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feel comfortable around him for that
reason. I feel like I can be myself
around him. I don’t have to do
something just to look cool, whereas
around a big group of people that
aren’t Asian or are just really loud, I
feel like I have to play a role.”
Mike sounded dismissive of Western
communication styles, but he admitted
that he sometimes wished he could be
noisy and uninhibited himself. “They’re
more comfortable with their own character,”
he said of his Caucasian classmates.
Asians are “not uncomfortable
with who they are, but are uncomfortable
with expressing who they are. In a
group, there’s always that pressure to
be outgoing. When they don’t live up to
it, you can see it in their faces.”
Mike told me about a freshman
icebreaking event he’d participated in,
a scavenger hunt in San Francisco that
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