May 23 - GET IT Ballito Umhlanga

BALLITO • Umdloti • UMHLANGA 

ALL THINGS BRIDAL 

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Building a dream 

Peek inside a magnificent 

Zululami estate home 

Power mom Bonita inspires 

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SHOPPING, PEOPLE AND LIFESTYLE IN YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD 

MAY 2023

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contents 

Wish List 

6 Celebrating moms and the marvellous month of May . . . 

People 

10 Mother of four and entrepreneur Bonita Cherry 

proves moms really can do it all! 

14 Meet the founder of the 

Umhlanga Women’s Association, Praneetha Aniruth 

beauty & shopping 

17 Get brand new, blemish-free skin this winter 

22 Some of our favourite Mother’s Day gift ideas! 

homes 

26 A look inside a magnificent Zululami Luxury Coastal Estate home 

BRIDAL 

32 A bride in black and guests in white . . . we adore this 

unique and unconventional wedding! 

34 What’s on trend this wedding season? 

38 Semi-naked, bright and bold or full of dramatic flowers - what’s 

your favourite kind of wedding cake? 

40 The right flowers set the tone for your entire day 

44 Lovely Michigan is the artist behind the lens 

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Cover details: 

Bonita Cherry 

Shot by: Chris Allan Photo, 083 441 3144, 

www.chrisallanphoto.co.za 

Makeup: Kylie Pretorius, Kylie_P Make-up Studio, 

Sage Centre, Salt Rock, @kyliep_makeup, 

www.kbeautysa.co.za, 082 933 4536 

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A hot date! 

Celebrate your marvellous mom this May 

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Monster Jam is back and we are here for it! This year’s show, at the Moses 

Mabhida Stadium, promises to be even more revved up, perfect for fans looking 

for bigger, faster and louder experiences! Perfect for the whole family, this is an 

exciting event that will get everyone’s hearts racing! The ‘pit party’ (between 

1pm and 3.30pm) offers an opportunity for fans to meet the riders and take 

photographs with the trucks, and the actual show starts from 4pm. If you haven’t 

booked your tickets, make sure you get them soon! Bookings via www.showtime. 

co.za or www.ticketmaster.co.za. WIN! We’ve got a set of four combined (pit party 

and event family tickets valued at R1280) to give away to one lucky reader! Enter 

on this post on our socials, @GetItMagNC (T’s & C’s apply). 

Our Get It Ballito.Umdloti.Umhlanga reader events are simply 

ah-ma-zing! Fabulous food and décor, the loveliest venues and to-diefor 

goodie bags! This year we are hosting an exclusive Mother’s Day 

Bubbly Brunch at the Manor House Venue in Sheffield. The theme 

is ‘love yourself and your home’ and our three guest speakers (image 

consultant Lynne McMaster, interior designer Philippa Courtenay and 

psychiatrist Dr Niresha Mudaly) will offer tips and advice on how to live 

your best life through all stages of womanhood. The decadent, hightea-style 

brunch will be supplied by Yoli’s Artisan Bakery and gorgeous 

autumn-inspired florals from Love Laugh will adorn the table. There will 

be bubbles. There will be giveaways. There will be fabulous goodie bags! 

Tickets are R795 per person and very limited! A portion of proceeds to go 

to The North Coast Courier Orphan Fund. 

Book with Jolene: reception@northcoastcourier.co.za, 032 946 0276. 

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Moms deserve it all . . . 

and then some! Gateway 

Theatre of Shopping is 

all about supporting moms, and 

now they are making it even easier 

to show your appreciation this 

Mother’s Day. Not only has the mall 

got everything a mom could want 

(from Apple watches to Zodiac 

charms and sweet treats to luxurious 

spoils), but they want to wrap it all 

up, exquisitely ready to present, too! 

Gateway has taken gift-wrapping to 

the next level with a permanent giftwrapping 

concierge set up near the 

Ted Baker store. Take your Mother’s 

Day gifts (valued at R350 or more) to 

the beautiful black booth to be giftwrapped 

for free. On special calendar 

days (such as Mother’s Day), Gateway 

partners with its special tenant 

Reach for A Dream to wrap with love, 

donating R25 to the charity for every 

gift wrapped. Gateway’s Mother’s Day 

gift-wrapping service runs from 12 to 

14 May. 

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Promotion 

Vallencia’s 

Mother’s 

Day spoils 

Vallencia Magwaza, one of the 

friendly Liquor Specialists from 

TOPS at Lifestyle, shares her top 

three Mother’s Day picks to spoil 

Mom with this month. TOPS at 

Lifestyle also has a great range of 

choccies, treats and gifts to pick 

up with your wine or liquor. 

Baglietti Prosecco No. 10 has a 

large scent and an elegant dry taste 

of pears, citrus and almonds. By 

allowing the wine to rest on yeast 

over time, a particularly dry and full 

flavour is able to evolve. Only 

grapes from the Piave 

area in Italy, Bagliettie’s 

most qualitative area, are 

used in No. 10 Prosecco. 

The perfect way to raise a 

toast to a deserving 

mom! 

Musgrave Pink is a delightful rose gin made with 12 rare 

botanicals. Spicy, warm cardamom and juniper share the 

first taste to the palate and are supported by distinctive 

notes of African ginger and grains of paradise. The spices 

marry perfectly to give a smooth and fragrant finish. Pop 

a gorgeous big glass of gin on a pretty tray with a sprig or 

bunch of flowers and let Mom sip on it with her feet up 

this Mother’s Day. 

It all began in the mysterious souks of 

Marrakesh as Sally Williams, a renowned chef, 

embarked on a quest to create exceptional 

nougat. Her secret formula has resulted in 

what is widely considered the finest honey 

nougat in the world. Now, Sally Williams and 

Monteer Fine Liqueurs proudly present the 

most delectable cream liqueurs imaginable - a 

heavenly blend of nougat cream with honey, 

nuts and a splash of cognac.

Book club 

Romance between the pages ... and a flirty rosé 

When Belle’s quiet, idyllic life on the 

coast starts to crumble, it’s a stranger 

thousands of miles away in Italy who 

provides a shoulder to cry on. And so, 

when she’s sent a beautiful gift with 

a note signed off ‘P.S. Come to Italy!’ 

she decides to follow her heart. A 

palazzo in beautiful Puglia, flashy cars, a 

glamorous, albeit warring family ... the 

Italian break wasn’t about falling in love. 

But under the sun-kissed olive trees, 

anything can happen. Nicky Pellegrino’s 

a fabulous author, and P.S. Come to 

Italy is the perfect romantic read. Orion 

An office quiz night with an 

all-expenses-paid trip to 

Zanzibar up for grabs. Two 

colleagues who share a 

desk but drive each other 

to distraction. A prize that 

needs to be shared. Not ideal 

... but maybe the holiday 

from hell could turn out to 

be the vacation dreams are 

made of. What Happens 

On Vacation by Jo Watson 

... light, romantic, hugely 

enjoyable. Headline 

This pale, coral pink dry Steenberg Ruby Rosé delivers subtle fragrances 

of strawberry sherbet, blueberry coulis, rose petal, watermelon and fresh 

garden herbs on the nose, and then shows off a fresh palate ... all juicy 

summer melon, berries and spiced peaches. It’s clean and bright and is the 

perfect drink for all happy occasions ... and what’s happier than book club 

with friends on a lovely May evening? R100 from steenbergfarm.com 


Wish list 

With its Goldilocks weather (not too hot, not too cold) 

and special celebratory days (we’re talking to you, mum), 

May really is marvellous 

We. Are. Obsessed. Realistic petals, 

leaves and stems inspired by roses, 

snapdragons, poppies, daisies ... this 

LEGO Flower Bouquet model building 

kit is genius. The 756 pieces - many of 

which are made from a plant-based 

plastic, produced using sustainably 

sourced sugarcane - include 

adjustable stems and petals that 

are positionable, so you can design 

different arrangements to suit different 

rooms and vase sizes. It’s not just a flower 

arrangement ... it’s hours of fabulous creative 

fun. Part of the LEGO Botanical Collection for adults, 

the kit costs R999 from greatyellowbrick.co.za, and it’s 

right at the top of our wish list this May. 

