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CONTENTS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />
THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 12 ISSUE VIII<br />
on the cover<br />
22 SPECIAL KIDS, SPECIAL NEEDS<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
Raising children with challenges<br />
28<br />
features<br />
28 LIVED TO TELL<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
Iraq’s Fr. Douglas impresses local community<br />
departments<br />
8 FROM THE EDITOR<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
Inspired<br />
10 GUEST COLUMN<br />
BY RAMSAY F. DASS<br />
Divided we fall -- what next?<br />
12 NOTEWORTHY<br />
13 COMMUNITY BULLETIN BOARD<br />
14 IRAQ TODAY<br />
16 CHAI TIME<br />
18 RELIGION<br />
20 OBITUARIES<br />
44 ECONOMICS AND ENTERPRISE<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Young Entrepreneur: ‘Donut’<br />
Be Afraid to Dream<br />
46 CLASSIFIED ADS<br />
48 EVENTS<br />
36<br />
Awake My Soul<br />
Keys Grace Ribbon Cutting<br />
Project Bismutha Walkathon<br />
42<br />
30 SISTER TO SISTER<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Dominicans continue their support of Iraq<br />
32 NO PICNIC<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
Dating over 30 can be tricky<br />
34 IF THESE WALLS COULD TALK<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Historic home has Chaldean charisma<br />
36 WHERE’S THE BEEF?<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
Shawarma is hot, hot, hot<br />
38 WANT FRIES WITH THAT?<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
New app a godsend to the visually impaired<br />
40 CHALDEAN ON THE STREET<br />
BY JOSEPH ABRO<br />
What would you ask Pope Francis?<br />
building community<br />
42 SCORING A BINGO<br />
BY GAIL KATZ<br />
ON THE COVER:<br />
JUVOLLIA ABLAHAD AND<br />
SOPHIA AZZOU AT THE<br />
GARDEN AT SHRINE OF<br />
THE LITTLE FLOWER<br />
PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />
Jewish, Chaldean groups meet and mingle<br />
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Inspired<br />
We all come across<br />
people in life who<br />
truly inspire us. If<br />
you use the important communication<br />
tool of listening<br />
more than speaking, what<br />
these people share will have<br />
a deeper impact. I did a lot<br />
of listening this past month<br />
as I was truly fortunate to<br />
have interviewed some of<br />
the most inspiring people.<br />
I also carefully absorbed information<br />
I was reading as<br />
I conducted research for articles and<br />
read books for background.<br />
This month I was inspired to<br />
share these stories.<br />
Let’s first start with the cover story.<br />
I had the pleasure of interviewing<br />
four amazing moms. I greatly appreciate<br />
their willingness to share their<br />
stories that I know will inspire other<br />
families in similar situations.<br />
I know the feeling when you find<br />
out you’re pregnant. How exciting<br />
it is, especially when you have been<br />
trying for a while. For some parents<br />
that joy is clouded by news from doctors<br />
that something is wrong. Some<br />
parents find out during the pregnancy<br />
and others after. Regardless, the<br />
pain is still great.<br />
We share this story about raising<br />
children with challenges who bring<br />
their families great joy. Their strength,<br />
determination and faith inspire me,<br />
as do their children. I know Sophia<br />
Azzou personally and she is a bright,<br />
sweet and loving child. I admire Lisa<br />
for many reasons including her ability<br />
to look at the challenges she faces and<br />
turn them into opportunities.<br />
I met Julia Garmo once in person.<br />
Her presence lit up St. Thomas<br />
VANESSA<br />
DENHA-GARMO<br />
EDITOR IN CHIEF<br />
CO-PUBLISHER<br />
Church one July afternoon<br />
in 2014 when she came to<br />
visit for a prayer service in<br />
her honor in between medical<br />
treatments in New York.<br />
I admire Anita for her honesty<br />
and bravery for sharing<br />
Julia’s journey with all of us.<br />
I have never met Juvollia<br />
but it was a pleasure to interview<br />
her mom Sandra for<br />
the cover story. I felt such an<br />
instant connection as I was<br />
writing down her quotes and<br />
felt her pain and joy at the same time.<br />
We also share with you a sidebar<br />
story about a special artist all grown<br />
up and making a name for himself.<br />
They call him Noofi and his mom<br />
Amani couldn’t be prouder of her<br />
26-year-old eldest child, who was recently<br />
featured on Channel 4 for his<br />
artwork. I am so inspired by Amani,<br />
who encourages other parents in similar<br />
situations to be strong and have<br />
faith “because with every disability<br />
there is a gift, so search for this gift in<br />
your son or daughter.”<br />
These moms taught this mom the<br />
importance of being your child’s advocate<br />
no matter the situation.<br />
This month I was inspired to be a<br />
better mom.<br />
Then I met Fr. Douglas Bazi. To<br />
say he inspired me would be an understatement.<br />
He moved me to become a<br />
better Christian. There are no words<br />
really to describe listening to his testimony,<br />
which I had the opportunity<br />
to do several times this past month.<br />
I interviewed him twice, sat in on a<br />
meeting and set up media interviews<br />
for him. What inspired me the most<br />
was the joy he exuded. This was one<br />
of those moments where I needed to<br />
open my ears, close my mouth, put<br />
down my cell phone and give someone<br />
my full attention. I knew he was going<br />
to say things God wanted me to hear.<br />
I encourage you to read his story.<br />
Then do a quick Internet search and<br />
listen to interviews and watch his<br />
talks anywhere you can find them.<br />
Fr. Bazi’s testimony is also on line.<br />
I promise he will inspire you in the<br />
way you need to be inspired.<br />
This month I was inspired to find joy.<br />
My friend and colleague Teresa<br />
Tomeo sent me a fun and motivational<br />
read inside a very clever marketing<br />
pitch — yep, a purse. She has penned<br />
a new book, which I write about on<br />
the religion page of this issue. It is perfectly<br />
designed to carry around with<br />
you, which I do inside the very purse<br />
she sent it in, and it is now always in<br />
my car because I read it while waiting.<br />
I sat and read it while waiting for my<br />
daughter at gymnastics and ice skating.<br />
I took it with me while I waited in<br />
the car for my daughter at camp. It is a<br />
handy manuscript that every woman<br />
should own.<br />
I also was mailed a copy of Matthew<br />
Kelley’s book, Rediscover Jesus,<br />
which is a MUST read for all Christians.<br />
It is truly an inspirational message<br />
about getting to know Jesus better.<br />
Kelley is quickly becoming one<br />
of my favorite speakers and authors.<br />
This month I was inspired to<br />
learn.<br />
What inspires you?<br />
Alaha Imid Koullen<br />
(God Be With Us All)<br />
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GUEST column<br />
Divided we fall — what next?<br />
The time has come<br />
for His Holiness<br />
Pope Francis to<br />
hold an extraordinary<br />
emergency meeting in the<br />
Vatican with invitees from<br />
all the Middle East heads<br />
of Christian communities<br />
— church and laity<br />
— along with the foreign<br />
ministers of the United<br />
States of America, Europe<br />
and the Middle East. The<br />
meeting should have one agenda: the<br />
present and future existence of the<br />
Middle East Christians in countries<br />
such as Iraq, Syria, Egypt, Lebanon<br />
and Jordan, with a precise timetable<br />
and hopeful outcome.<br />
Throughout history, the presence<br />
of Christians and Christianity in the<br />
Middle East has been at the whims<br />
of rulers of the Middle East — those<br />
who befriended them and those who<br />
persecuted them but who have never<br />
RAMSAY F. DASS<br />
SPECIAL TO THE<br />
CHALDEAN NEWS<br />
been able to eliminate<br />
them ... until now.<br />
During these perilous<br />
times, Middle East Christian<br />
leadership has sometimes<br />
been its own worst<br />
enemy, with inter-denominational,<br />
inter-cultural,<br />
and inter-geopolitical<br />
squabbles. Throughout<br />
my conversations with<br />
the majority of the Middle<br />
East Christians’ hierarchy,<br />
from Cardinals to Patriarchs to<br />
Bishops and other church leaders, all<br />
have agreed that these divisions have<br />
weakened us and must end.<br />
The world still looks to Pope<br />
Francis as the moral authority. As a<br />
shepherd must protect his flock, he<br />
has been candid, courageous and<br />
outspoken, whether during the Armenian<br />
Genocide or other occasions<br />
of Christian global persecution.<br />
The Middle East is a special spot<br />
in the history of Christianity. The<br />
Middle East Christians are the ones<br />
who spread Christianity all over the<br />
world. They are the main vine that<br />
extends its branches all over the<br />
world.<br />
Pope Francis must now rethink<br />
and develop new approaches, including,<br />
but not limited to, inviting all<br />
the heads of the Middle East Christian<br />
churches — Catholics, Orthodox,<br />
Protestant and others — with a<br />
few other lay leaders who have been<br />
active in this field. In a closed and<br />
continuous session they can come<br />
up with a few ideas on how to deal<br />
Pope Francis must now rethink and develop<br />
new approaches, including, but not limited<br />
to, inviting all the heads of the Middle East<br />
Christian churches.<br />
with the new realities. Maybe he is<br />
the only person who can succeed in<br />
this endeavor and save Christians<br />
and Christianity in the Middle East.<br />
When Christians come together<br />
and act together, the world will listen.<br />
If the church leadership does<br />
not rise to the occasion, then the laypeople<br />
at large should act and make<br />
their voices heard. If not, then all of<br />
us should be blamed for our demise<br />
— and nobody else.<br />
Ramsay F. Dass, M.D., is president<br />
of the American Middle East Christian<br />
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noteworthy<br />
Off-Duty Cop Killed in<br />
Motorcycle Crash<br />
Ronnie Karjo, a Harper Woods police<br />
officer, was killed in a motorcycle<br />
crash August 3 in Chesterfield Township,<br />
just minutes from his home.<br />
Karjo, 46, of Macomb Township,<br />
was killed when his motorcycle collided<br />
with a car just before 10 p.m. on<br />
Gratiot Avenue. Chesterfield Township<br />
police say Karjo was traveling<br />
southbound when he was struck by<br />
a car traveling northbound that was<br />
making a turn into a gas station.<br />
Karjo was transported to McLaren<br />
Macomb Hospital where he died<br />
from his injuries. The driver of the<br />
car is a 21-year-old resident of Chesterfield<br />
Township who was treated<br />
for minor injuries.<br />
Karjo had been a police officer<br />
for 19 years during which he worked<br />
as an officer with the Inkster Police<br />
Department. He was with the Harper<br />
Woods Police Department for two<br />
years, said Chief Jim Burke. He is<br />
survived by a wife and four children.<br />
Karjo will be remembered at the<br />
Harper Woods department as a man<br />
who mentored younger officers.<br />
“He made a huge impact in the<br />
community. We’re really feeling it,”<br />
said Burke. “He has been in law enforcement<br />
for over 21 years and his<br />
dedication, compassion and willingness<br />
to share his experience and<br />
knowledge with our younger officers<br />
was invaluable.”<br />
“I get a lot of joy from helping<br />
those who can’t defend or help<br />
themselves,” Karjo told the Chaldean<br />
News in 2008 as part of a cover<br />
story on Chaldean law enforcement<br />
officers.<br />
What, Karjo was asked, makes a<br />
good cop?<br />
“Chaldeans approach me about<br />
this all the time. I tell them they<br />
can’t get into trouble – stay in school<br />
and have no arrests,” he replied.<br />
“Ninety-nine percent of being a good<br />
cop is common sense – if you have<br />
that, you can get through anything.”<br />
Services were handled by EJ<br />
Mandziuk and Son Funeral Home in<br />
Sterling Heights. After a mass at St.<br />
George Chaldean Catholic Church,<br />
Karjo was buried at White Chapel<br />
Cemetery.<br />
Click On Detroit and the Detroit News<br />
contributed to this report<br />
West Bloomfield<br />
Clerk Calls for<br />
Millage Review<br />
During the August 17 West Bloomfield<br />
Township Board Meeting, Clerk<br />
Catherine Shaughnessy stated that a<br />
Special Meeting was needed to assess<br />
the township’s financial condition.<br />
She moved to table the approval of<br />
the 2016 Tax Year millage rate until<br />
further analysis of the Township’s 10<br />
Year Projection.<br />
“The revenue predictions, which<br />
we base our 10 year projection on,<br />
were lower than actual revenues. Since<br />
we are bringing in more revenue than<br />
what we expected, we need to know<br />
if we can consider providing our residents<br />
with a reduction to their taxes,”<br />
Shaughnessy said in a statement.<br />
Giving Hearts Gives<br />
a Fashion Show<br />
The Fourth Annual Giving Hearts<br />
fundraiser, which benefits Chaldean<br />
women with breast cancer, will include<br />
a fashion show on October 1<br />
