lift chair that will move<br />

her upstairs. They refitted the tub, shower and sink<br />

in her bathroom, which she shares with her older<br />

brother Louie.<br />

Lisa became a mini-van mom who easily stows<br />

Sophia’s wheelchair, even though she doesn’t always<br />

need it. “She has braces that keep her knees<br />

and ankles straight and help her walk,” said Lisa.<br />

“She cannot hold her own weight and a few times<br />

around the house with the braces is tiring.”<br />

Sophia has been mainstreamed into the public<br />

school and has created her own strong social<br />

network of friends. She enjoys rides with a bike<br />

that allows her to use hand pedals instead of her<br />

feet. “We actually picked the bike up at Beaumont<br />

Hospital’s bike day,” said Azzou. “She also has skis<br />

retrofitted for her as well as ice skates.”<br />

All of the adjustments in the home and customized<br />

equipment comes with a hefty price tag and<br />

22 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>


insurance doesn’t pay for any of it. “It gets very<br />

expensive, into the thousands of dollars to make<br />

changes in the house or buy sporting equipment for<br />

Sophia,” Lisa said. “It is not like we can walk into<br />

Target and pick up a bike for $100.”<br />

There are opportunities and programs for kids<br />

with special needs, however. The Azzou family<br />

won a trip to Orlando, Florida, to swim with the<br />

dolphins through Benefit4kids.<br />

Although Sophia lives very much like a typical<br />

child, she is aware of her challenges.<br />

“I knew one day the question or comment<br />

would come,” said Lisa, “and in kindergarten one<br />

day Sophia said, ‘I wish I could walk like all the<br />

kids in my class.’ I responded, ‘You do walk with<br />

braces and when you keep practicing you get stronger.’<br />

She responded, ‘I wish I could walk like they<br />

walk.’ I said, ‘You get around in your own way.’”<br />

Sophia and Louie have the same loving and<br />

squabbling relationship all siblings share yet as his<br />

mom points out, “He is so helpful and patient with<br />

his sister. He is amazing and there needs to be a<br />

group for children with siblings who have special<br />

needs because they see and experience things most<br />

kids never do. Louie has been through Sophia’s<br />

many surgeries with us and seen the bandages<br />

and doctor visits. These siblings<br />

need to have a special pizza party for<br />

themselves.”<br />

Lisa is a mom on a mission. She is<br />

working to change Michigan’s laws to<br />

reduce a staggering static: “70 percent of<br />

expectant mothers whose babies are diagnosed<br />

with spina bifida terminate the<br />

pregnancy. That is a problem to me,” said<br />

Lisa. “I would hope that number could<br />

change.”<br />

She is working with a group of mothers<br />

to pass legislation that would require<br />

doctors upon diagnoses to give expectant<br />

mothers current and relevant information<br />

about spina bifida as well as information<br />

on support groups and a hotline.<br />

The parents stress the issue is about proinformation<br />

and not about pro-choice<br />

or pro-life. Often doctors give out grim<br />

diagnoses and inaccurate information<br />

about spina bifida and these parents want<br />

that to change.<br />

“Honestly, many doctors know about spina bifida<br />

from a paragraph in a textbook they read years<br />

ago in medical school,” said Lisa. “It so unethical<br />

to encourage abortion and not give the mothers all<br />

the information about children with spina bifida.”<br />

Very much on Lisa’s radar and something this<br />

dedicated mom will take up one day is to work<br />

with the medical community to open more medical<br />

centers for adults with spina bifida. There are 132<br />

children spina bifida clinics in the U.S. and only<br />

seven adult clinics. Out of those seven only two<br />

are considered legitimate adult clinics because the<br />

others are pediatric clinics that see adults.<br />

Lisa also notes that the Americans with Disabilities<br />

Act is only 25 years old and although<br />

much has transpired over the years to support<br />

people with disabilities, she believes education is<br />

needed across the country and especially with the<br />

airlines.<br />

“However, I thank God for the ADA and every<br />

day I thank God we live where we live and have<br />

what we have, and live in a country with good<br />

medical care and accommodations,” Lisa said.<br />

Julia’s Journey<br />

Now 8 years old and two years since being diagnosed<br />

with cancer, Julia Garmo is stable. Since the<br />

diagnosis, her mother Anita has shared Julia’s journey<br />

with friends and family via a blog and Facebook<br />

posts. The third child of David and Anita<br />

Garmo’s five children has neuroblastoma.<br />

Julia was diagnosed nearly 10 years after her<br />

older brother Isaac went through treatment for the<br />

same disease. He was diagnosed just after turning 1.<br />

“He was a normal, happy baby and then one<br />

day he lost his appetite and stopped eating,” said<br />

Anita. “I noticed him sitting in the family room lethargic<br />

one day and I knew something was wrong.”<br />

Isaac, now 12, went through six months of treatment<br />

and has been fine since; “Thank God,” said<br />

Anita who relies heavily on her faith for strength.<br />

Julia had a CAT scan after crying from neck<br />

pain and having a hard time swallowing. “Julia’s<br />

treatment has been much more extensive and she<br />

has gone through several life-threatening infections,”<br />

said Anita. “Isaac’s treatment was a breeze<br />

compared to what Julia has gone through.”<br />

Caring for Julia has taken some master organizing<br />

on the Garmos’ part and reliance on family. “It<br />

has been a team effort,” noted Anita. “I don’t know<br />

what I would have done without my family to help<br />

SPECIAL KIDS continued on page 24<br />

Above:<br />

Julia and her<br />

mom, Lisa<br />

Garmo.<br />

Left: In the<br />

hospital or out,<br />

Julia Garmo is<br />

rarely without<br />

a smile.<br />

<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 23


Noofi Makadsi shows off a colorful creation.<br />

‘The Blessing of Our Family’<br />

Nafaa Makadsi’s family has been calling him<br />

Noofi since he was a child. He was born with<br />

Down syndrome and with congenital cataracts<br />

in both eyes. Because they were living in wartorn<br />

Iraq, the family was not able to get Noofi<br />

the surgeries he needed and he now has a permanent<br />

lazy eye.<br />

He started drawing and painting as a young<br />

boy. “I cannot remember when he started<br />

drawing for the first time but I remember his<br />

first drawing of a person he called grandmother<br />

and he continued drawing her ever since,”<br />

said his mother, Amani.<br />

At age 26 Noofi graduated from the Troy<br />

Center for Transition where he studied for six<br />

years. Although he learned to speak English,<br />

he still struggles to communicate.<br />

“He becomes very frustrated,” said Amani.<br />

“He cannot always express himself or understand<br />

conversations well in English, but he<br />

can speak Arabic well.”<br />

Despite the reaction from community<br />

members, Amani’s oldest child brings her great<br />

joy. “The major challenges raising a kid with<br />

disability is the community we lived in back<br />

home in Iraq,” said Amani. “The people there<br />

feel or show you that having a disabled child<br />

is a stigma or a shame, and that we should not<br />

show him to others. We know he is the blessing<br />

of our family.<br />

“The surprising moments are when he does<br />

