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family goes to the beach every weekend,

but it takes her ages to dip a toe

into the surf. A classic high-reactive, I

remark.

“No!” Kagan exclaims. “Every behavior

has more than one cause. Don’t

ever forget that! For every child who’s

slow to warm up, yes, there will be

statistically more high-reactives, but

you can be slow to warm up because of

how you spent the first three and a half

years of your life! When writers and

journalists talk, they want to see a oneto-one

relationship—one behavior, one

cause. But it’s really important that you

see, for behaviors like slow-to-warmup,

shyness, impulsivity, there are

many routes to that.”

He reels off examples of environmental

factors that could produce an

introverted personality independently

of, or in concert with, a reactive

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