We’re going to be honest. We like our wine. But that’s not to say we don’t like to be 

considerate with our intake. So we’re massive fans of drinking light. We’re also suckers 

for pretty packaging. So this Robertson range is ticking all the right boxes. Full of flavour 

(you may be trading calories and alcohol content, but you aren’t trading taste), the 

Robertson Winery Cultivar Light range has a bright, floral packaging and includes a 

Chenin Blanc, Sauvignon Blanc, Pinotage Rosé and Merlot. You’ll find it at your local wine 

store for between R65 and R75 a bottle, so really light on your pocket, too. Pop over to 

our website to find out why you should be changing over to a lighter wine. 

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A chocolate that helps 

with stress. Heaven. This 

Biomedcan CBD Dark 

Chocolate, with 70 per cent 

cocoa, is dark, smooth, and has 

CBD Cannabinoid, one of the natural 

compounds of Hemp extract. Try it 

after dinner, let it melt in your mouth and 

it should assist in melting away the stress 

and concerns of the day. Also available in milk 

chocolate. R129 from biomedcan.co.za 

According to the creators, Jimmy 

Choo Fever EDP is for women who 

are radiant and confident ... has a taste 

for hedonism and loves heading out 

for a night filled with fun, music and 

dancing. Count us in! From your fave 

fragrance store, from around R1099. 

Sundowners just got fancy 

It’s pronounced lee-LAY. It’s not 

new - it was created by brothers Paul 

and Raymond Lillet in the village of 

Pondesac, in the heart of France’s 

famous wine-making Bordeaux 

region, in 1872. It’s low in sugar and 

alcohol. And it’ll make you go ooh la 

la! Launched in SA last month, this 

French wine-based aperitif is a brilliant 

rose colour and is all berries, orange 

blossom and grapefruit. You can drink 

it straight up on its own as a chilled 

aperitif – a drink to open the stomach 

before a meal – as the French prefer 

to do. Or try it in a signature Lillet Rosé 

Tonic cocktail ... pour 50ml Lillet Rosé 

and 100ml of tonic water over ice in a 

tall wine glass, garnish with a wedge 

of lime, or with a slice of grapefruit 

and a sprig of thyme. C’est délicieux! 

Book club just got fancy! It’s rolling 

out to Solly Kramer’s, PnP, Tops at Spar, 

Makro, Ultra Liquors and Woolworths 

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Tranquil vistas 

Guests sipped bubbly and nibbled on delicious snacks as they perused the 

newly-opened Sharula Estate wedding and functions venue just outside Ballito 

recently. The tranquil venue offers panoramic views and rolling lawns and is set 

on a working Marula farm. 

Nosipho Thabede 

The Ambrewlance crew, Cindy and Lee-Roy Hewitt 

Neville McKeown 

Cindy Rynhoud, Grace Wood and Jen Swanepoel 

Sharula owners Kim and Warren Tabori-Clarke

Jay Naidoo, Jody Walters, Gaye Kennedy, Tash Wheal, Rose and 

Bruce Stephenson, Leah Shone, Karyn Kruger and Nirvana Sing 

A fond 

farewell 

Past and current staff members of 

The North Coast Courier newspaper 

and Get It Magazine Ballito.Umdloti.Umhlanga 

came together for 

an intimate celebration in Sheffield 

Beach recently, to honour the company’s 

founder, Bruce Stephenson, 

who recently retired after starting the 

business more than 38 years ago. 

Karen Watts, David Hoehler, Pieter 

Naude and Jaco Koekemoer

Power mom 

Although it sometimes requires a lot of juggling, Ballito business owner and mother of 

four, Bonita Cherry, is living proof that women can successfully do both. 

Text: Leah Shone Makeup: Kylie P Makeup Photos: Chris Allan Photo 

“I never saw myself as a career 

woman. I always only ever wanted 

to be a mom and preach the gospel,” 

laughs petite Bonita, seated in the 

chic boardroom of her Ballito-based 

marketing and e-commerce agency. 

“But I fell in love with this business, 

and brand development, because it 

allows me to breathe destiny into the 

lives of people.” 

Bonita and her husband Dylan, who 

have been married since they were 21 

and 31 respectively, are the founders 

and co-owners of Outlook Orange - a 

creative business development agency 

that aims to build meaningful brands. 

The couple moved to Ballito from 

Kloof just under five years ago and 

have four children - Mila (11), Sam (9), 

Layah (7) and little Anna, who is 14 

months old. 

One would never say, seeing her in 

her work environment, that this stylish 

no-nonsense company director has 

four children at home, let alone one 

under the age of two. But, as one of 

five children herself, it was almost 

inevitable that Bonita, who is very 

close to her siblings and parents, 

would one day have a large family of 

her own. 

Having once suffered from 

debilitating asthma, Bonita says she 

experienced God in a real way at a 

very young age, after being healed 

instantly. “It was a pivotal moment for 

me and I knew I wanted to serve Him 

from then on.” 

After school, Bonita started a BA in 

English and psychology at UKZN, but 

became frustrated trying to balance 

work and studying, as she was paying 

for her own tertiary education. She 

transferred to UNISA in her second 

year to manage her time and make 

more money. “I was working three 

jobs. I would wake up early and study 

from 3am so I had the rest of the day 

to work.” 

When Bonita met her husband 

Dylan, who worked in design and 

trend forecasting at a top advertising 

agency, she knew he was the one she 

wanted to spend her life with. 

I absolutely love 

what we do and 

the process we go 

through to build 

a brand. 

“I prayed for a husband who would 

allow me to be exactly who I was 

called to be, and Dylan is that. He has 

never stopped me, although there 

are times when he does have to reel 

me in,” she laughs, “but he has always 

supported me and his patience and 

calm balance me.” 

After working in sales for a few years 

Bonita realised it wasn’t for her and 

she wanted to pursue a career that 

would enable her to be creative. Her 

first taste of brand development 

came when she started doing the 

marketing for a five-star game lodge 

called Nambiti Hills. 

When Dylan left his job to start Outlook 

Orange in 2009, Bonita joined the 

company a year later. “I absolutely love 

what we do and the process we go 

through to build a brand. We unpack 

the meaning and purpose of the brand, 

look at its values and marry that with 

their meaningful vision for impact.” 

When an amazing job opportunity 

came up for Dylan, a talented digital 

marketing specialist, with Mr Price 

in 2011, Bonita took over running 

Outlook Orange on her own. Over the 

next 10 years things changed vastly 

and the business continued to grow. 

The couple had two more children 

and they moved their offices from 

Kloof to Ballito just a few months 

before the Covid pandemic hit. “We 

always dreamed of living on the North 

Coast and this really was the best 

decision we’ve made.” 

