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<strong>Volume</strong> 4, <strong>Issue</strong> 5<br />

Starting Conversations<br />

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CONTENTS<br />

Conversing<br />

8-17 Ten Under 40<br />

BeComing<br />

20-21 Ask the Therapist<br />

22-23 Ask the Doc<br />

24-25 The Physiology of Breathing as Medicine<br />

26-27 Living Lumin – The Yoga Life<br />

29 Inclusive Peek – Tarsila Rameriz<br />

31 People of <strong>Siouxland</strong> – Semehar Ghebrekidan<br />

33 Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />

35 Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Collaborating<br />

38-39 Small Business Spotlight – Simply Celebrate<br />

40-41 Nonprofit Spotlight – Sioux City International Film Festival<br />

42-43 IWCI’s Business Feature – Hungry Canyon<br />

45 Experience Downtown<br />

47 Sioux City Scoop<br />

49 SBDC – Taking Care of Business<br />

53 Tony Michaels – 25 Years at KSUX<br />

55 Up From the Earth – Stories from Food Pantry Guests<br />

ON THE COVER<br />

Pictured, left to right, back row, front row Mike Tillo, Juan Munoz, Jack Ehrich, Ben Curry, William Bass, Meredith Treppa, Casey Mills, Megan Moore, Rachelle Rawson and<br />

Rob Valdovinos. Photo Credit Moon Media.


Welcome To siouxland magazine<br />

It’s in these pages we educate and inspire. Even more importantly, we<br />

create a community that thrives on connecting with one another. At our<br />

core, we all want to connect. When we seek to understand, by listening<br />

more intently, we find that our relationships deepen and our community<br />

strengthens as a result. With appreciation for the power of connection<br />

through meaningful conversations, it only made sense to name the<br />

business Empowering Conversations.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 5<br />

Stacie Anderson, Owner<br />

It all starts with a conversation; with a desire to learn;<br />

to see things from another perspective; to seek<br />

truth. The truth is, we have more in common than we have<br />

differences. Well, maybe it would be more accurate to say, what<br />

brings us together is stronger than anything that divides us.<br />

We would never want to marginalize our differences. We love the words of Audre Lorde, “It is<br />

not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those<br />

differences.” We are unique in vast and complicated ways. It’s our hope that we can come<br />

together with our unique strengths, perspectives, and ideas to build a community with a<br />

powerful narrative of us.<br />

Through this humble publication, we will start having conversations. This is an ambitious and<br />

beautifully optimistic attempt to shine light on all the things that make our community strong,<br />

but also discuss, in a productive and compassionate manner, the challenges we face.<br />

We are doing our small part in building a cohesive community by creating conversations that<br />

refocus our attention on our similarities. We are bringing people together; replacing judgment<br />

with understanding. Perspective is powerful.<br />

We want to hear from you. At <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we feel it is imperative to understand what<br />

the community wants and needs. Share your vision and dreams for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

We want you to lean into the conversation and participate in the discussion.<br />

connect@empowering-conversations.com<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Writers<br />

Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata,<br />

Family Medicine<br />

Physician, Integrative<br />

Psychiatrist & Yoga<br />

Instructor.<br />

Tony Michaels,<br />

KSUX Morning<br />

Show Host with<br />

Candice Nash<br />

Alex Watter,<br />

Sioux City Council<br />

Brock Bourek,<br />

Brock Bourek, Vice President<br />

of SLGO<br />

Dr. Cyndi Hanson,<br />

Writer<br />

Carly Howrey,<br />

Business<br />

Development<br />

Coordinator for<br />

Downtown Partners<br />

Dr. Meghan Nelson,<br />

Licensed Physical<br />

Therapist, Professional<br />

Yoga Therapist & Co-owner<br />

of Lumin Therapy<br />

Jackie Paulson,<br />

Licensed Mental<br />

Health Counselor &<br />

Registered 500Hour<br />

Yoga Instructor<br />

Todd Rausch,<br />

SBDC Regional<br />

Director at<br />

WITCC<br />

Jetske Wauran,<br />

People of<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> -<br />

Portraits of the<br />

Extraordinary<br />

Up from the<br />

Earth Leadership<br />

Team<br />

Amy Buster,<br />

Writer & Editor<br />

Emily Larson,<br />

Licensed Massage<br />

Therapist & Private<br />

Yoga Instructor<br />

Peggy Smith,<br />

Executive Director<br />

for Leadership<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Kari Nelson,<br />

Graphic Designer


Editors Note<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 7<br />

I’m proud to announce the new Top 10 Under 40 Winners! The sheer number of deserving nominees made the selection<br />

process challenging for the judges, as always. I can truly say <strong>Siouxland</strong> is fortunate to have so many talented young professionals<br />

that care so much for their community.<br />

Now to introduce our winners…<br />

William Bass Ben Curry Jack Ehrich Casey Mills<br />

Megan Moore Juan Munoz Rachelle Rawson<br />

Mike Tillo<br />

Meredith Treppa<br />

Rob Valdovinos<br />

Beyond sharing their stories, it is important to help them get as much traction as possible with the wonderful work that they<br />

are doing in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. In the following pages, you’ll find out how you can support their efforts and get involved. I encourage<br />

you to reach out to them. Share your thoughts and ideas. Maybe there is an introduction you can make or resources you can<br />

provide. Every little bit helps. Also, consider sharing their Facebook posts that will pop up over the next few weeks to help<br />

them, and the work they are doing, get even more exposure. Together, as a community, we can go further.<br />

I couldn’t be more grateful to have so many outstanding young people in our community that are dedicated to making this<br />

world a better place to live in.<br />

Congratulations to this year’s winners!<br />

Stacie Anderson<br />

Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />

Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is owned and published by Empowering Conversations, LLC. All materials contained in this magazine (including text, content, and<br />

photographs) are protected by United States copyright law and may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, displayed, published, broadcast or modified<br />

in any way without the prior written consent of Empowering Conversations, LLC or in the case of third party materials, the owner of that content. You<br />

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William Bass<br />

Ho-Chunk, Inc.,<br />

Community Impact & Engagement Manager<br />

presented by<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

I’d like to see an increase in diversity within our leadership.<br />

This will need to include people from diverse backgrounds<br />

to step up to leadership positions by volunteering for<br />

boards, councils, and committees and share their voices<br />

at the table. <strong>Siouxland</strong> is becoming more diverse and<br />

there is so much to celebrate when we come together to<br />

honor each other, learn, and embrace our differences. The<br />

world is a diverse place and <strong>Siouxland</strong> should reflect and<br />

celebrate that at all levels within our local systems.<br />

I would also like to see more recreational activities (such<br />

as a theme or water park, more concerts, attractions),<br />

investments into the arts, and stronger support for local<br />

entrepreneurs and small business owners.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

I’m helping young people prepare for college and careers<br />

through internships for college students, apprenticeships<br />

for Winnebago high school students, and college and<br />

trade school scholarships. I’m also providing summer<br />

learning opportunities for high school and college<br />

students with business etiquette and soft skills workshops.<br />

I advocate for equal rights and representation for LGBTQ+<br />

community members and help educate them about<br />

diversity and inclusion in the workplace.<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

My vision for the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community is a safe place<br />

where our children and grandchildren can thrive in<br />

today’s ever-changing society and have opportunities to<br />

use their talents and passions to make the world a better<br />

place. This includes continued celebrations of diversity,<br />

creating a safe learning environment, peaceful civic<br />

engagement, increased time with family and promoting<br />

entrepreneurship and small businesses. I would like to see<br />

the community support this vision and get involved and<br />

participate in the many opportunities <strong>Siouxland</strong> has to<br />

offer. That includes attending community events, signing<br />

up for sports leagues or theater groups, offering business<br />

to a small or family-owned business, or volunteering at<br />

the many local non-profit organizations. I would like to see<br />

continued interactions amongst the community members<br />

and families from all walks of life in a respectful and openminded<br />

way. I believe that in doing so creates a stronger<br />

sense of community because at the end of the day we are<br />

all part of this greater family that we call <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

I encourage people to volunteer, speak up, serve, and<br />

take on leadership roles, especially when it involves<br />

using one’s strengths to contribute to a larger cause or<br />

greater good. I also try to lead by example by doing those<br />

very things. People from diverse backgrounds can be<br />

encouraged when they see people who look like them<br />

taking on leadership successfully.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

People can help make that happen by also getting<br />

involved in discussions, sharing resources, contributing<br />

their talents and networks, and stepping up to serve.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> (Vice Chair)<br />

Winnebago Two-Spirit Organization<br />

Winnebago Hemp Commission<br />

Winnebago Tax Commission<br />

Winnebago Curriculum Committee<br />

“Your talent determines what you can do.<br />

Your motivation determines how much you<br />

are willing to do. Your attitude determines<br />

how well you do it.”


Ben Curry<br />

Curry Floor & Acoustics Co.,<br />

President<br />

presented by<br />

Sioux Chamber Board member. I cannot wait to learn from<br />

the other members of the board and implement my own<br />

ideas as well.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

By respecting our community and supporting local<br />

businesses, when <strong>Siouxland</strong> works together everyone wins.<br />

I am so blessed to have my girlfriend, Dawn Frein, and our<br />

five children supporting me along the way. Just to have<br />

the opportunity to make an impact on our community is<br />

a blessing. I owe a huge debt of gratitude to all my friends<br />

and colleagues who have supported me and my visions for a<br />

better <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

Curry Floor has teamed up with the Unity Point Foundation<br />

and Children’s Miracle Network to sponsor a fun, childthemed<br />

room in the pediatrics unit at UnityPoint Health<br />

St Luke’s. It has been such an amazing experience thus<br />

far planning exciting ideas for the theme. I do not want<br />

to spoil anything, so you’ll just have to wait until the BIG<br />

reveal! I can promise you that the Curry Floor room will be<br />

over the top!<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

I have an incredibly positive outlook for the future. I see<br />

our community continuing to rapidly expand. <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

is growing so quickly. Just look at areas like Flatwater<br />

Crossing that Ho-Chunk and BluStone are developing.<br />

We must all continue to support, inspire, and motivate<br />

each other.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

South Sioux Chamber Board of Directors<br />

Unity Point Foundation<br />

Children’s Miracle Network<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Miracle Riders<br />

South Sioux City School District<br />

Habitat for Humanity<br />

LaunchPad Children’s Museum<br />

185th ARW - Mosul Iraq Combat Veteran 2005-2006<br />

Sioux City Musketeers<br />

Morningside Little League Coach<br />

“Your smile is your logo, your personality is your<br />

business card, and the way you make others feel<br />

is your trademark!”<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

I would like to see the community continue to support<br />

local small businesses. It has such a massive impact on<br />

our community. After all, they are the companies that are<br />

giving back–sponsoring our local youth sports teams and<br />

fundraisers. When you support small business you directly<br />

support the community where it is located.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

Helping others network with trusted contractors, architects,<br />

and designers to encourage that work remains local and<br />

of the highest quality. I am in love with the process of<br />

helping facilitate and foster these types of relationships.<br />

I am also excited about my latest commitment as a South


Jack Ehrich<br />

Ehrich Law Office, P.C., L.L.O.,<br />

Attorney/Owner<br />

presented by<br />

ever remember. We need to continue to be innovative<br />

and willing to embrace change to attract businesses and<br />

young professionals to our community. I would like to<br />

see continued collaboration between city leaders and<br />

local developers, and entrepreneurs. I feel that <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

has a rich history. We should embrace that and help<br />

revitalize certain neighborhoods and areas throughout<br />

our community, which other cities in our area (Omaha and<br />

Sioux Falls, to name a few) have done to great effect.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

I have served on numerous boards throughout <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

over the past decade-plus, but currently, I am very involved<br />

with Camp High Hopes as a board member and the<br />

current board President. Camp High Hopes is a wonderful<br />

organization that provides meaningful recreational and<br />

social opportunities for children and adults with various<br />

special needs. I am also serving as a committee member<br />

for the Fire Foundation of NW Iowa, which seeks to make<br />

private, parochial education more inclusive for children<br />

with special needs. My wife and I have a daughter with<br />

special needs, so organizations benefiting those children<br />

and adults are particularly close to our hearts.<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

For <strong>Siouxland</strong> to be a vibrant and exciting community,<br />

where the cost of living is affordable, there are numerous<br />

entertainment, social, and educational opportunities<br />

afforded to the citizenry. I hope that our downtown<br />

areas, in particular, can continue to develop and add<br />

even more unique and exciting businesses and urban<br />

living opportunities. I would also like to see a continued<br />

commitment to affordable housing so that those who<br />

want to live here are able to and we don’t lose valuable<br />

members of our community to larger markets. I believe<br />

we are fully capable of becoming one of the more<br />

dynamic communities in our region if we are all willing to<br />

work together.<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

To see <strong>Siouxland</strong> continue to grow and prosper. As a native<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>er, I feel there has been more development<br />

in the past ten years since I have been home than I can<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

I have served on economic development boards<br />

throughout the community and was part of the team that<br />

helped launch Marto Brewing Company in an area of<br />

downtown that had sat vacant for years. I love the rich<br />

history of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, so I am always particularly interested<br />

in projects that help to renovate and revitalize the historic<br />

buildings in downtown. As an attorney, I have had the<br />

great fortune to work with a number of entrepreneurs<br />

in our community and help them realize their dreams<br />

of business ownership and development. It’s also very<br />

important for me to continue to serve on boards and<br />

organizations that give back to our community, especially<br />

those organizations that work with special needs and<br />

underprivileged children.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

Be willing to serve if called upon, or simply volunteer<br />

your time and experience. <strong>Siouxland</strong> has an abundance<br />

of non-profit organizations always looking for willing<br />

individuals to serve. I have seen firsthand the impact that<br />

one can have and would stress that it doesn’t always have<br />

to be a financial contribution. We also need to continue to<br />

support our local businesses and promote new business<br />

development. Buy local, be willing to attend ribbon<br />

cuttings, and be willing to connect with other business<br />

owners at the chamber and social functions. We all want<br />

to see this community thrive and reach its full potential.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Camp High Hopes - Board Member and Current Board<br />

President<br />

Fire Foundation of NW Iowa - Committee Member<br />

South Sioux City Chamber of Commerce<br />

Cardinal Christmas Baskets<br />

Boys & Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Past Board Member and<br />

Board President<br />

“Success is not final; failure is not fatal: it is<br />

the courage to continue that counts.”


