Emotional inteligence

5. Brody and Hall, "Gender and Emotion," p. 456.
611/661
6. Girls and the arts of aggression: Robert B. Cairns and
Beverley D. Cairns, Lifelines and Risks (New York: Cambridge
University Press, 1994).
7. Brody and Hall, "Gender and Emotion," p. 454.
8. The findings about gender differences in emotion are reviewed
in Brody and Hall, "Gender and Emotion."
9. The importance of good communication for women was reported
in Mark H. Davis and H. Alan Oathout, "Maintenance
of Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships: Empathy
and Relational Competence," Journal of Personality and
Social Psychology 53, 2 (1987), pp. 397-410.
10. The study of husbands' and wives' complaints: Robert J.
Sternberg, "Triangulating Love," in Robert Sternberg and
Michael Barnes, eds., The Psychology of Love (New Haven:
Yale University Press, 1988).
11. Reading sad faces: The research is by Dr. Ruben C. Gur at
the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine.
12. The exchange between Fred and Ingrid is from Gottman,
What Predicts Divorce, p. 84.
13. The marital research by John Gottman and colleagues at
the University of Washington is described in more detail in
two books: John Gottman, Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
(New York: Simon and Schuster, 1994), and What Predicts
Divorce.