When the pandemic lifted, Bonita says 

the business just grew and grew and, 

since Dylan re-joined the business a 

year ago, it has doubled. “We are now 

a team of 12 and are so happy. Moving 

here was a bold step, but definitely the 

right one. Our staff are incredible and 

we really are like a family.” 

Juggling her family and business is 

challenging, but Bonita makes things 

work with the help of an au pair a few 

days a week, a home helper and her 

very hands-on, dedicated husband. 

“I want other moms to know that no 

matter how hard it gets juggling kids 

and business, they shouldn’t ‘throw 

in the towel’. It just makes too much 

dirty laundry! Pursue your dreams 

and make it happen. Get the help you 

need and trust God.” 

Details: www.outlookorange.com 



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Gift for mom . . . 

quality time 

There is no doubt that most mothers would choose time with their children over gifts 

any day of the week. This Mother’s Day, gift your mom with the most valuable thing of 

all - quality time - at Lifestyle Centre, Ballito. Enjoy a coffee or brunch, a spa spoil, retail 

therapy or even some creativity, live music or art . . . the options are endless. 

Mom and daughter 

creative time at 

The Pottery is a 

wonderful way to 

enjoy special quality 

time together. 

Pick up something 

special for mum 

from the Gift 

Shop at Lifestyle 

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something for every 

mom with their a 

wide selection of 

smellies, candles, 

diffusers and so 

much more. 

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Start your Mother’s Day off the healthy way at Coffee Lab in 

The Studios with their delicious smoothies and smoothie bowls. 

And if you’re feeling energetic, enjoy a fitness or pilates class 

together at FITPOD beforehand.

Enjoy a light lunch with Mom 

from the new lunch 

menu at Toast, created 

by the doyenne of local 

chefs, Jacqui Rey. Choose 

from delicious light meals, such 

as perfectly topped flatbreads, or a 

selection of fresh salads, full of flavour 

and crunch. 

Celebrate Mother’s Day with 

their exclusive ‘mother and 

daughter’ Esse Experience 

Facial! Treat yourself and 

your mom to a luxurious 

60-minute bespoke facial, 

designed to target your 

individual skin concerns. You’ll 

get to relax and rejuvenate 

with an acupressure facial 

massage that will leave your 

skin feeling soft and supple. 

Book now for only R1200 for 

both treatments and create a 

special memory that you and 

your mom will cherish forever! 

Spoil mom with a flower arranging course at 

Love Laugh’s First Thursdays floral workshops. 

Their first one takes place on 4 May and thereafter 

on the first Thursday of every month at Next Level 

in The Studios. You will leave with your beautiful 

floral master piece. 

Soak in the art and culture at 

The Gallery together with mum this 

Mother’s Day . Their latest Stories.za 

exhibition is not to be missed. You will 

find The Gallery inside The Studios, 

opposite Weylandts at Lifestyle Centre. 

Round off your day by enjoying the 

live music and good vibes at 

The Market or Eat Street. With 

so many different food offerings 

you simply cannot go wrong with 

the great food and welcoming 

atmosphere. 

Nothing is quite as bonding as a bit 

of retail therapy with mum! White 

Summer’s Megan Knit is one of their 

favourite knits this season, especially 

here in KZN with our mild winters . 

This trans-seasonal basic knit creates 

an effortless, yet elevated look. The 

Megan knit is 100% Cotton offered in 

solid colours, as well as two stunning 

stripe patterns. R789 

WIN! 

an assortment of 

spoils from the stores 

featured in this article. 

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media for competition details. 

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A shining light 

They say that out of the darkness comes light. 

This certainly has been the case for Umhlanga 

businesswoman, mother and Umhlanga Women’s 

Association founder, Praneetha Aniruth. 

It was about eighteen months ago that Praneetha's eyes were 

opened and her life changed forever. “I was living in a bubble, but 

when the riots and floods happened, I realised there were people 

starving just a few kilometres from my home and I could no longer 

continue with my eyes closed.” 

What started out as a gesture to feed the neighbourhood watch 

team, who were doing patrols during the riots, evolved into 

the creation of a volunteer-led community kitchen to feed the 

hungry, and then a fully-fledged non-profit company 

(NPC) called the Umhlanga Women's Association. 

Now, just a year-and-a-half later, chairperson 

Praneetha, her executive committee and more 

than 1000 members of the association are helping 

hundreds of desperate women and families 

on the North Coast every day, in a number of 

different ways. 

With a background in marketing, broadcasting 

and public relations, Praneetha is the co-founder 

and partner at leading South African digital 

agency, Carver Media. She is also the CEO of 

two other companies, Audience Networks and 

Swiitch Agency. She is a dedicated mom of two 

sons, and wife to husband Avilash, who she 

has been married to for 27 years. 

“It all began during the riots in July 2021,” 

she says. “It was still in the peak of Covid and 

we were making food for the patrolmen. 

We were then approached by people from 

neighbouring communities who were starving 

and needed food. We wanted to help but 

weren't sure how. With no bank account yet, we 

didn't want to take money, so we asked people 

to donate groceries so we could compile and 

distribute hampers.” 

It didn't take long before Praneetha and the 

volunteers to realise that the grocery hampers 

weren't the best solution. “We quickly realised we 

had to change our approach because the people 

didn't have electricity, so they were selling the 


groceries for paraffin. Also, the people who really needed 

the food – the frail, elderly, single mothers and childheaded 

households - didn't have transport to collect it. 

We decided we had to take already cooked food directly 

to them.” 

Working out of a makeshift community kitchen in a 

temple in Umhlanga, Praneetha says women of all 

different races, religions and backgrounds came together 

to prepare the food. “It was incredible. The women would 

sing while we cooked, it felt like we were in a war. I didn't 

even know the names of many of the women I was 

working with.” 

They worked closely with the ratepayer’s association and 

community policing forum to ensure the people who 

needed it most were getting the meals and, on 9 August 

(Women's Day) 2021, Praneetha officially registered the 

Umhlanga Women's Association as an NPC. 

“Although it isn't a business, I soon realised I had to 

structure and run the association like one, with an 

executive committee, to ensure we meet the needs of 

the community.” 

When the floods hit, the team sprang into action again, 

this time making up to 500 meals a day. The premises 

they were working out of became too small and, a year 

later on their first anniversary, after massive fundraising 

drives and incredible generosity from local business 

people, the association opened its own community 

kitchen working out of a park home at the Saxony 

Shopping Centre in Umhlanga. 

While the association started off as a community outreach 

initiative to feed the hungry, it has since evolved and 

grown to meet a number of different needs for women 

in the area. “We have different areas where women can 

help other women. This could be assisting them with legal 

advice, imparting skills and training to help them generate 

an income, donating pre-loved clothing or sanitary 

pads for young girls who are missing school during their 

menstruation, or donating money.” 

The association's most recent development has been the 

launch of their gender-based violence and mental health 

awareness campaign. “Unlike our other programmes, 

this isn't only for underprivileged women. This is for the 

women suffering in silence in our own communities, 

our neighbours.” 

The recently-launched campaign involves creating 

awareness and educating people around GBV and 

mental health issues, which Praneetha says so often go 

hand-in-hand. 

“This has already been such an incredible journey but 

we still have so far to go. We have the most amazing 

committee and members, and I could never have done 

any of this without them, or without the help of God and 

my incredible family and husband. They are at the centre 

of my life.” 

Details: www.umhlangawa.co.za, @umhlangawa

eview 

Brand new (winter) skin 

Our warm North Coast climate and long sunny days mean we have to hold off on 

certain facial treatments until the cooler months arrive. We recently tried out the 

Limelight treatment at The Good Skin Co, which is ideally suited for winter months. 