Casey Mills<br />

Mills-Shellhammer-Puetz & Associates,<br />

Principal<br />

presented by<br />

only on the border of three states but in the middle of two<br />

larger metros. We should avoid becoming Omaha or Sioux<br />

Falls “Lite” but instead think of how we can be different and<br />

specialized. This includes pursuing unique placemaking or<br />

quality of life amenities that very few have (The Chesterman<br />

mountain biking facility is a prime example of this). In terms<br />

of economic development, we should think of becoming a<br />

hub for specialized industry by leveraging our colleges and<br />

community college. For instance, Jefferson Iowa has the<br />

Forge, which is a training facility that partners with the school<br />

district, the community college, and Accenture to help train<br />

rural Iowans for in-demand software engineering jobs. The<br />

Chamber has advocated for Sioux City to have a Robotics<br />

and Automation Center of Excellence, given our community’s<br />

food manufacturing strength. These are the novel concepts<br />

that will help our community stand out and grow.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

Two things come to mind: Broadly, the focus of our family<br />

and our business is to help equalize opportunities for our<br />

community’s youth through both volunteer and financial<br />

support.<br />

The second was helping refresh the United Way of<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>’s funding model. The new model, which so<br />

many board members and volunteers helped shape, will<br />

help the United Way become more agile in meeting our<br />

community’s needs.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Sioux City Public Schools Foundation - Past Chair<br />

United Way of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Past Chair<br />

Boys and Girls Club of <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber of Commerce<br />

“Northing in the world can take the place of<br />

persistence.”<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

My biggest hope is to continue to grow our community.<br />

After graduating high school, I left Sioux City for 15 years<br />

for those perceived greener pastures. We moved back<br />

to Sioux City 6 years ago and haven’t looked back. Our<br />

community has so much to offer, and my hope is to play a<br />

small role in helping to continue to help it grow.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

My most direct work in helping is serving as the Government<br />

Relations Chair for the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber. Our Chamber<br />

team works to advocate to legislative leaders for our<br />

community and highlight the unique challenges our<br />

border community faces.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

In terms of big picture support, I would ask community<br />

and business leaders to continue to think differently and<br />

pursue differentiated experiences to attract business and<br />

workforce. Our community is uniquely positioned, not


Megan Moore<br />

Sterling,<br />

Director of Strategic Programs & Partner Alliances<br />

presented by<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

I would like to see the development of new businesses,<br />

events, and group activities in the area. This gives people a<br />

great opportunity to work together and meet new people<br />

they would not in their normal day to day.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> has been my home for the past 30 years<br />

and has provided me with many opportunities, so I am<br />

passionate about giving back and helping <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

grow. Currently, I am a member of the North Sioux City<br />

Economic Development Council, helping strategically<br />

grow the North Sioux City area and working with the<br />

surrounding cities and the State of South Dakota to make<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> a better place to live, work, and visit. I volunteer<br />

with TeamMates Mentoring Program. I am in my 8th year<br />

serving as a mentor through Bishop Heelan Catholic<br />

School-Sioux City Chapter. This school-based mentoring<br />

program inspires students to reach their full potential by<br />

providing them support and encouragement to graduate<br />

high school and pursue post-secondary education. I also<br />

foster my 12th dog and volunteer for animal rescues<br />

to rehabilitate and rehome dogs in need. We work to<br />

minimize the issues of overflowing shelters and rescues,<br />

and to educate others about being responsible pet<br />

owners including the importance of getting your pets<br />

from a reliable source. I believe this will make life easier<br />

and happier both for pets and families, and in return will<br />

create a happier <strong>Siouxland</strong> community.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

In my role at Sterling, I create strong partnerships with<br />

1,500 global companies including Dell, Cisco, Hewlett-<br />

Packard, Amazon, and Intel. I bring those companies to<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> for events that highlight our local community<br />

and all that we have to offer. Other events I help coordinate<br />

includes local and national political fundraisers, local<br />

college recruiting events, hosting Dakota Valley Business<br />

Council meetings, and hosting Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>-<br />

Economic Development sessions. I also participate in<br />

Sterling’s community outreach program that works with<br />

the United Way and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Food Bank.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

I would love to see the community support local<br />

businesses, advocate for the projects you are passionate<br />

about, and participate in activities. The more we support<br />

each other, the more opportunities we can create.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

North Sioux City Economic Development Council - Board<br />

Member<br />

TeamMates Mentoring Program - Mentor<br />

SNAFU Rescue - Foster, transportation, and social media<br />

Alliance of Therapy Dogs - Pet Therapy Team Volunteer,<br />

handle, and train a certified therapy dog<br />

“Be the change you want to see in the world.”<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

My vision for the future of <strong>Siouxland</strong> is to see it continue<br />

to grow and expand as a safe, diverse community that has<br />

many opportunities for employment and resources for<br />

families. I would also love to see the continuation of new<br />

businesses relocating here because of our Midwest work<br />

ethic, low cost of living, and friendliness.


Juan Munoz<br />

Inside-Out Family Chiropractic &<br />

Brightside Cafe & Deli,<br />

Owner<br />

presented by<br />

elementary schools. CEF can provide a safe environment<br />

for kids to hang out and learn about Jesus after school. CEF<br />

also sets up 5-day clubs like VBS Vacation Bible Schools. CEF<br />

can set up 5-day clubs in schools, churches, or even the local<br />

park or family home. I would like to get involved with other<br />

organizations like Youth for Christ or sports leagues, but I<br />

haven’t been able to make it fit into my already busy schedule.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

I get a lot of support from my community. Brightside Cafe<br />

is still around through a pandemic because of local support.<br />

Inside-Out Family Chiropractic has a very loyal base. I just ask<br />

for continued support and help us reach more people. Invite<br />

out-of-town family and friends to Brightside, or if someone<br />

needs Chiropractic care, refer them to my clinic. More support<br />

will help me leverage my time more and allow me to impact<br />

my community more.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

Brightside has seen a significant increase in the need<br />

for Feed it Forward Meals and increased difficulty with<br />

our Feed it Forward guests. We have had to get creative<br />

with some new ideas, but the most important thing for<br />

me is my team’s safety and well-being. At Inside-Out<br />

Family Chiropractic, we are doing an Undie 5,000 Diaper<br />

fundraiser for Her Health Women’s center. We hope to<br />

gather 5,000 size 2-4 diapers for the center.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Child Evangelism Fellowship - Board Member<br />

“And above all things have fervent love for one<br />

another, for “love will cover a multitude of sins.”<br />

– 1 Peter 4:8<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

Sioux City has a lot to offer. More and more people are<br />

looking for the Big Town feel Sioux City has. We may not<br />

have all the entertainment options other cities offer, but<br />

with our complete riverfront remodel and our growing<br />

downtown area, we are about to have a major makeover. I<br />

think Sioux City will become more attractive to people tired<br />

of the big city living. I would like to see more businesses<br />

come downtown to drive more tourism, but more people<br />

live downtown than ever in my lifetime.<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Expansion and growth are things I see coming to Sioux<br />

City. I would love to see new businesses, entertainment<br />

venues, and growth in our music scene happen in Sioux<br />

City. My biggest hope is for more people to invest in our<br />

youth. Let’s get more after-school programs and classes<br />

for kids that can’t afford them. By investing in our youth,<br />

we can really change the trajectory of our community.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

I am currently on the board of CEF Child Evangelism<br />

Fellowship, which offers after-school programs inside


Rachelle Rawson<br />

Youth for Christ <strong>Siouxland</strong>,<br />

Juvenile Justice Ministry Director;<br />

Agape Community Services (Opening in 2-4 years),<br />

Co-Founder<br />

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if you are interested in helping others. <strong>Siouxland</strong> needs<br />

to continue to encourage the excitement felt by people<br />

under the age of 40. This in turn will ignite the interest in<br />

people of all ages. When members of our neighborhoods<br />

show creativity, it needs to be rewarded and nurtured. By<br />

sharing our vision for the community, we build interest<br />

among everyone to buy into their future. That, in turn,<br />

entices people to stay in this area. If everyone chose even<br />

one path towards bettering our society, the quality of life<br />

for all in <strong>Siouxland</strong> would increase tremendously.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

At Youth for Christ, we continue to expand services for<br />

children in Sioux City and the surrounding areas. My<br />

favorite aspect is the Advocacy Program which trains<br />

community volunteers to work as trauma-informed<br />

mentors for at-risk children. Connecting loving adults with<br />

children in need and seeing the relationships that are built<br />

is very rewarding. I also visit and provide services to youth<br />

at Juvenile Detention and the Eldora Boys State Training<br />

School. In addition, I am working with partners and a<br />

board of directors to create Agape Community Services,<br />

which will be built here in Sioux City. Agape’s faith-based<br />

format addresses the core issues of addiction.<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

I believe many of the problematic issues facing <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

have their roots in addiction. Domestic violence, child<br />

abuse, poverty, and crime are often traced back to this<br />

affliction in our society. Developing Agape Community<br />

Services in <strong>Siouxland</strong> focuses my vision for how we may<br />

address this enormous problem as Jesus expects us to<br />

do. Agape tackles addiction with an innovative approach<br />

by expanding on evidence-based practices during the<br />

nine-to-twelve-month program. By providing resources to<br />

combat addiction, I believe we will make this a healthier,<br />

more productive place to live and raise a family. We all<br />

succeed when we value those who struggle most.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

I have always wanted to be a difference-maker in the<br />

lives of other people. When opportunities to do this<br />

have presented themselves to me, I try and not just<br />

take advantage of them, but look beyond to the next<br />

steppingstone. Creating these opportunities for others to<br />

make a difference in the lives of their fellow citizens is at<br />

the heart of what I believe God has chosen for me.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

People can help by choosing to be involved and giving<br />

back to <strong>Siouxland</strong>. For those who find in their heart the<br />

desire to heal the damage done to lives by addiction,<br />

consider joining the Agape Community Services initiative.<br />

For more information or ways you can help, you may<br />

email agapecommunityservices.ia@gmail.com. Yes, be<br />

involved in the lives of your own family first, but then step<br />

beyond and extend that love and caring to the life of our<br />

community. Choose to love the neighbor you don’t even<br />

know and may never meet. But believe that in choosing<br />

that path, you are fulfilling your purpose.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Celebrate Recovery at Sunnybrook Church; Jail Ministry;<br />

Character Building Workshops at Jackson-Rosencrans<br />

and Juvenile Detention; “You Matter <strong>Siouxland</strong>” Suicide<br />

Awareness; Thriving Families; “Teen Dating Violence”<br />

initiative through SafePlace<br />

“Love thy neighbor as thyself. ”<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

There are so many opportunities in <strong>Siouxland</strong> for people<br />

to contribute through volunteering. It just takes some<br />

initiative, determination, and creativity to find your niche


Mike Tillo<br />

West Middle School,<br />

Assistant Principal<br />

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This upcoming year I plan to get more involved with my<br />

church. I plan on participating in the family activities my<br />

church offers and having my own children attend Sunday<br />

School regularly.<br />

As a principal, I’m going to continue to be positive and<br />

encouraging toward our students and ensure our staff<br />

does the same. For some students, school is the safe place<br />

in their lives where they need that support, guidance, and<br />

encouragement.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

Each day I get the opportunity to positively impact the<br />

lives of children in the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area. Whether at school<br />

or on the practice field coaching, I do my best to set a<br />

good example for our youth and show them hard work,<br />

dedication and treating everyone with respect can help<br />

you accomplish any goals you set.<br />

As a parent of 3 young children, I am also working on<br />

raising my children to be kind, accepting of others, and<br />

hard-working. I want to instill in them the importance of<br />

doing for others and giving back to their community.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

People need to continue to volunteer to make sure we can<br />

provide these programs for our youth for years to come. It<br />

does take time to volunteer, but it is all worth it when you<br />

know you are making a difference in the lives of our children.<br />

If all parents would take an active roll in parenting their<br />

children to be responsible, respectful, hard-working children,<br />

the community would benefit greatly. Hopefully, as a mentor<br />

for a great number of youth, I am helping them do just that.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Board Member at Headid Little League<br />

Volunteer Coach for the Future Stars Organization<br />

“The two things in life you are in total control<br />

over are your attitude and your effort.”<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

My vision for the future is to help Sioux City continue to<br />

focus on family and activities for our youth. Family activities<br />

and youth programs provide our children with a safe, fun<br />

activity where they learn valuable life lessons. These life<br />

lessons include showing respect and being courteous<br />

towards others, being responsible for one’s own actions,<br />

developing self-confidence, and making good choices.<br />

The more activities and programs we can offer, the better<br />

it is for families in Sioux City.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

I am a volunteer coach for the Future Stars Organization<br />

and a Board Member at Headid Little League. I coach<br />

football, basketball, and baseball. When it comes to<br />

coaching, I teach the specific skills related to the sport, but<br />

I also teach the children how to be a good teammate, to<br />

show good sportsmanship, and to control one’s emotions<br />

when competing.