things that you never expect a disabled kid can<br />

do or says a sentence with deep meanings,”<br />

Amani added. “For parents with disabled kids<br />

I tell them, ‘do not lose your faith and hope<br />

because with every disability there is a gift, so<br />

search for this gift in your son or daughter.’”<br />

Noofi, who has a younger brother and sister,<br />

was recently featured on Channel 4 where<br />

he displayed his artwork for a show last month<br />

called Down with the Arts. Noofi’s art can be<br />

seen at IAmNoofi.Weebly.com and on Facebook<br />

under IAmNoofi.<br />

“I hope he will be a famous artist and live<br />

an independent life,” said Amani.<br />

SPECIAL KIDS continued from page 23<br />

care for my other children.” On and off for two<br />

years, Isaac, Annabelle (10), Matthew (6) and Sarah<br />

(4) stayed in California where the family lives<br />

while Anita was in New York for Julia’s treatments.<br />

“My sister gave up months of her life to help<br />

me,” she said. “My mom also helped me and was<br />

always with me when Julia had surgeries.”<br />

Anita’s sister Ashley, 24, stopped her college<br />

studies to travel back and forth between New York<br />

and California to help Anita and David. “The fact<br />

that my family lives thousands of miles away in<br />

Michigan, it made it that much harder,” said Anita.<br />

She also relies on friends. “It has been so amazing<br />

to have friends and the community come together<br />

to help,” said Anita. “The support has been<br />

greatly appreciated.”<br />

David and Anita also lean on each other. “David<br />

is amazing,” said Anita. “With or without the<br />

cancer he is an amazing dad; he works a 12-hour<br />

day and comes home and spends time with his kids.<br />

He is family oriented. He does what he can to give<br />

each one their attention.”<br />

The two have taken turns caring for the kids<br />

while attending to Julia’s needs. “It gets a bit crazy<br />

and sometimes I feel bad for my other kids when we<br />

have to spend so much time with Julia,” said Anita.<br />

The couple is focused on the health and well-being<br />

of the entire family and puts a lot of emphasis on<br />

nutrition. They are also very much a typical family<br />

juggling all obligations. Living in southern California<br />

with a pool in the backyard, the kids are able to<br />

swim year round. “They love to swim,” said Anita.<br />

The Garmos recently decided that David would<br />

be the one to tend to Julia while getting treatments<br />

in New York. “It is just easier that way but I can’t<br />

say it hasn’t been hard on me to let go,” Anita said.<br />

“I have been the one with her and it is hard not<br />

being there for her.”<br />

Juvollia’s Voice<br />

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For five and half months following her birth,<br />

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finally came home in February of 2003. Later<br />

that same year, we took Juvollia to the University of<br />

Michigan Medical Center to see a neurologist and<br />

that’s when we discovered she had cerebral palsy.”<br />

Juvollia, who is wheelchair bound, is not able<br />

to walk, hold her head up, sit on her own, or use<br />

the toilet. The family cares for her all day, bathing,<br />

stretching, feeding and enjoying leisure time.<br />

In addition to some of her favorite foods for taste,<br />

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Like so many children with cerebral palsy, Juvollia<br />

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times. She needs help with normal everyday experiences<br />

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outside to enjoy the day.<br />

“I sometimes feel like I hover over her when<br />

she’s watching cartoons just to check if she’s thirsty<br />

and to make sure she’s okay,” Sandra said. “I even<br />

have to check on her while she’s sleeping.”<br />

Juvollia has limited verbal abilities, making<br />

it challenging to communicate. “There are times<br />

when it is very difficult to figure out what she wants<br />

or if something is wrong,” said Sandra. “When your<br />

child won’t stop crying and you don’t know how to<br />

help her it gets overwhelming. As much as I love<br />

my daughter and living my life for her I sometimes<br />

get emotional and feel very helpless.”<br />

As the mother of four, Sandra has little time for<br />

herself or a social life. She juggling between all the<br />

kids and once Juvollia comes home from school,<br />

she redirects her attention to that one child. “It is<br />

exhausting,” she admitted.<br />

“Juvollia loves to watch cartoons and if we go<br />

somewhere where there isn’t a TV she will let us<br />

know she wants to go home. My patient family of<br />

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up with Juvollia at home which leaves me without<br />

much of a social life,” said Sandra.<br />

Juvollia attends school full-time at Keith Bovenschen<br />

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Juvollia also enjoys spending time with her family<br />

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the whole family went to Disney World in Florida.<br />

“Like your average teen she asks me weekly to<br />

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She added, “The surprising moments about<br />

raising a child with challenges are watching them<br />

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without disabilities. These are really our most necessary<br />

silver linings — like the first time I caught<br />

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speech therapy, and learning how to perform new<br />

and seemingly simple tasks. Every single day is a<br />

surprise for us. Juvollia is a smart, intelligent girl<br />

and always puts a smile on our faces, and she is a<br />

gift from God who deserves to be celebrated.”<br />

Despite the challenges, Sandra is grateful for<br />

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diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, is no longer able<br />

to physically help.<br />

“We were in need of a vehicle that would not<br />

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daughter,” said Sandra. “I started a Go<br />

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her a handicap-accessible van. When<br />

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Like all parents wish for their<br />

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long, healthy and beautiful life. “I<br />

wouldn’t change her for the world,”<br />

said Sandra.<br />

A Family’s Wish<br />

Lisa, Anita and Sandra have<br />

seen the good, bad and ugly<br />

as moms raising children with<br />

medical challenges. Although<br />

their children face different<br />

challenges, all three mothers<br />

have faced similar disappointments<br />

when it has comes to<br />

how others have acted, commented<br />

or responded to their<br />

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“I have had people ask me<br />

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wrong with her.’ And of course,<br />

I wanted to add, ‘what is wrong<br />

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children have the bodies God<br />

gave them and there is nothing<br />

wrong with them.”<br />

Although society has come<br />

PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />

Above: Juvollia at Disney: Juvollia Ablahad loved her Make a<br />

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Top of page: Juvollia Ablahad is flanked by her family: Ziyad,<br />

Jasmine, Sandra, Jizelle and Javoni.<br />

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a long way over the years, Lisa<br />

