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THE CHURCH OF PENTECOST

SALTPOND DISTRICT

Presents

The Burial, Memorial &

Thanksgiving Service

for the late

Madam Agnes Ussher

AGED : 90

On Saturday 21st January, 2023 &

Sunday 22nd January, 2023

@9:00 am prompt.


ORDER

OF SERVICE

Part 1

BURIAL & MEMORIAL SERVICE

Opening Prayer & Worship // Dns. Theresah Hagan

Chorus // Congregation

File Past

Introduction of Dignitaries //Conductor

Song

Reading of scriptures // 1 Thes 4:13-18

Mfantse // Eld. Ato Danquah

English // Dns. Esther Harding

Thanksgiving Prayer // Eld. Mark Amoah

Biography by family

Tributes:

Children

Grandchildren

and Church

Song // Dns. Justina Sam

Sermon // Ps. Solomon Y. Acquah

Alter Call

/Prayer // Eld. Seth Ohene / Beld. Badu Nsarkoh

Offering

Prayer for the bereaved family

Votes of thanks by family

Announcements //Conductor

Closing prayer // Eld. Daniel Osei

Conductor // Eld. Mark Abban

Part 2

AT THE GRAVE SIDE

Receiving the casket

Song

Prayer // Eld. Alex Arhin

Committal // Ps. Solomon Y. Acquah

Prayer // Eld. Mark Abban

Benediction // Ps. Solomon Y. Acquah

Then I heard a voice from heaven say, "Write this: Blessed are the dead who

die in the Lord from now on." "Yes," says the Spirit, "they will rest from

their labor, for their deeds will follow them.”

NIV Revelation 14:13

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B I O G R A P H Y

For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again,

even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him

those who have fallen asleep. 1 Thessalonians 4:14 -

Ma d a m A g n e s N a n a E k u a

W o n d o r s u U s s h e r ,

a f f e c t i o n a t e l y k n o w n a s

Maame Ussher, was born on the 6th of

December 1932, at Saltpond to Mr

Francis Ussher and

M a d a m V i c t o r i a

Quagraine, both of

b l e ssed m e m o r y.

S h e was t h e l a s t

born of ve children.

We a re g a t h e red

here today because

Maame Ussher has

r e t u r n e d t o t h e

wonderful God who

created her. She has

g r a c e f u l l y

completed the cycle of birth, life, and

death and returns to the maker.

Although this is a journey that we shall

all one day complete, her unexpected

Now the laborer's task is o'er;

Now the battle day is past;

Now upon the farther shore

Lands the voyager at last.

Father, in thy gracious keeping,

Leave we now thy servant sleeping.”

departure on Friday, 16th December

2022, lls us with deep sadness, which

we are still struggling to come to terms

with.

M a d a m A g n e s

Ussher started her

formal education at

t h e S a l t p o n d

Methodist School,

where she excelled

as a pupil. She was a

very intelligent and

diligent pupil who

had a remarkable

m e m o r y . A l l h e r

teachers loved her,

n o t j u s t f o r h e r

intelligence but also

for her utmost politeness, poise, and

self–control. She made the most of the

short education she received by

becoming a lifelong learner and being

very observant.

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A G N E S U S S H E R

Nana Wondorsu's mother, Madam

Victoria Quagraine was an astute

businesswoman who travelled to

d i f fe rent towns to t ransact h e r

business often accompanied by her

daughter. During one such travel, Agnes

met and fell in love with Mr John Ainu

Eghan of blessed memory. They soon

married and started their lives together

at Agona Swedru in the Central Region

before moving to the capital city Accra.

The union produced ten children.

Madam Agnes Ussher was a staunch

Christian who worshipped with the

Church of Pentecost. She was a faithful

and supportive member of the Church

and an active member of the Women's

Ministry at Kaneshie in Accra. She was a

very committed, spirit- lled Christian

who could make all who met her feel

special. She always went to Church with

a smile and sparkle in her eyes and was

loved by all, including her church family.