Meredith Treppa<br />

Boys & Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong>,<br />

CEO<br />

presented by<br />

quite like <strong>Siouxland</strong>. Our people are the reason I stay in<br />

the area. I try to do everything I can to give back through<br />

my work and volunteering, creating opportunities for<br />

people to thrive. Because <strong>Siouxland</strong> has been so good to<br />

me, I want to ensure I’m doing all I can to pay it forward.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

The work I do in the community is focused around<br />

helping children and families. As the CEO of the Boys &<br />

Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, I strive to provide safe spaces<br />

and great programming for kids after school and during<br />

the summer. It’s wonderful to empower kids and deliver<br />

experiences they may not be able to have elsewhere. We<br />

work hard to ensure they are on track to graduate and<br />

have a plan for their future. In my spare time, I volunteer<br />

as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for<br />

children. In this role, I advocate for reestablishing healthy<br />

family connections and providing a consistent presence<br />

in a child’s life while they are involved in the child welfare<br />

system. It’s an extremely rewarding and impactful way to<br />

volunteer.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

Keeping <strong>Siouxland</strong> great requires that we all pitch in.<br />

I would love to see more people get involved in the<br />

community. There are many ways to volunteer on small and<br />

large scales, all of which make a difference. Volunteering<br />

is a very personal journey, and it can take some time to<br />

find a place that’s a perfect fit. Giving back is great for the<br />

community and can be very personally fulfilling. When I<br />

first moved to town, I came across Volunteer<strong>Siouxland</strong>, a<br />

website that can connect you with different opportunities<br />

and needs in the area. It’s a great way to get matched up<br />

with causes and organizations that are important to you,<br />

as well as expand socially. Volunteering helped me start a<br />

connection with the community when I arrived.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

Iowa Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Program<br />

Women United<br />

100+ Women Who Care Board of Directors<br />

Sioux City Cosmopolitan Club<br />

“If you want to go fast, go alone.<br />

If you want to go far, go together.”<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

My personal vision is to spend more of my time on things<br />

that are meaningful to me, slow down and enjoy the<br />

journey, and empower others to live their best lives.<br />

What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

I would love to see <strong>Siouxland</strong> continue to grow while<br />

maintaining its hometown feel. I envision <strong>Siouxland</strong> as<br />

a place that hosts more events and festivals and attracts<br />

more tourists and businesses. The river has been an<br />

untapped resource, and it’s exciting to see the riverfront<br />

development progress. Expanding airport services would<br />

make it easier for people to enjoy <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

The people are my favorite part of <strong>Siouxland</strong>. I’ve lived in<br />

many places over the years, and none have welcomed me


Rob Valdovinos<br />

CENTURY 21 ProLink,<br />

Realtor® & CRS<br />

presented by<br />

What are you doing to make that happen?<br />

Supporting the local businesses that are already in the<br />

downtown area I believe is a great way to show the need and<br />

want for local businesses or larger businesses. That’s why I<br />

like supporting the Innovation Market held by the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Growth Organization. Innovation Market is a business idea<br />

competition for entrepreneurs giving them a chance to win<br />

startup funds for their new business idea. I feel that new locally<br />

owned small businesses are usually the start of new ideas. A<br />

new business draws the attention of people to a specific area<br />

that possibly had little to no foot traffic. With more people,<br />

that could lead to more innovative ideas to our downtown<br />

area.<br />

What are you working on now?<br />

Earlier last year, I learned about a professional organization<br />

called the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization. I started<br />

attending meetings and fell in love with their mission, and<br />

wanted to get more involved. At the beginning of 2022,<br />

I was nominated to be on the board as their Marketing<br />

Chair. We focus on volunteering and networking to help<br />

shape the future of our communities in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. What I<br />

love about the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization is that we<br />

are always looking for fun and innovative ways to make<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> a better place for everyone, as well as finding<br />

ways to retain and bring more young professionals to<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

What is your vision for the future?<br />

My vision for the future of <strong>Siouxland</strong> is something I get<br />

excited about contemplating! I love seeing <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

continue to grow, and I love hearing about all the new<br />

businesses and corporations that are coming to our area.<br />

It’s also great seeing all the new and expanding housing<br />

developments, and the unique events that put <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

on people’s radar. I envision <strong>Siouxland</strong> continuing to<br />

grow and create new and unique opportunities for our<br />

community.<br />

How can people help you make that happen?<br />

With the citizens of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, and the local businesses<br />

showing their support for new businesses, events, or causes<br />

is how we can all individually do our part. The support of<br />

others inside and outside of the community is what makes<br />

our communities grow.<br />

Volunteer Organizations<br />

C21 ProLink Neighbors Helping Neighbors<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization - Board Member,<br />

Marketing Chair<br />

Litter Quick Pick<br />

Sioux City Litter Dash<br />

“The greatest risk in life is never taking one.”<br />

I would love to see Sioux City’s downtown area be a bit<br />

livelier during the day and family-focused as we have built<br />

more apartments and other housing opportunities for<br />

citizens. Something that comes to mind would be adding<br />

a grocery store, bagel and pastry shops, and more green<br />

spaces for kids and walking pets.


September is National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. Congress passed the new three digit<br />

number 988 for any suicide & crisis lifeline needs. The 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) number is still in existence,<br />

but now this new 988 number will be easier to remember to help our loved one who are currently<br />

struggling with thoughts of suicide. The texting crisis number is any word texted to 741741. We don’t<br />

need to keep losing anyone to this disease of depression. Please reach out for help. You are not alone.<br />

It’s OK to When not be OK. it Talking comes DOES to save death lives. We and need grief, to stop I’ve the stigma experienced<br />

and taboo surrounding the<br />

topic of suicide.<br />

Donna Wolff<br />

my fair share of both. I’m sure I’m not the only<br />

person that’s heard of the phrase “check on your<br />

strong friend”. Even though I heard of it after losing<br />

a very important person in my life, it’s a phrase that<br />

will always stick with me. Latisha Denise Graham<br />

committed suicide on March 15, 2021. My best<br />

friend fought the great fight of depression alone.<br />

Unlike others she didn’t ask for help, nor did she lay<br />

her burdens on those closest to her, although I wish<br />

she had. Instead, she suffered in silence. Despite<br />

her unspoken trauma, she was a loyal friend and<br />

caring person. Latisha was the protector. I wish now<br />

more than ever that I could have protected her. I’ve<br />

accepted the fact that her physical absence from this<br />

world is permanent. However, her spirit will live on<br />

Prevention Specialist, YCIC (Youth Crisis Intervention Center)/Youth Shelter, Winnebago Tribe of NE<br />

September is National Suicide<br />

Prevention Awareness Month.<br />

Congress passed the new threedigit<br />

number 988 for any suicide<br />

& crisis lifeline needs. The 1-800-<br />

273-8255 (TALK) number is still<br />

in existence, but now this new<br />

988 number will be easier to<br />

remember to help our loved ones<br />

who are currently struggling with<br />

thoughts of suicide. The texting<br />

crisis number is any word texted<br />

to 741741. We don’t need to<br />

lose anyone to this disease of<br />

depression. Please reach out for<br />

help. You are not alone. It’s OK to<br />

not be OK. Talking DOES save lives.<br />

We need to stop the stigma and<br />

taboo surrounding the topic of<br />

suicide.<br />

Donna Wolff<br />

Prevention Specialist, YCIC<br />

(Youth Crisis Intervention<br />

Center)/Youth Shelter,<br />

Winnebago Tribe of NE<br />

Latisha Denise Graham<br />

forever. Suicide is an epidemic in this generation. In remembrance of her, I will be a consistent<br />

contributor to YANA which stands for “You Are Not Alone”. I wish above all that those who are<br />

struggling with depression and mental health issues know that they are not alone.<br />

- Olivia Ray


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Ask the Therapist<br />

By Jackie Paulson<br />

Send Your<br />

Questions<br />

to the<br />

Therapist.<br />

heard this in a Podcast recently and wanted to know a little bit more<br />

about it. I am trying to understand the difference between abuse and<br />

Q:“I<br />

neglect and that sometimes the neglect can be hard to validate?”<br />

Dear Reader,<br />

Before I dive into this question, I preface all of the<br />

readers to be mindful of the sensitive nature of this<br />

topic. Abuse and neglect are both delicate and<br />

intricate subjects. By no means will I be able to give<br />

full justice to the breadth of information that these<br />

topics truly require in this one small article. In the<br />

end, several resources will be referenced so you can<br />

access more information if desired. Please remember<br />

that the information provided is by no means offering<br />

advice related to pursuing decisions related to legal<br />

concerns or personal matters.<br />

To put it simply, the contrast between abuse and<br />

neglect is that one is an ACT, and the other is a LACK<br />

OF ACTING. Abuse is when something is done to a<br />

person, and neglect is when there is a lack of doing<br />

in regard to the care of someone that is dependent<br />

on another. In that way alone, neglect can be more<br />

challenging to acknowledge or even know about<br />

because (especially if you are very young) when<br />

the neglect is happening, you may not know that<br />

anything is abnormal or missing in how you are being<br />

cared for by someone. It may also be that there are<br />

varying degrees of neglect; including something<br />

called “Unintentional Neglect,” which I will not be<br />

able to go into for this particular subject but can be<br />

a more widespread and culturally normalized pattern<br />

of neglect that can be very challenging for caregivers<br />

to see and admit.<br />

Abuse is often thought of as physical, but there are other<br />

ways someone can be abused. These include financial,<br />

sexual, emotional, and verbal abuse. The impact of<br />

abuse is serious and detrimental. It’s easy to look at the<br />

definition of abuse and think of the gross and serious acts<br />

of it; but please note that just as we will explore neglect;<br />

parents, spouses, employers, etc. may be acting out<br />

more “normalized” forms of abuse (i.e., teasing, bullying,<br />

making someone uncomfortable sexually, etc.) and<br />

particularly if it is ongoing - can be just as detrimental<br />

to a person’s well-being. In many ways, our nation has<br />

a history of abusive behavior related to power, and just<br />

because people in authority normalize it does not make it<br />

right. It continues to be pervasive and impacting.<br />

Neglect is oftentimes more difficult to see. The Center<br />

for Disease Control describes neglect as “the failure<br />

to meet a child’s basic physical and emotional needs.<br />

These needs include housing, food, clothing, education,<br />

access to medical care, and having feelings validated and<br />

appropriately responded to.” The unmet emotional needs<br />

of children tend to be the primary form of neglect that is<br />

skimmed over in today’s overarching industrious culture.<br />

Other adults in children’s lives may not overtly see this<br />

neglect occurring. This makes it hard to identify. Forms of<br />

neglect include (but are not limited to); physical (i.e. failure<br />

to provide adequate shelter/food), medical (i.e. failure to<br />

seek medical, dental, or psychological care), supervisory<br />

(i.e. leaving the child unattended at an inappropriate age<br />

or leaving them with an unfit caregiver), environmental<br />

(i.e. exposing the child to toxins (including smoke and


unsanitary conditions), educational (i.e. failing to give<br />

the child a proper education), emotional (i.e. when a<br />

caregiver is not giving the child the attention, love, care,<br />

and affection) that they need to develop.<br />

Due to the fact that one of the main effects of neglect<br />

on children is that they ultimately have a hard time<br />

recognizing, owning, accepting, and knowing how to<br />

cope with their feelings, it can be difficult for one to<br />

validate their experience of it. So, when they become<br />

adults, they do not trust their own perception or sense of<br />

what is/was “wrong.” They do not know how to identify,<br />

acknowledge, and assert their needs. In struggling to<br />

even recognize and accept their own feelings/desires<br />

(or even that they are worth the space to have them<br />

and be held in them) how can one validate their own<br />

experience of it?<br />

This is why we need others to heal. It took a relationship<br />

to create the fragmentation within and it will take a<br />

relationship to create the wholeness that is possible<br />

when one embarks on the healing journey. We need<br />

a healthy and supportive person who can help us<br />

acknowledge the pain and present themselves with us<br />

in feeling it. Attachment ruptures that happen due to<br />

neglect and abuse can be addressed with the right help.<br />

In the case of abuse and neglect on any level, accessing<br />

the right professional support is highly recommended,<br />

especially if you find that you are having trouble trusting<br />

or allowing yourself to be vulnerable in asking others<br />

for help. There is a way back to feeling safe and whole.<br />

With love,<br />

Jackie<br />

Resources:<br />

If you are concerned about abuse or neglect of a child,<br />

you can contact our local MercyOne <strong>Siouxland</strong> Medical<br />

Center for guidance, support, and further resources:<br />

712-279-2010<br />

Or visit their website for more numbers related to<br />

reporting suspected child abuse to the right authority:<br />

https://www.mercyone.org/siouxland/find-a-serviceor-specialty/child-advocacy-center/reportingsuspected-abuse<br />

Citation:<br />

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2022,<br />

April 6). Fast facts: Preventing child abuse & neglect<br />

|violence prevention|injury Center|CDC. Centers for<br />

Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved July 20,<br />

2022, from https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/<br />

childabuseandneglect/fastfact.html<br />

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You can submit your question for “Ask the Therapist”<br />

by visiting jaclynpaulson@gmail.com and sending<br />

your question through the contact page. Please put<br />

“Ask the Therapist” in the subject line.<br />

Jackie Paulson is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor<br />

in the state of Iowa. It is her belief that every person<br />

has an innate intelligence within them and can “whole”<br />

themselves with the right support. Jackie offers a<br />

holistic and somatic based therapy practice in Sioux City,<br />

IA. Ultimately, she humbly sits with others in hopes to<br />

empower them to seek and connect into their own deep<br />

and sacred wisdom that resides within. You already have<br />

the answers, it is with the right witnessing and curiosity<br />

that the truth is revealed.


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Q:<br />

Dear Reader,<br />

Ask the Doc<br />

By Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata<br />

Send Your<br />

Questions<br />

to the<br />

Doctor.<br />

“My 12-year-old daughter struggled with being overweight until<br />

she hit a growth spurt. Her weight stayed the same, but she grew a<br />

few inches. No one has ever mentioned her weight, but she recently<br />

became obsessed with her looks, constantly feeling that she is fat,<br />

reading food labels, and skipping meals. She eats minimally. She<br />

started exercising several times a day and avoiding carbs. In two<br />

months, she lost 20 lbs. We have encouraged her to eat, but she<br />

says she gets full quickly and is not hungry. We suspect she may be<br />

purging, as she immediately goes to the bathroom after meals. She<br />

no longer joins us for mealtime and seems to come up with excuses.<br />

We fear she has developed an eating disorder. What should we do?”<br />

It sounds like you are in tune with<br />

your adolescent and have recently<br />

become aware of the changes in<br />

her eating behaviors. While this<br />

article provides general information<br />

about eating disorders, it is not<br />

medical advice. Please have your<br />

daughter see a trained mental<br />

health professional to assess her<br />

further for an eating disorder to<br />

provide you with specific treatment<br />

recommendations. The sooner your<br />

adolescent gets help, the better.<br />

Types of Eating Disorders<br />

There are different types of eating<br />

disorders based on the Diagnostic<br />

and Statistical Manual of Mental<br />

Health Disorders (DSM5). Patients<br />

often have symptoms from different<br />

categories of eating disorders and<br />

don’t fall into one category, at least,<br />

not all the time. Still, these eating<br />

disorders pose similar dangers to<br />

patients’ health. Eating disorder<br />

symptoms also may change over<br />

time.<br />

Before we go into the types of eating<br />

disorders below, it is important to<br />

assess the adolescent for any other<br />

mental health disorders. They may<br />

also be struggling with depression,<br />

anxiety, obsessive compulsive<br />

disorder (OCD), posttraumatic stress<br />

disorder (PTSD), substance abuse,<br />

and self-injurious behavior..<br />

Bulimia Nervosa<br />

Patients have obsessive and irrational<br />

thoughts about their body, food,<br />

and exercise. They will start with “a<br />

diet” but then compulsively binge<br />

eat. They set very rigid standards<br />

against certain “bad foods”. As<br />

they feel pressure from these selfimposed<br />

standards, they violate<br />

their own rules and binge. They<br />

then feel distressed due to having<br />

“overeaten” and compensate by<br />

vomiting, fasting, excessive exercise,<br />

laxative, or diuretic use.<br />

Binge Eating Disorder (B.E.D.)<br />

Patients engage in episodes of eating<br />

large amounts of food in a short<br />

period of time, accompanied by<br />

feeling out of control, and continuing<br />

to binge eat despite feeling overly<br />

full. For example, they may eat<br />

several large pizzas in one setting.<br />

Patients typically think of constantly<br />

dieting while feeling a compulsion<br />

to constantly eat. Patients typically<br />

struggle with shame, anxiety, and<br />

guilt around eating. B.E.D. can be<br />

found in people with bodies of any<br />

size.<br />

Anorexia Nervosa<br />

Patients have a distorted view of<br />

their bodies, obsessive and illogical<br />

thoughts about food and exercise,<br />

and an irrational fear around eating.<br />

Their irrational fear also involves<br />

fear of weight gain. They eat too<br />

little and are likely to have low body<br />

weight as a result. However, there<br />

are some patients who have normal<br />

or larger body weight. Patients eat a<br />

narrow range of food and become<br />

extremely anxious around eating<br />

high-caloric food.<br />

Avoidant/Restrictive Food<br />

Intake Disorder<br />

Patients eat too little to maintain<br />

their nutritional needs, but do not<br />

have the body image concerns seen<br />

in anorexia nervosa.