at Orchard Mall in West Bloomfield.<br />
The event is held in honor of<br />
Vivian Esshaki Shouneyia, who died<br />
of the disease.<br />
Retailers participating in the show<br />
include Eleganza, Guys N Gals, Maria’s<br />
Bridal and Beauty Lounge. The<br />
event takes place from 6-9 p.m. and<br />
includes wine, appetizers and dessert.<br />
Tickets are $40 in advance, $50<br />
at the door, and can be purchased by<br />
mailing a check to Giving Hearts,<br />
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for more<br />
information.<br />
Protesters outside<br />
the Iraqi Consulate<br />
General in Southfield<br />
on August 14.<br />
Protests Bring Cabinet Changes in Iraq<br />
Iraq’s Prime Minister Haider al-Abadi ordered<br />
his Cabinet reduced from 33 members to just 22,<br />
consolidating the body as part of a major reform<br />
push in response to mass protests against corruption<br />
and poor governance.<br />
Tens of thousands of people have protested<br />
in Iraq over the last month. Locally, on August<br />
14, about 100 Iraqi Americans demonstrated in<br />
Southfield against corruption and religious division<br />
in Iraq’s government. Outside the Iraqi Consulate<br />
General they held up signs that read “Long<br />
live Iraqi people” and “No to sectarian parties in<br />
Iraq.”<br />
Abadi’s decision, announced by his office on<br />
August 15, would eliminate four ministries, including<br />
those of human rights and women’s affairs,<br />
and consolidate others. The announcement<br />
did not mention whether there would be any<br />
changes to the remaining ministries.<br />
The move follows a far-reaching reform plan<br />
approved by parliament that eliminated the<br />
country’s three vice presidencies and three deputy<br />
prime ministers. The plan also reduced the<br />
budget for the personal bodyguards of senior officials<br />
and transferred it to the interior and defense<br />
ministries.<br />
The reform plan cut positions held by a number<br />
of prominent Iraqi politicians, including<br />
Nouri al-Maliki, who was prime minister of Iraq<br />
for eight years before he was pushed out in August<br />
2014 in response to growing outrage over the fall<br />
of Mosul to ISIS.<br />
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12 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
Community Bulletin Board<br />
When in Rome …<br />
... find other American Chaldean<br />
newlyweds! That’s what<br />
these three West Bloomfield-area<br />
couples, who all got married in<br />
the same week this summer, did<br />
on their Italian honeymoons. Congrats<br />
to Amit & Jewells Hingorani,<br />
Andy & Zena Ibrahim, and Remy<br />
& Brittany Jonna, seen here after<br />
being blessed by Pope Francis<br />
at St. Peter Square in a special<br />
ceremony for newly marrieds.<br />
Special Blessing<br />
Francis Ibrahim, in his mother Rita’s<br />
arms, was recently baptized by Pope<br />
Francis as proud father Feras looks on.<br />
Fore!<br />
Nearly 100 golfers came out for the Second Annual<br />
Lance Atisha Memorial/CALC Golf Outing on July 27<br />
at Shenandoah Country Club. Pictured at the left are<br />
Reem Sesi, Rita Foumia and Lisa Paulus, while on the<br />
right are Jon Randall, Marlene Witthoft, Sue McDermott<br />
and Ted McDermott. Proceeds benefit CALC’s<br />
Health and Behavioral Health Programs.<br />
Have an item for the Bulletin Board? Send it to Chaldean News,<br />
30850 Telegraph Road, Suite 220, Bingham Farms, MI 48025,<br />
or e-mail info@chaldeannews.com.<br />
Happy Meal<br />
BEAM project students went on a recent<br />
fieldtrip to the AbleZone store for the visually impaired,<br />
then enjoyed lunch at ChickPea Kitchen<br />
in Sterling Heights. The sight-challenged refugee<br />
students were able to practice their navigating<br />
skills as they made their way through the<br />
restaurant, then showed off their newly acquired<br />
English as they placed their food orders.<br />
<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 13
IRAQ today<br />
Lost Hope: Life in Exile for Refugees<br />
A<br />
year after tens of thousands<br />
of Iraqi Christians fled communities<br />
overtaken by Islamic<br />
State militants, their lives are<br />
on hold in exile: They won’t go back<br />
to Iraq, saying it’s not safe for Christians,<br />
but as refugees they’re barred<br />
from working in temporary asylum<br />
countries such as Jordan. Expectations<br />
of quick resettlement to the<br />
West have been dashed.<br />
“We’ve lost hope in everything,’’<br />
said Hinda Ablahat, a 67-year-old<br />
widow who lives with dozens of fellow<br />
refugees in plywood cubicles set<br />
up in a church compound in downtown<br />
Amman, the capital of Jordan.<br />
“We’ve been sitting here for a year<br />
and nothing’s happened.’’<br />
About 7,000 Christians from<br />
northern Iraq have found refuge in<br />
Jordan, including about 2,000 living<br />
in church-sponsored shelters.<br />
On Saturday evening, Patriarch<br />
Louis Sako of Iraq’s Chaldean Catholic<br />
Church and Jerusalem-based<br />
Latin Patriarch Fouad Twal led hundreds<br />
of worshippers in an outdoor<br />
prayer service in the town of Fuheis,<br />
near Amman, to mark a year since<br />
the Iraqi Christians’ displacement.<br />
The service included a message of<br />
encouragement from Pope Francis,<br />
saying he is appealing for solidarity<br />
with those victimized by fanaticism<br />
and intolerance, “often under the<br />
eyes and in the silence of all.’’ The<br />
church “does not forget and does not<br />
abandon her children who have been<br />
exiled on account of their faith,’’<br />
read the message, first published late<br />
last week.<br />
The words rang hollow to some in<br />
the crowd.<br />
“Everyone has forgotten us,’’ said<br />
Johnny al-Behno, 25, standing in the<br />
back with friends. Al-Behno holds<br />
an engineering degree, but is forced<br />
to live off dwindling savings because<br />
of the ban on working.<br />
Jordan struggles with high unemployment<br />
and says it cannot afford<br />
to integrate hundreds of thousands<br />
of Syrian and Iraqi refugees into the<br />
labor force.<br />
The Christian exodus began a<br />
year ago when Islamic State militants<br />
swept across northern Iraq, targeting<br />
indigenous religious minorities.<br />
The militants forced out most of the<br />
AP PHOTO/RAAD ADAYLEH<br />
area’s 120,000 Christians, many of<br />
whom now live in the nearby semiautonomous<br />
Kurdish region.<br />
Bahnam Atallah, 47, said he and<br />
his family fled their hometown of Qaraqosh,<br />
near Mosul, on Aug. 6, 2014.<br />
Islamic State had been shelling<br />
the town all day, Atallah said. The<br />
family of six fled for safety at nightfall<br />
to Erbil, the capital of the Kurdish region,<br />
with just two small duffel bags<br />
holding clothes, passports and family<br />
photos. The drive normally takes less<br />
than an hour, but thousands were<br />
fleeing and the Atallahs only arrived<br />
in Erbil after midnight.<br />
After three months, they relocated<br />
to Jordan, while oldest son Andre<br />
left for studies abroad.<br />
Now home for Atallah, his wife<br />
Jinan, and their children Eidier, Sarah<br />
and Maryam is a church shelter in<br />
Amman they share with 60 other refugees.<br />
Plywood cubicles are lined up<br />
in rows, some decorated with posters<br />
of the Virgin Mary. Children run in<br />
the hallways while others play dominos<br />
in the common area.<br />
The Atallahs’ cubicle contains<br />
two bunk beds, a single bed and a<br />
small table. Toddler Maryam slept,<br />
oblivious to the noise.<br />
Atallah, a thresher operator and<br />
carpenter, said the year in limbo<br />
has taken its toll. The parents and<br />
20-year-old Eidier can’t work, while<br />
15-year-old Sarah has missed a year<br />
of school.<br />
Food and medical care are provided<br />
by Caritas, a Catholic charity,<br />
but with nothing to do, days are tedious.<br />
Atallah dreams of emigration<br />
to Australia. A brother who lives<br />
there has started the paperwork, but<br />
prospects are uncertain.<br />
Atallah and other refugees say<br />
they’ll never go back home. “Iraq is<br />
not a safe place’’ for Christians, he<br />
said.<br />
Refugee aid officials say Iraqi<br />
Christians had expected quick resettlement<br />
in the West when they first<br />
arrived in Jordan, but those hopes<br />
have been dashed in part because of<br />
the region’s escalating refugee crisis.<br />
More than 4 million Syrians have<br />
fled conflict in their country since<br />
2011, while Iraqis of all religions<br />
continue to flee ongoing sectarian<br />
violence back home.<br />
Jordan hosts about 630,000 Syrian<br />
and 58,000 Iraqi refugees, according<br />
the U.N. refugee agency.<br />
Only a tiny minority has resettled in<br />
the West, with U.N. officials saying<br />
preference is given to the most vulnerable.<br />
In this August 8, Christian refugees walk between their rooms in a refugee shelter in a church compound in downtown Amman.<br />
Caritas has spent $3 million<br />
to help Iraqi Christian refugees in<br />
Jordan and will run out of funds by<br />
the end of the year, said Wael Suleiman,<br />
the head of the organization<br />
in Jordan. He said the international<br />
community should support the Iraqi<br />
Christian refugees by helping them<br />
stay in a region where their numbers<br />
have been dwindling due to conflict.<br />
“They were born to live in the<br />
Middle East, not in any other place,’’<br />
he said.<br />
– Karin Laub, Associated Press<br />
14 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 15
CHAI time<br />
CHALDEANS CONNECTING<br />
COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />
[Friday, September 4 –<br />
Monday, September 7]<br />
Festival: Royal Oak’s 18th Annual Arts,<br />
Beats, and Eats offers a large selection<br />
of food, a number of new artsy attractions,<br />
and a diverse musical line-up of<br />
nearly all genres. The festival goes from<br />
11 a.m. to 11 p.m. Friday through Sunday<br />
and 11 a.m. to 9:30 p.m. Monday.<br />
ArtsBeatsEats.com.<br />
[Saturday, September 5]<br />
Golf: Shenandoah hosts a 9 & Dine<br />
event that includes nine holes of golf,<br />
margaritas and a Mexican buffet. $35<br />
for pass holders, $60 for others. Teeoff<br />
is at 4:30 p.m. (248)-682-4300.<br />
[Sunday, September 6]<br />
Fundraiser: The 10th Annual Walk-<br />
4Friendship raises funds for the Friendship<br />
Circle, a nonprofit organization for<br />
people with special needs. Registration<br />
opens at 11:30 a.m., followed by an<br />
opening ceremony and the walk. The<br />
final destination is the Jewish Community<br />
Center in West Bloomfield, where<br />
there will be entertainment, activities<br />
and food. WalkForFriendship.com.<br />
[Wednesday, September 16]<br />
Fundraiser: Fifth Annual Healing Hands<br />
for Arthritis is a one-day national fundraiser<br />
in which Massage Envy Spas donate<br />
$10 from every massage or facial,<br />
and 10 percent of all store purchases,<br />
to the Arthritis Foundation. MassageEnvy.com.<br />
[Friday, September 18]<br />
Music: The Sounds of Babylon features<br />
the Detroit Symphony Orchestra playing<br />
with Chaldean musicians and vocalists.<br />
The show starts at 7 p.m. Benefits the<br />
Chaldean Community Foundation and<br />
the Chaldean Voice. For ticket and/or<br />
sponsor information, call Lisa Kalou at<br />
(248)-996-8340 or email lisa.kalou@<br />
chaldeanfoundation.org.<br />
[Saturday, September 19]<br />
Event: West Bloomfield Parks & Recreation<br />
presents Grub Crawl at Drake<br />
Park from 2-5 p.m., followed by a<br />
concert from 5-7 p.m. The crawl features<br />
21 different restaurants and raffle<br />
prizes. $40. Proceeds benefit Greater<br />
West Bloomfield Community Coalition,<br />
Optimists Club of West Bloomfield,<br />
West Bloomfield Rotary Club and West<br />
Bloomfield Youth Assistance. West-<br />
BloomfieldParks.org or (248) 451-1900.<br />
[Sunday, September 20]<br />
Fundraiser: The Second Annual Stride<br />
for Seminarians, in loving memory of<br />
Alexander and Gabrielle Mansour, includes<br />
a walk and a mass at the Detroit<br />
Zoo. All proceeds go towards Chaldean<br />
seminarians to complete their<br />
studies. Registration begins at 7:30<br />
a.m., which includes a tee-shirt, breakfast,<br />
lunch, kids’ activities, and admission<br />
to the zoo. The walk starts at 8:30<br />
a.m. followed by mass at 10. The fee<br />
is $40 adults and $30 for ages 2-12.<br />
AlexAndGabby.com.<br />
[Thursday, September 24]<br />
Food: What to do with all the herbs and<br />
vegetables from a bountiful season?<br />
Henry Ford West Bloomfield Hospital’s<br />
Resident Farmer Trevor Johnson<br />
teaches how to dry, freeze and store<br />
your produce, and how to make salsas<br />
and sauces. 6 p.m., $23. 6777 W.<br />
Maple Road, West Bloomfield. (248)<br />
325-3890 or dk@hfhs.org.<br />
[Friday, September 25]<br />
Fundraisers: Gala to raise funds for Yatooma’s<br />
Foundation for the Kids is at<br />
the Westin Book Cadillac. On Monday,<br />
September 28, the charity’s golf outing<br />
is at the Detroit Golf Club. ForTheKids-<br />
Foundation.org.<br />
[Saturday, September 26]<br />
Women: Women’s Health & Fitness<br />
Day includes a yoga and meditation<br />
class, tips from an exercise physiologist,<br />
a tour and self-facials. 10 a.m.-<br />
noon, $10. Henry Ford West Bloomfield<br />
Hospital, 6777 W. Maple Road, in<br />
West Bloomfield.<br />
[Sunday, September 27]<br />