Nana Wondorsu raised her 10 children in

t h e fe a r o f t h e Lo rd. S h e was a

kind–hearted and giving woman who

showed compassion and care beyond

her immediate family. She welcomed

many relatives and friends, including

friends of her children, into our home

and took care of them as if they were her

children. She fed and gave shelter to

many that came into our home.

Her humility, kindness and generosity

touched the hearts of many, including

many present here today. She would

sometimes pay off debts for her

relatives and not request the money

back. Whenever she received a special

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A G N E S U S S H E R

gift from any of her children, she would,

in turn, donate it to people dear to her

heart, including her pastors and close

friends. While this behaviour at times

frustrated her children, she always

explained her actions by saying that she

was 'sowing seeds' for her children and

that we shall receive more favour and

blessings from God in return. We

learned the meaning of sacri ce,

s h a r i n g , a n d s e r v i c e f r o m h e r

generosity.

Maame was a busy housewife who

diligently took care of her husband and

ten children and sowed a sacred seed of

love. Later in life, she worked at the Issue

Department of the Bank of Ghana as a

C a s h C o u n t e r. S h e w a s a v e r y

industrious woman. She baked a lot for

family and friends and turned her

passion for baking into a business by

selling to her fellow employees at work.

M a a m e a l s o e n g a g e d i n t h e

transportation business. She owned a

taxi and a Mercedes Benz bus, which

p rovided h e r w i t h m u c h - n e e d e d

income. She eventually moved back to

Saltpond after her retirement and was

assisted by her late son, Mr Richard

Egan.

As an independent woman, she insisted

on handling her affairs. After her second

son passed, she remained active until

she fell ill in July of this year. She went to

be with her maker after this brief illness

on 16th December 2022, at the age of 90

years.

While the family hoped and prayed that

she could recover, the greater truth is

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S O C I A L & F R I E N D L Y A G N E S U S S H E R

that God gave this precious gift on

loan to us for a while, and through

death, God has called her back. She

left behind eight (8) children,

twenty-seven (27) grandchildren

a n d e i g h t e e n ( 1 8 ) g r e a t -

grandchildren.

Nana Wondorsu strongly believed

that “None of us lives for ourselves

alone, and none of us dies for

ourselves alone. If we live, we live for

the Lord; and if we die, we die for the

Lord. So whether we live or die, we

belong to the Lord.” (Romans 14:7-8).

Maame Ussher, kwan so brεbrε

Maame Wondorsu, da yie

Nyame nfa wo kra nsie

Rest in perfect peace, Amen.

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adam Agnes Nana Ekua Wondorsu

MUssher was a beautiful, kind-hearted

m o t h e r. S h e was h a rd–wo r k i n g ,

creative and multi–talented.

She was a very good cook with excellent pastry

skills. Baking cakes was her passion. During

Christmas, she would bake the most delicious

cakes and the thick sweet aroma of the freshly

baked cakes would ll the entire kitchen

spreading to all the adjoining rooms. But the

cakes which melted in the mouth were not for

home consumption. She would rather send

them off, parcelled as gifts to her pastors,

doctors, supervisors and close friends. No

matter how many pieces she baked, they were

never enough and her children had to settle for

‘Rockies’, which were also very tasty.

She was also very skillful at sewing. When her

children were leaving home to attend boarding

schools, she would sew cloth bags, bed sheets,

jumpers, pyjamas, etc. for them. She even used

to sew delicate dresses for us using pieces of

different fabrics, years before ‘asaasawa’

became fashionable in Ghana.

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If there is one Bible verse which captures

Maame best, it is the description of a gracious

woman in the nal chapter of Proverbs. It says

“strength and dignity are her clothing and she

laughs at the time to come’’. Proverbs 31: 25.

STRENGTH, DIGNITY AND LAUGHTER are

three exceptional gifts which we honour and

celebrate today.

HER STRENGTH

Maame Ussher’s greatest strength was her

wisdom, rooted in the fear of the Lord. She was a

very strong-willed woman who skillfully brought

up ten children and countless other family

members and friends. Although raising so many

children might have been hard for her, she was

always protective and fair and loved us equally.