Other Specified Feeding and<br />

Eating Disorder<br />

This diagnosis covers eating<br />

disorders that do not meet specific<br />

criteria for anorexia nervosa, binge<br />

eating disorder, or bulimia nervosa,<br />

but cause significant distress and<br />

impairment.<br />

Orthorexia Nervosa<br />

It is not listed in DSM5 but has<br />

been proposed as a diagnosis.<br />

The individual strictly adheres to<br />

certain practices of “eating healthy,”<br />

so much that it negatively impacts<br />

health, schoolwork, and social life.<br />

S/he restricts food in order to “to be<br />

healthy,” and not for fear of gaining<br />

weight in patients with anorexia<br />

nervosa.<br />

Muscle Dysmorphia<br />

While this is not recognized in DSM5,<br />

some researchers believe that it is a<br />

manifestation of anorexia nervosa<br />

disorder, and is more common in<br />

males. Patients have similar rigid<br />

thoughts about food and body,<br />

but they desire a bigger and more<br />

muscular body. They are likely to<br />

focus on weightlifting, eating high<br />

protein foods, and use supplements<br />

or steroids.<br />

Common Challenges faced by<br />

Parents<br />

Parents face challenges when<br />

supporting adolescents in recovery.<br />

Parental Overwhelm<br />

Taking care of a child who<br />

has an eating disorder can be<br />

overwhelming. Your role as a parent<br />

didn’t stop when the additional<br />

responsibility of supporting your<br />

adolescents with an eating disorder<br />

got added to your plate. Ensure you<br />

do self-care and reach out to your<br />

support system and other parents<br />

who have been there. Asking for<br />

professional help when you need it<br />

models a healthy behavior for your<br />

adolescent.<br />

Tolerating a Teen’s distress<br />

Helping your adolescent with their<br />

recovery means requiring your teen<br />

to repeatedly face the very situation<br />

that distresses them. You will find<br />

your comfort level of what needs to<br />

be done for your teen and when.<br />

Remember that your teen’s distress<br />

is temporary.<br />

Fear of Ruining your teen’s<br />

spirit<br />

Prioritizing recovery in the long<br />

run brings long term gains, in the<br />

face of temporary discomfort.<br />

Remember that an untreated eating<br />

disorder may permanently cause<br />

irreversible physical and emotional<br />

consequences.<br />

Fear of Destroying your<br />

relationship with your teen<br />

Keep your eyes on the prize and<br />

long-term goals. Relationships are<br />

damaged when parents and children<br />

remain chronically ill and don’t go<br />

into recovery. Once your adolescent<br />

is in recovery and becomes an adult,<br />

your child’s outlook on what you<br />

did for them will be positive and<br />

appreciative of parental support.<br />

Coping Strategies<br />

It is important as parents support<br />

their adolescents in their recovery<br />

that both parents and adolescents<br />

build distress tolerance. Below are<br />

some techniques that parents can<br />

try to help themselves and their<br />

children. Remember that the best<br />

way to teach your adolescent new<br />

skills is by modeling the behavior.<br />

Identifying and labeling<br />

feelings<br />

Acknowledging and labeling a<br />

feeling makes it more manageable.<br />

You can model that behavior to your<br />

teen.<br />

Talking to someone<br />

Talking to another parent who has<br />

been in your same boat is a great<br />

source of support. Don’t keep your<br />

problems and thoughts to yourself<br />

and reach out to your community.<br />

Journaling<br />

Writing can help you get thoughts<br />

off your chest. It doesn’t have to be<br />

long. You can start by doing it for a<br />

few minutes a day.<br />

Relaxation and Meditation<br />

You can find several meditation<br />

exercises online and can do them as<br />

a family.<br />

Music<br />

Listening to music helps calm the<br />

nervous system and promotes<br />

social engagement.<br />

Stress Balls<br />

Using stress balls provides<br />

distraction and sensory input to the<br />

body to relax and release physical<br />

tension.<br />

You can submit your questions<br />

f o r “A s k t h e D o c t o r ” t o<br />

drnesrinabuata@gmail.com.<br />

Please put “Ask the Doctor” in the<br />

subject line.<br />

Dr. Abu Ata is a board-certified<br />

psychiatrist and family medicine<br />

physician in private practice, providing<br />

holistic care for the mind, body, and<br />

spirit in the context of personal growth<br />

and relationships. Offers a mindfully<br />

cultivated practice of presence and<br />

expertise. Her healing practice draws<br />

on her mindfulness, yoga, family<br />

medicine, and integrative psychiatry<br />

training to weave a unique tapestry<br />

supporting your YOU-nique journey.<br />

Connect at www.nesrinabuatamd.<br />

com or drnesrinabuata@gmail.com.<br />

Resources<br />

w w w . n e w h a r b i n g e r .<br />

com/40439 to find supplemental<br />

materials, including forms,<br />

worksheets.<br />

When Your Teen has an Eating<br />

Disorder<br />

8 Keys to Recovery From An<br />

Eating Disorder<br />

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The Physiology of Breathing as Medicine<br />

By Emily Larson<br />

Our bodies do so much for us under the radar and<br />

without a dependency on our conscious control.<br />

These automatic systems do not need a single, conscious<br />

signal from us. The heart pumps 6,000 liters of blood per<br />

day; the lungs move our breath in and out 22,000 times<br />

in the same period, and the nervous system sends signals<br />

upwards of 50 meters per second. These anomalies are, in<br />

fact, quite challenging to interact with on a conscious level.<br />

We could not simply tell the heart, “Slow down, I’m trying to<br />

sleep,” or the nervous system, “Speed up! I’m falling asleep<br />

at my desk.” One of the only ways we can interact with these<br />

automatic systems is through breathing.<br />

The Anatomy of Breathing<br />

To understand how we can develop conscious control of<br />

the breath, please allow me to introduce (or re-introduce,<br />

for those familiar with the inner workings of the human<br />

body) a bit about the anatomy of breathing. The lungs are<br />

the star of the show, of course, and the diaphragm is the<br />

working muscle. A domed sheet of muscle at the base of<br />

the ribcage, the diaphragm, creates a container out of the<br />

ribcage for the lungs to do their duty. As we inhale, the<br />

diaphragm dome contracts downward, expanding the<br />

space in the ribcage for the lungs to fill their balloon-like<br />

tissues with oxygen. The air we breathe includes millions<br />

of tiny oxygen molecules, one of our environment’s most<br />

life-supporting and necessary chemicals. The oxygen<br />

finds its way through intricate channels called bronchioles<br />

to yet more balloon-like structures called alveoli. These<br />

microscopic balloons at the end of the bronchiole channels<br />

are just one-cell layer thick, making gas exchange to our<br />

bloodstream a breeze. Oxygen enters our blood cells<br />

through capillary vessels that snake themselves right up<br />

against the alveoli balloon, again, easing that transition<br />

of gas particles. Blood cells inside these capillaries then<br />

load up with oxygen for delivery to our other vital organs<br />

and muscles. As we exhale, the diaphragm relaxes back<br />

to its original dome shape, the chest and belly release<br />

back toward the spine, and our blood cells, now full<br />

of oxygen from the inhale, simultaneously release<br />

toxic carbon dioxide (a by-product of many naturally<br />

occurring chemical reactions in the body) back into the<br />

alveoli, through the bronchioles, and out the mouth or<br />

nose.<br />

Behind all this chemical exchange and muscular<br />

contraction, the body’s nervous system is taking note.<br />

Our breathing patterns play a huge role in how our<br />

brains take in and respond to different stimuli, such as<br />

the sound of a party with large groups of friends, the<br />

smell of a campfire, or the sight of a brilliant orange<br />

and pink sunset over native prairie in Iowa. If we are in a<br />

primarily stress dominant state, the sympathetic nervous<br />

system will prime the body to fight, run, or freeze, which<br />

is typically associated with fast, chest-breathing. In such<br />

a state, a party may feel uncomfortable, and the smell<br />

of fire may cause feelings of fear. If we are in a primarily<br />

relaxation dominant state, the parasympathetic nervous<br />

system will prime the body to relax, digest food, and take<br />

in its surroundings. This state is typically associated with<br />

slow belly breathing and supports the brain in taking<br />

in the beauty of the surrounding sunset or enjoying a<br />

conversation with a new friend at a party.<br />

A Breathwork Meditation to Both Invigorate and<br />

De-Stress<br />

These days, it seems inevitable to experience stress, so<br />

much so that it can be difficult to relax tension, or it may<br />

even cause depression symptoms. The breath is a keyway<br />

we can interact with the stress response and even balance<br />

it with intention. Ancient medicine provides us with an<br />

array of breathing techniques with specific intentions<br />

for the practitioner, such as to invigorate, relax, or even<br />

awaken the Kundalini serpent that lies coiled at the very<br />

center of the body. For example, the ancient Indian<br />

medicine of Ayurveda describes Kapalabhati breath as<br />

the “skull-shining” breath. This rapid yet disciplined style<br />

of breathing invigorates the mind, warms the body, and<br />

is a helpful tool for any depression-related symptoms,<br />

such as sluggishness, negative thought loops, or lack of<br />

motivation and inspiration. It does this by:<br />

Hands on the belly and chest help guide the breath<br />

deeper tapping its healing qualities.


