Thesis Book - Seeds of Hope

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HOSPITALITY
One thing that has been consistent in Afghanistan
regardless of the issues going around in the country is
the hospitable culture and verbal greetings that show both
respect and integrity. There are widespread Arabic phrases
and greetings since the religion of Islam is the official
religion in the country. The most common verbal greeting
in Salaam Alaikum translates to “Peace be upon you”. This
phrase is used amongst all Muslims. Following the Phrase,
it is then required to ask the person about their health,
business, and their family. Once these pleasantries have
been concluded, you can then ask a direct question about
them. A very common form of greeting for men is to place
your right hand over your heart and nod to the person as
a way to show sincerity in your verbal exchange. Amongst
women, it is customary to kiss the cheek two or three
times when greeting others (A guide to afghan greetings).
When Arriving at the house, it is recommended
to take off your shoes even if the host mentioned it
is not necessary. The oldest person of the guest has
ushered into the house first as a sign of respect. When
entering the room, the seating room varies based on the
person’s status. The wall that is the furthest from the
door is considered a place of honor and is reserved
for guests. The oldest of the family is often placed
away from the door. It is always a polite thing to take
the place closest to the door, and only accept sitting
in the place of honor if the host insists otherwise,
which they always do (A guide to afghan greetings).
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