She was a busy, hard–working mother who

accepted her labour as “cheerful service” to her

family. This show of maternal strength has been

a precious gift and blessing to us all.

HER DIGNITY

Despite life’s ups and downs, Maame Ussher

lived life with a sense of dignity. She possessed

the ability to stand strong and tall in the face of

adversity. In her lifetime, she lost two of her

children and all four of her older siblings, all of

whom she cherished and loved dearly, but her

Christian faith kept her going strong. She was

impartial and always stood up for her beliefs.

She led a life of dignity, avoiding gossip, anger

and lies.

LAUGHTER was her other gift.

Maame Ussher’s life was lled with a rich sense

of fun and joy and the music of laughter. She

always had genuine warmth to her smile, and we

always lled our house with an atmosphere of

fun, laughter and affection. Just as the gracious

woman ‘‘laughs at the time to come’’ (Proverbs

31), Maame Ussher was very optimistic about life

itself. She was always hopeful and con dent in

the face of adversity and the unpredictable

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challenges of life. Her happiness and optimism

were based on the belief that this life is to be

lived to the full as a preparation for the next.

It was indeed a shock to hear of her passing. It

was a shock because we had visited her less than

two weeks before. We saw her lift herself, smile,

extend her hand to be rubbed, and open her

mouth to show us that she had eaten the ice

cream we had fed her. It is painful to accept the

fact that she has indeed left us. But as the

saying goes, God knows best.

We thank God for the assurance that there is life

after death for those who die in the Lord!

Maame, we are very proud of you for your loving

care, kindness, and your dedication to your

church. A lot of people never had the

opportunity to have a mother. A special mother

is indeed hard to nd. You were a mother to the

motherless and a mother to even many that had

mothers.

Finally, the last chapter of Proverbs has more to

say about a gracious woman: ‘‘many women have

done excellently, but you surpass them all’’.

Proverbs 31:29.

Maame Wondorsu, you surpass them all! Maame

Agnes, you shall be fondly remembered for:

Advice and guidance you offered us all,

Grace and goodness, your unique qualities,

Never complaining; you worked in dignity,

Eyes so kind and warming,

Shining a beacon of light to guide our paths.

We think about you always. We talk about you

still. You have never been forgotten and you

never will. We hold you close within our hearts

and there, you will remain. To walk and guide us

through our lives, until we meet again.

Farewell the well Maame.

Nantew yie Nana Wondorsu, Nyame nfa wokra

nsie.

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TRIBUTE BY IN-LAWS

HAROLD CARTEY, NANA THOMPSON, TINA EGHAN,

BERTHA CORQUAYE & ISAAC NYARKO

HAROLD AFRIYIE CARTEY

Several decades ago, I was lled with anxiety,

nervousness, etc - stereotypical emotions of a guy

who was about to meet his future mother-in-law for

the rst time - when Mabel, my future wife,

introduced me to her mother, Madam Agnes Ussher

(a.k.a Maame).

However, Maame, during that rst meeting, you made

all those feelings of uncertainty disappear instantly

when you asked Mabel to offer me a plate of some very

delicious jollof from your kitchen! Right there and

then, I felt completely welcomed and at home. This

feeling of acceptance has grown ever stronger

through the many years I have been your son-in-law.

Maame, your warmth, kindness, support and loving

heart for us never wavered. You were always the

standby rock for Mabel and me, and for your grandkids

Dennis, Derek and Nathan. I am and always will be

grateful to you for giving me the wonderful family that

I have.

Here on earth, I keep hearing human voices saying

"She Is Gone". But by a leap of faith, I also keep hearing

the sweet voices of the Heavenly Angels saying "There

She Comes! Welcome to Your Permanent Home, Here

in Heaven"!

ISAAC NYARKO

I rst met Maami (Mama Ussher), I think in 1989 when I

left home (my father's house in the Dansoman

Estates) to live with my friend, Amina (aka, Pot Pee) in

the Mataheko area. Amina's house is directly opposite

Mr. Lankwei's house and that is where Maami lived with

her family. I don't know, but I quickly became friends

with all in the area. That means all, including all of

Maami's children.