• First, it helps to begin any breathwork practice with<br />

a brief meditation in order to unite the mind with<br />

the body (rather than with the to-do list). So, find a<br />

comfortable seat, whatever that might mean for you,<br />

whether that be sitting upright in a chair, cross-legged<br />

on a pillow, or perhaps on your shins with the legs<br />

folded up underneath you.<br />

• Next, as long as it feels safe to you in this moment,<br />

remove any external visual stimuli by closing your eyes.<br />

This helps to de-stimulate the nervous system and<br />

prime the body for a few moments of inner exploration.<br />

Relax the space between your eyebrows; let your<br />

eyes and brain float in space. As long as your level of<br />

nasal congestion allows, close your mouth and lips<br />

so the tongue can rest against the roof of the mouth.<br />

This helps seal and strengthen your breath cycles, and<br />

coincidentally combats mouth-breathing.<br />

• Now, as you breathe in and out through the nose, draw<br />

your attention to your own natural breath cycle and<br />

observe it. No need to change anything just yet simply<br />

pay attention on purpose to the subtle sensations that<br />

accompany the breath, perhaps the cool air entering<br />

your nose; the stretching of your chest and belly with<br />

the expansion of the inhale and release of the exhale; or<br />

even the gentle whooshing sounds the breath creates<br />

within you. Take five to ten breath cycles just like this.<br />

• Once you have settled into your cycle, begin to take<br />

intentional breaths deep in the belly as if you are<br />

breathing through your belly button, keeping the chest<br />

relaxed and pointing slightly skyward. Take several<br />

rounds here.<br />

• With your next exhale, you will begin the Kabalabhati<br />

cycle by taking a forceful exhale, pressing the diaphragm<br />

into the lungs for a full release of carbon dioxide. Allow<br />

the inhale to come naturally as the diaphragm contracts<br />

and the lungs fill with oxygen.<br />

• Keep taking deep, sharp exhales with full, natural<br />

inhales. Continue with this cycle. You can do this for a<br />

specific count of breaths; perhaps five, ten, or even one<br />

hundred rounds. You can also practice the Kapalabhati<br />

cycle for a specific amount of time for your meditation<br />

practice; start with one to three minutes and work<br />

your way up as it suits you. Kapalabhati is especially<br />

beneficial in the morning to invigorate and prepare you<br />

for the day.<br />

• You may feel a slight buzzing in the head space or a<br />

wakeful pulsing throughout the body and fingertips,<br />

making the moniker “skull-shining” breath quite fitting.<br />

This flood of oxygen and potential energy to the cells<br />

helps prepare the body for action while also detoxifying<br />

it and combating excessive stress.<br />

Breathe to Relax<br />

Rather than stimulate the body like Kabalabhati, some<br />

breath techniques are designed to de-stimulate. For<br />

example, simply taking the previously mentioned<br />

meditation then focusing on the exhale, will both<br />

detoxify the lungs and down regulate the nervous<br />

system. Spending time in the exhale in this way sends<br />

a parasympathetic-dominant signal through the nervous<br />

system channels to the muscles, vital organs, and even<br />

our eyes. So, even when we are filled with anxiety and<br />

find it hard to “just relax,” simply changing our breathing<br />

pattern can help us find balance and biochemically shift<br />

gears to a more relaxed yet alert state.<br />

Discover Your Breathwork Techniques<br />

The range of ways to breathe has been expanding since<br />

ancient medicine introduced breathing meditations<br />

hundreds of years ago. Today, we understand the<br />

physiology that may have been quite a mystery to<br />

our ancestors, and we can use this understanding to<br />

derive specific benefits for our bodies. So, whether<br />

you need energy and strength, a sense of compassion<br />

and heart, or calming and tranquility, you can turn to<br />

and explore the medicine of the breath for the specific<br />

healing you seek.<br />

Emily Larson, a Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />

Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science Kinesiology &<br />

Human Performance, Instructor of Anatomy and<br />

Pathology for massage therapy students at the Bio<br />

Chi Institute, mother to Noah.<br />

Photo Credit Kessel Kreations.<br />

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Living Lumin<br />

By Meghan Nelson & Ryan Allen<br />

The Yoga of LIfe<br />

We’re here to play the long<br />

game, I hope. We need to have<br />

time to figure things out, make<br />

sense of the world, and come to<br />

understand our place in it. This<br />

path, we know, is rarely, if ever,<br />

linear. We wobble, and we weave<br />

and get lost. It feels like a labyrinth<br />

or maze.<br />

I feel the most lost when I’m<br />

disconnected from God, from<br />

Source. When I value the wrong<br />

stuff, when I put things over people,<br />

when I take more than I give, when<br />

I talk more than I listen, when I’m<br />

stuck inside more than free outside,<br />

and when I tune my frequencies to<br />

bobbling talking heads rather than<br />

to the Source of my love and light<br />

and Being. I’m learning to become<br />

more aware of where, when, and<br />

how I feel it, but it’s crooked travel,<br />

and sometimes it hurts.<br />

The hardest step is the first. How<br />

long do we allow ourselves to suffer<br />

until we finally leap from thought<br />

to thing, from idea to action, from<br />

desire to momentum? The short<br />

and easy answer is too long. There’s<br />

got to be an easier way.<br />

Brothers and sisters, I have to<br />

believe that we are not here to<br />

suffer. We did not come into these<br />

bodies for pain, and our souls<br />

aren’t meant for torment. We did<br />

not come into this life to toil.<br />

One of my greatest teachers<br />

was Brian McCormick. He once<br />

posed the question: What if this is<br />

heaven? Recognizing, believing,<br />

and understanding the infinite and<br />

eternality of the individual Soul<br />

and its connection to the universal<br />

Source, is it not this span of our<br />

creation that is perhaps most<br />

holy? Certainly, it’s what might be<br />

most unique. Where else but here<br />

will we experience a sunset, fall in<br />

love, hold our newborn babies, hit<br />

home runs, and dance until dawn?<br />

What other span of our existence<br />

will we have these senses—to<br />

visualize the manifestation, taste<br />

the ecstasy, feel the delight, and<br />

know the joy and awareness of<br />

reality in the most personal ways<br />

possible?<br />

This is the place for light.<br />

This is the place for love.<br />

When we once again transform<br />

into pure positive vibration, we will<br />

be many things. Physical is not one<br />

of them.<br />

Translation: this is the<br />

place for fun!<br />

This is the place to feel it.<br />

Meghan & Ryan share Savasana.<br />

All we get are these few precious<br />

years. And we feel this time<br />

through our experience of space.<br />

In this space where all the cosmic<br />

goo gets mixed. The joys and the<br />

sorrows, the triumphs and travails,<br />

the movements here there and<br />

back again. I feel all this the most<br />

in my life with my kids. I experience<br />

it coaching basketball and baseball<br />

and witnessing young people lose<br />

their minds and spirits on missed<br />

shots and groundouts. Whether it’s<br />

in my own home, or on the court<br />

or field, I struggle to find new ways<br />

to motivate the young people I<br />

love and serve to love and serve<br />

themselves, struggle to model the<br />

patience needed for resilience,<br />

struggle to see things through


their eyes instead of my own. How<br />

do I convey the idea that to play<br />

is far greater than the play itself?<br />

What I want to share with them<br />

is that the failures are not losses,<br />

the losses are not defeats, the<br />

defeats are not destruction. Until<br />

and except for the night before,<br />

success doesn’t happen overnight.<br />

Enlightenment takes a little time.<br />

Bliss, a little practice. And it’s never<br />

over. Climbing to the top of the<br />

mountain only reveals another<br />

mountain. Our work is never done.<br />

There will always be contrast. There<br />

will always be reminders of what<br />

we don’t want so that we can better<br />

tune our frequencies to what we<br />

do. Thank God. I can hear Jimmy<br />

Cliff singing “Many Rivers to Cross.”<br />

A young Liam helps his mom Meghan relax into awareness.<br />

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So, our efforts, my friends, are to<br />

soften the hard edges of our past<br />

traumas and the emotions and<br />

feelings that attract the thoughts<br />

and beliefs of negative self-worth,<br />

shame, and isolation. We can’t get<br />

‘better’ until we arrive at some<br />

‘good’ and we can’t become our<br />

best unless we heal. Our duty is<br />

to the Self. Here the enduring<br />

centuries-old wisdom of the<br />

Bhagavad Gita shines through<br />

when Krishna tells Arjuna that when<br />

beholding the self in the Self, the<br />

self is content. That’s what I want to<br />

feel — santosha (contentment). It’s<br />

why we do what we do. We practice<br />

because of how we want to feel; we<br />

teach because we want to share the<br />

good vibrations with you. The yoga<br />

of life is an eight-limbed practice<br />

calling us to live well, to move<br />

mindfully, to breathe intentionally,<br />

and to experience, through focus<br />

and concentration, and through<br />

meditation, the divine connection<br />

between our Self and pure Source<br />

energy—to know God, to feel God,<br />

and to become one with God. What<br />

a glorious opportunity we have<br />

been given!<br />

So, how do we do it? Much easier<br />

done than said, but in short, we<br />

chill out. We relax. We slow our<br />

brainwaves down. We release. We<br />

open. The Chandogya Upanishad<br />

unveils the path:<br />

“As a tethered bird grows<br />

tired of flying<br />

About in vain to find<br />

a place of rest<br />

And settles down at last<br />

on its own perch,<br />

So the mind, tired<br />

of wandering about<br />

Hither and thither, settles<br />

down at last<br />

In the Self, dear one, to which it is<br />

bound.”<br />

It is a journey home to the SELF<br />

calling us navigate the layers of<br />

our Being as we travel through the<br />

koshas and the akashic field and<br />

explore the experience of the most<br />

sacred internal wisdom, that “we<br />

live not by the breath that flows in<br />

and flows out, but by [the One] who<br />

causes the breath to flow in and<br />

flow out” (Katha Upanishad). It is a<br />

practice of knowing the Knower, of<br />

creating the dream.<br />

We need this connection now<br />

more than ever. The way out of the<br />

madness of the modern world is<br />

to journey in. Yoga nidra is one of<br />

those ways in, one of those keys<br />

that can unlock a great many doors.<br />

Yoga nidra is a systematic method<br />

of inducing complete physical,<br />

mental, and emotional relaxation.<br />

It is a threshold state of psychic<br />

sleep between the conscious and<br />

subconscious. Patanjali’s eightlimbed<br />

path speaks of pratyahara,<br />

sense withdrawal, the ‘process’ of<br />

the mind and mental awareness<br />

disassociating from the sensory<br />

channels. Yoga nidra facilitates<br />

pratyahara and is a gateway to<br />

higher states of consciousness<br />

and to samadhi, the experience of<br />

enlightenment in the now. Rumi<br />

says, “What you seek is seeking<br />

you.” The yoga of my life is a<br />

journey home to my Self. The road<br />

to being good is paved by feeling<br />

good. This is what I seek. Yoga<br />

Nidra is the practice that helps me<br />

get there. It’s what I want to share<br />

with you. Join me.<br />

Lumin Therapy provides integrative<br />

health and education for the mind,<br />

body, and spirit to those who are<br />

suffering or struggling to step into<br />

and live their heartfelt mission and<br />

purpose. Through the practice of<br />

physical therapy, medical therapeutic<br />

yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and<br />

resiliency mentoring, Dr. Meghan<br />

Nelson, DPT, and Dr. Ryan Allen, PhD,<br />

bring their over forty-plus combined<br />

years of knowledge and experience<br />

serving others to learn and heal and<br />

live without boundaries.<br />

The link to the practice:<br />

https://youtu.be/FzWSgdyPmvM<br />

Photo Credit Ryan Allen.


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Inclusive Peek – Interview with Tarsila Rameriz<br />

What challenges have you experienced in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

When I first integrate into a community that was more familiar<br />

to me which was the Latino community, then the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

community became easier for me to adjust.<br />

Secondly, it was difficult to adapt to the place of this area,<br />

due to size. Prior to moving here, I was living in a bigger city.<br />

However, employment was a challenge to adapt to since jobs<br />

were different from place to place.<br />

Lastly, finding activities that are interesting, and fulfilling was<br />

a challenge but new, because I had never lived in in this part<br />

of the country or climate.<br />

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How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />

I was drawn into <strong>Siouxland</strong>. The community was pleasant for<br />

me as a newcomer, making me feel a part of the community<br />

by greetings and waves. I was invited to community events,<br />

people’s homes and families shared personal moments, or<br />

special events.<br />

What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know?<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> is a great place to raise a family, with the ideal size<br />

of urban development, not so huge like cities, (i.e. Chicago,<br />

New York, etc.), nevertheless with most of the amenities,<br />

and services that you need. Living in <strong>Siouxland</strong>, you can live<br />

without the inconveniences of pollution, noise, long daily<br />

commutes, and all the violence that bigger urban areas<br />

experience.<br />

Tarsila Rameriz<br />

Inclusive Peek – En Espanol<br />

¿Qué desafíos ha experimentado en <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Cuando me integré por primera vez en una comunidad que<br />

era más familiar, que era la comunidad latina, la comunidad<br />

de <strong>Siouxland</strong> se volvió más fácil para mí.<br />

En segundo lugar, fue difícil adaptar al lugar de esta area,<br />

debido al tamaño. Antes de mudarme aquí, vivía en una<br />

ciudad más grande. Sin embargo, el empleo fue un desafío<br />

al que adaptarse, ya que los trabajos eran diferentes de un<br />

lugar a otro.<br />

Por último, encontrar actividades que sean interesantes y<br />

satisfactorias fue un desafío, pero nuevo, porque nunca<br />

había vivido en esta parte del país o clima.<br />

¿Cómo ha sido la acogida de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Me atrajeron a <strong>Siouxland</strong>. La comunidad fue agradable<br />

para mí como recién llegado, haciéndome sentir parte de<br />

la comunidad a través de saludos. Fui invitado a eventos<br />

comunitarios, casas de personas y familias compartieron<br />

momentos personales o eventos especiales.<br />

¿Qué quieres que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> es un gran lugar para formar una familia, con el<br />

tamaño ideal de desarrollo urbano, no tan grande como las<br />

ciudades (es decir, Chicago, Nueva York, etc.), sin embargo,<br />

con la mayoría de las comodidades y servicios que necesita.<br />

Al vivir en <strong>Siouxland</strong>, puedes vivir sin los inconvenientes de<br />

la contaminación, el ruido, los largos viajes diarios y toda la<br />

violencia que experimentan las áreas urbanas más grandes.


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Building Our Community and Bringing People Together<br />

By Jetske Wauran<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /31<br />

“I’ve always cared about diversity and inclusion.<br />

I grew up with Ethiopian and Eritrean parents, so it<br />

started as a kid, and I wanted to keep fostering that as<br />

an adult.” Semehar Ghebrekidan recalls her passion for<br />

community-wide collaboration, inclusion, and diversity.<br />

She is Sioux City’s very first Community Inclusion Liaison.<br />

“I’m seeing the connections being made. I was always<br />

told there’s a time when you gotta get up and move, but<br />

when you do, make sure you encourage other people<br />

to take your place. When you empower other people<br />

around you, they step up to the plate.”<br />

Semehar serves as the point of contact providing<br />

support for underrepresented individuals with concerns<br />

or questions about equity and inclusion in local<br />

government. “I was the first in my entire family to go<br />

to college. As I went into grad school, I kept sitting in<br />

student advocacy. I advocated in ESL programs at South<br />

Dakota State. Advocacy has always been important to<br />

me. The vice president there said I occasionally prodded<br />

the bureaucracy system because they sometimes<br />

did things without being mindful of the minority or<br />

marginalized students there, so I was always the person<br />

asking questions and advocating. I feel like that led me to<br />

this path today.”<br />

Before working as the Community Inclusion Liaison, the<br />

Sioux Falls native worked as an HIV case manager at the<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community Health Center. Semehar said it was<br />

an eye-opening role. “I’d never worked in the medical<br />

field before, and I had a really gracious team who showed<br />

me my biases as well. I feel that I know about diversity<br />

and inclusion in the sense of race, culture, and sexuality.<br />

Still, I didn’t understand that things like drug use and HIV<br />

affect different communities differently, so learning that<br />

and noting my biases,<br />

and confronting them<br />

head-on. I learned a lot<br />

in that role. Some days<br />

it was really easy in case<br />

managing, but some<br />

days, it was really difficult<br />

searching these systems<br />

and advocating for<br />

people fiercely because<br />

they didn’t have anyone<br />

to advocate for them.”<br />

Semehar said this was<br />

the role that changed<br />

her as a person. “I<br />

learned to also advocate<br />

for myself just as much<br />

as I advocated for my<br />

patients.”<br />

Semehar Ghebrekidan<br />

Nowadays, you can find Semehar all over our community from<br />

city meetings to local events and forums. “There’s a lot of work<br />

to be done in this role and I’m excited for what’s to come on<br />

different platforms too. Be on the lookout as I’ll be teaming up<br />

with <strong>Siouxland</strong> Public Media to create podcasts to help folks get<br />

connected with our city and our city officials get connected with<br />

our community members.”<br />

Three interesting facts about Semehar:<br />

1. Semehar listens to three songs before she goes to work.<br />

Amazing, by Kanye West, Industry Baby, by Lil Nas X and<br />

Brighter Day, by Kirk Franklin<br />

2. Semehar and her fiance, Logan, live in Sioux City.<br />

3. Semehar’s parents own an Ethiopian restaurant in<br />

Sioux Falls, SD.<br />

I’m thrilled to share my passion project, “People of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Portraits of the Extraordinary,” through <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>. As a visual storyteller, my mission is to highlight the hidden gems and underrepresented individuals who<br />

enrich our lives, show ongoing leadership, and are outstanding community role models. I hope your inspired.<br />

Jetske Wauran-Castro is a community activist, professional photographer, and Emmy award-winning journalist. She<br />

and her husband, Rueben, live in Sioux City.