Football: The Detroit Lions are back<br />
in their first home game of the season<br />
against the Denver Broncos. Kickoff is<br />
at 8:30 p.m. at Ford Field.<br />
Send items for Chai Time to<br />
info@chaldeannews.com.<br />
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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 17
eligion<br />
PLACES OF PRAYER<br />
CHALDEAN CHURCHES IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT<br />
THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED<br />
STATES<br />
St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />
25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033; (248) 351-0440<br />
Bishop: Francis Kalabat<br />
Retired Bishop: Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />
HOLY CROSS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
32500 Middlebelt Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 626-5055<br />
Rector: Msgr. Zouhair Toma Kejbou<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon in Chaldean; Saturdays, 4:30 p.m. in<br />
English; Sundays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, noon in English, 6<br />
p.m., in Arabic<br />
HOLY MARTYRS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
43700 Merrill, Sterling Heights, MI 48312; (586) 803-3114<br />
Rector: Fr. Manuel Boji<br />
Parochial Vicar: Fr. Matthew Zetouna<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Thursdays, 8 p.m. Seed of<br />
Faith in English;<br />
Saturdays, 7 p.m. Witness to Faith in Arabic<br />
Youth Groups: Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for High Schoolers<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 9 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />
English; Sundays: 9 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 10:30 a.m. in English,<br />
Morning Prayer at noon, High Mass at 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean; 7 p.m.<br />
Arabic and Chaldean<br />
MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237; (248) 547-4648<br />
Pastor: Fr. Stephen Kallabat<br />
Retired Priest: Fr. Suleiman Denha<br />
Adoration: Last Friday of the month, 4 p.m. Adoration; 5 p.m. Stations of<br />
the Cross; 6 p.m. Mass; Wednesdays, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.<br />
Bible Study: Fridays, 8-10 p.m. in Arabic and Chaldean<br />
Youth Groups: Thursdays, 7:30-9 p.m. Jesus Christ University High<br />
School and College Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon; Sundays, 10 a.m.<br />
in Chaldean and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. High Mass in Chaldean<br />
MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; (248) 356-0565<br />
Administrator: Fr. Pierre Konja<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7-9 p.m. in English; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for college<br />
students in English<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Tuesdays, 8:45 p.m. in English;<br />
Saturdays, 4 p.m. in English; Sundays: 8:30 a.m. in Arabic, 10 a.m. in<br />
English, noon in Chaldean, 7 p.m. in English<br />
OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HELP CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
11200 12 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48093; (586) 804-2114<br />
Pastor: Fr. Fadi Philip<br />
Bible Study: Thursday, 8 p.m. for ages 18-45; Friday, 8 p.m. in Arabic.<br />
Teens 4 Mary Youth Group: Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.<br />
Confession: 1 hour before mass or by appointment.<br />
Adoration: Thursday, 5-7 p.m. Chapel open 24/7 for adoration.<br />
Mass Schedule: Monday-Wednesday, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Thursday, 1<br />
p.m. in English and 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Friday 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Sunday,<br />
10 a.m. in Arabic and 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean.<br />
SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
30590 Dequindre Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 393-5809<br />
Pastor: Fr. Sameem Belius<br />
Mass Schedule: Sundays, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean<br />
ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI 48317; (586) 254-7221<br />
Pastor: Fr. Wisam Matti<br />
Parochial Vicars: Fr. Anthony Kathawa<br />
Youth Groups: Disciples for Christ for teen boys, Tuesdays, 7 p.m.; Circle<br />
of Friends for teen girls; Thursdays, 6 p.m.; Bible Study for college students,<br />
Wednesdays 8 p.m.<br />
Bible Study: Wednesdays, 8 p.m. in English; Fridays, 8 p.m. in Arabic<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Wednesdays, 7 p.m.<br />
Adoration; 8-10 p.m. Confession; Saturdays, 6:30 p.m. in English (school<br />
year); 6:30 p.m. in Chaldean (summer); Sunday: 8:30 a.m. in Chaldean,<br />
10 a.m. in Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1:15 p.m. in Chaldean; 7:30<br />
p.m. in English<br />
ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083; (248) 528-3676<br />
Administrator: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Arabic; Tuesdays, 7 p.m. in English; Thursdays,<br />
7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ Youth Group for High Schoolers<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean except Wednesdays,<br />
10 a.m. in Arabic<br />
Saturdays, 6 p.m. in English and Chaldean; Sundays, 9 a.m. in Arabic,<br />
10:30 a.m. in English, noon in Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Chaldean and Arabic,<br />
7 p.m. in Chaldean<br />
Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />
ST. PAUL CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
5150 E. Maple Avenue, Grand Blanc, MI 48439; (810) 820-8439<br />
Pastor: Fr. Ayad Hanna<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 6 p.m.; Sundays, 12:30 p.m.<br />
ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322; (248) 788-2460<br />
Pastor: Fr. Bashar Sitto<br />
Parochial Vicars: Fr. Jirgus Abrahim, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />
Retired Priest: Fr. Emanuel Rayes<br />
Bible Study: Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. in Arabic<br />
Youth Groups: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Girls Challenge Club for Middle<br />
Schoolers; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ for High<br />
Schoolers; Thursdays, 6:30 p.m. Boys Conquest Club for Middle Schoolers<br />
Other: First Thursday and Friday of each month, 10 a.m. Holy Hour; 11<br />
a.m. Mass in Chaldean; Wednesdays from midnight to Thursdays midnight,<br />
adoration in the Baptismal Room; Saturdays 3 p.m. Night Vespers<br />
(Ramsha) in Chaldean<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />
English;<br />
Sundays, 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean,<br />
2 p.m. in Arabic<br />
Grotto is open for Adoration 24/7 for prayer and reflection<br />
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CHALDEAN SISTERS, DAUGHTERS OF MARY IMMACULATE<br />
24900 Middlebelt Road<br />
Farmington, MI 48336; (248) 615-2951<br />
NOVITIATE HOUSE<br />
31855 Allison Drive<br />
Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 987-6731<br />
CONVENT<br />
43261 Chardennay<br />
Sterling Heights, MI 48314; (586) 203-8846<br />
EASTERN CATHOLIC RE-EVANGELIZATION CENTER (ECRC)<br />
4875 Maple Road, Bloomfield Township, MI 48301; (248) 538-9903<br />
Director: Patrice Abona<br />
Daily Mass: Monday-Friday 8 a.m.<br />
Thursdays: 5:30 Adoration and 6:30 Mass<br />
First Friday of the month: 6:30 p.m. Adoration, Confession and Mass<br />
Bible Study in Arabic: Wednesdays 7 p.m.<br />
Bible Study in English: Tuesdays 7 p.m.<br />
ST. GEORGE SHRINE AT CAMP CHALDEAN<br />
7000 Clements Road, Brighton, MI 48114; (888) 822-2267<br />
Campgrounds Manager: Sami Herfy<br />
____________________________ _________________________________________________________________________<br />
ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC<br />
CATHOLIC ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />
4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 825-0290<br />
Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />
Mass Schedule: Sundays, 9 a.m. in Assyrian; noon in Assyrian and English<br />
ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
25600 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335; (248) 478-0835<br />
Pastor: Fr. Toma Behnama<br />
Fr. Safaa Habash<br />
Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m.<br />
All in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />
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A book worth<br />
carrying around<br />
Creatively packaged inside a purse<br />
that complements the color of<br />
the book cover, Teresa Tomeo has<br />
launched her latest book: Walk Softly and<br />
Carry a Great Bag: On-the-go Devotions.<br />
This more-than-200-page book conveniently<br />
stows away inside a purse, diaper<br />
bag or briefcase. Tomeo uses scripture to<br />
address everyday issues with a meditative<br />
approach. As written in the Gospel<br />
of Matthew, God will be with us until the<br />
end of time. He is in the details, as Tomeo<br />
writes. We must look for Him.<br />
It has also been said and written many<br />
times that God speaks loudest in the silence.<br />
We must be still to hear His voice.<br />
“Don’t just do something – sit there,”<br />
writes Tomeo as she attributes Psalms<br />
46:10 (Be still, and know that I am God).<br />
Tomeo uses her own experiences as<br />
well as historical moments, periods in time<br />
and news reports to engage the reader and<br />
tie in devotions to the Bible.<br />
She is also humorous and lighthearted.<br />
She talks about not to ask for a lighter load<br />
but for a bigger bag, and appropriately selects<br />
Matthew 11:30 (My yoke is easy and<br />
my burden light) as she talks about Mother<br />
Teresa’s life and the work of St. Teresa of<br />
Avila.<br />
Tomeo most appropriately points out<br />
that all of us have crosses to bear in life.<br />
“If Jesus and some His most well-known<br />
witnesses have cried out to God the Father<br />
about the weight of the world on<br />
their shoulders, you can be sure you’re not<br />
alone,” she writes, citing Luke 22:42 (My<br />
Father, if you are willing, remove this chalice<br />
from me; nevertheless not my will, but yours,<br />
be done).<br />
The book can be found on Amazon,<br />
Servant Books, TeresaTomeo.com or<br />
wherever books are sold.<br />
– Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />
18 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 19
obituaries<br />
RECENTLY DECEASED COMMUNITY MEMBERS<br />
Muwafak<br />
Achoom Jarbo<br />
July 1, 1963 -<br />
Aug. 18, <strong>2015</strong><br />
Nabil Ishak<br />
Shabilla<br />
June 1, 1947 -<br />
Aug. 18, <strong>2015</strong><br />
Janfiaf<br />
Stephan<br />
Oct. 30, 1926 –<br />
Aug. 18, <strong>2015</strong><br />
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special kids, special needs<br />
Raising children with challenges<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
Many parents know that children<br />
are gifts from God<br />
who bring excitement and<br />
joy. When a child is diagnosed with<br />
a disability or an illness, it is the parent<br />
with great faith and strength who<br />
steps up to meet the challenge and<br />
find the blessings. Just ask a few parents<br />
in the community raising children<br />
with challenges.<br />
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Sophia’s Supporters<br />
When Lisa Azzou talks about her<br />
daughter Sophia, who is nearly 7,<br />
she is like any other proud mom. Despite<br />
the wheelchair, Sophia loves<br />
doing all the things little girls her<br />
age enjoy – swimming, cheerleading,<br />
dancing and even playing hockey<br />
for the USA Youth Hockey League<br />
of Michigan. Lisa and husband Don<br />
encourage it all.<br />
“She is a differently abled person,”<br />
said Lisa. “She loves to do all<br />
the things her friends do but she just<br />
does them differently.”<br />
Sophia was born with spina bifida,<br />
a congenital defect in which part<br />
of the spinal cord and its membranes<br />
are exposed through a gap in the<br />
backbone. It often causes paralysis of<br />
the lower limbs, and sometimes mental<br />
handicap. The Azzous discovered<br />
this while Lisa was 18 weeks pregnant<br />
with Sophia.<br />
She quickly realized that the<br />
medical profession didn’t have all<br />
the information they wanted and<br />
needed. “We asked for support groups<br />
or families to talk to and they couldn’t<br />
refer us to anyone,” said Lisa.<br />
She approached the situation as an opportunity<br />
to start the Spina Bifida Association of Michigan.<br />
Gathering information and creating a support network<br />
was just part of what the Azzous needed to do<br />
as parents raising Sophia.<br />
Since creating the local chapter, Lisa and other<br />
parents have hosted several fundraisers including a<br />
Walk and Roll annual event. A team of Sophia’s family<br />
and friends have joined the Sophia’s Supporters<br />
group to raise money for spina bifida on her behalf.<br />
Lisa and Don adapted their two-story home to<br />
Clockwise from above: Louie, Lisa and Sophia Azzou (dad Don was at work). Sophia Azzou walks with the help of leg braces and a<br />
walker … and skis via a special device.<br />
be wheelchair accessible. They put in hardwood<br />
floors throughout the house. “When Sophia hit the<br />
carpet with her chair, it was like trudging through<br />
mud,” said Lisa.<br />
They built ramps in three areas of the home including<br />
