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Parks’s story is a vivid reminder thatwe have been graced with limelightavoidingleaders throughout history.Moses, for example, was not, accordingto some interpretations of his story, thebrash, talkative type who would organizeroad trips and hold forth in aclassroom at Harvard Business School.On the contrary, by today’s standardshe was dreadfully timid. He spoke witha stutter and considered himself inarticulate.The book of Numbers describeshim as “very meek, above all the menwhich were upon the face of the earth.”When God first appeared to him inthe form of a burning bush, Moses wasemployed as a shepherd by his fatherin-law;he wasn’t even ambitiousenough to own his own sheep. Andwhen God revealed to Moses his role asliberator of the Jews, did Moses leap atthe opportunity? Send someone else to186/929
do it, he said. “Who am I, that I shouldgo to Pharaoh?” he pleaded. “I havenever been eloquent. I am slow ofspeech and tongue.”It was only when God paired him upwith his extroverted brother Aaron thatMoses agreed to take on the assignment.Moses would be the speechwriter,the behind-the-scenes guy, theCyrano de Bergerac; Aaron would bethe public face of the operation. “It willbe as if he were your mouth,” said God,“and as if you were God to him.”Complemented by Aaron, Moses ledthe Jews from Egypt, provided for themin the desert for the next forty years,and brought the Ten Commandmentsdown from Mount Sinai. And he did allthis using strengths that are classicallyassociated with introversion: climbing amountain in search of wisdom and187/929
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Parks’s story is a vivid reminder that
we have been graced with limelightavoiding
leaders throughout history.
Moses, for example, was not, according
to some interpretations of his story, the
brash, talkative type who would organize
road trips and hold forth in a
classroom at Harvard Business School.
On the contrary, by today’s standards
he was dreadfully timid. He spoke with
a stutter and considered himself inarticulate.
The book of Numbers describes
him as “very meek, above all the men
which were upon the face of the earth.”
When God first appeared to him in
the form of a burning bush, Moses was
employed as a shepherd by his fatherin-law;
he wasn’t even ambitious
enough to own his own sheep. And
when God revealed to Moses his role as
liberator of the Jews, did Moses leap at
the opportunity? Send someone else to
186/929