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The Elim Connection, April 2023

The Elim Connection is a community publication distributed three times per year to all residents of Elim Village, across two campuses. It is also shared with subscribers to our mailing list and those visiting our communities. The Elim Connection focuses on the stories and lifestyle of those living and aging in place at our two retirement communities.

The Elim Connection is a community publication distributed three times per year to all residents of Elim Village, across two campuses. It is also shared with subscribers to our mailing list and those visiting our communities. The Elim Connection focuses on the stories and lifestyle of those living and aging in place at our two retirement communities.

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A COMMUNITY NEWSLETTER<br />

LET'S GET READY<br />

TO GET OUTSIDE!<br />

A UNIQUE CHRISTIAN<br />

RETIREMENT COMMUNITY<br />

ISSUE 18 SPRING <strong>2023</strong><br />

SPRING <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 1


FROM<br />

THE EDITOR<br />

What an incredible time of year it is. Spring feels like the Friday night of<br />

seasons; on a Friday night, the whole glorious weekend stretches ahead,<br />

waiting to be fi lled. Maybe a better analogy is the onset of retirement; you<br />

may not know what the years ahead hold, but the potential is right there,<br />

ready to be realized. That’s like spring. <strong>The</strong> days are still getting longer,<br />

life is springing forth, and many months of sunlight and warmth await.<br />

It is impossible to deny the newness and hope that is spring, which is<br />

only amplifi ed by recent celebrations of Easter Sunday. He Lives!<br />

In your hands is the newest ELIM <strong>Connection</strong>, and I trust you’ll fi nd much<br />

enjoyment within. In particular I want to draw your attention to the<br />

article in the centre spread, which is the launch of an initiative entitled<br />

Let's Get Outside! & Track Our Progress. I, for one, am excited for May 1st,<br />

and after reading the article, I hope you are too.<br />

A publication of this nature involves a lot of work behind the scenes<br />

from residents and staff alike, and I extend a heartfelt thank you to<br />

each one who contributed to this 18th edition.<br />

Katrina LaRoy,<br />

Brand & Communications Manager<br />

Valentine's Day festivities at Fleetwood, and Garrison<br />

Crossing residents sporting green for St. Patrick's Day SPRING <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 3


LIFE AT<br />

ELIM VILLAGE<br />

A snapshot of the last few months, with community highlights from <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood (FW), including<br />

Independent Living (IL), Assisted Living (AL), and Full Care (FC), and <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing (GC).<br />

SPRING<br />

PAINT PARTY<br />

A delightful afternoon of painting<br />

took place at Fleetwood on<br />

March 27. Independent Living<br />

and Assisted Living residents<br />

gathered to enjoy the guidance<br />

of an art instructor while they<br />

painted a fi eld of spring fl owers.<br />

Everyone's unique style shone<br />

through as they created their own<br />

version of the same scenery. "It<br />

was a very special and fun activity,<br />

and exceptionally well planned!"<br />

exclaims Independent Living<br />

resident, Frances Zubak.<br />

NEW INNOVATION<br />

STATION<br />

Discover the power of technology<br />

and improve your digital literacy at<br />

<strong>The</strong> Emerald's Innovation Station!<br />

Our new space is designed to<br />

provide residents with access to<br />

a range of cutting-edge devices,<br />

including Amazon's Alexa.<br />

Residents can learn how to use<br />

voice-activated assistants to turn<br />

off lights or even identify soup<br />

cans. Our team is also offering<br />

tailored classes for residents to<br />

develop their tech skills.<br />

PIEROGIES, PLEASE<br />

Who doesn't love pierogies? Full<br />

Care residents at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood certainly do! At the<br />