If your skin is damaged from the sun, or you have unwanted 

pigmentation (such as freckles, blotchiness, redness and 

rosacea), then the Limelight treatment might be just what 

you're looking for. 

A laser treatment where the laser is attracted to either 

melanocytes (pigment cells) or red blood cells on the 

skin, Limelight is highly effective and, according to The 

Good Skin co-owner Michelle Blom, considered the 

'gold standard' treatment for sun damage and post 

inflammatory pigmentation. 

The process consists of two treatments which can be done 

annually (preferably in winter) and is very quick and just 

slightly uncomfortable. 

After preparing your skin with a gel, therapist Tammy 

Stanhopes uses the Cutera Laser to perform the procedure. 

(The Cutera Laser is a customisable, multi-application 

laser and light-based device used to treat a wide range of 

nonsurgical aesthetic concerns). 

The actual treatment lasts just a few minutes and involves 

a series of blasts or 'shots' of laser to the specific areas you 

want targeted. Afterwards, Tammy applies ice packs to your 

skin to cool the areas, and the hot, burning sensations lasts 

for about an hour afterwards. 

After the treatment, you will experience darkening of the 

pigmentation and redness, which lasts for about four to five 

days. Make sure you have some good quality foundation to 

apply to cover up if you’re going to be out and about and 

don’t forget your sunscreen (even in the cooler months). As 

the skin sheds, the pigment starts to peel off, leaving you 

with beautiful new skin underneath. 

The Good Skin Co. 

Dr Michelle is passionate about aesthetic medicine and 

she and her therapist Tammy are highly qualified and 

experienced in their field. Aesthetic medicine has been Dr 

Michelle's focus for the past seven years and she recently 

opened a beautiful new aesthetic clinic, The Good Skin Co, 

at the La Lucia Mall. 

Details: The Good Skin Co, Shop 303A La Lucia Mall, 066 479 

8565, @thegoodskinco.za

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and ambitious attorneys, to 

brilliant businesswomen and 

creative queens … 

no one hustles quite like these 

hardworking mamas! 

Kita Veale – Homestead Décor 

Homestead Décor is 8 years old and Kita’s biggest 

joy. Kita and her husband Brett have two boys 

aged 4 and 5. Biggest challenges to working 

moms? Balance. It’s something I still haven’t quite 

managed to get under control and honestly, it’s a 

juggle! And guilt … I feel I’m either letting down 

my kids, my hubby or my business. 

Things you can’t live without? My Skyline coffee 

every morning after school drop off and my 

wonderful work assistant who I trust immensely. 

Details: www.homestead-decor.co.za or 

kita@homestead-decor.co.za 

Caryn Overton – Dandelion Designs 

Caryn has two girls aged 9 and 13. She loves the ocean 

and being creative and her interior design studio, 

Dandelion Designs, offers full turnkey projects 

in both commercial and residential spaces. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? 

Trying to be present when either working or ‘momming’. 

I don’t believe multitasking is a skill - it detracts from 

what you are trying to achieve both personally and 

professionally. Being present is a skill. Things you can’t 

live without? My planner, my support structure 

of family and friends and coffee! 

Details: 072 707 7016, caryn@dandelionsa.co.za, 

www.dandelionsa.co.za, IG: dandeliondesignssa 

Sarisha Haripershad – Torga Optical 

An optometrist by profession, Sarisha juggles many 

crowns on any given day. She is an entrepreneur, 

boss, wife and mom to her feisty 6-year-old, Zara. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? 

My biggest challenge is finding balance between 

work and family. Managing my daughter, taking 

care of the family and juggling the responsibilities 

of the home and my career, work commitments 

and deadlines is challenging. 

Things you can’t live without? Routine, water 

and lots of hugs and kisses from my little girl 

every morning. 

Details: Torga Optical, Ballito Junction, 032 946 1416/7

Kayla Rick - Earth & Ice Smoothies 

Former professional dancer Kayla is a mom of twins 

and founder of Earth & Ice Smoothies that are 

super healthy and easy to make. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? I am pregnant 

with our third child, so the first trimester was the biggest 

challenge to me (IYKYK)! Generally though, the struggle lies 

in wanting to be everything for everyone. 

Things you can’t live without? My sons ‘day naps’ (won’t be 

around forever, so I’ll have to replace this with coffee!), 

coffee shops with internet and playgrounds and a work 

phone separate to my personal phone. 

Details: @kaylalauren77, @earthandicesmoothies, 0790885134 

Dr Megan Medina – Homeopath 

Dr Meg is a homeopathic doctor with a special interest in 

fertility, maternal mental health and paediatrics. Her passion 

project is the her new IG page, @mothernourished, 

which is an online village for mothers. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? Time to do all the 

things. Some days work takes preference, some days kids 

take preference, but often it’s the self-care 

(exercise/time out) that falls by the wayside. 

Things you can’t live without? 

Yoga, chats with friends to chat and coffee. 

Details: 079 8817199 www.drmeganmedina.co.za 

Tara-Leigh Putter – Optometrist 

Tara-Leigh is an optometrist and co-director of Spec-Savers Umhlanga 

Centre, Spec-Savers Oceans Mall and Execuspecs Oceans Mall. She’s 

also a new mom to her 7-month-old baby boy, Cruz. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? Finding time for myself 

after juggling work and home life - but my son’s smile makes it 

all worth it. 

Things you can’t live without? I am blessed with an incredible 

support system held strong by my supportive fiancé, Dane (who 

helps me through the toughest times), work colleagues, family 

and our nanny. 

Details: Specsavers Umhlanga Centre 031 561 4728, Specsavers 

Oceans Mall 031 476 0301, Execuspecs Oceans Mall 031 476 0302 

Kirsty Strydom - 

Hustle and Heart Cookie Studio 

Kirsty Strydom is a wife, mom of two and foundation phase 

teacher. She also owns Hustle and Heart Cookie Studio, creating 

royal iced cookies for any occasions. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? My biggest challenge 

has definitely been learning to balance my time between work 

and family. 

Things you can’t live without? A few strong cups of coffee, 

kindness and a good sense of humour! 

Details: 073 2900734 (WhatsApp), FB: Hustle and Heart Cookie Studio, 

IG: hustleandheart.cookiestudio

Marlene Singh - 

head of finance, Rainmaker Marketing 

Marlene has a wealth of experience in the finance sector, 

particularly for real estate, property development and 

marketing. She heads up finance at Rainmaker Marketing, 

Africa’s leading property and lifestyle marketing agency, and 

loves spending time with her daughter and grandson. 

Biggest challenge to working moms? 

Finding a balance between work and family life. 

Things you can’t live without? My passion for my job, hugs 

from my grandson and prayer first thing in the morning. 

Details: Innova Haus, Marine Walk 1 Salta, 

Jabu Ngcobo Dr, Umdloti, 031 101 3100 

Uastacia Nombuso Sithole - GM Hooters 

Uastacia Nombuso Sithole, who recently transferred from the 

Umhlanga to the Florida Road Hooters, is a 

proud mother of two children (aged 14 and 4) who she 

says are the absolute loves of her life. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? Just trying to 

balance home responsibilities and work demands. We have 

to wear two hats all the time and keeping work frustrations 

at work and home frustrations at home Things you can’t live 

without? Music, it sets my tone and resets me, 

coffee and a daily challenge! Details: Hooters Rocks, 2 Lagoon 

Dr, Umhlanga Rocks, 031 942 3401; 

Hooters Florida Road, 178 Florida Rd, Berea, 031 006 5191 

Melanie Clarkson – 

head of marketing, Collins Residential 

Melanie has over two decades of experience as a marketing 

professional in the property industry. She manages the marketing 

of high-profile developments such as Lalela, Seaton, Zululami and 

Emberton Estates and is a mom of two. 