believes so much more can be<br />

done. “Parents need to teach their<br />

children to treat children with sicknesses<br />

or disabilities like they would<br />

any other child. Don’t bend down to<br />

talk to someone in a wheelchair. It<br />

makes them feel uncomfortable, especially<br />

adults who are in wheelchairs.”<br />

When the Garmos started a Go<br />

Fund Me account, “It was offensive<br />

when people would ask you where the<br />

money was going,” said Anita. “They<br />

don’t realize that some of Julia’s treatments<br />

are not covered by insurance.<br />

Flying back and forth to New York is<br />

not covered by insurance.”<br />

“The most challenging is the intolerance<br />

of others,” said Sandra. “People<br />

assume that Juvollia being in a wheelchair<br />

and not able to speak means she<br />

isn’t capable of many things that are<br />

in fact very important to her. For example,<br />

we had gone to a water park<br />

for a family weekend. Juvollia was so<br />

excited; she loves the water and has<br />

a specialized lifejacket designed for<br />

children with CP. We were told that<br />

she couldn’t go in the water with her<br />

lifejacket and we had to go. Juvollia<br />

reacted the way we all wanted to and<br />

cried all the way home.”<br />

However, there are people who<br />

genuinely care and want to help but<br />

don’t know how. “It is good and bad<br />

at the same time,” said Anita. “When<br />

someone says, ‘let me know if you<br />

need my help,’ I don’t know what<br />

to say. I am so overwhelmed I don’t<br />

know where to start. Some<br />

things that you could do is<br />

perhaps deliver a meal to the<br />

hospital or house when a parent<br />

is with a sick child. Or<br />

hang out and keep that person<br />

company at the hospital.<br />

Little things go a long way.”<br />

With this responsibility as<br />

a mom, so many people have<br />

turned to these women for advice<br />

and support and they are<br />

all too happy to help. “Kids<br />

with disabilities are here and<br />

they are not going away. It is<br />

not taboo,” said Lisa. “This is<br />

about acceptance no matter<br />

the race or religion. These<br />

kids are here.”<br />

With medical advancements,<br />

people with disabilities,<br />

birth defects and other<br />

health issues are living longer<br />

lives and enjoying a better<br />

quality of life than years prior.<br />

“Ask your doctor for information. Do<br />

your research and be your child’s advocate,”<br />

Lisa said.<br />

“My advice to other parents is to<br />

celebrate your child no matter the<br />

challenge, to stay strong, be positive,<br />

patient and never ask why,” said<br />

Sandra. “Take it day by day. Raising a<br />

child with a disability is a challenging<br />

but wonderful gift that allows us to<br />

learn as we go. I couldn’t be any happier<br />

having such a beautiful girl that<br />

God has given me. Never compare<br />

your child to others because every<br />

parent has their own struggles raising<br />

a child, disability or not. Leave it all<br />

in God’s hands.”<br />

“In so many ways our community<br />

needs to change,” said Anita. “A lot<br />

of families look down on kids with<br />

illnesses and cancer and they try to<br />

keep it secret and not be open and<br />

deal with it themselves. To me, that<br />

is not the way to go about it.”<br />

She encourages families to share<br />

their stories.<br />

“I hear a lot of stories and people<br />

are so afraid to tell people that they<br />

have a sick child. Moms call me all<br />

the time. I recently heard about a<br />

mom with a baby who had cancer and<br />

she didn’t want anyone to know and<br />

then finally she started a Go Fund Me<br />

page. I give her a lot of credit because<br />

I know it is not easy to ask for help,”<br />

Anita said. “I encourage families to<br />

share their stories and ask for prayers.<br />

We all can use prayers. We all need<br />

help. Ask for it. I don’t see any benefit<br />

in suffering alone.”<br />

New Communion<br />

Classes<br />

St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic<br />

Diocese is starting a communion<br />

class for children ages 10 and<br />

older with special needs. Classes<br />

will be held on Saturdays from 10<br />

a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Professionals<br />

who work with special needs<br />

children will assist teachers with<br />

special needs experience.<br />

There will be different levels<br />

of classes depending on the<br />

abilities of each student. If your<br />

child is 25 and hasn’t taken communion,<br />

he or she is more than<br />

welcome to join. Learn more by<br />

calling Fr. Pierre at Mother of<br />

God, (248) 356-0565.<br />

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Fr. Douglas shows the bloody shirt he<br />

wore in captivity.<br />

Fr. Douglas Bazi poses at WJR with Rafed Yaldo, Frank Beckmann and Basil Bacall.<br />

lived to tell<br />

Iraq’s Fr. Douglas impresses local community<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

He survived being kidnapped,<br />

beaten, shot and a bomb explosion<br />

near his church by<br />

Islamic fanatics; he lived not only<br />

to tell about it but to inspire the displaced<br />

Christians he lives among in<br />

Erbil, Iraq, and those he depends on<br />

for help living in the United States.<br />

Upon first meeting Fr. Douglas<br />

Bazi, he appears to be a priest living a<br />

happy and comfortable life. He walks<br />

around with a smile on his face, engages<br />

in communication that often includes<br />

him uttering humorous one liners,<br />

and exudes joy wherever he goes.<br />

Once he begins talking about<br />

Iraq, his life experiences and the status<br />

of his fellow Christians, a sense<br />

of urgency takes hold. “My people<br />

need help,” said Fr. Douglas to the<br />

many talk show hosts, reporters and<br />

community members he met while<br />

visiting the Metro Detroit area last<br />

month as a guest of the St. Thomas<br />

Chaldean Catholic Diocese.<br />

Many community members became<br />

aware of the priest through<br />

Rafed Yaldo’s Facebook posts describing<br />

his visits to Erbil and spending<br />

time inside what Fr. Douglas likes<br />

to call his center and not a camp. He<br />

lives among 560 displaced people.<br />

They moved from living on the<br />

streets to tents and now in 3-by-6-<br />

foot caravans. In some cases more<br />

than eight people are living in the<br />

same space.<br />

During his many media interviews<br />

and community conversations<br />

here in the United States, it became<br />

apparent that Fr. Douglas replaced<br />

political correctness with biblical<br />

correctness, and was what many<br />

would describe as uncomfortably<br />

honest about the climate in Iraq.<br />

“We cannot live peacefully<br />

among people who are taught to hate<br />

us for our religion,” said Fr. Douglas.<br />

“This is their belief: that we are infidels<br />

and our heads should be cut off.”<br />

When kidnapped in 2006, Fr.<br />

Douglas was tortured for nine days<br />

and ridiculed by his captures, who often<br />

threatened to cut his head off and<br />

replace it with a dog’s head because<br />

that is what he is — a dog, an infidel.<br />

While he was tortured by day, he<br />

ministered to his fellow captures by<br />

night who often asked for his advice<br />

and at times even forgiveness.<br />

“I truly believe that if one part of<br />

the constitution in Iraq would change<br />

that would give the people freedom of<br />

religion, Islam would be the minority,”<br />

said Fr. Douglas, who was released<br />

when the Church paid a ransom.<br />

Fr. Douglas has witnessed the persecution<br />

of Christians his entire life,<br />

having been born and raised in Iraq.<br />

Despite the chance to move to a European<br />

country where he has been<br />

welcomed, he insists on staying in<br />

Iraq to help his people.<br />

“I wish I had good news to report,”<br />

Fr. Douglas told Teresa Tomeo,<br />

host of Catholic Connection on Ave<br />

Mario radio. “What the media reports<br />

is only about 2 percent of reality.<br />

The situation in Iraq is crazy.”<br />

There is no end in sight. “People<br />

are wondering how long this will<br />

take,” said Fr. Douglas. “In one day<br />

we received 120,000 people from<br />

Mosul. “This will take at least 15 to<br />

20 years to resolve.”<br />

Families are homeless, jobless and<br />

hopeless. “I look at their faces,” said<br />

Fr. Douglas. “As a priest I am prepared<br />

for all kinds of sadness, but what has<br />

happened here is hard to prepare for<br />

and to answer their many questions as<br />

to why this is happening.”<br />

What they are not is bitter with<br />

God. “No one blames God in Iraq,”<br />

Fr. Douglas explained to hosts of Invitation<br />

to Sisterhood, a one-hour<br />

Catholic program produced by Mar<br />

Toma Chaldean Productions. The<br />

show will air on the Catholic Television<br />

Network of Detroit. “They<br />

blame man. What disappoints our<br />

people in Iraq is the feeling they<br />

have been forgotten.”<br />

He continued the conversation in<br />

the radio studio at WJR with Frank<br />

Beckmann. “Be our voice. Help us<br />

and save us. I will say 100 times that<br />

I am proud to be Iraqi. I am proud<br />

to be a Christian Chaldean Catholic<br />

but I am not proud of my country.<br />

They don’t want us there.”<br />

Fr. Douglas also came to the United<br />

States to share with the community<br />

three priority issues. Christians in Iraq<br />

need permanent housing, “a place to<br />

call home,” he told Bishop Francis and<br />

his advisory committee. “They need to<br />

be educated and have schools or centers<br />

for studies and activities.”<br />

There are approximately 8,500<br />

primary and secondary students currently<br />

without any formal education.<br />

There is a disconnect and gaps in education.<br />

One major hurdle is the curriculum<br />

between Arabic and Kurdistan.<br />

The last thing needed, said Fr.<br />

Douglas, is good healthcare.<br />

Fr. Douglas acknowledged and<br />

thanked the community and the<br />

various committees for their support<br />

and effort to help the Christians in<br />

Iraq. He also visited many places including<br />

the Diocese, the Chaldean<br />

American Ladies of Charity, the<br />

Chaldean Community Foundation<br />

and with members of the various<br />

committees TEACH, MERCI and<br />

JUSTICE.<br />

He and Yaldo also took a trip to<br />

Washington, D.C., where they met<br />

with a delegation to discuss the current<br />

situation and find new avenues<br />

for help and support. Fr. Douglas<br />

showed them the shirt he wore when<br />

he was kidnapped and beaten.<br />

Despite knowing that the Muslim<br />

community wants the Christians<br />

out, Fr. Douglas won’t abandoned his<br />

people. “I love my people,” he said. “I<br />

will not leave them.”<br />

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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29


sister to sister<br />

Dominicans continue their support of Iraq<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