recent Full Care Ladies Luncheon,<br />

a group of residents enjoyed a<br />

delicious meal of perogies, while<br />

connecting with other residents in<br />

their building. We always welcome<br />

suggestions from our residents<br />

on themes and meals, making<br />

each gathering unique and special.<br />

Ladies Luncheon takes place<br />

twice a month, and we're looking<br />

forward to the next one!<br />

THE LUCK OF<br />

THE IRISH!<br />

St. Patrick's Day was a true<br />

celebration of Irish culture at<br />

Fleetwood. Residents were<br />

delighted to welcome the Steel<br />

School of Irish Dance as they<br />

performed in both the Oasis and<br />

the Emerald's Multipurpose Room.<br />

<strong>The</strong> music was lively and the<br />

performers spectacular, inspiring<br />

smiles and joy all around. We loved<br />

seeing the dancers faces light up as<br />

they performed, and (as you can<br />

see below) residents were thrilled<br />

to be a part of the fun!<br />

MILKSHAKES<br />

& MELODIES<br />

Music and milkshakes made for<br />

a perfect combination at <strong>The</strong><br />

Hawthorn at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison<br />

Crossing. Local musician, Corey<br />

Primus, serenaded 65 residents<br />

with classic tunes, while they<br />

sipped on delicious strawberry<br />

milkshakes. Hearts were full as<br />

those gathered sang along to their<br />

favorite songs and reminisced<br />

about their youth. It was such a hit<br />

that many residents have already<br />

requested Corey's return, and we<br />

can't wait either!<br />

HYMNS & PRAISE<br />

It's a joy to see the positive impact<br />

music has on people's lives,<br />

and we are grateful for Darlene<br />

Pedrosa, Garrison Crossing Offi ce<br />

Administrator, for sharing her<br />

passion as a worship leader with<br />

us. Each week, residents look<br />

forward to our Hymns & Praise<br />

gathering. “It gives us the<br />

opportunity to gather as a<br />

community and refl ect on the<br />

goodness of God in our lives,”<br />

shares Darlene. Through the<br />

power of music, residents are<br />

reminded of the love that<br />

unites us all.<br />

EASTER EVENTS<br />

Whether it's gathering with<br />

family for an Easter egg hunt<br />

or remembering the passion of<br />

Christ together with your faith<br />

community, Easter is a meaningful<br />

time. Good Friday (<strong>April</strong> 7th)<br />

commemorated the crucifi xion of<br />

Jesus and his death at Calvary, and<br />

a Stations of the Cross program<br />

took place at Fleetwood, depicting<br />

Jesus’ passion and death on the<br />

cross. Garrison Crossing held a<br />

Good Friday service as well, with<br />

music and communion, led by<br />

Pastor Lorin Bergen. An Easter<br />

Sunday service was also held<br />

at Fleetwood (<strong>April</strong> 9th), with<br />

residents from Independent Living,<br />

Assisted Living, and Full Care in<br />

attendance. He is risen!<br />

4 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong> SPRING <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 5


NOURISHED<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

KATRINA LAROY,<br />

STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

BRING SOME JOY<br />

TO YOUR LIFE<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

EILEEN CLARKE,<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood has long off ered Bus Outings to residents in all housing types onsite, and<br />

Assisted Living resident, Eileen, is a frequent participant! Hear from her below.<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

It has long been a tradition to incorporate the arts in ELIM’s signature event, the Health & Wellness<br />

Fair. Many will recall that in 2018, residents worked with a local artist to create custom clay leaves that<br />

were then affi xed to a large clay tree, sculpted as a magnifi cent relief that hangs in the stairwell near the<br />

Harrison West Chapel at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood. <strong>The</strong> installation is titled Nourished.<br />

<strong>The</strong> success of the project encouraged a<br />

follow-up endeavor, and the subsequent Fair<br />

in 2019 expanded on Nourished; residents<br />

created more leaves (about 85), and plans<br />

were laid for fi ve additional distinct art pieces.<br />

This project is now complete. <strong>The</strong> fi ve art<br />

pieces (pictured) depict parts of the same tree,<br />

and conceptually are extensions of the original.<br />

You can now fi nd these fi ve pieces mounted<br />

in the following locations: In Fleetwood,<br />

the Oasis, the Emerald Assisted Living, and<br />

the entryways of <strong>The</strong> Harrison and Harrison<br />

West. In Garrison Crossing, a piece adorns a<br />

wall in <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn. Several new leaves<br />

have also been added to the original tree relief.<br />

I started going on bus outings here when I<br />

moved in, in 2018. <strong>The</strong> Wellness team offers<br />

such a variety of trips—some practical, like<br />

to Save-On-Foods, and others to restaurants,<br />

like the Olive Garden. <strong>The</strong>re are scenic drives,<br />

but also adventure-type trips, which are my<br />

favourite! We’ve been to parks, down to the<br />

White Rock Pier, and we went to the Bloedel<br />

Conservatory in Vancouver back in January.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was one trip that was amazing—we<br />

