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effort required to stretch his natural

boundaries is justified by seeing his

core personal project—igniting all those

minds—come to fruition.

At first blush, Free Trait Theory

seems to run counter to a cherished

piece of our cultural heritage.

Shakespeare’s oft-quoted advice, “To

thine own self be true,” runs deep in

our philosophical DNA. Many of us are

uncomfortable with the idea of taking

on a “false” persona for any length of

time. And if we act out of character by

convincing ourselves that our pseudoself

is real, we can eventually burn out

without even knowing why. The genius

of Little’s theory is how neatly it resolves

this discomfort. Yes, we are only

pretending to be extroverts, and yes,

such inauthenticity can be morally ambiguous

(not to mention exhausting),

but if it’s in the service of love or a

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