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don’t get along particularly well with

those closest to them.

It also helps explain why some introverts—like

Emily, whose talent for

friendship suggests that she’s a highly

agreeable type herself—lavish attention

on their family and close friends but

dislike small talk. So when Greg labels

Emily “antisocial,” he’s off base. Emily

nurtures her marriage in just the way

that you’d expect an agreeable introvert

to do, making Greg the center of her social

universe.

Except when she doesn’t. Emily has a

demanding job, and sometimes when

she gets home at night she has little energy

left. She’s always happy to see

Greg, but sometimes she’d rather sit

next to him reading than go out for dinner

or make animated conversation.

Simply to be in his company is enough.

For Emily, this is perfectly natural, but

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