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<strong>Volume</strong> 4, <strong>Issue</strong> 5<br />
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CONTENTS<br />
Conversing<br />
8-17 Ten Under 40<br />
BeComing<br />
20-21 Ask the Therapist<br />
22-23 Ask the Doc<br />
24-25 The Physiology of Breathing as Medicine<br />
26-27 Living Lumin – The Yoga Life<br />
29 Inclusive Peek – Tarsila Rameriz<br />
31 People of <strong>Siouxland</strong> – Semehar Ghebrekidan<br />
33 Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />
35 Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Collaborating<br />
38-39 Small Business Spotlight – Simply Celebrate<br />
40-41 Nonprofit Spotlight – Sioux City International Film Festival<br />
42-43 IWCI’s Business Feature – Hungry Canyon<br />
45 Experience Downtown<br />
47 Sioux City Scoop<br />
49 SBDC – Taking Care of Business<br />
53 Tony Michaels – 25 Years at KSUX<br />
55 Up From the Earth – Stories from Food Pantry Guests<br />
ON THE COVER<br />
Pictured, left to right, back row, front row Mike Tillo, Juan Munoz, Jack Ehrich, Ben Curry, William Bass, Meredith Treppa, Casey Mills, Megan Moore, Rachelle Rawson and<br />
Rob Valdovinos. Photo Credit Moon Media.
Welcome To siouxland magazine<br />
It’s in these pages we educate and inspire. Even more importantly, we<br />
create a community that thrives on connecting with one another. At our<br />
core, we all want to connect. When we seek to understand, by listening<br />
more intently, we find that our relationships deepen and our community<br />
strengthens as a result. With appreciation for the power of connection<br />
through meaningful conversations, it only made sense to name the<br />
business Empowering Conversations.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 5<br />
Stacie Anderson, Owner<br />
It all starts with a conversation; with a desire to learn;<br />
to see things from another perspective; to seek<br />
truth. The truth is, we have more in common than we have<br />
differences. Well, maybe it would be more accurate to say, what<br />
brings us together is stronger than anything that divides us.<br />
We would never want to marginalize our differences. We love the words of Audre Lorde, “It is<br />
not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those<br />
differences.” We are unique in vast and complicated ways. It’s our hope that we can come<br />
together with our unique strengths, perspectives, and ideas to build a community with a<br />
powerful narrative of us.<br />
Through this humble publication, we will start having conversations. This is an ambitious and<br />
beautifully optimistic attempt to shine light on all the things that make our community strong,<br />
but also discuss, in a productive and compassionate manner, the challenges we face.<br />
We are doing our small part in building a cohesive community by creating conversations that<br />
refocus our attention on our similarities. We are bringing people together; replacing judgment<br />
with understanding. Perspective is powerful.<br />
We want to hear from you. At <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we feel it is imperative to understand what<br />
the community wants and needs. Share your vision and dreams for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
We want you to lean into the conversation and participate in the discussion.<br />
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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Writers<br />
Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata,<br />
Family Medicine<br />
Physician, Integrative<br />
Psychiatrist & Yoga<br />
Instructor.<br />
Tony Michaels,<br />
KSUX Morning<br />
Show Host with<br />
Candice Nash<br />
Alex Watter,<br />
Sioux City Council<br />
Brock Bourek,<br />
Brock Bourek, Vice President<br />
of SLGO<br />
Dr. Cyndi Hanson,<br />
Writer<br />
Carly Howrey,<br />
Business<br />
Development<br />
Coordinator for<br />
Downtown Partners<br />
Dr. Meghan Nelson,<br />
Licensed Physical<br />
Therapist, Professional<br />
Yoga Therapist & Co-owner<br />
of Lumin Therapy<br />
Jackie Paulson,<br />
Licensed Mental<br />
Health Counselor &<br />
Registered 500Hour<br />
Yoga Instructor<br />
Todd Rausch,<br />
SBDC Regional<br />
Director at<br />
WITCC<br />
Jetske Wauran,<br />
People of<br />
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Portraits of the<br />
Extraordinary<br />
Up from the<br />
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Team<br />
Amy Buster,<br />
Writer & Editor<br />
Emily Larson,<br />
Licensed Massage<br />
Therapist & Private<br />
Yoga Instructor<br />
Peggy Smith,<br />
Executive Director<br />
for Leadership<br />
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Kari Nelson,<br />
Graphic Designer
Editors Note<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 7<br />
I’m proud to announce the new Top 10 Under 40 Winners! The sheer number of deserving nominees made the selection<br />
process challenging for the judges, as always. I can truly say <strong>Siouxland</strong> is fortunate to have so many talented young professionals<br />
that care so much for their community.<br />
Now to introduce our winners…<br />
William Bass Ben Curry Jack Ehrich Casey Mills<br />
Megan Moore Juan Munoz Rachelle Rawson<br />
Mike Tillo<br />
Meredith Treppa<br />
Rob Valdovinos<br />
Beyond sharing their stories, it is important to help them get as much traction as possible with the wonderful work that they<br />
are doing in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. In the following pages, you’ll find out how you can support their efforts and get involved. I encourage<br />
you to reach out to them. Share your thoughts and ideas. Maybe there is an introduction you can make or resources you can<br />
provide. Every little bit helps. Also, consider sharing their Facebook posts that will pop up over the next few weeks to help<br />
them, and the work they are doing, get even more exposure. Together, as a community, we can go further.<br />
I couldn’t be more grateful to have so many outstanding young people in our community that are dedicated to making this<br />
world a better place to live in.<br />
Congratulations to this year’s winners!<br />
Stacie Anderson<br />
Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />
Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />
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William Bass<br />
Ho-Chunk, Inc.,<br />
Community Impact & Engagement Manager<br />
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What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
I’d like to see an increase in diversity within our leadership.<br />
This will need to include people from diverse backgrounds<br />
to step up to leadership positions by volunteering for<br />
boards, councils, and committees and share their voices<br />
at the table. <strong>Siouxland</strong> is becoming more diverse and<br />
there is so much to celebrate when we come together to<br />
honor each other, learn, and embrace our differences. The<br />
world is a diverse place and <strong>Siouxland</strong> should reflect and<br />
celebrate that at all levels within our local systems.<br />
I would also like to see more recreational activities (such<br />
as a theme or water park, more concerts, attractions),<br />
investments into the arts, and stronger support for local<br />
entrepreneurs and small business owners.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
I’m helping young people prepare for college and careers<br />
through internships for college students, apprenticeships<br />
for Winnebago high school students, and college and<br />
trade school scholarships. I’m also providing summer<br />
learning opportunities for high school and college<br />
students with business etiquette and soft skills workshops.<br />
I advocate for equal rights and representation for LGBTQ+<br />
community members and help educate them about<br />
diversity and inclusion in the workplace.<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
My vision for the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community is a safe place<br />
where our children and grandchildren can thrive in<br />
today’s ever-changing society and have opportunities to<br />
use their talents and passions to make the world a better<br />
place. This includes continued celebrations of diversity,<br />
creating a safe learning environment, peaceful civic<br />
engagement, increased time with family and promoting<br />
entrepreneurship and small businesses. I would like to see<br />
the community support this vision and get involved and<br />
participate in the many opportunities <strong>Siouxland</strong> has to<br />
offer. That includes attending community events, signing<br />
up for sports leagues or theater groups, offering business<br />
to a small or family-owned business, or volunteering at<br />
the many local non-profit organizations. I would like to see<br />
continued interactions amongst the community members<br />
and families from all walks of life in a respectful and openminded<br />
way. I believe that in doing so creates a stronger<br />
sense of community because at the end of the day we are<br />
all part of this greater family that we call <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
I encourage people to volunteer, speak up, serve, and<br />
take on leadership roles, especially when it involves<br />
using one’s strengths to contribute to a larger cause or<br />
greater good. I also try to lead by example by doing those<br />
very things. People from diverse backgrounds can be<br />
encouraged when they see people who look like them<br />
taking on leadership successfully.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
People can help make that happen by also getting<br />
involved in discussions, sharing resources, contributing<br />
their talents and networks, and stepping up to serve.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> (Vice Chair)<br />
Winnebago Two-Spirit Organization<br />
Winnebago Hemp Commission<br />
Winnebago Tax Commission<br />
Winnebago Curriculum Committee<br />
“Your talent determines what you can do.<br />
Your motivation determines how much you<br />
are willing to do. Your attitude determines<br />
how well you do it.”
Ben Curry<br />
Curry Floor & Acoustics Co.,<br />
President<br />
presented by<br />
Sioux Chamber Board member. I cannot wait to learn from<br />
the other members of the board and implement my own<br />
ideas as well.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
By respecting our community and supporting local<br />
businesses, when <strong>Siouxland</strong> works together everyone wins.<br />
I am so blessed to have my girlfriend, Dawn Frein, and our<br />
five children supporting me along the way. Just to have<br />
the opportunity to make an impact on our community is<br />
a blessing. I owe a huge debt of gratitude to all my friends<br />
and colleagues who have supported me and my visions for a<br />
better <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
Curry Floor has teamed up with the Unity Point Foundation<br />
and Children’s Miracle Network to sponsor a fun, childthemed<br />
room in the pediatrics unit at UnityPoint Health<br />
St Luke’s. It has been such an amazing experience thus<br />
far planning exciting ideas for the theme. I do not want<br />
to spoil anything, so you’ll just have to wait until the BIG<br />
reveal! I can promise you that the Curry Floor room will be<br />
over the top!<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
I have an incredibly positive outlook for the future. I see<br />
our community continuing to rapidly expand. <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
is growing so quickly. Just look at areas like Flatwater<br />
Crossing that Ho-Chunk and BluStone are developing.<br />
We must all continue to support, inspire, and motivate<br />
each other.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
South Sioux Chamber Board of Directors<br />
Unity Point Foundation<br />
Children’s Miracle Network<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Miracle Riders<br />
South Sioux City School District<br />
Habitat for Humanity<br />
LaunchPad Children’s Museum<br />
185th ARW - Mosul Iraq Combat Veteran 2005-2006<br />
Sioux City Musketeers<br />
Morningside Little League Coach<br />
“Your smile is your logo, your personality is your<br />
business card, and the way you make others feel<br />
is your trademark!”<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
I would like to see the community continue to support<br />
local small businesses. It has such a massive impact on<br />
our community. After all, they are the companies that are<br />
giving back–sponsoring our local youth sports teams and<br />
fundraisers. When you support small business you directly<br />
support the community where it is located.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
Helping others network with trusted contractors, architects,<br />
and designers to encourage that work remains local and<br />
of the highest quality. I am in love with the process of<br />
helping facilitate and foster these types of relationships.<br />
I am also excited about my latest commitment as a South
Jack Ehrich<br />
Ehrich Law Office, P.C., L.L.O.,<br />
Attorney/Owner<br />
presented by<br />
ever remember. We need to continue to be innovative<br />
and willing to embrace change to attract businesses and<br />
young professionals to our community. I would like to<br />
see continued collaboration between city leaders and<br />
local developers, and entrepreneurs. I feel that <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
has a rich history. We should embrace that and help<br />
revitalize certain neighborhoods and areas throughout<br />
our community, which other cities in our area (Omaha and<br />
Sioux Falls, to name a few) have done to great effect.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
I have served on numerous boards throughout <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
over the past decade-plus, but currently, I am very involved<br />
with Camp High Hopes as a board member and the<br />
current board President. Camp High Hopes is a wonderful<br />
organization that provides meaningful recreational and<br />
social opportunities for children and adults with various<br />
special needs. I am also serving as a committee member<br />
for the Fire Foundation of NW Iowa, which seeks to make<br />
private, parochial education more inclusive for children<br />
with special needs. My wife and I have a daughter with<br />
special needs, so organizations benefiting those children<br />
and adults are particularly close to our hearts.<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
For <strong>Siouxland</strong> to be a vibrant and exciting community,<br />
where the cost of living is affordable, there are numerous<br />
entertainment, social, and educational opportunities<br />
afforded to the citizenry. I hope that our downtown<br />
areas, in particular, can continue to develop and add<br />
even more unique and exciting businesses and urban<br />
living opportunities. I would also like to see a continued<br />
commitment to affordable housing so that those who<br />
want to live here are able to and we don’t lose valuable<br />
members of our community to larger markets. I believe<br />
we are fully capable of becoming one of the more<br />
dynamic communities in our region if we are all willing to<br />
work together.<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
To see <strong>Siouxland</strong> continue to grow and prosper. As a native<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>er, I feel there has been more development<br />
in the past ten years since I have been home than I can<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
I have served on economic development boards<br />
throughout the community and was part of the team that<br />
helped launch Marto Brewing Company in an area of<br />
downtown that had sat vacant for years. I love the rich<br />
history of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, so I am always particularly interested<br />
in projects that help to renovate and revitalize the historic<br />
buildings in downtown. As an attorney, I have had the<br />
great fortune to work with a number of entrepreneurs<br />
in our community and help them realize their dreams<br />
of business ownership and development. It’s also very<br />
important for me to continue to serve on boards and<br />
organizations that give back to our community, especially<br />
those organizations that work with special needs and<br />
underprivileged children.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
Be willing to serve if called upon, or simply volunteer<br />
your time and experience. <strong>Siouxland</strong> has an abundance<br />
of non-profit organizations always looking for willing<br />
individuals to serve. I have seen firsthand the impact that<br />
one can have and would stress that it doesn’t always have<br />
to be a financial contribution. We also need to continue to<br />
support our local businesses and promote new business<br />
development. Buy local, be willing to attend ribbon<br />
cuttings, and be willing to connect with other business<br />
owners at the chamber and social functions. We all want<br />
to see this community thrive and reach its full potential.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Camp High Hopes - Board Member and Current Board<br />
President<br />
Fire Foundation of NW Iowa - Committee Member<br />
South Sioux City Chamber of Commerce<br />
Cardinal Christmas Baskets<br />
Boys & Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Past Board Member and<br />
Board President<br />
“Success is not final; failure is not fatal: it is<br />
the courage to continue that counts.”