Biggest challenges to working moms? The agility to seamlessly 

transition from one world to another in minutes, where we 

often have to step out of intense zoom meetings and straight 

into lift club chatter! 

Things you can’t live without? My faith, my family and the 

wonderful North Coast surroundings we live in. 

Details: www.collinsresidential.co.za, 031 536 8005 

Jaqui Marais, creative director, 

Rainmaker Marketing 

Jaqui is the creative director at international award-winning 

property and development marketing agency, Rainmaker 

Marketing. She has over 13 years’ experience within the property 

marketing industry and is mom to her two beautiful daughters. 

Biggest challenge to working moms? Learning how to 

efficiently and fairly split our focus between work and mom life. 

Spending quality time with my girls is of the utmost importance 

to me, as is excelling in my career. 

Things you can’t live without? My whiteboard kitchen calendar, 

a weekly meal planner and my comfy bed! Details: Innova Haus, 

Marine Walk 1 Salta, Jabu Ngcobo Dr, Umdloti, 031 101 3100

Love 

your 

mom 

Gorgeous indoor greenery, 

lovely leather bags and stunning 

scented candles . . . here’s a list 

of our favourite Mother’s Day 

spoils this year! 

We love the Willow and Beach 

bohemian-inspired clothing range, 

and we’re sure your mom will too. 

This gorgeous Sammi Mini Dress, 

R1290, is available online: 

www.willowandbeach.co.za, 

@willowandbeach 

Your mom will love this gorgeous 

Thandana Utility Shopper Bag (R1189). 

It’s made from beautiful PVC laminated 

waterproof fabric with leather handles and 

has a separate inner zip pocket as well. 

www.thandana.co.za, @thandana_bags 

Wine and wax 

altogether? We love 

it. These Full Bodied 

Wine Infused wax 

melts (R60) are the 

ultimate indulgence 

for fragranceloving 

moms! 

www.fullbodied.co.za, 

@full_bodied_candles 


Moms love a great candle and we 

adore these Nude Lazy Sunday 

natural soy wax candles (R360) from 

our favourite North Coast candle 

maker, Nude Home Fragrances. 

www.nudehomefragrances.com, 

@nudehomefragrances 

What better way to thank you to your mom for 

helping you grow, than by getting her a beautiful 

plant to brighten her day? Khula Beautiful 

Botanicals at Tiffanys Centre can advise you on 

exactly the right plant for your mom, @khulagrow 

The stunning Riverlea 

Soaps (R45) are made 

from vegetable oils and 

have both essential and 

fragrance oils. They come 

in a variety of beautiful 

colours. www.riverleasoap. 

com, @riverleasoap 

Summer might be 

behind us, but that 

doesn’t mean mom 

doesn’t still need a 

beautiful beach towel. 

These extra-large, soft 

and light microfibre 

Shoreline towels 

come in a variety of 

beautiful prints. 

www.shoreline-za.com 

@shoreline_za 

May 2023 Get It • Ballito • Umdloti • Umhlanga 23

EAT 

Compiled by: KYM ARGO 

Good + Simple = Delicious healthy meals 

“I hope that many of these recipes will become family favourites, the kind that 

create a sense of belonging and are shared at your family tables for generations 

to come.” Sarah Graham’s Good + Simple is, quite simply, a magnificent 

celebration of vegetables and natural, whole foods. Dishes that are simple to 

make, wholesome to eat and massively enjoyable. Kicking off with a baker’s 

dozen tips on how to make the most of the book, and of meal times, she adds 

hints about including additional protein, and keys for helping you keep track 

of dishes that are vegan-friendly, gluten- and diary-free, for one pot dishes or 

those that take half an hour or less to make or use just five ingredients. So it’s 

user friendly from the first flavour bomb recipe (spiced granola sprinkles) to 

the last (sundried tomato and olive focaccia). In between, there’s everything 

from pesto and halloumi breakfast bagels to Friday night braaibroodjies, from 

weeknight burritos to lazy spinach and ricotta lasagne. There are sweet treats 

(speckled egg rocky road, anybody?) to a pretty little tiramisu that would hold 

its own at any dinner party, to life-changing three-ingredient scones (flour, 

cream, lemonade - you’ll never make them any other way again). For those who 

have Sarah’s previous cookbooks, this one will make a happy addition to your 

kitchen bookshelf; for those who have yet to discover her ... a delicious (and 

healthy) treat ahead! Penguin Random House, R400 from Exclusive Books 

Grow • Cook • Heal 

This informative book by Caz 

Hildebrand isn’t a cook book. Nor a 

gardening book. But Herbarium is 

crammed with bites of jolly useful 

information about around 200 herbs 

... sweet herbs (like basil) and tart 

herbs (think sorrell and bergamot). 

Minty, oniony, bitter, herbs to eat, 

herbs to heal, and some which could 

kill (nobody touch the Monkshood). 

There are suggestions on what herbs 

should be eaten with, and how they 

can be used in oils and teas, as well 

as loads of history, and interesting 

facts about every herb from Angelica 

to Watercress. Fabulous. Thames and 

Hudson, R445 


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The builders sourced the best possible materials and 

tradesmen to help turn the client’s dream into a reality. 

The funky bar and 

entertainment 

area. 

Text: Leah Shone Photographs: Chelsea Maloney, Poppy & Poet, @poppyandpoet 

Soft pops of pink add 

a little romance! 

Each carefully considered room is 

contemporary, clean and elegant. 


Duane 

Fishwick 

Building a dream 

When highly skilled architects, designers and builders 

come together to work hand-in-hand with owners who 

know exactly what they want, dreams come true. 

It's hard not to take a deep breath 

and say 'wow' when you first see this 

exquisite North Coast dream home. 

Minimalist, modern and luxurious, it's 

simply picture-perfect. 

Constructed and designed by the 

expert teams from Stronghold 

Build and Neospace Architects, this 

show-stopping project began with a 

conversation (during Covid lockdown) 

between builder Duane Fishwick and 

the homeowners. 

“I was working with a client in 

Simbithi and he referred me to the 

owners of this project. I called them 

up and we chatted briefly and, as 

soon as lockdown was lifted, we met 

on site,” says Duane, who started his 

career in the architectural side of the 

industry, but has since transitioned 

to construction. 

The owners knew exactly what they 

wanted, which, Duane says, made the 

whole process flow much easier. “They 

were well prepared and hands-on 

with lots of images and references.” 

The home, which seems as if it would 

be as well suited to an exotic island 

destination as it is to the stunning 

Zululami Luxury Coastal Estate in 

Sheffield Beach where it is situated, 

has five bedrooms (all en-suite), two 

lounges, two swimming pools and full 

solar and water back-up. 

There is also a double garage, two 

entertainment areas, a bar, kitchen, 

scullery and dining area. 

Duane loved being able to offer full 

turnkey services to his clients as the 

owner of Stronghold Build and a 

co-owner of Neospace Architects. 

“I always loved designing and 

drafting plans, but the real fun and 

my passion is in the actual building 

of these structures. I love the 


process of bringing my visions 

from plan to reality.” 