one on the back deck. They also installed<br />
a lift where Lisa and Don can transfer Sophia from<br />
her wheelchair into the lift chair that will move<br />
her upstairs. They refitted the tub, shower and sink<br />
in her bathroom, which she shares with her older<br />
brother Louie.<br />
Lisa became a mini-van mom who easily stows<br />
Sophia’s wheelchair, even though she doesn’t always<br />
need it. “She has braces that keep her knees<br />
and ankles straight and help her walk,” said Lisa.<br />
“She cannot hold her own weight and a few times<br />
around the house with the braces is tiring.”<br />
Sophia has been mainstreamed into the public<br />
school and has created her own strong social<br />
network of friends. She enjoys rides with a bike<br />
that allows her to use hand pedals instead of her<br />
feet. “We actually picked the bike up at Beaumont<br />
Hospital’s bike day,” said Azzou. “She also has skis<br />
retrofitted for her as well as ice skates.”<br />
All of the adjustments in the home and customized<br />
equipment comes with a hefty price tag and<br />
22 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
insurance doesn’t pay for any of it. “It gets very<br />
expensive, into the thousands of dollars to make<br />
changes in the house or buy sporting equipment for<br />
Sophia,” Lisa said. “It is not like we can walk into<br />
Target and pick up a bike for $100.”<br />
There are opportunities and programs for kids<br />
with special needs, however. The Azzou family<br />
won a trip to Orlando, Florida, to swim with the<br />
dolphins through Benefit4kids.<br />
Although Sophia lives very much like a typical<br />
child, she is aware of her challenges.<br />
“I knew one day the question or comment<br />
would come,” said Lisa, “and in kindergarten one<br />
day Sophia said, ‘I wish I could walk like all the<br />
kids in my class.’ I responded, ‘You do walk with<br />
braces and when you keep practicing you get stronger.’<br />
She responded, ‘I wish I could walk like they<br />
walk.’ I said, ‘You get around in your own way.’”<br />
Sophia and Louie have the same loving and<br />
squabbling relationship all siblings share yet as his<br />
mom points out, “He is so helpful and patient with<br />
his sister. He is amazing and there needs to be a<br />
group for children with siblings who have special<br />
needs because they see and experience things most<br />
kids never do. Louie has been through Sophia’s<br />
many surgeries with us and seen the bandages<br />
and doctor visits. These siblings<br />
need to have a special pizza party for<br />
themselves.”<br />
Lisa is a mom on a mission. She is<br />
working to change Michigan’s laws to<br />
reduce a staggering static: “70 percent of<br />
expectant mothers whose babies are diagnosed<br />
with spina bifida terminate the<br />
pregnancy. That is a problem to me,” said<br />
Lisa. “I would hope that number could<br />
change.”<br />
She is working with a group of mothers<br />
to pass legislation that would require<br />
doctors upon diagnoses to give expectant<br />
mothers current and relevant information<br />
about spina bifida as well as information<br />
on support groups and a hotline.<br />
The parents stress the issue is about proinformation<br />
and not about pro-choice<br />
or pro-life. Often doctors give out grim<br />
diagnoses and inaccurate information<br />
about spina bifida and these parents want<br />
that to change.<br />
“Honestly, many doctors know about spina bifida<br />
from a paragraph in a textbook they read years<br />
ago in medical school,” said Lisa. “It so unethical<br />
to encourage abortion and not give the mothers all<br />
the information about children with spina bifida.”<br />
Very much on Lisa’s radar and something this<br />
dedicated mom will take up one day is to work<br />
with the medical community to open more medical<br />
centers for adults with spina bifida. There are 132<br />
children spina bifida clinics in the U.S. and only<br />
seven adult clinics. Out of those seven only two<br />
are considered legitimate adult clinics because the<br />
others are pediatric clinics that see adults.<br />
Lisa also notes that the Americans with Disabilities<br />
Act is only 25 years old and although<br />
much has transpired over the years to support<br />
people with disabilities, she believes education is<br />
needed across the country and especially with the<br />
airlines.<br />
“However, I thank God for the ADA and every<br />
day I thank God we live where we live and have<br />
what we have, and live in a country with good<br />
medical care and accommodations,” Lisa said.<br />
Julia’s Journey<br />
Now 8 years old and two years since being diagnosed<br />
with cancer, Julia Garmo is stable. Since the<br />
diagnosis, her mother Anita has shared Julia’s journey<br />
with friends and family via a blog and Facebook<br />
posts. The third child of David and Anita<br />
Garmo’s five children has neuroblastoma.<br />
Julia was diagnosed nearly 10 years after her<br />
older brother Isaac went through treatment for the<br />
same disease. He was diagnosed just after turning 1.<br />
“He was a normal, happy baby and then one<br />
day he lost his appetite and stopped eating,” said<br />
Anita. “I noticed him sitting in the family room lethargic<br />
one day and I knew something was wrong.”<br />
Isaac, now 12, went through six months of treatment<br />
and has been fine since; “Thank God,” said<br />
Anita who relies heavily on her faith for strength.<br />
Julia had a CAT scan after crying from neck<br />
pain and having a hard time swallowing. “Julia’s<br />
treatment has been much more extensive and she<br />
has gone through several life-threatening infections,”<br />
said Anita. “Isaac’s treatment was a breeze<br />
compared to what Julia has gone through.”<br />
Caring for Julia has taken some master organizing<br />
on the Garmos’ part and reliance on family. “It<br />
has been a team effort,” noted Anita. “I don’t know<br />
what I would have done without my family to help<br />
SPECIAL KIDS continued on page 24<br />
Above:<br />
Julia and her<br />
mom, Lisa<br />
Garmo.<br />
Left: In the<br />
hospital or out,<br />
Julia Garmo is<br />
rarely without<br />
a smile.<br />
<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 23
Noofi Makadsi shows off a colorful creation.<br />
‘The Blessing of Our Family’<br />
Nafaa Makadsi’s family has been calling him<br />
Noofi since he was a child. He was born with<br />
Down syndrome and with congenital cataracts<br />
in both eyes. Because they were living in wartorn<br />
Iraq, the family was not able to get Noofi<br />
the surgeries he needed and he now has a permanent<br />
lazy eye.<br />
He started drawing and painting as a young<br />
boy. “I cannot remember when he started<br />
drawing for the first time but I remember his<br />
first drawing of a person he called grandmother<br />
and he continued drawing her ever since,”<br />
said his mother, Amani.<br />
At age 26 Noofi graduated from the Troy<br />
Center for Transition where he studied for six<br />
years. Although he learned to speak English,<br />
he still struggles to communicate.<br />
“He becomes very frustrated,” said Amani.<br />
“He cannot always express himself or understand<br />
conversations well in English, but he<br />
can speak Arabic well.”<br />
Despite the reaction from community<br />
members, Amani’s oldest child brings her great<br />
joy. “The major challenges raising a kid with<br />
disability is the community we lived in back<br />
home in Iraq,” said Amani. “The people there<br />
feel or show you that having a disabled child<br />
is a stigma or a shame, and that we should not<br />
show him to others. We know he is the blessing<br />
of our family.<br />
“The surprising moments are when he does<br />
things that you never expect a disabled kid can<br />
do or says a sentence with deep meanings,”<br />
Amani added. “For parents with disabled kids<br />
I tell them, ‘do not lose your faith and hope<br />
because with every disability there is a gift, so<br />
search for this gift in your son or daughter.’”<br />
Noofi, who has a younger brother and sister,<br />
was recently featured on Channel 4 where<br />
he displayed his artwork for a show last month<br />
called Down with the Arts. Noofi’s art can be<br />
seen at IAmNoofi.Weebly.com and on Facebook<br />
under IAmNoofi.<br />
“I hope he will be a famous artist and live<br />
an independent life,” said Amani.<br />
SPECIAL KIDS continued from page 23<br />
care for my other children.” On and off for two<br />
years, Isaac, Annabelle (10), Matthew (6) and Sarah<br />
(4) stayed in California where the family lives<br />
while Anita was in New York for Julia’s treatments.<br />
“My sister gave up months of her life to help<br />
me,” she said. “My mom also helped me and was<br />
always with me when Julia had surgeries.”<br />
Anita’s sister Ashley, 24, stopped her college<br />
studies to travel back and forth between New York<br />
and California to help Anita and David. “The fact<br />
that my family lives thousands of miles away in<br />
Michigan, it made it that much harder,” said Anita.<br />
She also relies on friends. “It has been so amazing<br />
to have friends and the community come together<br />
to help,” said Anita. “The support has been<br />
greatly appreciated.”<br />
David and Anita also lean on each other. “David<br />
is amazing,” said Anita. “With or without the<br />
cancer he is an amazing dad; he works a 12-hour<br />
day and comes home and spends time with his kids.<br />
He is family oriented. He does what he can to give<br />
each one their attention.”<br />
The two have taken turns caring for the kids<br />
while attending to Julia’s needs. “It gets a bit crazy<br />
and sometimes I feel bad for my other kids when we<br />
have to spend so much time with Julia,” said Anita.<br />
The couple is focused on the health and well-being<br />
of the entire family and puts a lot of emphasis on<br />
nutrition. They are also very much a typical family<br />
juggling all obligations. Living in southern California<br />
with a pool in the backyard, the kids are able to<br />
swim year round. “They love to swim,” said Anita.<br />
The Garmos recently decided that David would<br />
be the one to tend to Julia while getting treatments<br />
in New York. “It is just easier that way but I can’t<br />
say it hasn’t been hard on me to let go,” Anita said.<br />
“I have been the one with her and it is hard not<br />
being there for her.”<br />
Juvollia’s Voice<br />
Sandra Ablahad notes that her daughter is a happy<br />
12 year old. “As her mom, I knew something wasn’t<br />
right when Juvollia was born at 24 weeks,” said Sandra.<br />
She was born in 2002 weighing only 1 pound, 8<br />
ounces and stretching out at 12 inches long.<br />
For five and half months following her birth,<br />
Sandra and baby moved into the Neonatal Intensive<br />
Care Unit at Royal Oak Beaumont Hospital. “I<br />
spent every day there from early morning until late<br />
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finally came home in February of 2003. Later<br />
that same year, we took Juvollia to the University of<br />
Michigan Medical Center to see a neurologist and<br />
that’s when we discovered she had cerebral palsy.”<br />
Juvollia, who is wheelchair bound, is not able<br />
to walk, hold her head up, sit on her own, or use<br />
the toilet. The family cares for her all day, bathing,<br />
stretching, feeding and enjoying leisure time.<br />
In addition to some of her favorite foods for taste,<br />
Juvollia is fed with a tube so she can get all of the<br />
nutrition she needs from a liquid supplement.<br />
Like so many children with cerebral palsy, Juvollia<br />
needs one-on-one supervision and care at all<br />
times. She needs help with normal everyday experiences<br />
like dressing, eating, playing and going<br />
outside to enjoy the day.<br />
“I sometimes feel like I hover over her when<br />
she’s watching cartoons just to check if she’s thirsty<br />
and to make sure she’s okay,” Sandra said. “I even<br />
have to check on her while she’s sleeping.”<br />
Juvollia has limited verbal abilities, making<br />
it challenging to communicate. “There are times<br />
when it is very difficult to figure out what she wants<br />
or if something is wrong,” said Sandra. “When your<br />
child won’t stop crying and you don’t know how to<br />
help her it gets overwhelming. As much as I love<br />
my daughter and living my life for her I sometimes<br />
get emotional and feel very helpless.”<br />
As the mother of four, Sandra has little time for<br />
herself or a social life. She juggling between all the<br />
kids and once Juvollia comes home from school,<br />
she redirects her attention to that one child. “It is<br />
exhausting,” she admitted.<br />
“Juvollia loves to watch cartoons and if we go<br />
somewhere where there isn’t a TV she will let us<br />
know she wants to go home. My patient family of<br />
six tries to be understanding but I am often tied<br />
up with Juvollia at home which leaves me without<br />
much of a social life,” said Sandra.<br />
Juvollia attends school full-time at Keith Bovenschen<br />
School, one of the Macomb Intermediate<br />
School District’s Center Programs.<br />
“Juvollia has been a supported student since she<br />
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Juvollia absolutely loves going to school and seeing<br />
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challenges; they have excellent teachers and<br />