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<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization is celebrating its<br />

20th year as a non-profit organization, and we love<br />

celebrating- especially with events! From our monthly<br />

GO PRO(fessional) and GO SOCIAL events for our members<br />

to make connections and grow their professional skills to<br />

our larger-scale events like the Golf Classic or Innovation<br />

Market, we love to bring people together to celebrate<br />

young professionals getting involved and investing into the<br />

future of our community.<br />

Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />

By Brock Bourek<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /33<br />

Suppose you’ve been a part of <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO (formerly<br />

Sioux City GO) or been a community member for the<br />

last 15-20 years, you’ll likely remember another, popular<br />

event, the Murder Mystery Dinner. After a hiatus from the<br />

event, we thought there’s no better way to celebrate the<br />

milestone of 20 years than by bringing it back! On Friday,<br />

December 30th from 5:30-11:00 p.m., <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO is<br />

hosting a 1920’s themed Murder Mystery Dinner with live<br />

music to follow at the South Sioux City Marriott Riverfront.<br />

We’re excited to partner locally with LAMB Theatre for the<br />

event. Tickets will be $75/person, $100/two tickets or $400<br />

for a table of eight. Sponsorships are also available. For<br />

more information on sponsorship, the event, or to order<br />

tickets visit our website: siouxcitygo.com or follow us<br />

on Facebook and Instagram. We hope that this event may<br />

pay homage to those that helped start this organization,<br />

while allowing room for us to grow as we usher in a new<br />

generation of <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO members.<br />

Never been to a Murder Mystery? It is all about solving a<br />

murder, the storyline created by professional actors hired<br />

for the evening. As a guest, from the moment you arrive<br />

you become a detective. The goal by the end of the night is<br />

to solve the case and figure out who is the murderer. There<br />

are a few different formats for Murder Mysteries. For our<br />

event we’ve chosen a more work-at-your-own-pace format,<br />

making it inclusive to all guests- from the seasoned Murder<br />

Mystery veteran, the newcomer, or the one attending for<br />

the social atmosphere. You get to be as involved as you<br />

want, although we recommend digging into your detective<br />

spirit to have the best experience!<br />

That experience includes “suspects” (paid actors from<br />

Lamb Theatre) stationed around the Marriott ballroom,<br />

with a leading detective filling everyone in on the details<br />

pertaining to the “murder” that just occurred. Guests will<br />

receive a map of the crime scene, and a suspect list with<br />

Murder Mystery Dinner in 2017.<br />

room for notes. Guests are then responsible for approaching<br />

each murder suspect to hear their testimony, using their<br />

deductive reasoning to piece together the clues, and find<br />

the murderer. Guests will submit their guess of the murderer<br />

into the suspect’s ballot box. The leading detective will<br />

announce the murderer and their motives to the guests at<br />

the end of dinner, enlightening everyone to who was able<br />

to successfully crack the case. Do you think you have what<br />

it takes to catch the killer? Join us for our 1920’s Murder<br />

Mystery Dinner in celebration of our 20th Anniversary in the<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Area!<br />

Want to be involved in planning the return of the Murder<br />

Mystery Dinner? Our events committee is looking for<br />

members to help! If you are a young professional interested in<br />

joining our organization, check out our website: siouxcitygo.<br />

com/join-us. Memberships are only $75 for a year. For more<br />

information about <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO, other upcoming events,<br />

volunteer opportunities and more, follow us on Facebook<br />

or Instagram.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization welcomes progressive and<br />

innovative ideas. As a group, we work to put these ideas<br />

into action and build the momentum to take Sioux City into<br />

the future.<br />

Brock Bourek, Vice President of SLGO.<br />

Photo Credit <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO.


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Congratulations to all the<br />

10 under 40 winners. These<br />

people are a testament to the<br />

quality of business in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

I am proud to be part of this<br />

group of young professionals<br />

making a difference in our local<br />

business community.<br />

We hope that you will<br />

“bookmark” each of the<br />

businesses these winners<br />

represent and call on them the<br />

next time you need the products<br />

or services they offer.


Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

By Peggy Smith<br />

I always love this issue of <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

that highlights ten young people who are<br />

dynamically impacting our community.<br />

Communities, like bread, become stale from<br />

just sitting there. It is new ideas, energy, and passion<br />

that keep our community vibrant and ever fresh.<br />

People by nature are fearful of change and tend to<br />

resort to “how it’s always been.” There is a comfort<br />

in the tried and true, even if the tried and true is not<br />

really working any longer or doesn’t make sense.<br />

Here is a great story that has been passed around for<br />

years and not attributed to any one individual. The<br />

story points out how tried and true sometimes should<br />

be questioned… A woman was preparing to cook a<br />

ham for the holiday meal. Her son was helping and<br />

watched his mother cut off a couple of inches from<br />

each end of the ham. He asked why she was wasting<br />

good ham, and his mother replied, “Well, this is the<br />

way my mother taught me to make ham.” The son<br />

questioned the reason and called his grandma, who<br />

replied, “Well, that was the way my mother taught<br />

me.” The great grandma had passed away, but greatgrandpa<br />

was still living, so the son called his great<br />

grandpa and asked, “Why did Great Grandma cut off<br />

the ends of the ham before cooking it?” Great Grandpa<br />

was silent as he thought about it for a moment, then<br />

he replied, “So the ham could fit in the baking pan.”<br />

community for today and tomorrow. The program<br />

focuses on instilling and enhancing leadership skills,<br />

including gratitude, initiative, mindfulness, positivity,<br />

emotional intelligence, and self-awareness. Our program<br />

is dedicated to helping grow leaders with the goal of<br />

creating an even better <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

Congratulations to this year’s “10 Under 40” recipients – I<br />

am excited to see what each of you will accomplish and<br />

the positive changes you will initiate!<br />

Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is an organization dedicated<br />

to developing diverse, informed leaders who shape<br />

our community positively for today and tomorrow.<br />

To learn more about this organization, contact info@<br />

leadershipsiouxland.org or call 712-898-8594.<br />

Peggy Smith, the Executive Director of Leadership<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

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Sometimes, as a community, we tend to continue to<br />

do things the way they have always been done, even<br />

if that process no longer makes sense. Changing<br />

things up is uncomfortable for most people, primarily<br />

because we do not know what to expect. There is<br />

comfort (and control) in knowing how things will go,<br />

and what happens next. When we change and shake<br />

things up, we no longer can control the outcome.<br />

Taking a chance and doing things differently will result<br />

in a different outcome, which can be worse, similar,<br />

better, or WAY better! People, and communities, that<br />

embrace new ways of tackling old problems thrive. It<br />

is not easy to do, and most people don’t realize that<br />

managing change effectively is a skill that can be<br />

learned.<br />

Many of the “10 Under 40” recipients over the years<br />

have been graduates of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>, a<br />

program that is dedicated to a simple, but important<br />

mission: Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> develops diverse,<br />

passionate leaders who positively impact our


Lily Frank is the owner and operator of The<br />

Sonography Studio, a 3D/4D/HD ultrasound<br />

and hydration studio for expecting mothers.<br />

The Sonography Studio is located on<br />

beautiful, historic 4th Street in downtown<br />

Sioux City, at 1119 4th Street, Suite 220.<br />

“I’ve worked in all different specialties,<br />

including ICU, ER, and Labor and Delivery.<br />

But I fell in love with my job when I worked<br />

in maternal-child, and I knew that I wanted<br />

to advance my degree to keep me around<br />

mothers and their babies,” explained Lily.<br />

She decided to obtain the necessary educational requirements to work as a<br />

Nurse-Midwife. She is now an Advanced Registered Nurse Practitioner – Certified Nurse<br />

Midwife.<br />

“I was pregnant in grad school, and I got to peek at my baby via ultrasound from the<br />

time he was barely visible, all the way to the end. Watching him grow from the inside<br />

was absolutely incredible. Connecting, growing, and bonding with your baby is a huge<br />

part of the process. That was when the<br />

idea for The Sonography Studio was<br />

born,” stated Lily.<br />

Through utilizing her ARNP-CNM<br />

degree, Lily received extra training as a<br />

Midwife Sonographer in California that<br />

allowed her to become certified by the<br />

American Registry for Diagnostic Medical<br />

Sonography.<br />

“I am able to diagnose, which means


if I encounter something wrong via the ultrasound, I can ensure that they receive<br />

expedient follow-up care. I will<br />

provide a courtesy call to your<br />

physician or refer you to the ER if<br />

I find something detrimental. You<br />

still need to see your OBGYN or<br />

physician for proper prenatal care,<br />

this studio does not take the place<br />

of any appointments that you need<br />

to have scheduled throughout your<br />

pregnancy,” explained Lily.<br />

A standard insurance policy will only<br />

cover the cost of two ultrasounds<br />

during a woman’s pregnancy if<br />

everything is normal; one in the<br />

very early stages of pregnancy to<br />

confirm due date and viability then<br />

one in the middle of the pregnancy (usually around week 20) to see all of the baby’s<br />

anatomy.<br />

“The Sonography Studio can provide you with scans at any time throughout a woman’s<br />

pregnancy, as many times as the mother would like. An ultrasound is a noninvasive<br />

procedure, and has no harmful effects to the fetus,” stated Lily.<br />

However, ultrasounds are not the only service The Sonography Studio provides for<br />

expecting mothers.<br />

“We also offer IV hydration and essential IV vitamin add-ins. This sets us apart from<br />

anything offered at the OBGYN offices or hospitals. This service is very beneficial if a<br />

woman is sick at any time during her pregnancy and unable to keep hydrated”, stated<br />

Lily “We also have fun baby boutique items and prenatal/postnatal items for purchase.”<br />

In order to have scans taken at The Sonography Studio, a woman needs to be at least<br />

six weeks along in her pregnancy, which can be determined and verified at the studio.<br />

You don’t need to be expecting in order to come in for hydration. There is an array of<br />

services provided via the website, www.thesonographystudio.com.<br />

The Sonography Studio<br />

1119 4th street, Suite 220<br />

Sioux City, IA 51101<br />

712-509-3153<br />

www.thesonographystudio.com<br />

The Sonography Studio<br />

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Simply Celebrate<br />

By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />

Celebrate Good Times!<br />

Shayla Krantz has always loved a good celebration.<br />

“Pre-kids, I was a graphic designer and event planner,”<br />

she explained. “I always dreamt of finding a way to<br />

combine the two things I love to do – and now I get<br />

to do that!”<br />

Shayla’s enthusiasm is reflected in her business,<br />

Simply Celebrate <strong>Siouxland</strong>, which she founded in<br />

April 2022. She loves to celebrate life. “I tend to<br />

throw parties for my kids or family, whether the event<br />

is big or small. I just love to have a party!”<br />

Taking the time to pause the rush of life and be present<br />

at a party is important to enjoying the moment, and<br />

it’s exactly what Shayla’s business supports. For some<br />

people (like this author), throwing a party can be<br />

stressful – decorations, invitations, and party favors<br />

are all details that take time and creativity. That’s<br />

where the “Party Box” comes in. Shayla will work with<br />

the theme you have established (or create one for<br />

you), do all the planning and shopping, and package<br />

everything you need for the party into a box. “You just<br />

open the box, and everything you need is there. The<br />

Birthday gift package.<br />

decorations all coordinate,<br />

you set them up and your<br />

party is ready to go,” she<br />

said.<br />

“Sometimes party themes<br />

can be harder than you<br />

think when you start,”<br />

Shayla noted. “I recently<br />

did a party box for a family<br />

who wanted a firefighter<br />

themed party for their oneyear<br />

old daughter. They<br />

Shayla Krantz<br />

were having trouble finding things that were ‘girly’<br />

and fire fighter. I got to custom design invitations<br />

and decorations - it was so fun!”<br />

Even if you aren’t a party-thrower, you probably<br />

get invited to parties now and then. Whether it’s a<br />

birthday party for your child’s friend, a baby or bridal<br />

shower, figuring out what gift to buy, then locating<br />

it can be time consuming. Never fear - Simply<br />

Celebrate can help you there too! “I can work within<br />

your budget,” Shayla explained, “let me know what<br />

you are looking for and I can get it for you, wrap and<br />

deliver it to you. Or if you don’t know what you want,<br />

give me a little information on the event and I’ll find<br />

just the right thing.” In addition, for those showers<br />

where the honoree is registered, Simply Celebrate<br />

can take your gift giving to the next level. “I will<br />

search the registry to find items that go together<br />

within your budget, purchase them and put them into<br />

a neat basket decorated to match the shower theme,”<br />

Shayla said giddily.<br />

You’d think Simply Celebrate has everything covered<br />

at that point, but Shayla thought of one more place<br />

where gift giving can be an extra task on a busy<br />

parent’s (or teacher’s) to-do list. “Teachers often want<br />

to get little gifts for their students at special times,<br />

but finding something within budget, wrapping,<br />

putting personal labels on, and all those things


20 student gifts with personalized tags, a meet the<br />

teacher printout for each student, and a printed<br />

wish-list of items they need for the classroom.” It’s a<br />

great way for teachers to welcome students and ask<br />

for parental support at the same time.<br />

To learn more about the services available<br />

at Simply Celebrate, visit the webpage at:<br />

simplycelebratesiouxland.com, or view the Small<br />

Business Spotlight on <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>’s<br />

Facebook feed.<br />

Now. . . . let’s party!<br />

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have to happen outside of work time along with all the<br />

other things they do,” Shayla commented. “I can do<br />

that for teachers – find custom gifts, wrap them, make<br />

personalized notes, and then the teacher just has to<br />

hand them out.” Parents stressed about Valentine’s<br />

Day or other special days at school are covered by<br />

Simply Celebrate also – the same services are available<br />

to parents tasked with providing gifts to all students in<br />

the class.<br />

“Right now, I’m also doing a Back-To-School box, for<br />

teachers,” Shayla described with excitement. “It includes<br />

Dr. Cyndi Hanson, Executive Director for Northeast<br />

Community College’s Extended Campus.<br />

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Sioux City International Film Festival<br />