went to a High English Tea, and it was at an old,<br />

historic farmhouse. I'm British and was born in<br />

England, so that interested me a lot.<br />

Recently, in March, there was a Mystery<br />

Scavenger Hunt trip. Residents were fi lled with<br />

anticipation at the beginning of the tour. <strong>The</strong> bus<br />

drove alongside the Fraser River and into New<br />

Westminster. Residents had to look for things<br />

to fi ll up their bingo card, and there were also<br />

trivia questions, such as, “What is the longest<br />

cable bridge in BC?” (<strong>The</strong> answer is the Annacis<br />

Bridge, or Alex Fraser Bridge, which at one time<br />

was the longest cable bridge in the world!) <strong>The</strong><br />

last stop was to A&W, and residents loved that,<br />

as there’s so much nostalgia there, given that it<br />

opened in 1956, and all of us grew up with it.<br />

All in all, residents left inspired to attend more<br />

bus trips because they had so much fun.<br />

When I get my Activity Calendar each month,<br />

I always look to see what bus trips are planned.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Wellness team puts a lot of thought into<br />

them. So I would say to residents reading this—<br />

pick up your Activity Calendar! Read it!<br />

And try out a bus trip. Ask a friend, or a new<br />

resident, to go with you. <strong>The</strong>y are just fun!<br />

Nourished now beautifully connects us as a<br />

broader ELIM community. <strong>The</strong> following excerpt<br />

is mounted adjacent to the original tree, and<br />

describes the meaning of this special project:<br />

“<strong>The</strong> tree and uniqueness of each leaf are symbolic<br />

of the life-giving force that we all cling to in our<br />

desire to be part of a community that<br />

nourishes us in life. Through nourishment<br />

we can connect our souls and spirits to the<br />

Creator who gives us life.”<br />

Residents have seen some pretty (funny) sights during bus outings! Such as "Blanca", a dancing<br />

umbrella cockatoo, who residents met during a recent bus trip to the Bloedel Conservatory in Vancouver.<br />

6 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong>


STAFF SPOTLIGHT<br />

KELLY<br />

Hi, I’m Kelly! I’ve been working<br />

at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison<br />

Crossing for over a year now. In that time I’ve<br />

worn a few different hats, and you can now fi nd<br />

me at the Hawthorn Concierge—a perfect role<br />

for me. My passion for making people feel at home<br />

suits this customer service-oriented role.<br />

In the workplace, I aspire to come in and give my<br />

best every day. Making a difference in someone's<br />

day gives me immense job satisfaction, and I always<br />

look for opportunities to do so. I'm also a team<br />

player and love to support my colleagues.<br />

One of the things that I love about working here<br />

is the team spirit and support that we have. ELIM<br />

is also aligned with my personal philosophy of love<br />

and care for people, so it feels effortless to live it<br />

out. In the last year, I’ve witnessed that the little<br />

things in life bring immense happiness to many<br />

residents, and I hope to one day achieve the same<br />

level of contentment that many of them have.<br />

In my spare time, I enjoy running, spending time<br />

with my boys, traveling, camping, and hiking. I also<br />

love to connect with friends. My life is full of my<br />

husband, my two boys, our dog, and cat, and I am<br />

grateful for the opportunity to work at <strong>Elim</strong> and be<br />

a part of the lives of our residents.<br />

JAPNEET<br />

My name is Japneet.<br />

I’m from India and came<br />

to Canada in 2015 to study at Simon Fraser<br />

University. I fi rst worked here at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood during the summer of 2019, as a co-op<br />

student. When the four month co-op ended,<br />

I was sad to leave and always wanted to come<br />

back. <strong>The</strong>n when COVID hit in March 2020, extra<br />

staff were needed, and I was able to come back!<br />

I returned in a part-time capacity, which was<br />

perfect, as I was still in school.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n another amazing thing happened; my<br />