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Juvollia also enjoys spending time with her family<br />
and swimming, and her favorite pastime is going<br />
to local fairs and amusement parks. Last year Juvollia<br />
was granted a wish from the Make a Wish Foundation<br />
“to see Mickey Mouse and Sleeping Beauty” so<br />
the whole family went to Disney World in Florida.<br />
“Like your average teen she asks me weekly to<br />
go again and I would love to take her back as soon<br />
as we are able,” Sandra said.<br />
She added, “The surprising moments about<br />
raising a child with challenges are watching them<br />
reach milestones that come so easy for children<br />
without disabilities. These are really our most necessary<br />
silver linings — like the first time I caught<br />
her laughing, or saying new words learned in<br />
speech therapy, and learning how to perform new<br />
and seemingly simple tasks. Every single day is a<br />
surprise for us. Juvollia is a smart, intelligent girl<br />
and always puts a smile on our faces, and she is a<br />
gift from God who deserves to be celebrated.”<br />
Despite the challenges, Sandra is grateful for<br />
the blessings. For years, she had a hard time lifting<br />
her daughter into their minivan, which barely fit<br />
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diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, is no longer able<br />
to physically help.<br />
“We were in need of a vehicle that would not<br />
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back and accommodate my growing<br />
daughter,” said Sandra. “I started a Go<br />
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her a handicap-accessible van. When<br />
it wasn’t doing too well, my sister contacted<br />
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Like all parents wish for their<br />
kids, Sandra hopes Juvollia lives a<br />
long, healthy and beautiful life. “I<br />
wouldn’t change her for the world,”<br />
said Sandra.<br />
A Family’s Wish<br />
Lisa, Anita and Sandra have<br />
seen the good, bad and ugly<br />
as moms raising children with<br />
medical challenges. Although<br />
their children face different<br />
challenges, all three mothers<br />
have faced similar disappointments<br />
when it has comes to<br />
how others have acted, commented<br />
or responded to their<br />
children and situation.<br />
“I have had people ask me<br />
what is wrong with Sophia and<br />
I have said back, ‘nothing is<br />
wrong with her.’ And of course,<br />
I wanted to add, ‘what is wrong<br />
with you?’” Lisa said. “Our<br />
children have the bodies God<br />
gave them and there is nothing<br />
wrong with them.”<br />
Although society has come<br />
PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />
Above: Juvollia at Disney: Juvollia Ablahad loved her Make a<br />
Wish trip to Disney World.<br />
Top of page: Juvollia Ablahad is flanked by her family: Ziyad,<br />
Jasmine, Sandra, Jizelle and Javoni.<br />
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a long way over the years, Lisa<br />
believes so much more can be<br />
done. “Parents need to teach their<br />
children to treat children with sicknesses<br />
or disabilities like they would<br />
any other child. Don’t bend down to<br />
talk to someone in a wheelchair. It<br />
makes them feel uncomfortable, especially<br />
adults who are in wheelchairs.”<br />
When the Garmos started a Go<br />
Fund Me account, “It was offensive<br />
when people would ask you where the<br />
money was going,” said Anita. “They<br />
don’t realize that some of Julia’s treatments<br />
are not covered by insurance.<br />
Flying back and forth to New York is<br />
not covered by insurance.”<br />
“The most challenging is the intolerance<br />
of others,” said Sandra. “People<br />
assume that Juvollia being in a wheelchair<br />
and not able to speak means she<br />
isn’t capable of many things that are<br />
in fact very important to her. For example,<br />
we had gone to a water park<br />
for a family weekend. Juvollia was so<br />
excited; she loves the water and has<br />
a specialized lifejacket designed for<br />
children with CP. We were told that<br />
she couldn’t go in the water with her<br />
lifejacket and we had to go. Juvollia<br />
reacted the way we all wanted to and<br />
cried all the way home.”<br />
However, there are people who<br />
genuinely care and want to help but<br />
don’t know how. “It is good and bad<br />
at the same time,” said Anita. “When<br />
someone says, ‘let me know if you<br />
need my help,’ I don’t know what<br />
to say. I am so overwhelmed I don’t<br />
know where to start. Some<br />
things that you could do is<br />
perhaps deliver a meal to the<br />
hospital or house when a parent<br />
is with a sick child. Or<br />
hang out and keep that person<br />
company at the hospital.<br />
Little things go a long way.”<br />
With this responsibility as<br />
a mom, so many people have<br />
turned to these women for advice<br />
and support and they are<br />
all too happy to help. “Kids<br />
with disabilities are here and<br />
they are not going away. It is<br />
not taboo,” said Lisa. “This is<br />
about acceptance no matter<br />
the race or religion. These<br />
kids are here.”<br />
With medical advancements,<br />
people with disabilities,<br />
birth defects and other<br />
health issues are living longer<br />
lives and enjoying a better<br />
quality of life than years prior.<br />
“Ask your doctor for information. Do<br />
your research and be your child’s advocate,”<br />
Lisa said.<br />
“My advice to other parents is to<br />
celebrate your child no matter the<br />
challenge, to stay strong, be positive,<br />
patient and never ask why,” said<br />
Sandra. “Take it day by day. Raising a<br />
child with a disability is a challenging<br />
but wonderful gift that allows us to<br />
learn as we go. I couldn’t be any happier<br />
having such a beautiful girl that<br />
God has given me. Never compare<br />
your child to others because every<br />
parent has their own struggles raising<br />
a child, disability or not. Leave it all<br />
in God’s hands.”<br />
“In so many ways our community<br />
needs to change,” said Anita. “A lot<br />
of families look down on kids with<br />
illnesses and cancer and they try to<br />
keep it secret and not be open and<br />
deal with it themselves. To me, that<br />
is not the way to go about it.”<br />
She encourages families to share<br />
their stories.<br />
“I hear a lot of stories and people<br />
are so afraid to tell people that they<br />
have a sick child. Moms call me all<br />
the time. I recently heard about a<br />
mom with a baby who had cancer and<br />
she didn’t want anyone to know and<br />
then finally she started a Go Fund Me<br />
page. I give her a lot of credit because<br />
I know it is not easy to ask for help,”<br />
Anita said. “I encourage families to<br />
share their stories and ask for prayers.<br />
We all can use prayers. We all need<br />
help. Ask for it. I don’t see any benefit<br />
in suffering alone.”<br />
New Communion<br />
Classes<br />
St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic<br />
Diocese is starting a communion<br />
class for children ages 10 and<br />
older with special needs. Classes<br />
will be held on Saturdays from 10<br />
a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Professionals<br />
who work with special needs<br />
children will assist teachers with<br />
special needs experience.<br />
There will be different levels<br />
of classes depending on the<br />
abilities of each student. If your<br />
child is 25 and hasn’t taken communion,<br />
he or she is more than<br />
welcome to join. Learn more by<br />
calling Fr. Pierre at Mother of<br />
God, (248) 356-0565.<br />
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Fr. Douglas shows the bloody shirt he<br />
wore in captivity.<br />
Fr. Douglas Bazi poses at WJR with Rafed Yaldo, Frank Beckmann and Basil Bacall.<br />
lived to tell<br />
Iraq’s Fr. Douglas impresses local community<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
He survived being kidnapped,<br />
beaten, shot and a bomb explosion<br />
near his church by<br />
Islamic fanatics; he lived not only<br />
to tell about it but to inspire the displaced<br />
Christians he lives among in<br />
Erbil, Iraq, and those he depends on<br />
for help living in the United States.<br />
Upon first meeting Fr. Douglas<br />
Bazi, he appears to be a priest living a<br />
happy and comfortable life. He walks<br />
around with a smile on his face, engages<br />
in communication that often includes<br />
him uttering humorous one liners,<br />
and exudes joy wherever he goes.<br />
Once he begins talking about<br />
Iraq, his life experiences and the status<br />
of his fellow Christians, a sense<br />
of urgency takes hold. “My people<br />
need help,” said Fr. Douglas to the<br />
many talk show hosts, reporters and<br />
community members he met while<br />
visiting the Metro Detroit area last<br />
month as a guest of the St. Thomas<br />
Chaldean Catholic Diocese.<br />
Many community members became<br />
aware of the priest through<br />
Rafed Yaldo’s Facebook posts describing<br />
his visits to Erbil and spending<br />
time inside what Fr. Douglas likes<br />
to call his center and not a camp. He<br />
lives among 560 displaced people.<br />
They moved from living on the<br />
streets to tents and now in 3-by-6-<br />
foot caravans. In some cases more<br />
than eight people are living in the<br />
same space.<br />
During his many media interviews<br />
and community conversations<br />
here in the United States, it became<br />
apparent that Fr. Douglas replaced<br />
political correctness with biblical<br />
correctness, and was what many<br />
would describe as uncomfortably<br />
honest about the climate in Iraq.<br />
“We cannot live peacefully<br />
among people who are taught to hate<br />
us for our religion,” said Fr. Douglas.<br />
“This is their belief: that we are infidels<br />
and our heads should be cut off.”<br />
When kidnapped in 2006, Fr.<br />
Douglas was tortured for nine days<br />
and ridiculed by his captures, who often<br />
threatened to cut his head off and<br />
replace it with a dog’s head because<br />
that is what he is — a dog, an infidel.<br />
While he was tortured by day, he<br />
ministered to his fellow captures by<br />
night who often asked for his advice<br />
and at times even forgiveness.<br />
“I truly believe that if one part of<br />
the constitution in Iraq would change<br />
that would give the people freedom of<br />
religion, Islam would be the minority,”<br />
said Fr. Douglas, who was released<br />
when the Church paid a ransom.<br />
Fr. Douglas has witnessed the persecution<br />
of Christians his entire life,<br />
having been born and raised in Iraq.<br />
Despite the chance to move to a European<br />
country where he has been<br />
welcomed, he insists on staying in<br />
Iraq to help his people.<br />
“I wish I had good news to report,”<br />
Fr. Douglas told Teresa Tomeo,<br />
host of Catholic Connection on Ave<br />
Mario radio. “What the media reports<br />
is only about 2 percent of reality.<br />
The situation in Iraq is crazy.”<br />
There is no end in sight. “People<br />
are wondering how long this will<br />
take,” said Fr. Douglas. “In one day<br />
we received 120,000 people from<br />
Mosul. “This will take at least 15 to<br />
20 years to resolve.”<br />
Families are homeless, jobless and<br />
hopeless. “I look at their faces,” said<br />
Fr. Douglas. “As a priest I am prepared<br />
for all kinds of sadness, but what has<br />
happened here is hard to prepare for<br />
and to answer their many questions as<br />
to why this is happening.”<br />
What they are not is bitter with<br />
God. “No one blames God in Iraq,”<br />
Fr. Douglas explained to hosts of Invitation<br />
to Sisterhood, a one-hour<br />
Catholic program produced by Mar<br />
Toma Chaldean Productions. The<br />
show will air on the Catholic Television<br />
Network of Detroit. “They<br />
blame man. What disappoints our<br />
people in Iraq is the feeling they<br />
have been forgotten.”<br />
He continued the conversation in<br />
the radio studio at WJR with Frank<br />
Beckmann. “Be our voice. Help us<br />
and save us. I will say 100 times that<br />
I am proud to be Iraqi. I am proud<br />
to be a Christian Chaldean Catholic<br />
but I am not proud of my country.<br />
They don’t want us there.”<br />
Fr. Douglas also came to the United<br />
States to share with the community<br />
three priority issues. Christians in Iraq<br />
need permanent housing, “a place to<br />
call home,” he told Bishop Francis and<br />
his advisory committee. “They need to<br />
be educated and have schools or centers<br />
for studies and activities.”<br />
There are approximately 8,500<br />
primary and secondary students currently<br />
without any formal education.<br />
There is a disconnect and gaps in education.<br />
One major hurdle is the curriculum<br />
between Arabic and Kurdistan.<br />
The last thing needed, said Fr.<br />
Douglas, is good healthcare.<br />
Fr. Douglas acknowledged and<br />
thanked the community and the<br />
various committees for their support<br />
and effort to help the Christians in<br />
Iraq. He also visited many places including<br />
the Diocese, the Chaldean<br />
American Ladies of Charity, the<br />
Chaldean Community Foundation<br />
and with members of the various<br />
committees TEACH, MERCI and<br />
JUSTICE.<br />
He and Yaldo also took a trip to<br />
Washington, D.C., where they met<br />
