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very different from the well-meaning

but unhelpful advice that you should

just jump in at the deep end and try to

swim—an approach that might work,

but more likely will produce panic, further

encoding in your brain a cycle of

dread, fear, and shame.

I found myself in good company.

There were about fifteen people in the

class, which was led by Charles di

Cagno, a wiry, compact man with

warm brown eyes and a sophisticated

sense of humor. Charles is himself a

veteran of exposure therapy. Public

speaking anxiety doesn’t keep him up

at night anymore, he says, but fear is a

wily enemy and he’s always working to

get the better of it.

The workshop had been in session for

a few weeks before I joined, but Charles

assured me that newcomers were welcome.

The group was more diverse than

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