studies completed at the end of 2020 and shortly<br />

thereafter, a full-time position became available.<br />

So now I am the permanent full time, Community<br />

Life Receptionist and On-Call Scheduler. When I<br />

think back on how my story at ELIM came to be,<br />

I’m so grateful. It really seems like everything fell<br />

into place, time and again, for me to work here.<br />

When I chose to do the co-op in 2019, it was a big<br />

decision, as it meant delaying my course work. But<br />

I wanted the experience, and I think that was the<br />

best thing I did! Because through it, I came to know<br />

about ELIM.<br />

I like everything about working here. I like the<br />

two aspects of my job, because as a receptionist,<br />

I learn about the residents, and as the on-call<br />

scheduler, I learn about the staff. I fi nd that mix<br />

very helpful. In my role, I try to make a daily<br />

difference for residents. I want to make them<br />

happy when they come to me, and make sure<br />

they are heard. Providing the right answer to<br />

their questions is important, and that’s what I try<br />

to do. Some residents come to say hello each<br />

day, and one resident calls me at 9:15am every<br />

morning! I hear feedback that I am making a<br />

positive impact, and that makes me want to do<br />

it even more.<br />

Every day when I leave work and head to the bus<br />

stop, I am smiling. <strong>The</strong>re's a sense of fulfi llment<br />

in working here and helping others. I remember<br />

one instance when I walked a resident back to<br />

her suite, that instead of saying thank you, she<br />

said “Bless you,” which made me feel so full of<br />

joy. It's moments like these that make working<br />

here…well, it feels more than just a job.<br />

Outside of work, I live with my cousin and my<br />

nephew, who is 8, and on weekends I like to<br />

spend time with friends. I also talk to my parents<br />

every day, who are back in India. Every single day,<br />

I video call them. <strong>The</strong>y have come to visit me a<br />

few times, and I hope to visit India again soon,<br />

although Canada is my home now.<br />

NEW! FAMILY EDUCATION SESSIONS<br />

Our Full Care team has initiated a new education series available for Full Care family members on a<br />

monthly basis. <strong>The</strong>se sessions provide valuable insights and knowledge to help families navigate the<br />

challenges of caring for a loved one in a Full Care setting.<br />

<strong>The</strong> topics covered in these sessions are thoughtfully chosen, with a focus on providing practical<br />

information to help families make informed decisions and improve their loved one's quality of life.<br />

Perhaps the best part of these sessions is the opportunity for families to connect with each other.<br />

Caring for a loved one in Full Care can feel like a singular journey, but these<br />

sessions offer a safe and supportive<br />

environment for families to share their<br />

experiences and support one another.<br />

We are thrilled to see so many in<br />

attendance so far, and we look<br />

forward to welcoming new<br />

members in the future.<br />

An ELIM Full Care resident together with<br />

a supportive family member.<br />

8 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong>


LET'S GET OUTSIDE!<br />

& TRACK OUR PROGRESS<br />

Did you know that children between the ages of 3 – 18 spend on average 246 minutes a day in front of<br />

1<br />

screens? That’s 4.1 hours, or roughly a quarter of all waking hours!<br />

We’re excited for this community initiative, which is not about exercising, but<br />

about being in and being connected to nature. Join us and reap the benefi ts!<br />

Here’s the who, what, where, when, why, and how of the challenge:<br />

In response to alarming statistics such as these, one couple decided to intentionally prioritize outdoor<br />

time with their children. <strong>The</strong>ir research and now fi rst-hand experience convinced them that time<br />

outside provides a variety of physical, mental, and emotional benefi ts, including:<br />

REDUCED STRESS AND ANXIETY:<br />

It lowers cortisol levels (the stress hormone),<br />

which reduces anxiety and depression<br />

BETTER SLEEP: Exposure to natural light<br />

and fresh air regulates the body's natural<br />

sleep-wake cycle, leading to better sleep<br />

IMPROVED PHYSICAL HEALTH: It provides<br />

opportunities for exercise and exposure<br />

to sunlight, boosting vitamin D production,<br />

which strengthens bones and muscles<br />

IMPROVED MOOD: It increases feelings<br />

of happiness and improves one’s mood<br />

This couple’s intentional living catalysed a global movement, inspiring people of all ages to prioritize<br />

time outside. At ELIM, we’re inspired too. Did you know that spending just 20 minutes in an evergreen<br />

forest can increase your immune system response by up to 54%? <strong>The</strong>re are so many creative (and also<br />

2<br />

simple) ways to enjoy being outside, and so many benefi ts. For this reason, we are launching the<br />