The Dominican Sisters of Adrian continued<br />

to show their support for their counterparts<br />

in Iraq with a one-year anniversary commemoration<br />

of the ISIS invasion on August 6 and<br />

a new fundraising campaign.<br />

On August 6, 2014 the Iraqi Dominican sisters<br />

of St. Catherine of Siena of Iraq swiftly scurried out<br />

of their convents in Qaraqosh and other neighboring<br />

villages to begin their lengthy and disturbing<br />

escape. With nothing more than the habits they<br />

were wearing, they finally reached safety in the<br />

Kurdish capital of Erbil after 10 elongated hours.<br />

Normally a 50-minute drive, the roads were congested<br />

with tens of thousands of Christians, Yazidis<br />

and other religious minorities also fleeing.<br />

Dominican sisters from all over the country<br />

attended the event, which began at 3:30 p.m. at<br />

the Motherhouse in Adrian with the sounding of a<br />

bell followed by a moment of silence. Sr. Attracta<br />

Kelly, prioress of the Adrian Congregation, read a<br />

letter from Sr. Maria Hanna, prioress of the Iraqi<br />

a teacher and social worker, is now on sabbatical<br />

presenting about Iraq.<br />

“We have a great connection and affection for<br />

the Dominican sisters in Iraq,” she said. “We pray<br />

for them and the Christian community and other<br />

ethnic groups chased out by ISIS.”<br />

Ten young Iraqi sisters have lived, studied, and<br />

ministered with the Adrian-based community in the<br />

past 10 years. The last one just completed her training<br />

as a physician’s assistant and returned to Iraq in May<br />

to serve her people. A couple of other recent graduates<br />

are teachers who went back to open schools.<br />

After the prayer service in Adrian, participants<br />

signed postcards to Secretary of State John Kerry,<br />

urging him to increase funding for humanitarian assistance<br />

for the internally displaced people (IDPs) of<br />

Iraq and for Iraqi refugees in neighboring countries.<br />

The card read, “The United States bears a profound<br />

responsibility to assist the Iraqi people in this time of<br />

continuing crisis.” There was also a small art gallery<br />

featuring the work of Iraqi children.<br />

The Adrian Dominicans also launched their<br />

“1000 Cranes for Iraq” campaign that will support<br />

Iraqi refugee relief efforts. Created by Sr. Barbara<br />

Cervenka, an artist, it is based on the legend made<br />

famous by a 2-year-old Japanese girl, Sadako Sasaki,<br />

who was exposed to radiation from the atomic bomb<br />

that blasted Hiroshima in 1945 (coincidentally on<br />

August 6). She was diagnosed with leukemia 10 years<br />

later and was given no more than a year to live. Inspired<br />

by a legend that one who makes a thousand<br />

origami cranes will be granted a wish, she set out<br />

to fold 1,000 cranes in prayer for health and world<br />

peace. She made 1,300 before she died at age 12, and<br />

surviving family members have donated some of her<br />

cranes to important memorials around the world, including<br />

New York City’s 9/11 and Pearl Harbor.<br />

The hope is that these paintings of origami<br />

cranes will also inspire world peace. Sr. Barbara has<br />

already painted 160 herself, and a few other sisters/<br />

artists are also donating their art to the project.<br />

They estimate it will take about three years to complete<br />

1,000 crane paintings, and they know their<br />

Iraqi Sisters desperately need the funds they’ll raise.<br />

“We are a conduit to send money to help them,”<br />

said Sr. Dusty. “We try to keep the public informed<br />

because who else will?”<br />

To purchase a crane painting, visit<br />

1000CranesForIraq.org.<br />

congregation, describing their current situation:<br />

“Our hearts are filled with sadness and overwhelming<br />

grief. We wait but we get nothing, we<br />

think but do not understand. What is next? No one<br />

knows. Where are we going? Everyone is lost. Yes, we<br />

do have shelter but our hearts are anxious and the relationships<br />

are truly troubled and the reality is bitter.”<br />

The sisters then walked in silent procession<br />

to St. Catherine Chapel and joined in common<br />

prayer that was created for use by all Dominican<br />

congregations in the United States. They carried<br />

large, blown-up pictures of the Iraqi-Chaldean<br />

community taken by Sr. Durstyne Farnan, who<br />

went on a mission trip there in January. Sr. Dusty,<br />

Recounting the Terror<br />

Sr. Maria Hanna, prioress of the Dominican Sisters’ Iraqi congregation, recalls fleeing ISIS on August 6,<br />

2014, in a letter that reads in part:<br />

“It was really a dark night when we left, not knowing what to take with us or what to leave behind.<br />

Christians were everywhere on the road, not knowing what direction they should take. The shadow of<br />

ISIS’s hatred surrounded everything, and we understood little of what was happening. When we eventually<br />

arrived in Kurdistan, many people were homeless in the street; they were like sheep without a<br />

shepherd. After a few days in Erbil, we realized that our towns in the Plain of Nineveh had been taken<br />

by ISIS, and our return became a distant and uncertain dream. To add insult to injury, it was not only<br />

ISIS that increased our loss and our anguish, but also our non-Christian neighbors, our friends in the<br />

neighboring villages, whom we served, taught, and gave treatment — they betrayed us in times of trouble<br />

and crisis.”<br />

30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>


cultivating<br />

possibilities<br />

Celebrating our cultural diversity and honoring those<br />

who plant the seeds of possibility in our communities and in our world.<br />

<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31


no picnic<br />

Dating over 30 can be tricky<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