I, fortunately ended up marrying Maami's last born,

Maame Ama. Maami was well mannered and above all,

so patient when it comes to the challenges that

comes up in marriage. Her advice and counseling will

forever remain with me. To say I miss you, is an

understatement.

Maami is the true epitome of what God made humans

to be. My brother, Junior and the entire family has

described her as a wonderful woman. We will surely

miss her.

You did your best and your love and generosity for the

family was without discrimination. Ayekoo Maami!!! I

salute you and wish you safe journey to your maker.

Rest in perfect peace Maami.

Maame, you will always be the sky above spreading

your love over all of us. We love you back and will miss

you forever.

Rest well in the arms of Almighty God.

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It's with a very heavy heart that we share these

few words about our dear Grandmother. Oh how

sad were we, when we found out that our one and

only grandma, affectionately called Maame, had

passed on. We cried and asked “Oh Awurade,

aden?” Oh Maame, Maame! Yet we know that our

God gives life and takes it away. So even though

our hearts are heavy, we trust His judgment and

timing. And we want to take this moment to say

thank you Maame for being a grandmother like no

other. Thank you! And also to say to all those

reading these tributes, who have taken the time

to come and support us during our time of

mourning and reflection: Yeda moase paa! Please

take a moment and consider who she was to us

through these few stories and memories we seek

to share. And celebrate with us that we all had

the privilege to walk and commune with such a

wonderful lady!

If we were asked to describe Maame in three

words, we would say “generous”, “creative” and

“faithful”. Maame was an embodiment of these

traits in many ways than one. In the book of

Hebrews we are told that in the past Nyankopon

spoke to our fathers in diverse ways and at

different times by the prophets (Hebrews 1:1).

Just as God gave His perfect word in diverse ways

and at different times, Maame helped to train us

and impressed her wisdom on us, in diverse ways

and at sundry times.

So when did Maame teach us generosity? She did

this every time we visited and every time she

visited. Never once did us part ways without

Maame making sure that we had money for our

fare or whatever else was needed. Maame was a

woman of modest means; however, her giving

and sacri cial attitude meant she would always

nd ways to bless a visitor. She always did unto

others as she desired to be done to her. And in so

doing, we saw generosity in action and thus have

always desired to be a blessing to others.

Maame was also woman who was creative and

practical in ways that truly amazed us. Growing

up, we knew of people with fancy kitchen

g a d g e t s . T h e s e a p p l i a n c e s m a d e t h e

preparations of certain dishes and delicacies

simple and straightforward. Maame didn't have

these new appliances so she resorted to

creativity and ingenuity. One such instance was

how she made her cakes. Maame's cake rivaled

that of established shops not only by taste, but by

the ingenuity of her method. She was able to bake

her cakes to perfection using hot sand. Oh how

delicious and perfect! Also, Maame was the rst

person we know who made jollof with pig feet.

The aroma, the taste, the perfect “one one” and

the way it hit the spot every time! Indeed our

Grandma was one of a kind who took the

mundane and ordinary and made it her own

special creations!

Finally, Maame demonstrated faithfulness

through her everyday actions and particular

words of encouragement. In scripture, parents

are admonished to teach the young ones with

every opportunity. Whether sitting down, eating,

going out or coming in. To write the good words

of Yehowah upon the door posts; to be reminded

by the phylacteries of the perfect word of God.

So that eventually the holy truths will be written

upon our hearts and impressed deep into our

minds and souls. When that happens, we cannot

help it but to spill scripture with every

conversation, interaction and action. Maame was

to us someone who indirectly and directly put the

good Word into action before us. She did this by

her love to our savior and redeemer! Those of us

who were living abroad, she admonished us not to

neglect the fellowship of believers, even as she

was faithful in worshiping till the end! She also did

this by her faithfulness in giving to the church

and encouraged us to be the same. And nally,

she did this by encouraging us to be fruitful and

to multiple even as our good Elohim has

commanded us to!

Oh Maame you will be greatly missed! We will not

cease speaking of you till the end of our days. We

love and cherish you.

