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percent less empathetic than they were

thirty years ago, with much of the drop

having occurred since 2000. (The

study’s authors speculate that the decline

in empathy is related to the prevalence

of social media, reality TV, and

“hyper-competitiveness.”)

Of course, having these traits doesn’t

mean that sensitive children are angels.

They have selfish streaks like everyone

else. Sometimes they act aloof and unfriendly.

And when they’re overwhelmed

by negative emotions like

shame or anxiety, says Aron, they can

be positively oblivious of other people’s

needs.

But the same receptivity to experience

that can make life difficult for the

highly sensitive also builds their consciences.

Aron tells of one sensitive

teen who persuaded his mother to feed

a homeless person he’d met in the park,

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