with a delegation to discuss the current<br />
situation and find new avenues<br />
for help and support. Fr. Douglas<br />
showed them the shirt he wore when<br />
he was kidnapped and beaten.<br />
Despite knowing that the Muslim<br />
community wants the Christians<br />
out, Fr. Douglas won’t abandoned his<br />
people. “I love my people,” he said. “I<br />
will not leave them.”<br />
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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29
sister to sister<br />
Dominicans continue their support of Iraq<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
The Dominican Sisters of Adrian continued<br />
to show their support for their counterparts<br />
in Iraq with a one-year anniversary commemoration<br />
of the ISIS invasion on August 6 and<br />
a new fundraising campaign.<br />
On August 6, 2014 the Iraqi Dominican sisters<br />
of St. Catherine of Siena of Iraq swiftly scurried out<br />
of their convents in Qaraqosh and other neighboring<br />
villages to begin their lengthy and disturbing<br />
escape. With nothing more than the habits they<br />
were wearing, they finally reached safety in the<br />
Kurdish capital of Erbil after 10 elongated hours.<br />
Normally a 50-minute drive, the roads were congested<br />
with tens of thousands of Christians, Yazidis<br />
and other religious minorities also fleeing.<br />
Dominican sisters from all over the country<br />
attended the event, which began at 3:30 p.m. at<br />
the Motherhouse in Adrian with the sounding of a<br />
bell followed by a moment of silence. Sr. Attracta<br />
Kelly, prioress of the Adrian Congregation, read a<br />
letter from Sr. Maria Hanna, prioress of the Iraqi<br />
a teacher and social worker, is now on sabbatical<br />
presenting about Iraq.<br />
“We have a great connection and affection for<br />
the Dominican sisters in Iraq,” she said. “We pray<br />
for them and the Christian community and other<br />
ethnic groups chased out by ISIS.”<br />
Ten young Iraqi sisters have lived, studied, and<br />
ministered with the Adrian-based community in the<br />
past 10 years. The last one just completed her training<br />
as a physician’s assistant and returned to Iraq in May<br />
to serve her people. A couple of other recent graduates<br />
are teachers who went back to open schools.<br />
After the prayer service in Adrian, participants<br />
signed postcards to Secretary of State John Kerry,<br />
urging him to increase funding for humanitarian assistance<br />
for the internally displaced people (IDPs) of<br />
Iraq and for Iraqi refugees in neighboring countries.<br />
The card read, “The United States bears a profound<br />
responsibility to assist the Iraqi people in this time of<br />
continuing crisis.” There was also a small art gallery<br />
featuring the work of Iraqi children.<br />
The Adrian Dominicans also launched their<br />
“1000 Cranes for Iraq” campaign that will support<br />
Iraqi refugee relief efforts. Created by Sr. Barbara<br />
Cervenka, an artist, it is based on the legend made<br />
famous by a 2-year-old Japanese girl, Sadako Sasaki,<br />
who was exposed to radiation from the atomic bomb<br />
that blasted Hiroshima in 1945 (coincidentally on<br />
August 6). She was diagnosed with leukemia 10 years<br />
later and was given no more than a year to live. Inspired<br />
by a legend that one who makes a thousand<br />
origami cranes will be granted a wish, she set out<br />
to fold 1,000 cranes in prayer for health and world<br />
peace. She made 1,300 before she died at age 12, and<br />
surviving family members have donated some of her<br />
cranes to important memorials around the world, including<br />
New York City’s 9/11 and Pearl Harbor.<br />
The hope is that these paintings of origami<br />
cranes will also inspire world peace. Sr. Barbara has<br />
already painted 160 herself, and a few other sisters/<br />
artists are also donating their art to the project.<br />
They estimate it will take about three years to complete<br />
1,000 crane paintings, and they know their<br />
Iraqi Sisters desperately need the funds they’ll raise.<br />
“We are a conduit to send money to help them,”<br />
said Sr. Dusty. “We try to keep the public informed<br />
because who else will?”<br />
To purchase a crane painting, visit<br />
1000CranesForIraq.org.<br />
congregation, describing their current situation:<br />
“Our hearts are filled with sadness and overwhelming<br />
grief. We wait but we get nothing, we<br />
think but do not understand. What is next? No one<br />
knows. Where are we going? Everyone is lost. Yes, we<br />
do have shelter but our hearts are anxious and the relationships<br />
are truly troubled and the reality is bitter.”<br />
The sisters then walked in silent procession<br />
to St. Catherine Chapel and joined in common<br />
prayer that was created for use by all Dominican<br />
congregations in the United States. They carried<br />
large, blown-up pictures of the Iraqi-Chaldean<br />
community taken by Sr. Durstyne Farnan, who<br />
went on a mission trip there in January. Sr. Dusty,<br />
Recounting the Terror<br />
Sr. Maria Hanna, prioress of the Dominican Sisters’ Iraqi congregation, recalls fleeing ISIS on August 6,<br />
2014, in a letter that reads in part:<br />
“It was really a dark night when we left, not knowing what to take with us or what to leave behind.<br />
Christians were everywhere on the road, not knowing what direction they should take. The shadow of<br />
ISIS’s hatred surrounded everything, and we understood little of what was happening. When we eventually<br />
arrived in Kurdistan, many people were homeless in the street; they were like sheep without a<br />
shepherd. After a few days in Erbil, we realized that our towns in the Plain of Nineveh had been taken<br />
by ISIS, and our return became a distant and uncertain dream. To add insult to injury, it was not only<br />
ISIS that increased our loss and our anguish, but also our non-Christian neighbors, our friends in the<br />
neighboring villages, whom we served, taught, and gave treatment — they betrayed us in times of trouble<br />
and crisis.”<br />
30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
cultivating<br />
possibilities<br />
Celebrating our cultural diversity and honoring those<br />
who plant the seeds of possibility in our communities and in our world.<br />
<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31
no picnic<br />
Dating over 30 can be tricky<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
Rosa Kizy Stockel was not about<br />
to wait for a husband to begin<br />
her life. The elementary<br />
Spanish teacher has a large circle of<br />
friends, many hobbies and bought her<br />
own house 10 years ago. But she still<br />
hoped to find that special someone.<br />
Having no luck meeting eligible<br />
single men on her own, she signed<br />
up for the online dating service<br />
match.com – something she confesses<br />
her father, who still couldn’t<br />
understand why she wanted to live<br />
on her own — never knew.<br />
“I didn’t want to meet people in a<br />
bar, though I’m not sure this is that<br />
much different,” Stockel said of online<br />
dating. “I have a couple of friends<br />
who met their spouses on dating sites<br />
and they encouraged me to do it.”<br />
It was hardly an instant success<br />
and Stockel met her share of creeps.<br />
“One guy kind of stalked me; he kept<br />
calling and calling and once he called<br />
me at 3 a.m. Another tried to convince<br />
me to send him money. Somehow<br />
he got my address and sent me<br />
a dozen roses, which freaked me out,”<br />
she said. “The rest were just a bunch<br />
of bad frogs. I was at the point of frustration<br />
where I thought, I am giving<br />
up on this forever. I actually took a lot<br />
of breaks, sometimes for six months.”<br />
But two years ago, at age 46, she<br />
met James Stockel through Match.<br />
“It was love at first sight for him but<br />
it took me more time. I had to really<br />
get to know him,” she said. After<br />
she introduced him to her family –<br />
an all-important aspect of Chaldean<br />
culture — “he got along with everyone<br />
so well that it made me<br />
comfortable.”<br />
Stockel did not mind that<br />
James isn’t Chaldean, as long<br />
as he is Catholic. The two were<br />
married a year ago.<br />
“My parents had known for<br />
a long time that I just can’t get<br />
along with Chaldean guys. I dated<br />
two or three but I don’t like<br />
the machismo and the chauvinism,”<br />
she said. “James and I<br />
discussed things before we got<br />
married, that I was not going to<br />
be one of these girls who forget<br />
their friends when they get married.<br />
A lot of Chaldeans think<br />
their spouse is their life.”<br />
Public relations executive<br />
Eric Younan, 42, said he’s also<br />
had issues with dating Chaldeans.<br />
“One of the things I struggled<br />
with is that Chaldean women have a<br />
tendency to live at home until they<br />
are married. I wanted to date someone<br />
close to my age, but these girls still<br />
Rosa Kizy and James Stockel on their wedding day.<br />
lived at home in their 30s and even<br />
40s,” said Younan, who is currently<br />
in a serious relationship with a non-<br />
Chaldean. “They didn’t have a proper<br />
perspective on life because they are<br />
not going to settle for less than they<br />
have. They probably live in a ‘macmansion’<br />
on Cass Lake and they want<br />
that same lifestyle. I can’t match that.<br />
And I have found that to be unique to<br />
the Chaldean community.”<br />
Unlike some men, he actually prefers<br />
a woman near his age. “Women in<br />
their 30s and up know themselves and<br />
choose a mate who has also found himself.<br />
I honestly think women in their<br />
30s, 40s and 50s are the best looking<br />
because they are now confident and<br />
comfortable in their own skin. They<br />
own the quirks that in their 20s they<br />
were trying to overcome.”<br />
But one 33-year-old woman, who<br />
asked to remain anonymous, said she’s<br />
experienced the exact opposite. “The<br />
men who are in their late 30s, early<br />
40s are looking for a 20-year-old wife,”<br />
she said. “I wonder how they will really<br />
establish a full life full of love and<br />
communication with an age gap.”<br />
This dating veteran is also weary<br />
of the emphasis on material items<br />
that sometimes can dominate relationships.<br />
“The amount of pressure<br />
the community has put on, these<br />
expectations of needing a $50,000<br />
ring and a $100,000 wedding, is<br />
crazy,” she said. “What man is going<br />
to want to get married when they<br />
think every girl needs this stuff? I<br />
can only speak for myself and I am<br />
looking for far more as far as loyalty,<br />
respect, trust and communication –<br />
the important things.”<br />
She’s has also run into a challenge<br />
somewhat unique to the Chaldean<br />
community: parents who disapprove<br />
of one’s family village in Iraq. She<br />
said that prejudice from a boyfriend’s<br />
mother helped end their four-year<br />
relationship. Then, rubbing salt in<br />
the wound, an older Chaldean<br />
man she met at a coffee shop one<br />
snowy morning at Christmastime<br />
expressed the same sentiment.<br />
At first the kindly man asked<br />
her, “How is a girl as beautiful as<br />
you single?” and wanted to set her<br />
up with his son. But when she<br />
told him her last name and family<br />
village, he said, “That’s the<br />
problem, that’s why you’re not<br />
married.”<br />
The woman was astounded. “I<br />
was in so much shock that my tears<br />
were running down my face before<br />
I hit the door,” she said. “I thought,<br />
is it possible I haven’t found someone<br />
because of this issue? The older<br />
generation is brutal.”<br />
Though she tries to stay positive,<br />
this woman admits to feeling<br />
discouraged. “I am just over it all.<br />
I don’t lack in anything. I am educated,<br />
beautiful, independent and<br />
a very devout Catholic,” she said. “I<br />
trust in the Lord and I know there’s<br />
a plan.”<br />
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The living room<br />
has seen many<br />
a community<br />
gathering.<br />
if these walls could talk<br />
Historic home has Chaldean charisma<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
You can see this exquisite gem of a home in<br />
Pleasant Ridge when you are traveling south<br />
on Woodward towards Ferndale. The nearly<br />
5,000-square-foot Mediterranean revival colonial,<br />
with its signature burgundy roof and accents and<br />
white pillars, has been home to Sabah (Summa)<br />
Hermiz for nearly 40 years, but now he’s<br />
ready to downsize.<br />
3 Poplar Park has had three owners,<br />
two of whom were Chaldean. It was built<br />
in 1928 by an Italian family who lived<br />
there until sometime in the late 40s or early<br />
50s. Joe and Reema Atchoo purchased<br />
it and raised four sons: Edward, Pete, Jerry<br />
and Ray.<br />
Joe Atchoo was an influential businessman<br />
– a sort of “Mike George of the mid-<br />
20th century” — who had the means to<br />
purchase such a grand home, and its location<br />
was considered far from where Michigan’s<br />
few hundred Chaldeans lived at the<br />
time, about four miles away in the Detroit/<br />
Highland Park area.<br />
At that time, cars did not have heat or<br />
even windows, and the fastest they went<br />
was 35 miles an hour. In the winter, car<br />
travelers would wear four of five blankets<br />