Rosa Kizy Stockel was not about<br />

to wait for a husband to begin<br />

her life. The elementary<br />

Spanish teacher has a large circle of<br />

friends, many hobbies and bought her<br />

own house 10 years ago. But she still<br />

hoped to find that special someone.<br />

Having no luck meeting eligible<br />

single men on her own, she signed<br />

up for the online dating service<br />

match.com – something she confesses<br />

her father, who still couldn’t<br />

understand why she wanted to live<br />

on her own — never knew.<br />

“I didn’t want to meet people in a<br />

bar, though I’m not sure this is that<br />

much different,” Stockel said of online<br />

dating. “I have a couple of friends<br />

who met their spouses on dating sites<br />

and they encouraged me to do it.”<br />

It was hardly an instant success<br />

and Stockel met her share of creeps.<br />

“One guy kind of stalked me; he kept<br />

calling and calling and once he called<br />

me at 3 a.m. Another tried to convince<br />

me to send him money. Somehow<br />

he got my address and sent me<br />

a dozen roses, which freaked me out,”<br />

she said. “The rest were just a bunch<br />

of bad frogs. I was at the point of frustration<br />

where I thought, I am giving<br />

up on this forever. I actually took a lot<br />

of breaks, sometimes for six months.”<br />

But two years ago, at age 46, she<br />

met James Stockel through Match.<br />

“It was love at first sight for him but<br />

it took me more time. I had to really<br />

get to know him,” she said. After<br />

she introduced him to her family –<br />

an all-important aspect of Chaldean<br />

culture — “he got along with everyone<br />

so well that it made me<br />

comfortable.”<br />

Stockel did not mind that<br />

James isn’t Chaldean, as long<br />

as he is Catholic. The two were<br />

married a year ago.<br />

“My parents had known for<br />

a long time that I just can’t get<br />

along with Chaldean guys. I dated<br />

two or three but I don’t like<br />

the machismo and the chauvinism,”<br />

she said. “James and I<br />

discussed things before we got<br />

married, that I was not going to<br />

be one of these girls who forget<br />

their friends when they get married.<br />

A lot of Chaldeans think<br />

their spouse is their life.”<br />

Public relations executive<br />

Eric Younan, 42, said he’s also<br />

had issues with dating Chaldeans.<br />

“One of the things I struggled<br />

with is that Chaldean women have a<br />

tendency to live at home until they<br />

are married. I wanted to date someone<br />

close to my age, but these girls still<br />

Rosa Kizy and James Stockel on their wedding day.<br />

lived at home in their 30s and even<br />

40s,” said Younan, who is currently<br />

in a serious relationship with a non-<br />

Chaldean. “They didn’t have a proper<br />

perspective on life because they are<br />

not going to settle for less than they<br />

have. They probably live in a ‘macmansion’<br />

on Cass Lake and they want<br />

that same lifestyle. I can’t match that.<br />

And I have found that to be unique to<br />

the Chaldean community.”<br />

Unlike some men, he actually prefers<br />

a woman near his age. “Women in<br />

their 30s and up know themselves and<br />

choose a mate who has also found himself.<br />

I honestly think women in their<br />

30s, 40s and 50s are the best looking<br />

because they are now confident and<br />

comfortable in their own skin. They<br />

own the quirks that in their 20s they<br />

were trying to overcome.”<br />

But one 33-year-old woman, who<br />

asked to remain anonymous, said she’s<br />

experienced the exact opposite. “The<br />

men who are in their late 30s, early<br />

40s are looking for a 20-year-old wife,”<br />

she said. “I wonder how they will really<br />

establish a full life full of love and<br />

communication with an age gap.”<br />

This dating veteran is also weary<br />

of the emphasis on material items<br />

that sometimes can dominate relationships.<br />

“The amount of pressure<br />

the community has put on, these<br />

expectations of needing a $50,000<br />

ring and a $100,000 wedding, is<br />

crazy,” she said. “What man is going<br />

to want to get married when they<br />

think every girl needs this stuff? I<br />

can only speak for myself and I am<br />

looking for far more as far as loyalty,<br />

respect, trust and communication –<br />

the important things.”<br />

She’s has also run into a challenge<br />

somewhat unique to the Chaldean<br />

community: parents who disapprove<br />

of one’s family village in Iraq. She<br />

said that prejudice from a boyfriend’s<br />

mother helped end their four-year<br />

relationship. Then, rubbing salt in<br />

the wound, an older Chaldean<br />

man she met at a coffee shop one<br />

snowy morning at Christmastime<br />

expressed the same sentiment.<br />

At first the kindly man asked<br />

her, “How is a girl as beautiful as<br />

you single?” and wanted to set her<br />

up with his son. But when she<br />

told him her last name and family<br />

village, he said, “That’s the<br />

problem, that’s why you’re not<br />

married.”<br />

The woman was astounded. “I<br />

was in so much shock that my tears<br />

were running down my face before<br />

I hit the door,” she said. “I thought,<br />

is it possible I haven’t found someone<br />

because of this issue? The older<br />

generation is brutal.”<br />

Though she tries to stay positive,<br />

this woman admits to feeling<br />

discouraged. “I am just over it all.<br />

I don’t lack in anything. I am educated,<br />

beautiful, independent and<br />

a very devout Catholic,” she said. “I<br />

trust in the Lord and I know there’s<br />

a plan.”<br />

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The living room<br />

has seen many<br />

a community<br />

gathering.<br />

if these walls could talk<br />

Historic home has Chaldean charisma<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

