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budding philosopher, and he speaks sosoftly that I have to lean forward tohear him.“At school,” says Mike, “I’m a lotmore interested in listening to what theteacher says and being the good student,rather than the class clown or interactingwith other kids in the class. Ifbeing outgoing, shouting, or acting outin class is gonna affect the education Ireceive, it’s better if I go for education.”Mike relates this view matter-offactly,but he seems to know how unusualit is by American standards. Hisattitude comes from his parents, he explains.“If I have a choice between doingsomething for myself, like going outwith my friends, or staying home andstudying, I think of my parents. Thatgives me the strength to keep studying.My father tells me that his job is516/929
computer programming, and my job isto study.”Mike’s mother taught the same lessonby example. A former math teacherwho worked as a maid when the familyimmigrated to North America, shememorized English vocabulary wordswhile washing dishes. She is very quiet,says Mike, and very resolute. “It’s reallyChinese to pursue your own educationlike that. My mother has the kind ofstrength that not everyone can see.”By all indications, Mike has made hisparents proud. His e-mail username is“A-student,” and he’s just won acoveted spot in Stanford University’sfreshman class. He’s the kind ofthoughtful, dedicated student that anycommunity would be proud to call itsown. And yet, according to an articlecalled “The New White Flight” that ranin the Wall Street Journal just six517/929
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computer programming, and my job is
to study.”
Mike’s mother taught the same lesson
by example. A former math teacher
who worked as a maid when the family
immigrated to North America, she
memorized English vocabulary words
while washing dishes. She is very quiet,
says Mike, and very resolute. “It’s really
Chinese to pursue your own education
like that. My mother has the kind of
strength that not everyone can see.”
By all indications, Mike has made his
parents proud. His e-mail username is
“A-student,” and he’s just won a
coveted spot in Stanford University’s
freshman class. He’s the kind of
thoughtful, dedicated student that any
community would be proud to call its
own. And yet, according to an article
called “The New White Flight” that ran
in the Wall Street Journal just six
517/929