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PartOneTHE EXTROVERT IDEAL
1THE RISE OF THE “MIGHTYLIKEABLE FELLOW”How Extroversion Became the CulturalIdealStrangers’ eyes, keen and critical.Can you meet themproudly—confidently—without fear?—PRINT ADVERTISEMENT FORWOODBURY’S SOAP, 1922The date: 1902. The place: HarmonyChurch, Missouri, a tiny, dot-on-themaptown located on a floodplain ahundred miles from Kansas City. Ouryoung protagonist: a good-natured but
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THE RISE OF THE “MIGHTY
LIKEABLE FELLOW”
How Extroversion Became the Cultural
Ideal
Strangers’ eyes, keen and critical.
Can you meet them
proudly—confidently—without fear?
—PRINT ADVERTISEMENT FOR
WOODBURY’S SOAP, 1922
The date: 1902. The place: Harmony
Church, Missouri, a tiny, dot-on-themap
town located on a floodplain a
hundred miles from Kansas City. Our
young protagonist: a good-natured but
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