Casey Mills<br />
Mills-Shellhammer-Puetz & Associates,<br />
Principal<br />
presented by<br />
only on the border of three states but in the middle of two<br />
larger metros. We should avoid becoming Omaha or Sioux<br />
Falls “Lite” but instead think of how we can be different and<br />
specialized. This includes pursuing unique placemaking or<br />
quality of life amenities that very few have (The Chesterman<br />
mountain biking facility is a prime example of this). In terms<br />
of economic development, we should think of becoming a<br />
hub for specialized industry by leveraging our colleges and<br />
community college. For instance, Jefferson Iowa has the<br />
Forge, which is a training facility that partners with the school<br />
district, the community college, and Accenture to help train<br />
rural Iowans for in-demand software engineering jobs. The<br />
Chamber has advocated for Sioux City to have a Robotics<br />
and Automation Center of Excellence, given our community’s<br />
food manufacturing strength. These are the novel concepts<br />
that will help our community stand out and grow.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
Two things come to mind: Broadly, the focus of our family<br />
and our business is to help equalize opportunities for our<br />
community’s youth through both volunteer and financial<br />
support.<br />
The second was helping refresh the United Way of<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>’s funding model. The new model, which so<br />
many board members and volunteers helped shape, will<br />
help the United Way become more agile in meeting our<br />
community’s needs.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Sioux City Public Schools Foundation - Past Chair<br />
United Way of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Past Chair<br />
Boys and Girls Club of <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber of Commerce<br />
“Northing in the world can take the place of<br />
persistence.”<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
My biggest hope is to continue to grow our community.<br />
After graduating high school, I left Sioux City for 15 years<br />
for those perceived greener pastures. We moved back<br />
to Sioux City 6 years ago and haven’t looked back. Our<br />
community has so much to offer, and my hope is to play a<br />
small role in helping to continue to help it grow.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
My most direct work in helping is serving as the Government<br />
Relations Chair for the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber. Our Chamber<br />
team works to advocate to legislative leaders for our<br />
community and highlight the unique challenges our<br />
border community faces.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
In terms of big picture support, I would ask community<br />
and business leaders to continue to think differently and<br />
pursue differentiated experiences to attract business and<br />
workforce. Our community is uniquely positioned, not
Megan Moore<br />
Sterling,<br />
Director of Strategic Programs & Partner Alliances<br />
presented by<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
I would like to see the development of new businesses,<br />
events, and group activities in the area. This gives people a<br />
great opportunity to work together and meet new people<br />
they would not in their normal day to day.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> has been my home for the past 30 years<br />
and has provided me with many opportunities, so I am<br />
passionate about giving back and helping <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
grow. Currently, I am a member of the North Sioux City<br />
Economic Development Council, helping strategically<br />
grow the North Sioux City area and working with the<br />
surrounding cities and the State of South Dakota to make<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> a better place to live, work, and visit. I volunteer<br />
with TeamMates Mentoring Program. I am in my 8th year<br />
serving as a mentor through Bishop Heelan Catholic<br />
School-Sioux City Chapter. This school-based mentoring<br />
program inspires students to reach their full potential by<br />
providing them support and encouragement to graduate<br />
high school and pursue post-secondary education. I also<br />
foster my 12th dog and volunteer for animal rescues<br />
to rehabilitate and rehome dogs in need. We work to<br />
minimize the issues of overflowing shelters and rescues,<br />
and to educate others about being responsible pet<br />
owners including the importance of getting your pets<br />
from a reliable source. I believe this will make life easier<br />
and happier both for pets and families, and in return will<br />
create a happier <strong>Siouxland</strong> community.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
In my role at Sterling, I create strong partnerships with<br />
1,500 global companies including Dell, Cisco, Hewlett-<br />
Packard, Amazon, and Intel. I bring those companies to<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> for events that highlight our local community<br />
and all that we have to offer. Other events I help coordinate<br />
includes local and national political fundraisers, local<br />
college recruiting events, hosting Dakota Valley Business<br />
Council meetings, and hosting Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>-<br />
Economic Development sessions. I also participate in<br />
Sterling’s community outreach program that works with<br />
the United Way and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Food Bank.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
I would love to see the community support local<br />
businesses, advocate for the projects you are passionate<br />
about, and participate in activities. The more we support<br />
each other, the more opportunities we can create.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
North Sioux City Economic Development Council - Board<br />
Member<br />
TeamMates Mentoring Program - Mentor<br />
SNAFU Rescue - Foster, transportation, and social media<br />
Alliance of Therapy Dogs - Pet Therapy Team Volunteer,<br />
handle, and train a certified therapy dog<br />
“Be the change you want to see in the world.”<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
My vision for the future of <strong>Siouxland</strong> is to see it continue<br />
to grow and expand as a safe, diverse community that has<br />
many opportunities for employment and resources for<br />
families. I would also love to see the continuation of new<br />
businesses relocating here because of our Midwest work<br />
ethic, low cost of living, and friendliness.
Juan Munoz<br />
Inside-Out Family Chiropractic &<br />
Brightside Cafe & Deli,<br />
Owner<br />
presented by<br />
elementary schools. CEF can provide a safe environment<br />
for kids to hang out and learn about Jesus after school. CEF<br />
also sets up 5-day clubs like VBS Vacation Bible Schools. CEF<br />
can set up 5-day clubs in schools, churches, or even the local<br />
park or family home. I would like to get involved with other<br />
organizations like Youth for Christ or sports leagues, but I<br />
haven’t been able to make it fit into my already busy schedule.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
I get a lot of support from my community. Brightside Cafe<br />
is still around through a pandemic because of local support.<br />
Inside-Out Family Chiropractic has a very loyal base. I just ask<br />
for continued support and help us reach more people. Invite<br />
out-of-town family and friends to Brightside, or if someone<br />
needs Chiropractic care, refer them to my clinic. More support<br />
will help me leverage my time more and allow me to impact<br />
my community more.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
Brightside has seen a significant increase in the need<br />
for Feed it Forward Meals and increased difficulty with<br />
our Feed it Forward guests. We have had to get creative<br />
with some new ideas, but the most important thing for<br />
me is my team’s safety and well-being. At Inside-Out<br />
Family Chiropractic, we are doing an Undie 5,000 Diaper<br />
fundraiser for Her Health Women’s center. We hope to<br />
gather 5,000 size 2-4 diapers for the center.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Child Evangelism Fellowship - Board Member<br />
“And above all things have fervent love for one<br />
another, for “love will cover a multitude of sins.”<br />
– 1 Peter 4:8<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
Sioux City has a lot to offer. More and more people are<br />
looking for the Big Town feel Sioux City has. We may not<br />
have all the entertainment options other cities offer, but<br />
with our complete riverfront remodel and our growing<br />
downtown area, we are about to have a major makeover. I<br />
think Sioux City will become more attractive to people tired<br />
of the big city living. I would like to see more businesses<br />
come downtown to drive more tourism, but more people<br />
live downtown than ever in my lifetime.<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Expansion and growth are things I see coming to Sioux<br />
City. I would love to see new businesses, entertainment<br />
venues, and growth in our music scene happen in Sioux<br />
City. My biggest hope is for more people to invest in our<br />
youth. Let’s get more after-school programs and classes<br />
for kids that can’t afford them. By investing in our youth,<br />
we can really change the trajectory of our community.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
I am currently on the board of CEF Child Evangelism<br />
Fellowship, which offers after-school programs inside
Rachelle Rawson<br />
Youth for Christ <strong>Siouxland</strong>,<br />
Juvenile Justice Ministry Director;<br />
Agape Community Services (Opening in 2-4 years),<br />
Co-Founder<br />
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if you are interested in helping others. <strong>Siouxland</strong> needs<br />
to continue to encourage the excitement felt by people<br />
under the age of 40. This in turn will ignite the interest in<br />
people of all ages. When members of our neighborhoods<br />
show creativity, it needs to be rewarded and nurtured. By<br />
sharing our vision for the community, we build interest<br />
among everyone to buy into their future. That, in turn,<br />
entices people to stay in this area. If everyone chose even<br />
one path towards bettering our society, the quality of life<br />
for all in <strong>Siouxland</strong> would increase tremendously.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
At Youth for Christ, we continue to expand services for<br />
children in Sioux City and the surrounding areas. My<br />
favorite aspect is the Advocacy Program which trains<br />
community volunteers to work as trauma-informed<br />
mentors for at-risk children. Connecting loving adults with<br />
children in need and seeing the relationships that are built<br />
is very rewarding. I also visit and provide services to youth<br />
at Juvenile Detention and the Eldora Boys State Training<br />
School. In addition, I am working with partners and a<br />
board of directors to create Agape Community Services,<br />
which will be built here in Sioux City. Agape’s faith-based<br />
format addresses the core issues of addiction.<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
I believe many of the problematic issues facing <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
have their roots in addiction. Domestic violence, child<br />
abuse, poverty, and crime are often traced back to this<br />
affliction in our society. Developing Agape Community<br />
Services in <strong>Siouxland</strong> focuses my vision for how we may<br />
address this enormous problem as Jesus expects us to<br />
do. Agape tackles addiction with an innovative approach<br />
by expanding on evidence-based practices during the<br />
nine-to-twelve-month program. By providing resources to<br />
combat addiction, I believe we will make this a healthier,<br />
more productive place to live and raise a family. We all<br />
succeed when we value those who struggle most.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
I have always wanted to be a difference-maker in the<br />
lives of other people. When opportunities to do this<br />
have presented themselves to me, I try and not just<br />
take advantage of them, but look beyond to the next<br />
steppingstone. Creating these opportunities for others to<br />
make a difference in the lives of their fellow citizens is at<br />
the heart of what I believe God has chosen for me.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
People can help by choosing to be involved and giving<br />
back to <strong>Siouxland</strong>. For those who find in their heart the<br />
desire to heal the damage done to lives by addiction,<br />
consider joining the Agape Community Services initiative.<br />
For more information or ways you can help, you may<br />
email agapecommunityservices.ia@gmail.com. Yes, be<br />
involved in the lives of your own family first, but then step<br />
beyond and extend that love and caring to the life of our<br />
community. Choose to love the neighbor you don’t even<br />
know and may never meet. But believe that in choosing<br />
that path, you are fulfilling your purpose.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Celebrate Recovery at Sunnybrook Church; Jail Ministry;<br />
Character Building Workshops at Jackson-Rosencrans<br />
and Juvenile Detention; “You Matter <strong>Siouxland</strong>” Suicide<br />
Awareness; Thriving Families; “Teen Dating Violence”<br />
initiative through SafePlace<br />
“Love thy neighbor as thyself. ”<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
There are so many opportunities in <strong>Siouxland</strong> for people<br />
to contribute through volunteering. It just takes some<br />
initiative, determination, and creativity to find your niche
Mike Tillo<br />
West Middle School,<br />
Assistant Principal<br />
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This upcoming year I plan to get more involved with my<br />
church. I plan on participating in the family activities my<br />
church offers and having my own children attend Sunday<br />
School regularly.<br />
As a principal, I’m going to continue to be positive and<br />
encouraging toward our students and ensure our staff<br />
does the same. For some students, school is the safe place<br />
in their lives where they need that support, guidance, and<br />
encouragement.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
Each day I get the opportunity to positively impact the<br />
lives of children in the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area. Whether at school<br />
or on the practice field coaching, I do my best to set a<br />
good example for our youth and show them hard work,<br />
dedication and treating everyone with respect can help<br />
you accomplish any goals you set.<br />
As a parent of 3 young children, I am also working on<br />
raising my children to be kind, accepting of others, and<br />
hard-working. I want to instill in them the importance of<br />
doing for others and giving back to their community.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
People need to continue to volunteer to make sure we can<br />
provide these programs for our youth for years to come. It<br />
does take time to volunteer, but it is all worth it when you<br />
know you are making a difference in the lives of our children.<br />
If all parents would take an active roll in parenting their<br />
children to be responsible, respectful, hard-working children,<br />
the community would benefit greatly. Hopefully, as a mentor<br />
for a great number of youth, I am helping them do just that.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Board Member at Headid Little League<br />
Volunteer Coach for the Future Stars Organization<br />
“The two things in life you are in total control<br />
over are your attitude and your effort.”<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
My vision for the future is to help Sioux City continue to<br />
focus on family and activities for our youth. Family activities<br />
and youth programs provide our children with a safe, fun<br />
activity where they learn valuable life lessons. These life<br />
lessons include showing respect and being courteous<br />
towards others, being responsible for one’s own actions,<br />
developing self-confidence, and making good choices.<br />
The more activities and programs we can offer, the better<br />
it is for families in Sioux City.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
I am a volunteer coach for the Future Stars Organization<br />
and a Board Member at Headid Little League. I coach<br />
football, basketball, and baseball. When it comes to<br />
coaching, I teach the specific skills related to the sport, but<br />
I also teach the children how to be a good teammate, to<br />
show good sportsmanship, and to control one’s emotions<br />
when competing.
