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Yet McHugh finds practices like the

mandatory smile-and-good-morning at

the start of the service to be painful—and

though he personally is willing

to endure it, even sees the value in

it, he worries about how many other introverts

will not.

“It sets up an extroverted atmosphere

that can be difficult for introverts like

me,” he explains. “Sometimes I feel like

I’m going through the motions. The

outward enthusiasm and passion that

seems to be part and parcel of Saddleback’s

culture doesn’t feel natural. Not

that introverts can’t be eager and enthusiastic,

but we’re not as overtly expressive

as extroverts. At a place like

Saddleback, you can start questioning

your own experience of God. Is it really

as strong as that of other people who

look the part of the devout believer?”

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