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school memory is of being made to

stand on a stool in kindergarten because

she preferred to sit in the corner

and read books, and the teacher wanted

her to “interact.” “Many shy children

are thrilled to discover that their teacher

had been as shy as they were,” she

told me. “I remember one very shy girl

in my high school English class whose

mother thanked me for telling her

daughter that I believed she would

peak much later in life, so not to worry

that she didn’t shine in high school. She

said that one comment had changed

her daughter’s entire outlook on life.

Imagine—one offhand comment made

such an impact on a tender child.”

When encouraging shy children to

speak, says Johnson, it helps to make

the topic so compelling that they forget

their inhibitions. She advises asking

students to discuss hot-button subjects

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