Meredith Treppa<br />
Boys & Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong>,<br />
CEO<br />
presented by<br />
quite like <strong>Siouxland</strong>. Our people are the reason I stay in<br />
the area. I try to do everything I can to give back through<br />
my work and volunteering, creating opportunities for<br />
people to thrive. Because <strong>Siouxland</strong> has been so good to<br />
me, I want to ensure I’m doing all I can to pay it forward.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
The work I do in the community is focused around<br />
helping children and families. As the CEO of the Boys &<br />
Girls Clubs of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, I strive to provide safe spaces<br />
and great programming for kids after school and during<br />
the summer. It’s wonderful to empower kids and deliver<br />
experiences they may not be able to have elsewhere. We<br />
work hard to ensure they are on track to graduate and<br />
have a plan for their future. In my spare time, I volunteer<br />
as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for<br />
children. In this role, I advocate for reestablishing healthy<br />
family connections and providing a consistent presence<br />
in a child’s life while they are involved in the child welfare<br />
system. It’s an extremely rewarding and impactful way to<br />
volunteer.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
Keeping <strong>Siouxland</strong> great requires that we all pitch in.<br />
I would love to see more people get involved in the<br />
community. There are many ways to volunteer on small and<br />
large scales, all of which make a difference. Volunteering<br />
is a very personal journey, and it can take some time to<br />
find a place that’s a perfect fit. Giving back is great for the<br />
community and can be very personally fulfilling. When I<br />
first moved to town, I came across Volunteer<strong>Siouxland</strong>, a<br />
website that can connect you with different opportunities<br />
and needs in the area. It’s a great way to get matched up<br />
with causes and organizations that are important to you,<br />
as well as expand socially. Volunteering helped me start a<br />
connection with the community when I arrived.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
Iowa Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Program<br />
Women United<br />
100+ Women Who Care Board of Directors<br />
Sioux City Cosmopolitan Club<br />
“If you want to go fast, go alone.<br />
If you want to go far, go together.”<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
My personal vision is to spend more of my time on things<br />
that are meaningful to me, slow down and enjoy the<br />
journey, and empower others to live their best lives.<br />
What would you like to see happen in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
I would love to see <strong>Siouxland</strong> continue to grow while<br />
maintaining its hometown feel. I envision <strong>Siouxland</strong> as<br />
a place that hosts more events and festivals and attracts<br />
more tourists and businesses. The river has been an<br />
untapped resource, and it’s exciting to see the riverfront<br />
development progress. Expanding airport services would<br />
make it easier for people to enjoy <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
The people are my favorite part of <strong>Siouxland</strong>. I’ve lived in<br />
many places over the years, and none have welcomed me
Rob Valdovinos<br />
CENTURY 21 ProLink,<br />
Realtor® & CRS<br />
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What are you doing to make that happen?<br />
Supporting the local businesses that are already in the<br />
downtown area I believe is a great way to show the need and<br />
want for local businesses or larger businesses. That’s why I<br />
like supporting the Innovation Market held by the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Growth Organization. Innovation Market is a business idea<br />
competition for entrepreneurs giving them a chance to win<br />
startup funds for their new business idea. I feel that new locally<br />
owned small businesses are usually the start of new ideas. A<br />
new business draws the attention of people to a specific area<br />
that possibly had little to no foot traffic. With more people,<br />
that could lead to more innovative ideas to our downtown<br />
area.<br />
What are you working on now?<br />
Earlier last year, I learned about a professional organization<br />
called the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization. I started<br />
attending meetings and fell in love with their mission, and<br />
wanted to get more involved. At the beginning of 2022,<br />
I was nominated to be on the board as their Marketing<br />
Chair. We focus on volunteering and networking to help<br />
shape the future of our communities in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. What I<br />
love about the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization is that we<br />
are always looking for fun and innovative ways to make<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> a better place for everyone, as well as finding<br />
ways to retain and bring more young professionals to<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
What is your vision for the future?<br />
My vision for the future of <strong>Siouxland</strong> is something I get<br />
excited about contemplating! I love seeing <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
continue to grow, and I love hearing about all the new<br />
businesses and corporations that are coming to our area.<br />
It’s also great seeing all the new and expanding housing<br />
developments, and the unique events that put <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
on people’s radar. I envision <strong>Siouxland</strong> continuing to<br />
grow and create new and unique opportunities for our<br />
community.<br />
How can people help you make that happen?<br />
With the citizens of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, and the local businesses<br />
showing their support for new businesses, events, or causes<br />
is how we can all individually do our part. The support of<br />
others inside and outside of the community is what makes<br />
our communities grow.<br />
Volunteer Organizations<br />
C21 ProLink Neighbors Helping Neighbors<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization - Board Member,<br />
Marketing Chair<br />
Litter Quick Pick<br />
Sioux City Litter Dash<br />
“The greatest risk in life is never taking one.”<br />
I would love to see Sioux City’s downtown area be a bit<br />
livelier during the day and family-focused as we have built<br />
more apartments and other housing opportunities for<br />
citizens. Something that comes to mind would be adding<br />
a grocery store, bagel and pastry shops, and more green<br />
spaces for kids and walking pets.
September is National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. Congress passed the new three digit<br />
number 988 for any suicide & crisis lifeline needs. The 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) number is still in existence,<br />
but now this new 988 number will be easier to remember to help our loved one who are currently<br />
struggling with thoughts of suicide. The texting crisis number is any word texted to 741741. We don’t<br />
need to keep losing anyone to this disease of depression. Please reach out for help. You are not alone.<br />
It’s OK to When not be OK. it Talking comes DOES to save death lives. We and need grief, to stop I’ve the stigma experienced<br />
and taboo surrounding the<br />
topic of suicide.<br />
Donna Wolff<br />
my fair share of both. I’m sure I’m not the only<br />
person that’s heard of the phrase “check on your<br />
strong friend”. Even though I heard of it after losing<br />
a very important person in my life, it’s a phrase that<br />
will always stick with me. Latisha Denise Graham<br />
committed suicide on March 15, 2021. My best<br />
friend fought the great fight of depression alone.<br />
Unlike others she didn’t ask for help, nor did she lay<br />
her burdens on those closest to her, although I wish<br />
she had. Instead, she suffered in silence. Despite<br />
her unspoken trauma, she was a loyal friend and<br />
caring person. Latisha was the protector. I wish now<br />
more than ever that I could have protected her. I’ve<br />
accepted the fact that her physical absence from this<br />
world is permanent. However, her spirit will live on<br />
Prevention Specialist, YCIC (Youth Crisis Intervention Center)/Youth Shelter, Winnebago Tribe of NE<br />
September is National Suicide<br />
Prevention Awareness Month.<br />
Congress passed the new threedigit<br />
number 988 for any suicide<br />
& crisis lifeline needs. The 1-800-<br />
273-8255 (TALK) number is still<br />
in existence, but now this new<br />
988 number will be easier to<br />
remember to help our loved ones<br />
who are currently struggling with<br />
thoughts of suicide. The texting<br />
crisis number is any word texted<br />
to 741741. We don’t need to<br />
lose anyone to this disease of<br />
depression. Please reach out for<br />
help. You are not alone. It’s OK to<br />
not be OK. Talking DOES save lives.<br />
We need to stop the stigma and<br />
taboo surrounding the topic of<br />
suicide.<br />
Donna Wolff<br />
Prevention Specialist, YCIC<br />
(Youth Crisis Intervention<br />
Center)/Youth Shelter,<br />
Winnebago Tribe of NE<br />
Latisha Denise Graham<br />
forever. Suicide is an epidemic in this generation. In remembrance of her, I will be a consistent<br />
contributor to YANA which stands for “You Are Not Alone”. I wish above all that those who are<br />
struggling with depression and mental health issues know that they are not alone.<br />
- Olivia Ray
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Ask the Therapist<br />
By Jackie Paulson<br />
Send Your<br />
Questions<br />
to the<br />
Therapist.<br />
heard this in a Podcast recently and wanted to know a little bit more<br />
about it. I am trying to understand the difference between abuse and<br />
Q:“I<br />
neglect and that sometimes the neglect can be hard to validate?”<br />
Dear Reader,<br />
Before I dive into this question, I preface all of the<br />
readers to be mindful of the sensitive nature of this<br />
topic. Abuse and neglect are both delicate and<br />
intricate subjects. By no means will I be able to give<br />
full justice to the breadth of information that these<br />
topics truly require in this one small article. In the<br />
end, several resources will be referenced so you can<br />
access more information if desired. Please remember<br />
that the information provided is by no means offering<br />
advice related to pursuing decisions related to legal<br />
concerns or personal matters.<br />
To put it simply, the contrast between abuse and<br />
neglect is that one is an ACT, and the other is a LACK<br />
OF ACTING. Abuse is when something is done to a<br />
person, and neglect is when there is a lack of doing<br />
in regard to the care of someone that is dependent<br />
on another. In that way alone, neglect can be more<br />
challenging to acknowledge or even know about<br />
because (especially if you are very young) when<br />
the neglect is happening, you may not know that<br />
anything is abnormal or missing in how you are being<br />
cared for by someone. It may also be that there are<br />
varying degrees of neglect; including something<br />
called “Unintentional Neglect,” which I will not be<br />
able to go into for this particular subject but can be<br />
a more widespread and culturally normalized pattern<br />
of neglect that can be very challenging for caregivers<br />
to see and admit.<br />
Abuse is often thought of as physical, but there are other<br />
ways someone can be abused. These include financial,<br />
sexual, emotional, and verbal abuse. The impact of<br />
abuse is serious and detrimental. It’s easy to look at the<br />
definition of abuse and think of the gross and serious acts<br />
of it; but please note that just as we will explore neglect;<br />
parents, spouses, employers, etc. may be acting out<br />
more “normalized” forms of abuse (i.e., teasing, bullying,<br />
making someone uncomfortable sexually, etc.) and<br />
particularly if it is ongoing - can be just as detrimental<br />
to a person’s well-being. In many ways, our nation has<br />
a history of abusive behavior related to power, and just<br />
because people in authority normalize it does not make it<br />
right. It continues to be pervasive and impacting.<br />
Neglect is oftentimes more difficult to see. The Center<br />
for Disease Control describes neglect as “the failure<br />
to meet a child’s basic physical and emotional needs.<br />
These needs include housing, food, clothing, education,<br />
access to medical care, and having feelings validated and<br />
appropriately responded to.” The unmet emotional needs<br />
of children tend to be the primary form of neglect that is<br />
skimmed over in today’s overarching industrious culture.<br />
Other adults in children’s lives may not overtly see this<br />
neglect occurring. This makes it hard to identify. Forms of<br />
neglect include (but are not limited to); physical (i.e. failure<br />
to provide adequate shelter/food), medical (i.e. failure to<br />
seek medical, dental, or psychological care), supervisory<br />
(i.e. leaving the child unattended at an inappropriate age<br />
or leaving them with an unfit caregiver), environmental<br />
(i.e. exposing the child to toxins (including smoke and
unsanitary conditions), educational (i.e. failing to give<br />
the child a proper education), emotional (i.e. when a<br />
caregiver is not giving the child the attention, love, care,<br />
and affection) that they need to develop.<br />
Due to the fact that one of the main effects of neglect<br />
on children is that they ultimately have a hard time<br />
recognizing, owning, accepting, and knowing how to<br />
cope with their feelings, it can be difficult for one to<br />
validate their experience of it. So, when they become<br />
adults, they do not trust their own perception or sense of<br />
what is/was “wrong.” They do not know how to identify,<br />
acknowledge, and assert their needs. In struggling to<br />
even recognize and accept their own feelings/desires<br />
(or even that they are worth the space to have them<br />
and be held in them) how can one validate their own<br />
experience of it?<br />
This is why we need others to heal. It took a relationship<br />
to create the fragmentation within and it will take a<br />
relationship to create the wholeness that is possible<br />
when one embarks on the healing journey. We need<br />
a healthy and supportive person who can help us<br />
acknowledge the pain and present themselves with us<br />
in feeling it. Attachment ruptures that happen due to<br />
neglect and abuse can be addressed with the right help.<br />
In the case of abuse and neglect on any level, accessing<br />
the right professional support is highly recommended,<br />
especially if you find that you are having trouble trusting<br />
or allowing yourself to be vulnerable in asking others<br />
for help. There is a way back to feeling safe and whole.<br />
With love,<br />
Jackie<br />
Resources:<br />
If you are concerned about abuse or neglect of a child,<br />
you can contact our local MercyOne <strong>Siouxland</strong> Medical<br />
Center for guidance, support, and further resources:<br />
712-279-2010<br />
Or visit their website for more numbers related to<br />
reporting suspected child abuse to the right authority:<br />
https://www.mercyone.org/siouxland/find-a-serviceor-specialty/child-advocacy-center/reportingsuspected-abuse<br />
Citation:<br />
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2022,<br />
April 6). Fast facts: Preventing child abuse & neglect<br />
|violence prevention|injury Center|CDC. Centers for<br />
Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved July 20,<br />
2022, from https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/<br />
childabuseandneglect/fastfact.html<br />
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by visiting jaclynpaulson@gmail.com and sending<br />
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“Ask the Therapist” in the subject line.<br />
Jackie Paulson is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor<br />
in the state of Iowa. It is her belief that every person<br />
has an innate intelligence within them and can “whole”<br />
themselves with the right support. Jackie offers a<br />
holistic and somatic based therapy practice in Sioux City,<br />
IA. Ultimately, she humbly sits with others in hopes to<br />
empower them to seek and connect into their own deep<br />
and sacred wisdom that resides within. You already have<br />
the answers, it is with the right witnessing and curiosity<br />
that the truth is revealed.
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Q:<br />
Dear Reader,<br />
Ask the Doc<br />
By Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata<br />
Send Your<br />
Questions<br />
to the<br />
Doctor.<br />
“My 12-year-old daughter struggled with being overweight until<br />
she hit a growth spurt. Her weight stayed the same, but she grew a<br />
few inches. No one has ever mentioned her weight, but she recently<br />
became obsessed with her looks, constantly feeling that she is fat,<br />
reading food labels, and skipping meals. She eats minimally. She<br />
started exercising several times a day and avoiding carbs. In two<br />
months, she lost 20 lbs. We have encouraged her to eat, but she<br />
says she gets full quickly and is not hungry. We suspect she may be<br />
purging, as she immediately goes to the bathroom after meals. She<br />
no longer joins us for mealtime and seems to come up with excuses.<br />
We fear she has developed an eating disorder. What should we do?”<br />
It sounds like you are in tune with<br />
your adolescent and have recently<br />
become aware of the changes in<br />
her eating behaviors. While this<br />
article provides general information<br />
about eating disorders, it is not<br />
medical advice. Please have your<br />
daughter see a trained mental<br />
health professional to assess her<br />
further for an eating disorder to<br />
provide you with specific treatment<br />
recommendations. The sooner your<br />
adolescent gets help, the better.<br />
Types of Eating Disorders<br />
There are different types of eating<br />
disorders based on the Diagnostic<br />
and Statistical Manual of Mental<br />
Health Disorders (DSM5). Patients<br />
often have symptoms from different<br />
categories of eating disorders and<br />
don’t fall into one category, at least,<br />
not all the time. Still, these eating<br />
disorders pose similar dangers to<br />
patients’ health. Eating disorder<br />
symptoms also may change over<br />
time.<br />
Before we go into the types of eating<br />
disorders below, it is important to<br />
assess the adolescent for any other<br />
mental health disorders. They may<br />
also be struggling with depression,<br />
anxiety, obsessive compulsive<br />
disorder (OCD), posttraumatic stress<br />
disorder (PTSD), substance abuse,<br />
and self-injurious behavior..<br />
Bulimia Nervosa<br />
Patients have obsessive and irrational<br />
thoughts about their body, food,<br />
and exercise. They will start with “a<br />
diet” but then compulsively binge<br />
eat. They set very rigid standards<br />
against certain “bad foods”. As<br />
they feel pressure from these selfimposed<br />
standards, they violate<br />
their own rules and binge. They<br />
then feel distressed due to having<br />
“overeaten” and compensate by<br />
vomiting, fasting, excessive exercise,<br />
laxative, or diuretic use.<br />
Binge Eating Disorder (B.E.D.)<br />
Patients engage in episodes of eating<br />
large amounts of food in a short<br />
period of time, accompanied by<br />
feeling out of control, and continuing<br />
to binge eat despite feeling overly<br />
full. For example, they may eat<br />
several large pizzas in one setting.<br />
Patients typically think of constantly<br />
dieting while feeling a compulsion<br />
to constantly eat. Patients typically<br />
struggle with shame, anxiety, and<br />
guilt around eating. B.E.D. can be<br />
found in people with bodies of any<br />
size.<br />
Anorexia Nervosa<br />
Patients have a distorted view of<br />
their bodies, obsessive and illogical<br />
thoughts about food and exercise,<br />
and an irrational fear around eating.<br />
Their irrational fear also involves<br />
fear of weight gain. They eat too<br />
little and are likely to have low body<br />
weight as a result. However, there<br />
are some patients who have normal<br />
or larger body weight. Patients eat a<br />
narrow range of food and become<br />
extremely anxious around eating<br />
high-caloric food.<br />
Avoidant/Restrictive Food<br />
Intake Disorder<br />
Patients eat too little to maintain<br />
their nutritional needs, but do not<br />
have the body image concerns seen<br />
in anorexia nervosa.