over them, so the trek to the Atchoos was somewhat<br />
of an inconvenience. Yet Joe’s and Reema’s<br />
generosity and hospitality more than made up for<br />
it; they were known for having lots of gatherings<br />
with homemade food and great company.<br />
Joe Atchoo, a pioneer among the first Chaldeans<br />
to immigrate to Detroit, did not know how<br />
to read or write very well, but had common sense<br />
and helped a lot of people anonymously. He was<br />
known to let his customers get groceries and pay<br />
him later when they had the money. He started<br />
with nothing in order to build something splendid<br />
for his kids and their kids.<br />
3 Poplar Park has been home to Chaldeans for some sixty years.<br />
Sally Yono worked for the Atchoo family as a<br />
young teenager when she first came to the U.S. Her<br />
father, Gorgis Loussia, and Joe were best friends.<br />
She would often sleep over the Atchoos so they<br />
could take her with them to work in the morning.<br />
She recalled a story Reema, whom she described<br />
as “nice and elegant,” once told her about a visit to<br />
the house by King Faisal II of Iraq sometime in the<br />
mid-50s. The king was about 20 years old, and he<br />
wanted to meet with the Chaldean community in<br />
Detroit. The Atchoos hosted him and other dignitaries,<br />
including a priest from New York who conducted<br />
mass at the house. (There were no Chaldean<br />
churches at the time so mass was celebrated<br />
there sometimes when a priest came to town.)<br />
Sally said her father and Joe talked about King<br />
Faisal’s trip all the time, including their visit to<br />
Belle Isle, where they took pictures in front of<br />
the fountain. They always recalled him sitting on<br />
a couch in front of the bay window in the living<br />
room, young and humble and full of promise, not<br />
knowing he would be killed by his own countrymen<br />
shortly after returning to Iraq.<br />
In 1976, Sabah and his wife Kathie bought the<br />
house. They already had two sons, Laith and Faris,<br />
and soon welcomed Sabah’s father, sister and three<br />
brothers to live with them upon their arrival to the<br />
U.S. from Iraq. Sabah and Kathie had one more<br />
son, Shawn. It was a full house.<br />
Like the Atchoos, the Hermiz family hosted<br />
many gatherings like their yearly Christmas get-together<br />
with all the extended family. Sabah vividly<br />
remembers the kids running into the kitchen, grabbing<br />
for that drawer with the little toys and candy<br />
in it, that drawer that never sat right on the hinges<br />
because it was the first place the kids would dash<br />
to, in between the hustle and bustle of the women<br />
preparing dinner. In that same kitchen, his Polish<br />
wife Kathie took to learning how to make traditional<br />
Chaldean food.<br />
The dining room table not only served a place<br />
to eat, but as a drawing board for many community<br />
organizations like the Iraqi-American Architect<br />
and Engineers Association and the Iraqi-American<br />
Graduate Association, which were active until<br />
about the mid-‘80s. Sabah, an engineer<br />
and owner of Summa Engineering and<br />
Associates, welcomed anybody who had a<br />
fondness for improving the lives of Chaldean<br />
people.<br />
Sabah’s sons are grown and on their<br />
own, and Kathie passed away a few years<br />
ago. Her picture graces a wall in the living<br />
room, opposite the vintage-tiled fireplace.<br />
She is wearing a kuchma, a traditional Chaldean<br />
headdress, during a visit to Telkaif. All<br />
of her sewing supplies are still in a room upstairs.<br />
Their sons’ soccer trophies line the<br />
foyer table, and there are pictures of them<br />
and their own kids in the dining room.<br />
The plaster moldings, coves, and medallions<br />
are perfect, with an accentuating<br />
charm fit for families who, like the<br />
Atchoos and Hermizes, worked hard for<br />
everything they have achieved. That is the<br />
kind of owner Sabah is looking for.<br />
Now that he has remarried, Sabah may split his<br />
time between Michigan and Florida. He hopes that<br />
another Chaldean family will buy the house to carry<br />
the traditions that have ornamented the home<br />
all these years. He is proud of 3 Poplar Park, which<br />
has that Chaldean charisma that cannot be found<br />
in any other home in Metro Detroit.<br />
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where’s<br />
the beef?<br />
Shawarma is hot, hot, hot<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
From above: Genie’s Hassan Abbas works the grill. Sinan Shallal and a big platter of freshly prepared meat<br />
at Genie Grill.<br />
Last December, two restaurants that opened for business<br />
introduced a new concept to the way Middle<br />
Eastern sandwiches are made – customers can choose<br />
their own toppings, be it lettuce and tomatoes or humus<br />
and turshi.<br />
Shawarma Grill, at 29555 Northwestern Highway in<br />
Southfield, opened its doors on December 9, 2014. Genie<br />
Mediterranean Grill, on 40768 Ryan Road in Sterling<br />
Heights, was launched nine days later. The owners were<br />
not aware of each other’s ventures, but now people from<br />
both the Eastside and the Westside can enjoy food prepared<br />
in a way similar to Subway or Boston Market.<br />
“We got this idea from a Middle Eastern restaurant in<br />
New York,” said Steve Shaya, manager of Genie Mediterranean<br />
Grill. “But the concept is 100 percent American<br />
and it started in the early 1900s in hospital cafeterias.”<br />
Shaya has been in the restaurant business for more than<br />
20 years when he worked for Saad Attisah at Sahara Restaurant.<br />
The first hospital built in the United States, he said,<br />
had the type of food setup where one starts off with the hot<br />
items, then the cold food, then the beverages and snacks.<br />
Ziad Battah of Shawarma Grill is a medical technologist<br />
who works in his field during the daytime and comes to<br />
the restaurant on some evenings. He started this business<br />
with his maternal uncle Nahil Kaskorkis. Kaskorkis runs<br />
the establishment and Battah manages it.<br />
While this is Battah’s first restaurant, Kaskorkis had several<br />
restaurants in Iraq, one called Al Saada (Happiness).<br />
He has also worked in a number of hotels. Kaskorkis came to<br />
the United States three years ago, bringing along his expertise<br />
in the restaurant business and his special recipes.<br />
“I came up with this idea and decided to invest in my<br />
uncle,” said Battah, smiling.<br />
On a recent Saturday afternoon, Shawarma bustled<br />
with customers who stood in front of the chef station,<br />
choosing which bread they wanted (flour or whole wheat<br />
tortilla, white or wheat pita bread) and then the different<br />
varieties of meats and vegetables.<br />
Two children who came in with their parents enjoyed<br />
the process and the food.<br />
“We get to order what we want in the sandwich,” said<br />
Malia Jarbo, 6. “I love the olives and the turshi.”<br />
“It’s like Subway,” said her brother Matthew, 9. “It’s not<br />
good — it’s amazing!”<br />
“People like that everything is made in front of them,”<br />
said Battah. “We don’t preheat or microwave anything.<br />
It’s made to order. A lot of Mediterranean restaurants<br />
don’t have the pit for the shawarma so they have a chef<br />
cook the meat in the morning and cut it up to be used<br />
throughout the day. Here, we take it from the skewer to<br />
your sandwich. It’s fresh.”<br />
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Clockwise from above: Ziad Battah and Raed Elias near their restaurant’s namesake<br />
shawarma skewers. Milad Kaskorkis prepares vegetables at the Shawarma Grill<br />
Shawarma at home parties is a popular trend.<br />
Shawarma, also known as gus, is a<br />
Levantine Arab cuisine in which meat<br />
is roasted slowly on all sides as the spit<br />
rotates in front of a flame for hours.<br />
At Genie Mediterranean Grill,<br />
the meat averages between 200 to<br />
400 pounds, depending on the date<br />
and how busy they are. It’s so heavy<br />
that it requires two men and a crane<br />
to place it on the pit.<br />
“Using the crane makes the process<br />
safer and we have less drops,”<br />
said Shaya, who built the restaurant<br />
from scratch with his partner, Ghazwan<br />
Samona.<br />
“We bought the latest technology<br />
in our kitchen to prepare our food,”<br />
said Shaya. “We can slice a case of<br />
tomatoes or chop a case of lettuce in<br />
less than a minute. Because of our<br />
equipment, we can cook anything in<br />
less than five minutes. This includes<br />
making a 40-gallon tub of turshi in<br />
five minutes.”<br />
Included in Shawarma Grill’s full<br />
catering services is the shawarma<br />
skewer. As long as it’s not snowing, a<br />
chef will come to your house and cook<br />
a fifty-pound (or more) hunk of marinated<br />
meat outdoors. The charge is $11<br />
per pound and there’s a $200 set-up fee<br />
that includes the bread, four toppings<br />
of your choice and the sauces. The<br />
chef stays for four hours, cooking and<br />
shaving the meat into slices.<br />
Genie Grill does full catering too,<br />
but their skewer will only travel in<br />
their trailer. They have served more<br />
than 1,000 people at large events like<br />
the Chaldean Festival.<br />
Both restaurants also offer delivery.<br />
Genie has more than 20 employees,<br />
seven of whom are cooks: two in<br />
charge of the chicken and beef shawarma,<br />
two who do the kabobs, two<br />
who make the stews, and one who<br />
bakes bread three times a day.<br />
Upon entering the 5,000-squarefoot<br />
restaurant, customers are greeted<br />
with a sign that reads “Choose,<br />
Pay, Eat. Place your wish here.” Ten<br />
screens explain the menu, and 70<br />
percent of the foods on the menu are<br />
poured onto a dish and served. The<br />
other 30 percent are the meats that<br />
require being cut up, but they too are<br />
ready to order.<br />
Samona, Shaya’s partner, owns<br />
White Palace restaurant in Baghdad.<br />
He is currently in Iraq running<br />
the restaurant because with its 1,200<br />
seating and 200 employees, it’s especially<br />
busy during Ramadan.<br />
Shaya says that by fall, Genie<br />
will have patio seating outside where<br />
people can enjoy smoking hookah.<br />
He and his partner are building this<br />
business for their children to one day<br />
take over.<br />
“If they choose to, they can continue<br />
to operate it or open a franchise,”<br />
he said.<br />
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John Petrous shows off the Tappy Menu app.<br />
John Petrous<br />
shows off the<br />
Tappy Menu app.<br />
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New app a godsend to the visually impaired<br />
BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />
Being blind does not stop Ann<br />
Petrous from doing much. In<br />
fact, she recently moved into<br />
an apartment with another visually<br />
impaired friend. But needing to have<br />
the menu read to her in restaurants<br />
drives her crazy.<br />
“I like to go out to eat with friends<br />
who are blind and we don’t want to<br />
have to ask the waitress to read the<br />
menu,” she said. “We want to be as<br />
independent as possible.”<br />
Her brother John Petrous took<br />
that desire so seriously he invented a<br />
mobile app: Tappy Menu, which utilizes<br />
a Smartphone’s ability to read<br />
text aloud.<br />
“I got so excited when John told<br />
me the concept,” said Ann, 36. “I<br />
don’t like it that I can’t open the<br />
menu myself and take a look at it.<br />
People say, ‘what are you in the mood<br />
for?’ but I don’t always know what<br />
I’m in the mood for. Some menus are<br />
as big as bibles and it takes 500 years<br />
when people have to read it to me.”<br />
While restaurant menus are<br />
sometimes available on sites like<br />
Yelp and GrubHub, they are not designed<br />
to be compatible with Smartphones,<br />
John said. And visiting a restaurant’s<br />
website often doesn’t work<br />
because their online menus tend to<br />
be so cluttered with graphics and extraneous<br />
information they can crash<br />
the phone.<br />
Tappy Menu presents menus and<br />
nutritional information in a clean<br />
format that’s easy to understand.<br />
Sighted people can also use it to peruse<br />
a menu, or, if they forget their<br />
reading glasses, have it read to them.<br />
“It works flawlessly – we are not<br />
running into hiccups,” said John,<br />
who is 33 and lives in Commerce<br />
Township.<br />
The biggest trial has been getting<br />
companies to participate, even<br />
though there is no cost involved.<br />
“I contacted over 300 companies<br />
and a lot were saying, ‘what’s this<br />
now? We never thought of that,’”<br />
Ann said. But so far only eight –<br />
Panda Express, Tony Roma’s, Taco<br />
Cabana, Carvel, Orange Leaf, Spicy<br />
Pickle, Happy’s Pizza and Pizza Rustica<br />
— have signed up.<br />
“The bigger companies want<br />
the others to jump on it first,” Ann<br />
noted.<br />
John, an electrical engineer at<br />
Ford, is not discouraged.<br />
“Ten million people in the<br />
United States have some type of<br />
visual impairment and 365,000 are<br />
completely blind,” he said. “Going<br />
out to eat should be a pleasurable<br />
experience, not a frustrating one.<br />
I would hope these companies see<br />
it as a no-brainer. That is the main<br />
challenge, getting these companies<br />