We thank God that we had you as our Maame.

Rest in perfect peace Maame!

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Tributes by

NEPHEWS & NEICES

“Those we love don't go away.

They wait beside us everyday. Unseen,

unheard, but ALWAYS NEAR.”

Still loved, still missed and forever dear. Aunt

Wondooso, we will forever cherish you in our

hearts for you were a great auntie to us.

Your spirit of hospitality, generosity and

accessibility will always be remembered. You

welcomed people into your home regardless

of blood relationship. It is no wonder that

friends of your children were taken in and

cared for by you without prejudice.

For some of us, you were our source of

sustenance when we were young. Today we

cannot write our stories without you. One of

our fondest memories of you was when your

mother, Maame Esi Korsimah, of blessed

memory, was still alive. Your regular monthly

visits to her were a nancial boon to everyone

in the house. You made sure to give everyone

pocket money before you left. We were always

happy to see you.

We pray that your journey to eternity will be

graceful and comfortable. May the good Lord

accept and embrace your soul to join those He

has called into His Kingdom.

Rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord until

the nal trumpet call, when we shall meet

again. Aunt Wondooso, thank you very much

for everything.

Lord, we come before you with heavy

hearts as we remember

AUNT WORDORSU

and the impact they had on our lives.

Please bring comfort and peace to

those who mourn their loss, and

may they find hope in your loving

presence and the promise of eternal life.

Amen.

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Tributes by

CHURCH OF PENTECOST

SALTPOND DISTRICT

“He will wipe every tears from their eyes. There will be no more

death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of

things has passed away.”Rev. 21:4 NIV.

“Every person's life ends the same way. It is only

the detail of how they lived and how they died that

distinguish one person from another.” ERNEST

HEMINGWAY

Unassuming, selfless, generous, calm and yet

engaging is how we would describe Madam Agnes

Ussher whom we affectionately called Maame

Ussher. Maame Agnes Ussher joined Saltpond

central assembly when

she retired from active

work in the year 2009. She

utilized every opportunity

to advise the church to be

prayerful, truthful and

holy. She will advise the

youth to be God fearing,

h u m b l e a n d t o l i v e

rigorous lives. She always

advised members to open

t h e i r h e a r t s t o G o d

because he is the only one

standing at the door of

our hearts, knocking to be

a l l o w e d i n . S h e w a s

faithful in her tithing. Her

g e n e r o s i t y k n e w n o

b o u n d s , f rom c h u rch

of cers to members. She

shared whatever she had

with one another and

everyone who came her

way.

You gave out your best wherever you found

yourself. The all-seeing and all-knowing God has a

reward waiting for you in heaven. Maame Ussher,

you have fought a good ght. You have nished the

race, you have kept the faith. Now the one in store

for you is the crown of righteousness which the

Lord the righteous Judge will award you on that

day and not only you but also to all who have longed

for His appearance. (2 Timothy 4:7-8).

We are grateful to God for the memories and

moments we shared with her. We are consoled by

the fact that you are in a

better place, where there

is no night, no weeping

a n d n o p a i n . W e a r e

saddened by her demise

and our hearts ache, but

our comfort is in the Lord.

We wish she had stayed

longer with us but our

maker's call is superior to

our wishes. We know she

h a s b e e n c a l l e d t o a

peaceful rest and eternal

glory. This is preferred to

the daily suffering and

struggles in this body- TO

LIVE IS CHRIST AND TO DIE

IS GAIN- Philippians 1:21

May she continue resting

in the Lord as we await the

time when the sleeping

and the living saints shall

b e r e u n i t e d i n t h e

kingdom of the Lord. We wish her sweet repose

and her legacies will continue to live on with us in

the Lord's bosom till we meet again. AMEN.

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CHILDREN, GRAND CHILDREN,

GREAT GRANDCHILDREN & FAMILY


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Jerusalem ye ahotew

Jerusalem ye ahotew

kurow

Oman no ye oman

kronkron

Da bi yebehyiam na ye’

ne Awurade boto Hallelu

Ya!