Other Specified Feeding and<br />
Eating Disorder<br />
This diagnosis covers eating<br />
disorders that do not meet specific<br />
criteria for anorexia nervosa, binge<br />
eating disorder, or bulimia nervosa,<br />
but cause significant distress and<br />
impairment.<br />
Orthorexia Nervosa<br />
It is not listed in DSM5 but has<br />
been proposed as a diagnosis.<br />
The individual strictly adheres to<br />
certain practices of “eating healthy,”<br />
so much that it negatively impacts<br />
health, schoolwork, and social life.<br />
S/he restricts food in order to “to be<br />
healthy,” and not for fear of gaining<br />
weight in patients with anorexia<br />
nervosa.<br />
Muscle Dysmorphia<br />
While this is not recognized in DSM5,<br />
some researchers believe that it is a<br />
manifestation of anorexia nervosa<br />
disorder, and is more common in<br />
males. Patients have similar rigid<br />
thoughts about food and body,<br />
but they desire a bigger and more<br />
muscular body. They are likely to<br />
focus on weightlifting, eating high<br />
protein foods, and use supplements<br />
or steroids.<br />
Common Challenges faced by<br />
Parents<br />
Parents face challenges when<br />
supporting adolescents in recovery.<br />
Parental Overwhelm<br />
Taking care of a child who<br />
has an eating disorder can be<br />
overwhelming. Your role as a parent<br />
didn’t stop when the additional<br />
responsibility of supporting your<br />
adolescents with an eating disorder<br />
got added to your plate. Ensure you<br />
do self-care and reach out to your<br />
support system and other parents<br />
who have been there. Asking for<br />
professional help when you need it<br />
models a healthy behavior for your<br />
adolescent.<br />
Tolerating a Teen’s distress<br />
Helping your adolescent with their<br />
recovery means requiring your teen<br />
to repeatedly face the very situation<br />
that distresses them. You will find<br />
your comfort level of what needs to<br />
be done for your teen and when.<br />
Remember that your teen’s distress<br />
is temporary.<br />
Fear of Ruining your teen’s<br />
spirit<br />
Prioritizing recovery in the long<br />
run brings long term gains, in the<br />
face of temporary discomfort.<br />
Remember that an untreated eating<br />
disorder may permanently cause<br />
irreversible physical and emotional<br />
consequences.<br />
Fear of Destroying your<br />
relationship with your teen<br />
Keep your eyes on the prize and<br />
long-term goals. Relationships are<br />
damaged when parents and children<br />
remain chronically ill and don’t go<br />
into recovery. Once your adolescent<br />
is in recovery and becomes an adult,<br />
your child’s outlook on what you<br />
did for them will be positive and<br />
appreciative of parental support.<br />
Coping Strategies<br />
It is important as parents support<br />
their adolescents in their recovery<br />
that both parents and adolescents<br />
build distress tolerance. Below are<br />
some techniques that parents can<br />
try to help themselves and their<br />
children. Remember that the best<br />
way to teach your adolescent new<br />
skills is by modeling the behavior.<br />
Identifying and labeling<br />
feelings<br />
Acknowledging and labeling a<br />
feeling makes it more manageable.<br />
You can model that behavior to your<br />
teen.<br />
Talking to someone<br />
Talking to another parent who has<br />
been in your same boat is a great<br />
source of support. Don’t keep your<br />
problems and thoughts to yourself<br />
and reach out to your community.<br />
Journaling<br />
Writing can help you get thoughts<br />
off your chest. It doesn’t have to be<br />
long. You can start by doing it for a<br />
few minutes a day.<br />
Relaxation and Meditation<br />
You can find several meditation<br />
exercises online and can do them as<br />
a family.<br />
Music<br />
Listening to music helps calm the<br />
nervous system and promotes<br />
social engagement.<br />
Stress Balls<br />
Using stress balls provides<br />
distraction and sensory input to the<br />
body to relax and release physical<br />
tension.<br />
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f o r “A s k t h e D o c t o r ” t o<br />
drnesrinabuata@gmail.com.<br />
Please put “Ask the Doctor” in the<br />
subject line.<br />
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psychiatrist and family medicine<br />
physician in private practice, providing<br />
holistic care for the mind, body, and<br />
spirit in the context of personal growth<br />
and relationships. Offers a mindfully<br />
cultivated practice of presence and<br />
expertise. Her healing practice draws<br />
on her mindfulness, yoga, family<br />
medicine, and integrative psychiatry<br />
training to weave a unique tapestry<br />
supporting your YOU-nique journey.<br />
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The Physiology of Breathing as Medicine<br />
By Emily Larson<br />
Our bodies do so much for us under the radar and<br />
without a dependency on our conscious control.<br />
These automatic systems do not need a single, conscious<br />
signal from us. The heart pumps 6,000 liters of blood per<br />
day; the lungs move our breath in and out 22,000 times<br />
in the same period, and the nervous system sends signals<br />
upwards of 50 meters per second. These anomalies are, in<br />
fact, quite challenging to interact with on a conscious level.<br />
We could not simply tell the heart, “Slow down, I’m trying to<br />
sleep,” or the nervous system, “Speed up! I’m falling asleep<br />
at my desk.” One of the only ways we can interact with these<br />
automatic systems is through breathing.<br />
The Anatomy of Breathing<br />
To understand how we can develop conscious control of<br />
the breath, please allow me to introduce (or re-introduce,<br />
for those familiar with the inner workings of the human<br />
body) a bit about the anatomy of breathing. The lungs are<br />
the star of the show, of course, and the diaphragm is the<br />
working muscle. A domed sheet of muscle at the base of<br />
the ribcage, the diaphragm, creates a container out of the<br />
ribcage for the lungs to do their duty. As we inhale, the<br />
diaphragm dome contracts downward, expanding the<br />
space in the ribcage for the lungs to fill their balloon-like<br />
tissues with oxygen. The air we breathe includes millions<br />
of tiny oxygen molecules, one of our environment’s most<br />
life-supporting and necessary chemicals. The oxygen<br />
finds its way through intricate channels called bronchioles<br />
to yet more balloon-like structures called alveoli. These<br />
microscopic balloons at the end of the bronchiole channels<br />
are just one-cell layer thick, making gas exchange to our<br />
bloodstream a breeze. Oxygen enters our blood cells<br />
through capillary vessels that snake themselves right up<br />
against the alveoli balloon, again, easing that transition<br />
of gas particles. Blood cells inside these capillaries then<br />
load up with oxygen for delivery to our other vital organs<br />
and muscles. As we exhale, the diaphragm relaxes back<br />
to its original dome shape, the chest and belly release<br />
back toward the spine, and our blood cells, now full<br />
of oxygen from the inhale, simultaneously release<br />
toxic carbon dioxide (a by-product of many naturally<br />
occurring chemical reactions in the body) back into the<br />
alveoli, through the bronchioles, and out the mouth or<br />
nose.<br />
Behind all this chemical exchange and muscular<br />
contraction, the body’s nervous system is taking note.<br />
Our breathing patterns play a huge role in how our<br />
brains take in and respond to different stimuli, such as<br />
the sound of a party with large groups of friends, the<br />
smell of a campfire, or the sight of a brilliant orange<br />
and pink sunset over native prairie in Iowa. If we are in a<br />
primarily stress dominant state, the sympathetic nervous<br />
system will prime the body to fight, run, or freeze, which<br />
is typically associated with fast, chest-breathing. In such<br />
a state, a party may feel uncomfortable, and the smell<br />
of fire may cause feelings of fear. If we are in a primarily<br />
relaxation dominant state, the parasympathetic nervous<br />
system will prime the body to relax, digest food, and take<br />
in its surroundings. This state is typically associated with<br />
slow belly breathing and supports the brain in taking<br />
in the beauty of the surrounding sunset or enjoying a<br />
conversation with a new friend at a party.<br />
A Breathwork Meditation to Both Invigorate and<br />
De-Stress<br />
These days, it seems inevitable to experience stress, so<br />
much so that it can be difficult to relax tension, or it may<br />
even cause depression symptoms. The breath is a keyway<br />
we can interact with the stress response and even balance<br />
it with intention. Ancient medicine provides us with an<br />
array of breathing techniques with specific intentions<br />
for the practitioner, such as to invigorate, relax, or even<br />
awaken the Kundalini serpent that lies coiled at the very<br />
center of the body. For example, the ancient Indian<br />
medicine of Ayurveda describes Kapalabhati breath as<br />
the “skull-shining” breath. This rapid yet disciplined style<br />
of breathing invigorates the mind, warms the body, and<br />
is a helpful tool for any depression-related symptoms,<br />
such as sluggishness, negative thought loops, or lack of<br />
motivation and inspiration. It does this by:<br />
Hands on the belly and chest help guide the breath<br />
deeper tapping its healing qualities.