ELIM-wide initiative LET'S GET OUTSIDE! & TRACK OUR PROGRESS.<br />

WHO: You! All ELIM residents (both sites!), staff,<br />

family members, and friends of our communities<br />

are welcome to participate.<br />

WHAT: Let's Get Outside! & Track Our Progress<br />

WHERE: Anywhere outside. It could be sitting<br />

on your balcony, gardening, taking a walk, reading<br />

a book outside (see the back of this enclosed<br />

worksheet for ideas!)<br />

WHEN: <strong>The</strong> challenge is for fi ve months, starting<br />

May 1st and ending September 30th.<br />

WHY: Honestly, the benefi ts are innumerable.<br />

Basically, we want to challenge you to create a<br />

habit and increase your health by getting outside!<br />

And what better time to do it than in the glorious<br />

light of spring and summer!<br />

HOW: Keep this enclosed tracker in a safe<br />

place and set your intention to start spending<br />

time outside effective May 1st. Do the challenge<br />

solo, or buddy up with a friend. Set a target for<br />

yourself—whether it's 30 minutes or an hour,<br />

everyday or every-other day. <strong>The</strong> amount of time<br />

you spend outside is totally up to you!<br />

1 Madigan S, Eirich R, Pador P, McArthur BA, Neville RD. Assessment of Changes in Child and Adolescent Screen Time<br />

During the COVID-19 Pandemic: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis. JAMA Pediatr. 2022;176(12):1188–1198. doi:10.1001/jamapediatrics.2022.4116<br />

2 Chae, Y.; Lee, S.; Jo, Y.; Kang, S.; Park, S.; Kang, H. <strong>The</strong> Effects of Forest <strong>The</strong>rapy on Immune Function. Int. J. Environ. Res. Public Health 2021, 18, 8440. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph18168440<br />

10 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong>


IN LOVING MEMORY<br />

FROM DECEMBER 6 TH to APRIL 4 TH , <strong>2023</strong><br />

* Resident has a spouse living at <strong>Elim</strong> Village ^ Prior IL or AL resident<br />

Residents from Garrison Crossing represented by (GC)<br />

FULL CARE<br />

INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

Bernice Bull<br />

Bev Chila ^<br />

Norma Drage<br />

Agnes Enns<br />

Jenny Geerling ^<br />

Kuldip Gill<br />

Joe Goupil<br />

Antonio Guillen<br />

Jessie Irwin<br />

Mary Jaheny<br />

Jessie Johnson<br />

Jo Kornelson ^<br />

Margaret Krause<br />

Balvir Madahar<br />

Ralph Milum<br />

Maureen Neilson<br />

Jakob Rempel * ^<br />

Norman Roblin<br />

Wallis Schlamp<br />

Khanty Sisounthone<br />

Barry Tylor<br />

Gaye Van Keulen ^<br />

Fien Vanderwel ^<br />

Patricia Warne<br />

Shui Wong<br />

Robert Worms<br />

Jack Breedveld *<br />

Hank Fast *<br />

Helen Hanson *<br />

Maryke Lucas *<br />

Elsie Strelau *<br />

Hank Vandenberg *<br />

George Vanderwoude *<br />

INDEPENDENT PLUS (GC)<br />

Gladys Anderson<br />

Tina Bootsma<br />

Gordon Hay *<br />

Tina Thiessen ^<br />

ASSISTED LIVING<br />

Cor Jol ^<br />

Dorothy Ochowych<br />

Sylvia Pearce<br />

Catherine Tolkamp *<br />

A CENTURY<br />

OF CANDLES<br />

Every year a candle is added on our cake,<br />

Each one representing a new wish we can make.<br />

From first steps to marriage, our milestones grew<br />

From turning 10 to 50, or 102!<br />

We can be old at 30, or young at 95,<br />

Age is just a number, it's our choice to thrive.<br />

So as we close our eyes, let's all make a wish,<br />

To always laugh, always love, and continue to flourish.<br />

Out of 908 residents at ELIM, 14 residents (all from Fleetwood)<br />

have celebrated their 100th birthday, or will be, this year.<br />

Let's wish them a happy 100+ birthday and a joyous year ahead!<br />

Joan Booth<br />

Irma Bulling<br />

Eleanor Carroll<br />

Vi Craik<br />

Tabea Ferris<br />

Hazel Hamilton<br />

Flora McGill<br />

David Methven<br />

Dorothy Noble<br />

George Rich<br />

Jannie Ringma<br />

Katherine Stannard<br />

Len Taylor<br />

Elizabeth Yablonski<br />

Happy Birthday to Vi Craik<br />

who celebrated her<br />

102 nd birthday in March!<br />

12 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong> SPRING <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 13