Wiase amane no dooso

1. Wiase amane no dooso

oohaw, aperepere ne

nyarewa

Owuo twa so ma won a

Wo-ahu Yesu Kristo no (x2)

Kristo bema ye’aho-me

Na obodwodwo yen kra daa

nyinaa

2. Akoneaba bebree yi mu

Ahodwan ne ahokyere yi

mu

Awie-e, nea ehia ne se:

wobehu Kristo anim (x2)

3. Apinisie ne dadwene

nyinaa mu

Mpaebo, mmuadadi nyinaa

m’

Abrabo pa na yede be-pue

Kristo no anim (x2)

4. Yen “nhweso-adwuma”

yi mu

Nea ehia yen ara ne se:

Akontaa pa na yebebu

wo Kristo no a-nim (x2)

Yereko man papa bi m’

Yereko man papa bi m’

Yereko man papa bi m’

Yereko oo, Yereko oo

Yereko oo, Yoreko oo

Yeretutu yen anan senea

Yeretutu yen anan senea

akwantufo retu o!

Yeretutu yen anan senea

akwantufo retu o!

Yeasi so reke Zion

Zion kuro fefe no mu;

!h4 na y1b1tra daa daa

Yeretutu y1n anan s1nea

akwantufo retu o!

Akwantu bi wo ho a

1. Akwantu bi wo ho a

yebetu

Enye wiase ha akwantu

no bi,

Soro ho akwantu na

yeretwen,

Anigye ben na saa da no

beye!

2. Se sum hye kabii ma

apranaa bobom,

Ma Kristo mu awufo sore

kan,

Na se yene wen bom

kohyia Kristo a,

Anigye bon na saa da no

beye

3. Anigye na yede betu

kwan no,

Ahurusi na yede behyia

Kristo

Gyedifo nyinaa bebom

anantew,

Anigye ben na saa da no

beye

4. Yebehu yen ho anim

ne anim

Bere a yebehyia we

ahengua no anim,

Na se ahotewfo nyinaa

bom tena a,

Anigye ben na saa da no

beye

5. Yewo dwom foforo bi a

yebeto,

Soro abofo mpo renntumi

nnte ase

Yen nkunimdi ho dwom

na yebeto,

Anigye ben na saa da no

beye

Nyame nye h3n wo ho

Nyame nye h3n wo ho 2x

Otsen ne nsa wo neber mu,

Ma tum nyenaa bra ase...

Ne dzen Emmanuel kyer3 s3

Nyame nye h3n wo ho ndenso.......

nyame nyeh3n wo h).

Guide me, O my great Redeemer

1. Guide me, O my great

Redeemer,

pilgrim through this barren land;

I am weak, but you are mighty;

hold me with your powerful hand.

Bread of heaven, bread of heaven,

feed me now and evermore,

feed me now and evermore.

2. Open now the crystal fountain,

where the healing waters flow.

Let the re and cloudy pillar

lead me all my journey through.

Strong Deliverer, strong Deliverer,

ever be my strength and shield,

ever be my strength and shield.

3. When I tread the verge of

Jordan,

bid my anxious fears subside.

Death of death, and hell's

Destruction,

land me safe on Canaan's side.

Songs of praises, songs of praises

I will ever sing to you,

I will ever sing to you.

Abide with me; fast falls the

eventide

1. Abide with me; fast falls the

eventide;

The darkness deepens; Lord, with

me abide;

When other helpers fail and

comforts flee,

Help of the helpless, oh, abide

with me.

2. Swift to its close ebbs out life’s

little day;

Earth’s joys grow dim, its glories

pass away;

Change and decay in all around I

see—

O Thou who changest not, abide

with me.

3. I need Thy presence every

passing hour;

What but Thy grace can foil the

tempter’s pow’r?

Who, like Thyself, my guide and

stay can be?

Through cloud and sunshine, Lord,

abide with me.

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Appreciation

The children and the entire

family of the late

hereby express their sincerest appreciation

to you for mourning with them in their

time of bereavement.

God richly bless you for your prayers,

presence and supports during the

funeral celebration.

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