• First, it helps to begin any breathwork practice with<br />
a brief meditation in order to unite the mind with<br />
the body (rather than with the to-do list). So, find a<br />
comfortable seat, whatever that might mean for you,<br />
whether that be sitting upright in a chair, cross-legged<br />
on a pillow, or perhaps on your shins with the legs<br />
folded up underneath you.<br />
• Next, as long as it feels safe to you in this moment,<br />
remove any external visual stimuli by closing your eyes.<br />
This helps to de-stimulate the nervous system and<br />
prime the body for a few moments of inner exploration.<br />
Relax the space between your eyebrows; let your<br />
eyes and brain float in space. As long as your level of<br />
nasal congestion allows, close your mouth and lips<br />
so the tongue can rest against the roof of the mouth.<br />
This helps seal and strengthen your breath cycles, and<br />
coincidentally combats mouth-breathing.<br />
• Now, as you breathe in and out through the nose, draw<br />
your attention to your own natural breath cycle and<br />
observe it. No need to change anything just yet simply<br />
pay attention on purpose to the subtle sensations that<br />
accompany the breath, perhaps the cool air entering<br />
your nose; the stretching of your chest and belly with<br />
the expansion of the inhale and release of the exhale; or<br />
even the gentle whooshing sounds the breath creates<br />
within you. Take five to ten breath cycles just like this.<br />
• Once you have settled into your cycle, begin to take<br />
intentional breaths deep in the belly as if you are<br />
breathing through your belly button, keeping the chest<br />
relaxed and pointing slightly skyward. Take several<br />
rounds here.<br />
• With your next exhale, you will begin the Kabalabhati<br />
cycle by taking a forceful exhale, pressing the diaphragm<br />
into the lungs for a full release of carbon dioxide. Allow<br />
the inhale to come naturally as the diaphragm contracts<br />
and the lungs fill with oxygen.<br />
• Keep taking deep, sharp exhales with full, natural<br />
inhales. Continue with this cycle. You can do this for a<br />
specific count of breaths; perhaps five, ten, or even one<br />
hundred rounds. You can also practice the Kapalabhati<br />
cycle for a specific amount of time for your meditation<br />
practice; start with one to three minutes and work<br />
your way up as it suits you. Kapalabhati is especially<br />
beneficial in the morning to invigorate and prepare you<br />
for the day.<br />
• You may feel a slight buzzing in the head space or a<br />
wakeful pulsing throughout the body and fingertips,<br />
making the moniker “skull-shining” breath quite fitting.<br />
This flood of oxygen and potential energy to the cells<br />
helps prepare the body for action while also detoxifying<br />
it and combating excessive stress.<br />
Breathe to Relax<br />
Rather than stimulate the body like Kabalabhati, some<br />
breath techniques are designed to de-stimulate. For<br />
example, simply taking the previously mentioned<br />
meditation then focusing on the exhale, will both<br />
detoxify the lungs and down regulate the nervous<br />
system. Spending time in the exhale in this way sends<br />
a parasympathetic-dominant signal through the nervous<br />
system channels to the muscles, vital organs, and even<br />
our eyes. So, even when we are filled with anxiety and<br />
find it hard to “just relax,” simply changing our breathing<br />
pattern can help us find balance and biochemically shift<br />
gears to a more relaxed yet alert state.<br />
Discover Your Breathwork Techniques<br />
The range of ways to breathe has been expanding since<br />
ancient medicine introduced breathing meditations<br />
hundreds of years ago. Today, we understand the<br />
physiology that may have been quite a mystery to<br />
our ancestors, and we can use this understanding to<br />
derive specific benefits for our bodies. So, whether<br />
you need energy and strength, a sense of compassion<br />
and heart, or calming and tranquility, you can turn to<br />
and explore the medicine of the breath for the specific<br />
healing you seek.<br />
Emily Larson, a Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />
Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science Kinesiology &<br />
Human Performance, Instructor of Anatomy and<br />
Pathology for massage therapy students at the Bio<br />
Chi Institute, mother to Noah.<br />
Photo Credit Kessel Kreations.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing / 25
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing / 26<br />
Living Lumin<br />
By Meghan Nelson & Ryan Allen<br />
The Yoga of LIfe<br />
We’re here to play the long<br />
game, I hope. We need to have<br />
time to figure things out, make<br />
sense of the world, and come to<br />
understand our place in it. This<br />
path, we know, is rarely, if ever,<br />
linear. We wobble, and we weave<br />
and get lost. It feels like a labyrinth<br />
or maze.<br />
I feel the most lost when I’m<br />
disconnected from God, from<br />
Source. When I value the wrong<br />
stuff, when I put things over people,<br />
when I take more than I give, when<br />
I talk more than I listen, when I’m<br />
stuck inside more than free outside,<br />
and when I tune my frequencies to<br />
bobbling talking heads rather than<br />
to the Source of my love and light<br />
and Being. I’m learning to become<br />
more aware of where, when, and<br />
how I feel it, but it’s crooked travel,<br />
and sometimes it hurts.<br />
The hardest step is the first. How<br />
long do we allow ourselves to suffer<br />
until we finally leap from thought<br />
to thing, from idea to action, from<br />
desire to momentum? The short<br />
and easy answer is too long. There’s<br />
got to be an easier way.<br />
Brothers and sisters, I have to<br />
believe that we are not here to<br />
suffer. We did not come into these<br />
bodies for pain, and our souls<br />
aren’t meant for torment. We did<br />
not come into this life to toil.<br />
One of my greatest teachers<br />
was Brian McCormick. He once<br />
posed the question: What if this is<br />
heaven? Recognizing, believing,<br />
and understanding the infinite and<br />
eternality of the individual Soul<br />
and its connection to the universal<br />
Source, is it not this span of our<br />
creation that is perhaps most<br />
holy? Certainly, it’s what might be<br />
most unique. Where else but here<br />
will we experience a sunset, fall in<br />
love, hold our newborn babies, hit<br />
home runs, and dance until dawn?<br />
What other span of our existence<br />
will we have these senses—to<br />
visualize the manifestation, taste<br />
the ecstasy, feel the delight, and<br />
know the joy and awareness of<br />
reality in the most personal ways<br />
possible?<br />
This is the place for light.<br />
This is the place for love.<br />
When we once again transform<br />
into pure positive vibration, we will<br />
be many things. Physical is not one<br />
of them.<br />
Translation: this is the<br />
place for fun!<br />
This is the place to feel it.<br />
Meghan & Ryan share Savasana.<br />
All we get are these few precious<br />
years. And we feel this time<br />
through our experience of space.<br />
In this space where all the cosmic<br />
goo gets mixed. The joys and the<br />
sorrows, the triumphs and travails,<br />
the movements here there and<br />
back again. I feel all this the most<br />
in my life with my kids. I experience<br />
it coaching basketball and baseball<br />
and witnessing young people lose<br />
their minds and spirits on missed<br />
shots and groundouts. Whether it’s<br />
in my own home, or on the court<br />
or field, I struggle to find new ways<br />
to motivate the young people I<br />
love and serve to love and serve<br />
themselves, struggle to model the<br />
patience needed for resilience,<br />
struggle to see things through
their eyes instead of my own. How<br />
do I convey the idea that to play<br />
is far greater than the play itself?<br />
What I want to share with them<br />
is that the failures are not losses,<br />
the losses are not defeats, the<br />
defeats are not destruction. Until<br />
and except for the night before,<br />
success doesn’t happen overnight.<br />
Enlightenment takes a little time.<br />
Bliss, a little practice. And it’s never<br />
over. Climbing to the top of the<br />
mountain only reveals another<br />
mountain. Our work is never done.<br />
There will always be contrast. There<br />
will always be reminders of what<br />
we don’t want so that we can better<br />
tune our frequencies to what we<br />
do. Thank God. I can hear Jimmy<br />
Cliff singing “Many Rivers to Cross.”<br />
A young Liam helps his mom Meghan relax into awareness.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing / 27<br />
So, our efforts, my friends, are to<br />
soften the hard edges of our past<br />
traumas and the emotions and<br />
feelings that attract the thoughts<br />
and beliefs of negative self-worth,<br />
shame, and isolation. We can’t get<br />
‘better’ until we arrive at some<br />
‘good’ and we can’t become our<br />
best unless we heal. Our duty is<br />
to the Self. Here the enduring<br />
centuries-old wisdom of the<br />
Bhagavad Gita shines through<br />
when Krishna tells Arjuna that when<br />
beholding the self in the Self, the<br />
self is content. That’s what I want to<br />
feel — santosha (contentment). It’s<br />
why we do what we do. We practice<br />
because of how we want to feel; we<br />
teach because we want to share the<br />
good vibrations with you. The yoga<br />
of life is an eight-limbed practice<br />
calling us to live well, to move<br />
mindfully, to breathe intentionally,<br />
and to experience, through focus<br />
and concentration, and through<br />
meditation, the divine connection<br />
between our Self and pure Source<br />
energy—to know God, to feel God,<br />
and to become one with God. What<br />
a glorious opportunity we have<br />
been given!<br />
So, how do we do it? Much easier<br />
done than said, but in short, we<br />
chill out. We relax. We slow our<br />
brainwaves down. We release. We<br />
open. The Chandogya Upanishad<br />
unveils the path:<br />
“As a tethered bird grows<br />
tired of flying<br />
About in vain to find<br />
a place of rest<br />
And settles down at last<br />
on its own perch,<br />
So the mind, tired<br />
of wandering about<br />
Hither and thither, settles<br />
down at last<br />
In the Self, dear one, to which it is<br />
bound.”<br />
It is a journey home to the SELF<br />
calling us navigate the layers of<br />
our Being as we travel through the<br />
koshas and the akashic field and<br />
explore the experience of the most<br />
sacred internal wisdom, that “we<br />
live not by the breath that flows in<br />
and flows out, but by [the One] who<br />
causes the breath to flow in and<br />
flow out” (Katha Upanishad). It is a<br />
practice of knowing the Knower, of<br />
creating the dream.<br />
We need this connection now<br />
more than ever. The way out of the<br />
madness of the modern world is<br />
to journey in. Yoga nidra is one of<br />
those ways in, one of those keys<br />
that can unlock a great many doors.<br />
Yoga nidra is a systematic method<br />
of inducing complete physical,<br />
mental, and emotional relaxation.<br />
It is a threshold state of psychic<br />
sleep between the conscious and<br />
subconscious. Patanjali’s eightlimbed<br />
path speaks of pratyahara,<br />
sense withdrawal, the ‘process’ of<br />
the mind and mental awareness<br />
disassociating from the sensory<br />
channels. Yoga nidra facilitates<br />
pratyahara and is a gateway to<br />
higher states of consciousness<br />
and to samadhi, the experience of<br />
enlightenment in the now. Rumi<br />
says, “What you seek is seeking<br />
you.” The yoga of my life is a<br />
journey home to my Self. The road<br />
to being good is paved by feeling<br />
good. This is what I seek. Yoga<br />
Nidra is the practice that helps me<br />
get there. It’s what I want to share<br />
with you. Join me.<br />
Lumin Therapy provides integrative<br />
health and education for the mind,<br />
body, and spirit to those who are<br />
suffering or struggling to step into<br />
and live their heartfelt mission and<br />
purpose. Through the practice of<br />
physical therapy, medical therapeutic<br />
yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and<br />
resiliency mentoring, Dr. Meghan<br />
Nelson, DPT, and Dr. Ryan Allen, PhD,<br />
bring their over forty-plus combined<br />
years of knowledge and experience<br />
serving others to learn and heal and<br />
live without boundaries.<br />
The link to the practice:<br />
https://youtu.be/FzWSgdyPmvM<br />
Photo Credit Ryan Allen.
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Inclusive Peek – Interview with Tarsila Rameriz<br />
What challenges have you experienced in <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
When I first integrate into a community that was more familiar<br />
to me which was the Latino community, then the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
community became easier for me to adjust.<br />
Secondly, it was difficult to adapt to the place of this area,<br />
due to size. Prior to moving here, I was living in a bigger city.<br />
However, employment was a challenge to adapt to since jobs<br />
were different from place to place.<br />
Lastly, finding activities that are interesting, and fulfilling was<br />
a challenge but new, because I had never lived in in this part<br />
of the country or climate.<br />
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How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />
I was drawn into <strong>Siouxland</strong>. The community was pleasant for<br />
me as a newcomer, making me feel a part of the community<br />
by greetings and waves. I was invited to community events,<br />
people’s homes and families shared personal moments, or<br />
special events.<br />
What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know?<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> is a great place to raise a family, with the ideal size<br />
of urban development, not so huge like cities, (i.e. Chicago,<br />
New York, etc.), nevertheless with most of the amenities,<br />
and services that you need. Living in <strong>Siouxland</strong>, you can live<br />
without the inconveniences of pollution, noise, long daily<br />
commutes, and all the violence that bigger urban areas<br />
experience.<br />
Tarsila Rameriz<br />
Inclusive Peek – En Espanol<br />
¿Qué desafíos ha experimentado en <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Cuando me integré por primera vez en una comunidad que<br />
era más familiar, que era la comunidad latina, la comunidad<br />
de <strong>Siouxland</strong> se volvió más fácil para mí.<br />
En segundo lugar, fue difícil adaptar al lugar de esta area,<br />
debido al tamaño. Antes de mudarme aquí, vivía en una<br />
ciudad más grande. Sin embargo, el empleo fue un desafío<br />
al que adaptarse, ya que los trabajos eran diferentes de un<br />
lugar a otro.<br />
Por último, encontrar actividades que sean interesantes y<br />
satisfactorias fue un desafío, pero nuevo, porque nunca<br />
había vivido en esta parte del país o clima.<br />
¿Cómo ha sido la acogida de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Me atrajeron a <strong>Siouxland</strong>. La comunidad fue agradable<br />
para mí como recién llegado, haciéndome sentir parte de<br />
la comunidad a través de saludos. Fui invitado a eventos<br />
comunitarios, casas de personas y familias compartieron<br />
momentos personales o eventos especiales.<br />
¿Qué quieres que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> es un gran lugar para formar una familia, con el<br />
tamaño ideal de desarrollo urbano, no tan grande como las<br />
ciudades (es decir, Chicago, Nueva York, etc.), sin embargo,<br />
con la mayoría de las comodidades y servicios que necesita.<br />
Al vivir en <strong>Siouxland</strong>, puedes vivir sin los inconvenientes de<br />
la contaminación, el ruido, los largos viajes diarios y toda la<br />
violencia que experimentan las áreas urbanas más grandes.
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Building Our Community and Bringing People Together<br />
By Jetske Wauran<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /31<br />
“I’ve always cared about diversity and inclusion.<br />
I grew up with Ethiopian and Eritrean parents, so it<br />
started as a kid, and I wanted to keep fostering that as<br />
an adult.” Semehar Ghebrekidan recalls her passion for<br />
community-wide collaboration, inclusion, and diversity.<br />
She is Sioux City’s very first Community Inclusion Liaison.<br />
“I’m seeing the connections being made. I was always<br />
told there’s a time when you gotta get up and move, but<br />
when you do, make sure you encourage other people<br />
to take your place. When you empower other people<br />
around you, they step up to the plate.”<br />
Semehar serves as the point of contact providing<br />
support for underrepresented individuals with concerns<br />
or questions about equity and inclusion in local<br />
government. “I was the first in my entire family to go<br />
to college. As I went into grad school, I kept sitting in<br />
student advocacy. I advocated in ESL programs at South<br />
Dakota State. Advocacy has always been important to<br />
me. The vice president there said I occasionally prodded<br />
the bureaucracy system because they sometimes<br />
did things without being mindful of the minority or<br />
marginalized students there, so I was always the person<br />
asking questions and advocating. I feel like that led me to<br />
this path today.”<br />
Before working as the Community Inclusion Liaison, the<br />
Sioux Falls native worked as an HIV case manager at the<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community Health Center. Semehar said it was<br />
an eye-opening role. “I’d never worked in the medical<br />
field before, and I had a really gracious team who showed<br />
me my biases as well. I feel that I know about diversity<br />
and inclusion in the sense of race, culture, and sexuality.<br />
Still, I didn’t understand that things like drug use and HIV<br />
affect different communities differently, so learning that<br />
and noting my biases,<br />
and confronting them<br />
head-on. I learned a lot<br />
in that role. Some days<br />
it was really easy in case<br />
managing, but some<br />
days, it was really difficult<br />
searching these systems<br />
and advocating for<br />
people fiercely because<br />
they didn’t have anyone<br />
to advocate for them.”<br />
Semehar said this was<br />
the role that changed<br />
her as a person. “I<br />
learned to also advocate<br />
for myself just as much<br />
as I advocated for my<br />
patients.”<br />
Semehar Ghebrekidan<br />
Nowadays, you can find Semehar all over our community from<br />
city meetings to local events and forums. “There’s a lot of work<br />
to be done in this role and I’m excited for what’s to come on<br />
different platforms too. Be on the lookout as I’ll be teaming up<br />
with <strong>Siouxland</strong> Public Media to create podcasts to help folks get<br />
connected with our city and our city officials get connected with<br />
our community members.”<br />
Three interesting facts about Semehar:<br />
1. Semehar listens to three songs before she goes to work.<br />
Amazing, by Kanye West, Industry Baby, by Lil Nas X and<br />
Brighter Day, by Kirk Franklin<br />
2. Semehar and her fiance, Logan, live in Sioux City.<br />
3. Semehar’s parents own an Ethiopian restaurant in<br />
Sioux Falls, SD.<br />
I’m thrilled to share my passion project, “People of <strong>Siouxland</strong> - Portraits of the Extraordinary,” through <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>. As a visual storyteller, my mission is to highlight the hidden gems and underrepresented individuals who<br />
enrich our lives, show ongoing leadership, and are outstanding community role models. I hope your inspired.<br />
Jetske Wauran-Castro is a community activist, professional photographer, and Emmy award-winning journalist. She<br />
and her husband, Rueben, live in Sioux City.