MORE THAN A HOME<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

RACHEL HOFFOS, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

“Life is full of transitions,” says Eleanor. She takes in the view<br />

from the sixth-fl oor library in <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn. “One of mine was<br />

when I was looking for a place to call home, but I had no idea it<br />

would become this.”<br />

Before ELIM acquired 8.6 acres of land in Chilliwack, a<br />

single building nestled on the corner of Keith Wilson Road<br />

and Garrison Boulevard. It’s what we know today as <strong>The</strong><br />

Redwood—an Independent Living building at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Garrison Crossing. Its previous owners had planned for it to be<br />

student housing, but later decided to open the doors to those<br />

aged 55 and older. Eleanor Norburn was one of the individuals<br />

who moved in at that time.<br />

child could attend, and friends from church provided<br />

extra support. “Transitions require initiation,”<br />

Eleanor says. “I had no idea where this was leading<br />

me, but I still took one step at a time. Life looks<br />

different for everyone.”<br />

Eleanor’s journey of being a foster parent and then<br />

adoptive parent required the same amount of faith<br />

and initiation as her move to <strong>The</strong> Redwood. When<br />

her husband moved out of their home to receive<br />

extra care, Eleanor knew it was time to downsize.<br />

So, she moved into an available suite on the corner<br />

of Keith Wilson Road and Garrison Boulevard.<br />

“I had no idea how much this community would<br />

appeal to me as I get older,” says Eleanor.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> exercise classes are the latest blessing for me.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y get you out of the apartment, they benefi t<br />

your body, and you get to socialize with others.”<br />

Her face scrunches into a joyous smile. “But the real<br />

blessing is the number of people I see attending with<br />

walkers, canes, and wheelchairs. <strong>The</strong>y are doing the<br />

best they can. <strong>The</strong>y inspire me.”<br />

Eleanor glances out the window once more.<br />

Although the sun is beginning to set, you can feel<br />

that spring is in the air. Leaves are sprouting, birds<br />

are singing, and residents are chatting on the bench<br />

outside <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn in the early evening light.<br />

“I’m taken aback with the beauty ELIM has to offer,”<br />

Eleanor pauses. “It’s much more than a home.”<br />

"I moved into <strong>The</strong> Redwood in November of 2014 and not long<br />

after, ELIM purchased the building and surrounding land,” she<br />

shares. "I had no idea this move was going to be such a Godgiven<br />

gift for me, but it was."<br />

Buildings started popping up, people began moving in, and land<br />

once empty was now blooming into a beautiful community. First<br />

came two more Independent Living buildings—<strong>The</strong> Sequoia and<br />

<strong>The</strong> Douglas—and in the summer of 2022, the fi rst ‘Independent<br />

Plus’ building, <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn, opened. It’s as if the land went<br />

through its own transition; its own metamorphosis.<br />

“One of the most beautiful things about life is you don’t know<br />

where it will lead you,” says Eleanor. “It wasn’t until my 40’s that<br />

I became a Christian, and when I asked the Lord, What can I do<br />

for You?, He opened the door for my husband and I to foster<br />

children with special needs, alongside our own three kids.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> family soon realized the heartache that would result from<br />

the temporary nature of fostering, so they decided to adopt any<br />

child brought into their care, which ended up being eight.<br />

As you can imagine, expanding a family by eight came with<br />

challenges and uncertainties, but God always provided. Families<br />

left extra food on their doorstep, a school waived fees so each<br />

SUMMIT DINING ROOM<br />

It’s been almost nine months since <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn opened at<br />

<strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing, and with each passing month,<br />

the building blossoms a little more, as we scale in occupancy<br />

and services. <strong>The</strong> newest blossom? <strong>The</strong> launch of fi ne dining<br />

at Summit Dining Room.<br />

Our newest restaurant opened on February 17th. <strong>The</strong> Summit<br />

offers an elevated dining experience and features Chef Todd<br />

Nordstrom-Young’s take on familiar classics, such as Seafood<br />

Stuffed Mushroom Caps and Chicken Supreme. Signature dishes<br />

include the Steelhead Trout and Mint Chocolate Mousse.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Summit Dining Room is currently open for dinner<br />