By Leslie Werden<br />

The Sioux City International<br />

Film Festival is the longest<br />

running, short-film festival<br />

in Iowa. Now in its 17th year,<br />

the festival has become an event<br />

recognized for bringing quality films<br />

from all over the world to the area.<br />

Hosted at the Promenade Cinema 14<br />

in two theaters (with plush seating),<br />

festival attendees can select a genre<br />

(choose from comedy, documentary,<br />

drama, sci-fi/fantasy, or horror/<br />

thriller) and watch 8-10 short films<br />

adding up to two-hours’ worth of<br />

inventive, unique, and engaging<br />

entertainment. Past festivals have<br />

included Oscar nominated films<br />

along with work from up-andcoming<br />

filmmakers, some of whom<br />

attend the event.<br />

This year’s festival theme is Music<br />

in Film and will feature events and<br />

workshops showcasing this unique<br />

aspect of the industry. Thursday,<br />

September 29 kicks off the festival<br />

when we open the doors at 5:00<br />

p.m. to a free selection of films from<br />

regional artists. At 7:30 p.m., we<br />

show the only feature-length film<br />

Matt Schrader<br />

of the festival, Score, directed by<br />

Matt Schrader. This award-winning<br />

documentary features some of<br />

the most influential names in film<br />

music, including Quincy Jones,<br />

Randy Newman, and James<br />

Cameron. After the film, director<br />

Matt Schrader will be in-person<br />

to answer questions from the<br />

audience.<br />

Our first workshop presenter at<br />

the festival is Sioux City native,<br />

Sioux City International Film Festival<br />

September 30 thru October 2, 2022<br />

Kick-off event • September 29<br />

Jordan Dykstra<br />

Jordan Dykstra, a “Brooklynbased<br />

violist and composer<br />

exploring the performer-composerlistener<br />

relationship through the<br />

incorporation of conceptual,<br />

graphic, and text-based elements”<br />

(jordandykstra.com). Dykstra will<br />

present a workshop on Friday,<br />

September 30 at 6pm for those<br />

interested in learning more about<br />

his work, with a focus on the<br />

differences between collaborative<br />

and solo composing. Most recently,<br />

Dykstra worked as a composer for<br />

Frontline.<br />

The second workshop presenter<br />

is Bri Holland, a “songwriter,<br />

music producer, audio engineer,<br />

singer, and vocal production<br />

specialist based in Los Angeles,


CA” (briholland.com).<br />

Holland’s hands-on<br />

workshop will explore<br />

vocal processing, from<br />

recording through<br />

mixing, for live-action<br />

and animated film music<br />

on Saturday, October 1<br />

at 11am. Most recently,<br />

Holland has worked<br />

on the films tick, tick…<br />

Boom!, Vivo, and Dear<br />

Evan Hansen.<br />

Additionally, several<br />

filmmakers whose work Bri Holland<br />

was selected for the<br />

festival will be in-person and will participate in a Filmmakers<br />

RoundTable Q&A session on Saturday, October 1 at 3pm.<br />

Selected films will begin showing on Friday, September 30<br />

at noon with alternating start times in two separate theaters<br />

(for example, one block will run from 12-2 and another<br />

from 1-3). A full schedule will be available on the website at<br />

siouxcityfilmfest.org.<br />

Here’s where we need help from the audience: each block<br />

of film will have a “premiere” and an “encore” showing.<br />

See as many as you like, but if you want your voice heard,<br />

we are inviting you to help us choose Audience Favorite<br />

awards for each category by attending the premiere blocks<br />

and voting for your favorite. If you love sci-fi/fantasy, make<br />

sure you come to that first showing of films, watch them<br />

carefully, then cast your vote for your favorite. If you want<br />

to do the same for documentaries, go right ahead! In for<br />

comedies, too? Great!! On Saturday night at 7:00pm, come<br />

to the awards ceremony where we present your Audience<br />

Favorite awards and reveal the juried award winners from<br />

each category. At this event, you will get another chance<br />

to help us pick Your Top Film from all the juried winners!<br />

Here are some details about how to get<br />

tickets (go to siouxcityfilmfest.org to<br />

purchase online):<br />

• Free: All workshops and the Filmmakers<br />

RoundTable<br />

• Free: The Regional Film block on Thursday,<br />

Sept. 29 at 5pm<br />

• $5.00: The kick-off documentary, Score,<br />

on Thursday,Sept. 30 at 7:30pm (200 tickets<br />

available)<br />

• $10.00: Single Screening Ticket (entry to one<br />

block of films)<br />

• $25.00: Day Pass (entry to all films on one day)<br />

• $50.00: All Festival Pass (entry to all films for<br />

the entire festival)<br />

• $100.00: VIP Pass (entry to all films, two VIP<br />

after-parties, the Rick Mullin Filmmaker’s<br />

Lounge, and a Friday night trolley ride • 25<br />

passes available)<br />

As a reminder, many of the filmmakers will be in the<br />

audience with you, so you could see the winners get<br />

their awards live!<br />

Major funding for SCIFF programs comes from<br />

Humanities Iowa. Major sponsors include Hard Rock<br />

Hotel & Casino, the City of Sioux City, and Produce Iowa.<br />

Additional sponsors include Warrior Hotel, State Steel,<br />

Jolly Time Pop Corn, Bluestem Fund, RTI, Downtown<br />

Partners, Great West Casualty Company, and Wayne<br />

State College.<br />

Leslie Werden, President of Sioux City International Film<br />

Festival<br />

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Hungry Canyon<br />

Iowa’s West Coast Initiative Feature<br />

Short description of your business:<br />

My name is Melissa Nelson, and my business is Hungry<br />

Canyon. I create authentic and accurate agriculturerelated<br />

cards, gifts, and home decor from the farm and<br />

beef cattle operation my husband and I are so proud of<br />

owning and operating.<br />

What motivated you to start your business? What<br />

drives you each day?<br />

I started Hungry Canyon to solve a problem I had. Nine<br />

years ago, I was dating my now husband, and it was<br />

almost Valentine’s Day…so I started to look for a card to<br />

give him. We were both farm kids through and through,<br />

ag majors at Iowa State and Nebraska, and had a future<br />

in the ag industry. It only made sense to me that the card<br />

for a day celebrating love would match the very things<br />

*we* loved. I started to look…and I found my problem. I<br />

was disappointed with what I saw. Everything online and<br />

in the card aisles was fine…but it didn’t speak to Mark<br />

or me. Dairy cows are cool, and I love a glass of milk<br />

and a cheese stick as much as the next Midwestern farm<br />

gal...but that’s not what we raised on our farms, but it’s<br />

what I found on any card depicting cattle. And I felt like<br />

it would be grounds for a break-up if I had given him a<br />

card with a green tractor on it. So I started making my<br />

own cards, and then friends started asking if they could<br />

buy them for their significant others. What began as sort<br />

of a hokey hobby turned into a full-fledged business,<br />

making greeting cards and gifts for all walks of life in<br />

our industry.<br />

What’s unique about your business?<br />

My target market for Hungry Canyon is the tiny,<br />

little percentage of people involved or interested in<br />

production agriculture. According to the USDA, only<br />

about 1.4% of employed Americans work directly on<br />

Hungry Canyon greeting card.<br />

farms or ranches. There are only so many people out<br />

there who can appreciate a greeting card with a manure<br />

spreader on it, but I’ve found those people. I also have<br />

an arm of my business that focuses on community<br />

events and projects for small, rural communities and<br />

organizations.<br />

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />

overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />

The biggest challenge I’ve faced from the beginning of<br />

my business is the evaporation of time each day! I’ve<br />

juggled a full-time job since the beginning of Hungry<br />

Canyon and have added children, farm responsibilities,<br />

and community events here and there throughout the<br />

years.<br />

What has been your greatest reward?<br />

I love knowing that my customers and those who receive<br />

my products smile or chuckle to themselves when they<br />

open a Hungry Canyon card. They truly speak directly<br />

to those of us in agriculture, and I enjoy feeling the<br />

secondary joy of those who receive a Hungry Canyon<br />

product.<br />

How have you benefited from the startup<br />

community in Sioux City and the region? What<br />

resources did you use?<br />

I am continually inspired by the small business owners<br />

in this region…they’re everywhere! The network I’ve<br />

been able to build has been beneficial in many ways.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> has also been a big supporter of<br />

the Rural Route Ramble event, which I helped co-plan.<br />

They help promote it through their channels each year.<br />

Are there any experiences that were particularly<br />

influential in that regard?<br />

I’ve also benefited from conversations with the Iowa<br />

West Coast Initiative over the years about how to<br />

grow my business and the resources available to<br />

entrepreneurs in the region. It’s always nice to be<br />

able to brainstorm with someone who has a different<br />

perspective than you.<br />

Why is it essential for the community to support<br />

startups and small businesses? What more can<br />

be done to help them?<br />

Small businesses are run by folks just like you and<br />

me. Your neighbors, friends, family members, and<br />

others who make up your community need support<br />

to continue being successful. Next time you need to<br />

purchase something, take a second to think about if<br />

you can purchase that locally or from a small business.<br />

It makes a big difference!


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Melissa, Roy and Charlie Nelson.<br />

What is one thing you know now that you wish you<br />

knew when starting your business?<br />

I wish I would have known how important it is to keep track of<br />

your bookwork and accounting processes. After all, you are<br />

running a business!<br />

What advice would you give to someone looking to<br />

start a business?<br />

My biggest piece of advice for those looking to start a business<br />

is to simply start. I think so many ideas get tossed to the side<br />

because the fear of starting something new or fear of failure<br />

overcomes. Just begin and worry about the details as you go.<br />

How can the community continue to help your<br />

business?<br />

The community can continue to help Hungry Canyon by being<br />

supporters of small, local businesses. I co-plan an event each<br />

year called the Rural Route Ramble with my friend, Marissa<br />

Molland of Hardly General. This event highlights 50+ local<br />

businesses in Rural <strong>Siouxland</strong> and encourages shoppers to<br />

shop local before the holiday season. This event has become a<br />

super fun way to support locals and enjoy a weekend in Rural<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>!<br />

What are some future goals for your company?<br />

My current goals are related to community projects in rural<br />

areas. I find great joy in planning and hosting events in small<br />

towns that can run with the likes of events in larger cities. My<br />

hope is that I can help inspire and teach others in small, rural<br />

communities that we can do really cool things where we live if<br />

we just do them.<br />

Iowa’s West Coast Initiative (IWCI) is a collaboration<br />

between the economic development organizations in<br />

Plymouth, Monona, and Woodbury counties, and includes<br />

the following organizations: City of Sioux City, <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Interstate Metropolitan Planning Council, <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Economic Development Corporation, The <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Initiative, Le Mars Business Initiative Corporation,<br />

Woodbury County, and Monona County. Learn more<br />

about IWCI at www.IAWestCoast.com.<br />

Photos Contributed by Hungry Canyon.


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Experience Downtown<br />

By Carly Howrey<br />

The weather is cooling off, but things are heating<br />

up downtown! Starting this fall, the Alley Art Festival<br />

returns on Saturday, September 24! Watch as muralists<br />

complete their one-of-a-kind pieces, listen to live music,<br />

and support local vendors by purchasing art for your<br />

own home. Then, stick around to see which muralist is<br />

crowned Best in Show. This is definitely a fan favorite<br />

event downtown that you won’t want to miss!<br />

We are kicking off the football season with a new<br />

downtown event! In collaboration with RE/MAX Preferred,<br />

the Sioux City Convention Center, and various nonprofits<br />

within Sioux City, we are excited to present the first<br />

Downtown Tailgate, which will take place on October<br />

1st on Fourth and Jones Streets! We invite everyone to<br />

watch their favorite college team on big screens, enjoy<br />

a locally crafted beer, and chow down on classic tailgate<br />

food. There will also be a live performance by Damon<br />

Dotson and a cornhole tournament going on throughout<br />

the day. This event’s activities will benefit Children’s<br />

Miracle Network of UnityPoint and FOR<strong>Siouxland</strong>. Free<br />

will donation opportunities will be presented throughout<br />

the day. We hope to see you Downtown on October 1st!<br />

City. Hundreds of people come together to celebrate the<br />

coming holiday season on the Monday before Thanksgiving!<br />

This year, the parade will take place on the evening of<br />

Monday, November 21. You are invited to grab your mittens<br />

and a cup of hot cocoa and enjoy the beautiful show! We<br />

are so grateful to IBEW for sponsoring the parade year after<br />

year. The celebration concludes with Santa Claus lighting<br />

the big tree in the greenspace of the Public Museum to<br />

commemorate the beginning of the season. Downtown<br />

Sioux City’s atmosphere during the holidays is truly magical<br />

and we invite you to experience it all!<br />

Whether it’s the start of a new hockey season, a live band<br />

at the Anthem, or a new exhibit in the Art Center--there is<br />

always something going on downtown! As we transition into<br />

the holiday season, you won’t want to miss a beat. Sign up<br />

for our weekly E-blast to stay in the know and avoid F.O.M.O.<br />

(fear of missing out). To catch up with the latest events, or<br />

to post one of your own, visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com.<br />

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It may be a bit early, but anticipation for the holiday season<br />

has already started! We are excited to announce the<br />

return of the Holiday Storefront Decorating Competition<br />

and encourage any businesses interested in competing to<br />

reach out to us! Last year, 20 storefronts were decorated<br />

using lights, trees, snowflakes, and more, and the<br />

people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> voted for their favorite! Businesses<br />

compete for a chance to win a $500 prize donated to the<br />

winner’s nonprofit of<br />

choice. Don’t have<br />

a storefront? Let us<br />

find one for you!<br />

There are plenty of<br />

vacant storefronts<br />

we’d love to see<br />

brought to life this<br />

season!<br />

The Holiday Lighted<br />

Parade is a staple<br />

in Downtown Sioux<br />

Contributed by Downtown Partners, a non-profit<br />

organization that works with downtown stakeholders to<br />

create a vibrant, expanding downtown. To learn more about<br />

Downtown Partners and to stay up to date on downtown<br />

projects and events, visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com.