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<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization is celebrating its<br />
20th year as a non-profit organization, and we love<br />
celebrating- especially with events! From our monthly<br />
GO PRO(fessional) and GO SOCIAL events for our members<br />
to make connections and grow their professional skills to<br />
our larger-scale events like the Golf Classic or Innovation<br />
Market, we love to bring people together to celebrate<br />
young professionals getting involved and investing into the<br />
future of our community.<br />
Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />
By Brock Bourek<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /33<br />
Suppose you’ve been a part of <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO (formerly<br />
Sioux City GO) or been a community member for the<br />
last 15-20 years, you’ll likely remember another, popular<br />
event, the Murder Mystery Dinner. After a hiatus from the<br />
event, we thought there’s no better way to celebrate the<br />
milestone of 20 years than by bringing it back! On Friday,<br />
December 30th from 5:30-11:00 p.m., <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO is<br />
hosting a 1920’s themed Murder Mystery Dinner with live<br />
music to follow at the South Sioux City Marriott Riverfront.<br />
We’re excited to partner locally with LAMB Theatre for the<br />
event. Tickets will be $75/person, $100/two tickets or $400<br />
for a table of eight. Sponsorships are also available. For<br />
more information on sponsorship, the event, or to order<br />
tickets visit our website: siouxcitygo.com or follow us<br />
on Facebook and Instagram. We hope that this event may<br />
pay homage to those that helped start this organization,<br />
while allowing room for us to grow as we usher in a new<br />
generation of <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO members.<br />
Never been to a Murder Mystery? It is all about solving a<br />
murder, the storyline created by professional actors hired<br />
for the evening. As a guest, from the moment you arrive<br />
you become a detective. The goal by the end of the night is<br />
to solve the case and figure out who is the murderer. There<br />
are a few different formats for Murder Mysteries. For our<br />
event we’ve chosen a more work-at-your-own-pace format,<br />
making it inclusive to all guests- from the seasoned Murder<br />
Mystery veteran, the newcomer, or the one attending for<br />
the social atmosphere. You get to be as involved as you<br />
want, although we recommend digging into your detective<br />
spirit to have the best experience!<br />
That experience includes “suspects” (paid actors from<br />
Lamb Theatre) stationed around the Marriott ballroom,<br />
with a leading detective filling everyone in on the details<br />
pertaining to the “murder” that just occurred. Guests will<br />
receive a map of the crime scene, and a suspect list with<br />
Murder Mystery Dinner in 2017.<br />
room for notes. Guests are then responsible for approaching<br />
each murder suspect to hear their testimony, using their<br />
deductive reasoning to piece together the clues, and find<br />
the murderer. Guests will submit their guess of the murderer<br />
into the suspect’s ballot box. The leading detective will<br />
announce the murderer and their motives to the guests at<br />
the end of dinner, enlightening everyone to who was able<br />
to successfully crack the case. Do you think you have what<br />
it takes to catch the killer? Join us for our 1920’s Murder<br />
Mystery Dinner in celebration of our 20th Anniversary in the<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Area!<br />
Want to be involved in planning the return of the Murder<br />
Mystery Dinner? Our events committee is looking for<br />
members to help! If you are a young professional interested in<br />
joining our organization, check out our website: siouxcitygo.<br />
com/join-us. Memberships are only $75 for a year. For more<br />
information about <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO, other upcoming events,<br />
volunteer opportunities and more, follow us on Facebook<br />
or Instagram.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization welcomes progressive and<br />
innovative ideas. As a group, we work to put these ideas<br />
into action and build the momentum to take Sioux City into<br />
the future.<br />
Brock Bourek, Vice President of SLGO.<br />
Photo Credit <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO.
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Congratulations to all the<br />
10 under 40 winners. These<br />
people are a testament to the<br />
quality of business in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
I am proud to be part of this<br />
group of young professionals<br />
making a difference in our local<br />
business community.<br />
We hope that you will<br />
“bookmark” each of the<br />
businesses these winners<br />
represent and call on them the<br />
next time you need the products<br />
or services they offer.
Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
By Peggy Smith<br />
I always love this issue of <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
that highlights ten young people who are<br />
dynamically impacting our community.<br />
Communities, like bread, become stale from<br />
just sitting there. It is new ideas, energy, and passion<br />
that keep our community vibrant and ever fresh.<br />
People by nature are fearful of change and tend to<br />
resort to “how it’s always been.” There is a comfort<br />
in the tried and true, even if the tried and true is not<br />
really working any longer or doesn’t make sense.<br />
Here is a great story that has been passed around for<br />
years and not attributed to any one individual. The<br />
story points out how tried and true sometimes should<br />
be questioned… A woman was preparing to cook a<br />
ham for the holiday meal. Her son was helping and<br />
watched his mother cut off a couple of inches from<br />
each end of the ham. He asked why she was wasting<br />
good ham, and his mother replied, “Well, this is the<br />
way my mother taught me to make ham.” The son<br />
questioned the reason and called his grandma, who<br />
replied, “Well, that was the way my mother taught<br />
me.” The great grandma had passed away, but greatgrandpa<br />
was still living, so the son called his great<br />
grandpa and asked, “Why did Great Grandma cut off<br />
the ends of the ham before cooking it?” Great Grandpa<br />
was silent as he thought about it for a moment, then<br />
he replied, “So the ham could fit in the baking pan.”<br />
community for today and tomorrow. The program<br />
focuses on instilling and enhancing leadership skills,<br />
including gratitude, initiative, mindfulness, positivity,<br />
emotional intelligence, and self-awareness. Our program<br />
is dedicated to helping grow leaders with the goal of<br />
creating an even better <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
Congratulations to this year’s “10 Under 40” recipients – I<br />
am excited to see what each of you will accomplish and<br />
the positive changes you will initiate!<br />
Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is an organization dedicated<br />
to developing diverse, informed leaders who shape<br />
our community positively for today and tomorrow.<br />
To learn more about this organization, contact info@<br />
leadershipsiouxland.org or call 712-898-8594.<br />
Peggy Smith, the Executive Director of Leadership<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /35<br />
Sometimes, as a community, we tend to continue to<br />
do things the way they have always been done, even<br />
if that process no longer makes sense. Changing<br />
things up is uncomfortable for most people, primarily<br />
because we do not know what to expect. There is<br />
comfort (and control) in knowing how things will go,<br />
and what happens next. When we change and shake<br />
things up, we no longer can control the outcome.<br />
Taking a chance and doing things differently will result<br />
in a different outcome, which can be worse, similar,<br />
better, or WAY better! People, and communities, that<br />
embrace new ways of tackling old problems thrive. It<br />
is not easy to do, and most people don’t realize that<br />
managing change effectively is a skill that can be<br />
learned.<br />
Many of the “10 Under 40” recipients over the years<br />
have been graduates of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>, a<br />
program that is dedicated to a simple, but important<br />
mission: Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> develops diverse,<br />
passionate leaders who positively impact our
Lily Frank is the owner and operator of The<br />
Sonography Studio, a 3D/4D/HD ultrasound<br />
and hydration studio for expecting mothers.<br />
The Sonography Studio is located on<br />
beautiful, historic 4th Street in downtown<br />
Sioux City, at 1119 4th Street, Suite 220.<br />
“I’ve worked in all different specialties,<br />
including ICU, ER, and Labor and Delivery.<br />
But I fell in love with my job when I worked<br />
in maternal-child, and I knew that I wanted<br />
to advance my degree to keep me around<br />
mothers and their babies,” explained Lily.<br />
She decided to obtain the necessary educational requirements to work as a<br />
Nurse-Midwife. She is now an Advanced Registered Nurse Practitioner – Certified Nurse<br />
Midwife.<br />
“I was pregnant in grad school, and I got to peek at my baby via ultrasound from the<br />
time he was barely visible, all the way to the end. Watching him grow from the inside<br />
was absolutely incredible. Connecting, growing, and bonding with your baby is a huge<br />
part of the process. That was when the<br />
idea for The Sonography Studio was<br />
born,” stated Lily.<br />
Through utilizing her ARNP-CNM<br />
degree, Lily received extra training as a<br />
Midwife Sonographer in California that<br />
allowed her to become certified by the<br />
American Registry for Diagnostic Medical<br />
Sonography.<br />
“I am able to diagnose, which means
if I encounter something wrong via the ultrasound, I can ensure that they receive<br />
expedient follow-up care. I will<br />
provide a courtesy call to your<br />
physician or refer you to the ER if<br />
I find something detrimental. You<br />
still need to see your OBGYN or<br />
physician for proper prenatal care,<br />
this studio does not take the place<br />
of any appointments that you need<br />
to have scheduled throughout your<br />
pregnancy,” explained Lily.<br />
A standard insurance policy will only<br />
cover the cost of two ultrasounds<br />
during a woman’s pregnancy if<br />
everything is normal; one in the<br />
very early stages of pregnancy to<br />
confirm due date and viability then<br />
one in the middle of the pregnancy (usually around week 20) to see all of the baby’s<br />
anatomy.<br />
“The Sonography Studio can provide you with scans at any time throughout a woman’s<br />
pregnancy, as many times as the mother would like. An ultrasound is a noninvasive<br />
procedure, and has no harmful effects to the fetus,” stated Lily.<br />
However, ultrasounds are not the only service The Sonography Studio provides for<br />
expecting mothers.<br />
“We also offer IV hydration and essential IV vitamin add-ins. This sets us apart from<br />
anything offered at the OBGYN offices or hospitals. This service is very beneficial if a<br />
woman is sick at any time during her pregnancy and unable to keep hydrated”, stated<br />
Lily “We also have fun baby boutique items and prenatal/postnatal items for purchase.”<br />
In order to have scans taken at The Sonography Studio, a woman needs to be at least<br />
six weeks along in her pregnancy, which can be determined and verified at the studio.<br />
You don’t need to be expecting in order to come in for hydration. There is an array of<br />
services provided via the website, www.thesonographystudio.com.<br />
The Sonography Studio<br />
1119 4th street, Suite 220<br />
Sioux City, IA 51101<br />
712-509-3153<br />
www.thesonographystudio.com<br />
The Sonography Studio<br />
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By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />
Celebrate Good Times!<br />
Shayla Krantz has always loved a good celebration.<br />
“Pre-kids, I was a graphic designer and event planner,”<br />
she explained. “I always dreamt of finding a way to<br />
combine the two things I love to do – and now I get<br />
to do that!”<br />
Shayla’s enthusiasm is reflected in her business,<br />
Simply Celebrate <strong>Siouxland</strong>, which she founded in<br />
April 2022. She loves to celebrate life. “I tend to<br />
throw parties for my kids or family, whether the event<br />
is big or small. I just love to have a party!”<br />
Taking the time to pause the rush of life and be present<br />
at a party is important to enjoying the moment, and<br />
it’s exactly what Shayla’s business supports. For some<br />
people (like this author), throwing a party can be<br />
stressful – decorations, invitations, and party favors<br />
are all details that take time and creativity. That’s<br />
where the “Party Box” comes in. Shayla will work with<br />
the theme you have established (or create one for<br />
you), do all the planning and shopping, and package<br />
everything you need for the party into a box. “You just<br />
open the box, and everything you need is there. The<br />
Birthday gift package.<br />
decorations all coordinate,<br />
you set them up and your<br />
party is ready to go,” she<br />
said.<br />
“Sometimes party themes<br />
can be harder than you<br />
think when you start,”<br />
Shayla noted. “I recently<br />
did a party box for a family<br />
who wanted a firefighter<br />
themed party for their oneyear<br />
old daughter. They<br />
Shayla Krantz<br />
were having trouble finding things that were ‘girly’<br />
and fire fighter. I got to custom design invitations<br />
and decorations - it was so fun!”<br />
Even if you aren’t a party-thrower, you probably<br />
get invited to parties now and then. Whether it’s a<br />
birthday party for your child’s friend, a baby or bridal<br />
shower, figuring out what gift to buy, then locating<br />
it can be time consuming. Never fear - Simply<br />
Celebrate can help you there too! “I can work within<br />
your budget,” Shayla explained, “let me know what<br />
you are looking for and I can get it for you, wrap and<br />
deliver it to you. Or if you don’t know what you want,<br />
give me a little information on the event and I’ll find<br />
just the right thing.” In addition, for those showers<br />
where the honoree is registered, Simply Celebrate<br />
can take your gift giving to the next level. “I will<br />
search the registry to find items that go together<br />
within your budget, purchase them and put them into<br />
a neat basket decorated to match the shower theme,”<br />
Shayla said giddily.<br />
You’d think Simply Celebrate has everything covered<br />
at that point, but Shayla thought of one more place<br />
where gift giving can be an extra task on a busy<br />
parent’s (or teacher’s) to-do list. “Teachers often want<br />
to get little gifts for their students at special times,<br />
but finding something within budget, wrapping,<br />
putting personal labels on, and all those things
20 student gifts with personalized tags, a meet the<br />
teacher printout for each student, and a printed<br />
wish-list of items they need for the classroom.” It’s a<br />
great way for teachers to welcome students and ask<br />
for parental support at the same time.<br />
To learn more about the services available<br />
at Simply Celebrate, visit the webpage at:<br />
simplycelebratesiouxland.com, or view the Small<br />
Business Spotlight on <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>’s<br />
Facebook feed.<br />
Now. . . . let’s party!<br />
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have to happen outside of work time along with all the<br />
other things they do,” Shayla commented. “I can do<br />
that for teachers – find custom gifts, wrap them, make<br />
personalized notes, and then the teacher just has to<br />
hand them out.” Parents stressed about Valentine’s<br />
Day or other special days at school are covered by<br />
Simply Celebrate also – the same services are available<br />