By offering both design and build 

services, Duane says he can ensure 

that what is built is exactly per the 

design plan, and within the client's 

budget. He also offers his building 

services to projects that have not 

been designed in-house. 

For this particular project, Duane 

worked with professional architect 

Martin Kluger from Neospace. 

“From the first couple of meetings 

we could tell that the clients knew 

exactly what they wanted. Martin 

began the design work and there 

were minimal changes because we 

really made sure we followed the 

design brief. After nine tough months 

of hard work by myself and my team, 

the keys were handed over to our 

very happy and excited clients.” 

Without a doubt the most striking and 

unique aspect about the home are 

the two large simplistic timber arches 

that frame the building. “These took a 

lot of careful planning to ensure they 

matched the design's simple, floating, 

minimalist concept,” he says. 

The home’s interior was done entirely 

by the clients themselves, says Duane, 

“I just ensured we helped them 

achieve the look they were going 

for by using the best materials and 

tradesmen in the industry.” 

Details: Duane Fishwick Stronghold 

Build, @stronghold.build, 

www.strongholdbuild.co.za, 

duane@strongholdbuild.co.za; 

Neospace Architects: @neospace_ 

architects, hello@neospace.co.za, 

www.neospace.co.za, 032 586 4023 

I love the process 

of bringing my 

visions from plan 

to reality. 

The house has two swimming pools 

and a lovely entertainment area. 

The owners did the interior 

decorating entirely on their own. 


Tying the 

knot 

Flowers, cakes, venues 

and some magnificent 

honeymoon destinations ... 


The 

unconventional 

bride 

Nothing says ‘unique’ 

like a bride in a black 

wedding gown! This 

exquisite wedding was 

planned and executed 

by North Coast wedding 

planners Oh Happy Day. 

Here are the details... 

“We are a wedding planning 

company that loves to push the 

boundaries creatively,” says owner 

Jolene Botha. “We love bold and 

bright ... but we also love black. So, 

when our bride Nadia Buckley told 

us she’d be wearing a black wedding 

gown on her special day and that 

her husband Tim would be wearing 

a black Tuxedo (while the entire 

wedding party, vendors included, 

had been told to come dressed in 

white for the occasion), we jumped at 

the opportunity to turn this unique 

wedding into a reality.” 

The photographs of this incredible 

day – set in the heart of the Cape 

wine country – really do speak for 

themselves, but Joelene shares a few 

highlights about what made this 

wedding so special. 

“We hope this wedding inspires other 

brides to be brave and bold when 

making decisions that work best for 

them,” says Jo. 

THE HIGHLIGHTS 

* Nadia (a professional makeup artist) 

did her own makeup for her wedding 

day and drew her inspiration from 

'old Italian glamour', keeping her 

accessories simple and low key; 

* The string quartet, which played 

the bride down the aisle, added the 

perfect touch of old-world glam and 

set the scene perfectly; 

* A minimalistic colour palette can be 

very effective when done correctly. 

Nadia chose white flowers and a 

neutral tablescape to match her 

guests’ attire. When the venue was 

full and they made their entrance ... 

it was grand! 


* Despite the overall theme of 'oldschool 

glamour', there was a surprise 

element of a night club 'after-party' 

complete with stage, rigging and 

lighting! SA deejays Pascale & Pearce 

had the dance floor rocking all night! 

“What inspired us most about being a 

part of Nadia and Tim’s wedding day, 

was the fact that they stood firm in 

their ideas and never once doubted 

their vision,” says Jolene. “Staying true 

to who you are as a couple – both 

creatively and emotionally – goes a 

long way in ensuring you have the 

best wedding that suits your needs, 

and that there is nothing but pure 

enjoyment from beginning to end. 

It was a joy to create something that 

we know will inspire other brides to 

be themselves and follow their own 

vision, because there is no right or 

wrong when it comes to designing 

your dream day!” 

Vendor list: 

Venue: Idiom Wine Farm 

Photography: Pritti by Migneon Marais 

Wedding planner: Oh Happy Day 

Florals and décor: Aspen Floral Co 

Furniture: Baie Goeters 

Stationery: Secret Diary 

Entertainment: Pascal & Pearce 

Lighting: Unfazed Pro 

Sound: Adrenaline Audio 

Cake: Kanya Hunt 

Bride and bridesmaid dresses: 

Vonve Couture 

Groom’s suit: Frank Bespoke 

Bridesmaid makeup: 

Make Up Exquisite 

Bride’s makeup: 

The bride, Maple Face Makeup 


A ‘uniquely you’ 

wedding 

Brides and grooms are 

moving away from 

traditional wedding décor 

and using their wedding 

as an opportunity to 

express their unique style 

and personalities instead. 

From the use of sustainable 

materials, to creating exciting and 

unforgettable atmospheres, this 

year’s wedding décor trends are all 

about individuality, sustainability 

and creativity. Ballito-based wedding 

coordinator, Candice Morphew, 

shares some of this year’s hottest 

wedding trends. 

First on the list of trends is statement 

floral installations. From grand 

ceiling installations to breathtaking 

floral arches, couples are embracing 

the beauty and impact of large-scale 

blooms to create a wow factor in 

their décor. 


Another trend that has been popular 

for a few years - and is not going 

anywhere in 2023 - is the use of neon 

signage. Couples use fun and quirky 

phrases to add a touch of personality 

to their décor. 

Eco-conscious couples are opting 

for sustainable décor options such as 

reusable tableware, biodegradable 

confetti and locally-sourced flowers. 

Materials such as bamboo, recycled 

glass and reclaimed wood are being 

incorporated into décor as well. 

Maximalism is also taking over 

wedding décor in 2023. Bold colours, 

patterns and textures are being 

combined to create an electric and 

visually-striking atmosphere. 

Lastly, unconventional seating 

arrangements are becoming more 

popular with couples. Circular seating 

or banquet-style tables are being 

used to encourage a more interactive 

and social atmosphere among guests. 

Simply Fabulous Events encourages 

couples to embrace their unique style 

and preferences, and work hand-inhand 

with them to create a wedding 

that’s unforgettable for both the bride 

and groom and their guests. 

Details: candice@simplyfabulous.co.za, 

@simply_fabulous_events

Promotion 

HONEYMOONS 

Whether you’re looking for a blissful beach escape, a romantic mountain getaway or a lakeside 

retreat ... here are some wonderful honeymoon ideas for after the big day. 

Umngazi Hotel & Spa 

Umngazi Hotel & Spa is the perfect 

honeymoon destination for an 

idyllic escape. Nestled on the Wild 

Coast, the resort boasts stunning 

ocean views and a secluded 

beach. The comfortably appointed 

accommodation each offer its own 

deck and outdoor shower. 

The spa offers range of indulgent 

treatments, and there are loads of 

activities at the resort for every type 

of couple. The food is wholesome 

and delicious and completes 

the picture-perfect honeymoon 

experience at Umngazi Hotel & Spa. 

Details: requests@umngazi.co.za, 

www.umngazi.co.za 

Kingfisher Lakeside Retreat 

If waking up in crisp white linen on a queen size bed in a 

stunning glamping tent is your idea of a romantic getaway, 

then Kingfisher Lakeside Retreat is for you. Situated on the 

South Coast, this exclusive, upmarket tented camp offers 

the perfect luxurious, outdoor experience. 

Details: 074 170 4242, kingfisherlakeside@gmail.com, 

www.kingfisherlakesideretreat.co.za 

The Cavern 

Known as the ‘resort of many happy returns,’ The Cavern is a 

hidden mountain escape for couples. The rooms and suites 

overlook a beautiful fern forest, and each has its own private 

patio to relax in the sun, listen to forest streams and rest in the 

peace of mountain wilderness. 