Friday - Sunday from 5pm - 8pm, and the best part is, it’s<br />

open to the public! Residents, guests, and staff have dined,<br />

all to rave reviews. We hope to see some new faces soon<br />

(and maybe even some residents or staff from Fleetwood!)<br />

To make a reservation, email: garrisondining@elimvillage.com<br />

Peppercorn Flat Iron Steak<br />

14 14 THE ELIM CONNECTION SUMMER SPRING <strong>2023</strong> 2022


MISTERIOSO<br />

MORTE!<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

SUSAN GREEN,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

BEHIND<br />

THE COVER<br />

It all began when several Fleetwood residents<br />

and staff attended the opening night of Bella<br />

Morte’s new Italian restaurant. <strong>The</strong> guests had<br />

barely started eating the Prima Piatta—a delicious<br />

tomato basil bruschetta—when Detective Di<br />

Formaggio announced that the body of Signor<br />

Ickbread (the chef of a rival restaurant) had been<br />

found, dead in the pantry! And so began the fi rst<br />

ever Murder Mystery Dinner at <strong>Elim</strong> Village.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fourteen dinner guests (ahem, suspects) are<br />

dressed to look their part: the glamorous Bella<br />

Morte herself (played by Clara Atagi), Pavlotti<br />

(an opera singer), Mario Carta (a plumber played<br />

by Pastor Lorin), Mayor Fiasco, Michael Angelo<br />

(an artist), Francisco Benedicto (a monk played<br />

by Pastor Bob), Don Canneloni (a respectable<br />

businessman), and seven others. Plus some<br />

innocent bystanders there to observe the evening.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 14 suspects learn that the murder took<br />

place between 8:00 and 8:15pm. <strong>The</strong> rounds of<br />

accusations and claims of innocence begin, as Mayor<br />

Fiasco admits he pulled a few strings to help Signor<br />

Ickbread open his rival restaurant. Could the Mayor<br />

be guilty? He claims to have a foolproof alibi, as do<br />

the other suspects.<br />

After much deliberation, it was concluded—and<br />

proved correct—that the perpetrator was none<br />

other than Don Cannelloni (aka, resident John Kraan<br />

from <strong>The</strong> Diamond.) Playing the part of a respectable<br />

businessman, wearing tuxedo suit, crisp white shirt<br />

bib and black bow tie, he fl ashed his shiny cuffl inks<br />

and expensive watch, fi nishing the look with a red<br />

rose buttonhole and fat cigar. But behind the scenes<br />

he was a well-known crime boss, and now was found<br />

out! Questa Canaglia! His motive? Ickbread apparently<br />

had owed him a considerable amount of money.<br />

A big thank you to all the staff and residents who<br />

participated in this memorable evening. <strong>The</strong><br />

costumes and Italian accents were entertaining, and<br />

the food and table decor, the best!<br />

“I’m so at home here,” shares Christel Dreger,<br />

an Independent Living resident at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood. And home is the perfect word to<br />

describe it.<br />

Christel was featured on the 2022 December<br />

edition of <strong>The</strong> ELIM <strong>Connection</strong>. <strong>The</strong> people you<br />

don’t see sitting beside her in the photo are two<br />

other residents—Eleonore Kirlik and Ursula<br />

Truderung, Christel’s sister and sister-inlaw.<br />

And somewhere else in the village, likely<br />

in his cozy suite in the Carmanah, is Gerhard<br />

Truderung—Christel’s brother and Ursula’s<br />

husband. “My siblings and I were always<br />

close,” mentions Christel, “It’s very special<br />

to live near each other again.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> reason for their close bond is due to what the<br />