to parents tasked with providing gifts to all students in<br />
the class.<br />
“Right now, I’m also doing a Back-To-School box, for<br />
teachers,” Shayla described with excitement. “It includes<br />
Dr. Cyndi Hanson, Executive Director for Northeast<br />
Community College’s Extended Campus.<br />
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Sioux City International Film Festival<br />
By Leslie Werden<br />
The Sioux City International<br />
Film Festival is the longest<br />
running, short-film festival<br />
in Iowa. Now in its 17th year,<br />
the festival has become an event<br />
recognized for bringing quality films<br />
from all over the world to the area.<br />
Hosted at the Promenade Cinema 14<br />
in two theaters (with plush seating),<br />
festival attendees can select a genre<br />
(choose from comedy, documentary,<br />
drama, sci-fi/fantasy, or horror/<br />
thriller) and watch 8-10 short films<br />
adding up to two-hours’ worth of<br />
inventive, unique, and engaging<br />
entertainment. Past festivals have<br />
included Oscar nominated films<br />
along with work from up-andcoming<br />
filmmakers, some of whom<br />
attend the event.<br />
This year’s festival theme is Music<br />
in Film and will feature events and<br />
workshops showcasing this unique<br />
aspect of the industry. Thursday,<br />
September 29 kicks off the festival<br />
when we open the doors at 5:00<br />
p.m. to a free selection of films from<br />
regional artists. At 7:30 p.m., we<br />
show the only feature-length film<br />
Matt Schrader<br />
of the festival, Score, directed by<br />
Matt Schrader. This award-winning<br />
documentary features some of<br />
the most influential names in film<br />
music, including Quincy Jones,<br />
Randy Newman, and James<br />
Cameron. After the film, director<br />
Matt Schrader will be in-person<br />
to answer questions from the<br />
audience.<br />
Our first workshop presenter at<br />
the festival is Sioux City native,<br />
Sioux City International Film Festival<br />
September 30 thru October 2, 2022<br />
Kick-off event • September 29<br />
Jordan Dykstra<br />
Jordan Dykstra, a “Brooklynbased<br />
violist and composer<br />
exploring the performer-composerlistener<br />
relationship through the<br />
incorporation of conceptual,<br />
graphic, and text-based elements”<br />
(jordandykstra.com). Dykstra will<br />
present a workshop on Friday,<br />
September 30 at 6pm for those<br />
interested in learning more about<br />
his work, with a focus on the<br />
differences between collaborative<br />
and solo composing. Most recently,<br />
Dykstra worked as a composer for<br />
Frontline.<br />
The second workshop presenter<br />
is Bri Holland, a “songwriter,<br />
music producer, audio engineer,<br />
singer, and vocal production<br />
specialist based in Los Angeles,
CA” (briholland.com).<br />
Holland’s hands-on<br />
workshop will explore<br />
vocal processing, from<br />
recording through<br />
mixing, for live-action<br />
and animated film music<br />
on Saturday, October 1<br />
at 11am. Most recently,<br />
Holland has worked<br />
on the films tick, tick…<br />
Boom!, Vivo, and Dear<br />
Evan Hansen.<br />
Additionally, several<br />
filmmakers whose work Bri Holland<br />
was selected for the<br />
festival will be in-person and will participate in a Filmmakers<br />
RoundTable Q&A session on Saturday, October 1 at 3pm.<br />
Selected films will begin showing on Friday, September 30<br />
at noon with alternating start times in two separate theaters<br />
(for example, one block will run from 12-2 and another<br />
from 1-3). A full schedule will be available on the website at<br />
siouxcityfilmfest.org.<br />
Here’s where we need help from the audience: each block<br />
of film will have a “premiere” and an “encore” showing.<br />
See as many as you like, but if you want your voice heard,<br />
we are inviting you to help us choose Audience Favorite<br />
awards for each category by attending the premiere blocks<br />
and voting for your favorite. If you love sci-fi/fantasy, make<br />
sure you come to that first showing of films, watch them<br />
carefully, then cast your vote for your favorite. If you want<br />
to do the same for documentaries, go right ahead! In for<br />
comedies, too? Great!! On Saturday night at 7:00pm, come<br />
to the awards ceremony where we present your Audience<br />
Favorite awards and reveal the juried award winners from<br />
each category. At this event, you will get another chance<br />
to help us pick Your Top Film from all the juried winners!<br />
Here are some details about how to get<br />
tickets (go to siouxcityfilmfest.org to<br />
purchase online):<br />
• Free: All workshops and the Filmmakers<br />
RoundTable<br />
• Free: The Regional Film block on Thursday,<br />
Sept. 29 at 5pm<br />
• $5.00: The kick-off documentary, Score,<br />
on Thursday,Sept. 30 at 7:30pm (200 tickets<br />
available)<br />
• $10.00: Single Screening Ticket (entry to one<br />
block of films)<br />
• $25.00: Day Pass (entry to all films on one day)<br />
• $50.00: All Festival Pass (entry to all films for<br />
the entire festival)<br />
• $100.00: VIP Pass (entry to all films, two VIP<br />
after-parties, the Rick Mullin Filmmaker’s<br />
Lounge, and a Friday night trolley ride • 25<br />
passes available)<br />
As a reminder, many of the filmmakers will be in the<br />
audience with you, so you could see the winners get<br />
their awards live!<br />
Major funding for SCIFF programs comes from<br />
Humanities Iowa. Major sponsors include Hard Rock<br />
Hotel & Casino, the City of Sioux City, and Produce Iowa.<br />
Additional sponsors include Warrior Hotel, State Steel,<br />
Jolly Time Pop Corn, Bluestem Fund, RTI, Downtown<br />
Partners, Great West Casualty Company, and Wayne<br />
State College.<br />
Leslie Werden, President of Sioux City International Film<br />
Festival<br />
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Hungry Canyon<br />
Iowa’s West Coast Initiative Feature<br />
Short description of your business:<br />
My name is Melissa Nelson, and my business is Hungry<br />
Canyon. I create authentic and accurate agriculturerelated<br />
cards, gifts, and home decor from the farm and<br />
beef cattle operation my husband and I are so proud of<br />
owning and operating.<br />
What motivated you to start your business? What<br />
drives you each day?<br />
I started Hungry Canyon to solve a problem I had. Nine<br />
years ago, I was dating my now husband, and it was<br />
almost Valentine’s Day…so I started to look for a card to<br />
give him. We were both farm kids through and through,<br />
ag majors at Iowa State and Nebraska, and had a future<br />
in the ag industry. It only made sense to me that the card<br />
for a day celebrating love would match the very things<br />
*we* loved. I started to look…and I found my problem. I<br />
was disappointed with what I saw. Everything online and<br />
in the card aisles was fine…but it didn’t speak to Mark<br />
or me. Dairy cows are cool, and I love a glass of milk<br />
and a cheese stick as much as the next Midwestern farm<br />
gal...but that’s not what we raised on our farms, but it’s<br />
what I found on any card depicting cattle. And I felt like<br />
it would be grounds for a break-up if I had given him a<br />
card with a green tractor on it. So I started making my<br />
own cards, and then friends started asking if they could<br />
buy them for their significant others. What began as sort<br />
of a hokey hobby turned into a full-fledged business,<br />
making greeting cards and gifts for all walks of life in<br />
our industry.<br />
What’s unique about your business?<br />
My target market for Hungry Canyon is the tiny,<br />
little percentage of people involved or interested in<br />
production agriculture. According to the USDA, only<br />
about 1.4% of employed Americans work directly on<br />
Hungry Canyon greeting card.<br />
farms or ranches. There are only so many people out<br />
there who can appreciate a greeting card with a manure<br />
spreader on it, but I’ve found those people. I also have<br />
an arm of my business that focuses on community<br />
events and projects for small, rural communities and<br />
organizations.<br />
What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />
overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />
The biggest challenge I’ve faced from the beginning of<br />
my business is the evaporation of time each day! I’ve<br />
juggled a full-time job since the beginning of Hungry<br />
Canyon and have added children, farm responsibilities,<br />
and community events here and there throughout the<br />
years.<br />
What has been your greatest reward?<br />
I love knowing that my customers and those who receive<br />
my products smile or chuckle to themselves when they<br />
open a Hungry Canyon card. They truly speak directly<br />
to those of us in agriculture, and I enjoy feeling the<br />
secondary joy of those who receive a Hungry Canyon<br />
product.<br />
How have you benefited from the startup<br />
community in Sioux City and the region? What<br />
resources did you use?<br />
I am continually inspired by the small business owners<br />
in this region…they’re everywhere! The network I’ve<br />
been able to build has been beneficial in many ways.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> has also been a big supporter of<br />
the Rural Route Ramble event, which I helped co-plan.<br />
They help promote it through their channels each year.<br />
Are there any experiences that were particularly<br />
influential in that regard?<br />
I’ve also benefited from conversations with the Iowa<br />
West Coast Initiative over the years about how to<br />
grow my business and the resources available to<br />
entrepreneurs in the region. It’s always nice to be<br />
able to brainstorm with someone who has a different<br />
perspective than you.<br />
Why is it essential for the community to support<br />
startups and small businesses? What more can<br />
be done to help them?<br />
Small businesses are run by folks just like you and<br />
me. Your neighbors, friends, family members, and<br />
others who make up your community need support<br />
to continue being successful. Next time you need to<br />
purchase something, take a second to think about if<br />
you can purchase that locally or from a small business.<br />
It makes a big difference!
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Melissa, Roy and Charlie Nelson.<br />
What is one thing you know now that you wish you<br />
knew when starting your business?<br />
I wish I would have known how important it is to keep track of<br />
your bookwork and accounting processes. After all, you are<br />
running a business!<br />
What advice would you give to someone looking to<br />
start a business?<br />
My biggest piece of advice for those looking to start a business<br />
is to simply start. I think so many ideas get tossed to the side<br />
because the fear of starting something new or fear of failure<br />
overcomes. Just begin and worry about the details as you go.<br />
How can the community continue to help your<br />
business?<br />
The community can continue to help Hungry Canyon by being<br />
supporters of small, local businesses. I co-plan an event each<br />
year called the Rural Route Ramble with my friend, Marissa<br />
Molland of Hardly General. This event highlights 50+ local<br />
businesses in Rural <strong>Siouxland</strong> and encourages shoppers to<br />
shop local before the holiday season. This event has become a<br />
super fun way to support locals and enjoy a weekend in Rural<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>!<br />
What are some future goals for your company?<br />
My current goals are related to community projects in rural<br />
areas. I find great joy in planning and hosting events in small<br />
towns that can run with the likes of events in larger cities. My<br />
hope is that I can help inspire and teach others in small, rural<br />
communities that we can do really cool things where we live if<br />
we just do them.<br />
Iowa’s West Coast Initiative (IWCI) is a collaboration<br />
between the economic development organizations in<br />
Plymouth, Monona, and Woodbury counties, and includes<br />
the following organizations: City of Sioux City, <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Interstate Metropolitan Planning Council, <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Economic Development Corporation, The <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Initiative, Le Mars Business Initiative Corporation,<br />
Woodbury County, and Monona County. Learn more<br />
about IWCI at www.IAWestCoast.com.<br />
Photos Contributed by Hungry Canyon.
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Experience Downtown<br />
By Carly Howrey<br />
The weather is cooling off, but things are heating<br />
up downtown! Starting this fall, the Alley Art Festival<br />
returns on Saturday, September 24! Watch as muralists<br />
complete their one-of-a-kind pieces, listen to live music,<br />
and support local vendors by purchasing art for your<br />
own home. Then, stick around to see which muralist is<br />
crowned Best in Show. This is definitely a fan favorite<br />
event downtown that you won’t want to miss!<br />
We are kicking off the football season with a new<br />
downtown event! In collaboration with RE/MAX Preferred,<br />
the Sioux City Convention Center, and various nonprofits<br />
within Sioux City, we are excited to present the first<br />
Downtown Tailgate, which will take place on October<br />
1st on Fourth and Jones Streets! We invite everyone to<br />
watch their favorite college team on big screens, enjoy<br />
a locally crafted beer, and chow down on classic tailgate<br />
food. There will also be a live performance by Damon<br />
Dotson and a cornhole tournament going on throughout<br />
the day. This event’s activities will benefit Children’s<br />
Miracle Network of UnityPoint and FOR<strong>Siouxland</strong>. Free<br />
will donation opportunities will be presented throughout<br />
the day. We hope to see you Downtown on October 1st!<br />
City. Hundreds of people come together to celebrate the<br />
coming holiday season on the Monday before Thanksgiving!<br />
This year, the parade will take place on the evening of<br />
Monday, November 21. You are invited to grab your mittens<br />
and a cup of hot cocoa and enjoy the beautiful show! We<br />
are so grateful to IBEW for sponsoring the parade year after<br />
year. The celebration concludes with Santa Claus lighting<br />
the big tree in the greenspace of the Public Museum to<br />
commemorate the beginning of the season. Downtown<br />
Sioux City’s atmosphere during the holidays is truly magical<br />
and we invite you to experience it all!<br />
Whether it’s the start of a new hockey season, a live band<br />
at the Anthem, or a new exhibit in the Art Center--there is<br />
always something going on downtown! As we transition into<br />
the holiday season, you won’t want to miss a beat. Sign up<br />
for our weekly E-blast to stay in the know and avoid F.O.M.O.<br />
(fear of missing out). To catch up with the latest events, or<br />
to post one of your own, visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com.<br />
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It may be a bit early, but anticipation for the holiday season<br />
has already started! We are excited to announce the<br />
return of the Holiday Storefront Decorating Competition<br />
and encourage any businesses interested in competing to<br />
reach out to us! Last year, 20 storefronts were decorated<br />
using lights, trees, snowflakes, and more, and the<br />
people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> voted for their favorite! Businesses<br />
compete for a chance to win a $500 prize donated to the<br />
winner’s nonprofit of<br />
choice. Don’t have<br />
a storefront? Let us<br />
find one for you!<br />
There are plenty of<br />
vacant storefronts<br />
we’d love to see<br />
brought to life this<br />
season!<br />
The Holiday Lighted<br />
Parade is a staple<br />
in Downtown Sioux<br />
Contributed by Downtown Partners, a non-profit<br />
organization that works with downtown stakeholders to<br />
create a vibrant, expanding downtown. To learn more about<br />
Downtown Partners and to stay up to date on downtown<br />
projects and events, visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com.