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Sioux City Scoop<br />

By Alex Watters<br />

Living in the Midwest means that we get to enjoy all four seasons and all of their glory. I love the warmth of<br />

summer, the colors of fall, comfort food during the winter, and new growth in the spring. However, it also means that as<br />

a city, we must complete as many road construction projects as possible while the weather allows.<br />

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You probably have noticed some detours and possibly had delays in your daily commute. That’s because the engineering<br />

division for the city of Sioux City currently has approximately $55 million worth of projects being constructed, designed, or<br />

finished. On average, the city will resurface approximately $2.5 million worth of roadways and reconstruct approximately<br />

$8.5 million worth of roads, including new water mains, sanitary sewer, and storm infrastructure. Other projects this<br />

year will include a new rail spur in the Southbridge area south of the airport, new sidewalks, bridge repairs, drainage<br />

improvements, and repairs, just to name a few.<br />

Thankfully the city has received $40 million in the federal CARES Act funds for utility infrastructure projects. One of these<br />

projects is the water main replacement in Pierce Street from 5th Street to 7th Street. This watermain was installed in 1886,<br />

making it 136 years old! I would say we certainly got our money’s worth out of that water main, but it is time to replace it.<br />

It has had numerous breaks and caused a number of headaches. However, unknown to many, the CARES Act requires all<br />

materials for the project to be American made since it is a federal program. Due to this requirement the project has been<br />

delayed until the middle of next year due to the current supply chain issues.<br />

Needless to say, there are always potholes to fill and roads to improve. Be patient with our road crews and know that we<br />

live in a climate that forces us to complete as many projects as possible in a short time span. That can mean delays and<br />

detours. However, it also means improvement and progress. Smoother streets and better days are ahead of Sioux City.<br />

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Customer Discovery: We’ve all heard about it<br />

and may even have done it. The question is, was<br />

it done in such a way that you got accurate information<br />

that led to your business success? I am a huge fan of the<br />

Business Model Canvas and Customer Discovery. I also<br />

realize that if I ask my friends, relatives, and network<br />

open ended questions, that unintentionally they may<br />

tell me what I want to hear. If I ask total strangers those<br />

questions, I may still get answers that are not accurate<br />

as they may tell me what they think I want to hear. That<br />

is why so many people who did customer discovery<br />

and launched seem to struggle to get the anticipated<br />

results. So, what is the answer to this? Truthfully, more<br />

customer discovery…<br />

In other words, Customer Discovery never really ends.<br />

If we bring a product or service to the market, we<br />

must have a mindset of constant improvement. Oh<br />

great, there goes that boomer talking about 1990s<br />

business practices. The reality though is that constant<br />

improvement has been around as long as there has<br />

been free commerce between people. Constant<br />

improvement implies that we listen to our customers<br />

and improve our products or services based upon their<br />

feedback. By customers I mean those who actually paid<br />

money for what we have to offer. Potential customers<br />

should not carry the weight that paying customers<br />

do. You should consider their thoughts but paying<br />

customers have already confirmed that they would take<br />

action on their feedback. The short of it is, keep the<br />

customers happy and they will come back again. If they<br />

are not happy, they will share it with the world.<br />

There are a couple of types of Customer Discovery.<br />

There is the initial or pre-launch Customer Discovery.<br />

This is what yields information that may or may not<br />

be entirely accurate but is the basis for our baseline<br />

of launching our product/service. Then there is the<br />

post-purchase Customer Discovery that can be found<br />

in reviews by paying customers. Amazon does a great<br />

service by only allowing those who have actually paid<br />

for a product to do a review. This is not perfect but does<br />

give a business a good idea of how to improve service<br />

to their customers or to improve a product.<br />

I simply want to confirm that Customer discovery is<br />

important and it never ends. Continued improvement<br />

keeps us relevant to our customers. The best feedback<br />

comes from paying customers.<br />

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No, Your Boss Isn’t Messaging You About<br />

a Gift Card.<br />

You would never ignore a message from your boss, right? That’s exactly what scammers are<br />

counting on. The FTC is warning people about a type of “boss scam” where scammers trick<br />

employees into buying gift cards by pretending to be their supervisor. Fake boss scams have<br />

already cost U.S. companies thousands and thousands of dollars, and this particular gift card<br />

version could be on the rise as so many employees continue to work remotely. In this article,<br />

we’ll talk about the fake boss gift card scam, along with ways you and your business can<br />

protect yourself.<br />

WHAT IS A FAKE BOSS SCAM?<br />

A fake boss scam is a text or email scam in which fraudsters pretend to be a supervisor and<br />

request gift cards (or some other payment) to be sent to them, for a variety of made-up reasons.<br />

HERE’S HOW IT WORKS:<br />

STEP 1 - The scammer scours the Internet for names and emails of a company’s high-ranking supervisors.<br />

They’ll also search for job titles, telephone numbers and other important information about the company,<br />

to help disguise their request.<br />

STEP 2 - The scammer hacks into the supervisor’s business account, or spoofs a similar email domain that’s<br />

hard to notice (for example “boss@microsoft.com” becomes “boss@micr0soft.com”). Or, they could<br />

create a fake email account through GMail, Yahoo or another service, and make an excuse for sending<br />

something from their “personal” email. Finally, they could spoof a phone number from your area code and<br />

send a text message instead.


STEP 3 - The scammer sends the request to a lower employee, asking to buy gift cards for a random<br />

reason and send the gift card numbers or PINs back via email or text.<br />

Maybe the scammer needs a gift card to pay for an upcoming “office party.” Maybe it’s to support<br />

a “charity” of some sort. They might even ask the employee to foot the bill, and promise to pay it<br />

back later. But once someone hands over a gift card or PIN number, the money will be gone and<br />

the business — or even worse, the employee — will be on the hook.<br />

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EXAMPLES OF A BOSS GIFT CARD SCAM:<br />

A<br />

B<br />

A-An example of an email from a fake supervisor’s “personal” account to an employee. Source: The Ohio<br />

State University Cybersecurity.<br />

B-Real example of a 2021 text message from a fake employer to an employee, seeking Target gift cards.<br />

Source: New York Attorney General’s Office.<br />

The scammer might sound just like your boss, and may even know details about you or your<br />

company that you’d never expect a fraudster to know. But remember, that’s what professional<br />

“phishers” do — they gather enough information to convince you they are someone they’re not.<br />

WHY WOULD A SCAMMER WANT GIFT CARDS?<br />

Criminals love gift cards, because they’re like cash — only without the money trail. Once the<br />

money is used, it’s gone. Gift cards also don’t offer the same protections as other payment<br />

methods, like credit or debit cards.<br />

Remember, gift cards are for gifts — not payments. No legitimate business or government<br />

agency will ever insist that you pay with a gift card.


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HOW TO AVOID A FAKE BOSS SCAM:<br />

There are some common-sense measures you can take to protect your business from a boss<br />

gift card scam.<br />

Pause and verify. Scammers create a sense of urgency to prey on your emotions — especially when a<br />

boss is involved. Do NOT reply directly to the text or email, instead reach out and confirm the request<br />

with your manager through a different email or phone number you trust.<br />

Spoof-proof your company’s email. Work with your IT department to set up security and spam filters<br />

on your company email. You should also configure an “external email warning” that will add a warning<br />

message to the top of any emails that come from someone outside of your organization.<br />

Have a robust phishing training program. Google “phishing training” to find a variety of phishing<br />

awareness and training programs out there to help protect your business. Through tutorials, tests<br />

and fake phishing emails, you can gradually train employees to better spot and respond to<br />

dangerous threats.<br />

If you happen to spot a fake boss scam, or your business is targeted by one, notify your real supervisor<br />

right away and report it to ReportFraud.ftc.gov<br />

ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />

Michelle Hacker is the Digital Services Officer at Security<br />

National Bank, overseeing all personal and business digital<br />

platforms for customers. She is a graduate of Iowa State<br />

University and has nearly a decade of experience in the<br />

technology and financial service field.<br />

Member FDIC<br />

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25 Years at KSUX<br />

By Tony Michaels<br />

Life can take you down some interesting paths.<br />

In 1997, I was convinced that Stone Park would be the<br />

ideal location to ask my girlfriend to spend her life with<br />

me. Plans changed, and I decided to pop the question<br />

where we met in Lincoln. It may have happened in front<br />

of a drug deal on the streets. Not ideal. She did say yes,<br />

but the location was not as picturesque as my original<br />

plan.<br />

I just celebrated my 25th work anniversary at KSUX<br />

105.7 with a heavy dose of nostalgic vibes. When<br />

I look back at the recent college grad moving into a<br />

small one-bedroom apartment, I had clear intentions<br />

of how I wanted life to go. I dreamt of listeners hanging<br />

on every one of my words. My goal was to make an<br />

impact like Siouxlebrities Cowboy Bob, Johnny Walker,<br />

Jeff Miller, and Chris Thomas. My lovely wife would<br />

have told you my goal was to hop to a big metro, and<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> would only be a two-year commitment. She<br />

was with me for the journey. Man, I married well.<br />

We were blessed with a son in 2003. Another one came<br />

along in 2005. Those two miracles would shape our<br />

lives in ways I hadn’t considered. Autism would alter<br />

our mission. <strong>Siouxland</strong> became the “Stone Park” setting<br />

for a meaningful life. The area has grown so much in a<br />

quarter of a century, and I’d like to think I have grown<br />

as an individual in many ways as well. I accepted many<br />

new challenges at work, started work as an adjunct<br />

professor at Morningside University, and made so<br />

many connections. I’m very thankful to those that made<br />

the choice to turn on the radio station.<br />

The concept of compassion brings us back to Stone Park.<br />

As I write this on a Sunday afternoon, I am very thankful<br />

for the worldview my oldest son Trey has brought to my<br />

life. Walking through the wilderness of autism was not<br />

at all in my plan when I planned to propose marriage in<br />

1997. My 19-year-old has taught me the talent of seeing<br />

another worldview. His life is a celebration for me and<br />

a blessing I did not ask to receive. He may not have the<br />

gift of vocal words, but his smile communicates love. His<br />

squeals of delight at Stone Park mean more to me than<br />

chatting with Garth Brooks on-air. You can learn a lot<br />

when it’s not about you.<br />

Howard Stern may have hundreds of millions of dollars in<br />

the bank. I learned the value in cherishing life on a quiet<br />

Sunday afternoon at my favorite park. All without saying<br />

a word.<br />

Now, that’s a situation I could not have imagined 25 years<br />

ago. I learned to embrace the quiet.<br />

Tony Michaels has been at KSUX since<br />

August 1997. He is also the Program<br />

Director at the radio station and adjunct<br />

professor in the Mass Communication<br />

department at Morningside University.<br />

In his free time, he takes long hikes and<br />

wrote his first book, “Tacos and Beer Atmosphere.”<br />

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My plan was to be a bombastic on-air personality like<br />

Howard Stern. The funny thing is I learned a new talent<br />

over that span of time, listening. Weird, right? The truth<br />

is I love it when I have a compelling on-air moment. But<br />

I’ve learned to take great joy in HEARING the talents of<br />

others on the radio like Josie Cooper, Chopper Scott,<br />

Candice Nash, Big Daddy, Charlie Stone, and Moose.<br />

Additionally, when I hear students broadcast live with<br />

confidence from the Doc Heistad studio on campus, I<br />

feel like the art of radio is alive and well. I beam with<br />

pride and joy.<br />

On the podcast front, I’ve learned so much from the<br />

individuals you see in this magazine. Topics on the pod<br />

include the importance of self-care, mentoring, taking<br />

a chance, and compassion.<br />

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Food Pantry Guests Share Their Stories With Up From The Earth<br />

By Up From The Earth<br />

Up From The Earth applauds our community’s efforts to increase local food security on many levels. This is<br />

the third article in a trilogy of personal experiences and perspectives, concluding with that of the food pantry guest. The<br />

first was that of the growers and the second that of the food pantry volunteer.<br />

A Tribute to the People Who Volunteer<br />

at the Food Pantries<br />

Written by two grateful food pantry guests.<br />

Have you ever been hungry and didn’t have money to buy<br />

food? It’s becoming more difficult to buy food, cool your<br />

home, and put gas in your car.<br />

Growing up, there were a lot of kids in our family, so our<br />

folks planted a garden. There was always plenty, and they<br />

shared with people who didn’t have a garden.<br />

Getting older, we planted a garden and gave a lot of it to<br />

the nursing homes. We knew they could no longer plant<br />

their own, and they knew what fresh vegetables taste like.<br />

Their faces lit up when we came.<br />

Now, we’re at the point where we can no longer plant<br />

a garden. But we thank God every day for the men and<br />

women who volunteer at the food pantries. They do a lot of<br />

hard work setting up the tables and carrying things inside.<br />

They always greet you with a smile. Even though they may<br />

hurt, they smile, knowing they gave good food to those<br />

who didn’t have any.<br />

If you ever had a garden, you know there was work to<br />

make it grow.<br />

God bless all the people that donate their time so that<br />

others can have vegetables and food.<br />

Most people grow a garden to sell. These people don’t<br />

sell it to you. They give it with a smile. Life is better having<br />

good food.<br />

Without the food from the food pantries, a lot of people go<br />

without the food they need. They don’t complain because<br />

they figure it would do no good.<br />

We just want to thank everyone who has put in their time and<br />

hard work so we could have a little extra food that otherwise<br />

we wouldn’t have. It makes life a little easier knowing you<br />

have a little more.<br />

May God bless all of you. There will be many blessings in the<br />

hereafter. Thank you all.<br />

Another Thankful Story<br />

Written by a pantry guest facing many financial challenges<br />

with creativity and faith.<br />

I started using the food pantries around four years ago.<br />

I realized that I needed the extra food and support after<br />

a breakup with my then-fiancé. I had to think on my feet<br />

quickly, finding a new home and more income (I currently<br />

have four jobs). It was hard to admit to myself at first, but I<br />

needed help in ways I never had before.<br />

When I looked to find help out there, I realized that I made<br />

too much money to qualify for any assistance with housing<br />

or food. This is where the food pantries have come into play.<br />

I use them weekly to help supplement my children and my<br />

meals. Often, I shop in stores around what I have received<br />

that week from the pantries-nothing goes to waste.<br />

One of my favorite things about the pantries are the fresh<br />

produce and garden plants that I take home and add to my<br />

own garden. On rare occasions, if I cannot find anything to<br />

create with the products I have received, I will pass them on<br />

to others in similar situations of need.<br />

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Over the years of getting help from these pantries, I have<br />

seen and spoken with the volunteers and seen the good<br />

Christian works that they are doing. The story of the Good<br />

Samaritan has always touched my heart, and these people<br />

helping to feed the poor are today’s Good Samaritans.<br />

Overall, the most important thing that has come out of using<br />

the pantries for me has been my renewed faith in Christ. I<br />

appreciate the living example these people volunteering<br />

give for all of us to follow. Thank You.<br />

UFTE extends a sincere thank you to all our produce growers,<br />

pantry volunteers, and pantry guests who have shared their<br />

thoughts, their experiences, and their kind words. This movement<br />

continues to be an amazing community effort on many levels<br />

from so many individuals in our community.<br />

Donated produce for the food pantry.<br />

Up from the Earth exists to connect extra produce from<br />

home gardens to people in need.

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