You can see this exquisite gem of a home in<br />

Pleasant Ridge when you are traveling south<br />

on Woodward towards Ferndale. The nearly<br />

5,000-square-foot Mediterranean revival colonial,<br />

with its signature burgundy roof and accents and<br />

white pillars, has been home to Sabah (Summa)<br />

Hermiz for nearly 40 years, but now he’s<br />

ready to downsize.<br />

3 Poplar Park has had three owners,<br />

two of whom were Chaldean. It was built<br />

in 1928 by an Italian family who lived<br />

there until sometime in the late 40s or early<br />

50s. Joe and Reema Atchoo purchased<br />

it and raised four sons: Edward, Pete, Jerry<br />

and Ray.<br />

Joe Atchoo was an influential businessman<br />

– a sort of “Mike George of the mid-<br />

20th century” — who had the means to<br />

purchase such a grand home, and its location<br />

was considered far from where Michigan’s<br />

few hundred Chaldeans lived at the<br />

time, about four miles away in the Detroit/<br />

Highland Park area.<br />

At that time, cars did not have heat or<br />

even windows, and the fastest they went<br />

was 35 miles an hour. In the winter, car<br />

travelers would wear four of five blankets<br />

over them, so the trek to the Atchoos was somewhat<br />

of an inconvenience. Yet Joe’s and Reema’s<br />

generosity and hospitality more than made up for<br />

it; they were known for having lots of gatherings<br />

with homemade food and great company.<br />

Joe Atchoo, a pioneer among the first Chaldeans<br />

to immigrate to Detroit, did not know how<br />

to read or write very well, but had common sense<br />

and helped a lot of people anonymously. He was<br />

known to let his customers get groceries and pay<br />

him later when they had the money. He started<br />

with nothing in order to build something splendid<br />

for his kids and their kids.<br />

3 Poplar Park has been home to Chaldeans for some sixty years.<br />

Sally Yono worked for the Atchoo family as a<br />

young teenager when she first came to the U.S. Her<br />

father, Gorgis Loussia, and Joe were best friends.<br />

She would often sleep over the Atchoos so they<br />

could take her with them to work in the morning.<br />

She recalled a story Reema, whom she described<br />

as “nice and elegant,” once told her about a visit to<br />

the house by King Faisal II of Iraq sometime in the<br />

mid-50s. The king was about 20 years old, and he<br />

wanted to meet with the Chaldean community in<br />

Detroit. The Atchoos hosted him and other dignitaries,<br />

including a priest from New York who conducted<br />

mass at the house. (There were no Chaldean<br />

churches at the time so mass was celebrated<br />

there sometimes when a priest came to town.)<br />

Sally said her father and Joe talked about King<br />

Faisal’s trip all the time, including their visit to<br />

Belle Isle, where they took pictures in front of<br />

the fountain. They always recalled him sitting on<br />

a couch in front of the bay window in the living<br />

room, young and humble and full of promise, not<br />

knowing he would be killed by his own countrymen<br />

shortly after returning to Iraq.<br />

In 1976, Sabah and his wife Kathie bought the<br />

house. They already had two sons, Laith and Faris,<br />

and soon welcomed Sabah’s father, sister and three<br />

brothers to live with them upon their arrival to the<br />

U.S. from Iraq. Sabah and Kathie had one more<br />

son, Shawn. It was a full house.<br />

Like the Atchoos, the Hermiz family hosted<br />

many gatherings like their yearly Christmas get-together<br />

with all the extended family. Sabah vividly<br />

remembers the kids running into the kitchen, grabbing<br />

for that drawer with the little toys and candy<br />

in it, that drawer that never sat right on the hinges<br />

because it was the first place the kids would dash<br />

to, in between the hustle and bustle of the women<br />

preparing dinner. In that same kitchen, his Polish<br />

wife Kathie took to learning how to make traditional<br />

Chaldean food.<br />

The dining room table not only served a place<br />

to eat, but as a drawing board for many community<br />

organizations like the Iraqi-American Architect<br />

and Engineers Association and the Iraqi-American<br />

Graduate Association, which were active until<br />

about the mid-‘80s. Sabah, an engineer<br />

and owner of Summa Engineering and<br />

Associates, welcomed anybody who had a<br />

fondness for improving the lives of Chaldean<br />

people.<br />

Sabah’s sons are grown and on their<br />

own, and Kathie passed away a few years<br />

ago. Her picture graces a wall in the living<br />

room, opposite the vintage-tiled fireplace.<br />

She is wearing a kuchma, a traditional Chaldean<br />

headdress, during a visit to Telkaif. All<br />

of her sewing supplies are still in a room upstairs.<br />

Their sons’ soccer trophies line the<br />

foyer table, and there are pictures of them<br />

and their own kids in the dining room.<br />

The plaster moldings, coves, and medallions<br />

are perfect, with an accentuating<br />

charm fit for families who, like the<br />

Atchoos and Hermizes, worked hard for<br />

everything they have achieved. That is the<br />

kind of owner Sabah is looking for.<br />

Now that he has remarried, Sabah may split his<br />

time between Michigan and Florida. He hopes that<br />

another Chaldean family will buy the house to carry<br />

the traditions that have ornamented the home<br />

all these years. He is proud of 3 Poplar Park, which<br />

has that Chaldean charisma that cannot be found<br />

in any other home in Metro Detroit.<br />

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where’s<br />

the beef?<br />

Shawarma is hot, hot, hot<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

From above: Genie’s Hassan Abbas works the grill. Sinan Shallal and a big platter of freshly prepared meat<br />

at Genie Grill.<br />

Last December, two restaurants that opened for business<br />

introduced a new concept to the way Middle<br />

Eastern sandwiches are made – customers can choose<br />

their own toppings, be it lettuce and tomatoes or humus<br />

and turshi.<br />

Shawarma Grill, at 29555 Northwestern Highway in<br />

Southfield, opened its doors on December 9, 2014. Genie<br />

Mediterranean Grill, on 40768 Ryan Road in Sterling<br />

Heights, was launched nine days later. The owners were<br />

not aware of each other’s ventures, but now people from<br />

both the Eastside and the Westside can enjoy food prepared<br />

in a way similar to Subway or Boston Market.<br />

“We got this idea from a Middle Eastern restaurant in<br />

New York,” said Steve Shaya, manager of Genie Mediterranean<br />

Grill. “But the concept is 100 percent American<br />

and it started in the early 1900s in hospital cafeterias.”<br />

Shaya has been in the restaurant business for more than<br />

20 years when he worked for Saad Attisah at Sahara Restaurant.<br />

The first hospital built in the United States, he said,<br />

had the type of food setup where one starts off with the hot<br />

items, then the cold food, then the beverages and snacks.<br />

Ziad Battah of Shawarma Grill is a medical technologist<br />

who works in his field during the daytime and comes to<br />

the restaurant on some evenings. He started this business<br />

with his maternal uncle Nahil Kaskorkis. Kaskorkis runs<br />

the establishment and Battah manages it.<br />

While this is Battah’s first restaurant, Kaskorkis had several<br />

restaurants in Iraq, one called Al Saada (Happiness).<br />

He has also worked in a number of hotels. Kaskorkis came to<br />

the United States three years ago, bringing along his expertise<br />

in the restaurant business and his special recipes.<br />

“I came up with this idea and decided to invest in my<br />

uncle,” said Battah, smiling.<br />

On a recent Saturday afternoon, Shawarma bustled<br />

with customers who stood in front of the chef station,<br />

choosing which bread they wanted (flour or whole wheat<br />

tortilla, white or wheat pita bread) and then the different<br />

varieties of meats and vegetables.<br />

Two children who came in with their parents enjoyed<br />

the process and the food.<br />

“We get to order what we want in the sandwich,” said<br />

Malia Jarbo, 6. “I love the olives and the turshi.”<br />

“It’s like Subway,” said her brother Matthew, 9. “It’s not<br />

good — it’s amazing!”<br />

“People like that everything is made in front of them,”<br />

said Battah. “We don’t preheat or microwave anything.<br />

It’s made to order. A lot of Mediterranean restaurants<br />

don’t have the pit for the shawarma so they have a chef<br />

cook the meat in the morning and cut it up to be used<br />

throughout the day. Here, we take it from the skewer to<br />

your sandwich. It’s fresh.”<br />

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shawarma skewers. Milad Kaskorkis prepares vegetables at the Shawarma Grill<br />

Shawarma at home parties is a popular trend.<br />

Shawarma, also known as gus, is a<br />

Levantine Arab cuisine in which meat<br />

is roasted slowly on all sides as the spit<br />

rotates in front of a flame for hours.<br />

At Genie Mediterranean Grill,<br />

the meat averages between 200 to<br />

400 pounds, depending on the date<br />

and how busy they are. It’s so heavy<br />

that it requires two men and a crane<br />

to place it on the pit.<br />

“Using the crane makes the process<br />

safer and we have less drops,”<br />

said Shaya, who built the restaurant<br />

from scratch with his partner, Ghazwan<br />

Samona.<br />

“We bought the latest technology<br />

in our kitchen to prepare our food,”<br />

said Shaya. “We can slice a case of<br />

tomatoes or chop a case of lettuce in<br />

less than a minute. Because of our<br />

equipment, we can cook anything in<br />

less than five minutes. This includes<br />

making a 40-gallon tub of turshi in<br />

five minutes.”<br />

Included in Shawarma Grill’s full<br />

catering services is the shawarma<br />

skewer. As long as it’s not snowing, a<br />

chef will come to your house and cook<br />

a fifty-pound (or more) hunk of marinated<br />

meat outdoors. The charge is $11<br />

per pound and there’s a $200 set-up fee<br />

that includes the bread, four toppings<br />

of your choice and the sauces. The<br />

chef stays for four hours, cooking and<br />

shaving the meat into slices.<br />

Genie Grill does full catering too,<br />

but their skewer will only travel in<br />

their trailer. They have served more<br />

than 1,000 people at large events like<br />

the Chaldean Festival.<br />

Both restaurants also offer delivery.<br />

Genie has more than 20 employees,<br />

seven of whom are cooks: two in<br />

charge of the chicken and beef shawarma,<br />

two who do the kabobs, two<br />

who make the stews, and one who<br />

bakes bread three times a day.<br />

Upon entering the 5,000-squarefoot<br />

restaurant, customers are greeted<br />

with a sign that reads “Choose,<br />

Pay, Eat. Place your wish here.” Ten<br />

screens explain the menu, and 70<br />

percent of the foods on the menu are<br />

poured onto a dish and served. The<br />

other 30 percent are the meats that<br />

require being cut up, but they too are<br />

ready to order.<br />

Samona, Shaya’s partner, owns<br />

White Palace restaurant in Baghdad.<br />

He is currently in Iraq running<br />

the restaurant because with its 1,200<br />

seating and 200 employees, it’s especially<br />

busy during Ramadan.<br />

Shaya says that by fall, Genie<br />

will have patio seating outside where<br />

people can enjoy smoking hookah.<br />

He and his partner are building this<br />

business for their children to one day<br />

take over.<br />

“If they choose to, they can continue<br />

to operate it or open a franchise,”<br />

he said.<br />

<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 37


John Petrous shows off the Tappy Menu app.<br />

John Petrous<br />

shows off the<br />

Tappy Menu app.<br />

want fries with that?<br />

New app a godsend to the visually impaired<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