Details: 036 438 6270, www.cavern.co.za, info@cavern.co.za

Let them eat 

(fabulous) cake 

Traditionally meant to 

bring good luck to all 

the guests, as well as the 

bridal couple, wedding 

cakes have evolved over 

the years to become 

magnificent centrepieces 

and exquisite, unique 

desserts served either 

before or at the end of the 

wedding reception. Smith’s 

Bakeshop owner Taryn 

Smith shares this year’s top 

wedding cake trends ... 


1Semi-naked wedding cakes are still our number 

one, most-requested style. Semi-naked means 

there is still a light layer of icing on the cake, but 

it’s been scraped down so you can see the layers 

of cake peeking through. It’s the perfect blank 

canvas for any style, from rustic to modern and 

boho to classic. 

2 

Pressed flowers. We love the pressed flower trend . . . it’s our 

favourite look! Edible flowers are used to add pops of colour 

and fun to your cake and they are perfectly safe to eat. 

3 

4 

5 

Big weddings are back with a bang and, 

while huge statement wedding cakes are 

back to feed all your guests and bring the 

‘wow factor’, there are still many couples 

eloping, or just having their closest friends 

and family present. Mini tiered cakes are 

perfect for these intimate celebrations. 

Colour and texture. A lot more couples are 

going for colour or texture (or both) to add 

interest to their cakes. We include texture 

with a simple stripe in the buttercream, 

smudges and layers, hand-painted flowers 

or (a bit more dramatic) the addition of rice 

paper shards. Couples are also embracing 

colour and I love it! Rich hues and metallics are making an 

appearance and it’s a lovely way to bring in your colour 

scheme in a different way. 

Dramatic 

flowers. 

Goodbye 

boring, old 

cake table 

… dramatic 

flowers (either 

on the cake or 

on the cake 

display table) 

will make sure 

your cake takes 

centre stage. 

According to Taryn, a few other trends to keep an eye 

out for are: lambeth cakes (the old-fashioned piping 

that gives the perfect vintage look for your big day); 

interesting cake stands, props and separators (particularly 

clear acrylic boxes with flowers used to separate the tiers); 

the inclusion of pets (sweet little sugar paste versions of 

couples’ fur babies are making an appearance on cakes 

and it’s a lovely way to include your pets in your day if 

they are not allowed at the venue. 

Details: KZN-based Smith’s Bakeshop specialises in 

buttercream wedding and birthday cakes - @smithsbakeshop

Find your 

florals 

While it’s no secret that flowers can take up a 

huge part of your wedding budget, it cannot be 

denied that the right florals can set the tone for 

the entire day. Floral expert, Cindy Rynhoud from 

Love Laugh, shares her favourite wedding flower 

trends for this season … 


Pops of colour 

We’ve been all about neutrals (white, creams and greens) 

for a while now, and while we love the simple, classic look 

there is something wonderful about adding gentle pops 

of colour. It is a beautiful way to symbolise joy and new 

beginnings, so don't be scared to sneak them in! 

Dried and preserved 

The dried and preserved look is still going to be around 

for a while. Dried bouquets and statement pieces are still 

popular in interior design, and weddings can follow suite. 

This doesn't necessarily only mean Pampass - there are 

many beautiful, proudly South African options, including a 

variety of indigenous, dried fynbos. 

Bigger isn’t better 

It is easy to get caught up in wedding planning, but you 

don’t need a huge bridal bouquet or massive centre pieces 

to make an impact. Keep it simple with bud vases and 

single stem florals, and small, simple bridal bouquets are a 

statement on their own. 

Go green 

While it’s not necessarily a cheaper option, going green is 

still a favourite. Take it up a notch by stepping away from 

eucalyptus garlands along the centre of the tables and 

rather fill a selection of pots with a mixture of botanical 

greenery. 

Throw some love 

Environmentally-conscious weddings are not a new trend, 

but one that we hope will continue to grow. Thankfully 

we’ve moved past the rice-throwing stage (!), so why not try 

aromatic leaves (rosemary, eucalyptus) and dried flowers for 

a biodegradable alternative? 

Flowers in her hair 

Step aside flower crowns (thank goodness!). We love 

soft braids with delicate florals (not baby’s breath, rather 

delicate options like heather) and wax flowers. It's a lovely 

way to tie in the theme with a touch of nature in your hair, 

and the softer and subtler the better! 

Make it personal 

Many brides feel they have to do things a certain way, but 

there is no right and wrong. Keep it classic if you want, 

but if that’s not your vibe, add a little personality and step 

outside the box! 

Details: Love Laugh, Lifestyle Centre Ballito, www.lovelaugh. 

co.za, cindy@lovelaugh.co.za, 032 648 0039, @lovelaughproteas 


Promotion 

where to 

say ‘i do’ 

What is your ideal wedding venue? Under a canopy of 

trees, alongside crashing ocean waves or tucked away 

or surrounded by magnificent mountains...? 

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SIMBITHI COUNTRY CLUB 

Simbithi Country Club is a privately owned, family-oriented 

venue located on the 430-hectare Simbithi Eco-Estate on the 

North Coast of KwaZulu-Natal. Nestled within the lush, natural 

surroundings of Simbithi, this venue will bring your fairy-tale 

wedding to life. Simbithi prides themselves on their personal 

attention, which has elevated them to one of the area’s most 

prestigious venues. 

Details: www.simbithi.com, events@simbithi.com, 032 946 5409 

GHOST MOUNTAIN INN 

At the foot of the legendary Ghost Mountain lies privatelyowned 

Ghost Mountain Inn - the perfect setting to 

experience the allure of Africa in stylish comfort. The 

relaxed Zululand ambiance, combined with personalised 

service from Ghost Mountain Inn’s highly skilled and 

professional team will ensure you enjoy the wedding of 

your dreams. 

Details: www.ghostmountaininn.co.za, 

035 573 1025, IG: @ghostmtn FB: @ghostmountaininn

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SHARULA ESTATE 

Imagine hosting your wedding in a romantic, outdoor venue 

surrounded by beautiful sprawling gardens, Marula trees 

and breath-taking panoramic views to Ballito and the ocean 

beyond. Sharula Estate’s country garden venue, only 10 

minutes away from Ballito, provides a stunning backdrop for 

your special day. Located on the beautiful North Coast, Sharula 

Estate offers a truly unforgettable setting to celebrate your 

dream wedding. Details: info@sharula.co.za, 079 847 9660, 

www.sharula.co.za, FB: @SharulaEstate IG: @sharula_estate 

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MANOR HOUSE 

Dreaming of saying ‘I do’ in a picturesque setting that 

exudes elegance and sophistication? The Manor House in 

Sheffield Beach is an iconic Cape Dutch Manor House that 

has been transformed into an extraordinary wedding venue, 

perfect for couples looking for a unique experience. With 

stunning views of polo fields, majestic trees and manicured 

gardens, The Manor House offers a range of function 

options that can be tailored to meet your needs. 

Details: candice@manorhousevenue.co.za, 062 420 8065, 

www.manorhousevenue.co.za 

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MAROUPI 

Maroupi, a family-run wedding venue 2km from Umhlali, 

is surrounded by sugar cane fields and guarantees privacy 

in its spectacular gardens. Maroupi has a 150-seater chapel 

on site as well as the option for a garden wedding that 

can comfortably seat 250. The reception venue seats 240 

people, but is extremely adaptable and works well for 

smaller weddings as well. The food is top notch and highlyexperienced 

manger and chef Janine Hill and her team are 

well-versed in a variety of cooking styles. 

