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SPICY SEX LIFE AS A MOTHER
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should not always be done on the
bed with lit candles and rose petals.
Sex can be just as exciting when it’s
out of the blue/spot of the moment/
spontaneous. Move to having sex in
the morning instead of at night. It doesn’t have to
go hours to be fun for both of you. It can act as
one for the road thing.
Invest in lube, every woman’s best
friend - Lubricant is one of the most underrated
and under-appreciated sex tools to have in your
bed shelf. For some couples, it is a necessity to
make sex comfortable and pleasurable, it’s a
sexual tool that can help almost everyone
experience less friction and less discomfort,
meaning more orgasms and better sex for all.
Water-based lube comes highly recommended
and you can also use oil based, that’s up to you
but never opt for anything silicone-based if you
plan to use it with silicone toys.
Oral sex - This is really worth having and
giving as it’s very empowering for both ladies and
guys. Try to always take a shower with your wife,
heads downstairs to give your lover a treat and a
favour that should be returned afterwards (an
orgasm for two is guaranteed) through this act.
This digital stimulation instead of the sex, is
actually a powerful way of spicing up your sexual
life.
Play a sex game - Start with kissing to build up
the tempo. You can make sex a whole aspect of your
night routine rather than just a line item at the end of
the night.
Retired for the night, try focusing on you and your
spouse; light the candles right away, run a bath, put on
your lingerie, and play a game with your love; indulge
in classic strip poker (take off an item of clothing every
time you’re wrong and also the love truth or dare
game, touching each other and setting a
timer for 10, 20, or more minutes before
you can get down to the act proper, or
making something up that works for you.
Feel free to get creative here and see
where it leads to.
Show gratitude - Sex life can go
a long way to indicate what’s going in
marriage. If you’re sexually happy, it will
reflect in your relationship but if sex is
lacking, then it means you have to find
ways to get closer to your husband. The
quickest and easiest way is through
appreciation (cultivate the habit of
gratitude). Say thank you for the smallest
of things like, running errands around the
house, cooking and doing dishes.
Implement the same to your sex life by
telling him that you appreciate the fact that
he prioritize a fun sex life too ( you can do
this through sexting, during or after love
making).
The last but not the least
- Busy mothers are sexual beings who
can also experience sexual droughts but if
you notice that your nocturnal bonding is
beginning to suffer, then it’s time to revisit
the refresher tips above to get back on
track. As you’re all deserving of good and
great intercourse irrespective of how
many children you may have or how tired
you’re, fabulous mind-blowing orgasm
induced sex is your right.
Just like any other thing in life, being
sexual and creating a satisfying physical
relationship with your man also takes
continuous effort. Life can decide to throw
you curve balls and even at that, always
remember that your sex is very important
to living healthy, satisfied life. Give
attention to sex the same way you strive
to nurture your body with balance diet and
workout!
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Picking Colours and Themes
Ask her what she wants her room to look like. Since she’s going to be
spending a lot of time in the room, get the girl’s input before you start
decorating.
Select a light, neutral colour for the walls to brighten up the space.
Choose a colour that will coordinate with a variety of different shades
and themes to avoid having to repaint again as she gets older. Pick 2-3
accent colours to use for decorations throughout the room.
Ideas On How To
Decorate A Girl’s Room
Girls can spend a lot of time in their
rooms between playing games, doing
homework, and hanging out with
friends. It’s important to decorate the
space to match her interests but also be
able to grow with her. When it comes to
decorating a girl’s bedroom, you need
to pick a colour scheme and a theme,
choose the right furniture, and add
details to round out the room. In
general, it’s best to avoid picking a
childish theme for the room, since her
interests may change quickly.
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Selecting and Arranging Furniture
Pick a stylish bed frame in a twin, double, or queen size. Measure the
perimeter of the room to see how much space you have to place the
furniture. If you have limited space, opt for a twin bed. If you have more
space, choose a double or queen bed. Select a coordinating dresser
and nightstand to store clothes and other items. Use bookshelves and
storage bins to hold toys, games, and books. Storage is extremely
important for a child’s room. Make a reading or homework area with a
table and chair. If the room is large enough, get a comfortable
chair and an appropriate-height table to make a work or craft
area.
Adding Details and Decorations
Choose a duvet and throw pillows in a fun print or colour.
Since these can easily be switched out as she gets older, let
her pick the bedding and throw pillows that she likes. Pick a
patterned rug to lay under or next to the bed. Choose a rug in
a fun, themed design for the room. Put a lamp on the
nightstand or near the bed for softer lighting. Some younger
kids are afraid of the dark and might need a night-light or lamp
to be able to sleep. Put up photos and art that fit the theme of
the room. Pick 2-3 pieces of art or framed pictures, and place
them throughout the room. String twinkle lights along the
ceiling for a fun lighting and art fixture.