on board.”<br />
Tappy Menu had a soft launch<br />
in January and went wide in July,<br />
attracting 500 users in its first<br />
month. John has fielded inquiries<br />
from Canada, the United Kingdom<br />
and Australia.<br />
“Our goal is to eventually take it<br />
to cover North America and then<br />
the UK,” he said. “We want this to<br />
be the biggest application that contains<br />
restaurant menus.”<br />
He hopes to one day make money<br />
from the app by having restaurants<br />
advertise promotions or coupons.<br />
“The goal is also to help as<br />
many blind people as I can,” John<br />
said. “One day Ann and I were having<br />
a conversation about how much<br />
we tip the waiter or waitress and<br />
she said, ‘it depends on how much<br />
patience they have with me.’ That<br />
really triggered something in me.<br />
I thought, it’s <strong>2015</strong> and for an app<br />
like this not to exist is amazing.”<br />
Ann is thrilled with the invention.<br />
“My brother is my rock,” she<br />
said. “He has always backed me up,<br />
even when we were fighting like<br />
brothers and sisters are supposed<br />
to. This has actually brought us a<br />
lot closer.”<br />
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What would you ask<br />
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BY JOSEPH ABRO<br />
Pope Francis, 79, will be making his first appearance in the<br />
United States this month. He’ll appear at the World Meeting<br />
of Families in Philadelphia and also plans stops in New York<br />
City and Washington, D.C. We asked a few bright young<br />
minds what they like best about this beloved Pope, and what<br />
they would ask him, given the chance.<br />
All of our amazing previous<br />
Popes showed their<br />
humbleness towards us,<br />
but Pope Francis, in my<br />
opinion, shows his humility<br />
in a different way, especially<br />
when he reaches out to<br />
us. He personally will call<br />
and hand write letters to<br />
his people himself, rather<br />
than have another person<br />
do it for him. That is what I<br />
like most about our Pope,<br />
his great humility. I would<br />
ask him, how can one<br />
make their prayer life stronger<br />
and what is it that you<br />
do to strengthen yours?<br />
– Bianca Kasto, 21<br />
Sterling Heights<br />
One thing I admire about<br />
Pope Francis is that he is<br />
a very humble man. Everywhere<br />
he’s been, he’s left<br />
a great impression. One<br />
thing that has stuck with<br />
me was when he was<br />
asked about the gay community<br />
and he said, “Who<br />
am I to judge?” If I ever<br />
had the chance to meet<br />
him I would ask him to<br />
ask all the millionaires in<br />
our country to contribute<br />
and donate to the poor.<br />
– Valerie Dallo, 20<br />
Troy<br />
What I admire the most<br />
about Pope Francis is<br />
his commitment towards<br />
world peace, and<br />
especially his successful<br />
efforts to foster peace<br />
between the U.S. and<br />
Cuba after 50 years of<br />
tension. If I could ask<br />
him anything, I would ask<br />
him, where do you see<br />
the public perception of<br />
Catholicism in the next<br />
10 years?<br />
– Austin Kallabat, 21<br />
West Bloomfield<br />
Pope Francis, with his<br />
humility, care and universal<br />
outreach, is a breath<br />
of fresh air. We should all<br />
be proud to have such an<br />
amazing man at the head<br />
of our Church. If I got to<br />
ask him one question, I<br />
would ask him what his<br />
are plans to increase<br />
youth interest and participation<br />
in the Church.<br />
– Fadi Sadik, 20<br />
Rochester Hills<br />
I like that Pope Francis<br />
seems to practice what<br />
he preaches in regards to<br />
rejecting wealth in favor<br />
of charity. I’d like to ask<br />
him why the church won’t<br />
change its stance on<br />
contraception despite his<br />
work with AIDS patients<br />
and the overwhelming<br />
consensus of the scientific<br />
community.<br />
– Justin Bahoora, 28<br />
Rochester Hills<br />
I admire Pope Francis’<br />
humbleness the most.<br />
My question to him<br />
would be about what his<br />
vision of God is.<br />
– Myrna Siba, 19<br />
Madison Heights<br />
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Building Community Scores a Bingo<br />
Jewish, Chaldean groups meet and mingle<br />
By Gail Katz<br />
Photos by Jerry Zolynsky<br />
An interfaith program was held June 29 at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />
Catholic Church in West Bloomfield, where nearly 100 Jews and<br />
Chaldeans of all ages came to honor senior citizens and celebrate<br />
the ongoing friendship and connection among the two communities.<br />
Fr. Andrew Seba kicked off the evening in the church’s sanctuary<br />
with some information about the history of Chaldeans. He pointed<br />
out some of the images in the sanctuary and their importance. He<br />
then introduced (in both English and Arabic) Rabbi Paul Yedwab<br />
from Temple Israel.<br />
Rabbi Yedwab gave a short history of Temple Israel in West<br />
Bloomfield, which will celebrate its 75th anniversary in 2016. He<br />
highlighted the similarities between the Jewish and Chaldean communities,<br />
emphasizing how both languages had their roots in Aramaic,<br />
the language of the Jewish prayer for the dead — the Kaddish.<br />
He also spoke about how both communities live together in West<br />
Bloomfield and Oakland County.<br />
Vanessa Denha Garmo, editor in chief of the Chaldean News, informed<br />
participants that she grew up in a mostly Jewish neighborhood<br />
and went to lots of bar and bat mitzvahs. Her grandparents<br />
came over from Iraq in the 1960s, and she shared humorous stories<br />
about her grandmother’s love of TV shows like General Hospital<br />
and The Young and the Restless — shows that seemed like real-life<br />
episodes to her. To Chaldean immigrants, family is so important, she<br />
said, as family members all live together in the same home upon arriving<br />
in the United States.<br />
Lois Shulman, an ombudsman for the senior Jewish community,<br />
spoke about how she volunteers much of her time with Jewish residents<br />
in nursing homes. Her emphasis was on respecting elders by<br />
listening to their stories and learning from their wisdom.<br />
Following the speakers, the group went to the social hall for<br />
some delicious Chaldean appetizers and tasty Jewish desserts. The<br />
social hall was set up for bingo, and Fr. Andrew and Rabbi Yedwab<br />
were an incredible comedy team as they called out the bingo numbers<br />
and gave away prizes.<br />
Afterward, Arthur Horwitz, publisher/executive editor of the<br />
Jewish News, underscored the wonderful feeling of friendship between<br />
the Jewish and Chaldean communities.<br />
He said he was proud to see that Building Community Initiative,<br />
started by the Jewish News and the Chaldean News about six years old,<br />
is still going strong today and successfully breaking down myths and<br />
stereotypes about each other while building respect and understanding.<br />
All were asked to bring school supplies for needy elementary<br />
students in Oakland County and Sterling Heights. Many of the<br />
guests packed these supplies into backpacks donated by Temple Israel<br />
and the Chaldean Community Foundation.<br />
Leaders of the event say they will continue to work to bring people<br />
together for joint social action projects; they believe bringing both<br />
communities together is a major step in bonding with each other.<br />
Gail Katz is co-chair of the Jewish Chaldean Social Action Committee,<br />
along with Rula Yono.<br />
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1. Fr. Andrew Seba (right) reacts to<br />
something funny said by Rabbi Paul Yedwab.<br />
2. Lining up for Chaldean and Jewish food.<br />
3. Norine Zimmer and Joey Kajy.<br />
4. Lois Shulman (left), Vanessa Denha<br />
Garmo and Sue Zoma.<br />
5. Feada Shaoni grabs pencils for the<br />
backpacks.<br />
6 Diane Okun and Laila Cohen load up<br />
backpacks.<br />
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ECONOMICS & enterprise<br />
Young Entrepreneur: ‘Donut’ Be Afraid to Dream<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Chris Denha always liked donuts. He especially<br />
liked the St. Patrick’s Day donuts he<br />
saw in a hotel pop-up in Chicago about a<br />
year and a half ago. With their themed sprinkles<br />
and frosting, each one had some Irish flair.<br />
The idea stayed with Denha, so he traveled to<br />
different donut shops around the country, including<br />
Chicago, New York and Los Angeles, to glean<br />
inspiration for his new gourmet shop, Donut Bar,<br />
in Southfield.<br />
The 32-year-old Denha, who has a marketing<br />
and management degree from Wayne State University,<br />
brainstormed with local architect Jawan<br />
Matti. Matti intentionally created the shop’s interior<br />
to be a simple, fast-paced, check-out-all-thedonuts-while-you-are-in-line<br />
concept. There are<br />
three standing-only tables against the wall; otherwise,<br />
most people pick up their treats in an assembly-line<br />
fashion and eat them elsewhere.<br />
When Donut Bar first opened in July, Denha<br />
and his staff could not keep up with the demand,<br />
selling out after just three hours. Even upon making<br />
more and more donuts, customers continued to<br />
stream in, wowed at all the different kinds of sweet<br />
treats from cereal and candy-inspired to dessertstyled<br />
and regular glazed.<br />
“Our donuts are calorie-free because they are<br />
made with love,” Denha joked.<br />
He even flew in a donut specialist who stayed<br />
with them for five days, refining recipes and adding<br />
some, like his favorite and one of the bestsellers,<br />
the Tres Leche, a three-milk glazed donut<br />
topped with homemade whipped cream and<br />
fresh berries.<br />
A third-generation partner in the family-owned<br />
Franklin Market in Pontiac, Denha has made the<br />
donut shop a family business too. His sister Serena,<br />
he said, is the backbone, running the daily operations.<br />
His mother May offered some recipe ideas<br />
too, like the best-selling Strawberry Chantilly donut,<br />
a sort of sandwich with homemade whipped<br />
cream, fresh strawberries and powdered sugar.<br />
Donut Bar takes special orders for parties too —<br />
they are made a little bit smaller so they are easier<br />
to eat. At a recent wedding, guests finished 200 donuts<br />
in 15 minutes!<br />
Anyone hungry?<br />
Denha has some advice for other young entrepreneurs.<br />
“Go into it fearlessly and don’t get discouraged.<br />
Believe me, I’ve been there,” he said. “You just<br />
have to be willing to take a shot.”<br />
Donut Bar + Coffee is located at 29039 Southfield<br />
Road. Visit DonutBarDetroit.com.<br />
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<strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 45
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events<br />
awake my soul<br />
PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />
The August 22 Awake My Soul was a hit with<br />
community members seeking a boost in their<br />
spirituality and faith. ECRC sponsored the event<br />
at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Warren.<br />
Activities included talks by Bishop Francis and<br />
Bishop Saad Sirop, a special program for kids,<br />
a Nizar Fares concert and midnight mass.<br />
48 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>SEPTEMBER</strong> <strong>2015</strong>
1. Archbishop Jibrael<br />
Kassab<br />
2. Asaad Kalasho<br />
3. David Enwyia, Manny<br />
Razoky, Antraneck<br />
Akrawi, Kriakoss Hanna<br />
4. Michael K. Khalil and<br />
Derek Adolf<br />
5. Nathan Kalasho<br />
and Madison Schools<br />
Superintendent Randy<br />
Speck<br />
6. Mohamad and Zainab<br />
Hamimi and Lauren<br />
Samona<br />
7. Calvin Proctor, Maria<br />
Joseph, Matyoss Joseph,<br />
Andre Dewalt Jr., Minra<br />
Joseph<br />
8. Assistant Principal<br />
Dr. Zena Najor, Sophia<br />
Shamoon, Lisa Mansour<br />
9. Mixing and mingling<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3<br />
4<br />
5<br />
6 7 8<br />
keys grace<br />
ribbon cutting<br />
PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />
Keys Grace Academy, the first charter school<br />
to offer Chaldean/Assyrian/Syriac language,<br />
culture and history, held its grand opening on<br />
August 6 in Madison Heights.<br />
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event<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3<br />
4<br />
5<br />
6<br />
7<br />
8<br />
9<br />
10<br />
project bismutha<br />
walk-a-thon<br />
1. Lukman Gyosif 2. Ayad, Sara, Miriam, Clara and Helena<br />
Abrou 3. Dr. Musib Gappy, Joanne Shamoun, Dr. Nahid Elyas<br />
and Patrick Alexander 4. Ashley Zaitouna, Irene Zaitouna,<br />
Jennifer Shamoun and Olivia Gabrail 5. Eva and Sal Jajjo<br />
6. Holly Romaya 7. Timothy Somero, Andy Gappy and Martin<br />
Manna 8. Haifa Kirma and Maysem Abbou 9. Lisa Kejbou,<br />
Sharon Hannawa, Idan Hannawa and Mae Hannawa<br />
10 and 11. Scenes from the day<br />
11<br />
PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />
Hundreds came out to Camp Chaldean on August 2 for the<br />
Third Annual Project Bismutha Walk-a-Thon. Participants<br />
enjoyed a stroll, lunch and a mass celebrated by Bishop<br />
Francis. More than $18,000 was raised to supply medications<br />
to displaced refugees inside Iraq.<br />
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