Details: Janine: 083 717 0463, info@maroui.co.za, 

IG: @maroupiweddingsandfunctions, 

FB: @MaroupiWeddingsand Functions 

THE PLACE 

A tranquil setting tucked away in an indigenous nursey, The 

Place in Salt Rock offers a light and bright 16-seater dining 

room that resembles a greenhouse and is surrounded by trees 

and wild garden vegetation. The intimate and understated 

wedding and functions venue is ideal for 20 to 80 guests and 

décor and catering can be tailor-made for your needs and 

budget. This is a ‘home away from home’ and a very special 

place. Open Tuesday to Saturday for viewings. 

Details: Claremont ad, Farm, Sheffield Beach Road, 

083 775 8537, theplaceassistant@gmail.com

Artist behind 

the lens 

Always fascinated by photography, it 

wasn’t until Michigan Behn was asked to 

help her photographer sister-in-law at a 

wedding that her love for bridal 

photographry was unveiled. 


I’m told my style 

is ‘editorial’ and 

‘documentary’. 

reamy and romantic, 

Michigan's documentarystyle 

bridal photography is 

incredibly popular - both 

locally and internationally - 

and it is easy to see why. We get 

to know the artist behind the lens... 

Tell us about your background and 

when and how you discovered your 

passion for photography. 

I am one of four siblings - three girls 

and a boy (the apple of all of our 

eyes). When I think of my childhood, 

I think of family. On weekends we 

were surrounded by grandparents, 

aunts, uncles and cousins, and much 

of our childhood was spent in our 

big garden and in the swimming 

pool. I was always creative and had 

an interest in photography from a 

young age, but I decided to study 

fashion at Inscape Design College. 

When my (now) sister-in-law, Bron 

Veale, asked me to assist her at a 

wedding, it turned into a journey of 

mentoring me through shooting, 

editing and business skills. She shared 

her years of experience and wisdom 

and I couldn't be more grateful. I 

decided to spread my wings, focus 

wholeheartedly on photography and 

start my own business in 2016. 

Why the focus on 

bridal photography? 

I always say I 'fell into it', but I truly 

believe it was just meant to be. 

It's incredible working in that 

environment and be a part of a day 

filled with so much love and joy. It's 

overwhelming and truly an honour to 

capture it. 

Talented and beautiful. Bridal photographer 

Michigan Behn on her own wedding day. 

Tell us about your style of 

wedding photography. 

I'm told my style is 'editorial' and 

'documentary'. I love capturing 

what unfolds in front of me as 

naturally as possible, while bringing 

personality and substance out of 

intimate moments. I've always been 

a sucker for romance and I think my 

photographs have an old-school 

sense of romance about them. 

While people are my focus, I also 

love capturing the beauty and light 

around me. 


What is the most important aspect 

for you as photographer on 

someone's wedding day? 

I try to ensure the bride and groom 

stay present, soaking in the day and 

each other. I am a calming voice (and 

a mood-lightener) if needed. I am 

there for them. 

What has changed about weddings 

and what couples want from their 

photographs? 

These days couples are often 

influenced by social media and 

platforms such as Pinterest, and can 

get caught up in what is 'expected' 

of them and how they would like 

themselves to look … especially 

brides. Having been a bride myself 

recently, I had to remind myself to 

focus on the essence of the day 

and how I wanted things to feel 

rather than look. I have seen a shift 

lately though. Couples opt for more 

intimate and authentic weddings. I 

can't speak for other photographers, 

but the more 'posed' shots are taking 

a back seat, making way for more 

of the beautiful, raw moments and 

natural, unforgettable, imperfect and 

genuine imagery. 

What is your favourite moment 

at a wedding? 

I don't have a favourite moment … 

but more a favourite kind of moment: 

a moment that wholeheartedly 

captures the couple. It could be 

a gaze after they've kissed, or a 

sneaky show of love on the dance 

floor - that's what I'm there for. I love 

ceremony exit shots though … 

pure bliss! 

What are your do's and don'ts 

for couples? 

Don't sweat the small stuff, be too 

strict with timing or let any family 

members affect your decisions! Put 

your and your partner's wants and 

needs first, enjoy the build-up (it only 

happens once and then boom, it's 

your wedding day … and boom, it's 

over!), and make sure you spend time 

together and take breaks throughout 

the day to reflect and take in all the 

love. One more thing I recommend: 

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make sure there is enough of a gap 

between the ceremony and bridal 

shoots for couples to enjoy canapés 

and time with their guests. 

Your favourite place to shoot? And 

your dream shoot destination? 

That's a tough one! I love a home 

wedding – they are always so 

sentimental. I also love bush 

weddings because there's something 

so grounded about them. All our 

local venues are unique in their own 

way, though. I would love to shoot 

in Mallorca and more in Europe. I am 

Croatian, so I would love to shoot 

there too one day. 

Details: www.michiganbehn.com, 

@michiganbehn

FITNESS 

CARTEL 

We are proud to say that we offer it all and 

aim to stay up to date with the latest that 

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We offer: 

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Group training 

Metabolism Igniting 

classes 

Online training 

We have something 

that will suitall fitness 

levels and are motivated 

to help YOU achieve 

your goals! 

All class bookings and purchasing of 

classes orpackages is done through 

Octivn, an online booking system. 

Our online training is provided 

through our Fitness Cartel app. 

A personalized Nutrition plan 

can also be created and 

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Where to find us: 

45 Zenith Drive, The Quartz 

building, Unit 20, Umhlanga 

How to contact us: 

072 651 6788 

sheldon@myfitnesscartel.com 

to book your 

complimentary class 

Flatlet: 

2 bedrooms 2 bathrooms 

Open plan kitchen, living and 

dining room 

GET IT DIRECTORY 

Lloyds 

R EAL ESTATE 

R4 650 000 

EXCLUSIVE MANDATE 

BEAUTIFUL HOUSE WITH A 2 BEDROOM 

FLATLET IN SEAWARD ESTATES 

Awesome family home with a flatlet of 

112,5sqm ideal for an extended family or to 

generate an income. It has 3 bedrooms, 

2 bathrooms, pyjama lounge open plan 

dining and living room that opens up onto 

an under covered patio area that overlooks 

a lovely swimming pool that was recently 

been resurfaced. It has a double garage and 

a single garage. 

3 2 3 

414m 2 

Contact Karin 083 228 4948 l karin@lloydsrealestate.co.za 

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Tea is served. And so beautifully. We’re passionate 

about this Dahlia Daze collection from 

Maxwell & Williams (where we always find 

our favourite tableware - from basics through to 

spectacular designs and ranges). Is this particular 

set not perfect for a special occasion tea? Since 

it’s May and we’re thinking Mother’s Day, obvs. 

Our Spoil this month is so special ... a Maxwell & 

Williams Dahlia Daze teapot with an infuser, four 

matching cup and saucers, a matching creamer 

and sugar bowl, and (since what’s a tea without 

cake?) a Dahlia Daze footed cake stand. 

The Spoil is worth more than R3000. 

To enter, pop over to @GetItMagNC on 

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and follow the prompts. 

Details: maxwellandwilliams.co.za 

Spoil 

May 

A gorgeous Dahlia Daze tea 

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May 23 - GET IT Ballito Umhlanga

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