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By Alex Watters<br />
Living in the Midwest means that we get to enjoy all four seasons and all of their glory. I love the warmth of<br />
summer, the colors of fall, comfort food during the winter, and new growth in the spring. However, it also means that as<br />
a city, we must complete as many road construction projects as possible while the weather allows.<br />
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You probably have noticed some detours and possibly had delays in your daily commute. That’s because the engineering<br />
division for the city of Sioux City currently has approximately $55 million worth of projects being constructed, designed, or<br />
finished. On average, the city will resurface approximately $2.5 million worth of roadways and reconstruct approximately<br />
$8.5 million worth of roads, including new water mains, sanitary sewer, and storm infrastructure. Other projects this<br />
year will include a new rail spur in the Southbridge area south of the airport, new sidewalks, bridge repairs, drainage<br />
improvements, and repairs, just to name a few.<br />
Thankfully the city has received $40 million in the federal CARES Act funds for utility infrastructure projects. One of these<br />
projects is the water main replacement in Pierce Street from 5th Street to 7th Street. This watermain was installed in 1886,<br />
making it 136 years old! I would say we certainly got our money’s worth out of that water main, but it is time to replace it.<br />
It has had numerous breaks and caused a number of headaches. However, unknown to many, the CARES Act requires all<br />
materials for the project to be American made since it is a federal program. Due to this requirement the project has been<br />
delayed until the middle of next year due to the current supply chain issues.<br />
Needless to say, there are always potholes to fill and roads to improve. Be patient with our road crews and know that we<br />
live in a climate that forces us to complete as many projects as possible in a short time span. That can mean delays and<br />
detours. However, it also means improvement and progress. Smoother streets and better days are ahead of Sioux City.<br />
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Customer Discovery: We’ve all heard about it<br />
and may even have done it. The question is, was<br />
it done in such a way that you got accurate information<br />
that led to your business success? I am a huge fan of the<br />
Business Model Canvas and Customer Discovery. I also<br />
realize that if I ask my friends, relatives, and network<br />
open ended questions, that unintentionally they may<br />
tell me what I want to hear. If I ask total strangers those<br />
questions, I may still get answers that are not accurate<br />
as they may tell me what they think I want to hear. That<br />
is why so many people who did customer discovery<br />
and launched seem to struggle to get the anticipated<br />
results. So, what is the answer to this? Truthfully, more<br />
customer discovery…<br />
In other words, Customer Discovery never really ends.<br />
If we bring a product or service to the market, we<br />
must have a mindset of constant improvement. Oh<br />
great, there goes that boomer talking about 1990s<br />
business practices. The reality though is that constant<br />
improvement has been around as long as there has<br />
been free commerce between people. Constant<br />
improvement implies that we listen to our customers<br />
and improve our products or services based upon their<br />
feedback. By customers I mean those who actually paid<br />
money for what we have to offer. Potential customers<br />
should not carry the weight that paying customers<br />
do. You should consider their thoughts but paying<br />
customers have already confirmed that they would take<br />
action on their feedback. The short of it is, keep the<br />
customers happy and they will come back again. If they<br />
are not happy, they will share it with the world.<br />
There are a couple of types of Customer Discovery.<br />
There is the initial or pre-launch Customer Discovery.<br />
This is what yields information that may or may not<br />
be entirely accurate but is the basis for our baseline<br />
of launching our product/service. Then there is the<br />
post-purchase Customer Discovery that can be found<br />
in reviews by paying customers. Amazon does a great<br />
service by only allowing those who have actually paid<br />
for a product to do a review. This is not perfect but does<br />
give a business a good idea of how to improve service<br />
to their customers or to improve a product.<br />
I simply want to confirm that Customer discovery is<br />
important and it never ends. Continued improvement<br />
keeps us relevant to our customers. The best feedback<br />
comes from paying customers.<br />
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No, Your Boss Isn’t Messaging You About<br />
a Gift Card.<br />
You would never ignore a message from your boss, right? That’s exactly what scammers are<br />
counting on. The FTC is warning people about a type of “boss scam” where scammers trick<br />
employees into buying gift cards by pretending to be their supervisor. Fake boss scams have<br />
already cost U.S. companies thousands and thousands of dollars, and this particular gift card<br />
version could be on the rise as so many employees continue to work remotely. In this article,<br />
we’ll talk about the fake boss gift card scam, along with ways you and your business can<br />
protect yourself.<br />
WHAT IS A FAKE BOSS SCAM?<br />
A fake boss scam is a text or email scam in which fraudsters pretend to be a supervisor and<br />
request gift cards (or some other payment) to be sent to them, for a variety of made-up reasons.<br />
HERE’S HOW IT WORKS:<br />
STEP 1 - The scammer scours the Internet for names and emails of a company’s high-ranking supervisors.<br />
They’ll also search for job titles, telephone numbers and other important information about the company,<br />
to help disguise their request.<br />
STEP 2 - The scammer hacks into the supervisor’s business account, or spoofs a similar email domain that’s<br />
hard to notice (for example “boss@microsoft.com” becomes “boss@micr0soft.com”). Or, they could<br />
create a fake email account through GMail, Yahoo or another service, and make an excuse for sending<br />
something from their “personal” email. Finally, they could spoof a phone number from your area code and<br />
send a text message instead.
STEP 3 - The scammer sends the request to a lower employee, asking to buy gift cards for a random<br />
reason and send the gift card numbers or PINs back via email or text.<br />
Maybe the scammer needs a gift card to pay for an upcoming “office party.” Maybe it’s to support<br />
a “charity” of some sort. They might even ask the employee to foot the bill, and promise to pay it<br />
back later. But once someone hands over a gift card or PIN number, the money will be gone and<br />
the business — or even worse, the employee — will be on the hook.<br />
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EXAMPLES OF A BOSS GIFT CARD SCAM:<br />
A<br />
B<br />
A-An example of an email from a fake supervisor’s “personal” account to an employee. Source: The Ohio<br />
State University Cybersecurity.<br />
B-Real example of a 2021 text message from a fake employer to an employee, seeking Target gift cards.<br />
Source: New York Attorney General’s Office.<br />
The scammer might sound just like your boss, and may even know details about you or your<br />
company that you’d never expect a fraudster to know. But remember, that’s what professional<br />
“phishers” do — they gather enough information to convince you they are someone they’re not.<br />
WHY WOULD A SCAMMER WANT GIFT CARDS?<br />
Criminals love gift cards, because they’re like cash — only without the money trail. Once the<br />
money is used, it’s gone. Gift cards also don’t offer the same protections as other payment<br />
methods, like credit or debit cards.<br />
Remember, gift cards are for gifts — not payments. No legitimate business or government<br />
agency will ever insist that you pay with a gift card.
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HOW TO AVOID A FAKE BOSS SCAM:<br />
There are some common-sense measures you can take to protect your business from a boss<br />
gift card scam.<br />
Pause and verify. Scammers create a sense of urgency to prey on your emotions — especially when a<br />
boss is involved. Do NOT reply directly to the text or email, instead reach out and confirm the request<br />
with your manager through a different email or phone number you trust.<br />
Spoof-proof your company’s email. Work with your IT department to set up security and spam filters<br />
on your company email. You should also configure an “external email warning” that will add a warning<br />
message to the top of any emails that come from someone outside of your organization.<br />
Have a robust phishing training program. Google “phishing training” to find a variety of phishing<br />
awareness and training programs out there to help protect your business. Through tutorials, tests<br />
and fake phishing emails, you can gradually train employees to better spot and respond to<br />
dangerous threats.<br />
If you happen to spot a fake boss scam, or your business is targeted by one, notify your real supervisor<br />
right away and report it to ReportFraud.ftc.gov<br />
ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />
Michelle Hacker is the Digital Services Officer at Security<br />
National Bank, overseeing all personal and business digital<br />
platforms for customers. She is a graduate of Iowa State<br />
University and has nearly a decade of experience in the<br />
technology and financial service field.<br />
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25 Years at KSUX<br />
By Tony Michaels<br />
Life can take you down some interesting paths.<br />
In 1997, I was convinced that Stone Park would be the<br />
ideal location to ask my girlfriend to spend her life with<br />
me. Plans changed, and I decided to pop the question<br />
where we met in Lincoln. It may have happened in front<br />
of a drug deal on the streets. Not ideal. She did say yes,<br />
but the location was not as picturesque as my original<br />
plan.<br />
I just celebrated my 25th work anniversary at KSUX<br />
105.7 with a heavy dose of nostalgic vibes. When<br />
I look back at the recent college grad moving into a<br />
small one-bedroom apartment, I had clear intentions<br />
of how I wanted life to go. I dreamt of listeners hanging<br />
on every one of my words. My goal was to make an<br />
impact like Siouxlebrities Cowboy Bob, Johnny Walker,<br />
Jeff Miller, and Chris Thomas. My lovely wife would<br />
have told you my goal was to hop to a big metro, and<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> would only be a two-year commitment. She<br />
was with me for the journey. Man, I married well.<br />
We were blessed with a son in 2003. Another one came<br />
along in 2005. Those two miracles would shape our<br />
lives in ways I hadn’t considered. Autism would alter<br />
our mission. <strong>Siouxland</strong> became the “Stone Park” setting<br />
for a meaningful life. The area has grown so much in a<br />
quarter of a century, and I’d like to think I have grown<br />
as an individual in many ways as well. I accepted many<br />
new challenges at work, started work as an adjunct<br />
professor at Morningside University, and made so<br />
many connections. I’m very thankful to those that made<br />
the choice to turn on the radio station.<br />
The concept of compassion brings us back to Stone Park.<br />
As I write this on a Sunday afternoon, I am very thankful<br />
for the worldview my oldest son Trey has brought to my<br />
life. Walking through the wilderness of autism was not<br />
at all in my plan when I planned to propose marriage in<br />
1997. My 19-year-old has taught me the talent of seeing<br />
another worldview. His life is a celebration for me and<br />
a blessing I did not ask to receive. He may not have the<br />
gift of vocal words, but his smile communicates love. His<br />
squeals of delight at Stone Park mean more to me than<br />
chatting with Garth Brooks on-air. You can learn a lot<br />
when it’s not about you.<br />
Howard Stern may have hundreds of millions of dollars in<br />
the bank. I learned the value in cherishing life on a quiet<br />
Sunday afternoon at my favorite park. All without saying<br />
a word.<br />
Now, that’s a situation I could not have imagined 25 years<br />
ago. I learned to embrace the quiet.<br />
Tony Michaels has been at KSUX since<br />
August 1997. He is also the Program<br />
Director at the radio station and adjunct<br />
professor in the Mass Communication<br />
department at Morningside University.<br />
In his free time, he takes long hikes and<br />
wrote his first book, “Tacos and Beer Atmosphere.”<br />
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My plan was to be a bombastic on-air personality like<br />
Howard Stern. The funny thing is I learned a new talent<br />
over that span of time, listening. Weird, right? The truth<br />
is I love it when I have a compelling on-air moment. But<br />
I’ve learned to take great joy in HEARING the talents of<br />
others on the radio like Josie Cooper, Chopper Scott,<br />
Candice Nash, Big Daddy, Charlie Stone, and Moose.<br />
Additionally, when I hear students broadcast live with<br />
confidence from the Doc Heistad studio on campus, I<br />
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pride and joy.<br />
On the podcast front, I’ve learned so much from the<br />
individuals you see in this magazine. Topics on the pod<br />
include the importance of self-care, mentoring, taking<br />
a chance, and compassion.<br />
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Food Pantry Guests Share Their Stories With Up From The Earth<br />
By Up From The Earth<br />
Up From The Earth applauds our community’s efforts to increase local food security on many levels. This is<br />
the third article in a trilogy of personal experiences and perspectives, concluding with that of the food pantry guest. The<br />
first was that of the growers and the second that of the food pantry volunteer.<br />
A Tribute to the People Who Volunteer<br />
at the Food Pantries<br />
Written by two grateful food pantry guests.<br />
Have you ever been hungry and didn’t have money to buy<br />
food? It’s becoming more difficult to buy food, cool your<br />
home, and put gas in your car.<br />
Growing up, there were a lot of kids in our family, so our<br />
folks planted a garden. There was always plenty, and they<br />
shared with people who didn’t have a garden.<br />
Getting older, we planted a garden and gave a lot of it to<br />
the nursing homes. We knew they could no longer plant<br />
their own, and they knew what fresh vegetables taste like.<br />
Their faces lit up when we came.<br />
Now, we’re at the point where we can no longer plant<br />
a garden. But we thank God every day for the men and<br />
women who volunteer at the food pantries. They do a lot of<br />
hard work setting up the tables and carrying things inside.<br />
They always greet you with a smile. Even though they may<br />
hurt, they smile, knowing they gave good food to those<br />
who didn’t have any.<br />
If you ever had a garden, you know there was work to<br />
make it grow.<br />
God bless all the people that donate their time so that<br />
others can have vegetables and food.<br />
Most people grow a garden to sell. These people don’t<br />
sell it to you. They give it with a smile. Life is better having<br />
good food.<br />
Without the food from the food pantries, a lot of people go<br />
without the food they need. They don’t complain because<br />
they figure it would do no good.<br />
We just want to thank everyone who has put in their time and<br />
hard work so we could have a little extra food that otherwise<br />
we wouldn’t have. It makes life a little easier knowing you<br />
have a little more.<br />
May God bless all of you. There will be many blessings in the<br />
hereafter. Thank you all.<br />
Another Thankful Story<br />
Written by a pantry guest facing many financial challenges<br />
with creativity and faith.<br />
I started using the food pantries around four years ago.<br />
I realized that I needed the extra food and support after<br />
a breakup with my then-fiancé. I had to think on my feet<br />
quickly, finding a new home and more income (I currently<br />
have four jobs). It was hard to admit to myself at first, but I<br />
needed help in ways I never had before.<br />
When I looked to find help out there, I realized that I made<br />
too much money to qualify for any assistance with housing<br />
or food. This is where the food pantries have come into play.<br />
I use them weekly to help supplement my children and my<br />
meals. Often, I shop in stores around what I have received<br />
that week from the pantries-nothing goes to waste.<br />
One of my favorite things about the pantries are the fresh<br />
produce and garden plants that I take home and add to my<br />
own garden. On rare occasions, if I cannot find anything to<br />
create with the products I have received, I will pass them on<br />
to others in similar situations of need.<br />
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Over the years of getting help from these pantries, I have<br />
seen and spoken with the volunteers and seen the good<br />
Christian works that they are doing. The story of the Good<br />
Samaritan has always touched my heart, and these people<br />
helping to feed the poor are today’s Good Samaritans.<br />
Overall, the most important thing that has come out of using<br />
the pantries for me has been my renewed faith in Christ. I<br />
appreciate the living example these people volunteering<br />
give for all of us to follow. Thank You.<br />
UFTE extends a sincere thank you to all our produce growers,<br />
pantry volunteers, and pantry guests who have shared their<br />
thoughts, their experiences, and their kind words. This movement<br />
continues to be an amazing community effort on many levels<br />
from so many individuals in our community.<br />
Donated produce for the food pantry.<br />
Up from the Earth exists to connect extra produce from<br />
home gardens to people in need.