Kidney Matters - Issue 16 Spring 2022
Kidney Matters is our free quarterly magazine for everyone affected by kidney disease. This issue includes features on delayed graft function, the impact of CKD on families, friends and care-partners, improving organ donation, a husband's perspective on the challenges faced from caring for someone with CKD, and an article all about a family's journey from dialysis to transplant and all the things in between. As well as this, the Kidney Kitchen features a warming pear and blackberry crumble, perfect for Valentine's Day! We know that being a kidney patient can be tough at times and that accessing the right help at the right time isn’t always easy. We’ve spent a great deal of time talking and listening to kidney patients about what we can do to address this at every stage of kidney disease. The response was overwhelmingly ‘improved communication’ on what is going on in the kidney world, how other patients manage their life with kidney disease and what is available to them in terms of support and how to access it. Kidney Matters has been developed to tackle this as well as the many other issues kidney patients face in day-to-day life. Along with shared patient experiences, Kidney Matters provides information on how to access emotional and practical support, financial assistance through our grant schemes, advice from leading kidney specialists and tips on how to keep as well as possible by eating a healthy diet whilst on dialysis.
Kidney Matters is our free quarterly magazine for everyone affected by kidney disease.
This issue includes features on delayed graft function, the impact of CKD on families, friends and care-partners, improving organ donation, a husband's perspective on the challenges faced from caring for someone with CKD, and an article all about a family's journey from dialysis to transplant and all the things in between.
As well as this, the Kidney Kitchen features a warming pear and blackberry crumble, perfect for Valentine's Day!
We know that being a kidney patient can be tough at times and that accessing the right help at the right time isn’t always easy. We’ve spent a great deal of time talking and listening to kidney patients about what we can do to address this at every stage of kidney disease. The response was overwhelmingly ‘improved communication’ on what is going on in the kidney world, how other patients manage their life with kidney disease and what is available to them in terms of support and how to access it.
Kidney Matters has been developed to tackle this as well as the many other issues kidney patients face in day-to-day life. Along with shared patient experiences, Kidney Matters provides information on how to access emotional and practical support, financial assistance through our grant schemes, advice from leading kidney specialists and tips on how to keep as well as possible by eating a healthy diet whilst on dialysis.
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He soon understood my decision because he could
see his grandma’s health declining. During this time,
my dad played a pivotal role in supporting both my
husband and children.
Support from my in-laws
Initially, my in-laws had reservations. They didn’t want
me to donate because they did not know anyone else
who had done this. They assumed that my mum would
have to spend the rest of her life on dialysis. I wish I had
taken them to the appointment with the surgeon. This
would have reassured them, and their questions would
have been answered by the doctors.
“I I have decided to write about my
experience, which will be translated
into Gujarati. I hope it helps educate
people about donating their kidneys.“
very hard. Also, seeing how Covid-19 has affected my
wife’s recovery is hard, too. Being at home, we are
spending every moment together and this itself can be
challenging because we are very social people and we
have missed out on valuable celebrations.”
Several religious festivals were missed. Diwali, which
marks the triumph of good over evil and light over
darkness, was celebrated differently. Normally we
would spend a few days together, eat home-cooked
food, light Diwali lamps around the house, listen
to music and celebrate with fireworks and special
greetings.
Vanessa and her family
When the date for the donation was confirmed, I told
my in-laws I couldn’t do it without their support and
blessing. I explained the thorough testing process, and
after the lengthy chat they gave me their undivided
support and blessing.
Within the South Asian community, many think that
donating a kidney is a rare occurrence. Extended
family members questioned my decision to donate.
My in-laws helped educate them. I have decided to
write about my experience, which will be translated
into Gujarati. I hope it helps educate people about
donating their kidneys.
Vanessa’s mum and dad
They also missed out on Navratri (‘nav’ means nine
and ‘ratri’ means night). This is a celebration lasting
nine days. We perform a traditional dance called the
garba with dhandiya ras sticks.
Mum and dad were sorely missed by the whole
family on Raksha Bandhan, too. This is a festival
that celebrates the bond between a brother and
sister. Sisters tie a bracelet called a rakhi around
their brothers’ wrists as a symbol of their unique
relationship.
This year celebrating Raksha Bandhan was extraspecial
because my brother was back in the UK after
eight years. Mum wanted to have all of us around at her
house but because of Covid-19, we didn’t want to put
Mum and Dad at risk. But, with mum off dialysis, and
feeling healthier and happier, we are all looking forward
to enjoying these festivals together in the future.
Impact on religious festivals
The transplant was successful but due to Covid-19
restrictions and my mum’s vulnerability, both Mum
and Dad have missed out on important religious
festivals and family gatherings.
My dad said, “Family mean the most to me, and to
not see them or spend time with them is of course
For more information on donating
your kidney please visit
www.kidneycareuk.org/learn-more
Issue 16 | Spring 2022