three of them endured together as siblings—war,<br />

their father’s passing, losing all of their possessions,<br />

and fl eeing to Canada as teenagers. By no means<br />

was their childhood easy, but they had each<br />

other for support, guidance, and the best kind<br />

of medicine—laughter. <strong>The</strong>y remained close as<br />

the years passed, but they also moved away, got<br />

married, and settled into their own lives. “Who<br />

knew we’d all end up together again,” Christel adds.<br />

Left to right: Christel, Gerhard, Ursula, and Eleonore<br />

“Kurt was looking forward to coming to ELIM,”<br />

Christel shares, “But he passed away the Sunday<br />

before our move.” Moving to ELIM on her own<br />

was never part of the plan, but in the end she<br />

wasn’t alone. A year prior, Gerhard and Ursula<br />

had also moved to Fleetwood from Sechelt, and<br />

together with Eleonore, they provided Christel<br />

with the same support, guidance, and laughter<br />

they had as children.<br />

Despite her loss, Christel sees the timing of her<br />

move as a blessing. “It was a good thing I moved,”<br />

she adds, “I always have someone to play bridge<br />

with, like Anne Moss…Siegfried Goliath lives<br />

here and he was Kurt’s fi rst friend when he came<br />

to Canada…the Karius’ are also good friends of<br />

mine, and Willi Strelau too!” And the list of her<br />

many connections continues.<br />

In 2014, Christel placed her name on Fleetwood’s<br />

waitlist after her sister, Eleonore, moved into a<br />

suite in the Kootenay. Christel and her husband,<br />

Kurt, weren’t ready to leave their home in White<br />

Rock just yet, but eight years later, a move for them<br />

became critical, as Kurt required more care.<br />

Living within the same 20-acre campus allows<br />

Christel to go for weekly walks with her family<br />

members. If there’s a holiday or birthday coming<br />

up, you’re sure to fi nd them celebrating together<br />

too. “It feels like a miracle that we all live together<br />

again,” says Christel. “I can’t have it any better.”<br />

Una Cornetto aka Ank Fischer<br />

Bella Morte aka Clara Atagi<br />

Mayor Fiasco aka Mike Green<br />

SPRING <strong>2023</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 17


EASTER EGG FUN<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

AINA BARON,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

Many of us have fond memories of Easter egg hunts with our families. Here is a fun account of<br />

one such hunt, but from the perspective of Aina’s real grandchildren—Brenda and Joanne (Joey).<br />

“I know Mom and Dad hid the Easter eggs last<br />

night…do you think they’d mind us getting up early<br />

to look for them?” Brenda asked her older sister,<br />

peering from under the covers of her bed.<br />

Every Easter their family would hard-boil eggs and<br />

dip them into dyes, purple, pink, and yellow. <strong>The</strong>n<br />

their parents would sneak around their property<br />

and hide them for the annual Easter egg hunt that<br />

took place after church on Easter Sunday. <strong>The</strong> girls<br />

had woken up early though, and were excited to<br />

get the hunt underway.<br />

“We can go in our pajamas!” Joey replied excitedly,<br />

“and fi nd the eggs before church!” <strong>The</strong> two<br />

tiptoed out of their bedroom, pulling on shoes<br />

and reaching for their baskets. <strong>The</strong>y donned their<br />

special Easter bonnets as well, which they wore every<br />

year for Easter Sunday. <strong>The</strong>n they headed out into<br />

the morning light.<br />

After a little while, Joey called out cheerfully, “I got<br />

10 Easter eggs!” Brenda replied, “I only have three…<br />

where did you fi nd them all? Let's fi nd some more for<br />

me. Let's hurry while we still have time!”<br />

<strong>The</strong> sisters worked together and found fi ve more.<br />

Soon their parents came looking for them. “My<br />

goodness! You sure worked hard!” said their dad,<br />

delighted at their eagerness. “We can take those eggs<br />

and make a lovely table display for our Easter dinner<br />

later,” said their mom. “But for now…time to get<br />

ready for church!”<br />

CALL FOR WRITERS!<br />

You may have noticed that we value a mix of voices in this publication. <strong>The</strong>re’s always a nice mélange<br />

of both resident and staff articles (as it makes for a more engaging read, wouldn’t you agree?)<br />

With this in mind, I invite you to contact me if you have a knack for writing. I’ll work with you on the<br />

nitty-gritty of punctuation, grammar, and can help brainstorm topics, if needed. <strong>The</strong>re’s only one<br />

requirement: you have to either live with us or work with us!<br />

Please contact me (Katrina LaRoy!) at klaroy@elimvillage.com or by phone at 604-583-3546 ext 8622<br />

18 THE ELIM CONNECTION SPRING <strong>2023</strong>


A UNIQUE CHRISTIAN RETIREMENT COMMUNITY<br />

9025 160 Street<br />

Surrey, BC V4N 2X7<br />

Phone 604.583.3546 Email info@elimvillage.com<br />

www.elimvillage.com

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