Being blind does not stop Ann<br />

Petrous from doing much. In<br />

fact, she recently moved into<br />

an apartment with another visually<br />

impaired friend. But needing to have<br />

the menu read to her in restaurants<br />

drives her crazy.<br />

“I like to go out to eat with friends<br />

who are blind and we don’t want to<br />

have to ask the waitress to read the<br />

menu,” she said. “We want to be as<br />

independent as possible.”<br />

Her brother John Petrous took<br />

that desire so seriously he invented a<br />

mobile app: Tappy Menu, which utilizes<br />

a Smartphone’s ability to read<br />

text aloud.<br />

“I got so excited when John told<br />

me the concept,” said Ann, 36. “I<br />

don’t like it that I can’t open the<br />

menu myself and take a look at it.<br />

People say, ‘what are you in the mood<br />

for?’ but I don’t always know what<br />

I’m in the mood for. Some menus are<br />

as big as bibles and it takes 500 years<br />

when people have to read it to me.”<br />

While restaurant menus are<br />

sometimes available on sites like<br />

Yelp and GrubHub, they are not designed<br />

to be compatible with Smartphones,<br />

John said. And visiting a restaurant’s<br />

website often doesn’t work<br />

because their online menus tend to<br />

be so cluttered with graphics and extraneous<br />

information they can crash<br />

the phone.<br />

Tappy Menu presents menus and<br />

nutritional information in a clean<br />

format that’s easy to understand.<br />

Sighted people can also use it to peruse<br />

a menu, or, if they forget their<br />

reading glasses, have it read to them.<br />

“It works flawlessly – we are not<br />

running into hiccups,” said John,<br />

who is 33 and lives in Commerce<br />

Township.<br />

The biggest trial has been getting<br />

companies to participate, even<br />

though there is no cost involved.<br />

“I contacted over 300 companies<br />

and a lot were saying, ‘what’s this<br />

now? We never thought of that,’”<br />

Ann said. But so far only eight –<br />

Panda Express, Tony Roma’s, Taco<br />

Cabana, Carvel, Orange Leaf, Spicy<br />

Pickle, Happy’s Pizza and Pizza Rustica<br />

— have signed up.<br />

“The bigger companies want<br />

the others to jump on it first,” Ann<br />

noted.<br />

John, an electrical engineer at<br />

Ford, is not discouraged.<br />

“Ten million people in the<br />

United States have some type of<br />

visual impairment and 365,000 are<br />

completely blind,” he said. “Going<br />

out to eat should be a pleasurable<br />

experience, not a frustrating one.<br />

I would hope these companies see<br />

it as a no-brainer. That is the main<br />

challenge, getting these companies<br />

on board.”<br />

Tappy Menu had a soft launch<br />

in January and went wide in July,<br />

attracting 500 users in its first<br />

month. John has fielded inquiries<br />

from Canada, the United Kingdom<br />

and Australia.<br />

“Our goal is to eventually take it<br />

to cover North America and then<br />

the UK,” he said. “We want this to<br />

be the biggest application that contains<br />

restaurant menus.”<br />

He hopes to one day make money<br />

from the app by having restaurants<br />

advertise promotions or coupons.<br />

“The goal is also to help as<br />

many blind people as I can,” John<br />

said. “One day Ann and I were having<br />

a conversation about how much<br />

we tip the waiter or waitress and<br />

she said, ‘it depends on how much<br />

patience they have with me.’ That<br />

really triggered something in me.<br />

I thought, it’s <strong>2015</strong> and for an app<br />

like this not to exist is amazing.”<br />

Ann is thrilled with the invention.<br />

“My brother is my rock,” she<br />

said. “He has always backed me up,<br />

even when we were fighting like<br />

brothers and sisters are supposed<br />

to. This has actually brought us a<br />

lot closer.”<br />

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BY JOSEPH ABRO<br />

Pope Francis, 79, will be making his first appearance in the<br />

United States this month. He’ll appear at the World Meeting<br />

of Families in Philadelphia and also plans stops in New York<br />

City and Washington, D.C. We asked a few bright young<br />

minds what they like best about this beloved Pope, and what<br />

they would ask him, given the chance.<br />

All of our amazing previous<br />

Popes showed their<br />

humbleness towards us,<br />

but Pope Francis, in my<br />

opinion, shows his humility<br />

in a different way, especially<br />

when he reaches out to<br />

us. He personally will call<br />

and hand write letters to<br />

his people himself, rather<br />

than have another person<br />

do it for him. That is what I<br />

like most about our Pope,<br />

his great humility. I would<br />

ask him, how can one<br />

make their prayer life stronger<br />

and what is it that you<br />

do to strengthen yours?<br />

– Bianca Kasto, 21<br />

Sterling Heights<br />

One thing I admire about<br />

Pope Francis is that he is<br />

a very humble man. Everywhere<br />

he’s been, he’s left<br />

a great impression. One<br />

thing that has stuck with<br />

me was when he was<br />

asked about the gay community<br />

and he said, “Who<br />

am I to judge?” If I ever<br />

had the chance to meet<br />

him I would ask him to<br />

ask all the millionaires in<br />

our country to contribute<br />

and donate to the poor.<br />

– Valerie Dallo, 20<br />

Troy<br />

What I admire the most<br />

about Pope Francis is<br />

his commitment towards<br />

world peace, and<br />

especially his successful<br />

efforts to foster peace<br />

between the U.S. and<br />

Cuba after 50 years of<br />

tension. If I could ask<br />

him anything, I would ask<br />

him, where do you see<br />

the public perception of<br />

Catholicism in the next<br />

10 years?<br />

– Austin Kallabat, 21<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

Pope Francis, with his<br />

humility, care and universal<br />

outreach, is a breath<br />

of fresh air. We should all<br />

be proud to have such an<br />

amazing man at the head<br />

of our Church. If I got to<br />

ask him one question, I<br />

would ask him what his<br />

are plans to increase<br />

youth interest and participation<br />

in the Church.<br />

– Fadi Sadik, 20<br />

Rochester Hills<br />

I like that Pope Francis<br />

seems to practice what<br />

he preaches in regards to<br />

rejecting wealth in favor<br />

of charity. I’d like to ask<br />

him why the church won’t<br />

change its stance on<br />

contraception despite his<br />

work with AIDS patients<br />

and the overwhelming<br />

consensus of the scientific<br />

community.<br />

– Justin Bahoora, 28<br />

Rochester Hills<br />

I admire Pope Francis’<br />

humbleness the most.<br />

My question to him<br />

would be about what his<br />

vision of God is.<br />

– Myrna Siba, 19<br />

Madison Heights<br />

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Building Community Scores a Bingo<br />

Jewish, Chaldean groups meet and mingle<br />

By Gail Katz<br />

Photos by Jerry Zolynsky<br />

An interfaith program was held June 29 at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />

Catholic Church in West Bloomfield, where nearly 100 Jews and<br />

Chaldeans of all ages came to honor senior citizens and celebrate<br />

the ongoing friendship and connection among the two communities.<br />

Fr. Andrew Seba kicked off the evening in the church’s sanctuary<br />

with some information about the history of Chaldeans. He pointed<br />

out some of the images in the sanctuary and their importance. He<br />

then introduced (in both English and Arabic) Rabbi Paul Yedwab<br />

from Temple Israel.<br />

Rabbi Yedwab gave a short history of Temple Israel in West<br />

Bloomfield, which will celebrate its 75th anniversary in 2016. He<br />

highlighted the similarities between the Jewish and Chaldean communities,<br />

emphasizing how both languages had their roots in Aramaic,<br />

the language of the Jewish prayer for the dead — the Kaddish.<br />

He also spoke about how both communities live together in West<br />

Bloomfield and Oakland County.<br />

Vanessa Denha Garmo, editor in chief of the Chaldean News, informed<br />

participants that she grew up in a mostly Jewish neighborhood<br />

and went to lots of bar and bat mitzvahs. Her grandparents<br />

came over from Iraq in the 1960s, and she shared humorous stories<br />

about her grandmother’s love of TV shows like General Hospital<br />

and The Young and the Restless — shows that seemed like real-life<br />

episodes to her. To Chaldean immigrants, family is so important, she<br />

said, as family members all live together in the same home upon arriving<br />

in the United States.<br />

Lois Shulman, an ombudsman for the senior Jewish community,<br />

spoke about how she volunteers much of her time with Jewish residents<br />

in nursing homes. Her emphasis was on respecting elders by<br />

listening to their stories and learning from their wisdom.<br />

Following the speakers, the group went to the social hall for<br />

some delicious Chaldean appetizers and tasty Jewish desserts. The<br />

social hall was set up for bingo, and Fr. Andrew and Rabbi Yedwab<br />

were an incredible comedy team as they called out the bingo numbers<br />

and gave away prizes.<br />

Afterward, Arthur Horwitz, publisher/executive editor of the<br />

Jewish News, underscored the wonderful feeling of friendship between<br />

the Jewish and Chaldean communities.<br />

He said he was proud to see that Building Community Initiative,<br />

started by the Jewish News and the Chaldean News about six years old,<br />

is still going strong today and successfully breaking down myths and<br />

stereotypes about each other while building respect and understanding.<br />

All were asked to bring school supplies for needy elementary<br />

students in Oakland County and Sterling Heights. Many of the<br />

guests packed these supplies into backpacks donated by Temple Israel<br />

and the Chaldean Community Foundation.<br />

Leaders of the event say they will continue to work to bring people<br />

together for joint social action projects; they believe bringing both<br />

communities together is a major step in bonding with each other.<br />

Gail Katz is co-chair of the Jewish Chaldean Social Action Committee,<br />

along with Rula Yono.<br />

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1. Fr. Andrew Seba (right) reacts to<br />

something funny said by Rabbi Paul Yedwab.<br />

2. Lining up for Chaldean and Jewish food.<br />

3. Norine Zimmer and Joey Kajy.<br />

4. Lois Shulman (left), Vanessa Denha<br />

Garmo and Sue Zoma.<br />

5. Feada Shaoni grabs pencils for the<br />

backpacks.<br />

6 Diane Okun and Laila Cohen load up<br />

backpacks.<br />

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ECONOMICS & enterprise<br />

Young Entrepreneur: ‘Donut’ Be Afraid to Dream<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

Chris Denha always liked donuts. He especially<br />

liked the St. Patrick’s Day donuts he<br />

saw in a hotel pop-up in Chicago about a<br />

year and a half ago. With their themed sprinkles<br />

and frosting, each one had some Irish flair.<br />

The idea stayed with Denha, so he traveled to<br />

different donut shops around the country, including<br />

Chicago, New York and Los Angeles, to glean<br />

inspiration for his new gourmet shop, Donut Bar,<br />

in Southfield.<br />

The 32-year-old Denha, who has a marketing<br />

and management degree from Wayne State University,<br />

brainstormed with local architect Jawan<br />

Matti. Matti intentionally created the shop’s interior<br />

to be a simple, fast-paced, check-out-all-thedonuts-while-you-are-in-line<br />

concept. There are<br />

three standing-only tables against the wall; otherwise,<br />

most people pick up their treats in an assembly-line<br />

fashion and eat them elsewhere.<br />

When Donut Bar first opened in July, Denha<br />

and his staff could not keep up with the demand,<br />

selling out after just three hours. Even upon making<br />

more and more donuts, customers continued to<br />

stream in, wowed at all the different kinds of sweet<br />

treats from cereal and candy-inspired to dessertstyled<br />

and regular glazed.<br />

“Our donuts are calorie-free because they are<br />

made with love,” Denha joked.<br />

He even flew in a donut specialist who stayed<br />

with them for five days, refining recipes and adding<br />

some, like his favorite and one of the bestsellers,<br />

the Tres Leche, a three-milk glazed donut<br />

topped with homemade whipped cream and<br />

fresh berries.<br />

A third-generation partner in the family-owned<br />

Franklin Market in Pontiac, Denha has made the<br />

donut shop a family business too. His sister Serena,<br />

he said, is the backbone, running the daily operations.<br />

His mother May offered some recipe ideas<br />

too, like the best-selling Strawberry Chantilly donut,<br />

a sort of sandwich with homemade whipped<br />

cream, fresh strawberries and powdered sugar.<br />

Donut Bar takes special orders for parties too —<br />

they are made a little bit smaller so they are easier<br />

to eat. At a recent wedding, guests finished 200 donuts<br />

in 15 minutes!<br />

Anyone hungry?<br />

Denha has some advice for other young entrepreneurs.<br />

“Go into it fearlessly and don’t get discouraged.<br />

Believe me, I’ve been there,” he said. “You just<br />

have to be willing to take a shot.”<br />

Donut Bar + Coffee is located at 29039 Southfield<br />

Road. Visit DonutBarDetroit.com.<br />

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events<br />

awake my soul<br />

PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />

The August 22 Awake My Soul was a hit with<br />

community members seeking a boost in their<br />

spirituality and faith. ECRC sponsored the event<br />

at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Warren.<br />

Activities included talks by Bishop Francis and<br />

Bishop Saad Sirop, a special program for kids,<br />

a Nizar Fares concert and midnight mass.<br />

48 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>


1. Archbishop Jibrael<br />

Kassab<br />

2. Asaad Kalasho<br />

3. David Enwyia, Manny<br />

Razoky, Antraneck<br />

Akrawi, Kriakoss Hanna<br />

4. Michael K. Khalil and<br />

Derek Adolf<br />

5. Nathan Kalasho<br />

and Madison Schools<br />

Superintendent Randy<br />

Speck<br />

6. Mohamad and Zainab<br />

Hamimi and Lauren<br />

Samona<br />

7. Calvin Proctor, Maria<br />

Joseph, Matyoss Joseph,<br />

Andre Dewalt Jr., Minra<br />

Joseph<br />

8. Assistant Principal<br />

Dr. Zena Najor, Sophia<br />

Shamoon, Lisa Mansour<br />

9. Mixing and mingling<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

4<br />

5<br />

6 7 8<br />

keys grace<br />

ribbon cutting<br />

PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />

Keys Grace Academy, the first charter school<br />

to offer Chaldean/Assyrian/Syriac language,<br />

culture and history, held its grand opening on<br />

August 6 in Madison Heights.<br />

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event<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

4<br />

5<br />

6<br />

7<br />

8<br />

9<br />

10<br />

project bismutha<br />

walk-a-thon<br />

1. Lukman Gyosif 2. Ayad, Sara, Miriam, Clara and Helena<br />

Abrou 3. Dr. Musib Gappy, Joanne Shamoun, Dr. Nahid Elyas<br />

and Patrick Alexander 4. Ashley Zaitouna, Irene Zaitouna,<br />

Jennifer Shamoun and Olivia Gabrail 5. Eva and Sal Jajjo<br />

6. Holly Romaya 7. Timothy Somero, Andy Gappy and Martin<br />

Manna 8. Haifa Kirma and Maysem Abbou 9. Lisa Kejbou,<br />

Sharon Hannawa, Idan Hannawa and Mae Hannawa<br />

10 and 11. Scenes from the day<br />

11<br />

PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />

Hundreds came out to Camp Chaldean on August 2 for the<br />

Third Annual Project Bismutha Walk-a-Thon. Participants<br />

enjoyed a stroll, lunch and a mass celebrated by Bishop<br />

Francis. More than $18,000 was raised to supply medications<br />

to displaced refugees inside Iraq.<br />

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