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and ‘self-development,’ although weseem usually to mean the expressionand development of the personality of asuccessful real estate agent.”Another critic bemoaned the slavishattention Americans were starting topay to entertainers: “It is remarkablehow much attention the stage andthings pertaining to it are receivingnowadays from the magazines,” hegrumbled. Only twenty years earlier—duringthe Culture of Character,that is—such topics would have beenconsidered indecorous; now they hadbecome “such a large part of the life ofsociety that it has become a topic ofconversation among all classes.”Even T. S. Eliot’s famous 1915 poemThe Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock—inwhich he laments the need to “preparea face to meet the faces that youmeet”—seems a cri de coeur about the100/929

new demands of self-presentation.While poets of the previous century hadwandered lonely as a cloud through thecountryside (Wordsworth, in 1802) orrepaired in solitude to Walden Pond(Thoreau, in 1845), Eliot’s Prufrockmostly worries about being looked atby “eyes that fix you in a formulatedphrase” and pin you, wriggling, to awall.101/929Fast-forward nearly a hundred years,and Prufrock’s protest is enshrined inhigh school syllabi, where it’s dutifullymemorized, then quickly forgotten, byteens increasingly skilled at shapingtheir own online and offline personae.These students inhabit a world in whichstatus, income, and self-esteem depend

and ‘self-development,’ although we

seem usually to mean the expression

and development of the personality of a

successful real estate agent.”

Another critic bemoaned the slavish

attention Americans were starting to

pay to entertainers: “It is remarkable

how much attention the stage and

things pertaining to it are receiving

nowadays from the magazines,” he

grumbled. Only twenty years earlier—during

the Culture of Character,

that is—such topics would have been

considered indecorous; now they had

become “such a large part of the life of

society that it has become a topic of

conversation among all classes.”

Even T. S. Eliot’s famous 1915 poem

The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock—in

which he laments the need to “prepare

a face to meet the faces that you

meet”—seems a cri de coeur about the

100/929

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