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6“FRANKLIN WAS A POLITICIAN, BUTELEANOR SPOKE OUT OFCONSCIENCE”Why Cool Is OverratedA shy man no doubt dreads the notice ofstrangers, but can hardly be said to beafraid of them. He may be as bold as ahero in battle, and yet have no self-confidenceabout trifles in the presence ofstrangers.—CHARLES DARWINEaster Sunday, 1939. The Lincoln Memorial.Marian Anderson, one of themost extraordinary singers of her generation,takes the stage, the statue of
the sixteenth president rising up behindher. A regal woman with toffee-coloredskin, she gazes at her audience of75,000: men in brimmed hats, ladies intheir Sunday best, a great sea of blackand white faces. “My country ’tis ofthee,” she begins, her voice soaring,each word pure and distinct. “Sweetland of liberty.” The crowd is rapt andtearful. They never thought this daywould come to pass.And it wouldn’t have, without EleanorRoosevelt. Earlier that year, Andersonhad planned to sing at ConstitutionHall in Washington, D.C., but theDaughters of the American Revolution,who owned the hall, rejected her becauseof her race. Eleanor Roosevelt,whose family had fought in the Revolution,resigned from the DAR, helped arrangefor Anderson to sing at the LincolnMemorial—and ignited a national377/929
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the sixteenth president rising up behind
her. A regal woman with toffee-colored
skin, she gazes at her audience of
75,000: men in brimmed hats, ladies in
their Sunday best, a great sea of black
and white faces. “My country ’tis of
thee,” she begins, her voice soaring,
each word pure and distinct. “Sweet
land of liberty.” The crowd is rapt and
tearful. They never thought this day
would come to pass.
And it wouldn’t have, without Eleanor
Roosevelt. Earlier that year, Anderson
had planned to sing at Constitution
Hall in Washington, D.C., but the
Daughters of the American Revolution,
who owned the hall, rejected her because
of her race. Eleanor Roosevelt,
whose family had fought in the Revolution,
resigned from the DAR, helped arrange
for Anderson to sing at the Lincoln
Memorial—and ignited a national
377/929